Roman Catholic Church

Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org

MASS SCHEDULE WEEKEND

Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am &

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

9 am—5 pm in Mary’s Chapel

SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday,

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism

Contact the Parish Office. Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance.

Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office.

Saint Joseph

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

DEACON: George Montalvo PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

Summer Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Thurs.9 am-5 pm, Fri. 9 am-2 pm; Rel. Ed.: Mon –Thurs.: 9:30 am—5 pm (Also by appointment.)

Oradell/New Milford, NJ Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time July 19, 2015

INSIDE: Saint Joseph School News

—p. 4 World Meeting of Families

—p. 5

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PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember those who are ill.

Let us remember those who have recently died.

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am UC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am

8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 12:00 pm

Sunday Collection for Week of July 12, 2015 BASKET PARISHPAY TOTAL

$7,841 $5,078 $12,919

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler….Parish Trustees Deacon George Montalvo…... Dir. of Religious Education Mrs. Arlene Kennedy…………. Sacraments Coordinator Mr. Monroe Quinn……………... Director of Music Mr. Tom Meli…………………….. Facilities Director Mrs. Phyllis Vrola………………. Business Manager Mrs. Anne Annunziato……….. Parish Secretary

Mrs. Colette Vail………………… Principal of Saint Joseph School Mrs. Angela Gussoni…………... Vice Principal Mrs. Diane Hellriegel………….. Dir. of Communications/ Bulletin Editor

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION

Do you spend time listening to God? Most of the time,

He speaks in soft whispers.

Open your heart and hear the Lord.

Take time in silence everyday

and ask God what it is

He wants you to do.

Consider making a retreat

this year.

BREAD AND WINE INTENTIONS

The bread for the week of July 19, 2015

is offered in loving memory of

Manuel Amaral as requested by Maria Vitone.

The wine is offered for the praise and glory of God.

Please remember to drop off or send in your weekly donation envelope. Saint Joseph Parish relies on parishioners’ weekly

contributions to meet our operating expenses. Thank you for being a good steward of our parish.

July 18, 2015 Jose Cartan & Natalina Fernandes July 19, 2015 People of the Parish Claire Browning The Deceased Members of the Bernardi & Corbi Families Jo-Ann Verrier July 20, 2015 Elisa Coleman Robert Fleming July 21, 2015 Lydia Campbell Vincent Armenio

July 22, 2015 John Kelly Manuel Amaral July 23, 2015 Marie Denise Saint-Aime Patrick Cahill 5th Anniversary July 24, 2015 Phyllis Emmolo Jo-Ann Verrier July 25, 2015 Mary Bligh Celerino Lopez, Sr.

July 26, 2015 People of the Parish Robert Wapelhorst Anthony Gallardo Jo-Ann Verrier

Visit our website—sjcnj.org to see the bulletin in full color.

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SIXTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ JULY 19, 2015

DEADLINE FOR MEMORIAL PAVERS—AUGUST 1

You can still reserve an engraved brick in your name or that of a loved one to be placed in front of any of the statues in our “Garden of Saints” or added to the Com-memorative Brick Path between the church and the grotto. The donation is $125 for each brick. Order forms are available in the parish office/rectory or in our church literature racks. Orders must be received by August 1 so that the bricks can be inscribed and inserted before the Fall.

Along with preparing for the upcoming Fall semester of our Religious Education program, I am dedicating some time to finding resources for parishioners and especially for

parents. As baptized Catholics we often forget that as we grow up physically, we also have to grow spiritually. Our faith in Jesus Christ will only grow if we take care of it by establishing a personal relationship with him, and the Church, through prayer and spiritual reading. Marriage and parenthood does not come with an operation manual. Husbands and wives need a lot of help to grow in love and to raise children as good Christians and good citizens. With this in mind, I read a short book this past week that should become a resource for couples and families: Mission of the Family by Jon Leonetti, Beacon Publishing. In his book, Jon focuses on the important role that families play in the life of each of its members

and in the life of the Church. What is the purpose of family? “Family life is for conversion, the conversion first of the members of the family, and as we continue to strive to grow in holiness, the conversion of all those around us. Family life is for mission, the mission of bringing the good news of the gospel to everyone we meet and of being the presence of Christ and his Church to those whose lives we touch…centers of

evangelization, sources of grace and signs of mercy and compassion.” The author insists on the premise that “you can’t give what you don’t have.” The best gift that we can give to family is to strengthen our relationship with our spouse every day by being the best husband/wife and the best father/mother we can be. The family is a school where we learn how to love, including how to love God. The family is the school of virtue. As St. John Paul II would say: “Parents model for their children what life in the Spirit really looks like, and by their example as much as anything else show their kids what it means to be a Christian day in and day out.” Jon indicates some practical ways to achieve this in our busy families: Make a commitment to family faith formation through the faithful celebration of the Mass and the Sacraments; pray the Rosary; establish

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This week we again welcome Deacon George Montalvo, Saint Joseph Director of Religious Education, who will be filling in

for Monsignor Hubba while he is on vacation.

FROM THE DEACON’S DESK

FROM THE FAMILY OF JOHN BRERETON

A WORD OF THANKS TO THE

SAINT JOSEPH COMMUNITY

“Words could never be enough to show how grateful our family is for your loving support in our time of need. It is comforting to know that the Saint Joseph’s community loved John as much as he loved them. Your fond memories of John are greatly appreciated and brought so much comfort to us during this difficult time. We would especially like to thank Father Andrew for his spiritual council and comforting words. Difficult times like these remind us of the importance of family and friends. Thank you for the kindness you have shown our family.”

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time for spiritual reading and praying as a family; help others outside your own family circle. “Play games with them [your children] and pray with them. Teach them how to pray, and how to love, and how to forgive. Remind them of their great dignity as Christian men and women. Show them what powerful agents of change they can be in the Church and in the world.” This is a book worth reading. I would recommend it for young people who would like to start a family, for families in the making, and for everyone. For a free copy go to www.dynamiccatholic.com

Deacon George Montalvo

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Visit us on our websites CHURCH: sjcnj.org

SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED: sjcnjre.org

EUCHARISTIC MINISTERS NEEDED Fr. Andrew is looking for more Ministers of Holy Communion to join Saint Joseph’s Ministry to nursing home residents. If you are an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion and are able to volunteer some time one or two Sundays a month to take Communion (after the 9:00 am Sunday Mass) to the residents of Care One’s Oradell Health Care Center, please contact Fr. Andrew at 201-261-0148 or by email at fatherandrew@sjcnj.org If you are interested in becoming a Eucharistic Minister, please feel free to reach out to Father Andrew.

POSITION AVAILABLE: AFTER CARE SUPERVISOR

AT SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL Saint Joseph School has a September opening for the position of school After Care Supervisor. Hours are from 2:30 – 6:00 pm daily, Monday through Friday, when school is in session. For more information and a summary of qualifications, please contact Mrs. Colette Vail, school principal, at 201-261-2388. Ideal part-time job for second-career individual or energetic retiree!

2016 MASS BOOK NOW OPEN

Mass intentions are being accepted for the 2016 calendar

year. Bread and/or Wine donations in memory of a loved one are also available for 2016. Date requests will be accepted from 10:00 am to 3:00 pm on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays in July; Monday through Friday thereafter. Dates must be reserved in person and are available on a first-come basis. Mass intention donations are $10; Bread and Wine offerings are $40 for one, $80 for both. If you have any questions, call our parish secretary at 201-261-0148.

EXCITING NEWS! SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL’S

2ND ANNUAL

FAMILY FALL CARNIVAL IS SET FOR

SEPTEMBER 18-19-20

Do you have a local business or service?

BECOME A CARNIVAL SPONSOR

$500 Sponsor Package includes a 6-foot promotional banner; 1 sheet of 30 tickets; 1 Sunday Wrist Band (unlimited rides)

$200 Sponsor Package—12x18” Individual Promotional Poster Board

$15—$199 Sponsor Package —Spot on the “All Sponsors Banner”

For more information or to sign up as a sponsor, contact Saint Joseph School at 201-261-2388.

ANOTHER SJS SCHOLAR Our apologies to Liam Krey, Saint Joseph School student, whose name was left off the Honor Roll published last week. Liam

achieved First Honors status. Great job, Liam!

ENROLL YOUR CHILD IN A BLUE RIBBON SCHOOL

WITH STRONG CATHOLIC VALUES Saint Joseph School accepts students from 3 years old to Grade 8. Registration for September is now taking place. Call 201-261-2388 to arrange a visit.

Seats in Saint Joseph School’s

popular preschool program

“the greenhouse” are filling up fast, but here are still

a few spots available in our

3-year-old class. Call

201-261-2388.

“I want to join the fun

at “the greenhouse”!”

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SIXTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ JULY 19, 2015

“WORLD MEETING OF FAMILIES “

COMING SOON! From September 22-27 Philadelphia will host the World Meeting of Families. The event will include an Adult Congress (18+) which will feature internationally known and engaging speakers who will talk, present panels and lead workshops so that participants can support each other in the joys and struggles of

life, and a Youth Congress (for ages 6-17) that will be an interactive program where young people can build, create, play, listen, serve, and embrace the “Mission of Love that Brings Families Fully Alive.” (Daycare will be available.) To see the schedule, go to worldmeeting2015.org Fr. Roy will be leading a group from Saint Joseph. Contact him at 201-261-0148 for more information.

PILGRIMAGE CANCELED We regret that the pilgrimage to Portugal and Spain with Fr. Roy in October to celebrate the 500th anniversary of the birth of St. Teresa of Avila has been canceled.

CATHOLIC HOMESCHOOL CONFERENCE —JULY 31 & AUGUST 1

The Immaculate Heart of Mary New York Homeschool Conference will be held at Mercy College (at the Rotonda of Mercy Hall), 555 Broadway, in Dobbs Ferry, on Friday, July 31 (12:00 noon-6:00 pm) and on Saturday, August 1 (9:30 am-3:30 pm). Confirmed speakers include: Dr. Ray Guarendi, Mrs. Colleen Billing, Mrs. Michele Quigley Mr. Tony Schiavo, Mrs. Virginia Seuffert and Mr. Gary Zimak! Admission is free and pre-registration is not required. For more information, please visit ihmconference.org or email info@ihmconference.org or call 540-636-1946.

ALZHEIMER’S SUPPORT —AUGUST 4 and 26

The Alzheimer’s Association will be offering two local education programs for caregivers who have a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease or a related dementia.

Coping with Caregiver Stress will be offered at CareOne, 90 W. Ridgewood Avenue in Paramus, on Tuesday, August 4 from 3:30-4:30 pm.

Effective Communication Strategies will be offered at Oradell Health Care Center, 600 Kinderkamack Road, Oradell, on Wednesday, August 26 from 6:00-7:00 pm.

These programs are free and open to the public, but registration is required. Families may call the 24/7 Help Line at 1-800-272-3900 or go to alz.org/nj and click on the “Community Education Calendar” link to reserve a space.

NOVENA MASS TO ST. PEREGRINE & ANOINTING OF THE SICK

—JULY 20 Immaculate Conception Church, 211 Summit Street, Norwood, will celebrate their monthly Mass to Saint Peregrine on Monday, July 20 at 7:00 pm. Immediately following the Mass the Novena prayers will be recited. The Anointing of the Sick will be available to anyone immediately following the Novena prayers.

St. Peregrine was healed of a cancerous ulcer on his leg which was considered beyond saving. The fame of this event in 1325 spread rapidly round the western Church. Christians, especially the sick, began to invoke his name and seek his intercession for the relief of their suffering and even for a cure from sickness. The canonization of St. Peregrine in 1726 increased people’s devotion to him which spread to the universal Church.

(from stperegrine.org —a ministry of the Friar Servants of Mary)

CHARITABLE GIFT ANNUITIES

Would you like a safe and secure way of providing financial support to your aging parents? Do you feel it is time to “give back?” If so, a charitable gift annuity (CGA) may be just the solution. A CGA can provide payments to your aging parents now and a gift to their parish later. It will provide you both with peace of mind and also an income tax deduction. For more information about making a gift, please call the Theresa Lynch, Planned Giving Manager, Archdiocese of Newark, 973-497-4042 or email lynchthe@rcan.org

“The entire material universe speaks of God’s love, his boundless affection for us. Soil, water, mountains: everything is, as it were, a caress of God.” (Pope Franicis’ encyclical Laudato Si’, #84)

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JAZZ AT THE ORADELL PUBLIC LIBRARY —JULY 22

Come hear Saint Joseph musician Peter Greco (piano, guitar and vocals) joined by Mike Luipersbeck on drums and Ron Naspo on bass as they play jazz at the Oradell Public Library (375 Kinderkamack Road) on Wednesday, July 22 at 7:00 pm (second floor).

SACRAMENT OF

BAPTISM

July 12, 2015

Averille Jolie Florentino-Cabuñag Child of Agerico Cabuñag

& Jaymee Florentino-Cabuñag

God bless our

newest Christian!

TAKE TIME TO REST Being a parent is one of those jobs where you never really get to rest. Even on a vacation, a parent never stops performing the tasks of being a parent… . That's one reason why so many people desire a vacation after their vacation. There are some people who never rest from work. They have a cell phone to their ear at home, at a restaurant, and, of course, at a hotel during their vacation. Their jobs might be pretty demanding and hopefully they perform their tasks well for their employer, but they always seem preoccupied. Jesus tried to have his apostles take a break and rest in Mark 6. They had been so consumed with the crowds and had not even had a chance to eat. So Jesus took them to a deserted place. However, the crowds found them there too, so Jesus continued to teach. … Everyone needs a rest. The problem is that we fail to understand how important it is to rest. We think rest is void of action. Not only is resting an action in itself, but it is sometimes the only time we have to spend with God one-on-one. How can we truly say a relationship with God is important when we never spend time alone with God? Failing to take the time to rest in God's presence is poor stewardship of time. Apostles need it. Workers need it. Parents need it. Everyone needs rest. Some say we never rest because we feel we do not have permission to rest and people will see us as lazy. Read Mark 6. Sometimes circumstances make it hard to rest, but you have been given permission for sure--from Jesus himself. —Tracy Earl Welliver, MTS © Liturgical Publications Inc.

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