joan duveen 2011. tod und trauer / verlust (g) dood en rouw (nl) la mort et le deuil (f) 2© joan...

Joan Duveen

2011

Tod und Trauer / Verlust (G)

Dood en Rouw (NL)

La Mort et le Deuil (F)

2© Joan Duveen 2011

© Joan Duveen 2011 3

• Guidance• Life and Death • Five phases• Death pulses• Gui - Ghosts

Guidance


A peaceful death is one of the fundamental rights of man

It is an act of love to support someone to pass away peacefully

Be yourself. Nothing special is expected Be honest Keyword: compassion


Give space to all emotions of the dying person

Be receiving and receptive. No personal beliefs

Give positive confirmation, comfort and love


Be careful what you say near the dying or dead person

Be careful with touching the dead person Create a peaceful environment Talk with soft voice Take away tensions (also concerning

material things, a last will etc.)


East: - A life long event to understand reality; to let go of the

personality (ego) - Transformation via the inside

West: - Dialogue with others and God - Transformation via the outside


Knowing yourself and Transformation of the self Death opens; releases tensions, brings

tensions to the surface No time for “frills”


Suffering, fright, fear

Anger Joy (Laughter) Worry, thinking,

desire Anguish Grief Hate Love pain

Kidneys

Liver Heart Spleen and Lungs

Lung Lung Colon Gallbladder, Heart


Creates : Bitterness Liv yin xu, Gb shi Growth Wood balanced

Scatters and deranges the qi

Pulse Ki: Taut, Sunken, Jumping


Da qi – Gu qi

Ki grasping Lung qi Destiny, Ming Men, Door of Life

Ki 1 (Yong Quan Bubbling Spring) Vitality, Courage

Chung Mai connected to Earth Revives consciousness and rescues yang.


Zhen, upright It is normal to have moments of fear Renunciation, self dinial, turning away

alternates with fear Ask questions (not when there is a panic

attack) Love will relieve fear


Creates : Stagnation or cause qi to rise Temporary movement of qi Lack of care and compassion (S.i)

Pulse: - Tight, wiry, but not in Liver - Liver agitated


Saying “No” and “Yes” No against outer world/ circumstances Yes against inner world Creating new nucleus Unfolding new events


Creates : Bitterness Inability to integrate to be centered Slows down and relaxes the qi Often due to Hc xu Ht - Hc Ht – Si,Th

Pulse Ht: scattered


Gaining Shen results in Life What are my possibilities? Door to meaning of life


Creates : Stagnation of qi, lack of transformation Too centered. Egocentric

Earth necessary to hold the Po

Pulse Sp: constricted


Creates : Stagnation of circulation of qi Disperses and consumes the qi


Creates : Kidney yin xu leading to depression, melancholy

(suppressed grief, loosing contact with origin of grief)

Severe grief but subdued (with contact to origin): Anguish, leading to more Ki yin Xu or stagnation of Fluids. (Dryness and Heat)

Pulse Lu: Rough, Trickling (thin and rough)


General Treatment principle: Balance Hun and Po.


Gathering and transmitting divine inspiration and spiritual insights.

Giving and receiving unconditional love. Motivation of spiritual growth through prayer,

devotion and commitment.


Strives for purity and governs intuitive communication nourished by spiritual intuition and divine insight

Governs spiritual growth and maturation.


Strives for a balanced social life and communication with empathy and sympathy, nourished by spiritual attitude and virtues.


Strives for pleasure and passion based on movement, nourished and balanced by quiescence and serenity.


Bl 47, Hun Men, Hun Gate, Door of the soul. Depression, frustration, resentment (long term). Roots Hun and helps to plan one's life, find sense

of direction and purpose. Vague fear at night from Yin xu.


Liv 4, Zhong Feng, Central Blockade, Middle Seal: Balances Hun and Po.

Liv 5, Li Gou, Drain of CalfWith fear, nervousness, depression. Use only together with Gb37 or Gb40.


Responsible for the development of growth of consciousness through obstacles and passionate experiences.

Five Po in relation to the Wu XingTwo related to Heaven and Earth.


Earth Po creates worry and regret Metal Po creates grief, sadness and shame Water Po creates fear and loneliness Wood Po creates anger, resentment and blame Fire Po creates nervousness and excitements

Heaven Po creates nightmares Earth Po creates envy with bitterness


Lu 1, Zhong Fu, Central/ Middle PalaceWorks on the Po, directs Qi and Blood within the Mai - like Po.

Moves blockages in Lungs


Lu 2, Yun Men, Cloud Gate:Meeting point of Large Intestine & Lungs. Beginning of Lung Mai, as Lu 1, is also meeting point of Lung & Spleen.

Door to which the Qi of the Upper Jiao emerges to circulate in the body. Gently diffuses energy from top to bottom of the body.


Lu 3, Tian Fu. Celestial StorehouseWorks on Po directly.

Calms the Po. Sadness, depression, weeping, disorientation, forgetfulness and somnolence/insomnia (if from Lung imbalance).


Enlightening and enlivening effect. Allows free communication with universal spirit when locked inside oneself.

+ Gb41: Balances Hun and Po.


Lu 7, Lie Que, Broken Sequence Takes Qi from inside to outside, drags up

emotions. Descends Lu-qi Strengthens Po, early death (!)


Emotional tension caused by unsettled Hun which manifests in a physical form (tense shoulders, shallow breathing and feelings of oppression in the chest).

Calms the mind and settles the Hun.


Lu 9, Tai Yuan, Great/ Supreme Abyss Someone in abyss of grief and despair. Earth

point on Lung links Earth with Qi bringing nourishment, security and love.

Use only with strength in Earth. It will otherwise lead to weakness and imbalance in Spleen and Stomach.

Takes Qi from outside to inside. Nourishes and strengthen Po aswell, early death

(!)


Bl 13, Fei Shu, Lung Shu Nei Jing: Diagnoses nervous depression: When there is a disturbance of the energy with a

swollen abdomen, swollen chest and difficult respiration, one must needle Lu 1 and Lu 2. If one applies finger pressure to these points and on Bl 13, the patient feels energy rise. If one presses very strongly, the patient feels relief.


Bl 37 (42), Po Hu, Po Door, Door of Vital Fluid Descends Lu – qi Cleansing through all openings Incontinence of urine and faeces from fright (Po

Men) Accesses Po very deeply, reconnecting to the

essential being and helping rediscover the preciousness and quality of life.

Soothing for the spirit.


Bl 38 (43), Gao Huang Shu, Vital Region Shu, Yu of Vital Centers

Nourishes Lung, Heart, Kidney, Spleen and Stomach.

Nourishes Yin and clears heat. Nervous depression, loss of memory, coldness, weakness.

Fosters Yuan Qi. Tonifies all deficient conditions. Nourishes man in his autonomy independent

from his mother-(figure).


Creates imbalance in the 7 Po, Lower Dan Tien: Depression: Kidney yin xu leading to, melancholy, loneliness,

insecurity. “Leave me alone, to die” Po related to Water (Yin) Posterior of Cv8 in front of line Gv20-Cv1 Affirmative answer: Wisdom


Creates imbalance in the 7 Po, Middle Dan Tien: Suppressed grief, loosing contact with origin of

grief Lung qi xu: anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt “I just want to die” Po related to Metal (Spirit) Posterior of Cv17 Affirmative answer: Integrity


Creates imbalance in the 7 Po, Upper Dan Tien: Anguish: Severe grief but subdued (with contact

to origin) Leading to more Ki yin Xu or stagnation of Fluids. Nightmares, restless sleep (Dryness and Heat) Po related to Heaven (The Yin bird) Below Gv 20 Affirmative answer: Oneness, Radiance


Creates : Dryness and heat Is the negative side of love (Wood-Metal) Being indifferent is opposite of Love

Pulse Co: Taut, thin and rapid


Creates : Lack of guidance and direction Feels paralysed

Pulse Gb: Constricted


Life and Death


Revelation of Life has a centrifugal movement = development of Being

Development of Consciousness has a centripetal movement


Doing=Sowing Centrifugal movement (development of

Being) is doing, based on desire and attachment.

Learning from experience = Harvesting Man has consciousness so he can go back

to the center, the Universal spark, the Universal intelligence.


The end The greatest lesson of life Passing Finish No more Yang Birth on another level ?


We talk without “knowing” We depend on: - clairvoyants

- memories- nearly death experiences- experiences

The way we die, the way we live



“The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, answered “Man”. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”

Structure 5 Zang firm Channels genial and harmonious Muscles smooth and moist Skin fine and dense Ying and Wei qi normal Respiration light and slow Qi running moderate way with proper speed 6 Fu convert cereals and body fluids spread

to orifices


50 years: Liver 60 years: Heart 70 years: Spleen 80 years: Lungs 90 years: Kidney 100 years: all organs, no more spirit


The spirit enters the body Mother provides foundation Father provides construction Father and Mother coming together means

inspirited, inspired, breath, life, qi Gaining Spirit means life Loosing Spirit means death


Form can’t hold Life Emancipation of the Self Shen – Hun Yi Po - Zhi


Shen leaves the body Ideally through Gv20 Often through Po Men Bl 35, Hui Yang, Meeting of Yang Bl 56, Cheng Jin, Supporting Muscles Bl 57, Cheng Shan, Supporting Mountain Bl 60, Kun Lun Mountain


Meeting Point of all Yang meridians Receives a vessel from the Liver and

Bladder TMMs and the Three Heater Divergent meridian

Sea of Bone marrow Entry Point Sends a vessel to the Brain (Jing!) Lifts the Spirit; recaptures the Yang


Blocked - delusions, mood swings, feel victimized.

Open - feel radiance and in tune with Higher Self


“The door of the corporeal soul (i.e. anus) is the messenger for the five viscera and it drains off water and food without storing them for too long.”

Bl 37 (42) Po Hu, Door of Po, Window of the Corporeal Soul

Incontinence of urine and faeces from fright.


Sends Lu qi down Accesses Po very deeply, reconnecting to

the essential being and helping rediscover the preciousness and quality of life.

Soothing for the spirit


0.5 sun lateral to the tip of the coccyx, just above Gv 1

Lower jiao damp heat and Yang xu. Broken coccyx Gb Good for weakness of Yang. With moxa warms body and lifts spirits Meeting of Yang, Returning of Yang, to slow

down death. Shen leaves through anus (Po Men)


5 and 8 sun inferior to Bl 40 (54) Relaxes muscles, alleviates pain in lumbar

spine, lower leg, feet and heels. Hemorrhoids, oedema legs, knees, heat sole

of foot, constipation, incontinence. Special point for muscle dystrophy Treat hemorrhoids, release constriction of

anus, release tightness of rectal area


Releases the Spirit through Po Men


Kun Lun is a mountain in relation with the center of man as connection between Heaven and Man.

Post - natal / Pre - natal connection Bl 60 from Post-natal to another level of

Pre-natal To release the Soul through Po Men (anus),

to the light (Tai Yang) of the mountain in the West.

Bl67 from Pre-natal to Post-natal.


Upper Dantian: Yin Tang - Gv 16 - Gv 20

Essence, Pineal gland

Middle Dantian: Cv 12/Gv 6 - Cv 17/ Gv 11 - Cv 22/Gv 14 Heart

Lower Dantian: Cv 1 - Cv 8 - Gv 4 - posterior Cv 4 (male) or posterior Cv 6 (female) Golden Stove


The spirit enters the body In the middle Dan Tian: an area between

Cv12, Zhong Wan (guan) and Gv6, Ji Zhong, Cv 17, Shen Zhong and Gv 11, Shen Dao and a point between Cv 22, Tian Tu and Gv 14, Du Zhui

The middle Dan Tian transforms Qi into Shen, which is housed in the heart.


HUI Point of the FU. Stimulates all the Yang Regulates Stomach qi, Center of Yong qi The place/seat of Life

Psycho - emotional: obsession, sadness, concerns

N.B. Cv14: Centre of Shen, The source of Life


Central point - earthy, grounding. Ji means to accumulate Level of adrenals - helps pump life force

up spine.

Psycho-emotional: Open - feeling of freedom. Blocked - feeling burdened


Sea of Qi (also known as the HUI Point of QI).

MU Point of Three Heater (Upper Heater) and Pericardium.

Regulates ascending QI. - Meeting of all Yang, Shao Yin and Pericardium

Meeting Point of the Three-Arm Yin TMMs


“it is by Cv -17 that the Qi returns to the interior of the body by the route of the Three-Heater, after having circulated externally via the route of the Pericardium" .


Some say: from here is flow of energy around HT to crown centre.

Helps activate energy of love, joy, peace and happiness.

Governs Yin psychological problems like depression etc., Shen Xu

Recommended for weak HT or sluggish qi Blocked - feeling of burden, hopelessness,

melancholy and chaos. Free - love of life, joy, peace with the world


Celestial Chimney Yin Wei Mai Sp Thyroid Yin from thorax to head


Meeting point of all the Yang meridians. (receives qi of all secondary vessels of the Yang of the entire body)

Tonifies Yang qi. Raises all Yang Direct action on pituitary and suprarenal

glands


The spirit enters the body In the lower Dan Tian: Cv4, Guan Yuan,

Origin Pass The Yuan Qi and Jing Qi are stored in the

lower Dan Tian. They determine the constitutional strength

and vitality

Psycho-emotional: Psychosis


The spirit enters the body From behind it enters at Gv4, the Gate of

Life, Ming Men. This is the root of the Yuan Qi, determining life and death

From the front it enters at Ki 21, You Men, Dark or Hidden Gate, it influences the Kidneys to decide about the form and the power of the blood.


Ming Men - Door of Life. Helps tonify qi of whole body. When this point is attacked, it is because

the Yang has triumphed over Yin. The body is burning hot “like a fire“ with very high temperature


Nei Ching (Ch.6): Chi Po studied the combination of Yin and Yang, their separation and union, and noted the function of Tai Yang and Du Mai: The root of Tai Yang is located in Bl 67 and its terminating point is Gv 4".

Psycho-emotional: Flowing - emotional gentleness

Blocked - fear of being taken advantage of


Brings Yin up to chest, sends Yin to legs Balances Yin and Yang Opens gate between St and duodenum;

works on pylorus sphincter (needle on right) Spreads LIV qi. Influences the Liver: Wei qi, circulation of

blood, metabolism of food, collector of and conserves blood

Psycho-emotional: Helps person face fears and move on with life (Hun)


Death happens when Yin and Yang separate:

Water (Pre-natal Qi) becomes too weak: Water, Form and Substance cannot hold the Fire, Life and Spirit.

One dies from a relative surplus of Yang. The Shen (the Spirit) and Hun (the spiritual

soul) return to their origin, Heaven, the Yang Root

The Po (the physical soul) returns to its origin, Earth, the Yin Root.


The Spirit leaves the body after death Ideally at Gv 20 (Bai Hui). It can leave the body also at different

openings (as Po Men)


Five Phases


Denial Negotiate and aggression Depression Acceptance and surrender New birth; Deep desires, ideals and the

view you have of yourself, are creative powers and are as well qualifying a new creation


Su Wen: To work hard without fatigue

Centered Ability to integrate and to

transform Patience Inner foundation Nourishing qi (Yung qi) Denial is needed to balance the

Earth


Denial:i. Patientii.Familyiii.Patient and Family


Denial is needed to balance the Earth

Imbalance: Spleen Transformation - transportation Spine Irresponsibility Xu: No growth Shi: Piling up (physical,

emotional, mental)


Su Wen: To satisfy desires naturally

Will power and wisdom Letting go of desires; quit

obedience Determination, discrimination Ancestral qi, Yuan qi, Jing qi Habits Negotiation is needed to balance

Water


Water not feeding Wood Annoyance Resentment, Grudge (Wo-E) Envy


Negotiation is needed to balance Water

Imbalance: Kidneys – Jing; Innermost being Problems loins and thighs and

lower back Water not feeding Wood Xu: dries up, heat Shi: disaster of floods


Su Wen: Maintain a peaceful mind without fear

Consciousness, Awareness, Focus

Shen; rising bright energy Compassion, Love and Warmth Depression: Fire breaks out.


Depression Retroactive:i. Shameii.Low Self Esteemiii.Need for practical support,

contact and togetherness


Depression Preparatory:i. Bereavement and anxiety

treatmentii.Need for physical contact,

silence, keeping silent, periods of sleep


Depression: Fire breaks out. Imbalance: Heart and Heart constrictor Problems chest and ribs Fire breaks out due to Ki xu Xu: hidden brightness Shi: excessive brightness


Su Wen: To obtain satisfaction of every need

Strength The effort to learn, to gather Peaceful qi in contact with

heaven and earth. Zhong qi Acceptance and surrender

needed for peaceful passing


Balance : Less emotional No interest for news etc No visitors needed More non-verbal contact Moments of silence When asked: stay till the end


Needed for peaceful passing Imbalance: Could be fake; subdued depression

or subdued aggression Lung Problems shoulder and upper back Fire breaks out to Lungs!, Lack of

joy. Justifying oneself Xu: susceptible to burning fire Shi: Hard complexion


Su Wen: To obtain a smooth energy circulation

Gentleness Creativity and decisiveness Healthy Wei qi New “birth”


Imbalance Liver Neck problems Loosing discrimination

between subject and object Xu: withering peace Shi: Spreading of life energy


No qi Heavy White complexion Difficult to open/close eyes Dark spots in teeth Sunken cheeks The form ceases Spirit: excited, disturbed,

dull


Looses control body fluids Nose drips, fluids from eyes,

incontinence, mouth water Can’t move tongue Eyes dry, lips tight, no blood Mouth, throat blocked Thirst Feeling ceases Spirit: unhappy, nervous


Dry nose and mouth Body heat ceases No digestion possible Can’t look outside Awareness ceases Spirit: awareness disturbed,

no recognition/ memory of family


Difficult breathing No movement Hallucinations Intellect ceases Spirit: confused, no longer

conscious of the outside world


Everything dissolves in consciousness

The essences of all experiences, thoughts and emotions are collected in the heart

Upside-down conception= =Death


Heart stops – Shen leaves Kidneys stop the latest Leave the body for a few

hours



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