How to Break the Friend Zone With a Girl

By: Frankie Cola

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1 Simple Technique That Changes Her Opinion of You and Breaks You Out of the Friend Zone

Are you in a friend-zone situation with a special girl you'd give anything to makeyour girlfriend?

Then read on, because in this slideshow, we will cover how to break the friend zone with a girl.

When the most important girl in your life says she only likes you as a friend, your world comes crashing down.

You feel sick to your stomach.

You wonder if there's any hope left.

Now you CAN get out of the friend zone even if you're stuck in this situation... but it's really really hard for most men to do it.

Because if you've been playing the "role" of the friend since the beginning when you met her

You usually remain JUST her friend unless you know what to do.

Here's the technique that changes a "hard to get" girl's opinion of you and breaks you out of the friend zone

>>>My Comments

Hey Brandon, when you're in the friend zone with a girl, it means you are behaving in a way that makes her think of you only as a friend.

More specifically, there is a "pattern" that repeats over and over again when you interact with her.

In this pattern, you play the "role" of her friend, and because of it, the girl only treats you like a friend.

Now, you CAN get out of the friend zone even if you're cemented into this "role", but it's really really hard for most men to do it.

Because once that pattern is set at the beginning when you meet her

It usually never gets broken unless you know what to do...

See, if you want to break the friend zone with a girl, you have to BREAK THAT PATTERN... and replace it with a new pattern where you're playing a DIFFERENT role.

The new role you take is the specific way you interact with her such that she starts seeing you as the type of guy she mightget romantic or physical with.

In other words, you will play the role of the LOVER.

If you play the role of the typical nice guy friend, this can NEVER happen.

This video reveals how to break the friend zone with a girl by using 12 Attraction Techniques that make her start thinking of you as a lover.

***Question***

I just started dating a girl that Ive known and had a crush on for around 5 years.

She recently broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years. We started hanging out intimately 6 days ago.

On the first night, we drank with some friends and both got drunk and had sex. We slept together all night and then hung out the next day.

The next day after that we talked all day and hung out and watched a couple movies that night. We then went to a movie the next night.

I then left for vacation but we texted all day the first 3 days of my vacation now nothing the last 2 days.

I know she is going through a tough time getting over her boyfriend.

Im trying to go slow because we talked about our relationship already.

But it seems like she is ignoring everything.

Should I give her more space and just text her when Im back from vacation or try tomorrow maybe?

Anything helps thanks.

-Paul

>>>My Comments

Hey Paul, You have successfully attracted your 5-year crush...

Awesome.

But now youre BLOWING it by talking about feelings and relationship labels.

Come on, man!

The thing is that you're already thinking about having her as your girlfriend, so you're getting "needy" about locking her down into a relationship.

This is making you worry about her and it's messing you up!

It turns out that this state of fearfulness in your mind is what is making you act unattractive and it is pushing her away.

Look, when you start dating a woman, you must take it slow.

See her only around once a week... and absolutely do not text her every day.

You don't want to ruin your chances by blowing up her phone and smothering her.

Not only does it kill the mystery and bores her, but it also suggests that she's the only thing you have going on in your life.

And if you talk to her about "feelings" and about becoming "official" this will suffocate her even more.

She will feel like she's losing her freedom, and that's when she gives you the "let's just be friends" talk.

Instead, follow the next 3 points.

First, you have to be away from her so that her feelings can develop.

That's why...

1. You should use the phone PRIMARILY to make dates

That means don't get into long text conversations that go nowhere.

Next time you see her, don't do anything after the date and let her come to you.

Then when she reaches out, assume she wants to see you, and make plans tomeet up.

Once you meet up, point #2 is crucial...

2. Never Bring Up Feelings and Relationship Labels

Pay attention because this is very important.

You want to keep hanging out with this girl and having fun with without any attachment to the outcome.

Because once you start getting needy and you want to lock her down into a relationship, her attraction for you will fade away.

I hope you're getting this.

So then how do you become boyfriend and girlfriend with a woman?

By following point #3...

3. Let the Girl Bring Up "Getting Into a Relationship"

Look man, after each date, don't do anything. Don't text, don't call, you don'tneed to do anything.

Let her come to you.

Then when she reaches out, assume she wants to see you and make a date. (create the opportunity to hang out, have fun, and hook up).

Now here's how she falls in love:

As time goes by, and assuming you're doing everything right, the girl will start getting strong feelings for you.

And when she starts convincing herself she is "falling" for you, that's when she starts asking you things like "so... what are we?" (Relationship label type questions)

But that's something that happens when you aren't needy, clingy, or pushy about getting together.

It's something the woman takes care of.
Because you see, "feminine energy" is all about emotional bonding, and wanting to lock you down as her boyfriend.

This is the "feminine" department.

On the flip side, you have to take care of the masculine department.

How? By making plans, setting dates, creating opportunities to hang out, have fun, and hook up.

Sound good?

Awesome.

Now heres a video that reveals how to break the friend zone with a girl for good.

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it's probably because you're doing specific behaviors that are making her think of you
ONLY AS A FRIEND.

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