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ABOUT MARC SUMMERS

You’re here to learn the stuff in this book so let’s keep this very short so

you can get on with it.

Because I personally know how much it sucks, my job is to save you from

screwing up and embarrassing yourself with the women you like and I

work really hard to make sure you’re getting best tips, help, and solutions

so you can move in the right direction and become the type of man

women are highly attracted to.

I never claim to know everything and I’m always learning – BUT I have

been fortunate enough to have a lot of success with women.

So what I’m doing is simply sharing with you what I’ve learned through

research, experimenting, experience, and hanging out with men who

naturally and easily attract women.

You’re only getting what works and that’s it.

My rule: I haven’t seen it work with my own eyes, at least several times,

then I’m not going to waste your time telling you about it.

I also know you don’t give a damn about the boring stuff like where I

went to college, what degrees I have, what I like to do in my free time,

and all that other nonsense - so I will end it here.

This book provides a lot of help where you need it the most.

If you have questions, send me an email and I’ll be happy to help you out

- [email protected]

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CONTENTS

MY PERSONAL LETTER TO YOU ....................................................... 10

INTRODUCTION: TEXTING IS A LOT MORE THAN JUST TYPING

STUFF INTO YOUR PHONE .................................................... 12

TEXTING LANGUAGE & PATTERNS .................................................. 13

TEXTING IN THE OLD DAYS WAS EASIER ......................................... 15

THIS IS WHAT I’VE LEARNED FROM TEXTING A LOT OF WOMEN ... 17

THIS IS WHAT CONSISTENTLY WORKS FOR ME ............................... 18

I PURPOSELY AVOID THE “NICE GUY” AND “WUSS” APPROACH .... 19

I’VE LEARNED TEXTING IS A MENTAL GAME – LIKE CHESS ............. 20

THERE’S REAL PSYCHOLOGY AND STRATEGY BEHIND EVERY TEXT 21

THERE’S A PROBLEM IF YOU TEXT MORE THAN YOU TALK ............ 23

TEXTING SHOULDN’T REPLACE REAL INTERACTIONS W/WOMEN . 24

KNOW THE GOAL OF TEXTING – SHE’S NOT YOUR PEN PAL ........... 25

TO GET BETTER, YOU NEED LOTS OF PRACTICE TEXTING WOMEN 26

PART 1: UNDERSTANDING HER MINDSET WHILE TEXTING YOU

............................................................................................. 27

YOU’RE PROBABLY NOT THE ONLY GUY SHE’S TEXTING................. 28

SHE’S BIASED ON WHO YOU ARE AND HOW SHE KNOWS YOU ..... 30

HER ATTENTION SPAN IS SHORTER THAN YOUR... ......................... 31

SHE CAN BE MOODY AND PICKY ABOUT HOW OFTEN SHE TEXTS . 32

SHE KNOWS THE GAME AND UNDERSTANDS HOW IT WORKS ...... 33

SOMETIMES SHE LIKES TO APPEAR BUSY – EVEN IF SHE’S NOT ..... 34

SIGNS SHE’S INTERESTED IN YOU AND/OR FEELING ATTRACTION . 35

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SHE WANTS TO FEEL EMOTIONS WHEN TEXTING OR IT’S POINTLESS37

REASONS SHE MAY NOT TEXT BACK ............................................... 38

PART 2: GENERAL TEXTING RULES THAT WORK WELL WHEN YOU

FOLLOW THEM ..................................................................... 41

KEEP TEXTING TO A MINIMUM ....................................................... 42

YOUR TEXTS SHOULD ALWAYS SERVE A PURPOSE ......................... 43

AVOID OVERTHINKING WHAT YOU’RE GOING TO TEXT ................. 44

BUT ALSO AVOID UNDERTHINKING YOUR TEXTS ........................... 45

TRY TO MIRROR THE LENGTH OF HER TEXTS .................................. 46

TRY TO MIRROR HER TIMING .......................................................... 47

REMAIN EMOTIONALLY DETACHED ................................................ 48

NEVER GET TOO EXCITED ................................................................ 49

NEVER PLACE EXPECTATIONS ON THE OUTCOME .......................... 50

DON’T OVER-ANALYZE HER TEXTS .................................................. 51

NEVER USE TEXTING TO “GET TO KNOW” HER ............................... 52

ASK HER ONE QUESTION AT A TIME ............................................... 53

DON’T STAY STUCK ON OR KEEP GOING BACK TO ONE TOPIC ....... 54

AVOID LONG TEXT CONVERSATIONS .............................................. 55

TALK ABOUT THE IMPORTANT STUFF IN PERSON .......................... 56

MINIMIZE YOUR WORDS WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE A ROBOT ..... 57

KEEP YOUR TEXTS SHORT BUT NOT TOO SHORT ............................ 58

DON’T STRESS ABOUT GRAMMAR, PUNCTUATION, ETC ................ 60

BUT ALSO MAKE AN EFFORT TO SPELL SOMEWHAT LIKE AN ADULT61

KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SPELLING OF SIMILAR WORDS

......................................................................................................... 62

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USE ACRONYMS & ABBREVIATIONS SPARINGLY ............................. 63

YOUR PHOTOS SHOULD SERVE A PURPOSE .................................... 65

PART 3: HOW TO AVOID LOOKING LIKE A DUMBASS WHEN

TEXTING HER ........................................................................ 66

DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT LYING .................................................. 67

NO NEED TO BRAG OR IMPRESS HER .............................................. 68

NEVER TEXT HER WHEN YOU’RE DRUNK OR HIGH ......................... 69

DON’T TRY TO BE A DIFFERENT PERSON THROUGH TEXT .............. 70

DON’T SHARE YOUR FEELINGS FOR HER THROUGH TEXTS ............. 71

NEVER USE TEXTING TO WHINE & COMPLAIN ............................... 72

AVOID USING A LOT OF SARCASM .................................................. 73

NEVER ARGUE OR DEBATE WITH HER THROUGH TEXT .................. 74

NEVER TEXT HER BECAUSE YOU’RE “BORED” ................................. 75

AVOID STARTING TEXTS WITH “HEY”, “WHAT’S UP”, OR “WYD” ... 76

AVOID THE “HOW WAS YOUR DAY” AND OTHER BORING STUFF .. 77

AVOID USING COMPLIMENTS AND FLATTERY TO GET APPROVAL . 78

AVOID BEING TOO AGREEABLE JUST TO GET APPROVAL ............... 79

LEARN THE BASICS OF SPELLING AND GRAMMAR .......................... 80

EASY ON THE EMOTICONS (EMOJIS) ............................................... 81

YOU DON’T NEED TO SAY “LOL” AND “HAHA” TO EVERYTHING .... 82

YOU DON’T NEED TO USE A BUNCH OF “!” ..................................... 83

SHE DOESN’T CARE TO SEE A PIC OF EVERYWHERE YOU GO ......... 84

DON’T SEND SELFIES........................................................................ 85

SENDING PICS OF YOUR JUNK IS RISKY BUSINESS ........................... 86

DON’T FREAK OUT IF SHE DOESN’T TEXT BACK RIGHT AWAY ........ 87

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PART 4: EARNING COOL POINTS ........................................... 89

STAY RELAXED ABOUT EVERYTHING ............................................... 90

BE BRUTALLY HONEST ..................................................................... 91

START TEXTS IN A FUN WAY ............................................................ 92

RESPOND TO HER TEXTS IN A FUN WAY ......................................... 94

SPELL WORDS THE WAY THEY SOUND ............................................ 95

USE EMOTICONS THAT RESEMBLE YOUR ATTITUDE AND FACES ... 96

USE EMOTICONS TO BE FUNNY....................................................... 97

COMPLIMENT HER ON SOMETHING SHE ACTUALLY CARES ABOUT98

SHOW HER YOU’RE INTERESTED IN WHAT SHE’S SAYING ............ 100

GIVE HER A NICKNAME ................................................................. 101

ACCUSE HER OF FLIRTING WITH YOU ........................................... 103

TELL HER HOW MUCH SHE LIKES YOU .......................................... 104

“IT’S THE GUY YOU HAVE A HUGE CRUSH ON” ............................. 105

CONSTANTLY QUALIFY HER ........................................................... 106

CONSTANTLY CHALLENGE HER ...................................................... 107

COMMUNICATE YOU’RE NOT EASY TO GET .................................. 108

“WHEN ARE YOU TAKING ME OUT?” ............................................ 109

TELL HER SHE’S BEING WEIRD ....................................................... 110

GIVE HER COOL POINTS ................................................................. 111

TAKE COOL POINTS AWAY ............................................................. 112

BE THE MOST CHILL GUY SHE’S EVER MET ................................... 113

USE CALLBACK HUMOR ................................................................. 114

USE FUNNY MEMES, IMAGES, GIFS ............................................... 116

CREATE FUNNY AND FUN SCENARIOS .......................................... 118

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TEASE HER ABOUT SOMETHING SHE TOLD YOU ........................... 119

PART 5: HOW TO INCREASE THE ATTRACTION ................... 120

BE DIRECT ...................................................................................... 121

BE DECISIVE ................................................................................... 122

BE PATIENT .................................................................................... 123

FLIRT .............................................................................................. 124

BE FUNNY ...................................................................................... 125

COMMUNICATE YOU’RE BUSY AND HAVE A LIFE ......................... 126

COMMUNICATE HIGH STATUS WITH YOUR TIMING .................... 127

STOP CHECKING YOUR PHONE AND RELAX .................................. 128

IT’S OK TO TAKE YOUR TIME WHEN REPLYING ............................. 129

BE BALLSY AND UNAFRAID OF HER ............................................... 130

STOP CARING WHAT SHE THINKS.................................................. 131

TELL HER SLIGHTLY LESS THAN WHAT SHE’S TELLING YOU .......... 132

BE A GREAT LISTENER .................................................................... 133

END THE TEXTING CONVERSATION ON A HIGH NOTE .................. 134

PART 6: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FIRST START TEXTING HER135

DON’T FOLLOW THE “3 DAY RULE” ............................................... 136

SEND A QUICK TEXT RIGHT AFTER GETTING HER NUMBER .......... 137

DON’T TAKE TOO LONG TO TEXT OR SHE’LL FORGET ABOUT YOU138

MENTION YOUR NAME AGAIN IN CASE SHE FORGETS ................. 139

TELL HER IT WAS NICE MEETING HER ........................................... 140

ASK HER HOW THE REST OF HER DAY OR NIGHT WENT ............... 141

USE CALLBACK CONTEXT ............................................................... 142

GET TO THE POINT......................................................................... 143

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GET THE DATE ASAP ...................................................................... 144

“WHAT’S YOUR SCHEDULE LOOKING LIKE THIS WEEKEND?” ....... 145

INVITE HER TO MEET YOU ............................................................. 146

“YOU SHOULD”, “WE SHOULD”, “LET’S”, AND “COME WITH ME” 147

DON’T MAKE IT SEEM AS IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO DO ............. 148

AVOID LAST MINUTE INVITATIONS ............................................... 149

WHAT TO DO IF SHE DOESN’T TEXT BACK .................................... 150

CONCLUSION: STICK TO WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED AND

EXPERIMENT ....................................................................... 152

AVOID TRYING TO BE PERFECT ...................................................... 153

DON’T BE AFRAID TO EXPERIMENT AND TRY NEW THINGS ......... 154

DON’T TRY TO REINVENT THE WHEEL EITHER .............................. 155

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MY PERSONAL LETTER TO YOU

Hey it’s Marc Summers,

Thanks for purchasing Texting Titan and becoming one of the thousands

of men who have changed their dating “luck” with women using one of

my products.

Texting is such a huge part of the way we communicate with women

today and it’s very important to, not only, know how to do it well, but to

also understand the very important and real psychology behind it - and

how it’s shaping her perception of you.

Through your texting habits, you’re unknowingly telling her what she

should think of you, before she even knows the real you, and you have

less control over the impression you’re making because texting simply

isn’t the same as being face to face with her.

Very unfair and very easy to accidentally screw it up.

I’m pretty sure you’re a good guy and since I know it can be tough to

communicate who you are and what you’re about through texting, I’ve

put together this book to help you better understand your texting habits

and how they can either help you with the women you like or make

things worse.

Who knew that such a simple thing, like typing a little message to

someone on your phone, could have so much complexity, psychology,

and strategy behind it?

Who knew it could have such an impact on how much attraction she’s

feeling for you in such a short amount of time?

Like many things in life, the simple things are usually easy to mess up and

there’s a lot more going on behind the scenes than what you’re aware of.

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This book is to help you better understand the complexity and

psychology behind texting, and to help you develop a better strategy and

game plan.

Only morons fail to plan what they’re going to do and the smartest

people I know plan EVERYTHING, no matter how small, and even if it only

takes 10 seconds to do in their head.

They don’t take action without having some sort of idea about what

they’re doing.

Follow what you learn in this book, compare it to your experience, and

form your own opinion about it because I want you to have as much

success as humanly possible while you’re texting and I want to help you

minimize your chances of messing it all up.

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INTRODUCTION: TEXTING IS A LOT MORE

THAN JUST TYPING

STUFF INTO YOUR

PHONE

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TEXTING LANGUAGE & PATTERNS

It’s almost incomprehensible how, we as humans, can take a new and

fairly complex technology or way of doing something, simplify/dumb it

down to the point where even a toddler can understand it, and then,

over a very short period of time, integrate it so deeply into our culture

and society that it takes on a life of its own and develops its own

language and patterns - a language and pattern that is only seen and

understood by those who use it A LOT.

Now, more than ever, many businesses (and people) are getting left

behind, technologically, because they aren’t fast enough or disciplined

enough to continually implement our ever-changing technological

advancements into their businesses and lives – which simply means that

they aren’t learning the new technology and new ways of doing things

and then using what they learn to stay relevant in today’s culture and

society.

If you’re not making an effort to learn and implement everything that’s

changing around you, then you won’t be able to keep your head above

water and you will get left behind.

Nokia, once the #1 cell phone maker in the world, is now irrelevant for

refusing to adapt to the new “language” and patterns of the smartphone

revolution - and now it’s too late for them. All they had to do was be

flexible and since they weren’t, entire economies collapsed and millions

of people lost their jobs. It was a VERY big deal.

Texting has been headed in the same direction for the last 10 years.

We’ve simplified it to the point where a toddler can understand and do it,

and yet at the same time, grown adults, like you and me, are screwing it

up and looking like morons because we’re not seeing and understanding

these new languages and patterns.

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When we’re communicating with someone who naturally “gets” texting

and it’s become second nature to them, we look like idiots if we’re not on

the same page.

Here’s how it works – the more you text, the more your brain begins to

shift, and the more you “get it”. You begin to notice, recognize, and

understand the language and patterns of texting.

By the time you get done with this book, you’ll have a much better

understanding of the modern language and patterns of texting, it will all

make a lot more sense, and you’ll be a lot more flexible about it.

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TEXTING IN THE OLD DAYS WAS EASIER

Since I wasn’t spoiled by my parents and I had to work for many of the

things I’ve had since I was 11 years old, literally, I didn’t get my first cell

phone until I was 18 and living on my own.

That was when texting was a new form of communication, I had my

indestructible Nokia 8210, and I had to push keys several times to get the

letters I wanted.

Since it wasn’t a smartphone and the number of characters was limited,

the messages had to be shorter, quicker, simpler, and to the point.

No difficulty behind it.

Instead of, “Heyyy… I’m at the store buying a bunch of food! ”, it was,

“@ the store. Call u later.”

Much easier, no thinking involved, and everyone was limited to the same

rules and amount of characters.

But now? Holy shit, forget about it.

You can say as much as you want in your texts and now we’re playing a

completely different sport, on a different field, on a different planet.

Now you can be more creative, natural in your language, and you can

screw yourself over even easier!

That’s why I miss my Nokia 8210.

Simpler times, no thinking, no hassle, no looking like a dumbass, and you

weren’t judged for using spelling like, “U” and “Str8”.

The challenge was figuring out how to say as much as possible while

using as little characters as possible.

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We didn’t have “unlimited” messages on our cell phone plans and the

real goal was making each and every single message count!

You know how we made it easier?

We actually used to pick up the phone and call each other!

Women would call and say, “Hey, I’m almost out of messages. What’s

up?”

Not today.

Not anymore.

The good ol’ days are over.

The simpler times are gone.

I don’t even know why we call them smart “phones” anymore. They

should just be called “texting devices” because that’s what they’re mostly

used for.

Now people think you’re nuts if you actually call them because our

messages are no longer limited, our characters are no longer limited, and

we’re lazier than ever before. Picking up the phone and calling each other

is now considered “old school” -and that was only a few years ago!

That’s how fast texting has evolved and changed!

And now if you say “U” and “No thx. Alrdy 8 food”, women act like you’re

half-retarded or you think you’re a gangster or something.

Times have changed very, very fast and it’s only going to keep changing.

The old ways of texting are gone, unless you have an antique cell phone

like my Nokia, and they’re not coming back.

It’s time to learn how to adapt to the new ways of doing things.

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THIS IS WHAT I’VE LEARNED FROM TEXTING A LOT OF WOMEN

Everything in this book is what I’ve learned through my experience from

texting hundreds of, AND maybe even over a thousand, women.

I don’t keep track.

I’m just positive that it’s a lot of women because I kind of went crazy and

overboard with it, like I do many things, because I naturally tend to

develop addictions to things that are a little more complex and worth

figuring out.

I didn’t learn about texting women from reading a bunch of articles and

watching a bunch of videos and then, all of a sudden, thinking I knew

enough to write a book about it.

This is stuff I’ve learned from texting women for 14 years (20 years if you

count the Yahoo! Chat Rooms – which was the Facebook of the day).

I recognized the patterns and learned the language of texting very early

on and, once you learn it, you don’t forget it and it doesn’t change much.

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THIS IS WHAT CONSISTENTLY WORKS FOR ME

Everything I put in this book is what works for me on a consistent basis

and I rarely, if ever, deviate from it.

I’ve done it so much that it’s practically second nature and it’s taken me a

lot of time to think about it and finally be able to explain in a way that

makes sense to you.

Like I said, it’s what consistently works for ME and I believe this book will

make it work for you too.

I’m not guaranteeing that every single little thing in this book is going to

work for you because it’s probably not. I believe a lot of it depends

heavily on your personality and the way you naturally interact with

others.

BUT, if you follow the stuff you’ll learn in this book when you’re texting

the women you like, then I’m sure a lot of it will work consistently for you

as well.

Try everything out at least 3 times before you make a determination and

then once you’ve done it enough times, take what works, make it your

own, and then throw the stuff out that doesn’t work for you.

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I PURPOSELY AVOID THE “NICE GUY” AND “WUSS” APPROACH

The reason I’m teaching you what I’ve learned from experience and not

what I’ve seen in articles and videos is because, just like a lot of dating

books out there, the person teaching it takes the “nice guy” and “wuss”

approach because they want to be politically correct and they’re afraid of

offending their viewers and readers.

I read and watch some of this stuff and I’m like, “There’s no way in hell I’d

ever do something like that!” because I have enough experience with

women to know I’d be committing dating suicide by following the “nice

guy” stuff they’re teaching.

I don’t care one bit about being politically correct and I could care less

about your feelings if I’m telling you the truth about how things really are

and how women really are.

So, that being said, nothing in this book is the “nice guy”, “wuss”, or “girly

man” approach. Everything I’m sharing with you is about being authentic,

honest, unafraid of rejection, and not caring what she thinks.

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I’VE LEARNED TEXTING IS A MENTAL GAME – LIKE CHESS

The reason it’s important to understand the language and patterns of

texting is because it’s like a game of chess – and only the good players

win.

It’s necessary to watch her moves, anticipate her moves, recognize

patterns, and understand her mindset while she’s playing this “game”

with you.

At the end of the day, if you really know what you’re doing when you’re

texting women, it’s just a game.

There’s rules, winners, and losers and there’s nothing you can do to

change the reality of it.

All you can do is be flexible, adapt to it, and overcome any crybaby “it’s

not fair” attitudes that you have going on within your mind.

Just like chess, the more time you spend playing the game of texting, the

better you’re going to get, the easier it’ll get, and the more skilled you’ll

get at noticing and anticipating what the person on the other side is up

to, thinking, and about to do.

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THERE’S REAL PSYCHOLOGY AND STRATEGY BEHIND EVERY TEXT

When you’re watching patterns, deciphering the texting language,

watching her moves, making educated guesses on what she’s thinking,

and then planning what the right thing is to say and how to respond, it’s

called strategizing - and smart strategizing is understanding basic human

psychology and making your moves based off of what you already know

about how most women think and behave - what makes her tick, what

mood she’s in, what events are influencing her mood, how she’ll react to

certain things you say and why, what she’s thinking now, what she’ll be

thinking if you send her a certain text, etc.

Don’t let this stuff scare you or freak you out. I’m just laying out the

picture so you can have a guide when you’re piecing together the puzzle

in your mind.

Every single little text you send and receive, no matter how short or

small, can be analyzed and seen as a direct reflection of the state of mind

of the person sending it.

There is ALWAYS something happening, bigger than just the words, in our

mind when we send and receive texts.

Even women who are considered “dumb” by society can turn into

freakin’ rocket scientists when they’re texting and they know exactly

what they’re doing, how to get under your skin, and how to push your

buttons.

I’ve seen it happen so many times and it’s mind-blowing!

I’ve even seen women who can text on a smartphone without looking at

the screen! They’re savages!

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Don’t EVER underestimate the power of the psychology behind the text

messages you’re getting but, at the same time, don’t let them scare or

intimidate you.

Just learn to respect texting and not to drop your guard.

You can be owned by her so fast that you won’t even know what

happened and she’ll be off texting some other dude and completely

forgetting about you because you don’t “get” what she’s really saying in

her texts.

You don’t have to be “smart” to understand the language and patterns

behind texting – you just have to pay attention and watch. Again, it’s

more than just words.

Women use REAL strategy when they text and they think out

EVERYTHING they’re sending before they hit “send”. Even within

milliseconds, she processes the scenario, the outcome, what you’re

thinking, what you WILL be thinking, and what response you’ll have to

her text.

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THERE’S A PROBLEM IF YOU TEXT MORE THAN YOU TALK

I’ve said it a bunch of times and I’m going to keep saying it – cell phones

are helping us become connected more than ever while, at the same

time, causing us to become more disconnected than ever.

We’re losing our genuine human interactions and it’s really sad.

Instead of picking up the phone to hear someone’s voice and having a

somewhat genuine and authentic interaction with them, we’re sacrificing

our bond with them for the unbeneficial convenience of typing our

message on a little screen that takes the humanity out of our relationship

with them.

We’re too lazy to pick up the phone and call people or talk to them in

person.

Once again, truly sad.

If you are texting women more than you call them or hang out with them

in person, you’re in trouble and you’re not going to have the success you

truly want.

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TEXTING SHOULDN’T REPLACE REAL INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN

I’m a fairly simple guy and, even I, find our disappearing intimacy with

our friends, family, and women terribly disappointing. Texting was never

meant to replace our in-person interactions with people. It was only

meant to be a quicker and lighter form of communication - and we’ve

overdone it and driven it into the ground.

We’re so into ourselves and our images that we can’t even spare a few

minutes of our time to stop what we’re doing and talk to her on the

phone or in person.

Texting shouldn’t replace the dating process and your interactions with

her.

It’s only a tool for quick communication with her – like inviting her to

hang out, to call you on the phone, or to meet you somewhere, and THAT

IS IT.

If you’re using it for more, you’re not only taking the chance of messing

things up, but you’re also minimizing your chances of success with her.

Even when women text me, I keep it short or I call them.

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KNOW THE GOAL OF TEXTING – SHE’S NOT YOUR PEN PAL

Like I said, you should be using texting as a tool to reach a goal.

- It’s not to communicate with her because you’re lazy

- It’s not to communicate with her because you’re too much of a wuss to

talk to her on the phone or invite her out

- It’s not to text her and say, “I’m super bored. Nothing to do.”

The guys who are really good with women and really good at texting use

it as a tool to reach a goal.

If they want to talk to her for a few minutes on the phone, they might

send her a quick text to let her know they’ll be calling in a minute and to

make sure she’s not busy. They’ll also send her a quick text to let her

know how far away they are in case they’re going out.

They don’t use texting to get to know her or to impress her with words.

That stuff is for the “nice guys”, “wussies”, and the rookies.

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TO GET BETTER, YOU NEED LOTS OF PRACTICE TEXTING WOMEN

If you already have a lot of experience texting women, that’s awesome!

Good for you.

But if you have a lot of experience and still have no freakin’ clue what

you’re doing and aren’t getting the results you want, then you have the

wrong type of experience and you’ve been consistent in doing the wrong

things while hoping that “one day” it will work on the “right girl”. If it

doesn’t work with most women, then drop it and find something that

does.

You need lots of practice with the stuff that actually works – like what

you’re learning in this book. Otherwise, you’re pissing in the wind and

wasting time.

Once you learn what’s in this book, get A LOT of practice with many

different women – and it’s OK if you mess it all up because it’s only

practice.

Practice getting phone numbers and texting, keep it simple, and then do

it over and over and over until you develop confidence and start to “get

it”. You can’t overdo it with practice. The more, the better.

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PART 1: UNDERSTANDING HER

MINDSET WHILE

TEXTING YOU

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YOU’RE PROBABLY NOT THE ONLY GUY SHE’S TEXTING

“I’m not the only guy she’s texting?

What?

No way!

Women are perfect angels, they don’t fart, they don’t poop, and they

always taste like cupcakes and donuts when you lick them!”

Hey! Snap out of it…

Let me rewind, some girls DO taste like donuts and cupcakes, that’s true

. Mmmmm….

Let’s come back to reality here and get you out of La-La-Land for a while.

The cold, hard truth is that when you meet her and get her phone

number, there is an extremely high, like 95% chance, that she’s already

texting and even sleeping with other guys.

Wish I could deliver better news to you, like pizza, but sadly this is how it

really is much of the time.

This is something you’re going to have to get over pretty quickly if you

want more success with women.

Curling up in the fetal position and crying about it isn’t going to change

anything.

We’re in 2016 and if we had cell phones in the 60’s, the same thing would

probably have happened.

It’s human nature and, like I said, we are more connected than ever, we

have more options that are easily accessible, and that means she’s, very

likely, chatting it up with more dudes than just you.

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NEVER make the mistake of thinking you’re insanely special and you’re

the only guy she’s texting.

That unrealistic mindset will leave you disappointed.

You’re doing yourself a HUGE injustice if you think you’re the only guy

that every woman you text is talking to.

Being naive doesn’t get you far in today’s society and it’s not going to get

you far with texting.

When you meet her, no matter how much you like her, and even if you

think her farts probably sound like Mariah Carey’s voice and butterflies

show up every time she burps, accept that she’s probably texting other

guys and you’re going to have to compete with those guys.

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SHE’S BIASED ON WHO YOU ARE AND HOW SHE KNOWS YOU

Something else you need to be aware of, because it will come into play

when you start texting her, is you’re not automatically at the top of her

list just because she gave you her number and now you’re exchanging

messages.

Her priority list goes mostly like this:

1. Family & best friends.

2. Guys she’s insanely attracted to / cool ex-boyfriends

3. Guys she thinks are cute / cool ex-boyfriends

4. Girls / guys that are acquaintances

5. Guys she just met/barely knows/isn’t sure of yet

6. Friend zoned guys who will NEVER have her

If you’re lucky, you’re at #2 or #3, but most of the time, and it even

happens to me, we get stuck at #5 and have to work our way up from

there.

Bummer, man.

I’m your friend so I’m gonna keep it real here, bud.

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HER ATTENTION SPAN IS SHORTER THAN YOUR...

Since she’s texting all these dudes, her brain is going to adapt to getting

quick results when texting.

That means the more she texts, the shorter her attention span will be,

and the less patience she has to either wait on you or for you to “get”

how texting works.

She doesn’t have the time or desire to have long and drawn out text

conversations with you and she also doesn’t want to hold your hand and

tell you what you’re doing wrong.

She wants you to “get it”, make her feel emotions (more on that later),

and help her to have a good time when she’s texting you.

The more you do something, the faster you get at it, and the less

patience you have for people who aren’t as quick - doesn’t that sound

about right? Think about your job or something you’re really good at.

It’s just the way the human mind works and it’s useful to remember this

when you’re texting her.

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SHE CAN BE MOODY AND PICKY ABOUT HOW OFTEN SHE TEXTS

She’s not always going to be in the mood to text because she’s a woman -

and women are known to be moody and unpredictable at times.

Sometimes she’ll text you back right away if she’s feeling pretty good and

other times she’ll get back to you when she’s feeling it.

It doesn’t necessarily mean you did anything wrong.

I even have my own moods where a girl that is smoking-hot will text and

I’ll think, “Eh, I’ll get back to her later.”

The exception to this rule is, and I’ve seen this happen a lot, is if she’s

feeling A LOT of attraction for you and she’ll do almost anything to be

with you, including eating a newborn puppy, then pretty much nothing

will stand in the way of her texting you back when you text her.

She can be laying in the middle of the street with a broken leg because

she just got smashed by a car, bone sticking out and everything, and

she’ll text you back like, “Heyyy! Nothing much just laying around

outside! ”

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SHE KNOWS THE GAME AND UNDERSTANDS HOW IT WORKS

If you’ve read any of my other books like How to Quit Being a Loser With

Women, How Attracting Women Really Works, 99 Bad Boy Traits, Bad

Boy vs. Nice Guy, or 72 Ways to Get Your Girlfriend Back, then you

learned a lot of the psychological strategies behind attracting the women

you want and it’s probably helped you out big time in your dating life.

Many, but not all, women intuitively know this stuff and it’s second

nature to them because they’re either really smart and naturally

understand the way our minds work or they’ve learned it from

recognizing behavior patterns in their experience with men.

Whatever the case, keep in mind that, more than likely, she’s not stupid

and can see everything happening, what you’re trying to do, and even

what you’re going to do next. Even the dumb women are wicked smart!

She’s been there, done that, and “seent” it! So it’s not smart to try to

bullshit her in any way and to think you’re being “slick” because many

women are 5 steps ahead.

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SOMETIMES SHE LIKES TO APPEAR BUSY – EVEN IF SHE’S NOT

So because she knows “the game” and the psychology behind being more

attractive, she’s going to appear as if she has a great and busy life.

She’s going to play it up the same way you would and make it look like

she’s a busy, fun, and energetic intellectual who has things happening in

her life – even if it’s just a façade so you don’t think she’s a loser.

There will be times when it’s a good time to text, but she knows she can

increase the attraction you’re feeling for her if she appears to be busy

and texts you back at a later time.

She knows if she makes you wait, you’re more likely to think about her

more and grow increasingly anxious to talk to her.

Forget the stereotypes – women can be calculating, intuitive, and

intelligent in ways that our minds, as men, can’t comprehend or

understand.

Keep this in mind as well when you’re texting her.

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SIGNS SHE’S INTERESTED IN YOU AND/OR FEELING ATTRACTION

It’s not always easy to read where you stand with her through text – but

sometimes it is.

Keep in mind every woman is different but a lot of them have the same

texting habits.

Let’s start with the obvious.

When she likes you, she’ll:

- Text back faster

- Text more often

- Send longer texts

- Be more playful and lively in her texts. She almost can’t help it because

her emotions are in control, guiding her, and causing her to feel “giddy”

about you.

- Say things like, “Heyyyy” and other affectionate or endearing terms. All

those “y”s are usually a good sign that she’s happy to be texting you!

- Use a lot of exclamation marks and emoticons in a happy way because it

reflects her mood.

When she doesn’t like you or isn’t sure yet, she’ll:

- Take longer to text back

- Text less often

- Send shorter texts

- Not very playful

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- Use emoticons in place of words. You can send her a message about

how much you like her, which I strongly advise against doing, and she’ll

just send back a message with 5 thumbs up emoticons or 5 smiley faces –

but she won’t actually type anything to you. That’s her thinking, “I wish

he didn’t say that and I’m not going to say anything to lead him on but

I’m also not going to be a complete asshole. So I’ll just send him these

emoticons. I don’t know what the hell he wants me to say to that!”

I know a lot of hot women and I see their faces, I hear their words, and

they literally TELL ME what they’re thinking when they don’t like a guy or

he texts something incredibly weird or stupid. They’ll often say stuff like,

“Oh my God. He did not just text me that…”

To know where you stand, pay attention to this stuff!

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SHE WANTS TO FEEL EMOTIONS WHEN TEXTING OR IT’S POINTLESS

If you’re just plain boring when you’re texting her, she’s going to cut it off

real quick, stop replying to your texts, and maybe even delete your phone

number.

You CAN NOT be boring. It’s better to not text her at all than to be

boring!

Seriously!

You’ll earn more cool points with her if she doesn’t hear from you and

she’s wondering about you than if you text her and you’re painfully

boring and predictable.

Once again, it’s a good reason why I recommend only using text to reach

a goal – like inviting her to meet up with you and avoid using it to have

long conversations.

It’s better to be boring in person than it is over texting.

Just like in person, and from what you’ll learn in my other books, she

unconsciously and naturally wants to feel emotions and then associate

those emotions with you. If you’re able to do this through texting, then

that’s awesome. If not, you’re risking losing the attraction.

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REASONS SHE MAY NOT TEXT BACK

Women not texting back is the most common problem we face as men

and it totally sucks when it happens.

I wrote this article a while back, that has now gone viral, called 21 REAL

Reasons She Won’t Call or Text Back and in it, I explain 21 reasons she

won’t get back to you.

Let’s lay them out right here.

- Things have changed in her life with family, kids, drama, job, death, loss

of a friendship, etc. It’s going to take her mind away from texting you.

- She’s ACTUALLY busy and completely swamped with work. I myself

understand this one completely!

- She gave you her number because she wanted to be nice and didn’t

want to seem like an asshole. Some women are passive and don’t have

the balls (or vagina) to tell you no to your face. So she’ll give you her

number, and then ignore you.

- You’re boring her to death. Remember what we JUST talked about?

- She’s no longer interested.

- She wasn’t THAT interested in the first place but took a chance on you

and you turned out to be a flop.

- She’s ignoring you on purpose because she can and she doesn’t feel like

texting you.

- She’s just an asshole who lacks courtesy for your feelings. This happens.

No big deal. Move on with your life. She’ll meet a guy who’s just like

herself and they’ll be happily miserable and you’ll be glad you didn’t

make it far with her.

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- You’re not the only guy she talks to and the other guys might be more

interesting than you.

- She believes you’re only friend zone material and you have dropped to

the bottom of her list. You did it to yourself for wanting to be the nicest

guy of them all.

- You’re the same as all the other guys she meets.

- You act too nice, needy, and desperate.

- You were inappropriate, offensive, or rude.

- You text her way too often.

- Your texts are way too long and it freaks her out.

- You kiss her ass and compliment her way too much and she finds it

annoying. As you’ll learn in, pretty much, ALL of my other books,

overdoing it with the compliments and kissing her ass will send her

running for the hills. Deep down, even though it’s flattering, she finds it

“icky” and repulsive. She just wants you to be cool.

- You got serious too fast. She wants to take it slow and especially if she

doesn’t know you! She’s not looking to get married tomorrow and if she

is, running away would be smart because she might have a screw loose

for wanting to marry a guy she doesn’t know.

- You’re being too open with her and it’s making you look boring, lame, or

weird. Mystery is a big element of attraction and if you’re not using it,

she’s going to notice and find it weird that you’re telling her too much

too soon.

- You’re being too silly, cheesy, or sending too many emoticons. It’s ok to

be funny while texting. But it’s not ok to be a clown who can never be

serious.

- What you’re saying seems too good to be true.

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- You’re coming off as too smooth or too cool. If you’re just too

unbelievable and you seem like you’re full of crap, of course, she’s not

going to text you back.

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PART 2: GENERAL

TEXTING RULES THAT

WORK WELL WHEN YOU

FOLLOW THEM

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KEEP TEXTING TO A MINIMUM

As I said before, if you’re texting her more than you’re actually talking to

her on the phone or hanging out with her, then you’re being imbalanced,

there’s a problem, and you’re destroying your chances of success with

her.

Texting is ONLY to be used as a tool to reach a goal – like getting her to

meet you somewhere, have lunch or dinner with you, or just to hang out.

So that being said, you should not be texting her more than actually

talking to her or seeing her.

I know that you can argue that many people today use texting as their

main form of communication but I’m telling you right now, those people

you’re talking about don’t have a real social life, aren’t successful with

women, and probably feel depressed and lonely as hell.

Stick to the old ways of doing things.

Text as little as you have to and have the balls to pick up the phone and

call her.

You’ll definitely stand out because most guys today are too afraid of

“inconveniencing” her by calling her. But not you.

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YOUR TEXTS SHOULD ALWAYS SERVE A PURPOSE

- Don’t just text her to see what she’s doing

- Don’t just text her to see how her day is going

- Don’t just text her to tell her you’re bored

- Don’t just text her to keep tabs on her

Have a purpose for your text.

Purpose: Invite her out – send her quick text.

Purpose: Make sure she’s still on to meet up – send quick text.

Purpose: See if she’s free this weekend – send quick text.

Purpose: Tell her to come over – send quick text.

Purpose: Find out what time she gets out of work – send quick text.

See the pattern? Texting is a way of communicating to handle the quick

and small things but you have to have a purpose behind texting her or

you’re just wasting her time and your time.

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AVOID OVERTHINKING WHAT YOU’RE GOING TO TEXT

If you overthink it, you’re either going to chicken out or you’re going to

text her something that’ll make her think, “WTF?”

Do you overthink things when you’re talking to your friends and family?

Probably not. You’re probably pretty laid back about it.

You should do the same with texting.

Just keep it normal, light, and casual.

- It doesn’t have to be perfect.

- It doesn’t have to be impressive.

- It doesn’t have to be so different that you stand out.

Just be a normal guy and don’t worry about trying to stand out.

The harder you try, the weirder the text will come out and the more likely

it’ll be that she doesn’t want to text you back. It will just be a disaster.

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BUT ALSO AVOID UNDERTHINKING YOUR TEXTS

I said not to overthink your texts but I didn’t say not to think about them

at all.

When you’re not thinking about what you’re going to text, it ends with

you pressing the “send” button and thinking, “No! Why the hell did I just

say that? She’s going to think I’m such a dumbass!”

Then you get all paranoid, you send texts to try and fix it, and you

completely screw the whole thing up.

Think about what you’re going to say and if you just aren’t sure what to

say, don’t text anything.

Just wait a few minutes until you’re thinking clearly and you’re confident

that what you’re going to say isn’t weird, needy, or stupid.

It’s ok to leave her hanging for a little bit while you formulate your

thoughts.

It’s much better to take your time when texting than to get excited, reply

too fast, and then regret whatever it is that you just said.

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TRY TO MIRROR THE LENGTH OF HER TEXTS

Expert communicators mirror the actions, words, and body language of

the person they want to like them and approve of them. It works! Too

many dissimilarities and the other person feels an immediate disconnect.

I’ve realized, and I’m probably not the first person to notice this, that it

works the same way when you’re texting her. If she texts 10 – 15 words

and you send her 78 words in return, there will be an immediate

disconnect. She’s won’t feel you and her are “vibing” and experiencing

the mental synchronization that happens when two people “hit it off”. It

will also be noticeable that you’re into her WAY MORE than she’s into

you - and it kills the attraction almost immediately.

If she texts one or two sentences, try to mirror it by sending the same

amount in return. It doesn’t have to be perfect, just visually similar. If

she’s a little more open and uses more sentences than what you normally

see, then she’s going to close up and think you’re not very interested if

you don’t try to mirror her text, and instead, you’re too short and too

brief with your reply.

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TRY TO MIRROR HER TIMING

Again, it doesn’t have to be perfect, but try to keep your timing when

texting her similar to hers without being too extreme. If she takes 5

minutes to reply and you reply within 10 seconds every single time your

phone pings, she’s going to think you’re literally staring at your phone

and too excited to be texting her. Very creepy and weird to her. But it’s

not creepy if she takes 5 minutes to reply and you take 4 -7 minutes to

reply. Now, it’s better. It’s ok if she has to wait on you a little bit at a time

because she’s thinking about you and waiting on you – which is what you

want because it puts the ball in your court.

If she’s texting back every 30 seconds, try to text back within 40 – 60

seconds. Keep it matching. Not too fast and not too slow or it will kill the

momentum.

If she takes 24 hours to reply and she makes you wait, then make her

wait by taking a similar amount of time. If she says she was busy, then

that’s your reason too.

Women unconsciously notice the non-verbal signals of commonalities

between you and her and they like it. It makes you easier to

communicate with and the easier you are to talk to and text with, the

more stable and “normal” you appear to be.

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REMAIN EMOTIONALLY DETACHED

This is a huge problem that TOO MANY of us struggle with.

We like the girl so much or we think that she’s so awesome that we start

to get emotionally invested in our text message conversations.

It’s a TRAP!

Not a trap set by her, but a trap set by the part of your brain that is foggy

and not being smart.

Emotions cloud your judgment, cause you to get excited, and to say and

text things that you wouldn’t normally say and text.

Things that, 5 years from now, will keep you awake because you’re

thinking, “Why in the hell did I text her that!? I’m such a jackass!”

Control your emotions and keep yourself together when texting her. If

you’re flooded with emotions or you feel them coming up, either turn

your phone off and let it wait until you’re feeling calmer or have enough

self-discipline and self-control to recognize what’s happening and refrain

from texting her at that moment.

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NEVER GET TOO EXCITED

The reason it’s important to remain emotionally detached from your text

message conversations is because you have less self-control when you’re

getting emotional and too excited.

Out of all the women I’ve dated, texted, and met, I pretty much screwed

it up EVERY SINGLE TIME when I allowed myself to get too excited and I

didn’t put myself in check.

VERY BAD THINGS HAPPEN when you get too excited and decide to keep

texting her.

You have to tell yourself, “Calm down dumbass and don’t you dare text

her that!”

Try to put yourself in her shoes and how silly she must think you’ll look if

you text her something “crazy” because you’re too giddy, excited, and

emotional.

You are an adult. Keep your excitement at bay.

It’s ok to get excited and there’s nothing wrong with it – but it’s critical to

understand the bad and embarrassing things that can, and will, inevitably

happen if you make decisions in the middle of that excitement.

Only text her when you are calm and collected.

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NEVER PLACE EXPECTATIONS ON THE OUTCOME

Another huge mistake we make is we place an outcome in our mind

before we start texting her.

We already have the scenario played out in our mind and when it doesn’t

quite go the way we’ve been imagining it, we wind up disappointed, mad

at ourselves, and calling her names like, “That lesbian!”

It’s not her fault – it’s your fault for creating a movie in your head of how

you expected things to go.

Throw ALL expectations out of the window from the time you meet her

and don’t expect anything to go good or bad with her.

Just have the mindset of, “Whatever happens, happens. I’ll put my best

foot forward, do what I know is right, and if it goes my way, great! If not,

no big deal. I’ll live.”

Doesn’t that sound a lot smarter?

NEVER get into a texting conversation with an outcome in mind. You’re

setting yourself up for disappointment and you’ll wind up feeling like a

real loser at the end.

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DON’T OVER-ANALYZE HER TEXTS

Over-analyzing her texts will drive you nuts and cause you to completely

mess up or reply with the wrong thing when texting her.

Stop with the “What does that mean?” and “What does she really mean

by that?”

Look, man, I don’t pay too much attention to what anyone’s talking about

in text because they’re only words. I pay more attention to her actions

because actions tell me what I need to know and words are usually just a

reflection of what she is thinking, not doing.

If I don’t know what something means, I don’t analyze it. I’ll either reply

with “what?”, “I don’t get what you mean”, or I’ll ignore it and think, “I

have no clue what the hell that means and I don’t really care.”

Don’t spend too much time analyzing what she’s trying to say or what she

really means.

If you’re talking to a regular person, she’s probably going to be pretty

straightforward and if you can never understand what she’s talking

about, then you should probably tell her to stop texting and just meet up

with her to hang out already.

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NEVER USE TEXTING TO “GET TO KNOW” HER

The right way to get to know her is to meet up with her face to face and

if, for some reason, that can’t happen, then talking to her on the phone is

your next best bet.

But, even then, you don’t want to spend too much time on the phone

because you can easily talk yourself out of a date with her in person.

Avoid the “So do you have any brothers or sisters?” and “Do you have

any pets?” talk while you’re texting her.

An appropriate “get to know her” text would be, “You free tonight? Let’s

go have a drink.”

Get it?

Use texting as a tool to move her from one stage in your life to next.

Get her number → Quick text to let her know it was nice meeting her.

Want to go out with her → Quick text to invite her out.

Keep it simple.

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ASK HER ONE QUESTION AT A TIME

Now if you’re hard-headed and want to go against what you’re learning

OR she’s the one texting you and wanting to chat and you don’t have the

discipline to tell her, “Hey let’s meet up because I’m not huge on texting

this much”, then don’t bomb her with questions.

Ask her one good question at a time.

No serious questions either like, “How did you take it when your mom

died?”

That’s too heavy and a mood killer, man.

Don’t text her, “So where you from? You like it there? How long have you

lived here? You like it here?”

Easy, man.

Let her have some texting room.

Ask one question, put your phone down, give her time to respond, and if

she’s done talking about that particular question, then it’s probably ok to

ask her another.

But also, don’t overdo it with the questions.

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DON’T STAY STUCK ON OR KEEP GOING BACK TO ONE TOPIC

Guys who are good at talking to women, in general, don’t stay stuck on

any certain topic for too long.

They say, “Ah that’s cool” and then they either branch off to something

related based on something she just said or they change the topic

completely.

They don’t sit there and beat the subject to death by focusing all the

questions on one topic.

Aaron Marino of Alpha M. puts it in a way that I like, and maybe he heard

it from someone else, I don’t know, but he says good conversations

should be like boxing – a little jab here, move around, a little jab there,

etc.

In boxing, if you stay in one spot, you’re going to get creamed. You’re

going to get your bell rung. You’re going to get your clock punched.

You have to move around and don’t stay in one spot for too long.

When talking to her, talk a little bit about this, a little about that, and

keep it flowing smoothly.

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AVOID LONG TEXT CONVERSATIONS

Long text conversations don’t get you to the Promised Land, multiply the

attraction she’s feeling for you, or lead her to believe you’re more of an

amazing man than she thought you were when she first met you.

If anything is practically guaranteed, it’s that long text conversations

increase your chances of her getting bored and finding you less attractive

or you developing crazy thoughts and beliefs that it’s totally “ok” to say

something very stupid and she’ll be fine with it.

Very rarely do long text conversations work out the way you think they

will.

That’s why it’s better just avoid them altogether and have long

conversations face to face.

Plus, long text conversations take the fun away from the date you could

be having with her because you’re sacrificing your face to face time with

her, where you could be building attraction, making her laugh, and

earning a lot of cool points, for something as lame as texting.

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TALK ABOUT THE IMPORTANT STUFF IN PERSON

Texting is not the right way to discuss the important and serious stuff.

It’s just plain immature, inappropriate, and disrespectful if you do.

Texting is for quick and light messaging, talking about stupid stuff, having

a laugh, acting silly, and just wasting time.

It’s not to tell her you won’t see her for a few weeks because your mom

just died.

Deep, important, and heavy stuff is meant to be discussed, at least, on

the phone or in person.

If you don’t, she’s going to think you’re immature, dumb, or you just

don’t take anything seriously. She’s going to think you don’t respect the

gravity of the situation.

Be smart.

The important stuff DOES NOT get talked about over text messaging.

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MINIMIZE YOUR WORDS WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE A ROBOT

I’m a pretty laid back and flexible guy and even I find it very irritating

when someone is texting me and they sound like a robot.

“At store. Call you soon.”

That’s “mom text” right there.

It’s so impersonal and cold that it’s a complete turnoff for the person

receiving it.

Maybe if you still have a Nokia 8210 because you’re incredibly old-school

and stuck in the early 2000’s, then maybe it’s understandable.

But other than that, it’s completely unacceptable and you’re digging your

own grave with her if you don’t know how to sound like a normal person.

Talk to her the way you would talk in person but at the same time, like

Rusty Ryan from Ocean’s Eleven says, don’t use 7 words when 4 will do.

As long as you don’t sound like a robot, it’s completely ok to use fewer

words to get your message across faster.

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KEEP YOUR TEXTS SHORT BUT NOT TOO SHORT

The same as the robot sounding texts – it’s very irritating when your texts

are way too short.

Her: “Hey wyd”

You: “Nothing”

Her: “How’s your day”

You: “Good”

Her: “Wyd tonight”

You: “Hangin w/ friends”

After a few of those, she’s going to think either you’re not interested,

dumb, rude, or really boring.

You don’t have to type paragraphs to her, but give her more than one-

word replies.

Her: “Hey wyd”

You: “Bout to cook some of this “shicken” that’s been clucking in my

fridge and calling my name. Yeeeah!”

Her: “Haha that’s funny. How’s your day been Mr. Chicken Man?”

You: “Good. Can’t complain. Still got my fingers and toes.”

Her: “I would hope so lol. Wyd tonight?”

You: “Going out with you.”

Her: “Haha, is that so?”

You: “Umm… yes I’m pretty sure of it”

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Her: “Lol. What do you have in mind?”

You: “Drinks @ Such and Such Bar.”

Her: “Trying to get me drunk?”

You: “Idk. You might get all weird and creepy .”

Her: “Haha I promise I won’t. Lol”

You: “Lol ok good. I’ll meet you there at 8. Show up or our friendship is

over! : p”

Her: “Lol. Ok. See you then.”

THIS is how my text conversations ALWAYS go. Confident, to the point,

not too serious, not too short, but also not too long.

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DON’T STRESS ABOUT GRAMMAR, PUNCTUATION, ETC

I stress a little bit about grammar, punctuation, etc. in my articles and my

books because I don’t want you thinking I’m a complete idiot but I’m not

so strict about it when I’m texting women.

If you’re Mr. Dictionary, she’s not going to think, “Omg! He’s so sexy

because he spells absolutely everything perfectly and he never makes

mistakes! Wow!”

She doesn’t care about you being perfect and if she does, you’re texting

the wrong woman.

She’s a nightmare waiting to ruin your life.

Run!

Look at the example I just gave you – that is how I text in real life. I don’t

use periods, I deliberately misspell words, and I don’t worry about being

perfect. I simply don’t care about perfection. It communicates that I’m

laid back and not too worried and uptight about what she thinks.

You will meet women who are perfectionists but it doesn’t mean you

should do the same to impress her.

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BUT ALSO MAKE AN EFFORT TO SPELL SOMEWHAT LIKE AN ADULT

At the same time, you’re not trying to be Mr. Perfect Speller, you also

don’t want to have such bad spelling that she thinks she’s texting a

kindergartener.

Make an effort to look somewhat smart.

You can pull up the dictionary app or website on your phone in seconds.

Use it.

Stupidity is not sexy.

It’s not nerdy or “square” to make an effort in spelling things correctly.

Reading books definitely helps you to spell better because the more you

read and the more words you see, the more your unconscious mind

stores them and serves them to you when you’re trying to remember

how to spell a word.

It just becomes SO MUCH easier.

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KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SPELLING OF SIMILAR WORDS

Dude, if you don’t know the difference between words, their meanings,

their spellings, and how they’re tied into your language and you screw

them up or get them confused, it can mean instant death of attraction –

unless she doesn’t know the difference herself.

Know the difference between Homophones (words and phrases that

sound the same but mean something different), Homonyms (words that

have the same spelling but mean something different), Heterography

(words that sound the same, are spelled differently, and have different

meanings), and Multinyms (words that sound the same but have more

than 2 different meanings and spellings). We jack these up ALL THE TIME

and smart women spot it from a mile away.

These are words like they’re, there, their, where, we’re, were, wear,

ware, effect, affect, than, then, to, too, two, your, you’re, by, buy, bye,

compliment, complement, brake, break, course, coarse, here, hear,

peace, piece, whole, hole, stare, stair, know, no, raise, rays, raze, etc.

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USE ACRONYMS & ABBREVIATIONS SPARINGLY

An Acronym is when you can make a word using the beginning letter of

many words.

WYD – what are you doing?

LOL – laugh out loud.

ROFL – rolling on the floor laughing.

ROMFFLMAO – rolling on the mother*cking floor laughing my ass off.

KMSL – killing myself laughing.

You get the point.

An abbreviation is when you can strip out vowels and consonants, lower

the amount of characters needed, and still be able to recognize what the

word is supposed to be.

Back when our most advanced phones were Nokia 8210’s and we were

limited to how much we could text, abbreviations and acronyms were a

little more necessary than they are now.

Now it’s just downright irritating when someone abbreviates way too

much.

“Hey I jst wntd to tl u I lk u alt & wndrng if we cn go out smtme.”

If you can’t read that, it is supposed to say, “Hey I just wanted to tell you I

like you a lot and wondering if we can go out sometime”.

Looks kind of insane and ridiculous doesn’t it?

And too many acronyms looks pretty insane as well: “Lolololol wtf

rotflmfao kmsl wyd 2 nite?”

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That ACTUALLY says something!

It says, “Laugh out loud (x4), what the f*ck, rolling on the floor laughing

my mother*cking ass off killing myself laughing what are you doing

tonight?”

Good grief… what just happened???

Knowing your abbreviations and the latest acronyms definitely earns you

cool points and it’s acceptable with a good friend because you can say a

lot, without texting a lot, and you save a lot of time. BUUUUUT, with a girl

you just met and you’re trying to sound somewhat intelligent, keep the

acronyms and abbreviations put away until you know it’s safe to use

them.

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YOUR PHOTOS SHOULD SERVE A PURPOSE

I often send pictures when I am texting friends and women but what I

don’t do is send those pictures for no reason at all.

Every picture should serve a purpose.

If I’m at the Grand Canyon or some other cliché place, I don’t tell people,

“Hey take a picture of me with this stupid rock thing!” and then proceed

to send the image to all my friends. I’m under the impression that no one

really gives a damn and it’s mainly because I, personally, could care less

when people send me pictures of where they’re at or what they’re doing.

Unless it’s something that is wicked cool or hilarious, I really don’t care to

get photos for no reason at all. It’s a waste of my time.

I know I’m not the only one who feels that way and you should keep this

in mind when sending pictures.

Every picture should serve a purpose – like a meme, showing her proof of

something, etc. DO NOT send pictures of you sitting on your motorcycle

or car hoping that she’ll be impressed. Lame and weak move.

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PART 3: HOW TO AVOID

LOOKING LIKE A

DUMBASS WHEN

TEXTING HER

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DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT LYING

Do you know why it’s really dumb to lie to her and especially through

texting?

Because she has PROOF that you lied!

In my other books and products, I tell you NOT to lie to women because

you look like an idiot and you’ll eventually get caught but with texting,

she can just scroll down to where you said the thing that you said, throw

it in your face, and it’s game over for you.

If you feel the need to lie, just keep your mouth shut and your fingers off

of the little keyboard on your phone.

It’s better to be quiet and not say anything than to lie because I’m the

kind of guy who would rather tell the truth and pay the penalty for it than

to lie, get busted, and really pay the price and develop the reputation as

a liar.

That’s really, really bad.

No lying. No exaggerating. No stretching the truth.

Just be a straight up kind of guy, have some balls, be honest when it’s

absolutely necessary, and you’ll develop a great reputation for being a

good guy.

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NO NEED TO BRAG OR IMPRESS HER

I have better luck with women when I lose the need to impress them or

show them how “cool” or awesome I think I am.

When I’m just laid back, enjoying the moment, having fun with her, and

talking about myself as little as possible, things are more likely to go the

way I want them to go.

The logical part of your brain tells you that if you can tell her as much

cool stuff about you as possible, then you’ll maximize your chances of her

liking you and feeling attraction. BUT actually, the opposite happens –

she wants to get away from you as fast as possible because your self-

centeredness is disgusting.

Humility gets you a lot further than bragging and even if you want to tell

her something cool about yourself, just remember that it’s probably

superficial, she won’t really care, and it won’t act as an important

element towards making her feel attraction. At the same time, make sure

you’re not being so humble that it annoys her.

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NEVER TEXT HER WHEN YOU’RE DRUNK OR HIGH

When you’re drunk and/or high and you think, “That would be a cool

thing to tell her”, there’s about a 99% chance that you’re going to wish

the next day that you had more hands to slap yourself with because

that’s how much you’re going to regret it.

I don’t do drugs so I’ve never texted anyone while I was high – at least I

don’t remember doing it.

But as far as it goes with drinking while texting (DWT), I have lost count of

the number of times I’ve stared at my phone the next day and thought,

“Why the f*ck did I say that?”

Big mistake.

Don’t do it.

Thankfully, since I rarely drink now, I don’t have a DWT problem but if I

am drinking and I’ve had a little too much, my sober self will tell my

drunk self, “Don’t do it, man! Remember the other 897 times you’ve

done it! Put the phone BACK in your pocket.”

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DON’T TRY TO BE A DIFFERENT PERSON THROUGH TEXT

I’m guilty of doing this a lot over the years – before I really worked on

myself and became truly happy with who I am now.

I’d talk a lot of trash and convince her of what a badass I am over text and

then in person, she’s like, “Where’s that badass guy that’s been texting

me the last two weeks?”

Pretending to be someone cooler, tougher, and smoother than you really

are when you’re texting her is a good recipe for some awkward situations

so it’s something that you should shy away from doing.

If you want to be entertaining and funny while you’re texting her, then I

highly encourage that and it’s a good thing to do, but DO NOT build

yourself up to her to be someone you’re not because I promise you she

will be extremely disappointed.

She’s painting this picture in her mind of who you are and when she

discovers you’re nothing like that guy, the attraction will die and she’ll be

gone.

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DON’T SHARE YOUR FEELINGS FOR HER THROUGH TEXTS

I ALWAYS teach that it’s a bad idea to be the one to pour your heart out

first because we, as men, have a horrible track record with that strategy.

I teach to NEVER take it farther than she takes it:

- She says you’re cool, you tell her she’s cool too

- She says she likes you, you tell her you like her too

- She admits she’s in love with you first, then it’s ok to admit it back to

her if you’re actually are feeling that way.

BUT, let her take it there first because I’ve never gone wrong with this

strategy and it works very well.

That being said, and now that you know the strategy of not pouring your

heart out first, DO NOT even think about talking about your feelings with

her through texting. It’s another recipe for some very awkward situations

and moments. If she texts you some stuff that’s right there with how

you’re feeling, then pick up the phone, call her, and handle it like a

professional.

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NEVER USE TEXTING TO WHINE & COMPLAIN

I’m also not a big fan of whining, moaning, bitching, and complaining. It’s

just one of those things in life that robs you of your power, ruins your

reputation, causes people to not like you, diminishes your manliness,

makes you look like a complete wuss and crybaby, and kills any attraction

that the women you like may be feeling for you. Seriously!

I’ve been stuck on top of an airplane, on a runway, repairing a hole (I

used to be an Aircraft Mechanic), in 20 degree temperatures, while it’s

raining, literally freezing my balls off and miserable, and I still didn’t

complain when someone asked, “Hey how’s it going, Marc!” I could have

easily cried about it. But that’s not my style, son!

Whining and complaining is for the losers who never get what they want

in life and since I don’t want you being one of those guys, then today

would be a good day to knock it off. That being said, it’s really dumb to

whine, complain, bitch, and moan about stuff when you’re texting her. It

will have a major negative impact.

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AVOID USING A LOT OF SARCASM

Sarcasm is awesome and we all have a lot of fun with it but it usually

works best when we’re either on the phone or standing right in front of

the person.

I didn’t know this for many years and many women took my sarcasm

through texting the wrong way and, in many cases, completely quit

talking to me because they thought I was being an asshole.

Once in a while, if you’re pretty good at it, you can use sarcasm through

text and she’ll get what you’re saying and won’t be offended.

But if you’re constantly being sarcastic through texting, then you’re

running the very high risk of her thinking you’re just being a total

douchebag and that you’re just a very mean and nasty person.

Just be a cool guy, be relaxed, be funny, be fun, be witty and intelligent,

but take it easy with the sarcasm.

To my surprise, a lot of women that are pretty cool definitely do not take

well to sarcasm and they do not care what your intentions are. They will

be gone in the blink of an eye. So a smart move on your part would be to

not even take the risk of that happening.

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NEVER ARGUE OR DEBATE WITH HER THROUGH TEXT

Want to prove to her how weak-minded of a man you actually are?

If so, go ahead and argue and debate with her over text messages as a

lame and desperate attempt to prove your intellectual superiority and

attractiveness.

This is one of the weakest and lamest things you can possibly do - yet

there are so many guys who do it and actually believe they can mentally

own her or beat her into submission and she’s going to magically start

feeling more attraction.

No way man! Dumb move. I’ve made this mistake before.

Me, I don’t argue with women. I let them say what they’re going to say, I

listen, agree or disagree, but I don’t argue. I don’t yell, get bent out of

shape, and make an ass of myself. If I know for sure that I’m right and

she’s wrong, I just listen, say “ok, I understand”, and I leave it alone! I

don’t argue and say, “You’re wrong!”

Want to keep the attraction? Don’t trigger her too much.

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NEVER TEXT HER BECAUSE YOU’RE “BORED”

This is lame as well, I’ve done it, I don’t do it anymore, and I’ve noticed

better results with women because I no longer do this. Just like

complaining, keep it to yourself. If you want to complain, don’t do it and

don’t let people know how much you’re crying on the inside.

Mark Cuban, the owner of the Dallas Mavericks, says his dad used to tell

him “Being bored means you’re a boring person.”

Telling her you’re bored won’t push you in the right direction with her.

Never tell anyone you’re bored because when you do, you’re

communicating, “I’m not a winner. I don’t have anything to keep me

busy. I don’t have valuable things happening in my life. I’m not

interesting. I’m not creative. I’m not moving towards my goals.” I can go

on and on about the negative things that saying “I’m bored”

communicates about you.

Be smarter than your competition. Let them tell her they’re bored and

become one of the guys she quits texting. But not you, my friend. Not

you. Don’t do it.

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AVOID STARTING TEXTS WITH “HEY”, “WHAT’S UP”, OR “WYD”

In my opinion, it’s OK to start your text messages with “hey”, “wyd”, or

“what’s up” if you have known her for a while or you’re texting your

friends and family.

But when you’re texting a woman who doesn’t know you well and you’re

trying to win cool points with her, this type of introductory message

makes you fade into the sea of guys who are trying to get her attention

and you’re not doing yourself any favors to stand out and get her

attention.

EVERY SINGLE GUY she texts, I promise you, does the generic, “Hey.

What’s up? What are you doing?” thing.

I text a lot of women who do the same thing and it doesn’t make me see

them in a different light.

BUT, when that one woman, who knows what she’s doing, avoids the

generic stuff, she’s really able to get my attention.

It definitely makes me notice her a lot more and I’m usually more eager

and open to chat with her.

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AVOID THE “HOW WAS YOUR DAY” AND OTHER BORING STUFF

So after opening with the boring “wyd” stuff, the guys that are getting

friend zoned throw more boring stuff her direction like, “How was your

day?”

There’s nothing really wrong with niceties like “how was your day?” but

it’s just so cliché and overused. You’re trying to get noticed here, man!

You’re not trying to get stuck in the friend zone or be seen as the same as

all the rest of the guys.

I used to do this and it works with women who are very boring

themselves, but it doesn’t go over too well with that high-quality woman

that you really want in your life. Again, I don’t use texting to have

conversations and since this is the case, I’ll only ask how her day is going

if she asks me first.

Sit down and watch interviews with multimillionaires and billionaires and

you’ll notice they communicate in a TOTALLY different than the way “nice

guys” communicate. Women dig these guys. They don’t waste time

seeking approval. They just get straight to it.

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AVOID USING COMPLIMENTS AND FLATTERY TO GET APPROVAL

Complimenting women is nice but too many of us misuse it to get ahead

in our dating life and we’re too blind to notice when it’s not working as

well as we think. We have the mindset that “someday” it’ll work with the

“right girl”.

A well-placed and well-timed compliment can work wonders, even

through text, if it comes from a good place and you’re not doing it to seek

approval - but those times, where you don’t have to force a compliment,

aren’t as common as you’d think.

I rarely compliment women, especially if I don’t know them, and later on

down the road and when I know her better, when I do compliment her, it

actually means something to her and the attraction she’s feeling gets

multiplied. It means a lot more to her when your compliment is sincere

and not superficial or forced. If she doesn’t know you, she doesn’t know

where the compliment is coming from because she’s so used to guys

giving her BS comments just to get in her pants.

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AVOID BEING TOO AGREEABLE JUST TO GET APPROVAL

Another way we’re trying to kiss her butt and get approval, besides giving

her too many fake compliments, is by constantly agreeing with her and

being too afraid to say, “Well, I don’t feel the same way about that as you

do.”

We’re so afraid that if we disagree with her, that she’ll run away, bang

another dude, and then send us a video of it just to rub it in.

I finally understand how important this is now because I’ve met women

who won’t disagree with me and, after a while, it becomes irritating

because it’s like having a pet monkey who thinks I’m the greatest thing in

the world.

She wants to know that you have a mind of your own. She wants to know

that you’re actually thinking, your brain works, and you’re not a complete

idiot. She wants to know that you have a pair of balls and you’re not

afraid of her disapproving of you.

The last guy that women want to date is the kind of guy who is afraid of

them. It can be very annoying.

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LEARN THE BASICS OF SPELLING AND GRAMMAR

I know I already said that you don’t have to be a perfect speller and then I

said that you should learn how to spell and that’s because there’s a

balance.

Misspell too many words → Look like a dumbass

Be Mr. Perfect → Look too square, stuck up, or nerdy.

Just learn the basics.

At least learn what the kids in high school know and you’re good to go.

I sometimes meet women who are fun, sexy, cool, and funny and then

when they start texting me, I’m like, “Good Lord. Did you even pass

Kindergarten? What language are you speaking? I’m never going to call

you if I’m stuck on a spelling test! WTH is going on with all of the gnarly

texts I’m getting from this person?”

Accept the fact that many women are going to judge you and being

uneducated is not a disease you’re stuck with. Pick up a freaking book for

30 minutes a day and before you know it, you’ll be making huge

improvements.

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EASY ON THE EMOTICONS (EMOJIS)

A lot of us make the mistake, and I’ve made this mistake too, of thinking,

“Since she uses a lot of emoticons and smiley faces with hearts, I’m going

to do the same and she’ll feel attraction for me.”

Big mistake. Lots of emoticons are for the girls. Let them have it.

Emoticons are ok but don’t go using them the way women do. You can

even go without them for the rest of your life you’ll do just fine when

you’re texting women.

They’re not a necessary component, but they do help if you know how

much you should and shouldn’t use them.

Girls that are kind of dumb and really bubbly usually go nuts with the

emoticons and I swear that if they were texting each other, they could

have a full conversation with emoticons, without texting a single word,

and know 100% what the other one was talking about.

Leave the girly emoticon stuff to the women and don’t make the mistake

of thinking she’s not going to like you because she uses them a lot and

you don’t.

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YOU DON’T NEED TO SAY “LOL” AND “HAHA” TO EVERYTHING

We also think that if we constantly text, “lol!!!” and “Haha!” to

everything that it’s going to make us look like a really fun and outgoing

guy.

It’s just another way we’re overcompensating for how much fun and

outgoing we actually AREN’T and this mindset of using stuff to “cover up”

and overcompensate won’t get you far with her.

Eventually, she’s going to hang out with you and see for herself that

you’re just bullshitting with all of the fake “lol’s” and “haha’s” and you’re

actually a really boring guy. Pretty awkward position to be in huh?

We’re living in a time, right now, where there is way too much fakeness,

fake enthusiasm, fake happiness, and we have this mindset that the more

enthusiasm we show, the more results we’ll get in life.

Get off the enthusiasm and political-correctness train. Stop with the fake

enthusiasm and fake happiness. Be real. Be honest. Be authentic. Stop

bullshitting women. Stop trying way too hard to be the “fun” guy.

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YOU DON’T NEED TO USE A BUNCH OF “!”

Talking about the fake enthusiasm, fake happiness, and fake excitement,

we also think that if we use a bunch of exclamation marks that it will also

make us look like a fun and cool guy.

Many people just naturally use a lot of exclamation marks and they’re not

doing it for any particular reason, it’s just their style, but there are also

guys doing this because they THINK that’s what women will be attracted

to them for. Sounds dumb, but it’s true.

They’re not interested in becoming a better man and improving

themselves, their situation, and their lives in any way – but they think

they can magically attract women through texting and using exclamation

marks to show that they’re a happy and positive person.

We are screwing this thing up so bad!

Here’s what I’m getting to – you see the sentence before this one? I used

only one exclamation mark because it was needed. Not five. I’m not

trying to prove my happiness and enthusiasm and women like me just

fine.

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SHE DOESN’T CARE TO SEE A PIC OF EVERYWHERE YOU GO

Not everyone has a problem with this, but some of us do.

Back when the ability to send a picture in a text was new, it was pretty

cool to send a picture of us at the museum, playing pool with friends, or

something else that no one cares about.

It was like, “Wow I can send pictures!” and so we did it.

Fast-forward to today – nobody cares! It’s not that big of a deal anymore.

She’s not going to be “wowed” because you’re at the Lincoln Memorial.

She doesn’t care to see a picture of you standing on top of a big rock or

sitting on a tree branch. Your picture WILL NOT make her feel more

attraction for you!

Maybe if you send pictures of you surrounded by super-hot women and

they’re making out with you and have their hands all over you, then that

will definitely create a “shift” in her mind and change how she sees you.

But other than that, sending pictures of where you go is pointless and

won’t help you out in the long run.

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DON’T SEND SELFIES

Not to be super negative, but I freakin’ hate selfies.

I think they’re stupid, self-indulging, and a big flashing sign that the

person taking them has a lot of work to do on themselves so they’re not

seeking approval from people they don’t know and don’t care about.

She knows what you look like and doesn’t need a picture of you making a

stupid face and trying to be cute.

This topic frustrates me so let’s see if I can make it through this page

without cussing…

Not everyone shares my passionate hate for selfies, but any woman who

has half a brain is going to get annoyed by your weak-minded-man

selfies. They think it’s lame.

Waking up, taking a picture of yourself still in bed, and then sending it to

her with the message, “Ugh. Too tired to get up” is so lame and

desperate that I don’t feel sorry for you AT ALL if your dating life sucks

because of it.

STOP with the selfies. Stop thinking that sending selfies will make her feel

more attraction. Stop thinking it’s cute. Stop thinking it’s “cool”. Stop

thinking you’re better than other guys because of it. Quit being lame and

desperate.

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SENDING PICS OF YOUR JUNK IS RISKY BUSINESS

Look man, if you want to send her pictures of your junk, go right ahead –

just make sure she asks for it first.

Don’t text her, “Hey, you want a pic of my man meat?” Women will

delete you out of their life for sending “dick pics” if they didn’t ask for

them.

If you’re type of dude who’s aware of the risk you’re taking, then like I

said, have fun with it and it’s none of my business.

Years ago, I sent a pic of my “crotch rocket” to one of my “bed buddies”

and she accidentally uploaded it to Facebook because she’s an airhead

and wasn’t paying attention to what she was doing. Luckily, my face

wasn’t in it, but my man-business was. It was up for DAYS before

someone said something to her and then she told me about it.

Look at all these celebrities getting hacked and having their private

photos and videos posted for everyone to see! Embarrassing! If you don’t

want anyone seeing your junk, then don’t take a chance by sending her

pictures.

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DON’T FREAK OUT IF SHE DOESN’T TEXT BACK RIGHT AWAY

So we’ve gone over 21 reasons why she may not text you back, but we

haven’t gone over what to actually do and don’t do when she doesn’t

text back.

Here’s where I’ve gone wrong TOO MANY times in my dating life and it

took me a very long time to get it right.

1. DO NOT freak out. Stay calm, be cool, breathe, and don’t overreact.

Overreacting destroys attraction faster than too many enchiladas at a

sketchy Mexican restaurant will make you run to the bathroom holding

your butt.

2. Do not start looking insecure and unsure of yourself. Don’t let her see

your weakness. For many of us, our first reaction is to send her an

“everything ok?” text. This only gives away your power. Don’t do it.

Don’t let her see you crack or she’ll notice the chink in the armor.

3. Don’t assume. I’ve assumed before and, as the saying goes, I made a

total ass of myself and ruined everything. Assuming is for weak-minded

men. Just be cool, smart, and wait to see why she hasn’t texted.

4. Don’t bomb her phone with messages. After assuming, we make the

mistake of giving her a “piece of our mind”. This doesn’t work. I have

given plenty of women a piece of my mind when they didn’t text back.

Even though it felt kind of good to say whatever I said, it didn’t make her

text back and say, “Oh, I’m sorry Marc. You’re right. Please forgive me.

Please change your mind. Please take me back!” What actually happened

was, many times, she texted back and said, “Lose my number”. THEN I

felt really dumb about what I did and realized that it would’ve been

better if I didn’t say anything at all.

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5. Wait it out. Just be cool, relaxed, and patient. Patient men usually do

very well with women and they have a lot fewer problems than we, not

so patient, men do.

6. Control your emotions. I always save the best for last because this is

huge. All of the stuff I just mentioned is a product of your inability of, and

lack of experience in, controlling your emotions. Get yourself together,

dry it up, and quit freaking out on the inside. Even when there’s chaos on

the inside, be calm. Controlling your emotions gives you the ability to

avoid looking like a jackass and when she sees you’re as cool as a pack of

peppermints, it’ll add to, and even multiply, the attraction she’s feeling

for you.

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PART 4: EARNING COOL

POINTS

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STAY RELAXED ABOUT EVERYTHING

I’ve said this many times and I’ll keep saying it – the guys who are the

very best with women and have the most success in that area, as well as

many other areas of their lives, are the ones who are constantly relaxed,

regardless of what is happening inside of them or around them.

That’s very important to remember - REGARDLESS of what’s happening in

their mind or around them – which means drama or conflict with women,

friends, family, work, etc. They don’t freak out about anything.

Texting takes a lot of the emotion out of the conversation and it’s harder

to tell exactly what emotion the other person is experiencing when

they’re texting you, but it’s not completely gone. It’s not totally

impossible to tell.

That’s why if you’re always calm, cool, collect, and relaxed, she’ll notice

and think it’s really cool.

Staying relaxed is about controlling your emotions and no reacting to

your “feelings”. Regardless of how you “feel”, don’t freak out about it.

EVER.

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BE BRUTALLY HONEST

I’ve learned, first hand, from when experimenting to see what would

happen if I just told the straight up, cold, and hard truth and didn’t try to

sugarcoat it or weasel my way out of it, that women really appreciate and

respect honesty. My success with women skyrocketed and I developed a

reputation as the type of guy who’s not going to bullshit you – even if it

hurts your feelings. Not exactly a “nice guy” reputation and it’s a good

thing.

It sounds like that type of guy would scare women off, and it does, but it

only scares off the weak-minded women who don’t have their life

together and that you don’t want hanging around you anyways. The

women you DO want stick to you like a magnet because something about

your intense honesty makes them feel safe and sure that they’re hanging

around the right guy.

Now, we just talked about not lying – but not lying and being brutally

honest are almost two different things and that’s why you’re reading this.

You can NOT lie but still sugarcoat it. Not the same as being brutally

honest.

Brutally honest is when you’re unafraid to be honest and can care less

about getting her approval.

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START TEXTS IN A FUN WAY

As you can guess by now, I don’t just text women to see what they’re

doing or because I’m bored. I’m busy. I’m a busy guy. I don’t have time

for “Hey. Wyd?” messages.

BUT, when I do text her, because I have a goal in mind, I’m usually pretty

fun about it and it’s only because I naturally like being silly and ridiculous

about things.

So instead of “hey” I’ll just say, “Punk!” because I call a lot of women

“punk” all the time as a term of endearment - and 99% of them really like

it and respond well to it. It becomes our little “thing”.

The word “punk”, alone, gets them to text back pretty fast because it

puts a smile on their face, triggers good emotions, and triggers good

memories because they know it’s me, they always have fun with me, and

their brain instantly makes that connection. This all happens in less than a

second.

Another thing I’ll do is if I’m somewhere that reminds me of them I’ll say,

“Guess where I’m at” or if someone says something her and I have said or

heard I’ll say, “Guess what I just heard someone say, lol”.

OR, I’ll just be ridiculous and say, “Yoooooo!” and put a little emoticon of

a face with sunglasses.

See the difference? It’s not fake. It’s not kissing ass. It’s not being forced.

It’s completely natural and, at the same time, not boring.

It strikes a familiar chord in her and causes her to react almost

immediately by texting me back. She doesn’t have to think about it.

I’ve had women tell me that if they haven’t heard from me in a while and

I shoot them a quick text, regardless of what it is, they can’t help but

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smile because they instantly remember how funny and ridiculous I can be

- and it pops into their head when they see my text.

Do you think women respond with a boring, “hey”?

No way, because I don’t waste my time texting women who don’t

respond to me well. I move on from it.

Most women will respond with happy messages like, “Punk!”, “Heyyyy!

”, “Where you been stranger!”, “Lol, I was just thinking about you…” (to

which I say that she always is), “I thought you forgot about me! Lol”, etc.

What I do is called a pattern interrupt – I don’t do the lame things most

guys are doing and it catches her attention because it’s different and

unfamiliar to her.

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RESPOND TO HER TEXTS IN A FUN WAY

The same exact thing goes when she texts me first.

I try my best to never be boring whatsoever – without being fake and

forcing it. I prefer to always be authentic. If I’m in a shitty mood or having

a sorry day, I’ll just text her back when I’m feeling better.

No one is forcing you to text her back right when she texts you. There’s

no rule you’re breaking and if she doesn’t like it, that’s her problem.

You’re not living your life to please her anyway – at least I hope you’re

not.

So I don’t reply unless I’m in a good mood and when I do, it’s the same

thing – something fun. I’ll reply with the emoticon with the sunglasses

and it says, “Yooooo! ” or I’ll use the same sunglasses guy emoticon

and I’ll say something funny like “What’s up homie ”, “What’s up

essay ”, or “What’s the dealy yo? ” I pretty much make it up on

the spot. I’ll even pull a Dazed and Confused and text, “Aaalright,

aaalright, aaaalriiigtht…” Just things that are completely random and that

make her say endearing things like, “Haha. You’re a dork”.

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SPELL WORDS THE WAY THEY SOUND

If you noticed my Matthew McConaughey reference from Dazed and

Confused, then you can see that I really enjoy spelling things the way

they sound and just being ridiculous about it.

So if I want my text to sound like a pothead or surfer, I don’t just say,

“dude”. I say, “duuuuuude” or “whooooooa duuuude.”

See the difference? If I’m giving her a hard time and acting like I don’t

believe her, I’ll say, “riiiiiiight…” or “suuuuuure!”

If I’m working and she says she’s being lazy, or something similar, I’ll say,

“Muuuuuust be nice! Geeeez!”

All of this nonsense communicates you’re a really fun, funny, relaxed,

calm, cool, collected, and really laid back kind of guy. Women love it and

it’s a breath of fresh air from talking to all of the nervous, timid, scared,

and uptight guys that they’re used to texting. It’s a BIG sign that you

understand the patterns and language of texting.

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USE EMOTICONS THAT RESEMBLE YOUR ATTITUDE AND FACES

So the reason I like to use the emoticon with the sunglasses is

because it resembles the stereotypical look you’d find on the kind of guy,

or person, that would say or text that type of thing that I’m saying or

texting and her mind automatically makes the connection and causes her

to think it’s really funny.

Example: “Whaddup son! ” (Yes, I call women “son”, “dude”, “kid”,

and even “bro”, in a joking way, and 99% of the time, they don’t think

anything weird about it.)

She’s used to seeing the faces, hearing the words, hearing their voice,

seeing the attitude, whether it’s from TV, internet, or in person and it

triggers her Reticular Activating System – which means she’s seen or

heard something like it before and it automatically triggers that memory

and she naturally and spontaneously thinks it’s funny. BUT, I also think

it’s funny and that’s why I do it. You’re recalling something that she’s

likely to be familiar with and making it funny – something I like to do a lot

when I text women.

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USE EMOTICONS TO BE FUNNY

Something else I have fun doing is accusing women of being perverts, in a

fun way, of course, and only if I know they’re cool (sometimes I’ll risk it)

and I’ll use emoticons to make fun of them.

- She’ll say “Ok cool. Let’s do it.” And I’ll say, “Whoaaaaa… like

do it? Easy there, we just met perv .”

- I’ll say, “I’m da .com so you might wanna get used to it.”

(bomb.com in case you don’t’ catch it)

- If she’s talking trash or being a pain in the butt, I’ll tell her, “Want your

butt kicked punk? ” and I’ll also send

her something like, “this will be you ”

You see it?

Emoticons are a great tool to be playful, super creative, and they can

earn you a lot of “cool points” with her if you know how to do it right and

be funny at the same time.

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COMPLIMENT HER ON SOMETHING SHE ACTUALLY CARES ABOUT

Those well-timed compliments we were talking about earlier – here’s

where it comes in.

Don’t tell her, “I think you’re pretty” and all that other rookie and

beginner stuff. She’s used to it, numb to it, and it won’t make you stand

out.

Even if she says “Awww, that’s so sweet. Thanks, sweetie!” she’s just

bullshitting you with niceties because that’s what she’s used to doing -

and it’s the best and fastest way to get you to knock it off without hurting

your feelings.

Your compliment that, more than likely, came from a needy and

immature place inside of you, literally made her feel nothing. If anything,

you’re now on her radar for guys she’s not attracted to that have hit on

her in a way she doesn’t like.

The way I compliment women, and I’ve done this many times, is I find a

place to touch that she’s going to feel and will feel really good. Mind out

of the gutter perv…

So good that she’ll go to bed thinking about it and YEARS from now, she’ll

still think about and remember you and that amazingly wonderful

compliment you gave her.

Out of the millions of compliments she’s received, yours will be at the

top.

It should be something that she works hard at, cares deeply for, and that

many people don’t notice.

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I just observe her and try to notice where her heart really lies, what she’s

passionate about, what is dear to her, and what she puts a lot of effort

into.

If you look hard enough, you’ll see it in every woman.

Something deeper than her beauty, eyes, dress, and the shape of her

body. Something deeper than the way she smells or looks.

Then instead of a weak and lame comment, I tell her that I think she’s

doing a great job, I admire her, and I wish I could meet more women like

her.

This will, literally, leave her speechless, she’ll get weak in the knees, and

she might even cry.

You have touched her with your compliment in a place that no man has

ever touched her before and she’ll let you touch her in places that most

men don’t touch .

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SHOW HER YOU’RE INTERESTED IN WHAT SHE’S SAYING

Naturally, we all like someone more when they have the ability to make

us feel that they truly are interested in hearing (or reading) what we’re

saying.

When we feel they’re not paying attention, a HUGE mental disconnect

happens and it’s usually game over. It’s hard to overcome the thought

that the person really doesn’t care to listen to what we have to say and,

naturally, their importance in our mind plummets.

That’s why it’s CRITICAL that she feels and believes you’re actually

interested in what she’s talking about - and you’re not just pretending to

be interested. The minute she thinks you’re pretending, stick a fork in

yourself because you’re done! Game over. Go home.

Guys who aren’t good at this will change the subject when she’s texting

or they’ll start talking about themselves and mess it up. She hates this.

Stay on topic, be patient, let her talk, and use phrases like, “Really?”, “No

way! That’s cool”, and “That must’ve been fun”.

Guys who are good with women do this all the time.



GIVE HER A NICKNAME

Giving her a nickname is fun and one of my favorite things to do when it

comes to interacting with women.

You may be thinking that giving her a nickname will piss her off and cause

her not to like you as much, but once again, my friend, you’re a little bit

off about that.

Giving her a nickname actually creates a unique bond between the two of

you and it, in a way, makes her feel special and closer to you than other

women.

Even if she says, “Stop calling me that!” but she’s laughing, then she’s

enjoying it.

Just remember to not be annoying and to use it when you know it’s going

to get a laugh.

How do you choose her nickname?

It can come from something that happens to you and her, from a story

she told you, etc.

I like to say, “Yes! I’m going to call you _____ from now on!” and she’ll

say, “You better not!”

Then when you call her that cute little nickname, she can’t help but to

laugh, shake her head, and have a good time with you.

My friend Sarah and I constantly joke about getting married, having kids,

and no matter where we’re at, I’ll say something completely ridiculous

like, “Let’s make love right here on top of our plates and get food all over

us and I can like, smash your face in the mashed potatoes and green

beans and you can rub steak all over me! It doesn’t matter if people are



looking.” Of course, I’m just kidding. So now her nickname is FBM -

Future Baby Mama, because we joke about how much we’re in love.

Another friend of mine, Candace, texted me to ask why she and I were

boyfriend and girlfriend in her dream – to which I said, “That’s why my

legs are sore! I’m always running through your mind! ” Then we had an

ongoing joke that I’m her “dream boyfriend” and she’s my “dream

girlfriend” and I no longer call her Candace. I haven’t called her that in

years! Now her name is DGF – Dream Girlfriend. Now she says, “Hey DBF”

and I say, “Yooo. What’s up DGF?”

Nicknames are golden and once you give her a nickname, only if it’s not

offensive or rude, stick with it and use it to keep the bond you and her

have going. Very powerful tool and technique to create rapport.



ACCUSE HER OF FLIRTING WITH YOU

There’s a certain and wonderful magic that happens when you accuse

women of flirting with you because it turns the tables, puts a lot in your

favor, and starts making things go your way.

Think about it – she’s used to guys, who don’t know any better, flirting

with her, complimenting her, inviting her out to dinner, etc. and her

“bitch shield” goes up, the protective walls come up, and she goes into

lockdown mode when she sees the first sign of this happening or about

to happen. She’s used to unconsciously saying in her mind, “he’s flirting

with me” and she doesn’t find it funny. But then this really awesome,

cool, relaxed, confident, doesn’t really care what people think, funny, and

non-creepy guy, YOU, comes along and he tells her, “Hey, you just gonna

keep flirting with me or are we gonna get another drink?”

BAM! It messes with everything she knows and has seen. It’s new. It’s

refreshing. It’s funny. She unconsciously responds by laughing - when you

can make her laugh, she likes you more and she’s experiencing emotions.



TELL HER HOW MUCH SHE LIKES YOU

You can also add onto and multiply the effect that accusing her of flirting

with you has if you automatically assume, in a non-arrogant and cocky

way, that she likes you, thinks you’re great, thinks you’re funny, and

thinks you’re fun.

It doesn’t make you a stuck up guy to look her right in her eyes and, in a

friendly and fun way, say, “Whatever, I’m awesome. You know you like

me. It’s written all over your face. My eyes are up here, not down there.”

Even if she’s like, “whatever”, she’ll still smile - and just a smile alone

releases tons of “good” chemicals in her brain and makes her feel really

good.

You’re planting the seed in her mind. You’re planting a little thought in

her unconscious mind that will grow as you continue to have a good time

with her. So if she didn’t like you before, now there’s a better chance that

she’ll start to like you little by little because you planted that seed with

that one little comment.

Make sense? Works like a charm!



“IT’S THE GUY YOU HAVE A HUGE CRUSH ON”

I say this a lot because it’s one of those things that makes her laugh,

releases those good chemicals, makes her feel positive emotions, and

then she associates those positive emotions with me – which is what I

want.

It doesn’t even matter if she actually likes me or not – it works great

because it works as a pattern interrupt, catches her off guard, and it’s

something her mind isn’t used to.

We’re naturally curious about what is new to us.

When it’s something her mind isn’t used to, it gets her attention and jolts

her.

So if she ever says “Who’s this” because she didn’t save your number,

which happens a lot if you meet her when she’s been drinking or she’s

complacent, you can say, “It’s the man of your dreams”

Or “The guy you have a huge crush on ”

Or “It’s the guy you were hitting on and begging to go home with

yesterday”.



CONSTANTLY QUALIFY HER

I’m not the guy who says or communicates, “You’re beautiful and I like

you so much and you can have me and whatever you want. I’ll do

whatever you want!” I’m not that guy and if that’s how you roll, then do

your best to change your mindset.

Qualifying her means you’re being a challenge and you’re not making

yourself as easy as other guys are. You’re planting another seed and idea

in her mind that if she likes you, she’s going to have to prove it. It’s

planting the idea that she’s not the only woman interested in you and if

she messes up, you have plenty of other women happy to take her place.

It’s planting the idea that she may be able to have ANY guy she wants,

but you’re a little bit harder to get than them.

Qualifying women has become an unconscious habit and I always do it in

a fun way. I say things like, “What makes you think I like you THAT

much?”, “I barely know you – you could be a psycho serial killer”, and

when she does something and says “sorry”, I say, “You’re losing cool

points for that (I’ll shake my head like I’m disappointed ). I don’t know if I

like you that much anymore.” This has a very powerful effect on her

unconscious mind.



CONSTANTLY CHALLENGE HER

Qualifying her and challenging her are not the same thing. Qualifying her

is the idea of, “How do I know that you’re good enough for me?”

Challenging her is the idea of, “I don’t think you’re as good as you think

you are.” Challenging is giving her a hard time, pushing back, not being as

easy and agreeable as most guys are, making her push for it, making her

work for it, and being the hurdle that’s a little harder for her to

overcome.

I have a little girl and a lot of little nieces and something I’ve noticed

about all of them that has taught me how women’s minds work is they

LOVE when you challenge them and mess with them. I constantly pick on

them, challenge them, and give them a hard time and, being little girls,

they’ll fold their arms, walk away, act like they don’t like me, and then

the next time I’m around, they’re climbing all over me like I’m Santa! This

mindset doesn’t change when women get older. They love the challenge.

So when women are telling me a story about themselves, I like to

interrupt them and say, “Nooooo you didn’t… You don’t need to lie for

me to think you’re cool.”

She’s not used to guys doing that and it triggers the little girl inside of

her, who likes to have fun, to be challenged.



COMMUNICATE YOU’RE NOT EASY TO GET

The reason I say, “Noooo you didn’t… you don’t have to lie for me to

think you’re cool”, which, by the way, is something I say to 5-year-olds

and 35-year-olds, is because I’m communicating my value. I’m

communicating my status.

I’m communicating that I’m not just anyone – I’m different. I’m special.

I’m communicating that I know how to be cool and that person is going to

have to prove to me they’re cool – and I do it in a fun way that makes me

a more likable person.

ALL of that stuff is jam-packed into one little, playful, and powerful

sentence. That’s how powerful this stuff is on the unconscious mind!

Who do you think their favorite uncle is? You guessed it… me. And it’s not

by accident.

I make a playful mental connection that’s no different when it comes to

the women I’m texting! That playful little girl is inside each and every

woman you text, meet, go to dinner with, have a drink with, etc. Use it.



“WHEN ARE YOU TAKING ME OUT?”

She’s used to guys asking, “Hey, uh, can I take you to dinner sometime?”

She’s NOT used to an awesome guy like you asking, “When are you taking

me to dinner?”

It completely jolts her mind, shakes up everything she knows and has

seen, and puts your sweet ass right in the spotlight of her attention zone

– which is what you’re looking to do. Plus, it’s pretty damn funny to

completely reverse the roles and put her on the spot.

And usually, she’ll say, “Uhh… you can take ME to dinner!” Job done. You

reached your target without having to ask if you can take her to dinner.

This simple question communicates something MUCH deeper: “Hey I

think you’re cool and all that, but I’m pretty awesome as well and I’m not

going to kiss your butt and suck up to you just because you’re a pretty

woman and that’s probably what all the other guys do around you.” It’s

communicating, “I’m different, I have lots of options, I’m not head-over-

heels in love with you, and if you want to go out with me, you have to

take me.”

It’s challenging and qualifying her at the same time.



TELL HER SHE’S BEING WEIRD

Growing up, my brother and I would always tell each other to quit being

weird and lame – even though we were constantly making weird faces

and doing silly things to make each other laugh – which we still do ‘til this

day and will probably still do when we’re in our 70’s. Saying not to be

weird or lame is just how we communicate and talk to each other. Since

this way of communicating is so deeply engrained into my unconscious

mind and behavior, I naturally say it to women and the effect it has is SO

powerful.

She doesn’t have to exactly be acting weird, she can just say “no” or be

hesitant about something and I’ll say “Quit being a weirdo about it.” or

“Quit being lame. Let’s go. I’m OTW to get you.” This unconsciously

challenges her, qualifies her, and communicates, again, “I know how to

be cool. I’m high status. I ‘get it’. I think it’s normal and since you’re

responding in that way, I think you’re being weird and not good enough

for me.”

She’s more likely to say “yes” because she doesn’t want to be seen as

“weird” or “lame” by you or anyone else. She unconsciously, and as a

knee-jerk reaction, will qualify herself to prove she’s not lame.



GIVE HER COOL POINTS

I do this with most women when I first meet them because it’s

communicating, “I don’t know you. I’m cool. I’m normal. I’m fun. I’m high

status. I ‘get it’.” and I give her “cool points” when she says something

cool or funny.

Instead of kissing her ass, I reward her with “cool points” for being “good

enough” to be my friend. This has such a powerful effect and puts you in

a position of high status almost immediately – which is also what you

want.

If she is just telling me a bunch of cool stuff about herself or she’s really

funny, I’ll tell her, “You’re racking up a lot of cool points. I’m gonna run

out if you keep it up!” I’m communicating, “I like you. I think you’re cool. I

approve of you” but what I’m not doing is actually saying it in those

words. I’ll say, “Here are some more cool points. Good job!” and I’ll

put a little emoticon of some coins or something. On top of that, just to

be funny, I’ll send an emoticon of a purse or bag and say, “Here’s a little

baggy to put all those cool points in so you don’t spill them

everywhere.”

Then when she says she can’t afford to take ME to dinner, I suggest she

pay with her cool points.



TAKE COOL POINTS AWAY

Taking her cool points away after giving them to her is a fun and

lighthearted way of communicating, “I’m a cool guy and you can have my

approval but if you mess up with me, I will drop you and move on. I don’t

care how beautiful, smart, popular, or cool you are.”

Sounds harsh, BUT it’s a way of planting that seed in her mind that you’re

different, a forced to reckoned with, and unafraid of her. When she

knows you’re they type of guy that she shouldn’t cross, take advantage

of, or mistreat, she’s more likely to, not only feel more attraction for you,

but to treat you better.

It’s not something she sees in 99% of the men she’s used to meeting,

texting, and dating.

So, in a joking and playful manner, you can say, “I’m gonna need some of

those cool points back. You lost them with that dorky thing you just said.

Totally disappointed. You’re cut off from cool points. You’re on cool

points probation, kid.”

On a deep level, she automatically recognizes you’re unafraid of her

disapproval, you’re fun, you’re challenging, and you’re qualifying her.



BE THE MOST CHILL GUY SHE’S EVER MET

The guys who are successful at most of the things they do in life,

including women, dating, and texting, have the habit of always being

relaxed regardless of the person they’re dealing with, the situation, or

what’s happening inside of their mind.

We’re naturally drawn to people who are relaxed about everything and

women are drawn to men who can keep their cool.

It’s possible for her to know through texting when you’re freaking out

and not being cool and relaxed.

It’s possible for her to know your psychological state because she’s

texted so many people and so often that it’s one of those things that’s

automatically recognizable and you can’t mistake it with anything else.

You see and within milliseconds you can identify what’s happening.

That being said, you can’t fake being relaxed. Either you force yourself to

be calm, cool, and collect or she’ll know.



USE CALLBACK HUMOR

Successful comedians use callback humor and they’ll say something really

funny, memorable, or catchy towards the beginning of their show and

during the course of the hour or their routine, they’ll say it again to recall

the laugh they initially received from the audience.

Comedian Gabriel Iglesias talks about having a friend who likes to play

jokes on people and when they get mad about the joke, he’ll say, “I know

but it was funny huh!” At the end of the stand-up routine, he’s talking

about how he and his friend got pulled over by a cop, the cop recognized

his friend, pulled his gun out and scared him, and when his friend got

mad, the cop said, “I know but it was funny huh!” He recalled a saying

that was used earlier in the routine and it worked.

When you and her find funny things in common or you say or do

something that she laughs at, you can pull that out of your pocket and

use it from time to time to make her laugh.

My friend Lacy, for some weird reason, thinks the sound of “boop” was

funny because of a baby video we saw on YouTube and from time to

time, I’ll text her “boop!” and she’ll die laughing. Stupid, but it works and

it recalls the humor and fun of the situation.

Another friend came over two times and we, coincidentally, cooked

steak, chicken, and mashed potatoes but she happened to, both times,

use up the rest of my butter in the fridge when making the mashed

potatoes. Now the joke is that when she says she’s coming over, I

automatically say, “Ok let me make a trip to the store and get butter

before you come because I know you’re going to use it all up” or I’ll say,

“Ok let me add butter to my grocery list”. It’s really dumb but it’s funny

because it’s callback humor, teasing her, and she laughs really hard about

it.



My other friend Erica once said, “Ok…I got you!” when I was teasing her

and she meant that “I’m going to remember you making fun of me and

pay you back”. So now every time we’re playing around, I’ll either say or

text her, “I got you!” and I’ll exaggerate my face and voice so she knows

I’m totally making fun of her and giving her a hard time.

Me and my friend Mary, the girl from my book How to Quit Being a Loser

with Women, were up all night long goofing around and we turned on

the TV at 3 in the morning and this creepy-looking older guy named

“Yoga Steve” was doing yoga. It was really weird, but we were dying

laughing and we couldn’t stop watching it! So now, from time to time, I

tell her, “Don’t make me call yoga Steve over to make you feel better!”

and I’ll send a picture of the guy doing some weird yoga pose with his

tongue sticking out. I’ll even take it a step further and if we happen to be

talking about sex or something, I’ll send her the same picture of Yoga

Steve with the comment, “I’m sure Yoga Steve will be happy to handle it”.

Me and another girl were watching George Lopez doing standup comedy

on TV and when he mimics or makes fun of Mexican culture and the way

they talk, he says the word “mira” which means “look” in Spanish.

Growing up in San Antonio, which has a dense population of Mexican

people, old Mexican women, from time to time, say, “Mira oh my God!”

So from time to time if we’re together and I see something cool, funny, or

shocking I’ll say, “Mira oh my God!” and she’ll die laughing. It was even

funnier when she said she was at someone’s house showing them a

product for her company and the lady said, “Mira oh my God!” She said

she started crying because she was holding in her laughter and finally had

to go outside to let it out.

Callback humor is a miracle worker because it causes her to think about

you, have good memories with you, and to constantly have fun with you.





USE FUNNY MEMES, IMAGES, GIFS

One of my best friends, Josh, is the meme king because he can make me

die laughing without texting a single word.

Memes are images with words that have a meaning and are often

associated with a person or movie that everyone is familiar with. Memes

with movie lines, characters from movies, and just people in general.

It doesn’t matter the situation, I can find a meme to send that will make

her laugh hysterically.

Remember, they’re funnier when you use them in response to a question

or something she said.

So like today, actually, my friend Sarah texted me wanting to know if I’m

going to go watch Football with her tomorrow and I said yes. Then she

said she just wanted to make sure.

So instead of doing the “nice guy” thing and saying “I’m looking forward

to it!” or something else that’s lame and cheesy, I sent her a meme of

Stevie Wonder (A blind singer) and it said, “I’ll see you there”.

Get it?

It’s funny, and messed up at the same time, because he’s blind.

I’m not saying that being blind is funny, so relax.

Often, women will send me pictures of them at the gym and if they look

good, I’ll send a picture of Ice Cube and Chris Tucker from the movie

“Friday” where they’re both checking a girl out and making faces and it

will say “dammmn!”

Last, if a girl texts me and says something like “Hi, Marc!”, instead of

texting back and being a super nice guy, I’ll send her a meme of a funny



and creepy-looking guy and it’ll say, “Well hey there beautiful” or

something really funny.

Memes are the greatest way to be really funny, especially if you’re

creative, and women have a really good time with it.

Me and my guy friends can have texts conversations that last all day and

70% the texts are memes to make fun of each other, put each other

down, or just to be really funny in general.

Using memes to communicate your personality, what mood you’re in,

and to be funny is an art form that you will get better at the more you do

it.



CREATE FUNNY AND FUN SCENARIOS

I talked about this in my article 10 Questions to Ask So She’ll Talk More,

Open Up, Relax, and Have a Good Time and I have a lot of fun with this –

and so do the women.

Personally, I hate talking about boring stuff, especially if it’s not business

or self-improvement related, and I try to mix things up and make them

fun. But also, growing up, my brother and I always found a way to be silly

about any and everything - so it’s naturally stuck with me and I enjoy

passing the gift on to the women I text and talk to.

What I do is, I take something serious and not funny, of course, some

things are off limits, and I turn them into something that we can both

laugh about.

A girl I know has a crush on Chris Brown and I decided to mess with her

by asking, and forcing her to answer, insane questions like “what would

you do if he was missing a leg, had rotten teeth, had a crooked nose, was

missing fingers, smelled bad, etc.” and she had to answer if she still liked

him.

Play “what would you do if” with her and she’ll like it.

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TEASE HER ABOUT SOMETHING SHE TOLD YOU

I’ve had women tell me stories about falling backwards down stairs,

being chased by dogs, getting pooped on by birds, dropping trays on

people’s heads while waitressing, falling while dancing on counters at

bars, and a bunch of really funny and embarrassing stories.

Not only do I laugh really hard at them, but I like to tease them and make

fun of them – without being a total jerk and hurting their feelings.

Then if we’re texting and she wants to go to a bar or something I’ll say,

“As long as you promise to dance on the bar again and bust your ass”,

and she’ll get a good laugh out of it.

Ask her about embarrassing things and ALWAYS be a good listener

because she’s going to give you great little gems and stories that you can

use to tease her and have fun with her.

If you’re one of these guys who thinks teasing women is mean then

you’re just going to have to get over it and move forward if you want

more success with women.



PART 5: HOW TO

INCREASE THE

ATTRACTION



BE DIRECT

We’re living in a time where new generations are being taught to shy

away from being too direct, honest, and authentic because they might

hurt someone’s sensitive little feelings and this is having a massively

detrimental effect on men’s ability to attract women.

I honestly believe we have more “nice guys” in the world than ever

before and it will only keep getting worse and worse until we can see

how we’re messing it all up and then curve back around to teaching our

new generations that it’s perfectly fine to be direct, honest,

straightforward, and authentic.

Something funny I’ve noticed is that the world’s most successful men,

that have the life everyone wants, don’t struggle in the area of being

direct and straightforward - and they often face a lot of backlash from

our overly politically correct society. They say what’s on their mind,

aren’t worried about hurting feelings, aren’t worried about the

consequences, and the masses find their straightforwardness wildly

appealing.

As long as you know what you’re saying is the truth, accurate, and you

have good intentions behind it, then don’t be afraid to be direct when

you need to be.



BE DECISIVE

A weak man will look around the room for someone stronger and more

resilient than himself when he’s asked to make a decision and take

action.

It happens instantly and a high-quality woman, who has seen it, has

experience with weak men, and recognizes it, will instantly categorize

that man as someone who doesn’t stand a chance with her.

Her brain automatically and unconsciously processes this information in

milliseconds.

She’s not deciding it. It’s just happening.

Make decisions without hesitation – but also put a little thought behind

them so you don’t make bad decisions.

When you’re texting her and she says, “Where do you want to go”,

instead of saying “idk, you pick”, say, like I do, “let me think about it for a

minute”. Then when you decide, just name the place, give her a time, and

say “see you there”.

This gives you power. You’re making a decision. You’re unafraid of

disappointing her. AND SHE SEES IT!

Make the decisions even if she says she doesn’t like it.



BE PATIENT

I’ve struggled with impatience in my life, especially when it mattered

most, and my lack of patience caused me a lot of pain and suffering. I’ve

lost a lot of good women and screwed a lot of things up because I just

couldn’t “chill out” and be cool.

Of everything I teach and share with you, being patient is right up there

with controlling your emotions. It’s that important.

Patient men get more of what they want in life. Patient men attract more

women because they have the ability to wait, watch, and assess the

situation before they take action, send a text, call her, or open their

mouth. Patient men are less likely to embarrass themselves because they

spoke or acted too soon.

When you’re texting her and waiting for her to get back to you, be

patient. Many women are scatter-brained and they’re not laying on their

bed doing nothing when texting you. They’re multitasking, getting things

done, Facebooking, taking selfies, playing on Snapchat, texting other

guys, etc.

Becoming impatient can cause you to mess it all up.



FLIRT

There are many definitions and interpretations of what flirting actually is

but from my experience, when I’m “flirting”, whether it be in person, on

the phone, or through text, I’m just being friendly, approachable,

showing interest, teasing her, making her laugh, and making it obvious

that I am definitely down to go to Pound Town if the road was open.

I’m not trying to be sneaky, manipulative, or devious about it.

It’s clear as day.

Because I’ve done it so much, it’s now second nature and automatic to

me. It’s like a second language I speak when I notice signs that she speaks

it too.

Don’t be afraid to flirt. Don’t be afraid to put your foot in the water and

see what happens. I’ve had women that I truly believed weren’t

interested in me and when I just quit giving a shit and just started flirting

with her so I could have fun, it completely changed the entire dynamic of

our relationship within the blink of an eye.

Sometimes you have to initiate the flirting to get her going and, after

that, it’s history.



BE FUNNY

It’s important to be funny but it’s also equally important to not force it

when being funny. I’ve seen guys try way too hard to be funny and it

doesn’t go the way they want it to and they end up looking weird. Like, if

you send a funny meme or picture for no reason at all, she may think IT is

funny but she’s won’t necessarily say YOU are funny just because she

laughs. She’ll associate her laughter with the picture. You are just the

messenger.

BUT, if that same image or meme would be an absolutely perfect

response to what she just said in a conversation or what you’re saying,

then when she laughs, she’ll associate the “funniness” with YOU because

you were clever enough with your timing and logic to know it was a good

opportunity to use it. It’s all about the timing, situation, and mood.

I have a habit of hearing a really funny, corny, cheesy, or stupid joke and

I’ll start out my text by sharing the joke. I don’t say “hi” or anything else.

I’ll just say, “Wanna hear a really stupid joke?” and then I’ll tell her

whether she says yes or no.

Because of my timing and cleverness, she associates me and my sense of

humor with the laugh she’s getting.



COMMUNICATE YOU’RE BUSY AND HAVE A LIFE

The second she even thinks you don’t have a life and you’re just waiting

by your phone for her to text back, you’re done. It’s over. It’s a wrap. You

lose.

The logical part of your mind tells you, “If she knows I’m all about her and

I’m always available and waiting for her text, then she’ll think it’s cute,

thoughtful, loving, and I’ll really stand out in her mind as a great guy!”

But that’s not how it really works.

The less you text her and the longer you wait to text back, within reason,

the more she thinks you’re busy and the more she actually wants to text

you and talk to you.

She doesn’t like the guys who she KNOWS, for a fact, are available the

second she texts them. She likes the guys who are harder to figure out

and that she has to wait on.

The more she waits and thinks about them, within reason, the more she

“tricks” her unconscious mind into actually “liking them”, and feeling

attraction for them, and even missing them.



COMMUNICATE HIGH STATUS WITH YOUR TIMING

So when you’re communicating that you’re busy, have a life, not a lonely

loser, not desperate, not needy, and not putting her on a pedestal, you

become higher-status in her mind.

Low-status men, like guys who have no friends, act like hermits, are shy,

full of fear, desperate, needy, clingy, don’t have a life or career path

they're focused on, etc., are what she’s actively trying to avoid and

through your timing, you communicate you’re not a low-status guy.

She has enough experience with texting to recognize, by your texting

habits, timing, and words, that you’re either a low-status guy or you’re a

high-status guy. It doesn’t matter if you think, “But this isn’t fair! I’m not

like the other guys! She’s making a mistake!” Life isn’t fair and the sooner

you understand and realize it, the more success you’ll have with women.

High-status guys are busy, text back when they’re not busy, and even if

they aren’t, they NEVER text back too soon because they understand it

can look desperate.



STOP CHECKING YOUR PHONE AND RELAX

High-status guys, and I know this from experience and having a lot of

high-status friends, don’t have their phone in hand 24 hours a day. They

put it on the counter, leave it in their room or car, or they just leave it in

their pocket and they forget about it. Even when it’s ringing, they won’t

even look at it! It can be their wife and they’ll say, “I don’t care. She

knows I’m busy and I’ll call her back later.”

They don’t stress about offending anyone because they didn’t text back

or answer the phone right away. They don’t make a big deal about the

phone. It’s just a stupid phone to them. It’s irritating to “needy” people,

but it also makes the person they’re calling or texting more important in

their mind.

Become the same way and you’ll notice that your value to women and

others will go up because you’re harder to reach.

My phone is off during work hours and when I’m done, that’s when I get

back to family, friends, and women.



IT’S OK TO TAKE YOUR TIME WHEN REPLYING

So you may be thinking, “Man, what an asshole thing to do!” but that’s

only because you’re seeing it from a scarcity and “wanting to please

others” point of view.

If you’ve read my other books and products, then you’ve learned that

people like you less when you’re a people pleaser and you’re “too easy”

for them.

That being said, if the girl you like or a friend of yours gets mad because

you don’t get back to them right away, it’s their problem to worry about,

not yours.

On your end, it’s not a dick move. It’s not a jerk move. It doesn’t make

you an asshole. It doesn’t make you mean.

It only makes those around you want to talk to you more because, now,

you’re less accessible and harder to reach.

The most powerful, successful, and desired men in the world are harder

to reach!

We ALL like people more when we know they’re not the easiest person to

talk to so stop being in fear of offending her because you don’t text back

right away.

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BE BALLSY AND UNAFRAID OF HER

When she knows you’re afraid of her, it’s time to wrap it up and go home

because you don’t stand a chance with her.

Taking your time to get back to her communicates that you don’t worship

her, you haven’t placed her on a pedestal, you don’t think about her

24/7, she’s not your only option, you value yourself and your time, you

have bigger things happening in your life than just her, and you’re

unafraid of her.

It shows her you’re ballsy – even if she hasn’t seen your balls yet!

All the women you like and want that are dating “jerks and bad boys”,

what do most of those guys have in common?

They’re ballsy and unafraid of her!

Mark Cuban says you have to be able to learn from the people you don’t

like, despise, and even hate, and if you can’t, you’re a moron who will

never learn.

You may hate the guys who are able to get the girls you can’t, but you

can still learn priceless lessons from them.



STOP CARING WHAT SHE THINKS

So, everything combined, taking your time to get back to her, not being

overly concerned with your phone, and being unafraid of her,

communicates that you really don’t care too much about what other

people think of you – which is a trait women find very attractive!

When she knows that you actually do care, way too much, what she

others think about you, it turns her off to the idea of wanting to text you

and date you.

Think about the people you know who always care too much what others

think and think about how it makes you feel when you’re around them…

Irritating and repulsive isn’t it?

That’s how she feels when she notices you needlessly placing way too

much importance on her opinion.

The most successful men in our world DO NOT CARE, one bit, what

everyone around them, in the media, and on the internet are saying

about them.

If they know that what they’re doing is in alignment with their values,

thoughts, beliefs, principles, and their path in life, then they’re unphased

by the opinion of others.



TELL HER SLIGHTLY LESS THAN WHAT SHE’S TELLING YOU

It’s unsafe and very dumb to share your “feelings” and pour your heart

out to her to try and turn the tables, get momentum on your side, and to

make her feel attraction for you. Don’t EVER make the mistake of

thinking that sharing your feelings to give your relationship or friendship

with her a boost is a genius idea. Millions of men before you have had the

same thought and it ended up ruining everything.

Do not tell her more about feelings than what she’s telling you. If she

says, “I like you, you’re cool”, then you say, “I like you too. You’re cool

too. But I’m cooler.” It does not mean to pour your heart out because

you think she likes you as much as you like her. When women tell me,

“I’m in love with you”, I don’t freak out and say, “Oh my God! My prayers

are answered! I’ve been in love with you since day one and I want to

marry you!” If I’m feeling it too, I’ll say, “Well I think I feel the same way

too”. Be smart about it. Never get excited and share your feelings first.

Never tell her more than she’s telling you. Otherwise, there’s a HUGE

chance of her freaking out.



BE A GREAT LISTENER

Think about your past and pay attention to yourself next time you’re

talking or texting with a girl you like – are you talking too much and only

thinking about the next thing you want to say? Or are you actually letting

her talk more than you and listening to her so you can understand where

she’s coming from and what point she’s trying to get to? When you listen

and say the point she’s trying to get to and she says, “Yea! That!”, then

she knows you’re listening to her.

Think about conversations you’ve had with strangers and at the end, you

really liked them a lot, felt like they understood you, and you enjoyed

your time with them. They probably were very good listeners and weren’t

too interested in talking about themselves. They were probably good at

making you feel understood, important, and that they cared about what

you were saying. It’s possible to do this when texting her!

Let her talk and keep turning the conversation around so she has to

elaborate and talk more about herself than you talk about yourself. This

makes her feel important, understood, and that you actually care to

listen to what she’s saying – even if you don’t.



END THE TEXTING CONVERSATION ON A HIGH NOTE

Whatever point you’re at with her in a conversation, that’s what she’ll

remember if you end it there. If you let the conversation get boring, she’ll

remember it being boring - because the effect of negativity is THAT

powerful. If you end the conversation on a high note, she’s thinking

you’re great, she’s laughing, and she’ll remember you being awesome

and funny.

Now repeat this process over and over when you text her, call her, or go

out on dates with her and magically, you’re the most amazing guy she

knows because other guys don’t know or use this principle.

It’s not hard to end conversations either. Just say, “Hey, it’s been fun

chatting. Gotta go. I’ll hit you up Friday so you can take me out to dinner!

” You don’t have to say why you have to go or what you’re going to be

doing. Leave it a mystery. Don’t be an open book. She’s not your mom.

She doesn’t need an explanation. You don’t need her approval. Just end

the conversation when it’s awesome and you’ll reinforce the belief in her

mind of that you’re a really awesome guy.



PART 6: WHAT TO DO

WHEN YOU FIRST START

TEXTING HER



DON’T FOLLOW THE “3 DAY RULE”

The “3 day rule” stuff worked for 5 minutes when it was a fresh thought

in the dating world but then after it became overused, overshared, and

engrained as a “rule” in our culture and society got a hold of it, it no

longer worked because women were like, “I know that trick”.

So now it’s considered ancient thinking.

We live in a much faster-paced society today and back when we only had

phones that were stuck on the wall or had cords, it was a little bit more

effective.

But now, waiting 3 days for someone to call or text is like waiting an

entire year.

It’s just too slow for the way we do things now.

In How to Quit Being a Loser with Women, I talk about how many times

attractive women get hit on, and even unattractive women, and within 3

days, she can be chatting with a guy who moved faster than you and

there’s a huge chance she’ll barely remember you.

So get the 3 day rule out of your mind because texting within a day or

two is less likely, today, to freak her out than 10 years ago.




SEND A QUICK TEXT RIGHT AFTER GETTING HER NUMBER

Something I do, that has always worked well for me, is if I get her number

and have to leave, she has to leave, or we just have to go our separate

ways, I’ll be sure to send her a quick text to let her know it was fun

chatting with her and I’m sure to tell her to save my number.

Make sure you tell her to save your number because that’s the first step

to showing her you’re a guy who isn’t afraid to say what you want. Many

guys ask, “Can you save my number?” almost as if they’re afraid. Don’t do

that.

“Hey, it’s Marc. The awesome guy you were hitting on a few minutes ago.

Fun chatting with you and we have to get together soon to hang out.

Make sure to save my number or we’ll have to get a divorce.”

I send the text soon after she leaves and I’m still fresh on her mind and

then I am sure to still be funny, relaxed, and cool about everything.

I also don’t waste time telling her I’d like to see her and hang out with her

again.



DON’T TAKE TOO LONG TO TEXT OR SHE’LL FORGET ABOUT YOU

If you take too long, like following the 3 day rule, the excitement and

good emotions she was feeling during the initial contact are more likely

to fade away and you won’t be as “special” anymore.

You have to act quickly to keep the emotions going.

1. Get her number while talking to her – even if she’s going to be going

home with you.

2. Make sure to send a quick and fun text not long after you and her part

ways.

3. If you don’t set up a time and date to see each other again after that

first text, wait a day or two, see what she’s up to, and then tell her you

want to go out again that weekend or meet up for lunch. Nothing too big.

Baby steps.

4. If she can’t go, let her know that you have some stuff happening over

the next few days and then reach out to her again a few days later, unless

she texts you first.

Keep the emotions alive or she can lose interest.



MENTION YOUR NAME AGAIN IN CASE SHE FORGETS

Notice in the example text I originally sent that the first thing I did was

repeat my name so she remembers.

Yes, women DO forget men’s just like we forget theirs.

With so much happening around us, it’s not hard to forget a name.

Don’t say something stupid like, “I hope you didn’t forget my name

already!” because it looks desperate and like you’re used to women not

taking you seriously.

It communicates low status.

Say it in a way that makes you sound confident, cool, and relaxed.

You don’t have to mention your last name because it’s not necessary and

it sometimes sounds weird.

Her only knowing your first name is good because it can add to the

element of mystery that you’re trying to build.



TELL HER IT WAS NICE MEETING HER

You’ll also notice that I told her it was fun chatting with her.

This isn’t kissing her ass or putting her on a pedestal because it’s just you

being polite – and there’s nothing wrong with being polite to her. Even

bad boys and jerks are very polite when they need to be.

You’re letting her know you enjoyed her company.

You’re being a cool guy who’s welcoming and friendly.

It’s not giving away too much information and taking a chance of her

thinking you’re a creep.

It’s just enough for her to know you’re interested but, at the same time,

not making yourself look too easy.

Being polite is not old-fashioned and can definitely earn you cool points

very early on.



ASK HER HOW THE REST OF HER DAY OR NIGHT WENT

When she texts me the next day or I reach out to her a day or two later to

set up a date to see her again, I always am sure to ask her how the rest of

her day or night went.

Doing this can reignite some of the emotions she was feeling when she

gave you her number because her mind goes back to that moment.

It also can lead to good conversation because she can be like, “Ooooh,

you’ll never guess what happened! Some girl fell off the bar while

dancing! Wish you could have been there to see it! It was pretty funny!”

Then you can see that as an opportunity to tease her, make her laugh,

and get her to see you as funny (if she doesn’t already) by accusing her of

being the girl who was drunk and dancing on the bar. Good stuff.

This also shows that you’re showing interest in her life and activities and

you’re not worried about talking about yourself. It shows you’re a cool

and laid back guy who enjoys hearing about her.



USE CALLBACK CONTEXT

So if something was going on at the place you met her or you and her had

a great conversation about something, you can use callback context to

get her texting more.

“So I’m curious. Did you and your friend kiss and make up or is she still

mad at you?”

This can often lead to a good conversation as well because she can be

like, “Oooh let me tell you about that!” and then you can say something

like, “Let’s have lunch and you can tell me about it. Meet me at 12 at

Such and Such Place.” Pretty slick, eh?

So that way, not only will you see her, but you don’t have to worry as

much about what to talk about.

She’ll do all the talking and you just sit back and say, “What?”, “No way”,

“That’s cool”, or “That sounds like it was fun.”

You can use the opportunity to be a good listener, she’ll love you for it,

and hopefully want to see you again.

Don’t ever use callback context if it’s about another dude, regardless of

who he is. Just don’t go there. It can make her think about him instead of

you. Bad move.



GET TO THE POINT

Many of us go wrong when we start texting her right away because we’re

not clear about our goal and strategy to reaching that goal and so we

waste a bunch of valuable time doing things and texting her about things

that aren’t going to build more attraction at a fast pace.

We’re just “winging” it and thinking, hoping, and praying SHE is going to

invite us out on the date but, realistically, it’s only something that

happens once in a while.

You have to get straight to the point and strike the iron while it’s still hot

so you’re not wasting valuable time.

If she sets something up first, great! But most of the time, it won’t

happen.

The longer you’re playing around and just wanting to talk about nothing

important, the more of a chance you’re taking of making her bored and

changing her mind about you.

Get to the point immediately, but within reason.

The sooner you’re face to face with her, the better your chances of taking

things to the next level with her.



GET THE DATE ASAP

So getting to the point, in my mind, means hanging out with her again

and being face to face with her again as soon as possible because that’s

when all the good emotions, thoughts, and excitement about you are still

fresh in her mind. The opportunity is there and you have to act on it

before it’s gone.

Remember, women’s attention spans are getting shorter and shorter and

you have to be quick to keep her attention, keep her interested, and to

move things from one stage to the next before she forgets about you or

changes her mind about you.

If you wait to get the date, either because you’re scared or you don’t

want to move “too soon”, then when the “right time” to ask her out rolls

around, she may have already moved on to a different guy – whether it’s

in her mind or in reality.

It’s better to move quickly than to “take things slow” because you can

always slow down later as the relationship progresses but it’s too late to

speed things up and act faster once she’s no longer interested in going

out with you. When the opportunity is fresh, man up, take risks, and put

yourself out there.



“WHAT’S YOUR SCHEDULE LOOKING LIKE THIS WEEKEND?”

I heard some guy named “Tripp” say this on a video, you’re probably

more familiar with him than I am, and I thought it was a pretty good,

smooth, and simple way to find out if she’s busy or not.

It’s a good way to set yourself up to knowing the right time to asking her

out.

If you ask her, “What’s your schedule like this weekend?” and she says

she will be with family and out of town, then it would be pretty dumb to

say, “Well, you wanna go out Saturday?”

Asking her what her schedule is looking like doesn’t set off any “panic

alarms” in her head and really just makes it look like you’re making small

talk and being a cool guy. It’s better than, “Hey, you don’t have any plans

this weekend do you?” because it not only sounds more desperate, but

then she’ll also be thinking, “Oh goodness, here it comes.”

Asking her this question makes it easier get a feel for the right

opportunity to set something up with her.



INVITE HER TO MEET YOU

99% of the time, when I text or tell her, “Hey, I’m going to be at _____

tonight (or this weekend) and I guess you’re cool enough for me to invite

you. It’ll be fun. Don’t be lame” or something similar, it works great.

I don’t get any weird vibes or negative feedback and, if by chance I do, I

don’t make a big deal about it.

Guys who are scared don’t “invite” women to meet up with them – they

ask their permission - and that’s the first thing that sets you apart from

other men because you’re not seeking her approval. You’re doing the

opposite and letting her know that she can hang out with YOU.

It communicates your level of confidence and that you’re comfortable

being a leader and in charge – which women definitely want, are looking

for, and don’t find too often.

Want her to view you as a higher-status guy? Invite her to meet you.

Want her to see you as more interesting? Invite her to meet you.

Want her to see you as fun? Invite her to meet you.



“YOU SHOULD”, “WE SHOULD”, “LET’S”, AND “COME WITH ME”

I also use the phrases:

“You Should…”

“We Should…”

“Let’s…”

“Come With Me”

If you think about it – this is how we normally talk to people that we

know aren’t going to reject us.

We don’t think twice about it and it’s what naturally comes out of our

mouth when we’ve been friends with someone for a long time.

So why not just shortcut the system and avoid all the politically correct

stuff that most guys say?

You have a much better chance of her saying “yes” or “ok” if you don’t

make things weird by being too formal and you’re just relaxed about it.

Just talk to her the way you’d talk to any of your friends and the way her

friends would talk to her.



DON’T MAKE IT SEEM AS IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO DO

Do not, under any circumstances, text her and say, “Hey, I don’t have

anything to do, want to go out?”

Although there are times that she won’t think anything of it, most of the

time it communicates to her that you’re lame, boring, unfocused, and

you don’t have interesting things happening in your life.

The most subtle things communicate a lot so it’s highly important not to

make it seem like you don’t have anything to do and you don’t have a

life. EVEN IF you really don’t have a life and have nothing to do, it’s more

attractive to make it seem as if you do – but do it without lying. Let her

mind WANDER about you.

It’s not lying or being manipulative in any way and I’m not telling you to

go making up stories to cover up the truth – I’m just saying to keep your

mouth shut about it because you’re taking a huge risk of looking lame.

If you really don’t have anything interesting happening in your life, then

get busy building a life that keeps you busy, interesting, and exciting to

be around.



AVOID LAST MINUTE INVITATIONS

Last minute invitations are stressful on anyone and the only way she’ll

accept a last minute invitation from you is:

1. She’s really bored and not doing anything - which isn’t very common

2. She’s absolutely crazy about you – in which she probably would have

already invited you out somewhere

Women need time to process things, get ready, do their makeup, and

mentally prepare for the date.

If she doesn’t have an advanced notice, there’s a good chance she’ll freak

out, not know what to think or say, and she’ll just say, “no” because she

doesn’t like being put on the spot. But on top of that, women usually

make plans with friends a few days in advance so if you hit her up within

24-48 hours of when you want to go out with her, it might be too late

because she’s already booked.

I’m not sure how other guys do it, but it usually works pretty well for me

when I give her at least a 72-hour notice. The only time I do last minute

invitations is if I know for sure she’s into me, will say, “yes”, and if it’s

something simple like going out for a drink.



WHAT TO DO IF SHE DOESN’T TEXT BACK

This is the biggest problem I’ve seen men face when it comes to women

and dating and it happens MORE than you can ever imagine. Regardless

of the amazing chemistry between you and her and how we’ll you’ve

been playing it, there’s always that chance that she may not text back –

and that’s the kicker. It even happens to every single guy who is good

with women and it’s something you have to be mentally prepared to

handle. You can’t freak out and cry about it.

You have to remain open to the possibility that it can and will happen

when you least expect it and without this mindset, you’ll only torture

yourself and respond to it in the wrong way. Remaining open to the

possibility of it happening at ANY TIME, gives you a better chance of

playing it cool. When it’s all said and done, it doesn’t matter WHY she’s

not texting you back. You can’t control her. You can’t control the

situation. But you CAN control how you respond to it. That’s the constant

variable. That’s where your power lies.

When she doesn’t text back, DO NOT:

- Keep asking her what’s wrong

- Send her a bunch of messages

- Get mad and be mean

- Feel like an idiot and blame it on yourself

- Start apologizing for what you “think” it is

- Contact her friends

- Messaging her on social media

- Calling her a bunch of times

- Show up at her house or work



When she doesn’t text back, DO:

- Wait it out

- Be cool, relaxed, and “whatever” about it

- Be open about it

- Stay busy and don’t think about it

It’s cool to send her ONE text like, “Everything cool? Haven’t heard from

you” but if you don’t hear back, just wait it out. If you don’t hear anything

after a week or two, I would just forget about it and move on. It sucks,

but sometimes the best decisions are the hardest ones.



CONCLUSION: STICK TO

WHAT YOU HAVE

LEARNED AND

EXPERIMENT



AVOID TRYING TO BE PERFECT

Yes, getting good at texting women takes some practice, unless you were

born with the natural gift of gab, but most of us are not that lucky.

The more you text and the more experience you get, the easier it will

become.

You don’t have to get it right the first time.

You’re going to screw up a few times after reading this book.

You’re going to make mistakes.

You’re going to wonder, “Why the hell did I just do that? I knew I should

have waited and played it cool.”

I don’t know of a single guy who gets it right 100% of the time.

None of us do and you won’t either. Be ok with that.

Be open to the possibility that you’re going to mess up and then you can

have a good laugh about and tell some friends so they can laugh at you

and with you.

This is the only way you’re going to learn, grow, and enjoy the process

and mistakes along the way.



DON’T BE AFRAID TO EXPERIMENT AND TRY NEW THINGS

The reason I’ve learned most of this stuff is because I wasn’t afraid to

think outside of the box and to try new things. Did all of them go as

planned? No. Did some of them work better than I thought they would?

You bet your ass they did. Texting is still a relatively new technology,

concept, and way of communication for us. It’s become a way of life!

We don’t make big advancements and breakthroughs by sticking to what

we think works. Our biggest achievements in the human race were made

because there were men and women brave enough to experiment, try

new things, and they ended up changing the way the world works

forever.

Live on the edge of your comfort zone and when it comes to texting,

don’t be afraid to try new things. Don’t be afraid to fail. You learn

something every single time – even if you screw it all up! But if it works,

you just may discover something awesome that will give you a major

advantage and that no other man on earth will know! That’s called

leverage.



DON’T TRY TO REINVENT THE WHEEL EITHER

The billionaire Elon Musk, the dude trying to colonize Mars, the dude

who is behind Tesla Electric Cars, and the dude who is behind Solar City,

may look like he’s reinventing the wheel, but he is simply taking the

fundamental principles that have been around forever and using them in

ways that they’ve never been used before to reach his very ambitious

goals. He’s also making a lot more effort in the process than those around

him are making.

Metaphorically speaking, he’s making the wheel better rather than trying

to recreate it. He understands wheels are hard to replace but there’s no

reason they can’t be improved. There’s always room for improvement.

The stuff you’ve learned in this book work very well and I advise you to

stick to it and use it on a fundamental level because it will get you headed

in the right direction when you’re texting the women you like. Don’t try

reinventing texting, just aim to make it better in any way that you can

through trying new things, experimenting, and improving the process.

Thank you for reading!



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