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Whether your child prefers to take center stage or work behind the scenes, Kudos Children’s Theater Company in Stockton gives kids the chance to work together and build their confidence in a fun and creative atmosphere. The company offers production classes, which are roughly ten weeks long and culminate with a live show (eight per year); and workshops, which are shorter and cover topics like acting and vocal performance. The company even has a popular theater makeup class, where kids learn to use professional materials like latex and spirit gum to create monstrous makeup effects. The company was started by Sarah and Richard Rushton, and Rob and Ria Kroff, who wanted to provide local kids with a creative outlet that had previously been missing in San Joaquin. Working with the Parks and Recreation Department, they were able to found Kudos in 2003. “Kids run everything here,” says co-founder Sarah Rushton. “They’re onstage, back stage, doing lighting, microphones, stage managing, ushering, running the deck, helping with scene shifts. They all rely on each other to pull this off.” Kudos classes are available for kids as young as 3 and as old as 19 years old. Classes and workshops run throughout the year, and can be viewed on the Kudos website. —Katy Berry

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Joe Sandoval Keeping Music in our Schools

BY KATIE DONAHUE

Two years ago, the Lodi Unified School District was forced to lose its band program due to budget cuts. As a response, Bear Creek High School music teacher, Joe Sandoval, created the Bruin

Elementary Bands program in an effort to keep music alive for local kids. Today, more than eighty elementary school students gather at Bear Creek High School each Tuesday afternoon to participate in Sandoval’s program.

Sandoval began playing the clarinet when he was in fifth grade and has been teaching music for twenty-five years. Today, the saxophone is his primary instrument, though he is required to play all of the band instruments in order to teach. Sandoval combined forces with Kathy Evans of Manilo Silva Elementary in order to organize the current after-school program.

Two Bear Creek alumni also participate as band director and percussion instructor. The turnout for the program was much higher than Sandoval expected, and children from local public, private, and charter schools are all welcome to participate. “I have to admit I was surprised that we had such an overwhelming response given the economic climate,” says Sandoval, adding that the number of kids involved says a lot about local families and their commitment to their children’s education. To encourage new students to join, the program occasionally hosts a ‘Meet the Instruments Night’ in which a variety of instruments are put on display for students to test. “That’s always an amazing evening, to see the kids having so much fun,” says Sandoval. “A lot of kids come in with an idea of what they want to play and come away with something completely different.” Music not only benefits a child’s development in terms of cognitive ability, small motor coordination, and eye scanning, but it benefits them socially as well. “When you’re in a band, it’s like you’re in a family. You have a place where you belong.” Sandoval says that band participation helps students develop leadership

skills, cooperation, and personal responsibility. Sandoval says he hopes that every student who participates in the program will develop a lifelong love of music, and a participation in music that extends beyond high school and college. The students held their winter concert in December, and Sandoval is looking to hold future performances at some of the larger elementary schools. In May, a final spring concert will be held at Bear Creek High School. Though the budget cuts have been a disappointing reality, the school district is doing the best they can with what they have to work with, Sandoval says, adding that they have had to make tough decisions. “I’m hoping and crossing my fingers that it will get better,” he says. Ultimately, Sandoval says he’d like to see music programs taught by band teachers in local schools again, thereby eliminating the need for his program. Until that day comes, he is committed to providing this resource to local students. “I will do it as long as it’s necessary,” he says.


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Nowadays, everyone seems to be getting organic and earth-friendly, including new moms. It’s no wonder the old-school cloth diaper method is becoming en vogue. Besides the fact that they look cute and have funny names like Cutie Poops or Pooters, parents are also switching over for health concerns and monetary reasons. Still, for many, the idea of reusing diapers elicits a cringe. So are cloth diapers really better than disposables? The biggest reason why moms are switching over to cloth diapers is due to proposed health risks. Since the diaper industry is self regulating, it’s not required to list diaper ingredients on the label. Disposable diapers contain a variety of plastics, adhesives, glues, elastics and lubricants, some of which can cause irritation. In 2010 Pampers was the subject of two lawsuits that connected their “dry max” technology with serious rashes, though Pampers denied allegations in both cases. Two particularly eye-raising ingredients include polyacrylate, the “super absorbent gel” which has been linked

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Raising ReadersBY JENNIFER THORNTON

Video games, apps, and gadgets thatbegin with the letter “i,” oh my! Boundand determined to increase your kids’ love of books? Read all about it.

Make it the kids’ choiceA common mistake parents make is expecting their kids to love the same books that snag their attention. Kids have inter-ests that don’t always jive with adults (you might love Ameri-can Girl books, for example, but your little adventurer leans more towards Scholastic’s I Sur-vived series), so hand over the decision-making. Kids who have ownership of their reading ma-terial—and a library card—are more likely to read simply for pleasure. And parents, not every book needs to be educational. The surest way to capsize your kid’s enthusiasm is to over-stress the learning curve. So table the edification, and keep the focus on fun.

Read aloud Carving out time to read to your child is one of the most nurtur-ing acts a parent can give. So, no matter how harried the sched-ule, take a calming ten minutes before bedtime to snuggle close together and read—kids enjoy taking turns (you pick a book, I pick a book; you turn a page, I turn a page). And don’t just blather on—engage interest; Pause to look at the pictures, ask for your child’s thoughts about what is happening in the story, ask them to predict what will happen next, talk about how the story makes them feel, and what they might do differently. Doing so brings characters to life and fosters conversation.

Set the exampleWant your kids to be readers? Turn off the tube, stash the lap-top, and shut off your cell. The most effective way to get your kids to become enthusiastic readers is to be one yourself. Go to story time with your kids, schedule a family reading circle at home, and make a weekly li-brary date for the entire tribe. Over dinner, ask everyone which books they checked out, and why. And by all means, take five and read for yourself!

Incorporate technologyLeverage your kids’ insta-in-terest in technology to increase their love of books. Surf the websites of their favorite au-thors to build anticipation for their newest releases, have them join an online book club for kids (clubs.scholastic.com), or track their reading minutes online (SoarwithReading.com). PBSkids.org is a virtual trove of educa-tional games, writing contests and activities that invite kids to safely explore the interactive world of books.


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Tackling the Taboo:

TOUGH??'sKIDS ASK

“Mom, Dad—I have a question.” Oh jeez, you think, here it comes. Your brain freezes, your heart races, and you brace for the inevitable freak out. Yes, kids say the darndest things, but they ask the darndest questions too—and usually when you are least prepared to answer them.

No matter what, you can’t avoid the sweat-inducing inevitable. As long as there are kids on Earth, awkward questions will be posed. But according to noted psychologist Susan Bartell (drsusanbartell.com), author of The Top 50 Questions Kids Ask, you can and should prepare yourself to respond to any tricky inquiry, and the hot-button issue lurking behind it. The most important thing is to

not retreat. Take your child’s question seriously, even if it seems absolutely absurd to you (which in the early years is often). Doing so signals to your child that you take him seriously, fostering parental-child trust that opens up conversation later on in adolescence, when the questions become more serious—and so do the discussions.

So, from the merely curious (“Do dogs understand English?”) to the most unbelievble OMG moment you can imagine (“Why is Daddy on top of you?”), here’s what to say when your kids ask…

WHERE DO YOU GO WHEN YOU DIE?

THE REAL ISSUE: Death—what’s it all about? For starters, it is a part of life universal to the human experience. And yet, perhaps due to their own spiritual confl icts

or grieving process, many parents are either unwilling or unable to discuss it with their kids, choosing in some way to “shield” them from the pain. Although, developmentally, many kids have trouble grappling with the complexities of loss, it is a comfort to them when their parents openly talk about their feelings surrounding it, thereby encouraging them to do the same and dispelling their

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is important to let your teen show interest and to freely explore his feelings. “This is not a time to force your own belief system or opinions, it will simply make your teen rebel even more,” explains Dr. Bartell. “Encourage him to keep exploring and to talk to many people to learn different viewpoints. But at the same time, articulate your beliefs because your teen will eventually incorporate

it into what he believes.”

WHERE DO BABIES COME FROM?

THE REAL ISSUE: Sex. (Gulp.) First of all, don’t panic. Kids are fi rst and foremost curious. It’s natural for them to want to know how they got here. Usually, at the early stages, that’s all this question means, no more, no less.

THE RESPONSE: For young kids, keep it about the “birds and the bees.” Be clear—give an honest, concrete answer. “And don’t,” suggests Dr. Bartell, “give more information than your child actually wants. Talk a bit, then ask if your discussion has answered his question or if he needs more information. Stop when he says, ‘That’s enough.’ This is often a

multipart talk.”

TEEN TALK: It’s tricky for teens. And of course, the question is completely different and more likely to manifest in this form: “So, how old were you when you fi rst had sex?” In today’s highly-charged sexualized society, parents are hearing this question earlier than they probably asked it. So, feign calmness and be open to their inquiry, but not as open with your own private life, no matter how

much they pry. Instead, advises Dr. Bartell, “focus on generalities and your teen’s life now. Resist the urge to explain further, which at this point won’t be helpful—no matter what

your answer.”

WHY DON’T YOU LIVE HERE ANYMORE—DON’T YOU LOVE

US?THE REAL ISSUE: Divorce. Too often kids of divorce are caught in the middle of their parents’ confl ict, not only causing emotional confusion,

but also resentment and mistrust. They may internalize the split, and sadly, take the blame.

THE RESPONSE: “It is best to focus the conversation on how adults may fall out of love but parents never stop loving their kids—the two are

not connected,” says Dr. Bartell.

TEEN TALK: Divorce is often much harder on teens whose question may be, “How can you do this to me?” The

key is to not try and change their opinion. Instead, explains Dr. Bartell, acknowledge and take ownership of the hardship that the divorce has caused. “Apologize but explain—as often as need be—how the marriage was irreconcilable. Remind your child of a time when they broke up a friendship that wasn’t good. Be sure to keep teens out of the fi ghting or problems.”

IF DRINKING IS BAD FOR YOU, THEN WHY DO YOU DO IT?THE REAL ISSUE: Substance use. Media images, marketing campaigns and parental use of these substances give a kind of greenlight to kids that drinking, smoking, or using drugs is “cool” or

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acceptable—especially those with fragile self-esteems who are struggling to fi nd their own

identities.

THE RESPONSE: Start by clearly differentiating what is legal age and what is not. Then, says Dr. Bartell, “Explain the difference between drinking one glass and getting drunk.” Do this for younger kids by using the analogy of eating one piece of candy versus a whole bag and getting a stomach ache. Give them a full picture

of what is responsible and what is excessive.

TEEN TALK: Underage drinking and, more commonly, recreational to serious drug use, is an issue that many kids face, even those with so-called “good upbringings.” Also, teens are always trying to test the limits and jockeying for control—usually this means that they will try and prove you wrong. In verbal form this appears as, “Did you drink when you were my age?” Don’t take the bait. “Typically, it’s best not to engage this question,” Dr, Bartell affi rms. “But if you must, then focus on how you only tried it briefl y, didn’t continue, and that you regret it.” Follow this up with a consequence that will clearly resonate with them (i.e. “I got kicked off the team” or “I lost my driving privileges and

my car.”)

WHY DIDN’T I GET INVITED TO THAT PARTY?THE REAL ISSUE: Social Ostracism. As kids get older they start to align with certain groups—some children are “in,” and some are “out.” Kids on the fringes of the inner circle feel bad and so do their parents, who must never attack another child or their parents, no matter how miffed.

THE RESPONSE: “Resist the urge to blame the other person,” Dr. Bartell says. “Focus instead on the friends your child does have. Remind him that not everyone can be everyone’s friend—it’s not realistic.” If he is having a hard time socially, emphasize behaviors he may need to change to help fi t in. This may involve social skills training that will help him identify and adapt to social cues.

TEEN TALK: “If your teen is being left out, discuss with him why this may be the case,” says Dr. Bartell, adding that perhaps he is behaving in a way that is sabotaging social situations.” Like a younger child, he may need

help from a trained professional.

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The Three Things Parents Should Never Say or Do…

“You don’t want to shut your child down or make them feel that they can’t ask you questions,” explains

Dr. Bartell. With that in mind, never…

• Freak out. Don’t get angry or cry.

• Say, “You’re wrong.”

• Tell your child that you don’t believe him or her; keep exploring.

Creating a “Let’s Talk” Environment

“Please, feel free to ask.” How many times have you uttered that phrase to random strangers? And yet many parents never

say these powerful words to their own children. Here, Dr. Bartell tips off parents to ways they can foster a trustworthy environment that will encourage their kids to discuss with them their innermost

concerns and questions—for the long haul (teen years included).

• Don’t judge your child or their peers.

• Don’t talk too much; listen instead.

• Allow your child to talk about topics that seem trivial to you—they’ll never ask questions about important things

if they don’t think you care about what’s less important.

• Resist the urge to ask too many questions yourself—save this for “once in a while.”

• Don’t make fun of any question your child asks, and don’t laugh either.

• Don’t let older siblings make fun of questions asked, thereby seeming to dismiss the issue—and the child

posing the questions.

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What to see and do:Channel Islands National Park: The most popular and

largest island to visit is Santa Cruz, which offers visitors

plenty of exploratory options. You can get there by private

boat or through a charter, but we highly recommend the

primary transporter: Island Packers, which is licensed by

the National Park Service and will get you there in about an

hour. The boat also makes efforts to slow down if dolphins

or whales are spotted. (islandpackers.com) Once on the

island, your options include hiking, birding, snorkeling,

scuba diving, swimming, backpacking, kayaking and

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and near the cliffs provided unbelievable

vistas of the California coastline. (nps.gov/

channelislands) Our kayaking experience

was the best guide-led ocean kayak

venture we’ve had in years. We explored

a variety of other amazing tunnels and

grottos, including a 400 foot paddle into

Cavern Point Cave. (kayaksb.com)

Ventura (San Buenaventura): Although Ventura is not nearly as well known

as other California coastal communities, it

should be. Great beaches, exciting surfing

spots, a beautiful harbor and wonderful

walking/biking trails along the water are

welcome surprises. Shopping stops at the

world renowned Patagonia headquarters

will entice the outdoor aficionado and

Cheap Sports is nearby for those seeking

sporting goods bargains. (patagonia.com,

realcheapsports.com) Buenaventura Art

Gallery concentrates on featuring talented

local artists, (buenaventuragallery.org)

and the Erle Stanley Gardner Building—

the “birthplace of Perry Mason mystery

literature and TV shows”—is slated to be

developed into a dramatic special events

venue. For all things Ventura: ventura-usa.

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Oxnard: Maybe even less known

than Ventura, Oxnard also offers many

pleasant surprises, especially their

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Automotive Museum, a display of the world’s

largest collection of stunning Bugatti and French

race cars. (mullinautomotivemuseum.com)

Ventura County Maritime Museum presents

one of the country’s best collections of model

tall ships and other nautical exhibits. (vcmm.

org) Jim Hall Kart Racing School and Track have

been highly touted by Motor Trend Magazine.

(jimhallkartracing.com) Try renting a popular

Duffy Electric Boat and enjoy a quiet excursion

throughout the picturesque harbor channels.

(hopperboatrentals.com) Sign up for a sport

fishing trip to the islands and expect great catch

results including sole, sand dabs, rock fish, red

snapper, lobster and crab. (hookslanding.net)

For all things Oxnard: visitoxnard.com

Where to stay and dine: Oxnard: Our first choice for lodging when

visiting the area is Mandalay Bay Resort, an

Embassy Suites property. We’ve stayed here at

least four times over the past twenty years and

have never been disappointed. Lush landscaping

and a dazzling beach-side location make it

a no-brainer. Current ongoing renovations

of all their suites should only enhance their

reputation. Dining in their Capistrano Restaurant

offers California cuisine and their Sunday

brunch has been voted the county’s best.

(embassymandalay.com) For other dining picks,

La Dolce Vita is a local fave located in a restored

historic residence in Heritage Square, and

features Italian/Mediterranean fusion cuisine.

(theldv.com) SeaFresh Restaurant at the harbor

is a delightful casual al fresco dining experience.

(seafreshci.com) Cabo Seafood Grill and Cantina,

a very popular hangout for local’s, features

authentic Mexican fare and homemade tortillas.

(caboseafoodgrill.com)

Ventura: Crowne Plaza Ventura Beach claims

to be the city’s only oceanfront hotel and is a

great choice when you want to be within walking

distance of the historic downtown. Their C Street

restaurant specializes in California inspired

cuisine featuring regional vegetables and

cheeses. (cpventura.com) The award winning

Side Car restaurant has been open since 2004 and

is located in a beautifully restored 1910 Pullman

railroad dining car. (thesidecarrestaurant.com)

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Harlem GlobetrottersJanuary 17, Stockton

For 85 years, the Harlem Globetrotters have been wowing audiences with

their impeccable athletic ability, sense of humor, and undeniable skills with a

basketball. Not only do they know how to run opponents up and down the court,

but these mavericks will impress you with their amazing tricks as they spin balls,

slam dunks, and keep you guessing throughout their 2012 world tour. Come

see the team’s new rookies this year, including the shortest Globetrotter ever,

the tallest pro basketball player, and the first female Globetrotter in 19 years. 7

p.m. $16-$83. Stockton Arena, 248 W. Fremont St. Stockton, (209) 373-1400,

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Monster X TourJanuary 6-7, Stockton

For the first time ever, Stockton will be the motorsport entertainment

epicenter, as the nation’s most competitive Monster Trucks and Metal

Mulisha FMX Stunt Riders invade the Stockton Arena for this exciting,

family-friendly event. See the biggest performers on four wheels

weighing in at 10,000 pounds as they compete in racing, wheelie

contests and much more. Then rock the house with amazing

freestyle action during the Metal Mulisha FMX! Plus, you can meet

the drivers and see the trucks up close at the pre-event Autograph

Pit Party. 7 p.m. $7-$32. Stockton Arena, 248 W. Fremont St.

Stockton, (209) 373-1400, stocktonarena.com

Monster JamJanuary 20-22, Sacramento

Professional drivers will amaze with the power of their trucks

and their amazing stunts. This mix of racing and showmanship

draws more than four million fans into arenas and stadiums

every year, making it one of the largest touring family shows

in the world. Show times vary. $22.50-$52.50. Powerbalance

Pavillion, One Sports Parkway, Sacramento, (916) 928-6900,

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Insectfest January 21, Lodi

Creepy-crawly experts from the Bohart Museum of Entomology

at UC Davis and the Lodi Serpentarium will be bringing their

fascinating displays and other surprises to share with fellow bug

lovers at the WOW Science Museum. Kids and parents will have

much to explore and discover as they learn all about their favorite

insects from the experts. Insectfest will also have free face

painting, arts and crafts, and games for all ages. 10 a.m.-3 p.m.

$6 adults, $4 kids. World of Wonders Science Museum, 2 North

Sacramento St., Lodi (209) 368-0969, wowsciencemuseum.com

The Allure of WaterThrough January 22, Stockton

This exhibit features over 100 new paintings by on-location

painters from across the country. Members from the Plein-Air

Painters of America and other guest artists will display their

depictions of water in all of its forms, from rain and glaciers, to

oceans and swamps. This multifaceted natural resource has

captivated artists since the earliest times, and viewers will delight

in its variety of moods, colors, and textures. Hours vary. Adults

$5, seniors/students/kids $2.50. Free to museum members and

children under 10. The Haggin Museum, 1201 N. Pershing Ave.,

Stockton, (209) 940-6300, hagginmuseum.com

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Disney on Ice: Toy Story 3February 8-12, Stockton

Join Woody, Buzz, and all their pals in this new ice spectacular.

Watch as your favorite toys escape from the toddlers of

Sunnyside Daycare and try to find their way home. Relive

memorable moments from the original Toy Story and Toy Story

2 movies, and get acquainted with new faces like Lots-O’-

Huggin’ Bear and Barbie’s new beau, Ken. It will be a night of

adventure, friendship and fun! Dates and times vary. $14-$65.

Stockton Arena, 248 W. Fremont St., Stockton,

(209) 373-1400, stocktonarena.com

Stockton ThunderJanuary 27, Stockton

Come support Stockton’s own hockey team and get rowdy

with the Thunder mascot as you watch our boys battle the Alaska

Aces on ice. You don’t need to know much about hockey to take

in the energy and excitement of this sport. The Thunder will also

be giving away a free adult black replica jersey to the first one

thousand fans (ages 18+) to arrive, so you can sport your team

pride all year long. 7:30 p.m. $7-$28. Stockton Arena, 248 W.

Fremont St., Stockton, (209) 373-1400, stocktonarena.com

February:

McKee Student Art Contest& ExhibitionFebruary 2-April 12, Stockton

Join the Haggin Museum for their 81st annual McKee Student Art

Contest & Exhibition, the longest running student art contest in the

nation. The exhibition was the vision of founding patron Robert T.

McKee, and features the artwork of students from kindergarten

through 12th grade. Hours vary. Adults $5, seniors/students/

kids $2.50. Free to museum members and children under 10. The

Haggin Museum, 1201 Pershing Ave., Stockton, (209) 940-6300,

hagginmuseum.org

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with the Thunder mascot as you watch our boys battle the Alaska

Aces on ice. You don’t need to know much about hockey to take

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CinderellaFebruary 9-12, Sacramento

This ballet tells the classic story of love, humor, pumpkin coaches, and

midnight deadlines. Ron Cunnigham’s take on this beloved fairytale

has graced stages across the world with its phenomenal dancing and

beautiful music, but hasn’t been seen in Sacramento since 1997. Come

see the familiar characters you know and love—with a twist—or, shall we

say, pirouette? Show times vary. $17-$68. Community Center Theater,

1301 L Street, Sacramento, (916) 808-5181, sacballet.org

Adventures of a Comic Book ArtistFebruary 9-18, Stockton

This comic book musical spoof offers singing superheroes, dancing

villains, and lots of laughs. Stanley Leonardo Sappovitz, a janitor at

Wonder Comics, dreams of becoming a comic book artist. When a set

of magical pens brings the staff’s creations to life, mayhem ensues and

Stanley’s own superheroes must save the day. Show times vary. $10.

KUDOS Children’s Theater, 1943 W. Lucile Ave., Stockton, (800)-838-

3006, kudosct.com

Dangerous DinosFebruary 17-18, Tracy

Join three pre-historic superheroes, Ty Rex, Rocko Gecko, and Bubby, as

they share with you their mission to be earth-friendly, resist violence, and

follow the 4 D’s: “Dinos Don’t Do Drugs!” These adventurous dinosaurs

will take you on a fun journey filled with music and surprises, as you learn

about respecting yourself and others. Friday at 7 p.m., Saturday at 2 p.m.

Adults $10, children $8. Eleni Tsakkopoulos-Kounalakis Theare at the

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University of the Pacific Invitational hostsDelta Charter National Junior Forensic League Students:University of the Pacific recently held the 32nd annual Jon Schamber High School Forensics Tournament. The event was a great success (as it always has been) but this year there was something different about the event, for the first time the event hosted its first National Junior Forensics participants (middle school students in grades 6-8 were allowed to participate in the competition). One local charter school, Delta Charter School, was among the only schools in the central valley who entered middle school students into the competition; in fact Delta Charter is among the only public schools in California’s Central Valley that is offering National Junior Forensics. Recently Delta Charter School launched the Central Valley’s first National Junior Forensic Team (grades 6-8) that will begin competing on a National level in the 2011-12 school year. The development of the Junior Team is a result of Delta’s strong showing in National High School Forensic Competitions. Delta has moved into

the top tier (top 10%) nationwide in the area Forensics and it only makes sense that Delta begins preparing students even sooner to participate in this great student growth opportunity.

According to the National Junior Forensic League (NFJL) participation in competitive speech and debate provides a highly effective way for middle level students to build communication skills including speaking, listening, and writing. These critical skills translate into significant advantages in school and later, the workforce. In fact, studies show that students who are trained in speech and debate tend to earn higher grades and score higher on standardized tests. In addition, students who are trained in forensics typically demonstrate superior critical thinking skills, which enable them to be judicious consumers of information and powerful voices of logic.

Additionally, NJFL builds confidence in young speakers. Early exposure to public speaking may help obviate

stage fright in young orators; giving them a significant advantage over their respective student peers and adults alike (most folks would rather see a doctor for a medical procedure rather than speak in front of others). Equally important, forensics gives junior high school students a place to belong. Forensics also helps students develop social skills involving empathy and conflict. According to Adam Jacobi of the NJFL, the National Middle School Association profiles needs of the young adolescent for success in the middle grades. It discusses cognitive development for problem solving and abstract thinking, as well as the social/emotion development for awareness of self and others.

Education of young adolescents through participation in speech and debate activities provides them an opportunity to apply their developing thinking and social awareness through communication. In fact, fostering these skills at a younger age solidifies stronger

roots by which students can flourish in high school and beyond. There is a growing raft of research that indicates those students who hold the rank of Speech and Debate Captain are much more likely to enroll and finish when it comes to college coursework. There is also a body of evidence that indicates these students are prepared to be tomorrow’s leaders in the classroom, the courtroom or the floor of the legislature!

The NJFL extends the opportunities of participating in speech and debate to junior high students. Regional junior high tournaments begin training youth for leadership. The National Forensic League is expanding its dedication to its NJFL program, to build a stronger foundation for our Nation’s Future Leaders by supporting an earlier start to participation in forensics. Delta Charter School has made the same commitment to support early participation in forensics to grow strong student leaders.

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KIDS, DO YOU LOVE READING?Then send your name, age, address, and the title of last book you read to:[email protected]

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PRIZE:Bumble-Ardy by Maurice SendakWhen a little pig named Bumble-Ardy is adopted by his aunt Adeline, he gets to celebrate his birthday for the first time. But when his aunt goes to work, Bumble-Ardy’s birthday fun gets a bit out of hand.

Submissions must be sent by Fenruary 15 2012. One entry per child. One winner will be chosen by March 1.

Reading with your child sparks their imagination, helps develop language skills, social skills, improves hand-eye coordination, and promotes life-long literacy. Start reading with your kids while they’re young, and you’ll enrich their lives for years to come.

When a little pig named Bumble-Ardy is adopted by his aunt Adeline, he gets to celebrate his birthday for the first time.

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