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Shofar AdarI/Adar II 5771 Jewish Family Congregation March 2011

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From the Rabbi’s Desk page 1 Service Schedule page 2 Next Month’s Oneg Hosts page 2 President’s Message page 3 JiFTY page 4 Early Childhood Center page 6 The Religious School page 10 JFC Announcements page 12 JFCAdults page 12 ECC pictures page 16

Religious School pictures page 17 Kids Ask the Rabbi page 24 Donations to JFC page 26 Second Seder Information page 26 Social Action Committee page 27 Yahrzeit/Annivs/Birthdays page 30 Ask the Rabbi page 32 Donations Form page 34 JFC Calendar page 35

From the Rabbi’s Desk

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The unrest that has been felt across the Muslim world recently invites great sympathy, because it seems to be expressing the desire to be rid of tyrants and dictators. And that led me to wonder what the temperament of the Israelites was, as Pharaoh imposed more and more difficult expectations upon them. I wonder what the Jews of Persia were feeling, as Haman (may his name be blotted out) prepared his drastic ma-noeuvres against them. The desire to live in freedom seems to be a univer-sal urge. But throwing off the tyrant does not always result in liberty, as the revolution in Iran in 1979 clearly demonstrated. Commentators well informed on today’s events point out that in Egypt, Tunisia, Al-geria, Bahrain, Syria, Libya, Iran, Yemen there is no figure comparable to Ayatollah Khomeini, who essen-tially hijacked the Iranian revolution in 1979, stepping into a leadership void to turn the popular uprising into an Islamic Revolution. Of course, in Egypt, the Muslim Brotherhood, long outlawed and basically underground these many years, looms offstage, and though they remained in the background during the three weeks of demonstra-tions, there is little reason to be confident that they will remain there. I have heard Egyptian observers say that they do not fear the Muslim Brotherhood, but I am not so sanguine. The Brotherhood, which was founded in Egypt back in the 1920s, is the intellectual progenitor of Al Qaeda and Hamas. It espouses a strict version of Islamic law, (sharia). Osama bin Ladin’s second in command, Ay-man al Zawahiri, is a product of the Muslim Brother-

hood. Because the Brotherhood was banned by the Mubarak government, it has had no visible leaders in Egypt, but that should not mean to us that they have no leaders. The uprising of the ancient Israelites against their own tyrant, the cruel Pharaoh of the Book of Exodus, was motivated by a desire for freedom too. But the concept of democracy, which is Greek in origin, did not exist at that time (approx 1250 BCE). Rather, as the Torah tells us, the Israelites chafed under the Pharaoh’s dominion, eager to be free to worship (and live) as their God required them to do. Until Moses was conscripted by God to lead the Israelites away from slavery, they had no leader, and they had no hope of exiting their difficult situation. Imagine starting a revolution without Twitter, without Facebook,, without email! (Actually, that is what caused the recent Egyptian uprising to mushroom so fast: the authorities turned off the Internet, which drove millions of people into the streets just to find out what was happening! Had the government left the Internet alone, would all those folks have stayed in front of their computers, thereby reducing the physical presence of people on the streets?). Were the Jews of Persia grumbling about Haman’s murderous intentions? Did the Israelites in Egypt meet in small groups to discuss solutions to their problems? (For that matter, did the Jews of Spain do that as the Inquisition closed in on them? Did the Jews of Russia commiserate over the czarist oppres-sion they experienced?)

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Jewish Family Congregation Shofar March 2011

March 4 GRADE 2 SERVICE

March 11 GRADE 4 SERVICE

March 18 Raymond & Hillary Raimondi

David & Elisa Zuckerberg

March 25 Lisa Katz

Alex & Bonnie Wattles

Please find a substitute if you cannot host your

assigned Oneg.

Please contact the JFC Office with the names

of the new hosts.

Please contact your Board Host if you have

any questions.

JFC CONGREGATIONAL PASSOVER SECOND SEDER

Pot Luck Dinner Tuesday, April 19 - 6:30 P.M.

ADVANCE REGISTRATION ONLY (see page 26 for details)

MARCH

Friday, Mar 4/ 1 Adar 28 7:30 pm 2nd Grade service Parshat P’kudey Shabbat Sh’kalim*** Saturday, Mar 5 10:00 am Shabbat Morning service

Friday, Mar 11/ 2 Adar 6 7:30 pm 4th Grade service Parshat VaYikra

Saturday, Mar 12 10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service

Friday, Mar 18/ 2 Adar 13 6:00 pm Shabbat for Me 6:30 pm Wee Ones Pizza Dinner^^^ 7:30 pm Parshat Tzav Shabbat Zakhor*** Saturday, Mar 19 10:00 am Bat Mitzvah of Kayla Fisher Sunday, Mar 20/ 2 Adar 14 9:00 am Purim service”””

Friday, Mar 25/ 2 Adar 20 7:30 pm Parshat Sh’mini Shabbat Parah*** Saturday, Mar 26 10:00 am Bar Mitzvah of Michael Portnoy *** one of the special Shabbatot that precede Passover ^^^ by pre-registration ONLY “”” services will take place upstairs in the blue room SANS CHAIRS

MARCH ONEG HOSTS

BOARD HOST: David Marceau (203) 438-2177

SERVICE SCHEDULE

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P.O. Box 249 South Salem, NY 10590 Phone: (914) 763-3028 Fax: (914) 763-3069 e-mail: [email protected]

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Rabbi Carla Freedman [email protected]

Cantor Kerry Ben-David

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School Director Leslie Gottlieb

[email protected] Early Childhood Center Director Fern Tannenbaum

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Temple Administrator Jolie Levy

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Board Of Trustees

Richard Mishkin,

Co-President 914-764-8305;

Jeanette Sanders, Co-President

914-763-0311; Mark Lavin,

Vice President; Polly Schnell,

Vice President; Bill Pink,

Secretary; Andrew Serby,

Treasurer;

Carrie Kane David Marceau

Beth Tessler Debra Verbeke

Elisa Zuckerberg and

Johanna Perlman,

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Adar I/Adar II 5771 Jewish Family Congregation Shofar

The President’s Message by Richard Mishkin

Social media exposes us to the words of many “wise men and women.” Just about everywhere I happen to be; on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, at an office meeting I’m conducting or at a meeting I’m at-tending, people are quoting the great sages (specially that most famous, Lord Annon). If I want to know the secret to living a healthy, happy, successful, wealthy, long, thin and beautiful life, all I have to do is open my eyes and my ears to the inspirational sayings that seem to be enveloping my world. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not opposed to taking good advice. Inspirational quotes can get your day started and can lift your spirits. Most of the sound bites we read include these basic messages: appreci-ate what you have, don’t judge your success by the success of others, results come from hard work, be charitable, forgiving and treat people with genuine respect (I picked some random quotes from Facebook posts, Tweets from Twitter and even my own meeting agendas that you can read, without citations, on the addendum to this column). So where is this going? I suffered a minor injury last Monday. I fell and frac-tured my wrist. No big deal; it hurts but not too badly and will heal within six weeks. The big deal is how suddenly, pow, all the advice on don’t sweat the small stuff, appreciate what you have because someone surely has less, you can’t do it all alone, to go forward even a little requires work and on and on, takes on real significance. A 12- inch cast has allowed me to refocus and examine my life a little. What keeps running through my mind when I’m struggling to drive a stick car with one hand, pull up my pants, type with only 6 fingers, take a shower, cut food (I could go on with TMI but…) is that I have two choices: complain, be angry and slow way down, or figure out the best way to get around this inconven-ience and use the time as an opportunity to under-stand that my glass isn’t half full, it’s running over. To know first-hand that no matter how bad I think I have it, I’m still in the top of what? 2% of the world’s popu-lation who have everything they need? (I didn’t say want.) So I guess I will continue to read all the great advice from the gurus using social media as their pul-pit, but I will also remember that adversity comes with a silver lining. Adversity offers us the opportu-nity to realign our priorities and become a more giv-ing, appreciative, thankful and satisfied human being.

Shalom,

Addendum: Don’t expect different results when you continue

to do the same thing; that’s the definition of in-sanity.

You gotta swim out of your comfort zone to catch the wave that is going to change your life.

The only thing standing in the way of your success is you – you will never get what you don’t ask for.

However beautiful the strategy, you should occa-sionally look at the results.

He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.

The difference between try and triumph is a little umph.

The person who is waiting for something to turn up might start with their shirt sleeves.

When ending a day you should never say “I could have,” “I should have,” or “I would have.” At the end of the day, you should always say “I did.”

Some people dream of success while others wake up and work hard at it.

You are everything that is, your thoughts, your life, your dreams come true. You are everything you choose to be. You are as unlimited as the end-less universe.

No man has the right to dictate what other men should perceive, create or produce, but all should be encouraged to reveal themselves, their percep-tions and emotions, and to build confidence in the creative spirit.

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JiFTY ELECTIONS ARE 3/24/11

JiFTY's having elections this month!! They will be on March 24th at 7:15. If you are interested in running for a board position, please

talk to the current board member of that position by March 10th:

Renna Gottlieb - President, Dan Bloch - Programing Vice-President,

Matt Emmer - Religious and Cultural Vice-President, Daniella Acker - Social Action Vice-President, Zia Waldman- Communications Vice-President,

Andrew Blum- Membership Vice-President.

JiFTY By Zia W

aldman

On March 10th there will be an election meeting for those interested in a board position for 2011-12! Hope to see you there!!


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Jewish Family Congregation Early Childhood Center

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WE ARE CURRENTLY REGISTERING FOR 2011-12!

Please visit our website at www.jewishfamilycongregation.org OR call Fern Tannenbaum at (914) 763-3028 ext. 15


I am going to use a word that normally sends shivers down the spines of our parents, but today I use it with pride. The Early Childhood Center is going viral! I do not mean that we are harboring a disease; only that our name and good work are spreading. This process began when I started working at JFC almost three years ago. Today we are seen in more places and through more methods than ever before. There are four ways that information about the ECC is spread: through face-to-face contact, through word of mouth, through the internet and through out-reach via invitation and advertising. We ought to be famous for our superb interpersonal contact here at JFC. Whether you have been a member for years or are brand new to the community, you imme-diately feel welcomed by our Administrator, Jolie Levy and Office Assistant, Kathleen Sakowicz. Our Rabbi, Carla Freedman, can often be seen chatting with the little ones and their parents and always supports the ECC at our ser-vices and holiday celebrations. Leslie Gottlieb, our Reli-gious School director, is welcoming and loves to reminisce about when she taught at the ECC some years ago. Of course, we have our loving and friendly teachers who dedicate themselves to the education and well-being of their students and are available to talk to parents when-ever needed. Finally, we have our parents. They are not just good moms and dads; they are also role models to their children as our parents reach out to welcome new faces, work together to support the school and to help each other. The personal interactions found in our build-ing provide the most meaningful demonstration of a wel-coming Jewish preschool. These Early Childhood repre-sentatives are not only the faces of the ECC, they are the best means of communication we have as they often at-test to the quality of education that our school provides. Twenty years ago, many of us were getting our first home computers, never imagining what that would mean to our communication with other people. We can now send messages to each other in seconds, whether a per-son lives next door to us or half way around the world. Letters, invitations, and even photographs can instantly appear before our eyes without any interference from the US Post Office. This, of course, has changed how the ECC has handled communication as well. Yes, we still use more paper than we would like. We send home letters, fliers, “Ask Me About” daily information sheets on what happens in each class, our “Little Shofar” and, of course, the “Shofar” publication which you are reading now. However, we are using the internet more frequently. We regularly send information home to our parents via e-

mail. You can also find the “Shofar” and the “Little Sho-far” on the JFC website along with fliers for upcoming “Shabbat for Me” children’s services and other programs like our “Wise Parenting for the Preschooler” series given by Dr. Alexis Johnson. I would particularly like to thank Laurence Furic, a web tutor from “Angel Wings Web,” for her dedicated upkeep of the JFC website. Laurence has also made a Facebook page just for the ECC. Are you on Facebook? Why not join our group at “ECC at the JFC” and let all your Facebook friends know you “Like” us? In addition, you can also find us on the Bedford Patch. In fact, if you google Jewish Family Congregation Early Child-hood Center you may be surprised where you find us! The final but very important means of communication we use is advertising. This is never as effective as word of mouth, but it will often reach people our insiders do not know. We run several ads over the year and offer press releases to local publications about upcoming events. Our newest event is the ECC “Open House,” which will take place on Wednesday, March 23, 2011 from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM. You may see this event advertised on fliers, in the local newspaper and, of course, online. It is obvious that the word is getting out, but why is it viral? It is viral when our school’s information is spread from person to person. Our e-mails and information only can be viral when you, our members, become the mes-sengers. Why not invite your friends to view our website? Forward our emails to people you know. In fact, tell your Facebook friends why JFC and the ECC are really great. Yes, you may be spreading a virus, but I believe this virus is really good for our health. It is also good for our Jewish children, their parents and for the Jewish Family Congre-gation. So let me thank you in advance for your help and wish you all “l’chayim” for a healthy and “viral-full” life.

Early Childhood Center By Fern Tannenbaum

CHOIR

If you would like to join the choir, or for more information, please contact

Kathy Storfer at [email protected]

We welcome all adults -- 13 or older!


Rescheduled for Tuesday, January 26


Have you checked out the JFC Blog recently?

Go to www.jfc.rjblogs.org

Parents and congregants

are welcome at 9 a.m. for

JFC’s Purim Service.

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Dear Friends of URJ Eisner and Crane Lake Camps,

URJ Eisner and Crane Lake Camps are proud to announce our newest camp program, Camp Chazak , a special needs program, in partnership with Top Bunk Camping Consultants. This one week camp aims to provide a recreational and therapeutic Jewish camping experience for its campers. Camp Chazak offers an opportunity to campers whose social delays impair their ability to function in a “typical” camp environment. Chazak campers will have a URJ summer camp experience, enjoying a program that is embedded with Reform Jewish traditions, values, prayer, Jewish education, songs, language, sports, arts, programming, food, and more.

Campers will range in age from 9-13 years old. Camp Chazak will run, from Sunday, August 21 through Sun-day, August 28, 2011, concurrently with NFTY Northeast’s Summer Institute. Campers will feel the full spirit and vibrancy that only NFTY youth can provide, as well as having some joint programming.

Think of people in your community who may have a child that would thrive in this camp setting. This is an exciting opportunity and we encourage everyone to explore our web page, http://eisnercranelake.urjcamps.org/chazak/ for further information. If you have any questions please contact, URJ Eisner and Crane Lake Camps Assistant Director, Camp Chazak Liaison, Marissa Frankel, [email protected].

L’Shalom,

Louis Bordman Executive Director

Stephen Weitzman, Chair URJ Special Needs Camping Committee

Debby Shriber Director

Andrea Golub, Chair URJ Eisner and Crane Lake Camps Board

Staff Opportunities Apply to Work at Camp Chazak Camp Chazak is looking to hire paid and volunteer passionate, professional, and self-motivated counselors who have previous training/experience working with individuals with social developmental delays. Counsel-ors will be supervised by Dr. Daniel Sorkin, PsyD, Clinical Psychologist. We are specifically looking for indi-viduals who have training/experience in fields including: Psychology, Social Work, Special Education, General Education (given significant experience with target population), Speech Therapy, Occupational Therapy and Medical Professionals. Previous experience working in Jewish camping and the URJ is a big plus. Please keep in mind that working at camp is not a traditional 8 hour work day, you will be living in a cabin with the camp-ers and working with them throughout the day.

Exciting News From URJ Camps!

Mother/Daughter Day at

Camp Eisner

February 13, 2011

Back row (l-r): Claire Lichtman, Cheryl Chess, Nicole Rose, Polly

Schnell

Front row (l-r): Lauren Rose, Quoya Schnell

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mailto:[email protected]

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Trip Gabriel is a neighbor of ours in Pound Ridge and he writes for The New York Times. Several months ago in the supplemental section, Education, Trip wrote a piece called, The Almighty Essay. The college search has been on the minds of many JFC members -- and as we have many high school students on the staff here, I have been witness to this process not only as a parent, but as a supervisor of our mentor/teaching staff. The Gabriels have two sons in col-lege and, from reading the article there is no doubt that parents & educators have some shared thoughts on the college search/application process. Your children may be years from this today, but the day rolls around pretty fast when you will find yourself lost in Upstate New York or in rural Pennsylvania looking for signs that point to a college your son/daughter has vetted from a list of thousands. Trip begins his article saying, “On a freezing Saturday in February, my wife and I sat through a full-day introduction to college admissions for the parents of 11th graders. This was our first little step on the high-anxiety journey thou-sands of families trod each year. As parents of twins, we were double-booked. There wasn’t a vacation day in the next eight months that one of us didn’t spend on a college campus, somewhere.” He continues to write about the first person narrative seniors are asked to create for the Common Application and for supplemental pieces required by most schools. He writes about an admissions counselor who “recalled one student who had used her essay to compare herself to tofu because she was imbued with the personalities and flavors of the many people she had mixed with in life. The dean seemed to glow with the recollection. There was no need to add that the young lady had been accepted.” Gabriel continues, “But what if it can’t? What if, like most 17-year-olds, a high school senior sounds wooden or pretentious or thunderously trite when trying to express himself in the first person? Prose in which an author’s voice emerges through layers of perfectly correct sen-tences is the hardest kind of writing there is. Plenty of pro-fessional authors can’t manage it. How reasonable is it to expect of teenagers? Nevertheless, college gatekeepers have made a fetish of the personal essay. Twenty-six per-cent of admissions offices deemed it of “considerable im-portance” in deciding who gets in, according to a 2009 sur-vey by the National Association for College Admission Counseling. Admissions experts say the personal essay has gained this mighty weight because elite colleges are flooded with qualified applicants. When so many of them have A averages and test scores in the 98th percentile, colleges tend to throw up their hands.” But the college essay is only part of the puzzle of getting into a competitive school. Next is all of the talk about vol-unteer experience. At JFC, our students participate in our tzedakah program throughout their years here—and espe-cially during the 7th grade experience wherein all of the

students help to perform 4 mitzvah projects—two with their classmates and two completely on their own. This value of helping others is helpful when it is established early in a child’s life—making the obligation feel more like part of the overall experience of being human. Some of our students take their participation to a higher level and develop long lasting relationships with the charities or or-ganizations they support. Some of them use the experi-ence to create a unique new organization of their own that better fits the idea they originally had in mind—the real idea that spurred their participation in the first place.

Jason Shah started a Web site offering free SAT prep

This kind of seed was planted in the mind of Jason Shah. According to an article written about him and some other Do-Gooders, “A few weeks after he took the SAT, Jason Shah realized something more vexing to him than alge-braic formulas or word usage problems: that many stu-dents can’t afford or access programs to prepare them for the test, and college. The epiphany came in a West Phila-delphia middle-school classroom that his sister ran as part of her Teach for America commitment. Many students had trouble with reading and spelling, and Mr. Shah, then 16, wondered how they would be able to study for the SAT in a few years. He returned home to New Smyrna Beach, Fla., raised $10,000 from family and friends, found Web devel-opers and began INeedaPencil.com, a Web site that offers free SAT prep, including lessons that use conversational language and sports analogies and full practice exams. ‘Certain students either don’t do well on the SAT because they don’t have the resources or don’t take the SAT be-cause they think only rich kids take the test,’ Mr. Shah says. ‘It just bothers me deeply that it’s such a simple problem that doesn’t have to exist.’ Now a senior at Har-vard, Mr. Shah still runs the site. The project led him to major in sociology and minor in computer science, which gave him skills to run and change the site on his own.” Not too long ago, a JFC parent sent me an email about a

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The Religious School by Leslie Gottlieb

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/09/education/www.nacacnet.org/AboutNACAC/PressRoom/Documents/SoCA2010.pdf

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/09/education/www.nacacnet.org/AboutNACAC/PressRoom/Documents/SoCA2010.pdf

http://www.ineedapencil.com/


If you would like to “announce” a Simcha in your family, please send the text

(pictures are welcome too!) to Jolie Levy at [email protected]. Announcements must

be received by the 15th of the month to appear in the next month’s Shofar.

Please feel free to acknowledge your Simcha with an $18 donation to any JFC Fund or with a leaf on our Simcha Tree. Donation

forms appear in every Shofar.

JFC Adults By Jeanne Shanin, Adult Program Coordinator

I JFC*Adults “I would like to express my hope that JFC*Adults will continue. I go to every activity that I am able to. I enjoy the sense of community and making new friends. The activities are fun too. For those of us with grown chil-dren, it is valuable to have other activities that tie us further to the JFC.”

That is the note I received from Alice Gottlieb, with the subject line “I Love JFC*Adults.” In talking to Rabbi Freedman, she found out that our adult interest program is only funded through June of this year. As part of our capital campaign in 2007, JFC received a generous contribution to finance this program for three years. It was the Board’s intention to have enough income from the endowment fund to continue its funding thereaf-ter. Alas, the economy has not cooperated and I understand that the program is coming to an end.

JFC*Adults was formed in response to our members whose children are older or have "left the nest” and for parents who want to get away for a few hours of adult time. Each month, a group of couples and singles par-ticipate in a variety of activities and enjoy each other’s company.

Last month we had lots of fun at game night. Thirteen of us enjoyed a variety of homemade soups and breads, played a variety of games, and generally had a great time together. This month, on March 19, it is again Movie Night at the home of Cheryl Chess. We’ll be watching a British comedy, “The Infidel,” costarring Richard Schiff. It premiered last year at the Tribeca Film Festival. See flyer for details. A good time will be had by all!

Laurence Furic (a/k/a JFC’s Webmaster)

donated 20 inches of hair to Locks of Love!

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Stop in and take a look! The items really do change frequently!

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Evan Dodes (with sister Abigail’s help) is

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From the Rabbi’s Desk (cont’d)

In the Book of Esther, as in the Book of Exodus, there was a leader who opened up the possibility of change. Mordechai did not sit idly by while Haman schemed; Moses challenged the Israelites to take advantage of God’s intervention to leave oppres-sion behind them. But in Spain, in czarist Russia, in the Muslim Middle East in the last 100 years, even during the Holocaust, there was no leader who gal-vanized the Jewish people into active resistance to oppression. The results of that should leave us in great awe of what the young people of Egypt did, in over-throwing the Mubarak regime without a leader to spur them on. As spring begins to stir the air around us, leading us to Purim and Pesakh, two festivals that celebrate the overthrowing of tyrants, we should watch very carefully what is afoot in the Muslim world, and we should consider this modern phenomenon of a leaderless revolution. At least that what it seems to be at this moment. How would Jewish history be different if such a thing had been possible in the past? Something to think about, this spring.

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OPEN HOUSE MARCH 23 (10:00-12:00) Now Registering for 2011-2012

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Kids Ask the Rabbi Question: Why do we make noise at the Purim service, every time we hear Haman’s name?

Answer: Our sages from long ago figured out (based on Esther 3:1) that Haman was a descendant of the tribe of Amalek, which lived in the wilderness that the Israelites passed through on their way out of Egypt. In the To-rah (Deut. 25:17-19) we are reminded that, as the Israelites were in the wilderness, the tribe of Amalek attacked them.

But Amalek was not brave or confident, so they attacked the people at the very end of the line of the Israelites, those who were too young or too old or too weak to keep up the pace of the others. That’s a cowardly way of fighting with someone.

The very end of that story in Deuteronomy tells us that, when we are safe and at ease, we are supposed to “blot out the memory of Amalek.”

Later, King Saul was given a chance to do ex-actly that, but he didn’t do a complete job of it. Jewish tradition says that all our enemies from then on are in fact descendants of the wicked Amalek, who attacked the weak and the weary leaving Egypt.

So the descendants of Amalek keep causing us trouble. And yet we are supposed to blot out the remembrance of them all. So at Purim, when the name of the bad guy is read, we use noise-makers (Yiddish: graggers; Hebrew: ra-a-shanim) to keep his name from reaching our ears. That way, we blot out the memory of the cowardice and evil of Amalek.

When there is someone very evil in the world, Jewish tradition teaches us that, each time we say his name, we add the phrase yimakh sh’moh…may his name be blotted out. That makes a striking contrast to what we say when we mention God: barukh hu, blessed be.

So when you get your hands on a gragger, it is important that you keep it very quiet until the name of Haman is mentioned, and then you whirl it to make noise (and you can shout and stamp your feet), and help us erase this mem-ory of evil.

Go to it!

This Pesach, help others in need of your kindness...

During the entire month of March & until April 10, the Religious School is collecting non-

perishable Passover items to donate to developmentally disabled adults who will be attending the annual Passover Seder at Temple Shaaray Tefilla in Bedford on the evening of April 12th.

Volunteers are needed for this event, too (it is a great opportunity for our 7th graders looking for a mitzvah project or for anyone 13 or older

to participate). Youth Group members are en-couraged to participate, as well. Please let Leslie Gottlieb know asap if you are inter-

ested.

Please try to donate as many items as you

can. Delivery of donations we collect will be on April 11th and 12th. Please leave all items in the Youth Lounge in the designated

box. Thanks very much.


Donations to JFC Last Month

IF ANY DONATIONS MADE LAST MONTH ARE NOT LISTED, KINDLY CONTACT THE JFC OFFICE AND LET US KNOW.

Memorial Board Plaque The Emmer Family In Memory Of David Emmer

Prayer Book Dedications Heidi Auerbacher and Ilene Benjamin In Honor Of Max Auerbacher's 9th Birthday Heidi Auerbacher and Ilene Benjamin In Honor Of Sam Auerbacher’s 7th Birthday Michael Gitlitz and Rita Landman In Memory Of Sheila R. Gitlitz Michael Gitlitz and Rita Landman In Memory Of Morris Gitlitz

Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Milton and Pearl Feldman In Memory Of Diana Bell Milton and Pearl Feldman In Memory Of Nathan Bell Susan Eydenberg Westlake In Memory Of Judith Eydenberg

Why is this night different from all other nights?

Join us for our traditional

Second Seder

Our potluck seder is a kid-friendly event with lots of singing.

The kids will be part of the telling of the Pesakh story.

JFC’s seder is a potluck event. During the Purim Carnival on March 20 (and thereafter), there will be a signup poster in the JFC Lobby. Please indicate what you will bring. You will be contacted to confirm details.

All foods MUST adhere to Kosher for Passover restrictions. If you are unsure, please ask us.

JFC Supplies the “ritual” foods, wine and matzoh, as well as all paper goods.

Cost: $18/person $36/family $10/guests over 2 yrs.

PLEASE JOIN US!


First, our next Midnight Run will be held Saturday, March 5th. The good news: we have enough volun-teers to participate in the Run itself. The better news: there are still opportunities to help. We could use some volunteers to make bag dinners or donate men’s clothing (see list below). Let us know if you’d like to go on the next run, which will be in May or June.

Second, Project Hope, set for Sunday, April 10th (morning) is a fantastic program of the Bronx Jewish Community Council. Volunteers distribute Passover groceries to impoverished Jewish seniors in their homes. All you need to do is show up. You deliver food, smiles, and a little company and conversation. Children are welcome to participate, and volunteers typically find this experience so rewarding that they attend yearly, requesting the same list so they can visit with their “regulars.”

Please consider participating in these meaningful out-reach activities, which are impossible to continue

without the active involvement of more congregants. Contact Debbie Lavin ([email protected]) or Jeanette Sanders ([email protected]) with any questions or to sign up.

In advance, we thank the volunteers who have al-ready committed to either event, and we will bring you full reports in upcoming Shofars.

As promised, here’s the list of necessary (men’s cloth-ing only!) Midnight Run donations:

Men's Jeans Backpacks Sneakers Belts Hooded zipper sweatshirts Blankets Coats, hats, gloves, scarves New men's jockey-style underwear New white athletic socks

The Tzedakah of the Month

For MARCH is

“MIDNIGHT RUN”

Selected by the

JFC Social Action Committee

JFC Social Action Committee by Lee Goldstein

Guidance & Resources for Men Separating or Divorcing

New Horizons: A Discussion Group for Separating or Divorcing Men will be held Wednesday, March 23 at 7:00 PM at WJCS, 845 North Broadway, White Plains, NY. The event is an opportunity for men going through a separation or divorce to get information and guidance from a panel of experts including a psy-chologist/divorce mediator, lawyer, rabbi and family therapist. Plus, it will facilitate networking with others in similar situations. Space is limited. RSVP by March 14 to Susan Kronish ([email protected]). The event is a WJCS Partners in Caring Program in Partnership with Bet Torah Synagogue, funded by UJA-Federation.

Want to help? Contact Debbie Lavin

([email protected])

or Jeanette Sanders ([email protected])






- - - Lots of new vendors! - - - Check website for details.


Holly Alexander

Christopher Boies Joshua Bolgar

Kevin Brand Andrew Carter Aaron Cohen

Jaclyn Cohen Ellen Conti

Karen Conti Ruby Davis Andrew Emmer

Kenneth Feldman Zachary Fischman

Kayla Fisher Michael Gilbert Melissa Goodstein

Leslie Gottlieb Richard Hellinger

Taylor Hoffman Laurel Honig

Mitchell Kahn Terry Kalter Dayna Kaplan

Jamie Kaplan Talia Kaufman

Tracy Kirker Jeffrey Klotz

Terrence Levens

Corie Levine Heather Levinson

Nathaniel Levinson Asher Meister-Aldama Michael Portnoy

Amy Rackear Jacob Rauch

Max Rauch Andrew Rose Noah Rose

Dylan Salpeter Wynter Schnell

Jordan Schwartz Jodi Senese Jonathan Sobel

Alexa Stevelman Joshua Strongin

Hayley Verbeke Zoe Waldman

David Warren Bennett Wattles Mitchell Waxman

Rebecca Westlake Julia Zuckerberg

Please call the JFC Office when any relevant information arises or changes so all Birthday, Anniversary and

Yahrzeit listings are accurate and up to date. JFC can only

list names/dates that have been reported to us.

BIRTHDAYS

Have you considered celebrating significant birthdays and anniversaries with a leaf on our Simcha Tree of Life?

Call the JFC Office for details.

Aaron Auerbach

Murray Augustus Leon Gold

Muriel Gould Anna Jacobson Goldie Kardish

Sydney Lazarus Harold Plotka

Max Rifkin

Herman Rosenthal Milton Rubin

Elsie B Rudy Freda Salmon Max Schenk

Agnes Spergen Hetty Weaver

YAHRZEITS

Michael & Marcela Berland

Chuck & Ellen Cohen Lee Goldstein & Charles Dockter

Kenny & Ellen Elias Martin & Henriette Kutscher

Matthew & Julie Portnoy

Leslie & Susan Simon Jonathan & Jennifer Sobel

ANNIVERSARIES


Todah Rabbah from the Religious School to…

Samantha Dorf for chairing the Purim Carnival -- and to all the Grade 7 parents and

students for running the Carnival!

Jamie & Peter Kaplan and Laurence Furic (& families) for their book donations to

the school library

The Religious School Committee for their help planning the (May) Tag Sale at JFC

mitzvah opportunity that helps to supply bicycles to young kids in Zimbabwe who otherwise would need to travel by foot to school and back, a six hour round excursion that would take them away from their stewards--- orphaned children (some of them relatives) who needed their super-vision back at home. A few days earlier, I read about this very thing in an essay by Nicholas D. Kristof. He talked about a 17 year old boy named Abel who became a surro-gate father for his orphaned siblings. Kristof writes about “A Chicago-based aid organization, World Bicycle Re-lief” *who+ distributed 200 bicycles to students in Abel’s area who need them to get them to school.” World Bicy-cle Relief trains one mechanic and equips him/her for every 50 bikes donated/distributed. So far, over 70,000 bicycles have been given out—over 70 percent to women and girls which helps reduce the incidence of rape/attack on their otherwise long unsupervised walks. This is social action making a difference for real people—one bicycle at a time. In the March 2011 issue of Bicycling, there is an ad for “Trips for Kids.” It is a non-profit organization that pro-vides mountain bikes and environmental education for

disadvantaged youths. Anyone can start a Trips for Kids program in his/her local neighborhood. If you are inter-ested, contact [email protected] or call (415) 458-2986. Perhaps where we live, teens worry about SAT scores and college essays whereas in other parts of the world, kids have to worry about getting safely from one place or another—or maybe worry how to care for younger broth-ers and sisters left without parents. Whatever the case, it is never too early to get the children in our families fo-cused on ways we can help change the world. If your kids are too young to participate in the Midnight Run organ-ized by JFC’s Social Action Committee, for example, then maybe you can help collect the clothes or toiletries needed. Maybe you can take on one or two family pro-jects a year to help make tikkun olam something real in your lives. Now that is a great way for a family to do something meaningful together—getting everyone in-volved and making a real difference!!

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The Religious School (cont’d)



Question: Why is challah braided? Answer: Good question! To find the answer, I had to consult with a book I received as a Chanukah pre-sent this year, The Encyclopedia of Jewish Food, com-piled by Gil Evans. From that book I learned that the braiding of challah came about in Germany in the 15th century, when Jews borrowed the art of bread-braiding from their gentile neighbours, to decorate the special bread for Shabbat and festivals, to in-crease the distinction between bread eaten every day and the bread produced for special occasions.

In times past in Europe, where our Ashkenazi ances-tors were generally poor, they ate dark bread six days of the week. Why? Because they took their grain to the miller (that was the occupation’s name) to grind, and they paid by the number of times the grain was ground. To produce coarsely ground grain, they paid less than to produce fine flour, which would also be whiter too. So during the week, our ancestors ate coarse dark bread, and for Shabbat and festivals, they ate bread made from fine white flour.

To make the Shabbat bread richer, they added eggs to the batter.

The bread for Shabbat is called challah. The name comes from Numbers 15:20, where the Israelites were instructed to take “challah”, a portion from their batter and to offer it to Adonai as a gift (it is then given to the kohanim, the priests, to eat). Since we no longer bring gifts of food and drink to God (as “sacrifices”), today, when kosher bakeries produce challah, they take a pinch of the dough and burn it in the oven, before they bake the actual loaves. On the packages of kosher challah, there is a text which says, “challah has been taken”. More broadly, though, the term challah is used to designate that braided loaf made from fine white flour, its dough enriched with eggs.

I have learned lots of interesting things about “Jewish food” from the Encyclopedia, and I will share more of it with you over time.

ASK THE RABBI

Dear Rabbi,

I must protest! As one of the Christians you’ve lumped together in the *February+ “Ask the Rabbi” column, I respectfully submit that you do your con-gregation a great disservice by implying that all Chris-tians view the Bible as you have presented it, or for that matter, that we all view it the same way.

Nay, Nay! As you know, I view the Hebrew Bible much as you do, rather than than as that “born-again Christian” does, and unique and independent as I am, I am not alone.

As you read the Torah in sequence, so those of us in a “liturgical” style of worship read the gospels in se-quence. (Liturgical churches include the Catholic, Episcopal and Lutheran. Methodists, Presbyterians and Congregationalists have the option of using the lectionary; Baptists and certainly, “born-again” evan-gelicals usually do not use it.) In the Sunday lection-ary, the gospel is central, with the Hebrew scripture casting some light on it – and rarely one that foretells the coming of Christ; the psalm shines light on the Hebrew scripture; the epistle, except for high holi-days, is in a separate cycle. In the daily lectionary, all of the four readings are read in their own cycle, with some patches being skipped over in all readings other than psalms. (The genealogies, for instance, are not read.) In the Sunday lectionary, we read the gospels in three years time. In the daily lectionary, we read the entire Bible, repeating some psalms, in two years.

You are correct in that Evangelicals tend to proof-text, but NOT all Christians do so. In fact, I would ven-ture to say that MOST Christians do not do so. (As with Reform Jews, they just don’t know the Bible well enough and wouldn’t proof text if they did.) You sim-ply cannot talk about a born-again action, which is probably more annoying to other Christians than to non-Christians, as being representative of “Christians” in general. It just ain’t so.

There. Glad I got THAT off my chest. Rev. Carole Johannsen

Rev. Johannsen is the Director of Pastoral Care at Phelps and Clergy Coordinator for the Phelps Hospice program.

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Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat

1 ECC

2 ECC

3 K-3/CC/SMP

Kids Knesset 5:10 Bd Mtg

4 ECC

Gr. 2 Service Creation Station Service 7:30 Tot Shabbat

5 Gr. 7 9-10:45

6 Gr. 4-6

7 ECC

Gr. 7 Purim Planning Party 4:20-6:15

8 ECC

9 ECC School Photos

10 K-3/CC/SMP YG

11 ECC

Gr. 4 Service

Creation Station Service 7:30 Tot Shabbat

12 Gr. 7 9-10:45

13 Gr. 4-6

NFTY Elections NYC

14 ECC

Gr. 7

ECC Comm. Mtg. 7:30

15 ECC

Wise Parent-ing: Managing a Melt-Down 8:30-9:45 p.m.

16 ECC

RS Comm Mtg

RS Early reg. ends; regular reg. begins [ends 4/13]

17 K-3/CC/SMP Purim Cele-bration

18 ECC Children’s Shab-bat for Me” 6:00 [K/L WthrRsrv Day]

Creation Station

Service 7:30 Tot Shabbat

19 Gr. 7 9-9:45

Bat Mitzvah Of

Kayla Fisher

JFCAdults: Movie Nite 7:30 p.m.

20 Gr. 4-6 (carnival 11-12 - don’t forget $)

PURIM CARNIVAL

12-2:00

Purim Service 9-9:30

21 ECC

NO Gr. 7

[K/L Weather Reserve Day]

22 ECC

10-PK 6-7:30

23 ECC

ECC OPEN HOUSE 10:00-12:00

24 K-3/CC/SMP YG

25 ECC

Service 7:30 Tot Shabbat

26 Gr. 7 9-9:45 Bar Mitzvah

Of Michael Portnoy

27 Gr. 4-6

Gr. 6 Holo-caust Speaker 11-12:00

28 ECC

Gr. 7

29 30 ECC

P/T conferences

31 K-3/CC/SMP

March 2011

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