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August 2015
Av 5775 - Elul 5775 Volume 5775 Issue 12
High Holidays Services Schedule 8
Message from our Treasurer 9
Friendly Reminders 10
Mahzor Form 11
OPEN HOUSE
Sunday,
August 16
9:00 am
ROSH HODESH ELUL
The first Shofar sounding
of the new year… followed by
CBI Open House! PAGE 3
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Rabbi
Jacob Luski, D.D.
727.381.4900 x1008
Cantor
Jonathan Schultz
727.381.4900 x1005
Executive Director
Susan Goldstein
727.344.1017
Pauline Rivkind Early Childhood
Education Center Director
Amy LaPiccirella
727.302.9668
Pauline Rivkind Talmud Torah
Education Coordinator
Ricki Lewis
727.381.4900
Community Engagement
Liz Sembler
727.381.4900 x1007
Torah Reader/Educator
Deborah Marmon
727.381.4900 x1017
Office Manager
Pam Askin
727.381.4901
Communications Coordinator
Carolyn Moritz
727.381.4900 x1001
President
Susan Marger LeVine
Youth Director/
Religious School Educator
Melanie Tolchin
727.381.4900 x1011
Men’s Club President
Steve Feld
Women’s League Catering
Livia Wein
USY President
Corey Sokolov
B’nai Israel REVIEW
August 2015
Contact Us
Our Mission Through our congregational life, our goal is to provide the opportunity for our
members and friends to experience Jewish life to its fullest. We want to transmit the
ideals of Conservative Judaism to our children and grandchildren, to enable them to be
knowledgeable and responsible participants in Jewish life, sensitive and ethical human
beings and reliable custodians of an enduring heritage. Through the synagogue, we
want to find strength and inspiration in worship and study, in the sharing of lifecycle
events, in acts of caring, in reaching out to the wide Jewish and non-Jewish
communities, and in concern and support for Israel.
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Shofar Sounding & CBI Open House
Join your CBI family on Rosh Hodesh Elul for the first
Shofar sounding of the year! We will have refreshments
and a family-friendly Open House. Invite your friends!
✡ Fresh bagels, cream cheese, fruit, coffee, and more!
✡ Family meet-and-greet with our new PRECEC
Director Amy LaPiccirella and Youth Director/
Religious School Educator Melanie Tolchin
✡ Register for this year’s Talmud Torah religious school
along with Hebrew High & Mehina!
✡ Interested in the October Fashion Show? How about
the fun and delicious Baking Brigade, or Building the
Sukkah? Come listen to the Women’s League and
Mitzvah Men’s Club tell us about their exciting
upcoming events and programs!
✡ Sunday, August 16, beginning with the 9:00 am
Shofar sounding and Rosh Hodesh Elul service
Announcements
Kehilla
JUDAICA GIFT SHOP The Gift Shop is
having a 50% sale beginning on August 3.
Everything except tefillin and kosher
parchments will be half off! Now is the time
to stock up on dreidels, jewelry, Kiddush
cups, books, tallitot, mezzuzot, and much
more. The Gift Shop will not accept credit
cards effective August. Come in during the
shop's summer hours: Mondays 11:00 am -
1:00 pm and 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm; Tuesdays
3:00 pm - 5:00 pm.
SHABBAT DINNER AT PBT The Benjamin
Tower Foundation invites CBI congregants
who would like to join PBT residents for Shabbat dinners. Dinner is $10 every Friday
at 4:45 pm. This is a great opportunity to
enjoy dinner and fellowship before walking
over to CBI for Shabbat services. CBI will
post each week’s menu to cbistpete.org on
Monday afternoons. RSVP with payment and
entrée choice to Kelli Rolfe by Wednesdays
at 12:00 pm: 727.347.5191 or
BIKKUR HOLIM One of the most important
mitzvot in Judaism is bikkur holim: visiting
the sick. It is a responsibility that the clergy
of B’nai Israel take very seriously. When our
members are ill or hospitalized, we want to
know. In the interest of protecting
confidentiality, hospitals today are extremely
cautious about sharing patient names, even
with clergy. We need our congregants to
communicate directly with us and to inform
us of illness or hospitalization. Please call Pam Askin at 727.381.4901 so that, as clergy
and the synagogue family, we can be helpful
in moments of difficulty or stress.
Support Shabbat Kiddush Lunch
Our Shabbat Kiddush luncheons have become a staple of the past year. Rather than rushing home to eat lunch, the
CBI community has enjoyed additional time after Shabbat morning services to socialize with friends and make new
acquaintances. These lunches have encouraged the mitzvah of participation in the Shabbat Minha Minyan. They have
provided an additional opportunity for those saying Kaddish. Please help your kehilla continue what has become a
beloved part of the CBI Shabbat experience. To contribute to or sponsor a kiddush luncheon, please contact:
Carolyn Moritz: 727.381.4900 | [email protected]
Livia Wein: 727.393.3289 | [email protected]
Todah rabah!
Visit pages 14 - 15 for full menu and sponsorship options.
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From the Rabbi
A synagogue year has its own unique rhythms. It begins in the fall, as we anticipate the High
Holy Days. The theme of renewal, both personal and communal, projects us forward to the
possibilities inherent in a new year.
Soon, month after month passes by – the seasons of fall, winter, and spring – and the
synagogue hums with the pulse of Jewish vitality: Shabbat; Yom Tov; the daily minyan; life-cycle
events; children learning in our PRTT, Hebrew High School, and Preschool; youth programs;
adults experiencing a broad range of educational and cultural opportunities; social action projects; the endeavors of
Women’s League and Men’s Club; and on and on it goes. Then almost in the blink of an eye, it is summer, and an
appropriate moment to pause and recognize all those who work with such dedication in sustaining CBI in its many
dimensions.
There is a meaningful value concept in our Jewish tradition called hakarat hatov; literally, recognizing the good that
happens to us. It is our distinctive Jewish way of saying “thank you” to all those who provide kindnesses and help us
on many levels. Hakarat hatov can connect us, for example, to the person who repairs our computer, cleans our
house, or takes our tolls on the highway – actions that we often take for granted.
From my perspective as a rabbi in a busy, dynamic, and complex synagogue, the concept of hakarat hatov reminds me
how important it is to say a sincere “thank you” to my cherished colleagues on our staff, to our administrative and
support teams, to our leadership and to the myriad of volunteers – too often underappreciated – who give so
generously of time, effort, energy, caring, commitment, passion, and resources in fostering a better and stronger
synagogue for all of us. Please know how deeply grateful I am to each of you.
A synagogue never stops, even in the summer. But hopefully, for each of us, these days offer a measure of relaxation
and enjoyment. Then, God willing, we shall do it over once again, with each at CBI replete with the potential for
hakarat hatov, affirming all that is good around us.
Shalom,
From the Cantor
As I am writing this, I am preparing to go away on vacation for three weeks. I’m sure that many of you will also be away on vacation in July, and I look forward to swapping vacation
stories when we all return.
In my June/July article, I wrote about Tisha B’Av. By the time you read this, Tisha B’Av will have passed, and we will
have begun the period of seven weeks following Tisha B’Av when we read the seven Haftarot of Consolation. The
first of these seven Shabbatot is special in several ways. The Torah reading for that morning, Va-ethanan, contains
two of the most important passages in the entire Torah: the Ten Commandments, and the Sh’ma / V’ahavta. And
they appear very close together, only one chapter apart.
What a sharp contrast this is from the somber, sorrowful tone of Tisha B’Av. Less than a week after the saddest day
of the year, we read from the Torah: “I am Adonai your God, who led you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house
of bondage; you shall have no other gods beside Me.” And only one chapter later, we read, “Hear, O Israel! Adonai is our God, Adonai alone. You shall love Adonai your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your
might.”
Think about that: less than a week after the saddest day of the year, when we commemorated the destruction of the
Temple and Jerusalem, we read a two-fold reminder that Adonai is our God, we shall worship only Him, and we
shall love Him. That’s quite a dramatic shift, and I think that the Rabbis set up the calendar this way in order to
remind us that God is God even in the saddest of times, and also to remind us that we are not meant to wallow in
sorrow indefinitely. We are meant to mourn for three weeks between the 17th of Tammuz and Tisha B’Av, and
then we are meant to be consoled and comforted for seven weeks.
Shalom,
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From the President Big blue recycling receptacles showed up at every home in St. Petersburg this month as part
of a new city initiative. As good citizens we are being prompted to do the right thing: to chart
a course reflecting good values.
My new presidency has been referred to as “Recycled.” I am stepping back in with both
seasoned and fresh new leaders to embrace values which are at the heart of Judaism. We are
empowered with six months of research and a new vision which will be part of our
soon-to-be-revealed Strategic Plan.
Our newly elected Executive Board includes all four Task Force chairs of our Strategic Plan Committee. This bodes
well for taking the plan seriously! Spoiler alert: Look for new committees to utilize vast volunteer resources in more
meaningful tasks! It is not uncommon for strategic plan chairs to immerse themselves into leadership, as our Beth
Shalom Clearwater president is also the chair of their strategic plan.
We look forward to a year of growth and rebuilding at Congregation B’nai Israel. We are tasked with investing in
our youth, welcoming and making connections with new members, strengthening our volunteer committees, and
increasing sources of revenue.
I’ve stepped back up to a congregation in which I am proud. A true egalitarian congregation, where I can wear a
Tallit, wrap Teffilin, be a Hagbah and truly count in making a Minyan. A religion which affords a new Jewish adult, at
the tender age of 13, the opportunities to lead services and repeatedly come back to the Torah to attain the coveted
Golden Kippah! The only congregation on the West coast of Florida which maintains a full-Torah reading and a twice
daily Minyan!
Yes, I’m recycled and looking forward to utilizing old and new resources to ensure a vibrant Jewish congregation for generations to come.
From the Executive Director
I’m passionate about Conservative Judaism. Some of you have heard me give that response when
asked why I do what I do. I’ve been afforded lots of opportunities to consider that passion recently
and how it guides the decisions I make relative to allocation of my time, talents, and financial
resources. It’s the rationale for decisions relating to the last that I’d like to share with you now.
Some decisions are easy. I support Mercaz, JTS, my home synagogue, and the synagogue I serve (CBI)
through general donations, Kol Nidre/Sustaining Fund gifts, Books of Remembrance, fundraisers, and the like. Recently,
however, I’ve given thought to the longer term. If there’s money left after I’m gone, where do I want it to go? My grandchildren
and great-grandchildren will be well cared for without help from me, but how do I want them to remember me? What do I
want my legacy to be? If I’m passionate about Conservative Judaism, wouldn’t I want to make that my legacy?
As you may have heard, CBI is part of the Life & Legacy program of TOP Jewish Foundation in conjunction with the Harold
Grinspoon Foundation. I’m honored to serve as a part of the CBI Life & Legacy Team that is led by Laurie Reiskind, Joel Shane,
and Mike Slomka. A fact of Jewish life today is that our kehillot cannot be sustained through dues alone. Fewer people are
“joining,” or, indeed, seeing the need to affiliate at all. In order for a kehilla to succeed in today’s world, it must have a
substantial endowment. Building that endowment is the primary purpose of Life & Legacy.
Your CBI Life & Legacy team members will be coming to you to ask you to make CBI part of your estate plan. Each of us has
made a commitment to do just that. We couldn’t, and wouldn’t, ask you to do it if we hadn’t. The size of the commitment is
not what matters most. The truth is that none of us knows what (if anything) will be left when we’re gone. What matters is that
each of us steps up to say that conserving/preserving Conservative Judaism in South Pinellas County, Florida, matters, and that
we’re going to take action to make sure that happens by including CBI in our estate plans. There are options for doing that: e.g.,
leaving a dollar amount or a percentage of one’s estate in a will; naming CBI as beneficiary of an IRA or 403(b) account. You can
make a direct legacy gift or, to ensure the gift is in perpetuity, you can make the gift to TOP with CBI as beneficiary. If you have
questions, please talk with Laurie, Joel, Mike, or me.
Join us in making your legacy count.
B’Shalom,
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February 2014
Pauline Rivkind Early Childhood Education Center (PRECEC)
Shalom!
My name is Amy LaPiccirella. I recently became the director of Pauline Rivkind Early Children
Education Center. My career in early childhood education began in 1995, when I became a two year
old teacher at Northeast Park Preschool. In 2005, I was offered the director position at Rainbow
Academy. During my time there the school grew in capacity and reached the Gold Seal
Accreditation level.
I truly have a passion for early childhood education. It is my goal to help bring Pauline Rivkind Early
Childhood Education Center up to the Gold Seal status in the very near future.
Sincerely,
Amy LaPiccirella, PRECEC Director
UPCOMING EVENTS AT PRECEC
✡ Last Day of Camp Shalom
Friday, August 14
✡ Family Meet-and-Greet
CBI Open House
Sunday, August 16, following 9:00 am services
✡ First Day of PRECEC School Year
Monday, August 24
✡ Family Pre-Shabbat Celebration
Friday, August 28, 9:30 am
✡ PRECEC Open House
Wednesday, September 2, 7:00 pm
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CBI is excited to welcome our new
Youth Director and Religious School Educator,
Melanie Tolchin!
Melanie comes to us with a passion for Jewish
values, social action, and working with youth.
We look forward to a great year ahead for USY,
Hebrew High, and Pauline Rivkind Talmud Torah.
Come meet Melanie at the family meet-and-greet
at CBI’s Open House on Sunday, August 16,
after 9:00 am Rosh Hodesh Elul services.
Visit Page 3 for more Open House details.
Mazel tov to our new USY officers:
✡ Chapter President Corey Sokolov
✡ Vice President of Communications Emma Piper
✡ Vice President of Programming Danielle LeVine
Pictured: Melanie Tolchin,
Youth Director and Religious School Educator
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High Holidays: Services Schedule
Additional Information
Kever Avot Services
During the High Holiday period, it is
customary to visit the graves of our loved
ones and those who created our Jewish
community.
Kever Avot services will be conducted at:
Menorah Gardens, Chapel Hill 10:30 am
Royal Palm Cemetery 11:30 am
Special Blessing of Children
We invite parents to join Rabbi Luski in
reciting a special Blessing of Children at
Erev Rosh Hashana Services.
Recovery Prayer
On the First Day of Rosh Hashana, Rabbi
Luski will recite the blessing of Hagomel,
thanksgiving for all those who have been
hospitalized and recovered during the
previous year. Rabbi will ask all those who
have been ill and hospitalized to stand,
together with their families, for the prayer
which expresses their special sense of
gratitude for the privilege of being in the
Synagogue on this Rosh Hashana. If you are in this category and would like to join
us in this event, please be in your seats by
8:30 am.
Tashlich
Tashlich service is on the First Day of
Rosh Hashana at Lake Pasadena: 64th
Street & 4th Avenue North. The ceremony
is based on the text of Micah: “And you
shall cast into depths all of your sins.” We
urge you to be present for this wonderful
opportunity for children and parents to
share in what is always a lovely outdoor
ceremony. Minha and Maariv will follow at
7:20 pm at CBI.
SELIHOT SERVICE – SATURDAY NIGHT, September 5
Board of Trustees, Women’s League Board,
& USY Board Installations, Musical Selections,
& Reception 9:00 pm
Selihot Service 10:30 pm
KEVER AVOT – MEMORIAL SERVICES – Sunday, September 6
Menorah Gardens, Chapel Hill 10:30 am
Royal Palm Cemetery 11:30 am
ROSH HASHANA EVE SERVICE – Sunday, September 13
Includes special Blessing of Children 7:20 pm
We urge everyone attending to have their tickets with them and
to allow sufficient time for parking in order to be seated.
ROSH HASHANA - FIRST DAY – Monday, September 14
Introductory Service and Shaharit 8:30 am Torah Reading 9:30 am
SHOFAR SERVICE 10:15 am
Sermon 10:30 am
Musaf Service 11:00 am
Tashlich Service at Lake Pasadena 6:00 pm
Minha, Maariv 7:20 pm
ROSH HASHANA - SECOND DAY – Tuesday, September 15
Introductory service and Shaharit 8:30 am
Torah Reading 9:30 am
SHOFAR SERVICE 10:15 am
Sermon 10:30 am
Musaf Service 11:00 am
Minha, Maariv & Conclusion of Yom Tov 7:20 pm
SHABBAT SHUVA
Friday, September 18 Minha, Maariv 6:30 pm
Saturday, September 19 9:00 am
Minha Service 12:00 pm
KOL NIDRE – Tuesday, September 22 7:10 pm
We urge everyone attending to have their tickets with them and
to allow sufficient time for parking in order to be seated.
YOM KIPPUR DAY – Wednesday, September 23
Introductory Service & Shaharit 8:30 am
Torah Reading 9:30 am
Musaf Service 10:45 am
Sermon & Yizkor 1:00 pm
Minha Service 5:00 pm
Neila 6:15 pm
Neila Services will commence at 6:15 pm and all worshipers are
requested to remain in their seats until the conclusion of the Maariv
Service and the final sound of the Shofar at approximately 8:00 pm
followed by the Mitzvah Men’s Club break-the-fast snacks.
CANDLELIGHTING:
ROSH HASHANA:
Erev 1st Day Sunday, September 13 7:19 pm
Erev 2nd Day Monday, September 14 8:18 pm
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High Holidays: Tickets A Message from our Treasurer, Bill Marger
The High Holy Days are rapidly approaching - Erev Rosh Hashana is on Sunday evening,
September 13 - and we look forward to welcoming all members of our synagogue family to
worship with us.
This year, we will send High Holy Days tickets automatically to all members in good
standing. We will send tickets based on the number of family members reflected in our database.
Of course, we will be happy to send additional tickets if we inadvertently miss a family member!
If you do not receive your tickets by Friday, September 4, please contact Executive Director, Susan
Goldstein, at 727.344.1017 or [email protected].
PLEASE NOTE:
✡ Additional tickets may be reserved or purchased by members only.
✡ Visitors who do not live in Pinellas County may purchase tickets for $150 each.
✡ There is no charge for tickets requested for (a) dependent children living at home who are college-age
and under; or (b) a non-Jewish spouse.
✡ We are pleased to honor requests for reciprocity from members of other Conservative and Reform
congregations who provide advance notice.
✡ Local college students and active duty military who are temporary residents of Pinellas County may
request complimentary tickets.
✡ If you will be out of town for Rosh Hashana and/or Yom Kippur and wish to attend services at another
kehilla, please contact Susan Goldstein. We will be pleased to send a request for reciprocity for any
CBI member in good standing.
✡ If you know of someone who does not have a place to worship for the holidays, invite them to CBI.
Contact Susan Goldstein for details.
✡ If you have questions about your membership status and/or want to make financial arrangements, please
contact Susan Goldstein no later than Monday, August 24. We look forward to worshipping with all
of our CBI family, so please do not hesitate to call.
Please note that age-appropriate services and supervised activities for all children under age 13 will be provided
from 10:30 am through the conclusion of services on Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur in the Chapel, Classrooms, and
Early Childhood Education Center. Child care is available for children between the ages of two months through
Pre-K. This care is complimentary; however, pre-registration is necessary in order to ensure that we have
sufficient staff. Please complete and return the form below no later than Monday, August 24.
NAMES OF ALL ADULTS &
CHILDREN
A-
Adult
C-
Child
AGES
of all
children
Jr Cong
(Grades
3-7)
K’tonton
(K-2)
CHILD
CARE
(18
months-
Pre K)
CHILD
CARE
(17
months
& under)
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High Holidays: Friendly Reminders
SEATING POLICY
When seating and saving seats: We offer
reserved seating for those with physical
disabilities; e.g. those requiring wheelchairs,
walkers, etc. Requests for handicapped
seating should be made in advance through
the office. Seating is on a first-come,
first-serve basis. Spouses and relatives may
save seats up until 9:30 am, after which
ushers will ask for unoccupied saved seats to
be released to others.
Your tickets will be checked at the door prior
to entering the synagogue.
You must have a ticket to enter the building.
This precaution is designed to protect you,
not cause inconvenience. Tickets serve as our
first line of security for the congregation.
SECURITY AND DECORUM
✡ Each person, including children,
seeking admittance to the Synagogue
will be required to present a ticket to
Security Personnel.
✡ Tickets are not transferrable.
✡ Please allow sufficient time for parking and
getting to your seats.
✡ We encourage you to bring your own kipot and talitot.
✡ Open Seating: Seats may be saved up until
9:30 am.
✡ Please respectfully follow the directions of
our volunteer ushers.
✡ Please silence all electronic devices.
✡ Please note the listing of youth services and
supervised activities provided for all
children.
✡ By order of the Fire Department, the lobby,
halls, and aisles must be kept clear at all
times.
✡ A dignified atmosphere enhances the beauty
of our High Holiday worship. Be friendly,
greet and meet your fellow worshippers.
✡ Members are reminded to remain at the
rear of the Sanctuary:
when the Congregation is standing at
prayer,
when the Rabbi is speaking, and
when the Cantor is chanting solo.
Our volunteer ushers will signal
appropriate entrance times.
Please cooperate with our ushers.
BRING YOUR OWN TALIT TO SERVICES
We ask all worshippers attending religious
services in our Congregation to bring their own
talitot and kipot. High Holiday prayer books, as
well as a good number of talitot, will be provided
by the Congregation.
Our Judaica Shop has a variety of talitot
available for purchase.
Ladies are encouraged to wear talitot and
headcoverings when receiving an Aliyah or honor
on the Bimah.
VOLUNTEER TO USHER
Come to the aid of your Congregation and volunteer to be a High Holiday usher. We need your help!
We will tailor the usher schedule to the hours you anticipate being in shul. For information, contact
Executive Director Susan Goldstein at 727.344.1017 or [email protected].
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Mahzor Dedication Order Form The readings and explanations of Mahzor Lev Shalem are designed to stimulate thought and invite reflection while
being accessible to each of us.
You have the opportunity to dedicate these Mahzorim in honor or memory, in appreciation of loved ones, or to
acknowledge a special event for $36 per dedication, or three Mahzorim for $100. Each dedication will be inscribed in a Mahzor.
PURCHASED BY:
Name(s):______________________________________________________________________________
Street Address:_________________________________________________________________________
City________________________________________ State_____________ Zip__________________
Enclosed $________ for ______Mahzorim One for $36; Two for $72; Three for $100
OFFICE USE ONLY: CHECK # _______ DATE RECEIVED _______ Credit Card # _____________ Exp Date ____
Please send this form along with your check payable to:
Congregation B’nai Israel
300 58 Street North, St. Petersburg, Florida 33710
Examples: This Prayer book is dedicated by Steve and Linda Cohen in honor of Jessica Cohen’s Bat Mitzvah.
This Prayer book is dedicated by Lisa Cohen in memory of Edith Cohen.
This Prayer book is dedicated by Dr. and Mrs. Tom Cohen in appreciation of Rabbi David Cohen.
#1 This Prayer book is dedicated: In Honor of In Memory of In Appreciation of
Name(s)_______________________________________________________________________
Donated by (person’s name, committee, family, etc.):____________________________________
A notification card should be sent to:
Name(s):_______________________________________________________________________
Street Address:__________________________________________________________________
City______________________________State_____________ Zip__________________
#2 This Prayer book is dedicated: In Honor of In Memory of In Appreciation of
Name(s)_______________________________________________________________________
Donated by (person’s name, committee, family, etc.):____________________________________
A notification card should be sent to:
Name(s):_______________________________________________________________________
Street Address:__________________________________________________________________
City______________________________State_____________ Zip__________________
#3 This Prayer book is dedicated: In Honor of In Memory of In Appreciation of
Name(s)_______________________________________________________________________
Donated by (person’s name, committee, family, etc.):____________________________________
A notification card should be sent to:
Name(s):_______________________________________________________________________
Street Address:__________________________________________________________________
City______________________________State_____________ Zip__________________
Contact us with any questions at 727.381.4900.
Additional forms are available online at cbistpete.org/2015/07/mahzor5776
Thank you for your continuing support of our CBI community.
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Morning
Minyan Followed by
Breakfast
Sunday: 9:00 am
Monday - Friday:
7:45 am
Evening
Minyan
Sunday -
Thursday:
6:30 pm
Av - Elul 5775
August 2015
Sun Mon Tue
2 9:00am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
3 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
4 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
7:30pm Behind the Scenes
With AIPAC
Lobbyists, Part 3
Grand Hyatt, Tampa
9 9:00am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
10 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
11 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
16 Rosh Hodesh Elul 9:00am Minyan, breakfast,
first Shofar sounding,
CBI Open House
6:30pm Minyan
17 PRECEC Closed for
Training Week 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
18 PRECEC Closed for
Training Week 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
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9:00am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
30 9:00am Minyan, breakfast
9:45pm PRTT First Day
6:30pm Minyan
24
Pinellas Schools Open
PRECEC First Day 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
31 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
25 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
7:00pm Board of Trustees
Meeting
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Wed Thu Fri Sat
1 Shabbat Nahamu Parasha Va’et-hannan 9:00am Shabbat Services,
Kiddush*
Sermonette:
Oren Adelson
5 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
6 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
10:00am Library Committee
6:30pm Minyan
6:45pm Choir Rehearsal
7 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
7:30pm Summer Musical
Kabbalat Shabbat
7:57pm Candlelighting
Glimpses Into History:
Carol Marger
8 Parasha Ekev 9:00am Shabbat Services,
Kiddush*
Sermonette:
Cantor Schultz
12 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
13 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
10:00am Library Committee
6:30pm Minyan
6:45pm Choir Rehearsal
14 PRECEC Last Day of Camp 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
7:30pm Summer Musical
Kabbalat Shabbat
7:51pm Candlelighting
Glimpses Into History:
Joan Epstein
15 Rosh Hodesh Elul Parasha Re’eh 9:00am Shabbat Services,
Kiddush*
19 PRECEC Closed for
Training Week 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
20 PRECEC Closed for
Training Week 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
10:00am Library Committee
6:30pm Minyan
6:45pm Choir Rehearsal
21 PRECEC Closed for
Training Week 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
7:30pm Summer Musical
Kabbalat Shabbat
7:45pm Candlelighting
22 Parasha Shofetim 9:00am Shabbat Services,
August Simha
Shabbat, Kiddush*
26 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
27 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
6:30pm Minyan
6:45pm Choir Rehearsal
28 7:45am Minyan, breakfast
9:30am PRECEC Shabbat
6:00pm Kabbalat Shabbat
7:37pm Candlelighting
29 Parasha Ki Tetse 9:00am Shabbat Services,
Kiddush*
* Shabbat Minha service will begin approximately
45 minutes after the conclusion of
morning services.
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Sponsor a Shabbat Kiddush
Celebrate your birthday, anniversary, the Yahrzeit of a family member, or other family occasion with a Kiddush at
Shul! Sponsoring a Kiddush is very affordable, and it is a beautiful way of celebrating with the community.
A standard Kiddush serves 60 to 80 weekly worshipers.
For larger groups, please contact us.
All Kiddushim can be single sponsors or group sponsors. Call Livia Wein at 727.393.3289 or Eileen Richman at
727.492.4509 if you are looking to share a Kiddush.
* Please note, we always serve salad and fruit for our vegetarian/vegan friends.
A. Mini Kiddush: $125 ✡ Fresh green salad with Italian dressing or a cabbage health salad
✡ Bread of some kind (rye, bagels, pita, challah)
✡ Choice of Protein: Tuna salad or egg salad or herring & gefilte fish or hummus & pita or white fish spread (when available) or apple herring salad
✡ Fruit salad
✡ Cake or cookies
✡ Coffee, tea, water
✡ Paper goods: Plates, napkins, forks, spoons, knives, cups
✡ Plastic table cloths
✡ Set up and clean up
Additional 10 people: $20.00
B. Basic Kiddush: $250 All of the above + 2 proteins or salads + a hot dish
or
All of the above + 1 protein + bagels & lox spread, cream cheese
Additional 25 people: $50.00
C. Deluxe Kiddush: $500 (Serves 100 worshipers) All of the above + 2 hot dishes, 2 proteins, 2 salads + cream cheese & lox spread with bagels + cheese, cracker, &
fruit platter + linen table cloths
Additional 25 people: $100.00
D. Supreme Kiddush: $700 (Serves 100 worshipers) All of the above + lox, whipped cream cheese, bagels, sliced tomatoes, onions + 2 hot dishes, 4 salads + full
dessert table + linen table cloths, fancy paper goods
Additional 25 people: $150.00
Hot Food Options (depends on availability)
✡ CBI Dairy Kugel
✡ Apple Noodle Kugel
✡ Blintze Soufflé
✡ Pierogies
✡ Bourekas
✡ Knishes
✡ Macaroni & Cheese
✡ Baked Ziti
✡ Tuna Casserole
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Sponsor a Shabbat Kiddush
Salad Options
✡ Green salad
✡ Tossed salad
✡ Cabbage cole slaw salad
✡ Cole slaw
✡ Spinach salad with apples or pears
✡ Broccoli salad
✡ Veggie platter
✡ Carrot salad
✡ Potato salad
Cold Platters
✡ Tuna salad
✡ Egg salad
✡ Deviled eggs
✡ ½ eggs
✡ Cheese and fruit plate
✡ Baked brie
✡ Herring
✡ Gefilte fish
✡ Hummus & pita
✡ Apple herring spread
✡ White fish spread
Desserts Trifle; cookies; cakes; brownies; fruit and other specialties of our bakers; rugelach; halvah
Sheet cake is a special order: $40 - $50 from Publix at Pasadena
Beverages ✡ Infused water (cucumbers, oranges, lemons, etc.)
✡ Coffee with cream, sugar
✡ Hot tea, iced tea
✡ Punch
✡ Egg cream
Sponsor a Kiddush by selecting the date below and call Livia or Eileen to arrange your simcha:
Date Parsha Name of sponsor(s)
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Women’s League
Save the Date!
CBI Women’s League
Paid-Up Membership
Fashion Show
Tuesday, October 13
7:00 pm at CBI
Let’s go forward together into the coming year!
Wherever you put effort - in the community, workplace, or home - and
wherever you live, the woman who “plants a vineyard by her own labors”
can respect herself and is to be commended. In Hebrew, the phrase above is Nat’ah karem, and you will see it again this year as a Women’s
League theme.
The vineyard is here, in the work of our hands, hearts, and minds. Join us!
For the first time or the Nth time (that unknown number), it is important
that YOU are counted as a dues-paying member of this group within
Conservative Judaism. And it’s important to save the date for a
special treat:
On Tuesday, October 13, at 7:00 pm, we’ll get together for the
popular Paid-Up Membership Fashion Show.
For more information about that, contact Jennifer Sternberg at [email protected].
Our Sisterhood - another name for Women’s League - is more than an or-
ganization. It’s an opportunity for learning, friendship, and service. We are
part of the changes and traditions that mark Jewish life now. To strengthen
our bonds, please join us the morning of Sunday,
September 27, to decorate the CBI Sukkah and shmooze.
Let’s get together to grow a great sense of belonging!
Here are just a few of our upcoming dates:
Tuesday, November 3, 7:00 pm: Women’s League Board Meeting
Friday, January 15: Women’s League Kabbalat Shabbat, Shabbat Dinner
Saturday, January 16: Women’s League Shabbat
Tuesday, February 9, 7:00 pm: Women’s League Board Meeting
Tuesday, March 8: Annual Torah Fund Dinner
Torah Fund Pin for 5776 (2015 - 2016)
Give to Torah Fund and proudly wear your beautiful “Benefactor Pin” for
the Jewish holidays.
Nat’ah karem is a phrase from the beloved prayer Eishet Chayil, taken from
the biblical book of Proverbs. We re-envision this prayer today with appreciation for the hard-working, generous, family-oriented woman, who
“plants a vineyard by her own labors” (Proverbs 31:7). We honor her
productivity, independence, creativity, and her orientation to a hopeful
future with the 2016 Torah Fund pin/pendant.
Torah Fund Campaign supports the following Conservative institutions:
The Jewish Theological Seminary New York
Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies Los Angeles
Schechter Institute of Jewish Studies Jerusalem
✡ CONTACT CHAIRMAN
Joanne Luski, [email protected]
✡ SPECIAL GIFTS
Marilyn LeVine, [email protected]
✡ TORAH FUND CARDS
Jennifer Sternberg, [email protected]
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Israel Advocacy
Dear JNF/USCJ –Israel Committee Partnership / Affiliate Program Participant:
Your participation in the “JNF/USCJ Affiliate Program” returning 20% of all contributions from your
Kehillah to your Synagogue (and which can then be used to add to your Israel Education and
Advocacy efforts) gives you the opportunity to support Israel and enhance your programming.
Israel needs your support.
Increase support for Israel through JNF.
JNF has a call-in number-1.800.542.TREE (8733) to accept donations and to plant trees.
Anyone calling in and identifying his/her synagogue will have the contribution immediately credited
to the special program to benefit your synagogue!
Working together, we can really make a difference.
How can we support your Kehillah?
Shalom from Jerusalem,
Rabbi Paul Freedman
Director,
Israel Strategic Partnerships,
Israel Committee, USCJ
Advocacy for Israel Committee
Stay tuned for Dr. Leslie Pearlstein’s new series:
Marvels in Israel, beginning with the September B’nai Review.
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Life Cycle
In Memoriam
Aron Bass
Father of Masha Ronay
Lillian Rosen
Mother of Janis Wahl
May God comfort the families among
the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Mazal Tov!
Rita Jacobson
Bar Mitzvah of grandson Jacob Melker
Jay Kauffman
Recipient of the Gail S. Warren Legacy for Leadership
Award
Jeffrey Litt
Recipient of the Federation of Jewish Men’s Club Florida
Region’s 2015 Ma’asim Tov Award
Adele Morris
Wedding of granddaughter Carli Haber to Craig Jaffee
Mike & Barbara Noonberg
Birth of granddaughter Willow Isabel Noonberg
Dr. Joseph & Diana Rosin
Birth of grandson Trevor Clark Rosin
Leatrice Tucker
New home
USY 2015-2016 Officers
Chapter President Corey Sokolov
Vice President of Communications Emma Piper
Vice President of Programming Danielle LeVine
Join us in wishing Mazal Tov! to members celebrating their birthdays, anniversaries, and B’nai Mitzvah.
Your good wishes can be part of their memories, while at the same time supporting B’nai Israel’s
commitment to help our schools, youth groups, and Synagogue through your donations to our
Mitzvah Fund.
Celebrate your August Birthday and Anniversary Shabbat at Simha Shabbat
on Saturday, August 22, at 9:00 am.
Do a Mitzvah on your birthday or anniversary, and attend one of our daily Minyan services!
Pictured: Jay Kauffman (left) receives the Gail S.
Warren Leadership Award from Dr. Steve Warren
(center) and Past President Alice Ettinger (right).
In a moving speech, Jay thanked his mother for
being a role model of good leadership in his life.
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August Birthdays & Anniversaries
Birthdays
Beth Ann Redisch 1
Linda Weiss 1
Dr. Michael Worman 4
Sally Cohen 6
Michael Gross 6
Diane Litt 6
Helen Pertcheck 7
Edwin Shapiro 7
Moshe Gershuny 11
Noelle Walters 11
Mary Wygodski 11
Joseph Cohen 12
Harry Lev 13
Cary Reich 14
Esta Blaxberg 15
Nicole Melamed 15
Ruth Ann Mizrahi 16
Frederick Silverman 16
Diana Rosin 18
Renee Weinshel 18
Leatrice Tucker 19
Dr. Leonard Adelson 21
Jeremy Douglass 25
Arline Dresdner 26
Charla Fogel 26
Yollette Frey 26
Shirley Sommella 27
Andrew Giskin 28
Ricki Lewis 29
Betty Sue Shane 30
Capt. Allan Lonschein 31
Life Cycle
Anniversaries
Michael & Barbara Noonberg 5
Sami & Ilana Dayan 7
Dr. Robert & Cindy Weisberg 10
Drs. Mitch & Leslie Weiss 13
Robert & Deborah Jacobs 13
Alan & Araceli Gross 13
Drs. Steven Bloom & 17
Charlene Wygodski
Dr. Harold & Joyce Seder 18
David & Teddi Robbins 19
Dr. Jeffrey & Janie Pincus 20
Abraham & Rose Luski 21
Fred & Kathleen Buns 22
Alan & Susan Schwartz 24
Dr. David & Janice LeVine 24
Dr. Mark & Judi Gordon 24
Cary & Karen Reich 25
Dr. Arthur & Bebby Marlin 26
Dr. Marc & Laurie Reiskind 26
Jay & Karen Kauffman 26
Jeff & Diane Litt 26
Dennis & Martha Vorob 27
Dr. Maury & Rachel Seldin 29
Richard & Gerry Mensh 31
Etz Chaim Tree of Life
Leaves on the Tree of Life have been inscribed:
On the special birthday of Steve Grau
By his loving family
July 3, 2015
On the birth of Eitan Solomon Wein
By grandparents and Bubbi, Steve & Livia Wein, Linda Weiss,
and Helen Kahan
June 5, 2015
To Karen Sher, “Woman of Valor,” Wise * Kind * Charitable *
Business Savvy * Admired and Loved
By Debbie Sembler
It is a Tree of Life to those who uphold it.
Proverbs 3:16-8
Looking for a special way to honor
family and friends celebrating a Simha?
BUNS FAMILY TREE OF LIFE
is just the answer. What a joy it is for someone to
walk into our shul and see a tribute in honor of his/her
Bar or Bat Mitzvah, special birthday, anniversary, or
wedding. Order forms are in the synagogue office and
lobby. Minimum donation $254
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Donations
Adult Education In Memory Of
Drs. Steven Bloom & Arlene Reiskind
Charlene Wygodski
Stephen Zimmerman Janet Shapiro
Building Maintenance In Memory Of
Dr. Leslie & Reva Pearlstein Arlene Reiskind
Buns Technology Fund In Honor Of
Fred & Kathleen Buns Fred Buns' 91st birthday
In Memory Of
Fred & Kathleen Buns Abraham Buns
Michael & Barbara Noonberg Thelma Gilbert
Camp Ramah In Honor Of
Susan Goldstein Hannah Weiss,
Hanegev SATO VP
In Memory Of
Dr. Leslie & Reva Pearlstein Sylvia & Theodore
Pearlstein
Leo Freeman
Murray & Myrna Rubin Arlene Reiskind
Dr. Maury & Rachel Seldin Arlene Reiskind
Cantor's Discretionary Fund In Honor Of
Ron & Claire Yogman Jay Kauffman,
Gail Warren Legacy
Leadership Award
Recipient
In Memory Of
Anita Helfand & Lorri Helfand Jack Fischman
Thelma Gilbert
Michael & Barbara Noonberg Thelma Gilbert
Gail Warren Leadership Fund In Memory Of
Drs. Warren & Naomi Abel Arlene Reiskind
Mark & Ricki Lewis Arlene Reiskind
Renee Lipman Janet Shapiro
Dr. Peter & Lois Pardoll Arlene Reiskind
Rona & Barry Seidel Arlene Reiskind
Greg & Liz Sembler Thelma Gilbert
Arlene Reiskind
Dr. Steve Warren Arlene Reiskind
Jacobs Beautification Fund In Memory Of
Abby DiLeonardo Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Jack & Linda Goldfarb Janet Shapiro
Robert & Deborah Jacobs Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Adele Morris Jerry Gilbert
Julius Green Scholarship Fund In Memory Of
Lynn Sumerson Diane Green Shnider
Norman & Harriet Rotter Diane Green Shnider
Dr. Samuel & Peggy Segal Diane Green Shnider
Library In Honor Of
Janet Augenbraun Dr. Pat Cottrille's Birthday
In Memory Of
Janet Augenbraun Thelma Gilbert
Carl Stearns
Mitzvah Fund In Honor Of
Akif Agayev In Appreciation
Jerry & Barbara Colen In Appreciation
Dr. David & Myra Gross In Appreciation
Sandy Elkins In Appreciation
Ben & Helen Pertcheck In Appreciation
Vicki York In Appreciation
Marilyn Benjamin Ruth Mauer's Speedy Recovery
Dr. Pat Cottrille June/July Birthdays &
Anniversaries
Beverly Dikman Moshe & Sharon Gershuny's
Anniversary
Sharon Gershuny's Birthday
Marietta Drucker's Birthday
Miriam Tambor's Birthday
Lenny & Millie Gelfond Ruth Mauer's Speedy Recovery
Birth of Noam Blaiss
Birth of Eitan Wein
Jack & Marilyn Goldberg Jack Goldberg's Birthday
Jack & Linda Goldfarb Birth of Trevor Rosin
Susan Goldstein Birth of Eitan Wein
Anita Helfand & Lorri Helfand June/July Birthdays &
Anniversaries
Robert & Carolyn Isakson Birth of Eitan Wein
Mirla Kremer Carli Haber & Craig Jaffee's
Wedding
Dr. Morrie & Marilyn LeVine Dr. Morrie & Marilyn Levine's
Anniversary
Howard & Elaine Rothstein David Goldfarb and
Rebecca Slatin’s Engagement
Warren & Rebecca Simmons Birth of Noam Blaiss
Ellen Bernstein's Birthday
Susan Turner Harold Pollack
David Robbins
Greenfield Anniversary
Steve Feld
In Memory Of
Judy Benjamin Arlene Reiskind
Sammi Atri
Marilyn Benjamin Arlene Reiskind
Phillip Benjamin
Leon Haliczer
Drs. Steven Bloom & Jerry Bloom
Charlene Wygodski
Morry & Billie Bornstein Ruth Bornstein
Joe & Sally Cohen Janet Shapiro
Robert & Frona Dubin Arlene Reiskind
Dr. Larry & Sheryl Feinman Michael Feinman
Lou & Yollette Frey Marion Bash
Eli Futerman Janet Shapiro
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Mitzvah Fund (cont’d.) In Memory Of Al Gelford Arlene Reiskind
Lenny & Millie Gelfond Arlene Reiskind
Thelma Gilbert
Harold & Charlotte Goldberg Bertha Goldberg
Jack & Linda Goldfarb Jack Fischman
Susan Goldstein Thelma Gilbert
Jack Fischman
Gary Gormin Jerry Gilbert
Steve & Linda Grau Arlene Reiskind
Anita Helfand & Lorri Helfand Arlene Reiskind
Larry & Myrna Irwin Jack & Lee Itzkowitz
Robert & Carolyn Isakson Arlene Reiskind
Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Jack Fischman
Jean Johnston & Phil Schmidt Arlene Reiskind
Rhoda & Allen Katz Arlene Reiskind
Howard Kay Saree Kay
Audrey Kopelman Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Bob & Elaine Lachter Sam Lachter
Fran Leibowitz Janet Shapiro
Samuel Leibowitz Janet Shapiro
Eugene & Lenore Lerner Janet Shapiro
Dr. Morrie & Marilyn LeVine Arlene Reiskind
Jack Fischman
Thelma Gilbert
Harriett Lieberman Jerry Gilbert
Jeff & Diane Litt Dorothy Litzsky
David Loss Janet Shapiro
Lynn Family Arlene Reiskind
Stella Mason Janet Shapiro
Ana Masri Arlene Reiskind
Ruth Mauer Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Dick & Gerry Mensh Sammy Atri
Rebecca Mensh
Sonya Miller Leon Haliczer
Judy Moore Marcia Fisher
Bruce & Stacy Orloff Arlene Reiskind
Dr. Harold & Anita Pollack Gertrude Stromwasser
Allen & Betty Polon Tillie Polon
Dr. Marc & Laurie Reiskind Thelma Gilbert
Jack Fischman
Alan & Susie Schwartz Arlene Reiskind
Sylvia Schwartz Janet Shapiro
Don & Jane Silverberg Jane Esther Goldman
Helen Silverberg
Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Joseph Silverberg
Ed Goldman
Jack Fischman
Warren & Rebecca Simmons Janet Shapiro
Dr. Mike & Sandy Slomka Arlene Reiskind
Dr. Mark & Debbie Sokolov Ernest Drucker
Jay Strauss Selma Strauss
Philip Tavill Janet Shapiro
Mitzvah Fund (cont’d.) In Memory Of
Susan Turner Howard Halpern
Linda Weiss Janet Shapiro
Music & Concert Fund In Honor Of
Raymond Monty Bennett Abraham Luski's
Speedy Recovery
Pauline Rivkind Fund In Honor Of
Ron & Claire Yogman Birth of Eitan Wein
Rabbi's Discretionary Fund In Honor Of
Zelig & Joshua Herman In Appreciation
Shirley Sommella In Appreciation
Esta Blaxberg Birth of Eitan Wein
Anita Helfand & Lorri Helfand Gary Sundick's
Speedy Recovery
In Memory Of
Janet Augenbraun Lillian Stearns
Beverly Dikman George Dikman
Tom & Carol Epstein Lola Epstein
Dr. Larry & Sheryl Feinman Arlene Reiskind
Dr. Mark & Judi Gordon Florence Gordon
Jay & Terri Gross Helen Silverberg
Anita Helfand & Lorri Helfand Janet Shapiro
Dr. Mitch & Ellie LeVine Leonard Albert
USY In Honor Of
Adele Morris Birth of Noam Blaiss
In Memory Of
Ira & Susie Berman Arlene Reiskind
Lucille Ginsburg Kenneth Warga
Jack & Marilyn Goldberg Robert & Ida Lobock
Dr. Mark & Judi Gordon Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
Alma Hirsch Jeannete Hirsch
Marilyn Miller
Michael Hirsch Jeannette Hirsch
Sam & Sandy Janofsky Charles Tobis
Sadie Tobis
Joan Aronovitz
Sharon Koenig Alan Robert Koenig
Yvette Lew Thelma Gilbert
Dr. Ed & Vivian Lurie Arlene Reiskind
Marian Lustigman-Rooth Helen Lustigman
Ruth Mauer Arlene Reiskind
Jack Fischman
Drs. Mitch & Leslie Weiss Jerry & Thelma Gilbert
USY Pilgrimage In Honor Of
Murray & Myrna Rubin Birth of Noam Blaiss
In Memory Of
Ellen Bernstein Thelma Gilbert
Pearl Brook Bernard Brook
Mark & Ricki Lewis Bella Nemiroff
Donations
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Our sponsors make the B’nai Review possible.
Please support them too!
Todah Rabah Todah rabah to Michael Barth for his assistance in organizing a fun and exciting night at the Trop.
Thanks to Michael, over 60 CBI members pre-ordered tickets to watch and hear Cantor Schultz sing
the National Anthem at the Rays game on Monday, June 29, and even more people showed up on the
night of the game!
Todah rabah to the following families who made single payments to CBI to cover dues, donations,
and fees for the upcoming year:
✡ Anonymous
✡ Dr. Mark & Judi Gordon
✡ Dr. Ed & Vivian Lurie
✡ Dr. Marc & Laurie Reiskind
✡ Joel & Betty Sue Shane
✡ Dr. Michael & Sandy Slomka
✡ Jean Wittner
If you want to know more about the perks and conveniences of this program, please contact
Executive Director Susan Goldstein at 727.344.1017 or [email protected].
Pictured: Cantor Jonathan Schultz gave a powerful performance of the Star Spangled
Banner at Tropicana Field. To see (and hear) him sing, visit CBI’s website.
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Congregation B’nai Israel
B’nai Israel Review
300 -58th Street North
St. Petersburg, FL 33710-7889
Tel: 727.381.4900
Fax: 727.344.1307
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WOMEN’S LEAGUE NEEDS YOU
To share your simple, great pareve baking recipes.
Are you interested in joining the Baking Brigade?
Contact Livia Wein at
727.393.3289 or [email protected]
WOMEN’S LEAGUE CATERING IS SPECIAL
Trust us with your simcha and you’ll discover that in addition to the delicious food,
the great attention to detail, and the unbeatable value, there’s one thing that separates us
from the rest. With everything we do - from the first phone call, to the serving of each
carefully prepared dish - we do it with all our heart.
Give us a call and see for yourself.
Visit Pages 14 - 15 for a full menu of Women’s League Kiddush and catering options.