The Three StagesThis is a basic outline of the Emotional Connection Process or EmC.

EmC consists of three stages and nine steps.

S TA G E 1De-escalate

STEP 1Create a safe

environment and

alliance

STEP 2Clarify triggers,

raw spots, and

emotions

STEP 3Identify automatic

thoughts and

protective behaviors

STEP 4Raise awareness

of the negative cycle

as the enemy

S TA G E 2Restructure

STEP 7Facilitate bonding moments

to repair relationship injuries

STEP 6Help individuals to remain

accessible, responsive,

engaged - A. R. E.

STEP 5Define safety needs to

create a positive cycle

S TA G E 3Integrate

STEP 9Integrate bonding conversations

into daily interactions

STEP 8 Reinforce safety and

emotional connection

EmCL E A D E R S

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