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A PASSIONATE BUDDHIST LIFEEmily McRae ABSTRACT This paper addresses the ways that we can understand and transform our strong emotions and how this project contributes to moral and spiritual development. To this end, I choose to think with two Tibetan Buddhist thinkers, both of whom take up the question of how passionate emotions can fit into spiritual and moral life: the famous, playful yogin Shabkar Tsodruk Rangdrol (1781–1851) and the wandering, charismatic master Patrul Rin- poche (1808–1887). Shabkar’s The Autobiography of Shabkar provides excel- lent examples of using one’s own passionate emotions to connect to others and gain insight into the world. Patrul Rinpoche’s The Words of My Perfect Teacher (kun bzang bla ma’i zhal lung) focuses on passionate empathy with the emotions of others. Drawing on these texts, I present a (distinctly Buddhist) conception of a passionate life and argue that passionate emo- tional experience is a central part of moral and spiritual development more broadly construed. KEY WORDS: Buddhism, emotions, ethics, passion, Patrul Rinpoche, Zhabkar IN GEORGE ELIOT’S LAST NOVEL, Daniel Deronda, the title character offers advice to his desperate friend Gwendolen, who suffers from debili- tating moral guilt and a growing recognition of the depth of her own selfishness. Deronda encourages her to use her suffering to connect with others and to broaden her interests beyond the vicissitudes of her own life. He tells her, “It is the curse of your life—forgive me—of so many lives, that all passion is spent in that narrow round, for want of ideas and sympathies to make a larger home for it” (Eliot 1876, 78). This paper addresses the ways that we can “make a larger home” for our passions and how this project contributes to moral and spiritual development. To this end, I choose to think with two Tibetan Buddhist thinkers, both of whom take up the question of how passionate emotions can fit into spiritual and moral life: the famous, playful yogin Shabkar Tsodruk Rangdrol (1781–1851) and the wandering, charismatic master Patrul Rinpoche (1808–1887). Shabkar’s The Autobiography of Shabkar provides excellent examples of using one’s own passionate emotions to connect to others and gain insight into the world. Patrul Rinpoche’s The Words of My Perfect Teacher (kun bzang la ma’i zhal lung) focuses on Emily McRae is Assistant Professor of Philosophy at the University of Oklahoma. She specializes in ethics, feminism, and Tibetan Buddhist philosophy. Emily McRae, Department of Philosophy, University of Oklahoma, 555 Constitution Ave., Rm. 208, Norman, OK 73072, [email protected] JRE 40.1:99–121. © 2012 Journal of Religious Ethics, Inc.

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A PASSIONATE BUDDHIST LIFEjore_510 99..121

Emily McRae

ABSTRACT

This paper addresses the ways that we can understand and transform ourstrong emotions and how this project contributes to moral and spiritualdevelopment. To this end, I choose to think with two Tibetan Buddhistthinkers, both of whom take up the question of how passionate emotions canfit into spiritual and moral life: the famous, playful yogin Shabkar TsodrukRangdrol (1781–1851) and the wandering, charismatic master Patrul Rin-poche (1808–1887). Shabkar’s The Autobiography of Shabkar provides excel-lent examples of using one’s own passionate emotions to connect to othersand gain insight into the world. Patrul Rinpoche’s The Words of My PerfectTeacher (kun bzang bla ma’i zhal lung) focuses on passionate empathy withthe emotions of others. Drawing on these texts, I present a (distinctlyBuddhist) conception of a passionate life and argue that passionate emo-tional experience is a central part of moral and spiritual development morebroadly construed.

KEY WORDS: Buddhism, emotions, ethics, passion, Patrul Rinpoche, Zhabkar

IN GEORGE ELIOT’S LAST NOVEL, Daniel Deronda, the title characteroffers advice to his desperate friend Gwendolen, who suffers from debili-tating moral guilt and a growing recognition of the depth of her ownselfishness. Deronda encourages her to use her suffering to connect withothers and to broaden her interests beyond the vicissitudes of her own life.He tells her, “It is the curse of your life—forgive me—of so many lives,that all passion is spent in that narrow round, for want of ideas andsympathies to make a larger home for it” (Eliot 1876, 78).

This paper addresses the ways that we can “make a larger home” forour passions and how this project contributes to moral and spiritualdevelopment. To this end, I choose to think with two Tibetan Buddhistthinkers, both of whom take up the question of how passionate emotionscan fit into spiritual and moral life: the famous, playful yogin ShabkarTsodruk Rangdrol (1781–1851) and the wandering, charismatic masterPatrul Rinpoche (1808–1887). Shabkar’s The Autobiography of Shabkarprovides excellent examples of using one’s own passionate emotions toconnect to others and gain insight into the world. Patrul Rinpoche’s TheWords of My Perfect Teacher (kun bzang la ma’i zhal lung) focuses on

Emily McRae is Assistant Professor of Philosophy at the University of Oklahoma. Shespecializes in ethics, feminism, and Tibetan Buddhist philosophy. Emily McRae, Departmentof Philosophy, University of Oklahoma, 555 Constitution Ave., Rm. 208, Norman, OK 73072,[email protected]

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passionate empathy with the emotions of others.1 Drawing on these texts,I present a (distinctly Buddhist) conception of a passionate life and arguethat passionate emotional experience is a central part of moral andspiritual development more broadly construed.

Both Shabkar and Patrul Rinpoche describe moral and spiritual life insurprisingly passionate terms. It is surprising because it is often assumedthat Buddhism promotes the ideals of dispassion and detachment. ButPatrul Rinpoche’s and Shabkar’s understandings of emotional life runscounter to this stereotype: passionate emotional experience is not in itselfa cause for concern, and in fact is praiseworthy when it is directed in theright ways toward the right objects.

The assumption that Buddhism values dispassion as the central virtueis apparent in Joel Marks’s defense of dispassion as an ethical ideal. Allfeelings, he argues, have affect, belief and desire components but hereserves the words “emotion” and “passion” for those feelings that havestrong desire components. Dispassion, therefore, is the absence of passion(and its strong desires) rather than the absence of all affect whatsoever.Thus he can avoid the troublesome conclusion that the dispassionate lifeis one that is completely absent of all desire. Marks worries that such anideal would be absurd, since without any desire whatsoever, humanbeings would have no basis for feeling or action. For this reason he thinksthat the typical Buddhist admonitions against desire, from which hedraws heavily, must be interpreted as being directed against strong desire.This is reflected in his Buddhist-inspired argument for the dispassionateideal: “Suffering is bad. The singular cause of suffering is strong desire.Therefore, strong desire (that is passion or emotion) is bad” (Marks 1994,143).

In the above argument, Marks presumably has in mind the SecondNoble Truth which states that there is a cause or origin of suffering. Thatcause is the attitude of clinging, grasping or fixation, often translatedsimply as “desire” of “craving.”2 As Marks himself notes, English trans-lations of Buddhist texts rarely specify that strong desire (as opposed tosimply desire) is the cause of suffering:

But is strong desire intended in the Buddhist usage? I think the answermust be Yes, for in this way Buddhist ethics is saved from absurdity. A total

1 The Words of My Perfect Teacher (kun bzang bla ma’i zhal lung) is a recording of JigmeGyalwai Nyugu’s (Patrul’s “perfect teacher”) commentary on a classic revealed text entitledThe Heart-Essence of Vast Expanse (klong chen snying thig). I use the Wylie system oftransliteration throughout.

2 For example, “If this sticky, uncouth craving overcomes you in the world, your sorrowsgrow like wild grass after rain. If, in the world, you overcome this uncouth craving, hard toescape, sorrows roll off you, like water beads off a lotus” (Dhammapada 335-36); see alsoSamyutta Nikaya 27.8.

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condemnation of desire would leave no basis for feeling and action, but theseare necessary for life. Furthermore, it does seem plausible that sufferingwould result from, or be a form of, intensity of feeling and not just anydegree of feeling [Marks 1994, 143].

Marks, therefore, makes two claims: (1) Buddhist ethics condemns (orshould condemn) strong or intense feelings and that (2) such condemna-tion is ethically appropriate.

I disagree with both claims. Given the diversity and dynamism ofBuddhist philosophies and practices, it cannot be assumed that thecondemnation of strong feelings is a basic or universal Buddhist position.As I will show, Patrul Rinpoche in no way suggests that all intensefeelings should be avoided; on the contrary, he encourages cultivatingthem in some contexts. Furthermore, not only is dispassion (at least asMarks defines it) not a universal Buddhist ideal, it should not be anethical ideal in general. By giving up all passionate emotional experiencewe lose important moral insights that can transform our understanding ofourselves, others, relationships, and the world.

I begin with a brief discussion of the passionate life as it is oftenconceived of in Western philosophy and literature, particularly in theworks of Friedrich Nietzsche and, more recently, Robert Solomon (sec. 1).I juxtapose this life to what I claim is an example of a passionate Buddhistlife, which includes understanding one’s own passionate experiences (sec.2) and the empathizing passionately with at least some of the emotions ofothers (sec. 3). Although empathy is central to many conceptions of morallife, such as Adam Smith’s, I argue that Patrul Rinpoche’s approach isunique with regard to the extent, intensity and passion of our empathicexperience (sec. 4). Nevertheless, the passionate life that Patrul Rinpocheand Shabkar describe is consistent with other core features of Buddhistteachings that they accept, such as the virtue of equanimity, the eradi-cation of craving and aversion, and the general program to be liberatedfrom suffering (sec. 5). I conclude by arguing that passionate emotionalexperiences contribute to moral and spiritual development in three mainways: by contributing to psychological health and integrity, by providingmotivation for altruistic action and by offering deep insight into ourselves,others and our relationships (sec. 6).

1. What Is a Passionate Life?My candle burns at both ends.It will not last the night.But, ah, my foes and, Oh, my friends,it gives a lovely light.

—Edna St. Vincent Millay (Millay 1922, 9)

Robert Solomon describes the passionate life as “a life defined byemotions, by impassioned engagement and belief, by one or more quests,

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grand projects, embracing affections . . . vaulting ambitions and essen-tially insatiable goals” (Solomon 2007, 86). It is often associated withartistic sensibility and places a high value on beauty, originality andcreative expression. One who lives such a life is not afraid to strive toachieve her grand goals, even if her attempts are ultimately futile, anddoes not shy away from feeling the misery of failure or the ecstatic joy ofsuccess. For the passionate person, these are signs of her power; theyshow that she is really living the fullest life she can.3

The passionate life is often defined in opposition to the dispassionate ortranquil life. Idealized by the Stoics (and, so the usual story goes, byBuddhists), the dispassionate life values tranquility and peace of mind.The passionate life, on the other hand, values energy, enthusiasm and, asSolomon has noted, even frenzy (Solomon 1999, 18). Both the passionatelife and the life of tranquility are responses to the vicissitudes of humanlife and elusiveness of long-lasting and reliable pleasure. Both reject theidea that chasing short-lived pleasurable feelings is the final end of life,which differentiates both lives from a hedonistic life. A defender of a lifeof dispassion solves the problem of the inherent suffering of human life byvaluing peace of mind as the final end, which is attained by minimizingand eventually eradicating violent emotional ups and downs. By contrast,the passionate person plunges freely and gladly into the vicissitudes ofeveryday life. The passionate person, as Nietzsche has famously put it,says “Yes!” to life, with all its suffering, thus revaluing suffering itself.4

The passionate life is also usually understood as distinct from theordinary moral life (the life of being a good person). This may be in partbecause one of the most famous advocates of a passionate life in Westernphilosophy, Nietzsche, used this idea as part of his overall critique ofmorality. Solomon, who notes that the passionate life need not be immoralor even amoral, nevertheless locates an important difference between thetwo kinds of lives: the passionate life does not share the skepticism ofviolent emotions that is so pervasive in conceptions of the good life.5 Eventhe moral sentiment theorists, such as David Hume and Adam Smith, whowere perhaps the greatest (Western) proponents of emotions in moral life,tend to defend the so-called calm, gentle emotions, particularly sympathy.6

3 This kind of life is more commonly explored in novels, poems and autobiographies thanin philosophical texts (with the notable exceptions of Nietzsche and Kierkegaard). Aristotle,for instance, does not include this life in his list of possible conceptions of the good humanlife (NE I.5). He includes the life of pleasure, the life of the moneymaker, the life of politics,the life of virtue and the life of contemplation.

4 See Nietzsche 1982, 101–2, 139, 269.5 See Solomon 2003; and Solomon 1999, 17–35.6 Hume writes, “Morality, therefore, is more properly felt than judg’d of: tho’ this feeling

or sentiments is commonly so soft and gentle, that we are apt to confound it with an idea”(1951, 470). Also see Smith 1948, 73–82.

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But the passionate life is not one that only appreciates the relatively calmor manageable emotions, but rather it honors strong and even violentemotions. In his discussion of Nietzsche’s “will to power,” which Solomonunderstands as a “general vision of the passionate life,” he claims thatNietzsche’s passionate life is

directed to self-mastery and self-expression. It embraces such particularpassions as pride. . . . It embodies anger and its aggressive kin. . . . Itincludes joy, but mainly that energetic joy that comes with victory andstrength, not the quiet and quietist “bliss” praised by Christians andBuddhists [Solomon 2003, 88].

As the above quotation suggests, a certain fascination with the self andself-expression—which is not mere “self-interest”—looms large in thepassionate life, for both Nietzsche and Solomon. The joy experienced inthe passionate life, which Solomon contrasts to the bliss of the Christianand Buddhist traditions, comes with a person’s own triumphs and suc-cesses, especially with regard to her self-mastery and creative expression;the misery or depression a passionate person feels concerns her failures inthese realms. The passionate person is driven to find creative expressionfor her own experiences that are original and, in some sense, beautiful.Unlike Nietzsche who offers this life as an empowering and life-enhancingalternative to the “moral” life, Solomon prefers to expand the concept ofvirtue to incorporate at least some passionate experiences.7

Finally, although it contains an (at times) empowering intensity anddepth of feeling, the passionate life is not a life of invulnerability. Thepassionate person, by definition, is vulnerable to unbearable misery as wellas overwhelming joy. Unlike the ideal of dispassion, which often emphasizesattaining a fearless state in which nothing can harm us, the passionateperson can be deeply hurt.8 But the passionate person can (usually) recoverbecause she also recognizes the possibility of great joy and has the fullnessof spirit to forgive and, perhaps more importantly, forget.9

2. Dealing with Difficult Passions: The Story of Shabkar

Take the present suffering as a painful letting in of light—George Eliot (Eliot 1876, 79)

7 Solomon 1999, 17–35. Solomon notes that not all passions can be virtues and thatdistinctions must be made between, for instance, passionate love and obsession.

8 Epictetus offers a vision of this kind of fearless state. In the opening paragraph of hisHandbook, he promises that, if we follow his Stoic program of living in accordance withNature, “no one will ever coerce you, no one will hinder you, you will blame no one, you willnot accuse anyone, you will not do a single thing unwillingly, you will have no enemies, andno one will harm you, because you will not be harmed at all” (1983, 11).

9 Nietzsche argues that forgetting is an active and healthy process (1989, 56–62).

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It has been widely assumed, by both critics and defenders of Buddhistthought, that a good Buddhist life is a quiet, dispassionate one.10

Nietzsche famously criticized Buddhism (and other ascetic traditions) forwhat he assumed to be its dispassion, deprivation, and “desire for noth-ingness” (1989, 32). Solomon claims that Buddhist thinkers (along with ahost of other philosophers including Socrates, Spinoza, Schopenhauer, andConfucius) “have all been more or less staunch in their insistence thatstrong, violent emotion—the sort that is said to “sweep us away”—is atbest untoward and often disastrous, even fatal” (Solomon 1999, 18). As wehave seen, in his defense of the virtue of dispassion, Joel Marks assumesthat Buddhism advocates a dispassionate life, which, on his view, is notaffectless but lacks of strong, intense emotions.11

What Nietzsche, Solomon, and Marks have in common is the assump-tion that dispassion is the central Buddhist virtue. This assumption issupported by some key features of Buddhist thought and practice: thefocus on renunciation, the valorization of the hermit-saint meditatingalone in a cave, the emphasis on equanimity and the general project to beliberated from suffering. I will argue, however, that a passionate Buddhistlife is not a contradiction in terms. In fact, we can see examples of suchlives in the spiritual autobiographies of some Tibetan Buddhist masters aswell as in the writings of Patrul Rinpoche.

One such example is the life of the Tibetan yogin Shabkar (1781–1851).In many ways, Shabkar fits the stereotype of the Buddhist ascetic.According to his autobiography, which is largely a collection of songs thathe composed, Shabkar spent most of his life wandering and meditating incaves and, as his fame and popularity grew, he retreated to increasinglysecluded locations. To the dismay of his mother, he refused to marry andhave children, claiming that marriage would tighten a “noose of samsara”around his neck. Shabkar left home as a young man to study meditationwith a famous master, a plan that was only approved by his mother oncehe told her, falsely, that he would return in one year. (He did not returnuntil after her death.) When his mother wrote letters begging him to comehome, he urged her not to be upset and coolly pointed out that “theremight be many children who benefit their parents in this life with food,clothes, and wealth. Yet how many parents have children staying in themountains, practicing the holy Dharma for the benefit of their parents’future lives?” (Shabkar 1994, 142).

Nevertheless, Shabkar’s life is not a model of emotional disengagement.On the contrary, he often expresses intense emotion. When his motherdied, he deeply regretted not making a greater effort to see her. (Shabkar

10 See Marks 1994; Solomon 2003; and Nietzsche GM, I.6. For discussions of the morepassionate side of Buddhist literature, see Heim 2003, 531–54.

11 See Marks 1995, 141.

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was on his way home when he heard that she died.) We learn that thereason he did not visit his mother sooner was not because of emotionaldetachment but rather due to a mistaken perception, one that may betypical of children with regard to their parents. He writes, “I still thoughtof my mother as being young, and thought that, even if I did not see herfor a few years, she wouldn’t die” (Shabkar 1994, 201). After his mother’sdeath he describes himself as “disconsolate” and “overwhelmed” by thememory of his mother, which stung “like a knife in [his] heart.” Hissadness, he tells us, was “fathomless” (Shabkar 1994, 201).

There is nothing in his autobiography to suggest that Shabkar’s out-pouring of emotion was considered wrong, inappropriate or destructive. Infact, in the song he sings about his mother’s death, he suggests that hisgrief gave him insight into impermanence:

Again, overwhelmed by the memory of my mother, I sang this songabout her, weeping, in utter dismay:

Mother who first gave me life,Mother who fed me and clothed meMother who allowed me to enter into the DharmaMother who now teaches me impermanence:

Having died, you have turned into a handful of bonesYour bones I have turned into tsa-tsas [ashes mixed with clay].These tsa-tsas I have hidden in a scree.Now even I can no longer see them.

In times to come, when I am wandering in distant placesI shall never see you again, Mother.Not only will I never see you again, Mother,I won’t even see the tsa-tsas of your bones.

Considering this, sorrow surges up from deep within me.Now I do not need to do “meditations on impermanence”My old mother, leaving me, gave me these teachings [Shabkar 1994, 203].

This vignette shows the complexity of evaluating passionate emotionalexperiences and defining passionate living. On the one hand, Shabkar’sascetic and often solitary life hardly qualifies as an example of Solomon’s(and Nietzsche’s) conception of a passionate life. Yet, the depth andintensity of his emotional experience is not captured by the typicalunderstanding of a quiet, dispassionate life. Furthermore, Shabkar doesnot treat his grief as a necessary evil, or even as an understandablehuman reaction, but rather as a way of understanding deeper truths, inthis case the truth of impermanence. Although he feels his grief intenselyand is, in a sense, overwhelmed by it, he still is able to use it as anopportunity for moral and spiritual growth. Shabkar’s story challenges theidea that Buddhism forbids passionate emotional expression, even aboutoneself and one’s own life; Shabkar has keen emotional responses to the

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events in his own life. But these passionate experiences, such as grief,anger, humiliation, envy, and exhilaration, are neither repressed norglorified but rather taken as an opportunity to connect with others andlearn about the nature of the world and human experience.

3. Understanding Passionate Responses to Others:Patrul Rinpoche’s Meditation

Although difficult passionate experiences are experienced as an oppor-tunity for insight and growth, they are not purposefully indulged orcultivated. Passionate feelings of love, compassion and sympathetic joy, onthe other hand, are intentionally cultivated through relationships andempathic imaginative contemplations. These emotions, which are generallythought to be natural human emotions, are gradually developed to becomemore intense, more reliable, more frequent and more passionate. PatrulRinpoche’s discussion of the Four Immeasurables—love (byampa), compas-sion (snying rje) sympathetic joy (dga’ ba), and equanimity (btangsnyom)—is notable for its advocacy of intense and passionate emotionalexperiences. He describes cultivating an “intense” love, an “unbearable”feeling of compassion, and a sympathetic joy that “knows no bounds.”Patrul Rinpoche often characterizes the experiences of the compassion, loveand sympathetic joy as ma bzod pa, which literally means “intolerable” or“un-endurable.”

Patrul Rinpoche uses passionate language to describe the four immea-surable qualities and intentionally invokes passionate emotions in hismeditations on these qualities. In describing sympathetic joy, he writes,

The image given for boundless sympathetic joy is that of a mother camelfinding her lost baby. Of all animals, camels are considered the most affec-tionate mothers. If a mother camel loses her baby her sorrow is correspond-ingly intense. But when she finds it again her joy knows no bounds. That isthe kind of sympathetic joy you should try to develop [Patrul 1994, 215].

To feel boundless joy for others’ success and happiness does not simplymean feeling happy about the happiness of everyone. The “boundless”here also refers to an inward boundlessness: for any particular person, weare to feel joy that knows no bounds (that is, is boundless). His emphasison inner boundlessness, which refers to the strength and depth of feeling,is what gives Patrul Rinpoche’s discussion of the Four Immeasurables itspassionate flavor. In his description of compassion, Patrul Rinpocheevokes an image designed to activate this “inner” boundlessness:

The image given for meditating on compassion is that of a mother with noarms, whose child is being swept away by a river. How unbearable theanguish of such a mother would be. Her love for her child is so intense, butas she cannot use her arms she cannot catch hold of him . . . Her heartbreaking, she runs along after him, weeping [Patrul 1994, 212–13].

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The meditation practices that Patrul Rinpoche recommends to cultivatethe Four Immeasurables are designed to activate these intense emotionalexperiences. The depth and strength of feeling that Patrul Rinpoche’scontemplations require are especially apparent in the following medita-tion on compassion:

Imagine a prisoner condemned to death by the ruler and being led to theplace of execution, or a sheep being caught and tied up by the butcher. Whenyou think of a condemned prisoner, instead of thinking of that sufferingperson as someone else, imagine that it is you. Ask yourself what you woulddo in that situation. What now? There is nowhere to run. Nowhere to hide.No refuge and no one to protect you. You have no means of escape. Youcannot fly away. You have no strength, no army to defend you. Now, at thisvery moment, all the perceptions of this life are about to cease. You will evenhave to leave behind your own dear body that you have sustained with somuch care, and set out for the next life. What anguish! Train your mind bytaking the suffering of that condemned prisoner upon yourself [Patrul 1994,201–2].

In another meditation for developing compassion, Patrul Rinpoche asks usto imagine the pain and the panic of a sheep about to be slaughtered. Heeven suggests covering one’s mouth with one’s hand in order to get afuller, more visceral experience of that pain and panic.12 For PatrulRinpoche, compassion and sympathy are not, contra Hume, calm emo-tions. They are passionate ones.

Patrul Rinpoche’s meditations on love and sympathetic joy, althoughnot as gut wrenching as the meditations on compassion, are also charac-terized by intense feeling. When cultivating sympathetic joy, we areencouraged to “sincerely rejoice” in the successes of others, taking genuinedelight in their “achievements and favorable circumstances.” We “medi-tate from the depth of [our] heart” on how “truly glad we are that thereare such excellent people, so successful and fortunate” (Patrul 1994, 214).When meditating on boundless love, you should continue until “you wantothers to be happy just as intensely as you want to be happy yourself”(Patrul 1994, 199).

As his choice of images and cultivation practices indicate, PatrulRinpoche is asking us to go to the limits of our emotional capacity—andthen go further. We develop “emotional muscle” to go deeper and deeperwith practice. In fact, his meditations, particularly on compassion, maypush us to (or beyond) our emotional limits. They leave little room fortypical defense mechanisms against emotional experience, such as dis-tancing oneself, conceiving the situation in an abstract or general way, orlimiting oneself to feeling a “watered-down” or lukewarm version of the

12 In Tibet it was common to kill animals through suffocation.

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emotion. On Patrul Rinpoche’s view, the emotional experiences of the FourImmeasurables are anything but dispassionate. He is surely not recom-mending shying away from intense and difficult emotional experience butrather is inviting us to engage more fully, more whole-heartedly, and tokeep doing it as an ethical-spiritual practice.

Patrul Rinpoche’s meditations encourage living a life that honorspassion in many of the ways Solomon and even Nietzsche have advocated.It is an emotionally engaged life that not only values passionate emotionswhen they arise but is in fact committed to cultivating them in certaincontexts. Contrary to the stereotype of Buddhist practice as an exercise inemotional detachment, Patrul Rinpoche uses these meditations, at least inpart, to break habits of emotional distancing and indifference. In someways, he even includes the grand projects and vaulting ambitions that arecentral to Solomon’s account. He is, after all, advocating the cultivation ofintense and genuine love, compassion and sympathetic joy to all sentientbeings without exception, which is just about as vaulting an ambition asone could have.

The central difference between these two conceptions of passionateliving is that, for Patrul Rinpoche, a passionate life is a moral life(although not the conventional life of “mores”).13 As we can see, there arestrict moral boundaries to his valuation of passion; passionate compassionis praised, but not passionate anger or passionate envy. (In fact, PatrulRinpoche urges: “Uproot that evil mentality that finds it unbearable thatsomeone else should have such perfect plenty.”14) As Shabkar’s storyillustrates, this does not imply that the so-called afflictive emotions suchas envy and anger are repressed or denied. Rather, they are excellentopportunities for moral and spiritual growth.15 Nevertheless, in generalafflictive emotions are not to be indulged by seeking their validation orconsciously re-triggering them. In other words, when afflictive emotionsarise we must skillfully redirect the power inherent in them for betterends, but we do not intentionally cause them to arise or intentionallymaintain them. For Patrul Rinpoche, the passionate experiences that weintentionally cultivate are more or less limited to love, compassion,sympathetic joy and their related emotions, such as gratitude, devotionand reverence. The motivation for distinguishing between afflictive and

13 In fact, Patrul Rinpoche is never shy to question social conventions that he thinks arenot in accord with the Buddha’s teaching, such as meat-eating, demon exorcism, therelationship of monks to benefactors (which he sees as “pandering”) and the cruel, butcommon, treatment of pack animals and watchdogs.

14 Patrul 1994, 213. Given his pervasive criticism of ressentiment, Nietzsche would mostlikely agree with Patrul Rinpoche’s condemnation of passionate envy. However, PatrulRinpoche’s insistence on limiting passionate experiences to the “good” emotions is at oddswith Nietzsche’s—and Solomon’s 2007—general approach.

15 See Tenzin 1999, chap. 4; and Mingyur 2009.

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positive emotions rests, in part, on the fact that afflictive emotions arecharacterized by attachment, which is undergirded by mistaken beliefs orassumptions about the world. Positive emotions, on the other hand, arecharacterized by non-attachment and are supported by moral insights.(This point will be discussion in more detail in sec. 6.)

Because of the other-regarding nature of love, compassion and sympa-thetic joy, their passionate expressions tend to be about or for others.Passionate responses to one’s own triumphs and defeats can, like allexperiences, be “taken on the path,” but they are not cultivated. In fact,passionate reactions to our own successes and failures can often prohibitus from feeling passionately for others. Attention to this fact againdistinguishes Patrul Rinpoche’s conception a passionate life fromNietzsche’s, which holds self-mastery and personal power as the founda-tions of passionate life.

4. Passion and Empathy

Empathy, for Patrul Rinpoche, is one of the main vehicles for passionateemotional response. It is by considering others’ happiness and sufferingthat we become “swept away,” as Solomon puts it, by our emotions.Although Patrul Rinpoche does not use a word in Tibetan that could betranslated as “empathy,” he employs imaginative empathic processes—suchas the ones described above as well as the common Tibetan Buddhistpractice of “exchanging self and other”—that underlie cultivating love,compassion, and sympathetic joy.16 Following the conventions of Westernscholarship on emotions, I distinguish empathy (the psychological phenom-enon of taking on the feelings and perspectives of others) from compassionand sympathy, which employ empathy and add the extra value judgmentthat another’s suffering is bad and her happiness is good. Empathy, as avalue-neutral skill, may be used for good or evil purposes (consider, forexample, sadism). Patrul Rinpoche, however, is interested in how, by takingon the feelings and perspectives of others, we can develop positive emotionsfor them. I suspect that it is for that reason that the positive emotions,rather than a kind of value-neutral empathy, are more explicitly discussedand theorized in his work. Nevertheless, empathizing with others is at theheart of the project of cultivating love and compassion for them. In fact, inPatrul Rinpoche’s work it often seems like the main barrier to developingcompassion and love is the failure of empathy, which he sees as motivatedby the mistaken belief that “you” or “they” are, morally speaking, funda-mentally different from (and inferior to) “me” or “us.”

16 The meditative process of exchanging self and other is a typical practice for developingthe altruistic mind of enlightenment (bodhicitta). See Patrul 1994, 222-34; and Tsongkhapa2000.

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In contemporary Western ethics, empathy is also widely considered tobe one of the main mechanisms by which we expand our sphere of moralconcern beyond the egocentric.17 Empathizing with, or “feeling with,”another’s emotional experience can take many different forms, such asaffective responses to facial expressions and other cues and highly cogni-tive imaginative projection.18 In Western philosophical ethics, Adam Smithwas one of the greatest proponents of well-developed empathy in morallife. Although he uses the word “sympathy” (“empathy” has a more recentcoinage), it is clear that, at least at times, he means empathy, and usuallyhighly cognitive, imaginative empathy, much like the kind invoked inPatrul Rinpoche’s contemplations.19 He writes:

By the imagination we place ourselves in [another’s] situation, we conceiveourselves enduring all the same torments, we enter, as it were, into his bodyand become in some measure the same person with him; and thence formsome idea of his sensations, and even feel something which, though weakerin degree, is not altogether unlike them [Smith 1948, 74].

Smith asserts that we all can and do participate in imaginative projection,although to varying extents. It is what allows us to care deeply about thehappiness and suffering of others, even when their welfare does notdirectly affect our own. His identification of empathy as a primary prin-ciple of our nature (“the greatest ruffian, the most hardened violator of thelaws of society, is not altogether without it”) seems to be borne out byrecent findings in psychology and neuroscience (Smith 1948, 74).20

Although they both take empathy to be the primary ethical skill,Smith’s account of empathic response lacks the emphasis on passion thatso pervades Patrul Rinpoche’s discussions. On Smith’s view our empathywill only ever be a shadow of the original emotions. He writes,

Mankind, though naturally sympathetic, never conceives for what hasbefallen another that degree of passion which naturally animates the personprincipally concerned. That imaginary change of situation upon which theirsympathy is founded is but momentary . . . the thought that they themselvesare not really the sufferers, continually intrudes itself upon them and,

17 See Deigh 1995; Sherman, 1998; and Sherman 2004.18 Snow 2000 locates three defining characteristics of empathy: that the empathizer feels

the same or similar emotion as the person with whom she is empathizing, that she feel thatemotion because the other feels it (that is, not coincidentally) and the she understands thatthe other does in fact feel that emotion. See also Sober and Wilson 1998.

19 The English word “empathy” was coined by Titchner 1909.20 For a philosophically oriented summary and analysis of many psychological studies on

this topic, see Sherman 1998 and 2004; Goleman 1994; and Rifkin 2009. Also, the discoveryof mirror neurons, which fire both when we perform an action and when we see others doingit, seem to support Smith’s claim. For more on mirror neurons, see Motluk 2001 andThomson 2010.

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though it does not hinder them from conceiving a passion somewhat analo-gous to what is felt by the sufferer, hinders them from conceiving anythingthat approaches to the same degree of violence [Smith 1948, 74].

Patrul Rinpoche would no doubt agree with Smith that our ability toempathize is normally fairly weak. This in fact explains why PatrulRinpoche takes such pains to push us to empathize by, for instance,insisting that we think about the suffering person or animal as ourselvesor our old mothers. The difference is that for Patrul Rinpoche westrengthen our ability to empathize through practice over time. Thesepractices hone our empathic skills and cultivate the corresponding emo-tions of love, compassion, and sympathetic joy. The assumption thatempathy can be honed and love, compassion, and sympathetic joy can becultivated helps explain why empathy is a much more passionate expe-rience on Patrul Rinpoche’s view than on Smith’s.

Another reason why Smith may have been reluctant to advocate theintense empathic meditations that Patrul Rinpoche recommends is thatfor Smith empathic response to directly linked with moral judgments. Toapprove or disapprove of another’s emotional state is to acknowledge thatthey are in agreement or disagreement with one’s own, were one in thatperson’s situation. He writes, “If, upon bringing the case home to our ownbreast, we find that the sentiments which it gives occasion to coincide andtally with our own, we necessarily approve of them as proportioned andsuitable to their objects” (Smith 1948, 79). Since to empathize withsomeone just is to approve of her action or response, it is important forSmith’s ethical system that our empathy not extend further than ourmoral judgments.21 The fact that we do at times empathize with someonewhose actions we do not endorse is a challenge for Smith’s account (andone for which he does not seem to have a satisfying answer).22 Neverthe-less, given his project of identifying the capacity to empathize withimplicit moral judgments, Smith’s account cannot accommodate passion-ate emotional experience through empathy unless that response is appro-priate and proportional to its object.

Despite the similarities of their examples—for example, Patrul’s pris-oner awaiting execution and Smith’s “brother on the rack”—Patrul Rin-poche does not tend to use empathic projection to understand or provokemoral judgments.23 The point of the practices above is not (primarily) to

21 Smith writes, “to approve of the passions of another, therefore, as suitable to theirobjects, is the same thing as to observe that we entirely sympathize with them” (1948, 58).For a more detailed discussion of Smith’s link between sympathy and judgment, seeSherman 1998, 90–91.

22 See Sherman 1998, 86–91.23 See Smith 1948, 73. This is not to imply that Patrul Rinpoche does not issue moral

judgments, only that these are not obviously connected to the empathy practices he offers.

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issue judgments against meat eating or capital punishment, either ingeneral or in particular situations. Unlike Smith, Patrul Rinpoche is notconcerned with the reasonableness of the response with which we areempathizing. In the execution contemplation, for example, he does notgive many details about the prisoner—he may be the most hardened andvicious criminal—which leaves little ground for making a judgment aboutthe justice of such a punishment.24

Instead, Patrul Rinpoche advocates imaginative empathy to cultivateemotional dispositions that yield moral insights. The aim of theseempathic projections is to elicit targeted emotional responses, particularlylove, compassion, and sympathetic joy. According to Patrul Rinpoche,passionate experiences of these emotions are central to moral and spiri-tual development and empathy triggers, sustains, and intensifies theseemotional experiences. Through empathizing with the suffering of theanimal about to be slaughtered, we naturally feel compassion for theanimal; through empathizing with the happiness of a loved one, sympa-thetic joy naturally arises. These feelings carry with them importantmoral insights, such as the fundamental equality of members of the moralcommunity and the dynamic and changing nature of our world and evenourselves (see sec. 6).

Given their different purposes, it is not surprising that Patrul Rin-poche and Smith disagree about the degree to which they think pas-sionate empathy is possible or desirable. Since Smith is primarilyconcerned with using our natural tendency to empathize as a basis formaking moral judgments, it makes sense that our empathy for others—and our expectations to be empathized with—be kept in check. Moraljudgments are made with regard to whether a particular response isappropriate or reasonable and it may not be appropriate or reasonableto expect that people can feel intense and pervasive empathy, let alonethe feelings of boundless love and compassion that the empathy is meantto provoke. Because Patrul Rinpoche is primarily interested in gradualmoral and spiritual development through passionate experiences of love,compassion, and joy, he is not interested in limiting our empathy forothers. In fact, as I argued, he actively attempts to push our emotionallimits.

In this way, the passionate life that Patrul Rinpoche and Shabkar aresuggesting offers a unique perspective on the relationship betweenpassion and morality that is not fully explored by those, such as Solomonand Nietzsche, who advocate a passionate life based on self-mastery andself-expression, nor by moral sentiment theorist such as Smith who focuson empathizing with the emotions of others. The passionate life I have

24 For a comparison between Adam Smith and the four boundless qualities in TheravadaBuddhism, particularly in the work of Buddhaghosa, see Heim 2007.

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described here shares Solomon’s and Nietzsche’s appreciation of passion-ate emotions but it is more explicitly “moral,” since insists on a highdegree of other-regarding motivations and commitments. It sharesSmith’s commitment to morality and altruism but rejects his insistencethat empathy is an implicit moral judgment and, as such, is less intenseor passionate than the original feeling.

5. Passion and Other Buddhist Ideals

This advocacy of the passionate life may seem to be in direct conflictwith core Buddhist ideals, namely that other Immeasurable quality,equanimity, and the project of becoming liberated from suffering. Equa-nimity (or impartiality) is often considered to be a virtue of detachmentand dispassion, almost by definition. Indeed, Patrul Rinpoche character-izes equanimity as “giving up hatred for enemies and infatuation withfriends,” which seems to be a recommendation for the dispassionate life(Patrul 1994, 196). But he differentiates boundless equanimity from whathe calls “mindless equanimity” (gti mug btang snyom), which is to “just tothink of everybody, friends and enemies, as the same, without anyparticular feeling of compassion, hatred or whatever” (Patrul 1994, 198).Mindless equanimity, he argues, brings neither benefit nor harm; it mustbe infused with feelings of love and compassion.

Boundless equanimity works in conjunction with love, compassion,and sympathy because it specifically targets the cravings and aversionsthat can otherwise limit or obscure these positive emotions. According toPatrul Rinpoche, when we practice the meditations on the four bound-less qualities, we should begin with equanimity. Otherwise, he notes,“whatever love, compassion, and sympathetic joy we generate will tendto be one-sided and not completely pure” (Patrul 1994, 195). This is notto say that experiences of love, compassion, and sympathetic joy do notalso help dissolve problematic distinctions between self and other, butrather that equanimity, because of its focus on uprooting craving andaversion can specifically address problematic notions of the self and thusprovide the basis for deeper expressions of love, compassion, and sym-pathetic joy.

Since the passionate life, as presented by Patrul Rinpoche, is distinctfrom the life of intense craving and aversion, it is compatible with (andindeed relies upon) equanimity. Love, compassion, and sympathetic joyare, for Patrul Rinpoche, deep emotional commitments that are notcharacterized by craving and aversion. This is because craving andaversion are essentially reactions to grab at and cling to what we like(craving) and push away or avoid what we do not (aversion). Love,compassion and sympathetic joy are cultivated dispositions that focus onthe others and our relationships with them. Unlike craving and aver-

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sion, they are neither reactive nor centered on the self. In this way,equanimity makes possible expansive passionate experience of love,compassion and joy. By uprooting craving and aversion, we have moreemotional space to strengthen the other immeasurable feelings.

We may still worry that Patrul Rinpoche’s advocacy of intense and“unbearable” compassion conflicts with the broader Buddhist project ofliberation from suffering. If compassion is at least in part a project intaking on the suffering of others, then how can the compassionate person,especially the intensely compassionate person, be anything but miserable?And is not misery exactly what we should be aiming to liberate ourselvesfrom?

As far as I know, Patrul Rinpoche did not directly take up thesequestions. But there are at least two ways of answering it. One way is todifferentiate compassion from suffering or misery, which is the approachtaken by the fifth-century Indian scholar-saint Buddhaghosa in his dis-cussion of the four boundless qualities in The Path of Purification (Visud-dhimagga). Here he distinguishes each boundless quality from its “nearenemy,” a feeling that seems similar but is in fact opposed to the bound-less quality. The near enemy of compassion is grief or sorrow. Buddhag-hosa claims that compassion “succeeds when it makes cruelty subside andit fails when it produces sorrow” (Buddhaghosa 1999, 310).25 Similarly, thecontemporary Tibetan Dzogchen teacher Tsoknyi Rinpoche suggests thatcompassion is best characterized as tenderness, rather than as grief ormisery.26 Cultivating compassion should result in a deeper and moreextensive tenderness. If it makes us miserable or depressed, then it is notcompassion that we are cultivating but rather some kind of grief orsorrow.

It would be difficult, however, for Patrul Rinpoche to avail himself ofthis solution. He does not distinguish between such closely related emo-tional states such as tenderness, sadness, and grief. In fact, he seems tobe directly asking us to take on the pain with which we are empathizing.Recall the practices that involve “experiencing the pain and the panic” ofa sheep about to be slaughtered or a prisoner about to be executed. Andjust in case this pain is not visceral enough, we are encouraged to at leastpartially re-create it by covering our mouths to temporarily stop breath-ing. It seems that Patrul Rinpoche is literally asking us to suffer as partof developing compassion.

But how can Patrul Rinpoche’s insistence that we experience the “painand the panic” of those we are empathizing with be compatible with thelarger Buddhist project of liberation from suffering? The first Noble Truthtells us that there is suffering; we suffer and others suffer. With regard to

25 For a contemporary defense of Buddhaghosa’s approach see Frakes 2007.26 See Tsoknyi Rinpoche 2004.

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the suffering of others, we seem to have three options. We could try toavoid it, which was the approach of the Buddha’s father who tried toprotect his son from the sight of the suffering and death of others. Thisfamously did not work. Just as surely as we cannot avoid other people, wecannot avoid their suffering.

Alternatively, we could try to become indifferent to the suffering ofothers. This does not involve avoiding the suffering of others but ratherwitnessing their suffering while remaining indifferent to it. But thissounds like the behavior of someone with psychological abnormalities (forinstance a sociopath or someone with severe autism) rather than any kindof moral ideal. To situate the point within the context of basic Buddhistphilosophy, the strategy of becoming indifferent to the suffering of othersis an active denial of the first Noble Truth that there is suffering. By beingindifferent to others’ suffering it seems that we are not in any substantialway recognizing that there is suffering. We are treating suffering assomething that does not matter, which violates the spirit of the first NobleTruth.

The remaining option is to genuinely feel the suffering of others and usethese experiences for moral and spiritual development. The contemporaryTibetan Buddhist teacher Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche writes that cultivat-ing compassion “can break your heart.” “But,” he continues, “a brokenheart is an open heart. Every heartbreak is an opportunity for love andcompassion to flow through you” (Mingyur 2007, 182). In other words, wecan use the suffering that may arise along with compassion in order tocultivate compassion. This involves (1) the recognition that a broken heartis evidence of our ability to fully appreciate another’s suffering, and (2) thepractice of using that suffering to connect with and understand others. Ifour compassion is tinged (or overwhelmed) by feelings of grief, sorrow orguilt, then we can use these feelings—as we would in other occasions—asopportunities for insight.

It should also be noted that the point of Patrul Rinpoche’s practicesis to push our emotional limits by challenging our comfort with indif-ference to others; the point is not to traumatize us. For instance, forsome of us actually witnessing a mother with no arms try in vain torescue her drowning baby would be a traumatic experience from whichit may take years to recover. Since this kind of trauma can clearly stuntemotional growth, it would be antithetical to Patrul Rinpoche’s aims.Just as doing overly strenuous physical exercise can be a setback forgetting in shape, overly strenuous emotional exercise can prevent emo-tional growth and maturity. The meditative practices for cultivatingthe Immeasurables offer a more controlled environment for emotionalgrowth and experimentation. In this safe setting, we can hone in onthe space between indifference and trauma, which will be different fordifferent people at different times, in order to continue to strengthen

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our emotional capacities. We want to break our hearts—not obliteratethem.

In this way the suffering or pain that we may feel when cultivating theImmeasurables, especially compassion, can be conceived of as part ofmoral and spiritual development. By gradually breaking our hearts in asafe setting we learn to feel more deeply, which has significant conse-quences for our moral and spiritual growth. The fruit of this project ofdeepening and intensifying emotional experiences—riding the boundarybetween indifference and trauma—is the subject of the remainder of thispaper.

6. Why does Passion Matter?

Nietzsche claimed that “instead of taking into service the great sourcesof strength, those impetuous torrents of the soul that are so oftendangerous and overwhelming, and economizing them, this most short-sighted and pernicious mode of thought, the moral mode of thought, wantsto make them dry up” (1968, 207). The insistence that passionate emo-tions are sources of energy and power—and that their repression leads toa kind of impotence—is one of Nietzsche’s, and Solomon’s, strongestrecommendations for the passionate life. By not erecting barriers topassionate emotional experiences, we gain (or maintain) access to one ofour greatest sources of power and energy. The passionate life is a psy-chologically healthy life.

On Solomon’s view, the passionate life promotes is a certain kind ofunity of emotional experience, which he calls emotional integrity. Thisunity is complex; it is neither mere consistency nor coherence. As hepoints out, we can have consistency in our emotional lives by simplyfixating on one emotion and the corresponding set of beliefs. Yet this kindof fixation is the antithesis of emotional integrity. Emotional integrityrequires a range of emotional experiences to integrate. The dispassionateperson cannot integrate experiences she does not have, recognize, orappreciate. She cannot understand the depth and complexity of emotional-ethical life if her only goal is peace of mind. Emotional integrity includesa “mixed, even conflicted, repertoire of feelings, emotions, and reflections,including dissatisfaction, self-criticism, lack of contentment, and realethical dilemmas, that is, impossible choices and engagements” (Solomon2007, 267). A life without such emotional complexity is, according toSolomon, “a limited life indeed” (Solomon 2007, 267).

Emotional integrity is one of the main benefits of using our passionateemotions as a support for moral and spiritual development. It gives us amethod for fully experiencing our emotions without repressing them,controlling them or overly identifying with them. To use emotions as away to connect to others, we must have a wide variety of compelling

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emotions. But we must not only be capable of depth and variety of feeling;we also need awareness of our emotional states and the capacity to reflecton them as shared human experiences. In this way, taking our passionateemotions as a support for moral and spiritual development requires, touse Solomon’s terminology, both “first order feeling” and “second orderreflection.” It does not demand that our emotional experiences be accu-rate, coherent, or consistent but rather that, through awareness andreflection, we can use our emotions in service of the larger commitment toconnect with others, understand human experience and the world aroundus.

But taking our emotions on the path is only one aspect of the passion-ate life that I have described here. The other aspect is cultivatingpassionate experiences of love, compassion, and joy through empathy. Thebenefit of this practice is not only psychological health and integrity, butmoral and spiritual excellence. In particular, cultivating passionate expe-riences of the four immeasurable qualities, contributes to moral andspiritual excellence in two ways: it provides excellent motivation foraltruistic action and can transform our perception of the world, whichallows us to understand important moral truths.

Passionate experiences of love, compassion, and sympathetic joy areexcellent motivation for altruistic actions, which is why they are com-monly discussed in the context of cultivating bodhicitta (the altruisticattitude of having concern for the well-being of all sentient beings andthe resolve to orient one’s life in order to help them). Emotions providecompelling motivation for action; intense, passionate emotions are espe-cially motivating. Because they are cultivated over time into emotionaldispositions, these emotions can also provide reliable motivation. Andsince these passionate experiences are cultivated only in the contextsome emotions, namely love, compassion, and sympathetic joy, and notothers, such as jealousy, hatred, and resentment, the actions that theymotivate will not be destructive, hurtful, or immoral.

Moreover, passionate emotional experience can also carry insight. Thiscan happen in two main ways. In the case of the so-called afflictiveemotions (nyon mongs), we can gain insight by skillfully using theseemotions, as Shabkar was able to do with his grief. The Immeasurables,on the other hand, carry insight in a more direct way: by increasing ourability to surrender to these feelings we simultaneously become morewise.

In fact, in Patrul Rinpoche’s discussion of boundless love and compas-sion, he claims that these feelings are the best ways to dispel confusedways of thinking and feeling; they are the greatest purifiers of ourobscurations, both cognitive (shes grib) and emotional (nyon mongs). Inaddition to impermanence, one of the main insights that passionateexperiences of love, compassion, and sympathetic joy can reveal is the

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fundamental equality of members of the moral community.27 By funda-mental equality, I simply mean the idea, which appears widely in Westernand Eastern ethical systems, that there is some basic sense in which allmembers of the moral community are equally deserving of care andrespect. For Kantians, this is often expressed as a commitment to respectthe humanity of rational beings; utilitarians focus on the equal consider-ation of interests of all those capable of having interests. For PatrulRinpoche (and other Tibetan thinkers) this basic equality is expressed asa recognition of the fundamental similarity of experiences (the desire to behappy, avoid suffering, etc.) and the underlying potential for moral andspiritual development.

Passionate experiences of love, compassion, and joy facilitate in therecognition of this basic equality of members of the moral community.Love, described by Patrul Rinpoche as an active, engaged commitmentto the happiness of another, affirms another’s basic worth; similarlycompassion, which seeks to relieve another of her suffering, and sym-pathetic joy, which celebrates the success of another, rest on a basicrecognition of the inherent value of another’s basic well-being. As weextend these feelings to increasingly many members of the moral com-munity (thereby making these feelings “boundless” or “immeasurable”)we come to deeply appreciate the universality of this inherent value. Asthese experiences become more heart-felt and passionate, the recogni-tion of the basic equality of members of the moral community becomesincreasingly integrated into our ways of thinking, feeling, and acting.We do not simply know that there is a way that all members of themoral community are equal; rather, this recognition informs our deepestfeelings, attitudes, and patterns of thinking and orients our moral andspiritual life. In other words, the wisdom that passionate experiencescan bring does not only increase knowledge or information about theworld, it also transforms the agent.

In summary, in this paper I have argued for the following conclu-sions. First, contrary to popular stereotypes, there is room for somepassionate emotional experiences in Buddhist ethics, as exemplified inthe work of Shabkar and Patrul Rinpoche. Because of its emphasis onmoral development, this conception of a passionate life differs fromSolomon’s Nietzsche-inspired account. Because of its deep appreciation

27 In addition to yogic self-cultivation, Patrul Rinpoche (and other Vajrayana masters)also emphasized the power of devotion to Buddhas, bodhisattvas and deities to provide directinsight into the nature of reality. In particular, the preliminary (ngondro) practices such asguru yoga seemed designed to facilitate realization through devotion rather than activeself-cultivation. Patrul Rinpoche does not seem to see these methods as in conflict andincludes them both in WPT (309–47). Due to space limitations, I cannot compare but onlypoint to these two methods of gaining wisdom (yogic self-cultivation and devotion to deities)here.

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of a variety of passionate emotional experience, it differs fromAdam Smith’s moral sentiment theory. In this way, the conception of apassionate life suggest by Shabkar and Patrul Rinpoche gives newinsight in the relationship between passionate emotions and moral andspiritual development. Second, these passionate emotions are not inconflict with cultivating equanimity, nor are they in conflict with theproject of liberation from suffering. Finally, passionate experiences oflove, compassion, and sympathetic joy contribute to moral and spirituallife in three ways: they promote emotional integrity, they motivateconcern and care for others, and they give us tremendous insight intothe moral equality of others by breaking confused habits of thinkingand feeling.

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