the motivational gifts
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THE MOTIVATIONAL GIFTS. . . . so in Christ we who are many members form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. Romans 12:5-6a. Finding Ones Gift. 1. IF YOU WALKED INTO A ROOM AND TWO PEOPLE WERE ARGUING: - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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THE MOTIVATIONAL GIFTS
. . . so in Christ we who aremany members form one body,
and each member belongs to all the others. We have
different gifts, according to thegrace given us.
Romans 12:5-6a
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Finding Ones Gift
1. IF YOU WALKED INTO A ROOM AND TWO PEOPLE WERE ARGUING:a. would you stay?b. Would you leave?c. Would you intervene?
If the answer for you is a. and this is what you would tend to do most of the time then:Probably:1. Mercy, Prophet, or Exhorter2. If b is yes then perhaps : Server, Teacher, Organizer, Giver3. If c is yes most of the time then: Exhorter, or Prophet is likely
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Finding Ones Gift
2. DO YOU TEND TO LEAD OTHERS OR FOLLOW OTHERS LEADS?
A. If the answer is to lead then you are more likely one of these: Prophet, Teacher, Organizer, or Exhorter.
B. If you prefer to follow then you would more than likely be a Server, Mercy, or Giver
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Finding Ones Gift
3. DO YOU FIND YOURSELF TO BE MORE EMOTIONAL OR LOGICAL?
A. If more emotional then you could be a Mercy, Exhorter, or Prophet
B. If you tend to be more logical then: Teacher, Organizer, or perhaps Prophet
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Prophet• PROPHET (HUSBAND AND WIFE)
– CONFLICT OVER WHO’S RIGHT– BOTH HAVE STRICT STANDARDS
• PROPHET (HUSBAND) SERVER (WIFE)– BOSSY, TREATS HER LIKE A SERVANT– HONEST AND LOYAL
• PROPHET (HUSBAND) TEACHER (WIFE)– THREATENED BY HER OPINIONS– BOTH LOVE TO STUDY THE WORD
• PROPHET (HUSBAND) EXHORTER (WIFE)– IRRITATION OVER HER TALKATIVENESS– GREGARIOUSNESS MODIFIES RECLUSIVENESS
• PROPHET (HUSBAND) GIVER (WIFE)– CONTROLS HER ABILITY TO GIVE– JOINT INTERCESSORY PRAYER POWER
• PROPHET (HUSBAND) ORGANIZER (WIFE)– INTIMIDATES AND SQUELCHES HER LEADERSHIP POTENTIAL– PRACTICAL AND ORGANIZED APPROACH BALANCES IDEALISM
• PROPHET (HUSBAND) MERCY (WIFE)– TENDENCY TO HURT HER FEELINGS– BOTH SENSITIVE TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS
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Server• SERVER (HUSBAND) PROPHET (WIFE)
- TENDENCY TO FEEL OVERWHELMED BY HER STRONG PERSONALITY.- BOTH ARE PERFECTIONISTS.
• SERVER (HUSBAND AND WIFE)- TRY TO OUTDO EACH OTHER AT SERVING, BECOMING COMPETITIVE.- WORK EXCEPTIONALLY WELL TOGETHER AS A TEAM.
• SERVER (HUSBAND) TEACHER (WIFE)- HE RESENTS HER LACK OF HELPFULNESS.- OPPOSITE TRAITS OF DOING VS. THINKING BALANCE EACH OTHER.
• SERVER (HUSBAND) EXHORTER (WIFE)- HIS INTEREST IN THINGS CONFLICTS WITH HER INTEREST IN PEOPLE.- SHE HELPS TO DRAW HIM INTO SOCIAL ACTIVITIES HE’D OTHERIWISE MISS.
• SERVER (HUSBAND) GIVER (WIFE)- NEED TO DO AND TO FEEL APPRECIATED MAKES BOTH PARTNERS INSECURE.- HELPFUL TO EACH OTHER AND OTHERS AROUND THEM.
• SERVER (HUSBAND) ORGANIZER (WIFE)- HE FEELS THREATENED BY HER LEADERSHIP ABILITY.- HE’S ABLE TO CARRY OUT EFFECTIVELY PROJECTS SHE INITIATES.
• SERVER (HUSBAND) MERCY (WIFE)- HIS HIGH ENERGY LEVEL CONFLICTS WITH HER SLOWNESS AND TARDINESS.- BOTH ARE GENTLE IN SPIRIT
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Teacher• TEACHER (HUSBAND) PROPHET (WIFE)
– FRUSTRATION OVER HER EMOTIONAL MOOD SWINGS.– BOTH ARE HIGHLY ANALYTICAL
• TEACHER (HUSBAND) SERVER (WIFE)– HIS INTELLECTUAL EMPHASIS MAKES HER FEEL INFERIOR.– SHE’S GLAD TO CARE FOR ROUTINE RESPONSIBILITIES WHILE HE READS OR STUDIES.
• TEACHER (HUSBAND AND WIFE)– DIFFERENCES IN OPINIONS EASILY BECOME ARGUMENTS.– BOTH LOVE TO READ BOOKS.
• TEACHER (HUSBAND) EXHORTER (WIFE)– DISAGREEMENTS OVER HOW TRUTH IS ARRIVED AT CAUSE FRICTION.– BOTH LOVE TO TALK
• TEACHER (HUSBAND) GIVER (WIFE)– HE’S THREATENED BY HER BETTER BUSINESS ABILITY.– BOTH ENJOY READING
• TEACHER (HUSBAND) ORGANIZER (WIFE)– HE GETS UPSET WITH HER PROCRASTINATION AND CLUTTER.– BOTH ENJOY LEARNING
• TEACHER (HUSBAND) MERCY (WIFE)– HIS FRUSTRATION WITH HER ILLOGICAL, IRRATIONAL BEHAVIOR.
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Exhorter• EXHORTER (HUSBAND) PROPHET (WIFE)
– HE FEELS HER PERCEPTIONS ARE CRITICISMS OF HIM.– HE ENCOURAGES TO HAVE BROADER SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS.
• EXHORTER (HUSBAND) SERVER (WIFE)– HIS TALKATIVENESS OVERWHELMS HER, CAUSING FURTHER RESERVE.– SHE ENJOYS BEING HOSPITABLE TO MANY FRIENDS.
• EXHORTER (HUSBAND) TEACHER (WIFE)– HIS FRUSTRATION OVER HER DISINTEREST IN SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS.– HE HELPS TO BE MORE LIFE RELATED AND PEOPLE RELATED
• EXHORTER (HUSBAND AND WIFE)– COMPETITIVENESS IN TALKING.– ENCOURAGING EACH OTHER CONSTANTLY
• EXHORTER (HUSBAND) GIVER (WIFE)– HE RESENTS HER OVEREMPHASIS ON MONEY.– BOTH ENJOY MANY FRIENDS
• EXHORTER (HUSBAND) ORGANIZER (WIFE)– HE GETS UPSET WITH HER PROCRASTINATION.– BOTH LOVE BEING AROUND LOTS OF PEOPLE.
• EXHORTER (HUSBAND) MERCY (WIFE)– HIS FRUSTRATION OVER HER INDECISIVENESS.– BOTH ARE GREAT COUNSELORS
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Giver• GIVER (HUSBAND) PROPHET (WIFE)
– HE RESENTS HER TELLING HIM WHOM NOT TO TRUST IN BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS.– BOTH ARE VERY HONEST
• GIVER (HUSBAND) SERVER (WIFE)– SHE’S UPSET WHEN HE GIVES AWAY THINGS WITHOUT CONSULTING HER.– BOTH ARE EASYGOING
• GIVER (HUSBAND) TEACHER (WIFE)– HIS FOCUS ON BUSINESS CONFLICTS WITH HER INTEREST IN EDUCATION.– BOTH OPERATE DILIGENTLY
• GIVER (HUSBAND) EXHORTER (WIFE)– HE FEELS SHE WASTES TOO MUCH TIME ON THE PHONE AND SOCIALIZING.– BOTH ARE GOOD AT HELPING PEOPLE WITH THEIR PROBLEMS.
• GIVER (HUSBAND AND WIFE)– THEIR FRUGALITY CAN TURN INTO STINGINESS.– BOTH ARE WILLING TO HELP OTHERS.
• GIVER (HUSBAND) ORGANIZER (WIFE)– HE RESENTS HER TELLING THEM WHAT TO DO, ESPECIALLY REGARDING BUSINESS MATTERS.– THEY CAN WORK WELL TOGETHER IN BUSINESS .
• GIVER (HUSBAND) MERCY (WIFE)– HIS FRUSTRATION OVER HER LACK OF INDUSTRIOUSNESS AND PUNCTUALITY.– BOTH ENJOY BUILDING INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS.
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Organizer• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND) PROPHET (WIFE)
– HE’S UPSET WHEN SHE JUDGES HIS ACTIONS OR DECISIONS.– BOTH ENJOY COMPETITION.
• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND) SERVER (WIFE)– HE TAKES HER FOR GRANTED, FORGETTING TO EXPRESS APPRECIATION.– SHE’S GLAD TO CARRY OUT HIS DIRECTIONS.
• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND) TEACHER (WIFE)– HE RESENTS HER FOCUS ON READING AND LEARNING INSTEAD OF ON HIM.– BOTH ARE ACHIEVERS.
• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND) EXHORTER (WIFE)– HE SAVES EVERYTHING; SHE THROWS AWAY ITEMS NO MORE PRACTICAL USE.– THEY MAKE A GREAT TEAM WORKING TOGETHER WITH COMPLIMENTARY CHARACTERISTICS.
• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND) GIVER (WIFE)– HIS BOSSINESS OFFENDS HER.– SHE IS SUPPORTIVE OF HIS PROJECTS.
• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND AND WIFE)– ORGANIZATIONAL IDEAS CONFLICT.– HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP IF INDIVIDUAL AREAS OF AUTHORITY ARE CLEARLY DEFINED.
• ORGANIZER (HUSBAND) MERCY (WIFE)– HE’S PERPLEXED BY HER EMOTIONAL REACTIONS.– HE HELPS TO KEEP RELATIVELY ORGANIZED AND ON SCHEDULE.
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Mercy• MERCY (HUSBAND) PROPHET (WIFE)
– HE OFTEN FEELS SHE DOMINATES HIM.– HE CAN SOFTEN HER PERSONALITY.
• MERCY (HUSBAND) SERVER (WIFE)– THEY LET OTHERS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM TOO OFTEN.– THEY DO NOT CRITICIZE EACH OTHER.
• MERCY (HUSBAND) TEACHER (WIFE)– DIFFICULT COMMUNICATION BASED ON FEELING/THINKING DIFFERENCES.– BOTH ENJOY THE ARTS.
• MERCY (HUSBAND) EXHORTER (WIFE)– HE FEELS THREATENED BY HER DECISION MAKING ABILITIES.– VERY LOVING TO EACH OTHER.
• MERCY (HUSBAND) GIVER (WIFE)– HE RESENTS HER SUPERIOR ABILITY TO HANDLE FINANCES.– THEY ARE HELPFUL TO EACH OTHER.
• MERCY (HUSBAND) ORGANIZER (WIFE)– HE FEELS PRESSURED BY HER ORGANIZATIONAL ABILITIES.– HE HELPS FOCUS ON PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS INSTEAD OF TOO MUCH ON ACHIEVEMENTS.
• MERCY (HUSBAND AND WIFE)– INDECISIVENESS AND LACK OF MOTIVATION.– TREMENDOUS CAPACITY TO SHOW LOVE TO ONE ANOTHER.
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