the classic theory of nostalgia
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A short memoir of my first journery as a kid. It is those colourful memories that is alive in the mind of every kid. In fact, I hope that you will uncover the child in you while reading thisTRANSCRIPT
The beauty of story telling lies in four words, “Once upon a time”.
Well,then let us begin this tale also with a “Once upon a time”, though it is not that
older back in time. May be 20-22 years back, as that is the farthest I could remember.
Mmmm……Thinking of how my journey of more than a quarter century had gone,
the first thing that comes to my mind is our annual trip to maternal home. In fact, it
was not just a vacation trip; it had sanctity of a ritual.
I strongly believe that distance is always proportionate to your mental age and size.
Well, what else could explain my early perception of Palai (that is my mom’s
hometown, fairly 2 and half away from our Alleppey) as the other end of the world.
So every trip seems to be an adventure as good as Columbus’s voyage to find India
(Let’s just forget the fact that my dad used to have a pretty good about the location of
Palai).
When the summer starts, we, my brother and I used to wait for that day. I remember
eavesdropping to mom’s daily call to grand ma just to know when we are heading for
our adventure.
Once, the date is fixed, ruffle starts. Dad will bring down our special suitcase and dust
it for the dirt that settle down in one year.( in fact that grey suitcase with its
camouflage cover used to be our family heirloom until I broke its precious handle in a
railway station rush in Chennai.. I still blame it on my friend whenever dad rolls his
eyes about it). Mom will be packing our things for the week while both of us will be
sneaking our toys and she will have hard time throwing them out.
As the countdown starts, I would making list of things to say and show show to my
cousins. I will be taking the work of that year….either it is sketch book or handwritten
magazine or some craft things. In fact there used to be a lining of pride to rub off my
(small) town posh to then comparably village town cousins. (Well it is payback time
as now I have to rely on the same cousin for the happening places in Mumbai).
Thinking of it, it is ridiculous to imagine my pride of having a cable tv or dial up
modem.
Well, then the D- DAY will arrive. In the eve, mom would have put us to bed early
after her short lecture to behave when we are at grandparents’ home.( in fact those
weeks were the only cordial days of the year when me and my brother would not be
going for each other’s throat. We used to be successful for creating illusion of perfect
brother-sister) Next day will start early in the morning with the tinge of bitterness of
black coffee. Then mom would layer us both with the rarely used sweater and travel
special scarf. In fact, I used to have a green sweater and black soft scarf with purple
and blue flowers which mom would tie around the head covering ears. There was an
orange monkey cap for my little brother. Even after all these scrubbing and robing, he
would be still sleeping. As he used to be very tiny and skinny those days, it was a
funny sight to see his monkey cap clad head and oversized t shirt with his favorite
jeans and an enormous shoes and all the while ‘sleep- standing.’ Well, I doubt
whether I looked like a twisted tweety bird with my black scarf and green sweater.
Soon, we will march down to nearby bus stop. I like to hold my dad’s hand while he
carries the suitcase in the other. Mom will be dragging my brother behind and the bag
and big shopper on the other hand. Mom’s big shopper used to be like Hermione’s
bag. It contains all emergency supplies, plastic bags for the motion sickness, flask of
black coffee, rusk or cookies, her lime candies, a small first aid kit and what not.
As we walk to the bus stop in the crisp cold morning air (it used to be cold even in
summer), it would be a different world around. The usual buzzy square looks different
in the neon light and deserted. As we stand waiting for the bus, the real morning life
blooms before us…..the songs from the nearby temples, the lonely milkman in his
rickety cycle (or is he newspaper man, dunno, )and early devotees walking to the
temple with the water dripping from their hair.
The moment we eagerly await will soon arrive in the form of red ksrtc bus with its
yellow windows and dark green shutters. I was proud in figuring out whether it is a
Limited Stop, Fast Passenger or Ordinary Bus based on the pattern of yellow stripes.
In fact, I was jubilant about this knowledge and tried to rub it off on my brother like
some complicated scientific formula. A yellow neon light will be glowing inside
throwing dull golden glimmer of the sleepy passengers and impatient conductor. I
would rush to occupy a cold green rexin seat near window and everyone else will tag
along. Then comes the best part. Once we settle down in our seats (we used to fit in
the three seater when my brother was young), the conductor will sleepily come with
his magic rack of tickets. I knew exactly what my dad will say next,” 2 full and 2
half” …. well that was the magic word for getting those wonderful bits of colorful
tickets with so many magic numbers (I don’t really like the white computer printout
you get these days, it never has a charm of good old paper ticket)… it felt like height
of genius for the conductor to take out the correct color and tick the correct number. If
dad is in a good mood he would let hold the ticket for a while. He patiently explains
for the 100 th time how those numbers represent different stops and other things. Then
I would be slowly nodding off to my mom or dads lap (which is still a habit I am
struck with).
By the time I wakes up, the sun would be a big tangerine globe ahead of us. The green
shutters would be open to let in breeze from the paddy fields on one side. We could
also hear the quack of the herd of ducks floating away in the canal on the other side.
The road is a perfect black ribbon amidst the green and blue quilt work. I will lazily
lay there to the warmth of morning sun watching people buzzing around, hopping in
and out of the bus. The people living in the kuttanad area has a special fragrance ….a
mixed smell of the soap, oil and some other earthly thing…
Soon, we will reach the Kottayam bus stand, our stop over. If we are lucky enough we
would get a palai bus quickly. (mostly we are not) But even the alternative is not bad.
Dad will get us mom’s favorite banana fry and hot tea. It is a treat that cannot be
replaced with anything till date. As I munch on crispy corners of my bit of banana fry,
our next bus will turn up. The next leg of journey was like a time machine, the plains
and white sand give way to hilly terrain and rubber plantation. The odor of the rubber
sheets used to make me sick, but as it also means we are getting closer, excitement
takes better hold. Another sight we relate to come closer to palai is the nuns. There
will be nuns in their grey, white, black or sandal dress and rosaries. They will be in
the bus, road and everywhere. It was something you could not spot in our home town.
Even today when I see a nun, I am reminded about palai.
We would start pestering dad about how much time left to reach Palai. I appreciate
dad’s patience now as this question was asked every five minutes and patiently
answered.
Finally, we will see the meenachil lake, pass through the gopura of shiva temple,
sugarcane fields and then most awaited white house with its tall stone wall… it was
the signal for our stop. We literally jump off the bus and try to race ahead the hilly
road leading to our maternal home. Half the way ahead the road, we will race back
down to our parents who are walking up at their leisure and then race ahead until we
reach the grandpa’s home.
The hot yummy breakfast, smiling grandparents and hugs of cousins were just a
beginning for memorable week.
Those days, sky was the limit for our imagination. We used to reenact Enid Blyton’s
picnic lunches, write horror stories (which used to scare the life out of all us), produce
extra vaganza stage shows (our poor family had bear all those tortures) and what not.
It was equally peppered with grand mother’s pampering, small trips ,late night stories
by uncle(mostly his remake of Mahabharatha stories or Sherlocke tales). The week
would be gone in flash.
Then the journey I least look forward will come- trip back to home, school and daily
routines. Even the conductor could not hold much interest on journey back home. I
will be heading home with a heavy heart about things we could not do, things I forgot
to tell my cousins and waiting for the next big trip.