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The Successful Coach Magazine | Issue #5 | March 2014
The Successful Coach Magazine | Issue #5 | March 2014
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MONTHLY HIGHLIGHTS 3
FEATURED | Mission Matters 4
STUDENT ARTICLE | Inspiring the Extraordinary 7
CELEBRATING SUCCESS | “I learnt more about how to ‘do’ life in 3 days…" 10
SPOTLIGHT | The 90 Day Challenge Update 11
META DYNAMICS | Meta Dynamics Methodology for Building Culture in Coaching 12
SHARE YOUR STORY | “I knew I wanted to make a difference…” 18
STUDENT ARTICLE | Finding Your Mojo 20
CELEBRATING SUCCESS | “Is it luck, fate or clever planning?" 23
COACHING TOOL | Think Different 24
SHARE YOUR STORY | “I didn’t really know what the word “more” meant to me…” 26
WORD FROM THE WOWS | Creating an Extraordinary Vision 28
STUDENT ARTICLE | The Joy of Giving 29
MASTERMIND | Ensuing Your Vision 32
MEET YOUR MENTOR | Sentha Govin 34
STUDENT ARTICLE | Extraordinary Inspiration 38
MEMBERS ONLY | Moodle for Successful Coach 40
MEMBERS ONLY | Book me in… 41
Calendar Highlights 42
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Mission Matters
AUTHOR SHARON PEARSON, Founder of The Coaching Institute
I remember when our business was just a few
years old, and wrestling with our mission and
values. I’d talk about it with our team, and receive
blank looks back in return. No one seemed to
want to hear about how our vision mattered. No
one quoted our values. And certainly no one hired
or managed performance based on our values!
For a while I doubted myself. Was it really
important? Did it matter like I thought it did?
This was before ‘Delivering Happiness’ by Tony
Hseih was a bestseller. Zappos wasn’t even known
then.
It was well before the huge movement that is
sweeping the business world on culture.
I FELT I WAS SHOOTING BLIND. BUT
SOMETHING TOLD ME, IF VALUES MATTER SO
MUCH FOR INDIVIDUALS, WHICH I LEARNED
IN NLP, THEN IT HAD TO MATTER FOR
GROUPS, SURELY?
I also knew that the biggest problem was not that it
wasn’t a well-known thing. It was that I didn’t know
how to create a culture where vision, mission and
values mattered.
As Brad Sugars says, ‘I had the team I deserved’.
Meaning, I was attracting the type of people that
did not care about any of this. It’s weird, because I
cared so much. But it obviously wasn’t translating
to others!
I share all of this to let you know that in the
beginning, it’s a challenge to create a vision and
values driven culture.
You may care about it, but not know
how to communicate it well.
You may love what it makes possible,
but not know how to recruit based on
this.
You may appreciate its significance,
and then have people around you who
do not ‘get it’.
It takes persistence. It takes true commitment to
going the distance with this.
The other part of this is considering what you still
need to learn when it comes to developing your
vision and values etc.
This is all really about developing a particular
culture. What do you want in your culture?
Seriousness? Fun? Maturity? Youth? Playfulness?
Quiet? Robust? Energetic? Innovative? Customer-
focused?
Whatever culture you want, your vision etc. should
reflect this. If you want a culture of innovation and
fun, these values would be in your values list. If you
have as your values: Client service, Respect,
Honesty, Truthfulness – you will NOT get an
innovative and fun workplace.
Culture is your brand. Having the vision and values
developed independent of the cultural stamp you
want to create makes no sense.
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GIVE REAL THOUGHT TO HOW YOU WANT
YOUR CULTURE TO BE WHEN FORMULATING
YOUR VALUES.
Also, don’t be too despondent if you put lots of
effort into this and it’s not reflected in how people
behave and the results you want. Initially, this is
normal, and to be expected. You have to learn
how to articulate these commitments in a way that
is heard by the people around you.
There is also the matter of confidence…
People can sometimes lack confidence when they
start their business. They have their vision and
values etc. but don’t feel confident holding people
to these standards.
They recruit because someone can do the job, not
because they are a cultural and values match.
That first compromise is the beginning of the end
of your commitments in terms of standards. The
person was not hired based on a cultural match, so
you can’t then expect them to be that match when
you think it matters. They didn’t know it mattered
in the interview process. To tell them it matters in
their first 90 days is a tough thing – what if they
don’t agree with or live the values you care about?
What do you do?
Little compromises along the way will stop any
growth in cultural progress. If you hire on values,
and then don’t give feedback on the values, you’re
going to erode the standards.
As your confidence builds, this becomes more
obvious, easy to do and nonnegotiable for you.
The other thing to consider
is what we call
‘Unwritten Ground Rules’.
(UGR’s)
THE UGR’S ARE WHAT ACTUALLY
HAPPENS IN YOUR BUSINESS.
Let’s say one of your top values is ‘Care for the
client’ and you notice one of your team snapping
at a client, or dismissing their concerns. You do
nothing. You say nothing. The value is the ‘written
ground rule’. The UGR is what really happens and
is evidence of the actual value.
The UGR’s are what make or break culture.
Your UGR’s need to match the written, agreed
ground rules – the values.
If the value is ‘Wow matters for all clients’, then that’s what everyone should strive to do,
every day, with every moment. If someone isn’t,
their feedback should be immediate, and on the
value they didn’t just live. If someone persists in
not living that value, the performance management
becomes about that, until they either change their
behaviour, or receive written notice of where they
are failing.
We hired ‘grown ups’ a while back to manage the
business. Many things were wrong, including
spiralling costs, no checks on who spent what,
unhappy people and too many people doing a bad
job.
ALL OF THAT NEEDED FIXING. BUT THE KEY
TO IT ALL WAS GETTING THE CULTURE
BACK TO WHERE IT NEEDED TO BE. WE LOST
A LOT DURING THAT PERIOD, BUT WHAT
WE LOST THE MOST WAS OUR HEART.
When I returned, I gave feedback to people on the
values. Many people who had been hired during
that period found they did not believe in or live the
values. They found it easy to leave. The people
who wanted us to be a values-driven culture began
to lift. They could feel the energy and momentum
coming back into the company.
It took a while, but the heart came back.
HERE ARE SOME WAYS IN WHICH THIS
COMES TO LIFE…
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1. Persist, even when no one is talking about it
– talk about it yourself, with the people
around you, and don’t be discouraged (too
much) by the lack of uptake
2. Have a look at other company’s vision statements, mission statements and values –
model them as you develop your voice
around this
3. Read ‘Delivering Happiness’ by Tony Hsieh
4. Go to the Zappos web site and check out
their culture
5. Think about what type of culture you want for your business and look at companies that
have culture as you envision it – what do
they do, that you don’t? What is their focus?
What do they talk about? Care about? Fight
for? Stand for? Defend? Dismiss?
6. Develop a vision statement and don’t worry that it’s not perfect, or as good as you know
it could be – it comes, in time and in the
meantime, a vision statement is better than
nothing
7. Develop your values, regardless of how ‘under-developed’ you know they are
compared to what you see out there in other
companies – this has to start somewhere
8. Start by asking values-based questions in your
interviews and in conversation – persist until
it becomes more normal
9. If you see people paying lip serving to it and not meaning it, it’s feedback to you on your
hiring strategy – they don’t get it, because
you didn’t hire them to get it, you hired them
to do their job
10. Pay attention to UGR’s and give feedback when the UGR matches the written ground
rules and when it does not – never hesitate,
or the standards will slip until they don’t
matter
Terms that are good to know:
VISION:
The direction in which you’re heading, either as an
individual business owner or when you have a team
TCI’S VISION
Live Your Dream
MISSION:
How you’re going to get to that future promise
TCI’S MISSION:
Inspiring the Extraordinary
VALUES:
Words or statements about how you ‘ride’; what
you expect of one another
TCI’S VALUES:
1. Let outstanding results do the talking
2. Be passionate and determined
3. Deliver WOW
4. Take responsibility
5. Create fun with a little bit of quirk
6. Bring out of the box thinking with a
sense of adventure
7. Embrace and drive improvements and
innovations
8. Bring an insatiable hunger to learn and grow
9. Model excellence
10. Build a positive team spirit
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the Extraordinary
AUTHOR KERRYN GAMBLE, Thought Dynamics Consultant
Extraordinary starts with you!
To create YOUR version of extraordinary begins
with a personal decision to transform yourself,
backed by an unshakeable conviction that you have
the ability to do so.
What is extraordinary for you may be different for
someone else. If you want to achieve extraordinary
results, infuse meaning into your life and/ or work.
It's the meaning that fuels an inner energy, a drive
to pursue something that matters to you on a
personal level. Whatever you choose, make it
clear, compelling and meaningful.
Many years ago I chose to act on a dream that
represented my version of extraordinary at that
time. The principals and the lessons learned
throughout this journey, are an example of
Thought Dynamics methodology in action, although
I didn't have an awareness of this methodology at
the time. This is what I would like to share with
you now as a case study to demonstrate the
effectiveness of ESIP.
The day I made the decision
to act on my dream remains
very clear in my mind…
Sitting in the audience, watching men and women
demonstrate inspirational strength, stamina and
flexibility, I was in awe and appreciation of their
ability and skill and could only imagine the training
they might have undertaken to do what they were
doing. I was inspired! This was also the moment I
made a decision to bring home a gold medal at the
next National competition in 7 months time with
no previous experience or notable sporting
achievements to my name. Game on!
IN THOUGHT DYNAMICS, WE BEGIN WITH
ENVIRONMENT, ONE THAT IS INSPIRING
AND MEANINGFUL TO YOU.
Environment begins with the mindset of the leader
who is clear about the ideal outcome, why that
matters and have absolute certainty and belief in
the ability of themselves or others to achieve this
goal. If you are experiencing some "head trash" in
this area, this is where coaching will assist you
create the mindset you need for successful
outcomes.
In this case study, I had an initial discussion with my
mentor about what I wanted to achieve - a gold
medal at the next National competition (now six
months away) and my beliefs about my ability and
motivation to achieve this goal. Following this
conversation, a training strategy was created.
IN THOUGHT DYNAMICS, THE SECOND STEP
IS TO CREATE A FRAMEWORK OF "MINI
GOALS" TO ACHIEVE YOUR OUTCOME.
Inspiring STUDENT ARTICLES
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Begin by identifying a standard of excellence for
each mini goal and set the bar there. Now be
specific about what achieving each mini goal looks
like, feels like and sounds like to know you're on
track. These are your stepping stones to a
successful outcome.
I used the performance standard of the world
champion as my benchmark, a framework was
developed for what training was required and the
level of performance to be achieved in each
category. This is where Thought Dynamics
methodology excels, by using best practice
standards to measure results against and modify
the approach if required. In this example, training
was based around categories of stamina, strength,
sprinting, flexibility and performance. The evidence
for performance was assessed via criteria for
technique and execution in each category. Once
the structure is in place, with benchmarks, it's time
for action.
WHEN YOU CAN IDENTIFY YOUR
PERFORMANCE MEASURES AND HAVE
BROKEN THEM DOWN INTO AN ACTION
PLAN YOU'RE READY FOR THE
IMPLEMENTATION PHASE.
During implementation, assess how you are
tracking and what needs modifying to move you
closer to your benchmark of excellence. I
remember specific feedback during a particular
training session early on in my journey: "last week
you couldn't jump for shit, this week you're
jumping badly, well done". This feedback reinforced
the change of approach I had made to my training
technique was moving me closer to my ideal
outcome.
After establishing a base level of fitness in each
category, the next step was to refine skills and
performance techniques, to achieve higher level
performance in each category. To achieve my own
version of extraordinary, I was taking action with
my training- physically, mentally and emotionally. I
watched many hours of video footage of top
performers, paying attention to how they did what
they did and spent hours visualising what it would
look like and feel like to deliver an outstanding
performance to achieve the gold medal.
One of the gems I learned was to focus on the
things that others don't and make them extra
special. For example, many people in this sport
focus on the height of their jump. My mentor
taught me to focus more on the preparation and
set up rather than the height. Nail the preparation
(structure) and your jump (implementation) will
have a lot of height. By focussing on the little
things, you can create a point of difference to stand
out in a sea of good performance.
THE FINAL STEP OF THE ESIP METHODOLOGY
FOCUSES ON THE PEOPLE.
Once the environment has been created with the
supporting structure and systems in place. Think of
"right people on the right bus in the right seats". In
this instance, l chose to spend time with fellow
competitors who shared the same values. What I
noticed was that being around passionate, like-
minded people united by a shared purpose, fosters
an environment of sharing best practice and ideas.
Here was a group of people, committed to learning
new skills, open to having their physical and mental
boundaries challenged. These were people who
demonstrate persistence by practicing core skills
for hundreds of hours, accept frustration and
setbacks as temporary, sacrifice entertaining
distractions for what they believe matters most
and pursue this with unwavering focus.
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I'm proud of achieving a gold medal in a National
competition after a focused six month campaign.
From this journey the three key messages that
were critical to achieving a successful result were:
1. HAVING A CLEAR FOCUS AND STAYING
FOCUSED!
2. BUILDING MENTAL RESILIENCE AND
PERSISTING,
3. DEVELOPING THE ABILITY TO PERFORM
BEYOND YOUR COMFORT ZONE
SOUNDING FAMILIAR? TO RAISE YOUR
ORDINARY TO EXTRAORDINARY,
BECOME THE CEO OF YOU AND DRIVE YOUR
OWN PERSONAL RESTRUCTURE!
Inspire and lead yourself with a clear vision and be
able to articulate this in a way that evokes emotion
and mentally connects others with your vision.
Others do not have to share or agree with your
vision, what they will notice is your determination,
courage and unwavering focus.
You may notice a change of people around you,
some people will find your values driven approach
is not a match for them and will drift away.
You may decide to spend more time with people
who share your attitude of excellence and less time
with those who don't.
You will experience setbacks and challenges as you
reprioritise the standards you hold others to and
build an environment that supports achieving your
version of extraordinary.
Zone in on the things no one pays attention to, the
little things or perhaps the mundane. Choose one
thing and do this one thing in a way that is special.
Be great at doing this and in a sea of good, be
outstanding by growing your ability beyond what
anyone else is doing.
Now add your extra to your ordinary to
differentiate how you do what you do in your
workplace, within your industry or in your
relationships.
WHAT DAY TO DAY ACTIVITY WILL YOU
CHOOSE TO ADD EXTRA TO?
WHAT MIGHT THAT LOOK LIKE, WHAT
WOULD THAT BE LIKE?
WHEN YOU DO, WHO WILL BENEFIT:
YOUR CUSTOMERS, COLLEAGUES,
CHILDREN, COMMUNITY OR YOU?
Be a role model and inspiration to
others, to your children, your
colleagues and most of all to you.
CHEERS TO BEING EXTRAORDINARY!
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about how to ‘do’ life in those 3 days than I did in my entire preceding 30 years!
AUTHOR TARA WHITEWOOD, Credentialed Master Practitioner of Coaching Student
2012 was a year of great change for
me. It was the year that I made the
decision to take action on changing my
life and finding happiness.
At the time I had no idea whatsoever how I was
going to do that or what a phenomenal journey I
was beginning!
During that year I became a yoga teacher, left a 6
year relationship, quit my 5th (unfinished)
University degree and decided that I needed to find
a career that fulfilled and sustained me.
I had a really high level of awareness of the things
that were wrong – I had low self-esteem, I was a
“rescuer” of lost people, I hated my job. I just
didn’t know what to put in place of those things.
Foundations of Coaching Success intake weekend
in December 2012 changed everything for me. I
experienced the highest quality of training I have
ever seen. I found a community that supports and
challenges each other. That embodies their values.
That is tirelessly committed to facilitating change,
and bringing love.
I LEARNT MORE ABOUT HOW TO ‘DO’ LIFE IN
THOSE 3 DAYS THAN IN MY ENTIRE
PRECEDING 30 YEARS!
Since then I have gone from strength to strength.
In June 2013 I left my well paid job in the
Construction Industry to focus on my coaching
business fulltime.
Over the next 6 months I grew from a shy girl who
was “too scared” to go to my first networking
event, to a confident woman who has run 3
workshops and regularly speaks to rooms of
people. I met the love of my life, found an amazing
apartment, and have my own fulltime coaching
business.
My business The Sugar Doctor is my passion and
my mission is to teach Gen X how to understand
the mysteries of the opposite sex, and bring even
more love, connection and sugar to their lives.
I love the variety in my job, I can run a workshop,
blog, have coffee with a client, work on my laptop
from the beach and coach clients all in a week! The
future is a sparkling and exciting prospect for me,
running workshops Nationally, collaborating with
other coaches as their Relationship Expert and
continuing to bring value to my amazing clients.
I cannot adequately express the gratitude I feel for
Sharon Pearson, Joe Pane and the incredible team
at TCI. The level of support they offer is second to
none. The training is world-class, in fact there is
nothing you need to know as a coach that is not
built into your TCI education. I joined to become a
coach, I have stayed because I am becoming a
better person and a better global citizen.
Love & Sugar,
Tara
“I learnt more CELEBRATING SUCCESS
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Learn how to succeed as a coach
in business for the first time
CONTENT
Taking their success through ESIP
SESSION ONE
Explain ESIP - Environment for success, beliefs of a successful sales person
SESSION TWO
Structure for success in sales
DATES
March 20th 6-9 pm and May 1st 6-9pm
See you there! Matt Lavars
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Building Culture in Coaching
AUTHOR SHARON PEARSON, Founder of The Coaching Institute
The Meta Dynamics methodology is
based on four dimensions –
Environment, Structure,
Implementation and People.
From a Meta Dynamics perspective, the
vision, mission and values fit into the
Environment.
The Meta Dynamics Critical Thinking
model came about as a way to explain
why some cultures work and why many
don’t. It’s a framework for explaining
how we get the results we get.
Your Coaching Environment
When considering your coaching environment, you
need to consider:
1. YOUR PURPOSE FOR COACHING
2. YOUR CULTURE
3. YOUR VISION FOR YOU,
AND/OR YOUR BUSINESS
4. YOUR MISSION STATEMENT
5. YOUR VALUES
6. YOUR STANDARDS
7. YOUR EXPECTATIONS
8. YOUR BELIEFS
9. YOUR ATTITUDE
10. YOUR GOALS
You may not be ready to do all these steps, but the
important thing is to know what is possible and
available to you to help you succeed.
WORLD OF META DYNAMICS
Meta Dynamics Methodology for
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Your Purpose
WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE FOR COACHING?
WHAT ARE THE REASONS YOU WANT TO
BECOME A COACH? WHAT DRIVES YOU?
The idea here is to get reasons so strong, that no
matter what the obstacle, you will be able to
handle them because you’re driven by a purpose
bigger than any challenge.
Your Culture
You’ve only just started, but it’s worth
being aware of, and considering, what
kind of culture your coaching business
will be.
Our culture, as you know, is open,
friendly, informal and innovative. We
swear (we know), we are irreverent,
cheeky and always determined.
WHAT KIND OF CULTURE DO
YOU THINK YOUR COACHING
BUSINESS NEEDS TO BE?
To work this out, consider what
kinds of clients you want to attract.
Consider the types of people you
want on your team. Consider the
kind of environment you want to
turn up every day. Who do you need
to be, to have that kind of
environment?
Your culture will reflect you. If you’re
serious, your culture will be serious. If
you’re fun-loving, so will your culture. If
you’re judgmental, that’s who’ll you’ll
attract, both as clients and as team
members.
Your Vision
Your vision for you, and/or your coaching business
is about deciding where you’re heading. This is
important because it sets up the grand vision – the
direction – you’re going to take your coaching
business.
YOUR VISION IS A STATEMENT OF A PROMISE
TO BE FILLED.
As you know, ours is: Live Your Dream.
That’s what we’re here to achieve. For you. For us.
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Your Mission Statement
Your mission statement is a personal statement
about you and your standards for you. It does
include your beliefs and your attitude, which we’ll
cover soon.
Your personal mission statement is a statement
about who you are and what you stand for. It’s the
type of person you want to become – who you
aspire to be – the ideal you.
FOR EXAMPLE:
“I am a truly compassionate and passionate person
in all areas of my life. I am loving, warm, genuine,
heartfelt and caring in my all my relationships. I am
a person of integrity, a valued friend, and I’m
known for my generosity, my sincerity, my
patience, my understanding and my passion. I am
always positive, see the best in people, see the best
in myself, happy, empowered, engaged in life,
present and love it all. I am admired, sought out as
a leader, and respected by those I meet.”
AND THEN FOR YOUR CAREER/BUSINESS:
“I am a truly outstanding coaching professional in
every respect. I am extremely knowledgeable
about what we offer, fully present to what my
clients are experiencing, and I’m always completely
prepared for all my appointments. I am filled with
passion for what we do and always set an example
for others when it comes to who to be, and how
to conduct ourselves within our organisation. I
always say what I mean and mean what I say, and
my passion and enthusiasm for what we are
creating enthuses others. I set the standard when it
comes to integrity, passion, caring, focus, discipline
and results. I am warm, friendly, approachable, and
caring of all I meet and I take care of my clients as
if they are family.”
Then set your intention to walk this talk every
single day.
Read your mission statement daily and with
emotion. Connect to it. See its reality. Act as if it’s
all true, right now.
NOTE:
There are no accidents when it comes to results –
you get the results based on who you are, and
what you do. There are no exceptions. You are
not the exception.
Your Values
YOUR VALUES ARE WHAT YOU CONSIDER
TO BE IMPORTANT.
Our values are clearly shown, everywhere you
look in our building, our marketing, our manuals
and our team. Our values are our guides to how to
make decisions.
Your values need to reflect what is true as
important for you. Some companies have three,
some five, some ten. There is no right or wrong.
Just having them starts a process of alignment
around who you’ll work with.
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Your Standards
YOUR STANDARDS ARE THE ‘MUSTS’ YOU
ADHERE TO.
Many people live lives of, ‘I should…’ I should do
that… I should fix that…
Your standards are your musts. The non-
negotiables, that have to happen, with no excuses.
The better you make these, the better your
business will be. People are attracted to people
with high personal standards.
You will attract more clients, faster, with higher
personal standards.
HERE’S SOME EXAMPLES OF WHAT YOU HAVE
STANDARDS (LOW OR HIGH) AROUND:
How many hours marketing a week
How many hours practicing coaching a week
How many classes to attend
How easily you cancel appointments, or not
How often you let people down, or not
How kind you are to others, or not
How judgmental you are of others, or not
How often you don’t do what you promised
yourself, or do
The number of conversations you have
complaining about someone, or not
The number of people you have in your life
who complain and blame, or not
How resilient you expect yourself to be, or
not
How determined you expect yourself to be, or
not
The hour you get up…
The higher standards you have in each of these
categories – and there are many more, so go for it
– will shape what’s going to happen in your
business.
Your Expectations
YOUR EXPECTATIONS ARE THE STANDARDS
YOU HAVE FOR OTHERS, FOR YOU TO DEAL
WITH THEM. Some people have low expectations
of others, and some have high expectations.
It’s said that we teach people how to treat us. And
that we get the team we deserve. This is based on
what we expect of others, and what we insist on.
If you’re hearing this as a ‘power’ thing, you’re not
getting the actual message. So persist, because
that’s not what’s being said.
You will attract higher quality people around you,
the higher your expectations of those you will hang
out with, work with and work for.
HERE’S SOME EXAMPLES OF WHAT YOU HAVE
EXPECTATIONS (LOW OR HIGH) AROUND:
Do you allow people to bitch about other
people, or not?
Do you allow people to let you down, or not?
Do you let people take advantage of you, or
not?
Do you expect others to ‘carry you and do it
for you, or not?
Do you rely on others to ‘save’ you from your
overwhelm, or not?
Do you equate people ‘letting you off the
hook’ with reasonable, or expect them to hold
you to what you said?
Are people there to get you what you want, or
there for you to give them what you can?
Are you attracted to people who keep wanting
to play it safe, or not?
Are you offended if someone challenges your
standards, or grateful?
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Are you pleased for someone’s success, or
jealous?
Do you see success, and think: ‘Why me?’, or
think, ‘Good on them!’
Do you encourage others, or rely on others to
do that?
Are you constantly in follower or leader
position?
When on Facebook or Moodle, do you watch
the comments, or participate, or lead the
discussions?
All of these different choices are shaping the world
you’re experiencing. The world isn’t ‘happening’ to
you. You’re shaping your world with your
expectations of those around you.
Your Beliefs
BELIEFS ARE WHAT WE’RE CERTAIN TO BE
TRUE. They contribute to forming how we see the
world and how we think the world sees us.
EXAMPLES OF BELIEFS:
There is always a way
People are awesome
I’m made of the right stuff to succeed
If I learn, then I will earn
Education is the key to my success, and I’m a
learning machine!
Greatness doesn’t go the talented, it goes to
the person who keeps showing up, and that’s
me!
You have the opportunity to explore much of this
in your Starter Kit.
Your Attitude
WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE ABOUT
COACHING? You chose it, yes? Are you choosing
an attitude of fun, possibilities and learning? Are
you choosing an attitude of confusion, doubt and
blame? What attitude you have about coaching will
obviously have a tremendous impact on how you
go with your coaching business.
SOME EXAMPLES OF GREAT ATTITUDES THAT
HELP COACHES SUCCEED:
Gratitude
Appreciation
Expressing gratitude and appreciation to the
person, out loud, to them (not just thinking it,
or assuming they know)
Loving feedback and acting on the feedback
Giving feedback to serve others
Absolute commitment to help others succeed
Impatience with personal procrastination and
excuses
Total accountability to personal standards are
a given and expected always
Complete openness about flaws and
challenges, with an attitude of personal
responsibility for sorting them
Not relying on others to make you ‘feel
better’, because you know that’s your job, and
you love it and relish it
Willingness to participate, without prompting
Irreverence and cheekiness towards the status
quo
Doesn’t quote rules, quotes great outcomes
Always looking out for how to improve and
grow
Always giving what you’re learning
… And the list goes on. A great attitude is very
attractive on a person. Think about the people you
trust, want to spend time with and are attracted
to. They don’t have a crap attitude. They’re pretty
awesome with how they seem to carry themselves.
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Your Goals
NOW WE’RE GETTING TO THE HEART OF IT.
Everything that we’ve just spoken about is vital for
this part to take place. If you have low standards,
your goals will be low. If you have negative beliefs,
you won’t even bother. If you expect nothing, you
won’t even try to achieve the goals. If you have a
crap attitude, no one will work with you, so what
is the point?
Your goals are what you want to achieve from
your coaching business.
Here’s the thing…. Have the goal, and have non
attachment to it. The goal is not the reason to
coach. The goal is the way you will grow.
Love the growth the pursuit of the goal will give
you. Achieving the goal is not really the point.
GOALS NEED TO BE AT THREE LEVELS:
1. The ultimate, big, hairy, audacious, ‘you’ve-
got-to-be-kidding’ kind of goal that makes
you gulp :)
2. The mid-term, 90 day goals, that break up
the steps to achieve the BHAG over a
quarter.
3. The small, implementation things that need to
be done, today and tomorrow, to move you
towards your 90 day goals, which progress
you towards the BHAGs.
I trust you get value from applying the Meta
Dynamics methodology to building your
extraordinary culture!
AUTHOR MARIANNE BARAKAT
Credentialed Master Practitioner of Coaching Student
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“I knew I wanted to make a difference…” AUTHOR MARIANNE BARAKAT, Credentialed Master Practitioner of Coaching Student
I have been legally blind for the last 10 years. A few years before joining TCI I felt that there was
something much bigger waiting to happen and a real passion to contribute and to help other visually
impaired people to step out into the world. One phone call to TCI enquiring about the program and
within a few days I was enrolled and booked in for my intake weekend which I did with the AMAZING Joe
Pane in October 2013.
I have to say I was initially nervous walking through the doors on the first day of
intake. Within 15 minutes I was comfortable and I knew I belonged. I was
definitely in the right place with a group of people who were like-minded and
absolutely amazing and have definitely become lifelong friends.
Prior to becoming a student at TCI I was unemployed. After losing my vision, my life as I knew it came to a
complete halt. Everything I knew and all the certainty faded away. My car, my job as preschool teacher, my
independence and my marriage. The familiar became unfamiliar, the certain became uncertain, relationships
changed, and being rolled in and out of surgery for years on end was all I knew.
There was one thing in me that kept pushing me through,
and that was my drive, my passion, my strength and my
willingness to never give up.
There was something more. I knew I wanted to make a difference through my experience and assist
visually impaired people to move forward but I just could not figure out how. After doing my research and
coming across TCI I made the call. I spoke to them about how I was feeling, my visions and aspirations. I
can honestly say that the conversation I had with the awesome TCI team gave me the courage, clarity and
the feeling of certainty that I had not felt in 10 years.
My personal transformation began as soon as the phone call ended.
I had always known who I was and what I stood for…. but WOW! After the FOCS intake weekend and all
the teachings through TCI I learnt what it was to truly let go and took knowing who I was and being the
best version of myself to a whole new level. The strong, passionate, confident and caring women that had
always been but never acknowledged, started to shine through and I was becoming who I wanted to be.
Being or becoming visually impaired can build an immense amount of fear and limiting beliefs in one’s self.
Through my personal experience and leanings, I niche in working with people who are visually impaired. I
assist them in overcoming their fears and limitations and provide them with the strategies and the mindset
to have self belief and live a fulfilled and abundant life. Giving vision to the visually impaired is what it’s all
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Being or becoming visually impaired can build an immense amount of fear and limiting beliefs in one’s self.
Through my personal experience and leanings, I niche in working with people who are visually impaired. I
assist them in overcoming their fears and limitations and provide them with the strategies and the mindset
to have self belief and live a fulfilled and abundant life.
Giving vision to the visually impaired is what it’s all about!
I joined a quality living program with Vision Australia which ran for 8 weeks. At the end of the 8 weeks I
was approached by Vision Australia and was asked to become a support leader giving me the opportunity
to connect and work with their clients one-on-one or in groups on a range of issues, along with working
with them on a referral based partnership in the future.
After having a conversation with the priest from our church, he expressed to me the issues that people
were bringing forward and the amount of value that I could bring to the community. It was then he offered
me the opportunity to work with the people of the community to help them grow and have the mindset
and strategies to help achieve their goals and to help work through their issues. Again on a referral basis.
Of course I said yes to both!
The future plans for myself and “Vision for life” is to continue working with visually impaired people to
allow them to realise and create their vision for the future and to gain the belief and confidence within
themselves to achieve it. I also plan to take this message international and bring awareness to the visually
impaired and non-visually impaired that you do not need sight to have vision for life and that anything is
possible if you believe.
Having said all this, I would like to express my sincerest and deepest THANK YOU and gratitude to
everyone in the TCI community for their phenomenal dedication, encouragement and support. Sharon
Pearson, Joe Pane, the Wow team, staff and awesome students again thank you. This is by far the most
amazing community I have had the privilege of being involved in!"
“I never needed sight to see…. Never….
I just needed vision and belief”
CAROLINE CASEY
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Finding Your Mojo
AUTHOR NEIL THOMPSON, Credentialed Master Practitioner of Coaching Student
IT HAS BEEN SAID THAT IF YOU HAVE A
BIG ENOUGH WHY THEN GETTING THE
MOTIVATION AND ENERGY TO DO
SOMETHING WILL BE VERY EASY AND
NATURAL.
Last year, after my Foundations of Coaching
Success intake weekend (July 2013), I sat down and
wrote down a two-page document on my dream;
my why for doing coaching, what I wanted to
achieve and where I saw myself in five years’ time.
I remember distinctly at the time thinking that it
looked a bit like a pipe dream but who knows what
can happen. Indeed who knows?
I have been a pastor in the Seventh-Day Adventist
church for the last 22 years so taking up life
coaching for me seemed like a massive shift from
pastoring churches and leading youth movements,
something that I still believe very deeply and
passionately about. Yet it is because of those last
22 years working some pretty insane hours that I
knew I needed to do coaching first and foremost
for myself to get some functional selfishness
established and then for others as well. Last year I
had hit a wall, emotionally I was stuffed (technical
term), burned out, and my back was crippled by
psychosomatic pain (long story that I won’t go into
here). I knew I couldn’t go on and that I needed a
massive change. My mojo was no go.
I began this journey into developing my
dream, and reigniting my passion and
finding my Mojo again by exploring
what I saw my life purpose to be.
I was watching a presentation series by Sharon
called Your Personal Success and in one of the
lectures she spoke about uncovering your life
purpose. I remember very clearly how the pieces
fell into place for me. Sharon was exploring the
relationship of personal philosophy to standards
and drivers. She instructed us to be able to answer
the following phrase with deep conviction:
“I see, hear, feel and know that my life
purpose is to be…”
After reflecting on this it dawned on me that I
knew what my answer was and always has been.
My life purpose, without any shadow of a doubt is
to be a world changer for God (Hey I am a pastor
after all, a very cool pastor lol). To influence
people to be the best that they can be, a personal
champion, a person who comes alongside others
and guides them to the magical place of their own
choosing where they are fully alive, motivated,
growing, and whole. This was my why. I realised
this was my life purpose all the time; it truly is why
I am here. This is my WHY and this is the source
of my daily inspiration.
In my dream for my life I wrote down three broad
areas that I wanted to be able to work in because I
felt very strongly about them and saw them as
enabling me to live more clearly my life purpose. I
wanted to quit being a local church pastor (I was
playing too small by staying there and limiting my
potential to truly impact the world in better ways)
and become a coach for pastors to assist them in
avoiding the very thing I had just being through and
more than that to help them score some major
successes of their own in impacting their local
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communities. In helping pastors find or maintain
wholeness and harmony I would be able to fulfil my
life purpose in a grander way.
I also wanted to initiate life coach training for
students going through our church’s premier
tertiary institution so that the students would have
the foundations of success that life coaching gives.
I saw too that this would enable me to shape
generations of leaders who would go into
communities around Australia and the South Pacific
thus extending my influence even further.
Finally I saw within five years that I had my own
business running that was leading the way in
helping families, relationships and community
businesses achieve success in every area of their
life.
Three distinct yet related areas all centred around
helping the world be a better place filled with
kindness, love, integrity, personal strength and
people focus on being the best that they can be in
their chosen area of life.
Could I get out of bed to do this?
Absolutely!
Now eight months later, I am working for my
church four days per week as a life coach for
pastors (no longer a local church pastor), I have
written up a course outline in life coaching for our
training institution which I will deliver in second
semester this year, and have launched a business
with a partner, almost finished writing two books
for use in my business together with other
resources, learnt a heap of stuff along the way and
am going for it.
I haven’t made it yet, I am a work in progress. I
still have my moments, though now my moments
are higher quality problems compared with what I
was facing a year ago. Life is exactly how I want it
to be. And some days I hardly believe that it is
true. And it all began by gaining incredible clarity
around what my life purpose was. Sort out my
values, get my personal philosophy on track and
feel the power that comes with owning my life
purpose and to live at cause with it.
HOW DO YOU DO ALL THIS TOO?
WHAT ARE THE STEPS TO FOLLOW? IT IS
DEAD EASY. IT IS ALL IN YOUR MANUALS
AND MATERIAL YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN AS A
TCI STUDENT
Do the personal growth as outlined in Manual 1
and in each subsequent element of your course and
coaching. Always play at 100% with no excuses.
Deal with your stuff honestly and openly in your
coaching sessions. Be bold and courageous, go for
personal gold in every session – pick your biggest
issues and work on them to gain mastery and the
personal growth you desire.
Watch and do the work outlined in Your Personal
Success DVD series by Sharon Pearson to sort out
your personal philosophy, standards and drivers for
life.
Model the success of others and learn how they do
it. Apply their strategies to your life.
Structure your day so that every day you are
growing and learning more and more. Adopt
Sharon’s benchmark model for learning as your
own. If you don’t know what it is ask the WOW
team.
Then listen to your heart. Write down your
personal dream for your life – your five year plan
of where you want to be if failure wasn’t an option
and you refused to play small with your life.
Finally tap into the resources and people of the
TCI WOW team who are there to help you kick
your serious goals. Join the 90 Day Challenge and
see your growth take start to take shape.
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Knowing what I wanted was the first
big step for me. It placed all the
learning, and growth into the right
kind of framework.
It sorted out my WHY so that the WHAT and
HOW of what TCI provides can easily fall into
place in my life.
Now I know that each day I desire to live my life in
such a way as to fulfil my life purpose more than I
am already. I know if I do this more and more
every day, then my life will be extravagant, lived in
the richness of knowing that I am changing the
world a little every day, fulfilling my purpose
because this is what my life is about and this makes
me very happy and motivated and it means that it is
becoming easier and easier to be daily inspired.
My mojo is all go. This is my new beginning that I
am following all the time and inviting everyone
everywhere to join in this incredible journey of
personal fulfilment in living your life’s dream with
passion and love and personal power.
AND IF YOU DO THAT I WANT YOU TO
NOTICE HOW EASY IT IS A FEW DAYS FROM
NOW TO GET YOUR MOJO ON;
TO STEP OUT OF BED AND LIVE YOUR
LIFE IN EXTRAORDINARY WAYS.
Notice how the ripples of influence move out
around you three months from now and all the
lives you have touched because you are living your
life purpose too. Then look ahead 12 months from
now and see the waves of change which means you
are truly rocking this world.
Your purpose has impacted the world for good,
and notice how great this feels and see what you
see and hear what you hear because you are the
rock star in a life well lived.
“ SHARON PEARSON
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Fate, or Clever Planning?
AUTHOR KAREN SINGERY, Credentialed Advanced Practitioner of Coaching Student
My story with TCI began a couple of years ago
when I sent them an e-mail from South Africa
requesting if I could do the course online and via
correspondence, but as fate had a hand in this we
received notification that our visa had been granted
to emigrate to Australia.
Well, my decision had been made. A couple of
months after we had landed in December 2012, I
was in contact with TCI pursuing my dream for
over 10 years to become a Life Coach. Having
been a teacher, a school counsellor and a facilitator
of my course Teen Strategies, I chose the road less
travelled and decided not to go back to teaching. I
had already begun this journey by attending many
workshops and being on team. The desire has
always been there to go further along this road and
voila here I am!
I did my Foundation of Coaching Success intake
weekend in June 2013 with an amazing group of
people, coaches and trainers.
BEING NEW TO AUSTRALIA I IMMEDIATELY
ESTABLISHED A “FAMILY” AND AN AMAZING
SUPPORT SYSTEM. STILL TODAY I AM BLOWN
AWAY BY THE CARE, THE FEEDBACK AND
THE VALUE THAT TCI OFFERS.
This experience is so new for me.
Since joining TCI I have completed 90 hours of
coaching. I have had the privilege to coach people
in the USA, Guatamala, South Africa, New Zealand,
UK and Australia. How amazing is that?
My business was born and I named it Pathways
Unlimited, supported by part of Walt Disney's
quote
“....and curiosity keeps leading
us down new paths”.
I now have a web page (created by me) and a
Facebook page. I contacted a friend in the USA
who owns a women’s magazine and shared with
him what I was doing. He asked me to write
articles for his magazine and guess what? (true to
TCI fashion!) I said YES and now I am figuring out
the how. I have a few paying clients and am
working on getting my work out there. I have
created two programmes: Confident Teens and
Pathways to Discovering You.
MY PLAN FOR THE FUTURE IS TO
MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
I really would like to get my courses out there to
help young adults. My vision is to assist them to
discover who they are so that they can walk along
their chosen path with love, wisdom, confidence
and grace. I don't know what my niche is going to
be yet. I am testing the waters along this path,
making detours, getting stuck at a crossroad, falling
into potholes but this path is guiding me to the
essence of the niche that I am meant to work with.
How exciting is that?
This journey so far has been incredible. I look
forward to everyday with its ups and its downs but
hey, “this too shall pass”. I am so grateful to have
the abundance of living my dream - of doing what I
love and loving what I do. I am supported and
loved by amazing people from TCI, a beautiful son
and my husband who has always encouraged me
along this journey.
“Is it Luck, CELEBRATING SUCCESS
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Think Different
AUTHORS SHARON PEARSON, Founder of The Coaching Institute
The thinking about a situation leads to how we
experience the situation. We know this from our
coaching training.
The challenge for some coaches is what to do
about this, if someone wants to change their
experience of the situation and don’t know how?
This model comes from many years working out
what makes the difference when thinking.
I don’t have a name for the model, yet, but it
seems to work for us!
Most people think about the problem, and how to
solve the problem.
This is a good idea, for the short term.
For the long term, it lends itself to more of the
same type of challenge or situation, because the
thinking hasn’t changed about it.
So the key is to think on two levels…
HOW TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM (SHORT
TERM) THINKING, AND;
HOW TO CREATE A DIFFERENT
ENVIRONMENT WHERE THAT PROBLEM
COULD NOT EXIST (LONG TERM)
THINKING.
THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
DEDUCTIVE AND INDUCTIVE THINKING.
Deductive thinking is focused in on what is, and
chunks us down and further into current reality.
Inductive thinking is focused on what could be –
the alternatives – which chunks us up and away
from current reality.
It’s the difference between accepting things as they
are, and changing the environment so ‘the way
things are’ can never exist.
HERE’S AN EXAMPLE:
We think NLP is great and love it. Not much has
been added to it in the way of new models for
many years. So the situation, in the short term, is
to continue to teach the older methodologies and
perhaps add new methodologies to it.
The long term solution comes about by asking a
different question. What if there was a new
methodology that took the best of that body of
knowledge, and turned it into its own methods?
That’s how Meta Dynamics came about.
We were tired of being told how NLP ‘had to be’
and ‘had to be taught’ which limited the parameters
of the conversation we could have with our
coaching students.
So instead of just continuing to fit in with what
was, we changed the conversation to: Here’s how
it could be…
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This looks like ‘out of the box thinking’, and it is.
The key is understanding how we did this.
THE QUESTIONS THAT WERE ASKED:
If we didn’t follow someone else’s ‘rules’ what
would we do instead?
What would be better than what we have?
What’s wrong with what we have, that we can
fix by doing something else?
If this never existed, what would we do
instead?
What does the market see wrong with how
things are? What can we do to solve this?
AND THAT’S NOW META DYNAMICS.
TRUST YOU LOVE THIS UNNAMED MODEL!
AUTHOR TINA VERCILLO
Credentialed Practitioner of Coaching Student
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“I didn’t really know what the word ‘more’
meant to me… I simply knew that I wanted it!”
AUTHOR TINA VERCILLO, Credentialed Practitioner Student
I WAS ASKED BY MY BEST FRIEND TO JOIN HER AT A WEEKEND WORKSHOP, SHE SAID IT WAS
CALLED ‘PERSONAL POWER’…
MY INQUISITIVENESS GOT THE BETTER OF ME SO I THOUGHT WHY NOT.
So in April 2013 I met Joe Pane and….wow…. he carried himself with such certainty like no one I had ever
had the pleasure of knowing before. What was to follow and what was to be uncovered was beyond any
expectations that I could have ever dreamed up! This was my first taste of what was to come, and I was
hungry for more!
A little bit about me. I am a single parent working full time, and solely raising a 7 year old. I have a
mortgage, I was always busy doing ‘stuff’ and I was just making ends meet, which ultimately meant I was
living a pretty mediocre life (of course I didn’t know that at the time). I wanted so much more for my
daughter and wanted so much more for myself. I just didn’t know how. I didn’t even really know what the
word ‘more’ meant to me, I just simply knew that I wanted it and didn’t have the resources I needed to get
the outcomes that I truly wanted.
Working in the Education Sector for the last 13 years I thought I had what it took to understand people
and how to train them for optimum value but in doing ‘Personal Power’ it really shook things up for me, I
had so many light bulb moment throughout the three days, and realised that I had some great potential. I
took away so many learnings, it was amazing. I just wanted to put everything I had learned into practice
right away. I was pumped for a good two weeks and then life got in the way (or rather I got in the way of
myself) and it all started going back to the way it was ‘before’.
That was of course until my saving grace (kick in the pants) in the form of a phone
call came from an exceptional man in the WOW team, Matt. The life-transforming
conversation... If I had been told at that moment the transformation that would
take place within me, within just a few short months’ time, I would never have
believed it to be true. Not to me, I’m a procrastinator, the ‘I don’t have time to get
everything done’ girl!
That inspiring conversation with Matt led me to enrol into the Credentialed Practitioner of Coaching
course, my Foundations of Coaching Success training weekend was scheduled for July 2013. Life threw a
spanner in the works of course to test me and my commitment, but I was still very much excited to be
embarking on this next chapter of my life so I simply postponed my intake until September 2013.
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At the training Sharon was mesmerising, her presence uplifting, such calm and certainty. I listened intently
to every word she said, and then the magic, I volunteered to be coached and was chosen, and what an
amazingly empowering experience I lived in that hour. No words could ever come near to the gratitude I
have for Sharon’s support and encouragement during that session and the ripple effects it has had since
that day. I was well beyond exhilaration for that transforming opportunity, not only did I walk away from
that session a better person, but so many of the other students thanked me for opening my heart and
sharing my story, as they took away so much learning for themselves and their family. What a gift to be
able to share with so many wonderful people.
A few months have passed since that wonderful Foundations of Coaching Success training and I am still
buzzing with gratitude and passion for what I do. Although I haven’t found my niche, I am using my
previous successes in Health and Wellbeing through Personal Training in Fitness, I am able to draw on that
experience and work with my clients to achieve their ultimate state of wellbeing.
A group of fellow coaches from my training decided to put into practice what we had learned and
brainstormed how we could best share this wealth of information with anyone who would be willing to
listen. Our first paid workshop is schedule for Sunday 23rd February, and each of us is super excited to
serve all that attend and we all celebrated our first paying client not so long ago.
I am immersing myself in everything that is Coaching, the community that is TCI is the most supportive
and resourceful I have ever had the pleasure to be affiliated with. They leave no stone unturned, they
believe if there is a will there is a way, and the way Sharon lives and breathes excellence is an absolute
inspiration. I have loved every single interaction with all students, trainers and mentors within the TCI
community. If you’re feeling stuck, unsure or want to share something exciting that has just happened, pick
up the phone and give the WOW team a call, post in the members Facebook page as everyone is there to
help support you.
The ripple effects of what I have learned and what I continue to learn every single day about myself and
about how to best serve others is purely phenomenal. I am now able to achieve all that I set out for myself
in a resourceful way. I am also an exceptional mother because of it, and am creating shifts in my daughter
to ensure she grows into a resilient adult. It has made me a more patient and supportive daughter to my
parents who are also modelling me with their friends and, I am an even better friend to all of the
wonderful people in my life right now.
I can’t thank TCI enough for creating this abundance of growth, excitement,
support, excellence and well simply life changing experiences. It has been 39 years
in the making, but, I can honestly say from the depths of my soul that I am finally
where I am meant to be and I am absolutely loving every second of it…
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an Extraordinary Vision
AUTHORS DARCY SMYTH, WOW Team Student Support
WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS FOR? WHAT IS
DRIVING YOU? WHAT IS YOUR WHY?
The world of successful business requires a driving
force that many perhaps are unfamiliar with. We
know it is there within all of us, it is a burning
desire to achieve something bigger than ourselves
and it’s often blanketed by fear and doubt of the
unknown.
This fear can often play out in a much wider scope
in our lives than just business and is often a
reflection of something else that is affecting us. The
important part to remember here is that fear is a
normal human process, what you can change
however is what you choose to be fearful of. One
of the fastest ways to eliminate unresourceful fear
is to remember to focus back on your vision, your
why, your mission.
Successful business people and coaches alike have
one major attribute in common: They have a big
enough why that drives them every day to achieve
their dreams and they push forward in the face of
fear to achieve their goals. Successful business
people still know fear, except for them quite often
it is the fear of a world without their mission and
drive that is driving them rather than the fear of
running a workshop, going to a networking event
or cold calling. Successful business people realise
that what they have to offer is so much more
important to humanity than how they feel if they
make a mistake that leaves them feeling vulnerable.
Successful business people personify servitude.
The only reason you won’t go the extra mile when
times get tough is because you don’t have a big
enough WHY, it simply doesn’t mean enough to
you. And that’s a shame because there was a time
when it probably did. The suggestion here is to
apply the ripple effect to your actions and your
non-actions, and future pace the consequences for
both. My guess is if your focus is on other people
enough then the answer to whether or not you
should attend tomorrow’s networking event
should answer itself…
My advice is, if you have lost connection with what
you ultimately want to achieve in your time on this
earth, to reconnect with what it is that ultimately
drives you and realise the consequences of living a
mediocre life over achieving your ultimate goals. If
you are yet to create your own compelling vision
then now is the time to take action!
The time to face the obstacles that are holding you
back in business is now. Not when it feels safe and
certainly not when you have all your ducks lined up
in a row.
Just do yourself a favour and
remember to think bigger than
yourself…
HAVE AN OUTSTANDING MONTH COACHES!
Creating WORD FROM THE WOWS
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The Joy of Giving
AUTHOR SARAH MORRIS, Credentialed Master Practitioner of Coaching Student
I’VE ALWAYS LOVED GIVING.
AND I MEAN LOVED IT.
I went on my first Aid trip to help re-build houses
after a natural disaster in Fiji without my family
when I was 16. I’ve been involved in some amazing
projects, most recently, working to raise
awareness about vulnerable children around the
world. It’s what makes me come alive, what makes
me tick, what makes me want to jump out of bed.
My Vision board is covered in faces of kids from
around the world, a photo of feet that have “we
can CHANGE the world” written on them and
more than 5 chickens that have been donated on
my behalf to families in need around the world.
But there’s something that compels me
even more than this. And that’s
inspiring OTHERS to “Be the Change”.
For those that know me, you would also know that
I’m a HUGE fan of the 6 Core Needs. The need for
1. Certainty,
2. Uncertainty,
3. Significance,
4. Love and Connection,
5. Growth,
6. Contribution
They permeate my coaching, my conversations and
my study.
When I coach, I am mindful that for someone to
create lasting and significant change in their lives,
they need to involve initially and primarily the two
core needs that are their Drivers. That is, the two
of the six core needs that motivate them to take
action.
FOR PEOPLE THAT ARE HIGH D ENERGY:
DOMINANT, DECISIVE, VISIONARY;
They are driven by a need for Certainty and a need
for Significance.
FOR THE HIGH I ENERGY TYPE:
ENTHUSIASTIC, PLAYFUL, FUN, INFLUENTIAL;
Their drivers are the need for Uncertainty and
Love & Connection.
FOR THE HIGH S ENERGY TYPE:
MOTHER, CALM, STEADY, INCLUSIVE, LOVING;
They are driven by a need for Certainty and for
Love & Connection
FOR PEOPLE WITH A HIGH C ENERGY:
CORRECT, LOGICAL, CAREFUL, DISCIPLINED;
They are driven by a need for Certainty and
Significance.
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As you can see above, all of us are typically
motivated by 2 of the 6 core needs, we are driven
primarily by the Behavioural or Physical Core
Needs, the needs of the Mind i.e. Certainty,
Uncertainty, Significance, Love & Connection.
These influence our physicality: how we act, how
we respond, what brings us joy and what is our
greatest source of pain. I believe understanding
what drives us can take us to a new level in our
lives, personally, in our relationships and in our
businesses. I also believe, that if we leave it there,
we set ourselves up to live lives of “quiet
desperation”: knowing that we were meant for
more, but only serving ourselves and in doing so,
missing our higher purpose.
So what do we do about it!?!
Tony Robbins writes that:
“Fulfilment can only be achieved through a pattern
of living in which we focus on two Spiritual Needs:
1) The need to continuously Grow; and
2) The need to Contribute beyond ourselves in a
meaningful way.
All dysfunctional behaviours arise from the inability
to consistently meet these needs.”
As coaches, and in our own lives, our intention
needs to be focused on these two core needs: The
need for Growth: an expansion of capacity,
capability or understanding; and
The need for Contribution: a sense of service and
focus on helping, giving to and supporting others.
If we do this, then we open up a whole new world
of possibility for our clients, we allow them to see
the bigger picture and connect with something
higher than themselves.
The fantastic thing about Growth and Contribution
is that they go hand in hand. As we grow, in our
capacity, our knowledge and wisdom, our finances,
our understanding; we have more to contribute.
Inversely, as we shift our focus to contribution and
meeting others’ needs, by being generous, loving,
open, serving, stepping up and “being the change”
we grow! We grow as leaders and we grow as
people. Think about this example: If as soon as you
learn something new (grow), you thought of
someone that could benefit from that information
and taught it to them (contribution); By doing this,
you have gained a clearer understanding of what
you’ve learned because you had to put it in your
own words (growth again!). They’re intrinsically
linked.
YOU CAN’T GIVE WITHOUT GROWING.
And what’s more than all of that, when we shift
our focus to Contribution, we actually see our
other needs met in the most resourceful way:
We gain a Certainty about what we’re doing
and why we’re doing it,
We gain Uncertainty, or variety, and a sense of
adventure as we do something new and
wonderful for others,
We gain Significance, knowing that what we’re
doing is making the world a better place and
that what we’re doing is right and good and
done well,
We gain Love and Connection, as we reach
out to others from a place of complete
openness and service, we are able to connect
with them on a deeper level and not only that,
feel connected with our true selves.
AND OF COURSE, AS WE’VE EXPLORED
ABOVE, WE GROW… SO IN CONTRIBUTION,
WE MEET ALL OF OUR NEEDS.
Can you see why I love this so much?
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LET’S LOOK AT SOME SIMPLE, EFFECTIVE
EXAMPLES OF HOW WE CAN PUT THIS INTO
PRACTICE!
When I coach, as, I’m sure most of you do, I always
close the session with a call to action. How I add
contribution is simple and effective: I ask my client
to think about one thing that they’ve learned, that
if they took the time to share it with someone else,
it would really benefit their lives. I explain how
contributing helps us to grow and how it helps us
live a life of fulfilment, and as they understand that,
they are more motivated to take on this action.
Then I ask them to set an intention to contribute,
selflessly to another person, that one thing that has
helped them. It could be as simple as posting it on
Facebook.
Another thing that I’ve implemented recently is
that within 24 hours of receiving a payment from a
client, (I get excited and it’s usually within 10-
15mins, but let’s allow 24), I make a donation on
their behalf to a charity that connects with their
journey.
For Example, if I’m coaching a beginner coach, I will
make a Micro-Finance Loan on their behalf through
Kiva (www.kiva.org), to someone who is starting
up their own business in the developing world.
BY INVESTING IN THEMSELVES, THEY’RE
INVESTING IN OTHERS.
BY GROWING, THEY’RE CONTRIBUTING.
I do this primarily because I want to “Be the
Change I want to see in the world”, but more than
that, I want to “Inspire the Change, I want to see in
the world”. In the same way that we must believe
that our clients “have everything they need within
them right now to create any change they want”, I
believe that my clients “have everything they need
within them right now, to connect to their higher
purpose and live a fulfilling life”; and I’m convinced
that the shortest and most stunning way to get to
that end, is to inspire Generosity.
So, if I can encourage you to take one thing from
this: Steal it! Give! Grow! Contribute! Focus on
Contribution and Growth and watch as your other
needs are met!
Start with you own life, and then your family, then
see how you can connect those two top Core
Needs of Growth and Contribution into each of
your coaching sessions. We are here not only to
help people get past their road blocks, but to
become the most Magnificent versions of
themselves: and this, I believe, is how.
“Be the Change, Do the Change
and Inspire the Change… you
want to see in the world, and
TOGETHER, we can
Inspire the Extraordinary.”
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Ensuing Your Vision
AUTHOR NATASHA WILLIAMS, Mastermind Mentor from The Coaching Institute
How great was Sharon's webinar on Wednesday!
Thanks to Sarah Morris for sharing the notes on
Moodle, brilliant!
The session was a timely reminder that we never
"arrive" at our perfect vision and higher purpose.
It's ever evolving as we evolve. And that's
something I don't see enough of and has had me
thinking.
Do too many corporates think they've
got to tick the box, yep, vision and
mission done, file it away for random
future reference?
A couple of weeks ago, I was reviewing my goals
and modelling SP, I wanted to write our company's
vision on the front page of my book. "To be the
preferred superfund for Victorians." Hmmmm…
Let me state I love my company, our values rock
and I'm paid to really care and make a difference.
Doesn't mean I have to agree with the words of
the vision. I'm really glad it's only put on show for
30 seconds once a month at the staff updates.
WHERE'S THE WHY??? WHAT ARE WE DOING
FOR OUR CLIENTS TO DESERVE THAT?
So I went to our marketing manager and said our
vision really doesn't do anything for me, can we
think of changing it? Apparently I'm funny.
Funny enough - that's done at a board level, polite
no. Oh how to quieten SP in my head!! OK, I'll
write my own for my own purposes. "To help
every Victorian take empowered control of their
superannuation choices for a retirement that can
fulfill their hopes and dreams"
Tad wordy, but it rocks for me. In Frank's "Search
for Meaning" he says
"You don't aim at success- the more you
aim at it and make it a target; the more
you are going to miss it. For success like
happiness, cannot be pursued; it must
ensue, and it only does so as the
unintended side-effect of one's
dedication to a cause greater than
oneself."
And isn't the same true of our vision? Is your vision
about what you want to get or is it about the real
tangible way you're going to make a difference?
There's a reason SP's always chunking up to the E
in ESIP, coz it's so pucking important!!!
A vision is an opportunity to collaborate and
brainstorm and share what truly matters at the
core of our existence and our fundamental reason
to serve our clients. It got me thinking, how often
are visions and missions handed out to us to nod
politely with, "yes Sir, yes Madam, very nice, our
clients will like how that reads."
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I've been asking my colleagues what they thought
of our vision. Common response after the glazed
look was deep visual recall, "I get it mixed up with
the mission" or "something about all Victorians" or
a very well-meaning colleague's response "It's on
the website".
A vision should be so entrenched in one's heart
and soul you're ready to scream it out at 2am if
someone was crazy enough to wake you up!
At the recent TCI team 2014 BHAG meeting a TCI
Rockstar raised her hand and said "The vision
doesn't quite do it for me."
Rather than being defensive, proving the
righteousness in the vision, it was open for play and
within 10 minutes the team had a new vision!
"Inspiring the
Extraordinary"
NOW THAT'S LIVING THE VALUES AND
BREATHING COLLABORATION AND
COLLECTIVE UNITY INTO WHAT A VISION
NEEDS TO TRULY MATTER.
“ CHARLES GARFIELD
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Business of Thinking
1. WHY DID YOU CHOOSE TO BECOME A
MENTOR?
I remember when I was served by mentors at my
Triads – I told myself, “one day I will become a
Mentor to serve our students.” Besides, it serves
my passion for teaching! I love teaching what I love,
hence why I am not a teacher at school! LOL! I
also knew to be a Mentor, I got to learn and
stretch to lead our students. The role would
enable me to master the skill even more by
sharing. The true acquisition of knowledge is when
you Learn, Implement and Teach – and therefore I
chose to be a Mentor that will enable me to do
that!
2. WHAT IS THE GREATEST REWARD AS A
MENTOR?
The results I see! The growth each student
demonstrates each week! I am also continuously
growing when I am sharing with each student who
could be in similar stage in their journey and yet
different in many other ways. Another great
reward is learning to be tactful and diplomatic
when you give sandwich feedback. Learning to give
feedback on what they need to hear in the way
they want to hear! And of course the flexibility and
the opportunity to facilitate Webinars!
3. HOW HAVE YOU GROWN FROM THE
PERSON YOU WERE WHEN YOU BEGAN TO
THE PERSON YOU ARE NOW?
I used to be one of those who wait till
the ducklings are not just line up but in
order of height and time of birth! LOL!
Certainly that never happened, and therefore, I was
not growing or getting any results that I desired
for. Today, not only I have grown to be a person
who is healthy, happy and experiencing the feelings
of Abundance – I am living congruently with my
Values – thus getting closer to my Goals, Vision
and Mission!
Once my mindset changed to become who I always
desired to BE, my business grew bigger, better and
faster – THANK YOU, TCI!
VelSen Consultancy (a combination of my
husband’s and my name – only first 3 letters leaving
the remaining 7 letters from each!) is now growing
with 7 Income Streams from local, interstate and
international clients! I don’t believe I would be
where I am now or heading if not for TCI and
Mentoring role!
*Goosebumps*
Sentha Govin
MEET YOUR MENTOR
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4. ON A SCALE OF 1-10 HOW WEIRD ARE YOU?
9 out of 10 – Well, it means I am not easily
predictable anymore like I used to be!
You cannot say I am V or A or K or Ad! You
cannot say I am high or low D, I, S, C! You cannot
assume that I am Mother Archetype or Jester
Archetype or Professor Archetype or a Rockstar!
You may not believe if I said, I used to be a Sign
Language Interpreter, Software Analyst, Computer
Programmer (actually worked with machines!),
Banker, Counsellor, Finance Coordinator,
Performing Arts Trainer for People with
Disabilities, Actor, Singer, Dancer (Classical Indian
as well as Tap/Jazz/Courtroom/Ballroom dancer)
and Director! So what will be 10 out 10, you may
ask – become a Politician? That will make me
totally Weird!
5. WHEN YOU STARTED AS A MENTOR, WHAT
WAS THE BIGGEST CHALLENGE YOU
OVERCAME AND WHAT ADVICE WOULD
YOU NOW GIVE OTHERS?
It’s not always what you want to say – it’s what
the students are ready to hear and be
challenged with!
Get proper internet and phone connection
that does not have running cost!
Get over yourself and be present for the
student!
6. WHY ARE YOU STILL LEARNING?
Because there is no End to Knowledge!
My mum said this to me when I was 11, “Always
remember, what you know is your palm-size and
what you have yet to learn is World-size – so
always be grounded and keep learning more to
share more”.
Years later, my husband put it as, “Don’t just keep
learning if you are going to die with all that
knowledge!” – that made me register my business
the very next day! And I found TCI where I learnt
from the CEO who does just that - always learning
to give us more and more! It’s not about learning
and acquiring knowledge, it’s learning to share and
give and grow from it!
7. WHAT ARE YOU CURRENTLY READING?
Luckily you are not asking for my recommended
list of books which will be a whole new magazine
on its own! I read a few books at the same period
during different times of the day! I am now reading
“A New Earth” by Eckhart Tolle – on Human
Consciousness, Ego, Abundance, and Inner
Purpose! Loving it! I am also reading John Gray’s
Mars and Venus (not Visa according to Joe!) in the
Workplace – guide to improving communication
and getting results at work that discusses the
differences between Men and Women in
Workplace! Another book is a Tamil Literature
book so that I won’t forget how to read in that
language! LOL! And I love reading Money Magazine
when my husband is driving!
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8. WHAT IS YOUR SUPERHERO NAME?
The one and only WONDERWOMAN!
9. DO YOU WEAR A CAPE OR YOUR UNDIES
ON THE OUTSIDE...OR BOTH?
I wear stripe less swimsuit, headband, long boots
and ropes! Occasionally I wear the cape!
10. WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR HIGHLIGHTS AS A
MENTOR?
I am so humbled and filled with gratitude each time
I get the feedback from the students! It certainly
serves my Purpose of continuing to do what I love
doing! I wish every student realise what an impact
the feedback they give has – what they have learnt,
the outcome when they apply it, the difference
they are experiencing.
I love when students send me
personal email – it always put a smile
not only on my face but in my heart!
Thank you!
I also love the growing opportunities
in facilitating Webinars, being
involved in creating more ways to
serve our students and above all,
inspiring the students on their
journey!
11. WHAT IS THE MOST VALUABLE THING YOUR
MENTEE'S HAVE TAUGHT YOU?
Apart from serving them with Sandwich feedback,
they taught me that I can be Direct and Honest
without having to “sugar-coat” and surprisingly
they love it! Their openness, willingness and
eagerness to learn and grow to serve their clients
taught me to learn even more to share more by
being ahead! Being a Mentor also taught me to be a
Leader and be a few steps ahead to keep raising
the standard!
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12. WHO WOULD LOVE BEING A MENTOR?
Someone who wants to pay it forward, and is
willing to dedicate to life-long learning (and
applying), ready to step up when opportunities
come along, flexible, be a leader, bring lightness to
the conversation, ability to listen and read between
lines and above all remember how it was and how
it felt when they first started!
Raise the bar and
become a Mentor!
We are looking for students that want to pay their
success forward, students that are amazingly
passionate about coaching and students that live
and breathe the TCI values.
If you want to be a part of coaches that are making
a real difference, email the WOW Team at
[email protected] or call us and
we can set up a plan with you to work out how!
13. IF YOUR LIFE WAS A SONG - WHAT WOULD
IT BE & WHY?
Well, I listen to songs in 5 languages! LOL! To be
audience-specific and a song that resonates with
my life and role as a Trainer, Coach and Mentor -
is “Unconditionally” by Katy Perry. Why, because-
Please read the lyrics and imagine the mentee or
client in front of you…
Oh no, did I get too close?
Oh, did I almost see what's really on the
inside?
All your insecurities
All the dirty laundry
Never made me blink one time
Come just as you are to me
Don't need apologies
Know that you are worthy
I'll take your bad days with your good
Walk through the storm I would
I do it all because I love you,
So open up your heart and just let it begin
Acceptance is the key to be
To be truly free
Unconditional, unconditionally
I will love you unconditionally
There is no fear now
Let go and just be free
I will love you unconditionally
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Extraordinary Inspiration
AUTHOR TINA PATSIAOURAS, Mastermind Round Table Member
INSPIRATION HAS ALWAYS BEEN MY
CATALYST FOR CHANGE, AND NOT JUST
ANY CHANGE!
It has propelled me into life changing
adventures and realities and given me
the strength to desire, dream, create,
explore, experience and devour a life
that I had never dared dream of.
Inspiration is that little surge of joy when you see,
hear or feel something pure that captures your
heart and immediately transports and connects you
to your truth, your dreams.
In this truth there is emotion, strength, motivation,
encouragement, insight, a flash of what we can do
that equals pure joy for us – a revelation of sorts.
All of a sudden you experience happiness,
creativity, movement, colour and an involuntarily
push to grab onto this feeling and just run!
Inspiration has given me the strength to act on my
dreams and at times has been a lifeline - a gateway
into another world of light; I’m hungry to
experience. These stunning flashes of inspiration
are like gems waiting to be discovered; gifts that
we’ve unconsciously called for and received.
I’m so grateful and humbled to have experienced
the gift of extraordinary inspiration with my clients
where I have truly understood the power of giving
people time and space to simply be.
This space creates the safety needed for emotions
to be released and expressed. Everything in me has
been silenced when a courageous soul claims their
divine right to open their heart, be vulnerable,
reveal their pain and experience the joy of
discovering freedom through choice. In this
instance, there is only truth and it’s breathtaking.
These gifts of inspiration have also been found in a
smile; the gentle, unconditional love of my family
and friends; the life changing, empowering and
liberating world of TCI; the strength, fearlessness
and courage of my TCI family; in people committed
to experiencing joy in any situation; books; music;
those who allow us to see their humanity by
sharing their pain and being vulnerable; the young
man who shared his story of drug addiction and
abuse who is now empowering others; my five
year old niece saying ‘I’m beautiful’ as she has no
reason to think that she is not; the amazing people
who inspire and empower children by giving them
confidence and self-worth; the perfection of
nature and how it bends to the wind; the
breathtaking site of a 3000 year old temple; the 13
year old school girl in Iran telling me of her dream
to be a doctor with a fierce confidence far
surpassing her age; my cousin who was my hero
and who lived her life in pure joy and love even
though she had spent her life with an illness…
These are the gifts that inspire me
to continually embrace the
extraordinary and grow, learn,
love, laugh, cry, tear down the old
and rebuild the new.
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In doing so, I live my truth, give happiness to
myself, give to others, embrace change knowing
that it will give me strength and compassion and
honour and acknowledge everyone who enters my
world!
By acknowledging someone with a smile or a
simple hello shows that you see them and gives
them space to simply be. In this space a feeling of
strength may be born and with it a sense of calm
which releases the ego and allows creativity. This is
my intention; by just being and sharing how I would
like to experience life, my word or action that
could inspire a tiny seed of truth in someone.
INSPIRATION ALLOWS US TO RECONNECT
WITH THIS SEED OF TRUTH AND IS AN
ESSENCE OF PLAYFULNESS. THIS
RECONNECTION FEELS AMAZING. ACTION
BECOMES EASY AND EFFORTLESS. YOU
DON’T THINKING ABOUT IT - YOU JUST
KNOW!
INSPIRATION ENGAGES THE IMAGINATION
AND IS A POWERFUL KEY TO OUR
CREATIVITY. CREATIVITY IS THE EXPRESSION
OF OUR PURE SELVES, OUR TALENTS!
So look out for moments of inspiration; hunt them
down, write them down and then explore what
dreams they are they pointing to. Acknowledge
and honour these and take action, as they will
allow you to live your truth and in doing so, inspire
those around you who may not yet have dreamt of
taking the first step …
“
SHARON PEARSON
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for Successful Coach
AUTHOR KYLE BIRKETT, from Dream Factory at The Coaching Institute
AN UPDATE FROM THE “DREAM FACTORY”!
I want to take you through some of the little
details and terminology that will make your
MOODLE experience an online learning like no
other.
It starts with understanding the WHY.
Why did we re-do the entire
membership site for TCI?
Because we can… and more importantly because
we should. We should because it makes your
experience and your connection with the coaching
journey stronger. Our mission at TCI is “Inspiring
the Extraordinary”. We know that the content of
our program is brilliant and we wanted a website
that would help you to become the Extraordinary.
We did this by laying out every piece of content
and starting from the beginning. Step-by-step we
re-built the student experience, walking you
through, one book at a time, to fantastic coaching.
Moodle now takes you on a journey.
Starting with building your skills as a coach and
then moving into the world of successful business.
This is the tried and tested path to coaching
excellence.
As always we wanted to create a dynamic pathway
that allowed you not just one direction but a full
range of choice and experiences. You can now see
what we call “books” sitting on the shelf of your
Moodle Library.
These books are a way of gathering all the useful
content found in under that subject. As you flick
page by page you move deeper into that knowledge
- uncovering videos, templates and manual content.
Moodle is about your journey. We want you to
have the same experience online that you have
when you come onto campus.
I’ll be sending out emails over the next couple of
weeks making sure you know everything about
Moodle and the opportunities it presents.
We’re thrilled about this new adventure and know
that our community is as well.
IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT
MOODLE OR ABOUT YOUR ONLINE
EXPERIENCE, SIMPLY EMAIL
I KNOW THEY WILL LOVE TO GIVE YOU A
HAND :)
Moodle MEMBERS ONLY
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Meta Dynamics Level I Training
THERE ARE TWO SEATS REMAINING IN THE
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This is your Mastermind Master Class. The first
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In this chapter we delve into the world of business
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If you haven’t already booked into this massively
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Act now and take the plunge into
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TIME:
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DATE:
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TIME:
DAY ONE STARTS AT 10AM
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TECA #2: MANAGING THE
PERFORMANCE OF THE TEAM
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WEDNESDAY 12TH MAR 2014
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FIRST12 MONTHS
WITH SHARON PEARSON
Fresh from a trip to the USA building her already
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FOUNDATION OF COACHING
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DESIGN YOUR LIFE
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