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Col. served 30 years (and 13 days)By the time Jonathan Frederick, 72, retired from the United States Army, he had achieved the rank of colonel, supervised more than 4,200 people, was responsible for more than 80,000 pieces of equipment, and managed a $120 million budget. His service stretched from the Vietnam War, through the Cold War Era to the first Operation Desert Storm.

His awards include the Legion of Merit, the Bronze Star and Meritorious Service medal, which he received three times.

With graying red hair trimmed into a regulation crew cut and spotless shirt neatly tucked into slacks, Jonathan maintains the regal bearing of a longtime military officer. He answers questions in exact detail. For example, when asked when he retired, he responds, “30 years and 13 days after entry in the United States Army.”

As he thinks about Veteran’s Day, Jonathan reflects on the families who stand behind those who don a uniform and defend the United States.

The words of John Milton, taken from the last three lines of the poem “On His Blindness,” sum it up for him: “They also serve who only stand and wait.”

“Families are affected by the frequent moves, long absences, and the worry of having a beloved partner risking his or her life in the line of fire,” says Jonathan.

When you are actively serving in the armed services, Jonathan says, “You influence a lot of other lives. I want to be

Beanbag baseball is a hit!

It was family members versus residents for the recent beanbag baseball game, a very popular game! (The family members pulled out a win.)

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sure they are recognized.”

Jonathan began his military experience when he enrolled at New Mexico State University. At that time, ROTC was required of all male students at land-grant colleges. As an advanced student, he benefited from the 90 cents a day he received as he worked his way through school.

“It was a way to keep money coming in,” he explains.

The obligation and financial need led the way to a satisfying military career. “It was a good fit for me,” he says.

It wasn’t always easy, though. The Vietnam War exacted a heavy toll on Jonathan and his wife Louise. “We lost some very good friends.” And it is this real-life experience that makes him shy away from fictionalized battle.

“I am not into war movies,” Jonathan says. But he does enjoy military history, both reading about it and experiencing it firsthand. Jonathan recalls fondly a trip with Louise to East Germany shortly after the Berlin Wall came down.

“Louise and I drove along main roads and smaller roads in the countryside and into a larger city. East Germany in 1990 was almost a time warp from my earlier experiences in West Germany in 1963. Progress had almost stood still for 30 years.

Our car was very obviously not one of the usual. We drew a lot of attention, and it was then that I realized that the Cold War that had defined my Army career was over.”

Jonathan says none of his accomplishments would have been possible without the support, stability, and guidance of his wife of nearly 52 years. “I could not have been successful without her.”

Louise also helped make sure other families received assistance. She developed family support programs and was recognized with the Commanders Award for Public Service.

“In a military unit’s life, there are many ceremonies,” he says. “Most are small, such as reenlistment, promotion, recognition, and award. Some are larger with troop formations and music, for example, change of command, holiday recognition (like the Army birthday), or monthly senior personnel retirement. Every ceremony was patriotic and an opportunity to be together for brief social moments. The ceremonies helped take the rough edges off of sometimes very difficult times and reinforced our unity of purpose.”

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• Mark your calendar for the annual Clark County Parkinson’s Support Group holiday potluck and white elephant gift exchange Dec. 4 at 1 pm. Reservations not required, but please bring a dish to share and a gift to exchange.• Lisa Wooster has joined the club Member Services team. Stop by to welcome her to the team.

• Start the year with helpful health information. The club is offering functional fitness assessments with balance analysis Jan. 2 and 3. This information can help you create or modify your fitness plan. Contact the club for more details.

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Contact a Full Life team member for additional details, including registration, transportation information, and participation requirements.

Wednesday, Dec. 4, 9 am to 1 pm Poinsettia sale, hosted by Friends of Hospice. Lobby

Wednesday, Dec. 4, 3:30 pm Fairway Village Singers perform. Fireside Room.

Thursday, Dec. 5, 3 pm Winter Wonderland ice-cream social with piano music by Barbara. Fireside Room.

Saturday, Dec. 7, 10 am to 2 pm Popular Holiday Bazaar. More than 30 vendors and live music. Lobby.

Sunday, Dec. 8, 2:30 pm Performance by intermediate to advanced piano students. Fireside Room.

Wednesday, Dec. 11, 4 pm Hot apple cider by the fire with entertainment by talented vocalist and pianist Matthew Casey. Fireside Room.

Thursday, Dec. 12, 10:30 am Lunch Bunch: Bonneville Hot Springs.

Friday, Dec. 13, 2:30 pm Holiday Tea Party with Stella, featuring Pioneer Elsie entertainment. Fireside Room.

Friday, Dec. 13, 6:30 pm Hummingbird Choir and Vintage Music Society Band performs. Refreshments offered. Fireside Room.

Monday, Dec. 16, 4 pm Dinner at Saylor’s Country Kitchen.

Wednesday, Dec. 18 Birthday dinner at 4:30 pm in the Heritage Dining Room and 5 pm in the Courtside Dining Room.

Thursday, Dec. 19, 4 pm Happy hour with Doug Webster. Fireside Room.

Tuesday, Dec. 31, 7 - 9 pm New Year’s Eve Party, featuring entertainment by Denny Kelso. Watch the ball drop, dance, and more. Courtside Dining Room.

See the full calendar of events online: TouchmarkVancouver.com/pdf/community-

event-calendar.pdf

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Creative thinking! With all the presents open, imagine—and list—what you could do with empty boxes. Example: Make a small fort with children.

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Sharing the {FULL} Life! It’s a great way to celebrate the season. We invite you to visit and share the joy, friendship, and fun—discover all that’s offered at Touchmark. Happy holidays to you and yours!

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Celebrating the possibilities

“‘Why not’ is a slogan for an interesting life.” – Mason Cooley, professor and aphorist

Year’s end brings a time for reflection and shared memories. All of the holidays and holy days for people of faith have celebratory events and traditions. Often the gifts of the spirit, friendships, family relationships, victories, and losses are remembered.

As 2014 approaches, many ponder, “What’s next?” Perhaps the better question is, “Why not?” Things on the bucket list might be due for a move to the action list.

Healthy aging means nurturing curiosity, passion, and imagination. Lifelong learning, community service, volunteerism, adventures, and new beginnings are characteristics of Touchmark champions.

To learn more about champions and share your individual talents, strengths, and skills, contact a member of the Full Life team. Continuing to grow and succeed in self-determined goals is the essence of active aging.

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Veteran’s Day started with a breakfast buffet, which benefited the Wounded Warrior fund. The day continued as people gathered to honor veterans through songs, videos, poems, presenting the colors by local Boy Scouts, guest speakers, and more. During the week, a group also visited a local veterans’ museum.

We salute you veterans