the ia of introspection
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The IA of IntrospectionRobin Weis
IA
introspection
introspection + IA = rainbow
Google Fit
QS Chicago
“I don’t have anything to share”
edmchicago
Pixabay/Freephoto
data
apologies
context
“sorry” “sry”
sorry
availability behavior communication joke life personality unclear
Availability: 34%
availability
A: "sorry i was gone so long"R: "sorry/ phone died/ at mom's now"
Behavior: 27%
availability
behavior
A: "sorry if i'm putting you on the spot"R: "sorry I am not being very helpful"
Communication: 12%
availability
behaviorcommu-nication
A: "sorry about the misunderstanding"R: "got confused about timezones, sorry"
Life: 12%
availability
behaviorcommu-nication
life
A: "sorry to hear about your grandmother"R: "I'm sorry you've been feeling sicky lately"
Joke: 7%
availability
behaviorcommu-nication
life
joke
A: "SORRY TO TEAR DOWN YOUR SPECIALNESS HYPOTHESIS“R: "SORRY EVERYONE ELSE [BUT ME] IS LAME"
Personality: 6%
availability
behaviorcommu-nication
life
joke
personality
A: “ack, sorry about that. I’m SO awkward on the phone”R: "sorry for bein weird!"
Unclear: 2%
availability
behaviorcommu-nication
life
joke
personalityunclear
sorry
availability
busy
distracted
leaving mid-conversation
disappearing without notice
sleep
tech problems
behavior
invoking negative feelings
inconvenience
distraction
interruption
overdoing it
Inadequacy
communication
being unclear
causing a miscommunication
correcting another’s mistake
being vague
failing to understand
joke
srynotsry
silly
hint of truth
sarcastic
at your expense
life
situation
feelings
bad news
past
personality
how I am
how I feel
not up for it
disagreement
unclear
lessons learned
interpret with care
1. I was right
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Adam58% Robin
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2. Adam apologized a lot for availability and behavior
availability behavior communication life joke bein' me misc0
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Adam Robin
3. Adam was more apologetic for interrupting and/or distracting me
invoking negative feel-ings
overdoing it inconvenience distraction interruption inadequacy0
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Behavior
Adam Robin
4. Adam had better manners
disappearing without notice
distracted leaving mid-convo busy sleep tech problems0
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Availability
Adam Robin
5. I apologized for being unclear; Adam apologized for correcting my mistakes
being unclear causing a miscommunication correction being vague failing to understand0
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Communication
Adam Robin
6. Adam apologized for accidents; I apologized for intentions
being unclear causing a miscommunication correction being vague failing to understand0
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Communication
Adam Robin
7. I worried that my feelings were inconvenient
how I am not up for it how I feel disagreement0
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Personality
Adam Robin
8. Chemistry sparked conscientiousness for Adam
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Adam’s apologies over time
availability behavior communication life joke bein' me
9. Friendship sparks conscientiousness for me
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Robin’s apologies over time
availability behavior communication life joke bein' me
10. I tread carefully
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Robin’s apologies over time
availability behavior communication life joke bein' me
11. Familiarity desensitized
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Apologies over time
Adam Robin
12. I like capslock
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Adam33%
Robin55%
Joke
PROPORTION OF JOKE APOLOGIES IN ALL CAPS
My apologies
disappearin
g from co
nvo
being distracte
d
invokin
g negative fe
elings
being unclear
overdoing it
situation
feelings
sleep
inadequacy
sry not s
ry
leaving m
id-convo busy
tech problems
inconve
nience
miscommunica
tion
being vague
how I am
corre
ction
silly
hint of tr
uth
how I feel
sarcasti
c
not up fo
r it
distracti
on
bad newspast
at your e
xpense
interruption
failing to
understand
disagreement
0
5
10
15
20
25
sorry
availability
busy
distracted
leaving mid-conversation
disappearing without notice
sleep
tech problems
behavior
invoking negative feelings
inconvenience
distraction
interruption
overdoing it
Inadequacy
communication
being unclear
causing a miscommunication
correcting another’s mistake
being vague
failing to understand
joke
srynotsry
silly
hint of truth
sarcastic
at your expense
life
situation
feelings
bad news
past
personality
how I am
how I feel
not up for it
disagreement
unclear
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