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    Wednesday, April 25, 2012

    InsIdeHealtH

    Dit nd nutrition

    dvic by Cyndi Ctts.

    Page 5

    FInancIal

    Finncil informtion

    by Jy Brooks.

    Page 11

    y: Midge Rothrock

    After recently celebrating

    is 75th birthday, Al Bey de-

    cided it was time to look again

    at his personal strategic plan.

    Al typically devotes 60-hours-

    a-week doing purpose-driven

    activities. He feels that he

    eeds to sharpen the focus

    for the next 15 years, while

    e continues to be so active.

    When he reaches 90, he might

    ot wish to devote quite asuch time, so these years need

    to count!

    Al has always valued

    planning and change two

    strengths not often found at

    the top of most peoples skill

    sets. This has served him

    well, in his career, his avoca-

    tional and volunteer interests,

    is family and married life. Atthis time, his active involve-

    ents include Master Garden-

    ers, Cedar Creek Communitys

    Landscape Committee, Cro-

    sland Park, Christ Central, St.

    Paul Lutheran Church, South

    oundary Mens Chorus,

    nternational travel, a pine

    plantation and recreational

    property to enjoy hunting

    and shing, and an occa-sional round of golf. A highly

    disciplined person, Al shares

    his time in specic major and

    complementary thrusts across

    ve key interconnected areas:

    Organic Concepts: from

    his heritage in farming and his

    chemistry education, to master

    gardening while using organic

    applications, lecturing, hunt-

    ing for deer and turkey andpine foresting at his near to

    Wagener plantation of 116

    acres, and growing things and

    eating in a consciously healthy

    manner;

    Education: having taught

    general and organic chemistry

    for seven years at night at lo-

    cal colleges while working full

    time at Dow, having created

    an endowment at Capital U in

    his name, and being a lifelong

    curious learner, Al continues

    this thrust through a desire to

    connect Crosland Park with

    Christ Central and their River

    of Life GED program;

    Travel: annually, enabling

    Beys to see 45 countries,

    including having resided for

    three years in Brussels;

    Music: through choirs,

    founding and participatingin mens choruses and bar-

    bershop chorales, as well

    as adding his voice and his

    administrative skills to Men

    for Him (with the late Phil

    VanLeuween), and South

    Boundary; and

    Church: having held

    most every key administrative

    leadership role as well as choirparticipation, Beys actively

    serve at St. Paul Lutheran here

    in Aiken, a church they em-

    braced from their rst visit a

    decade ago until present time.

    Of course, all of the

    ve thrusts call to bear

    Al Beys strategic plan

    al By with rndsons Clb nd Mtthw.

    S By, p 8

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    y: Linda Farron Knapp

    Q. What are your thoughts on do-t-yourself wills, revocable trusts, pow-rs of attorneys and health care proxy

    ocuments?A. Other than living wills and

    ealth care powers of attorneys I nd

    ost individuals are not well equipped

    o prepare their own wills, revocablerusts and nancial powers of attor-eys. But my view is undoubtedly

    aded by the fact not a week goes byuch that I have to tell someone that

    heir documents do not adequatelyeect their goals or needs or are

    therwise majorly defective, often dueo answering a question wrong and

    mproper execution. In over twentyears of practice I have seen only twoell done simple documents and those

    ere by college graduates that had

    one a lot of research. A recent bloghread between estate planners sadlyoked that we probably make more

    oney off failed self-help documentshen we do drafting simple wills. A

    ell drafted will can last a lifetime andherefore the cost averages less than2 a year, a couple of tanks of gas,

    r a few co-pay visits to the doctorsfce. Yes, you can plug your symp-

    oms into Web MD to self-diagnosisour illness, but I dont recommend

    elying on it and certainly not for yourole source of medical treatment or

    o perform your own surgery. Attor-eys that focus their practices in estatelanning and elder law literally spend

    housands of hours over the course ofheir profession staying current with

    he nuances and changes in just thisrea of the law.

    I have yet to see a software programhat adequately screens individuals or

    xplains the practical and legal impli-ations of the multiple choices beingffered to a lay person preparing their

    wn will, trust or nancial power of

    ttorney. Weve all seen those home

    mprovement shows where do-it-your-

    elf projects did not turn out so well

    It is too late to x a trust or power of

    attorney when you are actually inca-

    pacitated or a will if you are dead, sothe risk d-i-y people take can be great.

    And the elderly need to especiallybeware because nancial abuse has

    been on the rise for the past two de-cades. Exploitation occurs throughfraud, fear of being placed in a nurs-

    ing home or left to manage on theirown, theft and undue inuence in the

    preparation of estate documents andthe conveyance of real or personal

    property via deeds and documents oftitle. Private attorneys are one of the

    rst and most effective lines of de-fense an individual has against familyoverreaching. Discussion on agents

    and surrogates and possible protec-tive language and options are rarely

    included in the simple forms and stan-dard online document you can create.

    An ABA study found that more than90% of instances of abuse of general

    powers of attorney involved the agent

    transferring the principals assets a

    house, car, cash and bank accounts intothe agents name without the seniors

    knowledge or consent. On an averagethat was 50% or more of the seniorstotal assets.1 Abuse was far more

    common involving cases with do-it-yourself powers of attorney kits or

    forms. This might be because seniorswithout legal counsel are more likely

    to make mistakes of judgment and beunduly inuenced. Additionally, the

    abuser wants to avoid legal oversight

    and therefore prepares the documentonline for the senior and encourages

    the vulnerable adult to act against hisor her best interest without full under-

    stand of the risks involved. On top oflegal training lawyers are governed by

    a code of ethics that require a duty ofcompetence, loyalty and condentiality

    to the client so when there is substan-

    tial risk of physical, nancial or other

    harm to a client, a lawyer has authorityto take reasonably necessary actions tonotify and consult with public enti-

    ties and other family members, and ifnecessary bring legal action to protect

    a client with diminished capacity.2

    The old adage about a word to thewise applies to most online estate

    document preparation sites, however,there are some new value based billingoptions through virtual law ofces

    where the client helps with simpledrafting projects by answering online

    questions, thus allowing the lawyer tostreamline his or her practice from twoappointments to one and reduce parale-

    gal overhead. The client then sched-ules a review of the document and

    the clients situation with the attorneywhere nal revisions are made and the

    documents are properly executed - thebest of both worlds.

    (Endnotes)1 - English and Wolff, Survey Re-

    sults: Use of Durable Powers, Probate

    and Property, ABA (Jan/Feb 1996).

    2 - Wilcox and Crystal, Annotated

    South Carolina Rules of Professional

    Conduct, Rule 1.14(b) 2010 Edition.

    Boomer Briefngs: Q & A

    Attorney Linda Farron Knapp is amember of the National Academy

    of Elder Law Attorneys.

    If you have a question for

    Boomer Briefngs: Writeto Attorney Knapp at P.O.

    Box 714, Barnwell, SC

    29812 or fax a question to

    803-541-7677 or e-mail her

    at [email protected].

    Questions may be rephrased

    and all answers will be

    addressed only in Boomer

    Briefngs articles.

    is online at

    aikenstandard.com

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    y: Kathy Crist

    Cumberland Village Senior

    Living Community and Right at

    Home are committed to improving

    the lives for those families affected

    y Alzheimers disease. There are

    approximately 5.3 million Americans

    age 65 and older suffering from

    Dementia. The increasing numbers

    of elders with Dementia could create

    the largest crisis in the history ofealthcare. Understanding Dementia

    s now more crucial than ever.

    Seven out of 10 Alzheimers

    patients live at home where

    family and friends provide 75

    percent of the care. Senior Living

    Communities, such as Cumberland

    Villages Assisted Living, report that

    approximately 70% of their residents

    ave cognitive decline. Because ofthe difcult behaviors and symptoms

    of Alzheimers many caregivers

    suffer from burnout and depression,

    yet studies show that these caregivers

    are not formally trained to provide

    the support needed for those living

    with Dementia. For those caring for

    oved ones at home, agencies like

    Right at Home can provide a much

    eeded respite or break.

    A scientically proven method

    to train individuals caring for those

    with Dementia is now available.

    The Virtual Dementia Tour is a

    ands-on, experiential program

    created for families, organizations

    and companies seeking to betterunderstand the physical and mental

    challenges of those with Dementia.

    This unique, interactive program

    has been proven to improve

    communication and care. In fact,

    the VDT has been experienced

    by more than 180,000 family and

    professional caregivers, changing

    countless lives. Richard Garcia,

    marketing Director for Rightat Home has been trained as a

    facilitator of the Virtual Dementia

    Tour.

    Learning to create a positive

    environment for those with Dementia

    can only come from attempting to

    walk in their shoes. Created by P.K.

    Beville, a specialist in Geriatrics, this

    valuable, easy to follow experiential

    program is designed to help

    individuals identify with and better

    understand the behaviors and needs

    of those with Dementia.

    The purpose of the Virtual

    Dementia Tour is to help families,

    organizations and companies

    better identify with the day-to-daystruggles of those with Dementia,

    thereby improving their ability to

    communicate and provide care. The

    VDT offers hope by providing

    tips and tools necessary to create

    an environment that supports the

    disease and lessens confusion.

    Right at Home and Cumberland

    Village Senior Living Community

    are teaming up to offer FREEVirtual Dementia Tours this coming

    Saturday, April 28 from 9am-4pm.

    The tour takes approximately 20

    minutes per person. Space is limited.

    The tour is FREE, but any donations

    made will go directly to the Palmetto

    Alzheimers Association.

    To reserve your time to tour,

    call Cumberland Village today at

    803-643-0073.

    Virtual Dementia Tour sheds light on thedark world of dementia and improves care

    Kathy Crist, Owner/Administrator

    at Right at Home.

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    y: Cynthia F. Catts, RD, LD

    Diverticular disease, comprised

    of two conditions, diverticulosis and

    diverticulitis is a not so uncommon

    situation among my patients with

    owel issues.

    Diverticulosis, a pouching

    (diverticula) that forms bulging

    through the wall of the colon

    ay be asymptomatic or may be

    accompanied by cramping, bloating

    and constipation.

    Diverticulitis occurs when these

    pouches become inamed andsometimes infected. When this has

    appened, there is often sudden pain

    n the abdomen. There may also be y

    vomiting, fever, chills or a change in

    owel movements.

    Diverticular disease is the topic

    of this article because it is a disease

    that is usually caused by a diet too

    ow in ber. Too little ber can

    cause constipation, which can causeuscles to strain when having a bowel

    ovement. It is the straining that can

    form the pouches, kind of like a blow

    out on an inner tube.

    So obviously, both treatment and

    prevention involve a high ber diet.

    For diverticulitis, most people get

    etter with antibiotics and a liquid diet.

    Surgery is sometimes warranted.

    Contrary to popular belief, youdont need to avoid nuts, popcorn and

    seeds if diagnosed with diverticular

    disease. These foods are high in ber

    and again the main thing is to keep the

    stool in the colon moving to prevent

    infection within the diverticula. It used

    to be thought that tiny seeds could

    lodge inside of one of the diverticula

    and get infected but this isnt the case

    if the person is consuming plenty of

    ber and plenty of uid.

    All fresh, raw fruits, vegetables and

    whole grains contain ber. Choose

    cereals with 5 gm ber per serving or

    more, breads with 3 gm ber per slice

    or more. Sweet potatoes, ngerlings,red skin potatoes, legumes and peas

    are also high in ber.

    For more information about

    eating for bowel health or to set

    up an appointment, Cyndi may be

    reached at [email protected] or

    803-642-9360.

    Sources include: American Dietetic

    Association, The American College ofGastroenterology.

    Preventing and Treating Diverticular Disease

    Cynthia F. Catts, RD, LD -

    Medical Nutrition Therapist inPrivate Practice

    is online ataikenstandard.com

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    y: Rio Grande Dave

    Your mother calls and hints she

    would like a Pink Perfection camellia

    for her birthday in November. It re-

    inds her of growing up in her moth-

    ers house. Fortunately you have that

    camellia in your yard, but its too big

    to dig up and give to her. Here is your

    solution. You can air layer a branch

    of your bush and propagate it for her.

    Here are the steps, plus, April and Mayare the best times to air layer camel-

    ias. You will need some supplies- a

    sharp pen knife, a jar of rooting

    ormone, like Root tone, aluminum

    foil in 8 inch square pieces, sphagnum

    oss (not peat or Spanish moss) that

    you have submerged in a pail of water.

    ext look at your camellia bush, nd a

    ranch about 18 inches long and about

    the thickness of your pinky nger with

    about 4-6 inches of stem with no small

    ranches on it.

    Step 1- take your pen knife and cut

    thru the bark only, making a circle cut

    around the branch, then about 2 inches

    from the rst cut repeat the cut. Take

    your pen knife and carefully scrape

    off the bark between the 2 cuts. Next

    youll see a bright green layer called

    the cambium. Scrap off all that green

    layer until you see white wood, anyleftover green layer will scar over and

    no roots will develop.

    Step 2 - wet the scraped stem and

    dust or paint the rooting hormone all

    around the scraped area.

    Step 3-get a handful of wet sphag-

    num moss, squeeze out the excess

    water, put the moss on one side of

    the precut aluminum foil and fold it

    around the scraped stem. Make surethe moss and foil covers all around

    the stem and twist the ends of the foil

    above and below the scraped stem.

    Step 4 - step away from the branch

    and wait until October. Just take care

    of your camellia as usual. The air lay-

    ered branch will survive without any

    care from you.

    Step 5 - go back to that branch in

    October, pull the foil away- see all

    those white roots. Your air layer is

    ready for planting. Take sharp clippers

    and cut the branch from the bush just

    below the new roots. Plant the severed

    branch in a pot.

    Step 6 -give your Pink Perfection to

    your Mother on her birthday.

    Heres hoping to see along the Ca-

    mellia Trail

    Camellia Daze

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    is extraordinary talent at organizing

    and focusing. Like each careerassignment, all of his volunteer

    commitments have added value tothe organizations he serves. Notice

    they all interconnect in several ways faithfulness, educating and enhancingthrough applying well-thought-out

    processes, making healthier andetter informed organic decisions,

    exploring and learning through travel,and relaxing through music, hunting

    and farming: full circle purposefulpursuits, maximizing his quality of life.

    Lois and Al Bye came to Aiken from

    is place of birth through his careeryears Michigan. They selected the

    community of Cedar Creek in Aiken adecade ago, after having searched all

    over the country for the right balanceof cultural excellence, good churches,a regional airport, a welcoming com-

    unity, and NO SNOW SHOVELING.Al grew up on a dairy farm, so he has

    always been a farmer at heart. Heas always worked hard: not really of-

    cially having a job assigned on the

    farm until he was nine, but he felt herought to it four years of experience!

    This love of the outdoors and farmingthe earth continues through Als life.

    Attending Capital University (wheree was recently named Alumnae of the

    Year) in Columbus, Ohio, Al got his

    rst Chemistry degree. He then pur-sued his Chemistry Masters at Univer-

    sity of Michigan.For 40 years, Dow Corning em-

    ployed Al, from a role as ResearchChemist through several variations of

    technical management. All but threeyears were at Midland, Michigan, al-owing for the family to remain in the

    same home. Lois and he did spend

    three delightful years in Brussels,elgium, where he was Vice President/

    Technical Director of European Opera-

    tions. Dow Corning was a $40-mil-ion/year corporation when Als careeregan, and $4 billion when he left.

    Al changed work assignments onaverage every three years. Always

    thinking in planning terms about hiscareer steps, his goal in moving posi-

    tions was to be able to say this: I do

    that job better than it has ever been

    done before, and then, move on. Lois

    calls him a workaholic, but shes appar-ently used to it, as their 50th wedding

    anniversary is approaching, on a happynote. In speeches given at various

    venues, Al was honestly saying, Ihad a ball doing my job! I was glad

    when Monday morning rolls around,

    so I could go to work. This in noway diminished his contented home

    life. Rather, it reected the energy and

    edge he kept in his work, always taking

    on (and conquering!) new challenges,and not allowing the work to become

    routine or mundane. Willingly, he took

    management courses to enhance andkeep current on his leadership skillsover the years. In fact, Dow even senthim to MIT, for the Executive Manage-

    ment Program, surely a sign of theircondence in this strong leader. When

    a job opening was available in any

    department Al was running, there were

    many candidates applying, hopingto be part of the exciting changes he

    always brought. He never turned downa single opportunity offered to him, andeven enjoyed inheriting that occasional

    over-condent employee, rather than

    those who felt insecure.

    Peace of mind on the home frontsurely made this career mobility easier.

    Al met Lois, an RN, after he beganworking in Midland. At that time, it

    seemed everyone was hiring, whichmade for a very active young singlesorganization, the place they met.

    Within a year, they married. Together,they had three children, whom they

    encouraged to be independent.Jeffrey, their oldest, is a production

    manager for Freeman A/V Company.He travels all over - Las Vegas, Califor-

    nia, Orlando and similar sites - han-

    dling the audio/visual details at majorevents.

    Michael is in the middle, and withhis wife Kathy has twin eight-year-old

    sons Caleb and Matthew. They live inPlymouth, Michigan. Michael initially

    went to Hope College, got a ComputerScience degree, and realized, whileat Upjohn, that he wanted to use a

    computer as a tool to enhance his work,

    rather than that being the purpose of his

    work. This sent him back for a Mastersand PhD in Bio Mechanics from the

    University of Michigan. He now isthe Director of a biomechanical unit atFord Hospital, working with orthopedic

    research.

    Interestingly, grandfather of twinsAl has an identical twin brother, aswell as two sets of twin cousins.

    Laura, their youngest, rst pursued

    a Bachelors of Psychology. With his

    typical razor-sharp wit, Al told Laurashed probably never have a job, but

    at least shed understand why! With a

    minor in German and Communications,she went on to achieve Fulbright hon-

    ors, taught in an Austrian school, andnow has been in university administra-

    tion for almost 20 years, as Director ofStudy Abroad at Simmons College in

    Boston. Her partner, another Jeffrey,and Laura have been a couple for thesesame 20 years.

    This December, the whole family,including the twins, will be enjoying a

    Caribbean cruise to celebrate their 50th

    wedding anniversary.Packing for a trip is no big deal to

    these seasoned world travelers, thats

    for certain. Before the upcomingfamily cruise, they will travel this fall

    from Budapest to Bucharest, with fourlifelong friends from Michigan, all 75

    years of age. Lois and Al have been to45 countries, including Russia, Chinaand Africa, taking at least one major

    trip each year. His favorite? Be-ing a person who spends lots of time

    outdoors, he loved a two-week safariin Africa, which they hope to repeat.

    And, if he had to live anywhere else, itwould be New Zeeland. But, they havefound the best place of all, which is,

    when we get back home!Al got interested recently in the

    work of Christ Central because ofKeith Bashant, recently deceased

    Cedar Creek neighbor, who was activewith the mentoring program in New

    Ellenton. Al saw potential in theirthree-pronged approach: donations forurgent needs, services, and the GED

    program: strengthening futures. He is

    bey...from page 1

    Lois and Al enjoying dinner on a South American Cruise.

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    currently evaluating students, and may

    eventually move to teaching math. Al-

    eady, Christ Central is aware of what

    this man can do, and has placed him

    on their Advisory Board.

    Lisa Segura from St. Paul Lutheran

    Church directs Aikens development

    efforts for Self-Sustainable Com-unities. 3-1/2 years ago, she got Al

    nvolved in Crosland Park, rst con-

    sulting with the Crosland Park Neigh-

    orhood Association to strengthen

    their planning capabilities. There are

    550 homes, and 1500 people, approxi-

    ately. The thrust of Als efforts are

    to focus on educational and socializa-

    tion programs in this community. Al

    ow is training leaders, helping themdevelop and manage programs.

    In 2009, Al completed his Master

    Gardeners certication. He has con-

    verted his gardening efforts to organic

    nterests, using no synthetic pesticides.

    His centipede lawn, environmentally

    safe, is so healthy that Al has chal-

    enged Bill Hayes to nd a better cen-

    tipede lawn in all of Aiken County! Al

    frequently lectures on organic garden-

    ing and teaming with nature (eco-ag-

    riculturalis his coined word), having

    spoken to Cedar Creek Gardeners and

    at Noble Breads and Grocer on Rich-

    land in recent days. He considers a

    study done in 1930s by dentist Weston

    A. Rice regarding areas of zero tooth

    decay where native foods are the onlyproducts consumed to possibly be the

    best dietary study ever done. Al drinks

    raw whole milk, non-penned chickens

    and their eggs, venison, along with

    other natural food products, maintain-

    ing his healthy trim physique.

    What do people say about Al?

    People who worked for him at Dow

    would declare him to be demanding,

    fair and honest, not demanding moreof them than he was of himself.

    Bill Reihl, founder and director of

    South Boundary, considers Al Bey to

    be a remarkable person (as does Al

    consider Bill to be). With a strong

    service component to their musical

    efforts and Als past experience, South

    Boundary has endowed a scholar-

    ship for USCA music student. The

    also serve to mentor and lead boys

    choruses (aka Boundary Boys) in lo-

    cal public schools. These men know

    a lifetime of joy which has come to

    them through making music, and want

    to pass that along. Sadly, in order to

    dedicate more energy to Christ Cen-

    tral, Als tenor spot with South Bound-

    ary will be vacated after their Aprilconcert with the Columbia County

    Civic Orchestra. He has loved this

    organization, and took a strong part

    in making these early years success-

    ful. (Readers having a strong musical

    talent and an interest in learning more

    about trying out for the South Bound-

    ary can contact Director Bill Reihl for

    details. Check their website at www.

    southboundary.com).Als twin brother is very involved

    in many of the same things that con-

    sume Als time. He teaches organic

    vegetable gardening with emphasis on

    nutrient-dense foods, and does lots of

    volunteer work. He lives in Fayette-

    ville, Arkansas. (How extra fortunate

    each community is to have theses

    talented and giving men).

    Jim Heffner, always witty like Al,

    found a BFF in this South Bound-

    ary fellow scientist, family man, and

    person of faith and commitment to

    giving back to the community and to

    others. Dr. Heffner says this: I met

    him when he joined South Boundary.

    He brought more than music talent

    and experience to the group. He alsorecommended ways or organizing,

    and then helped write by-laws and

    operating procedures. He brought

    great knowledge regarding how to

    plan and execute events like concerts.

    And when we developed an interest

    in some type of service to give to the

    community, he originated the idea of

    starting an endowed music scholar-

    ship at USCA (and then worked withthe university to learn how to go about

    it). You probably see a pattern here

    experience, vision, ability, and energy

    to make things happen, along with a

    willingness to jump in and work for

    results. And hes modest about his

    accomplishments and service. A class

    act all around. Hes one guy I really

    look up to, and not just because hes

    taller than I am!

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    y: Chrissa Matthews

    Mrs. Matthews, are grits hard to

    ook? No Billybut they sure are

    ough to pick!

    There is a Southern tradition of hav-

    ng a bit of fun with folks who arent

    from around here. And, based upon

    y traveling experiences it is also a

    orthern tradition, and a Western one

    nd well you get my point. But

    s much fun as such antics are, we allnjoy opening our doors and welcom-

    ng new friends.

    Over her history, Aiken has made

    habit of being a home away from

    ome, opening her doors for wealthy

    harlestonians escaping the coastal

    ummer heat, for New York and Chi-

    agos upper crust eeing the ice and

    now, and most recently, for thousands

    f retirees from practically anywhere.cross all that history, those coming to

    iken have depended upon the locals

    for assistance and advice.

    Well, thats who we are, and thats

    hat we do. Daybreak Adult Care

    ervice is the only independent,

    iken-born, adult care service in

    he area. And whether you grew up

    atching bootleggers run liquor up

    hiskey Road or you came here soou might never shovel snow again,

    ou will nd when you are connected

    o Daybreak, you are connected to

    iken. That connection runs deep: we

    ive here therefore we care about here.

    e pay attention to the details of our

    ommunity, such as how the closing

    f Laurens Street Bridge will affect

    ou, a detail were certain escapes the

    ational companies.

    And there is our gal Linda. See,

    inda grew up here (if you can call

    ve feet tall grown up) and Id

    ager she knows more folks in Aiken

    han does Santa himself. Linda and

    thers like her are what elevate Day-

    reak from a caregiving service to a

    lugged-in resource through which

    ou access Aikens best Since we are

    from here and we do this every day,

    we will connect you with the service

    providers you need. Chances are, we

    are on a rst name basis with them.

    Need to work with someone about

    meal planning for a special diet the

    doctor requires? Well connect you.Perhaps your home needs some modi-

    cations so you can shower and walk

    about safely. Those guys are on our

    speed dial. Want advice on special

    equipment or palliative care? We see

    that crew every day.

    Perhaps more importantly you ben-

    et from our experience. As the new

    normal, in-home care requires some

    adjustments you may not anticipate.

    We will. With Daybreak, you dont

    adjust to a new home, we help ensure

    your home adjusts to you. Reduced

    mobility and in-home caregiving

    doesnt have to mean isolation. Let

    Daybreak in and let us open doors.

    We even have caregivers who cook

    a wonderful pot of grits. Just dont ask

    them to pick em!

    Open Doors

    Chrissa Matthews, MA, CCC/SLP, a long-time Aiken residentand the owner of DayBreak AdultCare Services, Inc, Aiken, SC.

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    With the end of the school year

    pon us, you might naturally think

    about graduation and plans for next

    year. The academic calendar drives

    any decisions in our lives. Why

    should SeniorNet be any different?

    Well there is a difference! SeniorNet

    Learning Centers are on a schedule

    that the local Learning Center sets

    tself. Here in Aiken, since Fall, 1999,

    the McGrath Learning Center has had

    three distinct sessions Fall, Winter,

    and Spring. Occasionally there has

    een a shortened summer session.

    Each of the regular sessions is eightweeks long. There are a variety of

    computer courses taught in each of

    the sessions, but not always the same

    courses. Most of our courses are eight

    weeks in length, with a few four weeks

    ong, with a scheduled class meeting

    on a specic day & time each week.

    The students in each course receive a

    detailed manual that outlines all the

    things to be covered in a particular

    lesson, one lesson per week during the

    two-hour class period. Each student

    has a computer to work at and our

    classes are limited to a dozen students.

    Why, you ask? For two reasons: 1). It

    is shown that you learn by doing, not

    just observing or being told (talked

    to); and 2). by limiting the class size,

    students are able to get individual help

    right during the class if they have a

    question or have difculty understand-

    ing what is being presented. In each

    class there is an instructor and two

    or three coaches (as we call them).

    These individuals are seniors, like thestudents, and they understand some

    of the frustrations a student might be

    having. So they assist the student but

    do not do the work for him, but rather

    explain what the student must do for

    himself to gain the necessary under-

    standing to perform the skill being

    taught.

    So that gets to the question asked

    is there a graduation from SeniorNet

    classes? Yes there is! At the end of

    the last class session in each course,

    the student is presented with a Cer-

    ticate of Completion if they have

    attended all (or at least most of the

    classes). This is important for several

    reasons, the most important being that

    learning has taken place and a feeling

    of accomplishment has been attained.

    But that isnt all. When you take a Se-

    niorNet course, you may come to the

    Learning Center any Wednesday after-

    noon from 3 to 5 to get additional help

    with course material (or to make up

    a class that you might have missed),to practice the skills already learned in

    previous class sessions, or to perhaps

    get a computer question answered by

    one of our technical experts who are

    there to assist. This Open Lab is one

    of the best things about taking a course

    because it allows the student to get the

    answers to the computer questions that

    are really bothering them. One other

    thing that should be mentioned is that

    we offer a variety of two-hour work-

    shops, each on a very specic topic.

    These workshops are given on Friday

    mornings from 9 to 11, and again are

    limited in size. For you to see what is

    available during May, visit our website

    www.aikenseniornet.com. If you see

    something of interest, call Laura in the

    USCA Continuing Education ofce

    (803-641-3563) and ask if there is

    space available.

    Now with only the month of May

    remaining, you might wonder if you

    can visit the Learning Center to see

    just what this place is all about, and tosee what you have been missing. Ab-

    solutely! Our volunteers and technical

    experts are there every Wednesday

    afternoon during the Fall, Winter, and

    Spring sessions to help students as well

    as those who come just to get a rst-

    hand look at what is so special about

    the SeniorNet Learning Center. Dont

    put it off. Come see for yourself. See

    you there!

    Does the Aiken SeniorNet Learning Center have graduation?

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    PrimeTimers Expo May 22, Free to PublicPrimeTimer Expo will take place at St.

    Johns United Methodist Church on Tues-

    day, May 22, 2012. The hours are from 10

    am until 1 pm. There is no cost to attend

    this event. All are welcome.

    This Expo will provide an informative

    mixture of over 30 representatives from

    Assisted Living, Home Health Care, Hos-

    pice Care, Mental Health Facilities, Coun-

    cil on Aging, Social Security, TLC Medical

    Centre, Mended Hearts, Sports Plus, SC

    Alzheimers Association, Aiken Regional

    Medical Centers, Physical Therapists,

    Long-Term Liaisons, and other organiza-

    tions and agencies serving seniors.

    There will be exhibits in the Gym, and

    speakers in Ward Hall, (comfortable meet-

    ing rooms at St. Johns).

    This event has been put together by a

    dedicated group of seniors, the St. Johns

    Senior Adult Council PrimeTimers, and

    is intended to inform on the very topics of

    interest to the members of this Council:

    your peers. There will be light refresh-

    ments, and a time to greet friends and gain

    knowledge.

    Bring your friends and neighbors down-

    town to the church with the steeple at 104

    Newberry Street, NW. Thats the corners

    of Richland and Newberry.

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