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This is how to save your marriage, even if your spouse is not cooperating and you feel you are the only one that cares.


  • 1. How to Save Your Marriage ALONE He doesnt seem tocare aboutsalvaging yourmarriage. Can you save yourmarriage alone?By Lisa Penn Http://

2. Marriage is a 2-way street and when a relationship is in crisis, both sides are supposed to do their best to it from slipping away for good. 3. Sadly, many spouses get their heart broken when they find out that their partner is not doing the same effort or even not trying at all to save the marriage. 4. Sometimes the spouseis just looking for away out and doesntwant to salvage therelationship. Butmany times, he or sheis too depressed,confused or wantsto avoid moreconflicts. 5. A spouse who is reluctant to work on themarriage may be in a place where he orshe has lost hope that the relationshipcan be salvaged. Your spouse may feelthe marriage is too far gone for any effortsto actually result in a positive outcome. The only thing that is within your power isyour commitment to the relationship,and the actions you take. 6. Step #1: Deepen Your Own Commitment Regardless of the effort yourhusband or wife is or is notmaking in working to save yourmarriage, you can strengthenyour own efforts in committingto salvaging the relationship. You may have already beenpulling double-duty in terms ofgiving your marriageeverything youve got. Now, ifyou want to save yourmarriage, you may need todraw on your inner reserves ofstrength and give a little bitmore. 7. No one can decide for you what your relationship is worth, and what measures youll go to in order to save it. But if you feel strongly about saving your relationship, deciding that youre committed to do so will help you feel empowered. 8. Step #2 - Be A Best Friend A lot of couples find that astheir relationship hasgone on in time, theirroles have become moreadversarial thansupportive. If you have abest friend outside of themarriage, think of timeswhen that friend has beendown. What type ofsupport have youoffered them? 9. It can be easy to forget that your husband or wife mayneed a friendin you. Examine your relationship andsee if both of you have forgotten how to be a friend toone another. Again, you can only control your actions, but this is away to lead by example. Your actions, such as makingpositive changes in how you talk to and behave with yourspouse, may be the catalyst needed to get your husbandor wife to want to make changes, as well. Taking a morefriendly approach can create a safe environment, onewhere your husband or wife may begin to trust thatthings really can improve. 10. Step #3 - Work on Yourself You may wonder how you can give your all to the relationship and still have time for you. Part of giving in a relationship is being strong within yourself. You need to nurture yourself as much as your relationship, because a healthy relationship requires healthy partners. 11. Many couples become adversarial because one or both spouses can become resentful, feeling theyve given up everything for the relationship and there has been nothing left to give to their self. Its critical to carve time for yourself, examining your thoughts and emotions and working through your own internal struggles, as well as nurturing your own hopes and dreams. 12. How to Save Your Marriage WhenYoure the Only One Trying Your husband has chosen the immature cop out and no longer wants to fight for your marriage. But you havent. You want to save your marriage, but how can you do it without him on board? 13. You CAN love you husband back to your marriage, but it requires that you KNOW the right steps to take if you really want to make that happen. 14. This book, which I can personally reco , will show you new ways to connect emotionally, how to rebuild love and respect again, how to open up without getting hurt and how to see the lasting results, even if you are the only one trying. 15. Dont wait, act NOW, before itstoo late.Start here: