families & friends of murder victims - march 2014 newsletter
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FFMV Birthdays 2014
March 2014
FFMV Memories 2014
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FAMILIES & FRIENDS OF MURDER VICTIMS, Inc.
(FFMV) Newsletter March 2014
Thank-you: *Carol Anderson – Website
*Kaiser – Oakland *Avaxat Elementary School- Murrieta
*St. Anthony’s Catholic Church-Upland *Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church
Grand Terrace *Palm Desert Library
*First United Methodist Church of La Puente *San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office of
Victim Services/Victim Advocates *Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of Victim
Services/Victim Advocates
* Dola Wiedemann – Mother of Lisel - Memory Cards *Family of Kris Flores
*Janet Garcia & Barbara Christian facebook administrators
* Ellie Rossi – Mother of David and Lisa
* San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office for sponsoring newsletter for 2014*
A million words would not bring you back,
I know because I’ve tried. Neither would a
million tears, I know because I’ve cried.
Inmate Locator, Department of Corrections is now making it
easier for people to locate prison inmates; it’s a free
online search and is open to the general public.
http://inmatelocator.cdcr.ca.gov\
Here is the new web address for
Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC
http://families-friends-
murdervictims.simplesite.com/
Attached is a 2014 FFMV Participant form,
please complete and mail or email
FFMV is updating data base on FFMV’s
new computer, especially if you have new
contact information. Thank-you
Need Someone to Talk To? * Bertha Flores - Parent - Spanish speaking (909)
200-5499 (after 3pm) Rialto CA
*Rose Madsen – Parent (909) 798-4803 (after 4pm)
– Redlands CA
*Maxine Russell – (818) 378-2072
Parent/Grief Counselor
*Dawn Hall – Parent (951) 757-4419 –
Murrieta CA
*Mary Stewart -Parent (951 698-5317) Emergency
Consult for Suicidal or
Homicidal Participants
*Linda Atencio -Parent – 760-662-4373 –
High Dessert
* Ellie Rossi - Parent - 909-810-8133 Redlands CA
* Delores Maloy- Parent – High Desert
Contact – 760-530-7027
* Shayla Adams – 760-475-3774
* Richard McVoy – Adult Sibling –
909-503-5456 – Grand Terrace CA
* Tanya Powell - Parent – 760-596-2293-
Upland CA
Families & Friends of Murder Victims: A non-profit organization Dedicated to providing information, support, and friendship to persons who have experienced the death of a loved one through the violent act of murder Share Sorrow….. Share Strength Mission: To restore a sense of hope and to provide a pathway to well-being to those who have lost a loved one to murder and to those who are victims of attempted murder.
Love Gifts
Love gifts are a specific tax deductible donation made to the memory of a loved one’s birthday, anniversary of a death, holiday, or just because which are posted in newsletter. They are also made by caring professionals, organizations to help in the work that FFMV does with victims/survivors. These gifts help with the expenses incurred in reaching out to others and operating expenses. When making out a check, please make payable to FFMV and note Love Gift on
check or envelope. Love Gifts can be mailed to FFMV- P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. - 92423-1222
Join Families & Friends of Murder Victims on
Thank-you
Janet Garcia Mother of Jesse Garcia – 6/10/78 – 6/27/94
Barbara Christian Mother of Terri Lynn Winchell–
4/10/63 – 1/8/81
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FFMV - Riverside Chapter
Meets on the 3rd Wednesday of every month at 7pm
Avaxat Elementary School, 24300 La Brisas Road in Murrieta, CA
Contact Dawn (951) 757-4419 For directions ask for PJ at-
951-696-1600 x2177 – M-F 9am-4pm (1-2pm lunch) Next Meeting is March 19th
FFMV - Colton Chapter
1st Tuesday of every month Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church
Robinson Hall – Room 6 12745 Oriole Ave Grand Terrace, CA
92313 Time: 6:00pm - 8:00pm
Contact person for directions or information Rose – 909-754-6969
[email protected] Next Meeting is March 4th
FFMV -Coachella Valley Chapter
Meets every 3rd Wednesday of every month
6:00pm – 7:30pm
Palm Desert Library – Community Room
73-300 Fred Waring Drive
Palm Desert, CA 92660
760-346-6552
Contact information
Rose – 909-754-6969
[email protected] Please contact Rose by Tuesday March18th to confirm you will be
attending March 19th Meeting
Oakland Chapter
1st Tuesday of every month
Kaiser in Oakland, Howe St. at Broadway,
12th floor Room 1200 East Contact: Robin – 510-653-8069
Sandra – 510-691-7089 Next meeting is March 4th
FFMV West End Chapter -Bi-lingual
Meets every 2nd Thursday of every month
at 7:00pm-8:30pm St. Anthony’s Catholic Church
Conference Room 2210 North San Antonio Upland, CA
91786 Participants have the option of the
English & Spanish Meeting
Local Grupo Bilingue Los participantes pueden escoger en
Inglés o en Español Se reunen cada Segundo Jueves del mes
a las 7:00 p.m. Contact persons/ Personas de contacto:
Rita Marin (909) 215-7063 [email protected]
Please contact Rita by Wednesday March 12th to confirm you will be attending
March 13th Meeting
FFMV – SGV Chapter
Meetings are currently held on the 2nd Tuesday of each month in a classroom at the First United Methodist Church of La Puente, located at. 15701 Hill Street, La Puente, CA
91744. Contact information:
* Luz Ruiz (626) 388-6403*Tracy Ponce (626) 533-3121 *Luisa Ashley (818) 445-2077
Next Meeting is March 11th
Grief Support Group ALL are welcome at our monthly meetings.
Whether you are a parishioner or not. If you
are suffering the loss of a loved one and in
need to talk to someone, we are here to listen
and share emotions.
Together and with the help of the Lord, we
can help each other heal.
Meetings are held every 2nd Wednesday of the
month 7 to 9 P.M. ~ Room 8
St. Anthony’s Church 1640 Western Ave. San
Bernardino (909)887-3810
Contacts: Hope Morfin (909)820-6163
Ralph & Arlene Payan (909)887-4387
(FFMV Participants)
Danny & Rose Equihua (909) 887-3744
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FFMV Fundraisers Office Depot - Staples – Office Max If you shop at Office Depot or Staples please use FFMV’s Rewards Number for Office Depot which is 1139461170 Office Max – 650756207, Staples- or use just give them 909-798-4803 for all three. We get reward points that help defray the cost of printing, ink cartridges and office supplies.
PLEASE….Don‘t throw away your old ink cartridges! Continue to bring them to us, or take them to Office Max, Staples or Office
Depot and give them 909-798-4803 It’s an easy way to help
FFMV purchase office supplies.
FFMV SGV Chapter News Announcements Luz shared that she would like to sell bracelets as a fundraiser for our chapter. These bracelets would be personalized with our loved one’s names on it and Luz Ruiz will make them herself. Each bracelet will cost $15. She will be posting pictures of the bracelets on her Facebook Page soon. She is taking orders now.
FFMV
Resources and Additional Support Services
San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office
of Victim Witness Centers: San Bernardino
(909) 387-6540
Rancho Cucamonga: (909) 945-4241*
Victorville/Desert area: (760)552-6947
Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of
Victim Witness Centers:
Riverside: (951) 955-5450
Murrieta: (951) 304-5680 * Banning: (951) 922-7130
* Indio: (760) 863-8408
*Los Angeles County District Attorney's Victim
Witness Assistance Program offices:
Pomona: 909) 620-3381
*Life.After.Uncivil.Ruthless.Acts.
323-816-9651 www.laurala.org
* WINGS OF JUSTICE – Website
www.murdermislabeledsuicide.com/WingsofJustice
*Women Against Gun Violence – 310-204-2348
www.wagv.org
*www.CrimeVictims.gov—public awareness Web
site
* H.E.A.L. Helping Everyone Acknowledge Loss –
818-378-2072– [email protected]
* Crime Victims United of California –
530-885-9544 www.crimevictimsunited.com or
* North American Victim Assistance (NOVA)
www.trynova.org
* Victims of Crime Resources Center (800)
VICTIMS
* POMC - (888) 818-POMC www.pomc.org
* Greater Orange County POMC –
Marie – 714-999-7132 – 562-508-2397
* Citizens Against Homicide - (415) 455-5944
* Justice for Murdered Children - (310) 547-1367
* Memory of Victims Everywhere - (949) 248-5470
* Resource for the Grieving and
Bereavedwww.griefcompanion.com
* Crime Survivors – 949-872-7895
www.crimesurvivors.com Bi-monthly meetings
held in Orange County
* Adela Lavine~Medium: www.adelalavine.com
* MADD – (909) 888-6233
www.maddsanbernardino.org
*JUSTICE FOR HOMICIDE VICTIMS - (310) 457-
0030 [email protected]
* Striving Towards Eradicating Violence In Ennercities
-S.T.E.V.I.E. [email protected]
* www.psychic4themissing.com
* Survivors of Murdered Children SGV Chapter – Alhambra Police Dept.RM# EDC 2nd Floor 211 South First Street, Alhambra, CA., 91801) 3rd Wednesday of the Month
Time: 6:30PM - 8:30PM Tina-626-298-9054 -
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March 2014 Birthdays
Allyson Li Andrew Gonzales
Aaron Gurrola Dillon Ray Keyes
Donna Morgan Elizabeth Pinon
Erik Ray Fuller Emjay Corn Born
Evion Yanez Griselda Gonzales
James Hartzell Jr. Jarred Mitchell
Jason Castro Jesse L. Aguilar
Joey Trujillo Jonathan Fields
Jose’ Esparza Jose Aguliar
Joseph Valenza Karl Dan Claes
Keisha Alejandra Molina Lindsey Langdon
Marsalee Ann Nicholas Matthew Flores
Michael Chacon Micheal Hernandez
Malaikye Thomas Gray Mitchell Ozier
Otilla Burton Herrera Richard Angel Flores
Roberto De La Vega Steven Paul Medrano
Sandy Smith Tony Wu
Travis Parker Yanzie Lizette Mora
We Will Always Remember You!
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March 2014 Memories
Adam Atencio Andrew Gonzales
Anne Marie Harrison Anthony Louis
Anthony Ledinich Chris Walsh
Christopher Martinez Colleen Kennedy
Danae Palermo Destiny Hernandez
Dwayne Durston III Erik Ray Fuller
Frederic Hoyle Jr. Hope Hernandez
Jacob Eric Jackson Keisha Alejandra Molina
Jason VanKleef Juan Macias
Kori VanHulle Laura Sanchez
Linda Whiting Marie C. Gonzales
Michiel A. Hyder-Blamey Phillip “Ben” Ackley
Raymond Moreno Robert Austin Burkey
Robert Davis Sgt. Stephen Lance Bowser
Stevland “STEVIE” Singleton Toni Parcel
Mickey & Trudy Thompson
Jacqueline McVoy (Matzke) & Gilbert Gutierrez
We Will Always Remember You!
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LOVE GIFTS In Loving Memory In Loving Memory
Malaikye Thomas Gray Jacob Eric Jackson 3/29/10 – 8/15/11 12/22/02-3/2/07
Justice was Served!
In Loving Memory In Loving Memory
Yanzie Lizette Mora Lindsey Langdon. 3/28/94 – 11/2/10 3/28/82 – 8/8/93
We Will Always Remember You!
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In Loving Memory David Charles Nystrom – 2/2/64 - 7/27/98 & Lisa Cummings – 11/13/66 – 3/12/11 Brother and Sister in Heaven ….. now together watching over their Mom (Ellie Rossi)
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Name (please print):_________________________________________________________________
Address____________________________________City/St.________________________Zip__________
Email address: __________________________________________________________
Your Phone # ( ) ____________________Relationship to Victim: _____________________________
Name of Victim: _________________________________________________________________
Date of Birth: Date of Death: ______________________
Please post my loved ones message and/or picture(s) for the month of: ___________
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In 2007, Congress designated September 25 as the "National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims." This special day gives us the chance to honor our nation’s murder victims and pray for surviving family members whose lives were forever changed by an act of violence. While our actions today cannot change the horrific past, it is my hope that our shared efforts will, at the very least, seek to remind us of the common bond we share as Americans. Their loss is our loss, and their pain is our pain. We must never forget. San Bernardino County District Attorneys’ Office online memorial boards is to do just that—honor the memories of those who lost their lives to a senseless act of violence in San Bernardino County.
If you would like to have your loved one's photo placed on our online memorial board, please send us one digital image along with the name of your loved one, date of birth and date of passing to [email protected]. Our memorial only dates back to 2011 when the District Attorney's website was revamped; however, if your loved one's date of passing is prior to 2011, you are also invited to submit your photos and be included in the memorial. The image must be at least 230 pixels wide and 290 pixels high (230x290). We will update this page once a year on September 25.
PRAYER VIGIL
VIOLENCE AFFECTS US ALL!
We invite everyone to come and pray with us!
Let us remember in a special way those who have died to violence in our families, communities and all around the nation,
as well as those who grieve their loss. Please bring a picture/memento if there is someone
You would like to remember who has died to violence (Homicide, suicide, war, accident, etc.).
Thursday Evening, March 20, 2014
San Salvador Catholic Church 169 W. L Street, Colton, CA 92324
7:00pm Mass (Bilingual) Celebrant: Bishop Rutilio Del Riego
A reception immediately following the Mass.
For more information, please contact: Mark Martinez, San Salvador Parish, 909-825-3481
Sr. Sue Reif, OSF, Director of Restorative Justice Ministry, Diocese of San Bernardino:
[email protected] o 909-475-5474.
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7th Annual
LAURAUnity and Peace Resource Fair LAURA = Life After Uncivil Ruthless Acts
Peace Walk & Breaking the Cycle of Violence
Saturday, March 29, 2014 10:00 am – 3:00 pm Fred Roberts Park 4700 Honduras St
Los Angeles, CA 90011
In Memory of Laura Sanchez and other innocent victims of homicide For more information, contact Adela Barajas at 323-816-9651 or [email protected].
National Crime Victims’ Rights Week: April 6 – April 12, 2014
"30 Years: Restoring the Balance of Justice."
The week of April 6 – April 12, 2014 will commemorate National Crime Victims’ Rights Week.
Throughout the country, regional events are held to honor lives that were lost to crime and to
recognize others who have worked tirelessly demonstrating commitment to the cause, by
promoting victims’ rights and honoring crime victims and those who advocate on their behalf.
FFMV will be partnering with San Bernardino County District Attorneys’ Office and other
community partners with events being planned for this week.
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Save the Date
Join Us in Honoring Victims of Crime
15th Annual Candlelight Remembrance
Thursday, April 10, 2014 at 6:00pm
Rancho Cucamonga Civic Center Courtyard
10500 Civic Center Drive
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730
Partnership
Bring Your Loved One’s Picture and Shoes to Display
We will have a “Clothesline” display Courtesy of San Bernardino District Attorney’s Office/Victim Services If you have a t-shirt already made that you would like to display please bring on the day of event.
If you would like your Loved Ones picture included in our slide show please e-mail a picture(s) to [email protected] or mail to POB 11222 San Bernardino, CA 92423-1222
(Please include DOB, DOD and full name of victim, & photo release form)
Community resource agencies please reserve your table by April 7th
Questions call: Rose 909-754-6969 – Rita 909-215-7063
(We will be moved indoors if it rains)
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Join Us
Crime Victims Memorial
Monday, April 7, 2014 12:00 – 1:00 p.m.
San Bernardino County Government Center Rotunda
385 North Arrowhead Avenue
San Bernardino, California
Sponsored by the Office of the District Attorney
ANNUAL VICTIMS MARCH ON THE CAPITOL!! TUESDAY, APRIL 8th, 2014!! West Steps of the State Capitol
Justice for Homicide Victims Annual Memorial Foundation Event – JHV
Sunday, April 21, 2013 @ 11:30am to 1:30pm Rose Hills Memorial Park, Just inside Gate 19 off Workman Mill Road
Victims March on the Capitol – Tuesday April 8th, 2013
Orange County District Attorney’s
Annual VICTIMS’ RIGHTS MARCH & RALLY
Led by District Attorney Tony Rackauckas
Friday April 11, 2014 9:30 a.m.
Contact: Susan Kang Schroeder Chief of Staff (714) 347-8408 [email protected]
Community Service Programs, Inc. is sponsoring this event
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Tuesday April 8th, 2014
6:30 PM – 8:00 PM
7th St & D St Cul-de-Sac
On the Steps of the San Bernardino Police Department
710 North D Street, San Bernardino, CA (Rain or Shine)
We need two volunteers at this vigil…please contact Rose at FFMV
Riverside County District Attorney Paul Zellerbach
and his office are honored to host their annual candlelight vigils recognizing
National Crime Victims’ Rights Week
TUESDAY, APRIL 8th
Palm Desert Civic Park (Amphitheatre) 43-900 San Pablo Ave., Palm Desert, CA 92260
760.863.8408 WEDNESDAY, APRIL 9th
Harveston Lake Park 40135 Village Road Dr., Temecula, CA 92591
951.304.5680 THURSDAY, APRIL 10th
Riverside County Historic Courthouse 4050 Main St., Riverside, CA 92501
951.955.5450 All Candlelight Vigils begin at 7:00 p.m.
Immediately following the Riverside Candlelight Vigil: Memorial Wall Gathering
Riverside County District Attorney’s Office Victim Memorial Courtyard
3960 Orange St., Riverside, CA 92501 For additional information please call: 951.955. 9888
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Justice for Murdered Children:
SaveThe Date, Saturday, " April 12, 2014-7:00-11:00am "National Crime Victims Rights Week-Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser, Peck Park, San Pedro, Ca HISTORY: JFMC was founded in 1996 by LaWanda Hawkins when her only child, Reggie was murdered. LaWanda, along with other parents who had lost children to homicide discovered that their cases were going unsolved and that they had been left out of the criminal justice process. Together they felt the need to form Justice For Murdered Children.
* Greater Orange County Chapter POMC
Monument and Vigil – Sunday April 13, 2014 6pm
Annual Candlelight Vigil & Names Dedication Ceremony Each year during Victim's Rights Week in April, victims of homicide are honored and remembered with a very special ceremony. The names of those who have been added to the Memorial Monument that year are dedicated during a candlelight vigil in their honor. The names of all those previously inscribed are mentioned prior to the ceremony.
The candlelight ceremony honors our Loved Ones as well as all victims of homicide. The event includes speakers, live music, information booths, and a display of memory quilts and loved one's photos.
Memory Garden Memorial
Park and Mortuary 455 W. Central Avenue
Brea, CA 92821 714-529-
Crime Survivors
Save the Date 10 Annual Survive and Thrive Run/Walk Health & safety Expo Saturday, April 12, 2014 Mason Regional Park, Irvine, CA
Schedule of Events
7:00 a.m. Registration Begins 8:15 a.m. Warm Up 8:30 a.m. Special Guest Presentation 9:00 a.m. Run/Walk 10:00 a.m. OC Crime Victims Monument Final Design Unveiling Program/Speakers Survivors Dove Release www.surviveandthriverunwalk.org
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Submitted by Jane Bouffard: JOIN JHV (Justice for Homicide Victims) MEMBERS AND SUPPORTERS BY WALKING/JOGGING 3 MILES OF THE FAMOUS L.A. MARATHON AS WE CARRY OUR BANER AND PICTURES FROM DODGER STADIUM TO THE SANTA MONICA PIER ON SUNDAY, MARCH 9, 2014. RAIN OR SHINE WE LAUGH ALL THE WAY CARRYING PICTURES OF OUR LOST LOVED ONES. WE HAVE NINE TEAMS OF 3 PEOPLE EACH WHO WALK/JOG 3 MILES EACH. DONATIONS ARE $75 FOR ADULTS AND $50 FOR THOSE UNDER 18. CALL CYNTHIAT 626-617-7801 TO ARRANGE TO PARTICIPATION. OR YOU CAN MAKE A TAX DEDUCTIBLE DONATION TO BY SENDING CHECKS TO JHV AT P.O. BOX 4202, CERRITOS, CA. 90703-4202.
"DETOUR" - a documentary
Multilevel Entertainment is passionate about producing a documentary entitled "DETOUR" to benefit Families & Friends of
Murder Victims, Inc., a 501(c)3 non-profit organization since 1995, dedicated to providing information, support, and
friendship to persons who have experienced the death of a loved one through the violent act of murder. This documentary
collaborates with real people and stories from the survivors: the families and friends of the murder victim. Their journeys
from loss to beginning a new life is also told by law makers and enforcers, medical professionals, and clergy.
Our goal is to create a poignant documentary that highlights the effects of homicide on society and the necessary coping
skills for those who are surviving the loss and grief of their loved one ... now, called the victim. By raising public
awareness, we hope that Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. will receive the financial support they need to continue
their work with survivors throughout Southern California in Los Angeles, San Bernardino, and Riverside Counties, and
become an international model program. For more information, visit igg.me/at/ffmvfilm
Submitted by Jane Boufford – Justice for Murdered Victims
I wanted to let you know, we have entered into a new partnership with a L.A. publication, Cuffed and Wanted.
They are publishing stories about unsolved cases in the Los Angeles area. Eventually, they hope to expand to
outlying areas. If you have members with unsolved L.A. crimes, they need to get us a release form (available on
our website) and a good picture. A brief story about the case; detectives to contact, rewards, etc. Publications
come out the 1st and the 15th of the month. We need information by about the 10 days prior to publication. They
are located in Signal Hill and I can easily run information over to them to make sure that it is the right pixel for
their paper.
CAMP GOOD GRIEF (SVP)
Camp Good Grief-Special Victims Program (SVP) is a joint effort between the San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Medical Center Children's Hospital. The 3-day grief camp is geared toward homicide/suicide and is for children ages 10-16 who have experienced a violent death in their family. Campers board a bus at the Ronald McDonald House in Loma Linda and head to Camp Cedar Falls in the San Bernardino Mountains for a three-day camp and grief therapy experience. At camp the children participate in game and team building activities and therapeutic group activities designed to help them learn and understand how to cope with the grief over the violent death of their loved one. This camp has been so successful that it has been expanded to include Camp Good Grief - Special Victims Program Teen Retreat. It will be held annually and provides grief services for teens ages 14-18 who previously participated in Camp Good Grief - SVP and whose lives have been positively impacted by camp. It will be a combination of learning advanced grief management skills as well as a training camp for future Camp Good Grief Peer Counselors. Camp is free of charge to all campers and camperships are funded by unclaimed victim restitution. Therapists and interns from Loma Linda Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic, Loma Linda Child Life Specialists and District Attorney's Office Victim Advocates donate their time to the camp. The Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Children's Hospital have pledged to continue fundraising activities, presentations to service groups, and outreach events so they may continue hosting future Camp Good Grief-SVP programs. Contact: Dorothy Brooks 909-558-4073
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The California VINE system is a service through which victims of crime can use the telephone or Internet to search for information regarding the custody status of their offender and to register to receive telephone and e-mail notification when the offender's custody status changes. The VINE toll-free number for the California VINE system is (877) 411-5588. This service is provided to assist Victims of Crime who have a right to know about their offender's custody status. The VINE mobile app is the "on-the-go" version of VINE, so that anyone can access vital information about criminals arrested in the community. VINE mobile is free to crime victims and is anonymous for users. It is available for both iPhone and Android smart phone users. Click here to visit the VINE Website and scroll to the bottom of the page for information on the app. https://www.vinelink.com/vinelink/siteInfoAction.do?siteId=5000
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From Rose Madsen, Editor/Chair/co-founder of the
Colton & Coachella Chapter of FFMV
In Memory of my daughter Jennifer LeAnne Balber 12/02/73 – 11/10/94
A 20yr. old SoCal Gas Co. Meter Reader, Fatally Shot in the Line of Service in Rialto, CA
Whenever you feel down, alone or unable to face a situation that you are in right now, let me tell you, that it’s totally fine. It is okay not to be okay all the time. It is okay to be on the ground, to cry and to hate everything. But it is only okay as long as you get back up again. Take your time to get all of your emotions out, but always keep in mind that the moment you’re in won’t last forever. Just don’t give up. Life isn’t about being strong all the time, but about the ability to become strong again after a defeat a loss or a bad experience. It’s about not losing hope in life and first and foremost – in yourself. So, don’t give up. Life is worth to be lived ~ ♥
My beautiful Jen…..I can no longer…See you with my eyes…Touch you with my hands… But I will feel you in my heart….Forever…Love, Mom
Send me your outcome of your court process or status of your case and I will post on our newsletter. Please update me with any changes to your mailing address, phone, or email, also if your loved ones picture, birthday or anniversary is skipped on newsletter, please let me know ASAP and I will correct I’m in the process of updating our new database. FFMV is excited about the documentary project that highlights the effects of homicide on society and the necessary coping skills for the survivors of the victims. If you are interested in participating, please email me at [email protected]. And I will forward your interest, I will keep you posted.
Grief is not healed in a certain time frame, the heart does not work that way...
I continue to pray for the families of the victims and surviving victims for PEACE, HOPE and JUSTICE!
Thoughtfully,
Rose
FFMV is a non-profit organization dedicated to serving survivors of murder victims & victims of attempted murder. Our main purpose is grief support for those victim/survivors. All assistance provided to victims is given free of charge by volunteers. Contributions and/or questions regarding the policies of FFMV may be addressed to: FFMV Executive Board at P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. 92423-1222, e-mailed to [email protected] or phoned to 909-754-6969 FFMV is a tax-exempt organization under the Section 501 (c) (3) of the Internal Revenue Service. Our Organization depends largely upon private donations which will cover operational expenses, Our Annual Family Christmas Memorial Luncheon, and Our Annual Victims’ Rights Week Memorial. We are seeking a sponsor (s) for our events. Please contact FFMV at the above e-mail or phone if you are interested. Tax ID #68-0299211 All Contributions Are Tax Deductible
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2014 Participant /Photo Release Form for slide show & picture boards
Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC (FFMV)
Circle one: New Participant ~ Update my information ~ Agency/Non Victim
Please Print
Date________________ Relationship to Victim_______________________
Victim’s First Name______________________________________________
Victim’s Last Name______________________________________________
Date of Birth _____________ Date of Death__________ Solved: Yes ( ) No ( )
Permission to use photo(s): Yes ( ) No ( ) Just add me to e-mail/mailing list to
receive monthly newsletter and event information
I grant to Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. (FFMV), the right to use
photograph(s) of the above-identified subject. I authorize FFMV to use and publish the same in print and/or electronically.
I agree that FFMV may use such photographs with or without his/her name and for
any lawful purpose, including for example such purposes as publicity, illustration, advertising, and Web content.
I have read and understand the above.
Name of Agency/Non-Victim if applicable: ________________________________
Signature _________________________________________________________
Print Full Name _____________________________________________________
Address___________________________________________________________
City__________________________________ Zip Code____________________
Phone with area code _______________________________________________
E-mail ____________________________________________________________
Mail or e-mail participant/release form to: [email protected]
FFMV ~ P.O.Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA ~ 92423-1222
I have included a picture ( ) Yes ( ) No use the one on file
I have included a $_________ a donation for 2014
Thank-you… if you have already sent a donation
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FORMA DE PERMISO
2014 Participante / Formulario de Autorización para la presentación de diapositivas de fotos y fotos juntas
Fecha: _____________ Relación con la víctima: ____________________________________ El Primer nombre de la victima: ____________________________________________ El Apellido de la victima: ________________________________________________ Fecha de nacimiento_________ Fecha de la muerte__________ Solucionado: Si ( ) No ( ) Permiso para usar la foto (s): Si ( ) No ( ) Sólo me agregar a la lista e-mail/mailing para recibir el boletín mensual, información de eventos Concedo a las FAMILIAS Y AMIGOS DE VICTIMAS DE HOMICIDIO, INC. (FFMV) el derecho a usar la fotografía (s) del sujeto identificado anteriormente. Autorizo FFMV a utilizar y publicar el mismo en forma impresa y / o electrónica. Estoy de acuerdo en que FFMV podrá utilizar dichas fotografías con o sin su su / nombre y para cualquier propósito legal, incluyendo, por ejemplo, con fines tales como la publicidad, la ilustración, el contenido publicitario y web. He leído y entendido lo anterior. Firma: ______________________________________________________________ Nombre en letra imprenta: ________________________________________________ Direccion: ____________________________________________________________ Ciudad: ____________________________ Estado: __________ Codigo postal: ____________ Telefono: (_____) _____-________ Celular: (_____) _______________________ e-mail: ___________________________________________________________________
Envíe por correo o e-mail participante / formulario de divulgación para FFMV ~ PO Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA 92423-1222 ~
He incluido una foto () Sí () No utilizar el que está en el archivo
He incluido una donación de $ _________ para 2014
Thank-you ... si ya ha enviado su donación 2014
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Please help with this legislation, to either sponsor or co-sponsor this urgently needed bill. The Darren Russell Bill aims to make laws ensuring better protection and assistance for Americans abroad. This legislation is urgently needed. Please write to Congressman Ed Royce (Chair of House Foreign Affairs Committee) and Senator Robert Menendez (Senate Foreign Relations Committee) asking them to either sponsor or co-sponsor this bill. Congressman Ed Royce Senator Robert Menendez
2185 Rayburn House Office Building 528 Senate Hart Office Building Washington, DC 20515 Washington, DC 20510 Phone: (202) 225-4111 Phone: (202) 224-4744 Senate Foreign Relations Committee Thanks, Maxine B. Russell - Mother of Darren - [email protected] On the web: www.russellcase.net (UPDATED) On Twitter: @killed_in_china In U.S. Federal Court: Case No. CV-09-06050