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Facebook: N A S SIG O N E L L A Is it ruining your social life? PAGE 15 Vol. 32 No. 16 Sigonella: Celebrating our children! PAGEs 8-9 EOD: Do you have what it takes? PAGE 4 April 24, 2015 Sigonella celebrates our military children Pfc. Jonathan Austin follows close behind Cpl. Jun Cho, as the pair hunts down the hiding Henry Edison Boller, age 8, during the April 10 Nerf Gun battle at the NAS 1 Gymnasium. Cho and Austin joined other Special Marine Air-Ground Task Force-Africa Marines in a battle intended to be a fun way in which to celebrate Sigonella's kids during the Month of the Military Child. For more photos, see pages 8-9. (Photo courtesy of MWR) NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily – If Aretha Franklin were on hand for Sigonella’s April 16 Sexual Assault and Prevention Walk and proclamation signing, it would have been appropriate for her to sing her famous “Respect” tune, the 1960s anthem asking her love interest to be kind and pay her the appropriate amount of esteem or else. ough the Queen of Soul wasn’t here to belt out that mega-hit, that sentiment still echoed in the heart of Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella community during Commanding Officer Capt. Christopher Dennis’ speech given about sexual assault and awareness prevention in front of the NAS 2 water fountain that day. Moments aſter the speech, Dennis signed the Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month (SAAPM) proclamation on behalf of the community so we bring greater cognizance to the commitment of respect we owe ourselves and one another. “Respect your future and those around you because we don’t know what our future holds,” said Dennis. “We have hopes, dreams and aspirations but we won’t reach them if we end up on the other side of a sexual assault case as a defendant.” While the base skipper gave his own signature, the event allowed surrounding installation citizens their own opportunity to pledged their commitment to Sig’ Citizenship with pen in hand with many signing their names to the banner and accompanying pledge Sigonella community members brought awareness against sexual assault by wearing a tee-shirt that read “Got Consent?” while marching the mile-long lap around NAS 2, demonstrating the community’s resolve toward eliminating sexual assault. More than 150 people participated in the walk on April 16. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released) R-E-S-P-E-C-T: What it means for you and me BY MC3 RAMON GO NAS Sigonella Public Affairs Staff "SAAPM" continued on Page 4

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In this week's edition we find out why R-E-S-P-E-C-T is so important, we get a little taste of what it takes to join EOD, and finally we celebrate the Month of the Military Child!

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Page 1: The Signature, April 24, 2015

Facebook: NAS SIGONELLA

Is it ruining your social life?

PAGE 15

Vol. 32 No. 16

Sigonella:Celebrating our children!

PAGEs 8-9

EOD:Do you have what it

takes?

PAGE 4

April 24, 2015

Sigonella celebrates our military children

Pfc. Jonathan Austin follows close behind Cpl. Jun Cho, as the pair hunts down the hiding Henry Edison Boller, age 8, during the April 10 Nerf Gun battle at the NAS 1 Gymnasium. Cho and Austin joined other Special Marine Air-Ground Task Force-Africa Marines in a battle intended to be a fun way in which to celebrate Sigonella's kids during the Month of the Military Child. For more photos, see pages 8-9. (Photo courtesy of MWR)

NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily – If Aretha Franklin were on hand for Sigonella’s April 16 Sexual Assault and Prevention Walk and proclamation signing, it would have been appropriate for her to sing her famous “Respect” tune, the 1960s anthem asking her love interest to be kind and pay her the appropriate amount of esteem or else. Though the Queen of Soul wasn’t here to belt out that mega-hit, that sentiment still echoed in the heart of Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella community during Commanding Officer Capt. Christopher Dennis’ speech given about sexual assault and awareness prevention in front of the NAS 2 water fountain that day. Moments after the speech, Dennis signed the Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month (SAAPM) proclamation on behalf of the community so we bring greater cognizance to the commitment of respect we owe ourselves and one another.

“Respect your future and those around you because we don’t know what our future holds,” said Dennis. “We have hopes, dreams and aspirations but we won’t reach them if we end up on the other side of a sexual assault case as a defendant.”

While the base skipper gave his own signature, the event allowed surrounding installation citizens their own opportunity to pledged their commitment to Sig’ Citizenship with pen in hand with many signing their names to the banner and accompanying pledge

Sigonella community members brought awareness against sexual assault by wearing a tee-shirt that read “Got Consent?” while marching the mile-long lap around NAS 2, demonstrating the community’s resolve toward eliminating sexual assault. More than 150 people participated in the walk on April 16. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released)

R-E-S-P-E-C-T: What it means for you and meBy mc3 Ramon GoNAS Sigonella Public Affairs Staff

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Saluti SigonellaAnother busy couple weeks in

the books characterized by more amazing efforts by this base and every command attached to it! There was so much going on it’s hard to believe summer is almost here. Like most of you I’m glad it looks like the rain has stopped and awesome summer weather is coming!

Let’s talk about what has been going on around the base. Last week we did the SAPR walk and let me tell you - what an amazing turnout. Captain Dennis started with thoughtful, relevant opening remarks before taking strides together as a family while walking the base with numerous Sailors, Marines, Airmen, and civilians. We ended up by Take 5 where the NASSIG CPOA mess cooked burgers and hot dogs for all involved. Thank you to the CPO MESS for taking time out of your day and ensuring every participant in the walk was re-caloried after the mile walk! . The Hospital was extremely busy as well. They had their big NAVY MED IG and JMC visits. Like they do every day, they once again performed extremely well and the praises about this hospital were voiced by every inspector! Bravo Zulo hospital and thank you for everything you all do to make sure Sig’ Citizens are kept healthy and safe! MWR has been doing a ton with our children as well. As everyone knows, April is Month of the Military Child and they have been going non-stop with activities for all military children.

I had the great pleasure and honor to thank all our children for their sacrifice and support to their care givers at the Marinai Teen Center last week, and explain from my own perspective why this month is so significant. Last, but not least, we closed out the Active Duty Fund Drive for the Navy and Marine Corps Relief Society. There was a cool event held on NAS 1 April 11 with a ton of Cinquecentos, food booths, and even a dunk tank in which our very own base CO took part (and got soaked!). The team that was working these events and fund raisers should be very proud as this community raised over $100,000! Well done to all!

Coming in May is Asian/Pacific American Heritage Month. I look forward to seeing what is going on around the base and I also look forward to seeing what the galley has up their sleeve for their special meal.

Finally, during spring break I had the opportunity to travel to Malta for a few days. What a really cool island rich in tradition, heritage and sites. I was shocked by how many UNESCO World Heritage sites there were and how well everything was preserved. I took the hop-on hop-off bus and went around the island and saw much as I could. I took a boat ride around the Blue Grotto and got to see some really amazing fish and rock carvings. The food was simply amazing. Fresh fish was on my list and I took advantage of it every night. If you get a chance to travel and want to go somewhere

I recommend you take a trip over to Malta. It’s easy and you’ll love it!

As the weather is starting to warm up please remember to have a plan. Drinking and driving is not a plan and there are many options available so please consider this

before going out and truly enjoying everything Sicily has to offer!

As always Sigonella, Lead yourself exceptionally well, Create opportunities for others to succeed, and Have a positive attitude. See you around the base.

THE SIGNATUREU.S. NAVAL AIR STATION SIGONELLA

Commanding OfficerCapt. Chris Dennis

Executive OfficerCmdr. Charles G. McKinney II

Command Master ChiefCMDCM Mike Kaszubowski

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Interactive Customer Evaluation

There are two ways to submit feed back to Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella Commanding Officer Capt. Chris Dennis:

Visit The Interactive Customer Evaluation (ICE) home page on a One-Net computer at: http://ice.disa.mil, All Sigonella services are found under the Navy Europe Listing in the scroll-down menu. Also, visit NAS Sigonella's website www.cnic.navy.mil/Sigonella, go to the "About" drop down menu and click on "CO Suggestion Box".

The Signature will anonymously publish comments and responses for the benefit of the Sigonella community. If you are submitting a "BZ", we ask that you provide your name in order for us to properly recognize employee. Please make sure your comments and suggestions are constructive. In other words, "BE NICE ON ICE."

Commanding Officer's Suggestion Box

Command Master Chief Mike KaszubowskiDirect Line

Comment regarding “Security in Marinai”:I recently witnessed security stop at a Marinai house and two armed security guards stood in the driveway talking to unit residents, and then proceeded to do pull-ups and play around. These Sailors were armed and horsing around, and appeared to be dereliction to duty.

Response: Thank you for sharing your observation. Security Department leaders have formally addressed this with those involved. Further, Security leaders have reminded the entire department of what’s expected when standing professional watch. Overall, I am very proud of the competence and conduct of our Security team, but this incident serves as a reminder that no one can let their guard down when it comes to professionalism. If anyone else suspects our base personnel of a breach in professionalism, please contact the affiliated Department Head. For Security, you can reach the Security Officer, LT Charles Cranston, at 624-6392, or by e-mail at: [email protected].

Comment regarding “Children at NAS 2 Gym”:The intramural basketball league scheduled all games to be played at the

NAS 2 Gym, which due to current rules means members with children and without child care cannot play. Overall, participation with Captain’s Cup events held at the NAS 2 Gym would increase if we altered the rule and allowed child attendance during these games.

Response: Thank you for sharing your predicament. I certainly appreciate your frustration with the current policy prohibiting NAS 2 Fitness Center access to children. As I mentioned ~6 months ago when this same issue was mentioned, we must always balance many considerations in addressing public desires. I use the following criteria: is it legal, ethical, moral, affordable? What do I give up to have it? Often there are no clear YES answers, rather options with varying shades of satisfaction & risk. In these cases, I must consider how to do the most good/least harm for the community. To this point, I remain unwilling to allow children in NAS 2 for a host of reasons that represent the greater good to our community, which puts a premium on safeguarding our youth. I am not willing to accept the risk of introducing youngsters, even those accompanied by adults, to a fitness facility not designed for them. In

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contrast, NAS 1 is an installation site equipped to deliver “support” services to all ages within our community, specifically including our family fitness center. All in all, for the foreseeable future NAS 2 gym patrons must be at least 18-years-old and not in DoDDs/home school equivalent. If you want to participate in sporting events at the NAS 2 Fitness Center, you will have to make the necessary child care arrangements. Thank you again for allowing me to readdress this issue. If you have any additional questions or concerns, feel free to contact the MWR Athletic Director, Mr. John Lenz at 624-0504 or via email at: [email protected].

Comment regarding “Bumpy Shuttle Service”:I am very grateful for the base-to-base shuttle service. With that said, I am pregnant and have concerns with the safety and condition of the smaller shuttle bus. Every time the shuttle goes over a bump it is very uncomfortable, even painful, whether sitting in front or back. Can something be done to improve the safety/condition of this important community service?

Response: Thank you for describing the condition of our base-to-base shuttle service. I take seriously the need for safe transportation. After receiving your comment, we demanded the shuttle contractor complete all necessary maintenance to ensure each bus (including the smaller 19-passenger van) is up to standards. Until those repairs are made, the 55-passenger buses will run all routes. If you have additional questions or concerns regarding the base shuttle service, please contact our Public Works Director, CDR Deanna Carpenter, at 624-2906, or by e-mail at: [email protected].

Comment regarding “Damaged Package, Stolen Goods in the Mail”:I recently mailed a package to my family in Maryland that arrived completely destroyed with an apology letter from the military postal service (MPS). In addition to the tattered box, $50 and a chocolate Easter bunny intended for my son were missing. This is the second time a package mailed from Sigonella arrived completely ruined. It upsets me to think MPS workers might steal.

Response: Thank you for submitting your comment. It would upset me too if I thought MPS Sailors were stealing – I do not believe this to be the case, at least not locally. Still, I am very sorry for the dreadful service you experienced, and especially for your son’s missing items. You might not realize that the Military Postal Service comprises a network of military, government, and civilian couriers across the world. Locally, postal integrity is a first-tier issue of CAPT Jones and LCDR Brooks – CO FLCSI and NASSIG Supply Officer, respectively. However, the sheer numbers of agencies and personnel handling all packages beyond Sigonella makes it difficult to pinpoint culpability. That said, with additional information we might be able to resolve your situation. Please provide: the tracking number, mailing and return addresses, date mailed, apology letter received with the package, and if possible photo(s) of the package. Finally, please never send cash through the mail – any mail system. Consider checks or money orders instead. In the meantime, our postal team will continue doing their best to correct problems that occur within the system. Any questions or further inquiries should be directed to the Postal Officer, Wes Smith, at 624-5888.

For the awareness of our community I’m also including additional details of how military mail is handled once it leaves NASSIG for the States. Most packages departing Sigonella for the United States are locally placed into a large pouch to protect parcels from weather and reduce crushes (a few are too large to fit inside and are shipped separately). From this point the mail follows this sequence: a) placement on the contracted mail truck to the Catania airport b) airport cargo handlers place pouches and packages on outbound aircraft c) aircraft stops in Rome where mail is loaded onto U.S. bound planes - most-often Chicago O’Hare; d) once loaded onto U.S. aircraft, the United States Postal Service assumes custody of our mail and routes them to their stateside recipients.

Comment regarding “Canceled Practice at NAS 1 Gym”:I recently learned the reason why my son’s basketball practice was canceled was due to make room for BINGO at the NAS 1 Gym. When I pay for the season I expect to get my money’s worth. I understand there are things that happen that we cannot avoid, but BINGO is surely not one of them.

Response: I am sorry and thank you for allowing me to respond. First of all, I’m sorry that your son’s practice was cancelled – a rescheduling would have been a more appropriate outcome considering the circumstances. As for why the change, simply put, we have limited venues and from time to time we have conflicts. In this specific case, after several consecutive BINGO weeks in which there were no winners, we knew the turnout expected to try and win the $7,500 jackpot would far exceed any location on either NAS 1 or NAS 2 other than the NAS 1 Gymnasium. BINGO is normally played in the Chart Room and participants reached maximum occupancy the week prior. While there are few alternatives for unplanned dilemmas such as this, we do owe youth and adult sports ample warning and should work diligently to reschedule when possible. We can do better and MWR Director, Paul Lopez, has assured me we will. I sincerely apologize for the break in service. If you have any additional comments or concerns, please contact Paul Lopez at 624-0503 or via email at: [email protected].

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NAS Sigonella Sailors participate in a 1.5-mile run exercise for the Explosive Ordnance Disposal (EOD) physical screening test, April 15. The physical screening test is the first step to apply for the EOD special operations program. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released)

NAS Sigonella Sailors participate in the swim exercise for the Explosive Ordnance Disposal (EOD) physical screening test, April 15. The physical screening test is the first step to apply for the EOD special operations program. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released)

NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily – With sweat on their brow, hunkered down as gunfire whizzes above while they try to focus and diffuse an improvised explosive device (IED) with all eyes and expectations on them. Everything slows down now. Their heart ticks like a pounding clock while their heavy suit of body armor and all the other distractions weigh against their resolve and focus.

This is the job of an explosive ordnance disposal (EOD) technician, something not for the faint of heart, and probably one of the reasons the Navy selects just a few for the job every year. There are 2200 EOD members worldwide and approximately 100 people apply each year, but only 60% complete the training necessary to become part of the community.

Chief Explosive Ordnance Disposal Technician Matthew Murray, attached to EOD Mobile Unit Detachment Europe, has felt that pressure and began his personal journey in the same place as the Sigonella Sailors who

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that outlines principles and expectations of safeguarding and promoting Health & Welfare, Security, and Resource Conservation so the community can continue its concerted strive toward excellence. Service members also took arm against sexual assault by wearing a t-shirt that read “Got Consent?” while marching the mile-long lap around NAS 2, demonstrating much of the community’s resolve toward eliminating sexual assault. More than 150 people participated in the walk.

“The walk represents our commitment to eliminating sexual assault in the community,” said Elizabeth Walther, acting director of NAS Sigonella Fleet and Family Support Center. “We want to create a community where sexual assault doesn’t happen by creating a culture of respect. A community where people know what they need to do and do their part to stop sexual assault before it happens.”

Although SAAP month is recognized by the Navy to be April, it serves as 365-day-a-year presence at NAS Sigonella. Sixteen teal flags have been displayed at the entrance of NAS 1 and NAS 2 honoring each individual victim who stepped forward to report their sexual assault in the past year. Tee-shirts also hang near the NAS 1 main entry control point with messages that support victims and speak out against sexual assault in the community.

“We have seen that more people are getting the support they need,” said Walther. "And that’s encouraging. It’s important to get the help needed at an earlier stage, before it becomes too much to handle and act out and, worse, get themselves and others into trouble,” she added. “We are here to help [you] and that is our mission as the Fleet and Family Support Center of NAS Sigonella.”

Twelve Sig' Sailors take EOD tests showed up for a brief and physical screening test (PST), April 15 to learn if they had the makings of someone who could overcome their fears and get the job done. Murray looked back on his days as an engineman second-class, applying for the special program while in the fleet.

“I looked at my current situation and decided to make a change. I wanted something more with my career and with my life,” said Murray. “It began simply as talking to a few guys who steered me into the EOD world.”

The brief on NAS Sigonella gave Sailors an opportunity to learn the steps to apply for one of the many special operations programs the Navy has to offer: from special warfare combatant-craft crewman (SWCC), EOD technician, Navy diver, and aviation rescue swimmer. This also gave applicants a chance to ask face-to-face questions and get answers from those actually in the career field they’re interested in.

“Face–to-face time is invaluable, you have to sit down and talk to the people who are trying out,” said Murray. “I looked at everyone at the brief and all I see is potential. These are the people who are coming into the community and will be working side-by-side with someday.”

Murray was right. Eight out of the 12 Sailors passed their first PST consisting of a timed evolution of the following exercises in order: 500 yard swim, push-ups, sit-ups, pull-ups, and a 1.5 mile run.

“I did fantastic today, because I’ve been improving, not on one thing alone, but my overall fitness,” said Interior Communications Electrician 3rd Class Eric Huezo. “I’ve always liked a challenge. It’s tough, but it’s rewarding.”

For Huezo, the physical and mental demands required of a Navy special program candidate was challenging enough for him to seek out a mentor, which is where Senior Chief Petty Officer Explosive Ordnance Disposal Technician Eric Theis came in. Theis taught Huezo the ins-and-outs and suggested that he pursue a career in EOD. With time and consideration, Huezo has physically and mentally prepared himself for days to come as he moves on to the next step with his EOD application.

“I still keep in touch with senior chief and I will be letting him know I passed my first PST,” said Huezo.

Applicants for the EOD program will go through approximately 12 months of training. Nine weeks will be spent at Naval Diving and Salvage Training Center (NDSTC), to receive dive training and fundamentals, medicine, SCUBA, hyperbaric chamber operation, rubber raiding craft small boat operation and small team diving integration. Upon completion of dive school, students spend 41 weeks at Eglin Air Force Base to learn core classes, demolition of explosives, EOD tools and methods, chemical munitions and EOD publications. The last phase of training is broken down into specific types of ordnance from ground ordnance to nuclear weapons.

For more information on how to become an EOD technician, contact NC1 Roberto Vite at 624-5924 or [email protected].

By mc3 Ramon GoNAS Sigonella Public Affairs Staff

Need an appointment at the hospital? Call DSN

624-CARE (2273) or commercial 095-56-2273,

M-F: 7:30 a.m. - 4 p.m. For non-emergent

medical questions that arise over the weekend, holidays, or after office

hours, please call 335-578-8077 if you are normally seen

at the hospital or 335-578-8150

if you are normally seen at the Flight Line Clinic.

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Three Patron Saints’ Festival in Trecastagni May 3-11

The blessing of the children is one of the most touching moments of the annual Trecastagni religious festival honoring The Martyr Brothers or “Alfio, Filadelfo and Cirino,” the three town’s patrons. From May 3 - 11, a spectacular religious festival is held in the historic heart of the town featuring religious processions, live music, folklore parades, food stands selling garlic and onions as well as arts and crafts. (Photo by http://www.isolainfesta.net/)

TRECASTAGNI, Sicily - If you want to understand the inner soul of the Sicilian culture, you should attend a festa religiosa (religious feast). Those celebrations blend religion, history culture and folklore. Every year, the community of Tracastagni hosts a lively festival honoring the “Three Martyred Brothers” i.e. Alfio, Filadelfo and Cirino (St. Alphius, St. Philadelphus, and St. Cyrinus). The festival revolves around the saints’ Santuario (sanctuary) which was founded in 1928 thanks to an authorization granted by Cardinal Francica Nava.

Trecastagni townspeople share their faith among three saints. The Martyr Brothers or “Alfio, Filadelfo and Cirino,” are the town’s three patrons. Devotees believe these saints have the power to win divine aid for mortal petitioners by interceding with God. Celebrations, which go back to the 16th century, also include a spectacular Sicilian carts parade and the traditional garlic fair. Garlic is considered as a symbol of the pilgrim’s participation in the festival and is traditionally believed to keep evil away and grant health and protection from illness.

Sicilian anthropologist Giuseppe Pitrè gives a vivid description of the festa (festival), writing that “surging crowds of devotees” attend the celebrations “singing, dancing, playing, laughing and swaying like waves in a stormy sea.”

Feasts of the Three Saints are also held in other parts of Sicily (St. Alfio, St. Fratello and Lentini), Italy (Vaste near Lecce) and the world (Lawrence, Massachusetts (USA) and Sydney (Australia).

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Navy Military Child of the Year honored at GalaBy mcc JUlIannE mETzGERChief of Naval Operations Public Affairs

WASHINGTON (NNS) -- The Navy's top officer presented the award for Navy Military Child of the Year during an evening gala at the Ritz Carlton in Arlington, Virginia, April 16.

Chief of Naval Operations (CNO) Adm. Jonathan Greenert introduced the 2015 Navy Military Child of the Year awardee Emily Kliewer, an Orlando high school student and humanitarian.

"Emily believes in paying it forward and providing that rainbow in among the clouds," said Greenert. "She has a commitment to others, general compassion and concern, and she's that advocate for positivity."

The Military Child of the Year Award recognizes military children who have demonstrated themselves as exceptional citizens while facing the challenges of military family life.

Kliewer, a senior at Dr. Phillips High School (DPHS), will graduate in June as class valedictorian with a 4.92 GPA. She is DPHS's Swimming and Diving Team Captain, a four time school record holder, a three time NISCA All American Swimmer, and has placed in multiple events at the Florida State and Regional levels.

"Over the last 15 years... I have never met a student quite like Emily Kliewer," said DPHS Administrative and former Athletic Director Dean John Magrino. "I am not speaking about her accomplishments or her accolades, which could fill pages. Emily's character is impeccable and without question,

her greatest quality."Kliewer combines her athletic prowess and zeal for

community service as a Special Olympics swimming instructor and volunteer coach. Her experiences working with Special Olympics inspired her to become a peer-on-peer mentor, where she serves as an assistant teacher and friend to special needs children.

"It is important to spread positivity and be nice to anyone and everyone," said Kliewer. "If you are nice to someone else, it starts the chain to spread kindness to a greater number of people-even to the point that it may come back around. Even more important, that bit of niceness may make someone's day."

Kliewer also participates in the Give Kids the World event, which allows for terminally or chronically ill children to come and vacation at Walt Disney World and Universal Studios. Emily has said that these volunteer experiences, in addition to working with the Navy & Marine Corps Relief Society, are some of her proudest achievements.

"Emily reminds us that military children serve as well; it's not just about deployments and separations, or managing, in her case, five moves in 10 years," said Greenert. "But Emily, like so many of our kids, does take service to a whole other level."

Operation Homefront, the award and event's sponsor, states the average Military Child of the Year Award nominee has: moved five times or more, experienced at least one parent deploy for 18 months or more, volunteered with service groups an average of 75 hours during the year, and has maintained above-average grades and excelled in extracurricular activities.

Kliewer is the daughter of retired Navy Lt. Cmdr. Kyle and Cynthia Kliewer. Her great grandfather, a World War II veteran, served in the Navy for 25 years. Both of Emily's grandfathers are also Navy veterans, as well as three uncles and five cousins serving in different branches of the armed services. Emily's older sister, Kaitlin, is working on her Ph.D. in civil engineering at Princeton University. Her other sister Nicole will graduate from Florida State University magna cum laude this summer.

"Now you've heard the term, 'the apple doesn't fall far from the tree,'" Greenert said. "And in this case, tonight we have really kind of an orchard of service and accomplishment," continued Greenert, referencing the extended Kliewer family.

In her spare time Emily Kliewer is active in school honor societies, including the Science and Spanish Honor Societies, and was named CIS World History and AP Environmental Science Student of the Year.

"She is one of those rare students who will passionately pursue excellence no matter how high the 'bar' is raised," said Deborah Wasylik, Emily's AP Environmental Science Teacher.

Kliewer plans on attending the University of Idaho to study chemical engineering and continue her competitive swimming career at the collegiate level.

"She has a pretty good career ahead of her, I think," said Greenert. "I really admire these kids and what they stand for," said Greenert of the award recipients.

For more information on the Military Child of the Year: http://www.militarychildoftheyear.org

U.S. Navy HEADLINES

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Month of the Military Child

Photos by MWR, MC2 Donavan Patubo, MC3 Ramon Go

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In March, an E-7 was charged with Driving Under the Influence; driving privileges suspended 12 months.

In March, a civilian was charged with feeding stray cats; driving privileges suspended for 30 days.

In April, an E-3 was charged with Driving Under the Influence; driving privileges suspended 12 months.

In April, a civilian was suspected of Shoplifting; NEX, Commissary, and 7-Day Store privileges suspended 12 months.

In April, an E-5 was charged with Driving Under the Influence; driving privileges suspended 12 Months.

The Signature has established the "That's NOT - What Right Looks Like" section in order to make the NAS Sigonella community aware of how the command is prosecuting improper behavior, along with the hope of deterring future bad decisions.

Breakfast: $3.45 Lunch: $5.55 Dinner: $4.85

As a reminder to everyone:

Reminder - there are no PTUs allowed at the Galley. Appropriate athletic gear is authorized at the discretion of the Galley staff. Please remember that for sanitation purposes and for the consideration of other customers, if you have been out for PT, been working out at the gym, or have just been engaged in any physical activity where you and or your clothing has become soiled or sweaty you will be asked to turn around.

Friday, April 24Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Oven Fried Bacon, Chicken Tocino on Garlic Fried RiceLunch: Shepherd’s Pie, Baked FishSpeed Line: Chef Gigi’s Freshly Made PizzaDinner: Savory Baked Chicken, Baked Italian Sausage

Saturday, April 25Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Oven Fried Bacon, Corned Beef HashBrunch: Eggs to Order, Oven Fried Bacon, Corned Beef Hash, Grilled Ham & Cheese SandwichDinner: Veal Steaks, Baked Tuna and Noodles

Sunday, April 26Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Grilled Turkey Sausage, Grilled Sausage PattiesBrunch: Eggs to Order, Grilled Turkey Sausage, Grilled Sausage Patties, and Roast Beef Dinner: Spaghetti with Meatballs, Chicken Cacciatore

Monday, April 27Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Minced Beef, Oven Fried BaconLunch: Hamburger Yakisoba, Fried CatfishSpeed Line: PizzaDinner: Beef Ravioli, Herbed Baked Chicken

Tuesday, April 28Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Sausage Gravy with Biscuits, Oven Fried BaconLunch: Asian Style CuisineSpeed Line: Chili Cheese DogsDinner: Beef Stew, Lemon Grilled Chicken Breast

Wednesday, April 29Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Creamed Ground Beef on Toast, Grilled Sausage PattiesLunch: Lasagna, Chuckwagon StewSpeed Line: Burgers and Chicken PattiesDinner: Spaghetti with Meat Sauce, Honey Ginger Chicken

Thursday, April 30Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Grilled Turkey Sausage, Oven Fried BaconLunch: Roast Pork, Chicken Fried Steak w/GravySpeed Line: Pasta BarDinner: Chili Macaroni, Baked Salmon

Friday, May 1Breakfast: Eggs to Order, Oven Fried Bacon, Oven Browned Corned Beef Hash, Lunch: Meat Loaf, Baked FishSpeed Line: PizzaDinner: Chicken Parmesan, Fishwich

BREAKFASTMon-Fri

6:30-8 a.m.Weekend/Holiday

7 -9 a.m.

LUNCHMon-Fri

11 a.m. - 1 p.m.Weekend/Holiday

11 a.m. - 1 p.m.

DINNERMon-Fri

4:30 - 6 p.m.Weekend/Holiday

4:30 - 6 p.m.

DRIVE SAFELY SIGONELLA

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ROMAN CATHOLIC• Sunday - 9 a.m. Catholic Mass at NAS 1 Chapel• TuESday, WEdnESday & FRIday 11:30 a.m. - Catholic Mass at NAS 2 ChapelSacraments of Reconciliation / Penance precedeeach Mass• FRIday - 11:30 a.m. Catholic Mass at NAS 1 Chapel

LATTER-DAY SAINTS • Sunday - 1:30 p.m. at NAS 1 ChapelContact: [email protected] or 624-9049

JEWISH SHABBAT LAY SERVICE• FRIday - 5:30 p.m. at NAS 1 Chapel

PROTESTANT - NAS 1 CHAPEL• SaTuRday - 6:30 p.m. Contemporary Worship Services • Sunday - 11 a.m. Traditional Worship; 12 p.m. Sunday SchoolPROTESTANT / Non-Denominational - NAS 2 Chapel• Sunday - 6 p.m.

NIGHT STUDY• MOnday - AA Meetings - 5:30 p.m., seconddeck at NAS 1 Chapel; ThuRSday - 7 p.m. at NAS 2 Chapel• TuESday - Italian Class - 7 p.m. at Classroom at NAS 1 Chapel • TuESday - Glee Club - 12 p.m. at NAS 1 Chapel • TuESday - Awana Club - 4:45 p.m at NAS 1 Chapel

NASSIG Worship Services

Uniform Shift: On May 11, all commands within the U.S. Naval Forces Europe area of responsibility (AOR) will shift to the summer uniform. Don't delay in making the necessary preparations!

The Navy College Office in Sigonella is hosting the Graduation Recognition Ceremony on June 11 at the NAS 1 Chapel. Eligible participants include Service members, Veterans, DOD civilians, DOD contractors and family members who earned or will earn their certificates and/or degrees (GED, Certifications, Associate's, Bachelor's, Master's and Doctorate) from Dec. 2014 - Dec. 2015.A reception will be held following the ceremony. Please support our graduates on this very special day. To sign up, contact NCO Director William Garcia at [email protected] or UMUC representative Patrizia Tedesco at [email protected]. The last day to sign up will be May 29.

Religious Ministries Department - Club Beyond is hosting an opportunity to serve others in Ostrava, Czech Republic, June 21-27. For more information or reservation packets, please contact the Club Beyond Sigonella Community Director, Michael King, at [email protected] or the NAS 1 Chapel at 624-3975.

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Chapel Offices: NAS 1 095-56-3975, NAS2I 095-86-9049, DSN: 624-3975, Chaplain Duty: 335-831-4493 RP Duty: 335-786-1950 NAS Sigonella Religious Ministries Department Facebook page: www.facebook.com/Naval Air Station Sigonella Chapel

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Celebrations actually begin on May 1 with hundreds of pilgrims performing under all weather conditions the Viaggio di Sant’Alfio (St. Alfio’s journey). It is a visit to the sanctuary that is paid daily from May 1 - 10, to fulfill the vows they have made to the saint for granting a wish or bringing themselves or their beloved relatives and friends safely through an accident or an illness. Although this pilgrimage might seem less “picturesque” than the ones performed by the Nudi in the night between May 9 - 10, (during which devotees wearing white shorts and a red band on the chest also walk (some barefoot) from Catania and other Etna towns to the Sanctuary of St.Alfio), the St. Alfio’s journeys are still a genuine and low profiled display of true devotion.

Historic chronicles tell us that, in the year 1516, “The Three Saints” began to be venerated with a particular fervor in Trecastagni after the finding of their relics in a monastery near Messina. Throughout the centuries the festival was enriched with more elements like the representation of the life of the Three Saints.

According to historic chronicles, the Three Saints were born in Vaste (Lecce) in the III century. During the persecutions made by the Romans against the Christians, they were arrested and forced to leave Sicily to go to Rome where they were convicted and tortured. Legend tells of miracles worked by the saints, for instance, the fact that every place they visited became a Catholic community. Since they belonged to a noble family, Romans feared that they could influence other aristocrats. Therefore they used them as scapegoats to convince the others to stay away from the Catholic religion. After being tortured in Pozzuoli and then back in Sicily, they were eventually martyred in Lentini on May 10, 253 AD.

Although the festival was meant to celebrate all three saints, the devotion of St. Alfio somehow darkened the memory of the other two saints. This is probably due to the fact that Alfio was the elder brother and consequently was the one who always spoke on behalf of his family.

During the centuries, people tended to ask St. Alfio, rather than his brothers, for intercession for healing from serious illnesses and injuries. Once the miracle is granted, devotees feel obligated to thank the saint. That is why today the Nudi still perform with spectacular processions carrying heavy wax candles that can weigh up to 220 pounds. Around the candle a red ribbon with a picture of the saints is tied.

Throughout the centuries, the desire to give thanks to the saints has also been driving pilgrims, who were healed after praying to the saints, to paint or commission ex-votos that are pictures on wood, cardboard or canvas

describing the accident for which the saints’ help was invoked.

Trecastagni boasts an impressive collection of hundreds of those ex-voto-icons, which also includes artificial limbs donated after the healing to the sanctuary by the pilgrims. Visiting the collection is a touching experience. Every painting tells a story of joys and sorrows. Aci Sant’Antonio Sicilian carts’ craftsmen have been the authors of those art pieces. They are among the few artists who keep alive this ancient decorating tradition.

Festival Schedule HighlightsThe festival starts on May 3 with the

procession of the three candelore, (heavy wooden floats, about six meters in height, with a big main wax candle surrounded by sculptures representing the martyrdom of the three saints) leaving from the Saint Alfio’s sanctuary. At 5 p.m., these beautiful decorated floats are carried in procession throughout the city historic center. These processions will be repeated daily through May 11.

On May 7, the Sagra delle Musiche, a music show is performed at 5 p.m. by local bands in piazza Saint Alfio.

On May 8 at 7:30 p.m. the relics of the Saints are brought in procession from the main church to the Saint Alfio sanctuary. The procession lasts until late evening. During the tour of the relics, the city band will be performing in piazza dei Bianchi throughout the night. In the evening, at 9 p.m. a religious play telling the story of the saints’ lives is staged right outside the St. Alfio Sanctuary.

The highlight of May 9 is undoubtedly the spectacular fireworks show that is performed at 9:15 p.m. in Piazza Marconi (the main square). Several pyrotechnic operators from all over Sicily will be competing for the best performance. But even more spectacular is the long and exhausting journey that is undertaken by barefoot pilgrims coming from Trecastagni’s surrounding towns, who walk all night long until they get to the Sanctuary, to show their faith to the saints.

The celebration’s highlight is May 10 when the unveiling of the Three Saints’ Statues is performed before a huge crowd of devotees at 9 a.m. The ceremony takes place at the Saint Alfio’s Sanctuary, located in piazza St. Alfio, where the statues are usually kept. Af-ter that, the statues are placed on the carriage to be ready for the long procession. Later on, the first solemn procession during which the statues will be carried in procession through-out the historic center begins at 1 p.m. After the stop at the main church (Chiesa Madre di San Nicola) the procession is repeated around 8 p.m. and lasts late in to the night.

The Festival will be complemented by live music and food booths selling arts and crafts and garlic and onions galore! For more information and detailed festival schedule, visit www.santuariotrecastagni.it.

MILLINGTON, Tenn. (NNS) -- The fiscal year 2016 (FY-16) performance-based Senior Enlisted Continuation Board will convene Aug. 3 according to a Navy message released April 15.

As outlined in NAVADMIN 088/15, active component (AC) and Full Time Support (FTS) E-7 to E-9 Sailors with at least 19 years of active service computed from their active duty service date as of Feb. 28, 2015 and three-years' time-in-rate (TIR) as of June 30, 2015; and Selected Reserve (SELRES) and Voluntary Training Unit (VTU) E-7 to E-9 Sailors with at least 20 years qualifying service as of Feb. 28, 2015, and three-years TIR by June 30, 2015, will be considered by the board.

The Naval Education and Training Professional Development and Technology Center will publish the names of board-eligible Sailors June 8. The names will be posted to the Navy Enlisted Advancement System website at https://neasos.cnet.navy.mil, and individuals can view their board eligibility profile sheet on Navy Knowledge Online (https://wwwa.nko.navy.mil).

Commands will be able to review their FY-16 SECB listing for accuracy. If an eligible candidate is not listed, commands must contact NPC to make the required adjustment. June 29 is the last day for commands to resolve eligibility issues.

Letters to the board must be received by July 13. See the NAVADMIN for submission procedures and mailing addresses.

Board results will be posted on BUPERS On-Line for command access only, and commanding officers will be notified via a Personal For NAVADMIN when this occurs.

Sailors who are not selected for continuation must transfer to the Fleet Reserve or retire by Sept. 1, 2016, unless operationally waived by the Deputy Chief of Naval Personnel. Sailors with an approved operational waiver must transfer by Dec. 1, 2016.

For more information, read the message at the NPC website at www.npc.navy.mil, visit the NPC enlisted continuation page at www.npc.navy.mil/boards/enlistedcontinuation or call the NPC Customer Service Center at 1-866-U-ASK-NPC (1-866-827-5672).

FY-16 Senior Enlisted Continuation Board convenes in AugustFrom Navy Personnel Command Public Affairs

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NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily - As we move more and more into the world of social media, I hear increasing numbers of complaints about how Facebook or other on-line communities impact relationships, whether they are friendships, intimate partners, or family members. If you find yourself blaming Facebook for your relationship problems, I encourage you to look at yourself and consider the following:

1. Do you use social media to complain about the people in your life? If so you are contributing to the problem by blasting your personal issues over a medium that is better suited for life updates and not airing of dirty laundry. Instead, talk to the person you have an issue with privately and keep the prob-lems in your relationship off social media. Remember talking? It’s what people do naturally when they resist using electronic devices as a buffer for intimacy.

2. Do you use social media to gain attention and validation? If your posts and updates are an attempt to gain validation or attention from a large number of people, you may be using others too much for a positive sense-of-self. Instead, resist the urge to ask your Facebook friends if you are “okay” or if your opinion is “okay.” Simply state your opinion and be okay with it, regardless of what others think. If you need validation on your opinion, talk privately with trusted people to get a reality check. Using Facebook to justify why you feel a certain way creates a false sense of security and will not give you a lasting, solid positive sense-of-self.

3. Do you use social media to express angry or hurt feelings in a relationship? Using texting, Facebook Messenger, email or Facebook status updates to communicate to another person how angry or hurt you are is passive-aggressive and often creates angry texting or email wars which devolve

quickly and damage the relationship further. My rule is never ever ever send an angry email or text. Do the brave thing and say it to the person directly if you are going to say it at all. Before you hit send ask yourself, “Would I say this in person?” If not, don’t hit send, and instead, delete. Those angry words cannot be taken back when they are in written form and the recipient can keep those messages forever as evidence of your inappropriate use of social media to communicate. In some cases they can be used against you if legal proceedings have taken place in your relationship. It is always more difficult to have integrity and face the person to tell them what you think. If you are not going to do this in person and give them the respect they deserve to respond to you in a private way, don’t do it at all.

4. Do you use social media to try and solve problems in a relationship? Similar to above, using texting, Facebook Messenger, email or even a Facebook status updates to attempt to fix a relationship problem can cause more problems. A majority of effective communication occurs through non-verbal signals that include body language, tone of voice, and facial expressions. Without these added nuances in our social interactions so much can be misinterpreted. A simple text that says, “Are you mad at me?” can be interpreted in ways not intended by the sender. This can create a bigger mess in your relationship. If you want to work on a problem in your relationship, do it in person.

5. Do you feel rejected by your friends or family who “only want to connect on-line”? Instead of wallowing in feelings of rejection, instead call your friends or family members and invite them to lunch, a movie, dinner or other activity you would both enjoy. Don’t wait for them to call you. You are just as responsible for nurturing your family relationships and friendships as they are, and no one is obligated to make sure you don’t feel rejected. It is less likely they are rejecting you, and more likely that they are busy (just like you) and would happily respond to an invitation. If you miss seeing people in person take extra steps to make sure that happens. If they blow you off or don’t respond, you might discover they are not true friends in the first place.

Ultimately, social relationships become problematic because of behavior, not because of social media itself. Social media is a venue to display behavior and if used as a replacement for intimacy, problems will surely ensue. Blaming social media for your personal issues in connecting with others simply reflects a problem you have in connecting. You can begin to solve this problem by taking responsibility and learning the skills required to connect and nurture important relationships in your life.

For additional help in improving your relationships, access your community resources: Chaplain Services: 624-3975; Internal Behavioral Health Consultant (Cmdr. Goldberg) 624-2273; Fleet and Family Support Center 624-4291; and Department of Mental Health 624-6095.

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Ten habits to strengthen your relationship with your child

NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily - We all crave those close moments with our children that make our hearts melt. Connection is as essential to us parents as it is to our children. When our relationship is strong, it's also sweet -- so we receive as much as we give. That's what makes parenting worth all the blood, sweat and tears.

That connection is also the only reason children willingly follow our rules. Kids who feel strongly connected to their parents WANT to cooperate. They trust us to know what's best for them, to be on their side. I hear regularly from parents that everything changes once they focus on connecting, not just correcting.

But we're only human. There are days when all we can do is meet our children's most basic needs: Feed them, bathe them, keep an encouraging tone, hug them, and get them to sleep at a reasonable hour so we can do it all over again tomorrow. Given that parenting is the toughest job on earth -- and we often do it in our spare time, after we work at another job all day -- the only way to keep a strong bond with our children is to build in daily habits of connection. What kinds of habits?

1. Aim for 12 hugs (or physical connections) every day.

Hug your child first thing in the morning, when you say goodbye, when you're re-united, at bedtime, and often in between. If your tween or teen rebuffs your advances when she first walks in the door, realize that with older kids you have to ease into the connection.

2. Connect before transitions. Kids have a hard time transitioning from one thing

to another. If you look her in the eye, use her name, and play a bit to get her giggling, you'll fill her cup and make sure she has the inner resources to manage herself through a transition.

3. Play.Laughter and rough-housing keep you connected with your child by

stimulating endorphins and oxytocin in both of you. Making playfulness a daily habit also gives your child a chance to work through the anxieties and upsets that otherwise make him feel disconnected -- and more likely to act out. And play helps kids want to cooperate.

4. Turn off technology when you interact with your child.Really. Your child will remember for the rest of his life that he was

important enough to his parents that they turned off phones and music to listen to him.

5. Special time.Every day, 15 minutes with each child, separately. Alternate

doing what your child wants and doing what you want.

6. Welcome emotion.Sure, it's inconvenient. But your child needs to express his emotions or

they'll drive his behavior. So accept the meltdowns, don't let the anger trigger you, and welcome the tears and fears that always hide behind the anger. Remember that you're the one he trusts enough to cry with, and breathe your way through it. Afterwards, he'll feel more relaxed, cooperative, and closer to you.

7. Listen, and Empathize.Connection starts with listening. The habit of seeing things from your

child's perspective will ensure that you treat her with respect and look for win/win solutions. It will help you see the reasons for behavior that would otherwise drive you crazy. And it will help you regulate your own emotions so when your buttons get pushed and you find yourself in "fight or flight," your child doesn't look so much like the enemy.

8. Slow down and savor the moment.Share the moment with your child: let him smell the strawberries before

you put them in the smoothie. Smell his hair. Listen to her laughter. Look him in the eyes. Connect.

9. Bedtime snuggle and chat. Set your child's bedtime a wee bit earlier with the

assumption that you'll spend some time visiting and snuggling in the dark. Just listen. Acknowledge feelings. Reassure your child that you hear her concern, and that together you'll solve it, tomorrow. The next day, be sure to follow up. You'll be amazed how your relationship with your child deepens.

10. Show up.Most of us go through life half-present. But your

child has only about 900 weeks of childhood with you before he leaves your home. He'll be gone before you know it. Try this as a practice: When you're engaged with your child, just be right here, right now. You won't be able to do it all the time. But if you do it every day for a bit, you'll find yourself doing it more and more. Because you'll find it creates those moments with your child that make your heart melt.

The Fleet and Family Support Center offers counseling to help individuals, couples and families develop healthy relationship skills and address common relationship challenges. Learn more about healthy families and relationships by contacting the Fleet and Family Support Center at DSN: 624-4291, Commercial: 095 56 4291.

From Fleet & Family Support Center Sigonella

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