VIOLENCEMenthor: Boštjan Železnik

Author: Alex Sitar

What is violence?● Violence is a violation of the rules of safe and high-quality living together.

● Violence is a violation of human rights and personal boundaries.

● Violence is an abuse of power of one to the detirment of the other.

● Most of the violence happens between people who know each other.

http://www.zenasamja.me/porodica/992/nasilje-u-porodici

Do not forget that our rights and boundaries end then, when the rights and

boundaries of others begin. Everyone has the right to live safely without

violence.

http://www.savremenisport.com/osnove-nasilje-u-sportu-kao-zlo-jednog-drustva.html

Violence againts peers● beating, shuving, kicking, tripping, spitting, scratching, destroying things

● sexual violence

● fooling with different names, nicnames, loud mockery

● improper solicitations, impose threats...

● extortion, stealing money, clothing, and other things

http://www.edukacija.hr/vijest/nasilje-u-osnovnim-skolama/257/

Where does the violence againts peers happen?

Violence againts peers is happening in:

● primary schools● secondary schools● institutions● youth homes● kindergartens● in the family between brothers and sisters

http://www.delo.si/novice/slovenija/nasilje-v-solah-sovrazniki-v-razredu-in-nemoc-sistema.html

How violence happens?Forms of violence are diferent:

● beating, kicking, verbal calling names and damege● defamation, intentional exclusion from a group

Consequences of violence are:

● depression● poor self-esteem● shameful● isolation● poor school performenc

http://www.psihoterapija-ordinacija.si/sl/clanki/clanki-poljudni/258-vrstnisko-nasilje.html

Who are the bullies?Bullies are children and adolescents. Some may be violent even as very small children who, with their conduct, continue in the period of adolescence and later as adults.

The victims are usually children who are in some ways different.

http://www.dw.de/djeca-su-%C5%BErtve-zlostavljanja-nasilja-siroma%C5%A1tva/a-6019891

Physical violence

Statistics proves that 99% of the violence between the adults in the family, the victims are the women and the producers are men.

The most common forms of physical violence are:

Pushing, beating, kicking, boxing...

http://vizita.si/clanek/dusevnost/nasilje-nad-zenskami-zacaran-krog-strahu-in-nemoci.html

Psyhological violence

Psyhological violence is most often at the verbal level and has a negative inpact on self-confidence, self-esteem and self-cofidence of the other person.

● spreading negative rumors abaut the person, in order to reduce his reputation in society● isalting a person from the people with who they would like to maintain contact

http://www.radiokrka.com/poglej_clanek.asp?ID_clanka=185451

Violence in the familyFamily is the basic cell, where we develop and get the first information of what is right and what is wrong.

Children who have a bad experience with their closest, often behave aggressively.

Such children sometimes want to take on the role of the one who leads, who humiliats others, weaker then him.

http://www.drugisvet.com/in-blog-veritas/kako-ravnati-ko-v-bliznji-okolici-opazimo-nasilje-v-druzini.htm l

Sexual violenceWhen we talk about sexual abuse we aren't only talking about rape, but about significantly more actions which are also paiful for the child. At the sexual abuse we are talking, when someone alder than you, (who has more knowledge about sexuality, has power and control over you);

● showing of intimated parts of the body● shows pornographic images and movies● forces you into a sexual intercourse● forces you into prostitution

http://www.park.si/2010/11/drustvo-za-zivljenje-brz-nasilja-poziva-k-akciji/

It is importent to realize that everyone has the right to protection from

physical, psyhological and sexual violence. If you happening any form of

violence, do not be silent. You can contact different insitutions dealing with

the problems of violence: social work center, police, crisis center, SOS

phone...

http://www.radiohertz.de/beta-site/category/der-morgen/page/87/

Sourceshttp://www.policija.si/index.php/preventiva-/preventiva/427-nasilje-nad-vrstniki

http://www.e-tom.si/teme/nasilje/fizicno-nasilje