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Traditional vs. Modern Views of Relationships in China Emily Pearson-Beck and Rebecca Bennett

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Page 1: Traditional vs. Modern Views of Relationships in China Emily Pearson-Beck and Rebecca Bennett

Traditional vs. Modern Views of Relationships

in China

Emily Pearson-Beck and Rebecca Bennett

Page 2: Traditional vs. Modern Views of Relationships in China Emily Pearson-Beck and Rebecca Bennett

Traditional Views

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Traditional Dating Guidelines

• Bodies can’t touch.

• During the Ming dynasty single women had to wear masks so that their faces couldn’t be seen.

• Most people dated with the intention of getting married. • Parents only allowed their children to date/marry others based on their

birthday matching. • 时辰

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Traditional Chinese Marriage

• Many people didn’t meet the person that they were going to marry until the day of their wedding.

• Not only were people matched based on their zodiac information, but they were matched based on their economic level. • Everyone who got married had to be at a similar economic level to their match.

• 三从四德• Obedience to father, husband, and then son.

• Four virtues of Confucian ethics:• Morality (德)• Physical Charm (容)• Propriety in Speech (言)• Efficiency in needlework (功)

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Modern Views

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Modern View of Dating

• Women today have the freedom to date.• Some date for fun while others continue to date only for marriage.

• Online dating has become widely used, and many parents push their children to do it. • Some schools (middle and high) forbid students from dating.

• If you break the rule in middle school then you will be talked to by teachers, and your parents will be told.

• The administration in high schools often don’t enforce the policy.

• Usually Chinese parents don’t like it when kids date in high school or college, but want them to marry very soon after. • Popular TV show called 非诚勿扰 (fei cheng wu rao)

• 相亲

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Modern Chinese Marriage • Ideal marriage age

• Men: No specific age• Women: No older than 25

• In developed areas like Beijing and Shanghai women can acceptably get married in their 30s.

• The divorce rate is lower in rural areas because there are more traditional people there who frown upon divorce and treat those who get divorced poorly. • Women are still expected to do more housework than men, however it is

becoming more common for both women and men to do housework. • Women feel like there is a double standard in marriage, because they always

need to make themselves look nice while men don’t do the same. • Parents often wont allow women to marry men who don’t have a stable job or

a house. • Public officials often have multiple female partners in addition to their wives.

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Birth Control

• Birth control is widely used because of the One Child Policy. • Not many high school students are sexually active. • In Modern China, birth control is used by people of many ages—

including youth. • Teenagers who become pregnant often get abortions. • Although abortions are very much frowned upon, having a child at a young

age would be even worse.• Women who have children at a young age are often unable to find jobs in their future

and are very much discriminated against. • Having sex at a young age is already very unacceptable. Becoming pregnant

can lead to horrible treatment from society.

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Relationship between Birth Control and One Child Policy.

• In order to enforce the One Child Policy, the Chinese government has to educate the public about sex and birth control.

• A survey done by Renmin University in 2007 concluded that over 50% of China's population believes that premarital sex is okay.

• It is possible that the increased accessibility of contraception will allow China’s views on premarital sex to become more progressive.

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Sex education

• Shown female and male anatomy in biology class. • Some schools teach students how sex works, but others don’t.• Told not to have relationships and are shown videos of the effect of

getting pregnant as a teenager. • Children are taught that things that have to do with sex should not be

discussed because of traditional values, so they often feel uncomfortable talking about it.

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Views of the LGBT community

• Older generations are usually not accepting of LGBT relationships. • Gay marriage is not legal, and many people still feel unsafe coming

out. • Many LGBT youth have difficulty coming out to their parents because

many of them are unaccepting, and also very much value traditional marriage. • The younger generation of people is more accepting of the LGBT

community, but still not completely accepting of them. • Slash is becoming really popular among young people.

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Interesting Observations

• Hand-holding.• Things in movies and comics don’t necessarily effect what is

acceptable in society.• Married adults are not publicly affectionate.• Sometimes offended by presence of sex in movies. • Males cater to the females.• Divorce isn’t as taboo (in cities) as originally thought.