what everyfat girl wants july issue vol1
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This magazine is dedicated to increasing self esteem and self worth among plus size women across the world. Beauty comes in a diversity of sizes , colors and shapes. Embrace the beauty that is you.TRANSCRIPT
Full figure
fashion for
the fabulous
Fashionista
in you
Chef Will
gives us
some
scrumptious
fare to
tantalize our
taste buds.
Check out
our reviews
on the
summer
blockbusters
Meet our Cover Girl
Roxxanne Hooten
Meet Our Cover Girl
Roxxanne Hooten
Vacation or Staycation
=Relaxation
Getaways on a budget
Love Life Issues?
Confused? Perplexed?
Ask Dr. Jan
Self Esteem
Get you
Some!!!
Mending Broken Pieces
What
Men
Wish
Women
Knew
About
Men!!
July Issue Vol.1
Cover Girl Search
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3 Word from Publishing Desk
4 Meet our Cover Girl-
Roxxanne Hooten
5 Vacations or Staycations
=Relaxation
6 Shoptalk– Let‟s talk
Hair Care
7 Ask Dr. Jan
8 Full Figured Fashionista
9 Tantalize your Taste buds
10 Self Esteem
Go Get You Some!!
11 Movie Mania
12 What Men Want
Women to Know
13 Mending Broken Pieces
www.whateveryfatgirlwants.com
Roxanne Harris Enterprises
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Hello,
Thank you for taking the time to read our 1st issue
of What Every Fat Girl Wants the Magazine. We are
so excited to share with you and welcome you as a
part of our growing family. This has been an exciting
year for us here at Roxanne Harris Enterprises. We
have launched a new company, a jewelry line,
published a new book and now the magazine. Whew!
We have so much more in store for you in the
upcoming seasons- an exercise DVD for you,
featuring women that look like you. Plus size women
are taking their rightful place in front of the camera
and in the spotlight. Beauty comes in a variety of
shapes colors and sizes. Embrace the beauty that is
yours.
We welcome your comments and suggestions. This magazine is for You and about what
concerns you. If you would like to be our next cover girl send your photo and contact
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Once again we are excited to bring you this magazine every month. Subscribe so you
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again and be blessed.
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Meet Our Cover Girl Roxxanne Hooten
Austin Texas
Roxxanne Hooten Born August 14, 1993 in Grand Forks, ND
She has lived in Austin, TX since December of 1995 She has been dancing since the age of five. She is an accomplished artist, model, choreographer, and dancer. She was the first runner up in the Austin, TX Ms. Juneteeth pageant in
2008. She was the head dancer for the 2010 Austin All Star Band Drill Team She graduated from Austin's Lyndon Baines Johnson High. She has been accepted and will attend Prairie View A&M, Prairie View,
and TX this fall double majoring in Kinesiology and Child Psychology. She would like to either work as an Athletic Trainer for a professional football team or for the FBI as a Forensic Child Psychologist.
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Staycation or Vacations
=Relaxation
Stayacations - Texas
South Padre Island
Named one of
America's best
beaches by the
Travel Channel,
South Padre
Island is a
small resort
town in
southern
Texas. Separated from the mainland by
Laguna Madre, the island typically features
milder temperatures than the rest of the
state throughout much of the year.
Travelers on a budget will appreciate its
plethora of inexpensive accommodation
options, from campgrounds with RV
hookups to family motels and cottages,
many of which are right on the shore.
Collect brightly colored shells floating in
from the Caribbean. Anglers can fish for
trout, flounder, skipjack and more from
piers and jetties. When you've tired of the
beach, walk along the Laguna Madre
Nature Trail to catch a glimpse of exotic
birds and even alligators.
San Antonio
Surprise! There is no charge for
admission to San Antonio's most
famed site, the Alamo. Learn about
Texan history inside the three 18th-
and 19th-century buildings and be
sure to stroll around the surrounding
gardens. A short jaunt away from the
Alamo is San Antonio's famed
Riverwalk. You may think you're in
Italy as you saunter underneath
arched bridges or indulge in a glass of
wine at one of the many cafes and
restaurants lining the river. Consider
taking a narrated boat cruise; as of
2011, the cost is only $8.25 per adult.
Check out the nearby La Villita area,
the oldest neighborhood in San
Antonio, which is now filled with art
shops and galleries. Lastly visit at
least one of the four missions that
comprise the San Antonio National
Historic Park: Nuestra Senora de la
Purisima, San Francisco de la Espada,
San Jose y San Miguel de Aguayo or
San Juan
Capistrano.
Vacations
outside of
Texas
Bermuda -
Fabulous after 400 years!
It's incredible that the gleaming island of
Bermuda is celebrating its 400th
anniversary 2 years ago. This beautiful
island was first settled in 1609 by the
survivors of a shipwrecked English
vessel, The Sea Venture. Bermuda was
the very first English colony and is the
second oldest parliamentary democracy
in the world. All I can say is „the years
have been kind to Bermuda‟ – she is as
sparkling and dazzling as ever. In case
you haven't considered the pleasures of
Bermuda in some time, here's a
refresher about the charms that have
captivated visitors for hundreds of years.
This glorious landscape is 21 miles
including quaint harbors and pink sand
beaches. Shopping and dining is top
priority with currency on par with the US
dollar.
~Finding A Way 2 Your Purpose~
Rona Walton,
Travel Designer
Destynee Travel 512-524-3874/o
512-524-3875/f www.destynee.com
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Shop Talk
With Kendra Summer Hair Care While the summer months can bring vacationing, family time and water fun, it‟s also known to bring damaged, dry, over-processed hair. So what‟s a girl to do?? Well, Kendra Timmons of Blessings Beauty Center is here is here so have no fear! I‟m going to offer you some hair care tips to help your tresses during
the heated summer season. Listen in… 1. CoverUp
When out in the sun for an extended
amount of time; protect your hair with a
cap, hat or scarf from the sun‟s UV rays
that can really affect your hair and color.
Try dark sunglasses paired with a bright,
patterned scarf, or opt for a classic
wide-brimmed sun hat. Fashionable!!!
2. Hydrate, Hydrate, Hydrate!!!
The heat during summer months is
definitely enough to strip our hair of its
natural oils. To keep hair at its best,
limit your use of heated styling tools
such as curling irons, flat irons, blow
dryers and hot rollers. Avoid products
that contain alcohol and formaldehydes
which can strip your hair of natural
moisture. Seek out leave-in conditioners
and leave-in moisturizers. When
shampooing, choose a good moisturizing
shampoo or sulfate free shampoo and
always follow up with a moisturizing
conditioner. Deep condition and hot oil
weekly with natural ingredients such as
jojoba oil, olive oil or castor oil if your
hair calls for it.
3. Give Your Hair A Summer’s Rest
Summer is a great time to take a
break from elaborate hairstyles that
lose shape due to humidity and
sweat. Opt for care-free and heat-
free styles such as ponytails, twists,
twist-outs, bantu knots and braid-
outs. Some, once dry and loosened
will leave your hair with some really
cute waves. You can also wear
protective styling such as braids,
cornrows or extensions to give hair a
rest.
4. Protect Your Hair While Swimming
Chlorine and salt water can wreak
havoc on our hair and lead to dryness,
breakage and split ends. Taking special
care while swimming is essential so you
won‟t have to spend much of the fall
season trying to “clean up” what
swimming “messed up”. Before diving
in, take precautions and wet hair and
follow with a leave-in conditioner
(preferably with sunscreen) to prevent
hair from absorbing salt or chlorine. It
would be wise to invest in a swim cap
for extra protection. After your dip,
follow up with a clarifying shampoo,
moisturizing shampoo and moisturizing
conditioner.
5. Nourish Your Tresses From The
Inside Out
Most of all, drink plenty of water and
pay close attention to your diet as your
hair needs hydration and essential
vitamins and minerals to help it stay
healthy, strong, shiny and vibrant.
There you have it ladies!! Take it all in
and PROTECT now, so u won‟t have to
CORRECT later. Until next issue,
Be Blessed!
Kendra Timmons is a Master Stylist, salon owner, educator, and
publisher who is on the cutting edge in the latest hair industry trends
and styles. She is very passionate about educating women and girls
on the importance of healthy hair care. Currently, Kendra is a
notable hair care expert for the Miami, FL based Hype Global Media
for a diversity of media and marketing focused radio infomercials
and special guest features on select international radio programs.
Kendra can also be seen as a featured stylist on the reality WE TV
(Women's Entertainment TV) cable series, "Bridezilla". Her portfolio
also includes owner and stylist of Blessings Beauty Center in
Arlington, TX ( www.BlessingsHairAndBeauty.com ), "Shop Talk with
Kendra" a blog radio show, and Next Level Salon Strategies, a
consultancy dedicated to helping beauty professionals take their
business to the next level. Kendra can be contacted online at
www.KendraTimmons.com.
Kendra Timmons
Attn: Shop Talk
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Q)1 Dear Dr. Jan,
I recently went back to work after taking a two
month medical leave for stress related anxiety.
Now that I'm back at work, I noticed that my
colleages treat me differently. Everyone walks
around on egg shells and I'm not asked to take
on the same amount of work or responsibility as
others. Moreover, I know that my supervisor has
lost confidence in me that I can do my job
efficiently. How can I let everyone know that I'm
no longer ill and ready to work?
Back in the Saddle
A1) Dear Back in the Saddle,
It's unfortunate that your supervisor and co-
workers do not value your decision to take time
off when you know you needed it. However, I
would guess that their main concern now is your
health and well being. Help them by explaining to
them that your time off gave you time to destress,
rest and renew your mind and now your even
more so ready to take on the responsibility of your
job. Continue to work as unto God and not man.
In time, they will see that you are more that able
to handle the work. God bless you.
Q2)
I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 10
years. Each time I try to bring up the subject of
marriage he says, "We’ll get married when the
time is right". I'm not getting any younger, and I
would like to have children some day. Should I
move on or wait until the man I love is ready to
totally commit to me? - Tic Toc
A. 2) Dear Tic Toc,
You did not say whether or not you and your
boyfriend live together or not. If so, you all are
doing everything married people do without the
benefit and blessing of a legal marriage. Your
boyfriend has everything he wants from the
relationship without any of the responsibility of
marriage.
You've heard the saying that "men will do as
much as you let them get away with"? Well, as
long as you allow him to keep putting you off, he
will. Let him know that you love him and that you
will no longer compromise having a legal and
blessed marriage in the sight of God. If he's not
willing to give you that then you will have to
make the decision to stay or leave him and find
someone who will fulfill your dream of marriage
and children. But, before you talk to him, pray
and seek God's will and understanding for your
life.
Q. 3) Dear Dr. Jan,
I am what you call a people pleaser. I have a hard
Time saying no to anyone; family, friends or even
strangers. At times my inability to say no has
caused me to have to go without some essentials.
How can I turn people down without worrying so
much about what others will think? I don't know
why other's opinions of me matter so much.
- Can't Say No
A. 3) Dear Can't Say No,
All of us want to please someone sometimes.
However, it can become a problem if you try to
please all of the people all of the time. If you
define yourself by what someone else think you
will always come up short. Having a strong sense
of who you are in Christ is the foundation to
personal power and strength. Assert
yourself; knowing that you have the right to say
no without the guilt and worry of what other's
might think. If you don't already, begin to read
his word so that you will know what he says about
your character, person and spirit. Remember that
it's not what man thinks of you, but what God
thinks of you. You are fearfully and wonderfully
made!
Dr. Jan
Ft Worth Texas
Attn: Dr. Jan
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Ladies, it's S-U-M-M-E-R. Hot, sultry, and in
some places down right scorching. And we
all know what that means. More skin
showing from head to toe.
We all want to get our 'sexy on' but
remember we have a little more than the
skinny women. So, I'd like to give a little
advice about the prerequisites to this
shedding process.
Let‟s start with the proper care of the girls
during this season. You know the buxom
area. If you want to go strapless, wear
halters, or spaghetti straps, then you'll need
a good strapless bra. There is nothing worse
than
seeing a full figured, fat
girl, wearing a tub dress
with little support or no
support. Not cute. Not
cute at all.
Sexy does not mean
letting the girls hang out
or hang down.
If you are over a barely B which we are, if
for no other reason than our back fat, and
you can't walk into Wal-Mart or Target and
buy off the rack, then you are going to have
to spend a little do ray me. cheddar, dinero.
Ladies, the girls are worth the extra money.
They need to be pampered and supported.
This means making sure that your bra
covers all areas, back front and side,
without pinching. There is a difference
between pushing up and too small. As my
mother once told me, you don't want to
look like you have a third boob. And you
don't want the bra too loose. Your bra
should fit as smoothly as your undaroos,
panties for those under the age of 40.
If you don't know how to get the perfect fit
then go to a store like Catherine's. Have
your breast measured to get the correct
size. Try on a few to find your perfect fit
and style and purchase the best
one for you! And ladies we don't
have to go for the granny white
anymore. Buy some color!
And if you really cannot afford
the store price, write down the
brand, style and size, then go
home, find the bra for less on
line and ordered it.
Some online suggestions: Hipsandcurves for
the sexy siren in you; Women Within for
those still learning there sexy side.
You will be amazed at how well your fashion
fits when the breast are properly arranged.
And how much better your back will feel
with the correct fit and support.
Enjoy you for you!!
Olivia Williams
Austin Texas
Attn: Fashionista
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Tantalize Your Tastebuds W/Chef Fleming Grilled Chicken Breast with Red Pepper Butter
yield:4 servings method: Grilling
Chicken Breast Boneless Skinless 2
Salt and Pepper TT
Garlic Chopped 1tsp
vegetable Oil 1tbsp
Red pepper Butter 2oz
Red Pepper Butter
Puree 8 oz of peeled roasted red peppers until liquid then add to butter
Cut the Breast in two or butterfly them
season the breast with the salt,pepper,garlic coat the breast on all sides
with the vegetable oil
Heat and prepare the grill
Grill the breast until done turn them during cooking to get the cross hatch
marking
Remove from the grill and place on a plate for service place a 1/2 oz
of red pepper butter on top of each breast put in warm place so butter can melt
This is a great recipe for the summer season.
Calories per serving 240 total fat 14gms saturated fat 6g cholesterol 95mg
total carbohydrates 1gm protein 28gm vitamin A 10% vitamin C 15%
Cooking questions? Ask Chef Fleming!
Chef Fleming
Euless Texas [email protected] Attn: Chef Flemming
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Self Esteem, Get You Some!!
Self Esteem is how you view or feel about
yourself. You can no longer allow others to dictate
to you what is and what is not beautiful. We are
all beautiful. We as women come in so many sizes
shapes and hues. Beauty is found in variety of
expressions.
When you look in the mirror learn how to affirm
your own gorgeous face. I look beautiful, I am
fantastic. I will have a purposeful and prosperous
day.
Speak to yourself and learn how to boost your
own ego and self esteem. If you don‟t speak life in
to you –who will?
Many times we wait for those closest to us to
encourage us and keep us lifted up. Don‟t look to
others to be your rocket launcher. Launch your
own rocket and watch it soar.
Self esteem is essential in order that you for you
to be victorious in this life. You will be defeated
and devoid of personality unless you go after and
develop some real self esteem.
Know your own value and your own worth. Don‟t
base it on what a man or a woman says. What
does the Word of God say about you.
God says you are fearfully and wonderfully made.
God says that you are more precious than Rubies.
Measure yourself against something that does not,
will not or cannot change.
Do you honestly believe that God would take care
and concern to fashion you in His likeness and not
make you the most fascinating creation. He has a
lot of other things He could do if he wanted to
make junk.
You are an essential element to life her on earth.
You are unique. No duplications anywhere.
Nobody can do it like you.
Now there is a necessary balance between self
esteem and vanity. You are not the only one that
is wonderful, fantastic and beautiful. God made a
variety of beauties to look at. Each one is special
in her own way for, her own purpose.
Let‟s not go too far. A healthy dose is all you
need.
Mirror on the wall. Help me to be the best me of
them all.
Roxanne Harris
Hurst Texas
Attn: Editor
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On today‟s list is the Green
Lantern an extraordinarily
wonderful movie. This
movie was full of character,
intrigue, and well planned graphics. I was
captivated as well as entertained because of
the simplicity yet complex plot and setting of
the movie. Ryan Reynolds was hilarious and
he expressed the true nature of a father‟s
legacy. He is a very talented actor and I look
forward to seeing him in new movies to come.
Next up is Jumping the Broom what can I say
about such a traditional setting in the South
with superstar characters Angela Bassett is
good in anything as any character, and she did
not fail us in this movie, she always captivates the
audience and draws you in as though you are part
of the movie. An up and coming actress Paula
Patton is making her way to the top with her
charm and whit as the girl next door. Laz Alonso
an extremely attractive actor has stolen my heart
and motivated me to keep
believing in our African American men. T. D.
Jakes bring this film close to home with his
warm and inviting presence. Who can forget
Loretta Devine she always takes the audience
to a whole new level with her remarkable
acting abilities. This movie was funny and
heart warming it taught me to hold on to
traditions while incorporating something new.
Last but definitely not
least Mr. Popper‟s
Penguins I am such a
huge Jim Carrey Fan
from Ace Ventura to his
latest I am always in for
a treat when he is being
filmed, he says what
you are thinking but
won‟t say and he allows
himself to become
different people to get
the job done. I strive to
entertain people around me the way he does.
He was his original elf in this film funny,
charming, witty, and charismatic. This movie
was enlightening, powerful, and taught us the
power of family and forgiveness something we
should all put at the forefront of our
minds. Overall I loved this film.
I give all three of these movies a 5
Diamond rating. ♦♦♦♦♦
CJ Mansfield Texas [email protected] Attn:movie mania
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What Men Wish Women Knew
About Men
Intimacy
Ladies as we begin a journey down “what men
wished women knew about men Avenue”. We
begin our journey with Intimacy- say it slow
for us fellas in –ti- mi-cy-(in to me) .Ladies as
men grew from teens to men most of us
sought to add notches on our love belt. We
never were taught what intimacy was,
remember men are very visual and sometime
we lead with the wrong head. Most men do not
hug or kiss in public, why is that? The answer I
just don‟t do it is unacceptable , but as soon as
we get home we are ready to go at it-men do
not understand how intimacy should play a
part in the bedroom and how it heightens the
actions that occurs there. Intimacy and
intimate are not the same thing-look them up
with your man, it‟s time to train our sons and
daughters in this area.
Quiz
Let‟s take a quiz readers, please take this with
your special one.
1. My man knows the difference between
intimacy and intimate.
Yes or No
2. I know the real reason my man does
not hug or kiss in public.
Yes or No
3. My man and I can sit in the same room
in different areas and still have
intimacy.
Yes or No
4. I understand small talk from my man
and how it helps my man relate better to
me.
Yes or No
This test is best done when two parties
take the test together and share there
answers.
Next month –comments on Intimacy from
men.
Rev. Steve Harris
Chosen Generation Fellowship
Hurst Texas
Attn: What men wish
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Mending Broken Pieces
Setbacks are set up for come back.
We as a people sometimes believe that
setbacks often come from bad choices we
make in our lives. But the truth is setbacks
Are for growth. We buy shoes that fit to tight
so we have to go back and get a bigger size,
through that experience we should learn not
to go through something but grow through
something‟s. Set ups are temporary test to
see how you will react under pressure you
can always tell the strength of the test from
the weight it bears, how much can you take
and not break? Philippians 4:11 the apostle
Paul tells the church about temporary set ups
he says” Not that I speak in respect of want,
for I have learned in whatsoever state I am,
there with to be content.
The word state is just a temporary
conditions but never let your condition
determine who you are always be content in
the test and trails you face each day.
Comebacks are the manifested results of
everything you‟ve been through, nobody
could go through what you went through the
way you went through and came out the way
you did. But you!!! Yes comebacks are a
refreshing victory through our lord and savior
Jesus Christ. So the next time it seems like
You‟re taking a step backward remembers
you‟re really gone forward. When everything
has come to a standstill and it seems like
nothing is going your way remember it‟s only
a test. Lessons are to be learned if you don‟t
learn, you‟ll continue to repeat the class.
Always know that you‟re in a win situation
when you have Jesus.
Remember SETBACKS ARE SETUPS FOR A
COMEBACK.
Prophet David Brooks Ft Worth Texas Chosen Generation Fellowship Broken Pieces Outreach Ministries [email protected] Attn: Broken Pieces
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