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Page 1: Families & Friends of Murder Victims - March 2014 newsletter

FFMV Birthdays 2014

March 2014

FFMV Memories 2014

Page 2: Families & Friends of Murder Victims - March 2014 newsletter

FAMILIES & FRIENDS OF MURDER VICTIMS, Inc.

(FFMV) Newsletter March 2014

Thank-you: *Carol Anderson – Website

*Kaiser – Oakland *Avaxat Elementary School- Murrieta

*St. Anthony’s Catholic Church-Upland *Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church

Grand Terrace *Palm Desert Library

*First United Methodist Church of La Puente *San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office of

Victim Services/Victim Advocates *Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of Victim

Services/Victim Advocates

* Dola Wiedemann – Mother of Lisel - Memory Cards *Family of Kris Flores

*Janet Garcia & Barbara Christian facebook administrators

* Ellie Rossi – Mother of David and Lisa

* San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office for sponsoring newsletter for 2014*

A million words would not bring you back,

I know because I’ve tried. Neither would a

million tears, I know because I’ve cried.

Inmate Locator, Department of Corrections is now making it

easier for people to locate prison inmates; it’s a free

online search and is open to the general public.

http://inmatelocator.cdcr.ca.gov\

Here is the new web address for

Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC

http://families-friends-

murdervictims.simplesite.com/

Attached is a 2014 FFMV Participant form,

please complete and mail or email

FFMV is updating data base on FFMV’s

new computer, especially if you have new

contact information. Thank-you

Need Someone to Talk To? * Bertha Flores - Parent - Spanish speaking (909)

200-5499 (after 3pm) Rialto CA

*Rose Madsen – Parent (909) 798-4803 (after 4pm)

– Redlands CA

*Maxine Russell – (818) 378-2072

Parent/Grief Counselor

*Dawn Hall – Parent (951) 757-4419 –

Murrieta CA

*Mary Stewart -Parent (951 698-5317) Emergency

Consult for Suicidal or

Homicidal Participants

*Linda Atencio -Parent – 760-662-4373 –

High Dessert

* Ellie Rossi - Parent - 909-810-8133 Redlands CA

* Delores Maloy- Parent – High Desert

Contact – 760-530-7027

* Shayla Adams – 760-475-3774

* Richard McVoy – Adult Sibling –

909-503-5456 – Grand Terrace CA

* Tanya Powell - Parent – 760-596-2293-

Upland CA

Families & Friends of Murder Victims: A non-profit organization Dedicated to providing information, support, and friendship to persons who have experienced the death of a loved one through the violent act of murder Share Sorrow….. Share Strength Mission: To restore a sense of hope and to provide a pathway to well-being to those who have lost a loved one to murder and to those who are victims of attempted murder.

Love Gifts

Love gifts are a specific tax deductible donation made to the memory of a loved one’s birthday, anniversary of a death, holiday, or just because which are posted in newsletter. They are also made by caring professionals, organizations to help in the work that FFMV does with victims/survivors. These gifts help with the expenses incurred in reaching out to others and operating expenses. When making out a check, please make payable to FFMV and note Love Gift on

check or envelope. Love Gifts can be mailed to FFMV- P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. - 92423-1222

Join Families & Friends of Murder Victims on

Thank-you

Janet Garcia Mother of Jesse Garcia – 6/10/78 – 6/27/94

Barbara Christian Mother of Terri Lynn Winchell–

4/10/63 – 1/8/81

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FFMV - Riverside Chapter

Meets on the 3rd Wednesday of every month at 7pm

Avaxat Elementary School, 24300 La Brisas Road in Murrieta, CA

Contact Dawn (951) 757-4419 For directions ask for PJ at-

951-696-1600 x2177 – M-F 9am-4pm (1-2pm lunch) Next Meeting is March 19th

FFMV - Colton Chapter

1st Tuesday of every month Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church

Robinson Hall – Room 6 12745 Oriole Ave Grand Terrace, CA

92313 Time: 6:00pm - 8:00pm

Contact person for directions or information Rose – 909-754-6969

[email protected] Next Meeting is March 4th

FFMV -Coachella Valley Chapter

Meets every 3rd Wednesday of every month

6:00pm – 7:30pm

Palm Desert Library – Community Room

73-300 Fred Waring Drive

Palm Desert, CA 92660

760-346-6552

Contact information

Rose – 909-754-6969

[email protected] Please contact Rose by Tuesday March18th to confirm you will be

attending March 19th Meeting

Oakland Chapter

1st Tuesday of every month

Kaiser in Oakland, Howe St. at Broadway,

12th floor Room 1200 East Contact: Robin – 510-653-8069

Sandra – 510-691-7089 Next meeting is March 4th

FFMV West End Chapter -Bi-lingual

Meets every 2nd Thursday of every month

at 7:00pm-8:30pm St. Anthony’s Catholic Church

Conference Room 2210 North San Antonio Upland, CA

91786 Participants have the option of the

English & Spanish Meeting

Local Grupo Bilingue Los participantes pueden escoger en

Inglés o en Español Se reunen cada Segundo Jueves del mes

a las 7:00 p.m. Contact persons/ Personas de contacto:

Rita Marin (909) 215-7063 [email protected]

Please contact Rita by Wednesday March 12th to confirm you will be attending

March 13th Meeting

FFMV – SGV Chapter

Meetings are currently held on the 2nd Tuesday of each month in a classroom at the First United Methodist Church of La Puente, located at. 15701 Hill Street, La Puente, CA

91744. Contact information:

* Luz Ruiz (626) 388-6403*Tracy Ponce (626) 533-3121 *Luisa Ashley (818) 445-2077

Next Meeting is March 11th

Grief Support Group ALL are welcome at our monthly meetings.

Whether you are a parishioner or not. If you

are suffering the loss of a loved one and in

need to talk to someone, we are here to listen

and share emotions.

Together and with the help of the Lord, we

can help each other heal.

Meetings are held every 2nd Wednesday of the

month 7 to 9 P.M. ~ Room 8

St. Anthony’s Church 1640 Western Ave. San

Bernardino (909)887-3810

Contacts: Hope Morfin (909)820-6163

Ralph & Arlene Payan (909)887-4387

(FFMV Participants)

Danny & Rose Equihua (909) 887-3744

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FFMV Fundraisers Office Depot - Staples – Office Max If you shop at Office Depot or Staples please use FFMV’s Rewards Number for Office Depot which is 1139461170 Office Max – 650756207, Staples- or use just give them 909-798-4803 for all three. We get reward points that help defray the cost of printing, ink cartridges and office supplies.

PLEASE….Don‘t throw away your old ink cartridges! Continue to bring them to us, or take them to Office Max, Staples or Office

Depot and give them 909-798-4803 It’s an easy way to help

FFMV purchase office supplies.

FFMV SGV Chapter News Announcements Luz shared that she would like to sell bracelets as a fundraiser for our chapter. These bracelets would be personalized with our loved one’s names on it and Luz Ruiz will make them herself. Each bracelet will cost $15. She will be posting pictures of the bracelets on her Facebook Page soon. She is taking orders now.

FFMV

Resources and Additional Support Services

San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office

of Victim Witness Centers: San Bernardino

(909) 387-6540

Rancho Cucamonga: (909) 945-4241*

Victorville/Desert area: (760)552-6947

Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of

Victim Witness Centers:

Riverside: (951) 955-5450

Murrieta: (951) 304-5680 * Banning: (951) 922-7130

* Indio: (760) 863-8408

*Los Angeles County District Attorney's Victim

Witness Assistance Program offices:

Pomona: 909) 620-3381

*Life.After.Uncivil.Ruthless.Acts.

323-816-9651 www.laurala.org

* WINGS OF JUSTICE – Website

www.murdermislabeledsuicide.com/WingsofJustice

*Women Against Gun Violence – 310-204-2348

www.wagv.org

*www.CrimeVictims.gov—public awareness Web

site

* H.E.A.L. Helping Everyone Acknowledge Loss –

818-378-2072– [email protected]

* Crime Victims United of California –

530-885-9544 www.crimevictimsunited.com or

[email protected]

* North American Victim Assistance (NOVA)

www.trynova.org

* Victims of Crime Resources Center (800)

VICTIMS

* POMC - (888) 818-POMC www.pomc.org

* Greater Orange County POMC –

Marie – 714-999-7132 – 562-508-2397

* Citizens Against Homicide - (415) 455-5944

* Justice for Murdered Children - (310) 547-1367

* Memory of Victims Everywhere - (949) 248-5470

[email protected]

* Resource for the Grieving and

Bereavedwww.griefcompanion.com

* Crime Survivors – 949-872-7895

www.crimesurvivors.com Bi-monthly meetings

held in Orange County

* Adela Lavine~Medium: www.adelalavine.com

* MADD – (909) 888-6233

www.maddsanbernardino.org

*JUSTICE FOR HOMICIDE VICTIMS - (310) 457-

0030 [email protected]

* Striving Towards Eradicating Violence In Ennercities

-S.T.E.V.I.E. [email protected]

[email protected]

* www.psychic4themissing.com

* Survivors of Murdered Children SGV Chapter – Alhambra Police Dept.RM# EDC 2nd Floor 211 South First Street, Alhambra, CA., 91801) 3rd Wednesday of the Month

Time: 6:30PM - 8:30PM Tina-626-298-9054 -

[email protected]

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March 2014 Birthdays

Allyson Li Andrew Gonzales

Aaron Gurrola Dillon Ray Keyes

Donna Morgan Elizabeth Pinon

Erik Ray Fuller Emjay Corn Born

Evion Yanez Griselda Gonzales

James Hartzell Jr. Jarred Mitchell

Jason Castro Jesse L. Aguilar

Joey Trujillo Jonathan Fields

Jose’ Esparza Jose Aguliar

Joseph Valenza Karl Dan Claes

Keisha Alejandra Molina Lindsey Langdon

Marsalee Ann Nicholas Matthew Flores

Michael Chacon Micheal Hernandez

Malaikye Thomas Gray Mitchell Ozier

Otilla Burton Herrera Richard Angel Flores

Roberto De La Vega Steven Paul Medrano

Sandy Smith Tony Wu

Travis Parker Yanzie Lizette Mora

We Will Always Remember You!

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March 2014 Memories

Adam Atencio Andrew Gonzales

Anne Marie Harrison Anthony Louis

Anthony Ledinich Chris Walsh

Christopher Martinez Colleen Kennedy

Danae Palermo Destiny Hernandez

Dwayne Durston III Erik Ray Fuller

Frederic Hoyle Jr. Hope Hernandez

Jacob Eric Jackson Keisha Alejandra Molina

Jason VanKleef Juan Macias

Kori VanHulle Laura Sanchez

Linda Whiting Marie C. Gonzales

Michiel A. Hyder-Blamey Phillip “Ben” Ackley

Raymond Moreno Robert Austin Burkey

Robert Davis Sgt. Stephen Lance Bowser

Stevland “STEVIE” Singleton Toni Parcel

Mickey & Trudy Thompson

Jacqueline McVoy (Matzke) & Gilbert Gutierrez

We Will Always Remember You!

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LOVE GIFTS In Loving Memory In Loving Memory

Malaikye Thomas Gray Jacob Eric Jackson 3/29/10 – 8/15/11 12/22/02-3/2/07

Justice was Served!

In Loving Memory In Loving Memory

Yanzie Lizette Mora Lindsey Langdon. 3/28/94 – 11/2/10 3/28/82 – 8/8/93

We Will Always Remember You!

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In Loving Memory David Charles Nystrom – 2/2/64 - 7/27/98 & Lisa Cummings – 11/13/66 – 3/12/11 Brother and Sister in Heaven ….. now together watching over their Mom (Ellie Rossi)

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------------------------------------------------------------Love Gift-----------------------------------------------------------------

Donation $_______________

Name (please print):_________________________________________________________________

Address____________________________________City/St.________________________Zip__________

Email address: __________________________________________________________

Your Phone # ( ) ____________________Relationship to Victim: _____________________________

Name of Victim: _________________________________________________________________

Date of Birth: Date of Death: ______________________

Please post my loved ones message and/or picture(s) for the month of: ___________

# of pictures enclosed/attached ____________ Use picture on file_______________

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In 2007, Congress designated September 25 as the "National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims." This special day gives us the chance to honor our nation’s murder victims and pray for surviving family members whose lives were forever changed by an act of violence. While our actions today cannot change the horrific past, it is my hope that our shared efforts will, at the very least, seek to remind us of the common bond we share as Americans. Their loss is our loss, and their pain is our pain. We must never forget. San Bernardino County District Attorneys’ Office online memorial boards is to do just that—honor the memories of those who lost their lives to a senseless act of violence in San Bernardino County.

If you would like to have your loved one's photo placed on our online memorial board, please send us one digital image along with the name of your loved one, date of birth and date of passing to [email protected]. Our memorial only dates back to 2011 when the District Attorney's website was revamped; however, if your loved one's date of passing is prior to 2011, you are also invited to submit your photos and be included in the memorial. The image must be at least 230 pixels wide and 290 pixels high (230x290). We will update this page once a year on September 25.

PRAYER VIGIL

VIOLENCE AFFECTS US ALL!

We invite everyone to come and pray with us!

Let us remember in a special way those who have died to violence in our families, communities and all around the nation,

as well as those who grieve their loss. Please bring a picture/memento if there is someone

You would like to remember who has died to violence (Homicide, suicide, war, accident, etc.).

Thursday Evening, March 20, 2014

San Salvador Catholic Church 169 W. L Street, Colton, CA 92324

7:00pm Mass (Bilingual) Celebrant: Bishop Rutilio Del Riego

A reception immediately following the Mass.

For more information, please contact: Mark Martinez, San Salvador Parish, 909-825-3481

Sr. Sue Reif, OSF, Director of Restorative Justice Ministry, Diocese of San Bernardino:

[email protected] o 909-475-5474.

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7th Annual

LAURAUnity and Peace Resource Fair LAURA = Life After Uncivil Ruthless Acts

Peace Walk & Breaking the Cycle of Violence

Saturday, March 29, 2014 10:00 am – 3:00 pm Fred Roberts Park 4700 Honduras St

Los Angeles, CA 90011

In Memory of Laura Sanchez and other innocent victims of homicide For more information, contact Adela Barajas at 323-816-9651 or [email protected].

National Crime Victims’ Rights Week: April 6 – April 12, 2014

"30 Years: Restoring the Balance of Justice."

The week of April 6 – April 12, 2014 will commemorate National Crime Victims’ Rights Week.

Throughout the country, regional events are held to honor lives that were lost to crime and to

recognize others who have worked tirelessly demonstrating commitment to the cause, by

promoting victims’ rights and honoring crime victims and those who advocate on their behalf.

FFMV will be partnering with San Bernardino County District Attorneys’ Office and other

community partners with events being planned for this week.

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Save the Date

Join Us in Honoring Victims of Crime

15th Annual Candlelight Remembrance

Thursday, April 10, 2014 at 6:00pm

Rancho Cucamonga Civic Center Courtyard

10500 Civic Center Drive

Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730

Partnership

Bring Your Loved One’s Picture and Shoes to Display

We will have a “Clothesline” display Courtesy of San Bernardino District Attorney’s Office/Victim Services If you have a t-shirt already made that you would like to display please bring on the day of event.

If you would like your Loved Ones picture included in our slide show please e-mail a picture(s) to [email protected] or mail to POB 11222 San Bernardino, CA 92423-1222

(Please include DOB, DOD and full name of victim, & photo release form)

Community resource agencies please reserve your table by April 7th

Questions call: Rose 909-754-6969 – Rita 909-215-7063

(We will be moved indoors if it rains)

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Join Us

Crime Victims Memorial

Monday, April 7, 2014 12:00 – 1:00 p.m.

San Bernardino County Government Center Rotunda

385 North Arrowhead Avenue

San Bernardino, California

Sponsored by the Office of the District Attorney

ANNUAL VICTIMS MARCH ON THE CAPITOL!! TUESDAY, APRIL 8th, 2014!! West Steps of the State Capitol

Justice for Homicide Victims Annual Memorial Foundation Event – JHV

Sunday, April 21, 2013 @ 11:30am to 1:30pm Rose Hills Memorial Park, Just inside Gate 19 off Workman Mill Road

Victims March on the Capitol – Tuesday April 8th, 2013

Orange County District Attorney’s

Annual VICTIMS’ RIGHTS MARCH & RALLY

Led by District Attorney Tony Rackauckas

Friday April 11, 2014 9:30 a.m.

Contact: Susan Kang Schroeder Chief of Staff (714) 347-8408 [email protected]

Community Service Programs, Inc. is sponsoring this event

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Tuesday April 8th, 2014

6:30 PM – 8:00 PM

7th St & D St Cul-de-Sac

On the Steps of the San Bernardino Police Department

710 North D Street, San Bernardino, CA (Rain or Shine)

We need two volunteers at this vigil…please contact Rose at FFMV

Riverside County District Attorney Paul Zellerbach

and his office are honored to host their annual candlelight vigils recognizing

National Crime Victims’ Rights Week

TUESDAY, APRIL 8th

Palm Desert Civic Park (Amphitheatre) 43-900 San Pablo Ave., Palm Desert, CA 92260

760.863.8408 WEDNESDAY, APRIL 9th

Harveston Lake Park 40135 Village Road Dr., Temecula, CA 92591

951.304.5680 THURSDAY, APRIL 10th

Riverside County Historic Courthouse 4050 Main St., Riverside, CA 92501

951.955.5450 All Candlelight Vigils begin at 7:00 p.m.

Immediately following the Riverside Candlelight Vigil: Memorial Wall Gathering

Riverside County District Attorney’s Office Victim Memorial Courtyard

3960 Orange St., Riverside, CA 92501 For additional information please call: 951.955. 9888

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Justice for Murdered Children:

SaveThe Date, Saturday, " April 12, 2014-7:00-11:00am "National Crime Victims Rights Week-Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser, Peck Park, San Pedro, Ca HISTORY: JFMC was founded in 1996 by LaWanda Hawkins when her only child, Reggie was murdered. LaWanda, along with other parents who had lost children to homicide discovered that their cases were going unsolved and that they had been left out of the criminal justice process. Together they felt the need to form Justice For Murdered Children.

* Greater Orange County Chapter POMC

Monument and Vigil – Sunday April 13, 2014 6pm

Annual Candlelight Vigil & Names Dedication Ceremony Each year during Victim's Rights Week in April, victims of homicide are honored and remembered with a very special ceremony. The names of those who have been added to the Memorial Monument that year are dedicated during a candlelight vigil in their honor. The names of all those previously inscribed are mentioned prior to the ceremony.

The candlelight ceremony honors our Loved Ones as well as all victims of homicide. The event includes speakers, live music, information booths, and a display of memory quilts and loved one's photos.

Memory Garden Memorial

Park and Mortuary 455 W. Central Avenue

Brea, CA 92821 714-529-

Crime Survivors

Save the Date 10 Annual Survive and Thrive Run/Walk Health & safety Expo Saturday, April 12, 2014 Mason Regional Park, Irvine, CA

Schedule of Events

7:00 a.m. Registration Begins 8:15 a.m. Warm Up 8:30 a.m. Special Guest Presentation 9:00 a.m. Run/Walk 10:00 a.m. OC Crime Victims Monument Final Design Unveiling Program/Speakers Survivors Dove Release www.surviveandthriverunwalk.org

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Submitted by Jane Bouffard: JOIN JHV (Justice for Homicide Victims) MEMBERS AND SUPPORTERS BY WALKING/JOGGING 3 MILES OF THE FAMOUS L.A. MARATHON AS WE CARRY OUR BANER AND PICTURES FROM DODGER STADIUM TO THE SANTA MONICA PIER ON SUNDAY, MARCH 9, 2014. RAIN OR SHINE WE LAUGH ALL THE WAY CARRYING PICTURES OF OUR LOST LOVED ONES. WE HAVE NINE TEAMS OF 3 PEOPLE EACH WHO WALK/JOG 3 MILES EACH. DONATIONS ARE $75 FOR ADULTS AND $50 FOR THOSE UNDER 18. CALL CYNTHIAT 626-617-7801 TO ARRANGE TO PARTICIPATION. OR YOU CAN MAKE A TAX DEDUCTIBLE DONATION TO BY SENDING CHECKS TO JHV AT P.O. BOX 4202, CERRITOS, CA. 90703-4202.

"DETOUR" - a documentary

Multilevel Entertainment is passionate about producing a documentary entitled "DETOUR" to benefit Families & Friends of

Murder Victims, Inc., a 501(c)3 non-profit organization since 1995, dedicated to providing information, support, and

friendship to persons who have experienced the death of a loved one through the violent act of murder. This documentary

collaborates with real people and stories from the survivors: the families and friends of the murder victim. Their journeys

from loss to beginning a new life is also told by law makers and enforcers, medical professionals, and clergy.

Our goal is to create a poignant documentary that highlights the effects of homicide on society and the necessary coping

skills for those who are surviving the loss and grief of their loved one ... now, called the victim. By raising public

awareness, we hope that Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. will receive the financial support they need to continue

their work with survivors throughout Southern California in Los Angeles, San Bernardino, and Riverside Counties, and

become an international model program. For more information, visit igg.me/at/ffmvfilm

Submitted by Jane Boufford – Justice for Murdered Victims

I wanted to let you know, we have entered into a new partnership with a L.A. publication, Cuffed and Wanted.

They are publishing stories about unsolved cases in the Los Angeles area. Eventually, they hope to expand to

outlying areas. If you have members with unsolved L.A. crimes, they need to get us a release form (available on

our website) and a good picture. A brief story about the case; detectives to contact, rewards, etc. Publications

come out the 1st and the 15th of the month. We need information by about the 10 days prior to publication. They

are located in Signal Hill and I can easily run information over to them to make sure that it is the right pixel for

their paper.

[email protected]

CAMP GOOD GRIEF (SVP)

Camp Good Grief-Special Victims Program (SVP) is a joint effort between the San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Medical Center Children's Hospital. The 3-day grief camp is geared toward homicide/suicide and is for children ages 10-16 who have experienced a violent death in their family. Campers board a bus at the Ronald McDonald House in Loma Linda and head to Camp Cedar Falls in the San Bernardino Mountains for a three-day camp and grief therapy experience. At camp the children participate in game and team building activities and therapeutic group activities designed to help them learn and understand how to cope with the grief over the violent death of their loved one. This camp has been so successful that it has been expanded to include Camp Good Grief - Special Victims Program Teen Retreat. It will be held annually and provides grief services for teens ages 14-18 who previously participated in Camp Good Grief - SVP and whose lives have been positively impacted by camp. It will be a combination of learning advanced grief management skills as well as a training camp for future Camp Good Grief Peer Counselors. Camp is free of charge to all campers and camperships are funded by unclaimed victim restitution. Therapists and interns from Loma Linda Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic, Loma Linda Child Life Specialists and District Attorney's Office Victim Advocates donate their time to the camp. The Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Children's Hospital have pledged to continue fundraising activities, presentations to service groups, and outreach events so they may continue hosting future Camp Good Grief-SVP programs. Contact: Dorothy Brooks 909-558-4073

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The California VINE system is a service through which victims of crime can use the telephone or Internet to search for information regarding the custody status of their offender and to register to receive telephone and e-mail notification when the offender's custody status changes. The VINE toll-free number for the California VINE system is (877) 411-5588. This service is provided to assist Victims of Crime who have a right to know about their offender's custody status. The VINE mobile app is the "on-the-go" version of VINE, so that anyone can access vital information about criminals arrested in the community. VINE mobile is free to crime victims and is anonymous for users. It is available for both iPhone and Android smart phone users. Click here to visit the VINE Website and scroll to the bottom of the page for information on the app. https://www.vinelink.com/vinelink/siteInfoAction.do?siteId=5000

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From Rose Madsen, Editor/Chair/co-founder of the

Colton & Coachella Chapter of FFMV

In Memory of my daughter Jennifer LeAnne Balber 12/02/73 – 11/10/94

A 20yr. old SoCal Gas Co. Meter Reader, Fatally Shot in the Line of Service in Rialto, CA

Whenever you feel down, alone or unable to face a situation that you are in right now, let me tell you, that it’s totally fine. It is okay not to be okay all the time. It is okay to be on the ground, to cry and to hate everything. But it is only okay as long as you get back up again. Take your time to get all of your emotions out, but always keep in mind that the moment you’re in won’t last forever. Just don’t give up. Life isn’t about being strong all the time, but about the ability to become strong again after a defeat a loss or a bad experience. It’s about not losing hope in life and first and foremost – in yourself. So, don’t give up. Life is worth to be lived ~ ♥

My beautiful Jen…..I can no longer…See you with my eyes…Touch you with my hands… But I will feel you in my heart….Forever…Love, Mom

Send me your outcome of your court process or status of your case and I will post on our newsletter. Please update me with any changes to your mailing address, phone, or email, also if your loved ones picture, birthday or anniversary is skipped on newsletter, please let me know ASAP and I will correct I’m in the process of updating our new database. FFMV is excited about the documentary project that highlights the effects of homicide on society and the necessary coping skills for the survivors of the victims. If you are interested in participating, please email me at [email protected]. And I will forward your interest, I will keep you posted.

Grief is not healed in a certain time frame, the heart does not work that way...

I continue to pray for the families of the victims and surviving victims for PEACE, HOPE and JUSTICE!

Thoughtfully,

Rose

FFMV is a non-profit organization dedicated to serving survivors of murder victims & victims of attempted murder. Our main purpose is grief support for those victim/survivors. All assistance provided to victims is given free of charge by volunteers. Contributions and/or questions regarding the policies of FFMV may be addressed to: FFMV Executive Board at P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. 92423-1222, e-mailed to [email protected] or phoned to 909-754-6969 FFMV is a tax-exempt organization under the Section 501 (c) (3) of the Internal Revenue Service. Our Organization depends largely upon private donations which will cover operational expenses, Our Annual Family Christmas Memorial Luncheon, and Our Annual Victims’ Rights Week Memorial. We are seeking a sponsor (s) for our events. Please contact FFMV at the above e-mail or phone if you are interested. Tax ID #68-0299211 All Contributions Are Tax Deductible

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2014 Participant /Photo Release Form for slide show & picture boards

Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC (FFMV)

Circle one: New Participant ~ Update my information ~ Agency/Non Victim

Please Print

Date________________ Relationship to Victim_______________________

Victim’s First Name______________________________________________

Victim’s Last Name______________________________________________

Date of Birth _____________ Date of Death__________ Solved: Yes ( ) No ( )

Permission to use photo(s): Yes ( ) No ( ) Just add me to e-mail/mailing list to

receive monthly newsletter and event information

I grant to Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. (FFMV), the right to use

photograph(s) of the above-identified subject. I authorize FFMV to use and publish the same in print and/or electronically.

I agree that FFMV may use such photographs with or without his/her name and for

any lawful purpose, including for example such purposes as publicity, illustration, advertising, and Web content.

I have read and understand the above.

Name of Agency/Non-Victim if applicable: ________________________________

Signature _________________________________________________________

Print Full Name _____________________________________________________

Address___________________________________________________________

City__________________________________ Zip Code____________________

Phone with area code _______________________________________________

E-mail ____________________________________________________________

Mail or e-mail participant/release form to: [email protected]

FFMV ~ P.O.Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA ~ 92423-1222

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2014 Participante / Formulario de Autorización para la presentación de diapositivas de fotos y fotos juntas

Fecha: _____________ Relación con la víctima: ____________________________________ El Primer nombre de la victima: ____________________________________________ El Apellido de la victima: ________________________________________________ Fecha de nacimiento_________ Fecha de la muerte__________ Solucionado: Si ( ) No ( ) Permiso para usar la foto (s): Si ( ) No ( ) Sólo me agregar a la lista e-mail/mailing para recibir el boletín mensual, información de eventos Concedo a las FAMILIAS Y AMIGOS DE VICTIMAS DE HOMICIDIO, INC. (FFMV) el derecho a usar la fotografía (s) del sujeto identificado anteriormente. Autorizo FFMV a utilizar y publicar el mismo en forma impresa y / o electrónica. Estoy de acuerdo en que FFMV podrá utilizar dichas fotografías con o sin su su / nombre y para cualquier propósito legal, incluyendo, por ejemplo, con fines tales como la publicidad, la ilustración, el contenido publicitario y web. He leído y entendido lo anterior. Firma: ______________________________________________________________ Nombre en letra imprenta: ________________________________________________ Direccion: ____________________________________________________________ Ciudad: ____________________________ Estado: __________ Codigo postal: ____________ Telefono: (_____) _____-________ Celular: (_____) _______________________ e-mail: ___________________________________________________________________

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Please help with this legislation, to either sponsor or co-sponsor this urgently needed bill. The Darren Russell Bill aims to make laws ensuring better protection and assistance for Americans abroad. This legislation is urgently needed. Please write to Congressman Ed Royce (Chair of House Foreign Affairs Committee) and Senator Robert Menendez (Senate Foreign Relations Committee) asking them to either sponsor or co-sponsor this bill. Congressman Ed Royce Senator Robert Menendez

2185 Rayburn House Office Building 528 Senate Hart Office Building Washington, DC 20515 Washington, DC 20510 Phone: (202) 225-4111 Phone: (202) 224-4744 Senate Foreign Relations Committee Thanks, Maxine B. Russell - Mother of Darren - [email protected] On the web: www.russellcase.net (UPDATED) On Twitter: @killed_in_china In U.S. Federal Court: Case No. CV-09-06050