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The Verbal Behavior Center for Autism (VBCA) is proudly hosting its 3rd Annual Silent Auction Fundraiser, “A Night to Put the Pieces Together” on March 7th, 2015 at The Mansion at Oak Hill in Carmel, IN. The VBCA is a non-profit organization that has provided high-quality Applied Behavior Analysis services to children with autism and their families since 2003. The annual fundraising event helps to support the treatment of children with autism ranging in age from two through twelve years old who have significant developmental delays. The VBCA’s services allow for a skilled Therapist to work one-on-one with each child to help promote the highest level of progress and success. Our team of Therapists and Board Certified Behavior Analysts work collaboratively to facilitate progress for each child in areas such as communication skills, adaptive skills, social skills, toilet training, and feeding problems. Our goal is to help children with autism gain their fullest potential and transition into a typical classroom setting where they can naturally learn from their teachers and peers. This formal event will consist of dinner, drinks, and entertainment, giving friends and family of the VBCA an opportunity to celebrate the significant impact the VBCA has had on children and families over the past 12 years. Additionally, recognition will be given to Chris Clarke, the VBCA’s past President and Founder, who unexpectedly passed away in June. Chris was the driving force in helping to facilitate the development of the Center. As a parent of a child with autism, Chris passionately volunteered his time at the VBCA because he understood the unique challenges that faced parents. Chris was dedicated to assisting families with solidify high quality services for their children, and his legacy will

continue as the VBCA strives to meet his vision of assisting families affected by autism.The money raised by our evening of fundraising will help to support tuition assistance programs for many of our children. The cost of providing such high intensity services to treat children with autism can be very high; therefore, the VBCA’s tuition assistance program enables many families to enroll their children, who could not otherwise benefit from this type of individualized treatment. This year’s 2015 Fundraiser is expected to host many more guests, provide many more auction items, and as a result lead to additional funds raised. All money will be used to directly benefit the treatment of children with autism with a focus on providing tuition assistance to families. If you are interested in general information regarding “A Night to Put the Pieces Together”, or if you are interested in making a donation to the Verbal Behavior Center for Autism, please contact Kerri Butts at 317-848-4774 or kbutts@vbca.org. To purchase a ticket, please follow the following link: https://vbca.ticketbud.com/3rd-annual-a-night-to-put-the-pieces-together.

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Friday, January 23 – Sunday, February 1Indianapolis Home Show at the Indiana State Fairgrounds. Find innovative products, new ideas, practical advice and great deals in remodeling, home improvement and decor with hundreds of experts all under one roof. From windows and flooring to cabinets and roofing and much more. Shop, compare and save for 10 days only! www.indianapolishomeshow.com

Beginning January 31Inside Hollywood Film & TV! You’re on the Set Exhibit at The Children’s Museum. In this exhibit, visitors will go behind the scenes and get a sneak peek at the sets of some of the most popular movies and TV shows of all time! Visitors can play a part in prime-time sit-coms, dramas, sci-fi/adventure shows, and famous films and cartoons! Real and replica sets, authentic costumes and props, opportunities for role-play, and hands-on experiences will illustrate how the famous shows were made and invite families to become part of the cast and crew. www.childrenmuseum.org

Sunday, February 1, 9:00 amSuper Sunday 5K & Kid’s Fun Run at Indianapolis City Market. Kick off your February with the first annual Super Sunday 5K on Sunday, February 1st! Hit the streets of downtown Indianapolis for a fun family workout before the big game! Catch a football along the route and win prizes when you return to the finish line! SUPER SUNDAY 5K benefits the Boys & Girls Clubs of Indianapolis and offers a certified 5K course downtown Indy along with a kid's fun run for your little ones!

Saturday, February 7Zoolala: An Artic Affair at the Indianapolis Zoo. Join emerging and aspiring leaders from across Central Indiana for a night of live music and dancing, fabulous food, fun and philanthropy. Held on the Indianapolis Zoo grounds inside the White River Gardens Hulman Riverhouse, you can escape to the Arctic region, which is home to Alaskan brown bears, harbor seals, polar bears and walruses. Guests can look forward to a formal evening with exceptional food and drinks. Zoolala provides the perfect opportunity for young community leaders to network and engage each other in a fun social setting while also supporting the Zoo. www.indyzoo.com

Thursday, February 12Indy Homeschool Science Fair at cool Creek Park & Nature Center in Carmel. The Indy Homeschool Science Fair gives Indiana homeschool and co-op students the opportunity to research, display and discuss science experiments in a fun, community environment, as well as grow their homeschooling network and community. The event will also include a science show, vendors and many other awesome additions to benefit Indiana homeschooling families. www.indyhomeschool.com

Friday, February 13 – Sunday, February 15Indiana Home and Garden Show at the Indiana Convention Center. Indiana Home and Garden Show is one of the most comprehensive home renovation sector trade events in America. Visitors can browse through an extensive array of home automation products, interior decoration themes, waterproofing solutions, basement finishing tools, countertops and landscaping products, together with a host of other home renovation accessories. The show is instrumental in helping attendees directly interact with leading building contractors and exciting discounts on the prices of select exhibited products are also offered to the buyers.

Wednesday, Feb 18 – Thursday, February 19The Very Hungry Caterpillar and Other Eric Carle Favorites at Clowes Memorial Hall at Butler University. Back again by popular demand, the Eric Carle stories return to Clowes Hall in this beloved production. Join The Very Hungry Caterpillar on a transformational journey as he changes into a beautiful butterfly, Little Cloud as it changes shapes to depict the things it sees below and The Mixed-Up Chameleon as he learns the importance of being true to oneself. This extraordinary puppet adaptation features black-light technology to capture the charm and visual style of three favorite books by Eric Carle. www.cloweshall.org

Friday, February 20 – Sunday, March 1Indianapolis Boat, Sport, & Travel Show at Indiana State Fairgrounds. This event showcases product from Sporting Goods, Toys & Games, Travel & Tourism, Marine & Boat industries.

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Friday, February 20, 3:30 pm – 5:00 pmChuggington: The Great Rescue Adventure Live at Old National Centre. This new production features impressive trains with working features and movements that bring the Chuggington TV series characters to life on stage. A fun, two-act musical, this live show is presented before a giant LED video wall featuring animated locations and sensational background action sequences from the popular TV series. In Chuggington Live! The Great Rescue Adventure, the trainees are eager to impress their mentors by mastering new roles that test their courage, speed and determination. When Koko finds herself in trouble at Rocky Ridge Mine, it’s up to her friends to help her. Do the trainees have what it takes to put their newly learned skills into practice to save Koko? www. lifeliketouring.com

Saturday February 21, 8:00 pm - 12:00 amAdult Swim 2015 at The Children’s Museum in Downtown Indianapolis. It’s time for adults to plunge into The Children’s Museum for another ADULT SWIM, all to support innovative arts and educational programs serving children and schools across the state! The world’s biggest and best children’s museum will once again transform into a five-story, casual-chic cocktail lounge, and it’s your turn to dive into a night of DJs, drinks,

groovy games, and tasty treats—all in a casual, fun, and funky atmosphere. Enjoy tasty samples from some of Indy's favorite restaurants. There will be cash bars featuring beverage sponsor Sun King Brewing Company, and more! www.adultswimindy.com

Tuesday, February 24, 7:30 pmAnnie at The Murat Theatre at Old National Centre. The world’s best-loved musical returns in time-honored form. Directed by original lyricist and director Martin Charnin and choreographed by Liza Gennaro, this production of ANNIE will be a brand new incarnation of the iconic original. Featuring book and score by Tony Award®-winners Thomas Meehan, Charles Strouse and Martin Charnin, ANNIE includes such unforgettable songs as “It’s the Hard Knock Life,” “Easy Street,” “I Don’t Need Anything But You,” plus the eternal anthem of optimism, “Tomorrow.” www.anniethemusical.com

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Monday Thru Sunday Multiple DaysJim Dandy Family Restaurant Kids’ 5 and under eat free 2301 Conner St.773-3288 Noblesville

PaPa Roux 8950 E. 10th Indy 603-9861 Nightly after 4Perkins 250 Noble Creek Dr. Noblesville Monday Thru Wednesday 4 to close 776-2800

Barley Island Brewing Co. 630 Conner St.Noblesville 770-5280 Tuesday and Wednesday Quizno’s 14300 Mundy Dr Noblesville 7 days a week 4 to close dine in only 773-7041

MondayChick Fil-A 3360 W. 86th St. The Pyramids, Indy 871-5330

Latitude 39 4016 E. 82nd Fee Game Bowling, Kid’s Meal and $5 game card with adult meal 813-6565Mexico City Grill Fishers 11653 Fishers Station Rd 577-1900

Mexican City Grill Indy 8028 S. Emerson Ave 884-4901Castlers Kitchen and Bar 11501 Geist Pavilion Dr.596-9810 Fishers 5-9

Texas Road House Fishers 12950 Publishers Dr. 585-5020 Family Night 1.99 Kid’s MealTuesday

MacKinzie River Pizza Carmel and 82nd St Castleton 564-4211 and 288-0609Scotty’s Brewhouse 3905 E. 96th Street Indianapolis, IN & 1 Virginia Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46204

CR Heroes 10570 E. 96th St. Fishers 576-1070 5-p Face Painting & Balloon Animals Cancun 6714 E 82nd St, Indianapolis 578-7054

Chick-fil-A Noblesville Buy one Get one Free Tuesday 5-9 773-4100Chick Fil A Carmel 14647 US 31 North Family Night each Tuesday from 5-8pm 815-9465

Hellas Café 8501 Westfield Blvd 257-6211 IndyChampps Indy Northside 8711 N. River Crossing Blvd. 2 children eat free with 1 adult meal all day TuesdayBob Evans’ Family Night from DJ 6-8pm One kid eats free with adult meal purchase. Greenwood In

Perkin’s Castleton East 82nd St. Indy 842-9447 4-9Joe’s Shelby St. Diner Indy 783-9590

Cheese Burger In Paradise South Indy 883-4386Patriot Grill Restaurant 1265 N. Madison Greenwood 851-8252 Kid’s Eat Free and Magician

Teddy’s Burger Joint 222W.Southport Rd Indy 893-2791Thr3e Wise Men Brewery 1021 Broad Ripple Ave Indy 255-5151Max and Erma’s Carmel and Greenwood 705-3988 and 882-4477

Panda Express 17055 Geist Pavilion Dr. Fishers 5-9 770-9684(Con’t)

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WednesdayMichaelangelo’s 550 Westfield Rd Noblesville Kids Eat Free 773-6066

Grindstone Charley’s Rockville Rd and Crawfordsville Rd’s Indy 243-8760 and 481-1870Johnny Rockets Greenwood Mall and Castleton Mall 881-6240 and 578-8015 5 to 9

ThursdayJohnny Carino’s Greenwood 885-5735

FridayChick Fil A Avon Rt 36 February 3rd is our Valentine's day event

from 5:30-7:30pm featuring a magician

SaturdaySteak N Shake all Indianapolis locations

SundayScotty’s Brewhouse 3905 E. 96th Street Indianapolis, IN & 1 Virginia Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46204

Granite City Food and Brewery 150 W. 96th St Carmel 218-7185 5-9 Magician 5-8 Steak N Shake all Indianapolis locations

Rock Star Pizza 922 E. Main St. Brownsburg 858-1188 all day dine in Only

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Hello everyone! My name is Liam but my family and friends call me, Li Li. I am 5 years old. I was born just one minute after my twin brother Kellan. Grownups use very big words to describe the challenges I face, but I know that from my perspective, I am a happy boy who loves my family and my therapists. Although I cannot speak yet, my therapists at ABC are working with me daily to help me to communicate my thoughts in other ways. I am making progress that my parents and grandparents can see every day.

I smile easily and I hug warmly. These are just a few of the ways that I show my family and therapists that I love them while I cannot yet use the words “I love you.” My family understands that I communicate differently than they do, and they are working hard to learn my language while I work hard to learn theirs.

Before I came to ABC, I didn’t understand how to tell people what I wanted or needed. At ABC I am learning to use my hands to do sign language. This makes it easier for me to communicate when I want something to eat or to play with a certain toy. I am now learning so many new things at ABC that my family is having a hard time keeping up with all of the new words I can say!

I used to bite frequently to let grownups know if I was upset, frustrated, or if I couldn’t tell them what I wanted. Learning how to sign has taught me that I don’t need to bite anymore in order to communicate what I’m feeling.

I used to prefer to play alone but since coming to ABC, I have learned that playing with others can be just as much fun. I like to watch how my classmates do things and then I will try to do it too. I also enjoy the time that I spend with my brother. He’s always there to drive me around in his motorized car or to help me use a new toy. We love to play games where I chase him. When I catch him, we laugh together. ABC helped make that possible.

I can spend a lot of time playing with a toy that lights up and makes sounds. I learn how it works

and like that I can control the action. I also like to climb and have mastered the perfect somersault!

I also love listening to music or my family singing. I will sit quietly and listen intently to any number of songs. Music is my happy place and it helps me to develop imitation skills. I am very good at imitating sounds. My therapists at ABC are helping me learn new sounds every day and our hope is that this will one day allow me to express myself with words.

I am very comfortable at ABC and with my therapists. I understand what they ask me to do and am quickly learning how to respond. They are very patient and their encouragement makes me want to try hard for them.

These may not be my words, but they are certainly my thoughts.

Fondly,Liam

Through The Eyes of AutismBy: Erin C (Liam’s Mother)

To inquire about services, call us at 317-849-KIDS ext. 112 or email us at Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org.

1. After coming to ABC, Liam now responds to his own name.

2. Liam can now communicate his needs via sign language modified to his skill level.

3. His outward aggressions have decreased significantly.

4. He is now able to imitate both vocally and physically.

5. Through our occupational therapy program, he is now able to walk upright with limited assistance.

6. He is now able to follow basic directions.7. Liam has successfully transitioned his

newly acquired skills into a home setting.8. He has developed important social and play

skills that allow him to interact with peers.

1. After coming to ABC, Liam now responds to his own name.

2. Liam can now communicate his needs via sign language modified to his skill level.

3. His outward aggressions have decreased significantly.

4. He is now able to imitate both vocally and physically.

5. Through our occupational therapy program, he is now able to walk upright with limited assistance.

6. He is now able to follow basic directions.7. Liam has successfully transitioned his

newly acquired skills into a home setting.8. He has developed important social and play

skills that allow him to interact with peers.

Liam's Milestones

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At Autism Parent Care students attend a Montessori pre-school program in the morning and ABA therapy in the afternoon with the support of an ABA therapist in both settings. Clients enter the program after a brain map shows deficits in cognitive, social, language and/or behavioral areas along with a medical diagnosis. At first these teaching philosophies seem to contradict one another, however, when combined they provide a well-rounded educational fit for all children.

Through both programs a client is allowed the freedom to learn by choice and by programmed targets through DTT teaching. The school provides a setting for both typical and non-typical peers to learn from one another. The therapists guide activities and also support self-directed learning activities through exploration of the environment. Learning is guided at each individual’s pace. Clients learn in group settings as well as in individual therapy.

Both Montessori and ABA stress the importance of repetition, self-responsibility, individualized instruction, peer interactions

and language growth. Daily living activities are stressed in culturally diverse terms. World current events are discussed on a daily basis. Independence and self-care are highlighted in a natural way. The materials support functional learning in a natural de-velopmental sequence.

Clients with autism thrive in this unique program because of the multi-faceted teaching methods with one-on-one ABA therapist support. Social and language growth are supported throughout the day by peers, teachers and therapists. Executive function and other cognitive skills are practiced when the clients choose their work, discover a solution and complete the task.

Along with other data collection, brain maps are repeated every six months to document individ-ualized progress. Weekly targets are reviewed and updated by using the VB-MAPP assessment tool. Daily parental communication facilitates program carryover from the school and therapy time into the home. The assessment tools we utilize as well as parental anecdotal testimony supports the positive results we see every day.

THE COMBINATION OF MONTESSORI AND APPLIED BEHAVIOR ANALYSISBy: Denise Hubble, MA, BCBA and Karen Lake, ABA Therapist

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Applied Behavior Center for Autism See pgs. 16, 17, 28www.appliedbehaviorcenter.orgABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana’s largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations statewide (Indy North, Early Childhood Center, Indy West, Greenwood, Richmond, Terre Haute and Carmel), ABC provides one-on-one individualized programming in the areas of ABA therapy, behavior consulting, speech therapy, occupational therapy and special needs swim lessons for ages 2 and older.

BACA Behavior Analysis Center for Autism See pg. 11Contact Sarah Cox: Scox@TheBACA.com317.436.8961High quality, intensive ABA Programs overseen by PH.D. behavior analysts.

Brain Balance See pg. 6www.brainbalanceindy.com317.843.92009510 N. Meridian St., IndianapolisBrain Balance’s Program has changed the lives of kids suffering with ADHD, learning disorders and behavioral issues. We integrate cognitive, sensory-motor and nutritional training into a highly effective, drug-free program that targets your child’s specific challenges.

Conduct Curbconductcurb.com317.966.1987 Physical Aggression, Verbal Aggression,Property Destruction, Tantrums, Refusals& Inappropriate Public Behavior.

I Can We Can See pg. 25www.icanwecan.orgkelly@icanwecan.org224.515.9060Aquatic Therapy Gymnastic-Based Therapy1:1 & Small Group Sessions Available

Potential! Dramatic Results using Cutting-edge NASA Technology!

Natural Valley Ranch See pg. 25www.NaturalValleyRanch.comwww.NaturalValleyTherapeuticRiding.orgMarie@NaturalValleyRanch.com317-509-3577Birthday Parties, Trail Rides, Lessons, Petting ZooHayride/Bonfire, Therapeutic Riding

Pilipis Behavioral Group LLC See pg. 18b.weir@pilipisbg.comwww.pilipisbg.comtel. (317) 572-1313, fax (317) 572-9999152 S 9th St., Noblesville, IN 46060.Specializes in School Social Work and provides support and guidance to families and children.

The Verbal Behavior Center for Autism See pgs. 2, 3www.vbca.org317.848.47749830 Bauer Drive Indpls., IN 46280The Verbal Behavior Center for Autism provides year-round services offering one-on-one Applied Behavior Analysis therapy to children with autism ages 1-13. All programs are overseen by Board Certified Behavioral Consultants. Call or come in for a tour today – walk-ins are always welcome! For more information about the VBCA and pictures of our center, visit our website at vbca.org.

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Children require so much energy. Parents must be "on

their game 24/7." Perhaps the toughest element in childrearing is remaining consistent in a world where parenting is such a "trial and error" endeavor. Although parents you don't need to be perfect, it is important to be as consistent as possible so that your child will know what to expect and be less likely to manipulate you.

Consistency Requires Some ForethoughtI encourage parents to be slow and deliberate about their rules and expectations for their child. Kids are experts at negotiation and they will frequently bombard you with reasons why they might want more freedom, extra privileges, or increased independence. As a parenting coach, I encourage parents to use the phrase, "I will get back with you on that" as they consider a child's request. Then with all the consistency they can muster....they need to thoughtfully evaluate the situation and decipher what they intuitively believe is best for their child. When they share their decision, they are to deliver the information with a quiet authority that conveys that their decision is not up for further discussion. (This may mean leaving the room to avoid defending yourself.)

Give ChoicesWhenever possible, it can be helpful to give your child two choices that allow him some opportunity for independence and decision making. When they are young it might be letting them pick out one of two choices of apparel to wear. As they get older it may look like letting them decide on spending their money on one of two types of games to buy for their Xbox. When they are teens it may result in them deciding whether they will be spending the night at their

friend’s house on Friday or Saturday. Handing out the choices, allows you to ultimately create a safe and healthy structure while your child gets to exercise some mindful decision making.

Safety is always of utmost importance when it comes to childrearing. And sometimes the most painful aspect of parenting is watching your child experience natural or logical consequences that occur when they participate in the school of life. When a child chooses not to do his homework and gets a bad grade (a natural consequence) he might likely lose his Game Boy privileges because homework comes first at your home (a logical consequence.) If your child refuses to brush his teeth and has 3 cavities (natural consequences) and you stop buying sweet snacks to decrease the likelihood of more cavities or dental bills (logical consequences) you will likely watch your child suffer through the consequences and protest about how unfair you are being. If your child does not practice his instrument and his teacher admonishes him in public (natural consequence) and you stop paying for his instrument (logical consequence) you may fear that you have made it easy on him to "be lazy" when in reality, he may not have found what he truly loves and will work for!

Parenting is about making tough choices....but conscious parenting helps your child to understand the consequences that life has to teach him!

Carol Juergensen Sheets

Carol Juergensen Sheets LCSW PCC is a psychotherapist and personal life coach. She does motivational speaking and empowerment trainings locally and nationally. To find out more about her services--contact her at www.carolthecoach.com or call her at 317-218-3479.

Conscious Parenting: Consistency, Choices and Consequences

Here is where the consistency comes into play....Under no circumstances should

you allow them to re-engage you in a discussion....because you know they will

inevitably where you down.

Remember they will balk about how stupid you are for controlling their destiny by deciding on their choices, but restricting

choices allows them to have some say in their destiny without handing them the keys to the

car before they have learned how to drive.

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