relationships & social media

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Relationships

& Social Media Created by Sharah Isner

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- Pews Research Center

As of January 2014, 74% of online adults

use social networking sites.

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It helps us keep in contact, share memoriesand maintain relationships;

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whether it be

with people who are

miles away from us …

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… or the ones we constantly see offline.

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Facebook is also a hub for

romantic relationships,

with many couples

making themselves

‘Facebook official ’.

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- Catherine Townsend

“ The couple who Facebooks together;

stays together.”

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74% of the couples surveyed reported that

the Internet had a positive impact on their relationship.

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The ‘couplie’ has become a staple for couples as a

way to publish proof of their relationship.’

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However, you still need

to be aware of the

of using social

media for displaying

and maintaining

your relationships.

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“Anyone who spends much time online and on a

smartphone knows that it’s

no substitute for the real thing

– it’s just an appetizer that can

delight and satisfy until the

main course arrives.”- Jenna Wortham

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While platforms like Facebook may help us stay

in contact, ultimately it does not replace

physical human interaction.

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We develop a kind of “ambient intimacy” which describes the

unfocused closeness we maintain by following friends’ day-to-

day on platforms like [Facebook]”

- Kyle Chayka

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“Not everyone

wants to see

their relationship

played out on Facebook.”

Sometimes, too much is shared on these sites, which

can lead to things feeling less intimate, because

…

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Facebook is also famous for making users feel

jealous and enviousin their relationships.

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Is there anyway to

avoid this?

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‘7 Truths About

Social Media

and Online

Relationships’- According to Marty McPadden

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1: Social media sites are not dating sites

2: Not everyone is truthful

3: People will and can hurt you

4: Follow the same process for both

online and offline relationships

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5: Follow your heart but take your brain

6: Following your instincts is a must

7: Honesty is the best policy

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It is important to be

cautious,

but don’t let that come in between

your relationships …

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… especially if you want those relationships

to grow and flourish.

Chayka, Kyle. "The New, Improved Online Friendship." New York Mag. 24 Mar. 2015. Web.

10 June 2015. <http://nymag.com/next/2015/03/new-improved-online-friendship.html>.

Dewey, Caitlin. "How Facebook Knows Who All Your Friends Are, Even Better than You Do."

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who-all-your-friends-are-even-better-than-you-do/?wprss=rss_technology>.

Eichler, Leah. "Sorry to Be Rude, but My Smartphone Needs My Attention." The Globe and

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Finkel, Eli. J., Paul. W. Eastwick, Benjamin. R. Karney, Harry. T. Reis, and Susan Sprecher.

"Online Dating: A Critical Analysis From the Perspective of Psychological Science."

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Works Cited

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Madsen, Pamela. "Facebook and Relationship Craziness." Psychology Today. 3 Jan. 2014. Web. 12 June 2015. <https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/shameless-woman/201401/facebook-and-relationship-craziness>.

McPadden, Marty. "7 Truths About Social Media and Online Relationships." The Huffington Post. 24 Oct. 2012. Web. 12 June 2015. <http://www.huffingtonpost.com/marty-mcpadden/7-truths-about-social-media_b_2009105.html>.

"Social Networking Fact Sheet." Pew Research Centers Internet American Life Project RSS. 27 Dec. 2013. Web. 10 June 2015. <http://www.pewinternet.org/fact-sheets/social-networking-fact-sheet/>.

Townsend, Catherine. "The Couple Who Facebooks Together, Stays Together? How Those Who 'tag' Each Other in Photos Online Are Closer in Real Life." Mail Online. 26 Apr. 2013. Web. 10 June 2015. <http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2314156/The-couple-Facebooks-stays-New-study-finds-couples-tag-online-closer-real-life.html>.

Wortham, Jenna. "I Had a Nice Time With You Tonight. On the App." The New York Times 5 Apr. 2014: 3(L). Academic OneFile. Web. 10 June 2015. <http://go.galegroup.com.proxy.queensu.ca/ps/i.do?id=GALE|A363996720&v=2.1&u=queensulaw&it=r&p=AONE&sw=w&asid=f9416c07f4081913da84f5ff7675e4a0>.