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Page 1: Tribute to my Mommy. - Bodden Funeral Serviceboddenfuneralservices.com/pdf/EbanksEprogramFINAL_compressed.pdfmom you worked so hard to give me and my siblings the best life possible,
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Tribute to my Mommy.

I have tried to sit and write this tribute for the last nine days with no success, this is by far the hardest event I have experienced thus far inmy life. You see if the truth be told I had no intention of ever putting my feelings about my mother in the public domain. My dearest Aunttold me I must do it, so this is my attempt.My mommy was a kind yet stern woman, she was gentle yet fierce, she was protective yet brutal, she was loving yet harsh. You see mymommy could go from smiling one minute to having thea scorn of scrooge in another, dependent on the situation. This is something anyonethat knew her well could attest too. My mommy did not seek worldwide acclaim or notoriety for anything she did, her joy came instead fromhaving done good for the ill-fated and destitute.Many will remember my Mother for many different things, but my most precious memory is that my Mother always wanted us as childrento have the best of everything, Toys, Clothes, Vacations in Miami at Uncle Gurwin’s in Coral Gables, Uncle Arlin’s in Cayman Brac, Uncle Steveand Aunt Jackie in Beverly Hills and Mona Heights in Jamaica, or off to Busch Gardens Tampa and Disney World to see Mickey Mouse. Thesewere some of the summer vacations my mommy bestowed to us children.She was big on us having a better education than she was afforded, so she sent us to the best private primary schools on Grand Cayman. Shewas always big on us getting a good college education and I can remember how proud she was when I graduated from the Cayman IslandsHigh School and later college. I saw that same glow of pride in her face when she accompanied me to Port St. Lucy to witness my daughterJessica, graduate from college with honors; like I had done some thirty years earlier. She was one big ray of sunshine on those two occasions. She often told me how proud of me she was because I had set a great example for my younger siblings, and she was delighted that I was sucha good father. She implored me to continue supporting my two children in all their goals and ambitions. My mother was proud to know thatmy son, Thaddeus, was pursuing a college degree.Mommy was never scared to volunteer her opinion, whether it was requested or not. She would often take a position on an issue and shewas seldom dissuaded from that position: I guess some would call that being stubborn. I guess you could also say some things are hereditary.Mommy was so proud when I told her I had bought my own business and was retiring on March 16th after working 39 years with Government.What I didn’t tell her was that I could see her failing health, and just wanted to be able to spend more time with her. I did not realize it wouldhave been so short, as she passed away a month later. All in all, she was a great mommy and I Love her and will miss that Fatso lady with thebiggest Smile in the whole world.Bye mommy but I will see you again one day, as I promised you on Wednesday Night at 7:01 pm as I kissed you for the last time.

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Tribute from Tania

My precious Mom – where do I begin? There are so many memories of you and so much that we shared that I could write a book.  But,for today I will keep it short and sweet.

From the time I was little, I watched you handle the obstacles that life threw your way.  You experienced some hard times, but youalways rose above them - your strength and resilience I deeply admired.  You also did your very best to raise us.  While you were a nonon-sense and strict mother, you still expressed your love for us all.  I share my siblings’ sentiments that you were our advisor,counsellor and someone we always knew we could rely on; you never failed us.

Mom, you and I shared a very special bond that I will always treasure and remember fondly.  You were my rock and someone I alwaystrusted with my innermost thoughts. We disagreed on very little and so spending time with you I always enjoyed and looked forwardto.

As a little girl, when most children were not allowed to be present during adult meetings and conversations, I remember insisting ongoing along with you and never leaving your side.  I have very vivid memories of me sitting on your lap, resting my head on your chestand sucking my thumb while pretending to be asleep, as I keenly listened to political conversations with constituents and otherlegislators.  One of my proudest moments of you was when I was 10 years old and they declared you one of the winners of the 1976West Bay Elections. I was one of the first to greet you outside of the West Bay Townhall after you and your running mates burstthrough the doors celebrating victoriously! My heart was beaming with pride for you that day and for a very long time after.

You shared very special moments with me including being right by my side during the birth of each of my children.  I remember youwere so proud when Vance, your first grandchild, was born.  You were not only an excellent grandmother to my children but a mostwonderful great grandmother to my grandchildren and I’m so happy they all got to know you and experience your love.

I also had the privilege of working with you in your businesses – five years between Fifth Avenue and Jeans Avenue clothing stores and4 years at D&S Custom Cabinets.  We not only enjoyed shopping for the businesses together but also took great pleasure in workingon various commercial and residential cabinetry projects.  You also so beautifully designed and built my kitchen cabinets and to thisday, they look almost brand new and still contemporary.  It still carries your stamp of class and timeless elegance.

One of my most recent and enjoyable memories I have of you was in September 2015, when we took a 5-day trip to Florida, just thetwo of us, before you became very ill.  It was our girls’ trip as we flew to Miami and spent some time there before we drove up to PortSt. Lucie to pick up Tommy’s daughter, Jessica, and continued on for a couple of days in Orlando, and came back down to Miami wherewe spent a few more days. The focus wasn’t to shop although we did a bit of it, but it was a cherished time of laughter and lots oftalking while we enjoyed each other’s company. That trip I will always hold dear in my heart.

Mom you leave us behind with much sadness but with also many beautiful memories. We know you are now resting and in a muchbetter place. I will miss your counsel, loving kindness and laughter. You were such a special person to so many people and I will foreverbe proud to call you “my mom”.

Love you always,

Your Angel – Tania

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Good Afternoon everyone,

We are gathered here today in the memory of my mother, Esther Ebanks, so that together we may share both our joy in the gift that her lifewas to us, and the pain that her passing brings. This is a tribute to my Mom.Mom, you were known to many as the "Iron Lady," especially during your years in politics and this title was definitely befitting. Not only didyou care for our family and friends, you genuinely cared and worked tirelessly for the people of the Cayman Islands. Those that knew youcould attest that you were a very kind, sweet, strong and generous woman, with a heart of gold. However, you also stood firm on yourprinciples and would accept no less than what you believed was right and you were always honest and outgoing, no matter the circumstance.Your patriotic and charitable nature was admired by many and especially your children.I will always remember that prior to your illness and even during that time when you were well enough to drive, there was rarely a day thatyou would not visit my family just to make sure that we were all doing well or for us to catch up on the latest news. Let's not forget tomention the 'mango season'! I'd better made sure that my kids saved some mangoes for their "Ganzie" because we all knew she was comingfor her share! I loved seeing the smile on your face before you drove away, Mom.My friends always refer to me as “Esther” because I have so many of your traits and remind them of you. "Like mother, like daughter”, asthe saying goes. We both love to make others laugh, not missing a moment to tell a joke and I can’t help but to give when someone is inneed. I’m also headstrong just like you and I guess that is why we would disagree at times. But I want you to know, that more than anything,Mom I cherish these qualities and memories because they remind me that you’re still with me.I could write a book about you Mom, but that would not have all the pages needed to express the words and honor that you are owed. So,I just want to say thank you for your sacrifice, patience, lessons and love. Your legacy will live on through us, your grandchildren andextended family members forever.This is not 'goodbye' Mom, but rather… until we meet again.

Love, your baby girl, Tessa.

Tribute from Todd

Mom,I never thought this day would come; you were always there for me whenever I needed you. I remember all the times you helped me whenI had issues with breathing. It pained me to watch you suffer with your illness, having such a hard time breathing and knowing there wasnothing I could do to ease your pain.Mom the hurt I feel now that you are gone is unimaginable. I feel everyday like I have not been able to breath since you left me, but I knowyou are in a better place now. Free of the pain you suffered and breathing easy. I take comfort in the thought of you being back with yourmom and husband, DD, whom you so dearly loved and missed.Mom I hope you know how much I loved you and will forever love you. I thank you for being such a great mom, The best mom possible.I will forever miss and love you,Todd

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TRIBUTE TO MY MOTHER – From Son Timmy

THERE ARE REALLY NO WORDS THAT CAN EXPRESS THE VOID THAT HAS ALREADY BEGUN IN MY LIFE SINCE MY MOM PASSED.MOM YOU TOUCHED THE LIVES OF SO MANY AND WERE ADMIRED DEARLY THROUGHOUT THE COMMUNITY, YOU WERE ONE OF THEKINDEST, MOST CONSIDERATE AND FORGIVING PERSON I KNOW, AND NOT TO MENTION VERY OUTSPOKEN AND DID NOT STAND FOR ANYUNFAIR TREATMENT IN ANY SITUATION..MOM YOUR LEGACY WILL LIVE ON FOREVER.MOM YOU WORKED SO HARD TO GIVE ME AND MY SIBLINGS THE BEST LIFE POSSIBLE, AND ALWAYS TOLD ME, IF YOU WANT TO SUCCEEDIN LIFE YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD AND NEVER GIVE UP. THANK YOUMOM FOR ALL YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS OF ADVICE.I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU ENJOYED MY VISITS AS I WOULD ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO CHEER YOU UP AND MAKE YOU LAUGH.MOST OF OUR CONVERSATIONS YOU ALWAYS REMINDED ME THAT I WAS SO MUCH LIKE YOU, HARD WORKING AND DETERMINED ANDNEVER GAVE UP UNTIL I GOT THE JOB DONE, MY REPLY WOULD ALWAYS BE " WELL YOU KNOW MOM, YOU TAUGHT ME WELL, YOU DONEA GREAT JOB RAISING ME".AS I WATCHED YOU SUFFER WITH YOUR ILLNESS FOR THE LAST FEW YEARS, THIS BROKE MY HEART KNOWING THAT YOU WERE SUCH ASTRONG AND DETERMINED WOMAN.MOM I KNOW YOU DIDN'T WANT TO LEAVE US, AND I WISH I STILL HAD YOU HERE WITH ME, BUT I AM COMFORTED KNOWING YOU ARE INTHE ARMS OF JESUS AND WILL FOREVER BE MY GUARDIAN ANGEL.I AM SO PROUD TO HAVE HAD YOU AS MY MOTHER AND MY ROLE MODEL, I WILL FOREVER CHERISH THE MEMORIES AND LAUGHTER WESHARED.

UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, MY SWEET DEAR MOTHER

TIMMY

Tribute from Son - ThronMom you were so much more than just a mother. You were an extraordinary woman, best friend, teacher, confidant, nurse, and even a fatherwhen the times called for it. Mom there are many others who share the same sentiments.Your love knew no boundaries, and that is why my heart and many others ache today. However, we must remember to smile and laugh asyou would have wanted us to. Mom even though it is hard we will continue to hold you in our memories and keep those happy times in ourhearts.You were the greatest mother in the world and it is in my opinion that everyone should strived to share the same attributes that you had. Amother with unconditional love for her family, a generous and kind hearted individual who always went out of her way to help others in need.Mom even though you are no longer with us you will be remembered forever in the hearts of your family and friends. You have left us withso many fond memories and lessons to carry with us forever. You love will always be with us to comfort us in our times of sorrow. Rest nowMom.Love forever - Your son,Thron

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Tribute from Travis

Dear Mom,With tears welling up in my eyes and falling down my cheeks I find this to be the hardest thing I’ve had to write so far. I would like to startby saying that I will always love you and appreciated everything you've sacrificed for me.When I was 10 days old you laid your eyes upon me and knew that the love and bond that we would share would be special. You had one ofthe biggest hearts, you were always willing to help someone when they needed it whether they were a stranger or family. You would givethem the shirt off your back if they needed it because that's who you were.You were the strongest, most loyal and truly genuine person I've ever known. When Dad passed you took on the role of mother and fatherand you were the greatest role model I could have asked for. With your undying love, support and encouragement I would have neverachieved half of what I have today. I know with you as my inspiration I will continue to make you proud of not only the man I am today butthe man I will be in the future.I take comfort in knowing that all of your pain and suffering is gone and you are happily in daddy's arms again. You were a precious gift fromGod and you will forever be missed. Even though I am now filled with an emptiness I will forever feel you with me as I will keep my head upand my heart filled with your love and all of the memories that we sharedIn closing I just want to say I was blessed to be able to call you mom and though you're gone I will forever be your little Travie. You alwayslooked out for me making sure I never strayed to far off the path and you will continue to do so as my guardian angel. I would give anythingto have one more hug and one more kiss from you.Rest in Peace mommyYour son,Travis

Tribute from the Grandchildren

Ganzie it took us some time to contemplate this tribute as we struggled to combine our shared and individual memories of you. You weresuch a huge part of our lives and this was no easy task. In the end we all had something special to say and though we each could write youthree novels and continued editions; time and paper does not permit, so we only recall a few. Ganzie though you are no longer here withus, we can still feel your love. It remains a guiding light through this life that will forever give us the strength to face each and every day asyou have taught us to do. For now, we will not say goodbye, but rather, talk to you tomorrow and we’ll see you in our dreams. Sleep insweet peace our dear guardian angel, we know you will continue to guide and protect us in heaven as you did here on earth.

Ganzie,How can you say goodbye to someoneyou love so much?Every time I close my eyes, I see youGanzie and all the memories of you runthrough my mind. But I know that youare in heaven watching over and smilingdown on us. Thank you for everythingand for the role you played in my lifeand the lessons you've taught me. I willalways remember you and miss youdearly.This isn't goodbye, Ganzie; this is ‘seeyou later’. Until we meet again, I askthat you to continue watching over thefamily and friends you left behind. We'llcontinue to love one another the wayyou loved all of us.Love,Your first grandchild, Vance

Ganzie,I think this may be one of the hardestthings I've ever had to do in my life thusfar. A life without you in it was neversomething I thought possible.You were always there for me guidingme through life. It was my greatest hon-or to see my kids grow up just as closeto you as I did. Though I cannot list ev-erything here today Ganzie, I will forev-er love and miss you.Thank you for everything - from youramazing food, your stories of the olddays growing up (even though somewere to just scare us straight), to yourstern talks and guidance in any situationI came to you with. These were all lifelessons I will carry with me forever.My grandmother, my mentor, mystrength, my backbone, my best friend -as hard as this is, I know we will meetagain. Sleep in peace my sweet angel.From your loving granddaughter, Vanna

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There is a lingering emptiness unlike any other which followsthe loss of a grandmother. Ganzee, you were the matriarchof the family, the trunk of our tree, the essential source oftruth, wisdom, stability, courage, and unconditional love.I hold dear to me the memories crafted in your home -Vance, Vanna, Travis and I would fish in the canal, buildtreehouses, play in the rain, and have countless fireworkwars, marble games and bicycle races. We all loved to hearyour stories of the olden times. Indeed, the bond we sharetoday and the confidence we hold individually was formedthrough the sanctity and security that you offered, alongwith your strict, but fair and forgiving discipline.You instilled within me self-love, respect and pride alongwith the importance of proper posture, etiquette and pre-sentation. I remembered such years later when I entered theMs. Cayman Islands pageant. I will never forget the warmreassurance I felt when I spotted your gentle smile throughthe crowd and flashing lights.Always one of my biggest supporters and motivators, youbeamed with pride upon my completion of law school andpursuit of public law by working for the Government amidstall the pressure to enter the private sector. I wish you couldbe there on the day I am called to the bar.Ganzee, I will forever miss your stories, porridge, and Cay-man-style lobster and rice & beans, but I find consolation inknowing that your smile rests in mine, your hands havehelped sew my story, your love fills my heart, and your spiritruns through my soul. I will continue to build upon yourlegacy. Love always, Shari

Grannie,It was & is the greatest honor to hear asomeone say, "You Esther granddaughterna? I can see that. You look & act just likeher. Strong willed but sweet."Grannie, I'll try my best to continue to keepstrong & let your light shine on through me.Love, Jess Jess

Ganzie,It's hard for me to put pen to paperand write all our memories in onecondensed paragraph. I just want tothank you for always believing in meand having my back.No matter what I went through Iknew I could always go to you. Ganzie I will continue to ride in yourhonor and forever hold you in myheart, I will continue to make youand the Cayman Islands proud.Your Champion, Vanjae (VJ)

Ganzie,I always adored how much love youhad for your family, and as we spoke,I promised you that I would do thesame for my own family. I will missseeing your smile when I broughtMacson to see you. You called himyour April baby, but I know you arelooking down on us as our guardianangel. You will surely be missed.Love Tatianna & Macson

Ganzie,I just want to say I miss you more each and every day and you will forever live in my heart. I remember all the times when I was younger thatyou would take me to go get mangos, go on family trips, and to buy fireworks for me on new years. As much as I loved firing off the fireworks,you always loved to sit outside with the family and watch them. If I could go back to those days I would. I really wish I came and looked for youa lot more but I know you’re in a better place now Grams. I love you and I miss you.Sleep in Peace. Love, Tishon.

Ganzie,Although we didn't see you often, we bothlooked forward to our summers, staying withyou and catching up, we will both miss seeingyou very much and am thankful for the time weshared with you.Remembering you always,Ethan & Aiden

Ganzie,Though I know you are not reading this, Iknow you can hear my heart. I just want to sayyou were the best grandma I could’ve everwished for. You always cared about me andwere always there for me when I was down.Ganzie I know you are in a better place nowbut I still miss you dearly. I will try my hardestto take on your dream of being a politician. Iwill miss you always.Love forever, Thalia

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You rest in the arms of angels, in peace and love, watching over us always from heaven up above.You guide us through our many worries and help us through each day, always by our sides, you never went away.

Ganzie our bond cannot be broken, made from love so pure, Death does not break a bond so strong, it lives on forever more.You rest in the arms of angels, your loved ones waiting for you there, now free from illness and pain, waiting for the day

we are all together once again.

You will forever be in our hearts. Love from all your grandchildren,Vance, Vanna, Vanjae (VJ), Shari, Shane, Shadai, Jessica, Thaddeus, Tatianna, Tishon, Thalia, Ethan, Aidan, Rian and Tabitha.

I’m sorry that I couldn’t spend time with you as much as I would’ve liked. I really wished thatyou were here. I miss you so much. I’ll miss the days of me riding my bicycle to your housedown the street and spending time with you listening to your stories of growing up in theBrac. Every time I go to the Brac I would share these stories with my cousins there.Sometimes my mom tries to tell me these stories but it’s not the same. I will never forgethow proud you were of me when I graduated from prospect primary and the words that youtold me. I will keep my promise to you Ganzie and always do the best I can, respect myparents and become a great man when I grow up.I will miss and love you forever.Your first great grandson,Vashaun

Tribute from Daughter’s and Son in Laws

A Poem from the In Laws –

Let this be a loving reminderThat someone is missing today,

Someone our hearts still hold on to,As we travel along life’s way.

Someone who made life so special,For all those who gather here,

Someone who won’t be forgottenBut cherished from year to year.

And now as we pause to remember,Let us all fondly recall,

How dearly each of us loved herand how she loved us all.

As we remember now in love,Your life from start to end,

And we’re just glad we knew you,As mother and as friend.

Sleep in Peace Mrs. Esther. You will forever be missed. Carlos, Michelle, Mercedes, Sara

As I write this through tear filled eyes, I recall how Mrs. Esther welcomedme with open arms from the very first day we met. She always treated melike one of her daughters. These last eight marvelous years we have beenthere for each other in moments of happiness, pain and sadness.Thank you for your advice throughout this time, it has helped me morethan you know. I am going to miss the stories you shared with us and yourcooking, as you always made the best meals. Mrs. Esther, I promise toalways do Christmas lights and fireworks for you, as I remember how muchyou loved these.Though I don’t quite understand why you had to go, I know you are atpeace in holy glory with the Lord. Everyday our hearts break since God hascalled you home. Now we know you were an angel that God lent to us, toguide us, take care of us and love us but your time has come to return toheavens, where you will continue to do so as you look down on us fromabove.Mrs. Esther though it saddens me that you are not here, I have a sense ofrelief to know that you are no longer in pain. So as hard as it maybe I willsend you off with a kiss, knowing that one day we will see each other again.Rest now our angel,Maria

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A tribute to my Mother In Law.Rest in Peace Mrs. Esther.

Mrs. Esther was a wonderful woman who made the most out of every minute of her life.I do not have a lot of the stereotypical “mother-in-law” stories, I have none to be honest. You see, mother in laws have been the center ofjokes, TV shows, and just maligned for, well ever. It is sort of a sitcom joke that every man gets annoyed by his mother-in-law. However, Iwas never able to relate to this since I had the best mother-in-law in the world. She was a 2nd mother to me. She and I had a relativelygood relationship in the years I have been married to Tania. I would like to attribute that to my sterling personality or her obvious goodtaste and judge of character, however I think it’s more likely a case of my wife being an amazing person and therefore her mother lovinganyone she loved.It is a hard lesson to learn when you must lose a loved one, and once again I am reminded that the bond of family always comes before allelse.After the initial shock, there is only one word to describe how I feel. Devastated.I am devastated that our future grandchildren will never get the pleasure of knowing their great-grandmother. I am devastated that I willno longer have Mrs. Esther there to talk to and steer me in the right direction with her words of wisdom. But most of all, I am devastatedthat my best friend in the world and love of my life lost the woman who shaped her into the person and lady she is today.Unfortunately, but no anger or sadness in the world can undo what happened. More than that, she would not want us to be angry or sad.You see, my mother-in-law was not your average woman.She was a woman who made friends with everyone she would meet and who always saw the best in people, even when they had a hardtime seeing it themselves.She was a woman who, despite living in a culture and time where women often fade into the background and are told to be subservient totheir fathers and husbands, taught her sons to respect women and treat them as equals. She taught her daughters to stand up for whatthey believed in and that anything was possible. Mrs. Esther did not just say it. She walked the walk and demanded respect from everyoneshe met and worked with. She was a LION in the corporate world ruled by men. She was a woman who you would aspire to be, a rolemodel for many of the women who knew her.She was and is my mother-in-law, the amazing woman who gave me a wife far better than anyone deserves. What I would give to havehugged her just one time.Cherish your family. You know that trip to visit them you have been putting off? Go. There is no figure high enough that should ever keepyou from your loved ones and life is far too short to take it for granted.Nothing I could write could ever do justice in describing the type of person my mother-in-law was,Rest in peace and thank you for everything you have done. You truly left the world better than you found it.You taught me how not to be afraid of life and in the end how not to be afraid of death.I will forever carry you with me,Vincent Tribute from Siblings

Tribute to my Sister (Tetta):I never thought I would lose you, but here I am standing alone without you by my side. We’re are sisters for life, but now you are gone…. When you were well we had our hour long phone calls, our evening drive outs, our weekend lunch dates and our mango hunts – people usedto call us the Golden Girls (you, Ms Ollie and myself). It’s mango season now and it is just not the same without you, but to show how youare always looking out for me I had a phone call from our faithful mango supplier, “who said Esther said to always bring mangos for my sisterTit Tit and a bag is there for collection” (even after you are gone you are looking out for me).  When you fell ill our phone calls decreased andour drives became less and less, but the love grew as our video chats became more and more meaningful. I will carry you deep within my heart Tetta and I will be brave and look out for our siblings, even though I am the eldest I was always thesmallest and for that reason you always felt the need to take care of me. I will now take care of the rest, as much as I can in my physical state. I will always love you – until we meet again Tetta (hug and kiss mama, Easie and Arlon) for me and all of our loved ones there with you all.So go in peace, you’ve earned your sleep, your love is in our hearts and we’ll eternity keep.

Love you always Tit Tit

To my dearest sister-in-law,I was so glad to be able to read hymms for you during your last days. And, long before that learning from you what it means to be a courageouswoman.Your insight in business and acumen in family matters helped build me. But, most importantly you were there when I needed you most. Yousympathetically gave me a shoulder to lean on told me to pray.I love you with all my heart and miss you so,Grace

My Big Sister

Without my sister, my life will be like a book without page numbers. The story will go on, but it might feel out of order.

Your baby sis, Jacqui

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TRIBUTE TO MY BIG SISTER, ESTHERShe grew up physically and emotionally strong, ambitious, hardworking, loving, friendly and always championing the cause of others – awoman of strong character and determination …. this was my sister, Esther. If someone needed help, she was always right there to help them,and she didn’t have to know you too well either before she would offer her assistance.It didn’t surprise me when she entered the political arena as a candidate for the district of West Bay. I knew it was for the love of her peopleand a sincere desire to contribute to her country. She enjoyed her term as a Member of the Legislative Assembly and often referred to it inconversation.She was a wonderful mother to her seven children. She loved, provided and guided them and was certainly their consolation. She also lovedall her relatives, be they siblings, in-laws, nephews, nieces or whoever, and would often come by our store or house to visit. What a joy it wasto hear her joking around with Ish and our sons, or seriously engage them in deep conversation about current affairs!I will miss you so much, dear Esther, as we had such great times together – sweet, sisterly fellowship. Some of the best laughs I’ve enjoyedoccurred during our times together. We could converse about so many different topics! We enjoyed speaking mainly about family life,business, God’s Word and décor.Throughout my life you have encouraged me to do well and ever since I chose to walk with God as a teenager, you have never failed to remindme keep faithful to Him. We are so sad that you are no longer with us, but our hearts rejoice because some years ago you also made thedecision to follow Jesus, according to His Word. You enjoyed sweet fellowship with Him and with His people and put your all into serving Himeven after you were totally confined to bed. Having Jesus with you cheered your heart during those days of suffering and it also cheers ourhearts today even as we grieve. We will miss you so much but know you are no longer suffering pain and have gone on to eternal rest withour Lord. We will always miss you.,Dear sister.Your loving sis, Kay & family

A Tribute to my dear sister:

Above all, we give thanks for a woman I am able to call my sister, the unique, the valiant and irreplaceable, Leola EstherEbanks whose memory will never be extinguished from our minds.Esther loved and was loved by all of her siblings and she will be greatly missed. My feelings are best expressed in thesestanzas:I am standing on the seashoreA ship at my sideSpreads her sailsTo the morning breezeAnd starts for the blue oceanShe is an object of inner beauty and strengthI stand and watch herUntil...At length she hangs like a speck of white cloudJust where the sea and sky come to mingle with each otherThen...Someone at my side says,"There, she is gone!""Gone where?"Gone from my sight.That is all.She is just as large as when she left my sideAnd she is just as able to bear the load of living freight to her destined portHer diminished size is in me, not herAnd just at the moment someone says, "There, she is gone"There are other eyes watching her comingAnd other voices ready to gladly shout"Here she comes, Shipahoy"And that's not dying.Esther we'll miss you, we thank God for lending you to us for 74 years. This is not goodbye, this is until we meet again.From a brother that loved you dearly.Steve

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Tribute from ALS CaymanThe late Professor Stephen Hawking, who remarkably lived with ALS for 55 years, once said: ‘Although I cannot move and I have to speakthrough a computer, in my mind I am free’. Having had the pleasure of spending time with Ms. Esther over the last couple of years, and theprivilege of getting to know her, we take solace in the knowledge that she too was free. With an admirable faith in God, and a remarkablestrength of mind, she continued to be an inspiration to us all.ALS Cayman, brainchild of the late Mrs. Beverly Banks, was registered as a charitable organization in September 2018. Through our ownexperiences and losses, the members of our directorate were motivated to raise awareness of Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis in the CaymanIslands, whilst providing support for those families affected. We are thankful that Ms. Esther was able to attend our official launch in May 2019,supported by her dedicated family.‘A trailblazer, businesswoman…independent woman ahead of her time…she set an example for many young women who came after her’ - thewords of a close family friend. ‘Dependable, kind and hardworking…remained true to herself…found a voice which was respected by all whoknew her…never failed to remember the down-trodden’ - fondly remembered as such, by another family friend.ALS Cayman wishes to extend our sincere condolences to the family and close friends of Mrs. Leola Esterleen Ebanks - a phenomenal woman,by all accounts. May she rest in eternal peace.

Dr. Luana Look LoyOn behalf of ALS Cayman Tribute from your niece

Sandra TomlinsonTo my precious Aunt EstherStrong Lady, I can’t believe you’ve said goodbye.I am so thankful for the last several precious visits we had together, you, mom and I.They were full of love, encouragement and optimism, your natural ‘trademark.’I just want to say thank you for being so loving, so caring and kind. You were there for me when I was born, and many times while growing up.Your love could sometimes be rough, but I always knew it came from the best of intentions. Thank you for making this even more clear to mein later years as an adult.As I am sure many will say today, your strength, boldness and determination was a beacon of light and a source of inspiration to many, and Iam no exception. I will forever be in awe of how you overcame the toughest of challenges in your own life, from beginning to end. You neverstopped striving, and you always found a way to supersede the greatest of obstacles. You also encouraged everyone who came your way to dothe same, while helping them to do this in any way you could.Aunt Esther, I am eternally grateful for the privilege of being able to call you my aunt. And I know my dad will forever cherish you as his dearand beloved sister. You both weathered many storms together, and this was no different. Your light will shine bright in our family’s heartsforever. May you finally rejoice with the angels in paradise.

Tribute from NieceMy Dear and Loving Aunt Esther

It’s been a couple of weeks since your passing and I’m still grappling with the fact that you’re no longer here with us.You were one of the kindest, most considerate, forgiving, passionate and loving people I knew. Your true selflessness and genuineness Ideeply admired. You were always unapologetically yourself, outspoken and never hesitated in expressing your opinion but had a huge heartof gold and would do anything for your fellowman. You were a proud Caymanian who stood up against injustice and unfair treatment in anysituation. You touched the lives of so many and were admired throughout the community for your noble and self-sacrificing works. Neitherfear nor an “I can’t attitude” you ever entertained and while you respected everyone, despite someone’s position, rank or social status ifsomething had to be exposed or expressed you did just that - you were an Iron Lady, a true force to be reckoned with! It was mind-bogglingto witness how ALS crippled you over the last few years as you were always such a physically strong and determined woman. But, amazingly,your mind remained as sharp as a tack and we were all able to still lovingly converse with you, sharing many precious memories.I will forever cherish the many laughs, heart-to-heart conversations and advice you freely offered. Your love for my sisters and me, we neverdoubted. You were there for us in so many ways and we will forever be grateful for your firm but caring approach. Although Dad and Momdivorced when we were younger, you still considered Mom family and treated her like nothing less than a sister and she felt the same way.The bold, fierce, loving and unbreakable bond that you and Dad shared was one like no other. You were each other’s confidant and protectorand if you “messed” with one you were “messing” with the other. Daddy is deeply saddened by your passing and misses you so much, but heknows you are in a much better place; resting peacefully with the angels and in God’s hands. My sweet boy, Cyrus, misses his Aunt Esther tooand continues to bring you up in conversation. He showers me with hugs, kisses and flowers trying to cheer me up. I always remember yourvisit to the hospital after I had Cy and how happy you were to hold him in your arms. You were so proud of us both and couldn’t stop smilingfrom ear-to-ear. Over the years, you continuously gave me parenting tips and advice, and encouraged me to have “another one” as aplaymate for Cy – I certainly haven’t forgotten or dismissed it. You were always so amazed by and admired Cy’s loving ways; well, what can Isay, we come from a family with big hearts and you were also a shining example!Aunt Esther, as we so deeply mourn your passing, we feel truly blessed that we were able to share in your life and experience your lovingkindness. You will not only be remembered as a larger than life Caymanian Iron Lady (our very own Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher) whoserved your fellowman as a Member of the Legislative Assembly and as a life-long community activist, but you will also be remembered as adevoted daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin and dear friend to so many. You will remain etched inour memories and hearts forever.Love you endlessly,Exie

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My bold and beautiful aunt,Your strength, courage, passion, humor, and kindness were such an inspiration to me. You had such a presence about you, you made headsturn when you entered a room.I’ll always remember the summer that I worked with you at the cabinet shop. That was when we bonded the most - in between teaching methe ropes of the business, we shared many jokes and stories, and had a lot of heart to heart conversations. Being the fashionista that you were,we joked about the different hair styles and hair colors that you could potentially try - you would come up with some of the most outlandishideas just to get a rise out of me and in turn you would have a good laugh. That laugh - I loved that laugh. It truly was infectious. I’ll alwaysremember the sound of it.The love that you had for Uncle Dalmain was one that I admired. You were so grateful for the love that you found with him and always spokeso highly of him. I remember you describing the tender and gentle love that he showed you and the attraction that you had for him. He alwaysencouraged you to be yourself, and he was your voice of reason. I remember always feeling such admiration for that love, and a desire to finda similar love and mutual respect in a partner. I trust that he welcomed you into heaven with a warm embrace.When I brought my family to meet you about 1 year ago, you expressed genuine happiness for me and you said that you could see the joy thatI had found in being a wife and a mother. I’m so glad that my husband and children could meet you. I tell my kids about how strong and kindtheir Grandaunt Esther was and I will strive to keep your memory alive in our home. I can only hope that I will be as strong and kind as youwere throughout my life.I know that the last few years were challenging for you medically, I hope that you can now breathe easy. May you rest In peace my dear aunt.Forever in my heart. I love you.

-Karen Flesch (née Tomlinson)

A Tribute to a Strong Women with a heart of gold. Aunts have no wands or wings,So they work with wisdom, love, and things.Having taken on this role,You loved me right down to my soul.You offered kindness from the first moment you laid your eyes on me.I remember with your unique smile and laughter you said you’re definitely mine, a Tomlinson at heart, I never forget how those words helpme so much to fit in and feel at home. You were the first one to carry me out to Wendy’s and bought me a large chicken sandwich with fries,it became my favorite spot for lunch for many years to come.You greeted me with a hug and kiss,Each freely out of love which I will now miss.I look at the stars each night,and see your bright shining light.You’re in God’s arms now and no longer in pain,In my thoughts, you’ll always remainHow lucky I was,How blessed I’ve been,You were more than my Aunt,You were also my friend.I love you and miss you Aunty EstherBut death have not won because I have hope that I will see you again never to part where we will live together eternally. Sleep and rest tillwe meet again, love always your niece and friend Nadine.

Aunts hold a very special place in your heart. They are like a mom, a friend, a sister all wrapped up into one. We are saddened to say goodbyeto our dear Aunt Esther. We love you. You were such a strong brave woman and a pioneer! Thank you for your wise advise which we willalways hold dear to our hearts. You will be greatly missed. To our cousins, whom have lost your mom and your Ganzie, our heart goes out toyou.

Love, Renee Whorms & Christina Smith

My Aunt Esther or “Aunt Fluffy” as I liked to call her was a very loving and caring person with the biggest, giving heart. I will always loveyou and will miss you dearly. Love, Vaughan

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Tribute to our cousin, EstherFrom her Uncle Elton’s children

Our family was always close to Aunt Chrissie and her family. Having lost our father, their beloved Uncle Elton, at an early age and growing upin our own private little enclave in Cayman Brac, we were all endeared to each other.Esther was a lovely, kind and fun person; an incredibly special cousin and we loved her dearly. She will be remembered for her love of family,friends, her country and most importantly her love for God. She bore her illness bravely and remained strong; we visited whenever we could,and she always spoke of God's faithfulness to her during this time of illness. We mourn her loss and will miss her, but we will think of her with a smile because of the beautiful memories we have.“The memory of a good person is a blessing” Proverbs 10:7Until we meet again, dear cousin:Lois, Cherry, Andy, Gary, Eddylee, Conrad, Lorna and Marie

The day you left and gained your wingsOur hearts just broke in two

We wish you could have stayed with usBut Heaven needed you

You left us with the memoriesAnd we love you dearly still

No matter how much times goes byYou know we always will

You were a very special personWith kindness in your heart

And the love we have had togetherGrows stronger now we're apart

We know we cannot bring you backAlthough we wish it everyday

But a piece of us went with youThe day you went away.

Until we meet again.You will always hold a special

place in our hearts.Your Cousins, Garfield, Lyn,

Norrean, Calton, Hervin, Delleanand all our Families.

It is my distinct honour and privilege to write this tribute to my dear and loved cousin Esther, whom we were more like sisters. God loves usall and never ceases to provide us with persons in our life to support us along this journey on earth. In our family, God gifted us with ourbeloved Esther to guide and support us in so many ways. The family was always a priority to her and she was always there to lend a helpinghand, listening ear and words of advice no matter the time or place.Esther set the bar for us all in so many instances and I am so proud of all her accomplishments. She was a noble and strong lady and stoodunwavering in whatever cause she believed in and for this, I am grateful to have had the opportunity to learn from her.I will certainly miss her presence, an immense void of which could never be filled. I can, however, remember all that she taught me by herwords and actions and will continue to keep her torch lit within our family and our blessed Islands. Today as we honour her life and legacy Ipray God’s comfort on all who will miss this amazing Lady. She was certainly in a league of her own and for this I am thankful. May she rest inpeace eternal.

My beloved, Esther you will forever be loved and missed…Your loving cousin Norrean and family

Tribute from Tomlinson CousinsIn Loving Memory

Of a Special Cousin

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Aunt Esther, or Tetta, as Daph called her, was wonderful person, and we loved her.Our world will be different without her. There was an energy within her, a light that never waned. She gifted that to us, to all of us that knewher.Aunt Esther was so full of love, fun, laughter and knowledge. We are proud to carry a small part of her within our hearts.We are so glad that Aunt Esther knew just how much her life meant to us. There IS something we can and will do. Bring more joy to those aroundus, help them, as she helped so many people, help them see the beauty that she saw. And finally, and most importantly to accept the Lord JesusChrist as our Lord and Saviour.Saying goodbye is never easy and we will always remember her as our vivacious Aunt with a heart of gold, full of fun and love, with thatirresistible twinkle in her eye.When we lose someone we love, we must learn not to live without them, but to live with the love they left behind.Aunt Esther, we will see you on the other side of the stars.We love you.Daph, Di and Dawn

Tribute from your ex sister in-law Stella MaraghThere are many things for which Esther will be remembered, but what we will never forget is her love and caring acts of kindness for family,friends and even for those she didn’t know.I met Esther in 1975, just before the birth of my first daughter Sandra in Jamaica, when she welcomed me into the family, and from that instanceI felt her warmth and loving spirit embrace me.Through the years, sharing in numerous family events, her support and kindness was always there.I used to admire her determination to push through any challenge and accomplish anything she set her mind to. That was true not just in politics,but in her family life as well.She also had what my daughters would call “a wicked sense of humor.”I remember during my first year on the island, one evening during hurricane season, we were at her parents’ house. It was overcast, and thesliding doors were open, which caused the curtains to blow in the wind. This kind of scenery was new to me. She said to me in an eerie voice,“When this sort of thing happens, it may be the witches coming around.”I was so frightened! But I was able to laugh about it years later.Her laughter will forever echo in our hearts and minds.In more recent times, my daughters and I had the opportunity to share tender moments with her, talking about the latest happenings in Caymanand with family in general. We were also able to pray together, thanking God for his kindness and mercies. I will always be thankful for theseprecious last moments with Esther.You will be in my heart forever.

Life is too short, it's not enough, but we must understand that if we live it in loveand faith, a road will be made for the day we pass away.We can take it and wait at the end, for those who once and always loved us, wewill meet.Your beautiful eyes,so big and round,showed love,showed laughter,showed happiness,showed sadness,but we will remember you as the happy, strong, fierce, opinionated, loyal to yourcountry, woman you were.The one who cried for equality for women,the one who loved deeply, the one we all loved dearly.We will miss Aunt Esther but we will meet once again in the Kingdom of Heaven,where no pain we will feel.

We love you Aunt EstherGrand niecesJanelle, Danielle, Maeve, Fame, Janine, Brittany, Genesis, Channing, Janae,Soleyah, Jada, Cassidy, Gabriella, Willeau, Saije and MaliaGrand nephewsLuis Jr., Alexander, Malik, Jaden, Austin,Tevez, Isaiah, Luke, Luis and Rome

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Tribute from CaregiversWe sat beside your bedside,

Our hearts were crushed and sore;We did our duty to the end,

Til we could do no more.In tears we watched you sinking,

We watched you fade away;And though our hearts were breaking’

We knew you could not stay.You left behind some aching hearts,

That loved you most sincere;We never shall and never will,

Forget you, Esther dear.

Mam Esther,As it saddens me to write this, I knowyou are finally at peace with our lord.

Mam Esther during my time of employ-ment with you here in Cayman, you

have grown to be like a mother to me. Icould not have asked to be employedwith a more kind-hearted woman. I

want to thank you for all of your gener-osity towards me. I will cherish our

memories together forever.Cleotilde

Ma’am. EstherThey say a journey of a thousand miles, begins with a single step.

May God open the gates to His Kingdom in Heaven, and welcome you in with thewarmest embrace.

Ma’am. Esther, I want to thank you for giving me the opportunity to serve, respect,and love you. It was a great pleasure getting to know you and be a part of your life,as you will forever be a part of mine, as I carry you in my thoughts and heart for allmy days. I will always remember everything you have done for me and all the les-

sons in which you taught me during my time with you.My deepest condolences go out to your family in these hardest of times. May Godsend them the strength to face each day and comfort in knowing that you are nowwith the peace that you have been seeking. Ma’am. Esther, I offer my thoughts,prayers and well wishes to your family during this dark time in their lives as your

bright light travels to the heavens.God bless to your new journey….

Respectfully yours,Daisy and Frank

Dear Ma’am Esther,Thank you for everything. I love you and miss you so much.

Until we meet again,Clarissa

Mrs. Esther,

You will not be forgotten, my love, nor will you everbe as long as life and memory last.Your memories will live in me forever, like our drivesto and from town, singing and laughing all the wayhome. The thought of our late-night jokes and mid-night snacks will always put a smile on my face.Mrs. Esther, though I miss you now and my heart issore. As time goes by, I'll miss you more. Your lovingsmile, your gentle face, the hugs and kisses, no onecan fill that empty place.Sleep in peace sweet lady, my Cayman mother,Your Jamaican daughter, Beverley Nephew

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Tribute to Aunt EstherAunt Esther was a very sweet, loving, and caring person. She considered me as one of her grand nephews and I’ve always felt so privileged.I remember when she wanted to take me to Disney World with her when I was a bit younger. She was taking her nephew and niece, John Johnand Chrissie. Unfortunately, I couldn’t go because I didn’t have an American visa at the time, but I’m sure I would’ve enjoyed my time withAunt Esther because she was a very jolly person to be with.One of my very fond memories of Aunt Esther was when we came back from the Philippines in 2016. I had just made my choice to serve theLord and while visiting her, she told me to keep on going and to remain faithful to God. Her advice was very encouraging. We were so happywhen Aunt Esther made her choice to serve the Lord before she was bed ridden and we’re thankful she made use of her opportunity.We would go to her house most Sundays after church to sing hymns and encourage her after she became bed ridden. We enjoyed singing withher and were glad that she made the effort to sing even though she had an oxygen mask on. My parents & and I sang hymns and sharedtestimonies with her. She encouraged us and we also wanted to encourage her also to finish well, and we know she did.We’re sad that she’s gone now, but happy that she can spend eternity with the Lord. This is what brings us all peace during this time of sorrow.She’s now with her Heavenly Father. The life she lived here on this earth was a life of encouragement to us and as much as she loved us, weloved her equally.Our Aunt Esther is now gone but her spirit stays with us and everyone else that was dear to her. May her soul Rest in Peace.We love you Aunt Esther, you will never be forgotten.Marky, Laggy, and Ansel

Tribute from Mrs. OlaA Tribute to a great lady – My very best friend EstherMy heart was broken when I heard of your passing. You were so intelligent, passionate, loving and caring. I have never met anyone with sucha Big Christian heart. You were always thinking of others. I would say she was second to none.I will miss the good times we shared together. Going for drives to get lunch and dinners, singing gospel songs and having the time of our lives.You were my rock in difficult times. My heart is missing the best part of the puzzle, which was you.I remember so fondly that Esther had titled us ‘The Three Golden Girls’, Her sister Dolly, myself and her.Sometimes when I would visit her and was ready to leave, she would ask me to stay longer. I could never deny her request. She was humorousand it was always a pleasure to be in her company. Esther always gave such good advice, and could always tell when something was botheringme. We were so close we could feel each other’s hurt.I will always remember after we had become such good friends, Esther telling me she thought I was proud. We had the biggest laugh fromthat. We really hit it off after that and became almost inseparable. I could not wait for us to get together again.I will forever remember those times. You will always be in my heart and sadly missed.Rest in peace my dear friend,Until we meet again in heaven.Life will not be the same without you.Love you with and everlasting love.

Your friend,Ola

To My Friend Leola Esterleen Ebanks, Known to me as Esther Tomlinson.Esther and I met back in 1960, When we first started to go to School together at West End Primary. Esther and I became very close during schoolyears and even as we aged, she treated me like a sister. Esther and her entire family were a loving family, we shared a lot of fond memories andcherished moments. She was always happy to see me when I would visit her in Grand Cayman on my trips. My last trip was July 2019, I spent theentire day with her, laughing and sharing jokes.Esther will be missed,

May your soul rest in peace until we meet again.From your loving friend Odette

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Special Tribute to Mrs. Esther, From the late Mrs. Ena Welds FamilyI am honoured to write this tribute to Mrs. Esther from Our Family.

When I think of this lovely lady many things come to my mind, but most of all I think of her as a special, loyal and loving family friend.It seems like she had been in our lives all my life. I can’t even remember when we met. When we were growing up in West Bay Mrs. Estherwas married to her first husband and we were friendly with her and her children.Most of my memories though were when she married Mr. Dalmain. You see, “DD” as we called him, was also a very good friend of myfather. After that both beautiful ladies became even closer and there was no stopping those two. They became “thick as thieves”.Mrs. Esther was a kind, helpful and loyal friend to my mama, and mama was devoted to her. Mama called her “Essie” and Mrs. Esther calledmama “Ol’ Eeen”. There is a saying “good friends better than pocket money” that was so true with them. They helped each other in everyway that was needed. Mama could call on Mrs. Esther any hour of the night and vise versa. It was a friendship to be admired. Mama did notdrive and many times Mrs. Esther would drive from her house way down to West Bay to take mama to events with her or sometimes just togo out for ice cream. If one of us children were not present at the time, mama would leave a message with the helper to say that “mama hadgone out with Essie” and we would know that we didn’t have to worry one bit.I remember mama and daddy being in the midst of the politics when Mrs. Esther and “DD” were in the legislative assembly. When it waselection time, our house was the place for food and snacks, and a resting place for when they got tired at times.What I loved most about Mrs. Esther though was her laugh and that beautiful sense of style. She always looked great, whether day or night.She use to joke with us and say “child I might not feel 100% today, but I’m gonna look good!”. Then she would give one of those big laughs.When mama was sick and bedridden, she still visited her. Even when mama could not talk back to her she would still come by. She alwayssaid “Boy I’m going to sure miss ol’ Eeen”. And really and truly, I’m going to really miss our “Essie” too.

Rest in peace, from the family of the late Mrs. Ena WeldsWritten by Sharon Welds-Hall

Tribute to my Friend and MentorLEOLA ESTHERLEEN EBANKS

It is difficult to capture in words, not just the facts and the dates that mark a person’s life, but the essential truth of a person; the uniquequalities that illustrate someone’s character and strength.I am blessed to have known this phenomenal lady for over fifty years. I knew her in many capacities; as a colleague in the insuranceindustry; as a politician/representative for my district of West Bay; as my political mentor but most of all as a faithful, loving, caring andkind friend.Her devotion to family; dedication to constituents and to her clients was nothing short of exemplary.Esther fought her health situation honourably and valiantly; she never questioned why; she told me many times how prepared she was togo to her eternal home.On her recent birthday on the 10th April this year, I spoke to her on the phone and sang Happy Birthday to her. She was able to respondand thanked me and complimented my singing. She always said that is where my son, Jean-Eric, inherited his voice from. We closed off byreaffirming our love for each other. Little did I know that would be our last conversation on this earth.I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to have known and worked with this great lady. Her loving spirit brightened my life and shewill live forever in my memory.Esther leaves a shining legacy in the lives of her children and, through them, she will always be remembered.She will be greatly missed and may she rest in eternal peace.From Mrs. Lanamae Smith

Tribute from Mrs. Sonia PiersonI would also like to share a tribute from Ms. Sonia Pierson, who is a dear friend to my family and I. It is a fine definition of Mom's name,which many others would agree on, she said.E- everyone loved herS- special to all who knew herT- told you like it isH- had a heart of goldE- easy to talk toR- reached out to those in need...and that she truly was. God bless us all and please keep safe everyone.

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A Tribute to Mrs. Esther – A Kind, Loving and Protective Friend

The biblical story of Esther is well known: she was a kind, loving and protective woman, who rose to great heights.Esther is a fitting name for our dear family friend because, she certainly was kind, loving and fiercely protective of her family and close friends.Our friendship spanned many decades - it never wavered but, instead, grew from strength to strength.Two good examples we can use to demonstrate her immense loving kindness was her raising of Travis just as though he was her own son and,the loving attention that she paid to Cuban migrants in the 1990s, when they were housed at “Tent City”. Mrs. Esther made many enduringfriendships with the migrants that persisted long after the crisis came to an end. We enjoyed making many joint visits to “Tent City”.Mrs. Esther was a brave and independent-spirited friend. This was best evidenced by her bold decision to begin a second chapter in her familylife with her five children, in the 1970s. We were nervous about the decision but, were equally pleased to be able to help by arranging for herto stay in an Uncle’s house, immediately adjacent to the Wesleyan Church, in West Bay.She was deeply protective of her family – just as the biblical Esther was of her people – and being a progressive person, she was determined tosucceed in life. Mrs. Esther’s persuasive and confident nature meant that she succeeded at politics and she became a Member of the LegislativeAssembly for West Bay during the 1976 – 1980 term. We supported her political endeavors and we had many enjoyable discussions about suchmatters both before and after her term in the Legislative Assembly.After Mrs. Esther married Mr. Dalmain Ebanks, a lovely family home was constructed on the canal in North Sound Estates, Newlands. Thecloseness continued between the families and, it was naturally Andrew (Jefferson) that did the electrical wiring of the family home.We dearly enjoyed frequent visits between our homes and, to fill-in between visits, the telephone conversations were numerous and lengthy.We were pleased that the friendship between us extended downwards to our children and, they are also close.The inevitable cycle of life visited our doorsteps and as seniors in our respective families, we grew frail and succumbed with the passage of time.Mrs. Esther was a genuine, kind, loving and protective friend who rose to great heights indeed; she cherished her family; and made her ownmark on the history of the Cayman Islands. May our dear friend rest in peace.

The Andrew & Goldie Jefferson Family

Mrs. Esther,This is the hardest thing to write, my heart is filled with sadness.I loved listening to your stories and all of your great advice, It was an honor toknow you, you will truly be missed!Your memory will forever live on in my heart.We made a promise and I’ll stick by that the best I can.love you forever and always,Hollie Fenton

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Proverbs 31:10-31 King James Version (KJV)10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

AcknowledgmentsThe family would like to thank the following for their special care and attention during our mother’s illness.

Dr. Archita and Dr. Ravi of Health City CaymanDr. Digby and staff of Family MedicalDr. and Mrs. Stephenson Tomlinson

Dr. Virginia Hobday and Nurse Felicia McLean of Jasmine (Hospice Care)Loyal Caregivers – Cleotilde Galit, Daisy Patindol, Clarissa Obin… and Beverley NephewCayman Islands Government Protocol Office and Royal Cayman Islands Police Services

Church of God Chapel – Walkers RoadBodden Funeral Service

Intrigue Wedding and EventsCayman Islands Legislative Assembly

May God continue to bless each of you.