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    So You Want To Be AHypnotist?

    By Rick & Jan Stratton

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    Copyright 1996, 2012 by Rick and Jan Stratton

    All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced inany form without the express written consent of the authors.

    Queries regarding rights and permissions should be addressedto: [email protected].

    For additional information, products and booking information please visit www.RickTheHypnotist.com

    mailto:[email protected]:[email protected]
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    Dedicated to my loving wife Jan who worked on this

    book even when she wasnt in the mood.

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    Table of Contents

    SECTION 1 .............................................................................. 1

    How To Hypnotize Others ................................................... 1

    So You Want To Learn To Be A Hypnotist? ........................... 2

    What is Hypnosis? ................................................................... 4

    Notes On The Conscious And Subconscious........................... 5

    The Conscious Mind ............................................................ 5

    The Subconscious Mind ....................................................... 5

    Dos, Donts, Warnings and Problems. ................................... 7

    Abreactions .............................................................................. 9

    Best Responses to Abreactions: ........................................... 9 Sample Script for Abreactions ........................................... 10

    Pre-Induction Interview ......................................................... 12

    Thoughts On Pre-Induction Interviews .............................. 15

    The Hypnotists Style ............................................................ 16

    Authoritarian vs. Permissive Approach ............................. 16

    Mannerisms ........................................................................ 17

    Voice .................................................................................. 17

    Ambiance ........................................................................... 18

    Hypnotic Susceptibility Tests ................................................ 19

    Examples of Susceptibility Tests ....................................... 19

    The Bucket and the Balloon ............................................... 20

    Chevreuls Pendulum ......................................................... 22

    Postural Sway Test ............................................................. 23

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    Eye Catalepsy Test ............................................................. 24

    Hand Clasp Test ................................................................. 25

    Arm Rigidity Test .............................................................. 27

    Thoughts On The Susceptibility Test................................. 27

    Induction Techniques............................................................. 28

    Progressive Relaxation Technique ..................................... 28

    Eye Fixation Technique ..................................................... 30

    Deepening Techniques ........................................................... 32

    Direct suggestion................................................................ 32

    Counting ............................................................................. 32

    Compounding ..................................................................... 32

    Truisms............................................................................... 33

    Mirroring ............................................................................ 33 Verbal feedback ................................................................. 33

    Dream induction ................................................................. 33

    Placebo ............................................................................... 34

    Breathing ............................................................................ 34

    Precautionary Suggestions ..................................................... 35

    What To Look For During The Hypnotic Induction. ......... 36

    Signs of Hypnosis .................................................................. 37

    Measuring The Depth Of The Hypnotic Trance. ................... 38

    Hypnotic Susceptibility Scoring System............................ 38

    Writing Suggestions............................................................... 39

    Keep Suggestions Positive ................................................. 39

    Repeat Suggestions ............................................................ 40

    Create A Time Frame ......................................................... 40

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    Keep Suggestions Simple ................................................... 40

    Suggestions Need To Be Able To Be Interpreted Literally 40

    Tie Post-Hypnotic Suggestions Into A Cue Word ............. 41

    Neutralize Unwanted Suggestions ......................................... 42

    Awakening Suggestions ......................................................... 42

    Failure to Awaken .................................................................. 44

    Post-Hypnotic Interview ........................................................ 45

    Thoughts On Section 1........................................................... 46

    SECTION 2 ............................................................................ 47

    Self-Hypnosis and Self-Help ................................................. 48

    Precautions ......................................................................... 48

    How To Induce The Self-Hypnotic State............................... 50

    The Subconscious Mind Revisited......................................... 51 Ideomotor Response............................................................... 53

    Chevreuls Pendulum ......................................................... 53

    Chevreuls Pendulum Circle .............................................. 55

    Finger Movement Method .................................................. 56

    Partial Age Regression ........................................................... 57

    Sensitizing Events .................................................................. 58

    The Self-Help System ............................................................ 59

    Self-Help Techniques............................................................. 66

    Anchoring .............................................................................. 66

    Removing Negative Anchors ................................................. 68

    Positive Visualizations ........................................................... 69

    The Special Place ............................................................... 70

    The Two Mirrors ................................................................ 70

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    The All-Knowing Being..................................................... 71

    The Healing White Light ................................................... 72

    Future Memories ................................................................ 73

    Visualize Success ............................................................... 73

    Thoughts On Positive Visualizations ................................. 74

    Thoughts On Section 2 .......................................................... 74

    SECTION 3 ........................................................................... 75

    How To Do Anything With Self-Hypnosis ........................... 76

    Reality, Its Not Really What You Might Think It Is. ........... 78

    Empowering And Disempowering Emotional States. ........... 81

    A Guide To Creating An Action Plan.................................... 83

    Identify The Challenge Or Problem To be Addressed ....... 83

    Create Goals ....................................................................... 83 Evaluate The Goal .............................................................. 84

    Construct Action Steps....................................................... 85

    Putting It All Together With Self-Hypnosis .......................... 87

    Emotionally Empowering Action Plan .................................. 88

    Thoughts On Section 3 .......................................................... 90

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    1

    SECTION 1

    How To Hypnotize Others

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    So You Want To Learn To Be AHypnotist?

    This book is designed to teach the tools used by the

    experienced hypnotist. However, becoming a practicing

    hypnotist will require quite a bit more work on the readers

    part. It should be noted that hypnosis is a complicated and in-

    depth field of study that requires hands on training beyond the

    scope of this publication. It is not the authors intent for the

    reader to simply read these techniques and try them out on

    their friends and family. Rather, it is to inform the reader of

    common hypnotic methodology for the purpose of preparingthe serious hypnosis student for further study. With the

    theoretical knowledge gained in these pages the hypnosis

    student should then be prepared to join forces with a qualified

    hypnosis instructor for hands on training. Using hypnosis

    lightly or as a party trick is strongly discouraged. Thesubconscious mind and the human psyche should never be

    thought of as play things. The authors assume no liability for

    the use or misuse of the techniques contained herein. This

    book is designed as a theoretical base for further study only.

    Throughout these pages the reader will see the phrase the

    experienced hypnotist; this is designed as a subtle reminder

    to the beginner hypnosis student that further training is

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    required before attempting any of the techniques included

    here.

    With this in mind it should be stated that once the proper training is achieved hypnosis and self-hypnosis can be

    amazing tools for self-discovery and personal growth. Using

    these techniques it will become possible to identify self-

    limiting belief systems and reprogram your own subconscious

    to achieve greater heights of happiness, self-esteem, financialsuccess, confidence, relationship growth and anything else you

    may desire in your personal life. The only real limits are that

    of your own imagination. Good luck on your journey!

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    What is Hypnosis?

    Weve all heard the word hypnosis, but many people

    have the preconceived idea that it is a strange and mysterious

    form of mind control used only by mystics and faith healers

    possessing supernatural powers. The reality of hypnosis is

    quite a bit more mundane; All hypnosis is, are you ready?, is

    this:

    Enhanced Concentration Through Relaxation

    In fact, weve all been hypnotized literally thousands

    of times before, whether we knew it or not. Youve never

    noticed because it is such a natural state of mind. If you got

    any sleep in the last 24 hours, youve been hypnotized at least

    twice; its that wonderful, lazy state of half sleep that you

    experience just before you fall asleep or just after you wake

    up. Whenever you daydream, get lost in a good book or

    movie, or do something automatically, youre in a hypnotic

    trance. When you allow your body to relax, the critical mind

    tends to relax, the subconscious comes forward, and poof,youre in the dreamy trance state.

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    Dos , Donts, Warnings andProblems.

    Now that youve got an ide a of what the hypnotic state

    is and how the sub-conscious works, there are a few guidelines

    that experienced hypnotists use to enhance the hypnotic

    session.

    Do Not:

    Treat hypnosis as a joke. Give any suggestion that would cause unhappiness or

    pain. Give any suggestion contrary to a persons relig ious or

    moral codes.

    NEVER remove pain or treat medical problems. Pain

    is the bodys way of letting us know that a medical

    problem needs addressing. This is discussed in more

    detail later in the book.

    Perform hypnosis on a person of the opposite sex

    without a third person present.

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    Do:

    Treat subjects with respect and dignity.

    Give subjects suggestions of comfort, happiness andwell-being.

    Terminate any session if the subject is in any physical

    or emotional discomfort.

    Continue their hypnosis education with further

    seminars and readings.

    Remember

    It sounds obvious, but anything that can hurt us in our

    normal waking state, physically or emotionally, can hurt us in

    the trance state. Hypnosis will not protect us from emotional

    or physical injury.

    Before we get into the actual workings of hypnosis its

    important to address the possibility of negative reactions to

    hypnosis, called abreactions.

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    Abreactions

    Abreactions are caused by the intentional or accidental

    uncovering of a past traumatic event in the subjects life . They

    are characterized by screaming, crying, hysterics, intense

    emotions, twitches or rhythmic movements. The best way

    hypnotists deal with abreactions is to avoid them by keeping

    all hypnotic suggestions positive, healing and uplifting. Never

    go searching for spider webs in someones subconscious

    without further training.

    Best Responses to Abreactions:

    Stay calm. Do not change the tone of voice. Stay confident. Ask the subject what they are experiencing.

    Use sample script to return them to their normalwaking state and suggest they will remember only

    those things that will enhance the quality of their lives

    and will remember nothing that will cause unhappiness

    in their waking or dream life.

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    Sample Script for Abreactions

    What are you experiencing right now? (Traumatic

    events can be anything, from physical abuse, to car accidents,

    to fear of birds. Even if it seems silly to you, it is very serious

    to the subject, so treat it that way). Just for the moment, put

    those emotions aside and float above this scene or situation,

    looking down at yourself and those emotions as if you were

    watching them on TV and they were happening to someone

    else Visualize the television drifting off into the distance

    Now surround this TV with a clear bubble, and see it float upinto the air, becoming smaller and smaller And as it

    becomes smaller you feel yourself becoming filled with

    warmth and happiness confidence and joy Nothing can

    bother you, nothing will bother you As the bubbl e

    disappears, all your negative feelings vanish with it For thetime being youll accept only those emotions which calm and

    soothe Now in a moment you will return to a normal

    waking state Youll remember only those things that will

    enhance the quality of your life and remember nothing that

    will cause you unhappiness in your waking or dream life. In a

    moment Im going to count from one to ten and youll

    return to your normal waking state fee ling relaxed,

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    refreshed, rejuvenated, sensing only joy and self-confidence.

    One allow the energy to flow up t hrough your feet and

    ankles two allow that energy to flow up your legs

    youre feeling wonderful now and three into your hips

    four through your abdomen and chest good a sense of

    happiness and joy come s over you and five the energy flows

    up to your neck six and over your scalp and head

    Excellent feeling confident and strong seven it seeps

    down your arms and to your hands and eight your eyes

    begin to slowly open good nine you are slowly returnin g

    to your normal waking state and ten wide awake, feeling

    great wide awake, feeling great.

    At this point the hypnotist would give the subject a few

    minutes to come around and get his bearings and then ask him

    how he feels. Be aware that the hypnotic mood can exist for

    up to 20 minutes and the subject may remain suggestible.

    Now, to get to the actual art of hypnosis

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    Pre-Induction Interview

    The purpose of the pre-induction interview is to focus

    the attention of the subject, instill trust and confidence towards

    the hypnotist, build expectation, and dispel misconceptions

    about the hypnotic state.

    At the beginning of the hypnotic session, most

    subjects minds will be cluttered with thoughts of their day to

    day lives such as problems at work or school, the car ride to

    the session, their kids activities, etc. By initiating a

    conversation about hypnosis, these distracting thoughts tend to

    be put aside, thus enhancing the chances of a successful

    hypnotic induction.

    The hypnotist should explain to the subject that the

    most common reason people fail to become hypnotized is fear

    of the unknown. At this point it is important to discuss the

    fact and fiction of hypnosis, dispel common misconceptions,

    and ask the subject about any preconceived notions he might

    have about hypnosis. On the next pages are some common

    misconceptions.

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    Misconception:

    The subject might get stuck in the hypnotic trance.

    Fact:

    Hypnosis is a natural state; we are in and out of the

    hypnotic trance every day, all day long. If the subject becomes

    hypnotized and no further suggestions were given, there are

    only two possible things that could happen. First, the subjectcould come out of the trance spontaneously. Second, he could

    fall asleep and wake up naturally as he would any other time.

    Misconception:

    The subject could lose control and the hypnotist will

    have the power to make him do things he wouldnt ordinarily

    do.

    Fact:

    A hypnotized person cannot be made to do anything

    against his personal, moral or religious beliefs.

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    Misconception:

    Some people cannot be hypnotized.

    Fact:

    As stated earlier, hypnosis is a totally normal state

    which we are in and out of every day. Anyone can be

    hypnotized; however, the depth of the trance may vary from

    day to day. Some of the reasons a subject may fail to achievesignificant trance depth are: fear of the unknown, lack of trust

    in the hypnotist, drug or alcohol use, or being preoccupied

    with day to day events. Basically, anything that inhibits the

    ability to concentrate will affect the hypnotic trance.

    Misconception:

    Some people can be hypnotized against their will.

    Fact:

    All hypnosis is self-hypnosis. The hypnotist is only a

    guide to the trance state, and simply describes to the subject

    how to achieve the hypnotic trance. If the subject refuses to

    participate, the hypnotist will have no effect on the subject.

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    Misconception:

    Weak willed or unintelligent people make the best

    subjects.

    Fact:

    The contrary is true. It is common to find the more

    intelligent a person, the better subject he will make. Strong

    will and good concentration make for better results. Creative,

    imaginative, and artistic people tend to be the best subjects.

    The key seems to be the existence of a vivid imagination and

    the ability to focus ones thoughts.

    Thoughts On Pre-Induction InterviewsOnce the hypnotist has discussed common

    misconceptions and answered any questions the subject may

    have, he should be ready to proceed to the hypnotic

    susceptibility tests. But before we jump to these tests, a look at

    the different kinds of styles and voice tones that can be used in

    hypnosis should be discussed.

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    The Hypnotists Style

    The hypnotists main tools are his words, voice, and

    his mannerisms. Here are some techniques to help induce the

    hypnotic state.

    Authoritarian vs. Permissive ApproachSuggestions can be given in two different ways,

    authoritarian and permissive.

    The authoritarian approach is characterized by a

    strong, loud, commanding voice, speaking with authority. At

    all times the hypnotist communicates that he is in full control.

    The authoritarian hypnotist also makes considerable use of the

    challenge suggestions or tests, in which the s ubject is told

    emphatically that he can or cannot do something, and then

    challenged to break that suggestion.

    The permissive approach is characterized by using a

    soft voice and persuasive tones. It should not be thought that

    the permissive hypnotist is in any less control. The hypnotists

    voice can be soft and low keyed, but carry a great deal of

    authority.

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    Mannerisms

    Confidence is a must. The hypnotist must be cool and

    collected. In order for a subject to believe he will be

    hypnotized, the hypnotist must believe in his abilities to

    hypnotize. If he looks nervous, tentative or unsure, the

    subjects critical mind will tend to kick in and this is not

    conducive to achieving the trance state.

    VoiceEveryone has probably had the experience of listening

    to a good hypnotic voice. If you ve ever listened to a public

    speaker who bored, or lulled you into a state in which it was

    impossible to concentrate, and your mind couldnt help but

    drift off into a daydream, you know the voice Im talking

    about. Little did you know the speaker was putting you into

    the hypnotic trance. Here are a few of the characteristics of a

    good hypnotic voice:

    Monotone Rhythmic cadence to the voice Stretching out important words (i.e. sleeeep,

    relaaaax etc.)

    Silent pauses

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    Ambiance

    Comfort of the subject is essential. Temperature should

    not be extreme, outside noises should be kept to a minimum,

    the phone should be off, a do not disturb sign on the door

    may be helpful. Aromas such as incense have been known to

    be hypnotizing. Subdued lighting can also be very helpful.

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    Hypnotic Susceptibility Tests

    The purpose of hypnotic susceptibility tests is

    threefold. First it teaches the subject to become hypnotized,

    second it shows the hypnotist who the best subjects are and

    third, it conditions the subject to believe that hypnosis will

    occur. These tests can be done in the normal waking state.

    Examples of Susceptibility Tests

    Listed below are actual scripts of hypnotic

    susceptibility tests. It is not the intention that they be

    memorized; they are used more for getting a feel of the

    suggestions. Before the susceptibility tests are performed, the

    subject can be prepared with a personalized version of the

    following script:

    Make yourself comfortable place your feet flat on

    the floor uncl asp your hands and place them loosely on your

    lap close your eyes and take a deep breath through your

    nose to capacity hold it for a moment and slowly exhale

    throug h your mouth as you do, fee l yourself becoming moreand more relaxed another deep breath through the nose..

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    Hold it for a moment and exhale as you do, become

    centered on the sound of my voice

    The Bucket and the Balloon

    The bucket and balloon test is often used as the first

    hypnotic susceptibility test due to its high success rate. In this

    test you will have the subject close his eyes and imagine a

    heavy bucket and a very light balloon. When his eyes are later

    opened the subject s arms generally will have moved.

    At this point I would like you to close your

    eyes and extend your arms out parallel to the floor palms

    down Good In your minds eye, Id like you to visualize

    in your right hand a large, red balloon with a string leading

    down In your minds eye, clasp your hand around the

    string Make this as real as possible in your imagination

    see the balloon see the string see your hand grasping the

    string Good You notice the balloon is very light

    pulling your arm up above your head Feel the lightness of

    the balloon feel your arm going up into the air

    Excellent Now in your left hand imagine a bucket clasp

    your hand and hold onto the bucket feel the weight of the

    bucket Make this as real as possible You now notice that

    the bucket is very heavy pulling your left arm down Feel

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    the weight of the bucket pulling your arm d own Feel your

    muscles straining to hold up this very heavy bucket Good

    In a moment the balloon is going to become filled with

    helium, becoming larger and larger pulling your arm up

    higher and higher into the air It would lift you up off the

    ground except that in a moment, fifty pounds of sand is going

    to be poured into the bucket in your left hand Allow that to

    happen now See the sand pouring into the bucket feel the

    weight of the bucket increasing and increasing pulling your

    arm down farther and farther Good Now Id like you to

    open your eyes and look at the position of your hands.

    (At this point the subjects hands are almost

    always no longer parallel to the ground. This can be pointed

    out to the subject and explained that this is a sign of being in a

    light hypnotic trance).

    In a moment Im going to count to three and

    snap my fingers. When I do you will allow your arms to dropto your sides and you will return to your normal waking state,

    with your arms feeling normal in every way.

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    Chev reuls Pendulum

    Anything that dangles can be used as a pendulum, such

    as a washer or ring on the end of a string or chain. In this test

    the subject will move the pendulum simply by thinking about

    it. It will seem as if the pendulum is being moved by the

    power of the subjects thoughts alone.

    Sit comfortably and hold the string between your

    thumb and index finger Allow the pendulum to dangle now without moving anything else, move your eyes steadily

    back and forth along a horizontal line back and forth

    Imagine the pendulum swinging back and forth See the

    pendulum swinging back and forthswinging a little at

    first then more and more until the pendulum is swinging

    wider and wider back and forth

    (Once the back and forth movement is noted, changing

    to a vertical line can be suggested.)

    Now without moving anything else, allow your eyes

    to move up and down on the vertical lineImagine the

    pendulum swinging up and down up and down In your

    minds eye see the pendulum swinging up and down

    (Once this motion is seen, switching the motion

    to clockwise around a circle, and then counter-clockwise, can

    be suggested).

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    Postural Sway Test

    For this test, the subject stands with his hands at his

    side, heels together, and head tilted slightly backwards with

    his eyes closed. The suggestion is given of a magnetic force

    pulling him backwards. The hypnotist then stands behind the

    subject in order to catch him if he falls backwards.

    In a moment Im going to have you imagine yourself

    swaying back and forth Keep yo ur head tilted backwardsand your hands at your side Keep your body stiff and do not

    allow it to bend I will be behind you to catch if you should

    fall Simply trust me to catch you Imagine yourself

    starting to sway slightly forward and backward perhaps a

    little at first then more and more until you feel yourself

    starting to sway slightly forward and backward Imagine

    now behind you a large feather bed Feel a magnetic force

    pulling you backward The magnetic force becomes a little

    stronger and stronger stilluntil you fall backwards into

    the fluffy bedlet yourself go now fall back into the

    feather bed. (At this point, the subject should be caught as he

    falls back into the hypnotists arms). As I count to three you

    will return to your normal waking state feeling normal in

    every way. One, two, threewide awake feeling great.

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    the energy flowing in through your feetTwo becoming

    more and more awake and three wide awake feeling great.

    Eyes wide open now.

    Hand Clasp Test

    Similar to the eye catalepsy test , it is suggested the subjects

    hands are stuck together.

    In a moment Im going to have you imagine that your

    hands are stuck together Clasp your hands together now

    interlock your fingers Fix your stare at the back of your

    hands do not take your eyes off the back of your hands

    Imagine in your minds eye a small gelatin capsule in the

    palms of your hands, filled with a very strong glue that is

    capable of bonding your hands together in such a manner that

    you find it is totally impossible to pull your hands apart

    Concentrate on the small gelatin capsule and squeeze your

    hands together Harder harder still and Pop

    imagine youve broken the gelatin capsule and the glue oozes

    into your hands binding your hands together sticking

    your hands together so that you can no longer pull your

    hands apart In a moment Im going to ask you to try to pull

    your hand s apart and you will find it totally impossible The

    harder you try to pull your hands apart the less likely you will

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    Arm Rigidity Test

    In this test it will be suggested to the subject that he

    will be unable to bend his arm.

    Extend your right arm, make a fist and stare at the

    back of your hand Id like you to imagine now that your

    arm is stiff and rigid so stiff and rigid that you cannot bend

    your arm no matter how hard you tryimagine a steel rod

    going from the palm of your hand through your elbow and toyour shoulder a heavy stiff and rigid pole so strong that you

    cannot bend it no matter how hard you tryin a moment you

    will try to bend your arm and find it impossible go ahead

    and try to bend your arm and f ind it totally impossible the

    harder you try the less likely you are to bend it. (At this point

    the subject will not be able to bend his arm). Now release that

    thought and your arm bends normally and naturally as it

    always did.

    Thoughts On The Susceptibility TestsAfter performing one or two of these tests successfully, the

    subject is usually convinced that hypnosis is real and is ready

    to move on to the actual hypnotic induction.

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    Induction TechniquesThere are many formal induction techniques that can

    be learned and practiced. Below are a few of the most

    common ones.

    Progressive Relaxation Technique

    Sit or lie down, make yourself as comfortable as possible. Close your eyes take a deep breath through the

    nose hold it for a moment and slowly exhale As you

    do, feel yourself becoming relaxed Another deep breath

    through the nose hold it for a moment and exhale As

    you exhale, become aware of yourself and the sound of myvoice Bring your attention to the toes of your right and left

    feet imagine your toes relaxed lo ose, limp and lazy,

    hanging off the end of your feet like a wet dish towel Allow

    that feeling of relaxation to flow from your toes into the

    bottom of your feet your heels and the tops of your feet

    so that everything from your ankles down is completely

    relaxed completely at ease Allow that same fee ling of

    relaxation to flow from your feet up into your calves every

    muscle, tissue and fiber completely relaxed completely at

    ease Allow that fe eling of relaxation to flow into your

    knees, and into your thigh s a warm, safe, secure feeling ,

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    that feeling of relaxation now flows up into y our hips and to

    the base of your spine Scan you r body from the hips down

    for any tension Simply exhale and allow any tension to turn

    into droopy, drow sy relaxation Allow that feeling of

    relaxation to flow up your spine into your shoulders and

    around into your chest Internal and external organs relaxing

    feeling good safe secure happy relaxation Allow

    that feeling of relaxation to flow down your arms and into

    your elbows then flow into the forearms hands and

    fingers Take another d eep breath and exhale As you

    exhale completely relaxed from the neck down More

    relaxed than youve ever been before in your life Each

    breath sends you deeper and deeper into lazy relaxation Allow that droopy feeling of relaxation to flow up your neck

    over the top of your head. And into your face eyes

    relaxing slight parting between your teeth Take another

    deep breath and as you exhale your entire body becomes

    twice as relaxed as it was before.

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    Eye Fixation Technique

    At the beginning of this technique the subject would

    hold his hands together as if in prayer, and then when he is

    completely relaxed his hands should come unclasped and fall

    to his side.

    In a moment Im going to ask you to look at the end

    of my finger.

    (At this point the hypnotist would hold a finger up

    above the subjects fore head so that his gaze is forced upward

    above eye height.)

    Id like you to stare at my index finger as I move it

    back and forth Imagine your eyelids getting heavier and

    heavier harder and harder to remain open Imagine your

    eyelids beginning to blinkAs I count from five to zero, you

    will notice your eyes will close and become more and more

    relaxed Sleepy, droopy, drowsy deeper and deeper into

    relaxation Nothing can bother you nothing will bother

    you Deeper into relaxation, and as you go deeper into

    relaxation, your eyelids become heavy and close.

    (This is repeated until the subjects eyes close).

    Deeper and deeper into relaxation limp loose and

    relax ed and as you relax, your head rolls forward until your

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    chin touches your chest head rolls forward until your chin

    touches your chest droopy, drowsy, sleepy every muscle,

    tissue and fiber completely rel axed your head rolls forward

    until your chin touches your chest.

    (This is repeated until the subjects head rolls forward ).

    Allow yourself to go deeper down into

    relaxationLoose, limp, relaxedAs you go deeper into

    relaxation, your hands get heavy and fall loosely to your

    sidesEvery muscle, tissue and fiber of your body becomes

    more and more relaxed And as you become more and more

    relaxed your hands become heavy and fall loosely to your

    sides.

    (And this is repeated until the subjects hands fall

    loosely to his side).

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    Deepening Techniques

    The hypnotic trance, once established, will not

    necessarily remain. It is common for a subject to experience

    different levels of depth within a single hypnotic session. For

    this reason a certain amount of trance maintenance is

    usually required. Below are some techniques for deepening the

    hypnotic trance. Often several techniques are combined to

    produce the most favorable results.

    Direct suggestion

    The subject is simply told to go deeper into relaxation.

    You will now drift deeper and deeper into relaxation.

    Counting

    Counting is used to give the conscious mind time to

    adjust; i.e.: As I count from three to zero, you will find

    yourself more relaxed than you have ever been before., or

    When I count to thre e and snap my fingers you will

    immediately go into a deep state of relaxation.

    Compounding

    Compounding is the use of one suggestion to enhanceanother. Usually the first suggestion has already been accepted

    and the second one is yet to be, i.e.: Take a d eep breath and

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    exhale, and as you exhale feel yourself going into a deep state

    of relaxation. Or Drop your arms and sleep. It is common

    to use the words and, as, and while, to combine these

    suggestions.

    Truisms

    The subjects attention is brought to things that already

    exist, such as (if it is noticed that his eyes are starting to

    blink): Your eyes are starting to blink.

    Mirroring

    The hypnotist matches the subjects speech patterns,

    body language, voice quality, gestures, blinking, and breathing

    rate.

    Verbal feedback

    Repeating the subj ects responses to questions orsuggestions immediately after it has been given tends todeepen the trance state.

    Dream induction

    The use of fantasies to increase hypnotic depth, i.e.:

    Picture in front of you a giant feather bed This bed

    represents total relaxation... When I count to three and snap

    my fingers youll fall into the bed of feathers and as you do

    you will sink deeper into relaxation than youve ever been

    before.

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    Placebo

    The use of an imaginary pill or drink has been shown

    to deepen the trance.

    Breathing

    Suggesting to the subject take a few deep breaths in

    through the nose and slowly out through the mouth has been

    shown to deepen the trance.

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    Precautionary Suggestions

    Hypnotic inductions should be followed by

    precautionary suggestions. These suggestions help prevent the

    loss of rapport between the hypnotist and the subject (rapport

    is the working relationship between the hypnotist and his

    subject). These will help the subject cooperate more fully with

    the hypnotist and his suggestions, and will facilitate a more

    successful hypnosis session.

    As you go deeper into relaxation, you find your

    mental processes intensifying and becoming more acute

    You find that you can easily and completely concentrate on

    every suggestion I give You find that you can easily and

    immediately accomplish every suggestion I giveNo matter

    how relaxed you become you will always be able to hear and

    understand my voice...and at any time I can cause you to

    return to your normal waking state immediately and

    completely simply be saying so And at any time that I cause

    you to return to your normal waking state, you will return to

    your normal waking state immediately and completely

    feeling refreshed, invigorated, happy, and secure.

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    What To Look For During The Hypnotic Induction.While the subject is being taken through the hypnotic

    induction, the hypnotist should be looking for signs that the

    subject is indeed achieving the hypnotic trance. Listed on the

    next page are some signs of hypnosis and tools for measuring

    the depth of the trance.

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    Signs of Hypnosis

    1. Fixity of gaze. (Trance stare)

    2. Decreased blinking

    3. Dilated pupils

    4. Flushed cheeks

    5. Hyper suggestibility

    6. Lack of spontaneity

    7. Lack of sense of humor

    8. Spontaneous amnesia

    9. Distorted sense of time

    10. Literalness (taking things very literally)11. Regression

    12. Increased lacrimation (tearing)

    13. Anesthesia

    14. Dreams, fantasies, or illusions

    15. Disinclination to move, speak or act (lethargy)16. Feelings of profound relaxation

    17. Catalepsy (inability to move body parts)

    18. Deep breathing

    19. Rapport

    Many, or only a few, of these symptoms may be noticed.

    Variations are common.

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    Writing Suggestions

    The wording of hypnotic suggestions is critical. Some

    suggestions work well, while others may not. Below are listed

    some guidelines for writing effective suggestions.

    Keep Suggestions Positive

    Negative wordings have the opposite effect. This is

    called the law of reverse effect. If the subconscious focuses

    on what you do nt want to happen, it can be fairly certain that

    is what will happen. For example, right now focus your

    attention on not thinking about zebras. It would be almost

    impossible for a zebra to not appear in your mind.

    Poor: You will not be tense.

    Good: You will find yourself feeling very relaxed.

    Poor: I am not hungry.

    Good: I feel full.

    Poor: You will no longer wish to smoke.

    Good: You desire only fresh air.

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    Repeat Suggestions

    The more times the subject hears a suggestion, themore intuitive it becomes. Think of how many times you have

    heard advertising jingles before they get stuck in your mind.There are two ways to repeat suggestions:

    1. Exact repetition. You will feel rela xed, you will feelrelaxed, you will feel relaxed.

    2. Paraphrase. You s till feel relaxed, at ease, serene andrestful.

    Create A Time Frame

    It is important to let the subconscious know when totake the action. When I touch your forehead you will go intoa deep state of relaxation. The next time you see your bossyou will become confident and self- assured. When I c ountto three you will awaken.

    Keep Suggestions Simple

    The subconscious tends to focus on one thought at atime. Break major goals down into increments and make allsuggestions short and to the point.

    Suggestions Need To Be Able To Be Interpreted Literally

    If the subject is told that the next time she was in atense situation at her office she would feel as cool as acucumber, she may possibly feel physically cold and every bit

    as tense as before.

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    Tie Post-Hypnotic Suggestions Into A Cue Word Or Event

    A post-hypnotic suggestion is a hypnotic suggestion,usually tied to some sort of event such as when I snap my

    fingers which will take effect after the subject is ar ousedfrom the hypnotic trance. A post-hypnotic suggestion to anovereater coul d be The next time youre sitting at the tableready to eat, you will say the word full to yourself and youwill find it very easy to eat only that which your body needs tosurvive and be healthy.

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    Neutralize Unwanted Suggestions

    It is important to remove all unwanted hypnotic

    suggestions before the end of the session. For example, if the

    suggestion is given that the subjects arm is stiff and rigid

    during the arm rigidity test, even if the subject has bent his

    arm and seems to be moving it normally, the suggestion thatthe subjects arm is back to normal in every way a nd is no

    longer stiff and rigid should be given.

    Awakening Suggestions

    It is important for the subject to be aroused from the

    hypnotic trance gently and with the suggestion of well-being,

    meanwhile removing any unwanted suggestions. It is also

    important that the suggestion be given that the subject willsleep well that night, because sometimes 20 minutes of

    hypnosis can be equivalent to 8 hours of sleep and this can

    lead to insomnia. Below is a sample awakening script.

    In a moment you will return to your normal waking

    state. You will awaken feeling refreshed, invigorated and full

    of energy. You will get a good nights sleep tonight and

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    awaken in the morning feeling refreshed. No suggestion I

    have given you will have any further effect on you. As I count

    from zero to five, you will slowly awaken. Zero feel the

    energy flowing into your feetOnefeel that energy flowing

    up the feet and into the legs and calves and

    thighsGoodWide awake and feeling great from the legs

    downTwofeel that energy flow into the hips and up

    through the spine becoming more and more

    alertThreeshoulders, arms and hands beginning to

    awakenFouryour entire body becoming more and more

    awakeyour eyes begin to open nowFivewide awake,

    feeling greatwide awake feeling greatwide awake, feeling

    great.

    At this point the subject should be given ten to twenty

    minutes to arouse completely and it should be noted that for

    the next ten to twenty minutes the subject may still be

    suggestible.

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    Failure to Awaken

    It is extremely rare, but occasionally a subject will not

    want to come out of the trance. To some people the trance

    state is so pleasant that they will choose to remain in the

    trance even when given direct suggestions to awaken. Most

    likely this will never occur, but if it does, the subject should

    first be checked to see if he has fallen asleep. Second, the

    subject should be asked why he is choosing to remain in the

    hypnotic trance; it may be possible to respond to the subjects

    answer in a way that allows the subject to awaken by direct

    suggestion. If that fails, gently shaking the subject, lifting hiseyelids, and gently blowing in his nose while giving the direct

    suggestion to wake up usually works. Another reason a

    subject will stay in the trance state is for attention. If this is the

    case and the above techniques have not worked, the subject

    should be told that the session is over, he should stand up, and

    although he should be monitored, there should be no verbal

    attention directed toward him; the subject will come out of the

    trance within a few moments.

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    Post-Hypnotic Interview

    After the subject has been awakened it is good to

    conduct a post-hypnotic interview. This serves two purposes:

    it gives the subject a chance to talk about his experience and it

    gives the hypnotist a chance to critique his techniques. The

    following questions may be asked:

    What do you remember from that experience?

    What was the most vivid thing from that experience?

    What insights do you feel that you gained?

    Was t here any time that you felt you were coming out

    of the trance?

    Was there anything that was particularly pleasant or

    unpleasant?

    At what point did you feel you were in the deepest

    trance?

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    Thoughts On Section 1

    At this point you should have a pretty good idea ofhow the experienced hypnotist gets his subjects into the

    hypnotic trance, writes and delivers his suggestions, removes

    unwanted suggestions and then returns the subject back to his

    normal waking state. This is only the beginning. Once

    mastered, these techniques can be used to delve into your ownmind to identify and change self-limiting thoughts and habits.

    The next section is on self-hypnosis and self-help and should

    be considered as an owners manual for the mind .

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    SECTION 2Self-Hypnosis and Self-Help

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    Self-Hypnosis and Self-Help

    Self-hypnosis can be an amazing tool to enhance the

    quality of an individuals personal life. It has been shown to

    be an effective way of changing unwanted patterns of

    behavior, reducing stress levels and eliminating fears and

    phobias. It can also be used to enhance creativity, self-esteem

    and motivation, as well as improve athletic performance.

    It should be noted, however, that hypnosis is not a

    cure-all and human responses vary widely. In order for lasting

    change to occur, the subconscious must truly want to change

    on a basic level. Depending on individual histories and

    motivations to change, one person may have overnight success

    while another may take weeks, while a third person may have

    no results at all. Remember, no two people will likely respond

    the same way to the same suggestions.

    Precautions

    Never take away pain without a doctors approval.

    Pain tells us when the body is in distress, and by removing the

    symptoms it is possible to hide the organic problem, thus

    delaying proper medical treatment. Any severe or reoccurring

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    pain or illness should be treated by a medical professional

    immediately.

    Self-hypnosis and self-help should not be used withouta doctors consent in cases of severe emotional disturbances

    such as thoughts of suicide, nervous breakdown, or extreme

    depression. If you fall into any of these categories seek

    professional help at once.

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    How To Induce The Self-HypnoticState

    Any hypnotic induction technique that has already been discussed will work on yourself. Sit or lie down and

    make yourself comfortable. Make sure the phone is turned off

    and that other disturbances will be at a minimum. Starting

    with your toes perform the progressive relaxation technique

    mentioned earlier, until you feel your entire body totally

    relaxed. Remember, all hypnosis is, is enhanced concentration

    through relaxation.

    For some people it is preferable to learn self-hypnosis

    with the use of audio devices. In this case, dictate yourinduction, suggestions, and awakening suggestions into a

    recording device. It is also helpful to make the suggestion to

    yourself that you will find it easy to perform self-hypnotic

    inductions without the use of an audio recording after you

    have achieved success using one.

    Studies have been performed to determine which is

    more ef fective, using the term I or you when performing

    and making self-hypnotic suggestions. Experiment with both

    and use whichever term youre more comfortable with, asthese studies have not proven either to be clearly beneficial

    above the other.

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    The Subconscious Mind Revisited

    For the purposes of this chapter, it is important thatyou realize the cause and effect relationship between

    subconscious programming and unwanted patterns of

    behavior.

    It should be understood that the subconscious is thenon-critical, emotional and reactive mind. When the

    subconscious believes something it becomes your reality. The

    subconscious, in many ways, is like a computer; once a

    program has been entered it remains until removed or

    changed. This makes it possible for us to carry out many ofour day to day activities, such as looking both ways before

    crossing the street, with no conscious thought.

    Now heres the problem: not all the assumptions that

    your subconscious have made are in your own best interest,and many were given to you without your permission or

    knowledge. The person you are today, your hopes, your

    dreams, your aspirations, your fears, your phobias, are all the

    sum total of all the assumptions that your subconscious has

    accepted until this very instant in time. It is possible, in factvery likely, that at some point in your past the subconscious

    made an assumption that is either in error, outgrown its

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    usefulness or is counter-productive to your general wellbeing.

    Most, if not all of us, at some time or other have responded

    emotionally to a situation or circumstance inappropriately only

    to later wonder why we acted in such a way. To some people

    happiness may mean guilt, love may mean jealousy,

    friendships may mean a fear of inadequacy or the all too

    common, abuse means I love you. Just as the subconscious

    computer has positively programmed you to react to a street

    corner by looking both ways with no conscious effort it can

    negatively program your emotions to react to a given situation

    with fear, anxiety, hostility or any other self-destructive

    emotional habits. The subconscious mind can program you for

    emotional responses as well as physical responses. Using self-hypnosis and self-help techniques it is possible to identify and

    change these self-limiting, subconscious belief systems.

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    Ideomotor Response

    Ideomotor responses are a tool for communicating

    directly with the subconscious for the purpose of identifying

    and changing self-limiting beliefs. We will discuss two

    techniques, Chevreuls Pendulum and The Finger Movement

    Method. With practice you will find the one that works bestfor you.

    Chevreuls Pendulum A pendulum can be any small, light object tied to the

    end of a string or chain about eight inches long. To use the

    pendulum you should hold the end of the string between the

    thumb and forefinger, while resting your elbow on a table or

    desk thus allowing the object to dangle freely. There are four

    basic movements that the pendulum can swing: clockwise,

    counterclockwise, right and left, forward and backward.

    Dangle the pendulum at the intersection of the vertical and

    horizontal lines in Figure 1. Voluntarily move it in each of the

    four directions. Then hold it motionless and ask silently to

    yourself which direction means yes, and make no conscious

    effort to move the pendulum. Usually the pendulum will startto move within a few seconds, however for some people it

    may take a bit longer. Again hold the pendulum over the

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    intersection and silently ask yourself which direction means

    no. Once your subconscious has made this decision, repeat

    the process once again for I dont know and I dont want to

    say. Write down on Figure 1 which directions correspond

    with yes, no, I dont know and I dont want to say. If

    the directions overlap, that is to say, yes and no are both

    the same direction, keep trying until all responses have their

    own directions.

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    Finger Movement Method

    In this method you will use finger movements to communicatewith the subconscious mind.

    Sit comfortably with either hand on your lap or table.

    Take a few deep breaths and imagine yourself relaxing. Once

    you feel that you are relaxed and in a focused state of mind

    concentrate on your fingers and imagine that your index fingeris about to make a small movement of any kind. Shortly you

    should notice some sort of motion in your index finger. It is

    important that you not try to move your finger or resist

    movement; simply imagine your finger moving, and with most

    people, within a few minutes you should notice some

    movement. With practice this movement can become very

    pronounced and seem as if it occurs without any conscious

    effort. Repeat this process with all the other fingers on your

    hand. Now, ask your subconscious which finger movement

    represents yes. Within a few moments you should notice

    one of your fingers beginning to make a movement. Repeat

    this procedure while asking your subconscious which finger

    movement represents no, I dont know, and I dont want

    to say. Using this system it is now possible to communicatedirectly to the subconscious mind.

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    Partial Age RegressionIt may be necessary in your self-help program to use a

    partial age regression to identify self-limiting subconscious

    beliefs. This should be done in a light hypnotic trance so that

    you can obtain insights into a past event.

    Sit or lie down comfortably and put yourself into a

    light hypnotic trance. Your first attempt should be to go back

    in time to a recent, unimportant event, such as what you had

    for dinner last night. Give yourself the suggestion I am now

    going back in time to dinner last night. Repeat this

    suggestion, and try to visualize the actual event, just as if you

    were actually there again. Smell the food, see the table and

    room and whoever was there with you, hear the sounds that

    were in the room. The goal is to go past simple memory and

    relive the event. Youll find that with practice you can bring

    out details that could not be recalled with simple memory.

    On your subsequent attempts go back further in time to

    childhood events such as Christmas or birthday parties, or

    other pleasant events. With practice you will develop the skill

    of going back to earlier events.

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    The Self-Help System

    Using the techniques of ideomotor response and partial

    age regression it is possible to systematically identify and

    change a negative pattern of behavior. Below is a five step

    method for bringing about change and enhancing the quality

    of your life.

    Step 1

    Think of a self-limiting pattern of behavior that by

    changing would enhance the quality of your life . Using the

    ideomotor response method you are most comfortable withask your subconscious if it is OK for you to explore this

    problem and remember the cause of this behavior. Your

    subconscious is very protective of your mental health. It is

    quite possible that your subconscious chose for your conscious

    mind to forget events too painful to remember. If your

    ideomotor response indicates that you are not ready to

    consciously remember this information, it is best to refrain

    from using this self-help system for this particular problem. If

    you feel that the problem is severe enough to warrant further

    attention, seek professional assistance.

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    Step 2

    Using an ideomotor response, determine the initial

    sensitizing event. This is done by asking the subconscious aseries of yes or no questions. Remember that if the

    subconscious should respond with I dont want to say, you

    should respect that, and not question any further. Keep in

    mind that the subconscious is very literal, so keep your

    questions very specific. Often an answer will seem obviouslyfalse to your conscious mind; however, keep the line of

    questioning going, as in the end the insights gained may prove

    the response to be true.

    Step 3

    Perform a partial age regression to remember the

    subconscious assumptions that were made during this initial

    sensitizing event which could be the cause of the present day

    problems.

    Step 4

    Using an ideomotor response, determine if the

    assumptions made during the initial sensitizing event helped

    or hindered the quality of your present day life.

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    Step 5

    Using an ideomotor response ask the subconscious if it

    is ready to change the pattern of behavior or belief system, and

    if it is ready to change, ask it if it will now make the change.

    Then use direct suggestions, positive visualizations and

    anchoring (discussed later) to reinforce the behavior change. If

    it is not ready to change it may be necessary to discover more

    subsequent sensitizing events in order to convince thesubconscious that change is called for.

    Below is a sample of an ideomotor question and

    response session of a man trying to quit smoking. This style of

    questioning can be used to determine the initial sensitizing

    event of any behavioral problem; smoking was randomly

    chosen for this book.

    Q: Is it OK for me to know why I choose to smoke

    cigarettes?

    A: Yes

    Q: Did I make this choice before I was twenty years

    old?

    A: Yes.

    Q: Did I make this choice before I was fifteen?

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    Q: Was it to impress my father?

    A: Yes.

    Q: Did I make this choice to smoke cigarettes in order

    to impress my father?

    A: Yes.

    At this point the subject became comfortable and put

    himself into a light hypnotic trance. He then performed a

    partial age regression to recall the first time that he impressed

    his father with cigarettes (the initial sensitizing event). He

    subsequently recalled an incident when he was ten years old.

    His father, who was a gruff and demanding man, not given to praise of his children, would send the subject (as a child), to

    the store to pick up cigarettes for him. Upon the childs return,

    he always received praise and a pat on the back. This became

    a routine which the subject felt particularly good about,

    because he was the only one sent to the store. His father neverasked his brothers or sisters to run this errand for him. This

    made the subject feel loved, needed, and he also felt a unique

    connection with his father that his siblings did not share.

    The subject then switched to the Finger Movement

    Method because it is easier to use while in a hypnotic trance,

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    and while lying down he questioned his subconscious as

    follows:

    Q: Is smoking my subconscious way to feel loved?

    A: Yes.

    Q: Do I really need to smoke to feel loved now?

    A: No.

    Q: Did the assumption that cigarettes make me feel

    loved serve me well as I grew older?

    A: Yes.

    Q: Is cigarette smoking necessary for me to feel loved

    now?

    A: No.

    Q: Am I willing to change my mind on a subconscious

    level and quit smoking?

    A: No.

    Q: Do I realize that smoking is a health hazard?

    A: Yes.

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    Q: Do I realize that smoking may shorten my life and

    my time with my family?

    A: Yes.

    Q: Do I believe that the benefits of smoking are worth

    the risks?

    A: No.

    Q: Are there any other reasons why I smoke?

    A: Yes.

    The subject continued questioning his subconscious

    with ideomotor responses and performing partial age

    regressions to recall the subsequent sensitizing events. He

    discovered that smoking was also a way to nurture himself. He

    was eventually able to strike a deal with his subconscious.

    He decided that he would find other ways of nurturing himself

    and convinced his subconscious that the health risks were notworth the benefits. After several weeks of direct suggestion

    and positive visualizations, he was able to quit smoking.

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    Self-Help TechniquesThere are a variety of self-help techniques to choose

    from. These techniques can be used along with partial ageregressions to make substantial life changes. With trial anderror you will find what works best for you.

    Anchoring

    Anchoring is a technique in which you will train your brain to associate desired emotions with physical events.Remember how Pavlovs dogs associated hunger with thesound of the bell? You are going to do the same thing with anyemotional state you would like to have in any situation. Hereshow it works

    1. Select a feeling or emotion you would like toexperience in a given situation. (for example: feelingenergized while making sales calls on the phone).

    2. Take a few moments to remember a time when youhad this feeling. If you have never had this feelingimagine what it would be like.

    3. Relax, close your eyes and vividly remember thisfeeling as intensely as possible. Enhance theexperience by making the images sharper and closer,make the colors brighter and make the sounds clearer.

    4. When the feeling is at its most intense create anassociation to a physical cue by mentally projecting

    these feeling into the cue. The cue can be anythingsuch as a fist pump, pulling your ear lobe, the act ofholding the phone or perhaps a phrase uttered to

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    oneself such as outstanding! Relax and repeat thesesteps often and with as much emotion as possible.Occasionally change the memory to another examplewhen you have had the desired emotion. The key is toreally feel the emotions and quickly project thesefeelings into the physical cue. With practice there willcome a point when the emotional response will

    become automatically anchored to the cue and theseemotions can be summoned simply by using the cue.

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    Removing Negative AnchorsWe all have negative anchors. Perhaps you feel

    rejection at the sight of an ex-lover or a sense of loss at the

    sight of a family members gravestone. Whatever your personal negative anchors are you need not live with them ifthey do not empower your current life and goals. The way toremove these anchors is to replace them with an empowering

    positive emotion that will support your goals.

    1. Identify the negative emotion and situation you wouldlike to change.

    2. Vividly recall the emotion you would prefer to have.3. Mentally rehearse feeling the new emotion in the old

    situation.4. Repeat as often as needed until you have no problem

    imagining yourself feeling the desired emotion in the problem circumstance

    5. Do this in the real world. You may need to repeat themental rehearsal many times until the desired emotions

    become habitual.

    Once again the key is to really feel the emotion and quickly

    project this feeling into the physical cue. Try to feel the newemotion in the cue. With practice this new emotion will become an automatic response to the presence of the cue.

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    Positive VisualizationsWith positive visualization techniques the subject uses

    imagery to soothe, nurture, and heal the subconscious while building positive expectations of future events. Studies have

    shown that in some cases imagination is superior to actual

    practice. In one study with two groups of basketball players,

    the first group was told to actually practice free-throws for

    twenty minutes a day, while the second group used positive

    visualization to imagine themselves successfully sinking each

    free-throw. The skill levels were later compared and it was

    found that the group using the positive visualizations

    consistently made higher percentages of free-throws. These

    techniques are now routinely used by professional and

    Olympic training programs. On the following pages are some

    positive visualization scripts and ideas.

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    The Special Place

    After putting yourself in a hypnotic state, imagine

    yourself in a comfortable place; this could be a comfortable

    room that you feel good being in, a secluded tropical island

    where you are sitting on a beach looking out over the ocean, or

    perhaps a scene in nature with mountains and trees. The goal

    here is to create a mental retreat that you can go to at times for

    a mini vacation. When creating our special place its important

    to go for detail. Make this place as comfortable, safe and

    secure as possible, a place where you are shielded from the

    outside world and in total control. Let your imagination go

    wild and put in as many amenities as you would like; if you

    want servants, have servants, if you want a massage, have amasseuse standing by at all times, if you enjoy walks on the

    beach why not build yourself a beach house overlooking the

    ocean. Use your special place to relax, rest and meditate, and

    to perform some of the visualization techniques later

    described. If youre having a tough day take a 20 minute breakand go to your special place; many people find this quite

    revitalizing.

    The Two Mirrors

    Think of a fear, phobia or pattern of behavior that you

    would like to remove from your personality. Then after

    putting yourself into a hypnotic trance, go to your special

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    place. Imagine two full-length mirrors in front of you. One

    mirror represents that negative attribute you would like to

    change. The other represents you free from this pattern of

    behavior. Look into the negative mirror first. See what you

    dont like about yourself, see the unhappiness. At your feet is

    a large hammer; pick up the hammer and smash this mirror.

    As soon as you do the mirror disappears and with it imagine

    the pattern of behavior disappearing. Now look into the mirror

    that represents the positive aspects of yourself free from the

    negative pattern of behavior. See yourself as the person you

    wish to be, see the confidence with yourself and your

    relationships with others, see the joy, see the love. Now step

    into that mirror and become that person. As you do, feel the joy, feel the confidence, feel the love, feel all your future

    aspirations attai ned. Say to yourself I am now that person.

    The All-Knowing Being

    After putting yourself into a hypnotic trance, picture

    yourself standing in a large field, feel the warm sun shining

    down on your face. Smell the air, see the blue sky. Before you,

    see a small cabin. Inside this cabin is a loving, caring, all-

    knowing being. This being can answer all questions about

    yourself and your life, and you know that the answers he gives

    are true and appropriate and in your best interest. Open the

    door and walk into the cabin. Before you, you will see this

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    being. Sense the caring, sense the love, sense the wisdom.

    Now take a few moments and ask the all-knowing being one

    or two questions about your life. Listen carefully to the

    answers; thank the all-knowing being, step outside and return

    to your normal waking state.

    The Healing White Light

    After putting yourself into a hypnotic trance, picture

    yourself floating in the darkness, warm, safe and secure.Imagine in the distance a pinpoint of light. This light is

    soothing, healing, relaxing, loving and energizing. Imagine the

    light coming toward you, and as you do, feel the warmth, feel

    the healing, feel the light soothing you. Allow that white light

    to come in through your forehead, and with each breath feel

    the light fill and permeate your body. Allow this to continue

    until the white light has completely filled your body to

    overflowing. Once you totally feel your body refreshed,

    revitalized, happy, soothed, and energetic, slowly allow

    yourself to return to your normal waking state while retaining

    all these positive feelings and emotions.

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    Future Memories

    With this technique you visualize your goals logical

    result in the future, then remember how you got there. For

    example, suppose your goal was financial success. After

    putting yourself into a hypnotic trance you visualize yourself

    as a successful retiree. Perhaps place yourself on your private

    yacht that you bought years ago, or see yourself in your

    mansion. At this point remember back to the present where

    you are now and remember those changes in your behavior

    that led to your success. Go for the details. See the work

    that you put into your goal, imagine how you felt as success

    happened, remember how people reacted to your success.

    Visualize Success

    This technique is very simple; simply visualize

    successful results of your goal. Say for example you have a

    fear of public speaking, but you must make a presentation to

    your co-workers. After putting yourself into a hypnotic trance,

    mentally rehearse your presentation as positively as possible.

    Imagine yourself calm, cool and collected, delivering a speech

    with confidence. Once again go for the details see co -

    workers responding positively, feel yourself actually enjoying

    giving the presentation, imagine what you will wear, what the

    room will look like, imagine yourself answering questions

    easily. Do this several times before the actual event.

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    Thoughts On Positive VisualizationsThese are just a few positive visualizations. Using your

    imagination you can make up your own or expand and vary

    the techniques listed. Experiment and find out what works best

    for you. I think youll find the results are worth the time

    invested.

    Thoughts On Section 2Self-hypnosis is a powerful tool. Using these

    techniques you can now identify self-limiting beliefs and

    habits and then change these beliefs and habits to support your

    goals, ambitions and dreams. Once mastered you will possess

    the skills to design the life you have always wanted. You will,

    however, need a plan. In the next section we will learn how to

    create an emotional and physical action plan that will enable

    you to do anything!

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    SECTION 3How To Do Anything!

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    How To Do Anything With Self-Hypnosis

    I know what youre thinking. How to do anythingwith self- hypnosis is a pretty big claim. Well, let me clarify a

    bit. First, when I say anything I mean anything that is

    possible. Hypnosis will not change the laws of physics.

    Whatever personal goals you may want to achieve must be

    physically possible. Second, you have to be capable of

    achieving these goals. Hypnosis will not turn you into

    superman (or superwoman) but it can help you achieve your

    true potential. Suppose you wanted, for example, to become

    the best weight lifter that you could possibly be. To reach your

    absolute potential you would have to work on this goal 24

    hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year with perfect

    coaching expertise for your entire life. If you were to miss a

    day, or your coach was to make a single mistake, you could

    not reach your absolute potential. It is unlikely this absolute

    potential could ever occur. However, suppose you were a

    weight lifter and you wanted to achieve the goal of being able

    to lift one more pound within the next 6 months. This may be

    a very achievable goal. I believe that no one ever reaches their

    absolute potential but almost everyone has it in them to get better at whatever they wish. The question then becomes what

    is a realistic goal and how do I gain the necessary expertise

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    and mental focus to achieve this goal as quickly as possible.

    This is where self-hypnosis, proper planning and goal setting

    can really be effective. Proper planning and goal setting will

    show you the shortest distance between you and your desired

    outcome. Self-hypnosis can create the mental focus and

    empowering emotional states necessary to accomplish your

    goals. With an effective action plan and proper mental focus

    the sky is the limit to attaining your dreams. I personally

    believe that life is too short to go with the flow and hope

    happiness, enjoyment and personal fulfillment simply appear.

    Rather, I believe the best course of action is to decide what it

    is we want out of life and design that life. Lets face it, when

    our days are over we are going to be gone a long time so whynot squeeze every drop of personal fulfillment, happiness and

    success out of our lives as quickly and efficiently as possible

    while we still can? Why not live a life by design?

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    Reality, Its Not Really What YouMight Think It Is.

    A sunset is a sunset right? Not really. When you watcha sunset what you are really seeing is a giant explosion in

    space that sends off different particles and energy in all

    directions. Some of the light particles hit the surface of our

    atmosphere, turn red and continue traveling until they hit the

    back of our eyes. At this point the light is converted to

    electricity which then travels down our optic nerves to the

    vision portion of our brains which in turn sets off chemicals

    that we interpret as a sunset. When we watch a sunset what we

    are in fact seeing is a firestorm of chemicals in our brains. We

    dont actually see the sunset, what we see is our internal

    interpretation of the chemicals in our brains. We then

    associate this chemical firestorm with a given emotion. If you

    happen to be with a loved one you very well may interpret the

    sunset as beautiful or inspiring. If on the other hand you

    work nights at a job you hate you may interpret the sunset as

    depressing because it signals to you that its time to begin a

    night of hard labor. The point I am trying to make is that the

    sunset has no real meaning except what we give it. Remember

    Pavlovs dogs? Pavlov would ring a bell and then feed thedogs. He continued ringing the bell and feeding the dogs for a

    period of time until he began to notice that the dogs began to

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    salivate at the sound of the bell. The sound of the bell, like the

    sunset, had no intrinsic meaning other than what we and the

    dogs give it. Salivating to the sound of a bell became a

    conditioned response for the dogs. I can almost hear you

    saying to your self Interesting, but so what? Here is the point

    Im trying to make; throughout our lives we all have been

    conditioned to respond to certain stimuli in different ways. For

    instance, as a teenager when you first learned to drive you

    were taught to stop at red lights. First you learned to identify

    the red light. Then your right foot had to find the brake and

    your left foot had to locate the clutch; as you applied the

    clutch and brake your right hand simultaneously began

    downshifting. This is a very complicated process when youthink of it consciously. Eventually your subconscious accepted

    this series of complicated actions as a normal part of driving.

    Now your body automatically performs this sequence of

    actions with no conscious thought. In fact you could be

    thinking consciously about anything else and your body wouldstill perform these tasks. Our emotions act in much the same

    way. In the case of stopping at a red light, this is appropriate

    and a good thing for your safety. However, as stated earlier,

    many of these conditioned responses are not in your best

    interest and most of these responses were given to you without

    your knowledge or permission. Many of us have automatic

    emotional responses to stimuli that are disempowering and

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    self-destructive. It is common for a person in an abusive

    relationship to associate physical and emotional pain with a

    sense of being loved. It is possible that the financially

    disadvantaged person can associate wealth with the negative

    emotion of greed. He then could subconsciously sabotage his

    own success in order to avoid the loss of self-esteem

    associated with being a greedy person. Who could blame an

    adult who was repeatedly told as a child he was worthless,

    stupid and ugly for not wanting to make new friends?

    Lets get back to the sunset and Pavlovs dogs, shall

    we? If you accept that most of our emotional states are

    conditioned responses given to us by a multitude of outside

    forces such as parents, television, cultural norms, friends and

    family etc... Then the question becomes: are these conditioned

    responses helpful or hurtful to our emotional wellbeing, our

    goals, our relationships with others and anything else that is

    important to us? Also, if these responses are

    counterproductive, how do we eliminate them? And how do

    we create beneficial and empowering emotional states that

    support our goals and aspirations? First, lets take a look at

    these emotional states.

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    Empowering And DisempoweringEmotional States.

    Lets define an empowering emotional state as theoptimal state of physical and emotional well-being that will

    support your personal goals to the greatest extent possible.

    Likewise, lets define a disempowering emotional state as any

    emotional state that does not support your personal goals. I

    like sports metaphors so let s use the example of a really angry

    golfer to illustrate the example of empowering and

    disempowering emotional states. If you play any golf at all

    youve seen the guy who is so upset he is literally pink in the

    face with rage and the worse he plays the worse it gets. This is

    a clear example of a disempowering emotional state. The

    anger translates into muscle tension which in turn translates

    into poor play which turns into even more anger which turns

    into a temper tantrum that creates even more muscle tension

    and the cycle begins again. Clearly this is not an empowering

    emotional state.

    On the other hand we have all seen that athlete who is

    in the zone. Cool, collected and confident, he has made the

    mind body connection. Success builds on success. In a relaxed

    state of mental focus the body is free to act in concert with the

    mind. This is an example of an empowering emotional state.

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    A Guide To Creating AnAction Plan

    To achieve any goal the first thing to do is to make astep by step plan. To get from point A to point B there is

    always a series of events that must occur. Below is a guide to

    creating an action plan.

    Identify The Challenge Or Problem To be Addressed

    The purpose of an action plan is to organize and

    develop solutions to address specific issues, challenges or

    problems. These issues could be anything from making more

    money, to getting along better with a loved one, to learning to

    play the guitar.

    Create Goals

    Once the challenge has been clearly identified the next

    step is to create a written goal. It is important to beS.M.A.R.T. with your goals. That is t