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Separation doesn't automatically mean the end of your marriage. If you are smart about it, you can use it to save your marriage. Want to know how?

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  • 1. How to Use MarriageHow to Use Marriage Separation to Save YourSeparation to Save Your MarriageMarriage By Lisa PennBy Lisa Penn http://how-to-save-http://how-to-save-marriage.orgmarriage.org

2. Thats itThats it.. Its reallyIts really overover.. Thats what youThats what you thought when yourthought when your spouse decided tospouse decided to splitsplit ((or already didor already did).). Marriage separationMarriage separation is just a pit stop in theis just a pit stop in the way to divorceway to divorce.. Everyone knows that,Everyone knows that, right?right? 3. WRONG.WRONG. 4. I know that what ImI know that what Im about to claim goesabout to claim goes against everythingagainst everything you believe in, butyou believe in, but marriage separationmarriage separation is youris your goldengolden opportunityopportunity to notto not only save youronly save your marriage, butmarriage, but makemake it better than itit better than it ever wasever was.. 5. Can Separation Save aCan Separation Save a Marriage?Marriage? Your spouse hasYour spouse has given upgiven up.. He or sheHe or she are tired of theare tired of the bickering, the tension,bickering, the tension, the lack ofthe lack of communication, thecommunication, the fact that you never dofact that you never do anything fun togetheranything fun together anymoreanymore.. 6. Even worse, he orEven worse, he or she are may alreadyshe are may already be in love withbe in love with someone else, andsomeone else, and left you to be withleft you to be with himhim//herher.. 7. Im not in love with you anymore,Im not in love with you anymore, he or she saidhe or she said,, and your wholeand your whole world, your whole life as you knowworld, your whole life as you know it, collapses around you, making ait, collapses around you, making a huge noisehuge noise.. 8. It seems there is noIt seems there is no hopehope.. Your marriageYour marriage is terminally broken,is terminally broken, and there is nothingand there is nothing you can do to changeyou can do to change itit.. 9. But you couldnt be more wrongBut you couldnt be more wrong.. Separation can save your marriage, if youSeparation can save your marriage, if you know exactly how to use it to yourknow exactly how to use it to your advantageadvantage.. 10. 3 Critical Mistakes Youve3 Critical Mistakes Youve Probably Already MadeProbably Already Made Heres what most of us will do when weHeres what most of us will do when we desperately try to stop separation and divorcedesperately try to stop separation and divorce:: 1. We try to give them reassurance1. We try to give them reassurance I I can change. I will stop nagging. I will stop beingcan change. I will stop nagging. I will stop being controlling. I wont lie to you ever again.controlling. I wont lie to you ever again. This almost never works. They will not believe you.This almost never works. They will not believe you. 2. We Argue2. We Argue I dont believe that you dont I dont believe that you dont love me. You owe me love because we arelove me. You owe me love because we are married. I can change the way you feel rightmarried. I can change the way you feel right now.now. 11. This never worksThis never works.. This is exactly what they expectThis is exactly what they expect to hearto hear.. More arguing and inacceptance of theirMore arguing and inacceptance of their feelingsfeelings.. This is why they want to pull away inThis is why they want to pull away in the first placethe first place.. 3. We tell them how much we love them3. We tell them how much we love them I love you. You are the only one Ill ever love.I love you. You are the only one Ill ever love. Youre the only one I can be happy with.Youre the only one I can be happy with. Youre basically telling them I have no selfYoure basically telling them I have no self esteem. I have nothing with you. Do you wantesteem. I have nothing with you. Do you want me?me? 12. But dont lose hop just yetBut dont lose hop just yet.. Even ifEven if you made all of these mistakesyou made all of these mistakes ((inin less then 30 minutesless then 30 minutes)), there are, there are ways to repair the damageways to repair the damage ((if you useif you use the right marriage separation advicethe right marriage separation advice from now onfrom now on).). 13. Go HEREGo HERE to see 3 Little Known Ways toto see 3 Little Known Ways to Use Marriage Separation to Save YourUse Marriage Separation to Save Your Marriage!Marriage! Hurry, before its too late!Hurry, before its too late! Rooting for ya,Rooting for ya, LisaLisa