chapter newsletter - winter 2015
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CHAPTER NEWS
“This fraternity will be
different, it will be based
on the love of God and
the principle of peace
through brotherhood.
- Carter Ashton Jenkins,
Benjamin Gaw, William Phillips
In This Issue
Leadership: The Back-
bone of Our Chapter
Living in the House
Our Chapter’s Program-
ming
Building Balanced Men
VDBL: The Values of
Sigma Phi Epsilon
Alumni Commentary
Northwestern SigEps at Shedd Aquarium
A Note from the Alumni Board Brothers, alumni, parents, and friends –
We’re very pleased that the undergraduate
brotherhood has taken it upon themselves to establish this
newsletter, which is meant to keep you all apprised of recent
Chapter developments – including some for which we welcome and
encourage your direct participation and involvement. Likewise, the
Alumni Board will periodically use this newsletter to keep you
updated of recent developments concerning our operations, as
well as those at the national fraternity level. Of course, communication is a two-
way street, so we welcome your input – not only on
the format and content of this newsletter, but any thoughts or questions
that you might have about the workings of the Chapter or the
Alumni Board. Please feel free to reach out to any of us.
Fraternally,
John Kaiser, (630) 849-6878, [email protected]
Nick Johnson, (312) 701-8943, [email protected]
Mark McCann, [email protected]
Sigma Phi Epsilon at Northwestern University Winter 2015
Leadership: The Backbone of Our Chapter One of the main reasons I originally joined SigEp was the opportunity to start something new on Northwestern’s campus
and leave a lasting impact on its community. Starting out as a freshman who was still trying to get his class schedule in
order, let alone an extracurricular schedule, contributing to this mission seemed like a daunting task. However, as I very
quickly learned, SigEp provides many invaluable resources to bolster the leadership skills necessary to take on tough chal-
lenges both inside and outside of the chapter.
Less than a week after I joined, I had the opportunity to experience the Carlson Leadership Academy, an annual event or-
ganized by SigEp to give chapter members in-depth officer training by facilitators who are some of the most successful
people in their professional field. Not only did I learn an incredible amount about how to better contribute my efforts to the
chapter, I saw myself working more effectively in other groups outside of the fraternity. Thanks to the generous support of
our chapter’s alumni board, all members of our chapter are able to attend the upcoming Carlson Leadership Academy in
mid-February free of charge. I highly encourage all members to go, as it has proven to be extremely useful throughout my
college career. In addition to Carlson, I have been fortunate enough to attend the Ruck Leadership Institute, SigEp’s prem-
ier national event where 200 selected applicants spend a week in Richmond, VA in an intense, week-long leadership train-
ing course to hone their skills for their chapter and beyond. The skills learned here expanded upon those learned at Carl-
son and have continued to serve me well in my chapter, personal, and professional lives. From my experiences at Carlson
and Ruck, as well as experiences in leadership roles in the chapter, I have found myself more confident in any challenging
situation that may arise, whether it be fraternity-related or otherwise. These experiences are great conversation points pro-
fessionally as well, as I have found myself consistently returning to examples of my time in the chapter when talking during
interviews.
I believe one of the best parts about our chapter specifically is that these opportunities still exist at every level and for all of
our members. As we continue to work towards receiving our charter within the next year, it will take contributions from eve-
ry member to grow our chapter to meet the outstanding standards that our national headquarters has set for us. Being such
a new chapter means that everyone can have an impact on the future of the chapter, regardless of their specific leadership
role. This is truly a unique opportunity, and one that I am very excited to work with my fellow brothers to achieve.
-Tom Hyman, President
Living in the House One of the best parts about being a member of SigEp is the
ability to live in the house. The house, designated by the red
door that adorns the entrance of every SigEp house across
the country, is conveniently located on the North end of the
NU campus. This location gives members great access to
the Tech academic building as well as the wonderful athletic
facilities located on North campus. Since a large portion of
the house was renovated last summer thanks to the support
of our Alumni, all of the current residents get a big room and
new furniture.
Community within the fraternity really grows in the house,
whether we are hanging out late at night, watching TV, play-
ing foosball and pool, or even studying and doing homework. Several nights during Fall Quarter we had cookouts on the
porch in front of the house. While some brothers were preparing the food on the grill,others had a blast playing bag toss
and socializing The house has been, and will continue to be, the center of SigEp activities and growth on campus.
-Vince Rinaolo, House Manager
Upcoming Events
SigEp alumni and current
members are welcome to
attend the following
events:
Formal Chapter
Meetings
January 11...........................7pm
January 18...........................7pm
February 1...........................7pm
March 1……………………...7pm
March 15…………………….7pm
Rites of Passage
Sigma.....................January 11
Phi...........................January 18
Epsilon......................March 15
Fall Quarter’s Events
SigEpicMealTime Philanthropy
On October 10, 2014, our chap-ter organized our first philan-thropy event benefitting Big Brothers Big Sisters of Metro-politan Chicago. Together with our sorority partner, Chi Omega Northwestern Xi, we successful-ly raised $800 for our benefi-ciary.
Balanced Man Scholarship Banquet
As part of the Grand Chapter’s goal to reward college men who exhibit the Balanced Man quali-ties of Sound Mind and Sound Body. This year, we awarded $5,000 to three deserving young men. Tom Ciupka and Shaan Somani each received $1,000 scholarships. Graham Anderson received the $3,000 award. Special thanks go to Jesse Suh, our Balanced Man Scholarship Chairman and Scott Schwartz, our Keynote Speaker.
Members play an intense game of Whirlyball during a brotherhood event in Chicago
Our Chapter’s Programming Ever since my first few weeks as a brother of SigEp I have been involved with the
chapters programming. I served on the chapter’s programming committee for most
of my freshman year and was elected the to be the Vice President of Program-
ming in October of 2014. As VP of Programming I strive to schedule events which
not that not only the chapter will enjoy the most but also ones that bring us closer
together. I always keep an open ear and am willing to take input from any and
every member as to what kind of things they would like to do, and thus our pro-
gramming schedule is a product of the chapter as a whole.
The events I take the most pride in are our philanthropy events. For example, this
winter we will be organizing a food sale in which all proceeds will go the Children’s
Starlight Foundation, the charity chosen this year for Dance Marathon. Besides
philanthropy, we have many other fun events planned for this quarter including,
but not limited to, a sleepover at the chapter house, a day at Xtreme Trampoline in
Buffalo Grove and Gone Greek Night, a night organized by the Interfraternity
Council and PanHellenic Association to celebrate the new members of every fra-
ternity and sorority.
Our programming events enrich the chapter experience through philanthropy,
community service and innovative programs that keep our brothers engaged with
each other as well as with other students of Northwestern University.
-T.J. Butler, VP of Programming
Why Do We Pay Dues?
Every quarter, we collect
membership dues from all of
our members. We utilize
these funds in a variety of
ways. First, a portion of the
money goes towards our off
campus events such as for-
mals and date nights, and
philanthropy events.
Our dues are also used for
Member Development pro-
gramming. These events are
focused around our Sound
Mind and Sound Body val-
ues, or for brotherhood pur-
poses.
The quarterly dues we pay,
which are well below the
campus average, are well
worth the cost. Not only are
you contributing towards an
amazing college experience,
but also towards personal
and professional develop-
ment that will benefit you for
the rest of your life. Fraterni-
ty dues are a long-term in-
vestment, with returns that
span for generations.
-Sam Young, VP of Finance
Brothers gather in the house to watch and discuss some TED talks as part of the BMP
Building Balanced Men The goal of the membership development committee is to help our
members achieve Sigma Phi Epsilon's goals of Sound Mind and Sound
Body. We do this by making sure our members are taking part in
meaningful activities related to personal, professional, and academic
development. Furthermore, we try to make all our new members familiar
with the resources Northwestern has to offer. Lastly, we encourage our
members to be engaged in campus by encouraging them to join other
organizations on campus and become prestigious leaders within those
organizations.
Each quarter we make an effort to bring in guest speakers and go on short trips as
a part of the member development program. Last quarter the Vice
President of Engineering of Kraft Foods Group, Inc. came and talked to our mem-
bers about how to excel in the workplace. Similarly, this quarter a SigEp alumnus
will be speaking about how to best prepare yourself for the current job
market. In past quarters, we have had brotherhood trips to Shedd Aquarium as
well as the Museum of Science and Industry. This quarter we will going to the
Field Museum in Chicago. We will also have members attend a Northwestern
main-stage production as part of their Balanced Man Program requirements.
We also have our members set individual Sound Mind, Sound Body, and GPA
goals. Through this activity, we encourage our members to become well rounded
individuals and to devote time and effort towards becoming a better man. Our
members are also expected to attend leadership events organized by the national
fraternity such as EDGE and the Carlson Leadership Academy, attend study
nights, and to exercise or engage in Intramural sports with other members of the
chapter.
-Brett Sleyster, VP of Member Development
Alumni Commentary: Fraternities and Women In the past few months we have all noticed the negative press with regard to alleged behavior of university fraternity chap-
ters around our nation. Many of the allegations have focused on the relationships between fraternity chapters and how fe-
male guests are treated at their events. To a SigEp, this subject is difficult to reconcile with the environment that our nation-
al headquarters has created dating back to our beginnings.
When joining SigEp, young men may or may not have dating experience, or have much experience in entertaining female
guests, but the education of respect for all guests starts from the first moments of involvement. The upper-classmen, along
with alumni board members begin to create this environment of respect, beginning with the chapter facility and its cleanli-
ness, all the way to the interpersonal relationships of the elder members. I remember knowing in my undergraduate experi-
ence all of the alumni board members, and the names of their wives, partners, and girlfriends. These were our most es-
teemed guests at the chapter facility, and the worst thing that could happen would be that one of our guests felt that our
environment was not clean, or was a place where someone would not feel comfortable. Our Balanced Man principles call
for us to not only perform academically, but in all aspects of life, including hosting or entertaining with respect for others.
Many decisions of youth take place out of peer-pressure. Our peer-pressure is to exceed the expectations of a gentleman's
environment.
-Dr. John Jaquish
Cal-Theta, 2000
VDBL: The Values of Sigma Phi Epsilon
The values of Sigma Phi Epsilon are the cornerstone of our fraternity. Our values are the bonds that
tie our fraternity together; what we all share in common. What we believe in as a group not only
shapes our individual lives, but also what we strive for as a fraternity.
Our first value is virtue: as a brotherhood we believe that it is our duty to act with pure hearts. For
example, we are involved in charity fundraisers to make our campus a better place. We also are
aware of the traditional problems that plague fraternities, and make every effort to make sure our
members are educated in risk management policies such as red watch and training.
Our second value is diligence: we believe our brothers should strive to get the most out of each and
every day. They should train both their minds and their bodies to maximize their potential. We be-
lieve this is best achieved as a group: our brothers study together, play sports together, go to muse-
ums, plays, and much more to push themselves and each other to be better.
Our third value is brotherly love: we believe it is our members' duty and privilege to support one an-
other and be accountable to one another. When a brother falls by the wayside emotionally, in school,
or in anything else, it should be his brothers who are there to pick him up. As our chaplain, I have
seen our members build the bonds by working hard and playing hard that will stay with them for the
rest of their lives. Our standards board has supported brothers who have needed help in any situa-
tion, but luckily enough the support system has extended far beyond that. The brothers in our frater-
nity trust each other enough that there is always a support system waiting in the wings.
-Rahim Shakoor, Chaplain
“Unless
someone like
you cares a
whole awful
lot, nothing is
going to get
better. It’s
not.”
-Sigma Phi Epsilon
Alumnus, Dr. Suess
A Note From the Editor
Fellow brothers, friends, parents, and alumni,
I hope this publication has been of use to you. The chapter and our alumni seek to
keep you updated with all of the goings-on within the chapter. Without your sup-
port, we would not be anywhere close to level of success we exhibit today. We
greatly appreciate everything you have done and will do to support Sigma Phi
Epsilon and our Illinois—Northwestern SEC Chapter.
If you have any questions you would like the chapter to answer for you, please do
not hesitate to contact us directly. We hope to answer any and all questions you
may have.
Fraternally,
-Blake Disiere, VP of Communication
[email protected] | FACEBOOK.COM/NUSIGEP
“This Fraternity will be different.”