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Page 1: Enabling Overcoming Desiring. 1 Abraham took another wife, whose name was Keturah. 2 She bore him Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak and Shuah. 3

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1Abraham took another wife, whose name was Keturah. 2She bore him Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak and Shuah. 3Jokshan was the father of Sheba and Dedan; the descendants of Dedan were the Asshurites, the Letushites and the Leummites. 4The sons of Midian were Ephah, Epher, Hanoch, Abida and Eldaah. All these were descendants of Keturah.

We are uncertain of the chronology of this. We are uncertain of the chronology of this. Perhaps Keturah came along while Sarah was still Perhaps Keturah came along while Sarah was still living. Chronology is not the concern, here, but living. Chronology is not the concern, here, but rather the family tree. rather the family tree.

Keturah had second-class wife status like Hagar Keturah had second-class wife status like Hagar did.did.

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1Abraham took another wife, whose name was Keturah. 2She bore him Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak and Shuah. 3Jokshan was the father of Sheba and Dedan; the descendants of Dedan were the Asshurites, the Letushites and the Leummites. 4The sons of Midian were Ephah, Epher, Hanoch, Abida and Eldaah. All these were descendants of Keturah. 5Abraham left everything he owned to Isaac. 6But while he was still living, he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines and sent them away from his son Isaac to the land of the east.

All the marbles are with Isaac. Abraham trusts God All the marbles are with Isaac. Abraham trusts God in this.in this.

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7Altogether, Abraham lived a hundred and seventy-five years. 8Then Abraham breathed his last and died at a good old age, an old man and full of years; and he was gathered to his people. 9His sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in the cave of Machpelah near Mamre, in the field of Ephron son of Zohar the Hittite, 10the field Abraham had bought from the Hittites. There Abraham was buried with his wife Sarah. 11After Abraham’s death, God blessed his son Isaac, who then lived near Beer Lahai Roi.

Live like you want to end up.

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25:12-18 ~ Ishmael’s line

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. Can/will God work in your life, Can/will God work in your life,

regardless of your background or regardless of your background or lack of qualifications?lack of qualifications?

Abraham~ wandering Abraham~ wandering ArameanAramean who stumbled who stumbled sometimes.sometimes.Isaac ~ second-born Isaac ~ second-born spoiled kidspoiled kidRebekah ~ unknown girl Rebekah ~ unknown girl from a from a long way long way off.off.Jacob ~ runner-up Jacob ~ runner-up mama’s boymama’s boy

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. Can/will God work in your life, Can/will God work in your life,

regardless of your background or regardless of your background or lack of qualifications?lack of qualifications?

Joseph ~ Born late and hated by his brothers

Israel ~ an enslaved peopleMoses ~ a killer; outcast and shepherd

Joshua and Caleb ~ the minority report Rahab ~ a pagan prostitute

The Judges ~ Ehud, a lefty; Shamgar with a stick;

Deborah and Jael, the girls; Gideon; Jephthah.

Donkey (Number 22) and lowing cows (I Samuel 6)

I Corinthians 6:9-11.

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. Can/will God work in your life, Can/will God work in your life,

regardless of your background or regardless of your background or lack of qualifications?lack of qualifications?

Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers s will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. Can/will God work in your life, Can/will God work in your life,

regardless of your background or regardless of your background or lack of qualifications?lack of qualifications?

Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers s will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren.

Can/will God work in your Can/will God work in your life, life,

regardless of your regardless of your circumstances?circumstances?

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurring: sickness, disaster. (Stuff that happens.)

(God is after Christlikeness, not the perks. The eternal, not the temporary.)

Incorporating events into the Plan.Covered in Romans 8.

Can/will God work in your Can/will God work in your life, life,

regardless of your regardless of your circumstances?circumstances?

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf Inflicted

Sin Mistakes/misreads

Can/will God work in your Can/will God work in your life, life,

regardless of your regardless of your circumstances?circumstances?

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf InflictedOther Inflicted

Sin ~ the brothersMistakes/misreadsWhat if Rebecca had said “Forget it!” Would the plan of God had been thwarted?

Can/will God work in your Can/will God work in your life, life,

regardless of your regardless of your circumstances?circumstances?

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf InflictedOther InflictedGod directed

Forcing a choice. Various conquerors of Israel.

Can/will God work in your Can/will God work in your life, life,

regardless of your regardless of your circumstances?circumstances?

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf InflictedOther Inflicted.God directed.

Forcing a choice.He has a plan. Hannah in I Samuel 1 or Israel going to Egypt. Augustus’ taxation.

Can/will God work in your Can/will God work in your life, life,

regardless of your regardless of your circumstances?circumstances?

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf Inflicted~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ted.God directed.

Forcing a choice.He has a plan. Hannah in I Samuel 1 or Israel going to Egypt. Augustus’ taxation.

19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant. 22The babies jostled each other within her, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the LORD. 23The LORD said to her,

“Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be

separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf Inflicted~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ted.Has this happened because I have sinned or because this is part of God’s plan or because someone else sinned or it just happened or . . . or . . . or . . .

19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant. 22The babies jostled each other within her, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the LORD. 23The LORD said to her,

“Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be

separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”

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19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

Naturally occurringSelf Inflicted~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ted.The relevant questions are these: “In this circumstance, what is the path of greatest obedience, of greatest honor to Christ?” and “Will I trust God in and with this circumstance?”

Romans 8:28; Ephesians 1:11

19This is the account of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant. 22The babies jostled each other within her, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the LORD. 23The LORD said to her,

“Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be

separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”

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24When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. 25The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau. 26After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel; so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them.

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27The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was a quiet man, staying among the tents. 28Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.

Macho man versus the mama’s boy.

Do not model parenting on this . . .

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29Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) 31Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

In raising the boys for their “destinies, Isaac would emphasize the birth order, Rebekah the prophecy.

Jacob values what Esau has by birthright. He probably understands that he would end up with it anyway. He seeks to steal what was promised . . .

Esau the hunter, would not worry about the runt taking anything from him.

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29Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) 31Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” 32“Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Would Esau take this seriously?

He could just beat it out of Jacob later and get it back.

This is not a life and death matter, but it becomes one.

(If he could say that he was about to die, he wasn’t.)

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29Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) 31Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” 32“Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” 33But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. 34Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Again, I doubt that Esau was taking this seriously, but some things you just don’t play with.

This action shows low regard for the gift of God and probably extreme self-confidence.

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29Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) 31Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” 32“Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” 33But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. 34Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. So Esau despised his birthright.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~He treats the gift of God, his by birth order, as something trivial, which is a huge insult to God.

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29Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) 31Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” 32“Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” 33But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. 34Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. So Esau despised his birthright.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~He treats the gift of God, his by birth order, as something trivial, which is a huge insult to God.

But we do this all the But we do this all the time!time!

It started in Eden.It started in Eden.

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29Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.) 31Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” 32“Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” 33But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. 34Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. So Esau despised his birthright.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~He treats the gift of God, his by birth order, as something trivial, which is a huge insult to God.

Rejecting ChristRejecting Christor worse,or worse,

apathy toward him.apathy toward him.

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Applications:

Live now with being old and full of good years in view.

Live out God’s esteem of you. The great paradox.

We had a destiny.By his grace, he has a Plan that overrules it.

We are pathetically unqualified. In Christ, we have been qualified.

We have no ability to bring to God.By his Spirit, he enables us

Ephesians 2:1-10

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Applications:

Live now with being old and full of good years in view.

Live out God’s esteem of you. The great paradox.

Honor him in all situations, trusting him for the Good.

What is my purpose?

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Applications:

Live now with being old and full of good years in view.

Live out God’s esteem of you. The great paradox.

Honor him in all situations, trusting him for the Good.

Value the Gift above all!

Everything finds definition and completeness in this.

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