discovering your best fit...and ideas. (solar powered) • they prefer to talk things out in order...
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ACCELERATOR SERIES
D I S C O V E R I N G Y O U R
BEST FitNHSA Bootcamp - July Session
THE CORE
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IQCOMPETENCY
EQCONNECTIVITY
PQSELF-AWARENESS
THECORE
THE WHY FACTOR OF BEST FIT
• Defining your operationally gifted leaders• Defining your naturally present-orientated and care team• Defining your creative innovators• Defining your brilliant problem solvers• Defining your socially skilled story tellers
Fact: Most leaders don’t frame their teams appropriately
KNOW YOURSELF TO LEAD YOURSELF
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KNOWYOURSELF
LEADYOURSELFREALITY ACTIONS
CONSEQUENCES
TENDENCIES(PATTERNS)
THE HISTORY OF GiANT BEST FIT EXPERIENCE
JUNG TYPOLOGYMYERS-BRIGGS
WILLIAM SCHUTZAPPLIED LEADERSHIP LEARNING
NATURE
NURTURE LEADERSHIP BEHAVIORS
CHOICE
WHAT DRIVES BEHAVIORS?
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THE OUGHTS AND SHOULDS OF “NURTURE”
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EARLY LIFE EXPERIENCES
SCHOOLING
PARENTING
CULTURE
AUTHORITY FIGURES
ROLE MODELS
GENDERFAITH
SUCCESSES
FAILURES
DREAMS
OUGHTS &SHOULDS
AHA!Nature Does Not = Leadership Behavior
How You Test Is Only A Snapshot!
SUPPORT CHALLENGE MATRIX
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PROTECTCulture of Entitlement
and Mistrust
LIBERATECulture of Empowerment
and Opportunity
ABDICATECulture of Apathy
and Low Expectation
DOMINATECulture of Fear
and Manipulation
High Support
Low Support
Low Challenge High Challenge
TALK OUT LOUDSignature Exercise What did you learn?
70:30 PRINCIPLE
© Pub HouseSource Credit: Cockram’s Law
70%Learned Behavior
Conscious CompetenceDraining
Natural StrengthsUnconscious Competence
Energizing
30%
BEST FIT
Assesses your “Nature” based preferences on four dimensions of personality with two sides.
• Extraversion (E) – Introversion (I)
Your preferred source of energy
• Sensing (S) – Intuition (N)
How you prefer to take in and process information
• Thinking (T) – Feeling (F)
How you prefer to make decisions
• Judging (J) – Perceiving (P)
Your preferred lifestyle
THE BIG IDEA
• Extraverts prefer to direct and receive energy from the External world of people, activity and ideas. (Solar powered)
• Introverts prefer to direct and receive energy from their Internal world of thought, reflection and ideas. (Battery Powered)
Your preferred source of energy
IEEXTRAVERT INTROVERT
EXTRAVERSION (E)
Extraverts prefer to direct and receive energy from the External world of people, activity and ideas. (Solar powered)
• They prefer to talk things out in order to understand them.
• They know moments when they’ve thought out loud and wish they could rewind history!
• They prefer to brainstorm ideas at the start of projects and then go away to work on the details.
• They share their thoughts freely when asked the right question by someone who is interested in them.
• They enjoy working in groups and are more productive with a soundtrack in the background.
• They give breadth to life and often have lots of acquaintances and differing interests.
INTROVERSION (I)
Introverts prefer to direct and receive energy from their Internal world of thought, reflection and ideas. (Battery Powered)
• They prefer written communication - it can be refined and perfected!
• They guard their thoughts until they are (almost) perfect.
• They often think they’ve communicated things that no one else has heard.
• They dislike superficiality and small talk.
• They enjoy working alone and the freedom to shut the office door.
• They give depth to life and focus on a small circle of deep friendships.
• Their great desire is to know and be known.
E - IQuestions to Clarify
If money was no object what would your perfect party look like? How many invitations would you send?
At the end of a long day, how do you most effectively recharge?
If I sent you on a retreat to a beautiful hotel in the Swiss Alps with no TV, WiFi, phones, or people, how long would you really
enjoy it for?
How exciting would it be for you to go to the wedding of an old college friend where you know you won’t know anyone?
If I want your very best insights on a complex problem, when would we have the meeting?
What is it like for you in a team environment? How do you usually contribute?
SOME KEY WORDS
EXTRAVERSION
ActiveOutwardSociablePeopleMany
ExpressiveBreadth
INTROVERSION
ReflectiveInward
Reserved Privacy
FewQuietDepth
GiANT BEST FIT EXPERIENCE STATISTICS
50%EXTRAVERSION
50%INTROVERSION
SELECT TWO LEADERSHIP INSIGHTS - EXTRAVERTS
• Learn to be fully present and truly listen to the opinions of Introverts before attempting to respond.
• Watch how much you talk for in any conversation, finishing an Introverts sentence never goes down well!
• Beware the Boomerang effect where it always comes back to be about you!
• Silence is OK, the Introverts have heard you!
• Don’t stack your questions, give time for a considered reply.
• Learn to appreciate Introverts, you don’t see what they are best at!
• Create opportunities that allow your Introverts to use their right hand.
SELECT TWO LEADERSHIP INSIGHTS - INTROVERTS
• Over communicate with your team! It may be real and loud inside your head but that doesn’t mean others have truly heard it!
• Learn to share your ideas out loud even if they are not perfect.
• Learn to project your enthusiasm and energy into the external world. Body Language and tone of voice communicates more than words.
• To really hear what an Extravert thinks you will have to let them speak for longer than you would wish!
• Don’t judge an Extravert for thinking out loud, help them learn discretion and discipline.
• Take time each day to recharge your battery, it will actually increase your productivity.
• Giving yourself constantly to others will eventually diminish your capacity to help them.
PAIRS EXERCISETurn to the person next to you - tell them which TWO Leadership Insights you
have selected for E / I and why
THE BIG IDEA
• Sensors prefer to take in and process their information in a precise and exact manner. “Tell me what is…”
• Intuitive types prefer to hear the big picture first, if they find it compelling they will work back towards the details. “Tell me what could be…”
Your preferred method of processing
NSSENSING INTUITION
SENSING (S)
Sensors prefer to take in and process their information in a precise and exact manner.
• They use their five senses to assess data – sight, smell, touch, taste and hearing. They enjoy actively engaging with the physical world.
• The great cry of the sensor is “I want to know what is!”
• They value realism, pragmatism & practical applications. They often like to get their hands dirty / do manual work.
• They live in the present, enjoying what’s there; noticing color & texture; their environment is important for them.
• They value vision but need to know it’s safe and well thought through before they will commit their time, money and people.
• Prefer the tried and true, a successful process or procedure that they can incrementally improve over time.
• They prefer to learn in sequential systematic ways: “Please build carefully on what I already know.”
INTUITION (N)
Intuitive types prefer to hear the big picture first, if they find it compelling they will work back towards the details.
• They learn to trust their “sixth” sense, often making life decisions based on a gut feeling rather than empirical data.
• They live towards the future, focusing on possibilities; the great cry of the Intuitive is, “Tell me what could be!”
• They often miss the details that are right in front of them; their physical environment is less important than new ideas.
• They enjoy the challenge of creating theoretical models, it doesn’t have to be real to be real and ideally no one will have done it before!
• Incremental improvement isn’t fast enough, they look for innovative ways to dramatically improve the efficiency and productivity of a process or system (Lean).
• They usually have three ideas running around their head at any given moment and can often go off on tangents and lose people in conversation.
• They assume there is always connection, pattern and meaning behind data.
ILLUSTRATING SENSING (S) VS. INTUITION (N)
Sensing types prefer to learn step by step. They communicate the same way and therefore are easy to follow and understand.
Intuitive types tend to look for short cuts! In their communication they often make leaps and go off at tangents
WHAT DO YOU SEE?
WHAT DO YOU SEE?
S - NQuestions to Clarify
What do you think is the “ought and should” for your culture on S/N?
Have you made any big life decisions using your “sixth sense” or “gut feeling”?
What would you most love to be doing 10 years from now?
How important is your physical environment to you? Do you notice the details?
In “Blue Sky Thinking” sessions, how long is it before you want to move to the practicalities?
How have you engaged with change in the past?
How do you prefer to learn? What were your favorite subjects at school?
What kind of art and pictures do you have in your home?
SOME KEY WORDS
SENSING
DetailsPresentPractical
FactsSequentialDirectionsRepetition
INTUITION
PatternsFuture
ImaginativeInnovations
RandomHunchesVariety
GiANT BEST FIT EXPERIENCE STATISTICS
50%EXTRAVERSION
50%INTROVERSION
73%SENSING
27%INTUITION
SELECT TWO LEADERSHIP INSIGHTS - INTUITIVE
• Build a bridge for Sensors so they can connect the present reality to the future vision.
• Take the time to make sure Sensors have all the data and information they need. Let them ask the difficult questions and communicate your gratitude for their wisdom and expertise.
• Details are really important, ultimately they will save you time and money!
• Learn to smell the roses! Your future orientation will often mean you miss the beauty of today.
• Learn to be physically, emotionally and intellectually present with your friends and family.
• You will always be innovating but beware change for change’s sake.
• Beware the Intuitive superiority complex!
SELECT TWO LEADERSHIP INSIGHTS - SENSORS
• Don’t be intimidated by the eloquence of the charismatic communicator; ask your questions about details and practicalities!
• Don’t assume what hasn’t been done before is reckless and bound to fail.
• Embrace change, be fully present in shaping it rather than become a victim of it.
• Don’t cage the Intuitive types, they need the freedom to dream so encourage them to do so.
• Failure is an essential part of future innovation if viewed constructively.
• Let Intuitive types tell you when they have an idea they want you to critique!
• Learn to value the contribution you bring, you represent the majority!
PAIRS EXERCISETurn to the person next to you - tell them which TWO Leadership Insights you
have selected for S / N and why