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The Family Times Summer 2015
Legacy Art Corps & Camps 2015: A Season of New Connections by Richard Broadley This summer was a time of fresh beginnings for the Art Corps. Eight new interns (Sami Filer, Rena Hofmeister, Wes Bergen, Mary Beth Byers, Lisa Paine, Jaxson Pohlman, Alex Sharp, Brent Georgeson) joined four veterans (Dan Overholt, Justin Meyer, Kiana Broadley, Kristof-fer Broadley) to plan and do Legacy Camp. A staff retreat in early June and regular prayer times each morning were significant to our development as a strong and unified community of Christ-followers. Excellent training ac-tivities and timely pastoral-type care added to the mix to help the Corps in their preparation to do the hard work of running three camps in July (back-to-back-to-back for the first time). Challenges and obstacles were there, but the team and volunteers came together and God provided all that was needed. We found and developed new relationships with more placement facilities this year. In addition to the Salva-tion Army, Riverside Academy, Lakeside Academy, Youth Horizons, and Communities In Schools were involved in sending campers. We were excited to see a bit of a resurgence in attendance with over 20 girls in the first camp and in the mid-thirties for each boy’s camp. More new things: classes (Coffee, Re -Purposing, Sur-vival), Prayer Flags (campers and staff wrote prayers on material scraps which were hung around the sanctu-
ary), a post-it note activity of speaking life and positiv-ity over the lies of negative labels we have too often accepted, two former campers came to share their tes-timony and how attending Legacy Camp was a signifi-cant turning point in their lives, a group of people prayed for the campers and interns by name each week of camp. Other highlights: at girl’s camp a tub of old yarn became a variety of crocheted items including blankets for Alex and Briana’s baby Zsa Zsa, our first day of camp ending prayer time punctuated by tremen-dous thunder clap, three wonderful Friday Night Cele-brations with more numbers, families and smiles each successive night, a week of almost daily changes in camper numbers with the accompanied fluctuating dynamics handled well by the Corps, God’s provision of different activities from time to time and moving campers to the right classes. We couldn’t have done it this year without our amazing volunteers taking care of lunch prep and clean-up, and helping with a num-ber of classes including leading a guitar class the final camp. The Art Corps and all involved with Legacy Camp this summer really care for these girls and boys and found ways to connect with them and speak into their lives a message of hope. Each week the campers heard the truth that we are not alone and that God has something creative and life-giving for each one of us. Many (campers and Art Corps) are taking that message to heart. Thank you so much for all your support and prayers!
A Newsletter of Church of the Savior
Legacy Camp 1-3
Costa Rica 4
Budget 5-6
Upcoming Events 7
Finances 7
Inside this issue:
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Samantha Filer
Q: If someone asked you about your experience this summer, what’s the first story that
comes to mind?
A: My mind runs in a thousand different directions, but one that sticks out was during
the first week of camp. I was sick the first two days and came back refreshed but also
out of the loop. My small group was an especially poignant point of excitement and
worry, for I received the privilege of being with several amazing girls for the times allotted. I slowly got to know
them better, but the vulnerability started on Thursday when we discussed the word of the day, “Stuff”. One of
the girls lowered her crochet and stated, “This is where we share the deep stuff, right?” All of them opened up in
incredible ways, particularly one friend whose hand I got to hold as I comforted her saying it was safe for her to
cry here, and as I allowed God to speak Himself into her situation. I only had known her for two days. She was
absent the final day of camp, but she sent a beautiful, encouraging letter to me that built me up where I was
crumbling and revealed an observant and gentle spirit. I was able to write her back, and now pray for her, hoping
that someday we many meet again.
Alex Sharp Q: How has your Legacy experience changed your perceptions changed about yourself?
A: My perception of myself was grown in a way that I expected to experience yet didn’t
anticipate to be such a big change. I think I was in a unique situation this summer with
Briana being pregnant. I had to find a way to balance my life in a more supportive,
husbandly role than I thought would be needed or possible to do. But it was life-giving
and great! I am so glad that I was given the capacity to be the husband I needed to be
for Bri during legacy camp thanks to the community and strategic placement God put
me in.
Kiana Broadley Q: How has your Legacy experience changed your perceptions changed about God?
A: This summer it became more apparent to me that God wants to bless His people. One
specific way I saw this was through and opportunity I had and took to connect to one of the
campers who needed someone to talk to. I believe that I was a blessing to her, but I also felt
privileged to be trusted enough to learn about her life. Through this God made it clear puts
us in the places he wants us to be with the skills he has given us so that we can do the work
he wants us to do. If we follow through on the nudges, I believe that God blesses us and
gives us courage to continue to work as he sees fit.
Reflections from the Legacy ArtCore
Page 3 Left: Two of the three camp-wide original murals created by Legacy campers. Right: A short story written and performed by Legacy camper, Joshua Marshall.
Summer 2015 Page 3
Our Soul
By Joshua Marshall
I am an old house. Some say I’m scary, some I’m haunted. I am
neither of those. Let me tell you who I am.
100 years ago, my foundation was laid. I was the product of a hard-
working man’s vision for his family to have redemption, to know
more than he did. My early memories are of warmth and care.
1935, grandma has died and dad is in the military for the war ef-
fort, mom is working in the factories, and I am deserted, my family
left me for the city. I sat untouched, unnoticed for another 15
years.
1950, my rooms are filled again with laughter and warmth. A
brand new family, a new life. I can now enjoy the perks of having a
family! Birthdays in my hallways, weddings in my living room. Sure-
ly my family will never leave me.
1957, murder. Blood covers my hallways, no voice is heard, only
silence. My dream is destroyed. I have now witnessed my first mur-
der. No more laughter, nothing. My halls will now be empty. Lone-
liness lurks inside me again. How could he? How could he steal my
happiness?
1965, I have a new crowd now. They call themselves hippies. They
are destroying my house! My walls are stained with smoke and the
parties have totally ruined my fresh wood floors.
1980, my first renovation! My whole structures feel fresh and anew.
New paint, new wood, new windows! Everything old has gone and
new has come. I have plug-ins and these things called telephones
it’s all so new and fresh!
1995, divorce. It ruins everything. One crack weakens the whole
foundation, the whole structure. I’ll leave that for you to interpret.
2015, where I am today. To you I look haunted, with my fractured
windows, chipped paint. I will decline to share who my last occu-
pant was.
The moral of this story: Some say I am a haunted house, some say
I’m scary. Let me tell you who I really am. I’m very much like your
soul. We have seasons of joy, seasons of sadness, or maybe even
anger. Our anger, unattended, will leave blood. The smoke of sin
covers its walls and we all try to cover it up. We try to get new
friends and we even think that if we just get that job, that new out-
fit, we will be happy or even better than we were before. Some even
have the audacity to say that they are filling that hole we have, that
we are more complete than before. Let me tell you: Nothing can
fulfill you, or make you better than the blood of Jesus. He is our
complete remodeling. Our complete renovation. He renews our
lives and makes us wholesome.
Let. Him. Come. Into you. Forever.
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Costa Rica was full of God's beauty all around.... Except for zip-lining... and the Tarzan
swing. Cause that stuff is just scary. It was amazing to see the people's reactions when we
would sing. They were moved to the point of tears, and you sense the Spirit in our
performances. It was an amazing experience! —Mary Beth Byers
The “Ticos” and “Ticas” of Costa Rica had an amazing knack at
bringing me out of my comfort level and into a totally green world full of delicious
food and beautiful people. I now know God has given Latin American cultures a
unique place in my heart. I can’t wait to go back. –Luke Taylor Gilstrap
All the houses in Costa Rica are quite small, but they are vibrant with all kinds of colors and
patterns, each home reflecting something of a personal or familial touch. It seemed to me
while I was there that Costa Ricans, while unbelievably kind, were all unique in themselves,
just like their homes. It was very difficult to leave such a beautiful place, one that I now feel
especially connected to (my heart forever leans in the direction of those “Ticas”). But through
that experience I learned that beautiful places are simply made up of beautiful people filled
with beautiful intentions. I seek to be one of those people wherever I am. Christ’s pure light is
there in the faces of my new friends and is here, too, in places we often forget to look. Costa
Rica refreshed my ability to seek His face. –Megan Taylor Gilstrap
Costa Rica was my first out-of-country trip and I could not have imagined a better first
experience! We traveled to mountains, rain forests, the beach, and different cities, but the
most amazing part of the trip was getting to know the culture. The people were so welcoming
and friendly and it was a blessing to be immersed in their culture for ten days. —Lisa Paine
Costa Rica is full of color, inspiration, and perspiration. It was an incredible gift to be
introduced to such a vibrant culture. It had a way of drawing every little emotion out of you;
inviting you to join in the dance. The people were so hospitable and quick to share with us. I
had a great time! —Justin Meyer
Some Words on Costa Rica by The Singing Quakers
Summer 2015 Page 5
LG: What does increasing the budget mean for everyone as
a whole? (i.e. what do laypeople need to do to meet the rais-
ing standards of the budget)
CO: I think it means that everyone in the congregation
needs to ask God about their financial giving to the church
and other organizations and to trust that God is going to
invite them into financial giving. When you ask God, “Hey,
what should I do with my money?” God always has ideas!
We need to ask “What does it mean to actually trust God
with our money, whether we’re a broke college student or
the owner of a successful business?”
JP: I think the increased budget means increased input and
involvement from our entire church family. I love that we
take so much ownership of our activities and ministries with-
out having a lead pastor directing everything. I feel that it
allows for more people to get involved and not simply con-
sume at church. Our budget is relatively small for a church
our size, mostly due to not paying a full time pastor salary
and benefits. However, payroll is still the largest percentage
of our budget, we employ around 8 people on a part-time
basis to take care of necessary church functions. At this time,
all of our employees are members of our congregation; I love
that!
SL: In the past, we have used a lot of people that volun-
teered for things. Sometimes they were paid, but mostly they
donated a lot of time. As our church is now, we need to be
able to pay some people for the extensive time they’re put-
ting into our church. I’m thinking specifically of Alex and
Briana Sharp.
LG: What do you wish more people knew about the nature
of church budgets? Are church budgets any different than
any other kind of budgeting?
JP: The trustees really take seriously trying to develop and
plan the best we can with the financial gifts that we receive.
We prayerfully and carefully consider increases and decreas-
es to the projected budget each year. We spend our meeting
time over several months reviewing current and past expend-
itures trying to make sure that we have accurate estimates for
spending. It’s hard to forecast what will be given in any
year. Tithes and offerings freely given are our only source of
income, so we trust that God is leading us as we set our
budget and we have faith that people will give to meet that
budget.
SL: Church budgets reflect the changes that take place every
year in the congregation. Like Lifecare, for example. These
changes cause the board to regularly reassess who we are as a
church and what our priorities are.
CO: When creating out budget, we take a look at what we
have spent in years past, where we could make reasonable
cuts, and then try to guess what the next year is going to
bring. In that regard, it’s not much different from how I
operate my personal budget, except I have much more con-
trol over my personal budget than the church has over the
church budget. The church budget takes a lot of communi-
cation from all different parts of the church and understand-
ing when people might have to change their plans or come
up with a different kind of solution to obtain the resources
they would like. I guess it just requires more “big picture”
thinking and more communication between people’s needs,
hopes, and emergencies. Also, where my budget has a
monthly cycle, it’s helpful to remember the church budget
has a yearly cycle, where one expenditure can impact some-
thing six months down the road.
LG: What project(s) are you most excited about in the up-
coming year?
CO: The thing I’m most excited about isn’t necessarily in-
volving money but is really just about energizing people to
be involved in this community. I mean, like Marion Blakely
who signed up to be kitchen cleaner, and does a great job
with it, and even signed up to bring a side dish to the pot-
luck—like, who is this kid?! Or people who are a part of Dia-
konos who’ve only been a part of COTS for about a year
and are taking active roles in planning worship services and
creative collaboration like Rachel Ukens or Kyle Howe. Our
community is kind of on this growth line, needing to start
passing off some of the vision and dreams to younger genera-
tions, whether that’s people in their forties, twenties, howev-
er you want to define that. We want to create space for our
growing lay leadership to be able to do things that might re-
quire money.
A Budget Q&A by Luke Gilstrap, Cora Olson, Jeanette Parker, and Steve Lewallen
JP: Two things I’m excited about. First, our church is grow-
ing! We have so many babies and children that we have to
expand our nursery and Sunday school classes. We need
people of all ages in our church and all different life situa-
tions. I’m single and childless myself, but I’m excited to see
this mini baby boom taking place and feel that it’s important
to provide care and education for the families at our church.
Second, I’m glad to see the youth group expanding beyond
our traditional middle/high school youth. There are plans
in place to begin a new group for young adults (both in col-
lege and not in college). I think it’s important to have some-
thing in place to encourage and minister to these young
adults as they transition from high school to adulthood.
However, these things do take funding. We had a lot of
great discussion amongst the trustees, with representatives
from the pastor’s and the people who’ll be leading the
groups. I think this input helps us to place a dollar value (or
budget line item) for these projects.
SL: The building budget—we don’t have much in that this
year. Legacy is consistently exciting and inspirational to me
when I see the gifts they’re using in that ministry and how
our church continues to be motivated by it.
LG: My favorite question: What do you think our budget says
about our church? (What we find important, what we want
to accomplish, etc.)
CO: I think part of what is unique about our church budget
this year is we are putting more money into the church’s
youth. We’re acknowledging the very unique needs and the
importance of investing in them. We are creating positions
to fill the needs of the church—our expansive nursery, our
growing Godly play and youth ministry programs. We have
eleven staff positions now, and six of those are geared to-
ward meeting the needs of the youth. Beyond that, six of our
current eight staff are 25 and under. I think that says some-
thing about our focus, about wanting to invite the younger
generation into leadership. By paying our staff, we’re ac-
knowledging that these people are investing in our commu-
nity and we want to invest in them. Looking at who they are
and why we hire them I think says a lot about who we are.
SL: While we are frugal, and have been conservative, we
spend a lot of time and energy on the things that matter to
us. Legacy is important to us. Higher use in older church.
Our priorities are on our future/youth and are not on the
money that it takes to operate. It’s always helpful to have
more money, but we’ve never been a church with high
means and we’ve learned out how to get by.
JP: I think our budget shows that we operate with an atti-
tude of faith and trust in God to meet our financial needs. I
also feel that it shows we depend on the people in our
church to contribute in a variety of ways, not just with finan-
cial gifts, but with something even more valuable: their time
and energy.
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Budget Cont. from Pg. 5
875 Spaulding Wichita, KS
Phone: 316-263-2391 E-mail: [email protected] Website: www.cotsks.com
A Newsletter Of Church of the Savior Summer 2015 Page 7
SUNDAY
6
September
Final Bible Quiz and all COTS
Potluck
Fri-Sat
2-3
October
Women’s Retreat
Sunday
13
September
Congregational Meeting
(fellowship time)
and Progression Sunday
Upcoming Events
COTS current financial status
from Michael Mitchell May 31 2015 June 30 2015 July 31 2015
income to date for current fiscal year: 75,688.17 80,339.80 6,867.93
expenses to date for current fiscal year: 69,944.32 76,140.15 10,394.13
net income/(deficit): 5,743.85 4,199.65 (3,526.20)
avg donations per week this month: 1,604.60 1,140.90 1,716.50
avg weekly donations to meet budget: 1,678.93 1,678.93 1,786.81
available cash on hand: 32,868.22 31,238.09 27,715.09