communication
DESCRIPTION
Communication. Types of Communication. Child-like Parent-like Adult-like Non-verbal. Child-Like. Easiest and most natural to use Very immature Least effect method Self-centered motives You need not be a child to communicate in this form. Child-Like Characteristics. Giving orders - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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Communication
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Types of Communication
• Child-like• Parent-like• Adult-like• Non-verbal
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Child-Like• Easiest and most natural to use• Very immature• Least effect method• Self-centered motives• You need not be a child to
communicate in this form
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Child-Like Characteristics
• Giving orders• Not listening• Topping or “one-upping”• Throwing tantrums• Whining• Name calling• Yelling• Interrupting • Acting out of control
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Child-Like Video Clip• Emperor’s New Groove
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Parent-Like• Has nothing to do with being a
parent!• Directs others’ behaviors• Get someone to comply or act a
certain way.• One-way• Dictatorial
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Parent-Like Characteristics
• Giving instructions• Directing• Punishing• Demanding• Ordering• Not listening
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Parent-Like Video Clip• Beauty and the Beast
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Adult-Like• Highest level of communication• Most desirable and effective• Open two-way communication• Takes time to learn and use• Taking responsibility for
comments and actions.• Involves active listening.
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Adult-Like Characteristics
• Everyone remains calm• Control of strong emotions• Respect for each other’s
feelings• Win-win attitude
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Adult-Like Video Clip• Finding Neverland
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Non-Verbal• Expression through movement,
posture and facial expressions.• Very powerful
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Non-Verbal• Can be often misread or
misunderstood• Often possible to send out one type
of verbal message and a different type of non-verbal message at the same time.
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Non-Verbal Video Clip• A League of Their Own
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Communication Techniques
• Constructive• Destructive
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Constructive Communication
• Positive communication that contributes to a meaningful exchange of ideas and builds up yourself and others.
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Constructive Examples
• Giving positive or encouraging messages
• Using tact (saying something sensitive without hurting or offending).
• Asking questions• Active listening
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Constructive Examples
• Sending clear messages• Being honest and open• Keeping the confidence/secrets• Speaking with respect• Using “I” messages
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DestructiveCommunication
• Negative communication that “tears down” yourself and others.
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Destructive Examples • Not listening• Insults• Harassing• Teasing• Threatening• Sarcasm
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Destructive Examples• Gossip• Lying• Accusing• “You messages”• Swearing• Topping/”One-upping”
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Hammer Analogy• Which part of the hammer best
describes…–Constructive Communication–Destructive Communication–Non-verbal Communication–Us
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Communication Activity
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Summary• We first need to realize how we
are communicating.• Then we must improve and
sharpen our communication skills so we can enjoy stronger relationships with our family members, friends and those with whom we associate.