My Notes from RSD's "Blueprint Decoded"Done in short-hand, which gets really pronounced at the end there. I'm posting this here in case my computer wipes or something.

BEING, Not DoingNot Something You Do,Something You ARE!

Deep, Identity-Level Change

You Must Go Out

Most People -> Walking Daze

Lover/Provider

Money Does Not Help!

Looks Don't Mean Shit!

Looks Do Not Help!

1% Sharper = Success

Romance -> Rules

Commonalities are Bullshit

Friendship First

Love -> Tactics (Dn Supp) -> Player -> Natural -> Love

Women Want Guys That Stand Out

Mass Confusion

We Learn FAST! - Socially!- 1st-Hand Experience

Jump Out The Window & Eat Your Own Shit

Most Social Conditioning = Gu

3 Mechanisms of Social Cond.1) How Certain They Are2) How In Alignment They Are3) Number of Other People

"This Must Be True"

Ideas, No Matter How Stupid, Can Spread Like Wildfire

VALUE!!!- Helps Survive- Helps Make Kids- Helps Kids Survive- Gives Good Emotions

Value = Magnet!

W Makes Us Feel Gu?- Cultivate More Value!

Does u Caveman Kn W He Looks Like?

IMPORTANT QUALITIES- Decisive- Resourceful- Dominant- Fearless- Dictates Reality

Sub-Communication

Man - Half-Second, Visual Cues

Woman - Couple Hours, Behavioral Cues

Light-Switch vs. Volume Knob

Cues in BehaviorCues in How Others React to Me

Eye ContactVocal TonalityBody LanguageSense of IndividualityPlayfulnessComfort EnvironmentBoundariesControl Over EmotionsConfidence to Say on MindGrasp of Own StandardsSense of EntitlementTypes of Things You Say

Your Value is NOT Static

Attraction is Straight-ForwardAttraction Happens Within Seconds

Abundance vs. Scarcity!

The Way You Feel With a Nice Pair of Shoes is How You Should Feel ALL THE TIME!

SHE'S Trying To Live Up To MY Standards

Taxes Can Be Interesting!

Spectatorism

Living In Reaction

Self Is Always Coming Through!

Value & Rationalization

- Survival- Reproduction- Makes Feel Good

Backwards Rationalization

VALUE COMES FIRST!

Social Alliances

Time & Energy

Longevity of a Relationship- Dictated By The Value of It!

RAS - Reticular Activation System

Focus on:- Value- Threats

Accept The World Owes You Nothing, Expect That In The Long Run, You'll Get Nothing More Than What You Should

Value -> Warm/Cold End of Pool

Anchor of the Conversation

Value & Situation!

Situational Confidence

Value Prompts You To Be More Attractive!

Outside Your Head vs. Inside!- In The Moment vs. MicroMging

Assume & Expect Everyone Is Your Friend!

Express Your Personality Freely & Let The Chips Fall

STAY OUTSIDE YOUR HEAD!

Reactiveness- In Any Social Situation, One Person is Reacting More Than The Other- Heightened Emotional Response Based on Physical Contact- She's Analyzing How She's Taking Up My Space & Time

Reacting is:- Handing Your Power Away!

Maybe He's Just A Guy!

You Can Just Do It!- Core Confidence!- I'll Have a Great Time!

Core vs. Situational Value

Everyone Enjoys a Good Vibe

If You're Having Fun, That's Valuable

My Personality Alone Is Enough

Forever = Love Trance Word

Love Is A Self-Hypnosis

Good Feelings Should Be Able To Be Self-Generated

Keep Things Healthy

Don't AssumeDon't Make JudgementsYou Don't Know Someone Yet

Enjoyment Without Attachment

Offer Value, Don't Self-Seek----1-5^

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Identity

Principles = Signposts

Identity Relates You To & Separates You From Your Social Environment

We're Always Processing The World Through That Little Seed In Our Mind That Is Our Identity

We All Have That Perfect, Cool Guy Concept- We Just Don't Allow Ourselves To Be That Guy

From a Social Perspective, Our Potential For Success is Unlimited

Identity Can Help You Very Deeply ("I Know Who I Am")- Or It Can Hold You Back

Glazed-Over Zombie Look

If The Idea Goes Beyond Constraints Of What People Think They're Capable Of, The Idea Is Nixed

"That's Not Me" Attitude

A LOT of Identity is Arbitrary

Depression, Angst, Victim-Mindset = Luxuries!!!

You Can Be Who You Want to Be!

Madonna Versatility

When You Know You Deserve It, Attraction is SIMPLE! & Auto!

Being In Your Head Gives Away Power

Looking At How Other People Are Reacting To Your Behavior

Life is Too Short to Feel in Shitty States

Angst Isn't Cool After 30

GO OUT!Start GOING OUT!GET OUT OF YOUR FUCKING HOUSE!- Clubs-- Shitload of Girls-- They Won't Remember You- Any Social Gathering

Build Momentum

Get Talkative

Will Get SOME Receptivity- Increases Confidence

This Effects Build

Don't Clown / React To Them

Be More Chill, But Draw Attntn

Be High Energy, Don't Be Clown

Can IMPROVE IN ONE DAY!!!

Just go out!

Do it tonight!

Be PLAYFUL, Not An Asshole

Interview Style SUCKS, WEAK

3 Tools- Storytelling (Drunk Bar Guy)- Cold-Reading (Gu Girl Face, Bad Girl Mannerisms, Dom Frd, You're Like Nancy Drew, You're Quiet, etc.)- Misinterpretation (Trust, Comfort, Connection...hitting)- Role-Playing (Straw Ring)

Bond / Bozo

Trying Being The Funnest Dude

Drink By Side

Clothing Doesn't Matter

"No One Gives A SHIT!"

Don't Be Bothered With Impermanece

Got in the Game to Have CHOICE

Build Tolerance to Social Pressure -> I HAVE THIS!!!- Principal

- Police

Keep My VOICE

Can You Get a Cop Laughing?

When You're Making a Joke, It's About How YOU Feel

Unconscious IncompetenceConscious IncompetenceConscious CompetenceUnconscious Competence

Try HARD- The Let It Go

Cycle of Internalization

Girls Aren't Allowed to Look Slutty

No One Has to Know

Pick-Up is like Fingering

Social Experiment Frame- There IS NO REJECTION!

"Hey, What's Up?" SUCKS - AUTO

90/10 Rule- Keep Talking- 10% Her Illusionary Input

Illusionary Input- Basic, Yes/No, No-Thinking

Don't Ask Her to Think, Before You Convey Personality

It is SO EASY to Beat Everyone

It is SO EASY TO STAND OUT!!!

Spitting

Respect the Social Situation

Review- GO OUT!!!- Eye Contact- Higher Value- Looks FOR YOU- Internal Attribution- Build State In- Open/90-10/Vibe/Playful- Isolate- Pull Home

Dare- Roll Up on a Make-Out!

Go Right In

1) Go to Gym2) Get Cool Clothes3) Identity-Level Change4) Teasing/Playful

Eye ContactVoiceBody LanguageCold Reading

GO OUT & APPROACH!!!

Exercise Social Muscles

-Inspiration-Feedback-Approaches

Life-Changing OR WASTE!!!

---- ^ Audio

Be CERTAIN!

BELIEVES THIS GUY IS A PIMP!

Go 20% FARTHER!

WTF E C Chode Shit? Let's GO!

Imprints

Go First

Social Feedback Determines Your Situational Identity- How Much Value?

Mind Won't Let You

State / Nimbus- Give Self Permission to Be Who You Are

State = Confidence+- Completeness- Surge of Steadiness- Everything Clicks- YOU are the Source of Gu Emotions i l Environment- Total Abundance- Nothing Can Go Wrong- Dn Care

Out of State- Other People Source of Gu- Worried V Might Bother G- V Q Care

State Subcommunicates Value!

X N I State, Go Through L Motions Anyway, Q N Resist

Resistence E An EMOTION!!!- Wish Reality Were Different

Never Resist The NowTake Right Action

*Taking Right Action = Muscle

Bad Emotions are N Gu Reason N a Act

Meditation - Static

Happiness Rules

Identity/Entitlement Criterion

Rules to Allow State- Superficial Standards-- Looks, Money, Job- Alliances (Friend/Relations)- Competencies (Usefulness)- Role-Plays (Professional)---Body Fat Example (12%/15%)

--- 7^

Chode Crystal

As you make friends, things get much better.

Night Just Builds

Competencies

*** - "Hey, I'm Casimir"- If not, there's work to do

Women Can Like Me Just For Me

ABC -> Always Be Closing!

Role-Play- Leaders- Followers- Work/Teaching- Dom/Non-Dom

Roles Constantly Exchanging

RSDNation.com

Jamie Foxx Comedian Link

Total Tune-Out of Other Guys

Back to Core Confidence

CORE VALUE- Rule for Allowing State

Most Guys Chase Circumstances- Cause/Effect Gets Skewed

I'm Going to MAKE These Clothes Cool

Core Confidence BRINGS Relationships to You

Authenticity is a Competency

Authority Comes From Confidence

First Layer = Flipping of Cause & Effect

Need Reaction for Confidence, FLIP THIS!!!

Core Confidence- Unshakable Conviction of Who You Are & What You're Entitled To- Allows You To Take A Charismatic Attitude That Gets People Reacting To You- Makes You A Person Who Can't Be Categorized, Having a Flexible Identity- Know What You've Been Through & Trust Yourself to Get By No Matter What- Value Own Opinion of Self More Than Value of Others- Acceptance in Any Situation Not a Threat to Well-Being- Know What Your Best Qualities Are, & Even If Others Don't Acknowledge Them, You Know They Exist- Know You Offer Real Value- Believe Life, Perspective, & Energy Have an Inherent Value, Whether Other People See It Or Not

Good Enough is Good Enough

Conflicting Realities

Sense of Reality = Predictions

Whoever Has The Strongest Reality Wins

Reality Bubble!

Stronger Reality, More 1st-Hd

--- 8^

Who is Screening? Who is Trying to Impress?

Tactics are like Band-Aid Solutions

"P V Cook? Because X N, I'm Breaking Up M V"

"Are V Adventurous? Because X N, J Can't Hang Out M V"

Who is Emotionally Affected By The Other Person's Acceptance?

Who is Losing Their Concept of What's Cool, & Who's Unchanged

Who is Changing The Way They Normally Talk in Order to Keep Up, & Who is Setting the Tone of the Conversation?

Who Would Feel Like They'd Be Having Just Z Much Fun?

Have Fun On Your Own Time!!!

Self-Amused Individual

Independence

Don't TRY to Impress

Act Through Own Intentions

Negativity = Round Peg, Square Hole

Are You Being Yourself?

Be Self-Possessed

Trust In Your Faculties!

Don't Respond to Tests

Aspect Vs. How It Affects You

*Most Unwavering Certainty & Least Emotional Reaction

People's Concepts of Realities are Generally Up For Grabs

If You Believe It's a Shortcoming, It Is

You Take a Woman Out, You Take HER Into YOUR Reality!!! C/I!- Take Her Shopping For You!-- & Making Chocolate Strawbs!

Just Start Talking!

Signs of a Weak Reality- Affected by Teasing- Upset by Blowoffs

Four Pillars of Strong Reality- Who You Are (Status, Indent)- Values (Tastes, Humor, etc.)- Having Boundaries- How People Should Act Around You (Fun, Value-Offering)

--- 9 ^

Boundaries -> Others & Self

Living On Your Edge

Age => Gloriousness

The Older You Are, The More Bullshit You Have Seen

--- 10 ^

You Are NOT Your Mind

Your Mind Has Your PImPrint- Plane Instruction Manual

Your Mind May Try to Block you From the Nimbus

JUMP IN THE OCEAN!!!

You WILL Mess Up! It's Okay!- Reminder of Why You Do Things the Way You Do

Masculine Polarity

Women Simulataneously Have a Strong and Weak Reality

Congruence Tests- Strong- At Ease with Everyday Interaction with the World- Can Trust Him if Situation is Hectic- Can Have a Good Time When He's Around

Two Things- Feel Strength d Your Reality- See You're Capable of Asserting Yourself Z U Man

Prodding V a Justify Viself

Saying Obnoxious Things to Make You Jealous or Insecure

Being Cranky/Tantrumming

Calling Your Worst Features

Trying to Get You to Qualify Viself

Accusing You of Things

Playfully Blow Them Off!

Who's Controlling the Rhythm of Conversation?

Don't Worry About Mirroring Anyone, Gives Up The Lead!!!

Man, Action---Girl, Reaction

Stay Positive, Stay Upbeat, and Act Through Your Own Intentions

Programming? NO!RSD? NO!Neediness/Lack? NO!

Own Everything You Do, If You Don't Own It, It SUCKS!!!

Be Authentic

Chaos vs. Grounding

Being Totally Fulfilled & Enraptured by the Energy of the Environment

Dressing & Walking in a Way That Gets Attention

Enjoying Whatever She's Doing & Not Scanning the Room

Letting the Energy of the Environment Flow Through Her, Dancing for Hours on the Same Spot & Playing Mock-Bisexual With Her Friends

Girls Follow Around the Warm End of the Pool

Rarely Being the one to Call, Ask Out, or Reinitiate Conversations

Unconsciously Learned Behaviors -> Be The Prize

Losing Interest In Sex if She Comes out of an Emotionally Happy State

Only Being Moved by the Energy She Likes the Most -> Better than What She's Experiencing

Rewarding Good Behavior With Little Tastes of Physical Attention

Do All Girls Have All These Behaviors? No!

It All Makes You REACTIVE!

Emotional Investment Makes You MORE Attached to the Outcome!

Makes You Backwards Rationalize, & Then Continues the Cycle!

-- 11 ^

Flipping the Script- Not Having Sex- "Take my Phone#, I Won't Call You"

Reward Her With Little Physical Attention then Pulling Away

Too Much Feminine Polarity?

What Masculine Polarity Things Are There?- Being At Home In The Environment!!! ("My House")- Everyone Here is My Friend!(Same Venue Can Effect This)- Carrying Yourself With TOTAL Confidence & Even A Playful Cockiness ("Swagger")- Being The Source of Grounding Energy & Asserting K W V H A Say E Funny, Interesting, & Worth Being Heard- Leading L Conversation I L Fun (Or WHATEVER) Direction V Des T A Go! ("W Are V Talking About C F, C E U Party!?")- Positioning Viself Z Already Chosen By EVERY Girl I L Environment, & YOU! Are Choosing L Girl V Like- "Hey, Who Are V? Now's Vi Chance!"- Be L Lord, It's MY Party!- Prince William / Harry!- Vu W V Des, & Take T!- Dn Give Power Away, Dn NEED!- Warm Blanket, Protected, Having Fun, & Challenged

Women Des U RANGE D Emotions!

Men H U Sweet Spot- Happy- Chill- Adrenaline- Getting Off

We Think Women Crazy, They Think Us Rigid

Draw State Fr Within Viself

V P Feel Gu About Viself At ANY Point- Focus Vi Awareness Properly

Slow Things Down, Breathe, Meditation, Chill, Relax, Slowwwwwww Down

"FEEL GU! Be HAPPY!"

Be Conscious, N Self-Conscious

Fish Things Out, B Be Outside Vi Head

V are N L Doer, "C E Happening Through Me"

Alter Vi Physiology

* V P Choose A Feel Gu At R!!!

V Can't Feed Off D Reactions

Social Conditioning Disconnects V Fr L Depth D Things- "W Q People Think D Me?"- "How Does C Affect Me?"

Coolidge Effect- People Are Known a Get Sick d Having Sex M L Same Girl Over & Over- I L Long Term, V Can't Draw State Fr Her- It's An OUTPOURING D Energy

- U Way a Cut Loose & Go Nuts

People Are Just People

Everyone E An Equal

At Some Point She R Withdraw Al d Her IOI's a Pull Everything Out, & Crashes Vi State!

A Achieve Polarity, Two Things- Entertainment- Reality DisruptionThese CANNOT Be L Basis

- "I'm U Hot Girl"- "You're L Next Guy Tonight K Puts Me O U Pedastal"- "V Need My Validation, Sex, & Approval"- "I'm Too Hard a Get, Feel Free a Entertain Me X V Like"

* V & J Would N Get Along

Push Her Away

"How Am J Even Talking a V Right Now?! Go! Go, Get Out D Here! Wait...No...Come Here..."

W Did V Q Before V Met Me?

Button-Pushing & Pushing Away Can't Last, It Doesn't STICK!

Instead d Spiking, T Sits

--- 12 ^

Proactive Social Strategy vs.Reactive Social Strategy

Proactive = Series d Habits K Handle Vi Problems Automatically

Reactive = Short-Term Emotional Response A U Larger Problem

People Like Authenticity- Dn Change Who V Are A Accommodate G- Some Small % D L Time, Someone Might Be Pissed

Reactive -> Performance Anxiety

Approach Anxiety E Performance Anxiety

Acting Through Vi Own Intentions E Like U Magnet

When Trying a Get U Reaction, She's Moved Away

Man = ActionWoman = Reaction

Most Guys Overestimate How Gu W We H A Say Has A Be

TRUST

How Q We Get A Where Things Just Work Through V

1) Knowledge - Understand C Works, So V R Try T!2) Lower Vi Standards F Viself

When Approaching, H Nothing I Vi Mind, Just FEEL Gu! Swagger

Two Core Principles1) W J H A Say E Valuable, PURELY Because T Comes Fr Me!2) W J H A Say E Interesting, Because She E Interested I W J Find Interesting

"Let's Vu X She's Cool""Let's Expand Out L Party""Let's Ask Her U Question"

Man's Greatest Asset is Thinking

- EXCEPT I MEETING WOMEN!- It's Vi Greatest HINDRANCE!

N Thinking U Step Ahead E Cocky

Stay M L Tension, Dn Diffuse T

Child-like, J Vu-J Take!

Challenge Her- Let Her Play At Holding Vi Attention & Where Vi Boundaries Are

Dn Think D W A Say Next, Just Listen

*Dn Judge G*Dn Interpret G*Dn Compare G*Dn Label G

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Faculties

Focus Them!!!

No Longer U Need A Reference Sense D Self Based O Past Events

Forget About Useless Past Evts

No Matter W Happens, Vi Mind R Be Presented M L Right Action Exactly When V Need T

TRUST!!!

Trust Viself!

Be L Coolest, Most Badass Kid O L Block

V R N Get I Vi Own Way or Block Viself

L Flow R Be There

TRUST VISELF!!!

It's N U Belief, It's An Understanding

V Dn Think D L Words, V Allow G A Arise

BEING NOT DOING!!!

Be L Intermediary

Dn Stretch F An Outcome

BE HAPPY!

Dn Need a Be Nervous Calling, Because You're Reaching F An Outcome

Going Out E OFFERING D Value, N U Taking D Value

V Are N Vi Life Situation

*Ayn Rand- L Fountainhead- Atlas Shrugged

V P Merge IA Any Environment

There's U Certain Way D Walking Through Life That's More Natural

X You're Here A H Fun, & I U F Environment, MERGE IA T!

*Walking Through L World M Ease-Core Confidence-Strong Reality

-Acting Through Own Intentions-Masculine Polarity-Being Present

L World E U Light Place

Move M L Current D L World, & N Against T

V P H Fun No Matter W

Dn Attach My Identity A Anything

L Ground E Stable, L Sky E Above Me, J Am Breathing, J P Navigate L Complexities D L World Z J Would M Just L Basics D Facts

J Dn Get Stuck, Whine, Or Anything Like K

J Go Forward M L Flow D L World

J Dn H A Follow Along

J P H Fun When It's Time A H Fun

Most People Are N Having L Most Fun I L Club

Most People Build Their Foundation O External Factors

V Dn H A! V P Just Be U Guy!

Being Successful M Women Becomes an AFTERTHOUGHT!

J P Become Self-Forgetting = Conscious B N Self-Conscious

C Foundation Makes People Look A V Z U Source D Grounding Egy

Most Guys Dn Walk Through L World M Ease, Wilted

BEING, NOT DOING!

Internalization

There's U Glass Wall

Bearings K Make Vi World Make Sense = Map = Reality

View d Who V AreView d W Other People ThinkView d W's Possible I L World

Makes Vi World Make Sense, Gives V U Sense D Bearings

Success Barrier

Z Long Z Vi Concept D Reality Keeps V Alive, K E Al K Matters!

X T Kept Me Alive So Long, T E "Gu Enough"

1) Doubts V Can't Q T2) L Nauseous Feeling V Are Going Backwards I Vi Understanding D L World3) Instinct K People Might N Accept L New V

Go M W V Kn, Trust Viself

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Strength of Reality: How Firm V Are I Vi Beliefs

Delusional Confidence -> Blindspots Allow State to Keep Up, Pull Her Into Reality

Response Junky -> Reaction-Seeker is Totally Socially Calibrated, Can Be Shy...OR...Total Branched Scenarios. Blow-Outs Happen Because State Drops

The "THIRD" Guy -> Can Vu L Negative Feedback, B T Dn Matter or Affect Vi State: Blend D Both

Rigidity Vs. Adaptability

"Be Water"

Flexible Belief Structure

Reorder Perception A Preserve L Map

L Map E N L Territory

^/ \^ / \/ \/ \

Vi Mind Doesn't Care X V Hate Vi Life!

Plant Uprooting Itself

X V H U Provider-Male Social Strategy, V R Feel T E U Waste D Vi Time

2 Different Types D Guys K Get Laid U Lot- 1) Leader D Men- 2) Wandering Nomad

Leader D Men E Dominant & Has U Harem

Australian Girls Like American Accents

Different Gene Pool Makes Women Respond

W V Think D Other People E U Reflection D Viself

X V Think V Are U Chode, K E U Success Barrier

10 Approaches, 9 D G Are Great

10 Approaches, 2 Gu Ones

*Focus O L Positives- Positive Feedback

Vu L Best I Viself, Cut Viself Slack, Vu L Best I Others!

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Internalization: Having Something Such K V Never H A Think About T Again

Anticipated Responses - Assumption

Q J Like Myself?

Would J Hang Out M Someone Like Myself?

X J Saw U Guy Like Me M U Really Attractive Girl, How Would J Feel About K?

When V Believe U Girl P Like V Just F V

Less-Attractive Girls Think V H An Agenda, Think V Are Toying M G, Etc.

Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

Dn Be Ethan Hawke!

L Gu Ones Should N Be Treated Specially!

Girls Put Up Fronts BECAUSe Guys Are Stupidly Judgemental & Full D Double-Standards!

Assume Everyone I L World E Vi Friend!

People Are Always Trying A Reaffirm Their Reality

"Take L Fucking Lenses Off"

*"Hey, V Seem Friendly"

Compliment Her O Qualities She Hasn't Cultivated Yet!

V Dn Come Up M Vi Identity O Vi Own

V Are Shaping L Identity K V Des

Laugh T Off When People Are Condescending Toward V

Stab-Self Motion, "Ouch..."

Only Acknowledge L Reality V Des

Jealousy / Insecurity E Giving Vi Power Away - "He Thinks I'm Doing T Anyway..."

However, V Q H A Establish Boundaries

--- 16 ^

Flinching / Retreating IA Vi Mind

Doubting Viself

Opposite D Anticipated Responses

V CANNOT FLINCH! X V Retreat IA Vi Head, They R N Work!

When V Are I L Science Lab, Be U Scientist...When V Are Out, Be U Person!

Offering Value

Kn K M Every Social Interaction, V H Some Value K V P Offer

When V Are Calling K Girl Over, V Are Doing So A Offer Value A Her

"Close" Implies Sale, Does N H L Equality Mindset I T

Be Pure D Heart

T's N Lying, T's Flirting

Slow Down, Dn Flinch, Just Fully Believe I Viself

Trust I U Foreign Set D Bearings

Baby - Mental Crises (Learning A Walk)

1) Learn L I's & Out's2) Gathering Experience / Evidence3) Fully Trust I L Bearings4) Internalization / Assumption

V Q T Naturally

V Are I L Moment

V Never H A Think About T Again

T's N U Bomb!

Strangers Are Actually Friendly!

V Dn Kn K V PN Be U Big Pimp

Newbie's Paradox- Contact Lenses, Flinching- Keep Doing T Every Day, T Gets Much, Much Easier

He'll Initially Get Negative Feedback: Eye Explodes Like L Death Star

*Fully Assume W V Q E Going A Work

*Be Indifferent A L Odd Times T Doesn't

Dn Make T U Big Deal, No False Sense D Superiority

Telling Someone He P Walk Through U Wall: Dipping Toes I L Pond

Ego Defense Mechanism

Understanding, N U Belief

Getting Out D L Newbie's Paradox

*L Half-Way Pt. Between Fear & Total Belief E Indifference

V P Gather U Lot D Reference Experiences F Indifference - T Doesn't Matter W People Think D V

V Cross L Indifference Threshold: Harmonious Ting D Letting Go D L Outcome, Loss D Neediness

Confidence Communicates K V Are Successful M Other Women (Pre-Selected)

Pummel Vi Brain M So Many Reference Experiences K T Scrambles & Fries

"NO! KEEP GOING!"

Stifled A Unstifled

L Indifference Threshold P Be Crossed VERY Quickly

Stifling - Voice Range, Space Range, Approach Time/Space Limitations

Yelling Voice Exercise Unstifles People

Z V Change Environments, V Subconsciously Get Stifled

Unstifle Viself Once Every 5 Minutes - Start A Sing

*"J Need A Cross L Indifference Threshold Z Quickly Z Possible"

1) Get I L Nightclub2) Cross L Indifference Threshold

Nerd:Goth :: Me:Champion!(~12-18 Months...2 Yrs A Fill I L Gaps, Keep Going Out)

Microbehaviors Start Coming I

Vi Mind Starts RAS'ing L Microbehaviors D Really Cool Guys

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How Q We Cross L Indifference Threshold Quickly?

Quickly Shift State IA Desing A Q Something

*V Need A Be L Outside Force!

Cartoon Retarded Imitation Game: Lion, Crocodile, Toaster, Rooster, Rhinocerous, T-Rex, Tornado, Cow, Hippo, Elephant,

YELL MORE! Infringes O People's Airspace

Get OUT D CHARACTER

Quickly Unstifle

Main Goal: Q Something Out D Character & Expand Out L Energy Time & Space V Are Taking Up

Be Consistent A W V Perceive E Vi Identity

We Are Trying A Be Congruent

We're Al Confined By Our Egos

When We're Unstifled, We P Lead Others A Be Unstifled

I U Nightclub, V R Become Restifled

4 Zoolander Guys, Clapped & Yelled & Took Over L Club

Pre-Unstifle

Gains Lordship

L Club P Get O Top D V, Or V P Get O Top D L Club

Unstifling -> Indifference -> Total Belief Reference Experiences

Guys Learn About Being Social, Then Get U G/F & STOP! Bad!

Logic E Often U Vibe-Breaker

Socializing & Vibing E An End I Itself

Emotional States Are Addictive

Memory E State-Access-Dependent

Cause-Effect Mix-Up When V Are I U Negative State

Logical Convo E Linear

Vibing E Quick-Wit Association

Thoughts Are Just Sort D Floating When V Are Vibing

L Thoughts ARISE

L Value I U Nightclub E Fun

V P Condition Viself Toward Positivity

V Dn H A Qualify Viself

Two Most Important Bearings1) Girls P Like V Just F V2) Sex E U Natural Consequence D Chemistry & An Inevitability

Sex Cements U Moment / Blows Off Steam, N U Big Deal

T Just Happens

When V Are Building Up Anticipated Responses, Most Guys Can't Q K, So Why P J?

Addiction A Chasing Reference Experiences E U Gu Thing, B N L End Goal

Drop Chode Friends, Gain Pickup Friends, Drop Some Pickup Friends To Regain Depth

Can't Completely Stop Or V R Lose L Skills

Unhitches Self Fr Vi Old Identity

U Path D Excess P Lead A Wisdom

False Self Tends A Appear

Being U Chode E Easy

Some People Get Lost Needing Validating Reference Experiences

Dn Strive F Perfection, Some D My "Old Self " P Come Through

When V Are Pissed Off & Unhappy, V P Change Vi Conditions Or Change Vi Focus

"T Didn't Work"

There Are Two Ways A Be Really Pissed Off1) N Getting W V Des2) Getting W V Des

One D L Things People Q E Create An Identity, & People Like V BECAUSE D K Identity

So, Vi Unconscious Mind Says "X J Des A Get Love, J Need A Keep Playing These Power Games & Stuff"

When People Admire V F L Quality D Getting Better & Better, T Starves Real Self-Esteem By Feeding L Ego Completely

V're N Doing Something Because V're Acting Through Vi Own Intentions, V NEED A Q T - K Gives Vi Power Away

Ego Vs. Self-Esteem

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Confidence & Feeling Gu About Viself E U Default State

V Are Born M Self-Esteem, H T Z U Child, T E Self-Sustaining

Ego E U Rational Construct K We Substitute F Self-Esteem

L Ego P Be Argued Z Being More Real Than Self-Esteem Because T E Rational

Happiness E Vi Default State

Z U Kid, V H Self-Esteem

At Some Point, We Become Wounded & Disconnected Fr L Tribe

So Then, Vi Mind Comes Up M Reasons F Why V P Feel Gu About Viself

Ego E Based O Separateness & Differences- Looking F Logical Reasons A Feel Confident

L Ego E, By Nature, False

L Ego E Like U Little Grain D Sand

Ego E Made Up D Logical Evidence, People's Opinions, Rationalizations, Comparisons

Life E About L Unknown

L Ego Tries A Shelter Us Fr L Unknown

We P View L World Z An Arena F Heroism

We Dn Kn Anything, So Our Mind Makes U Context

Instead D "J Des A Meet My Potential," "J Des A Be L Best"

L More Personal L Wound, L More Universal L Wound

L Ego E U Black Hole, Sucking I Reference Material

L Ego E Like Syndrome Fr L Incredibles

When V Lose Control & H U Sense D Frustration, "How Am J N Going A Die?!"

Are We Doing T Out D Lack, Or Because D Right Action

*Happiness E NOW

Dn Forget About L Journey

L Result E Anti-Climactic!

L Result P Never Be Z Gu Z L Doing

Offering Value A Others E L Most Glorious Thing V P Ever Q

Whenever V Are Operating Through L Ego & Self-Seeking U Reaction, K E Taking Value

Vi Only Criteria F Success E K V Go Out There & Be Genuine

*When V Are Just Offering Value, K E An Attractant

*Taking Value E U Repellant

*There E 1 Me

Humans H U Socially-Created Reality

*Offering Value & Self-Amusemt

Walk Up & Try A Self-Amuse

Say Things K V Find Funny

She Desz A Kn W V Find Interesting & W V Find Funny

When V Bring Her IA Vi Party, K Means So Much A Her

When V Are Bringing L Party, She's Interested

When V Are Trying A Get IA Her Party, She's Repelled

Being Authentic >>> Social Chameleon

Approach M U Full Cup Vs. An Empty One

Presence E Contagious

V P Provide Her Centeredness

Brutal Woundings Are NOT! Vi Identity Because We Al H G!

*Accept Vi Gu & Vi Bad

When V Stop Looking At L Surface Level D People, When V P Look Past K, V Become Comfortable I Vi Own Skin

Dn Get I An Ego-Feeding-Frenzy K R Burn Out, Because T E Reaching

Z Kids, We Come I Z Social Beings

We Grow & Become Better, B Lose Our Ability A Feel Gu

Anything V Think E Bad About V, Mout Self-Esteem, E An Embarassment

M Self-Esteem, Vi Flaws Are Just Endearing Quirks, They Make V Cool & Awesome

L Self E Always Coming Through