Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

EXCITING NEWS about our parish

YOUTH MINISTRY

—SEE Fr. Anthony’s column on page 3 and INSERT.

PASTOR: Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Anthony Di Stefano Rev. John Z. Radwan

DEACON: GeorgeMontalvo

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

MASS SCHEDULE

Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30am, 9 am,

10:30 am, 12 noon

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am

& 8:30 am Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena

Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wed. of Month 9 am—5 pm in MC

SACRAMENTS

Confession: Saturday, 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Baptism Contact the Parish Office

Marriage Arrangements should be made

with a priest at least one year in advance.

Homebound/Hospital Call Parish Office

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA Contact Parish Office

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact Parish Office

Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School

the greenhouse PreK

305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

July 28, 2019 Oradell/New Milford, NJ

Summer Hours: (Parish Office) Mon-Thurs: 9 am - 5 pm, Fri.: 9 am –2 pm; (Rel. Ed.) Tues.-Thurs: 10 am-4 pm (Also by appointment.)

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A SPECIAL WALKING PILGRIMAGE

—AUGUST 8-11

Fr. John invites our parishioners to join our parish group and the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal for an annual walking

pilgrimage which begins on Thursday, August 8 and ends on Sunday, Aug 11. Pilgrims start waking from Sts. Peter and Paul Church in Great Meadow, NJ to Doylestown National Shrine of Our Lady, PA. Walking pilgrimages offer us the opportunity to grow in our faith, to be renewed on our spiritual journey with God with love in our minds, hearts and souls. The Franciscan Friars lead the group and provide a rich spiritual program for every day. There will be many opportunities for spiritual talk, counseling, reflection and fellowship with other pilgrims. Children are very welcome if accompanied by a parent or guardian.

Registration costs per day: Adults: $30.00; Young Adults (15-24): $25.00; Children (7-14): $15; Children (3-6): Flat fee $5; Children (0-2): Free; Seniors (65+): $10 per day

For more information, see Fr John or call him at 201-261-0148. To register, please fill out the form on their website: www.walkingpilgrimage.us

Joseph Anthony Kusnir Child of Virginia and Michael

John Vincent Lacorte Child of Patrick and Brianna

Conor McDermott Child of Maria & Timothy

Roman James Luna Child of Brittany and Paul

The Sacrament of Baptism was recently celebrated at Saint Joseph Church on July 19, 2019

—the presider was Father John Z. Radwan. God bless our newest Christians and their families.

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SEVENTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ JULY 28, 2019

FROM THE DESK OF FATHER ANTHONY

Reflecting back on how as a kid, summers seemed to last

“forever,” I am amazed now as an adult, how summer seems to fade so quickly leaving me asking “Where did the time go?” While we have now passed the halfway point of our summer, I do know where the time has gone here in our parish. Renovations are well underway as our parish teens

have been working hard to prepare for our new Youth Center unveiling and the relaunching of our

Saint Joseph Youth Ministry with an official kickoff

this September. Our teens have been busy clearing out the clutter on the first floor of the Curry House, which is now the home of our new parish Youth Center, and where they have also spent much of their summertime helping with repairs, painting and taking the lead in making the space all their own. (See photos on flyer insert!)

Saint Paul once said, writing to the early Church community in Ephesus, “then we will no longer be immature like children…instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.” Ephesians 4:14a,15b These words came to mind as I thought about and prayed over all the work that the teens have accomplished this summer on their new Youth Center for the relaunch of the Saint Joseph Youth Ministry. The commitment that our teens have given to this project demonstrates that they truly understand the message that Saint Paul had for his fellow Christian community, namely, that we become more like Jesus Christ, as we strive to grow spiritually in our faith journey. As our teens journey to adulthood, they are also growing spiritually in the ways of Jesus Christ. They recognize that a youth center is not just a physical place to meet and hang out; young people need a place to meet others who can lift them up, encourage them, and challenge them in all the right ways. Our teens have proved that they understand that all the sweat and hard work they have been putting into our new Youth Center is the way they have grown this summer. They are already becoming youth leaders to their peers by preparing a place where all of our youth and teenagers can share the good news of Jesus among themselves and thereby help them grow in faith and discipleship in their lives.

Relaunching our Saint Joseph Youth Ministry reaffirms our commitment as a parish family to providing a

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loving and faith-filled environment for all middle school kids and teenagers. We provide a place for our youth to grow in Christ, empower them to ignite their faith, build upon our Christian values, and establish themselves as valued members of our parish.

Through the work and effort of our Youth Minister and our Youth Leaders, Saint Joseph

Youth Ministry will offer opportunities for our ministry youth and teens to gather on specific nights for organized activities, food, and sharing, along with chances for great conversations with entertaining, educational and spiritual guest speakers. Our youth and teens will also work to serve others in the name of God. Prior to all meetings and group meals, members will offer prayers and this ministry will promote faith by encouraging all to attend and experience the Word of God and the Eucharist as a family at our monthly Mass. Our ministry will also provide each member with the chance to participate in retreats in order to explore their faith in a deeper and more meaningful way. With the guidance of our adult team, youth leaders will be empowered to plan and help lead our meetings, social activities, and service projects, demonstrating their love and faith in God while creating and enhancing relationships with God and their peers.

IGNITE is our new teen group. We invite all teens in

grades 9-12 for weekly meetings and monthly events, such as trips and volunteer opportunities within and outside our community. Meetings take place on the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Tuesdays of every month at 7:30 pm at the Youth Center (Curry House 1st Floor). Monthly recreational, spiritual and social activities and events will be posted in the bulletin and on our website. Teens are encouraged to come by and hang out, play games, serve, grow in faith, and become Youth Leaders within the group and thereby leaders within the church community.

BE THE LIGHT is our new pre-teen youth group.

We invite all 7th and 8th graders to join us on the first Tuesday of the month at 7:30 pm in the Youth Center. Come gather in fun and friendship, as you grow in our church community.

Our TEEN MASS is typically on the first Sunday of

every month at 6:00 pm. All are welcome to celebrate the Mass ministered by our teens who are invited to share their talents – it is a great opportunity to strengthen their faith and become an active member serving our parish community. (continued on next page)

We will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ.

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SEPARATED/DIVORCED SUPPORT The Separated/Divorced Healing Ministry will resume formal meetings in September. However, for those who feel that they need spiritual and emotional support during the coming months, kindly contact Annette Ziegler and she will arrange to meet with you. Email aziggy314@gmail.com

R.C.I.A. (2019-2020) Is God calling you to something more? The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) is an opportunity open to adults interested in becoming Catholic or thirsty to become fully initiated into the Catholic Church by completing their Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist). If you, or someone you know, is interested in learning more about RCIA, we welcome the opportunity to speak with you! For more information, contact Fr. Anthony at fatheranthony@sjcnj.org or call 201-261-0148 ext. 13.

INTERESTED IN A GREAT CATHOLIC SCHOOL

FOR YOUR CHILD?

Come see what makes

SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL the best!

Saint Joseph School provides an exceptional education

for students Pre-K - 8th grade including challenging academics with certified

teachers; art, music and world language specials; Before and After Care; and nutritious hot meals

….all in a faith-filled, nurturing environment.

Saint Joseph School is a National Blue Ribbon School,

accredited by the Middle States Assoc. of Colleges and Schools, and a Member of the National

Catholic Education Association.

Call 201-261-2388 for more information and to schedule a tour.

Saint Joseph School is located at 305 Elm St., Oradell, NJ 07649. Check us out on our website:

sjsusa.org

CATECHISTS NEEDED

Give our Church a strong future: Share your faith with the children of Saint Joseph Parish. Please prayerfully consider volunteering as a catechist. You will make a big

difference in the lives of the children you teach, as well as enriching your own faith life. Catechists are needed for our 2019-2020 program starting in September. ALL TRAINING WILL BE PROVIDED.

CLASS TIMES SUNDAYS (10:10-11:35 am) —Kdgtn (1); Grade 1 (2); Grade 2 (2); Grade 3 (2); Grade 4 (2); Grade 6 (2)

TUESDAYS (3:45-5:10 pm) —Kdgtn (1); Grade 1 (2); Grade 2 (2); Grade 4 (1)

WEDNESDAYS (4:45-6:10 pm) —Grade 7 (3); Grade 8 (3)

A tuition discount is available to those serving as catechists who also have a child in the program. Call Deacon George or Mrs. Arlene Kennedy at 201-261-1144 to volunteer or to learn more.

(“From the Desk of Fr. Anthony”—cont’d.)

Our relaunched Saint Joseph Youth Ministry mission statement promises to empower teens to ignite their faith and build upon our Christian values. Our parish is blessed by our teens in all they have accomplished thus far. They are growing in Christ in leading the way for this vital ministry. I am also grateful for our parents who have given their teens a taste of this mission by encouraging them to come out and help in the midst of summertime and in all the busyness of family life. Your commitment and the support by our parish community truly proves that our teens are loved, valued and a vital part of our parish and the Christian community. Peace,

Fr. Anthony If you would like more information, feel free to email the Youth Minister, Ellen Solinas, at ellen@solinas.net or our Youth Ministry Spiritual Director, Fr. Anthony, at fatheranthony@sjcnj.org

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember all those who are ill: John Driscoll, Kathy Luppino, Yvette Hendrickson,

Bienveniva Rodriguez, Dr. Douglas Noble

Let us remember all those who have died: Sr. Mary Robert Wain

Let us remember those serving in the military.

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread & wine for the week of July 28, 2019

is offered in loving memory of

Cathy Burke-Dooley 5th Anniversry Remembrance

as requested by the Carolan Family.

SEVENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ JULY 28, 2019

SUNDAY COLLECTION

July 21, 2019 July 22, 2018 Basket $7,308 $6,572 Electronic Giving $4,617 $3,876* Total Sunday Collection $11,925 $10,448

*Electronic contributions are received on a monthly basis. In our bulletin report, they are divided by the number of weeks in the month. (There were five in July 2018).

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “Ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Luke 11:9)

Jesus assures us that if we ask, God will take care of what we need. The problem is that our culture often confuses what we really need with what we simply want. Many people need very little. However, we usually want so much more. A good steward only asks God for what he needs.

PARISH STAFF

Parish Trustees………Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Parish Pastoral Council….Dr. Michael Petrella/ Mr. Thomas Kohli Dir. of Religious Education ………Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator ………….Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………..Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister…………………………Mrs. Ellen Solinas Facilities Director ………………….....Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager ……………….…. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………....Mrs. Geraldine Carolan Principal of Saint Joseph School…Dr. Paula Valenti Dir. of Comm./ Bulletin Editor…...Mrs. Diane Hellriegel

GIFTS OF BREAD & WINE AVAILABLE The bread and/or wine for the week’s Masses may be donated in memory of your loved one. Available dates: Aug. 11, 18, 25; Oct. 6, 20, 27;

Nov. 3; Dec. 1. Donation is $80 for both; $40 each. Stop by the parish office/rectory to reserve your week.

DON’T FORGET TO DROP OFF

YOUR ENVELOPE! As you head off for your summer vacation, feel free to drop off or mail your parish envelope to the

rectory/parish office at 105 Harrison Street, New Milford, NJ 07646 before you go (or even when you return). Your support throughout the summer is much needed and greatly appreciated.

July 27, 2019 Kenneth Farrar

July 28, 2019 People of the Parish Iona Frazier Robert Wapelhorst Jacqueline O’Grady (Birthday—Living)

July 29, 2019 Amparo Lacsamana Susan & Kenneth Egerer

July 30, 2019 John J. McMahon William J. Schatz

July 31, 2019 Mary Ann Buscaino Gregg Higley

August 1, 2019 Ellen O’Connor (Birthday Remembrance) Philip McGough (7th Anniversary Remembrance)

August 2, 2019 Carol Maddalone Mate Skroce

August 3, 2019 Anna Brook (90th Birthday—Living) Octavio & Crispina Acero

August 4, 2019 People of the Parish Angela Puccio Robert M. Westerdahl (4th Anniversary Remembrance) Narciso Santos

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Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

GIVE YOUR MARRIAGE A WELL-DESERVED VACATION

Plan to go on a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend and come back with a marriage that is refreshed and full of energy! The next Marriage Encounter Weekend in North Jersey will be held on September 27-29, 2019. Go to www.wwme.org to find other weekend dates and locations. For more information contact Mike and Janet Turco at 973-427-7016 or 609-335-6880 or by email to mikeandjanetwwme@gmail.com

MAUSOLEUM NEWS

Dear Friends in Christ, Madonna Cemetery (located at 2070 Hoetley’s Lane, Fort Lee, NJ), has built an addition to our existing mausoleum, the first

community mausoleum constructed in the Archdiocese of Newark and which has served the needs of our local community for over forty years. The new expansion is called the “All Saints” section. There are private and semi-private areas in the mausoleum addition and there are options for both single and double internment. Because we believe that pre-planning is an important family responsibility, we are offering cememtery counseling and information about the mausoleum. If you wish to have more information, please contact Madonna Cemetery by dialing 1-866-392-1951. There is no obligation if you do.

2019 SUMMER SEMINARS Hearing and Sharing God’s Good News

(Sponsored by OLGC, Assumption, St. Andrew’s, OLM, St. John’s & OLMC)

AUGUST 1 Is God disappearing from our society? What can I do personally to prevent this? AUGUST 8 How can I learn to have the ultimate personal relationship with God?

Rev. Sylvester Obinna and Rev. Paul Cannariato will be guest speakers.

THURSDAYS at 7:00 pm; Rosary at 6:30 pm Our Lady of Good Counsel Marian Center

668 Ridgewood Road, Township of Washington, NJ

Please call Bridgid to register at 201-741-4646 or 201-722-1268 or email midt@me.com

Refreshments will be available.

HOSPICE VOLUNTEER TRAINING CLASS

Visting Nurse Association Health Group’s Hospice Team will provide you with training and support to help you bring your gifts of compassion, commitment and companionship to those nearing the end of life. Training will be provided on the following Wednesdays: July 31- 9:30am-2:30pm, August 7-11:30am-3:30pm and August 14-9:30 am - 3:30pm. Location: VNA Englewood, 15 Engle Street, Suite 301, Englewood, NJ. We are looking for volunteers to bring a supportive presence through home visitation, comfort calls, and administrative support to enhance our patients’ care. Please consider sharing your time and talents as part of our Volunteer Hospice Team.Volunteers must attend all 3 sessions and are encouraged to wait 1 year following the death of a loved one. To register, please call Ruth Sorbanelli, Volunteer Coordinator at 201-510-6426.

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Saint Joseph Church (AT NO COST TO YOU)

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Amazon will donate a portion of your purchase price to our parish.

HOW TO ORDER WITH AMAZON SMILE:

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GOING ON VACATION? If you are traveling, be sure to go to masstimes.org to locate a Catholic Church and Mass times at your vacation destination.

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