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Suicide Prevention
Shadle Park HS, April 2, 2015
Dr. Dave Crump, Director SPSChris Moore, Coordinator, SPSSabrina Votova, Coordinator, Youth Suicide Prevention Program
Today’s agenda
• Signs and Symptoms• Contagion and Glamorization• Communication• Community Resources• Questions & Answers
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Depression among adolescents is extremely rare, and the symptoms are so dramatic that it is obvious when depression affects a teen.
MYTH
Depression is actually relatively common among youth. Symptoms may be subtle, confusing, or hard to distinguish from normal adolescent behavior.
Myth or Fact?
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Normal adolescent behavior
• Testing rules and limits
• Touchy if asked too many questions
• Moody at times
• Easily embarrassed
• Amplified emotions and reactions
• Moving away from family – peer-oriented and motivated by peers' approval
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Signs and Symptoms of Suicide
• Increased use of alcohol and/or drugs• Changing normal routine, such as eating and
sleeping patterns
• Preoccupied with death, dying or violence
• Feeling trapped and hopeless
• Engaging in risky and/or self-destructive behavior
• Giving away personal belongings© YSPP
Signs and Symptoms of Suicide
• Lack of or difficulty concentrating
• Feelings of worthlessness or guilt
• Impulsivity
• Hyperactivity
• Talking or joking about suicide
• Mood swings
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Signs and Symptoms of Suicide
• Developing personality changes, such as becoming very shy or outgoing
• Talking positively about death or romanticizing dying (“If I were dead, people might love me more.”)
• Saying things like, “I’d be better off dead”, “I wish I could disappear forever”, or “There’s no way out.”
• Writing stories or poetry about death, dying or suicide
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Depression
• Depression is an illness that involves the body, mood, and thoughts
• It effects the way a person eats, sleeps, thinks, and the way one feels about oneself, others and life
• It engulfs your day to day life, interfering with one’s ability to work, study, eat and have fun
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Youth depression: Facts
• One in every 8 adolescents may have depression. Major depression is more common in higher-risk groups.
• The majority of children and adolescents with depression do not get help they need.
• Depression is a treatable illness that is not the person’s fault.
• Treatment for depression includes counseling, sometimes with medication.
• Irritability
• Persistent anxiety and/or feelings of sadness
• A drop in school performance
• Problems with authority
• Indecision, lack of concentration
• Poor self-esteem
• Overreaction to criticism
• Frequent physical complaints
Signs of youth depression
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• Helplessness, hopelessness, sadness
• Loss of interest in activities
• Appetite or weight change
• Sleep changes
• Loss of energy
• Easily loses temper
• Anger or hostility
• Self-loathing
• Tearful, frequent crying
• Withdrawal from loved ones
Signs of youth depression
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• Problems at school
• Running away
• Drug and alcohol abuse
• Fixation on suicide
• Talking about death
• Giving away prized/special possessions
Signs of youth depression
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When your depressed student begins to feel better.
A time for caution
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It’s more than just a bad day.
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• This is second only to depression as a risk factor!
• Often goes hand in hand with mental disorders
• More than 3 times more likely to consider, plan or attempt suicide
• Among substance abusers, 11% had serious thoughts of suicide
Substance Abuse and Suicide
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There are gender differences in youth suicide risk.
FACT
While girls are more likely to attempt suicide than boys are, boys often choose more dangerous methods and are more likely to die from suicide.
Myth or Fact?
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Signs of suicidal thinking: The FACTS
Feelings• Sad, lonely, hopeless, in pain, moody, irritable, increased depression
Actions• Pushing away friends and family, giving away important possessions, using alcohol/drugs, making unsafe decisions, looking at suicide plans, making art or writing about death, saying goodbye
•Changes Changes in school performance, appearance or hygiene,
personality or attitude
ThreatsSaying they’re going to kill themselves, saying goodbye
Situations• A recent crisis or trigger situation
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Youth who talk about suicide aren't the ones who are serious about it; they are just trying to get attention.
MYTH80% of youth who attempt suicide have talked
about it or shown warning signs. These are other, more serious signs that a youth might be considering suicide:
• Talking about suicide, wishing they were dead or wanting to die
• Talking about suicide plan
Myth or Fact?
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How do you support your child or loved one?
You must first understand what people (including yourself) may
be feeling
Feelings after a tragedy
• Shock • Disbelief• Numb• Scared• Sad• Angry• Helpless• Guilt• Relief
Physical stress responses to a tragedy
• Trembling or shaking• Dizziness• Pounding heart• Rapid breathing • Racing thoughts• Lump in throat; feeling choked
up• Stomach tightening or churning
The Unknowing
The difficult part is not knowing what the person is feeling and experiencing…
Thinking of You
• It is natural to feel nervous or even afraid of facing another person's painful feelings.
• It is important not to let these feelings prevent you from doing what you can to help someone who is struggling.
• The most important thing to do is simply to be there and listen and show you care.
What is Suicide Contagion and Glamorization?
Contagion Suicide
Grief
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Over-identification
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Fixation
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An increase in suicidal behavior among vulnerable people who have been exposed to suicide
Risk Factors for Contagion Suicide
1. A triggering event ~ a suicide +
2. Media coverage AND social media
3. Close friends and “close friends”
4. Vulnerable groups of students
Glamorization
• News
• Media
• Social Media
Glamorization
• Memorials
• Yearbooks
What is a Suicide Pact
An agreement between two or more people to commit suicide together.
Dynamics of a Suicide Pact
• Feelings of severe, emotional problems; hopeless and helpless
• Support each other in living• Engage in mutual activities• Openly discuss feelings• Idea of suicide becomes easier• Efforts to support each other fall short• Efforts to get help from others fail• Lose hope
Ultimate Tragedy
These once supportive individuals encourage each other in suicidal behavior.
“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest
compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the
potential to turn a life around.”
-Dr. Leo Buscaglia, Author and Motivational Speaker
Communicating
• Verbal Communication• Non-Verbal Communication
Listen
• Without judgment• Take what they say seriously• Do not be afraid to ask the question,
“Are you thinking of committing suicide?”
What Not to Say
• “I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.”• “Don’t feel ________.” (sad, angry,
guilty)• “It will be better tomorrow.”• “Don’t cry.”• “At least you’re not hurt.”• “She’s in a better place.”• “We are all upset.”• “He’s out of his pain.”• “It could be worse.”• “You have to stay strong for your kids.”
Emotions Are Rarely Simple
Don't be distressed by differences in the your child responds. It may be different from yours!
One person may react very calmly.
Another may express strong feelings.
One person may have an immediate emotional response.
Another may be "numb" at first and respond emotionally later.
NON VERBAL – BODY LANGUAGE
Scientists say that body language accounts for 80% of the message we try to tell others and that what we actually
say is only 20%.
How do you support your child or loved one?
• Be understanding• Encourage physical activity• Encourage social activity• Learn more about depression• Get in treatment / Stay involved in
treatment• Consider medication
Consult, consult, consult!
Do not be afraid to ask for help.
You are not alone.
Community Resources: Crisis or Help Numbers
First Call for Help (FBH)
509-838-4428
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-273-8255
The Trevor Project
1-866-488-7386
Crisis Text Line
741-741
Children’s Home Society
509-747-4174
Community Resources: Training
QPR Institute
ASIST
Networks for Life from YSPP
Community Resources: Websites
www.smilelifework.org
www.nowmattersnow.org
www.srhd.org (healthy communities, suicide prevention)
www.yspp.org
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org