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Even rainy days are beautiful in Ludington — Holly Chandler and Joseph Crea married July 12.

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(BPT) — Weddings can be expensive, and most brides and grooms need to estab-lish a budget before they start planning the wedding so they can afford to get hitched.

Many couples are now get-ting married later in life and paying most or all of the costs themselves, so it’s im-portant to start budgeting sooner than later.

The following tips will help you and your fiance keep your costs down so you can stay within your wedding budget.

They cover everything from the moment when you say “Yes” to the second you say “I do.”

Set a long engagement There are two benefits to

having an engagement of a year or longer. First, it allows you to spread costs over sev-eral paychecks. For exam-ple, if you get engaged this spring, you can choose one month to put a down pay-ment on the reception hall, and another month for pur-chasing the wedding dress and renting the tuxedo. A third month could be used for purchasing honeymoon trip tickets, and a fourth month for the photogra-pher’s down payment. Dur-ing your engagement you can also start putting mon-ey into a savings account so

you aren’t strapped for cash immediately following your wedding.

The second reason a long engagement makes financial sense is that many couples will set a seasonal theme for their weddings, wanting to decorate the wedding and reception hall in that theme. The best time to purchase decorations and supplies for seasonal events is immedi-ately following those events, because stores discount them when it’s time to get them off the shelves. If you are planning a fall theme, for example, keep an eye on the shelves for these kinds of discounted decorations right after Thanksgiving or

Halloween. Longer engage-ments allow couples to take advantage of a these season-al discounts at least once, if not twice.

Combine your resources A couple living in the same

household can save hun-dreds of dollars monthly by combining expenses related to rent/mortgage, utilities, groceries and even trans-portation. If you recently be-came engaged and are con-sidering moving in together, calculate how much money you’ll be saving so you can apply those savings toward your wedding budget.

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Money-saving wedding tips

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During the moving pro-cess, you can save addition-al money. For example, when you combine your house-holds, will you need two sets of dishes and furniture? Probably not.

Perhaps you can even host a garage sale to sell the items you don’t need duplicates of; then you can put that mon-ey toward a wedding-related item.

As you plan your big move, be sure to check out great moving services like Penske Truck Rental, which offers AAA and other great dis-counts to help soon-to-be newlyweds save money on moving costs.

Find the best dealsIf you’ve always dreamed

of getting married under a tent at a local park, you might discover that tent rental far exceeds your budget - espe-cially if you live in an urban

setting. This is where the In-ternet can be very helpful. Sometimes it’s cheaper to rent equipment like tents, folding chairs, wedding can-opies and other decorations from businesses that are lo-cated outside of your com-

munity.To save even more, drive

your personal car to the com-munity where you’ll be rent-ing the equipment, rent a Penske truck to transport all the equipment to where your wedding will be, and then re-turn the equipment in the truck once you’re finished with it. Then you can simply pick up your personal car for the drive home.

If you have friends around for the wedding, ask them to be responsible for this part of the wedding so you can con-centrate on other plans.

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(BPT) - You faithfully re-cycle at home, use a refill-able BPA-free water bottle and charge your smartphone with a solar recharger. When it’s time to choose wedding favors for your own nuptials, or a gift for someone else’s wedding, do you find envi-ronmental awareness taking a backseat to style? It doesn’t have to.

It’s possible to give wed-ding favors and gifts that are natural, responsible and use-ful — items that everyone can feel good about giving and receiving.

Kitchen-related products commonly appear on many wedding registry lists, and creative couples often dis-tribute small pieces of kitch-en ware as favors to their guests. For gifts that are sus-tainable, creative and prac-tical, look beyond the pots, pans and dishes to the food itself.

Food-inspired giftsMany newly married cou-

ples will be setting up their homes together for the first time. They may already have the basics, but you can help them round out their kitch-en with some useful utensils they may not have realized they need.

For example, every cook can benefit from a well-

stocked spice rack. Purchase an attractive spice rack and fill it with spices.

Making pizza at home can be a fun, easy meal for busy newlyweds. Put together a pizza-making kit, complete with a quality pizza cutter, a pizza stone for baking, a wedge of Parmesan, some baking yeast, and pizza sea-sonings like oregano, basil and garlic powder. Place ev-erything in a basket and com-plete the gift with a book of pizza recipes.

Gardening is a popular ac-tivity, and if your newlywed friends will be trying their hand at it, they may find themselves with lots of left-over produce.

Giving canning supplies as a wedding gift can be a great way to encourage their love of growing their own pro-duce, while helping ensure nothing goes to waste. Fill a canning pot with supplies like canning funnels and jars, and canning and pickling spices like bay leaves, pep-percorns, celery seed, cum-in, dill, mustard and salt, or even a Pickling Spice Blend.

Wedding favors they’ll savor

If you’re planning your own wedding, food favors can excite guests and fulfill your desire to be eco-friendly and creative.

Tea is a soothing and so-phisticated beverage that

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can make a great wedding fa-vor. Simply purchase heart-shaped tea infusers and fill them with a variety of loose teas, such as chamomile, peppermint, Darjeeling, Earl Grey, or black, green or white teas. Accent the favor with a ribbon in your wedding col-ors.

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even shapes! Present guests with a small peppermill and a selection of gourmet pepper-corns.

Grilling is a great American paswtime. If your wedding will take place in spring or summer, grilling spices and seasoning blends can be a fun wedding favor that will turn into your guest’s go-to item when they grill. Look for a va-riety of seasonings that work with steaks, fish, fowl and even vegetables.

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Doable but demanding

by Steve KnopperaSSociated PreSS

As she prepared to get married in 2009, Meg Keene considered iPods “a small gift from the wedding gods.” Rather than hiring a band or professional DJ for thou-sands of dollars, she and her fianci made their own playl-ist of Sir Mix-A-Lot, Frank Sinatra and Dolly Parton songs and cranked them on rented speakers.

Today, with phone apps

that let brides and grooms instantly play just about any song ever made, Keene coun-sels caution.

“It’s easier to screw up, honestly,” says Keene, 35, an Oakland, California, blogger and author of “A Practical Wedding” (Da Capo, 2011). “People think a great way to DJ a wedding is to set up a Spotify playlist or have a Pandora station — that tends to not work very well. Putting a playlist on at random tends to just go down in flames.”

Although professional DJs and wedding planners scoff at the idea of do-it-yourself dance-floor playlists, tech-

nology makes it almost irre-sistibly simple. Many venues have built-in sound systems with ports for phones and laptops or even Bluetooth for wireless audio connections. For more electronically chal-lenged churches and gaze-

bos, couples can buy or rent speakers that can be con-nected to a small, affordable mixer and a laptop. Google Cast and Apple’s AirPlay let you control the playlist re-motely.

The trick is coming up with a playlist. There’s an art to it, as the staff at Google-owned Songza has discovered. A year ago, in the middle of wedding season, the staff of six full-time New York cura-tors and a fleet of freelanc-ers realized they had no wed-ding playlist. They corrected

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that with a dozen specialized lists, from the Marvin Gaye-packed “It’s Your Wedding Day!” to “Rustic Outdoor Wedding,” filled with Avett Brothers and Mumford and Sons. Of course, users can go off the reservation and add their own songs.

“As long as you maintain a consistent mood, you can re-ally mix whatever you want from whatever decade you want,” says Parry Ernsberger, a curation expert at Google Play Music, which oversees the Songza playlists. “Read-ing the room is important.”

Those who DJ their own weddings run into several challenges. They have to pro-vide different playlists for different settings, from here-comes-the-bride tearjerkers for the ceremony to cock-tail music for early drinks to dance music for the recep-tion. They have to find the right balance between famil-iar, “YMCA”-type anthems and meaningful obscurities that risk clearing the dance floor. And they must do all this while greeting guests and making sure drunk uncles avoid face-planting into the cake.

“It can really be pulled off,” Keene says. “But it’s not something that you can sort of look away and be like, ‘That will work itself out.’ It takes some work.”

Keene recommends craft-ing a fully formed iTunes playlist, with a beginning, middle and end, including a series of “big, raging dance-party numbers” followed by a cool-down song. Pay atten-

tion, she says, to the early part of the reception, when older guests want to hear Benny Goodman’s “Sing, Sing, Sing” or Ray Charles’ “What’d I Say.” Later, friends and fam-ily might want to hear Ke-sha and hip-hop. (She also recommends using iTunes’ cross-fade function to avoid awkward silences between tracks; backing up the playl-ist on several guests’ phones; and depending on a mobile streaming service only as a last resort, since Internet con-nections can be unreliable.)

Not everyone is sold on DIY wedding playlists. Asked for an interview, one prominent New York wedding planner sniffed, “That does not make sense at all. None of our cli-ents have ever been interest-

ed in something like this.”“Really, my experience?

We’ve always hired the pro-fessionals,” adds Trudy Baade, president of the Amer-ican Association of Certified Wedding Planners. “There’s so much to plan.”

But Evan Minsker, 27, spent months making a playlist for his May 2014 wedding — then wrote about the pro-cess for indie-rock website Pitchfork, where he is a staff writer. Minsker built a recep-tion soundtrack full of sure things (Outkast’s “Hey Ya!”), novelties (Eddie Murphy’s “Party All the Time”) and less-er-known, Pitchfork-friendly favorites (Todd Terje’s “In-spector Norse”), hitting all decades.

He posted playlists and wrote: “Pay attention to tran-sitions. Try to make it so your playlist has a flow and

logic to it.” Minsker’s reception playl-

ist began with Marvin Gaye’s “Got to Give It Up, Part 1” and ended with Michael Jackson’s “Man In the Mirror.” He tried to entertain every age group. The dance floor, at his wife’s parents’ house in the woods, was full for most of the wed-ding. The rare snag was when one of his friends temporar-ily commandeered his lap-top, purchased Rick Astley’s “Never Gonna Give You Up” on iTunes for $1.29 and aired it as a practical joke.

Otherwise, Minsker, who lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan, highly recommends the pro-cess.

“It was honestly the most fun and meditative part about putting together my wed-ding,” he says. “By the time the wedding rolled around, it was ‘hit play on the playlist.”’

Diy Music: Takes some work, but can be done

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Guests dancing at a self-DJ’d wed-ding at Camp Lotus in Lotus, Calif.maddie eiSenhart via ap


Many couples find the honeymoon

can waitby aLiCia ranCiLio aSSoCiated preSS

NEW YORK (AP) — “Where are you going on your honey-moon?”

It’s one of the most com-mon questions asked of a couple engaged to marry.

Another appropriate ques-tion these days: “WHEN are you taking your honey-moon?”

For a variety of reasons, many couples now put off their post-wedding trip. Weddings are expensive, so shelling out more for a vaca-tion right away may be too much. Some couples want more time to map out a trip that lives up to the honey-moon hype. Or there might be work demands, school or other obligations that get in the way.

Heather Hurley of Arling-ton, Virginia, and her hus-band, Jason, bought their first home shortly before their June 2014 wedding. They didn’t have the time or energy to think about a hon-eymoon then.

“Since we weren’t in any rush and we didn’t have any honeymoon deadline, we said, ‘Let’s wait a year and combine our delayed honey-moon and sort of a first-anni-versary trip into something really special,”’ she said. They’re now ready, and are

heading to Iceland for a week in June.

“A lot of people are used to the tradition: You’re en-gaged, you get married, and then you go on your honey-moon and that’s it,” Hurley said. “We felt like we were in a whirlwind starting with the home-buying process and then a couple months later getting married. That was a lot of planning and timing and energy, and we wanted to recover from that and re-ally rest up and appreciate the honeymoon trip, instead of feeling like it’s the slog at

the end of a marathon.”Compared to previous gen-

erations, many of today’s couples are marrying older, and they’re often paying for the wedding, rather than having their parents do it.

“Things like living togeth-er already, having a home, having two incomes but not that much savings for the wedding of your dreams — I think those factors go into why people would postpone their honeymoon,” says Sara Margulis, founder of Hon-eyfund.com, a wedding-gift registry company that helps couples raise money from friends and relatives for their honeymoon.

“Two jobs, having to co-ordinate the time off, where people are in their careers when they get married — a lot of times it’s harder to take the time off that you would want to take,” she said.

Tiffany and Bryan March-

and of Montgomery, Ala-bama, were married in March 2014. Bryan had re-cently started a new job and didn’t have vacation time. They waited until last Febru-ary to go to Disneyworld and Universal Studios in Florida.

“Taking a delayed honey-moon was a blessing in dis-guise,” said Tiffany, since it gave her more time to plan both the wedding and the trip.

Kelly Hills says that af-ter she married Nick Evans in April 2014, staying home together was more exciting than taking a trip together. The couple met on Twitter and had a trans-continental courtship: Nick lived in Aus-tralia and Kelly was in the U.S.

“Just being in the same time zone was so novel,” re-called Hills.

They’re heading to Barba-dos in May for their delayed honeymoon.

the Later-Moon Heather Hurley and her husband Jason Hurley, from Boston Common in Boston, Mas-sachusetts were married in 2015. The couple is now ready to head to Iceland for a week in June 2015. heather

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With its perfect combina-tion of elegance and soft-ness, bright sparkles and gentle hues, a shabby chic wedding complements the individuality and beauty of brides of every age and walk of life. And, thanks to many rental stores increasing their inventory of shabby chic items, it’s also one of the eas-iest and most fun wedding

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1. Flowers and lace are the perfect marriage

Lace isn’t just for your

wedding gown and flowers aren’t just for your bouquet.

Touches of lace added throughout the ceremony and reception underscore the air of nostalgic elegance that’s essential to shabby chic.

This can be as easy as add-ing lace touches to wedding invitations or using pieces of lace as placemats or coast-ers on reception tables. Or, it can be as grand as a lace tent liner that evokes a romantic, bygone era.

Florals are key to creating a shabby chic look. Whether the bride and groom stand

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beneath a bower of pas-tel blooms while exchang-ing vows, or floral accents throughout the bride’s cou-ture, flowers and floral pat-terns lend romance and grace to every aspect of a shabby chic wedding.

2. Light the wayLight plays an impor-

tant role in any shabby chic themed event. For weddings, vintage-looking chandeliers, candelabras and hurricane lamps act both as decorative items and sources of roman-tic light. It’s easy to add the-matic lighting to any wed-ding, even if your reception will be in an ordinary hall or tent.

Rental companies offer an array of lighting options that can be temporarily out-fitted to any venue. Adorn tables with classic silver can-delabras or add a stunning crystal chandelier to an out-door tent.

Many rental stores have increased their inventory of shabby chic decor items to meet brides’ demands, so renting can give you ac-cess to greater variety. Plus, you’ll reap the cost savings of renting versus buying.

3. Layers of textureThe pleasing union of di-

verse colors and textures is at the heart of a shabby chic wedding. Soft colors are the perfect foil for sparkles, and distressed wood comple-

ments the beauty of aged metals like silver and pewter.

All these elements come to-gether to evoke the grace and comfort of bygone times. Look for creative ways to harmoniously incorporate these touches into your wed-ding. For example, display your wedding cake, adorned with real flowers, atop a rus-

tic wooden table. Decorate an antique metal birdcage with lace and ribbon and use it as a holder where recep-tion guests can deposit cards for the bride and groom. Add petite crystal and pearl ac-cents to bouquets and cen-terpieces. For a rustic food table, rent wooden barrels, top with an aged wooden

plank, and present food on vintage serving plates.

Finally, look for inspira-tion online. Resources like Pinterest, Etsy and theknot yield a wealth of ideas, and you can browse photos of other weddings and bridal creations to find the perfect look for your shabby chic wedding.


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NEW YORK (AP) — Kate MacHugh has a fabulous fi-ance, except when it comes to wedding planning.

“When I was a little girl I always envisioned it as ‘my wedding,’ where I would make all the decisions and my faceless groom would show up when I told him to in the suit that I picked out and he paid for,” said the Beachwood, New Jersey, so-cial worker and bride to be.

“Flash forward to now — my fiance has an opin-ion on EVERYTHING,” Ma-cHugh said, endorsing that approach with this caveat: “He’s a huge procrastinator and doesn’t understand that planning a wedding takes a boatload of work, time and coordination. He believes ev-ery small detail will fall into place without any effort on our part.”

So goes the dilemma of many modern-day grooms. No longer on the sidelines, they’re ready, willing and able to participate, but what’s a groom to do when he hasn’t been planning ev-ery detail of his dream wed-ding since boyhood, has never shopped for or worn a tuxedo and doesn’t know his carats from his karats?

“My advice for all you grooms out there? Listen to your bride. She knows what she’s talking about. If she tells you that at the eight-

month mark you should have picked a venue, she’s right. If she’s droning on about get-ting your frat brothers’ ad-dresses for save-the-dates, you really need to get them to her. And never, I repeat, never call her a bridezilla,” advises the 26-year-old Ma-cHugh, who’s getting hitched Oct. 10.

Some grooms are happy to leave the details to their partners, said Kristen Ley, a “wedding broker” who works with couples and vendors in the Atlanta area. But if you want an active groom in the

lead-up, get him in the plan-ning loop from the get-go, she urges.

“If he doesn’t feel includ-ed, he won’t be, and when it comes time for him to chip in, the interest won’t be there,” Ley said.

Let him put that tool chest or George Foreman grill on the wedding registry, or don suspenders or wacky colored socks on the big day if he so chooses, Ley suggests.

Above all, grooms can’t have their wedding wishes fulfilled if they don’t speak up, said Danielle Rothwei-

ler, a wedding and event planner in West Orange, New Jersey.

“The No. 1 thing I always tell grooms is that they MUST be vocal when planning a wedding,” she said.

It’s been awhile since Eric San Juan was a groom. He’s been married for 15 years, but he wrote a new book aimed squarely at grooms: “Stuff Every Groom Should Know,” part of a series of handy manuals from Quirk Books.

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What’s a groom to do?When it comes to planning

meL evanS | aP Photo

Friday, April 24, 2015 photo, Kate MacHugh and fiance CJ (Christopher John) Ecke walk together in Pine Beach, N.J. “My advice for all you grooms out there? Listen to your bride. She knows what she’s talking about. If she tells you that at the eight-month mark you should have picked a venue, she’s right.

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Try these pro tips from San Juan:

popping the QueStionSan Juan acknowledges

there’s no one way, but he’s not a huge fan of stunt pro-posals. The kind that actu-ally involve the public, that is, like asking via Jumbotron at a ballpark. Your propos-al may just go viral for the wrong reasons.

“You risk putting the per-son you’re asking in a really awkward situation. Maybe he or she isn’t in the same place. Maybe the answer won’t be yes,” San Juan said in an in-terview.

If you want the proposal photographed or filmed, find a photographer or videogra-pher willing to shoot in se-cret to preserve the moment.

Also, consider going old school and asking your part-ner’s parents for permission to pop the question.

And never steal another couple’s thunder. Proposing at the wedding of a friend, relative or colleague is not a good idea, he said.

piCKing a tuXDo you even need one? Tra-

ditionally, they’re worn after 6 p.m. Morning or afternoon weddings call for a morning suit, usually dark gray.

Renting a tuxedo is cheap-er and ensures groomsmen will match, but a custom tux is a nicer fit and worth the in-vestment if a groom thinks he’ll wear it again, San Juan

said.With arms down at the

sides, fingertips should reach the bottom of the jack-et, he said. Pants should hit the tops of the shoes. Silk is the desired tux fabric for summer, while cashmere, wool and flannel are popular for winter.

Rock the bowtie. It’s the classic option. And don’t fear the cummerbund. Mod-ern ‘bunds are sleeker and more flattering than they used to be.

“Most men are not particu-larly well-versed in getting a tux,” San Juan said. “Don’t go into the process with the I’m-not-going-to-ask-for-direc-tions mindset.”

the man CryThere may be tears and

they may be yours, guys.“The ideal man cry is a

cry that is in control. It’s not blubbering,” San Juan said.

A groom should avoid talk-ing if his voice is going to crack. He should pause to compose himself. Man tears are awesome; “squeaky man voice, not so much,” San Juan said.

Dab, don’t rub. Surely the best man remembered the

handkerchief to gently pat at tears. Rubbing reddens eyes.

And avoid loud honking when nose-blowing.

“If you really can’t stop sobbing, visualize something totally un-sad to get yourself back in the game,” San Juan advises.

drunK CoLLege FriendSA groom’s side is often full

of the guys he used to raise hell with. A generous tip for the bartender will help en-sure they get cut off before the point of no return, San Juan said.

Stay on top of the toasts pre-reception to avoid the colorful or awkward ones. And grooms should rely on their best men to police the unruly.

“You can’t completely avoid some degree of mad-ness when it comes to your friends, but hopefully the best man can handle it,” San Juan said.

As for a groom’s imbibing, he should pace himself. Don’t down a full drink after every toast. Old buddies taking an open bar to the limit is one thing. Joining them is a mis-take.


a grooM’s job: Things to do leading up to the big day‘Most men are not particularly well-versed

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