likes over life

Did You Like My Insta? T O D A Y ' S O B S E S S I O N W I T H

G E T T I N G " L I K E S "

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lAURA RUBINO

L A U R E N D O B S O N - H U G H E S ,

P R E S I D E N T O F P L A N N E D P A R E N T H O O D O T T A W A

"We know that social media is not a

separate thing to them [today's youth], it is part of their lives."

Today's youth is overly exposed to

forms of social media that have

negative impacts on mental health

and social inclusion.

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On average....

Teens spend about 9 hours

a day with media.

45 per cent of teens

reported using social

media every day and only

36 per cent said they

enjoyed that activity a lot.

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An online survey conducted by Joseph Grenny and David Maxfield of more than 1,600 participants concluded that we have become social media

“trophy hunters.”

58% of respondents claimed that attempting to hone the perfect post has prevented them from enjoying life.

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Getting a "LIKE"over having a "LIFE"

Societies New Addiction:

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36% of teens said they check social media to see if their friends are doing things without

them

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"Since my friends and I started high

school, we've started to see the Instagram

like as a social status. We use it as a

way to judge popularity almost."

Michael, a 15-year-old high

school sophomore from New

Jersey explained.

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FOMO Fear Of Missing Out

Through social media posts,

such as Snapchat stories,

Facebook statuses, and

tweets; teens constantly

question what they are

missing out on, rather than

what they are experiencing.

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Today, there are a number of

apps that allow people to purchase

"followers."

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Fake Followers

Having a high number

of followers can

attribute to your level

of popularity, and

ultimately your social

confidence.

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Social Stalking

"Online stalking is definitely happening

more often because there is such an

array of powerful tools at stalkers'

disposal making it easier to do."

- Jennifer Perry, author of Digital

Stalking: A Guide to Technology Risks

for Victims.

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S O M E R E S E A R C H I N D I C A T E S T H A T F E E L I N G

C O M P E L L E D T O P O R T R A Y A " M Y F U N - F I L L E D

L I F E " V E R S I O N O F R E A L I T Y C A N C O M E A T A

S E V E R E P S Y C H O L O G I C A L C O S T . I T C A N B E

V E R Y D A M A G I N G T O A Y O U N G P E R S O N ' S S E L F -

E S T E E M I F P O S T S A N D P H O T O S R E C E I V E F E W

L I K E S O R C O M M E N T S . . . T H I S C A N L E A D T O S E L F -

D O U B T A N D S E L F - L O A T H I N G .

- ROBERT WHITELY, ASSISTANT PROFESSOR AT MCGILL UNIVERSITY

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Complex social networks

allow us to engage, and

possibly question our

emotional intelligence.


The Pressure

to be "Picture Perfect"

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If we are consumed with showing people how happy we are, are we

really able to enjoy our experiences?

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“’Likes' are a low- effort way to

produce a counterfeit feeling

of social well- being that takes more effort to

achieve in the real world.”

-Joseph Grenny

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