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Human Behavior in OrganizationImportance Goals Nature of People

Importance of HBOy

its important to know how people, as individuals and as groups, act within organizations.

Goals of HBOTo describe y To understand y To predict y To controly

The Nature of PeopleIndividual Difference Law of Individual Difference y Perception y A Whole Person y Desire for involvement y Value of the Person y Motivated Behaviory

Remember organizational excellence begins with the performance of people it is what people do or do not do that ultimately determines what the organization can or cannot become it is our job as an I.E. to develop and promote behavioral patterns that are consistent with the achievement of goals

The issue is how to motivate your people! Motivate people towards excellent performance! It is our primary task as managers The question is WHAT IS MOTIVATION? It refers to the WHY and CAUSE of behavior. Motivation is the strength of the drive towards an action.

Basic Motivation ModelGoal Ability

Needs and Drives

Tension

Effort

Perform ance

Reward s

Needs Satisfaction

Influence of Culturey y

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Self esteem or Amor-propio -sensitive to words or actions of others Embarrassment or Hiya -behaving in what is deemed to be an acceptable way Obligation or Utang na Loob -repaying favors Getting Along Together or Pakikisama -SIR (smooth Interpersonal Relations) that may lead to innefficiencies

Three Patterns of Motivationy

Achievement Motivation Affiliation Motivation Power Motive

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Needs SatisfactionWhy do we have to satisfy their needs? They behave in order to satisfy their needs!

Needs Satisfaction Approach to Motivation

Internal needs

Behavior

Outcome

Needs Satisfaction

Abraham Maslows Hierarchy of Needs

Physiological Needs y Safety and Security Needs y Love and Social Needs y Esteem and Status Needs y Self-actualization or Self-fulfillment Needsy

a satisfied need is no longer a motivator!... as one need is satisfied, another need emerges

Clayton Alderfers ERG Model

Existence: Physiological and safety needs 2. Relatedness: Social and external esteem needs 3. Growth: Self-actualization and internal esteem needs1.

Frederick Herzbergs Motivation-Hygiene MotivationTheory (Two Factor Theory)Need to Avoid Pain Need for Achievement Motivational Factors Job Content Intrinsic Factors Satisfies Examples Achievement Recognition Work itself Responsibility Advancement Growth Hygiene Factors Job Context Extrinsic Factors Dissatisfies Examples Company policy Quality of supervision Relations with supervisors, peers, & subordinates Pay, job security, status Work conditions

Behavior Modification1. 2. 3. 4.

Positive Reinforcement Negative Reinforcement Punishment Extinction

Reinforcement Guidelines1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6.

Specify behavior to be reinforced. Reinforce specified behavior at once. Reward small achievements as well. Provide material as well as nonmaterial incentives. Offer small rewards Reinforce at intermittent intervals

Activitiesy

Expectancy theoryExpectancy probability Instrumentality probability Valence

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Case studies

Group and Work Behavior

Elements of a Group Types of a Group The Importance of Groups in Work Organization Limitations of Group and Group Work Group Development Group Structure Group Goals

Elements of GroupWhat is a Group? Common interests and goals binds the members of a group y How do we differentiate a group into an individual and an organization?y

Types of GroupFormal Group 2. Informal Group1.Basis of Comparison General Nature Major Concepts Primary Focus Source of Leader Power Guidelines for Behavior Sources of Control Informal Organization Unofficial Power and Politics Person Given by Group Norms Sanctions Formal Organization Official Authority and Responsibility Position Delegated by Management Rules Rewards and Penalties

Group FormationFormal Group Informal Group

Informal Group

Formal Group

Benefits

Problems

Makes a more effective total system Develops undesirable rumor Lightens workload on management Helps get the work done Tends to encourage cooperation Fills in gaps in a managers abilities Gives satisfaction and stability to work groups Improves communication Provides a safety value for employee emotions Encourages managers to plan and act more carefully Contributes to higher cohesiveness Encourages negatives attitudes Resists change Leads to interpersonal and intergroup conflicts Rejects and harasses some employees Weakens motivation and satisfaction Operates outside of managements control Supports conformity Develop role conflicts

Importance of Groups in Work Organizationssocial needs are among the most compelling, potent and powerful onthe-job motivators changing group opinion is more effective than changing opinions of individuals

Limitations of Group and Group Workdo you agree that most innovation and creativity are done not by groups but by individuals alone? 1. Deindividuating Effects 2. Majority Rule 3. Groupthink 4. Free Riding

What is the main justification of a groups existence?

Goals!

Management and Culture

Management and CultureDescribes the psychology, attitudes, experiences, beliefs and values (personal and cultural values) of an organization. y It has been defined as "the specific collection of values and norms that are shared by people and groups in an organization and that control the way they interact with each other and with stakeholders outside the organization."y

Corporate Cultureis the total sum of the values, customs, traditions and meanings that make a company unique. Corporate culture is often called "the character of an organization" since it embodies the vision of the companys founders The values of a corporate culture influence the ethical standards within a corporation, as well as managerial behavior

Men That Classified Organizational CultureGeert Hofstede y Deal and Kennedy y Charles Handy y Edgar Schein y Arthur F Carmazziy

Gerard Hendrik Hofstede October 3,1928y

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an influential Dutch writer on the interactions between national cultures and organizational cultures, and is an author of several books including Culture's Consequences. Hofstede's study demonstrated that there are national and regional cultural groupings that affect the behaviour of societies and organizations, and that are very persistent across time. Hofstede looked for national differences between over 100,000 of IBM's employees in different parts of the world, in an attempt to find aspects of culture that might influence business behavior.

Hofstede identified five dimensions of culture in his study of national influences:y y

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Low vs. High Power Distance- the extent to which the less powerful members of institutions and organizations expect and accept that power is distributed unequally. Individualism vs. collectivism- refers to the extent to which people are expected to stand up for themselves and to choose their own affiliations, or alternatively act predominantly as a member of a life-long group or organization. Masculinity vs. femininity- 'masculine' cultures value competitiveness, assertiveness, ambition, and the accumulation of wealth and material possessions, whereas feminine cultures place more value on relationships and quality of life. Uncertainty avoidance- reflects the extent to which members of a society attempt to cope with anxiety by minimizing uncertainty. Long vs. short term orientation- describes a society's "time horizon," or the importance attached to the future versus the past and present.

Deal and Kennedydefined organizational culture as the way things get done around here y Feedback - quick feedback means an instant response. This could be in monetary terms, but could also be seen in other ways, such as the impact of a great save in a soccer match. y Risk - represents the degree of uncertainty in the organizations activities.

Four Classifications of Organizational Culture:The Tough-Guy Macho Culture. Feedback is quick and the rewards are high. This often applies to fast moving financial activities such as brokerage, but could also apply to a police force, or athletes competing in team sports. This can be a very stressful culture in which to operate. y The Work Hard/Play Hard Culture is characterized by few risks being taken, all with rapid feedback. This is typical in large organizations, which strive for high quality customer service. It is often characterized by team meetings, jargon and buzzwords. y The Bet your Company Culture, where big stakes decisions are taken, but it may be years before the results are known. Typically, these might involve development or exploration projects, which take years to come to fruition, such as oil prospecting or military aviation. y The Process Culture occurs in organizations where there is little or no feedback. People become bogged down with how things are done not with what is to be achieved. This is often associated with bureaucracies. While it is easy to criticize these cultures for being overly cautious or bogged down in red tape, they do produce consistent results, which is ideal in, for example, public services.y

Charles Handy (born 1932)y y

is an Irish author/philosopher specializing in organizational behavior and management. popularized the 1972 work of Roger Harrison of looking at culture which some scholars have used to link organizational structure to organizational culture.

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Power Culture which concentrates power among a few. Control radiates from the center like a web. Power Cultures have few rules and little bureaucracy; swift decisions can ensue. Role Culture, people have clearly delegated authorities within a highly defined structure. Typically, these organizations form hierarchical bureaucracies. Power derives from a person's position and little scope exists for expert power. Task Culture, teams are formed to solve particular problems. Power derives from expertise as long as a team requires expertise. These cultures often feature the multiple reporting lines of a matrix structure. Person Culture exists where all individuals believe themselves superior to the organization. Survival can become difficult for such organizations, since the concept of an organization suggests that a group of like-minded individuals pursue the organizational goals. Some professional partnerships can operate as person cultures, because each partner brings a particular expertise and clientele to the firm.

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Management of Conflict

What is Conflict?It arises when the interest of people do not coincide. y Why is there a high potential of conflict in human interactions? Cite some examples.y

In organizations, large number of people congregate under one roof in a joint pursuit of purpose

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Is the probability of conflict and the number of people directly proportional in nature?

Yes. y Because there will be higher number of human interactions!y

Conflict when left unattended will lead into _______.Chaos. y Yet, conflict can also lead to higher creativity just as muscles grow stronger when exercised against resistance. Because --y and Note: two heads are better than one, If both are not emptyy

Why manage conflict?Hence it would be wiser to allow conflict up to some degree, to trigger creativity--- growth. y Managers should: 1. recognize the conflict, 2. face the conflict, 3. stimulate it up to a certain level, 4. and ultimately manage it.y

The nature of conflictConflict is a relationship. y It occurs at least two persons, groups, orgs, nations. y Emotions run high and tension increases. y Emotions cloud the judgment of the protagonist.y

Four Areas of DisagreementsFacts. The present situation or problem y Goals. What should be done or accomplished y Methods. The best way to accomplish goals. y Values. Principles, qualities, and concepts.y

Typically, disagreements over facts are easiest to settle while differences

Take note: conflict requires energy It takes human EFFORT to escalate or deescalate it it takes emotional energy to suppress or deny a conflict; and, IT TAKES EVEN MORE TO CONFRONT IT

Life Expectancy of Conflict

without some stability, any organization cannot function yet, without adaptation it cannot survive Management of Change

What are your reactions when you hear the word change?

Negative perceptions . Positive perceptions .

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Change is the law of nature . It is necessary way of life in most organizations for their survival and growth. Man has to mould himself continuously to meet new demand and face new situations.

Then the question arise what is the organizational change ? the essence of adaptation and innovation

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change in the organization is a must whether brought about deliberately or unwillingly .

Why Change?!The reason for change are categorized as follows, change in: y business conditions, y change in managerial personnel, y deficiency in existing organizational patterns, y technological and psychological reasons, y government

What is the enemy of effectiveness?

Complacency!

Types of Organizational ChangeAnticipatory changes: planned changes based on expected situations. Reactive changes: changes made in response to unexpected situations. Incremental changes: adjustments required to organization on course. subsystem keep the

Strategic changes: altering the overall shape or direction of the organization.

Forces of Changey

External ForcesMarket Place Govt. Laws and Regulations Technology Labor market Economic Change

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Internal ForcesChanges in Organizational Strategies Workforce change New Equipment Employee Attitude

Change Model and the Change CycleLewin s Three Step model y The Change Cycley

Lewin s Three Step modelMost theories of organizational change originated from the landmark work of social psychologist Kurt Lewin. Lewin developed a three - stage model of planned change which explained how to initiate, manage, and stabilize the change process. The three stages are y unfreezing, changing, and refreezing.

UnfreezingThe focus of this stage is to create the motivation to change. In so doing, individuals are encouraged to replace old behaviors and attitudes with those desired by management. Managers can begin the unfreezing process by disconfirming the usefulness or appropriateness of employees' present behaviors or attitudes.

ChangingBecause change involves learning, this stage entails providing employees with new information, new behavioral models, or new ways of looking at things. The purpose is to help employees learn new concepts or points of view. Role models, mentors, experts, benchmarking the company against world-class organizations, and training are useful mechanisms to facilitate change

FreezingChange is stabilized during refreezing by helping employees integrate the changed behavior or attitude into their normal way of doing things. This is accomplished by first giving employees the chance to exhibit the new behaviors or attitudes. Once exhibited, positive reinforcement is used to reinforce the desired.

Lewin s Three Step model

Unfreezing

Change

Freezing

The change cycle gives us a journey through change!How does an individual feel, and behave whenever there change is present? There are 6 stages.

Stage 1 Loss to Safety In Stage 1 you admit to yourself that regardless of whether or not you perceive the change to be good or 'bad" there will be a sense of loss of what "was." Stage 2 Doubt to Reality In this stage, you doubt the facts, doubt your doubts and struggle to find information about the change that you believe is valid. Resentment, skepticism and blame cloud your thinking. Stage 3 Discomfort to Motivation You will recognize Stage 3 by the discomfort it brings. The change and all it means has now become clear and starts to settle in. Frustration and lethargy rule until possibility takes over. The Danger Zone The Danger Zone represents the pivotal place where you make the choice either to move on to Stage 4 and discover the possibilities the change has presented or to choose fear and return to Stage 1. Stage 4 Discovery to Perspective Stage 4 represents the "light at the end of the tunnel." Perspective, anticipation, and a willingness to make decisions give a new sense of control and hope. You are optimistic about a good outcome because you have choices. Stage 5 - Understanding In Stage 5, you understand the change and are more confident, think pragmatically, and your behavior is much more productive. Good thing. Stage 6 - Integration By this time, you have regained your ability and willingness to be flexible. You have insight into the ramifications, consequences and rewards of the change -past, present, and future.

After the changehow will they respond?... People will respond to the changes they like! Accept changes People will respond to the changes the do not like! Resist

How People Respond to Changes They Like?Three-stage process x Unrealistic optimism x Reality shock x Constructive direction

How People Respond to Changes They Fear and Dislike?Stages x Getting off on the wrong track x Laughing it off x Growing self-doubt x Destructive direction

Origin of Resistance to ChangeRational y Emotional y Social y Politicaly

Why Do Employees Resist Change? y Surprisey

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Unannounced significant changes threaten employees sense of balance in the workplace. Inertia Employees have a desire to maintain a safe, secure, and predictable status quo. Misunderstanding and lack of skills Without introductory or remedial training, change may be perceived negatively. Poor Timing Other events can conspire to create resentment about a particular change.

Why Do Employees Resist Change?y

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Emotional Side Effects Forced acceptance of change can create a sense of powerlessness, anger, and passive resistance to change. Lack of Trust Promises of improvement mean nothing if employees do not trust management. Fear of Failure Employees are intimidated by change and doubt their abilities to meet new challenges. Personality Conflicts Managers who are disliked by their managers are poor conduits for change.

Why Do Employees Resist Change?y

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Threat to Job Status/Security Employees worry that any change may threaten their job or security. Breakup of Work Group Changes can tear apart established on-the-job social relationships. Competing Commitments Change can disrupt employees in their pursuit of other goals.

Seven Dynamics of Change

Whatever the kinds of change that people encounter, there are certain patterns of response that occur and re-occur. y Understanding patterns of change allows leaders to avoid over-reacting to the behaviors of people who, at times, seem to be reacting in mysterious, non-adaptive ways.y

People will feel awkward, ill-at-ease ill-atand self-conscious selfWhenever you ask people to do things differently, you disrupt their habitual ways of doing things. y This tends to make people feel awkward or uncomfortable as they struggle to eliminate the old responses and learn the new.y

People initially focus on what they have to give upy

As a change leader you need to acknowledge the loss of the old ways, and not get frustrated at what may seem to be an irrational or tentative response to change.

People will feel alone even if everyone else is going through the same changeEveryone feels that their situation is unique and special. Unfortunately, this tends to increase the sense of isolation for people undergoing change. y It is important for the change leader to be proactive and gentle in showing that the employee's situation is understood. y If you are emotionally and practically supportive during the tough times the change will be easier.y

People can handle only so much changeOn a personal level, people who undergo too much change within too short a time will become physically sick. y While some changes are beyond our control, it is important not to pile change upon change upon change.y

People are at different levels of readiness for changeSome people thrive and change. It's exciting to them. Others don't. It's threatening to them. y Understand that any change will have supporters and people who have difficulty adapting. y In time many people who resist initially will come onside.y

People will be concerned that they don't have enough resourcesPeople perceive that change takes time and effort, even if it has the long term effect of reducing workload. y They are correct that there is a learning time for most change, and that this may affect their work.y

If you take the pressure off, people will revert to their old behaviourIf people perceive that you are not serious about doing things the new way, they will go back to the old way. y Sometimes this will be in the open, and sometimes this will be covert.y

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When planning for change, include a detailed reaction analysis. Try to identify the kinds of reactions and questions that employees will have, and prepare your responses. Remember that the success of any change rests with the ability of the leaders to address both the emotional and practical issues, in that order.

As Industrial Engineers we must be aware how to overcome resistance to changes!...

Strategies for Overcoming Resistance to Change Education and communication Participation and involvement Facilitation and support Negotiation and agreement Manipulation and co-optation Explicit and implicit coercion What is Manipulation? What is Coercion?

LEADER ACTION:Stability Learning, Acceptance & Commitment 1 Create a felt need of change 2 Introduce the Fear,Anger and Resistance 4 Stabilize and Sustain the change 3 Comfort and control

Looking Back

Looking Forward

Revise andfinalize the change plan Enquiry, Experimentation and Discovery

change

Chaos

MAKING CHANGE HAPPEN

Force Field AnalysisForce Field Analysis is a general tool for systematically analyzing the factors found in complex problems. It frames problems in terms of factors or pressures that support the status quo (restraining forces) and those pressures that support change in the desired direction (driving forces). A factor can be people, resources, attitudes, traditions, rgulations, values, needs, desires, etc. As a tool for managing change, Force Field Analysis helps identify those factors that must be addressed and monitored if

Procedure: Step 1 Defining the Problem Step 2 Defining the Change Objective Step 3 Identifying the Driving Forces Step 4 Identifying the Restraining Forces Step 5 Developing the Comprehensive Change Strategy

STRESS MANAGEMENT AT WORK

WHAT IS STRESS?

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General AwarenessWhat is Stress ? y Types of Stresses y Individuals y Stress origins & body systems y Adaptation Syndrome y Symptomsy

I HATE YOU

WHAT IS STRESS & ITS TYPES

Stress is the wear and tear our minds and bodies experience as we attempt to cope with our continually changing environment TYPES OF STRESS y External y Internal

STRESS FEELINGS Worry y Tense y Tired y Frightened y Elated y Depressed y Anxious y Angery

EXTERNAL STRESSORS Physical Environment y Social Interaction y Organisational y Major Life Events y Daily Hasslesy

PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT Noise y Bright Lights y Heat y Confined Spacesy

SOCIAL INTERACTION Rudeness y Bossiness y Aggressiveness by others y Bullyingy

ORGANISATIONAL Rules y Regulations y Red - Tape y Deadlinesy

MAJOR LIFE EVENTS Birth y Death y Lost job y Promotion y Marital status changey

DAILY HASSLES Commuting y Misplaced keys y Mechanical breakdownsy

INTERNAL STRESSORS Lifestyle choices y Negative self - talk y Mind traps y Personality traitsy

LIFESTYLE CHOICES Caffeine y Lack of sleep y Overloaded scheduley

NEGATIVE SELF - TALK Pessimistic thinking y Self criticism y Over analysingy

MIND TRAPS Unrealistic expectations y Taking things personally y All or nothing thinking y Exaggeration y Rigid thinkingy

PERSONALITY TRAITS Perfectionists y Workaholicsy

FOUND YOURSELF IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS?

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KINDS OF STRESS NEGATIVE STRESS

It is a contributory factor in minor conditions, such as headaches, digestive problems, skin complaints, insomnia and ulcers. Excessive, prolonged and unrelieved stress can have a harmful effect on mental, physical and spiritual health.

POSITIVE STRESS Stress can also have a positive effect, spurring motivation and awareness, providing the stimulation to cope with challenging situations. Stress also provides the sense of urgency and alertness needed for survival when confronting threatening situations.

THE INDIVIDUAL Everyone is different, with unique perceptions of, and reactions to, events. There is no single level of stress that is optimal for all people. Some are more sensitive owing to experiences in childhood, the influence of teachers, parents and religion etc.

SYMPTOMS OF STRESS

Physical symptoms y Mental symptoms y Behavioural symptoms y Emotional symptomsy

PHYSICAL SYMPTOMSy y y y y y y y

Sleep pattern changes Fatigue Digestion changes Loss of sexual drive Headaches Aches and pains Infections Indigestion

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Dizziness Fainting Sweating & trembling Tingling hands & feet Breathlessness Palpitations Missed heartbeats

MENTAL SYMPTOMS Lack of concentration y Memory lapses y Difficulty in making decisions y Confusion y Disorientation y Panic attacksy

BEHAVIOURAL SYMPTOMSy y y y y y y y

Appetite changes - too much or too little Eating disorders - anorexia, bulimia Increased intake of alcohol & other drugs Increased smoking Restlessness Fidgeting Nail biting Hypochondria

EMOTIONAL SYMPTOMS Bouts of depression y Impatience y Fits of rage y Tearfulness y Deterioration of personal hygiene and appearancey

STRESS RELATED ILLNESSES Stress is not the same as ill-health, but has been related to such illnesses as; Cardiovascular disease y Immune system disease y Asthma y Diabetesy

EFFECT OF STRESS ON HEALTH

Digestive disorders y Ulcers y Skin complaints - psoriasis y Headaches and migraines y Pre-menstrual syndrome y Depressiony

FACTORS INFLUENCING WORK STRESSy y y y y

The drive for success Changing work patterns Working conditions Overwork Under-work

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Uncertainty Conflict Responsibility Relationships at work Change at work

CHANGING WORK PATTERNS Many people feel lucky to have a job. Unemployment, redundancy, shorter working weeks, new technology affect emotional and physical security. No more jobs for life, more short - term contracts. Financial and emotional burnout is increasing among all levels.

WORKING CONDITIONS Physical and mental health is adversely affected by unpleasant working conditions, such as high noise levels, lighting, temperature and unsocial or excessive hours.

OVERWORK Stress may occur through an inability to cope with the technical or intellectual demands of a particular task. Circumstances such as long hours, unrealistic deadlines and frequent interruptions will compound this.

UNDERWORK

This may arise from boredom because there is not enough to do, or because a job is dull and repetitive.

UNCERTAINTY

About the individuals work role objectives, responsibilities, and expectations, and a lack of communication and feedback can result in confusion, helplessness, and stress.

CONFLICT Stress can arise from work the individual does not want to do or that conflicts with their personal, social and family values.

RESPONSIBILITY

The greater the level of responsibility the greater the potential level of stress.

RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK

Good relationships with colleagues are crucial. Open discussion is essential to encourage positive relationships.

CHANGES AT WORK Changes that alter psychological, physiological and behavioural routines such as promotion, retirement and redundancy are particularly stressful.

External Stresses - OrganisationalCompany take over Reductions / layoffs Major reorganisation Company sale / relocation Employee benefit cuts Mandatory overtime required Little input into decisions Mistake consequences severe Workloads vary Fast paced work

React to changes Advancement difficult Red tape delays jobs Insufficient resources Pay below going rate Technology changes Employee benefits poor Workplace conditions Consistent poor performance

RECOGNISE THE PROBLEM The most important point is to recognise the source of the negative stress. This is not an admission of weakness or inability to cope! It is a way to identify the problem and plan measures to overcome it.

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STRESS CONTROL ABC STRATEGY

A = AWARENESS

What causes you stress? How do you react?

ABC STRATEGY

B = BALANCE There is a fine line between positive / negative stress How much can you cope with before it becomes negative ?

ABC STRATEGY

C = CONTROL What can you do to help yourself combat the negative effects of stress ?

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Change your Thinking ReRe-framing Re-framing is a technique to change the way you look at things in order to feel better about them. There are many ways to interpret the same situation so pick the one you like. Reframing does not change the external reality, but helps you view things in a different light and less stressfully.

Change your Thinking Positive Thinking Forget powerlessness, dejection, despair, failure. Stress leaves us vulnerable to negative suggestion so focus on positives; y Focus on your strengths y Learn from the stress you are under y Look for opportunities y Seek out the positive - make a change.

Change your Behaviour

Be assertive y Get organised y Ventilation y Humour y Diversion and distractiony

Be Assertive Assertiveness helps to manage stressful situations, and will , in time, help to reduce their frequency. Lack of assertiveness often shows low self esteem and low self - confidence. The key to assertiveness is verbal and non - verbal communication. Extending our range of communication skills will improve our assertiveness.

Equality and Basic Rights 1) The right to express my feelings 2) The right to express opinions / beliefs 3) The right to say Yes/No for yourself 4) Right to change your mind 5) Right to say I dont understand 6) Right to be yourself, not acting for the benefit of others

Being Assertive

Being assertive involves standing up for your personal rights and expressing your thoughts, feelings and beliefs directly, honestly and spontaneously in ways that dont infringe the rights of others.

Assertive People Respect themselves and others y Take responsibility for actions and choices y Ask openly for what they want y Disappointed if want denied y Self - confidence remains intact y Not reliant on the approval of othersy

Assertive Skills Establish good eye contact / dont stare y Stand or sit comfortably - dont fidget y Talk in a firm, steady voice y Use body language y I think / I feel y What do you think? How do you feel ? y Concise and to the pointy

Benefits Higher self-esteem y Less self-conscious y Less anxious y Manage stress more successfully y Appreciate yourself and others more easily y Feeling of self-controly

Get Organised Poor organisation is one of the most common causes of stress. Structured approaches offer security against out of the blue problems. Prioritising objectives, duties and activities makes them manageable and achievable. Dont overload your mind. Organisation will help avoid personal and professional chaos.

Time ManagementMake a list What MUST be done What SHOULD be done What would you LIKE to do y Cut out time wasting Learn to drop unimportant activities y Say no or delegate PROPER VENTILATION FACILITYy

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Humour

Good stress - reducer y Applies at home and work y Relieves muscular tension y Improves breathing y Pumps endorphins into the bloodstream - the bodys natural painkillersy

Diversion and Distraction Take time out y Get away from things that bother you y Doesnt solve the problem y Reduce stress level y Calm down y Think logicallyy

Change Your Lifestyley y y y y y

Diet Smoking & Alcohol Exercise Sleep Leisure Relaxation