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ISSUE 2
THE DOWNLOW ON ALCOHOLWhat exactly is it and how can it affect you?
K’LEE MCNABBThe Mai FM host asks ‘why not’?
¡HOLA!Meet a young Kiwi working as an Au Pair in Spain
GIRL IN STILETTOS Heyday catches up with singer songwriter, Annah Mac
OUTWARD BOUND The rewards of stepping outside of your comfort zone!
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EDITORIAL
Amanda Watson
Hi guys and girls!
What are you passionate about? Got a dream but not sure how to make it a reality? AMP are offering several
scholarships to help you to ‘do your thing’. The only catch is that applications close at the end of August, so get in
quick!!! Check out our Spotted section or visit www.doyourthing.co.nz for more info.
Over the past two months I have been lucky enough to interview some really inspiring people, including President
of UN Youth NZ, Elizabeth Chan (pg.6) and Wheelchair Basketballer, Maioro Barton (pg.28)
Also in this issue, we catch up with Marcus Powell from ‘All My Brothers’, give you an insight into getting your
driver licence, find out what it takes to become a Karate Instructor, get a first-hand account from a young Kiwi
working in Spain + heaps more!
If you’re keen to contribute to the next issue of Heyday send us an email, we’d love to hear your ideas:
Until the next issue,
Amanda.
Editor
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Front Cover Photo: Rachel Soh
Magazine Design: Daniel Huynh
WANNABE20. FILM EDITOR
Karl Stanley
ROAMING REPORT30. MELANIE VAUTIER
Spanish Adventure
EXPERIENCE36 OUTWARD BOUND
how the ‘hellish’ experience changed
Courtney Deed for the better
38. DUKE OF EDINBURGH
the coveted award explained!
PROMO40. YOUNG PEOPLE’S REFERENCE GROUP
Provides insight and youth perspective to
issues facing children and young people
in Aotearoa.
MORGYN SAYS42. MORGYN HARTDEGEN FROM THE ZM SEALED SECTION ANSWERS YOUR QUESTIONS
SPOTTED44. A COLLECTION OF COOK WEB LINKS FOR YOU TO CHECK OUT TODAY!
GOOD SPORT28 MAIORO BARTON
The Wheelchair Basketball star on why
he dwells on the possibility and not the
disability!
FOOD FANATIC43. THE KIWI FAVOURITE - SPAG BOL
IN THIS ISSUE
MUSIC / ENTERTAINMENT14. ALL MY BROTHERS
Marcus Powell on the message behind the music…
8. SIX60
A Q/A with sheep shearer turned drummer,
Eli Paewai
22. ERIN SIMPSON
What have Erin Simpson and the team
been up to this month?
18. K’LEE MCNABB
The Mai Morning host on asking: ‘Why Not’?
TOPICAL10. THE UNOFFICIAL ROAD CODE
A lighthearted look at getting your licence!
12. THE DOWNLOW ON DRINKING
What is alcohol and how can it affect you?
INSPIRE6. ELIZABETH CHAN
Meet the inspirational President of UN
Youth NZ!
24. DIVYA DHAR
She’s on a mission to make the world a
better place…
ARTSY32. SIMON WARDS
Check out his iconic kiwi art – it looks good
enough to eat!
34. SHYLA ROSE
What is takes to be a talented Seamstress.
CONTENTS
16. BAILEY LOVETT
The Award-Winning Scientist and
Underwater Hockey player from Bluff
26. ANNAH MAC
Heyday catches up with the
successful singer songwriter
21. KARATE INSTRUCTOR
Cullum Razak
4. KIMBERLEY CROSSMAN
The successful actress on the
importance of believing in yourself
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KIMBERLEY CROSSMAN
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FILMOGRAPHY
Who influenced you in the direction
you’ve taken with your career?
I think the strongest influence would have
to be the Shortland Street team (cast and
crew) they offered me a great learning
environment from day one and really helped
me develop a true passion for what I do.
How influential was the support of
your family?
My family are my world. Their support
means everything - without them, what I
want to do wouldn’t mean anything. They
support me 100% and want me to achieve
my greatest dreams. It is their support that
makes me believe the sky is the limit.
What do you think are some of the
struggles young people face growing up
in NZ?
I guess the “it’s not cool to try hard”
attitude can be very detrimental to an
individual. I have always surrounded myself
with passionate and driven people. I think it
is so important to have the confidence and
belief that you can be whatever you want
to be. Growing up is hard - you are finding
out who you are and you’re changing.
What are some of the struggles you have
faced getting to where you are today?
How did you overcome them?
I always find this a tough question. Being
an actress is hard, but no one wants
to hear about that side of it - it ruins
the illusion. I have a great job and any
obstacles I have faced; I think everyone
faces at some point in one way or another.
It’s a cut throat industry and if you are
not careful you can let it get the best of
you. Everyday you are putting yourself out
there in a very vulnerable way. I personally
have probably had the most issues with
myself being my biggest critic - I want to
be the very best ME, I can be, and I put
a lot of pressure on myself - in a healthy
way - I don’t want to wait around and see
if things happen, I want to work my butt
off and create as many opportunities for
myself as possible and meet with as many
exceptional and creative people I can along
the way and have fun in the process. My
advice, whether you want to be an actress
or anything for that matter - work hard,
be passionate, don’t give up, believe in
yourself 100% and enjoy every day!
What advice would you give a young person
wanting to get into your line of work?
The best advice - surround yourself with
good people!
What has been your career highlight
so far?
Another tough question! I think it’s a tie
for two - being nominated for a People’s
Choice award in 2010 and filming a show
for Nickelodeon in LA last year for the Kid’s
Choice Awards.
If you go out partying, what are some of
the things you do to make sure you and
your friends stay safe?
I usually will only go out with a group of
friends. If there are boys with us, they take
care of us and make sure we are always
safe. I always carry my phone on me at all
times and make sure everyone in the group
stays with someone at all times - even to
go to the bathroom. And don’t take other
peoples’ drinks or put your drink down!
What were some myths you believed
in when you were young (in relation to
alcohol and drugs), and did they influence
your decision making?
Not a myth but, I saw a video at school in
Health that showed the effects of drugs
and a story about one boy who took E and
never snapped out of it - and it freaked me
out! I think it’s important to show these
things, educate and let people make their
own decisions.
I know for me - I have so much going on
in my life right now that requires me to be
focused and performing at my very best all
the time. It’s my decision right now to make
choices that will only help me, not slow
me down.
2010
Nickolodean Kids’ Choice Awards 2010
As herself
2011
MTV Movie Awards (TV Special)
As herself
2011
Talent: The Casting Call
As Aspen Carlson
2012
Power Rangers Samurai
As Lauren
2007 - 2012
Shortland Street (TV Series)
As Sophie Mckay
The best advice - surround yourself with good people!
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UN YOUTH
PRESIDENT
UN YOUTH
PRESIDENT
Get lots of experiences. Find a passion and stay committed to it. Focus on your dreams.
That’s sound advice from a young woman who is grabbing
every opportunity that comes her way.
22 year-old, Elizabeth Chan is the National President of
UN Youth New Zealand, a Supreme Court Judge’s Clerk, a
Volunteer Support Worker for the Refugee Services, a Young
New Zealander of the Year finalist and a pretty good ballet
dancer too!
Originally from Hong Kong, Elizabeth moved to New Zealand
when she was 6 and grew up in West Auckland.
It was in 2005 that Elizabeth was given an opportunity which
has shaped the past few years of her life.
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“My school sent me on Model UN — it’s basically where students
come together and role-play as diplomats in a pretend committee
of the United Nations. We learnt about international crises,
advocated for our countries’ positions on these issues and through
negotiation, developed solutions to global problems. It sounds
geeky, but it was so much fun!”
Now, seven years later Elizabeth is serving her third term on the UN
Youth National Executive as the organisation’s National President.
Elizabeth also represented New Zealand at the UNESCO Youth
Forum in Paris at the end of 2011.
“UNESCO is such a fantastic organisation to be involved in. It
means a lot to us to see delegates enjoying themselves at the
conferences that we run, and for many delegates, it is the first
time they’ve had to learn to advocate a position, accept criticism
and try to persuade others. There are about 80 active officeholders
all over the country and we have an incredible bond — many
of us stay involved for several years. Being National President
is a challenging role. On a personal level I’ve learnt to listen to
criticism with an open mind and to develop a genuine willingness
to change myself. On an organisational level, there is the challenge
of keeping volunteers motivated every day, all year round as our
activities are on-going, and making sure that our young volunteers
(high school and university students) are properly trained for the
projects that they take on.”
Recently my work in UN Youth has involved advising UN Youth’s
regional councils, national event committees and international
programmes; ensuring an effective sponsorship strategy for
the entire organisation; organising training for officeholders and
managing our relationships with external organisations. It’s a
wonderfully fulfilling role!”
In addition to her commitments to UN Youth, Elizabeth has
completed a conjoint degree in Law and Arts, majoring in French
and Political Studies at The University of Auckland. She is currently
writing her Law Honours dissertation.
During university, Elizabeth was lucky enough to be given several
opportunities to travel abroad.
Get lots of experiences. Find a passion and stay committed to it. Focus on your dreams.
“During my time as a student I took up a research scholarship
at the Australian National University College of Law, attended
two Undergraduate Summer School programmes at the National
University of Singapore and University College Dublin, and even
went on exchange to Lyon where I studied French.”
Elizabeth has also summer clerked at Crown Law for 6 weeks.
With that complete, she has now embarked on a 2 year contract
as a Judge’s Clerk in the Supreme Court
in Wellington.
“It’s always been my goal to get experience as a Judge’s Clerk,
so I’m incredibly fortunate to have been given that opportunity,
it’s going to be really inspiring to learn from some of the greatest
minds in the legal world.“
Elizabeth is also a Volunteer Support Worker for Refugee Services,
helping her refugee families to find furniture for their homes,
setting up power and electricity, helping with enrolment in
school and university programmes, and supporting them in their
settlement in New Zealand.
“It’s such an honour being able to give a family support when
they first arrive in NZ. Our formal placements are six months
long but I’ve built a lasting relationship with my refugee families.
It is wonderful to see them flourish in New Zealand, and I feel
really inspired by their courage and optimism. In many ways they
have welcomed me into their fold and introduced me to cultural
communities in New Zealand I didn’t previously know existed.
Volunteering has really helped shape the way I see the world – I
think it’s really important to take on opportunities where I learn
about other cultures and people.”
So what does someone so busy do in her spare time? As it turns
out Elizabeth is a natural performer.
“I love speech and drama (which she also holds qualifications
in!), and I have grown up doing ballet, so I have continued to take
advanced classes on a weekly basis.”
After her placement at the Supreme Court, Elizabeth is
considering doing postgraduate study in law in either the United
Kingdom or the United States
“I’ll definitely come back to New Zealand and contribute here —
perhaps as a diplomat for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Trade!”
“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” - Albert Einstein
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SIX60.CO.N
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latest so
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Don’t be the guy that everyone laughs at...
On October 10th 2011, Six60 released their self-titled debut
album which went to NO. 1 on the charts and was certified gold
in its first week… Heyday caught up with drummer Eli Paewai.
What made you choose your career path?
I was really crap at shearing sheep!
How influential was / is the support of your friends
and family?.
Our family and friends have been massive for us, there’s been
so many times along the way where we’ve needed help with
something or a place to stay and they’ve been there for us right
from the start.
What are some of the struggles you have faced getting to
where you are today?
There have been a lot of times where we’ve been at each other’s
throats along the way, and the transition from an amateur band to
a proper band threw a lot of challenges our way.
How did you overcome them?
We just had to stick together; if you do that then you’re able figure
out any obstacles that get thrown at you.
Do you have any advice for young people wanting to get into
your line of work?
Don’t expect it to be easy, and work your arse off!
SIX
What has been your career highlight so far?
If you were at Homegrown, that was epic.
If you go out socializing, what are some of the things you do
to make sure you and your mates stay safe?
Stick together, and have a good time, If you’re not in a good mood,
then don’t go out, nobody like a buzz kill!
What impact do you think drinking underage and/or taking
drugs has on youth?
No matter how invincible you think we are when you’re that
young, they’ll get the better you at some stage.
Growing up, what lessons did you take on board about
drinking and drug use?
Don’t be that guy that everyone laughs at because they can’t
handle their booze….be the guy that gets all the girls!
Any other words of wisdom to share?
Put a smile on your dial!
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When you’re 15, three things matter, and I mean REALLY matter:
1. Getting the guy/ girl you’ve had a secret (or not so secret) crush
on to actually acknowledge that you exist
2. Ensuring you have the latest and greatest gadgets – (think
‘Apple’ anything)
3. Having a nifty card known as a ‘licence’ which will no doubt be
your golden ticket to the glorious highway of independence – just
think, mum won’t have to drop you at the bus stop in her fluffy
pink pajamas any longer!!!
For many of you reading this, that last one will more than
compensate for any lack of kudos in the relationship or gadget
department… especially when you get the keys to your older
siblings hand-me down Toyota Starlet…
But before we get too carried away; there’s a few things you need
to do.
Firstly you must practice your ‘queen wave’, essential for the
warmer months when you can wind down the manual windows
and greet all people out for their Sunday stroll. You must also
ensure your seat is slightly lower and further away from the
steering wheel than is practical (sit on a cushion if need be). It is
also mandatory to hang something from your rear vision mirror,
stay away from anything resembling a disco ball, as this can
be distracting.
Once you’ve successfully sorted out the above you will be road-
worthy… Oh wait reverse reverse, you haven’t actually got your
licence yet have you…
To get this you’ll need to read ‘The Official NZ Road Code’ which
is now available for FREE online - geez they make it easy for you
these days! Read it while you wait in line at the dairy, or when
you’re walking on the treadmill (beware of motion sickness),
basically read it and read it again until you understand it as well as
you understand how to play Farmville on Facebook.
Once you’re sure how thick the tread must be on your tyres and
you have mastered the three-second rule, you’re ready to take
the test!
The computerized test is made up of 35 questions, 25 questions
about road rules and road hazards, and 10 questions about safety
practices.
To pass the theory test you need to get at least 32 questions right
out of 35.
Assuming you have passed this first hurdle, give yourself a pat on
the back – you have made one small but significant step towards
becoming a safe road user!
Now it’s time for you to navigate the world of Dad teaching you
how to parallel park, and do a hill-start (both of which are likely to
end in tears and result in the inevitable ‘professional driving lesson
birthday present’ – probably best for everyone).
I won’t go into any gory details about the next phase of your
driving life as you work towards your restricted licence (cue
learning the reality of petrol prices – hey, freedom does come at
a cost!).
For now just bask in the glory of having your learner licence…
even if the photo on it makes you look like a cross between a
criminal and a possum stuck in headlights.
At least you’ll have your ‘queen wave’ down to a tee when you
finally hit the road.
Disclaimer: For the official license and study guide
click here
Good luck and drive safe!!!
UNOFFICIAL ROAD CODE
THE
“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” - Anne Frank
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Topical
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To learn about recent
changes to driver
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What exactly is alcohol?
Alcohol, technically speaking, is a chemical compound, formula
= C2H5OH. Most of the family of alcohols are totally poisonous
to the human body, but the kind we drink, called ethyl alcohol, is
tolerable in small amounts.
Where does it come from? Alcohol comes from fruit and
vegetables that are fermented (left to rot) with sugar, water
and yeast. Over time, this unattractive mixture produces carbon
dioxide (the bubbles) and alcohol.
When it reaches critical mass (the strongest it can get) at 15%
alcohol, the alcohol starts to kill off the yeast. This means that any
drink with a higher percent has had extra alcohol added, usually
through distillation.
How does alcohol work? Alcohol isn’t like a food. Your body
knows this and treats it differently. Food gets broken down before
it reaches your bloodstream; very little alcohol does. An enzyme in
your stomach called alcohol dehydrogenase starts the process. So
minutes after you have downed a drink, your blood is sending the
alcohol to every part of your body. As it travels, the alcohol slows
down the work of your body’s cells, especially in the brain. You can
feel this happening. One of the places it travels to is your liver. It’s
the one place where your body can change the alcohol. Your liver
uses enzymes to break it down into H2O (water) and CO2 (carbon
dioxide). Your liver works hard but slowly, it takes one to two hours
to break down one drink. So if you drink faster than your liver can
cope, the alcohol hangs about and messes with your brain.
Remember drinking alcohol is your choice, and if you don’t want
to drink no one can make you. If you do decide to drink, you can
choose to make it a good experience or a bad one. Sometimes, less
is more. Have a few, feel good, but not out of control. Listen to your
body and think about your own limit - and tomorrow morning!
What you can do?
If you are under 18 and are with your parent or legal guardian
you can: drink responsibly in a private home or at a private
function like a family BBQ or 21st, go into supervised area of bars
and pubs (that’s most bars - but to be sure - check the licence).
What you can’t do?
If you are under 18 and without your parent or guardian you
can’t: drink in a public place
go into pubs and bar, buy booze or get an adult to buy you booze,
carry a fake ID or use someone else’s.
Drinking alcohol and driving is dangerous because drinking alcohol
slows your reflexes down, causing you to react more slowly than
you normally would. Obviously the best thing for you, your mates,
family and strangers is that you don’t drink at all if you’re going to
drive. Taking turns to be the designated sober driver is a good way
of keeping everyone safe. Otherwise, pooling some cash amongst
your friends and putting this aside when you go out partying can
mean that a cab ride home is affordable.
The amount of alcohol you can drink before you are over the limit
depends on many things - your age, weight, body size, gender,
what you’ve had to eat that day and whether you are tired or have
taken any medicine that might increase the effect of the alcohol
e.g. a petite female teenager who has played a couple of gruelling
hockey games, may be over the limit after one glass of wine.
DOWNLOW ON DRINKING
THE DEETS UNDER 18?
IF YOU DRINK AND DRIVE...
THE
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The legal drink drive limit for drivers under the age of 20 has
changed from 0.03 Blood Alcohol Concentration (or BAC) to
zero. This is part of a government strategy to make the roads
safer, as young people are at high risk of death or serious injury
from road crashes in New Zealand – and for a significant portion
of these, drink driving is a factor.
If you have to go through the alcohol-testing process and are
found to have a blood alcohol concentration level of between
zero and 0.03 (the old legal limit prior to the zero tolerance law
being introduced), you will receive an infringement notice. This
will be for an infringement fee of $200 and 50 demerit points.
If you receive 100 or more demerit points within a two year
period, you will have your driver’s licence suspended for
three months.
*Note: BAC 0.03 is the same as 30mg alcohol per 100 ml blood
or 150 mcg alcohol per litre breath.
If your test comes in at over 0.03 and you are under the age
of 20, you will have to go to court. If you are found guilty you
can be fined up to $2,250 or face imprisonment for up to three
months; In addition you will be disqualified from driving for three
months or more.
If you come in at over 0.08 you will have to go to court. If you
are found guilty by the court the penalties are increased to a
fine of up to $4,500 or imprisonment for up to three months. In
addition you will be disqualified from driving for six months
or more.
*Note: BAC 0.08 is the same as 80 mg alcohol per 100 ml blood
or 400 mcg alcohol per litre breath.
If you repeat-offend at alcohol levels beyond BAC 0.08, you may
be looking at higher penalties!
All pretty sobering stuff!!!
RECENT CHANGES IN LEGISLATION
SADD (STUDENTS AGAINST DRIVING DRUNK)
WORRIED ABOUT YOUR DRINKING OR SOMEONE ELSE’S DRINKING?
What is it? SADD is a peer education programme that has been
in New Zealand for over 20 years. The primary objective of SADD
is to reduce the harm caused on our roads by drink drivers.
The peer education programme is run in secondary schools by
students, and can be incorporated into the school curriculum.
The organisation is open to any student and SADD encourages
participation from across the year levels. To find out more and see
how you can get involved visit: www.sadd.co.nz
Youth health centres are a good place to go for help. If you don’t have
one in your area, talk to an adult you trust, such as your parents, your
doctor, Kaumatua or Kuia, a school counsellor or a youth worker. You
can also contact the Alcohol Drug Helpline on 0800 787 797 or text
‘ADH’ to ‘234’ for confidential information, advice and referrals for
people with questions about their own or someone else’s drinking.
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How and when did ‘All My Brothers’ come about?
I have jammed with the members at different times throughout
my career. When I was asked to get involved with the Zeal Voice
campaign I asked the members if they were keen to do a song
around the teen binge drinking problem. They were all keen to be
part of it and after we jammed a few times we came out with
10 demo’s.
You have a pretty impressive lineup of people involved –
can you just run me through the members and what they
contribute to the band?
I am the guitarist and backup vocalist in the band Blacklistt.
Formerly in Blindspott. Francis is the bassist and one of the vocalists
in the band KORA. Ben Campbell plays the rhodes in the band. He
was in the bands Zed and Atlas and is now in House of Mountain
as is the other guitarist in AMB, Moses Robbins. Emily Giles
performs on the cello and she is in the band Forbidden Joe. Chris
Grant is the drummer from dDub. Dan Antunovich is the bass
player from Autozamm. The song Find A Way also features Adeaze
and Sid Diamond.
You all have quite different musical backgrounds – are you
able to put a ‘sound’ to your work?
Let’s just call it Kiwiana Diversity. I dunno… whatever the “sound”
is, it’s mean!
You’ve recently released your debut single ‘Find a Way’ which
has a very strong message and cause behind it, can you just
explain how it came about, what the message is and why you
felt compelled to back it?
I am big on this campaign which Zeal Voice created to combat
teen binge drinking. I’ve struggled with my personal demons in
the past around this same issue and it’s been tough. Now I’m
in the mentor seat. I run a young artist and band development
programme called the Crescendo Trust of Aotearoa. Some of the
young talent that come through are amongst this problem. I don’t
want to see teens make life changing mistakes because of this.
If we can make a difference and stop this from happening, then I
want to help.
The ‘Find a Way’ tagline is ‘don’t drown your dreams’... is this
something you see happening all too often in NZ?
All too often with the role I am in. I find that the youth don’t
always know what they want to do or be. For some it takes a
long time to discover their true purpose in life or even make
steps to get there. For those that are lost in this void, they can
turn to drinking for an escape. It’s up to us as a community to be
responsible for each other. We are all children of mother earth so
lets start taking care of our brothers and sisters!
Why do you think binge drinking is such a big issue amongst
youth in New Zealand?
There are many reasons to why youth pick up a bottle but there
are very few methods to put it down. I feel like the problem is that
drinking is seen as the celebration rather than the achievements
being celebrated. It’s ok to have a drink or 2 to celebrate the good
that you have done, but the habitual drinking culture that is in the NZ
community is ‘get hammered as fast as you can’. Let’s get involved
with these youngsters lives on a face to face basis and unlock the
layers of problems underneath that leads to drinking.
Ultimately, what do you hope ‘Find a Way’ and the Zeal Voice
campaign will achieve?
Awareness around what exists. I also want to see a trend that
musicians can start which is that it is ok to have a drink or 2 but
not ok to get ripped. You are not in control of your senses when
drunk. You are beautiful and all you need to be without drinking.
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FIND A WAYMarcus Powell
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All My Brothers has donated this song to the cause in the hope
that the money earned will go towards combating this problem.
A scholarship has been setup that you can find more info on
www.zeal.org.nz
Are ‘All My Brothers’ planning any more releases anytime
soon? If yes, what can we expect to hear?
All My Brothers has material that is getting worked on. The songs
go from soul to reggae to drum and bass with a rock element.
They do tie in quite nicely though. A real treat for me and hopefully
the listeners.
On another note you have personally set up ‘The Crescendo Trust of
Aotearoa’ – what’s the story behind that?
I worked as a mentor in the NZ Music Commission mentor
programme as well as teaching music for many years. For me
it has been like the Jack Black movie School of Rock. What I am
drawn to though is seeing the shift in perception that the artists
involved gain from the work. It challenges them not just to be
better artists but to be better people. The program uses music
as a creative pathway to explore themselves and grow. They are
learning how to interact with others in a professional environment
and are accepting guidance from good honest role models.
Communicating in a musician environment such as a band will
give them skills they can use in any given field. It is a honour for
me to be part of this.
What musicians are you currently working with?
I have about 50 young artists per term at the moment from all
different genres. I am currently in 6 high schools in the Auckland
area and work out of three different studios. I have hip hop artists
to metal bands, reggae to gospel. I hope to get enough funding
to expand into more areas of the nation and also employ staff like
myself to work with more young artists.
As a role model what is one piece of advice you give to the
young musicians you work with?
Honesty. When you see an artist that is true to themselves its
inspiring. The courage to be honest is a powerful thing and it
shows in any given field.
You’re a very successful musician and entrepreneur – what
obstacles have you had to overcome to get where you
are today?
Heaps. The majority of my obstacles are ones that I have created
myself, the key has been knowing I have the courage to face
them. These have shaped me and driven me to where I am now.
It sounds like 2012 is shaping up to be a busy year for you –
are there any new projects in the pipeline?
My focus for the remainder of this year is on The Crescendo Trust
of Aotearoa and expanding on what has been built so far. I have a
lot of talented young artists that I want to see succeed and I will
help as much as I can.
Also Blacklistt is looking to release an album this year so I will be
finishing up writing the songs and recording them over the next
few months.
All My Brothers may require a bit more time as the members have
their own bands that are working hard but we have arranged time
to get together in a few months.
If I do another project it would be an acoustic album with
electronic beats of some sort. I’ve been playing with some ideas
but we’ll see…
If you were a biscuit what would you be and why?
Hundreds and Thousands biscuits. I love the many colours.
Person you admire most and why?
Captain Archer off Star Trek: Enterprise. Yeah I’m a trekkie fan…
Because he has some great qualities. He is fair, kind, loyal,
courageous in adversity and is a great leader.
What super power would you like to have for just one day?
I’m a huge fan of Avatar: The Legend of Korra. Give me the Avatar
state for a day. Meanest!
Word that sums you up?
My girlfriend says I’m a gentle giant. Like a teddy bear so maybe
the word I’d choose is “Po”. Like the Kung Fu Panda…
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“If you’re walking down the right path and you’re willing to keep walking, eventually you’ll make progress.” - Barack Obama
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BAILEY LOVETTBAILEY LOVETTBAILEY LOVETTPEARL OF THE SOUTH
With Prime Minister John key
With Prime Minister John keyBailey’s
hobby is
Underwater H
ockeyDoing what she does
best - science!
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Growing up in Bluff, the Pearl of the South, it’s no wonder 19 year old Bailey Lovett has a penchant for the sea.
“When I was growing up my Dad was always building boats so
we took every opportunity we could to get out on the water – I’m
sure that’s what really sparked my interest in marine life.”
By year 12 Bailey had cemented her goal of studying Marine
Biology at University and she asked her Biology teacher if there
was anything she could do that would give her an advantage.
From there she found herself in the midst of a 6 week research
project with Environment Southland.
“People were ringing up saying that were getting sick from
Shellfish so I set about sampling mussels and cockles in the
Riverton area (West of Invercargill), to ascertain the faecal
contamination levels after high rainfall or flooding.”
Despite being told her sampling was unlikely to uncover anything
groundbreaking, she was in for a big surprise.
“Basically we found that the contamination levels went sky high
after heavy rainfall – the samples came back something like 20x
the safe zone, no wonder people were getting sick!”
As a result of her research, Environment Southland extended the
wait period for collecting Shellfish after heavy rainfall from 2 days
to 5 days.
“It’s a pretty cool feeling knowing your work has brought about
change and I definitely wasn’t expecting that!”
Bailey was recognised for her work when she won the NZAS
Southland Science and Technology Fair and was nominated for the
Royal Society Event ‘Realise the Dream 2010’ which she also won.
From this she was awarded the 2010 Prime Minister’s Future
Science Prize, which left her with a cool $50,000 towards her
University Studies.
“I couldn’t believe it – I’m this little girl from Bluff who was been
recognised nationally by the Prime Minister.
The feeling was unreal.”
But the recognition didn’t stop at a national level, she was
selected to go to the 2011 European Young Scientists Competition,
held in Finland where her project won the International Award.
“I swear I was the most unorganised person at the event! I was
in a panic at the last minute when I realised how big the display
size was! My project was tiny in comparison, so I went out and
brought a massive New Zealand flag to make up for it.”
For Bailey, the opportunities seem to keep coming – at the Prime
Ministers Awards she was approached by Sir Don McKinnon.
“He came up to me and asked if I would like to do a work
placement at Auckland museum, I thought he was joking, when I
told my Mum she got a bit overwhelmed too, she said ‘Bailey one
thing at a time, we’ll talk about this when we get home.’”
And it was no joke – in January 2011 Bailey came up to Auckland
for a month where she did everything from sorting fish specimens
and collecting fish samples at Mangawhai Heads to visiting the
Mercury Islands where she painstakingly picked through nets to
find fish larvae until the wee hours of the morning.
“I was totally in my element! Before the trip I had actually enrolled
in Biomedical Science, but that experience made me realize I was
throwing away what I really really wanted to do, so I knew I just
had to switch to Marine Science.”
Bailey is now embarking on her second year of studying at Otago
University towards a Bachelor of Science with a double major in
Zoology and Ecology and a minor in Marine Science.
“To be honest my first year at Uni hasn’t been easy – it was hard
juggling the workload with my overseas Hockey trips.”
Not any old Hockey though - Bailey’s other passion is
Underwater Hockey!
“I started In Year 7 when someone came to teach us at the school
pool and I haven’t really stopped since! In 2011 I was picked to
be Captain of the Under 19’s team and we travelled to the world
champs in the Netherlands for three weeks where we
won Gold!!!”
In the coming years Bailey hopes to continue with her Underwater
Hockey success, gain her Masters in Marine Science and travel overseas
to gain experience in foreign waters.Doing what she does
best - science!
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How did you decide you wanted to be a Pop Singer?
It wasn’t a decision where I said ‘I’m going to be a Pop star’. I
pretty much fell onto the right path through Kapahaka, choirs, then
auditioning for school shows. While performing in a school show
word of mouth got out and a rep from a record company came to
watch me. That very weekend I saw an ad to audition for a singing
group and thought ‘Why Not’? I auditioned and got into the group.
We recorded a few demo tracks to shop to record companies and
they ended up offering me a solo contract.
You released your first single ‘Broken Wings’ at aged 16 which
went to #2 on the NZ charts – that must have been such a
cool feeling , especially while still
at school…
I remember walking home from school and an aunty was picking
her daughter up, the song came on the radio and she was
screaming at me ‘Your songs on the radio bub, listen it’s you’!
Everyone stopped and looked at me like it was a lie!
Why did you decide to only put the one album out?
I was quite naïve about the music industry as a kid I ‘Just wanted
to sing’ I found out the reality of the music industry and the
amount of people who were trying to cash in along the ride.
I started not to trust a lot of people and went into hiding, till I
decided that I wanted to try different avenues.
Advice for people wanting a career in the music industry?
‘Know your S#@*!’ be trusting, but have faith in yourself,
compromise and work with people, but always consult a confidant
who you can trust for advice.
You did a stint in America – can you tell me
about that…
I was going back and forth from America, recording and
establishing contacts. After a few months of that I just thought ‘it’s
costing me so much money to do this, why not just move over?’
(my partner at the time was American). I was able to hook up
with a few promoters and do performances. It was an interesting
7 years living in Los Angeles - I went through a lot of personal
growth as well as artist growth too.
How did you make the transition from popstar to radio DJ?
The whole ‘Why Not’ saying has pretty much been my motto to
life - I approach everything with it. I really can’t say ‘No’ if I haven’t
tried it, and I don’t think many opportunities knock twice, so try it,
but try it well – 100% well! Make the most of it.
I went up to the Programme Director of FLAVA at the time (James
Daniels) and asked him for a job! He put me on promo’s and
made me do a promotional cross for ‘Burger King’ - man I must
of sounded like a race car - I talked so fast, no one understood
what I was saying! Lucky JD loved my energy and confidence
because he asked me to do some on air stuff; I ended up being
the Nightshift host for 2 years.
How did you end up in your current job at Mai FM?
After 2 years at Flava, I decided to move to Los Angeles. While
over there, Nickson approached me and told me there was a
position on Mai’s breakfast show, I applied and here I am now!
Highlight of being a radio DJ?
I love it – Nickson & Wairangi are exciting to work with. No day is
ever the same, every moment is funny and entertaining so there is
a fat chance I’ll get bored. We do so many stunts and crazy things
- this whole year and a half has been the highlight!
What’s a typical day at the office?
I’m up around 4am; I try to get to the studio as early as possible
to get all the weather prep out of the way, so that all we do when
we all arrive in the studio around 5am is focus on what we do for
our Mai Morning show. People think we just rock up and switch on
AN INTERVIEW WITH K’LEE MCNABB, MAI FM
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the mics and start talking but that’s not the case, we’re constantly
on the lookout for entertaining topics, people, products, random
pieces of information and stunts. Our day never stops – not to
mention all the other extracurricular activities/projects we each
have individually.
Most memorable person you have interviewed on air?
Stan Walker and the boys rigged a box with a little powder from
the fireworks (totally dangerous) but the wicks weren’t attached
to the powder, it was meant to be for show, at least that’s what
they told me! Stan lit the wicks on the ‘Blackbox’ and the wick
burnt out, to all our surprise the wick still got hot and lit, dropped
into the box and lit the small amount of powder and went ‘Bang’,
dropped on the floor and burnt the carpet! Bloody dangerous and
we’ve never tried anything like that again, but so funny!
Struggles you have faced getting to where you are today?
I don’t think I have enough paper to tell you about my struggles! I
could write a movie, a series of books on being a pop star, living in
Compton and Watts in Los Angeles, being a solo parent and trying
to start my life all over again. Physical and verbal abuse, eating
disorders, being shot at and held captive - you name it, I’ve been
through it. The one thing I’ve learnt is A) I can’t change any of it
and there is no point dwelling on it, it’s like radio, once you’ve said
it – you can’t take it back! B) I’m one strong Wahine because of
it and more sure of who I am as a person, female and way more
confident with myself as an artist! C) Life is far too short to hold
back on where you want to go; only you can get you there!
Hobbies outside of work?
I still play heaps of sports and am still recording – I appreciate
family time way more now after not having any for 7 years while I
was in Los Angeles, so we try to have fun every time we
get together.
Future plans?
I want to go back to school (I never finished High school), record
more music, travel more, and try to take over the world all before I
get way too old to enjoy it!!!
NicksonWairangi
K’Lee
MAI MORNINGSMAI MORNINGSCREWCREW
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EDITORFILM
How I decided I wanted to be an Editor:
Since my early high school years I always
wanted to be involved with film making. I
used to use the media studies departments
handi-cams and editing computers to make
action films with my mates. I never really
knew what area of film making I was into
specifically, I just did it for fun. After high
school I decided I wanted to pursue a
career in film or television and applied for
the New Zealand Broadcasting School. It
wasn’t until I had been through the course
that I realised editing was my strength.
The path I took to get there:
A career in the film industry had always
seemed like an unrealistic dream, but I think
recent developments in communication
technology, particularly online video has
definitely created a lot of jobs in the
industry, especially editing. So I think my
timing was right. As part of my degree at
The New Zealand Broadcasting School in
Christchurch, I completed an internship
as an editor at Borderless Productions,
fortunately Borderless decided to employ
me at the end of it. The NZBS was fantastic
in preparing me for the film industry. The
skills and work ethic I was taught has held
me in good stead to this day, and I would
strongly recommend it to anyone seeking a
career in film or television.
Favourite part / highlight of my job:
Editing is all about story-telling, and that is what I love about it. At
Borderless, being a social change agency, I get to work on a lot
of great projects with fantastic stories. There is something really
satisfying about being able to take 10 hours worth of footage and
turn it into a 5 minute clip that can make someone cry, or laugh,
or think differently about something. Film making is a powerful
medium, and it is that end product that makes it all worth it.
Advice for young people wanting a career as an Editor:
I know it’s a cliché, but it’s all about passion. People in the film
industry seem to be able to sense passion, so if you have it in
you, and its real and it drives you, people will see that and they’ll
appreciate it. Just like any industry there is a lot to learn, but there
are people out there who are willing to teach. Also, just practice.
The thing about film making is that you can’t do it alone, and it’s
not easy to get hold of equipment, but there are always ways
to work around it. Start small on whatever camera and editing
software you can find and rope in a bunch of your mates to help
you out. Stick at it, and eventually doors will open up and you will
find yourself advancing.
WANNA
BEName: Karl Stanley
Age: 21
Occupation: Editor at
Borderless
If you are interested in
becoming a a Film Editor
there are a number of
tertiary institutes that
have great courses:
CPIT
Filmschool
Natcoll
Media Design School
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KARATEINSTRUCTOR
How I decided I wanted to be a Karate Instructor:
I knew mainstream study or University wasn’t for me. I needed
a position where I could be educated on the job. I thrived off my
traineeship where I was learning Karate and growing as a leader
in the community. I realised how passionate I was about training
people mentally and physically through exercise. I believe Martial
Arts have an edge over common gym training. I love developing
people’s self-belief and confidence while giving them a great
overall body workout.
The Path I took to get there:
You may have heard people say “success lies in the opposite
direction of the normal flow”. Remember that “success” can be
measured in many different ways. I’m striving to achieve many
goals I have set and what I’ve realised is I’ve had to break away
from the mainstream path of ‘finish school, go to university, get a
degree then find work!’
I went to University and realised it wasn’t for me. I was fortunate
enough to travel for a bit and in that time I was exposed to many
awesome people that had exciting careers. This helped me decide
not to settle for the mainstream timeline. I knew I wanted to be a
part of a fast paced, growth focussed sport
related industry. That’s when the “law of
attraction” brought to my traineeship at
GKR Karate.
Favourite Part of My Job:
Karate is fitness with a purpose. I’m
fascinated with training my body as a
weapon for Self Defence. GKR Karate is full
of positive people and we inspire people to
believe in themselves and achieve things
they may have only dreamed of. Being able
to share this and develop people mentally
and physically to overcome their personal
challenges is very rewarding.
Advice for people wanting to get into
the same line of work:
The fitness industry is growing fast.
Everyone wants better health, better
bodies and to feel good about themselves.
There are many training styles and gyms
out there. I recommend you get yourself
educated either through University, books,
personal experience or a mentor. It’s
important you study people and how they
are motivated, what they do and don’t want
and how you can better their lives
through exercise.
Too many people are conditioned to think
that dreams should only happen when
you’re sleeping. Screw that – Dream big,
set goals, have a positive attitude and
believe in yourself. Don’t give up after the
first, second or even third setback. Life
will always throw you curve balls, these
are tests to help sculpt your character and
define who you are as a person.
Name: Callum Razak
Age: 24
Occupation: Regional
Instructor at GKR Karate
WANNA
BE
If you are interested in
Karate, check out the
GKR website here.
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It’s been a really busy year for us here on
the show. In June we held our very own DIY
makeover on the fringes of Christchurch’s red
zone with a little help from some friends. Our
‘Four Corners Project’ saw an empty section
turned into a fantastic entertainment space
complete with basketball court, music stage
and fashion catwalk for the community
to enjoy.
On August 3rd we held our first ever
fashion catwalk show in the studio to
find the winner of our Next Fashion Icon
competition. Thirteen year-old Sam Mitchell
from Lower Hutt was the winning designer
on the day. For her efforts Sam gets a trip
to Auckland to be a guest at NZ Fashion
Weekend and the chance to attend a
designer selection show.
We’ve got some great guests joining us
on the couch in August – Vince Harder,
J Williams, Brooke Williams (aka Lana)
from Shortland St and Breakers star Tom
Abercrombie to name but a few. We’re also
hosting the 2012 Maggi Intermediate Schools
Kitchen Showdown Final where the three
regional finalists will battle it out for the grand
prize of $5000 for their school.
Field reporter Kimberley Crossman recently
got the opportunity, while in the US, to
catch up with the stars of the new Step
Up 4: Revolution movie and in Auckland
Massad interviewed the boys from
‘The Wanted.’
Everyday Mike continues to cook up a
storm with his delicious easy to make
recipes – check out our website for the
recipes; www.erinsimpsonshow.tv. And
if you have any great ideas for what Mike
should cook, make sure you send them in!
Before we know it, it will be end of year
exam time. Make sure you get a head
start on your study – it always pays to be
prepared! Get lots of sleep, eat well and
take time out for exercise and friends.
Our last show for this year is on Friday 5th
October. We’ll be taking a bit of a break
over summer to recharge the batteries and
start planning an exciting 2013 series.
Keep in touch with us via Facebook, Twitter
or our website – we love hearing from you.
Join Erin Simpson and the team every
weekday 3.30 – 5.00pm on TV2
Don’t know about anyone else but I am kind of excited that winter is almost over – roll on the lazy days of summer…sun, beach and daylight savings.
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She’s a qualified medical Doctor, founder of an organisation dedicated to eradicating poverty; student at Harvard University and a pretty good Salsa dancer too… Meet Divya Dhar, a young Kiwi on a mission to make the world a better place...
Back in New Zealand for her twin
sisters wedding, I meet Divya at her
family home in Auckland.
For 9am the house is abuzz with laughter,
chatter and the smell of breakfast cooking.
She leads me outside to a swing chair, the
yard littered with chairs and large cooking
pots, soaking from a leftover feast - “There’s
been functions every night this week leading
up to the wedding,”she explains with a
tired smile.
Sitting outside on a swing chair she tells
me how her journey began.
“It all started when I was 16 and a teacher
at my school (Pakuranga College) asked
me if I’d like to take part in a speech
competition, this eventually led me to the
United Nations Youth Conference. I met so
many inspiring people there and I just felt
like I wasn’t part of that group – they were
giving so much to life and getting so
much back.”
Divya says that’s when her mindset
changed and she came back and set out on
a journey to find her passion.
The journey took her down many roads,
from becoming Vice President of the
United Nations Youth Association of
NZ to entering medical school in 2005
where she founded Healthex, a research
group bringing together presenters and
participants to showcase their research
on health. In her early University years
she also led the youth rotary club rotaract,
organising a national charity ball.
Amongst all this Divya travelled to Costa
Rica to do her medical elective – that is
where she found what she describes as
her ‘true calling.’
“I met so many wonderful people while
I was there – people who were living
in extreme poverty, with no running
water or electricity. I’m a big believer
in relationships, so once I’d made that
connection with people it became
something personal and I knew that this
was what I wanted to devote my life to.
Thus, in 2009 the p3 Foundation was born,
an organisation with a mission to provide
opportunities for young New Zealanders
to be active participants in eradicating
extreme poverty in the Asia-Pacific region.
“Youth are passionate, creative risk takers
– that’s why I knew the P3 Foundation
had to revolve around young people and
empowering them to make to make
a difference.”
But not everyone was convinced.
“My parents and others were very cynical
of the whole thing, I had to win them over,
and eventually they bought into the dream
– it took two years but now they’re all for
it,” she says wryly.
One really important thing this whole process
has taught me is that first and foremost you
have to believe in yourself and in your dream.
People definitely thought I was a bit crazy,
but I was relentless – I worked incredibly
hard, which I believe is the most important
ingredient. A lot of successful people will
describe themselves as ‘lucky’ but no one is
really lucky; you create your own luck through
working hard!”
It seems Divya’s hard work is paying off,
having just celebrated its second birthday;
the P3 Foundation has already achieved
some very positive things.
“In 2010 we ran a campaign called ‘Pay Fair
Trade Forward’ – participants went into an
Esquires Coffee Shop that sells fair trade
drinks. They then bought a fair trade drink as
a gift for the next person, so when the next
person came in to buy a coffee they were
informed they already have a fair trade one
paid for them. The experiment was a huge
success as customers continued to pay fair
trade forward.”
P3 also run a social enterprise competition
for high school students.
“We give them a broad theme and from
there get them to come up with a project
that fits within that theme – they pitch
their idea and the winning team are given
money to help them put their plan into
action. Last year a group came up with the
idea of delivering a water tank to Tonga –
the ship left last week!!
Being CEO of the P3 Foundation is
only part of Divya’s very full life – she is
currently studying at Harvard University in
the US, where she is doing a conjoint in
public policy.
“The creative process of starting
an organisation has excited me, I’m
really interested in global health
entrepreneurship. I want to use my medical
knowledge and figure out how we can
radically change how we deliver healthcare
to poorer communities – I haven’t got the
answers yet, but I have another 2.5 years
to go!”
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PEACE PROSPERITY PROGRESS
PEACE PROSPERITY PROGRESS
FIND THEM
www.p3foundation.org
DIVYA DHAR
“Bite off more than you can chew, then chew it.” - Ella Williams
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CHECKOUT ANNAH MAC’S
DEBUT ALBUM
“LITTLE STRANGERS”
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GIRL IN STILETTOS
Little Stranger
GIRL IN STILETTOS
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influenced your music?
Growing up in an isolated area made me very focused. We didn’t
have video games, a dairy or any friends within walking distance
so I spent a lot of time keeping my mind busy with song writing.
Do you have any childhood memories of singing /
songwriting?
My parents were very dedicated and took my two younger sisters
and I all around the country and across the ditch to perform in
smoky bars and competitions. We had a great childhood, singing in
the car, checking into dodgy motel rooms in Kings Cross and met
some crazy acquaintances.
You moved to Auckland to pursue your dream when you were
17 – how much of a culture shock was that!?
Pretty shocking, I came back with piercings and tattoos. Family
was not impressed. My label made me take out all the piercings
before shooting the first video clip for ‘Focus’. Family was
impressed. I’m glad they did that too.
Who or what inspires your work?
Famous musicians, people on the street, personal
experience. Everything.
Your debut album ‘Little Stranger’ was 2 years in the making -
the success must have been well worth it…
Yes it definitely was, ‘Girl In Stilettos’ has been a real achievement
for the entire team, we’re very excited!
How did ‘Girl in Stilettos’ come about?
It’s about my musical journey to this point in my life and all the
people I met along the way.
Do you have a favourite song from
the album?
My favorite song on the album is a song
written by my sister Kristin called ‘Silver
Friend’. It’s has an amazing story behind it
and is a really rewarding song to perform live.
What are some of the struggles you
have faced getting to where you are
today? How did you overcome them?
I try to tackle every challenge positively and
am not afraid to let people know how I feel,
this doesn’t always make things easy, but I
think there is some respect in being able to
say what I think. It took me a while to have
the courage to do this.
What has been the highlight of your
career so far?
Having a Platinum single.
Any advice for young people wanting to
pursue a career in the music industry?
Work hard and don’t be afraid to get stuck
in yourself, organize your own gigs and play
live as much as you can. Listen
to everyone.
What’s next for Annah Mac?
Collaborations and new singles!
Was there a defining moment where you knew you wanted to be a singer/songwriter?
I don’t think there was ever a defining moment, it’s always been something I loved to do so I just kept
chipping away. Winning the ‘Play It Strange’ Competition at 15 was a high point, it made me realize I
was good at it and helped me find the courage to perform my songs live.
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There’s one thing I almost forgot to mention about Waikato resident,
Maioro Barton – he uses a wheelchair because his lower limbs are
paralysed, due to Spina bifida, a condition which occurs when the
spine fails to develop completely.
“The motto I live by daily is: ‘Dwell less on the disability and more
on the possibilities,” says Maioro.
But it wasn’t always that easy – at the start of High School he was
bullied for using a wheelchair.
“It was rough for awhile, but as soon as people found out I was
representing NZ in the Under 20 Wheelchair Basketball Team, I
started to gain respect from my peers!”
Maioro’s passion for sport began at a young age when his year 7
teacher noticed he wasn’t involved in any extracurricular activities and
introduced him to wheelchair rugby.
“I loved smashing into my opponents, but because I’m quite light
weight I always seemed to end up on the ground!”
Although he was good at rugby he wasn’t able to advance to
represent NZ because he is a paraplegic, not a quadriplegic, so he
made the move to basketball – and the rest as they say is history!
Now a member of the NZ Men’s basketball team training squad,
Maioro follows a strict training regime of up-to 2 hours a day, 6
days of the week.
He fits this in while working at Sport Waikato as a disabled youth
coordinator which involves getting disabled youth more active and
involved in sports, teaching them the fundamentals of various sports
as well as going into high schools to promote disability awareness.
POSSIBILITIESMaioro Barton
For more information on
Wheelchair Basketball
Waikato check out their
facebook page here
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“There are so many benefits that stem from getting involved in a
sport – apart from living a healthy active lifestyle, you make a lot of new
friends, learn great work ethics, leadership / team work skills. Sports
are beneficial for everybody, not just people living with disabilities.”
Aside from sport, Maioro is part of ‘Unique Extras’, a project
funded by the NZ Government ‘Making a Difference’ fund, which
aims to make disabled people more visible in mainstream media.
“I love the limelight, so this is perfect for me,” says outgoing
Maioro, who recently auditioned for a part on Shortland Street.
“I think raising positive awareness about people with disabilities is a
great way to change negative perceptions”, something he admits is one
of the biggest challenges he faces.
“I find that sometimes people automatically think that because I
am a wheelchair user, that I need help – at times I do, but I’ll ask
for it if I need it!”
Accessibility is another obstacle – “I love going out to events and
nightclubs, but some of Waikato’s bars don’t have wheelchair
access and it’s just too dangerous to get people to lift me up
stairs, as you never know what could cause them to slip and
drop me.
But Maioro refuses to focus on the limitations, a mindset made
easy with the help of his large, incredibly supportive family and
other positive role models.
Qualification - tick, good job - tick, successful sporting career - tick,
budding media star - tick.
What’s next for this self-confessed shopaholic?
“I’m working towards getting my driver licence, so the
independence and freedom that it will bring will be priceless –
apart from that I’m looking forward to all the usual things – buying
a house, getting married, starting a family...I know I can achieve
anything if I really want it!”
Dwell less on the disability and more on
the possibilities!
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ROAMINGROAMINGREPORTREPORT
Name
Melanie Vautier
Occupation
Au Pair
Then, in search of bigger and better things I moved to London,
which is so expensive I had to share my room (taking an hour to
get home from work in central London) with two smelly boys. I
actually liked them very much, and even more so when I moved
out and then shared my room with an Aussie girl who snored like
an approaching train!
The facilities in my home for an interesting three weeks.
During this time at the “Craic Den” I received an email from an
Au Pair company I had once accidentally signed up to with a list
of prospective families. I replied, without thinking too much about
it, and this went on until I had a solid offer from a family who
wanted me to move in with them. They called me one night for a
chat and it was all “what?” “I don’t understand…” “umm… que?”
I disregarded it as a disaster attempt and sent off a confirmation
text to move into a new flat in London, in search of less snoring.
A couple of days later, I received a text from the agency that
the family still really wanted me as their Au Pair. This was very
unexpected, but on a day when I was sick of selling sandwiches to
the miserable London crowds, it felt nice to be wanted, especially
somewhere sunny with siestas and fiestas and the most amazing
ham in the universe. I figured, no worries, I could pick up the gist
of Spanish before arriving. It would be motivating, good for me,
and a new and very different experience. Just a couple of weeks
later I arrived in Spain.
It’s a strange sort of roller coaster, living in a country where the
majority of the time you have no idea what is going on. I have
managed to learn quite a lot of Spanish reasonably quickly, but
when people speak normally (i.e. very very fast) I very rarely
understand anything. For example just yesterday I went to
buy a new mobile phone - I had earlier gone into the shop, not
understood a word, and taken a magazine home to research the
phones in English. Eventually I picked one and went to buy it,
taking the magazine for ease of pointing and nodding, and they
didn’t have it in stock. The woman said plenty of helpful things I
didn’t understand and I continued to nod and said I would look
on the internet. I don’t even understand the Spanish Vodafone
website. And I still need a new phone.
In an attempt at a bit of fundraising for myself and shopping
needs, I have advertised myself as an English teacher. In twenty
minutes I have my first lesson with a girl who speaks pretty much
zero English, and needs to have an intermediate level before
September. I have tried looking up lesson plans, but I keep getting
distracted and researching camel treks in Morocco.
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I think when you move overseas, you have mostly the same
emotions as you do back home. Your level of happiness is probably
about the same. You still have problems, with money, boys, work,
all the usual things- but, you’re on the other side of the world. You
spend a weekend living on a boat in Barcelona. You go skiing in
Austria. You have croissants in France, picnics in Hyde Park; you
see the Lion King show in London. Even on days where you don’t
do anything, you know you are somewhere perhaps you never
thought you could be, in a period of your life you will never forget
and always look back on, wistfully thinking “those were the days;”
rather than, as many, many people are, thinking “yes, one day
definitely I can do it,” as life passes by. Yes, it’s scary, and that’s
exactly why you should do it.
Stop thinking, stop planning, stop saying you will do it and go right
now to the travel agency and book a flight. See you in Morroco!!!
You can read my travel blog here
http://melanienz.blogspot.com/
Or watch my highlights packages at
http://www.youtube.com/user/melanievnz/feed
Practice your leaping.. you can try to pretend you’re not a tourist but you will not be able to resist the jumping shots… have fun !!!
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“Welcome to the Grey Lynn Ghetto” says Simon as I step into his
humble outdoor art studio.
Yes - It is basic, but it has everything this talented glass artist
needs to create his masterpieces.
Lining the shelves are multicoloured powerpoles – his signature piece.
“I have this strange obsession with powerpoles, I think it just
conjures up such positive memories from going out to the country
on road trips when I was a child”.
And he insists he’s not the only one.
“I’ve sold these powerpoles all around the world – there’s actually
clubs devoted to the obsession of powerpoles!”
Simon fell into glass art after leaving school.
“I didn’t do so well at school, but was lucky that when I left, my
friends father, who was a pioneer glass artist in NZ took me on, so
I learnt the basics that way.”
After working there for a year Simon decided to go and explore the
world, when he came back he worked in hands-on occupations
like drain-laying and plumbing.
“It was good for awhile, but I wasn’t passionate about it, you
know? I needed to find what I loved again”.
Simon’s opportunity to do that came when his friend, Luke
returned from the US – he has been over there practicing glass art.
Simon was out of work at the time and helped Luke to build
a furnace, in turn Luke and his girlfriend Kate taught Simon
everything they had learnt.
“Kate was the one who taught me how to make the powerpoles
and I’ve been doing them ever since”.
Through Luke, Simon was able to get his ‘ins’ with galleries around
New Zealand and his work is now in about a dozen of them.
Although he’s been successful, it’s still a hard road.
“When there’s a recession on, art is one of the first things to go –
the powerpoles sell for between $950-$1200 so people just can’t
justify that kind of spending sometimes.”
To make life a bit easier Simon has created a lower-end range
called ‘glass candy’ – namely the iconic jet aeroplanes that all
kiwis love.
I watch as he sprays silicon on his creations – they looked good
enough to eat, and apparently I’m not the first to think that.
“Some galleries have set them out in a bowl on their counter,
there’s been a few people left red faced when they go to take one
and realize they are glass!”
It’s not hard to see how much Simon enjoys his work, but he
explains life hasn’t always been so simple.
“I had a tough upbringing and was in and out of boy’s homes, I
never really felt I had a sense of direction until I put my all into my
art and I think there’s heaps of young people out there who are a
bit lost and just need to find what it is that makes them happy.”
Simon’s hoping to combine his glass art skills with helping young
people.
“If I can give them an avenue, it might just stop some of them
going down the same roads I did – kids have such awesome
imaginations, they’re so unrestricted so it’d be cool to see what
they could create.
For the time being though, Simon has his sights set on cracking
the overseas market.
“My girlfriend is French and we’re heading over to France for a
couple of months, so I’ll definitely see if I can sell some of my
work over there, and then you never know, as long as I have a
creative space and some tools of the trade I could work
from anywhere!”
SIMON WARDS
GLASS CANDY
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20 year old Shyla Rose Kelly is in her words a ‘Seamstress’.
“Fashion designer sounds a bit pretentious and glamorous – what
I love doing is making clothes”.
And she’s known for a long time that this is what she wanted to do.
“Ever since I was little I would be cutting up my clothes and
sewing (or safety pinning in the early days) bits on to make them
more interesting - I remember this one morning when I was about
eleven, I was freaking out because I didn’t have anything to wear
to a ballroom dancing lesson (the highlight of my week at the
time). So I ransacked my cupboards and found this black top I’d
had for years, grabbed my scissors and cut the collar off it, then
wonkily hand-stitched the word “HI!” in fire-engine red on the
front. I think I may have scared off a few potential dance partners
with my in-your-face fashion statement, but hey, I felt fabulous!”
Shyla, who was homeschooled, began taking sewing lessons
when she was 13.
“One of my first garments was a velvet skirt, which has been
relegated to the dress ups box – I could hardly sew in a straight line”!
Luckily she’s come a long way since then, enrolling in the diploma
in Patternmaking and Advanced Dressmaking at the NZ Academy
of Fashion, starting when she was 16.
Once she had completed the diploma she got a job sewing and
patternmaking for two tailoring and design companies to pay the rent.
“My passion is making one-off garments like ball dresses, creating
wearable art and designing capsule collections for the pure fun of
it – I absolutely love couture design and dressmaking”.
So far Shyla has had her work showcased in the Warkworth-
Wellsford Wearable Arts Show, at the Massey University Charity
Fashion Show, at the prestigious Fantasia lingerie show and more.
“I think the thing I love about creating one-off garments is that
you get to work one on one with people to design and make
something that shows their personality, it’s got so much more
meaning than just everyday street-wear.”
Although Shyla is just starting out she has big plan for the next
few years.
“My dream would be to be employing people to work for me and
I’d love to travel around the world, particularly to France to source
fabrics and get some inspiration for my work, but for now I’m just
focusing on getting my name out there”!
SEAMSTRESS
X X X
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Experience
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When asked how my Outward Bound experience was, my most
common response is that it was both the best and worst time of
my life. Thanks to the Lions Club of Howick, over three weeks my
life was turned upside down, blindfolded and jumbled up. Over
three weeks I met thirteen others that I will never forget and I still
keep in regular contact with them two years later. As clichéd as it
sounds, Outward Bound changed my life.
Before Outward Bound, I struggled with self-confidence issues
and all that comes along with it, speaking up in front of my peers
and in general, being a sheep and following what the masses
were doing. Now, I try my very best every day to be me. It’s
corny, I know, but true. Two years after Outward Bound, I am
studying a conjoint degree in Law and Social Sciences at the
University of Waikato, living away from Mum and Dad and doing
my own thing.
Before I launch into how awesome Outward Bound is, I really do
mean it when I say that it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
The instructors make it their mission to find that one thing that
scares you. Whether it is heights, bugs, being alone or even
open water. Mine was the fear of not knowing what I was doing
next. For example, at home or at Uni my day is methodically
planned out, hour by hour. However for three hellish weeks I was
subjected to the prospect that I would be told about an activity
just moments before it happened. This meant having half an hour
to pack for a six day tramp or a sailing expedition.
Other than that, being a part of a fourteen man group (seven
girls to seven guys ), together you learn to trust one another very
quickly because before you know it you’re belaying each other
or making sure they keep stable footing on a cliff face. You make
Outward BoundCOURTNEY DEED
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friends for life and the feeling of camaraderie is unexplainable.
I hurt muscles I never thought I had, saw the most beautiful
scenery and pushed my personal limits every single day. My
experiences from Outward Bound also include climbing rock
faces, sailing with dolphins and running my second half marathon.
If you want to know more, to learn about yourself, dealing with
others and developing a strong belief in yourself - you’re just going
to have to experience it in Anakiwa!
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There are three levels to Duke of Ed, bronze,
silver and gold and each award has certain
sections: service, skill, physical recreation and
an adventurous journey.
It takes a bit of time to complete the award
because one of the sections has to be
done for six months while the others only
for three. As long as this sounds it really
is not hard at all! Physical recreation can
simply be the sport you may play, always
wanted to try or simply going out for a
walk one hour a week. We do a simple
Netball and Ultimate Frisbee. Skill can
be absolutely anything you don’t learn at
school, like really anything! The Duke of
Ed website suggests stamp collecting or
classical music appreciation - even movie
appreciation falls under the heading of a
skill! We do cooking and karate for one
hour a week. Service can be the hardest
one to find out of the three but it’s the
most rewarding. The definition of service is
15 hours over the course of three months
where you help someone else out without
being paid. It was our ‘service’ that brought
us here to Youthline, writing this article.
Spending an hour a week helping at a
hospice shop or even visiting someone at
a resthome is also counted as service. You
could even spend an hour a week cleaning
your grandparent’s house!
Then there’s the adventurous journey.
Two days and one night tramping with your
friends! What could be more fun!? In New
Zealand it really isn’t hard to find a good
tramp, look at all those mountains there
are to climb, before you know it you’ll want
to walk them all and take touristy pictures
from the top!
Most schools are involved with Duke of
Ed, so if you want to give it a go find the
teacher in charge, they’re always more than
willing to help. Sometimes if you’re in a
group, or social club, they’ll do it too.
If that’s not possible, all the information is
on www.challengenz.org.nz.
Get into it with your friends, when there’s a
big group of you doing something it’s always
more fun and as an added bonus it looks great
on your CV!
We are only on bronze at the moment,
but after we finish this one, we’ll definitely
progress further, we’ve learnt heaps and it
has been a load of fun. It may seem like a
bit of extra work at first but really it’s not and
once you get into it you’ll never look back.
It won’t make you taller......but you will
hold your head up higher!
It won’t make you better looking....but it
will make you more attractive
to employers!
It won’t get your washing done....but
you’ll have the motivation to do
it yourself!
Duke of Edinburgh, a programme that many schools tend to have, but not
many of us know a lot about. It is an award (see already looks good coz
everyone likes awards!) that any person from the age of 14-25 can take
part in to find out more about themselves and the community they live in.
It is all about having a go, discovering your goals, managing your time and
having a sense of accomplishment.
DUKE EDINBURGHofa first-hand perspective
BY JESS AND ELLEN
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www.challe
ngenz.org.nz
MORE INFO
“I’m a great believer in luck and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.” - Thomas Jefferson
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The Children’s Commissioner, who is a voice for children and
young people in New Zealand/Aotearoa, is interested in hearing
from young people.
What is the YPRG?
The Young People’s Reference Group is one way that the Children’s
Commissioner hears first hand what it’s like being young in New
Zealand. The group provides insight and youth perspective to
issues facing children and young people in New Zealand/ Aotearoa.
They also look at potential solutions to issues that are affecting
children and young people in New Zealand/Aotearoa.
Who are we looking for?
Young people who are interested in speaking about issues that
impact on children and young people. In particular we are looking for:
• Someone who wants to contribute to change.
• Someone who is passionate and engaged in their community
• Someone with a willingness to learn
• Someone who has a unique perspective on the world
• A young person who shows leadership potential – but just
needs support. They need to be:
• Aged between 12-16 years or Year 9 to 11
• Good at working in a team
• Connected with either school groups, community
groups, church groups, sports club or local hapuvand iwi
• A hard worker
They don’t need to be academic; they need to be young and
passionate about making New Zealand/Aotearoa a better place for
children and young people.
What do they do on the group?
They connect with local people to get a good sense of what is going
on for young people in their own communities.
They write articles for the Commissioner’s journal and provide
comments for media/events. Their opinions and perspectives are
woven throughout the Office’s priorities.
Members of the Young People’s Reference Group serve a two-year term.
Members attend four meetings a year in Wellington, usually from
Friday evening to Sunday afternoon. The Children’s Commissioner
covers all costs for members of the Young People’s Reference Group.
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What the young people give?
• Time
• Hard work
• Their perspectives and opinions
• Willingness to learn
• Networking in their local community
• Research into issues around children and young people
• Their life experiences Commitment
• Responsible and respectful participati
• on in the group
What the young people gain?
• Support to be the best they can be
• Self confidence
• Leadership skills
• New experiences
• Knowledge about government and decision-making
processes
• A strong voice to decision-makers
• Knowledge about New Zealand’s/ Aotearoa’s diverse
communities
• Public speaking confidence
• Writing skills
• Team work, facilitation skills
• Media skills
• And lots more……..
APPLY NOW
You can download an application form HERE.
Please note you need to fill out a parent/guardian form,
community reference form and a character reference form also.
Please find an information flyer around applying to the Young
People’s Reference Group that may be used for promotional
information. The Children’s Commissioner would be grateful if
you could mention this exciting opportunity to young people
you are connected to.
We are happy to send applications out, please request one via
0800 22 44 53 ex 808, or email [email protected] with
your postal address and we will send you one.
All fully completed applications should be sent to:
Office of the Children’s Commissioner
P O Box 5610 Rebecca Blaikie
WELLINGTON 6145
Applications to apply for the Children’s Commissioner’s Young
People’s Reference Group will close at 5pm on Sunday October
14, 2012.
If you have any questions, big or small about applying please
email Rebecca: [email protected] or phone her on
0800 22 44 53 ex 808.
A decision around successful applications will be made in late November
2012. The new members will have their first meeting in February 2013.
We know this is a long time, but we want to make sure that young
people know about the opportunity and they have time to complete the
application form.
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recognise and allow. They are there for a
reason, and its about working out what
they may mean. If you go a bit deeper,
you may find the feeling of her cheating
shows that things aren’t going how you like
them to in the relationship, that you want
a change to how you interact. Especially if
you have had your trust broken in the past,
this may increase that feeling of doubt.
Try talking to your partner about how
you’ve been feeling, letting her know the
relationship doesn’t feel as you want it to
and look at what you can do together to
make it work for both of you.
If you still have the feeling she’s
cheating, you may want to ask her
outright, but just remember the possible
consequences of this (especially if she is
not cheating) and then decide if the risk of
confronting her outweighs the feeling of
doubt you have.
I’m 17 and I’m not sure why,
but I just really, really want a baby! I’m
thinking about just getting pregnant. I
don’t even really mind who to. Is this
totally stupid? My mum is pleading with
me to wait but I just don’t want to.
Your mum probably has some
very valid reasons for why she wants
you to wait. The reality is that raising a
child is one of the most challenging life
experiences. The responsibility, stress and
sacrifice is huge! That is why it is important
that before you plan to bring a child into
this world, you know your reasons for
doing so.
There are many things people consider
before having a child. Some include:
• Have you experienced all of life that
Got a question for Morgyn? Email your question to [email protected] and look out for the answer in the next issue of Heyday.
24 year old, Morgyn Hartdegen works at Youthline
where she oversees young people and families
as they access our face-to face services. You can
listen out for Morgyn on ZM’s ‘Sealed Section’ on
Monday nights from 9.30pm – tune in!!!
ASK MORGYN
Q:Q:
A: A:
My girlfriend and I have been
going out 6 months. Recently, we
haven’t been hanging out as much. She
is on her phone all the time, and doesn’t
seem to want to “get intimate” if you
know what I mean. I get the feeling she
might be cheating on me. How can I
find out?
There is no real checklist for if
someone is cheating or not. Some people
would say that her being withdrawn and
change in sex drive may indicate cheating,
but this could also be her response to
stress or worry. Trust is a really important
part of any relationship. What we do know
for sure is that the recent change in her
behaviour and the fact that you have asked
this question shows that you’re having
some doubts and are lacking trust in her.
Feelings are really important to
you want to and are you okay with making
the necessary sacrifices for the next
18+ years?
• Have you considered the impact on
your future plans (e.g. travel, career)?
• Who are you planning on sharing this child
with? Do you trust them to be a good father?
• Do you have the necessary support
around you from friends and family?
• Are you financially stable, and can you
afford to give your child all the necessary care?
You may be feeling that a baby will help
you to feel less lonely, or give you more
comfort, company or happiness. You may
feel that it will give your life meaning or
a sense of belonging. Having a baby may
give you these feelings, but there are ways
to get all of these things without having
a child too. It wouldn’t be fair to bring a
child into this world that is there to fix
your problems or fill a void. You could talk
to a trusted adult (a counsellor, a teacher,
a family member, a doctor) about these
feelings and work out ways to build up
your own happiness - so that when you do
eventually have a child - you’ll be the best
mum you can be.
If you need any support around any of the
issues raised in this section please get in
contact with Youthline:
Phone: 0800 37 66 33
Free Txt: 234
“Be the change you want to see in the world” - Mahatma Gahndi
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SPAGHETTIBOLOGNAISEIt’s a kiwi staple – master this and you can master anything!
1 tablespoon oil
1 large onion
500g lean beef mince
¼ cup tomato paste + 400g canned
tomatoes (or 1 can/jar pasta sauce)
1 teaspoon dried basil
1 teaspoon dried oregano (or 1 tablespoon fresh)
1 ½ cups water
black pepper
1 packet of dried spaghetti (or other shapes of pasta)
Variation: Top with fresh parsley, add chopped carrots or
mushrooms.
Method
Heat oil in a large frying pan or saucepan. Chop the onion.
Cook for 5 minutes until soft. Stir in the mince and brown quickly.
Add tomato paste and tomatoes in juice, breaking up the
tomatoes. Stir in herbs or water.
Bring to the boil, reduce heat and simmer for half an hour or until
like a thick sauce.
Cook spaghetti using the instructions on the packet.
Drain. Serve and top with mince sauce.
Two meals out of one!
Make extra bolognaise sauce, top with mashed potato and bake in
the oven for half an hour for dinner the following night.
DRINK PLENTY OF WATER EVERYDAY
TREAT TIME CHOCLATE FUDGE PUDDING
READING FOOD LABELS
Drink plenty of water every day! You need
6 - 8 cups of water or other drinks each day.
Water is the best drink. Tea and coffee can be
included but go easy on cordial, energy and
soft drinks and fruit juice.
Tips for reading food lables so you can make
healthier choices!
EXAMPLE: Apricot Muesli Bar
NUTRITION INFORMATION
Servings per package: 8
Servings per size: 32.5g
Use the 10/10/6 rule shown below to make a healthier choice:
Best choices per 100g are:
Less than 10 grams fat, Less than 10-15 grams sugar, More than 6
grams fibre
Ingredients:
Cereal (rolled oats, oat bran), glucose, fruit (Apricot), puffed rice,
vegetable oil, white sugar, brown sugar, honey, flavouring (apricot), salt.
May contain traces of peanuts or other nuts
Quantity per
serving
Energy
(Calories)
472kJ
110 Cal
3.0 g
1.5 g
20.5 g
7.0 g
20 mg
1.5 mg
3.0 g
1.5 g
60 mg
4.5 mg
9.0 g
4.5 g
1.9 g 2.7 9 g
1416kJ
330 Cal
Protein
Fibre
Fat - total
Fat - Saturated (Saturated Fat is unhealthy)
Sodium (Sodium Contains Salt)
Carbohydrate
Sugars
Quantity per
100g
1 cup self-raising flour
2 tablespoons cocoa
3/4 cup sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla essence (optional)
1/2 cup low-fat milk
2 tablespoons margarine, melted
Topping
1/4 cup cocoa
3/4 cup brown sugar
1 1/2 - 2 cups boiling water
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Unique Extras
‘Unique Extras’ and the ‘Unique Agency’
are part of a project funded by the NZ
Government’s ‘Think Differently’ campaign
to improve attitudes and behaviours
towards people who experience disability.
SPOTTED
Youthlaw
YouthLaw Tino Rangatiratanga Taitamariki is
a free community law centre for children and
young people nationwide - know your rights!!!
Check m8
A Manawatu site for youth by youth.
checkm8 wants to be the kind of place
that helps you feel connected, happy, and
healthy. You can find out what’s on plus
where to go for info and advice.Do Your Thing
Do Your Thing: Passionate about something? You
could win a scholarship to fulfill your dreams!
Random Acts of Kindness
It’s RAK Day on September 1st 2012 –
what kind things will you do?
New Zealand Sign Language
NZSL is recognised as an official language
of New Zealand, learn and gain qualification
with easy step by step videos.
Top 100 Arena
Entertaining and
informative top ten lists
www.top100arena.com
Westeros Map
Fancy yourself as a bit of a
‘Game of Thrones’ geek?
Someone out there made
a tablet app for the map of
Westeros, you know you
want it.
www.westerosmap.com
Karmin
Youtube sensation Karmin,
noted for “Look at me
now” have created a
massive following and
branched out with their
own music.
www.karminmusic.com
English Russia
Things are quite different
on the other side of the
world. From the funny to
the downright bizzare, a
collection of real, but weird
news from Russia.
www.englishrussia.com
South Park Avatar
Make your very own South Park
character!!!
www.southparkstudios.com/avatar
www.youthlaw.co.nz
www.rak.co.nz
www.nzsl.tki.org.nz
www.checkm8.co.nz
www.doyourthing.org.nz
A Bit on the SideP3 Foundation
An amazing charity run 100% by youth,
aiming to empower young people to
eradicate extreme poverty in the Asia Pacific!
www.p3foundation.org.nz
www.unique-extras.co.nz
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A big THANKS to all the people who contributed:
Elizabeth Chan, Bailey Lovett, Divyar Dhar, Marcus Powell (All My
Brothers), Annah Mac, Six60, Erin Simpson and the team, K’Lee
McNabb, Kimberley Crossman, Maioro Barton, Simon Wards, Karl
Stanley, Shyla Rose, Cullum Razak, Melanie Vautier, Courtney Deed,
Jess and Ellen and Morgyn Hartdegen
Special thanks to Rachel Soh for this issues cover.
In the Next Issue
In the next issue of Heyday we catch up with
Christchurch’s very own superhero ‘Flatman’,
meet US based Graphic Designer, Marie
Holdaway, interview singer Jamie McDell plus
heaps more!
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leadership development programmes, best practice and advocacy. Youthline
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