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So You Want To Be AHypnotist?
By Rick & Jan Stratton
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Copyright 1996, 2012 by Rick and Jan Stratton
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced inany form without the express written consent of the authors.
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Dedicated to my loving wife Jan who worked on this
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Table of Contents
SECTION 1 .............................................................................. 1
How To Hypnotize Others ................................................... 1
So You Want To Learn To Be A Hypnotist? ........................... 2
What is Hypnosis? ................................................................... 4
Notes On The Conscious And Subconscious........................... 5
The Conscious Mind ............................................................ 5
The Subconscious Mind ....................................................... 5
Dos, Donts, Warnings and Problems. ................................... 7
Abreactions .............................................................................. 9
Best Responses to Abreactions: ........................................... 9 Sample Script for Abreactions ........................................... 10
Pre-Induction Interview ......................................................... 12
Thoughts On Pre-Induction Interviews .............................. 15
The Hypnotists Style ............................................................ 16
Authoritarian vs. Permissive Approach ............................. 16
Mannerisms ........................................................................ 17
Voice .................................................................................. 17
Ambiance ........................................................................... 18
Hypnotic Susceptibility Tests ................................................ 19
Examples of Susceptibility Tests ....................................... 19
The Bucket and the Balloon ............................................... 20
Chevreuls Pendulum ......................................................... 22
Postural Sway Test ............................................................. 23
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Eye Catalepsy Test ............................................................. 24
Hand Clasp Test ................................................................. 25
Arm Rigidity Test .............................................................. 27
Thoughts On The Susceptibility Test................................. 27
Induction Techniques............................................................. 28
Progressive Relaxation Technique ..................................... 28
Eye Fixation Technique ..................................................... 30
Deepening Techniques ........................................................... 32
Direct suggestion................................................................ 32
Counting ............................................................................. 32
Compounding ..................................................................... 32
Truisms............................................................................... 33
Mirroring ............................................................................ 33 Verbal feedback ................................................................. 33
Dream induction ................................................................. 33
Placebo ............................................................................... 34
Breathing ............................................................................ 34
Precautionary Suggestions ..................................................... 35
What To Look For During The Hypnotic Induction. ......... 36
Signs of Hypnosis .................................................................. 37
Measuring The Depth Of The Hypnotic Trance. ................... 38
Hypnotic Susceptibility Scoring System............................ 38
Writing Suggestions............................................................... 39
Keep Suggestions Positive ................................................. 39
Repeat Suggestions ............................................................ 40
Create A Time Frame ......................................................... 40
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Keep Suggestions Simple ................................................... 40
Suggestions Need To Be Able To Be Interpreted Literally 40
Tie Post-Hypnotic Suggestions Into A Cue Word ............. 41
Neutralize Unwanted Suggestions ......................................... 42
Awakening Suggestions ......................................................... 42
Failure to Awaken .................................................................. 44
Post-Hypnotic Interview ........................................................ 45
Thoughts On Section 1........................................................... 46
SECTION 2 ............................................................................ 47
Self-Hypnosis and Self-Help ................................................. 48
Precautions ......................................................................... 48
How To Induce The Self-Hypnotic State............................... 50
The Subconscious Mind Revisited......................................... 51 Ideomotor Response............................................................... 53
Chevreuls Pendulum ......................................................... 53
Chevreuls Pendulum Circle .............................................. 55
Finger Movement Method .................................................. 56
Partial Age Regression ........................................................... 57
Sensitizing Events .................................................................. 58
The Self-Help System ............................................................ 59
Self-Help Techniques............................................................. 66
Anchoring .............................................................................. 66
Removing Negative Anchors ................................................. 68
Positive Visualizations ........................................................... 69
The Special Place ............................................................... 70
The Two Mirrors ................................................................ 70
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The All-Knowing Being..................................................... 71
The Healing White Light ................................................... 72
Future Memories ................................................................ 73
Visualize Success ............................................................... 73
Thoughts On Positive Visualizations ................................. 74
Thoughts On Section 2 .......................................................... 74
SECTION 3 ........................................................................... 75
How To Do Anything With Self-Hypnosis ........................... 76
Reality, Its Not Really What You Might Think It Is. ........... 78
Empowering And Disempowering Emotional States. ........... 81
A Guide To Creating An Action Plan.................................... 83
Identify The Challenge Or Problem To be Addressed ....... 83
Create Goals ....................................................................... 83 Evaluate The Goal .............................................................. 84
Construct Action Steps....................................................... 85
Putting It All Together With Self-Hypnosis .......................... 87
Emotionally Empowering Action Plan .................................. 88
Thoughts On Section 3 .......................................................... 90
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SECTION 1
How To Hypnotize Others
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So You Want To Learn To Be AHypnotist?
This book is designed to teach the tools used by the
experienced hypnotist. However, becoming a practicing
hypnotist will require quite a bit more work on the readers
part. It should be noted that hypnosis is a complicated and in-
depth field of study that requires hands on training beyond the
scope of this publication. It is not the authors intent for the
reader to simply read these techniques and try them out on
their friends and family. Rather, it is to inform the reader of
common hypnotic methodology for the purpose of preparingthe serious hypnosis student for further study. With the
theoretical knowledge gained in these pages the hypnosis
student should then be prepared to join forces with a qualified
hypnosis instructor for hands on training. Using hypnosis
lightly or as a party trick is strongly discouraged. Thesubconscious mind and the human psyche should never be
thought of as play things. The authors assume no liability for
the use or misuse of the techniques contained herein. This
book is designed as a theoretical base for further study only.
Throughout these pages the reader will see the phrase the
experienced hypnotist; this is designed as a subtle reminder
to the beginner hypnosis student that further training is
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required before attempting any of the techniques included
here.
With this in mind it should be stated that once the proper training is achieved hypnosis and self-hypnosis can be
amazing tools for self-discovery and personal growth. Using
these techniques it will become possible to identify self-
limiting belief systems and reprogram your own subconscious
to achieve greater heights of happiness, self-esteem, financialsuccess, confidence, relationship growth and anything else you
may desire in your personal life. The only real limits are that
of your own imagination. Good luck on your journey!
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What is Hypnosis?
Weve all heard the word hypnosis, but many people
have the preconceived idea that it is a strange and mysterious
form of mind control used only by mystics and faith healers
possessing supernatural powers. The reality of hypnosis is
quite a bit more mundane; All hypnosis is, are you ready?, is
this:
Enhanced Concentration Through Relaxation
In fact, weve all been hypnotized literally thousands
of times before, whether we knew it or not. Youve never
noticed because it is such a natural state of mind. If you got
any sleep in the last 24 hours, youve been hypnotized at least
twice; its that wonderful, lazy state of half sleep that you
experience just before you fall asleep or just after you wake
up. Whenever you daydream, get lost in a good book or
movie, or do something automatically, youre in a hypnotic
trance. When you allow your body to relax, the critical mind
tends to relax, the subconscious comes forward, and poof,youre in the dreamy trance state.
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Dos , Donts, Warnings andProblems.
Now that youve got an ide a of what the hypnotic state
is and how the sub-conscious works, there are a few guidelines
that experienced hypnotists use to enhance the hypnotic
session.
Do Not:
Treat hypnosis as a joke. Give any suggestion that would cause unhappiness or
pain. Give any suggestion contrary to a persons relig ious or
moral codes.
NEVER remove pain or treat medical problems. Pain
is the bodys way of letting us know that a medical
problem needs addressing. This is discussed in more
detail later in the book.
Perform hypnosis on a person of the opposite sex
without a third person present.
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Do:
Treat subjects with respect and dignity.
Give subjects suggestions of comfort, happiness andwell-being.
Terminate any session if the subject is in any physical
or emotional discomfort.
Continue their hypnosis education with further
seminars and readings.
Remember
It sounds obvious, but anything that can hurt us in our
normal waking state, physically or emotionally, can hurt us in
the trance state. Hypnosis will not protect us from emotional
or physical injury.
Before we get into the actual workings of hypnosis its
important to address the possibility of negative reactions to
hypnosis, called abreactions.
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Abreactions
Abreactions are caused by the intentional or accidental
uncovering of a past traumatic event in the subjects life . They
are characterized by screaming, crying, hysterics, intense
emotions, twitches or rhythmic movements. The best way
hypnotists deal with abreactions is to avoid them by keeping
all hypnotic suggestions positive, healing and uplifting. Never
go searching for spider webs in someones subconscious
without further training.
Best Responses to Abreactions:
Stay calm. Do not change the tone of voice. Stay confident. Ask the subject what they are experiencing.
Use sample script to return them to their normalwaking state and suggest they will remember only
those things that will enhance the quality of their lives
and will remember nothing that will cause unhappiness
in their waking or dream life.
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Sample Script for Abreactions
What are you experiencing right now? (Traumatic
events can be anything, from physical abuse, to car accidents,
to fear of birds. Even if it seems silly to you, it is very serious
to the subject, so treat it that way). Just for the moment, put
those emotions aside and float above this scene or situation,
looking down at yourself and those emotions as if you were
watching them on TV and they were happening to someone
else Visualize the television drifting off into the distance
Now surround this TV with a clear bubble, and see it float upinto the air, becoming smaller and smaller And as it
becomes smaller you feel yourself becoming filled with
warmth and happiness confidence and joy Nothing can
bother you, nothing will bother you As the bubbl e
disappears, all your negative feelings vanish with it For thetime being youll accept only those emotions which calm and
soothe Now in a moment you will return to a normal
waking state Youll remember only those things that will
enhance the quality of your life and remember nothing that
will cause you unhappiness in your waking or dream life. In a
moment Im going to count from one to ten and youll
return to your normal waking state fee ling relaxed,
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refreshed, rejuvenated, sensing only joy and self-confidence.
One allow the energy to flow up t hrough your feet and
ankles two allow that energy to flow up your legs
youre feeling wonderful now and three into your hips
four through your abdomen and chest good a sense of
happiness and joy come s over you and five the energy flows
up to your neck six and over your scalp and head
Excellent feeling confident and strong seven it seeps
down your arms and to your hands and eight your eyes
begin to slowly open good nine you are slowly returnin g
to your normal waking state and ten wide awake, feeling
great wide awake, feeling great.
At this point the hypnotist would give the subject a few
minutes to come around and get his bearings and then ask him
how he feels. Be aware that the hypnotic mood can exist for
up to 20 minutes and the subject may remain suggestible.
Now, to get to the actual art of hypnosis
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Pre-Induction Interview
The purpose of the pre-induction interview is to focus
the attention of the subject, instill trust and confidence towards
the hypnotist, build expectation, and dispel misconceptions
about the hypnotic state.
At the beginning of the hypnotic session, most
subjects minds will be cluttered with thoughts of their day to
day lives such as problems at work or school, the car ride to
the session, their kids activities, etc. By initiating a
conversation about hypnosis, these distracting thoughts tend to
be put aside, thus enhancing the chances of a successful
hypnotic induction.
The hypnotist should explain to the subject that the
most common reason people fail to become hypnotized is fear
of the unknown. At this point it is important to discuss the
fact and fiction of hypnosis, dispel common misconceptions,
and ask the subject about any preconceived notions he might
have about hypnosis. On the next pages are some common
misconceptions.
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Misconception:
The subject might get stuck in the hypnotic trance.
Fact:
Hypnosis is a natural state; we are in and out of the
hypnotic trance every day, all day long. If the subject becomes
hypnotized and no further suggestions were given, there are
only two possible things that could happen. First, the subjectcould come out of the trance spontaneously. Second, he could
fall asleep and wake up naturally as he would any other time.
Misconception:
The subject could lose control and the hypnotist will
have the power to make him do things he wouldnt ordinarily
do.
Fact:
A hypnotized person cannot be made to do anything
against his personal, moral or religious beliefs.
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Misconception:
Some people cannot be hypnotized.
Fact:
As stated earlier, hypnosis is a totally normal state
which we are in and out of every day. Anyone can be
hypnotized; however, the depth of the trance may vary from
day to day. Some of the reasons a subject may fail to achievesignificant trance depth are: fear of the unknown, lack of trust
in the hypnotist, drug or alcohol use, or being preoccupied
with day to day events. Basically, anything that inhibits the
ability to concentrate will affect the hypnotic trance.
Misconception:
Some people can be hypnotized against their will.
Fact:
All hypnosis is self-hypnosis. The hypnotist is only a
guide to the trance state, and simply describes to the subject
how to achieve the hypnotic trance. If the subject refuses to
participate, the hypnotist will have no effect on the subject.
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Misconception:
Weak willed or unintelligent people make the best
subjects.
Fact:
The contrary is true. It is common to find the more
intelligent a person, the better subject he will make. Strong
will and good concentration make for better results. Creative,
imaginative, and artistic people tend to be the best subjects.
The key seems to be the existence of a vivid imagination and
the ability to focus ones thoughts.
Thoughts On Pre-Induction InterviewsOnce the hypnotist has discussed common
misconceptions and answered any questions the subject may
have, he should be ready to proceed to the hypnotic
susceptibility tests. But before we jump to these tests, a look at
the different kinds of styles and voice tones that can be used in
hypnosis should be discussed.
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The Hypnotists Style
The hypnotists main tools are his words, voice, and
his mannerisms. Here are some techniques to help induce the
hypnotic state.
Authoritarian vs. Permissive ApproachSuggestions can be given in two different ways,
authoritarian and permissive.
The authoritarian approach is characterized by a
strong, loud, commanding voice, speaking with authority. At
all times the hypnotist communicates that he is in full control.
The authoritarian hypnotist also makes considerable use of the
challenge suggestions or tests, in which the s ubject is told
emphatically that he can or cannot do something, and then
challenged to break that suggestion.
The permissive approach is characterized by using a
soft voice and persuasive tones. It should not be thought that
the permissive hypnotist is in any less control. The hypnotists
voice can be soft and low keyed, but carry a great deal of
authority.
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Mannerisms
Confidence is a must. The hypnotist must be cool and
collected. In order for a subject to believe he will be
hypnotized, the hypnotist must believe in his abilities to
hypnotize. If he looks nervous, tentative or unsure, the
subjects critical mind will tend to kick in and this is not
conducive to achieving the trance state.
VoiceEveryone has probably had the experience of listening
to a good hypnotic voice. If you ve ever listened to a public
speaker who bored, or lulled you into a state in which it was
impossible to concentrate, and your mind couldnt help but
drift off into a daydream, you know the voice Im talking
about. Little did you know the speaker was putting you into
the hypnotic trance. Here are a few of the characteristics of a
good hypnotic voice:
Monotone Rhythmic cadence to the voice Stretching out important words (i.e. sleeeep,
relaaaax etc.)
Silent pauses
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Ambiance
Comfort of the subject is essential. Temperature should
not be extreme, outside noises should be kept to a minimum,
the phone should be off, a do not disturb sign on the door
may be helpful. Aromas such as incense have been known to
be hypnotizing. Subdued lighting can also be very helpful.
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Hypnotic Susceptibility Tests
The purpose of hypnotic susceptibility tests is
threefold. First it teaches the subject to become hypnotized,
second it shows the hypnotist who the best subjects are and
third, it conditions the subject to believe that hypnosis will
occur. These tests can be done in the normal waking state.
Examples of Susceptibility Tests
Listed below are actual scripts of hypnotic
susceptibility tests. It is not the intention that they be
memorized; they are used more for getting a feel of the
suggestions. Before the susceptibility tests are performed, the
subject can be prepared with a personalized version of the
following script:
Make yourself comfortable place your feet flat on
the floor uncl asp your hands and place them loosely on your
lap close your eyes and take a deep breath through your
nose to capacity hold it for a moment and slowly exhale
throug h your mouth as you do, fee l yourself becoming moreand more relaxed another deep breath through the nose..
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Hold it for a moment and exhale as you do, become
centered on the sound of my voice
The Bucket and the Balloon
The bucket and balloon test is often used as the first
hypnotic susceptibility test due to its high success rate. In this
test you will have the subject close his eyes and imagine a
heavy bucket and a very light balloon. When his eyes are later
opened the subject s arms generally will have moved.
At this point I would like you to close your
eyes and extend your arms out parallel to the floor palms
down Good In your minds eye, Id like you to visualize
in your right hand a large, red balloon with a string leading
down In your minds eye, clasp your hand around the
string Make this as real as possible in your imagination
see the balloon see the string see your hand grasping the
string Good You notice the balloon is very light
pulling your arm up above your head Feel the lightness of
the balloon feel your arm going up into the air
Excellent Now in your left hand imagine a bucket clasp
your hand and hold onto the bucket feel the weight of the
bucket Make this as real as possible You now notice that
the bucket is very heavy pulling your left arm down Feel
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the weight of the bucket pulling your arm d own Feel your
muscles straining to hold up this very heavy bucket Good
In a moment the balloon is going to become filled with
helium, becoming larger and larger pulling your arm up
higher and higher into the air It would lift you up off the
ground except that in a moment, fifty pounds of sand is going
to be poured into the bucket in your left hand Allow that to
happen now See the sand pouring into the bucket feel the
weight of the bucket increasing and increasing pulling your
arm down farther and farther Good Now Id like you to
open your eyes and look at the position of your hands.
(At this point the subjects hands are almost
always no longer parallel to the ground. This can be pointed
out to the subject and explained that this is a sign of being in a
light hypnotic trance).
In a moment Im going to count to three and
snap my fingers. When I do you will allow your arms to dropto your sides and you will return to your normal waking state,
with your arms feeling normal in every way.
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Chev reuls Pendulum
Anything that dangles can be used as a pendulum, such
as a washer or ring on the end of a string or chain. In this test
the subject will move the pendulum simply by thinking about
it. It will seem as if the pendulum is being moved by the
power of the subjects thoughts alone.
Sit comfortably and hold the string between your
thumb and index finger Allow the pendulum to dangle now without moving anything else, move your eyes steadily
back and forth along a horizontal line back and forth
Imagine the pendulum swinging back and forth See the
pendulum swinging back and forthswinging a little at
first then more and more until the pendulum is swinging
wider and wider back and forth
(Once the back and forth movement is noted, changing
to a vertical line can be suggested.)
Now without moving anything else, allow your eyes
to move up and down on the vertical lineImagine the
pendulum swinging up and down up and down In your
minds eye see the pendulum swinging up and down
(Once this motion is seen, switching the motion
to clockwise around a circle, and then counter-clockwise, can
be suggested).
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Postural Sway Test
For this test, the subject stands with his hands at his
side, heels together, and head tilted slightly backwards with
his eyes closed. The suggestion is given of a magnetic force
pulling him backwards. The hypnotist then stands behind the
subject in order to catch him if he falls backwards.
In a moment Im going to have you imagine yourself
swaying back and forth Keep yo ur head tilted backwardsand your hands at your side Keep your body stiff and do not
allow it to bend I will be behind you to catch if you should
fall Simply trust me to catch you Imagine yourself
starting to sway slightly forward and backward perhaps a
little at first then more and more until you feel yourself
starting to sway slightly forward and backward Imagine
now behind you a large feather bed Feel a magnetic force
pulling you backward The magnetic force becomes a little
stronger and stronger stilluntil you fall backwards into
the fluffy bedlet yourself go now fall back into the
feather bed. (At this point, the subject should be caught as he
falls back into the hypnotists arms). As I count to three you
will return to your normal waking state feeling normal in
every way. One, two, threewide awake feeling great.
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the energy flowing in through your feetTwo becoming
more and more awake and three wide awake feeling great.
Eyes wide open now.
Hand Clasp Test
Similar to the eye catalepsy test , it is suggested the subjects
hands are stuck together.
In a moment Im going to have you imagine that your
hands are stuck together Clasp your hands together now
interlock your fingers Fix your stare at the back of your
hands do not take your eyes off the back of your hands
Imagine in your minds eye a small gelatin capsule in the
palms of your hands, filled with a very strong glue that is
capable of bonding your hands together in such a manner that
you find it is totally impossible to pull your hands apart
Concentrate on the small gelatin capsule and squeeze your
hands together Harder harder still and Pop
imagine youve broken the gelatin capsule and the glue oozes
into your hands binding your hands together sticking
your hands together so that you can no longer pull your
hands apart In a moment Im going to ask you to try to pull
your hand s apart and you will find it totally impossible The
harder you try to pull your hands apart the less likely you will
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Arm Rigidity Test
In this test it will be suggested to the subject that he
will be unable to bend his arm.
Extend your right arm, make a fist and stare at the
back of your hand Id like you to imagine now that your
arm is stiff and rigid so stiff and rigid that you cannot bend
your arm no matter how hard you tryimagine a steel rod
going from the palm of your hand through your elbow and toyour shoulder a heavy stiff and rigid pole so strong that you
cannot bend it no matter how hard you tryin a moment you
will try to bend your arm and find it impossible go ahead
and try to bend your arm and f ind it totally impossible the
harder you try the less likely you are to bend it. (At this point
the subject will not be able to bend his arm). Now release that
thought and your arm bends normally and naturally as it
always did.
Thoughts On The Susceptibility TestsAfter performing one or two of these tests successfully, the
subject is usually convinced that hypnosis is real and is ready
to move on to the actual hypnotic induction.
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Induction TechniquesThere are many formal induction techniques that can
be learned and practiced. Below are a few of the most
common ones.
Progressive Relaxation Technique
Sit or lie down, make yourself as comfortable as possible. Close your eyes take a deep breath through the
nose hold it for a moment and slowly exhale As you
do, feel yourself becoming relaxed Another deep breath
through the nose hold it for a moment and exhale As
you exhale, become aware of yourself and the sound of myvoice Bring your attention to the toes of your right and left
feet imagine your toes relaxed lo ose, limp and lazy,
hanging off the end of your feet like a wet dish towel Allow
that feeling of relaxation to flow from your toes into the
bottom of your feet your heels and the tops of your feet
so that everything from your ankles down is completely
relaxed completely at ease Allow that same fee ling of
relaxation to flow from your feet up into your calves every
muscle, tissue and fiber completely relaxed completely at
ease Allow that fe eling of relaxation to flow into your
knees, and into your thigh s a warm, safe, secure feeling ,
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that feeling of relaxation now flows up into y our hips and to
the base of your spine Scan you r body from the hips down
for any tension Simply exhale and allow any tension to turn
into droopy, drow sy relaxation Allow that feeling of
relaxation to flow up your spine into your shoulders and
around into your chest Internal and external organs relaxing
feeling good safe secure happy relaxation Allow
that feeling of relaxation to flow down your arms and into
your elbows then flow into the forearms hands and
fingers Take another d eep breath and exhale As you
exhale completely relaxed from the neck down More
relaxed than youve ever been before in your life Each
breath sends you deeper and deeper into lazy relaxation Allow that droopy feeling of relaxation to flow up your neck
over the top of your head. And into your face eyes
relaxing slight parting between your teeth Take another
deep breath and as you exhale your entire body becomes
twice as relaxed as it was before.
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Eye Fixation Technique
At the beginning of this technique the subject would
hold his hands together as if in prayer, and then when he is
completely relaxed his hands should come unclasped and fall
to his side.
In a moment Im going to ask you to look at the end
of my finger.
(At this point the hypnotist would hold a finger up
above the subjects fore head so that his gaze is forced upward
above eye height.)
Id like you to stare at my index finger as I move it
back and forth Imagine your eyelids getting heavier and
heavier harder and harder to remain open Imagine your
eyelids beginning to blinkAs I count from five to zero, you
will notice your eyes will close and become more and more
relaxed Sleepy, droopy, drowsy deeper and deeper into
relaxation Nothing can bother you nothing will bother
you Deeper into relaxation, and as you go deeper into
relaxation, your eyelids become heavy and close.
(This is repeated until the subjects eyes close).
Deeper and deeper into relaxation limp loose and
relax ed and as you relax, your head rolls forward until your
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chin touches your chest head rolls forward until your chin
touches your chest droopy, drowsy, sleepy every muscle,
tissue and fiber completely rel axed your head rolls forward
until your chin touches your chest.
(This is repeated until the subjects head rolls forward ).
Allow yourself to go deeper down into
relaxationLoose, limp, relaxedAs you go deeper into
relaxation, your hands get heavy and fall loosely to your
sidesEvery muscle, tissue and fiber of your body becomes
more and more relaxed And as you become more and more
relaxed your hands become heavy and fall loosely to your
sides.
(And this is repeated until the subjects hands fall
loosely to his side).
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Deepening Techniques
The hypnotic trance, once established, will not
necessarily remain. It is common for a subject to experience
different levels of depth within a single hypnotic session. For
this reason a certain amount of trance maintenance is
usually required. Below are some techniques for deepening the
hypnotic trance. Often several techniques are combined to
produce the most favorable results.
Direct suggestion
The subject is simply told to go deeper into relaxation.
You will now drift deeper and deeper into relaxation.
Counting
Counting is used to give the conscious mind time to
adjust; i.e.: As I count from three to zero, you will find
yourself more relaxed than you have ever been before., or
When I count to thre e and snap my fingers you will
immediately go into a deep state of relaxation.
Compounding
Compounding is the use of one suggestion to enhanceanother. Usually the first suggestion has already been accepted
and the second one is yet to be, i.e.: Take a d eep breath and
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exhale, and as you exhale feel yourself going into a deep state
of relaxation. Or Drop your arms and sleep. It is common
to use the words and, as, and while, to combine these
suggestions.
Truisms
The subjects attention is brought to things that already
exist, such as (if it is noticed that his eyes are starting to
blink): Your eyes are starting to blink.
Mirroring
The hypnotist matches the subjects speech patterns,
body language, voice quality, gestures, blinking, and breathing
rate.
Verbal feedback
Repeating the subj ects responses to questions orsuggestions immediately after it has been given tends todeepen the trance state.
Dream induction
The use of fantasies to increase hypnotic depth, i.e.:
Picture in front of you a giant feather bed This bed
represents total relaxation... When I count to three and snap
my fingers youll fall into the bed of feathers and as you do
you will sink deeper into relaxation than youve ever been
before.
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Placebo
The use of an imaginary pill or drink has been shown
to deepen the trance.
Breathing
Suggesting to the subject take a few deep breaths in
through the nose and slowly out through the mouth has been
shown to deepen the trance.
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Precautionary Suggestions
Hypnotic inductions should be followed by
precautionary suggestions. These suggestions help prevent the
loss of rapport between the hypnotist and the subject (rapport
is the working relationship between the hypnotist and his
subject). These will help the subject cooperate more fully with
the hypnotist and his suggestions, and will facilitate a more
successful hypnosis session.
As you go deeper into relaxation, you find your
mental processes intensifying and becoming more acute
You find that you can easily and completely concentrate on
every suggestion I give You find that you can easily and
immediately accomplish every suggestion I giveNo matter
how relaxed you become you will always be able to hear and
understand my voice...and at any time I can cause you to
return to your normal waking state immediately and
completely simply be saying so And at any time that I cause
you to return to your normal waking state, you will return to
your normal waking state immediately and completely
feeling refreshed, invigorated, happy, and secure.
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What To Look For During The Hypnotic Induction.While the subject is being taken through the hypnotic
induction, the hypnotist should be looking for signs that the
subject is indeed achieving the hypnotic trance. Listed on the
next page are some signs of hypnosis and tools for measuring
the depth of the trance.
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Signs of Hypnosis
1. Fixity of gaze. (Trance stare)
2. Decreased blinking
3. Dilated pupils
4. Flushed cheeks
5. Hyper suggestibility
6. Lack of spontaneity
7. Lack of sense of humor
8. Spontaneous amnesia
9. Distorted sense of time
10. Literalness (taking things very literally)11. Regression
12. Increased lacrimation (tearing)
13. Anesthesia
14. Dreams, fantasies, or illusions
15. Disinclination to move, speak or act (lethargy)16. Feelings of profound relaxation
17. Catalepsy (inability to move body parts)
18. Deep breathing
19. Rapport
Many, or only a few, of these symptoms may be noticed.
Variations are common.
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Writing Suggestions
The wording of hypnotic suggestions is critical. Some
suggestions work well, while others may not. Below are listed
some guidelines for writing effective suggestions.
Keep Suggestions Positive
Negative wordings have the opposite effect. This is
called the law of reverse effect. If the subconscious focuses
on what you do nt want to happen, it can be fairly certain that
is what will happen. For example, right now focus your
attention on not thinking about zebras. It would be almost
impossible for a zebra to not appear in your mind.
Poor: You will not be tense.
Good: You will find yourself feeling very relaxed.
Poor: I am not hungry.
Good: I feel full.
Poor: You will no longer wish to smoke.
Good: You desire only fresh air.
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Repeat Suggestions
The more times the subject hears a suggestion, themore intuitive it becomes. Think of how many times you have
heard advertising jingles before they get stuck in your mind.There are two ways to repeat suggestions:
1. Exact repetition. You will feel rela xed, you will feelrelaxed, you will feel relaxed.
2. Paraphrase. You s till feel relaxed, at ease, serene andrestful.
Create A Time Frame
It is important to let the subconscious know when totake the action. When I touch your forehead you will go intoa deep state of relaxation. The next time you see your bossyou will become confident and self- assured. When I c ountto three you will awaken.
Keep Suggestions Simple
The subconscious tends to focus on one thought at atime. Break major goals down into increments and make allsuggestions short and to the point.
Suggestions Need To Be Able To Be Interpreted Literally
If the subject is told that the next time she was in atense situation at her office she would feel as cool as acucumber, she may possibly feel physically cold and every bit
as tense as before.
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Tie Post-Hypnotic Suggestions Into A Cue Word Or Event
A post-hypnotic suggestion is a hypnotic suggestion,usually tied to some sort of event such as when I snap my
fingers which will take effect after the subject is ar ousedfrom the hypnotic trance. A post-hypnotic suggestion to anovereater coul d be The next time youre sitting at the tableready to eat, you will say the word full to yourself and youwill find it very easy to eat only that which your body needs tosurvive and be healthy.
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Neutralize Unwanted Suggestions
It is important to remove all unwanted hypnotic
suggestions before the end of the session. For example, if the
suggestion is given that the subjects arm is stiff and rigid
during the arm rigidity test, even if the subject has bent his
arm and seems to be moving it normally, the suggestion thatthe subjects arm is back to normal in every way a nd is no
longer stiff and rigid should be given.
Awakening Suggestions
It is important for the subject to be aroused from the
hypnotic trance gently and with the suggestion of well-being,
meanwhile removing any unwanted suggestions. It is also
important that the suggestion be given that the subject willsleep well that night, because sometimes 20 minutes of
hypnosis can be equivalent to 8 hours of sleep and this can
lead to insomnia. Below is a sample awakening script.
In a moment you will return to your normal waking
state. You will awaken feeling refreshed, invigorated and full
of energy. You will get a good nights sleep tonight and
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awaken in the morning feeling refreshed. No suggestion I
have given you will have any further effect on you. As I count
from zero to five, you will slowly awaken. Zero feel the
energy flowing into your feetOnefeel that energy flowing
up the feet and into the legs and calves and
thighsGoodWide awake and feeling great from the legs
downTwofeel that energy flow into the hips and up
through the spine becoming more and more
alertThreeshoulders, arms and hands beginning to
awakenFouryour entire body becoming more and more
awakeyour eyes begin to open nowFivewide awake,
feeling greatwide awake feeling greatwide awake, feeling
great.
At this point the subject should be given ten to twenty
minutes to arouse completely and it should be noted that for
the next ten to twenty minutes the subject may still be
suggestible.
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Failure to Awaken
It is extremely rare, but occasionally a subject will not
want to come out of the trance. To some people the trance
state is so pleasant that they will choose to remain in the
trance even when given direct suggestions to awaken. Most
likely this will never occur, but if it does, the subject should
first be checked to see if he has fallen asleep. Second, the
subject should be asked why he is choosing to remain in the
hypnotic trance; it may be possible to respond to the subjects
answer in a way that allows the subject to awaken by direct
suggestion. If that fails, gently shaking the subject, lifting hiseyelids, and gently blowing in his nose while giving the direct
suggestion to wake up usually works. Another reason a
subject will stay in the trance state is for attention. If this is the
case and the above techniques have not worked, the subject
should be told that the session is over, he should stand up, and
although he should be monitored, there should be no verbal
attention directed toward him; the subject will come out of the
trance within a few moments.
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Post-Hypnotic Interview
After the subject has been awakened it is good to
conduct a post-hypnotic interview. This serves two purposes:
it gives the subject a chance to talk about his experience and it
gives the hypnotist a chance to critique his techniques. The
following questions may be asked:
What do you remember from that experience?
What was the most vivid thing from that experience?
What insights do you feel that you gained?
Was t here any time that you felt you were coming out
of the trance?
Was there anything that was particularly pleasant or
unpleasant?
At what point did you feel you were in the deepest
trance?
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Thoughts On Section 1
At this point you should have a pretty good idea ofhow the experienced hypnotist gets his subjects into the
hypnotic trance, writes and delivers his suggestions, removes
unwanted suggestions and then returns the subject back to his
normal waking state. This is only the beginning. Once
mastered, these techniques can be used to delve into your ownmind to identify and change self-limiting thoughts and habits.
The next section is on self-hypnosis and self-help and should
be considered as an owners manual for the mind .
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SECTION 2Self-Hypnosis and Self-Help
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Self-Hypnosis and Self-Help
Self-hypnosis can be an amazing tool to enhance the
quality of an individuals personal life. It has been shown to
be an effective way of changing unwanted patterns of
behavior, reducing stress levels and eliminating fears and
phobias. It can also be used to enhance creativity, self-esteem
and motivation, as well as improve athletic performance.
It should be noted, however, that hypnosis is not a
cure-all and human responses vary widely. In order for lasting
change to occur, the subconscious must truly want to change
on a basic level. Depending on individual histories and
motivations to change, one person may have overnight success
while another may take weeks, while a third person may have
no results at all. Remember, no two people will likely respond
the same way to the same suggestions.
Precautions
Never take away pain without a doctors approval.
Pain tells us when the body is in distress, and by removing the
symptoms it is possible to hide the organic problem, thus
delaying proper medical treatment. Any severe or reoccurring
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pain or illness should be treated by a medical professional
immediately.
Self-hypnosis and self-help should not be used withouta doctors consent in cases of severe emotional disturbances
such as thoughts of suicide, nervous breakdown, or extreme
depression. If you fall into any of these categories seek
professional help at once.
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How To Induce The Self-HypnoticState
Any hypnotic induction technique that has already been discussed will work on yourself. Sit or lie down and
make yourself comfortable. Make sure the phone is turned off
and that other disturbances will be at a minimum. Starting
with your toes perform the progressive relaxation technique
mentioned earlier, until you feel your entire body totally
relaxed. Remember, all hypnosis is, is enhanced concentration
through relaxation.
For some people it is preferable to learn self-hypnosis
with the use of audio devices. In this case, dictate yourinduction, suggestions, and awakening suggestions into a
recording device. It is also helpful to make the suggestion to
yourself that you will find it easy to perform self-hypnotic
inductions without the use of an audio recording after you
have achieved success using one.
Studies have been performed to determine which is
more ef fective, using the term I or you when performing
and making self-hypnotic suggestions. Experiment with both
and use whichever term youre more comfortable with, asthese studies have not proven either to be clearly beneficial
above the other.
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The Subconscious Mind Revisited
For the purposes of this chapter, it is important thatyou realize the cause and effect relationship between
subconscious programming and unwanted patterns of
behavior.
It should be understood that the subconscious is thenon-critical, emotional and reactive mind. When the
subconscious believes something it becomes your reality. The
subconscious, in many ways, is like a computer; once a
program has been entered it remains until removed or
changed. This makes it possible for us to carry out many ofour day to day activities, such as looking both ways before
crossing the street, with no conscious thought.
Now heres the problem: not all the assumptions that
your subconscious have made are in your own best interest,and many were given to you without your permission or
knowledge. The person you are today, your hopes, your
dreams, your aspirations, your fears, your phobias, are all the
sum total of all the assumptions that your subconscious has
accepted until this very instant in time. It is possible, in factvery likely, that at some point in your past the subconscious
made an assumption that is either in error, outgrown its
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usefulness or is counter-productive to your general wellbeing.
Most, if not all of us, at some time or other have responded
emotionally to a situation or circumstance inappropriately only
to later wonder why we acted in such a way. To some people
happiness may mean guilt, love may mean jealousy,
friendships may mean a fear of inadequacy or the all too
common, abuse means I love you. Just as the subconscious
computer has positively programmed you to react to a street
corner by looking both ways with no conscious effort it can
negatively program your emotions to react to a given situation
with fear, anxiety, hostility or any other self-destructive
emotional habits. The subconscious mind can program you for
emotional responses as well as physical responses. Using self-hypnosis and self-help techniques it is possible to identify and
change these self-limiting, subconscious belief systems.
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Ideomotor Response
Ideomotor responses are a tool for communicating
directly with the subconscious for the purpose of identifying
and changing self-limiting beliefs. We will discuss two
techniques, Chevreuls Pendulum and The Finger Movement
Method. With practice you will find the one that works bestfor you.
Chevreuls Pendulum A pendulum can be any small, light object tied to the
end of a string or chain about eight inches long. To use the
pendulum you should hold the end of the string between the
thumb and forefinger, while resting your elbow on a table or
desk thus allowing the object to dangle freely. There are four
basic movements that the pendulum can swing: clockwise,
counterclockwise, right and left, forward and backward.
Dangle the pendulum at the intersection of the vertical and
horizontal lines in Figure 1. Voluntarily move it in each of the
four directions. Then hold it motionless and ask silently to
yourself which direction means yes, and make no conscious
effort to move the pendulum. Usually the pendulum will startto move within a few seconds, however for some people it
may take a bit longer. Again hold the pendulum over the
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intersection and silently ask yourself which direction means
no. Once your subconscious has made this decision, repeat
the process once again for I dont know and I dont want to
say. Write down on Figure 1 which directions correspond
with yes, no, I dont know and I dont want to say. If
the directions overlap, that is to say, yes and no are both
the same direction, keep trying until all responses have their
own directions.
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Finger Movement Method
In this method you will use finger movements to communicatewith the subconscious mind.
Sit comfortably with either hand on your lap or table.
Take a few deep breaths and imagine yourself relaxing. Once
you feel that you are relaxed and in a focused state of mind
concentrate on your fingers and imagine that your index fingeris about to make a small movement of any kind. Shortly you
should notice some sort of motion in your index finger. It is
important that you not try to move your finger or resist
movement; simply imagine your finger moving, and with most
people, within a few minutes you should notice some
movement. With practice this movement can become very
pronounced and seem as if it occurs without any conscious
effort. Repeat this process with all the other fingers on your
hand. Now, ask your subconscious which finger movement
represents yes. Within a few moments you should notice
one of your fingers beginning to make a movement. Repeat
this procedure while asking your subconscious which finger
movement represents no, I dont know, and I dont want
to say. Using this system it is now possible to communicatedirectly to the subconscious mind.
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Partial Age RegressionIt may be necessary in your self-help program to use a
partial age regression to identify self-limiting subconscious
beliefs. This should be done in a light hypnotic trance so that
you can obtain insights into a past event.
Sit or lie down comfortably and put yourself into a
light hypnotic trance. Your first attempt should be to go back
in time to a recent, unimportant event, such as what you had
for dinner last night. Give yourself the suggestion I am now
going back in time to dinner last night. Repeat this
suggestion, and try to visualize the actual event, just as if you
were actually there again. Smell the food, see the table and
room and whoever was there with you, hear the sounds that
were in the room. The goal is to go past simple memory and
relive the event. Youll find that with practice you can bring
out details that could not be recalled with simple memory.
On your subsequent attempts go back further in time to
childhood events such as Christmas or birthday parties, or
other pleasant events. With practice you will develop the skill
of going back to earlier events.
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The Self-Help System
Using the techniques of ideomotor response and partial
age regression it is possible to systematically identify and
change a negative pattern of behavior. Below is a five step
method for bringing about change and enhancing the quality
of your life.
Step 1
Think of a self-limiting pattern of behavior that by
changing would enhance the quality of your life . Using the
ideomotor response method you are most comfortable withask your subconscious if it is OK for you to explore this
problem and remember the cause of this behavior. Your
subconscious is very protective of your mental health. It is
quite possible that your subconscious chose for your conscious
mind to forget events too painful to remember. If your
ideomotor response indicates that you are not ready to
consciously remember this information, it is best to refrain
from using this self-help system for this particular problem. If
you feel that the problem is severe enough to warrant further
attention, seek professional assistance.
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Step 2
Using an ideomotor response, determine the initial
sensitizing event. This is done by asking the subconscious aseries of yes or no questions. Remember that if the
subconscious should respond with I dont want to say, you
should respect that, and not question any further. Keep in
mind that the subconscious is very literal, so keep your
questions very specific. Often an answer will seem obviouslyfalse to your conscious mind; however, keep the line of
questioning going, as in the end the insights gained may prove
the response to be true.
Step 3
Perform a partial age regression to remember the
subconscious assumptions that were made during this initial
sensitizing event which could be the cause of the present day
problems.
Step 4
Using an ideomotor response, determine if the
assumptions made during the initial sensitizing event helped
or hindered the quality of your present day life.
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Step 5
Using an ideomotor response ask the subconscious if it
is ready to change the pattern of behavior or belief system, and
if it is ready to change, ask it if it will now make the change.
Then use direct suggestions, positive visualizations and
anchoring (discussed later) to reinforce the behavior change. If
it is not ready to change it may be necessary to discover more
subsequent sensitizing events in order to convince thesubconscious that change is called for.
Below is a sample of an ideomotor question and
response session of a man trying to quit smoking. This style of
questioning can be used to determine the initial sensitizing
event of any behavioral problem; smoking was randomly
chosen for this book.
Q: Is it OK for me to know why I choose to smoke
cigarettes?
A: Yes
Q: Did I make this choice before I was twenty years
old?
A: Yes.
Q: Did I make this choice before I was fifteen?
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Q: Was it to impress my father?
A: Yes.
Q: Did I make this choice to smoke cigarettes in order
to impress my father?
A: Yes.
At this point the subject became comfortable and put
himself into a light hypnotic trance. He then performed a
partial age regression to recall the first time that he impressed
his father with cigarettes (the initial sensitizing event). He
subsequently recalled an incident when he was ten years old.
His father, who was a gruff and demanding man, not given to praise of his children, would send the subject (as a child), to
the store to pick up cigarettes for him. Upon the childs return,
he always received praise and a pat on the back. This became
a routine which the subject felt particularly good about,
because he was the only one sent to the store. His father neverasked his brothers or sisters to run this errand for him. This
made the subject feel loved, needed, and he also felt a unique
connection with his father that his siblings did not share.
The subject then switched to the Finger Movement
Method because it is easier to use while in a hypnotic trance,
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and while lying down he questioned his subconscious as
follows:
Q: Is smoking my subconscious way to feel loved?
A: Yes.
Q: Do I really need to smoke to feel loved now?
A: No.
Q: Did the assumption that cigarettes make me feel
loved serve me well as I grew older?
A: Yes.
Q: Is cigarette smoking necessary for me to feel loved
now?
A: No.
Q: Am I willing to change my mind on a subconscious
level and quit smoking?
A: No.
Q: Do I realize that smoking is a health hazard?
A: Yes.
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Q: Do I realize that smoking may shorten my life and
my time with my family?
A: Yes.
Q: Do I believe that the benefits of smoking are worth
the risks?
A: No.
Q: Are there any other reasons why I smoke?
A: Yes.
The subject continued questioning his subconscious
with ideomotor responses and performing partial age
regressions to recall the subsequent sensitizing events. He
discovered that smoking was also a way to nurture himself. He
was eventually able to strike a deal with his subconscious.
He decided that he would find other ways of nurturing himself
and convinced his subconscious that the health risks were notworth the benefits. After several weeks of direct suggestion
and positive visualizations, he was able to quit smoking.
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Self-Help TechniquesThere are a variety of self-help techniques to choose
from. These techniques can be used along with partial ageregressions to make substantial life changes. With trial anderror you will find what works best for you.
Anchoring
Anchoring is a technique in which you will train your brain to associate desired emotions with physical events.Remember how Pavlovs dogs associated hunger with thesound of the bell? You are going to do the same thing with anyemotional state you would like to have in any situation. Hereshow it works
1. Select a feeling or emotion you would like toexperience in a given situation. (for example: feelingenergized while making sales calls on the phone).
2. Take a few moments to remember a time when youhad this feeling. If you have never had this feelingimagine what it would be like.
3. Relax, close your eyes and vividly remember thisfeeling as intensely as possible. Enhance theexperience by making the images sharper and closer,make the colors brighter and make the sounds clearer.
4. When the feeling is at its most intense create anassociation to a physical cue by mentally projecting
these feeling into the cue. The cue can be anythingsuch as a fist pump, pulling your ear lobe, the act ofholding the phone or perhaps a phrase uttered to
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oneself such as outstanding! Relax and repeat thesesteps often and with as much emotion as possible.Occasionally change the memory to another examplewhen you have had the desired emotion. The key is toreally feel the emotions and quickly project thesefeelings into the physical cue. With practice there willcome a point when the emotional response will
become automatically anchored to the cue and theseemotions can be summoned simply by using the cue.
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Removing Negative AnchorsWe all have negative anchors. Perhaps you feel
rejection at the sight of an ex-lover or a sense of loss at the
sight of a family members gravestone. Whatever your personal negative anchors are you need not live with them ifthey do not empower your current life and goals. The way toremove these anchors is to replace them with an empowering
positive emotion that will support your goals.
1. Identify the negative emotion and situation you wouldlike to change.
2. Vividly recall the emotion you would prefer to have.3. Mentally rehearse feeling the new emotion in the old
situation.4. Repeat as often as needed until you have no problem
imagining yourself feeling the desired emotion in the problem circumstance
5. Do this in the real world. You may need to repeat themental rehearsal many times until the desired emotions
become habitual.
Once again the key is to really feel the emotion and quickly
project this feeling into the physical cue. Try to feel the newemotion in the cue. With practice this new emotion will become an automatic response to the presence of the cue.
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Positive VisualizationsWith positive visualization techniques the subject uses
imagery to soothe, nurture, and heal the subconscious while building positive expectations of future events. Studies have
shown that in some cases imagination is superior to actual
practice. In one study with two groups of basketball players,
the first group was told to actually practice free-throws for
twenty minutes a day, while the second group used positive
visualization to imagine themselves successfully sinking each
free-throw. The skill levels were later compared and it was
found that the group using the positive visualizations
consistently made higher percentages of free-throws. These
techniques are now routinely used by professional and
Olympic training programs. On the following pages are some
positive visualization scripts and ideas.
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The Special Place
After putting yourself in a hypnotic state, imagine
yourself in a comfortable place; this could be a comfortable
room that you feel good being in, a secluded tropical island
where you are sitting on a beach looking out over the ocean, or
perhaps a scene in nature with mountains and trees. The goal
here is to create a mental retreat that you can go to at times for
a mini vacation. When creating our special place its important
to go for detail. Make this place as comfortable, safe and
secure as possible, a place where you are shielded from the
outside world and in total control. Let your imagination go
wild and put in as many amenities as you would like; if you
want servants, have servants, if you want a massage, have amasseuse standing by at all times, if you enjoy walks on the
beach why not build yourself a beach house overlooking the
ocean. Use your special place to relax, rest and meditate, and
to perform some of the visualization techniques later
described. If youre having a tough day take a 20 minute breakand go to your special place; many people find this quite
revitalizing.
The Two Mirrors
Think of a fear, phobia or pattern of behavior that you
would like to remove from your personality. Then after
putting yourself into a hypnotic trance, go to your special
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place. Imagine two full-length mirrors in front of you. One
mirror represents that negative attribute you would like to
change. The other represents you free from this pattern of
behavior. Look into the negative mirror first. See what you
dont like about yourself, see the unhappiness. At your feet is
a large hammer; pick up the hammer and smash this mirror.
As soon as you do the mirror disappears and with it imagine
the pattern of behavior disappearing. Now look into the mirror
that represents the positive aspects of yourself free from the
negative pattern of behavior. See yourself as the person you
wish to be, see the confidence with yourself and your
relationships with others, see the joy, see the love. Now step
into that mirror and become that person. As you do, feel the joy, feel the confidence, feel the love, feel all your future
aspirations attai ned. Say to yourself I am now that person.
The All-Knowing Being
After putting yourself into a hypnotic trance, picture
yourself standing in a large field, feel the warm sun shining
down on your face. Smell the air, see the blue sky. Before you,
see a small cabin. Inside this cabin is a loving, caring, all-
knowing being. This being can answer all questions about
yourself and your life, and you know that the answers he gives
are true and appropriate and in your best interest. Open the
door and walk into the cabin. Before you, you will see this
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being. Sense the caring, sense the love, sense the wisdom.
Now take a few moments and ask the all-knowing being one
or two questions about your life. Listen carefully to the
answers; thank the all-knowing being, step outside and return
to your normal waking state.
The Healing White Light
After putting yourself into a hypnotic trance, picture
yourself floating in the darkness, warm, safe and secure.Imagine in the distance a pinpoint of light. This light is
soothing, healing, relaxing, loving and energizing. Imagine the
light coming toward you, and as you do, feel the warmth, feel
the healing, feel the light soothing you. Allow that white light
to come in through your forehead, and with each breath feel
the light fill and permeate your body. Allow this to continue
until the white light has completely filled your body to
overflowing. Once you totally feel your body refreshed,
revitalized, happy, soothed, and energetic, slowly allow
yourself to return to your normal waking state while retaining
all these positive feelings and emotions.
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Future Memories
With this technique you visualize your goals logical
result in the future, then remember how you got there. For
example, suppose your goal was financial success. After
putting yourself into a hypnotic trance you visualize yourself
as a successful retiree. Perhaps place yourself on your private
yacht that you bought years ago, or see yourself in your
mansion. At this point remember back to the present where
you are now and remember those changes in your behavior
that led to your success. Go for the details. See the work
that you put into your goal, imagine how you felt as success
happened, remember how people reacted to your success.
Visualize Success
This technique is very simple; simply visualize
successful results of your goal. Say for example you have a
fear of public speaking, but you must make a presentation to
your co-workers. After putting yourself into a hypnotic trance,
mentally rehearse your presentation as positively as possible.
Imagine yourself calm, cool and collected, delivering a speech
with confidence. Once again go for the details see co -
workers responding positively, feel yourself actually enjoying
giving the presentation, imagine what you will wear, what the
room will look like, imagine yourself answering questions
easily. Do this several times before the actual event.
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Thoughts On Positive VisualizationsThese are just a few positive visualizations. Using your
imagination you can make up your own or expand and vary
the techniques listed. Experiment and find out what works best
for you. I think youll find the results are worth the time
invested.
Thoughts On Section 2Self-hypnosis is a powerful tool. Using these
techniques you can now identify self-limiting beliefs and
habits and then change these beliefs and habits to support your
goals, ambitions and dreams. Once mastered you will possess
the skills to design the life you have always wanted. You will,
however, need a plan. In the next section we will learn how to
create an emotional and physical action plan that will enable
you to do anything!
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SECTION 3How To Do Anything!
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How To Do Anything With Self-Hypnosis
I know what youre thinking. How to do anythingwith self- hypnosis is a pretty big claim. Well, let me clarify a
bit. First, when I say anything I mean anything that is
possible. Hypnosis will not change the laws of physics.
Whatever personal goals you may want to achieve must be
physically possible. Second, you have to be capable of
achieving these goals. Hypnosis will not turn you into
superman (or superwoman) but it can help you achieve your
true potential. Suppose you wanted, for example, to become
the best weight lifter that you could possibly be. To reach your
absolute potential you would have to work on this goal 24
hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year with perfect
coaching expertise for your entire life. If you were to miss a
day, or your coach was to make a single mistake, you could
not reach your absolute potential. It is unlikely this absolute
potential could ever occur. However, suppose you were a
weight lifter and you wanted to achieve the goal of being able
to lift one more pound within the next 6 months. This may be
a very achievable goal. I believe that no one ever reaches their
absolute potential but almost everyone has it in them to get better at whatever they wish. The question then becomes what
is a realistic goal and how do I gain the necessary expertise
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and mental focus to achieve this goal as quickly as possible.
This is where self-hypnosis, proper planning and goal setting
can really be effective. Proper planning and goal setting will
show you the shortest distance between you and your desired
outcome. Self-hypnosis can create the mental focus and
empowering emotional states necessary to accomplish your
goals. With an effective action plan and proper mental focus
the sky is the limit to attaining your dreams. I personally
believe that life is too short to go with the flow and hope
happiness, enjoyment and personal fulfillment simply appear.
Rather, I believe the best course of action is to decide what it
is we want out of life and design that life. Lets face it, when
our days are over we are going to be gone a long time so whynot squeeze every drop of personal fulfillment, happiness and
success out of our lives as quickly and efficiently as possible
while we still can? Why not live a life by design?
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Reality, Its Not Really What YouMight Think It Is.
A sunset is a sunset right? Not really. When you watcha sunset what you are really seeing is a giant explosion in
space that sends off different particles and energy in all
directions. Some of the light particles hit the surface of our
atmosphere, turn red and continue traveling until they hit the
back of our eyes. At this point the light is converted to
electricity which then travels down our optic nerves to the
vision portion of our brains which in turn sets off chemicals
that we interpret as a sunset. When we watch a sunset what we
are in fact seeing is a firestorm of chemicals in our brains. We
dont actually see the sunset, what we see is our internal
interpretation of the chemicals in our brains. We then
associate this chemical firestorm with a given emotion. If you
happen to be with a loved one you very well may interpret the
sunset as beautiful or inspiring. If on the other hand you
work nights at a job you hate you may interpret the sunset as
depressing because it signals to you that its time to begin a
night of hard labor. The point I am trying to make is that the
sunset has no real meaning except what we give it. Remember
Pavlovs dogs? Pavlov would ring a bell and then feed thedogs. He continued ringing the bell and feeding the dogs for a
period of time until he began to notice that the dogs began to
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salivate at the sound of the bell. The sound of the bell, like the
sunset, had no intrinsic meaning other than what we and the
dogs give it. Salivating to the sound of a bell became a
conditioned response for the dogs. I can almost hear you
saying to your self Interesting, but so what? Here is the point
Im trying to make; throughout our lives we all have been
conditioned to respond to certain stimuli in different ways. For
instance, as a teenager when you first learned to drive you
were taught to stop at red lights. First you learned to identify
the red light. Then your right foot had to find the brake and
your left foot had to locate the clutch; as you applied the
clutch and brake your right hand simultaneously began
downshifting. This is a very complicated process when youthink of it consciously. Eventually your subconscious accepted
this series of complicated actions as a normal part of driving.
Now your body automatically performs this sequence of
actions with no conscious thought. In fact you could be
thinking consciously about anything else and your body wouldstill perform these tasks. Our emotions act in much the same
way. In the case of stopping at a red light, this is appropriate
and a good thing for your safety. However, as stated earlier,
many of these conditioned responses are not in your best
interest and most of these responses were given to you without
your knowledge or permission. Many of us have automatic
emotional responses to stimuli that are disempowering and
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self-destructive. It is common for a person in an abusive
relationship to associate physical and emotional pain with a
sense of being loved. It is possible that the financially
disadvantaged person can associate wealth with the negative
emotion of greed. He then could subconsciously sabotage his
own success in order to avoid the loss of self-esteem
associated with being a greedy person. Who could blame an
adult who was repeatedly told as a child he was worthless,
stupid and ugly for not wanting to make new friends?
Lets get back to the sunset and Pavlovs dogs, shall
we? If you accept that most of our emotional states are
conditioned responses given to us by a multitude of outside
forces such as parents, television, cultural norms, friends and
family etc... Then the question becomes: are these conditioned
responses helpful or hurtful to our emotional wellbeing, our
goals, our relationships with others and anything else that is
important to us? Also, if these responses are
counterproductive, how do we eliminate them? And how do
we create beneficial and empowering emotional states that
support our goals and aspirations? First, lets take a look at
these emotional states.
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Empowering And DisempoweringEmotional States.
Lets define an empowering emotional state as theoptimal state of physical and emotional well-being that will
support your personal goals to the greatest extent possible.
Likewise, lets define a disempowering emotional state as any
emotional state that does not support your personal goals. I
like sports metaphors so let s use the example of a really angry
golfer to illustrate the example of empowering and
disempowering emotional states. If you play any golf at all
youve seen the guy who is so upset he is literally pink in the
face with rage and the worse he plays the worse it gets. This is
a clear example of a disempowering emotional state. The
anger translates into muscle tension which in turn translates
into poor play which turns into even more anger which turns
into a temper tantrum that creates even more muscle tension
and the cycle begins again. Clearly this is not an empowering
emotional state.
On the other hand we have all seen that athlete who is
in the zone. Cool, collected and confident, he has made the
mind body connection. Success builds on success. In a relaxed
state of mental focus the body is free to act in concert with the
mind. This is an example of an empowering emotional state.
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A Guide To Creating AnAction Plan
To achieve any goal the first thing to do is to make astep by step plan. To get from point A to point B there is
always a series of events that must occur. Below is a guide to
creating an action plan.
Identify The Challenge Or Problem To be Addressed
The purpose of an action plan is to organize and
develop solutions to address specific issues, challenges or
problems. These issues could be anything from making more
money, to getting along better with a loved one, to learning to
play the guitar.
Create Goals
Once the challenge has been clearly identified the next
step is to create a written goal. It is important to beS.M.A.R.T. with your goals. That is t