Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community Educating for Success Inspiring learning and building citizenship.

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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community Educating for Success Inspiring learning and building citizenship
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community Emotional Intelligence is Being the best that you can be when times are at their worst!
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community Video
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  • Ladder of Inference We live in a world of self-generating beliefs that are largely untested. We adopt those beliefs because they are based on conclusions, which are inferred from what we observe, plus our past experiences. Our ability to achieve the results we truly desire is eroded by our feeling that: -Our beliefs are true. -The truth is obvious. -Our beliefs are based on real data. -The data we select are the real data. Schools that Learn, Senge et al
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  • Ladder of Inference
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  • Moving up the Ladder of Inference is quick and automatic so We have to slow down and ask the questions that will allow us to test our assumptions for accuracy
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  • Otherwise we end up in a reflexive loop Where the beliefs that we adopt actually determine what data we select for consideration. We end up paying attention to the data that support our beliefs and ignore those that contradict them.
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  • Slow down the conversations by asking What are the observable data? Does everyone agree on what the data are? Why is this data important to me What assumptions am I making based upon what I value? How did we get from that data to these abstract assumptions?
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  • The Golden Circle People dont buy what you do. People buy why you do it. Simon Sinet What How Why
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community THE WHY?
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community Anagrams Solve the following anagrams: Example: CTA = CAT 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community 1. raluet
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community 2. dayunc
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community 3. dripow
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community 4. irusat
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community 5. ibabtr
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community 1. Did I give it my all ? 2. If it didn't work out did I learn and change my game? 3. Did I quit?
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community INTENTION VS IMPACT Intention Behaviour IMPACT Emotions
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  • You judge yourself from your intentions, others judge you from your impact.
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community Emotions Drive Behaviour Emotions Behaviour DRIVE
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community How brain works Cognitive System Neo Cortex IQ resides here Site of working memory Complex thought. 4 variables = Possibilities ____
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  • How The Brain Works... Limbic System Amygdala Site of emotional learning builds circuits Responds 100X faster than cognitive system Answers one critical question of human survival Fight or Flight
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  • Emotional Hijack 1. Body Responds Increase in heart rate Shift in breathing Narrowing of focus Body goes on High Alert 2. Decrease in Working Memory 4 variables to 1 The 1 is the one we default to for protection Unaddressed effect lasts for 18 Minutes! Hijack
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE EMOTIONAL NEED DRIVES BEHAVIOUR EMOTIONS COME BEFORE THOUGHT WE FEEL BEFORE WE ACT
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  • Degrees of Hijack Trigger 4 3 equals a loss of ____ %
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community EMOTIONAL NEEDS Safe: Physical, Emotional Environment Accepted: Included Liked Needed Paid attention to Respected: Understood Treated Fairly Dignity Valued: Appreciated Feeling Heard Worthy Recognized Praised Power: Control Choice A Voice (has a say) Able to Act Context\A Reason
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  • People dont do things to you, they do them for themselves!
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community What do you think about when 1. Its 10 a.m. Your boss/partner calls and leaves you a gruff voice message saying, We have to talk. See me at 3pm 2. Your 16 year old daughter is out with a 19 year old boy. Its now 1 hour past the time she should be home and shes still not home We call this AWFULLIZING!!!
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  • Our Focus: Learning, Leadership, Community IF YOU DONT LIKE SOMETHING CHANGE IT; IF YOU CANT CHANGE IT, CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT IT. Mary Englbriet
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  • My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be Loving, Hopeful and Optimistic and well change the world. Jack Layton

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