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The Philosophy of Exotischism Dual Fantasy World Citizenship 1
Most of us feel that we have a pretty good idea as to what is right and what is wrong, and we are usually not afraid to
express our opinions about what we consider to be right and what we
consider to be wrong. How can we be so sure that we are right about an issue
when the guy who lives down the block from us is so sure that we are wrong
about the same issue?
Most of us feel that we have a pretty good idea as to what is right and what is wrong, and we are usually not afraid to
express our opinions about what we consider to be right and what we
consider to be wrong. How can we be so sure that we are right about an issue
when the guy who lives down the block from us is so sure that we are wrong
about the same issue?
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Collective Subconscious of the Group
Collective Subconscious of the Group
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The guy who lives down the block began a socialization process of automatically exchanging his
subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people through the Collective Subconscious early in life. We also began the same socialization process early in life. How can our opinions be so different? Even though we were each developing
spiritual links with other people as we were growing up, we were not developing our spiritual links with
the same people.
The guy who lives down the block began a socialization process of automatically exchanging his
subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people through the Collective Subconscious early in life. We also began the same socialization process early in life. How can our opinions be so different? Even though we were each developing
spiritual links with other people as we were growing up, we were not developing our spiritual links with
the same people.
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The people who we developed our spiritual links with became an important part of our thought processes.
They became like a conscience telling us what was right and what was
wrong. Whenever we would express our opinions about an issue,
we would feel that we were being “watched” and that we were being supported by these people who
we were spiritually linked to. And the guy who lived down the block also
felt that he was being “watched” and that he was being
supported by the people who he was spiritually linked to.
The people who we developed our spiritual links with became an important part of our thought processes.
They became like a conscience telling us what was right and what was
wrong. Whenever we would express our opinions about an issue,
we would feel that we were being “watched” and that we were being supported by these people who
we were spiritually linked to. And the guy who lived down the block also
felt that he was being “watched” and that he was being
supported by the people who he was spiritually linked to.
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Group Member #1
Group Member #1
Group Member #2
Group Member #2
Group Member #3
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We did not feel that we were living in the fantasy world and the guy down the block did not feel that
he was living in a fantasy world. Our spiritual connections with the people who we were spiritually linked to were very real and very dynamic and those spiritual connections were a very important part of
our reality. And the spiritual connections of the guy down the block were very real and very dynamic to
him. Those spiritual connections were a very important part of his reality. We lived on the same
block as the other guy but we lived in different worlds.
We did not feel that we were living in the fantasy world and the guy down the block did not feel that
he was living in a fantasy world. Our spiritual connections with the people who we were spiritually linked to were very real and very dynamic and those spiritual connections were a very important part of
our reality. And the spiritual connections of the guy down the block were very real and very dynamic to
him. Those spiritual connections were a very important part of his reality. We lived on the same
block as the other guy but we lived in different worlds.
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Group Member #1
Group Member #1
Group Member #2
Group Member #2
Group Member #3
Group Member #3
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There are a lot of vulnerable people in our physical world who do not consider their spiritual
connections with other people to be an important part of their reality. When a vulnerable guy (or a vulnerable girl) hears other people talking about parallel worlds and parallel realities they have no
idea what those people are talking about. And when those people go on
to tell the vulnerable guy that he is living in a fantasy world he will probably think to himself that
his fantasies are nowhere near as ridiculous as fantasies about parallel worlds.
There are a lot of vulnerable people in our physical world who do not consider their spiritual
connections with other people to be an important part of their reality. When a vulnerable guy (or a vulnerable girl) hears other people talking about parallel worlds and parallel realities they have no
idea what those people are talking about. And when those people go on
to tell the vulnerable guy that he is living in a fantasy world he will probably think to himself that
his fantasies are nowhere near as ridiculous as fantasies about parallel worlds.
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Group Member #1
Group Member #1
Group Member #2
Group Member #2
Group Member #3
Group Member #3
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Most of us have heard about or read about dual citizenship.
A person who has dual citizenship is recognized as a citizen in two different countries. But a person might also be a citizen of (or be a part of) two
different fantasy worlds. For example, if a vulnerable guy does not become a part of a real spiritual world, he might become a part a fantasy
world or might possibly become a part of two different fantasy worlds.
Most of us have heard about or read about dual citizenship.
A person who has dual citizenship is recognized as a citizen in two different countries. But a person might also be a citizen of (or be a part of) two
different fantasy worlds. For example, if a vulnerable guy does not become a part of a real spiritual world, he might become a part a fantasy
world or might possibly become a part of two different fantasy worlds.
Collective Subconscious of the Group
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Number 4Number 4
In order for us to understand how a vulnerable guy might have become a citizen of two fantasy
worlds it might be useful for us to understand how he might have been forced into a situation where
he is only living in fantasy worlds while most of the other people who he meets are living in real worlds. This sort of thing might happen if a
vulnerable guy (Number 4 below) was only given a limited role in his family.
In order for us to understand how a vulnerable guy might have become a citizen of two fantasy
worlds it might be useful for us to understand how he might have been forced into a situation where
he is only living in fantasy worlds while most of the other people who he meets are living in real worlds. This sort of thing might happen if a
vulnerable guy (Number 4 below) was only given a limited role in his family.
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Number 4Number 4
If a family gives one of their members only a limited role in the spiritual entity that is made up of the family members (and takes away some of that individual’s spiritual energy), they might create a fantasy about the vulnerable guy that
says that the vulnerable family member was given an equal role in his family and that he is capable
of normal exchanges of spiritual energy with other people.
If a family gives one of their members only a limited role in the spiritual entity that is made up of the family members (and takes away some of that individual’s spiritual energy), they might create a fantasy about the vulnerable guy that
says that the vulnerable family member was given an equal role in his family and that he is capable
of normal exchanges of spiritual energy with other people.
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When a vulnerable guy starts to develop relationships with people outside of his family,
the people who he meets will be confused. Due to the fact that they believe the family’s fantasy
that the vulnerable guy is living in a real spiritual world (and not a fantasy world), they will wonder
why they are only able to develop a very practical
and very limited type of a relationship with him.
When a vulnerable guy starts to develop relationships with people outside of his family,
the people who he meets will be confused. Due to the fact that they believe the family’s fantasy
that the vulnerable guy is living in a real spiritual world (and not a fantasy world), they will wonder
why they are only able to develop a very practical
and very limited type of a relationship with him.
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Most of the people who the vulnerable guy meets develop a deep set of emotions (which is the most important part of their soul). They also develop a practical set of emotions. An example of a person
using their practical emotions might be a car saleswoman merging the practical part of her soul with the souls of her customers for the purpose of getting them to buy an automobile from her.
Most of the people who the vulnerable guy meets develop a deep set of emotions (which is the most important part of their soul). They also develop a practical set of emotions. An example of a person
using their practical emotions might be a car saleswoman merging the practical part of her soul with the souls of her customers for the purpose of getting them to buy an automobile from her.
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When a customer comes into the car dealership she tries
to build rapport with that customer by developing a practical sort of spiritual attachment with them. After creating this spiritual attachment she will be exchanging subconscious spiritual thoughts with the customer. She might allow the customers to
take a test drive with the car.
When a customer comes into the car dealership she tries
to build rapport with that customer by developing a practical sort of spiritual attachment with them. After creating this spiritual attachment she will be exchanging subconscious spiritual thoughts with the customer. She might allow the customers to
take a test drive with the car.
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One customer who takes a test drive will take the car out into the country to see how fast it will go. Another customer will use the car to pick up their kids after school. When the customers come back
and the salesperson realizes that the test drive has helped them to overcome their doubts about the
car, she will be happy that they want to buy the car but she will not know where they took the car on
the test drive.
One customer who takes a test drive will take the car out into the country to see how fast it will go. Another customer will use the car to pick up their kids after school. When the customers come back
and the salesperson realizes that the test drive has helped them to overcome their doubts about the
car, she will be happy that they want to buy the car but she will not know where they took the car on
the test drive.
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But even though she does not know consciously where
the customer took the car on the test drive she might know
at a deep subconscious level where the customer took the car and she might know what the
customer was thinking during the test drive because of the practical spiritual attachment that
she formed with the customer when the customer walked into the car dealership.
But even though she does not know consciously where
the customer took the car on the test drive she might know
at a deep subconscious level where the customer took the car and she might know what the
customer was thinking during the test drive because of the practical spiritual attachment that
she formed with the customer when the customer walked into the car dealership.
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The saleswoman is living in one real spiritual world
(or spiritual reality) and her customer is living in another, different real spiritual world. When people relate to other people who are from
different real spiritual worlds they use practical spiritual connections. The relationship cannot
really develop into anything further because the basis of the relationship is false. It is not based on
strong emotions.
The saleswoman is living in one real spiritual world
(or spiritual reality) and her customer is living in another, different real spiritual world. When people relate to other people who are from
different real spiritual worlds they use practical spiritual connections. The relationship cannot
really develop into anything further because the basis of the relationship is false. It is not based on
strong emotions.
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The vulnerable guy has exchanges of spiritual energy with other people that are similar to those
of the saleswoman. The saleswoman has exchanges of spiritual
information with her customers at a very deep level, but it is a temporary sort of a spiritual exchange
that will not lead to a relationship. And the vulnerable guy also has exchanges of spiritual
energy with other people that tend to not become very strong.
The vulnerable guy has exchanges of spiritual energy with other people that are similar to those
of the saleswoman. The saleswoman has exchanges of spiritual
information with her customers at a very deep level, but it is a temporary sort of a spiritual exchange
that will not lead to a relationship. And the vulnerable guy also has exchanges of spiritual
energy with other people that tend to not become very strong.
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Everyone begins the process of exchanging their subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people shortly after they are born. Some of the spiritual
information (or spiritual energy) that they receive from other people early in life might contain cultural or religious myths
that have no basis in fact but they will allow those myths to go deep into their souls.
Everyone begins the process of exchanging their subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people shortly after they are born. Some of the spiritual
information (or spiritual energy) that they receive from other people early in life might contain cultural or religious myths
that have no basis in fact but they will allow those myths to go deep into their souls.
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They will allow those myths to go deep into their souls because the myths will come into them in a magical way
(through the automatic exchange of subconscious spiritual energy with other people through the Collective
Subconscious). For this reason, if a vulnerable guy meets a woman who is only merging the practical part of her soul with him, there will be quite a bit going on.
They will allow those myths to go deep into their souls because the myths will come into them in a magical way
(through the automatic exchange of subconscious spiritual energy with other people through the Collective
Subconscious). For this reason, if a vulnerable guy meets a woman who is only merging the practical part of her soul with him, there will be quite a bit going on.
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The woman who the vulnerable guy meets is also exchanging her spiritual energy through the
Collective Subconscious with other people who she knows. A lot of
spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guys might have gotten into
a pattern where they are interfacing with a woman (who we will call a “primary woman”) who is only
merging the practical part of her soul with the vulnerable
guy.
The woman who the vulnerable guy meets is also exchanging her spiritual energy through the
Collective Subconscious with other people who she knows. A lot of
spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guys might have gotten into
a pattern where they are interfacing with a woman (who we will call a “primary woman”) who is only
merging the practical part of her soul with the vulnerable
guy.
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The primary woman is relaying the spiritual energy that she picks up from the vulnerable guy to other women who she knows (who we will call “secondary women”) through the Collective Subconscious. And the primary woman might
also be relaying the spiritual energy of the secondary women who she knows to the vulnerable guy
through the Collective Subconscious.
The primary woman is relaying the spiritual energy that she picks up from the vulnerable guy to other women who she knows (who we will call “secondary women”) through the Collective Subconscious. And the primary woman might
also be relaying the spiritual energy of the secondary women who she knows to the vulnerable guy
through the Collective Subconscious.
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The vulnerable guy might be picking some strong emotional feelings because he can sense that there is a magical
exchange of spiritual energy taking place between himself and the secondary women. The secondary women are receiving the vulnerable guy’s spiritual energy and the
vulnerable guy is receiving their spiritual energy.
The vulnerable guy might be picking some strong emotional feelings because he can sense that there is a magical
exchange of spiritual energy taking place between himself and the secondary women. The secondary women are receiving the vulnerable guy’s spiritual energy and the
vulnerable guy is receiving their spiritual energy.
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Number 4Number 4
The spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guy shown below (Number 4) has only limited exchanges of spiritual energy with other people. For this reason the vulnerable
guy is not usually aware of the exchanges of spiritual energy that go on between him and other people. But when he meets a primary woman such as the one in the example given above, he is able to pick up spiritual energy from her.
The spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guy shown below (Number 4) has only limited exchanges of spiritual energy with other people. For this reason the vulnerable
guy is not usually aware of the exchanges of spiritual energy that go on between him and other people. But when he meets a primary woman such as the one in the example given above, he is able to pick up spiritual energy from her.
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Number 4Number 4
But he isn’t really impressed by the exchanges of spiritual energy between himself and the primary woman because he knows that she treats him in a very superficial sort of a manner (she treats him no differently than she treats most of the other people who she knows). But he does sense
that she is serving as a relay point between him and some of the women who the primary woman is acquainted with.
But he isn’t really impressed by the exchanges of spiritual energy between himself and the primary woman because he knows that she treats him in a very superficial sort of a manner (she treats him no differently than she treats most of the other people who she knows). But he does sense
that she is serving as a relay point between him and some of the women who the primary woman is acquainted with.
Number 4Number 4
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Number 4Number 4
The vulnerable guy can sense at a very deep level that there is something magical going on between him and the
women who the primary woman is sending his spiritual energy to. He might know these secondary women
personally or he might not, but he knows at a very deep subconscious level that it is actually these secondary
women who he is exchanging his spiritual energy with.
The vulnerable guy can sense at a very deep level that there is something magical going on between him and the
women who the primary woman is sending his spiritual energy to. He might know these secondary women
personally or he might not, but he knows at a very deep subconscious level that it is actually these secondary
women who he is exchanging his spiritual energy with.
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Number 4Number 4
The problem that the vulnerable guy faces is that even though he is exchanging his spiritual energy with these
secondary women, he is not able to develop a relationship with any of the secondary women directly. The vulnerable guy’s relationships with the secondary women are based on the fact that the primary woman is serving as a relay
point between him and the secondary women.
The problem that the vulnerable guy faces is that even though he is exchanging his spiritual energy with these
secondary women, he is not able to develop a relationship with any of the secondary women directly. The vulnerable guy’s relationships with the secondary women are based on the fact that the primary woman is serving as a relay
point between him and the secondary women.
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Number 4Number 4
Due to the fact that the vulnerable guy has never experienced strong exchanges of spiritual energy
with other people, these exchanges of spiritual energy
seem to be magical to him. Other people can tell that the
vulnerable guy is more involved with the secondary women than he is with the primary woman, but
they also believe the fantasy that was created by the vulnerable guy’s family.
Due to the fact that the vulnerable guy has never experienced strong exchanges of spiritual energy
with other people, these exchanges of spiritual energy
seem to be magical to him. Other people can tell that the
vulnerable guy is more involved with the secondary women than he is with the primary woman, but
they also believe the fantasy that was created by the vulnerable guy’s family.
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Number 4Number 4
There is an old saying that you reap what you sow. But
there are a lot of people who don’t like the idea that
you have to work at planting seeds if you want to have a harvest. A lot of people prefer to reap
where they don’t sow. Most people will believe the fantasy about
the vulnerable guy that was created by his family, but there
are some people who can see through the deception.
There is an old saying that you reap what you sow. But
there are a lot of people who don’t like the idea that
you have to work at planting seeds if you want to have a harvest. A lot of people prefer to reap
where they don’t sow. Most people will believe the fantasy about
the vulnerable guy that was created by his family, but there
are some people who can see through the deception.
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Number 4Number 4
The ones who like to reap where they don’t sow know that the vulnerable guy does not want to get into another
situation where he gets to know a group of people and the end result is that the primary woman is mad because she thinks that he has been leading her friends on emotionally and the secondary women are mad at the vulnerable guy
because they feel that he has been leading them on.
The ones who like to reap where they don’t sow know that the vulnerable guy does not want to get into another
situation where he gets to know a group of people and the end result is that the primary woman is mad because she thinks that he has been leading her friends on emotionally and the secondary women are mad at the vulnerable guy
because they feel that he has been leading them on.
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Number 4Number 4
The people who like to reap where they don’t sow know that the vulnerable guy’s emotions are not strong, but they also know that he gets very nervous when he feels that he
is getting involved in a situation where a new primary woman is going to relay his emotions to secondary women
who she knows and where the end result is going to be that everybody will be upset with him.
The people who like to reap where they don’t sow know that the vulnerable guy’s emotions are not strong, but they also know that he gets very nervous when he feels that he
is getting involved in a situation where a new primary woman is going to relay his emotions to secondary women
who she knows and where the end result is going to be that everybody will be upset with him.
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Number 4Number 4
The people who like to reap where they don’t sow might start a rumor saying that that the vulnerable guy wants to
get involved with the primary woman. The people who start this type of a rumor know that it will make the primary
woman angry and it will make the secondary women angry. The vulnerable guy will get nervous when he senses that
these people are becoming angry with him.
The people who like to reap where they don’t sow might start a rumor saying that that the vulnerable guy wants to
get involved with the primary woman. The people who start this type of a rumor know that it will make the primary
woman angry and it will make the secondary women angry. The vulnerable guy will get nervous when he senses that
these people are becoming angry with him.
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The people who like to reap where they don’t sow (and who take advantage of people who are spiritually and psychologically vulnerable) can become just as
important (or maybe even more important) to the spiritual and psychological development of the
vulnerable guy as the people who the vulnerable guy actually forms relationships with.
The people who like to reap where they don’t sow (and who take advantage of people who are spiritually and psychologically vulnerable) can become just as
important (or maybe even more important) to the spiritual and psychological development of the
vulnerable guy as the people who the vulnerable guy actually forms relationships with.
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The vulnerable guy might eventually come to an awareness that his relationships with secondary women are based on his
interfacing with a primary woman who relays his spiritual energyto secondary women who she knows. But the vulnerable guy also
needs to be aware that some of the secondary women who he meets might also be women who like to reap where they don’t sow.
The vulnerable guy might eventually come to an awareness that his relationships with secondary women are based on his
interfacing with a primary woman who relays his spiritual energyto secondary women who she knows. But the vulnerable guy also
needs to be aware that some of the secondary women who he meets might also be women who like to reap where they don’t sow.
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Collective Subconscious of the Group
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The problem that the vulnerable guy faces when he is dealing with secondary women who like to reap where they don’t sow is that he can sense at a very deep level that there is a magical exchange of
spiritual energy taking place between himself and these secondary women. He will sense this exchange of spiritual energy because
primary women relay spiritual energy between him and the secondary women. It will be natural for him to think that he should be able to develop some sort of a positive relationship with them.
The problem that the vulnerable guy faces when he is dealing with secondary women who like to reap where they don’t sow is that he can sense at a very deep level that there is a magical exchange of
spiritual energy taking place between himself and these secondary women. He will sense this exchange of spiritual energy because
primary women relay spiritual energy between him and the secondary women. It will be natural for him to think that he should be able to develop some sort of a positive relationship with them.
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Collective Subconscious of the Group
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After a woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t sow (a rough woman) embarrasses the vulnerable guy in a group
situation he might try to make friends with her hoping that by being nice to her he might be able to prevent her from embarrassing him
in the future. But he needs to realize that the secondary womanwho likes to reap where she doesn’t sow knows that the vulnerable
guy’s relationship with her is based on a primary woman relaying the vulnerable guy’s spiritual energy to her.
After a woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t sow (a rough woman) embarrasses the vulnerable guy in a group
situation he might try to make friends with her hoping that by being nice to her he might be able to prevent her from embarrassing him
in the future. But he needs to realize that the secondary womanwho likes to reap where she doesn’t sow knows that the vulnerable
guy’s relationship with her is based on a primary woman relaying the vulnerable guy’s spiritual energy to her.
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This secondary woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t
sow knows that the vulnerable guy’s family created a fantasy about him that said he was capable of normal spiritual exchanges with other people. When he gets
to know her she will try to make him feel that the fantasy that was created by the vulnerable guy’s family was correct and that he
really is capable of normal exchanges of spiritual energy
with other people. She will try to lead him into thinking
that she will not want to hurt him anymore because she
and the vulnerable guy are now spiritually connected.
This secondary woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t
sow knows that the vulnerable guy’s family created a fantasy about him that said he was capable of normal spiritual exchanges with other people. When he gets
to know her she will try to make him feel that the fantasy that was created by the vulnerable guy’s family was correct and that he
really is capable of normal exchanges of spiritual energy
with other people. She will try to lead him into thinking
that she will not want to hurt him anymore because she
and the vulnerable guy are now spiritually connected.Collective Subconscious of the Group
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When this rough secondary woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t sow eventually embarrasses the vulnerable guy again in another group situation the vulnerable guy might start to think
that there never was a spiritual connection between himself and the secondary woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t sow. The vulnerable guy needs to realize that spiritual connections
do exist between himself and other people all of the time.
When this rough secondary woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t sow eventually embarrasses the vulnerable guy again in another group situation the vulnerable guy might start to think
that there never was a spiritual connection between himself and the secondary woman who likes to reap where she doesn’t sow. The vulnerable guy needs to realize that spiritual connections
do exist between himself and other people all of the time.
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Collective Subconscious of the Group
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The vulnerable guy might have developed a pattern of trying to be nice to women who were mean to him to try to stop them
from hurting him. He might have met several woman during his life who pretended that they liked him for a short period of time. These women would gain his confidence by being nice to him
for a short period of time and then would once again embarrass him in front of a group of other people.
The vulnerable guy might have developed a pattern of trying to be nice to women who were mean to him to try to stop them
from hurting him. He might have met several woman during his life who pretended that they liked him for a short period of time. These women would gain his confidence by being nice to him
for a short period of time and then would once again embarrass him in front of a group of other people.
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Collective Subconscious of the Group
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The rough woman knows that the vulnerable guy has spiritual connections with other people but that he is not usually aware of
those spiritual connections. By being nice to him for a short period of time she helps him to develop the spiritual links that he has but that are too weak for him to usually be aware of. But then just about the time that the vulnerable guy starts to become aware
of his spiritual links the rough woman stops being nice to him.
The rough woman knows that the vulnerable guy has spiritual connections with other people but that he is not usually aware of
those spiritual connections. By being nice to him for a short period of time she helps him to develop the spiritual links that he has but that are too weak for him to usually be aware of. But then just about the time that the vulnerable guy starts to become aware
of his spiritual links the rough woman stops being nice to him.
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The people who have been observing the situation will ask her why she stopped the relationship that
appeared to be developing between the rough woman and the vulnerable guy. The rough woman will at this point create a lie about the vulnerable guy that says that the vulnerable guy was too rough for her. She
gets away with this because when she was nice to the vulnerable guy,
it made people think that the vulnerable guy must be rough.
The people who have been observing the situation will ask her why she stopped the relationship that
appeared to be developing between the rough woman and the vulnerable guy. The rough woman will at this point create a lie about the vulnerable guy that says that the vulnerable guy was too rough for her. She
gets away with this because when she was nice to the vulnerable guy,
it made people think that the vulnerable guy must be rough.
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Collective Subconscious of the Group
Group Member #1
Group Member #1
Group Member #2
Group Member #2
Group Member #3
Group Member #3
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Earlier it was mentioned that sometimes a family might give one of the family members a limited role in the family. When they do this they might also try
to give other people (including the people in the family’s immediate
community) the impression that the vulnerable family member was actually given an equal role in the family. At
first the family might have trouble convincing people that their fantasy is true.
Earlier it was mentioned that sometimes a family might give one of the family members a limited role in the family. When they do this they might also try
to give other people (including the people in the family’s immediate
community) the impression that the vulnerable family member was actually given an equal role in the family. At
first the family might have trouble convincing people that their fantasy is true.
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The vulnerable guy will obviously have a lack of spiritual energy and he will have trouble relating to
other people because they think that he is different from them. But early
in his life the vulnerable guy might meet someone in his family’s immediate community who is similar
to the rough woman in our example. She will act like she is becoming friends with the vulnerable
guy but will just be setting him up.
The vulnerable guy will obviously have a lack of spiritual energy and he will have trouble relating to
other people because they think that he is different from them. But early
in his life the vulnerable guy might meet someone in his family’s immediate community who is similar
to the rough woman in our example. She will act like she is becoming friends with the vulnerable
guy but will just be setting him up.
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The people in the family’s immediate community (including the vulnerable person’s family members)
will think that she would not like the vulnerable guy unless she thought that
he was rough. When she ends the relationship with him and people ask her the reason why, she
will create a lie that says that he was too rough for her. The people observing the situation will start
to think that the vulnerable guy is rough.
The people in the family’s immediate community (including the vulnerable person’s family members)
will think that she would not like the vulnerable guy unless she thought that
he was rough. When she ends the relationship with him and people ask her the reason why, she
will create a lie that says that he was too rough for her. The people observing the situation will start
to think that the vulnerable guy is rough.
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Because of his experience with the rough woman the vulnerable guy might develop a spiritual
identity as being a person who is rough. At this point it will become easier for the vulnerable guy’s family to give other people the impression that the
vulnerable guy was given an equal role in his family. Now that he has been given a spiritual
identity, it will appear to other people that he is living in a
real world.
Because of his experience with the rough woman the vulnerable guy might develop a spiritual
identity as being a person who is rough. At this point it will become easier for the vulnerable guy’s family to give other people the impression that the
vulnerable guy was given an equal role in his family. Now that he has been given a spiritual
identity, it will appear to other people that he is living in a
real world.
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The rough woman who took advantage of the vulnerable guy early in his life was not trying to
give him a solid platform for developing relationships with other people. And whenever other people kept the vulnerable guy’s fantasy spiritual world alive for their own benefit (by
perpetuating the lie created by the rough woman), they were not trying to give
him a solid platform for developing good relationships.
The rough woman who took advantage of the vulnerable guy early in his life was not trying to
give him a solid platform for developing relationships with other people. And whenever other people kept the vulnerable guy’s fantasy spiritual world alive for their own benefit (by
perpetuating the lie created by the rough woman), they were not trying to give
him a solid platform for developing good relationships.
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The rough woman gave the vulnerable guy a spiritual identity, which was something that he did
not have before. After that his family and other people who he met in his life (at school and at work) were able to have practical exchanges of spiritual energy with him based on the spiritual
identify that he was given. As he went through his life he brought more and more people into his
fantasy spiritual world.
The rough woman gave the vulnerable guy a spiritual identity, which was something that he did
not have before. After that his family and other people who he met in his life (at school and at work) were able to have practical exchanges of spiritual energy with him based on the spiritual
identify that he was given. As he went through his life he brought more and more people into his
fantasy spiritual world.
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But it might be useful for the vulnerable guy to realize that instead of living in one fantasy world, he might actually be living in two fantasy worlds.
For example, the vulnerable guy’s family might have been embarrassed when the rough woman gave the vulnerable guy a spiritual identity as
someone who was rough. They might have prided themselves on being fancy people who were better
than other people.
But it might be useful for the vulnerable guy to realize that instead of living in one fantasy world, he might actually be living in two fantasy worlds.
For example, the vulnerable guy’s family might have been embarrassed when the rough woman gave the vulnerable guy a spiritual identity as
someone who was rough. They might have prided themselves on being fancy people who were better
than other people.
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When they saw that the rough woman was able to get away with telling other people that the
vulnerable guy was rough (when he actually wasn’t rough), the vulnerable guy’s family decided that they would tell other people that the vulnerable guy, like the other members of the family, was a
person who was fancier than other people (when he actually wasn’t fancy). The vulnerable guy now had
two false spiritual identities.
When they saw that the rough woman was able to get away with telling other people that the
vulnerable guy was rough (when he actually wasn’t rough), the vulnerable guy’s family decided that they would tell other people that the vulnerable guy, like the other members of the family, was a
person who was fancier than other people (when he actually wasn’t fancy). The vulnerable guy now had
two false spiritual identities.
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You might have heard people talk about how their current lover was able to tie up their emotional
loose ends and was able to help to bring their life into perspective. It was almost as if the spiritual energy that they had been exchanging with their previous lovers (who were no longer present) was
being transferred to their new lover (who was physically present).
You might have heard people talk about how their current lover was able to tie up their emotional
loose ends and was able to help to bring their life into perspective. It was almost as if the spiritual energy that they had been exchanging with their previous lovers (who were no longer present) was
being transferred to their new lover (who was physically present).
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The vulnerable guy will also transfer the exchanges of spiritual energy that he had with people who he
knew in the past to people who he knows in the present. When the vulnerable guy meets a new man or a
new woman he will start transferring to that person spiritual
energy that comes from exchanges of spiritual energy that
he had with other people who he knew in the past.
The vulnerable guy will also transfer the exchanges of spiritual energy that he had with people who he
knew in the past to people who he knows in the present. When the vulnerable guy meets a new man or a
new woman he will start transferring to that person spiritual
energy that comes from exchanges of spiritual energy that
he had with other people who he knew in the past.
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For this reason, as time goes by the spiritual energy being exchanged between the vulnerable
guy and a new woman or man who he has just met might seem fairly strong. And the new man or the
new woman might have transferred to the vulnerable guy spiritual energy that they had
exchanged with other vulnerable guys who they knew in the past.
For this reason, as time goes by the spiritual energy being exchanged between the vulnerable
guy and a new woman or man who he has just met might seem fairly strong. And the new man or the
new woman might have transferred to the vulnerable guy spiritual energy that they had
exchanged with other vulnerable guys who they knew in the past.
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sThe vulnerable guy might imagine that this person
cares about him deeply or is guiding him subconsciously because he can sense that he is
exchanging quite a bit of spiritual energy with this new man or new woman. He can sense
that his spiritual energy is going out to the other person
and that their spiritual energy is coming back to him.
The vulnerable guy might imagine that this person cares about him deeply or is guiding him
subconsciously because he can sense that he is exchanging quite a bit of spiritual energy with this
new man or new woman. He can sense that his spiritual energy is going out to the other
person and that their spiritual energy is coming back to
him.
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But the fact that another person is exchanging spiritual energy with the vulnerable guy (even if it is more spiritual energy than the vulnerable guy has ever exchanged with another person before)
does not mean that the other person cares deeply about him or that they are somehow guiding him subconsciously. And it is also not a guarantee that the other person will want to increase the amount of spiritual energy
that they are exchanging with him.
But the fact that another person is exchanging spiritual energy with the vulnerable guy (even if it is more spiritual energy than the vulnerable guy has ever exchanged with another person before)
does not mean that the other person cares deeply about him or that they are somehow guiding him subconsciously. And it is also not a guarantee that the other person will want to increase the amount of spiritual energy
that they are exchanging with him.
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When the vulnerable guy meets a new man or a new woman that person can sense that he is living
in two fantasy spiritual worlds. And there is a good chance that they have known other people in
the past who were living in fantasy spiritual worlds. It is possible that the new man or the new woman who the vulnerable guy meets might have been unkind to vulnerable guys who they knew in
the past.
When the vulnerable guy meets a new man or a new woman that person can sense that he is living
in two fantasy spiritual worlds. And there is a good chance that they have known other people in
the past who were living in fantasy spiritual worlds. It is possible that the new man or the new woman who the vulnerable guy meets might have been unkind to vulnerable guys who they knew in
the past.
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When they sensed that they were starting to exchange spiritual energy with the vulnerable guy
they might have told other people that they were uncomfortable with the vulnerable guy. They might have told
other people who they knew (and who the vulnerable guy knew) that they thought that the vulnerable guy might not have a soul (or that he
might not be capable of connecting with other people
spiritually).
When they sensed that they were starting to exchange spiritual energy with the vulnerable guy
they might have told other people that they were uncomfortable with the vulnerable guy. They might have told
other people who they knew (and who the vulnerable guy knew) that they thought that the vulnerable guy might not have a soul (or that he
might not be capable of connecting with other people
spiritually).
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The vulnerable guy will not be able to guess that something like this might be happening because
he senses that he is exchanging more spiritual energy
with this person than he usually exchanges with other people. When the relationship with the man
or the woman ends the vulnerable guy might realize that
he does not understand things of a spiritual nature.
The vulnerable guy will not be able to guess that something like this might be happening because
he senses that he is exchanging more spiritual energy
with this person than he usually exchanges with other people. When the relationship with the man
or the woman ends the vulnerable guy might realize that
he does not understand things of a spiritual nature.
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The vulnerable guy might decide that he needs to make
some changes and he might gain some insights into why
the man or the women ended the relationship that he
thought he was developing with them. The next time that
he sees the man or the woman he is pleased that he has made progress. He is pleased that he is no
longer incorrectly imagining that he is developing a relationship with them.
The vulnerable guy might decide that he needs to make
some changes and he might gain some insights into why
the man or the women ended the relationship that he
thought he was developing with them. The next time that
he sees the man or the woman he is pleased that he has made progress. He is pleased that he is no
longer incorrectly imagining that he is developing a relationship with them.
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He can also tell that the man or the woman can sense that
he is no longer incorrectly believing that he is developing
a deep relationship with them. He is expecting them to be happy that he has made progress in
understanding things of a spiritual nature. Instead, they might say
something like “you might think that you are reaching your
goal but you are actually only sacrificing your soul.”
He can also tell that the man or the woman can sense that
he is no longer incorrectly believing that he is developing
a deep relationship with them. He is expecting them to be happy that he has made progress in
understanding things of a spiritual nature. Instead, they might say
something like “you might think that you are reaching your
goal but you are actually only sacrificing your soul.”
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The man or the woman had previously been telling other people that they thought the vulnerable guy
might not have a soul. So why would they now tell him that he is sacrificing his soul when he tries to make a change that might
help him to develop his soul? The man or the woman might have gotten into a pattern of taking advantage
of vulnerable guys. They might have no interest in helping vulnerable guys to develop their souls.
The man or the woman had previously been telling other people that they thought the vulnerable guy
might not have a soul. So why would they now tell him that he is sacrificing his soul when he tries to make a change that might
help him to develop his soul? The man or the woman might have gotten into a pattern of taking advantage
of vulnerable guys. They might have no interest in helping vulnerable guys to develop their souls.
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The vulnerable guy should to be
trying to gain insights into developing
better relationships
with other people, but it might also be
helpful for him to gain insights into the nature of the
two fantasy spiritual worlds that he is a part of. This might
help him develop a stronger spiritual
structure and to gain a stronger
sense of self awareness.
The vulnerable guy should to be
trying to gain insights into developing
better relationships
with other people, but it might also be
helpful for him to gain insights into the nature of the
two fantasy spiritual worlds that he is a part of. This might
help him develop a stronger spiritual
structure and to gain a stronger
sense of self awareness.
The Vulnerable
Guy
The Vulnerable
Guy
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But it is hard for the
vulnerable guy to break free of
his rough fantasy spiritual
world. He might not have believed the lie of the rough person who originally gave him his
spiritual identity but
enough people believed the lie
to create a spiritual
identity and to create his rough fantasy spiritual
world.
But it is hard for the
vulnerable guy to break free of
his rough fantasy spiritual
world. He might not have believed the lie of the rough person who originally gave him his
spiritual identity but
enough people believed the lie
to create a spiritual
identity and to create his rough fantasy spiritual
world.
The Vulnerable
Guy
The Vulnerable
Guy
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It is easy to understand why the vulnerable guy might detach from his fancy fantasy spiritual world .
As he reaches adulthood it is easy for him to see that he is not really being accepted by these fancy people. As he makes this realization he might feel
his spiritual energy increase because he is now sending less spiritual energy out to these fancy
people who were not sending very much spiritual energy to him in return.
It is easy to understand why the vulnerable guy might detach from his fancy fantasy spiritual world .
As he reaches adulthood it is easy for him to see that he is not really being accepted by these fancy people. As he makes this realization he might feel
his spiritual energy increase because he is now sending less spiritual energy out to these fancy
people who were not sending very much spiritual energy to him in return.
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But after a while he will start losing his spiritual energy again and he will not understand what the problem is. The problem is not that he was wrong for detaching himself from the fancy people who never really accepted him. The problem is that
he did not finish the job. And the fancy people who were watching the vulnerable guy detach from them
know that the vulnerable guy did not really finish the job.
But after a while he will start losing his spiritual energy again and he will not understand what the problem is. The problem is not that he was wrong for detaching himself from the fancy people who never really accepted him. The problem is that
he did not finish the job. And the fancy people who were watching the vulnerable guy detach from them
know that the vulnerable guy did not really finish the job.
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The fancy people know that the vulnerable guy has dual citizenship in their spiritual world and in the
spiritual world of the rough people. They can make the vulnerable guy nervous by making a comment about how rough the vulnerable guy is. He gets
nervous because he knows that he is not rough and he does not know how to prove that he is not rough.
The fancy people know that the vulnerable guy has dual citizenship in their spiritual world and in the
spiritual world of the rough people. They can make the vulnerable guy nervous by making a comment about how rough the vulnerable guy is. He gets
nervous because he knows that he is not rough and he does not know how to prove that he is not rough.
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When he was younger the vulnerable guy never thought that he needed to detach himself from rough people because he did not believe that he was rough.
But a fantasy spiritual world had been created for him by the rough people. Because of this fact he has
to figure out how to detach himself from that spiritual world. He needs to do this to develop a
stronger spiritual structure and to develop a stronger sense of self awareness.
When he was younger the vulnerable guy never thought that he needed to detach himself from rough people because he did not believe that he was rough.
But a fantasy spiritual world had been created for him by the rough people. Because of this fact he has
to figure out how to detach himself from that spiritual world. He needs to do this to develop a
stronger spiritual structure and to develop a stronger sense of self awareness.
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The vulnerable guy is not really a rough person and living in a fantasy spiritual world that was based on the premise that he is rough is a major conflict for
him. But once he realizes that the people who gave him the rough spiritual identity told a lie to create
his fantasy spiritual world, he might be able to start gaining the insights that he needs in order to break
free from the fantasy spiritual world created by the
rough people.
The vulnerable guy is not really a rough person and living in a fantasy spiritual world that was based on the premise that he is rough is a major conflict for
him. But once he realizes that the people who gave him the rough spiritual identity told a lie to create
his fantasy spiritual world, he might be able to start gaining the insights that he needs in order to break
free from the fantasy spiritual world created by the
rough people.
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The vulnerable guy might also be confused because the fancy people and the rough people don’t seem to worry too much when they see him try to detach
himself from them. They aren’t worried because they know that he is thinking that he only needs to detach from one spiritual world. But once he starts trying to detach from both of the fantasy spiritual worlds that he is a part of, he will probably start to
see more resistance.
The vulnerable guy might also be confused because the fancy people and the rough people don’t seem to worry too much when they see him try to detach
himself from them. They aren’t worried because they know that he is thinking that he only needs to detach from one spiritual world. But once he starts trying to detach from both of the fantasy spiritual worlds that he is a part of, he will probably start to
see more resistance.
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At that point both the fancy people and the rough people
will realize that the vulnerable guy might actually have
a chance to detach himself from his two fantasy spiritual worlds. And in detaching from these two fantasy spiritual worlds that drain off a lot of his
spiritual energy he might be able to start developing a stronger
spiritual structure and a stronger sense of self awareness.
At that point both the fancy people and the rough people
will realize that the vulnerable guy might actually have
a chance to detach himself from his two fantasy spiritual worlds. And in detaching from these two fantasy spiritual worlds that drain off a lot of his
spiritual energy he might be able to start developing a stronger
spiritual structure and a stronger sense of self awareness.