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St. John of the Cross Parish 5005 South Wolf Road ~ Western Springs 60558 ~ 708-246-4404 ~ www.stjohnofthecross.org

We are called to be living writers of the Gospel

by doing corporal and spiritual works of mercy.

Sunday, January 22, 2017 Third Sunday In Ordinary Time

St. John of the Cross Parish Third Sunday in Ordinary Time January 22, 2017

Renew My Church

Renew My Church is a multi-year initiative to ensure sustainable growth of our Church for the future. The objective of Renew My Church is to create vital, vibrant and life-giving faith communities across the Archdiocese of Chicago. Pope Francis has called all of us to dream big for the Church. As he states in (The Joy of the Gospel #27) “I dream of a “missionary option’, that is, a missionary impulse capable of transforming everything so that the Church’s customs, ways of doing things, time and schedules, language and structures can be suitably channeled for the evangelization of today’s world rather than for her self-preservation.” At the Archdiocesan level, Renew my Church calls us to face our challenges and boldly reimagine what it means to be Church in Chicago. We must be willing and open to leave behind familiar ways of doing things, much like the disciples in the Gospel, to carry out Christ’s mission throughout Cook and Lake Counties and beyond. For us, the Church of St. John of the Cross, Renew My Church calls each of us to face our challenges and commit to a renewal of faith, active participation, engagement in a broader sense of what it means to be Church, and, most importantly, to deepen our personal relationship with Jesus Christ. As Cardinal Cupich mentions in his letter read at all of the Masses this weekend a very important part of the process of Renew My Church are the parish groupings that will work to plan for the future and discern where God is leading us. This letter will be printed in next weekend’s bulletin. These groupings were formulated on the reception of consultation and feedback from parishioners (you may remember the Renew My Church Parishioner Survey from Easter 2016), our parish priests and Parish Advisory Council. St. John of the Cross Parish has been grouped with St. Francis Xavier Parish and St. Cletus Parish. We along with our brothers and sisters at St. Francis and St. Cletus will begin to assess, plan, and discern how best to meet the needs of the future. In many ways we have already come together: teens from all three parishes participate in Kairos Retreats; parishioners for all three parishes have participated in Seasons of Hope, a grief support group held at SJC; and all three parishes have collaborated to increase awareness of domestic violence. The first step in this process will be building upon the relationships already established among the three parishes. More information and details will follow in the weeks and months to come. With all the saints who have gone before us, especially the disciples of the early Church, let us pray that we may be open to the grace and strength of the Holy Spirit as we begin this important endeavor. Fr. Bill

A Prayer For “Renew My Church”

Lord Jesus, you speak to us today, as you spoke to holy men and women

who have gone before us. In every age and in our own time,

you call to us and say: Renew My Church. Pour out the gift of

your Holy Spirit upon us, and so enable us

to hear you clearly to listen to each other attentively

to imagine our future boldly to discern your direction wisely

to persevere in your holy will courageously

to stay together in charity to surrender our own plans readily

to embrace the greater good to hand on your gifts to future generations. May we remain in the

holy company of the Blessed Virgin Mary,

the apostles, and all the saints. May their example and presence inspire us with patient confidence

in the work of your grace. We ask this of you

who live and reign with the Father in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever.

Amen.

Annual Catholic Appeal: February 2017


The Appeal helps to sustain Catholic schools and parishes, support programs of religious education, ministerial formation and the many initiatives for the protection of life and the promotion of peace and justice. Through Catholic Relief Services, the Appeal also funds loving help to neighbors who are far away but who are our neighbors in need. Together let us express our love, our connection and our responsibility for one another. Given the present need of the Archdiocese of Chicago, your gift to the Appeal in February will mean that you have heard the Lord’s word, love your neighbor as yourself, and, importantly that you have put it into practical action. (Cardinal Blase J. Cupich)


Tax Statements

Thank you for your generous contributions to our parish. Tax statements will be mailed at the end of the month to parishioners who have received them in past years. If you have not received one in the past and would like one this year, please call Christina in the Parish Center office. Sister Anastasia Fund

2nd Collection Next Weekend The Sr. Anastasia Fund, named in memory of our first school principal, is dedicated to educating our parish children in the faith. Begun when the convent building was sold to the IBVM community, it functions like an endowment fund in distributing funds to both the school and the YC program as reported in the Annual Report. The Parish Finance Committee administers the annual distribution. For many years, even preceding the Sr. Anastasia fund, there was an annual collection in January, Support a Student, whose purpose is essentially the same thing as the Sr. Anastasia fund. The Support a Student collection will become part of the annual January collection to help fund the Sr. Anastasia endowment. As always, your generosity to support the mission of our parish is most appreciated.

About Sister Anastasia O’Connor IBVM In 1961 with five IBVM Sisters, Sister Anastasia became the first principal and trailblazer who launched our parish school on its way to becoming the highly respected Catholic elementary school it is today. In 1967 Sister Anastasia left SJC to serve in an administrative position within the IBVM Community. Delighted to return in 1973, she served eleven more years as the educational leader of our school and parish community. Sister Anastasia cherished the children, the parents, the faculty and staff, the parishioners and the many priests she met during her days at St. John of the Cross. Love, lived in service to others, enabled her to live her motto, “To do your will, O God, is my desire.” Sister passed away on Easter Sunday 2011.

Collection for the Church in Latin America

For over 50 years, the Collection for the Church in Latin America has been an expression of the solidarity of the Church in the United States with the Church in Latin America and the Caribbean. In a letter celebrating this important anniversary, Pope Francis commended this work, saying, “Through your support, many lives have been touched by the Good News of Christ’s merciful love, especially for the poor.” The Church in Latin America and the Caribbean struggles to provide basic pastoral care to its parishioners and works to share the faith with future generations. Your donation will help fund programs such as catechetical programs, youth ministry and leadership training for priests, seminarians, religious and lay ministers. Please put your envelope for the Church in Latin America in the regular offertory collection basket on the weekend of January 28-29. Thank you for your generosity.

Annual Catholic Appeal Student Ushers

All 7th grade Confirmation candidates are required to help as student ushers at Masses the weekends of February 18-19 and February 25-26. All students must attend a practice session before serving as an usher. Sessions will be offered 4 different times in church: Tuesday, February 14 from 3:45-4pm or 4:15-4:30pm or

Tuesday, February 21 from 3:45-4pm or 4:15-4:30pm

Parents are welcome to wait for this short, but mandatory practice. Please sign up today on our parish website for one Mass and one practice time. If a time does not appear on the sign up, the Mass has already been filled. Sign up early to get your first choice.

Catholic High School Scholarships The Rev. Joseph McDonnell Catholic High School Scholarship, made possible by the SJC Women’s Club, awards scholarships to 8th grade and high school students of St. John of the Cross Parish who attend or plan to attend a Catholic high school. See the website for eligibility requirements and an application. Applications are due in the Parish Center office by February 8.

Parish News

Lifelong Learning


Monday Heb 9:15, 24-28 Ps 98:1, 2-3ab, 3cd-4, 5-6 Mark 3:22-30

Tuesday Heb 10:1-10 Ps 40:2 and 4ab, 7-8a, 10, 11 Mark 3:31-35

Wednesday Acts 22:3-16 or Acts 9:1-22 Ps 117:1bc, 2 Mark 16:15-18

Thursday 2 Tim 1:1-8 or Titus 1:1-5 Ps 96:1-2a, 2b-3, 7-8a, 10 Mark 4:21-25

Friday Heb 10:32-39 Ps 37:3-4, 5-6, 23-24, 39-40 Mark 4:26-34

Saturday Heb 11:1-2, 8-19 Luke 1:69-70, 71-72, 73-75 Mark 4:35-41

4th Sunday in Ord. Time Jer 1:4-5, 17-19 Ps 71:1-2, 3-4,5-6, 15, 17 1 Cor 12:31–13:13 or 1 Cor 13:4-13 Luke 4:21-30

Living the Gospel This Gospel passage tells of a turning point in Jesus’ life, a turning point that lasts far longer than one day. “From that time on . . . the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” “From that time on” the fulfillment of Isaiah’s prophecy that “light has arisen” to dispel darkness is coming to completion. “From that time on” Jesus’ public ministry is set in motion. “From that time on” disciples are called. “From that time on” encounters with Jesus lead to changed lives. Then and now. From this time on . . . invitations to turning points that lead from darkness to light, from mundane tasks to announcing the Good News of salvation, from being dead-earth bound to “the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” One consequence of hearing Jesus’ call to leave all and follow him is the requirement to turn from darkness so we can see the Light. By changing the behaviors that bring darkness, we are able to focus on the Light that then shines brightly enough for us to follow—becoming the light ourselves. Seeing the Light who is Jesus is actually much easier than following the Light! John’s faithfulness in preaching Jesus as the Messiah led him to prison and death. Jesus’ preaching about God’s kingdom at hand led him to the cross and death. If we follow the Light, we know what awaits us: dying to self. Yet dying is the only way we ourselves can become the light that shines for others. Following the Light takes us where we would rather not go. But it is only this Light that brings us everlasting Life. This is why we choose to follow. This is why we choose to be light. Jesus’ call to us and our response to accept being the light is now, this time, our time. ©Living Liturgy

Background on the Gospel Today's Gospel describes the beginning of Jesus' public ministry. In the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke (called the Synoptic Gospels), Jesus' public ministry begins after his baptism by John the Baptist and after his retreat to the desert where he was tempted by the devil. When Jesus returns from the desert, he hears that John has been arrested. The first part of today's Gospel places Jesus' ministry in the context of the writings of the prophet, Isaiah. Matthew wants to show that Jesus is the fulfillment of the prophecies given to the people of Israel, and he refers to Isaiah to do so. Isaiah says that the Messiah will begin his ministry in Galilee, the land of the Gentiles. When Jesus begins to preach in Galilee, Matthew points to his ministry as a fulfillment of Isaiah's prophecy, proof that Jesus is the Messiah. When Jesus called his first disciples, the Gospel tells us that the fishermen (Peter and Andrew, James and John) dropped everything to follow Jesus immediately. Yet this Gospel tells us little about the prior experience that the fishermen had of Jesus. Did they know him? Had they heard him preach? What kind of person must Jesus have been to invoke such a response? We can imagine that Jesus was a powerful presence to elicit a response as immediate and complete as these first disciples gave. The Gospel concludes with a description of the ministry that Jesus begins in Galilee. Jesus inaugurates the Kingdom of God with his work. He teaches in the synagogue and preaches the kingdom. His ability to cure people's diseases and illness is a sign of the kingdom. In Jesus' ministry, we already begin to see the Kingdom of God among us. Loyola Press

May we always shine with the light of Christ dispelling darkness. May we continue Jesus’ saving mission

through self-giving lives.

Prayer


Prayer for Birth of a Child

I am now in the Sweet Presence of God. I am at one with all creation; I sit in the spirit and the nearness of the God of my Being. In this state of peace I know my true being.

An amazing miracle of creation has occurred in my life: my child was born. This experience has been humbling yet empowering. I am awed with the wonder of this new being that is in the world because of me. I am in a state of grace knowing the incredible co-creative power I have with God, right here, right now.

Bless this child. Bless their health, their heart and their soul. They come into this experience we call life so new, so fresh and so pure. May I be everything to them that they need to have a full and complete journey. May I understand that they have their journey and I have mine as a parent. We are to each other teacher and pupil, pupil and teacher. I will learn as much from them as I teach them.

Lead me in the path of knowledge with my child. Light our way together. Keep us protected and divinely guided in all matters and at all times. May we always feel the presence of God in our lives and may we be blessed.

Help us both to enjoy these early childhood years together. Give me patience and wisdom to do the right things and to do things rightly. May we be happy and full of joy as we spend our days. Bless us richly with health, happiness and laughter.

I am deeply grateful for this child and for all that this child represents in my life. My experience of life and my contribution to the world is changed forever and I am grateful. Thank you, God.

Forever Young May God bless and keep you always May your wishes all come true May you always do for others And let others do for you May you build a ladder to the stars And climb on every rung May you stay forever young May you grow up to be righteous May you grow up to be true May you always know the truth And see the lights surrounding you May you always be courageous Stand upright and be strong May you stay forever young

May your hands always be busy May your feet always be swift May you have a strong foundation When the winds of changes shift May your heart always be joyful And may your song always be sung May you stay forever young

Xavier Univ. Adapted from the song lyrics of “Forever Young” by Bob Dylan

Tomorrow, January 23, is the Day of Prayer for the Legal Protection of Unborn Children. Together we pray for an end to abortion and a realization of the beauty and sacredness of life at all its stages.

Father and maker of all, you adorn all creation

with splendor and beauty, and fashion human lives

in your image and likeness. Awaken in every heart

reverence for the work of your hands,

and renew among your people a readiness to

nurture and sustain your precious gift of life.

Amen.

Respect Life: End of Life


I was nervous and uncomfortable as I drove to the hospice facility to visit my Dad. Just a few weeks prior, he had suffered a severe fall that damaged his spinal cord and left him unable to move from his neck down. Watching anyone suffer, especially a loved one, is one of the hardest human experiences. As time progressed, his condition deteriorated, bringing dementia, and later, the end stages leading to his death. "Why doesn't God just take him already?" my siblings and I cried. It was so hard to see him linger. Looking back, I'm convinced that walking through those moments with Dad made both of us different and better people. God loved us enough to allow those moments—even and especially moments of suffering—in order to teach us lessons which helped us to grow spiritually and emotionally. Dad left a legacy. He taught me how to live and die with faith and with dignity marked by patience and grace. He taught me that dignity can't be diminished by pain or loss of personal control. Regardless of our circumstances and whether people acknowledge it, nothing and no one can take away our God-given dignity. Dad taught me that Jesus was walking along with him through "the valley of the shadow of death" (Psalm 23:4). Christ's journey to the Cross left him alone, in pain, and by all appearances, abandoned by his Father in heaven. Because of this, Dad knew Christ experienced and understood suffering more deeply than any of us can comprehend, and he taught me that our suffering is not meaningless when we unite it with Christ's own suffering. I needed to know that message because my own life today is filled with chemo treatments, fatigue, and a gradual loss of physical function. I've been diagnosed with aggressive glioblastoma brain cancer. My dad's legacy of faith and courage have been a beacon for me, lighting my path as I walk through the valley of the shadow of my own death. I know that in some states, I could legally seek to end my life with a lethal prescription. However, I also know that there is much more to my story, and many more people involved in it, than just myself. Assisted suicide wouldn't end suffering; it would increase it for those left behind. The current debate about legalizing physician-assisted suicide isn't about me or any other individual; it's about all of us together—as a society and as a community of faith. We are meant to be interdependent, to serve each other in humility, and to walk together in suffering. Assisted suicide also involves more than just the patient. It includes doctors, pharmacists, witnesses, and the state, which we trust to protect and safeguard the most vulnerable: people with disabilities, the elderly, people with mental illnesses, and others. Assisted suicide may sound like it provides choices for individuals, but instead, it's taking choices away from people by radically weakening the promise of care and support at the end of life for terminally ill patients like me. When societies accept assisted suicide as a "quick fix" for terminally ill patients, they lose the incentive to improve genuine end-of-life care and pain control—or even to offer it to those who want it. For example, some cancer patients in Oregon have been denied coverage of treatment to sustain their lives, and instead offered coverage for assisted suicide…. My brain cancer—or what I can or can't do—doesn't define me as a person. But it does give me the opportunity to witness to the fact that every human life has incredible dignity, whether we are infirm or able. And all the while, my family and friends can daily learn the valuable lessons of caring for me in my last days with real compassion and respect. Through their loving care, they affirm what I also know—that my life is, always has been, and always will be, worth living. Maggie Karner was diagnosed with terminal illness at the age of 50, but did not give up hope. She embraced a "new normal," cherishing each moment of life given to her. For the complete article go to USCCB

Crossroads Parish School YC

January 22, 2017

Teens enjoyed prayer, reflection and winter fun at the Frosh/Soph Identity Retreat last weekend.

Grow in your faith by serving others. Join one of our summer Work Tours! Three adults chaperones are also needed for each of the Work Tours. June 19-23 SJC and Local Sharing Parish Meet for morning Mass at 7:45am, serve at our parish by cleaning up after the Garage Sale and setting up for SJC Fest. Spend time learning about our sharing parishes and serving their communities. Minimum commitment of 3 days. July 16-22 Habitat for Humanity in Franklin, WV Travel 12 hours by passenger van to WV. Prepare for and clean-up after all meals. Serve on work sites, building, painting, gardening, etc. Must be 16 years of age or older. July 24-28 Our Lady of Charity in Cicero, IL Meet for morning Mass at SJC at 7:45am, travel via carpool to Cicero. Serve OLC parish by painting, cleaning, organizing, gardening, etc. Minimum commitment of 3 days. Visit our website, www.stjohnofthecross.org/crossroads/work-tours/ for more information and a registration packet. The deadline to register is February 9.

ST. JOHN OF THE CROSS PARISH SCHOOL TAKES THE GREAT KINDNESS CHALLENGE

January 23-27, 2017 St. John of the Cross Parish School encourages community members and businesses to come together and participate in The Great Kindness Challenge. The Great Kindness Challenge is a positive, proactive initiative promoting kindness, reaching millions of students during the last full week of January. This year St. John of the Cross Parish School joins the kindness efforts across the nation. This week’s activities include a community service project collecting non-perishable items for a local food pantry, a recess kindness craft station, Western Springs firefighters greeting students as they enter the building, and kindness activities enabling older students to work with the younger children.

Catholic Schools Week Begins Next Sunday Sunday, January 29, 2017 Open House 1:30-2:30 p.m. School Monday, January 30, 2017 All School Liturgy 9:15 a.m. Church

This weekend, in lieu of regular YC, please attend one of the Family Events by Steve Angrisano. Choose either Saturday January 21st at 7:00pm or Sunday January 22nd at 3:30pm. Both concerts are in church. Family Reflection Cards will be in the pews to be completed and returned for YC “attendance” to be recorded for your child.

YC will resume its normal schedule on January 29 and 30.

Classes K-6 10:15-11:30am Sun, Jan 29, Feb 5, 12, 26 6:15-7:30pm Mon, Jan 30, Feb 6, 13, 27 FFC Noon to 1:30 pm Sun, Feb 5 (begin in MPR) Jr Hi Sm Groups home settings Sun, Jan 29 Feb 26 - 7th gr on campus 6:30pm Feb 26 - 8th gr in home setting Adapted Catechesis 9:00-10:00am Sun, Jan 22, 29, Feb 5, 26

Parish Concert this Weekend Athletic Assoc Benefit


Steve Angrisano in Concert

at

St. John of the Cross this Weekend

Saturday, January 21 at 7pm-8pm Concert Sunday, January 22

at 3:30-4:30pm Music & Storytelling No Tickets. Open seating in church.

Great for all ages.

Well known musician and spiritual leader, Steve Angrisano, will be at all Masses and at 2 concerts in church this weekend. Come be inspired by his terrific music, trademark humor, storytelling, and heartfelt prayer. Don’t miss this great event.

Join us for a night of fun and friendship benefitting our Parish School Athletics! Enjoy pizza, beverages, cards and great conversation with dads from your children’s grades, friends, relatives and neighbors. Have a fun evening helping SJC Athletics. Tickets $65 Name___________________________________________________

Email ______________________________________________________________

I would like to make an additional contribution to the SJC AA for ___$100 ___$250

I cannot attend but wish to make a tax-deductible contribution in the amount of $____

Enclosed is my check for $____. Return to School Office.

?? Call Frank Sullivan at [email protected] 224-628-9921 or Terry Falls at [email protected] 708-772-7999.

2017 MEN’S SOCIAL FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 3

7PM-MIDNIGHT at VILLAGE CLUB OF WS

Outreach: Thank You from Share Christmas Recipients


Words can’t describe what we

feel for the wonderful gift that

was given to us. We have had a

tough 2016. Your gift allowed us

to fill our fridge and purchase

gifts for my girls for Christmas.

May God Bless You!!

Thank you for all the gift cards. This has

helped us tremendously in buying our

Christmas gifts. Our family is very

grateful. May God bless you.

I am just in awe and profusely

amazed of God’s abundant

graces channeled through you

to so many families of St. Gall

and other communities. I want

to express my deep gratitude.

You and your community are in

our prayers and we wish you

Una Feliz Navidad & Un Ano

Neuvo.

Our family thanks you and

your family for the gifts we

received. We thank God

everyday for families like

yours that have the chance to

give to others. Have a

blessed holiday. We wish you

the best.

Thank you dear Angels. I

cannot call you any other

way. Thanks to your gift I

bought Christmas dinner

for my children. I can buy

coats for this cold winter.

Thank you again.

We are thankful for the

generous gift cards you

gave us for Christmas.

Our family used these

wonderful gift cards for

our Christmas and New

Year dinner. We are

extremely blessed to

have St. John of the

Cross help families in

need for the holidays.

Thank you for sharing Joy with others.

May God bless you with much love and

peace in these holidays.

Brother, sister let me serve you. Let me be as Christ to you.

We are here to help each other

Walk the mile and bear the load.

I will hold my hand out to you; Speak the peace

you long to hear.

Outreach News Parish News


LIVESTOCK for

LIFE

Thank you for your continued support of the Livestock for Life holiday campaign. Your donations provided goats, pigs, and hens to families at Holy Cross Parish in Jinja, Uganda, giving them a source of income and livelihood. Your care and generosity has made a difference in the lives of the poor and vulnerable.

Food Pantry Collection During the month of January our nonperishable food donations will be delivered to St. Barbara’s Food Pantry in Brookfield. Family favorites include canned vegetables (corn, peas, green beans), cereal, tuna, boxed mashed potatoes, stuffing, pasta, pasta sauce, rice, and baby food. Thank you for helping us to provide nutritious food to those who are experiencing difficult times and are seeking help. St. Barbara’s also has a Lending Closet for donated medical equipment and clothing.

Bread & Soup Event The 4th Annual Soup & Bread Event will be held on Sunday, January 29 from 3–7 pm at Holiday Inn William Tell Banquets in Countryside. This event benefits BEDS Plus. Enjoy live music, craft beers and local foods. Tickets are available online. For more information call 708-354-0858 x2 www.beds-plus.org

SJC Trivia Night VI Saturday, January 28th

SJC Parish School Gym

Doors open at 6:00pm - Games begin at 6:45pm

All are invited to come to Trivia Night! It’s fun and it’s a great way to meet fellow parishioners. Here’s how it works: Organize a group of up to 10 people (ages 21

and over only) to form your team. Name your team.

Brush up on your trivia knowledge. Send in your table reservation with a check(s)

totaling $200 for each table of ten; (note: cost per table is $200 even if there are less than ten participants on your team). Make all checks payable to St. John of the Cross. Seating is limited; only a few tables left!

Drop an envelope with the reservation form including the name of your team, captain and team member names along with your check(s) to SJC Parish Center attention Men’s Club.

That night, bring your own appetizers, food and your favorite beverages. Alcoholic beverages are permitted.

Winning Team will receive fabulous prizes and many accolades!

Team Name:

Team Captain:

Team Captain Contact phone / e-mail:

Team Member Names:

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St. John of the Cross Parish sponsors programs throughout the year at The Well in LaGrange. The cost to our parishioners is waived for these two sponsored programs in February. Simply call the Parish Center Office to register. The Well is located just north of SJC at 1515 N. Ogden Road.

Your Body’s Wisdom: Connect to Your Heart Facilitator: Kate Wester Saturday, February 11 from 10:00 – Noon Although you think that it’s your brain that’s running the show, we are now learning that it’s actually the heart and our emotions that have the biggest impact on our well-being. In this workshop we’ll explore the connection between our physical and metaphoric heart. You’ll learn ways to develop self-compassion and shift negative emotions, as well as ways to connect more deeply to your emotions. This workshop is largely based on the work of SomaSoul, developed and taught by Dan Leven in Lenox, Massachusetts. For more information on his work and teaching go to: www.leaveninstitute.com Kate Wester has always been drawn to the intersection of the expressive arts, contemplative spirituality, and body centered practices. She is a textile artist, a yoga teacher, and is currently studying for her Masters in Pastoral Counseling at Loyola University. In 2012 Kate became certified to teach Shake Your Soul from the Leven Institute of Expressive Movement. In 2014 she completed a 500 hour certification as a SomaSoul practitioner and is a Registered Somatic Movement Therapist (RSMT).

The Body as a Portal to the Divine Mystery

Facilitator: David Ellzey February 17-18, 2016 Friday from 7-8:30 pm and Saturday from 9 am – 4 pm In this workshop, we will use questions of self-inquiry, techniques of letting go, movement, and the exploration of empty space, to guide you past the misperception of the body and yourself as a fixed and limited object. You’ll experience what fluid freedom means in body, emotions, mind, and spirit. This work is ultimately devoted to translating this expansive freedom and healing into living consciously in daily life with a quieter mind, more love, and awakened awareness – especially amidst these very challenging times. David Ellzey sensed the infinite nature of life at age 14. Since then, he has inspired thousands worldwide as a well-known author of The Ocean of Now, a pioneer teacher of the Sedona Method of emotional well-being, a global coach of conscious living, and a transformational performer. David has a rare insight into the human condition, the body, and awakened awareness. His calming presence and laser clarity deftly guide you to unravel limitations in mind, body, and spirit. Transformation, self-realization, and embodied awakening are the result. www.davidellzey.com Copies are available for purchase in Joseph’s Corner Gift Shop.

Upcoming Programs at The Well Spirituality Center in LaGrange


http://www.leaveninstitute.com

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Recently a man came to me, asking for help. He carried some deep wounds, not physical wounds, but emotional wounds to his soul. What surprised me initially was that, while he was deeply wounded, he had not been severely traumatized either in childhood or adulthood. He seemed to have just had to absorb the normal bumps and bruises that everyone has to absorb: some belittling, some bullying, never being the favorite, dissatisfaction with his own body, unfairness within his family and siblings, career frustration, unfairness in his workplace, the sense of being chronically ignored, the sense of never being understood and appreciated, and the self-pity and lack of self-confidence that results from this. But he was a sensitive man and the combination of all these seemingly little things left him, now in late mid-life, unable to be the gracious, happy Elder he wanted to be. Instead, by his own admission, he was chronically caught-up in a certain wounded self-absorption, namely, in a self-centered anxiety that brought with it the sense that life had not been fair to him. Consequently he was forever somewhat focused on self-protection and was resentful of those who could step forward openly in self-confidence and love. “I hate it,” he shared, “when I see persons like Mother Teresa and Pope John Paul speak so with such easy self-confidence about how big their hearts are. I always fill with resentment and think: ‘Lucky you!’ You haven’t had to put up with what I’ve had to put up with in life!” This man had been through some professional therapy that had helped bring him to a deeper self-understanding, but still left him paralyzed in terms of moving beyond his wounds. “What can I do with these wounds?” he asked. My answer to him, as for all of us who are wounded, is: Take those wounds to the Eucharist. Every time you go to a Eucharist, stand by an altar, and receive communion, bring your helplessness and paralysis to God, ask him to touch your body, your heart, your memory, your bitterness, your lack of self-confidence, your self-absorption, your weaknesses, your impotence. Bring your aching body and heart to God. Express your helplessness in simple, humble words: Touch me. Take my wounds. Take my paranoia. Make me whole. Give me forgiveness. Warm my heart. Give me the strength that I cannot give myself. Pray this prayer, not just when you are receiving communion and being physically touched by the body of Christ, but especially during the Eucharistic

prayer because it is there that we are not just being touched and healed by a person, Jesus, but we are also being touched and healed by a sacred event. This is the part of the Eucharist we generally do not understand, but it is the part of the Eucharist that celebrates transformation and healing from wound and sin. In the Eucharist prayer we commemorate the “sacrifice” of Jesus, that is, that event where, as Christian tradition so enigmatically puts it, Jesus was made sin for us. There is a lot in that cryptic phrase. In essence, in his suffering and death, Jesus took on our wounds, our weaknesses, our infidelities, and our sins, died in them, and then through love and trust brought them to wholeness. Every time we go to Eucharist we are meant to let that transforming event touch us, touch our wounds, our weaknesses, our infidelities, our sin, and our emotional paralysis and bring us to a transformation in wholeness, energy, joy, and love. The Eucharist is the ultimate healer. There is, I believe, a lot of value in various kinds of physical and emotional therapies, just there is immeasurable value in 12-Step programs and in simply honestly sharing our wounded selves with people we trust. There is too, I believe, value in a certain willful self-effort, in the challenge contained in Jesus’ admonition to a paralyzed man: Take up your couch and walk! We should not allow ourselves to be paralyzed by hyper-sensitivity and self-pity. God has given us skin to cover our rawest nerves. But, with that being admitted, we still cannot heal ourselves. Therapy, self-understanding, loving friends, and disciplined self-effort can take us only so far, and it is not into full healing. Full healing comes from touching and being touched by the sacred. More particularly, as Christians, we believe that this touching involves a touching of the sacred at that place where it has most particularly touched our own wounds, helplessness, weaknesses, and sin, that place, where God “was made sin for us”. That place is the event of the death and rising of Jesus and that event is made available to us, to touch and enter into, in the Eucharistic prayer and in receiving the body of Christ in communion. We need to bring our wounds to the Eucharist because it is there that the sacred love and energy that lie at the ground of all that breathes can cauterize and heal all that is not whole within us. Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser


Taking our Wounds to the Eucharist

Parish News


St. John of the Cross Parish congratulates the following families who had their babies baptized by Deacon John Schopp on January 15. Pictured from the left are: Millie Ann with parents Benjamin and Ann Mohns, Madeleine Geneva with parents John and Sarah Horwath, Nicholas Felipe with parents Joseph and Victoria Badrov, and Ruby Jane with parents Patrick and Krista Murphy.

Women's Club Annual Dine & Demo Night

Tuesday, January 24 from 7-9pm in the Parish Center

DeeDee Saracco of

returns to help you host an Italian Dinner Party! Wine Pairings will be presented by

RSVP Today! $15 per ticket. Space is Limited. No Walk-ins.

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The Week Ahead Monday, January 23 9:30am Spiritual Journeying 10:30am Step 11 Christian Meditation 1:00pm Little Rock Gospel of Matthew Study 2:30pm Adoration 7:00pm Boy Scouts Tuesday, January 24 9:05am Tuesdays with Mary Rosary 3:30pm School Play Rehearsal 7:00pm Women's Club Cooking Night 7:00pm RCIA 7:30pm Christian Meditation Wednesday, January 25 9:15am Wednesday Morning Bible Study 2:30pm Christian Meditation 3:45pm Cherub Choir Practice 7:00pm Chgo Catholic Scripture School 7:30pm Traditional Choir Practice Thursday, January 26 9:00am Women's Club Flourish Meeting 2:00pm Divine Dance Book Study 3:45pm Youth Choir Practice 6:00pm School Play Rehearsal 7:00pm Crossroads Coordinator Meetings 7:30pm Contemporary Ensemble Rehearsal Friday, January 27 Saturday, January 28 7:00am Christian Meditation 8:00am Cub Scouts Pinewood Derby 9:00am Marriage Retreat 6:00pm Trivia Night Sunday, January 29 YC Classes 1:30pm Baptism Prep Sessions 2:00pm School Play Rehearsal

Moms’ Club Invite: Don't forget! All ladies of the parish are invited to join us on Thursday, February 9 at 7:30pm in the Parish Center for a relaxing evening of yoga with Marie Gerken. Mark your calendar and find kid coverage so that you can treat yourself to some zen time. Bring a friend! It’s a great way to meet other moms in the parish.

Mass & Reconciliation Schedule & Intentions Italics: Living Intention

Monday, January 23 St. Vincent; St. Marianne Cope;

Day of Prayer for the Legal Protection of Unborn Children

7:45am Margaret Albertson; Robert Iovino Tuesday, January 24 St. Francis de Sales

7:45am Don Spiering; Albert Dalto Wednesday, January 25 Conversion of St. Paul the Apostle

7:45am Frank Nemecek; Bob Rooney Thursday, January 26 Sts. Timothy and Titus

7:45am Miroslav Chybik; Our Beloved Dead Friday, January 27 St. Angela Merici

7:45am Bill Lawyer; William Matthews Saturday, January 28 St. Thomas Aquinas

8:00am Anthony Jacyno; Connie Fijal ~ Reconciliation Follows Mass ~

5:00pm Lorraine & Robert Brandt; Geroge Marquardt Sunday, January 29 Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

7:30am Miroslav Chybik; Robert Iovino 9:00am Adalina Munaretto; Bernard Bock 10:45am Ruth Rychetsky; Greg Morgan 12:15pm John Cunningham; James Akers 5:00pm Joseph Munch; James Cox

Rev. David P. Dowdle, Pastor [email protected] Rev. William J. Vollmer, Assoc. Pastor [email protected] Deacon John Schopp, Deacon [email protected] Bill Bright, Director of Outreach [email protected] Janet Caschetta, Director of YC [email protected] Kathleen Gorman, Principal [email protected]

Katie Hayes, Dir of Crossroads [email protected] Jessica Koch, Director of Music [email protected] MJ Martin, Director of Operations [email protected] Katie Nicholson, Crossroads Coordinator [email protected] Steven Weigand, Pastoral Associate [email protected]

Pray for Our Loved Ones Serving Our Country Sgt. Steven Foody, son of Sandra Foody Sergeant Sebastian Grabacki, son of David & Jan Grabacki Sr A Joshua Tischler USAF Pararescue, grandson of Betty & Frank Madler & Mary Tischler A Navy Seal, a relative of our parishioner Lance Corporal Daniel Pett, nephew of Kathryn Stimetz Capt. James Maicke, grandson of Phil & Mike Maicke Sgt. Robert Marburger, son of David and Kathleen Marburger Staff Sgt. Larry Waszak, grandson of Bruno and Barbara Gacek Petty Officer 3rd Class Mathew Strafaci, grandson of Sandra & Jim Strafaci Lance Corporal David Strafaci, grandson of Sandra & Jim Strafaci Sgt. Michael Grabarek, relative of the LeFevour and Schillaci families

PFC Michael Frazee, grandson of Kay and John Johnson

Pray for Our Sick Robert Arbuckle Judy Burke Glori Ann Byrd Christina Carinato Paul Cervony Nancy Cottone Tim Crain Alexander DeLosReyes Fr. David Dowdle Mildred Fitzgerald Colleen Franke Lynn Freking Bedelia Fries Kathy Gros Randall Hemauer Kathy Holden Karen Hult Bob Karpiak Lucine Kassis Curtis Kerzich George Kojima Carrie Kowalski Athie Lanahan Erin Lively Warren McGee Bobbie Misiora Jennifer Ochino Patrick O’Donnell Frank & Marge Pipal Mary Ann Piwowar Sharon Portillo Helen Ragus Gail Schmidt Leona Shell Deloris Simonek Ray Simonek Brooks Tonn Don Vollmer Monica Westell Eric Wilson

Pray for Our Beloved Dead Walter Delaney, husband of Diane, father of Kelly Coyne and Erin Wasson Thomas Cusack, husband of Noel, brother of Jim Robert Mohr, uncle of Rita Forster


A Blessing Prayer for Those Who Are Sick All praise and glory is yours, Lord our God, for you have called us to serve you in love. Bless N., so that he/she may bear this illness in union with your Son's obedient suffering. Restore him/her to health, and lead him/her to glory. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen. A Blessing Prayer for An Elderly Person Who is Sick All praise and glory is yours, Lord our God, for you have called us to serve you in love. Bless all who have grown old in your service, and give N. strength and courage to continue to follow Jesus your Son. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen

seasons of hope

Seasons of Hope is a grief support ministry grounded in the healing wisdom, tradition, and practice of the Catholic faith. It is for anyone mourning the loss of a loved one or struggling with the grieving process. With the support of our faith community, Seasons of Hope sessions will help you explore your unique journey of grief and find healing and spiritual growth through scripture, prayer, reflection activities and faith sharing. The 6 week winter session will begin on Monday, February 6 at 7pm in our Parish Center. Register on our parish website or by calling our Pastoral Associate, Steve Weigand, at the Parish Center.

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Denise Pozen Photography“Your Parish Photographer”

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Office 354-5575After Hours Emergency – 354-2281

Kitchens • Bathrooms • AdditionsDan MaddenParishioner 246.8898708

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Practice Limited to Root CanalTherapy and Dental Implants

• Evening and Saturday Hours• Most dental insurances accepted• Parishioner discount

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John F. O’Connell III, D.D.S.

Restorative and Implant

General Dentistry

930 N. York Rd., Suite 120

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(630) 455-1666

KIRSCHBAUM’S BAKERYQuality and VarietyFull Service Bakery

825 Burlington Ave.Western Springs 708-246.2894

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CONBOY’S-WESTCHESTERFUNERAL HOME

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