bullying - nfhs

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What is BULLYING?What is BULLYING?


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• The mistreatment is intentional.

• The mistreatment is hurtful (physicallyor psychologically).

• The mistreatment occurs more thanonce.

• There is an imbalance of power(physical, psychological, or social).

• The target has diculty defendinghimself of herself.


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Does it have to be a part of

growing up?

No Each and every person has the right to feel safe in yourlife and good about yourself.


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All bullies have one thing in

common: Something or someone is making them feel insecure.

!herefore they bully to make themselves feel better.

•They could have something going on in their family.

•They might not feel like they are getting enough attention

from parents or teachers.

•They might have watched their parents or older siblings get

their way by being angry and pushy.

•Maybe they are also bullied.

•They might be spoiled by their parents.


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"ossible reasons for being a

!arget. $f you get an%ious or upset easily.

$f you usually are alone and don&t have many friends.

$f you don&t have a lot of confidence and don&t stand up

for yourself.


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Title: AntiBullying Act of !"#$AntiBullying Act of !"#$

(%epublic Act #"&!')(%epublic Act #"&!')

overage: lementary and *econdary*chools+ho can commit: one or group of students

e-nition:A severe or repeated use of physical actor gesture, written or electronic epressionor combination thereof resulting to:

/ear, physical, emotional harm, damageto property, creation of hostileenvironment and infringement of rights ofanother student.isruption of education process or


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0hysical bullying 1erbal and written bullying

%elational (or social) bullying yberbullying


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2itting, slapping, elbowing, shoving,3ic3ing, pinching, or restraining.

“They hurt my little brother, too. He was punchedin the face and given a bloody nose. When he toldthe bus driver and showed him his nose, nothingwas done.”


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Ta3ing, stealing, damaging, ordefacing a person4s belongings orproperty

*eual harassment


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5amecalling 6a3ing insulting, racist, or rude

remar3s

%epeated teasing 2arassment, threats, and intimidation 6ean or intimidating notes 6ean or intimidating grati +hispering behind someone4s bac3


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The subtle form of bullying involvesdestroying or manipulating relationships(such as turning someone4s best friend

against him or her). 7t can mean:estroying status within a peer groupestroying reputations2umiliating and embarrassing someone

8ossiping or spreading malicious rumorsor lies


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clusion (social re9ection or isolation) *tealing a boyfriend or girlfriend to hurt

someone

5egative body language (glaring, dirtyloo3s, turning your bac3 to someone) Threatening gestures 0assing mean notes

irculating hate petitions (promising tohate someone)


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7ncreasingly prevalent, this type of bullyingcan involve:*preading gossip, rumors, and lies

electronically*ending or posting defamatory orembarrassing photographs and videorecordings

*ending insulting or threatening emails*ending malicious code


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Bullying occurs in all grades,beginning as early as three or fouryears of age. 7t generally pea3s in

middle school or 9unior high.


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Bathrooms 2allways *tairwells 0laygrounds 8ym and loc3er rooms Buses (on the bus and waiting for the

bus)


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afeteria ibrary 0ar3ing lots ommon areas or lobbies Between buildings lassrooms


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5o adult supervision 7nade;uate or poor adult supervision

ac3 of structure /ew or no antibullying rules

Bullying is more li3ely to occur where teachers

and students accept it or are indi


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GOAL:GOAL:

STOP AND PREVENTSTOP AND PREVENT

BULLYINGBULLYING


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• Kids who bully• Kids who are bullied• Kids who witness bullying


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Who is involved in Bullying?

Bullying

Triangle

Bully

Victim Bystander

The Bystander is themost influential person in

the triad


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A witness to bullying who does nothingabout it is a bystander.

A witness to bullying who tries to help thetarget in some way is an ally.

%esearch shows that allies are a 3ey tostopping and preventing bullying


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'easons

!he bully is someone otherslook up to and want to hangout with.

!hey want to (side) with thebully because to do thatmakes them feel strong.


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'easons

!hey*re entertained by

the bullying.!hey don*t thinkspeaking up will help.

!hey*re afraid that ifthey say something+ thebully will turn on them.


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'emember the golden rule:

!reat others the way

you want to be treated.Stand up for someonewhen he or she needs it+and when you need it+someone will stand upfor you.


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Thin3 About 7t===

o you ever..

augh when a classmate ma3es a mista3e>

6a3e fun of people in a mean way>

?oin in when someone is being teased>

8ossip or *pread %umors>


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Bullying: What Can You Do?

Let someone know what is happening!!!

It’s okay to ask for help Being bullied is not your fault!!

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"arents# Teachers# $d%isor# "rincipal# Vice"rincipal


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Put Yourself in Someone Else’s Shoes

If you were being bullied&

'ow would you feel

hat would you do


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Everyone Can Help ut!!!

(ood )iti*ens +o The ,ight Thing! +on’t -oin in and ,efuse to watch

.ay something/ 0'ey don’t do that to him12

,eport Bullying to an adult

In%ite the person being bullied to -oin your group

Be a friend to a person being bullied

+istract the bully so that he or she stops


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Bullying: Ho" #ot to $e a %i&tim

31 $ct and look C#'(DE#) 4 Bullies go after those who appear weak

4 Bullies repeat actions to those who they think they can

51 If someone is picking on you don’t show them it hurts 4 It is okay to feel sad or hurt o%er what a bully says but try

not to show them 4 67press your feelings to your parents# friends and people

you trust!!!


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Strategies

'ow can I help myself if I am getting bullied

Ignore what the bully or bullies say $gree with what they say/ Bullies don’t get

satisfaction if they don’t get a negati%e

reaction

8ake a 9uick -oke or a funny response

)hange the sub-ect

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