Causes of Dating Fails

Last Monday, one of my friend’s texts me to visit her place as soon as I can. I went to her home,

the very next day after her message. I asked her what’s wrong, are you alright? She suddenly

started crying hardly and told me the entire story. This time her third relationship was broken.

Now you will think about the reason but actually there was no such very big reason behind it.

The only reason for the failure of all of her relationships was the differences in thinking of both

of them.

Most of the time dating fails because of the different mindsets and difference in thinking of a

couple. But, a broken relationship brings a lot of stress and depression along with it. Most of the

people find it hard to forget their lovers and beloved and ultimately tends to depress. Most of the

time people leave their girlfriend or boyfriend because of some very silly reasons like:

Difference in thinking:

As discussed earlier, this is the most common cause responsible for breakups. Most of the time

couples feel the variations in their thinking, their nature, their hobbies, etc. This thing at the end

leads to the end of a relationship.

Different Lifestyle:

One of the common reasons of failure of dating is the difference in living style. People with

different lifestyles and different attitude find it harder to continue a relationship and finally the

end is all same. The best thing which I will suggest you is to find someone having almost similar

lifestyle as yours.

Interference of Friends:

Surprisingly, this is one of the main reasons of failure of dating. Even I am the one who had gone

through this situation. Interference of friends is okay but up to a limit, it should not exceed to a

limit that it will harm your relationship. One more face of this situation which I have seen in

many cases is our own friend and our date starts liking each other and they start dating each other

secretly. This is the biggest heart breaking situation and the most difficult period of life a person

feels.

Respect each other:

The biggest thing all individual wants is respect, so if you are not respecting your boyfriend or

girlfriend’s thoughts, their parents, their relatives or anything else your relationship is in a

difficult position. You will certainly lose your loved one if you don’t respect him or her.

Dating fails because of mainly these reasons but just a broken relationship doesn’t mean that

your life is finished and everything is lost. It happens with almost everyone and nothing to worry

about. Many of us feel gone and depressed during this time of life. But, depression is not the

solution at all. Just chill out and share your feelings with your friends and parents. Spend time

with your family members so that you will not feel depressed. Believe me your family will

definitely help you combating depression.