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The Family Circle A Publication of Fairview United Methodist Church

254 Robinson Street Binghamton, New York

607-724-6886 FairviewUMChurch1@gmail.com Website: www.fairviewumcbinghamton.wordpress.com

April 2017

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From Pastor Jan Recently I asked a friend if she was going to a certain event. She said no. I asked why she wasn’t going and her answer made me think. She responded ”I really have no desire to go to that and I am working hard not to do things I really don’t want to do just to please someone else.” Wow! I thought it was a great answer. It all comes down to boundaries and standing up for our own needs. I understand there are often things we find ourselves doing that we don’t relish. Some things we can’t avoid, like doing our taxes, paying our bills, or listening to a friend who is hurting. We want to please others but just as crucial for our own well being is the ability to establish our own personal boundaries. In the words of Gael Lindenfield, “A good reason for not asserting yourself is, of course, that you think you are not worth the effort!” Trust me, you are worth it. How often have we taken on too much, or said yes to an invitation only to regret it later? We probably ended up frustrated and resentful. One of the keys to a healthy lifestyle is finding the ability to express what we need, believe and want. Face it; it’s ok to say “No” at times. Sometimes a “no” to another becomes a “yes” to ourselves. If you don’t feel comfortable writing that letter of reference then don’t. If you don’t need that one more box of Girl Scout cookies, politely decline. If going to the casino isn’t for you this Friday, go with your gut and just say no. According to P.M. Forni, “medical science tells us that nonassertive behavior is a health risk.” Setting healthy boundaries helps you decide how you will spend your time and energy. This journey through Lent has helped many of us focus in on what is important. We have denied some things to make room for other things. My prayer is that Easter will be a time to give thanks for life anew!

Wishing you Easter Joy!

Pastor Jan

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Leading Us in Worship-April 2017 April 2 Greeter: Elaine Tyler Liturgist: Marcia Focht Ushers: Dave Tyler, Kevin Emmons, Dave Gardiner, Sue Barton Acolyte: Nathaniel Evans Crucifer: Mike Purdy Scripture: Psalm 130, John 11:1-45 Sermon: “Unbound for Life”

April 9 Palm Sunday Greeter: Debbie Tweedie Liturgist: Jessica Spencer Ushers: Jeremy Kimball, Jim Burlingame, Sandy Burlingame, Linda Merritt Acolyte: Isabella Ross Crucifer: Jessica Spencer Scripture: Psalm 31, Matthew 21;1-11, Philippians 2:5-11 Serrmon: “Where are you in the crowd?”

Friends & Family Evening Worship (6pm) Holy Communion, Music by the Praise Band Message: “The Very Stone” Skit by youth April 13 Maundy Thursday Service (7pm) Greeter: Blenda Smith Liturgist: Pastor Doug Clark Scripture: Psalm 116, John 13:1-17, 31b-35 Sermon: “A Heart that Bears Our Broken Pieces” April 14 Good Friday “Service of Shadows” 7pm at Windsor UMC

April 16 Easter Greeter: Fran Pierson Liturgist: Deb McMichael Ushers: Alan Slocum, Mark Slocum Mike Purdy, Michael Garren Acolyte: Emily Bentley Crucifer: Erin Bentley Scripture: Colossians 3:1-4, Acts 10:34-43, John 20:1-18 Sermon: “A Reason to Rejoice!” April 23 Marcia Focht Preaching Greeter: Sue Boucher Liturgist: Sarah Eastman Ushers: Joan Murray, Penny Daugherty, Karon Lewis, Linda Purdy

Acolyte: Zoe Barr Crucifer: Riley Spencer Scripture: Joel 2:21-28, Ecclesiastes 3:1-13 Sermon: “Seasons of the Spirit” April 30 Greeter: Pat Reynolds Liturgist: Leon Jicha Ushers: Ellen Gardiner, Jeremy Kimball Michael Purdy, Blenda Smith Acolyte: Jessica Spencer Crucifer: Riley Spencer Scripture: I Peter 1:17-23, Luck 24:13-35 Sermon: “Being Prepared”

Remember Our “Seniors”

Lent – what better season to set aside some time to make a call, write a note or make a visit. Elizabeth Church Manor Dorothy Crane 863 Upper Front Street Binghamton NY 13901 Willow Point Bucky Merritt Room 101 (for Rehab) 3700 Vestal Road Vestal, NY 13850 Bridgewater Center Jeanne Randall Room 263 159 Front Street Binghamton NY 13905 At Home Betty Buck 209 East Frederick Street Binghamton NY 13904 Louise Disbro 110 Chenango Place Apt 4A Binghamton NY 13901 Evelyn Evans 130 Robinson Street Binghamton NY 13904 Nellie Hickok 156 Bigelow Street Binghamton NY 13904 John Hillard 54 Bigelow Street Binghamton NY 13904 Katherine Roe 33 Riverside Street Binghamton NY 13904

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Our Worship Attendance

February 26 101 March 1 90 Ash Wednesday 5 93 12 99 Evening Worship 29 19 98 26 We extend our prayers and sympathies ……………………...... To the family of Elizabeth Williams who died on March 5th. Pastor Jan had her funeral at Shea’s. To Jeremey Kimball and his family at the death of his father, Moe, on March 3rd. To the family of member Doris Render who died on March 13th at the age of 82. Rev. William Townsend officiated her memorial service which was held at Hopler and Eschback Funeral Home on Chenango Street. To the family of Joyce Gilkeson. Joyce, age 80, passed away on March 17th. Pastor Jan officiated at her funeral which was held here at the church. Joyce was a long time Fairview member. Thank you Fairview Friends for orchestrating my first ever surprise birthday party! So many people I care about all in one room. Once my heart rate slowed back to normal, I enjoyed a very fun afternoon! Thank you for the party and for giving me a wonderful life memory. Thank you all for the many special greetings, kind words and gifts. You are truly very special friends. Blessings, Carol

A special THANK YOU goes to: ~ all who helped with the Chicken & Biscuit dinner and to Michelle Newkirk and Celeste Keefe, head cooks & coordinators. ~ David Tyler for placing the cross outside for the season of Lent. ~ the PPR Committee and Pat Kavalesky for organizing the surprise birthday party for our administrative assistant Carol Carpenetti ~ Marcia Focht for her inspiring sermon at the last contemporary service ~ all those who responded to the Lenten offering and coin folders ~ Gary Loichle for providing our prayer station at the bus stop in front of the church ~ Dave Gardiner, Robin and Gerry Eastman, for making crosses we will use during Lent

MUSICAL NOTES FROM PASTOR JAN We enjoyed some special guests in February/March. Shepherd and Ewe offered their piano, cello and violin talents and even joined us on a bell piece. Moe and Denise Helms shared their music on piano and French Horn. Special thanks to Liz Gdovin for playing her flute with the Bell Choir. We are busy rehearsing for Easter and are looking forward to having some folks from the Windsor UMC choir join us on Maundy Thursday. If you haven’t checked out the evening Contemporary Service you are in for a treat as the Praise Band leads us each month. Next service is April 9 at 6 PM. Christ came to die giving the gift of New Life… Have you opened it?

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HOLY WEEK WORSHIP Maundy Thursday (April 13) worship will be in the sanctuary @ 7:00pm with Windsor UMC joining us. Good Friday “Service of Shadows” (April 14) will be at Windsor UMC @ 7:00pm. You are invited to Easter Sunrise Service @ 6:00am on the front lawn of Windsor UMC. Breakfast will be served inside following the service. UNITED METHODIST MEN

At the February meeting of the UMM, discussion was held as to interest in the men’s group continuing. What are your thoughts? Do you still want monthly Saturday breakfast meetings with church work projects? There was also discussion about meeting on a different day and having a bible discussion or book study, etc. Personally, I think Saturday is the best time. If it were during the week we would loose those men that work. Maybe we could meet quarterly? Whatever is your preference. We need the commitment of 10-12 men in order for it to work. Please share your thoughts regarding a Fairview United Methodist Men’s group with me or Alan Slocum. See us after church or we can be reached by e-mail coons0422@yahoo.com:aslocum913@gmail.com. You may also phone me at 724-0976. All men of the church are welcome to comment even if have not attended one of our gatherings. In order for this to work we must have some commitment. Thank you. ~ Joe Coons, Co-Chair

SISTERS OF LYDIA Calling all Sisters……our next meeting is April 3rd @ 6:30pm. Don’t forget to read chapter 2 in our new study book “7 Women.” Hope to see you all there!

Young Adult Group (YAG) Are you between the age of 18 – 30 and looking for a great group to join? Then consider joining the Young Adult Group (YAG)! Sarah Eastman and Marlee O’Malley are the new leaders of YAG and are planning fun and exciting activities inside and outside the church. Sarah works at Chenango Gymnastics and is able to reserve the venue for some team building fun. We’ll notify you of the date and time. Joining the group is easy. There is a sign-up sheet posted in the Narthex that requests your name, phone number and asks if you are able to get the GroupMe app. This free app can be downloaded on any smartphone. Once you have the app, you can join the group by using your phone number. It allows you to message back and forth without the hassle/cost of using cell service. We invite you to join the group even if you cannot come to church on Sunday’s because of work or other commitments. Feel free to contact Sarah or Marlee directly. All are welcome! We can’t wait to get together with the group, have some fun, and see how far we can rise! ~ Sarah Eastman & Marlee O’Malley, YAG Co-Chairs

SKY LAKE LADIES OF THE LAKE: Rejuvenate April 21-23 Join Pastor Jan and other sisters in Christ for a chance of spring renewal at Sky Lake. hurry, reservations fill up fast. The weekend is filled with special worship, special activities, and special women! All meals will be prepared for you and you don’t have to wash any dishes!! Reminder that you can get a once a year $50 gift from the church and grants are also available from Sky Lake. Registration forms are available in the Narthex or you can register on line at www.skylakecenter.org Riley Lodge: $210 Underwood Lodge: $250 Early bird discount of $25 if you register prior to March 31ST

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Happy Spring everyone! May you find hope and restoration in the Lenten Season to nourish you through the year. At this time of reflection, let us reflect on the joys in our lives. One joy in particular...YOU and our family here at Fairview. This April marks our 4th year serving the East Side with our food pantry. What started as a little conversation has budded into a pretty big thing. All because of you and your continued support! THANK YOU! That's it...sweet and simple. Keep the prayers and donations coming. You're doing a great thing! Food Pantry members- mark your calendars- there will be a brief meeting on April 30 in the fellowship hall near the pantry end. God bless you in this wonderful season! Michelle Newkirk and Sue Barton

UNITED METHODIST WOMEN Did you know that UMW continues to collect Campbell Soup Labels and Boxtops for Education to give to Calvin Coolidge ? Did you know that UMW has a shelf in the Bouton Room with many up to date books to read? Did you know that UMW have cookbooks for sale at $5.00/cookbook? Did you know that the UMW Rummage Sales are well attended by our church neighbors? One person’s discards are another ones treasure. Saturday April 29 is our next Rummage Sale...Got Stuff? We will take your clean, gently used clothes and household items starting Saturday, April 8. We are having our annual Palm Sunday Breakfast for the church family on Sunday, April 9th. We will be serving at 8:30. Please sign up in the Narthex to give us an idea as to how many people are attending. This is a free event to start our Holy week. Saturday, May 20 at 5pm we will be having our Mother/Child Banquet. $7.00 for Adults 13 and above...$3.50 for 6-12 year olds and children 5 and younger are FREE. Johnny Only is our entertainment for the evening. Chef Dave Gardiner and crew will be providing a special meal. Lastly, Tuesday, June 13 at 7pm is our Birthday Tea. All tables have Hostesses but we need attendees so if you are interested and have not been asked please contact Sue Boucher. We are very excited to have pianist, Rick Pedro, as our entertainment for the evening. Tell your friends and mark your calendars! ~ Sue Boucher, UMW President

CONTEMPORARY

EVENING WORSHIP

Palm Sunday April 9th

Music by the Praise Band

Special Message led by our Youth Holy Communion with a new twist!

6:00pm Light refreshments 6:30 Service

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MISSION AND OUTREACH And the winners are: Michael Ross, Director of Rescue Mission, for his " Mike's not so French Onion Soup" and Jon Gdovin for his "White Chicken Chili" at our 2nd Annual Soup and Chili cook off on February 26. A big shout out to all our chefs: Michael Ross, Pat Kavalesky, Karen Gdovin, Gary Loichle, Fran Pierson, Dave Gardiner and Jon Gdovin for making our event a success. $182.00 was donate to the Rescue Mission. A fun time was had by all the attendees and chefs..Looks like there will be a 3rd Annual Soup/ Chili Cookoff in our future. A HUGE thanks to Karon Lewis for typing the recipes . Start looking for that award winning recipe... A new item has been added outside our church; a Prayer Request Box for anyone needing prayers..There are papers and pens for passersby to write down their prayer requests and Fairview Prayer Warriors, who are meeting on Wednesdays during Lent, lift these requests up to our Lord. Rides to church are still available to anyone on the Eastside who needs one. Please let Pastor Jan or Sue Boucher know. There is a coupon box in the narthex for current clipped coupons to be used to help our Food Pantry. Sue Barton has been sending out emails making people aware of weekly Sale Deals around town. If you would like to be informedabout sales, " like" the Fairview Food Pantry page on the church website. We are interested in doing something for the parents of the Calvin Coolidge students while they wait for their kids after school. Any ideas? We continue to strive to make disciples of Jesus Christ, offering a helping hand to those in need. If you have a suggestion please contact Sue Boucher or member of the Mission Team. Thanks for all of your continued support. ~ Sue Boucher , Chair

FROM THE TRUSTEES TABLE…. The room to the left of the stage will be cleaned out for available space. If there is anything in the room you wish NOT to be discarded, please remove or see Robin Eastman. ~ Robin Eastman & David Tyler, Co-Chairs

Family Ministries Our Family Craft Night was deemed a huge success so we are planning another one! Mark your calendars for May 5th at 6:30. A snack will be provided as well as craft materials. After Easter there will be a sign-up sheet in the narthex. United Methodist Night at the Ball Game will be Thursday, June 22nd at 6:35. Please mark your calendars. Details will be given when available. Tai Chi for Health was a suggested activity.. We are looking in to that now. Watch for information. It is an exercise activity that helps with arthritis and balance. There will not be another Pot Luck meal until the fall. The date will be announced. Are there any activities you would like to see us have available here at Fairview? Contact me or any member of the Family Ministries Committee with suggestions. We meet next on April 24th @ 6pm ~ Nancy Price, Chair

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WORSHIP COMMITTEE The Lenten season is a great time of the year to share your faith with family and friends. Take time to invite someone to join us in worship. The worship committee has put together welcome bags for our visitors on Sunday mornings. Our visitors will be greeted and given this bag which holds information that shares about all that Fairview has to offer. A little extra sweet treat is also included. Please make a point to make our visitors feel welcome. If you see an unfamiliar face carrying a brown bag with red tissue paper, stop and give a warm greeting. Don't forget to wear your name tags as another simple gesture to welcome our guests. Remember you only get one first impression. We are hoping to have our new sound system in the near future. We are looking for volunteers to help run the system. If you have any technology background or would like to learn, see Pastor Jan. Pastor Jan and our praise band continue to offer an evening service once a month. It is a great time of fellowship and worship. Please consider joining us on April 9th at 6:00pm. Don't forget to bring a friend. During this time of Lent do not forget to pray for the growth of our church. God Bless, Korin Spencer, Worship Committee

SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT Greetings in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ If you wish to attend Sky Lake as a camper, you should have contacted Leon Jicha Sr. 607-723-5963 (lbjsr@yahoo.com) or Amy Kehoe 607-222-4314 (akehoe1353@aol.com) We will be judging the trees created by the

youth on the subject of “How Fairview United Methodist Church makes you feel good about yourself, others and God”. This project needs to be completed by April 9, 2017. The judging will occur after Easter. The announcement of the Scholarships will be on Sunday May 7th followed by an “Extreme” Social Hour that you will not want to miss!!! Our Church Picnic will be on Sunday June 4th at Kirkwood Park, gathering shortly aftter 1 P.M. The Spiritual Development Committee encourages all members and their families to attend these special events and to worship at our Church every Sunday throughout the whole year. Remember God is as close as your next prayer!!! God Bless you and your family, Leon B Jicha Sr, Co-Chair

LOOKING AHEAD to activities you won’t want to miss! April 2 - Pastor Jan’s birthday Key Inventory by Trustees April 3 – White Privilege Workshop 11:30-1:00 Sisters of Lydia April 9 – Palm Sunday Family Breakfast @ 8am Contemporary Worship 6:00 Refreshments 6:30 Service April 13 – Maundy Thursday @ 7:00 April 14 – Good Friday Service at Windsor UMC 7pm April 16 – Easter Sunday April 29 – Spring Rummage Sale See the enclosed calendar for April church meetings and additional activities. Because the tomb is empty, the church should be full.

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News From Our Conference! Submitted by Cindy Emmons, Annual Conference Lay Member

Sky Lake Registration Is Now Open!

Upper New York Camp & Retreat Ministries is excited to announce that registration is now open for its 2017 Summer Camp & Retreat programs. Program details are available online and brochures have been mailed to past participants and campers as well as all Upper New York Annual Conference churches. Click here to learn more. http://www.unyumc.org/news/article/summer-camp-registration-is-now-open

Sky Lake Job Posting – Maintenance Assistant The Maintenance Assistant is responsible for assisting in the maintenance of buildings, equipment, grounds, and vehicles,in accordance with policies established by the Board of Camps and Retreat Ministries, and directives set by the Director. The successful candidate will have a high school diploma/equivalent and prior experience with the use of basic tools, general repair work, lawn care, cleaning, vehicle operation, and tractor operation. A valid driver's license is required. To be considered up must apply online at www.unyumc.org/about/jobs and provide contact information for three professional references.

District Men’s Breakfast – April 8th This year's Communion and Men's Breakfast for the Binghamton/Oneonta Districts for men and boys is Saturday, April 8th at the Endwell United Methodist Church. It will begin with coffee hour at 7:30 am followed by Worship, Communion, Breakfast and a short program. Contact Pastor Mark Kimpland at (607)754-5735 or email pastormark@endwellumc.org by Wednesday, April 5th to make your reservations.

Binghamton District Lay Servant Classes The Binghamton District has several opportunities for April and May.

Waverly UMC Ogden-Hillcrest UMC Friday, April 28th & Saturday, April 29th Friday, April 28th & Saturday, April 29th Registration at 5:30 pm on Friday Registration at 5:30 pm on Friday Start time Friday - 6:00 pm Start time Friday - 6:00 pm Start Time Saturday 8:00 am - 3:00 pm Start Time Saturday 8:00 am - 3:00 pm Basic Course - facilitator Melody Patterson Basic Course - facilitator Rev. Joyce Allen Leading Prayer - facilitator Rev. Alan Bill Miracles - facilitator Rev. Mark Marino

Owego UMC Tuesday, May 9th and Thursday, May 11th

Tuesday, May 16th and Thursday, May 18th Registration at 5:30 pm on Tuesday, May 9th

Classes from 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm, 11th, 16th, 18th Basic Course - facilitator Rev. Anne Canfield

Heritage - facilitator Rev. William Prentice Lay Speakers Tell Stories Advanced Course

and Dancing with Words - facilitators Rev. Jaime Stevens & Marilyn Ochs

Open House – May 31st The new United Methodist Center of Upper New York will host an Open House at its new location at 7481

Henry Clay Boulevard, Liverpool, NY on Wednesday, May 31st from 3:30 – 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend to see the home of the conference Media Resource Center, Mission Central, office

areas, and meeting rooms. A service and dedication will follow at 7:30 pm. All are welcome!

New Conference Phone Number

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315-898-2000. The toll-free number, 855-424-7878, will remain the same. FINANCE COMMITTEE Your Finance Committee has been meeting monthly to creatively meet our budget needs. Our goal is a balanced budget for Fairview UMC! Back by popular demand is the “Krispy Kreme Eat & Share” fundraiser. We know most of us can only eat “so many” donuts, right? However, we can share donuts with others as tokens of thanks, caring and sharing. Please consider buying what you & your family will enjoy & then buying extra dozens for friends, neighbors, people at work and in the community. Last year we gave donuts to local businesses that support Fairview, Calvin Coolidge teachers, Whitney Place Rescue Mission, Good Shepherd Fairview staff, the local fire station and more. We will take orders from now until May 7th with delivery to the church on Mother’s Day, May 14th. Donuts will have been baked early that morning of the 14th!! They are $8/dozen and about half of that goes to the church as a fundraiser. Yes, they can be frozen as well. Look for a sign-up sheet in the narthex at church for suggested places to donate donuts (or add your own ideas). Please give checks & order forms to Dale Spencer or put in the offering plate. You may choose to mail the order sheet below to the church office. Please be sure to note the number of boxes you are purchasing in the Memo section of your check. ~ Blenda Smith, Finance Committee Scribe ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………

KRISPY KREME DONUT ORDER

Name ___________________________________________________ Phone # _________________________________________________ How many boxes at $8/dozen? ______________ Total due = $ _______________ (Write # boxes in Memo Line of check)