wwme #3 family life is hard
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Week # 3
FamilyFriends
(school)
Culture(media)
Church
MEET THE MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES KNOWN AS MEME
The day I splat-ter painted the kitchen...
family
is God’s idea...Family:
1.
Can be the hardest place to live for Jesus...
Family:
In many ways you are
Embarrassed by your family... a combination of long term conflict, proximity, sibling rivalry, and the natural authority struggles that are part of developing identity.
In many ways you are
Hostages to your family...
they control where you live, what you watch, who you can be friends with, what clothes you get to wear, whether you get to have pierced ears or long hair, or get frosted tips.
BUT
more than we realize.family:
WE need our
to shape us into who HE wants us to be...
familyGod uses our
Deuteronomy 4:8-9 And what other nation is so great as to have such righteous decrees and laws as this body of laws I am setting before you today?
Only be careful, and watch
yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.
Mark12:29 "The most important [commandment]," answered Jesus, "is this: 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the
Lord is one. 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.'
to shape us into who HE wants us to be...
familyGod uses our
Family
2.is hard... and you make it harder...
Hebrews 12:5-6 5 And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as children? It says,
"My son, do not make light of the Lord's discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, 6 because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he chastens everyone he accepts as his child."
Hebrews 12:7-9 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—
and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate children at all. 9 Moreover, we have all had parents who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live!
Our parents disciplined us for a little while
as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a
harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
Hebrews12:10-12
Like it or
not...
in a way that no one else ever will...
knows youYour Family
to shape us into who HE wants us to be...
familyGod uses our
is not only about you...even though you are important...
Your Family:
3.
Think about this... God’s plans for your parents includes a lot more than just you...
PARENTS:are people... have dreams... have feelings... get lonely...have problems...need encouragementneed affection...
SIBLINGS:are people... have dreams... have feelings... get lonely...have problems...need encouragementneed affection...
If we say we love God yet hate a brother or sister, we are liars.
1 JOHN 4:20
Gretchen
and her passion for him to reach her \ whole family...
GretchenGod used
a disclaimer...Family:
4.
I am not talking tonight about abusive families. I could. I know some of you deal with really hard things. Secret things that have happened in your family.
If you ever want help, or want to talk about those things, then we would really like to help you get that help. You can talk to us about it any time.
These abusive situations are found when the normal family structure breaks down because one or more of the adults fails to act in a way consistent with the minimum requirement for parenting.... food, shelter, basic clothing, medical care, affection, boundaries, safety ...Abuse is not about what I want... ...it is about what everyone needs...
disclaimer...
Isaiah 49:14 But Zion said, "The LORD has forsaken me, the Lord has forgotten me." 15 "Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget,
I will not forget you! 16 See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands...
God has not abandoned you!
ONE You are only
person...:
Church
Family
Friends(school)
Culture(media)
ONE You are only
person...:
...learning to live and love like Jesus