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THE CHARACTER OF LIFE Essays on the Nature of Existence
Roy Posner
First Edition
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Roy Posner presents a series of essays, analysis, and commentary that
bring out various facets of the character of life. It is based on years of
research and penetrating insight into the nature of reality, and the subtle
and profound principles that govern it.
The book provides an unconventional, breakthrough view of existence;
one that transcend our ordinary empirical, cause and effect, surface view
of things. In a series of collected essays, full work analysis, and
commentary, the book reveals the deepest truth about life's character --
including why circumstance unfold the way they do, and how the human
psyche shape these events. The book reveals dozens of startling
principles and methods, including how life progresses through
contradiction, and how our inner status and consciousness can evoke
powerful positive conditions from the world around us.
To present this unprecedented knowledge, the author uses extensive
examples and illustrations from personal experiences, those of others,
from current events, and from the works of literature and contemporary
film.
The ultimate goal of the book is not only to present the profoundest
truths about reality, but for the reader to apply that knowledge, and
thereby rise to his or her ultimate potential.
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CONTENTS
Preface .........................................................................................vi
PART 1: LIFE & ITS MEANS OF PROGRESS .................................... 9
What is Life? ................................................................................ 9
The Character of Life ................................................................... 25
Character of Life Principles ........................................................... 32
Progress through Contradictions ................................................... 41
Progress through Nature or Soul ................................................... 54
Nature Works on Many Fronts Simultaneously ................................ 56
Beyond Positive and Negative ....................................................... 62
Embracing the All ........................................................................ 81
PART 2: PHENOMENON OF LIFE RESPONSE ................................ 96
Life Response; I.e. Sudden Good Fortune ...................................... 96
Inner-Outer Correspondence ...................................................... 119
Parallel Events (Simultaneity), Synchronicities .............................. 131
Life’s Subtle Signs ..................................................................... 151
PART 3: PRINCIPLES OF ACTS .................................................. 168
Nature of Acts .......................................................................... 168
Acts Repeat .............................................................................. 178
Predecessor, Initial Occurrence Acts ............................................ 186
PART 4: HUMAN ACCOMPLISHMENT ......................................... 201
Principles of Human Accomplishment ........................................... 201
Process of Accomplishment ........................................................ 213
Human Intention ...................................................................... 214
Personal Attitudes ..................................................................... 223
Psychological Strength ............................................................... 238
Goodness and Self-Givingness .................................................... 248
Personal Values ........................................................................ 265
Conscious Choice ...................................................................... 271
True Individuality ...................................................................... 276
Infinite and Finite...................................................................... 287
PART 5: SPIRITUAL QUALITIES ................................................ 291
Spiritual Aspects of Existence ..................................................... 291
Silence, Silent Will .................................................................... 294
Equality of Being, Non-Reaction, Restraint ................................... 297
Harmony, Oneness .................................................................... 307
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Self, Soul, Being ....................................................................... 314
PART 6: THEORY OF CREATION: INVOLUTION, EVOLUTION ..... 318
Creation Process (Involution & Evolution) .................................... 318
Evolution Specifics .................................................................... 335
PART 7: COSMIC DETERMINATION ........................................... 343
Cosmic Determinants in Life ....................................................... 343
Divine Intention, Determination .................................................. 348
The Individual, Universal, Transcendent ....................................... 351
Chance, Necessity, Fate, Destiny ................................................ 352
Change, Randomness, Unpredictability ........................................ 353
PART 8: PROBLEMS IN LIFE ...................................................... 354
Human Aspiration and Limitations ............................................... 354
Problems of Life ........................................................................ 356
PART 9: HUMAN CHARACTER AND MAKEUP .............................. 357
Human Character ...................................................................... 357
Scale of Human Character, Personality ........................................ 362
Changing Our Nature ................................................................. 366
PART 10: IGNORANCE TO INTEGRAL KNOWLEDGE ................... 371
Knowledge and Truth ................................................................ 371
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Preface
The collective wisdom of humanity has accumulated deep insight into the
nature of life. It expresses a certain basic level of understanding of cause
and effect, of the flow of events, including the impact of human behavior
-- individual and collective -- on that process. That deep and complex
knowledge has been passed down through the ages, and has been
expressed by the wisest amongst us.
The problem is that the character of life we are familiar with is mostly a
limited, empirical view of things. For example, while we recognize the
workings of cause and effect, it is only a surface, superficial
understanding. We perceive physical objects in their right place in space
and time, including we humans; and we also perceive human behavior
and the choices they make. Based on our observation of the confluence of
time, space, and behavior, we perceive outcomes that seem mostly
logical and reasonable. We are then able to analyze the situation, and
come to some general truths, conclusion about these unfoldings. It seems
to us straightforward and accurate; and yet on closer examination will be
found to be nowhere near the integral, true truth of things. Life is far
more complex, and infinitely more subtle.
Again, the problem is that we are unable to penetrate the deeper
mysteries and hence the causalities behind life’s unfoldings. And that is
because we have no essential foundation or context by which we can
view or measure circumstance; no essential rules or laws or principles
that appear to be governing life.
Not only are we limited in understanding the true causality and true truth
of things, but when we muse on what has taken place, we are left
somewhat baffled as to why certain things have occurred, or simply miss
the big picture of purpose and meaning. We may muse about fate,
karma, or destiny, but the context by which we make such judgments is
brittle and facile, as do not understand life well enough to understand
their true nature.
In essence, in order to perceive life in all its mystery, we need a new
foundation of understanding. We need to either deconstruct the nature of
existence, rebuild it, and understand its processes, or we can turn to the
wise and sagacious and receive their inputs into the true meaning and
method of causality of existence.
The intention then of this book then is to reveal the most profound laws
and principles that govern life, and do so through real life personal
experience, in current events, and in works of literature and film. By
examining these incidents, the subtle determining factors that underlie its
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unfolding will be revealed, and thus we unravel the mystery of what we
call “The Character of Life.”
Doing so will not only provide us with a profound understanding of human
existence, but will mirror our own circumstance. By seeing the subtle
laws of life character, individual character, we can turn the light of truth
on ourselves, and emphasize our positive qualities, behaviors, and
actions, while holding down the negative. That way we can lead infinitely
fulfilled lives -- of success, happiness, and deep fulfillment.
This book’s propose then is to bring out the truths of life, its subtle
causalities, and its deepest and most profound laws and principles. The
approach I have taken is to strong together a series of essays that not
only bring out life’s deepest secrets but illustrate those truths through
true and fictionalized events. There is therefore no ongoing, serial
narrative in this presentation, but groupings of essays that each address
a particularly powerful subtle law or principle.
We hope you enjoy these unconventional and startling insights into the
nature of reality. Many defy normal human logic, of what is probable and
possible. Some have the quality of being miraculous-like. Indeed, from
the deepest perspective the entire unfolding of life will seem like a
continuous miracle when the principles involved are clearly surmised and
understood. Moreover, each of us are easily capable of evoking such
startling outcomes in our own lives. All we have to do is learn the key
inner and outer behaviors that evoke great fortune from the
environment, and then apply it in our daily lives. Then we will see that we
have an inner power that transcends all that we ever thought possible;
that we can dictate events in the world in ways we would never imagined
possible.
On that note, let me formally invite you to a journey of infinite discovery;
one that will reveal life’s most profound secrets, thereby energizing and
inspiring you to no end.
I therefore welcome you to the Ultimate Adventure of Consciousness and
Joy.
Roy Posner
Lafayette, California
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PART 1: LIFE & ITS MEANS OF PROGRESS
What is Life?
Life, Its Character, and Its Principles
Perhaps the greatest question of all time is "what is life?" Scientists have
tried to explain it without much success. Religious people have avoided it.
Philosophers have grappled with it. Spiritual seekers have touched upon it
from time to time. Realized souls have been immersed in its various
dimensions, including those that are hidden from us.
Life as Field of Energy
I would like to offer my thoughts to this mystery: Life is, in essence, a
universal field of energy out of which forms take shape. Life not only
ushers in those forms out of itself, but maintains, sustains, and, when
necessary, discards them.
It should also be pointed out that Life itself is the final operation of an
original movement that is Divine in nature. There is a fundamental
immutable, ineffable Omnipresent Reality behind all existence. We can
say that this spiritual Reality became "aware of itself", at which point it
can be said to have developed Consciousness. As a result of being
conscious of itself, it generated a Force. That Force is the source of
energy that is the universal field of Life from which all forms take shape.
Then how do those forms of force/energy manifest? At various points, the
energy of Life that was at rest begins to move; and consequently
reformulate into seen and unseen patterns of existence. Certain forms
that emerge are visible and material in nature -- like the plasma, rock,
and earth we know in the known universe. Other forms are unseen,
including the subtle realms of material reality, such as electromagnetic
and sound waves.
In addition, there are forces, powers, and currents that are not related to
material reality at all. These contain original vital powers and life forces
that permeate the universe. These currents and formulations of energy
can be said to represent good and evil, positive and negative, and all
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manner of possibilities in between. There are also currents of mental and
spiritual force/energy. We ourselves are evolved forms of these various
visible and invisible energies -- e.g. our body is visible; our emotions and
thoughts are invisible.
The building up, maintaining, and dissolution of energy-based material
and non-material forms can be viewed as a great play -- a Play of Life, if
you will -- as they intersect and interact to create a symphony of
unfolding. Just as an athletic event consists of a field, the players, and
the play, so too Life consists of a field of energy of seen and unseen
forms that interact to produce a multiplicity of results.
Life’s Character
The intricacies of that cosmic Play formulates into patterns, which can be
observed by the human mind as principles of Life. All of the principles
together give life a distinct Character, which is not unlike the character of
a human being. Life is then a Play of energies in which created forms of
that force carry out their conscious or unconscious intention, intersect
with one another, revealing patterns and principles that together give it a
character.
Principles of Life
If Life's character consists of principles our minds can perceive, what is
an example of one? Perhaps the central principle of Life is that of
Oneness. In essence, it means that all forms of force/energy are
interrelated to one another in an inherent harmony and unity of being. In
other words, everything seen and unseen in the universe and beyond are
interconnected and One.
We humans however fail to see that Oneness since we live on the surface
of things. However, when we move to a deeper consciousness within, we
begin to perceive the integral unity of all. I.e. when we plunge within,
and discover silence, peace, and equanimity of being within ourselves,
and go further still and discover our True Spiritual Selves, we withdraw
from our ego and separative consciousness, which makes us much more
receptive to the unfoldings of life -- to the full spectrum of truths, seen
and unseen -- in the environment. At that point, we begin to perceive
that every entity and current of force serves a purpose; that each and all
forms are crucial to the Cosmic Play; and therefore that everything is
interconnected and One.
Inner-Outer Correspondence
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One way that Oneness expresses is through a related principle that I call
"Inner-Outer Correspondence". This principle indicates that everything
that happens outside ourselves is a reflection of our consciousness within.
Therefore, if we change the inner, the outer instantly responds in kind.
E.g., when I change a wanting attitude about a matter, the conditions
outside myself instantly become more positive, even though I have not
taken any obvious material action. The outer instantly responding to an
inner psychological adjustment is the phenomenon that I call "Life
Response." I.e., when we shift our behavior to the positive, energies are
released, which ripple through space-time, and align with corresponding
objects, elements, and circumstances that suddenly appear before us as
instances of sudden good fortune.
Nature of Acts
There are many principles that indicate the Character and Play of Life.
One grouping has to do with the nature of "acts" -- the fundamental unit
of life. One extraordinary principle is the notion that everything that
happens to us is indicated by a prior act or event. For example, if I had a
problem with a client I was flying down to see, it is foreshadowed by a
difficulty I had in boarding the plane. If this is so, then we can offer the
current negative situation to the Spirit -- in this case the difficulty in
boarding -- and avoid the problem that would have occurred later on! In
this way, we are able to change the course of the future in the present.
Through an inner life of discovery, not only do we see that these
understated, yet profound principles of life in action, but we are also able
to affect those very conditions by making certain adjustments in our own
consciousness -- such as changing an attitude, or taking to inner silence,
or by opening to the spiritual Force, to name a few. In this way, we not
only become witness to Life's infinite Play, but we can actively participate
in it -- enabling its further progress, evolution, and transformation.
What Life Is
What is this thing we so vaguely refer to as life? To the scientist, it is the
physiological functions of respiration, metabolism and reproduction in all
living things. To the common man, it refers to the span of his existence
and all the events and experiences during the time. But does that explain
all that life is? Or does it, like a map of the earth with continents, oceans,
mountains and forests marked, that leaves out the people and claims to
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cover all that there is, miss out on something? All that we call luck,
chance, fate, opportunity, misfortune, destiny - where do they fit in?
Scientific Conception of Life
Modern science conceives of all life forms as mechanical assemblies of
physical parts that operate in such a manner as to sustain the integrity of
their structure, nurture growth, reproduction and adaptation. Science has
been so successful in delving into the mysteries of the atom and the gene
that it might be apt to accept its pronouncements on life with equal
confidence, were it not for the fact that the scientific conception is so
directly at odds with our own personal experience as human beings.
Rationally, we are forced to acknowledge that our progress in unraveling
the secrets of matter has been accompanied by only modest gains in the
fields of life and consciousness. Even after we have completely mapped
the human genetic code and are able to manipulate it to correct physical
defects in the body, we would understand nothing fundamentally more
about the wider field of Life. Life science is also about the studies of living
things like plants, animals and other living organisms!
Life as a Field of Action
Life as presently defined and pursued by science is confined to the
physiological mechanism in matter. But Life as lived by human beings is a
much vaster field of vital existence. It is a field of form and force like the
material plane – a field of energy, action, reaction and result. The military
commander who strives to anticipate the actions of enemy forces and the
impact of unpredictable weather conditions on a battle; the entrepreneur
and manager who strives to anticipate the actions of competitors and
unexpressed needs of customers; the politician who tries to glimpse the
unsatisfied aspirations and unaddressed anxieties of the electorate; the
statesman striving to prevent war and promote peace; the householder
trying to support a family and maintain harmony between the
generations—all these people, all of us, confront in our daily ‘lives’
aspects of life that are very far removed and only distantly related to the
physiological functions of the body. But these too are central aspects of
Life.
As lay readers struggle with the physicist’s conception of fields, wave-
particles and the like, those unfamiliar with Sri Aurobindo’s thought may
initially find it difficult to grasp what he means by the term ‘life’; for,
indeed, our science has no term to describe an equivalent field of
existence. To the biologist, life is associated with a group of physiological
functions, reproduction, respiration, and metabolism. The presence or
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absence of these functions in biological forms denotes the presence or
absence of life. To each of us as individual living beings, the term is
commonly applied to a much broader field than the physiological. We
apply it with reference to the entire span of our existence, to all the
actions and experiences that occur and all the people and objects it
involves. We also commonly speak of the life of organizations, social
movements, communities and societies, in which we include all the
activities and institutions associated with them. Beyond these, all cultures
recognize that life is a plane of existence and experience subject to its
own characteristic laws or ways of functioning, no matter how enigmatic
they may often appear, as connoted in phrases such as “Life is like that.”
What do all these varied definitions have in common? They all denote a
field of existence in which energy and action are primary, while form of
substance (body) and form of thought (mind) are secondary. What does
the materialist hypothesis tell us about this field? If we apply the
materialist’s determinants to Life, we must conclude that results in this
plane too are a product of chance (also referred to as luck or misfortune)
and necessity (also referred to as destiny or fate); yet as with respect to
the material plane, we are unable to determine what it is that determines
that necessity, or governs its interplay with chance. There is no room in
the materialist formulation of Life for notions such as choice and free will,
no matter how real these principles may be to our personal experience.
The conscious formulation of new individual and collective actions, the
conscious evolutionary development of complexity within individuals and
social groupings would have to be regarded, according to the materialist
hypothesis, as mere action of material energy. While some biologists and
neurophysiologists may feel comfortable explaining their own existence
on the basis of this mechanistic formula, most of us will feel that it leaves
a wide and unsatisfying gap in our knowledge and our power for mastery
in life. Their principles may be valid for life science, but not for a science
of life. Moreover, they cast serious doubt on the claim of scientists to be
anywhere near a final theory that unites and reconciles all the forces of
nature, except in the very narrowest and most material definition of
nature.
Life as a Universal Force
In The Life Divine, Sri Aurobindo describes life as a universal force that
expresses as the individual force maintaining each individual form and
object in manifestation. It is the force that creates and preserves the
form, defends its survival and energizes its growth. Although we view life
in terms of many separate and individual lives, it is only one single,
universal existence that we perceive as many. In its origin, life is the
infinite, creative force that builds the worlds and inhabits them with forms
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of its own self-conception and creation. It is the conscious force of Sat,
the Self-Conscious Being, the Pure Existence, the Divine Consciousness,
the Omnipresent reality.
But here in the physical vital world we live and act in, Life does not
appear to us either as consciousness or as force. We do not generally
attribute conscious awareness or intention to life, even though we often
find occasions that seem to indicate a secret will or fate or determinism
governing our lives. We do not think of life as consciously or even
unconsciously acting upon us in certain ways or subconsciously
responding to what we think, feel or do. We do not generally think of life
as a force either. We are aware only of many individual forms and forces
acting in, around and upon us – the actions of our own desires, other
individuals, the influence of public opinion, the restrictive and protective
action of social conventions, laws and social institutions, as well as the
action of the material forces of nature – rain, wind, lightning, the
hurricane or earthquake or meteor from outer space. Each seems to us
driven by its own inner determinism or its own natural laws, but we do
not normally perceive any master script or director or set of rules or
unifying principle governing the whole play of life. (Garry Jacobs)
On the Character, Principles, And Laws of Life/Nature
-What I call "Nature" is not Mother Nature, but the way of life, or rather
Life itself.
-Life/Nature has a character that expresses through particular patterns
that can be further ascertained as principles and laws.
-The individual who understands life's character, including its particular
principles and laws, will have a great power over it.
-The principles and laws of life are subtle, and are mostly unperceived by
humans. However, there has been a recent opening as individuals have
begun to see the power of attraction, in which changes in consciousness
attract sudden good fortune. This is also known as a "Life Response,"
which is based on the life principle of inner-outer correspondence.
-Principles of life include inner-outer correspondence, precedent events,
simultaneity, synchronicity, law of karma, and many others.
-Through our higher consciousness we not only become aware of these
subtle principles, but we can read them when they occur, which will help
us determine what course of action to take (or avoid), enabling infinite-
accomplishment and enjoyment in life. (Roy Posner)
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Life is a Plane of Energy
-Physicists now know that the material plane really consists only of
energy in motion. Some of that energy takes on fixed repetitive patterns
of movement that are perceived by us as unchanging physical forms.
Some energy behaves in varied patterns that are perceived by our senses
as light or heat or other forms of energy.
-Life is also a universal plane of energy, but the energy of life is too
subtle to be perceived by the physical senses, though it can be perceived
by more subtle senses in us. Life energy too assumes fixed and variable
forms which we perceive variously as attitudes, desires, impulses,
emotions, fear, etc. Here the distinction between form and energy is less
clear since the forms are fluid and changing.
-The transmission of life energy through the life plane is similar to the
movement of a compression wave on the surface of the ocean or a sound
vibration through the air. There are no barriers of inner and outer to
prevent the transmission.
-Objects undergo physical movement in space from one "place" to
another. There is no corresponding "place" in life. Each type or quality of
vibration is equivalent to a "place", regardless of the location of the
physical object that emits it. Therefore, objects emitting similar vibrations
of life energy are in the same "place" regardless of their physical
proximity.
Energy, Forms and the Emergence of Man
-There is an ocean of energy, a plane of Force enveloping the earth. This
is Life.
-Forms, matter, us emerge from this energy, this plane of Life
-The Divine has created Man in the plane of life, through the force of life.
-Man is one formation of life, and the animal is another formation of life.
Matter itself is a hard formation dense to our touch. (MSS, paraphrased)
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Life/Energy has its Spiritual Source as Conscious Force
Life is a form of, a dynamic of, a current of, an energy of a universal
operation of the cosmic Conscious Force.
Life is the energy that originates in Chit (Conscious Force) of
Satchitananda (Existence, Conscious Force, Delight)
The Infinite in order to extends its Delight into a created universe
becomes self-aware of its existence that generates both consciousness
and Force. When that force is devoid of most if it consciousness, it takes
shape as energy, which is the original substance of creation. Out of
energy all things take shape in the universe.
Introduction to Life
Life is a plane of existence which is ever present in the atmosphere. Life
is understood as individual life or social life. It is not conceived of as a
plane.
Life is not only a plane of existence. It is LIVE. It has its own
characteristics. If on board a plane from London to Moscow you offer a
small help to an elderly man, when you reach Moscow the next day and
are in need of a small help, someone readily comes to offer it to you.
That is the personality of life. When The Secret says that the universe
fulfils your aspirations, it means Life. Beyond Life lies the universe, which
is part of a wider Existence.
Life is a wide plane of which human beings and other living beings are
concentrated individual centers. That is why Life responds to human ideas
and wishes. Just as physical existence is a plane of material objects, vital
existence is the life plane. The Mind is part of the mental plane.
This life is governed by laws which are, in truth, the laws of creation.
They include --
• The plane of life is an undivided continuum, not limited to certain
points. The life we feel within us and the life around us belong to
the same continuous field. Only the ego creates an artificial sense
of separation.
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• The life of an individual, the life of society and the life of Nature
are parts of this Life.
• The plane of life is NOT inert; it is full of life, power, vigor
and energy. It acts!
• Life is a formless movement of force. Like electricity, it is a
universal energy, not merely a property or characteristic of certain
life forms.
• Life is not moral. It is neutral. It acts according to its laws,
character and circumstances, but those laws and character are not
moral.
• Life respects physical values such as stability, strength, structure,
etc., not mental values such as goodness, morality, loyalty, etc.
• The plane of Life is a plane of organized harmony.
• Life maintains an equilibrium just like a sheet of water. If
disturbed, it restores the equilibrium at once. What we call
opportunity is the result of life restoring its equilibrium positively
or creatively. What we call tragedy is life restoring its equilibrium
negatively or destructively.
• Life responds to human initiative.
• Life can be made to Respond as we wish, when we know
the laws by which this plane is in existence.
• Man knowing his inner constitution can move his outer world by
that knowledge.
• Life exists as part of the Mind and part of the body.
• Life evolves by consciousness and consciousness evolves by
organization. (by Karmayogi)
Interaction of Forces
In the field of life there are many forces swirling around one another that
interact to create a result. At any moment, there is the individual, the
group, even the society, interacting in a churning of force, intention, and
circumstances. [ep]
The Individual
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If we first start with the individual, we note that he brings his own
context and attributes to the game that is playing out on the field of life.
We know that every human being is made up of the physical,
vital/emotional, mental, and perhaps spiritual qualities. The quantity and
quality of these aspects in an individual together are reflected in the
person's health, emotions, skills, intelligence, values, opinions, attitudes,
and other aspects of the person. So to the field or game of life, each
person brings his or her own propensities to the game.
As a person acts in the world, there is an associated consequence either
now or later on. The higher the quality of the propensities of the
individual, the greater the intensity, and the greater the quality of the
results. Yet to fully understand the outcome one must not only
understand the outer actions that brought about a results; one must also
understand that the inner qualities of the individual, which our research
has revealed has an more direct bearing on the outer consequences of
life!
In this light, we should also mention that the individual himself is also in
the process of growing, developing, and evolving as a person. There is an
arc of personal growth throughout our lives that we are often unaware of.
Earlier at this site, we stated that the process of growth is unconscious
for most people; for a few others it is somewhat conscious. In either
case, there is an ascending movement for the individual playing out in
one's life, which is a factor that comes into play in our game of life.
While our propensities and our evolutionary growth curve are in play in
the game, so are our past deeds. We are rarely aware that things we
have done previously, good or bad or in between, are constantly brought
forward in time. If an individual has done someone else a wrong, we may
see that long after the person has forgotten it, it "remains in play" as
time goes on and comes back to influence the current event. "What you
sow is what you reap," or the "law of karma" are each saying the same
thing. The past is brought forward in the present. (We can even take it
one-step further. There are those who will go so far as to say that our
actions of our past lives are also brought forward and are in play in the
present.)
The individual is then always interacting in the game of life through these
three aspects of propensities, evolutionary arc, and past actions and
deeds. Together they make up the character of the individual.
The Collective
Then what does the individual meet on the playing field of life?
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In any big sporting event there is the social dynamic; the fans in the
crowd, the people in the community, i.e. there are energies and
atmospheres surrounding the game. So to in life, the individual through
his character confronts the conflict of life's situation in a social context. In
the big game, there are team dynamics. In the real game of life, there
are the swirl of forces of other people, the group, society itself that come
into play. There are the other individuals and their character. There is
also the character of the society. These other forces may be in harmony
or opposition to our intent. If we have great enough strength of
character, we can overcome almost any opposition. Normally, however,
we are at the mercy of the character of those other individuals,
institutions and social norms that we come in contact with.
For example, an individual taking a great initiative in life may be thrust
forward into success or set back into failure based on the swirling forces
of the social character and atmosphere. On the one hand, strength and
direction of will may help him accomplish, but if the opposition is too
great, he may not be able to prevail. Even if he takes an action with good
intent and demonstrates great character, he still may not be able to
succeed because of the opposing social forces and atmosphere in play. If
the actions are mixed with vital force of character, as are the two main
characters driven in Romeo and Juliet, then the negative social
atmosphere (of the conflict of the Montagues and Capulets) can play a
part in unleashing a great tragedy for the main individuals.
Looking at the game of life from the perspective of the collective rather
than the individual, we may see that to a smaller extent the collective is
also going through its own evolution. Often when an individual is
confronted with big situations in the playing field of life not only is he
working out an outcome and a personal growth for himself, but the other
participants, the group involved, the society, i.e. the collective are also
working out its own outcomes, and hence its own growth and
development. From the perspective of the collective, its character and
condition, past deeds, etc. are also in play in the game of life, and are
working themselves out toward (hopefully) a higher resolution and
progress.
We should also point out that the resolution of all situations and
circumstance, i.e. the outcome of the game of life itself, takes place
through a dynamic of opposition and conflict. In the Theory of Creation,
we have discussed how life unfolds as a series of conflicts and struggles.
We call the conflicting nature of life the involution. We call the working
out of the conflict the evolution (for a person, the group, society, etc.).
Evolutionary growth and development in the game of life seems to
require involution of conflict and struggle.
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Finally, our view is that life progresses through slow, circular, zigzagging,
halting, unconscious steps. It is when we as humans consciously make
the decision to develop ourselves, our character, that we dramatically
accelerate the possibility of positive outcomes in the game of life.
The Ascent of Life through the Individual
-(1) Life is first dumb inconscient will rooted in the physical energy;
inconscient, and subject to mechanical forces. This is reflected in the
necessity of the separative ego, and to survive.
(2) Then there is a movement to break the bounds of one's self toward
interaction with others. This reflects the compulsion of Nature to fuse our
individual selves with others. At this second poise of life there is death,
mutual devouring, desire, and the need to expand, conquer, and possess.
This is a movement to the vital proper, away from the physical.
(3) The third poise of life is a movement towards conscious mind in life.
In this stage there is the conscious movement towards commonality,
mutuality, harmony, etc. In its higher aspects it is vitally reflected as the
ability to be self-giving towards others, and to feel love.
-Survival of the fittest that enables evolution comes from love,
commonality, unity, harmony, etc.; not because of selfishness, self-
protection, self-assertion, and aggressive living of the individual. [This is
the movement from the physical and vital in the vital and life to the
conscious mind emerging in life, and beyond to spiritualized mind to
supermind to Satchitananda]
-As life ascends to mind, it grows toward the rule of conscious unity.
(One sees there the unity in the in the differentiation and diversity of
life.) This reflects the divine law of the Satchitananda in the
manifestation.
[As there is an ascension in life, as we ascend to higher levels in life, we
move from physical selfishness, to vital interchange with others, including
desire, et al to mental and spiritual mind-based commonality and unity,
reflecting those higher aspects that are there in Satchitananda.
-This suggest that life can reflect every aspect, attribute of every plane of
mind to supermind in the vital. E.g. the highest aspect of Truth, Love,
Oneness, Power, Bliss/Delight, Knowledge can be experienced in all
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aspects of life, and in all aspects of our vital being.] (Paraphrase of Sri
Aurobindo + Additional Comments)
The Ascent of Life: The Four Successive Statuses that the
Forms of Life Undergo
Unconscious Will to Survive -- The first is of force, of dumb inconscient
[unconscious] will. It is mere physical energy, subject to mechanical
forces. This is reflected in the necessity of the separative ego, and to
survive.
Ego-Oriented Interchange -- The second status is to break the bounds of
one's self toward interaction with others; a compulsion of Nature to begin
to fuse ourselves with others. There is death, mutual devouring, desire,
and the need to expand, conquer, and possess. This is a movement to
the vital proper, away from the physical.
Mutual Interchange and Harmony -- The third status is the conscious
movement towards commonality, mutuality, harmony, etc. It is a
movement toward cooperation and mutual help, the associated group,
conscious joining and interchange. In its higher aspects it is vitally
reflected as the ability to be self-giving towards others, and to feel love.
Sri Aurobindo also indicates than in this third status, there is an
increasing predominance of Mind. Mind is of a higher consciousness which
does not need to devour to grow. to the degree that Mind is free of the
material influence, it will have these positive influences.
Spiritual Unity with Others, Life -- Sri Aurobindo says that ultimately
there is a need to harmonize two principles of life: the necessity of the
will of the separative ego to survive in its distinctness; and the
compulsion imposed upon it by Nature to fuse itself with others.
Sri Aurobindo says that these will be fused when we reach the fourth
status of life, which occurs when the eternal unity of the many [i.e. of the
self and others] is realized through the unity and freedom of the spirit.
(Paraphrase of Sri Aurobindo + Additional growth Online Comments)
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The Nature of the Universe, Life
Here I would like to describe the nature of the universe in a variety of
ways, which I hope will add to our understanding of life's meaning and
purpose, including our role in it.
Energy (Plane of Life) and the Universe -- Life is a plane of Energy, which
surrounds the universe. Even if the physical universe were not there, this
plane of Energy would still exist. In addition, the universe itself is a
product of that energy. The Energy exists originally in a state of rest. Bu
then through a divine compulsion, it begins to move, creating forces and
forms out of itself, which becomes the visible and invisible contents of the
universe. All forms that emerge in the universe are formations of that
energy. When those forms cease to exist, such as when we die, the
energy remains and takes a new form.
Origins of the Plane of Energy -- Energy has its origins in the Infinite
consciousness. Energy is in fact the final movement of the Conscious
Force -- "Chit" in Sanskrit -- unfolding from out of the Infinite Divine.
Thus, the universe is a product of a Divine Intent, using the Force and
Energy of the Supreme for its clay and substance. What is created are
forces and forms, visible and invisible, of which matter is the most
obvious manifestation. Animated life, and mentality are further
formations.
Equilibrium, Rebalancing in Universe -- The universe exits in a state of
continuous equilibrium. When things change, the universe absorbs it and
rebalances itself, forming a new equilibrium. Thus, the universe can be
likened to the ocean, where if something is added or subtracted, whether
a swell or reduced flow, it is immediately incorporated into an integrative,
harmonious whole. In this scheme, relationships among forces, objects,
forms, circumstance are continually updated and being adjusted to
maintain the balance and harmony; this integral unity in the universe.
Oneness and the Cosmic Web -- All in the universe is interrelated and
interconnected. Each thing is related to every other, as well as the whole;
even its essence. There is a kind of cosmic web that encircle the universe
containing a myriad of strands. Each thread has its own unique
correspondences, connecting related elements, circumstances, etc a
profound integral relationship. Thus, if one element on the strand
changes, it affects other on that thread -- whether forces, energies,
circumstance, or forms, including we humans. In this way, if we make an
adjustment in consciousness, others elements are affected. More
proactively, if we know what a particular strand consists of, we can
elevate our consciousness in a corresponding area, consciously affecting
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related elements. E.g. if we know that cancer has its roots in greed, we
can overcome greed in ourselves, and watch as cancer recedes across the
earth as a major problem of life.
Life Response and the Universe -- Life response is the phenomenon
where sudden good fortune descends on an individual or collective due to
shifts in consciousness on our part. Life response can be explained in
terms of the equilibrium of energies of the universe. I.e. the universe is
in any moment in a state of equilibrium relative to local conditions. There
is then an elevation of consciousness on the part of an individual or
collective; e.g. due to a higher attitude, decision, or belief. Perceiving
that things are now in a state of disequilibrium, the universe seeks to
restore the balance. To do so, a fresh act is required. That occurs from
amongst elements along a corresponding thread(s) of the web of life.
E.g., as a result of my improved attitude, good fortune comes to me from
a particular individual or unique circumstance along that corresponding
thread. When the response comes, equilibrium is restored, though now at
a higher level. Keep in mind that the dynamic of equilibrium,
disequilibrium, new equilibrium occurs for positive, neutral, and negative
movements of consciousness on our part, leading to corresponding
quality of response. I.e. I can attract negative conditions through a
movement of lower consciousness.
Necessity of All in the Universe -- In life, we want certain things to occur
-- essentially left out of the universe -- and some kept in. But at the
highest level of consciousness, we perceive that every single thing is
needed for progress in the universe; for movements forward in life. Thus,
in life, and in the universe there is no waste. Everything serves a purpose
in the progressive movement forward. In that way, every single object
serves a purpose, whether positive or negative. For us that means
nothing should be discarded as irrelevant or unimportant, for the smallest
thing can determine the outcome of the largest; and the most negative
can be an avenue and opening to the most positive.
The Reality and the Universe -- There is a relationship between the
universe and the Reality that contains it. I.e. the omnipresent Reality
(Brahman, The Absolute) is the highest conception of existence afforded
to Man. It expresses in all planes unmanifest and manifest. The Reality
begins as unmanifest Infinite consciousness, and then extends itself to a
universe of forces and forms. Thus, we could say that the universe is the
body of the Reality: a manifestation of the unmanifest. The Reality has
then become both the Unmanifest and the Manifest; the Creator and the
Creation. It is actually more than their sum, but their unity and integral
relationship. Also, being a form of the Reality in creation, we inherit the
infinite consciousness of the Divine Source. In essence, life and we are
God incarnate.
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Evolution and the Universe -- Evolution is constantly occurring in the
universe. There is a constant upward compulsion to the highest formation
possible of any form, including us. When the form reaches its highest
state, it evolves another form. Evolution in the universe is occurring at
the physical, vital (life plane) and mental levels. Animals emerged from
plant and chemical; humans from animals; and higher mental, heart, and
spiritual beings from lower consciousness individuals. Thus, we humans
are the main instrument for evolution in the universe. There is a divine
compulsion for change, progress, evolution, and transformation in the
universe coming from a Higher Source. There is also something within us
-- an embedded divine, an evolving soul, a hidden Conscious-Force --
that also has this urge for ever-higher development of our being.
The Individual, Universal, and Transcendent -- There is a relationship
between us as individuals, the universe, and the transcendent. It can be
explained this way: There is an Infinite consciousness with a
transcendent status, with its spiritual qualities and divine Intent. We exist
in the universe to fulfill its destiny to carry out and manifest the
Transcendent Will. How do we do this? We fulfill the universal intent when
we rise in consciousness; enabling the universal to fulfill its transcendent
purpose. Thus, by discovering our highest nature, we become
instruments of the will and Intent of the Infinite consciousness. In that
way our destiny is not only to become fulfilled true Individuals, but
universal, and transcendent beings.
Free Will and Determination -- In this scheme, we have free will to
choose as we wish. And yet there is a compulsion and will of the Infinite
consciousness for progress, evolution, and transformation in creation. I.e.
there is a transcendent aspiration for the universe to increasingly
manifest peace, oneness, wisdom, creativity, possibility, love, beauty,
and delight. These are the cosmic determinants. And yet we are given full
freedom to participate in this cosmic unfolding. It is our choice. Thus, we
can say we have free will within the determination of the Infinite divine.
Moreover, we collaborate with that cosmic intent by increasingly
discovering our higher nature and bringing it to the world. This freedom
and choice, this cosmic determinism is true for all things, seen and
unseen, in the universe.
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The Character of Life
The Game of Life
Some have suggested that life is merely a serious of random events that
occur without purpose or meaning. Our decades-long analysis on the
contrary, indicates that life is a very meticulous, though complex system
that expresses through profound, yet subtle laws and principles.
For example, we know that the motion of physical objects follow basic
tenets of existence, but we rarely consider the fact that life itself also has
its own methods and rules of causality and unfolding. It would seem a
reasonable thing to do to try to discover just what they are.
And yet even if we were serious about identifying such laws and
principles, would we have the right mental framework and perspective to
identify them? [ep]
If we are tethered to simplistic notions of cause and effect, to that which
can be visually perceived -- i.e. the scientific, empirical view -- we will
hardly know anything beyond the surface of things. The fact is that life is
far more complex, intricate, and interdependent than what the mind can
see, let alone what the senses tell us. Even the most powerful human
mind, steeped in logic is unable to glean the nature of reality because it is
fixated and limited to what it knows, missing all of the subtle intricacies
that make life what it is; that are the factors that move life and lead to its
outcomes.
To begin to understand the character of life, we must start all over from
the beginning; break down existence into its facets, and see how they
each the parts fit together. It is not unlike a skilled watchmaker who in
order to understand how to fix it, must take apart the timepiece to see
the parts that make up the whole, see how it fits together, and figure out
what is missing or wanting.
To understand life, its character, and its methods, we must begin our
knowledge journey anew by deconstructing existence, and then
perceiving how all of the parts – reality, life, society, the individual,
circumstance, events, human character, evolution, destiny, et all fit
together. From there we can know the play, the players, and the game,
how they interact, and fit together, revealing life’s character and all of the
laws and principles that govern it.
THINGS TO THINK ABOUT:
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-The next time you watch a serious TV program, movie, or read a book,
understand what is the flaw in the person's character. If appropriate also
understand how an individual changed their character (by changing an
attitude, opinion, habit, action) and how that lead to positive
circumstance.
-Consider a conflict in your own life now or in the past. Note how the
negative circumstance or people served a purpose (i.e. the involution) in
the eventual outcome (i.e. the evolution) of the conflict.
-Think about a few things in your life where great suffering was actually a
first link in a chain of a new awareness, improvement, or success.
-Take any conflict that is occurring now, and examine your own
character, and try to make an improvement from among your level of
knowledge, skills, attitudes, habits, opinions, personal values,
aspirations, direction, will, desires, ego, and so forth.
-How can you avoid going through the same conflicts in the future you
have experienced in the past. In what ways do you need to change your
attitudes, habits, opinions, desires, activities, etc to avoid the repetition
in the future?
-What are some commonly accepted "good" things you are doing now
that actually may not be good.
Expressions of the Character of Life
Like the individual, life too can be said to have a character. Life's
character can be described by the way events unfold, as well as by the
factors that determine such outcomes.
Moreover, the character of life is governed by subtle laws and principles,
which we can observe if we closely examine its unfoldings. We can
perceive a number of these principles at work, which in turn can supply
us with profound insights into the nature of life.
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Character of Life Expressed in ‘Savitri’
"The events of our lives appear to lack coherence due to a limitation in
our understanding. Those who perceive the true character of life realize
that it has a complete connected significance."
(from the Book inside the novel 'The Book' by Garry Jacobs)
Comment: This is echoed here:
“Our outward happenings have their seed within,
And even this random Fate that imitates Chance,
This mass of unintelligible results,
Are the dumb graph of truths that work unseen:
The laws of the Unknown create the known.”
(from ‘Savitri’ by Sri Aurobindo)
Character of Life
Life has a character. It has a capacity to respond, and the nature of that
response is a direct function of the consciousness of the individuals or
groups involved in the action. As physics observes and catalogs the
characteristic properties of material substances and the interactions of
material energies, seeks to understand their origin and to discover the
laws that govern them, a true science of life must carefully observe and
catalog the characteristic patterns of action and response in life.
This is the truth behind the much maligned and misunderstood concept
of karma. Its essential meaning is that every action in life releases a
particular vibration or quality of energy that evokes a response from the
same vibratory quality of life in the world around. Violence begets
violence, one good turn deserves another, and countless other
commonplace phrases reflect shades of this profound truth. But the
complexity of life energies and events is so great that simplistic formulas
such as these will fail to satisfy empirically unless founded upon a deep
and systematic study of life events and consequences. That is precisely
what science can bring to the study of life, once it consents to impartially
examine an alternative hypothesis.
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Every successful farmer, business leader, politician and statesman—all
those whose primary objective is accomplishment in social life, rather
than being confined to work on material substances or mental
formulations—intuitively discover these truths. Great writers of fiction, of
whom Shakespeare is the preeminent example, intuitively reflect them in
the words and actions of their characters and the consequences of those
actions. The sudden attack by a pirate ship which enables Hamlet to
escape the plot for his execution in England appears at first glance to be
appropriately described by the materialists’ concept of chance or luck,
until the underlying determinants and governing principles of life are
better known. Critics have studied many such patterns of action and
consequence in great literary works, usually without realizing that they
were dealing with universal laws of action and reaction that are the basis
of a fully rational and verifiable science of life. Not just literature, but also
history and biography are replete with instances that point to a deeper
level of causality in life. That an inexplicable order by Hitler on May 24,
1940 stopping the advance of Nazi troops to Dunkirk, coupled with the
sudden onset of heavy fog along the coast, made possible the near
miraculous evacuation of 350,000 allied troops with minimum casualties;
mocks at simplistic notions of chance and necessity in life. Traditional
wisdom in all cultures is rich with insights into truths of life, though it
usually fails to organize and present the theoretical basis for its
conclusions in a manner understandable or acceptable to the rational
mind.
Who has not had less complex and dramatic, but nevertheless striking
instances in their own life? You think or speak of a particular person and
a moment later a letter or phone call arrives from that person or he
arrives at your door. If there is a causal relationship between your action
and the result, it is obviously not material. You become interested in a
particular subject for the first time and suddenly find life inundating you
with information about it that you have not even sought. You think of a
word or passage and open a book spontaneously to just that topic. You
notice that both good and bad news seem too often come in streams; one
good thing following another or a crop of bad news all coming to harvest
at the same time, even when the sources and causes of events appear
causally unrelated.
Questions About The “Character of Life”
Understanding the ideas presented in this work 'Character of Life can help
us understand the answers to the following questions:
-Why does one person have luck and another fail to have it?
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-Why do bad things happen to good people, and good things happen to
bad ones?
-Why did the outcome of the story occur the way it did, when it seemed
like it should have happened a different way?
-How is the social atmosphere affecting the outcome of events?
-Why does the tiniest action have the power to create the greatest
outcome?
-How does our own character intersect with Life's character?
-Can Character of Life knowledge help us understand the true purpose
and meaning behind circumstance and events.
-Does Life really have a character; a nature that follows its own laws and
principles; its own course and flow?
-Is Life Conscious in ways we never would have imagined?
-Is there something we can do in consciousness that can causes outer
events to turn more in our favor?
-Is Life a vehicle for something higher; such as a spiritual dimension?
-When we take an action, hoping for something to come about, why does
nothing happen, or even worse, the very opposite?
-Why do people coincidentally appear on the scene in certain situations?
-Is life around us reflecting, positively and negatively our being inside?
-Is there a relationship between events happening around and our
capacity to grow as a person?
-Can I become very successful, and inwardly fulfilled by learning the Laws
governing the Character of Life?
-Can Character of Life indicate the purpose of human existence; social
existence, universal existence, cosmic existence?
-Can Character of Life knowledge enable me to become the master of
life? And if so, how? (Roy Posner)
Character of Life and Anticipating, Predicting the Future
By knowing Character of Life principles and by developing Supramental
Perception one can far more easily anticipate and even predict future
outcomes.
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Biological, Social, and Spiritual Evolution and the Character of Life
The scope of the Character of Life is infinite, like the Source that created
it.
One aspect that I learned from Sri Karmayogi through our regular email
interchanges from 1999-2003 was the influence of three layers of
evolution that are occurring simultaneously. Life's character reflects the
confluence of these.
They are what He calls Biological evolution, Social evolution, and Spiritual
evolution. These are their positive forms. At any moment, there can also
be non-evolution; even regression. Life's character stands at the interface
of these three.
For example, in Pride and Prejudice several individuals are clearly going
through Biological evolution, Darcy being the most dramatic as he
reverses a large part of his nature; a startling achievement for which he
is greatly rewarded by attracting the love of his life Eliza to marriage. She
herself is going through a degree of her own Biological evolution.
In the story, Social evolution is also occurring. We see it at the level of
class, where we witness the progress of the gentleman farmers moving
up in English society in status, privilege, and prosperity, represented
clearly by the Bennett family. There is also a certain social regression
occurring, represented by the aristocratic Lady Catherine; even though
her nephew, Mr Darcy, also of that class are moving forward, as they are
refreshed by the dynamic, positive energies of the middle class.
The Spiritual evolution can be thought of as the intention and
determination of the divine Force that seeks to spreads Its Will
throughout the cosmos and life on earth. In the story, we can perceive
through the interaction of the middle and upper classes. Rather than
having these two sectors progress friction and strife, as it did in nearby
revolutionary France, it instead occurs through interaction, cooperation,
and harmony. Other spiritual aspects -- like wisdom, truth, goodness,
creativity, beauty, love, delight, and timelessness -- also express the
intention of the Force and hence Spiritual evolution in life; seeking the
right individuals, conduits, and circumstance.
So Man stands at the interface of Biological, the Social, and the Spiritual.
Each moment is like that for us; as is every event. The Character of Life
is determined by the conditions of these three aspects, and their
confluence and interaction.
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We can see this in our own lives, in the world around us; even in literary
fiction and cinema. E.g. Shakespeare portrays the intersection of these
forces throughout his works; and does so elegantly and poetically. He is
able to blend the micro and the macro view of circumstance; which is the
cornerstone of his greatness. We should note that his emphasis was often
on the tragic because 500 years ago Man's nature was brutish.
Evolution -- biological, social, and spiritual -- took place through very
coarse action and reaction during those times.
The confluence of the three forms of evolution (as well as their neutral
and negative/regressive forms) also relates to Life Response, i.e.
instances of sudden good fortune. For example, we see that in our own
lives life response is determined not only by our own energies (our
intentions, attitudes, decisions, actions, etc.) but by the influence of the
social atmosphere. When the social atmosphere is at our back, then our
initiatives succeed; life responds in our favor. When they are negative or
absent, life will respond neutrally or counter to our aspirations. Pride and
Prejudice is an example of the former; Shakespeare's Othello, the latter.
Then there is the influence of the Sprit and its effect on life. E.g. the
Force can descend on its own as Grace. In addition, we can open to that
Power, which also sets right life's conditions, manifesting starling positive
outcomes. If we develop an inner power to perceive life's subtle
movements, we can put ourselves in direct line with the spiritual
unfolding that is trying to manifest in the world. Even without us, spiritual
evolution is constantly occurring, as the spirit continually manifest its
cosmic aspects including harmony, oneness, goodness, wisdom,
creativity, beauty, and delight.
In the end, we each stand at the crossroads of these influences. To be
able to pan back and perceive what that is at any moment in time, in any
circumstance, gives us a great perspective of life's conditions. It reveals
why things are happening the way they are, and what we can do to
change them. For after all we are fully capable of influencing the world
outside ourselves from within ourselves, which is yet another principle of
the Character of Life.
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Character of Life Principles
Life has a character, which expresses through rules,
principles
Four Character of Life Principles
What are several principles that indicate Life’s character?
One is that Life is a field of existence consisting of the play, the players,
and their interactions.
Eg in the book, various films of Pride and Prejudice, the story that the
author gives us is the Play. The characters, Like Mr. Darcy, Elizabeth
Bennet, and Lady Catherine are the Players. The interactions are all the
scenes where the players are connecting with one another; e.g. where
Darcy refuses to dance with Elizabet, or when Lydia elopes with a
scoundrel. They can be major or minor scenes and interactions.
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A second is that Life is constantly responding to the inner and outer
expressions of the behavior of the players.
Life can respond positively or negatively to the players. Eg negative
circumstance constantly follow in the footsteps of Mrs. Bennet’s thoughts,
emotions and actions, because she is so negative herself. On the other
hand, when Darcy shifts away from being proud and aloof, good fortune
soon follows.
Thus Life reacts positively to higher consciousness inner and outer
behaviors, and negatively to lower ones.
In fact, Life is always responding to our desires, actions, habits, attitudes,
beliefs, and values.
Thus, what we are within ourselves, is how life expresses on the outside.
In this way, Life is alive and Conscious.
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A third principle is that life unfolds in the world is ways that are mostly
subconscious to us I.e. we only perceive the obvious outer unfolding, --
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what is material and mechanistic, tangible and in sight -- not the subtle
unfoldings, signs, and indicators.
Eg Elizabeth Bennett has no idea that her feelings toward the treacherous
Wickham will cause her younger sister to elope with him and nearly ruin
her family. Likewise Mr. Bennet has no idea that his indifference to his
children will lead to the same nearly ruinous elopement.
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A fourth principle is that life progresses through the conflict or
contradiction between pairs, that crates the possibility of a higher
consciousness, that turns the conflict into a progress or harmony.
Eg Darcy and Eliza are fully at odd. And yet when they go through
circumstance, they came to see their limitations in their being, make the
necessary change in their attitudes and feeling, leading to the
establishment of their relationship and their marriage.
Thus we can say that life progresses by turning contradictions into
complementarities.
Subtle Principles of Life
[Subtle Life principles described here include Law of Karma, Subtle
Connection with Another, Inner-Outer Correspondence, All is Indicated
Beforehand, Negative as Positive in Disguise, etc.]
Perhaps the one principle of life we readily agree upon is the law of cause
and effect. E.g. if I do something, there is an effect. Unfortunately, we
only see this principle at work the physical/material level. E.g., when I
hammer in a nail, the wood splinters and it is penetrated. This
physical/material causality is obvious for every human being. However,
that is only a small part of the life picture. There is also the cause and
effect at the non-material plane -- i.e. subtle level of life. E.g., if I feel an
emotion, someone else in the next town subtly perceives it. When they
then receive my phone call, they comment that they were thinking of me.
An even less known example: I change a negative attitude, and suddenly
someone from half way around the world that I have never known before
contacts me with an offer of a job of a lifetime. This is a subtle principle
of life called 'inner-outer correspondence'. I.e. there is a direct connection
between the inner me and the outer life. Therefore, when I change a
wanting aspect of myself consciousness within, such as a negative
attitude, life outside myself instantly responds in kind -- even though I
took to no perceptible outer action to make it occur. This stunning
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unfolding defies our normal perceptions of what is possible, and how
space and time unfold. Yet this principle is always at work, just beyond
the bounds of our normal state of awareness.
There are many other subtle principles of life. One is that everything that
occurs in life is indicated long before it occurs; i.e. by a 'predecessor
event'. For example, an individual is eager to come to a meeting that
could change his life, but then gets very lost while driving around in a
huge housing development -- though eventually he finds his way. Years
later, he goes out of business when in his relationship with the very
people he tried to meet at that earlier difficult-to-arrive-at, fateful
meeting. The earlier negative event of getting hopelessly lost was the
predecessor of the later negative circumstance of meeting with financial
disaster through that same party.
It is also interesting to note that there are no exceptions to this rule:
everything in life is indicated earlier by a predecessor event. Or to make
it more personal: everything that is currently happening to your life --
whether great or small -- has been indicated by a predecessor event
beforehand. Here is one other example of the phenomenon. A young man
comes to India and meets with a teacher. Years later, they would be
involved in a difficult trial against another person in which they
(temporarily) lost a considerable financial judgment. At the very first
instance when the two individuals met a decade earlier, the young man
had asked the elder for a small loan to pay for a taxi. That sorry request
was a predecessor of the near-financial ruin suffered by both. If we were
to go back and trace the events our lives, we would see this same
principle at work in our own lives. Something to think about: the things
we are doing now will become signs and predecessors for future events.
Inner-outer correspondence and predecessor events are two startling
subtle principles of life. How can the average person who only sees the
obvious causalities of life perceive them? It is a matter of living a more
concentrated existence, where our focus in life is more inward, and less
outward where we are caught up in the surface unfoldings of life. From
that deeper poise, we more readily perceive the subtle movements of life
around us.
Let me add one other subtle principle -- one I have mentioned frequently
in this column. It is that the negatives we experience in life serve the
greater good. Or to put it another way, negatives are just as good in the
creating the greater Good as the ordinary good is. Consider how the
central episode in Pride and Prejudice unfolds, and you will see what I a
mean. In the story, Darcy is in love with Eliza, but she has rejected him
due to his prideful ways. There appears on the scene an old nemesis of
Darcy, Mr. Wickham. He runs off with Eliza's youngest sister, precipitating
a scandal. Darcy then takes it upon himself to overcome the predicament,
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and succeeds in bringing Wickham and the younger sister back to the
community married, thus avoiding the scandal. As a result, Eliza
perceives Darcy in a new light, they reconcile, she expresses her love,
and they marry. Cannot we then say that it was because of the negative
Wickham that Darcy is given an opportunity to act in a way that wins
over the love of Eliza? Put in philosophical terms we could say that
Wickham appeared on the scene in order to bring about the marriage of
Darcy to Eliza -- even though that was not his conscious intent. Thus, life
progresses very quickly through the unfolding of negative circumstance,
adding to the greater Good. It is one of Nature's profound methods.
The most extreme example of that would be the startling statement that
the ultimate evil represented by Adolph Hitler and the Nazis unified
Europe! Without their treachery, it may have never happened, or it may
have taken hundreds of years before an EU was created. Because these
nations had to jointly oppose the Nazis in WWII, instead of acting
selfishly and separately apart as they did in the years leading up to the
war, they developed the beginnings of a unity of purpose. Then at the
end of the war when the devastation was complete, the nations knew
that they had to come together, or face similar consequences once again.
They then went on to see their shared values and purpose. It was a vast
evolutionary movement of hundreds of years through the misery of a few
years of extreme negative unfolding.
If we think about it, each of us can identity extreme negative
circumstance that precipitated a great advancement forward in our own
lives. It is unfortunately too often the case that only through the shock of
negative circumstance does our lives make the necessary leap forward. It
is the cause because our habitual nature and our virulent attitudes and
beliefs do not readily change on their own to allow for such progress. It is
known by the spiritually wise man that the Divine itself sanctions the
negative, including evil, as a radical means of moving forward -- at least
until we develop the positive means to do the same. Thus, this negative
unfolding that serves the greater Good, can be thought of not as a
negative at all, but as a more intense form of the positive. It is a form of
the positive that is not easily recognizable, and bitterly accepted if at all.
This is Nature's difficult method -- though in the future we will discover
the inner, spiritual means to move life forward without the need of pain
and difficulty. It is called the way of Soul.
I have mentioned a handful of subtle life principles -- though there are
many more, each more remarkable than the next. Though laudable, the
goal is not simply to be aware of and occasionally experience these
startling unfoldings of life, but utilize their power to raise our
consciousness, while bringing about progress in our lives. Then life will
become an endless adventure, a 'thrill ride of the within', which will not
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only take us to the heights of any endeavor we engage in, and allow us to
make remarkable personal progress, but will fill us with an ongoing deep
joy and delight of being. At that point, we will stand on the shores of a
New Way of Living.
Character of Life Principles
Life has a character just like each of us. It expresses through patterns
and principles that elude our view. However, if we look closely we can
learn to identify the principles that describe the workings of Life's
Character. Here are some examples that indicate the nature of life's
character:
WHAT LIFE IS
• Life is a universal field that seeks progress towards an unnamed
goal.
PLANES OF LIFE
• Life exists at many planes – from the physical, to the vital/life
force, to the mental, to the spiritual.
LIFE'S OUTCOME AND FLOW
• Life's outcomes are determined by the consciousness of the
individuals, the influence of the collectives involved, the general
atmosphere, and the progressive urge of life behind.
• The flow of events of life cannot be understood by mere
mechanistic view of circumstance, but by understanding the inner
attitudes, motives, and beliefs of the individual, or collective.
• The flow of events cannot be understood by mere mechanistic
view of circumstance, but by understanding the inner attitudes,
motives, and beliefs of the individual, or collective.
• Life is a process of ever-unfolding progress that can also move
faster through evolution, and fastest through transformation.
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• Life unfolds through the contradictions of force, such as between
of two parties (individuals, nations, ideas, etc.), working its way to
a higher harmony.
• Life or Nature provides a slow, often painful method of progress.
Progress through higher consciousness or soul also enables
progress, but without the pain.
ACTS
• The act is the central unit or measurement of life.
• Life's acts tends to repeat over and over until there is a counter
force that changes that dynamic.
• That act or circumstance which happens at the outset of
circumstance, indicate what is going to occur at the end; what the
final outcome will be.
• When a great movement to the positive rises, an opposing force
tries to deny it.
LIFE RESPONSE
• Life responds to the consciousness of the individual. When there is
a further shift to the positive, life suddenly brings forth positive
conditions to that person. Likewise, a negative will bring forth a
negative.
• We have the capacity to shape life not just through our outer
actions, but through our inner attitudes, motives, values, and
beliefs.
• Life responds powerfully to movements and shift of intention,
decision, attitude, and action.
• In “life response,” space, time, causality, and limits of possibility
are overcome.
• Life responds to strength. Life is amoral (not the same as
immoral), responding to force and power.
ONENESS OF LIFE
• Though we see separateness and division in life, all things are
inextricably and integrally related. Thus even the smallest thing
can have a great effect.
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• The inner person and the outer reality are not two separate
things, but are one. Thus when we change the inner view, the
outer quickly responds in kind.
ROLE OF THE INDIVIDUAL IN LIFE
• A person is not just an individual being serving his own individual
purpose, but also has a universal capacity to affect the society and
other collectives. The person also serves a transcendent purpose.
• A pioneer individual will often advocate that which is subconscious
to the society, enabling it to move forward.
IGNORANCE TO KNOWLEDGE
• Life is a journey from Ignorance to Knowledge. To enable the full
accomplishment of that process, rebirth of the soul is necessary.
ACCOMPLISHMENT & SUCCESS
• There are factors that enable great accomplishment and success,
reflecting life's character. Among them are aspiration,
psychological strength, attitude, capacity, and values.
• All problems of life are essentially problems of Harmony. increase
the harmony and solutions are found, problems disappear.
• Limited consciousness prevents these from manifesting success.
Higher consciousness facilitates these.
LIFE AND SPIRIT
• Life is the final operation of a Supreme Conscious-Force.
• Behind the movements of life are the Intent of an Infinite
Consciousness, a Divine entity.
• We can collaborate with the Divine will to facilitate the evolution of
life on earth.
• Life seeks to manifest spiritual values like silence, peace,
harmony, truth, wisdom, goodness, beauty, love, joy, infinity, and
eternity.
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• Though the Infinite Consciousness does not wish for it, it sanctions
ignorance, falsehood, pain, and evil as a means of evolving the
conditions of the world.
Various Principles of Life Indicating the Character of Life
PRINCIPLES OF ACTS
• The consequences of an act depend on the strength of the act, the
actor and the social atmosphere.
• When we function in the world we do so through the individual
acts we perform. We can say that the act is the fundamental unit
of life in the same way that the atom or molecule are the
fundamental units of matter. In fact, each act is in fact a
microcosm of the universe; the universe in miniature.
• Each act is a force with a propensity to repeat that increase with
each occurrence. Each repetition of an act increases its tendency
for further repetitions.
• There are always predecessor events that point to the bigger
events. To know those smaller acts can help us control the bigger
ones; turning them into great accomplishment and results.
• The outcome of a chain of events is indicated at the very
beginning, though the meaning of that indication may not be
evident.
INNER-OUTER CORRESPONDENCE & LIFE RESPONSE
• Everything on the outside is an expression of our inner condition.
• This laws governing the relationship between the outer and the
inner can be called the principle of "inner-outer correspondence."
• Life outside one's self is a reflection of one's inner consciousness.
• If we make a decisive shift within, life on the outside can suddenly
and abundantly respond on the outside. This is 'life response."
• The shift of the outer to the inner can occur instantaneously and
at any distance and quantity.
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• If life throws up a challenge and we respond in the right way --
e.g. overcome a negative attitude -- life will respond suddenly and
abundantly, overcoming limitations of space and time, and our
notions of what is logical and possible.
PRINCIPLES OF ACCOMPLISHMENT
• An individual's ability to accomplish is affected by the social
environment and atmosphere -- which includes the capacities,
energies, character, and circumstance of the social environment
and social institutions he is involved in.
• An opportunity taken up in a positive atmosphere supports and
enhances its eventual outcome.
• When the atmosphere is negative, the initiative will fail, unless the
individual is able overcome the resistance of the atmosphere.
• When there are deficiencies in the act that are greater than the
atmosphere, the act fails. When the capacities are stronger than
the atmosphere, then the act succeeds.
• When an individual tries to make a significant progress for
improvement in life often there appears on the scene a negative
influence to bring it down. If the person has the significant energy
and character they can overcome this negative influence and
move on to the next level. If they don't they are brought down.
Not Yet Titled
Sri Karmayogi has revealed hundreds of profound principles of life,
including countless ways to evoke the miraculous. We, or rather the
entire world are indebted to Appa for his extraordinary insights into the
nature of existence and his tireless efforts to express the infinite ways we
can evoke sudden good fortune. It is a knowledge that when
implemented has the capacity to change the course of human life on
earth.
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Progress through Contradictions
Progress through Contradiction in Pride and Prejudice
Existence can be thought of as a great game – i.e. the Game of Life.
There are the players, the play, and the context. The players of course
are us, the living individuals who partake in the game. The play is the
interaction and association of those players. The context is the why and
wherefore of, the purpose of the game itself.
In this great Game that we call Life, there are a swirl of forces. It can be
random, uncertain; even chaotic. And yet in any game, there are rules
that need to be followed. Through those rules, the objectives and Joy of
the Game are enjoined. Otherwise, there would be chaos; or no game at
all.
When we observe the Game of Life, there are movements, developments,
and outcomes. We perceive a degree of causality there, particularly those
things that are obvious. If X slaps Y, it is likely that Y will return the
favor. If X does something foolish, we perceive the end result. Every
character can be understood for what he is. A good man can be seen that
way, just as we can recognize the scoundrel. Likewise, we can recognize
the context in space and time. I see that the event is occurring in the
1940s, in France, in a poor region, in a factory, where there is conflict.
We see the setting and sense some of the general forces at work. From
there the Play of Life is played out, by those recognizable individuals,
with their individual foibles and positive traits, against the contextual
background of time, space, and atmosphere.
So far so good it seems. And yet here is the point where the Game
becomes clouded for us. Because in the swirl of interaction of character
and context, the Play itself seems just to be moving forward on its own.
We may wonder why things are moving in a certain direction; but
normally we don’t. We simply observe and enjoy life’s movements.
Interest in the meaning behind things is left behind, as we savor life’s
unfolding. And yet even if we were to stop the Play, would we really be
able to understand what is really happening; what is causing what; why
the outcomes are occurring the way they are; what is the purpose of it
all; and so forth? It is at that point, that our understanding breaks down.
Or more likely, we simply don’t care, and we are happy to take in the
entire parade of events.
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However, this Play we are observing also includes us, and therefore we
are also the beneficiary and victim of life’s circumstance and outcomes.
If there is a painful experience, we want to know why. If there is a
glorious outcome, we want to discover the template that would enable us
to duplicate it so we can lead infinitely successful and happy lives.
In this Play, we see people behaving and acting. It is based on
unconscious or conscious choices we make. There is also the social
context and atmosphere that is shaping events. There is a cacophony of
influences; fluid movements and halting ones; quick movements ahead
and fallbacks; positive and negative results; progress and regress;
pleasure and pain; happiness and sorrow. It all seems too much for the
human mind to enjoin, so why not just sit back and enjoy the ride?
That is fine, so long as you don’t want to be its victim; if you don’t care
about the keys that can make life bearable, even ecstatic and lilting.
And yet behind this apparent embodiment of Chaos Theory, there are
certain workings and functionings that do indicate that there is a sense to
things; a logical meaning to the outcomes of the Play. The problem is it
defies our normal mentality. But what if those life movements had been
carefully examined, and what if a logic -- infinitely subtle -- explained all
things; then would this not bring benefit for us as Players, not to mention
everything else in the world?
Contradictions Between Dual Pairs Enables Further Progress
Life evolves or can evolve through the contradictions of two parties,
whether spouse or family members, associates, organizations, nations,
etc.
E.g., a man has the quality of feeling that he is not being listened to by
others. His wife tends not to listen when she is absorbed in some small
pursuit. When the man asks his wife to do something, she does not
listen, as she is absorbed elsewhere, causing irritation in the man. He
must evolve out of his insecurity; she out of her unresponsiveness. This
can only occur through their interaction. Life has put them together to
serve this evolutionary purpose.
All life thus evolves or has the potential to evolve through the
contradictions of two parties, through these conflicting pairs. Our goal
should be to perceive it and then go beyond that contradiction, which we
do by overcoming a corresponding limitation in our nature. When we do,
we progress and grow. We also evoke sudden good fortune.
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From a higher perspective then, the contradiction is really not so, but a
complement in that it is an opportunity to develop our higher
consciousness. I.e., the thing with which we are in conflict is the vehicle
by which will overcome a personal limitation, and thereby progress.
Example Relationships where Contradictions Occur:
• Parents with a child
• A child with its parents
• A higher up with a subordinate
• Workers with management
• A worker with a co-worker
• Between two organizations
• Between two philosophies
• Public vs. private
• Government vs. market
• One nation vs another
• One block of nations vs. another
• Capitalism vs. socialism
• One idea vs. another
• Fixed approach vs. alternate one
• Stay the course vs. change
direction
• Conservatism vs. liberalism
• Between two romantic partners
• Between two spouse
• Between progress & preservation
• Take immediate action or wait for right time
• Move ahead vs. stay the course
• Between two armies
• Between the people & the
government
• Secular vs. sectarian
• One religion vs another
• Science vs. religion
• Spirit vs. Matter
• Needs of the collective vs. the individual
• Freedom vs. control
• Free will vs. fate
• Destiny vs. randomness
Beyond Division and Contradiction to Higher Resolutions in Life
On the surface of life there is endless conflict, strife, and suffering. This is
the way our normal consciousness sees the world. It sees through
division and contradiction. However, when we move to a deeper
consciousness, it reverses. Division becomes Oneness; i.e. those forces
that are divided from one another actually share a deeper purpose that
binds them in oneness. From that deeper consciousness, we also see that
contradictions become complements. I.e. forces that appear in opposition
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are at a deeper level complementary to one another; even necessary to
one another's progress.
This might sound like mere philosophy, but from a deeper perspective, it
is the most profound and practical of truths. For example, we see two
nations at war, or two families quarrelling, or two individuals at
loggerheads. At their soul level, where their true selves lie, they are
bound in unity. Only their egos, operating at the surface, bind them in
division and strife. If they were to instead go deeper within, they would
find a common interest -- a means of resolving the surface problem
through an overriding higher possibility and solution. If we choose to go
into the depths, away from ego that separates us, we will find that higher
harmony and resolution overcomes our division and conflicts.
Likewise, when we move to a deeper consciousness, we see that the
conflict we thought we were having with another is really indicating that
we share a hidden complementary relationship with them. That it is only
through that relationship with them that we can each can grow and
progress to the next emerging level. Since it is only through the
interaction with my adversary that my own faults show themselves, that
other party is then a complement and agent for my own personal growth!
Or, to put it another way; it is only in our mutual conflict that we can
bring a wider possibility that will benefit both parties.
Why then do we perceive the division and contradiction, not the oneness
and complementary nature of our relationships? It is because of the
limitations of our minds --which cannot see the whole truth of any
subject, inquiry, or matter, but only the part. And the part Mind sees is
often only the part that the ego reinforces. When I am in conflict with
another, my Mind only perceives the conflict, which is only a part of a
much wider truth, and wholeness of possibilities. Also, the part Mind sees
is that part that satisfies the ego. The ego looks out for its own interest,
at the expense of the interests of others, the environment -- i.e. of the
whole truth of things.
This might still sound like philosophy. However, as one moves out of the
part-view into the whole truth of any situation -- conflicting or not -- then
one begins to perceive the full integral knowledge of the conditions of life
in any moment. It will strike us as a Marvel. Also when we come out of
our ego, move from selfishness to selflessness and self-givingness, we
will break the impasses we have with another party. Division and
contradiction will begin to turn into harmony of purpose, even as we
perceive our complementary association. Then new solutions will reveal
themselves from all quarters. The limited, finite world steeped in conflict
will burst forth with infinite possibilities coming from this new harmonic
perspective. We will then together with our once-adversarial partner
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stand before entirely new possibilities for progress and accomplishment.
That discovery will in turn itself release a deep abiding joy within.
Life's Contradiction Reveal Higher Truth In 'Miss Mackenzie'
Life poses contradictory conditions, which no fault of ours, comes to
reveal greater truth; and when one decides to go with the flow of life, it
responds in its own fashion.
In the story, 'Miss Mackenzie' by Anthony Trollope, after spending most
of her adult life nursing her dying uncle, and then her invalid brother
Walter, Miss Mackenzie inherited a significant fortune from Walter at his
death. However, at one point of time she lost all that money to her
cousin, John Ball, as he was the rightful inheritor.
At the end of the story, despite the fact that she had rejected the earlier
marriage proposal by John Ball, she married him who soon became Sir
John Ball; and as a result she became The Lady, also becoming quite
popular in society.
Though it appeared that she had lost all the money earlier, life posed that
contradiction only to reveal the goodness of John Ball to her.
(Paraphrase of ‘Savitri’ lectures by Garry Jacobs)
Methods of Overcoming Our Contradiction with Others
In these articles, I have often focused on sage and seer Sri Aurobindo’s
principle that Life progresses and evolves through our contradictions with
others that moves toward a higher harmony. Without such conflict and
divisiveness, life would stand still, or even regress. The exception is when
we are conscious enough to prevent the contradiction in the first place.
The latter is the Way of Soul, and is rare indeed; the former, the slow
and difficult method of Nature, which is Life’s standard process.
There are a number of approaches to begin to deal with such conflicting
problems we have with others:
• The first is to perceive that we are actually in contradiction with
another, or with life circumstance, or with ourselves.
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• Second, we can perceive how such circumstance has come for our
own personal growth, as well as that of the other side.
• Third, we can recognize that the contradictory party is really a
complement in disguise; that the other party is potentially or actually
aiding in our progress.
Together these approaches aid in our ability to see more clearly the
contradictions and conflicts we have in the first.
The question then becomes what can we actually do to resolve the
contradiction? Or to put it another way, how can we create the higher
harmony that overcomes the conflict, and moves life forward in a positive
way?
One approach is to note the principle that anytime you are complaining
about another person, you can be sure that they have something equally
harsh to criticize about you. If you therefore focus on your own
weaknesses instead of theirs, you will progress and good fortune will
follow.
For example, you tell the party you are in contradiction with that they are
lazy, but they then perceive that you are narrow-minded and
disorganized. If instead of complaining about their limitation, you focus
and change your own, life will quickly respond in your favor, while
loosening the contradiction you had with the other party.
A second approach has a somewhat similar dynamic. It to know that
every negative you perceive in another, you actually manifest in some
form in yourself. Therefore, if you discover what that is and make an
effort to overcome it, good fortune will follow, and the conflict and
contradiction with that other party will evaporate.
For example, let's say you think that another person is shiftless, lazy, and
doesn’t make a serious effort to work. Though you yourself may not be
indolent in the same way, it is likely you are in a different way; such as a
reluctance to make the effort to keep your things in order, or to keep
yourself hygienic and clean. Therefore, if instead of complaining about
the other person's deficiency, you focus on your own, not only will you
quickly attract positive conditions, but the other apparent lazy individual
will suddenly change that behavior on their own! As a result, the
contradictions you have with them will break down, establishing a more
harmonious relationship. It is a powerful, conscious approach to higher
awareness, greater success, and personal progress in life.
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Perceiving Conflict as Opportunity In ‘You’ve Got Mail
It is one profound observation that things happen in Life in order to make
us evolve. Sometimes it comes to us as a bitter lesson, but behind this
apparent difficulty there contains an Opportunity, which comes to us as
Fortune or Grace.
However, in order for these positive developments to come about we
need to move in harmony with life and change our consciousness,
especially our attitudes along the way. As a result, life will Respond and
miraculous events will unfold.
In the movie 'You’ve Got Mail' Kathleen’s “Shop Around the Corner”
bookstore was threatened by the opening of a new much bigger store and
chain, Fox Books. Though she had a very positive and cheerful disposition
that nothing untoward would happen, eventually she had to shut down
the store due to the competition after it had served the community for 42
years. It was devastating moment in Kathleen's life.
However, after a while she accepted what life had put forth before her.
She even visited the competing and dominating Fox Books herself and
discovered that it was indeed big, had cheaper prices, and realized that
people did like it there. Yet she also perceived that what lacking was the
personal touch including a lack of service.
Most interestingly, we see that as she moved on from being store
proprietor, a new opportunity opened up for her to become a writer.
Meanwhile during that period, she was also in communication with an
anonymous Internet friend. In a startling turn of events, it turned out to
be Joe Fox himself, the owner of the competing book chain.
In an earlier scene, she accused him of spying her bookstore. But then
she felt bad that she should not have said such things, even if that was
true. It was at that point that her change in consciousness aligned with
Joe Fox’s consciousness who began to show genuine interest in her.
Eventually they became friends, in contrast to their being bitter enemies
in the beginning. In the end, she was so happy when she discovered that
indeed Joe was the internet friend and as a result would now become her
life partner.
As we see in this situation, the surface occurrences at the beginning
appeared dark and threatening. But the Reality’s bigger picture was to-
--elevate her from her current contentment of shop girl to new career of
being a writer.
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--simultaneously enable her romantic life flourish, enabling her growth
and personal fulfillment
--elevate Fox Book Store to a higher level of customer service through
her innovative strategies
In the end, what seemed stressful and conflictive was actually an
unfolding of Opportunities through a Cosmic Plan that addressed the
truths of all parties those aligned with It.
(Senthil Murugan)
Consciousness and Organization Together
"Life evolves through growth of consciousness, even as consciousness
evolves through greater organization." - The Book
They always go together. Either one alone is not enough to bring forth
results in life. One who lacks the first half of the formula means they
haven't the energy; no fuel to drive the life. And one who lacks the
second half of the formula means there is dissipation of energies due to
lack of proper organization.
One of the ways life reconciles this by bringing contradictory parties in
alignment; so one can learn from the other.
When MAI was lacking in organization, life brought them to Lempe's
consultancy and through that process and with The Book, they discovered
the above principle, and as a result both companies benefited
magnificently.
The Book says:
"...The discovery arose from the realization that the two companies, MAI
and Lempe, were mirror images of one another.
MAI had abounding energy, a clear direction, unlimited technological and
market potential, and creative, enthusiastic people, but too little structure
through which to channel that energy effectively and multiply its power to
tap even a fraction of its potential.
Lempe had a highly developed structure, well-developed policies, systems
and procedures, and a disciplined work culture, but the source of its life
energy had somehow dried up. It had lost its direction and momentum.
Its structure had become an impediment slowing down and entangling
each action in a bureaucratic mass of lethargy.
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The two companies were complements, two sides of a coin. Each
possessed something that the other very much needed..."
( From 'The Book' by Garry Jacobs, page 165)
How the Team Overcame Hurdles In 'The Book' (Updated)
'The Book' is filled with life response principles. However, I believe there
are two that appear again and again, and that drive the story and MAI’s
growth. i) Contradictions are Complements ii) Inner Evokes the Outer.
The MAI team faced many hurdles -- including financial constraints, the
threat from Gregory Thomson and other adversaries chasing The Book,
the leak in data through Rana, the polluted data in Accomplish and so on.
However, every contradiction, conflict, challenge would become a
complements that would be the means of their further growth and
progress.
Their uncompromised Inner aspiration to create products and services for
every human accomplishment had transcended every contradiction,
turning them into opportunities. At each point life responded and brought
everything needed as “Grace” in all necessary circumstances, and at just
the right moment -- with the arrival of The Book to Dan, the finding of
Messages and Archives in the Internet, the arrival of Bill to MAI team,
Lauren’s financial help, Levin coming to MAI team, Limpia’s goodwill on
safekeeping The Book, the auspicious arrival of Prof. Stearne, and so on.
Also the team did not go in search of projects to develop MAI. Rather Life
moved on its own and brought them opportunities, whether the need to
develop MAI from MAIS, the various AIS versions, and the opportunity to
create Evolve and Fusion. Because of their rising consciousness, they
attracted these initiatives from life. Their inner aspiration and right
behaviors in critical situations attracted this continuous stream of positive
results, as they ascended the peaks of success.
Also, despite adversarial conditions there from the beginning, it was
astonishing that at the end of the story there was no evil, and all that had
happened was for their progress. Eventually even the adversaries
benefited by receiving a copy of Infinite Game.
“Complete Knowledge is knowledge that leads to accomplishments that
have no negative consequences or side-effects.”
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Contradictions Are Complements
“…Life does not attack the weak because it has nothing to gain by doing
so. No one bothers to defame the politician who is over the hill and out of
office or rob the slum-dweller who has nothing to eat at home…”
(The Book)
In The Book, after six years of working to develop various versions of AI
program, MAI faced a huge challenge. The partners were threatened and
forced to sell MAI to another company in the name of risking national
security. However, they faced that challenge in the right spirit, handled it
very cleverly with the help of The Book, and overcame it.
Why did that challenge come to MAI?
MAI was content working with a small community, and was evolving
various versions of AI programs. When they SATURATED their efforts at
that level, i.e. when they were ready to move to a HIGHER level, Life
presented an opportunity; but it came in the form of opposition,
contradiction or challenge. After MAI passed through that great challenge,
the work became “universalized,” expanding vastly, and thereby became
known to the entire world.
Contradiction in Unfolding of Life
Behind the surface of existence, we see that Life has a Character, just
like you and I do. It is the why and the wherefore of the outcomes of
existence. Moreover, that character expresses through laws and
principles, only a few of which we recognize. If however, we understood
the methods and rules of life, would it not be a leap for humanity? Would
we not have the power to not only understand all of Life’s mysteries, but
use that knowledge to forge our existence for our own best interest. By
knowing the laws and principles that govern Life and its character, we
would have the tools to overcome limits of causality, space and time, and
what we deem as possible.
The question then becomes how can I observe life in a way where I can
recognize its character, and hence its rules. Just observing from out of
our own mind’s eye and examining our own personal existence will not
provide enough scope to perceive the Little Details nor the Big Picture.
We need to instead withdraw from our own limited view, draw back, and
carefully and consciously examine life in all its fullness.
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Perhaps the simplest way to do this is to examine the great works of
fiction in the world. For after all, everything is there: the Players, the
Play, and the Context -- especially so in the hands of a great author, like
a Shakespeare or a Victor Hugo or a Jane Austin.
For example, in Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice there is a broad canvas
to observe; a rich panorama of characters, social context, motives,
events, and circumstance. It would seem like an excellent candidate for
revealing life’s character; its ebb and flows, its mysteries, and more
particularly, the principles and laws that govern it.
Right off the bat in that story, we see the role of conflict in life. Eliza and
Darcy meet one another at a ball. Rather than acting like a gentleman,
which he often is, Darcy acts prideful and arrogantly by insulting the
intelligent and attractive Eliza Bennett. He remarks to his friend that she
is not particularly handsome, is of a lower station, and thereby refuses to
dance with her. And off the tale of Pride and Prejudice goes.
And yet we know after one reading (when it is literature) or viewing
(when in the form of a film) how this story ends. They end up together, in
love, which culminates in their marriage, bringing great happiness to
themselves and to their families. So from a cursory examination of the
dynamic of this very enjoyable tale, we perceive that several characters
begin in conflict and yet somehow end in joy. We can therefore ask
ourselves, “What is going on here? Does this say anything about life and
its character?”
It turns out that it very much does. For one of the great principles of life
is that it more often than not the case that life progresses through
conflict and contradiction. That each time there is a progress, a
movement forward in life, some obstacle between two or more parties
has occurred and has somehow been overcome. Otherwise, there seems
to be little chance of a progress occurring in life. This principle or law of
“Contradictions” can be seen everywhere if we just take the time to
observe it.
For example, if you were to think back on your life, you will see how often
you were able to or forced to move forward because an obstacle, a
conflict, a contradiction was offered up by life. That opposing force can be
in the form of another individual, a collective of individuals, the society
one is living in, and so forth. In the case of Eliza and Darcy, they had to
go through the experience of contradiction in order to find one another in
love and marry on the other side. This is a common dynamic and
principle that reveals an important shading of life’s character.
If we look a little closer however, we will see that there is a subtle
intention behind this rule. One that relates to progress in life; even
human evolution. In Eliza and Darcy’s case, the contradiction was there
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to enable each side to see their own limitation and thereby grow from the
experience. Darcy realized that he was arrogant and prideful, and if he
were to win over Eliza whom he loved, he would have to change his
nature. And he does just that!
Eliza, on the other hand, gradually comes to see that she has misread
Darcy’s character; that he has many winning qualities, which she was
blind to for several reasons, not the least of which was that she was
hypnotized by the handsome scoundrel, Wickham. Through events,
including the calamity of the elopement episode, she is thereby forced to
give up her prejudice and narrow view of Darcy. She thus grows and
evolves through the contradictory events and the harmonic outcomes
that follow.
But how could this have all come about if Life, i.e. Nature had not put
these two characters in relations to one another, yes in conflict and
contradiction, so they could outgrow their limitation and evolve beyond
their limiting attitudes and beliefs, and, as a result come together and
find ultimate love and happiness. Through Life’s principle of
Contradictions, they are put in relation to one another, are able to
discover one another; then perceive their own limits, overcome them,
revealing a new resolution and harmony taking form as their eternal love
for one another and the joy that follows.
Now we the dispassionate yet engaged witness and observer are able to
see that these seemingly negative events are the very stuff that enables
forward movement and indeed progress in life. The conflict can be
between any two parties, whether two nations, two people, two
organization, a business and the society, between one idea and another,
and so forth and so on for every permutation of duality that manifests in
the world. It is thus through Nature’s law of contradiction that life
develops the energy and force to move forward, even to progress and
evolve Otherwise, there is no intensity, complexity, diversity, and
character to life. Only a bland stasis waiting eternally to move forward.
Untitled
Without the interaction of the good with the bad, the positive and the
negative, or any other forms of contradiction or conflict, there is
ordinarily no progress in life.
Additional comment: Eg in Pride and Prejudice Mr. Darcy would not have
been able to grow in consciousness without the misdeeds of the negative
Mr. Wickham, and his association with him. Likewise, he would not have
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been compelled to grow without the rejection of his marriage proposal by
Eliza Bennett who thought he was prideful.
Beyond Nature’s Way of Division to Enable Progress
The more intense the division, the more integral, powerful the coming
together. Eg WWII was followed by European Union; the conflict between
Eliza and Darcy in Pride and Prejudice was followed by their intensive,
benefit-spreading coming together.
On the other hand, Perpetual Higher Consciousness avoids the negative
side, the conflictive, and goes directly to the positive outcome, rapidly
turning limitation, finites, into infinite-like conditions. This will
increasingly be the way of the future as we develop our consciousness to
a higher level. In essence, the way of Spirit replacing the way of Nature.
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Progress through Nature or Soul
Nature's vs. Self-Directed Tapas
The Sanskrit word "Tapas" roughly translates as "spiritual discipline." For
a yogi, it might involve lengthy meditation to connect with the Spirit. For
an individual dedicated to personal growth, it might entail learning to be
calm in the face of an abusive boss. The intention in both cases is an
evolution of consciousness through inner discipline.
There is also the tapas that life forces us into. It is Nature compelling us
to take to a certain inner or outer tact to overcome a limitation and bring
about our individual progress. In Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice, Mr.
Bennet, the father of five daughters, is forced by life into the discipline of
not reacting to his vulgar, loud-mouthed, churlish wife. That tapas was
the means of his personal progress in life.
In that way, each of us are compelled by Nature to move forward in
consciousness; whether it means standing up to an abusive partner; or
being a more understanding manager, when one is not normally disposed
that way; or being forced to do things we are reluctant to do. It is the
Tapas of Nature forced on us, secretly working in our own best interest,
so we can overcome personal limitations, enabling is to grow in
consciousness.
While, it is certainly in our best interest to embrace the Tapas
requirements of Nature, it is better to consciously direct the course of our
lives through inner and outer self-discipline. Conscious Tapas can be
taken up at two identifiable levels. the first are those methods that will
enable us to accomplish more in life and find basic fulfillment in life.
Examples of such disciplines are developing our level of knowledge and
skills, raising our level of personal organization, taking to greater
psychological strength, and ridding ourselves of wanting attitudes and
beliefs.
There is also spiritual Tapas, which is mainly for those who have taken to
a higher calling in life. Examples of spiritual discipline is moving our
center of awareness more inward, practicing non-reaction and remaining
absolutely still in the face of difficulty, opening to the spiritual Force,
deep meditation and prayer, and many others.
When we practice conscious, self-directed Tapas, we not only evolve our
consciousness, and lead more successful and happy lives, but we tend to
attract good fortune from the environment. In that way, this form of self-
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discipline is eminently superior to practicing the Tapas demanded of
Nature.
Nature, Soul, and Human Progress
When the Manifest emerged from the Unmanifest through the willful
action of the latter, Life divided into two aspects -- Nature and Soul. (In
Indian parlance Prakriti and Purusha). Nature is Life's slow and difficult
way, and is the normal way humans experience the world. Soul (or spirit)
is Life's method of progress through higher consciousness -- producing
only positive effects without any negative. (I.e. it is Self-existent.)
Man is dominated by Nature. He evolves along with it slowly and painfully
through division and duality; and pleasure and pain. He can however
evolve through Soul/Spirit instead, rapidly, with no negative outcomes.
Nature's difficult method was sanctioned by the Divine to allow for the
greatest multiplicity of possibility of forms, of forces, of aspects in
creation that would allow for the greatest variety of Delight.
When we humans move from Nature to Soul by discovering our highest
nature, we experience the Delight for which this life was created. I.e. the
Divine willed to extend its static Delight into the dynamic Delight through
self-discovery of forms of creation -- i.e. we -- fulfilling the intent of the
Infinite.
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Nature Works on Many Fronts Simultaneously
Life Works on Many Fronts Simultaneously
One of the subtle laws of existence that Sri Aurobindo revealed is that
Life (otherwise known as Nature or Prakriti) works on many fronts
simultaneously.
Take the elopement episode of Lydia and Wickham in Pride and Prejudice:
--As a result of this negative situation, Wickham will eventually be tamed,
forced to pay his debts, and settle down and marry, all good for uplifting
his lower consciousness.
--As a result Darcy takes responsibility for an action that he did not really
create as part of an initiative to elevate his character.
--As a result Darcy and Eliza will be married, overcoming their previous
pride and prejudice.
--As a result the struggling middle class Bennett family will come into
great wealth.
--As a result, three marriages take shape, when the Bennett family were
concerned that no one would want to marry their daughters.
--As a result the middle and upper classes will come to work out their
differences, as they do in the wake of the elopement, as the wealthy
Darcy will marry the middle class Eliza.
Examine any problematic situation, and perceive how its resolution has or
would resolve a variety of situations. In this way, we see how Life works
on many fronts simultaneously. (Roy Posner)
Resolving the Web of Conflict & Sub-Conflicts
Examine any conflictive situation in the world. There will be different
aspects, with a variety of inter-related sub-conflicts, issues, and
challenges.
The process of the resolution of the central conflict relates to and is
intertwined with the resolution of the subs. This is how the world
changes; how Nature works, how the world (slowly and painfully)
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evolves. Nature works by resolving deeply connected multiplicities of
issues simultaneously. It is the Genius of the Cosmic Master who
conceived evolution through Nature's contraries.
Eg in Pride and Prejudice the elopement episode of the youngest
daughter caused or was simultaneous to at least half dozen other
interrelated issues. For the overall resolution of the potential scandal to
occur, a series of psychological issues, each one unique in scope was
required on the parts of the individuals involved. It is Nature's multi-
pronged, interconnected, difficult way of progress.
And yet there is a higher form of evolution. It is through the soul, spirit,
higher consciousness. In this dynamic evolution radically speeds up, as it
occurs not through conflict, but through harmonic actions that trigger
others in a chain of never-ending positive response from life.
Nature Works on Many Fronts Simultaneously -1
There are many principles that describe the subtle, profound workings of
life, though we are aware of very few. Perhaps the law of karma or "what
you sow is what you reap" is the closest we come to perceiving a law of
life in effect. Even there it is vague for the overwhelming majority of
people.
However, over the years, several colleagues and I have tried to organize
a set of life principles based on the teachings of Indian seer and sage Sri
Aurobindo. Beginning with the highest level of Reality, he revealed a
series of universal laws that explain the process by which the universe
emerged from a Divine source, and how life in the cosmos, including the
life of man, intersects with and is affected by those laws. Most of these
cosmic principles are captured in his great work The Life Divine. It has
been up to individuals like ourselves to take those First principles and
interpret them in terms that are identifiable in the life of the collective
(i.e. society, business, etc.) and the individual. It takes a subtle eye and
the right contextual knowledge to perceive these profound principles at
work. However, with the Master's original insights and the pioneering
work of the Mother's Service Society (MSS), that task has been
considerable eased.
Perhaps the widest universal principle is the notion that life itself has a
character -- just as you and I have one. There are then in turn dozens if
not hundreds of sub principles -- both material and subtle -- that describe
the many dimensions of life's character.
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The argument could be made that we already have principles in place
that describe the unfoldings of life in the universe. True enough, but
those are mostly at the material level -- i.e. they are laws of life based on
empirically quantifiable physical properties; which in essence leaves out
all other planes of existence -- including the vital/emotional, social,
psychological, mental, occult, metaphysical, spiritual, etc. It is like trying
to understand the motives of an individual by watching his gait as he
walks. It is merely a superficial view of things. While science has provided
an understanding of the material process and principles, the non-material
ones -- which is 90% or more of the processes in life -- remain unknown
to the general public; even to the experts in their respective fields of
sociology, psychology, history, social development, etc. It is a revelation
of knowledge that awaits us in the 21st century. From that perspective,
existing 20th century knowledge of what truly determines in life and
brings about outcomes that unfold before us will seem stilted and
shallow.
If life unfolds in these subtle ways that defy our normal perceptions, what
is an example of a principle? The one I would like to suggest here relates
to the functioning of "Nature." Nature is in essence the way life unfolds in
the universe. The principle then is this: that "Nature works on many
fronts simultaneously." This means that when a life event unfolds, many
parties are affected in different ways, enabling progress for each through
a singularity. Furthermore, Nature is somehow "aware" that it can enable
progress on multiple fronts through a common event -- such as a major
great development, catharsis, or upheaval. The reason Nature can elicit
progress on multiple fronts simultaneously is that it is "conscious" at
some level of its being. It is conscious of its workings because behind its
own internal "knowledge" there is the determination, influence, sanction,
and support of an underlying Divine Intention. Nature is in that sense is
an instrument of the Divine Will, which unfolds and progress on multiple
fronts simultaneously through these shared singularities.
An example will illustrate. A teacher arrives at a 2-day class to teach
several students features of a software application. In the course of the
classes, he recognizes that all is going awry. He sees many causes that
have led to the current situation. He even notes his own irritability and
weakened nerves in the unfolding of this difficult singularity. Eventually
the situation comes to a head, and the instructor cancels the class
because he believes it has gotten completely out of hand. Many people
are upset, including the trainer, the students, the people in the company
who arranged the class at the company, the agent of the trainer, and so
forth. Each, in fact, managed to foul up in ways that contributed to the
disaster. Each misstep is in turn related to a limitation in character or
capacity of that person or related system.
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Now each major individual involved in the episode is forced or even
shocked into confronting his own responsibility in bringing about the
unfortunate event. Each is compelled to examine his or her own self to
discover where they had failed in the process. It is usually indicative not
only of a small problem in the procedures of that event, but of a
significant limitation of character of that individual. The defect ranges
from a limited skill, or missing knowledge, all the way to a profound
psychological weakness and limitation, such as a negative attitude, a
false belief, an inscrutable motive, etc. From there each person decides to
make the necessary inner and outer change to the degree he is
compelled to do so. Those who take to change, invariably bring about
their own progress. Those who let it slide will normally have to go
through a similar-type episode again in their lives. In other words, each
person will progress to the degree he is open to do so. The collective
effect is the awesome power that Nature brings to enable multi-faceted
change around a shared singularity.
For example, the teacher realizes that he has been too stressed during
recent classes, and takes actions thereafter to rectify the source of that
problem. The person in charge of the group of students in attendance
realizes that she was too disorganized to establish the right agenda
beforehand. The members of the training department at the facility
realize that their procedures for such a one-time training event, as was
the case here, is faulty. And the agent of the instructor realizes that the
procedures to handle such situations need improvement.
In each case, an individual learns something about himself or the
procedures of his job through the singularity that Nature has issued forth
as an event. That generates a pressure to make a certain level of change.
That change is essence what we know as "progress." Thus, due to the
difficult situation, each is forced by life -- i.e. Nature -- to make the
necessary corresponding change. It is interesting to note that there was
in essence only one event that caused many to change -- each in their
own unique way. Thus, Nature, through a single event works on many
fronts simultaneously to bring about creative, integral, many-faceted
change for the parts as well as for a wider whole.
This principles of life can be seen everywhere. It is especially noticeable
when such things as scandals or wars or other forms of upheaval take
place. It brings out the need for simultaneous change to rectify problems
raised by that singularity. Life progressing on many fronts simultaneously
through a single, shared event or circumstance is Nature's stupendous,
miraculous-like Efficiency. The vast Tsunami that rippled through the
Asian pacific is an example, and the fallout in produced and the pressure
it brought to bear across a thousand domains -- from economics to
politics to social life across a myriad of nations -- is one example. So was
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World War II. As a result of the vast pressures of the war, not only was
Europe organized into a union thereafter (EU), but a tottering British
Empire also collapsed. Even the great depression in America finally came
to an end as a result of the jobs generated and the production needed to
meet the demands of war. In a similar fashion, we can examine recent
circumstances after 9/11 to see similar multifaceted change brought
about by a single event. It does not only occur at the national or
international level, but at the local or group level as we saw in the
training episode above. It also happens at the individual level when
something very trying, extremely difficult, or even tragic forces that
person to change at several levels of his being simultaneously. E.g., an
illness can cause a person to strengthen his body, reevaluate his lifestyle,
alter his beliefs, and even look at his life overall in an entirely different
light. Life itself can thus be thought of as a vast unfolding at all of these
levels --- collective and individual -- bringing about change through this
startling Efficiency of Nature.
As I suggested earlier, Nature is ultimately an instrument of some Divine
intent. If that is so, then one question naturally arises. Does the Divine
wish to bring about progress -- even simultaneous efficient progress --
only through difficulty? The answer is that we can also progress though
positive means.
The positive means is the way of the Good, i.e. through a self-existent
positive unfolding that knows no negative side. Can something unfold
that is void of negative elements? Let us take a step back and examine
the issue. The sage and seer perceive that Life actually divides into both
Nature and Soul -- i.e. they are two methods of the unfolding of life, of
progress. In the lower consciousness, life unfolds through the slow and
difficult methods of Nature. In the higher consciousness, it evolves
through Soul, which is in essence the higher consciousness infused with
the higher values and expressions of the Spirit. Developments from the
poise of this higher consciousness and Good tend not to release negative
consequences. This is another, even higher principle of life -- i.e. of
existence in the universe that emerged from a Divine source.
The key then is to take to the methods of higher consciousness in our
lives that brings about the Good that is devoid of the negative.
Interestingly enough, life can progress simultaneously on multiple
positive fronts as well. For example, if I call to the Spirit before engaging
in an activity or become self-giving in a critical situation or reverse a
negative attitude in a moment of crisis, I generate energies that not only
attract better conditions for myself, but can also produce positive results
for others as well. In this way life progresses on many fronts -- individual
or collective -- through the movements of the Positive. It is an indicator
that we have freed ourselves from Nature's difficult course; that we have
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taken up the way of the Good, of Soul, of an evolving consciousness. It is
the way of progress of tomorrow; an indicator that we are on the
threshold of a New Way of Living.
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Beyond Positive and Negative
The Positive and Negative in Life
We can all probably agree that at this stage in evolution life is a mixture
of good and bad, positive and negative, truth and falsehood. At one level
of perception we can see and feel the positive and negative around us all
the time. At a deeper level of perception, however, there really isn't this
division between positive and negative; we can actually perceive that in
fact everything is part of one whole, and therefore everything that
occurs, good or bad, serves a purpose.
We are, of course, always happy when pleasant things happen to us and
life seems to go our way. However, it can be said that so-called
"negative" things that happen to us may be just as "positive," if not more
positive(!), than the things we normally find to our liking.
Consider a young child in India who flees his village to escape poverty.
Years later his drive to overcome his poverty makes him a very wealthy
man, while the members of his community who did not flee and did not
suffer similarly in childhood, remain mostly at the same level in life.
When the man looks back on his life he realizes that it's only because he
suffered through these difficult experiences, did he achieve such
overwhelming success.
In Dumas' The Count of Monte Cristo the hero, a good man, is falsely
accused of things he has not done, and lands in prison. There he meets a
wise man who says there is gold buried somewhere. The young man
tunnels his way to freedom, finds the treasure, and becomes fabulously
wealthy. With his wealth and power, he not only brings down the jealous
few men who falsely accused him, but connects them to an entire level of
corrupt officials in French society, whom he unmasks before the nation.
When we learn to calmly accept and learn from the positive and negative
circumstances of life, we reach a new level of personal growth that can
help us toward unlimited happiness and success. Also, if we observe life
from a distance we can see how negative circumstances often have the
effect of bringing about a positive good for people.
In Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice, we witness how negative
circumstance take place to help two people grow and succeed. Elizabeth,
from a lower class, and Darcy, from a higher class are romantically
attracted to each other, but are prevented from coming together at first
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because of their limited views of one another; hence their "pride and
prejudice" toward one another. Darcy tends to look down on people of
Elizabeth's class. Elizabeth is a little too sure that Darcy's class pride is at
the root of his character.
However, a series of difficult ("negative") events occur in their lives that
makes them see their own limited perceptions of one another (i.e. their
pride and prejudice overcome). These difficult circumstances (often
involving equally difficult or even hostile people) enable them to come to
a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves and then one
another, leading to their eventual love, marriage, and happiness. (In fact
one of the characters, who tries her utmost to keep them apart, ends up
being the person most responsible for bringing them together!)
Thus, through "negative" obstacles and circumstance in life individuals
grow and evolve, and gain an otherwise unattainable higher degree of
happiness and success. In fact, it may be in the very fabric of life that life
manifests in conflicting personalities, circumstances, and events, and
through these people evolve.
(To read an article on how Pride and Prejudice is an example of the
interaction of the positive and negative in life, click here. [in Word 97
format])
To Think About
Can you remember difficult moments in your life that in retrospect were
very helpful to your growth and success? Is there something happening
now of this nature? Are you fretting about the negative aspect, when it is
in fact the catalyst and opportunity for growth?
Beyond Positive and Negative
From the highest perspective there is no positive and negative in
creation; only forces and forms intermingling in equilibrium and
disequilibrium and back again within the universe and beyond. We call
this “the Reality”. The All. It includes Spirit and Matter and all shadings
and planes and possibilities in between. There is only one Reality
expressing in infinite variation among forces and forms in creation and
beyond to the Source. It is the highest conception of Existence afforded
to Man. To perceive the Reality and its workings requires one to rise to a
Truth Consciousness beyond Mind; also referred to as Supermind.
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Life Progresses Though Negative as Well as Positive (in
Seabiscuit)
Another principle of life -- one that is also philosophical in nature -- is
that life not only progresses through positive means, but through
negative ones as well. In fact, we often move forward the quickest
through the negative circumstances that befall us. For example, if a
young Indian boy who is the victim of poverty and hardship is forced to
flee his life with his family for the city, and then as a result is driven to
become a multi-millionaire, then we can muse that his earlier difficulty
was an instrument of his great accomplishment. I.e. the negative served
a great purpose in his success.
Though it might sound harsh, we can say that Charles might never have
raised and brought Seabiscuit to success if his son had not died and his
wife had not left him. It created an opening in his being, which he filled
by getting into the horse racing business, and then finding Tom, Red, and
Seabiscuit. That flow of life from the negative to the positive not only
brought him his own greatest successes, not only helped the other
principals in the story achieve their greatest mark in life, but inspired an
entire nation at a time of great suffering and duress. From this vantage
point, we can conclude that often the greatest successes in life come
about as a result of the greatest negatives. We could thus say that a
negative is a more intense version of the positive. Or, to put it another
way, a negative can be thought of as a positive in disguise.
Negative Forces Fulfilling the Divine Plan
It is an irony of life: those who act against the Divine's plan become an
instrument in one way or another to manifest that plan in the flow of life.
In Pride & Prejudice, Darcy had interfered in Bingley's marriage earlier.
Later on he became an instrument by turning Lydia's elopement into
marriage and brought back Bingley to Jane's life.
Lady Catherine, who was vehemently against intermixing of classes, the
final confrontation of her with Elizabeth and further informing to Darcy,
reconciled the last piece of the puzzle in the manifestation of Divine's
plan, i.e. social evolution.
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Comment: Perhaps we can say that there was not quite enough positive
energy to bring things over the top, to their consummation. And when
the positive forces cannot move things further, the negative ones, like
Lady Catherine’s interference, will serve that purpose, do the trick. (Roy
Posner)
All, Even Suffering Serves a Purpose
All the suffering in the world serves the development of multiplicity of
possibility for the purpose of infinite variations of dynamic delight. Thus
we can say that all of these parts, positive and negative, including
poverty and misery, serve a role in that possibility, unfolding. From that
perspective, each part plays a vital role, even the negative ones. It is life
splitting and splitting into infinite variation, so Divine delight can spread
into the ever emerging hyper-details as they overcome their
contradictions and discover their higher nature. This is the view of
Brahman, the Reality, from Supermind's perspective; not of ordinary
mind. It is to perceive the Marvel of existence.
To Be Titled
According to Sri Aurobindo the Infinite consciousness through the
involutionary process (from spirit to matter) allows for all variations and
possibilities in creation,-- including Ignorance, Falsehood, and Evil; the
large and small; positive and negative; all variations of human
personalities; etc. -- to allow for infinite variations of Discovery of higher
consciousness by each form for the purpose of infinite variation of
experience of Delight.
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From the perspective of the Highest Consciousness and Reality, all of life
and beyond fit together perfectly like a Cosmic Puzzle; including the
positive, negative and in-between. They are all necessary for the
unfolding and evolution. From the view of human consciousness, the
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pieces do not fit correctly, as the positive and negative are perpetually at
odds.
Perceiving the Utility of All is the Marvel
The Marvel as revealed in Sri Aurobindo's The Life Divine is the capacity
to perceive the Reality, the All. It is to perceive the necessity of all things
in the unfolding. In this way we can look out on life and see that
everything that is happening to us - positive and negative, big and small,
pleasurable and painful - is necessary for cur progress. To engage life this
way is to perceive the Marvel and to participate in the Adventure. It is the
romantic view of life; Romance itself.
Seeing Beyond the Dualities of Life to Endless Means of
Progress
"To live in the truth one should rise above affirmation and negation." (The
Mother)
Comment: We say this is good, and that is bad; that this is positive, and
that is negative. But it is often through the bad and the negative that life
offers us our greatest opportunities.
Besides, from the perspective of the Reality, the All, such dualistic
viewpoints of affirmation and negation melt into one another and
disappear, as everything serves a purpose in creation. Oneness is the
result. Dualistic views of good and bad, big and small, infinite and finite,
etc, have no place from this harmonic perspective.
Most importantly, we can learn to experience that same capacity to see
beyond the positive and negative, the dualities in our own lives, meaning
that every moment life is presenting opportunities for our growth and
progress.
Reader: Mother's Grace. Thank you Sir. After reading Appa's books and
your explanation now only I realise the following lines of Savitri. ' As if
she knew not facts are husks of truth, The husks she keeps, the kernel
throws aside,'
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Not Yet Titled
"A fuller appreciation of the ABSOLUTE by the mind is capable of relieving
the vital of its most oppressive fears." (Sri Karmayogi)
According to Sri Aurobindo, the Absolute is the All. It is the Divine and
the Universe. The One and the Many. The Being and the Becoming. The
small and the large. The good and the bad. The positive and negative.
The pleasurable and the painful. Every thought and feeling and
circumstance. Every plane of being. And they are all integrally connected
in the greater scheme of things; and all are part of the Movement
forward.
Perceiving the Absolute then is to realize that everything in your life
serves a purpose. That all is helping you progress. Thus there is nothing
to fear.
Positive and Negative Arriving Together to Work Out the Conflict
(the story of a restaurant sales team)
Sometimes a positive and a negative can happen together at the same
moment involving the same circumstance and parties.
A team of salespeople were now at the point of making powerful
connections, as their customers were referring other customers to them,
dramatically reducing the amount of effort they had to make.
However, at the very peak of this development, the owners of the
company cut off all funding for the group. It could not have come at a
worse time!
And yet the owners made the decision in order to set a standard for
future salespeople, which is understandable from that perspective.
Still the timing was cosmically bad, and now the sales team was forced to
start all over with the customer-referrer customers. Moreover, the sales
team wondered if their reputation had been damaged and that they had
lost credibility with the super-referring clients.
As we see, a positive and negative can come together, as in this case
where funds were cut off at precisely the wrong moment, and yet where
a standard was established for the future.
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It is an indicator that Life is trying to move forward through and beyond
the method of contradiction to arrive at a higher harmony.
The future awaits this possibility for the conflictive parties involved.
Reader: Thank you Sir
Life evolves through good and bad, finally lead towards greater Good,
though the initial conditions on the surface may look contrary.
In “The Book”, the team united together and launched MAI with just
“Aspiration” as their asset. Life always evolved through contradictions for
them. Despite the initial success of their first product MAIS, they had to
give up due to obvious fault in it. That initial failure, the contradiction of
life, bonded them more closely together and finally led to “The Book”
which guided them the right direction from that day onwards.
Response: Yes, that is exactly correct Senthil. From a higher point of
view, the negative in my incident was a way of enabling a higher
harmony to unfold (AND a greater outcome of performance and success)
for the players. Thus, the negative is a positive in disguise; at least in
potential, depending on the consciousness level and attitudes and
behaviors of the players.
Not Yet Titled
The mind does not readily perceive that Life can rapidly move forward
through negative circumstances.
(It reminds us that from the highest perspective, the divine Reality is the
ALL, is all things, including both positive and negative, and therefore
everything together serves a purpose in moving conditions forward.)
Life's Powerful Neutrality of Purpose
The dualities like good and bad, good and evil do exist in life. They exist
in a sense that they serve a purpose in the overall perspective of the
Divine's plan. It’s not by condemning or running away from them that we
can get rid of them. Rather when we rise in consciousness, when we
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transcend our ego, we are able to perceive the whole Reality and their
purpose.
In Pride & Prejudice, Darcy was good and Wickham was bad is a limited
understanding. Both are needed for each others' growth in consciousness,
as well as to manifest the Divine (here Jane Austen) plan.
Thus, Life is neutral; it acts according to its laws, and presents
opportunity to everybody. The extent we want to utilize that fact and
grow in consciousness is a question of our choice.
Seeing the Marvel of Existence
In the first of 56 chapters of his metaphysical opus The Life Divine, Sri
Aurobindo suggests something profound. He indicates that everything we
encounter in life -- positive and negative, pleasurable and painful, good
and evil -- serves the greater Good that is unfolding. He indicates that
such dual pairs, which on the surface seem to be in contradiction, are
really complements to one another -- necessary for the upward,
progressive movement of each. In that way, every difficulty and problem
that comes our way serves us just as well as positives circumstance --
perhaps more so. Moreover, that vision of things, that ability to perceive
meaning and utility in everything we encounter, from the macro to the
micro, from the positive to the negative is to see the Marvel of Existence.
Let me illustrate this principle with several examples from literature. In
Victor Hugo's masterpiece Les Miserable, a fundamentally good man Jean
Valjean has escaped prison and is being pursued by an extremely
dedicated, almost fanatical police officer named Javert. Along the way,
Valjean raises a beautiful adopted daughter Cossette who falls in love
with a young man named Marius, who eventually joins a people's fighting
force barricading themselves against the reactionary government. At one
point, the older, magnanimous Valjean gets involved in the battle
himself, and in a startling, ironic moment saves Marius' life. Interestingly,
Valjean never tells him what he had done. In addition, Valjean and Marius
over time are at odds with one another because the elder does not want
to relinquish his beloved daughter to the young man. In fact, now that
Valjean senses that he is losing Cosette to Marius, life begins to all lose
meaning, and so he begins to wither away. But then one day near the
end of Valjean's life, the evil Innkeeper Thenardier -- who once raised
Cosette in squalor and did many appalling things along the way -- reveals
to Marius that Valjean was in fact the one who saved his life. Stunned by
Thenardier revelations, Marius and Cosette rush to Valjean's deathbed
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and console him, thanking him for a lifetime of self-givingness. In
essence, a very bad person has come forward and unwittingly helped
resolve a knot between two good people, -- enabling reconciliation
between Marius and Valjean, and the return of Cosette's deep love and
affection for Valjean, something he so desperately longed for. And so
after a lifetime of kindness and generosity, Jean Valjean dies a very
happy man.
It is said that great literature revels the deepest truth of life. The
principle that not just the good, but the negative and evil too serve the
greater Good is also evident in Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice. For
example, at one critical point in the story, one of the five Bennet sisters,
the wild, rambunctious Lydia, has eloped with the scoundrel Wickham,
threatening the Bennet family with scandal and social ostracism. The
elopement also threatens to ruin the relationship between the very
wealthy Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet.
Now soon after the elopement ends with the marriage of Lydia and
Wickham, Lydia foolishly blurts out that Darcy was the one who settled
the accounts of her husband, resolving the situation. Lydia was instructed
not to reveal this information. When Eliza hears this, she is thunderstruck
because she now realizes how wrong she has been about Darcy. She saw
him and arrogant and prideful, but instead, she now sees his very noble
character. As a result, she falls in love with him, he proposes (again), and
they marry. Without the verbal blunder from the negative Lydia, the
marvelous outcome would never have occurred. I.e. Darcy and Eliza may
not have fallen in love, married, found deep happiness, and thereby bring
great wealth and social prestige to the Bennet family. That is the power
the negative and false serve in manifesting the greater Good.
There is one other example of this principle in the novel. Late in the
story, the aristocratic, wealthy, yet reactionary Lady Catherine tries to
meddle in the relationship between Darcy and Eliza. When she does, it
backfires on her, paving the way for the marriage of Darcy and Eliza.
What happened was that when Lady Catherine got wind of the budding
relationship, she stormed in the Bennet home, met with Eliza, and
insisted that the relationship cease. Eliza of course refused. Most
importantly however, when Lady Catherine returned home, Darcy learned
of the meeting between his aunt and Eliza and realized from the
discussion that Eliza had not ruled out a romance and marriage between
him. Startled that this was the case, Darcy then went ahead and met
Eliza, who then accepted his second proposal of marriage. In other
words, without Lady Catherine's negative intervention, the entire
resolution of the story would not have come about! Her harmful attempt
to block their relationship had the opposite effect of spurring them to
come together.
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Once again, we see how falsehood and evil play critical roles in
movements of progress and greater accomplishment. It is to perceive
that everything -- good or bad, positive or negative, pleasurable or
painful, -- serves a purpose in the great unfolding. It is an ultimate
perspective and vision of life. It is to see the Marvel of Existence.
Greater Intensity of the Positive through Its Opposite
We hope for the very best of circumstance to come our way, avoiding the
negative. And yet life progresses, evolves through the interplay of the
positive and the negative. Without the negative, the intensity of more
and greater positive circumstance cannot be generated.
We can see this in terms of life, love, and knowledge; and their opposites
of death, hate, and ignorance. Living, loving, and understanding are
things to aspire for, but they are normally enhanced through their
opposite experience, death, cruelty, and ignorance. Let's say that I am
trying to discover the truth of a matter, but then realize that what I have
discovered is utterly false. As a result, now I have more interest,
intensity, and drive to get at the truth. Thus, my ignorance drove me to
greater knowledge. In the same way human cruelty and unlove creates
the push for greater, more lasting love, and death itself creates the urge
for immortality in life.
This is the present condition of progress in life: a movement to the
opposite in order to move the positive forward to a greater degree. This
is the way of Nature -- known as "Prakriti" in Sanskrit or the flow of
normal life in the universe. But is that the only way to greater intensity of
knowledge, love, life, and delight? No it is not. We can progress in
another way that is beyond the slow and difficult method of Nature. It is
the way of Consciousness -- also known as Spirit or Soul. When we take
to it in greater measure, we generate the intensity that takes knowledge,
love, life, delight, and creativity to their higher status. We move there
without experiencing their opposite.
It is our choice: progress through opposites or through higher
consciousness. The universe stands backs and accepts either decision.
The Greater the Opposition, the Greater the Opportunity, Progress
Life has a character, just like we humans. It expresses through any
number of laws -- whether overt or subtle. One particular principle is that
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progress in life occurs through our contradiction and conflict with others
and circumstance. It is only through these adversarial relationships that
each party can make a breakthrough in consciousness and thereby
progress. In particular, when we find the higher harmony beyond the
contradiction, then each side moves forward. Otherwise life remains in
standstill or even goes backwards. If we look closely, we will see this
dynamic everywhere -- in our own lives and in the world around us. It is
Nature's secret method.
A closely related principles is that the greater the opposition we
encounter in life, the greater the opportunity for us to rise and progress.
We can observe this law in real life or in the world of literature and film.
For example, in Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice there is a great scandal
midway through the story when one of the Bennet sisters elopes with a
scoundrel, threatening to ruin the family, both socially and financially.
And yet the final outcome of that particular episode was that three of the
five Bennet daughters find love, are married to attractive husbands, and
come into enormous sums of money. Thus, a family once teetering on the
edge of financial ruin comes into staggering good fortune. In essence, the
intensity of the opposition that life brought through the elopement set in
motion conditions that enabled the three marriages to occur. Because
circumstance was so intensely negative, individuals reacted in such a way
that caused them to come together in ways that would not have
otherwise occurred.
A more recent and non-fictional version involves the case of Apple CEO
Steve Jobs. In the 1980's he was tossed out of the company he founded
by the board of directors for going in a direction that the company
foolishly thought was reckless. Though he went through dark moments in
the years that followed, he rose to the challenge, took up a number of
creative initiatives, including the founding of the companies Next and
Pixar, and was eventually rehired back at Apple along with the many
assets he had developed while in exile. As a result, Apple, which was on
the verge of bankruptcy when Jobs returned, increased its revenues by
an astounding 10 times in the decade and a half that followed (on its way
to may times more), making it the most powerful corporate turnaround in
US history, and catapulting Apple to become a four-time in a row
Fortune magazine the most admired company in the world.
In other words, intense opposition and difficulty provided Jobs with the
"initiative" to strike back and take things to a new level. Adversarial
conditions gave him the strength, fortitude, and determination to push
his way forward and create conditions for his former company that no one
would ever have imagined. Not only that, but it resulted in products that
had a profound impact on the nature of society -- including the IPod,
IPhone, and IPad, etc., whose sales have boomed around the world.
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If you examine your own life, you will likely see this same dynamic at
work; that the greatest difficulty you encountered -- whether an outer
opposition or an inner demon, was the force that enabled your greatest
success. Or to put it another way, the greater the outer resistance,
conflict, contradiction to our aspirations and goals, the greater the
possibility for achievement and growth; i.e. the higher we can rise.
We can actually go a step further and philosophically say that the
negatives we encounter are actually positives in disguise. Or better still
that those negatives are simply more intense forms of the positive;
providing the energy, force, and push that compels us to rise much
higher.
Having said this, there is an alternate approach to progress. We can rise
in consciousness and act in ways that tend to attract the positive and
avoid opposition. In that way, we rise from peak to ever-higher peak of
the positive. In order to do that, we will need to overcome our
limitations, utilize the spiritual Force that is there to set right life's
conditions, and live a life of increasingly conscious behavior. In that way,
there is an intensity -- a positive intensity -- that compels us to move
forward. It is not opposition, but energy and joy that drives us to the
next level. This is no longer Nature's Way, but that of Spirit and Soul.
Negative Events Forge the Unity of Nations
Life has a character, which expresses in a myriad of subtle ways, and is
captured in a variety of astonishing-like principles and laws. One principle
(that can only be readily understood from a higher mental or spiritual
point of view) is that everything that occurs in life is essential for its
progress, including the good and the bad, as well as the great and the
small.
Another closely related subtle law of life is that the negatives that occur
are actually positives in disguise, as they are often the single instrument
of great progress for the individual or collective, often exceeding the
benefit that comes from a particular good.
In The Lord of the Rings we see how the "bad," represented by the evil
kingdom of Mordor, becomes the very force that compels the races to
come together for short term as well as long-term benefit. I.e. Life
compels them to cooperate and combine their efforts to overcome a
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common evil enemy, and through that process, they establish a long-
term closeness, commonality, and unity that never existed before.
In the story, kingdoms that mocked and chided one another in the past
are compelled to work together to combat their evil foe in the present.
Each are forced to give up their ego, their sense of separateness, their
particular limiting attitudes toward one another in order forge a common
force that not only prevails over the enemy, but establishes a deeper,
long-term bond among them. Left to its own devices, such an outcome
might have taken centuries, millennia, or never at all to come about.
This is the same dynamic that occurred in the real world in WWII, where
the individual nations of Europe were compelled by the malevolent
German enemy to give up their individual egos to work together to secure
the victory. In the wake of that monumental effort that produced so
much suffering, the United Nations was formed, as was the European
Union -- two transcendent historical developments that ushered in the
next phase of human unity. Again, it might have taken centuries,
millennia, if ever for these profound development to have occurred.
That very same dynamic unfolds in the film Avatar, where the nations of
Pandora, separate and reluctant to integrate and unite, are compelled to
come together to combat a common enemy, forging a closeness of
relationship that never existed before. Without the hostile forces, the
negative, this overwhelming positive might not have ever come about.
One question that arises from this perspective is why does the negative
have to happen to these good people in the first place? If they are on the
good side of things, why should they suffer? Is it just the pure evil of the
adversary, or is it something on their part as well?
The negative occurs to the "good" parties because of their previous and
current unconsciousness -- whether the peoples of Middle Earth, Europe,
or Pandora -- which attracts severe negative conditions. Because of the
limitations in their attitudes towards fellow peoples; because of their self-
admiration in their own selves and way of life; because of their persistent
reluctance and unwillingness to cooperate; and because of their false,
selfish actions of the past, they attract negative circumstance in the form
of the dark forces trying to destroy them.
However, in each case they are able to overcome the adversary by
bridging the gap between them, overcoming their selfishness, and
binding together to forge a level of cooperation and harmony never
known before to defeat the enemy.
Nature's Way then is to progress through difficulty and pain; through the
contradictions and strife between parties. Often it is occurs between two
parties where one is mostly in the wrong and the other is partially so.
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And yet without the negative side, there can be no further progress for
the more positive side, just as the positive side compels the negative to
give up its limitations.
One question that remains is whether there is another way out of this
process, this difficult method of Nature. The answer is that when we rise
in consciousness, we can develop a level of awareness and make
conscious decisions that can preempt the negative from coming about in
the first place. That is, we are so positive in our outlook that we do not
attract the shadow of the negative against us. Then we progress and
evolve not through Nature's way of contradiction and conflict, but through
the way of Soul.
Three Life Principles that Demonstrate How the Darkness
Serves the Light
We go through life rarely considering if there are fundamental, underlying
principles at work that guide its movements, flow, and outcomes. Here I
am not referring to the mechanical principles that science has revealed,
such as material laws of physics or biology, but the subtle and profound
inner laws that determine how life functions. There are many such hidden
principles of existence, and I urge the reader to become familiar with
them, as it will not only reveal a profound wisdom about life’s workings,
but give one access to an infinite-like power over reality.
Here I would like to describe three subtle principles of life that also
happen to be closely related.
The first principle is that our weaknesses are the source of our greatest
strength. Though we have positive capacities that have helped us become
who we are today, it is also true that our wanting qualities can be the
single lever that catapults us to our ultimate potential. That is, if we
identify and overcome a wanting quality, such as a limiting attitude or
fixed habit or opinion, then life will quickly respond with good or great
fortune, dramatically elevating our level of accomplishment and success.
In this way, our weakest qualities become the means of our greatest
inner and outer successes.
The second principle, closely related to the first, is that the negatives that
occur in our lives are actually positives in disguise. That is, if we examine
most peoples’ lives, we will see how often ill fortune became the
stepping-stone for great change that propelled them forward. From that
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perspective, the negatives are not negatives at all, but are merely more
intense forms of the positive.
For example, World War II, in which 50+ million people died, served to
bring about vast positive change for society; through the formation of the
United Nations, the EU, global trade, and other forms of international and
regional cooperation and integration. Before WWII, there was little
harmony amongst the Europeans nations, making it that much easier for
the Fascists armies to march across Europe. In the wake of these great
negative events, however, came great positive developments for society
that may have otherwise taken decades, centuries, or millennia to come
about, if at all.
The third and final principle, again closely related to the first two, is that
"contradictions are complements." I.e. normally, when we are in conflict
with another party, we just see ourselves at odds with them. But from a
higher perspective, we see that we are actually complements to one
another. That the other side is actually the quickest means by which we
can rise in consciousness, if only we discover the truths they know so we
can develop a new, higher understanding. In fact, it is only through that
particular party that we can make such progress in life.
E.g., the Palestinians and the Israelis on the surface have a contradictory
relationship; they have opposed and fought one another for decades in
what can only be described as a blood feud. In the depths however, the
Palestinians understand the intransigence of the Israelis, even as the
Israelis are aware of a virulent, violent, and irrational side of the
Palestinians. Not only does each side know the other side's limitations
and weakness -- which each does not see itself -- but “Nature” has
conspired to put these two sides together in opposition so that they can
work out a higher harmony enabling new understanding and
unprecedented progress for both. In that way, each side is the other’s
most profound teacher, if only they would listen.
Thus, life progresses through the contraction of two parties, who discover
the higher harmony beyond their current status.
Life is filled with mystery. It reveals itself however through subtle and
profound laws of life. When we rise in consciousness, we can perceive
these understated principles. When we develop an inner life of stillness,
calm, and spiritual-like insight we become “silent witness” to the world,
and thus to the ordinarily hidden truths and principles of life.
Through that status, we are far more able to perceive the ebb and flow of
life, the reasons for its sudden changes in direction, the why and the
wherefore of cause and effect, giving us the deepest, highest, and most
profound perspective of existence.
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As a result, we now have the wisdom to act in ways that attract
enormous positive results, enabling us to grow as individuals, while
becoming the Masters of Life.
Startling Relationship Between the Darkness and The Light
From the perspective of a higher consciousness, forces of Darkness are
often a vehicle for the emergence of forces of Light. Contrary to their
intent, the former help the latter more fully come out.
Example: in the film Avatar the hostile, oppressive evil people of Earth
caused the spread-out, non-cooperating, separate clans of Pandora to
work together in harmony for to drive the enemy out. Not only did they
succeed, but they became a unified people for the first time in their
history.
If you study history or current events or even the life of any individual,
you will see this startling dynamic frequently occurring. It is one of the
subtle principles and indicators of the true nature of existence.
The Divine Sanctions Progress through Darkness or Light
Perhaps the main philosophical conundrum facing man is the question of
why the Divine allows evil in the world. If He is the ultimate Good, how
can He sanction such darkness? It is Man's anguished cry in the dark.
At the end of WWII, the world was left in shambles. The war seemed so
futile, without much purpose. Yet there was a purpose, other than
defeating an evil enemy. From the highest perspective, the reason for
WWII was to enable the further evolution of life on earth. It was the
quickest means by which we could take a further step towards human
unity. The United Nations, the EU, the Euro, the global economy, the
WTO, the World Wide Web (WWW), and the untold other economic,
political, and social agreements amongst nations and continents are all
the bi-product of WWII. Without the horror of the war and the need to
compensate for all that was wrong or missing in the world, it might have
taken centuries, if ever to have brought about these harmonic institutions
and developments.
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From a metaphysical standpoint, we can say that the Divine sanctions
those methods that bring the greatest progress in the shortest period of
time. Whether that progress comes through Ignorance, Falsehood, or
Evil, the Divine endorses that method. It is same in our own individual
lives. What brings the greatest change for us, the Higher Power supports
-- whether it comes about through suffering, illness, or tragedy. The
Divine knows that in their wake will come the greatest progress, and
hence the quickest and most formidable movement towards the Good.
Does this mean that all progress has to be through suffering? Not at all.
The Divine also sanctions evolution through higher consciousness. Europe
and the world did not have the higher consciousness to evolve collectively
before WWII. So she did so through conflict and suffering. As individuals,
we progress through torment because we do not have the consciousness
to evolve through more positive, harmonic means. Yet if we developed
our higher nature, we can progress without the dark, conflicting element.
If we continually improve our character, overcome our limitations, find a
deeper center, and open to the spirit we will foster constant progress
without the need for the negative side.
This then is the challenge before us: to progress and evolve through
higher consciousness, or through the suffering and conflict. For the
Divine, both are acceptable means of moving forward. The choice is ours.
The Utility of Evil as Expressed in Mythology and Reality
In the mythologies of the world, we generally see the play of good and
evil. E.g. in the Indian spiritual epic The Mahabharata, we see the conflict
between two sides, some of whom are close relatives of one another. One
of the sides, the one considered "good," is advised through the Wisdom
of the current avatar [one who brings evolutionary change to the world]
Krishna. In the West, there are also ancient, as well as modern
mythologies, two of which involve the adventures of science fiction space
travel. They are 'Start Trek,' generally produced for a more mature
audience, and 'Star Wars," written for youth. Here too good and evil are
at play. Then, of course, there is the reality of life itself that the
mythologies represent. In WWII, we saw that reality, including the
conflict between good and evil.
Here, however, I would like to change the course of thinking about good
and evil with several bold statements, one of which is that perhaps the
greatest power to bring about Good in the world is through evil. I.e. evil
is an even greater power for bringing about the true Good than the
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actions of the ordinary good, i.e. the good side that we perceive and
appreciate in life. Why is this the case? It is because the result of evil's
negative action speeds up and intensifies further progress of the world,
enabling the truer Good to further emerge in all its integrality and
fullness.
Consider the mythology of Star Trek. The Federation of planets is
essentially the good, and the Romulan Empire, (or the Borg) are the bad.
Yet, if we watch closely, we will see that the good is often fractured; i.e.
its members are not yet fully in harmony with one another. That side only
moves to greater coordination, cooperation, and integration of intent and
action after the mischief of the dark side has run its course. It is only
then that the good side -- the Federation -- moves towards greater
solidification and unity.
This modern mythology is of course a refection of the real truths of life.
As the Nazis rose in power during the years leading up to WWII, there
was no united force to confront them -- so the fascists flourished. In fact,
it was the selfishness amongst the good nations leading up to the war --
expressed by the stock crash, the Great Depression, and the fall of the
Weimer Republic in Germany; all, by the way, facilitated by financial
greed -- that set the stage for the rise of the German nation that turned
to evil. With the lack of harmony of the "good" side, the dark side
flourished. Finally, the good side came together and overcame the
enemy, creating a modicum of further harmony and integration amongst
themselves and the defeated nations. The United Nations then became
the one great attempt to establish a formal institution to unify the world,
especially in light of the darkness that preceded it. Likewise, the
European Union (EU) is an attempt to insure the common purposefulness
of the individual nations of that continent to avoid repeating such
catastrophes as war, financial ruin, and cultural disharmony. It may have
taken hundreds, even thousands of years for such progress to have
occurred amongst the nations on its own if evil had not spurred it on. In
the end, we see that evil speeds up the process of integration and unity.
Thus, we need to perceive the value of evil in the evolutionary process --
even as we seek to overcome it.
Modern mythology, as well as ancient ones like the Iliad and Odyssey,
and especially those with vast spiritual insight like the Mahabharata,
serve to show the subtle processes of change and progress for the
nations and people of the earth.
Similar changes are of course occurring right now in the world around us.
All we need to do is look around to see that same dynamic at work now;
that the various dark sides pressure life into further harmony and
integration, and unity. A broad open mind, influenced by spiritual
knowledge and insight will be a great aid in pursuing these insights. Then
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of course, we will be able to develop the right strategies that integrate
these many-sided truths. Naturally, these same movements of good, evil,
and the true Good are unfolding in our own individual lives. To see them
we need to look within.
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Embracing the All
Accepting All and Every Thing
Normally we are happy to pursue those things that please us, avoiding as
much as possible those activities that we believe will bring less pleasure,
or even pain. And yet the truth is that if at every moment we fully
embrace what life puts before us -- pleasurable or otherwise -- life will
instantly respond in our favor.
Over the years, I have experienced this phenomenon countless times,
both at the macro and micro level. Here is a modest incident that
demonstrates this principle in action.
After a successful day of instruction at a local college on the other side of
the bay, I unfortunately left my computer power cord behind. Without it,
my battery could supply only a few more hours of power, which meant I
would soon be without a computer -- a potential disaster in my case. It
also turns out that driving over and retrieving the cord would be very
time-consuming, made doubly so by the fact that a renowned bridge
linking the two areas was now out of service! I therefore contacted a
staffer at the college and asked her to hunt down and mail the power
cord to me ASAP. She agreed and indicated that it would likely arrive the
next day. Since she was a busy person, and because of several other
concerns I had, there were doubts in my mind that it would arrive so
quickly. Still I hoped for the best.
The next day, as expected, my computer
ceased functioning when the battery drained. As a result, I decided to
head over to the local library to use one of their computers. This was a
facility I have used on occasion for over two decades. However, when I
called the offices beforehand, I learned that the library had permanently
closed down! I then realized this was because the town was were about
to open a huge, modern facility a few blocks away. Therefore, I decided
to go head out to a nearby town to use their state-of-the-art library. Just
before leaving, I asked my roommate to look out for the overnight
package that contained my power cord.
I then walked out of my home and towards my car, but then suddenly
shifted direction, realizing that the mail sometimes arrives early on the
weekend, and I should retrieve that first. When I walked over to the box,
I did not know if the mail had arrived; but when I opened the latch, there
was the day's mail. I then brought it back to my home, notifying my
friend that I was still on my way out to the library in the next town. But
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just as I was about to head out again, I saw a FedEx truck parked right in
front of my home! I thought, "That must be the power cord delivery!" I
then looked to my left and there was the delivery person looking for our
entranceway. He then found the door and handed me the overnight
package. I could now resume all of my critical computer functions. A not
so small disaster was averted.
I immediately understood that I had evoked this response from life
because I had taken care of every detail required in that situation. Rather
than skirt one issue or another, I paid close attention to the flow of
things, and fulfilled every demand of life, whether pleasurable or not;
whether perceived as positive or negative.
When we embrace life and all of its demands, it tends to flow in our
favor. When we fight it, or accept one part but not another, we separate
ourselves from its underlying natural flow, making things difficult, if not
downright impossible.
Embracing life is to accept that each and everything is necessary for the
right outcome of events. It is to perceive the Marvel of existence; that
each and every thing plays a role in the unfolding and progress of life.
Embracing life also enables us to align with the very best of conditions, as
luck swiftly moves in our direction. Or, in this case, literally to our
doorstep!
Seeing the Marvel of Existence
In the first of 56 chapters of his metaphysical opus The Life Divine, Sri
Aurobindo suggests something profound. He indicates that everything we
encounter in life -- positive and negative, pleasurable and painful, good
and evil -- serves the greater Good that is unfolding. He indicates that
such dual pairs, which on the surface seem to be in contradiction, are
really complements to one another -- necessary for the upward,
progressive movement of each. In that way, every difficulty and problem
that comes our way serves us just as well as positives circumstance --
perhaps more so. Moreover, that vision of things, that ability to perceive
meaning and utility in everything we encounter, from the macro to the
micro, from the positive to the negative is to see the Marvel of Existence.
Let me illustrate this principle with several examples from literature. In
Victor Hugo's masterpiece Les Miserable, a fundamentally good man Jean
Valjean has escaped prison and is being pursued by an extremely
dedicated, almost fanatical police officer named Javert. Along the way,
Valjean raises a beautiful adopted daughter Cossette who falls in love
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with a young man named Marius, who eventually joins a people's fighting
force barricading themselves against the reactionary government. At one
point, the older, magnanimous Valjean gets involved in the battle
himself, and in a startling, ironic moment saves Marius' life. Interestingly,
Valjean never tells him what he had done. In addition, Valjean and Marius
over time are at odds with one another because the elder does not want
to relinquish his beloved daughter to the young man. In fact, now that
Valjean senses that he is losing Cosette to Marius, life begins to all lose
meaning, and so he begins to wither away.
But then one day near the end of Valjean's life, the evil Innkeeper
Thenardier -- who once raised Cosette in squalor and did many appalling
things along the way -- reveals to Marius that Valjean was in fact the one
who saved his life. Stunned by Thenardier revelations, Marius and
Cosette rush to Valjean's deathbed and console him, thanking him for a
lifetime of self-givingness. In essence, a very bad person has come
forward and unwittingly helped resolve a knot between two good people,
-- enabling reconciliation between Marius and Valjean, and the return of
Cosette's deep love and affection for Valjean, something he so
desperately longed for. And so after a lifetime of kindness and
generosity, Jean Valjean dies a very happy man.
It is said that great literature revels the deepest truth of life. The
principle that not just the good, but the negative and evil too serve the
greater Good is also evident in Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice. For
example, at one critical point in the story, one of the five Bennet sisters,
the wild, rambunctious Lydia, has eloped with the scoundrel Wickham,
threatening the Bennet family with scandal and social ostracism. The
elopement also threatens to ruin the relationship between the very
wealthy Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet.
Now soon after the elopement ends with the marriage of Lydia and
Wickham, Lydia foolishly blurts out that Darcy was the one who settled
the accounts of her husband, resolving the situation. Lydia was instructed
not to reveal this information. When Eliza hears this, she is thunderstruck
because she now realizes how wrong she has been about Darcy. She saw
him and arrogant and prideful, but instead, she now sees his very noble
character. As a result, she falls in love with him, he proposes (again), and
they marry. Without the verbal blunder from the negative Lydia, the
marvelous outcome would never have occurred. I.e. Darcy and Eliza may
not have fallen in love, married, found deep happiness, and thereby bring
great wealth and social prestige to the Bennet family. That is the power
the negative and false serve in manifesting the greater Good.
There is one other example of this principle in the novel. Late in the
story, the aristocratic, wealthy, yet reactionary Lady Catherine tries to
meddle in the relationship between Darcy and Eliza. When she does, it
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backfires on her, paving the way for the marriage of Darcy and Eliza.
What happened was that when Lady Catherine got wind of the budding
relationship, she stormed in the Bennet home, met with Eliza, and
insisted that the relationship cease. Eliza of course refused. Most
importantly however, when Lady Catherine returned home, Darcy learned
of the meeting between his aunt and Eliza and realized from the
discussion that Eliza had not ruled out a romance and marriage between
him. Startled that this was the case, Darcy then went ahead and met
Eliza, who then accepted his second proposal of marriage. In other
words, without Lady Catherine's negative intervention, the entire
resolution of the story would not have come about! Her harmful attempt
to block their relationship had the opposite effect of spurring them to
come together.
Once again, we see how falsehood and evil play critical roles in
movements of progress and greater accomplishment. It is to perceive
that every thing -- good or bad, positive or negative, pleasurable or
painful, -- serves a purpose in the great unfolding. It is an ultimate
perspective and vision of life. It is to see the Marvel of Existence.
First Glimpse of the Omnipresent Reality
There is an ultimate Reality that surrounds us; that we are a part of. It
permeates matter, life, and mind. It is there in the hidden realms, in the
universal plane, and in the transcendent Divine. The Reality is the
essence of all these things. It is actually those things themselves; we,
God, and the universe. Moreover, everything in this Reality is inexorably
united and one. Everything, every plane, every force and being are
unified within themselves and to each other. It is the Divine plan,
method, and unfolding.
But how do we feel this ultimate conception of Existence? It is one thing
to know that we are part of this Great All, it is another to truly perceive
it, experience it, be awed, enriched, overwhelmed, and fulfilled by the
fact.
In the physical/material consciousness we ordinarily live in, we perceive
nothing of this wonder, splendor, power of existence. We are immune
from it there. However, sometimes we have small experiences, sense
subtle workings and unfoldings that suggest a correlation, interrelation of
something wondrous; something beyond this world, yet within it; within
us. At the subtle level of life, beyond the material, we have intimations of
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the Reality. And yet it is only reflective, a side glance, a transitory
glimpse of the Wonder.
Beyond the gross/material and subtle, there is the causal experience. It is
here that we can begin to truly perceive the omnipresent Reality; that
which permeates all existence. It is here that we move into identity with
the Reality, Brahman, the Absolute. We have intimations of the Wonder.
It is there not only in our thoughts, but in our subtle perceptions of life. It
is also there in extraordinary momentary feelings and emotions, even in
our nerves. At that point, we sense, we feel, we know bound up with
something Greater, even as we realize that this permeating Presence is
right here, within us, around us, in the essence of all things. It is even
there in the most superficial, surface of life.
When we conceive, perceive, and realize the Reality in our own lives, we
have the greatest of all human experiences; that of the Infinite Divine
expressing in all planes, beings, and things. Everywhere we look, we feel
the Reality in its essence, in its progressive unfolding. We feel that we
are part of a totality that is Infinite, Conscious, and Divine. At that point,
we experience an inextricable Oneness with everyone and all things.
Through that experience, we blend in, melt into the Reality that we are
part of, even as we gaze out ecstatically on Its creation.
Experiencing the Reality from Within
There is an ultimate Reality. It is beyond our normal conceptions of God.
It is timeless, spaceless, immutable, indefinable. It is the Unmanifest as
well as the Manifest. It is the Absolute of the West; Brahman of the East.
How can we know this ultimate Reality? Not when we live ordinary lives
of the surface. Only when we develop an inner poise and orientation can
we begin that journey. From there we can begin to get intimations of this
Reality.
As we plunge into the depths within, we become silent witness to the
world. Deeper still we come upon our True Self, our personal evolving
soul. There we constantly perceive the multiplicity of possibilities
unfolding at any moment in time. We always know in which direction to
turn, to act; what to avoid; what elements in our being need
improvement, uplifting. There we feel connections to the universal and
transcendent planes. We also now have direct intuitions and intimations
of the forces and truths of the universe which enter our minds without
thought.
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In that status all conflicts, divisions, and dualities that we experience,
such as the apparent incompatibility of Spirit and Matter, or the dual life
experience of pleasure and pain, begin to break down.
From that deep poise, the contradictions of life resolve into their natural
complementary status. From there we perceive that the inner and the
outer are one; that in fact, the entire universe is contained inside
ourselves and if we change the inner, the outer will respond in kind.
As a result of these harmonic experiences, we perceive the unity of the
manifest and the unmanifest, which is the omnipresent Reality, the
ultimate vision and experience of life.
We can begin approach this profound inner status through meditation,
deep concentration, consecration of activities (i.e. surrendering all actions
to the descending Force), and other methods.
As we make deep inroad into our inner being, we feel the divine presence
within and above compelling us to Surrender to it. We perceive our role in
the comic scheme of things. We become instruments of the transcendent
and universal intent. We begin to offer our very existence to the Higher
Purpose.
'Truman Show' Film as Metaphor for Our Perceptions of Reality
The Truman Show is a movie about a TV show. Truman was born and
brought up in the giant set in an Island. 5000 cameras were watching
him growing, studying, working, getting married and so on.
The surprising thing is that all other characters in the set are actors who
knew they are acting, including persons whom he believed to be his
Mother, Wife and friend. In order to make him stay in the island, the
Director created a fear of Water in his mind so that he will not go near
water or venture into boating.
He gets clues from various incidents that he is being watched and
something is wrong with his surroundings only at the age of 30. The show
is running for 30 long years. Finally, his desire to escape this situation
made him to escape from the island in a boat. After rowing a long
distance, the boat hit a wall that had a picture of sky and clouds painted
on it. He then found the exit and entered the real world.
This is exactly how we live in this world. Each person is living in a set like
this and are unable to move out of that set. Many times the people
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around us convinces us to accept our present status as real, but actually
it is not. Crossing the limitations of mind and emotions and entering into
the inner self will open up the gate for exiting from our limitations.
The TV viewers who watch the show represent God (collective God) who
enjoys when Truman exits. God enjoys when Man identifies Him within.
That finding is a moment of celebration, like how children enjoy in hide
and seek game.
The Director plays the role of LIFE. He decides Truman's life. Life decides
the life of all of us. When man wants to cross his limitation/ boundary,
Life punishes him or threatens him and make him accept what his
limitations lead him to. There are so many parallels we may find from the
story.
(Nedumaran Ramakrishnan)
Lesson from The Matrix
In the film ‘The Matrix’ earth civilization was actually an illusionary
program created by robots, behind which was the real civilization that
had been destroyed in their war against humans. Likewise, in life we live
in and look out on a material world that is a clouding illusion of the true
multi-faceted, integrated, unified Reality that is All things.
And just as an adventurer like Neo can learn from the visionary Morpheus
to see the world as it truly was, we can learn from the spiritual prophets
around us and discover the Reality as it truly is. In that way, we not only
gain powers to dodge bullets, but we garner spiritual power that puts the
entire world at our disposal.
Truman Show
The Truman Show Aspiration is the source of Reality. This movie
captures that concept beautifully. This movie can be seen as the Divine’s
play in our life -- it is not to test us, not to tease us, not to humiliate us,
but to evolve out our true individuality and to manifest His plan in our
lives. We can be part of it if we sincerely aspire for it. Instead most of the
times we live our material life not only just knowing our character but
also the purpose of other characters whom we interact with. This quest
continues on and on for many life times. Life can be a biggest helper on
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that context as it tries it’s best to create situations for us so that we can
reflect, turn back and go in the right direction. And so it creates failures,
disappointments, problems, challenges, opportunities, luck, coincidences,
synchronous events and so forth. At the same, we are surrounded by so
many things, persons, situations which they continuously feed our ego
and keep us in the surface, ignorant life. However, the man continues on
this quest without conscious awareness but continues to evolve
subconsciously. This movie subtly asks us the question, what if we could
lead your life consciously? What are we aspiring for? Who or What is our
aspiring factor? (like Sylvia in that story)
The Lake House
In Pride & Prejudice, Elizabeth visited the Pemberley estate, astonished
by its beauty, and thought from the depths of her being that she could
have been the mistress of the estate. As a result, Darcy appeared in front
of her sooner than expected, surprising her.
One question that arises is how could a thought in the present moment
affect the acts of the past since Darcy had changed his plan a few days
earlier, deciding to come back early to the estate? How we strain to
understand this reality through our minds as it seems illogical.
It is because we are limited in our perceptions of Time and Space; as our
minds cannot perceive such things, as it is itself limited in capacity and
point of view. However, our higher and deeper Consciousness can.
The Truth of the Reality is that it is One, and we all are connected in
consciousness; not only in the present moment, but to the past and
future as well.
Unfortunately, the thing we are preoccupied with is our surface existence.
And yet we would be able to perceive this triple time capacity in the Now
by going within into our depths, to our Psychic being, where Time is
synchronous in the past, present and future. From that poise one change
would affect another; and results would happen instantaneously, from out
of nowhere in the present moment. We would perceive this unfolding take
shape as a 'Life Response'.
Hollywood science fiction and fantasy movies like Arrival, Interstellar and
many others help us visualize this dynamic. 'The Lake House' is one such
beautiful, romantic love story that portrays the concept throughout the
film.
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In the movie, Dr Kate witnessed a tragic accident on Valentine's day of
2006. Out of her genuine goodness and attitude, she tried her very best
to save him but she couldn't. Though she had handled many cases in the
past, this one greatly disturbed her emotionally. She was not aware of
the reason why at that moment.
And so as per her friend's advice, she travelled for peace of mind, and
finally ended up in the Lake house where she lived a while before. In
addition, her deep emotion puts her consciousness in alignment with Alex
who had lived there in the past exactly two years behind her time.
The story unleashes beautifully between them, despite the fact that they
were two years apart, as the mailbox served as the medium to exchange
their thoughts of consciousness. It is very beautiful to witness how the
present moment of Kate influenced Alex’s life (who was in the relative
past). Also, the actions he took made an impact on Kate’s life later on in
her own time. For example, there was the tree which Alex planted on her
Racine apartment; the Persuasion book which she lost in the station that
was recovered by Alex, and many other such startling, time-abridging
incidents.
As a result, both lived two years of their lives very deeply connected to
one another, though they could not perceive that in their real time as
events unfold by themselves. Even though they met each other in the
past, they could not perceive that they were meant for each other at that
moment. It’s like Darcy not recognizing Elizabeth as her soul mate when
they first met at Meryton, despite the fact they were meant for each
other.
Kate and Alex were then out of contact for quite a while. And yet at the
end, - on Valentine's day 2008, - she understood that it was Alex who
died in the accident she witnessed earlier. She then rushed to the
mailbox to prevent him from coming to meet her, and asked him to wait
two more years in his time from 2006 to 2008 in order to avoid that
horrible incident. Something in Alex also moved him to go to the Lake
House that day and receive her message. The movie ends beautifully with
his real time arrival in 2008, and so they were united at the Lake House
again. Though it is difficult to comprehend by mind, it is not impossible
for this to happen.
As such, the movie gives us awareness. We are the creators of our own
destiny and we can manifest that Reality by going within. What else could
we do, as we are stuck in surface living and limited by ignorance, time
and space?
And the movie gives us awareness that in life nothing happens by chance.
And by being conscious, aware and act according to the laws of Life
Response, we can quickly align with the Reality that is subtly manifesting.
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For example, though Alex and Kate met each other in 2004 at a birthday
party, they were not conscious of that that fact, and therefore they had
to go through long series of events before finally reuniting in 2008.
(Roy Posner & Senthil Murugan)
Various Thoughts
--Chapter 4, Omnipresent Reality resolves the contradiction between
spirit and matter into the Reality, the All, which is inclusive of both, and
even integrative of both.
--From the holistic view of Supermind everything that has happened in
your life is exactly as it should have been. It is a vision of Brahman, the
Reality, the embracing of the All, all things. From the dualistic view of
Mind, your life is viewed as a series of circumstance ranging from positive
to negative, and all points in-between. From that perspective each and
everything is subject to scrutiny and judgment. The perspective of the
whole is lost.
--Also when we move to our deeper Self within, this harmonic relation
with the world increases, as we look out on the world as Silent Witness
and pure Being; whereas living on the surface of life reinforces the ego
view, the separative consciousness that is divided from the totality of
existence, the Reality, the All.
--From the holistic view of Supermind everything that has happened in
your life is exactly as it should have been. It is a vision of Brahman, the
Reality, the embracing of the All, all things.
--… when we move to our deeper Self within, this harmonic relation with
the world increases, as we look out on the world as Silent Witness and
pure Being; whereas living on the surface of life reinforces the ego view,
the separative consciousness that is divided from the totality of
existence, the Reality, the All.
--When you perceive and begin realizing the integral nature of the
Reality, of the All, thoughts come pouring in that express it in novel and
instructive ways.
--Integral Knowledge is to know this from moment to moment as
necessary. Ordinary human knowledge is hardly any of this; not even a
billionth of it. Thus it is Ignorance. The goal then is to move from
Ignorance to and Integral Knowledge of the Integral Reality - the All.
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--… the Reality = the ALL, the EVERYTHING, including their integral
Connection and Oneness. All things are just different expressions of the
Reality, the All
--When we are in touch with the supramental consciousness we
experience Unity with every aspect of life. It is from that status we
perceive the Marvel; which is the perception of the one Reality, the All,
from spirit to mind. As a result one realizes that every conceivable thing
in existence serves a purpose.
--… from the perspective of the Reality, the All, such dualistic viewpoints
of affirmation and negation melt into one another and disappear, as
everything serves a purpose in creation. Oneness is the result.
--According to Sri Aurobindo, the Absolute is the All. It is the Divine and
the Universe. The One and the Many. The Being and the Becoming. The
small and the large. The good and the bad. The positive and negative.
The pleasurable and the painful. Every thought and feeling and
circumstance. Every plane of being. And they are all integrally connected
in the greater scheme of things; and all are part of the Movement
forward.
--The Spiritual consciousness perceives it as the natural order of things,
as part of the Reality, the All; and Delights in its existence
--.. from the highest perspective, the divine Reality is the ALL, is all
things, including both positive and negative, and therefore everything
together serves a purpose in moving conditions forward.
--God is ultimately both Spirit and Life. The All. The Reality.
--We think we are just are our own limited individual selves. Yet we are
much more than that. We are the entire universe; actually, we are the
Reality itself; the All; undivided, Infinite and Eternal.
--Brahman is thus the All; the creator and creation; the Spirit and Life;
the transcendent, the universal, and the individual. And the Divine
expresses in each.
--Unlike the tradition Sri Aurobindo says there is nothing but the Divine:
i.e. the Divine manifest, and the Divine hidden; and nothing else. This
totality is the Reality; Brahman; the Absolute; the All.
--There are two formations of Brahman. One is the Divine Brahman, the
transcendent, the Infinite Consciousness that is the Source of all. The
Supreme. All things in creation originated in it, are formations of it. There
is also Brahman that is the All, the Reality. It is both spirit and matter;
the One and the Many; all in creation and all behind it. It includes the
Infinite Brahman, plus everything in the universe. It is the All; the
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Omnipresent Reality, the highest conception of existence given to Man. In
Supermind it is glimpsed and realized.
--In Supermind we see the utility of each thing within the All, and we also
perceive the integral nature of all things that make up the Reality. That is
why it is called the "Truth Consciousness." It sees the truth in everything.
And the more we consecrate the more we move to the state of observing
and embracing all things, this All that is the integral Reality. We recognize
the contractions of life, and also see beyond them to their resolutions,
and the role they serve in the further progress of life.
--The Divine [we can also call it the Reality, or the All or Brahman]
manifest in three forms, three aspects, the Individual, the Universal and
the Transcendent.
--When Sri Aurobindo speaks of Brahman, He does not mean just only of
Transcendent. What He has said is, the Universe is Brahman and the
Individual is also Brahman [the reality, the All].
--The Secret Knowledge is to have the wisdom of the nature of the
Reality, the All, and know the means of furthering the evolution, enabling
the infinite to arise from the finite in life.
--From the perspective of the Reality, the All, past, present, and future
do not exist as separate entities; there is imply one non-divided reality of
time.
--Spirit and Life mixed together is the Reality, the All.
--Everything is within His manifestation. Gods true kingdom is the
Reality, the All.
--The whole blissful Reality is available to be felt and seen at any given
moment.
Comment: I.e. spirit and life around us are completely intermingled, and
we perceive but one integral Reality; the All
The Reality, The All That We Can Realize
In the aftermath of the battle of Kurukshetra in the Gita section of the
Mahabharata, the blind Gandhari, wife of Dhritarashtra who is head of the
evil Kaurava, anguishedly blames Krishna for the death of her sons, as he
did not prevent the war, even encouraged it.
Remarkably, Vyasa responds that only Krishna himself has actually
suffered in the war! He explains that Krishna is the Reality, which is All
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things in creation and beyond it. And therefore the sons and all soldiers
who died in the battle is actually the destruction of parts of Krishna
Himself.
In Vedanta, the Divine is not simply something beyond creation, but
includes all things, all forces and forms IN creation. Thus all things in life
are necessary, important, play a vital role in the unfolding: even the
undivine, the negative, and the insignificant. It is this Reality, this
Brahman, this All that is that what Krishna embodied.
Sri Aurobindo says that to have this ultimate view of existence - this All,
where each thing, force, form, plane are simply infinite variations and
shadings of the one Divine; each playing a vital part - is to have the
Vision of the Reality. He tells us that this integral view of existence can
only be experienced, realized in full through Supramental perception,
which is Unity consciousness that can perceive the necessity and purpose
of all things. The ordinary human mind is not able to have this
experience.
How can one begin to see the see the necessity and interrelation among
all things in and beyond creation? Karmayogi says that through constant
consecration and constantly taking another's view, our mind vastly
expands and we increasingly experience the utility and interconnection of
all things, which gives us ultimate power of knowing, decision making,
and action, which in turn evokes the infinite from the finite in no time at
all.
--The goal of creation is for every force, idea, particle, formation, person,
collective, etc. to possess the Consciousness of the Infinite, the Eternal,
the All Powerful. (inspired by the Mother)
Additional comment: We can help make that happen through continuous
Consecration.
Not Yet Titled
-There is only one Reality. The Divine, God is one form of it. We are
another.
-God, the Divine didn't so much create the universe, as He became the
universe.
-We are God too, only in a different form.
-The totality of God and the universe is the Reality.
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-The All is the Reality.
-The Individual, the Universal, and the Transcendent is the Integral
Reality.
-If God has extended itself to us, and we are evolving, then God is
evolving.
-God is evolving through our soul's multi-birth journey of never-ending
progress.
Perceiving the Utility of All is the Marvel
The Marvel as revealed in Sri Aurobindo's The Life Divine is the capacity
to perceive the Reality, the All. It is to perceive the necessity of all things
in the unfolding. In this way we can look out on life and see that
everything that is happening to us - positive and negative, big and small,
pleasurable and painful - is necessary for cur progress. To engage life this
way is to perceive the Marvel and to participate in the Adventure. It is the
romantic view of life; Romance itself.
Connecting with the Reality So We Can Navigate Vast Change in Our Lives.
From the perspective of "the Reality," the All, vast change is unfolding in
the course of our lives - with great undulations, giant swings to the
positive and negative. And yet from our own limited perspective we are
inching along, trying to stay on the same straight and narrow path,
hoping to maintain the same rituals and patterns in our lives, avoiding
any swings, when in fact vast change is what we are going to experience.
The Reality is the All, and includes all things from Spirit to Matter. The
Reality is also past, present, and future. Moreover, if we are in the
consciousness of the Reality, the All, we more readily sense and navigate
the undulations of change in life; in our own individual lives.
And yet the Reality also includes the Spirit, meaning that Change in our
lives can be brought under our control. By following spiritual values, and
utilizing the Force of the Divine Mother; the supramental power, we can
manage the swings of existence, reducing them down so that we
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experience a steady, progressive life, harmonious and peaceful, yet
dynamic and ecstatic.
Formulations of the Secret Knowledge
The Secret Knowledge is to know the Reality, the All, which is (any of)-
-the interplay and integration of Spirit and Life (Purusha and Prakriti)
-the Creator conception and the Energy that manifests it as real (Ishwara
and Shakti)
-the interplay of He and She.
-the One and the Many
-the Being and Becoming
-etc.
The Reality is as any these dual pairs, which are actually undivided from
one another. (Eg the universe consists of formation of Spirit.) To know
their workings is to have the Secret Knowledge; it is to one with the
Reality; including its nature and workings.
[thoughts inspired by canto ‘The Secret Knowledge’ from epic mystical
poem ‘Savitri’ by Sri Aurobindo]
Brahman, Reality, the All
By Brahman being the only Reality, we mean it is the All, and includes
everything, big and small, positive and negative, spirit and matter, the
One and the Many, etc. And that everything in that Reality, that All,
whether good or bad, helpful or harmful, serves a purpose in the
Unfolding. Brahman then is not just the Source Consciousness, but the
Source and its multiplicity of forces and forms in the universe integrally
combined. This is Sri Aurobindo's view of the Reality, the All.
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PART 2: PHENOMENON OF LIFE RESPONSE
Life Response; I.e. Sudden Good Fortune
Introduction
Normally, we believe that taking an action on our part brings about a
corresponding result in life. This is of course true. There is also a secret
knowledge that certain changes in our behavior can instantly evoke good
fortune from the world around us. We call this dramatic phenomenon
"life response."
Higher Levels of Cleanliness, Orderliness, and Attention Attract
For example, let’s talk about money. We are all aware of the importance
of intelligence, hard work, social position, skill, organization, and other
forms of strength and power to create wealth. There are, however, a few
hidden strategies to elicit an immediate response from life regarding
money. For one, keeping accurate and up-to-date accounts of money is a
powerful mechanism for attracting more of it. E.g., one small business
owner decided to balance eight months of back statements in a weekend
and received $5000 from out of nowhere the next day. This is an example
of a life response. It is virtually instantaneous, and appears to come from
seemingly out of nowhere.
There does not seem to be any obvious connection between the actions
and the results, yet somehow life responds to these changes in our inner
behavior. That is the case because life is organized in ways that defy our
normal perceptions of cause and effect, and space and time. There are
movements, workings, and unfoldings in life that are hidden from us; that
defy our ability to perceive them. However, if we develop a certain subtle
power of awareness, we can perceive these life movements, and then
learn to harness that knowledge to attract vast accomplishment and
success. The above example of attention to money and how it generates
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a sudden, abundant life response is but one example of this extraordinary
power.
Over the decades, we have seen that there are at least a dozen key
human behaviors that trigger these instances of sudden good fortune.
E.g. in addition to giving attention to finances to attract money, being as
careful and prompt in paying our debts also tends to attract instances of
good fortune. This is especially true for settling old debts. E.g., one
individual owed a friend money for over twenty years. Within minutes of
committing to paying that old debt, he was told that he had been offered
a new spacious place to live -- this after having lived in the same
cramped apartment for twenty years! That is the power of committing to
paying off an old debt.
Greater attention to business accounts, proper handling of money, et al
are, in essence, higher forms of organization. In fact, whenever we make
a serious effort to raise our level of organization, life tends to move in our
favor. In particular, we have seen that higher levels of cleanliness tend to
elicit very powerful positive responses from life. Consider this true-life
experience:
An instructor had been without training and consulting work for
weeks, and was in desperate straits. He did not know what to do, but
decided to raise his level of cleanliness. His apartment was normally
quite clean, but he wanted to take cleanliness a step
further. Therefore, he decided to clean his refrigerator. Well, at the
exact moment he finished putting the foodstuffs back after an
exhaustive effort of cleaning, he received a call from his training
company offering him months worth of new work! The response from
life was instantaneous and overwhelmingly powerful!
While cleaning and ordering objects have a vast power to attract sudden
good fortune, so does giving them more attention. Consider this true
incident:
A wine seller in Asia had very low sales. A consultant noticed that the
seller had ignored stocks of old wine that were not selling. He asked
the seller to make a full effort to clean those stocks, even though he
could not imagine how such an action could possibly improve things.
The seller however in the end agreed to this course of action. Within a
few short weeks, the seller not only found someone to purchase his
entire inventory of old stocks, but he received new orders for sales
equal to a whole half years worth of revenues!
That is the power of giving objects greater levels of attention. Life
suddenly responds out of all proportion!
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The Power of Attitudes to Attract
You can also attract overwhelming good fortune by overcoming a
negative attitude, such as a hostile feeling towards another person. This
is perhaps the most powerful psychological method to attract good
fortune.
A woman worked part time for over a decade, hoping during that time
to secure a full-time position. One day she decided that her negative
attitudes towards certain people should come to an end. Within a few
days, she received a full time job from the company she had been
temping at -- her first full-time position in ten years!
Life always responds to a change in one’s attitudes. Here is another
example:
A man lost a lot of borrowed money by speculating in the stock
market. After a time all of his shares became worthless. In fact, he
paid interest on the borrowed money by borrowing more money. One
day, he didn't have any more cash left to pay the interest. Slowly, he
began to realize his folly. First, he decided to stop speculating. Then
he decided not to borrow any more money to pay the interest. He
made a firm decision, and remained calm thereafter. Though he
didn't know what to do next, he stuck to his decision.
After a day or two, he read in a newspaper that a certain company
was being taken over by another company. The share price started its
upward journey and within a few days, it hit $20. He sold them and
had the money to meet his obligation.
Life will suddenly and abundantly respond any attempt to shed a wanting
attitude. It also responds to making a decision, or taking to a course of
action when one was reluctant or otherwise unable to take to it before.
Consider this episode:
A man worked at a computer store, but was reluctant to work
weekends. He was in the lower tier of monthly sales among his peers.
He then changed his attitude, and made the decision to work on
weekends. The first Saturday he appeared at the store, the first
customer he waited on placed the biggest order of his career! That in
turn kicked off the highest sales month he ever experienced in his life.
Moreover, it also turned out to be the highest sales month by a
salesperson that the 4-store chain he worked at ever experienced. He
not only rocketed to the top of his sales group, but made more money
in the next few months than he ever had in his life.
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That is the power of taking to decision and acting on it. Changes in
attitude, in combinations with taking to a decision and action have an
overwhelming power to invoke good fortune from the world around us.
The Power of Silence to Attract
There are a number of other ways to make life respond. E.g., one way is
to improve yourself -- such as by acquiring new knowledge about a
subject, or by learning a new skill. Consider this true story, where one
individual tried to improve his skill, and got an unexpected life response
result:
A man hadn't had a consulting project of any substantial size in over
half a year. He then decided to improve his professional condition by
learning an important new skill. Within a few days, he was contacted
unsolicited by a major industrial firm in the central valley of California
to do a large consulting project, his first in nearly half a year of trying.
Silent Will
In addition to proactively changing one's condition, such as taking to
higher levels of organization, one can also invoke sudden good fortune by
restraining one’s self. E.g. rather than expressing a thought to another
person that you want to relate, you can withhold it’s expression, which
will cause the other person to speak it out shortly thereafter. We call this
inner, mental-restraining approach to life response, “Silent Will.” Here’s
an example, involving a business colleague of ours:
A management consultant was meeting with a high-level executive of
one of the largest companies in the US in order secure interviews with
top-level management for a book he was writing. The executive
however rejected him outright, giving various reasons why the
consultant request could not be heeded. Rather than respond, the
consultant decided to practice Silent Will, restraining himself from
expressing the reasons why the executive was in error.
Stunningly, a few minutes, the executive completely reversed himself,
and began to express several reasons why the consultant’s request
was valid! He then not only acceded to the interviews, but a long time
business relationship was forged between the consultant and that
major US corporation!
When we remain silent in these situations, we release a solid block of
mental and vital energy into the surrounding atmosphere that others feel
compelled to speak out. In that way, our intentions are expressed
through another person without our having to communicate it in the first
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place. Such “Silent Will" is but one of a number of inner powers of life
that are available to us.
Equality of Being
Another power of silence is that of “Equality of Being.” If we remain calm
and still when a difficult situation presents itself, the problem tends to
quickly dissipate.
One man did not react to the fact that a client was going to pay a bill
in 60 days instead of the normal 2 weeks, and was informed that the
bill had been paid the next day via credit card! A 60-day bill had
triune into a 2-day one!
Consecrated Activity
Finally, there is one other inner power that can attract the miraculous. If
we open ourselves to the spiritual Force before engaging in an activity,
circumstances will move in our favor, as life cooperates with us from all
quarters.
An instructor's class was going very poorly one morning. Nothing
seemed to go right. He then decided to consecrate the afternoon
session by offering it to the Higher Power. Thereafter, every
conceivable thing went right. In addition, a palpable peace and
richness could be felt in the classroom throughout the remainder of
the day.
Anyone who has experienced the power of the spiritual Force in action
but once in their lives will be changed forever.
Inner-Outer Correspondence
On the surface, there does not seem to be any obvious connection
between these changes in our psychological condition and behavior, and
the sudden miraculous-like results that follow. Yet, somehow life does
respond on the outside to our change within. Why is this the case?
It turns out that the separation we make between our being and the
world around us is an illusion based on a surface view of life. Our inner
selves and the outer world are in fact part parcel of the same contiguous
reality. Therefore, if we change our consciousness within, the outer
instantly responds in kind. This underlying oneness is in turn made
possible because there is a fundamental spiritual reality that is at the
heart of all existence. That reality provides an ultimate Intelligence that
relates all associated objects, individual, and circumstances across space
and time.
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Thus, when you move your consciousness towards the positive, you
release energies that move across a vast cosmic web of life that connects
with related individuals, objects, and circumstances. When you take to
higher emotions, attitudes, behaviors, values, decisions, actions,
thoughts, etc, energies move out across space-time and connect with
related positive conditions, attracting these favorable, positive results
rapidly to you.
The key however is to proactively discover those wanting parts of your
being, and then make the necessary effort to change them, thereby
attracting a continuous flow of good fortune toward you. This is the
miraculous and infinite-like opportunity that the phenomenon of “Life
Response” offers each of us.
Life Response in Pride and Prejudice
(Extracted from the book ‘The Miraculous Phenomenon of Life Response’
by Roy Posner)
One of the best ways to observe life -- including the miraculous-like
phenomenon of life response -- is to read the great literature of the
world. From such works, not only are we privy to the many fascinating
experiences of its characters, but with a sharp eye, we can detect a
number of powerful life response results as well.
It turns out that there is one great work of literature that I have found
particularly compelling when it comes to life response. It is Jane Austin’s
masterwork Pride and Prejudice. Its rich story, its variety of fascinating
characters, and its several dramatic turns not only contribute to an
absorbing read, but also reveals a cascade of powerful life response
incidents. In the pages that follow, I would like to describe several of
these. However, since some of your may not be familiar with the story, I
will begin with a brief overview.
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Pride and Prejudice opens with the arrival of two dashing and prosperous
young men, Mr. Darcy, and his friend Mr. Bingley. Their unexpected
arrival stirs the English community of Meryton into a frenzy, since there
are now apparently two very eligible -- and very wealthy -- bachelors
available for their daughters.
This excitement is shared by the Bennet family, who have five eligible
daughters; two of whom -- Eliza and Jane -- are starting to move beyond
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the prime age for marriage. This puts pressure on the parents to find
suitable husbands for them. There is also an added pressure coming from
their cousin, Mr. Collins, who has made a claim of inheritance on the
entire Bennet estate as the rightful male heir, which means that in the
event of the parents’ death, the daughters would be left without a home,
wealth, and social status. Because of these perceived threats, the
Bennets are therefore eager to marry off their daughters, preferably to
prosperous men. And so, when the very excitable Mrs. Bennet learns of
the arrival of two well to do and handsome young bachelors -- i.e. Mr.
Darcy and Mr. Bingley -- she along with much of the community are
stirred into a state of frenzy.
Immediately after, the town elders spring into action and arrange a ball -
- inviting all eligible bachelors and maidens in the region. That will of
course include the five Bennet daughters, as well as the intriguing
monsieurs Bingley and Darcy.
Unfortunately, things do not get off to a very good start for two particular
individuals at the dance -- Eliza Bennet, the middle class daughter of a
gentleman farmer, and Fitzwilliam Darcy a very wealthy member of the
aristocracy. At one point, when Darcy is prodded by others to dance with
Eliza, he outright refuses. He does so because as an aristocrat he feels it
is undignified to intermingle with the rough-hewn, crude, and vulgar
members of the lower classes. In fact, at one point Eliza overhears
Darcy’s callous remarks that Eliza “is no great beauty,” which causes her
to take great offense.
Darcy’s self-righteous views are reinforced by what he considers the wild
dancing, prancing, and other forms of ill-mannered behavior by the
middle class members at the ball. Not the least of these indiscretions
comes from the oppressive, piercing vocal outbursts of Eliza’s own
mother -- the thoughtless, churlish, loud-mouthed Mrs. Bennet. And so
the story of Pride and Prejudice takes shape from this contentious
beginning.
Interestingly, as the story unfolds, Darcy has a surprising change of
heart, as he begins to fall in love with the same woman he had earlier
insulted -- Elizabeth Bennet. He is gradually taken in by her intelligence,
her independence, and “the bright light in her eyes.” Eventually, the two
reconcile their differences, find love, and marry. Likewise, Eliza’s sister
Jane will marry Darcy’s best friend, Mr. Bingley -- though they too go
through their own painful courtship. As a result of the marriage of the two
sisters to two very rich men, the Bennet family -- who just a short while
ago were feeling insecure about their future – are suddenly catapulted
into the upper class.
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A Meeting at Pemberley
Which brings me to the two powerful life response incidents I promised.
The first involves an incident involving Darcy and Eliza that occurs after
he changed his feelings about her, fallen in love, and proposed marriage
(which she rejects this time because of his previous prideful and arrogant
behavior).
The incident begins one day when Eliza’s cousins -- Mr. and Mrs. Gardner
-- invite her to visit the countryside of Derbyshire, where the couple lives.
As they drive through the lovely landscape, they suddenly come upon the
magnificent Pemberley estate. As Eliza gazes at the gorgeous mansion
with its spectacular grounds and its great reflecting pond, she is
overwhelmed by its majesty and beauty. Mrs. Gardner then casually
points out that this is in fact the home of Mr. Darcy! Eliza is
thunderstruck by this revelation. She then falls into a momentary reverie
as she realizes that had she accepted Darcy’s earlier proposal of
marriage, all of this could have been hers: that she could have been the
Lady of the Pemberley estate.
Not perceiving Eliza’s anguish, the Gardeners suggest that since Darcy
was out of town on business and would not be returning for several days,
they should all take a tour of the estate. Eliza, however, is mortified by
the idea, fearing that Darcy would suddenly return and see her there --
something she could not bear since she had already had a very
uncomfortable relationship with him. However, after her emotions settle
down, and she considers the matter further, she gives in and agrees to
the proposal.
When they arrive at Pemberley, the caretaker gives them a tour of the
magnificent house and grounds. At one point, as they pause to examine
several items inside the stately home, then stops to point out what a fine
man Mr. Darcy is. With earnestness and deep affection, she then tells the
guests what a privilege and joy it has been to work for a man of such
noble character. On hearing this heartfelt expression of admiration for
Darcy, Eliza once again feels a thunderbolt in her heart. After all, Eliza
now had living proof that the man whose temperament she had
condemned might in fact be a true gentleman with a noble and self-giving
nature.
A few moments later, with her emotions quieted down, Eliza begins to
develop a very different view of him. Instead of feeling hostile, she now
has a much softer and kinder perspective of the man: even the
beginnings of a deep admiration and affection.
Now comes the response. The party continue their tour outside, where
they walk among the beautiful grounds and gardens. At one point, as
they hover near the edge of a lovely pond and observe the serene
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setting, Eliza once again thinks about the fact that she has been very
wrong about Darcy; that he was in fact a man worthy of deep admiration,
not disdain.
At the very moment she experiences this deep change of heart, who
should turn up at the scene, but Mr. Darcy! Standing there in wet clothing
with a diffident look on his face, he seemed to have appeared out of thin
air! As the party stood there open-mouthed, as if looking at an
apparition, Darcy explains that due to his change in schedule, he came
back several days early from his business trip. And when he approached
the estate, he decided to simply swim across the pond, which accounted
for his wet attire.
As Darcy stood before the party, dripping and smiling, Eliza was in a state
of shock. Darcy, on the other hand, was calm and relaxed. In fact, he
was so comfortable before the group that he proceeded to graciously
invite the Gardners and Eliza to dinner.
While several commentators have attributed this stunning meeting at the
pond to coincidence, or even accused the author of manipulating the
story for dramatic effect, in fact what occurred was exactly true to life.
What attracted Darcy from seemingly out of nowhere was Eliza’s
complete change of attitude toward Darcy. When she shed her negative
opinions and cast aside her hostile feelings toward him, as she had done
just a moment earlier, life instantly responded with the sudden arrival of
the man she would come to love and marry.
As we see in this and other life response incidents, “Nature” -- which is
another way of describing the movement of Life -- is continually throwing
up situations and circumstances that touch our sensibilities. How we
choose to react to these challenges, determines whether or not we attract
instances of good fortune. When we make a decisive move towards the
positive, we instantly evoke powerful positive results. Otherwise, life
remains in stasis or unfolds through its slow, meandering, and difficult
course. In Eliza Bennet’s case -- being a rational, intelligent, and
perceptive individual -- she confronted the reality she saw before her,
and chose on the side of truth, discarding her negative view of Darcy,
which instantly attracted results that would change her life forever.
A Father’s New Perspective
Now let us move on to the second major life response event in the story.
It is centered around the well-known “elopement episode”, where the
most intense action and intrigue in the story takes place. Again, let me
set the stage for you so that you will perceive the response in the
clearest light.
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Early on in the story, the five unmarried Bennet daughters walk through
the English countryside and make their way to the nearby town of
Meryton. When they arrive, the girls unexpectedly meet a group of
soldiers, who happen to be friends of Lydia -- the bold, irrepressible, and
boisterous youngest daughter. It is here that we are first introduced to
one of those soldiers – the handsome, suave, smooth-talking, yet
treacherous Mr. Wickham. In their interaction, we not only see how
smitten Lydia is by Wickham’s charming manners and exceptional good
looks, but how her elder sister Eliza shares those same feelings. Moments
later, however, the scene takes a dark turn when Darcy suddenly appears
on the scene, and we witness the animosity that exists between him and
Wickham.
Some weeks after this telling meeting, a letter arrives at the Bennet
home. The note reveals that the Bennet’s youngest daughter Lydia has
suddenly run off and eloped with the duplicitous Wickham. This naturally
comes as a shock to the family, as it not only threatens to scandalize and
disgrace them, but virtually cancels any chance the two elder daughters
had of attracting prosperous suitors.
Thus, in effect life has presented a set of difficult circumstances that
challenge the sensibilities of several individuals -- including Eliza, her
sister Jane, their father Mr. Bennet, and their mother Mrs. Bennet. The
question then becomes how each will respond to this most difficult of
situations -- for it is often how we react to the perceived pressures that
determine whether or not we will attract sudden good fortune.
For now, let us focus on the reaction of the two parents -- Mr. and Mrs.
Bennet. It turns out that Mrs. Bennet reacts rather predictably to the
crisis by immediately descending into a state of hysteria. But then what
of her more-rational and intelligent husband, Mr. Bennet? How will he
respond to these extremely difficult circumstances?
To examine Mr. Bennet’s response, let us take a moment to understand
his state of mind prior to the elopement. Mr. Bennet is a gentleman
farmer, and is the husband of the vivacious, ill-mannered, and often
impossible Mrs. Bennet. He originally married her for her beauty, but now
with her good looks fading, there is little for him to appreciate; and so he
constantly retreats to the safe haven of his study. Mr. Bennet is also the
father of a brood of five daughters, who range in character from silly to
lively to intelligent. His favorite is the second eldest, Eliza, who like her
father shares a rational, intelligent, and insightful nature.
Mr. Bennet’s problem is that despite his many positive attributes, he is
negligent in the rearing of his own children -- leaving that chore to his
wife. Instead of taking an interest in their concerns and daily affairs, he is
content to withdraw to the calm and serenity of his library. There, he can
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immerse himself in his books, and find peace and tranquility apart from
what he considers the silliness of his daughters, and the unbridled
offensiveness of his loud-mouthed, churlish wife. The one exception to his
indifference is the bond he shares with his favorite daughter, Eliza. Unlike
the distant relationship he has with his other children, Mr. Bennet is
emotionally attached to the mentally sharp, insightful, and forward-
thinking Eliza; and often makes the time to converse with her about
important matters.
With this in mind, let us now move ahead in time to that inglorious day
when Mr. Bennet receives word that his wild, irrepressible youngest
daughter, Lydia, had eloped with the treacherous and duplicitous Mr.
Wickham. Now, instead of a content, carefree Mr. Bennet – absorbed in
his work, or by himself in his library apart from the mischief of his family
-- we find a tortured man, head in hand, pained and anguished by the
potential scandal that threatens to ruin him and his family. Instead of a
relaxed, untroubled spirit, we see an unsteady, shaken individual,
frightened that his entire world -- including his estate, his fortune, and
his family’s future -- is about to fall apart.
Given his predicament, one wonders how Mr. Bennet will react. Will he
retreat into his study and plunge further into despair, or will he somehow
muster the strength and courage to rise above the fray?
Fortunately, Mr. Bennet was a thoughtful and reasonable man, and
therefore, in the moments that followed, he had the presence of mind to
consider the source of his awful predicament. For one, he thought about
the sequence of events that led up to the elopement and soon realized
that it was he who had allowed Lydia to go to the coast to cavort and play
in the first place -- despite protests from his insightful daughter Eliza.
More troubling still, he also now clearly understood that he never really
had any control over his unbridled and impetuous youngest daughter
Lydia. Finally, and most powerfully, it struck him that his own indifference
to his family was the root cause of the awful situation he found himself
in; that his reluctance to participate in the rearing of his children planted
the seed for the current scandal that threatened to ruin him and his
family.
Staring in the face of these awful truths, Mr. Bennet did what a
thoughtful and rational individual would do in that situation: he took
responsibility. Specifically, he made a personal oath that he would never
take his family for granted again; and that from now on he would change
his relationship with his children from one of indifference to one of
personal involvement.
And yet, even as Mr. Bennet grappled with his conscience, even as he
acknowledged the root cause of the situation, and even as he promised
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himself that he would change his ways in the future, he was still gripped
by fear and despair of impending disaster for his family. In his state of
desperation, he could only cling to a fleeting hope that somehow life
would spare him and his family from a terrible tragedy.
As fate would have it, life would smile down on Mr. Bennet. Shortly after,
the shaken father receives word from his brother that not only had the
eloped couple been found, but that the two would be returning home as a
married couple; thus ending the taint of scandal for him and his family!
As he read the letter aloud to his daughters, Mr. Bennet knew that his
hopes and prayers had been answered: that the devastating situation
that threatened to ruin his world had been thwarted. With heart-felt
emotion, Mr. Bennet expressed deep gratitude to his brother, as well as
any other force that might have contributed to the elopement’s
resolution. And so in that telling moment of his life, Mr. Bennet
unburdened himself of his terrible anguish and pain, and with deep
emotion thanked his lucky stars.
What had actually occurred was that life had suddenly responded with
overwhelmingly good fortune to Mr. Bennet’s change in attitude. Because
he acknowledged his own culpability in allowing Lydia to run off to the
coast; because he now accepted that he never controlled her wild
behavior in the past; and, most of all, because he came to terms with his
own negligence as a father in rearing his children, life suddenly brought
forth a magnificent response from life.
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From this cursory examination at Pride and Prejudice, we have seen two
powerful instances of life response. On both occasions, situations arose
that challenged an individual’s sensibilities, forcing them to come to grips
with old habits, or wanting attitudes, or limited perceptions and points of
view. When they then shed that limited quality, and substituted a more
positive one, powerful energies were released that quickly aligned with
and attracted powerful positive results.
When Eliza gave up her prejudice and changed her attitude toward Darcy
while visiting his estate, she attracted his presence from out of nowhere,
setting the stage for their romance, marriage, and their ultimate
happiness. Likewise, when Mr. Bennet changed his attitude and took
responsibility for the elopement episode, while promising to involve
himself in the rearing of his daughters, he quickly attracted the
cancellation of the scandal that threatened to destroy him and his family.
In both cases, an inner psychological change in attitude precipitated a
powerful response that changed the course of two people’s lives -- in fact
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a number of people’s lives. By making an inner adjustment in
consciousness, two people were able to take a step out of their narrow
field of existence, and open to a wider one, enabling the infinite
potentials of life to rush in.
Principles and Examples of Life Response
Life Response is the phenomenon by which life suddenly, abundantly, and
miraculously responds on the outside to a corresponding change of our
consciousness within; defying our ordinary conceptions of what is
possible, and the nature of cause and effect, and space and time. E.g.,
you change a wanting attitude, and suddenly a moment later someone
from half way around the world (whom you have never known before)
contacts you with news of a big contract, or a huge monetary gain, or a
dramatic new career opportunity. Here then are several principles and
examples of this miraculous-like phenomenon of life.
• The separation that we perceive between our inner status and the
world around us is an illusion. They are in fact part and parcel of the
same contiguous reality. Therefore, if you change your inner
condition, life outside yourself will instantaneously change in kind,
attracting sudden good fortune.
• A change in attitude will instantly attract sudden good fortune from
the environment. E.g., an individual overcomes her sense of
psychological weakness toward her ruthless boss, and contemplates
addressing the matter in a more forceful way. Before she even acts,
someone suddenly steps forward and takes actions that causes the
boss to unexpectedly act kindly to the first individual; and, several
months, later leads to the manager stepping down from his position.
• If a negative situation suddenly descends on you, discover a
corresponding negative propensity that attracted it, overcome it, and
watch as the problem suddenly dissolves. E.g., a parent sees her child
in great difficulty. She sees how it is indicative of her hostile relations
to another. She overcomes that hostility, and out of nowhere sudden
good fortune descends on that woman.
• If you want someone else to change, change a corresponding wanting
element within yourself. Then life will respond, and circumstances will
change for that party. E.g., a mother who is concerned that her son
has suffered due to lack of unique skills in life, sees that she is not
forceful enough with him, which suddenly causes him to find a
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position that demands the most talent he is capable of, and provides
the most pay of his life.
• If you want to change the world, change the corresponding element in
yourself. E.g., if there is hate between two nations, discover what
irritates you, and life for those nations will begin to suddenly reverse.
• If you want to change a social problem, take a great interest in it,
know all the details, and then offer the problem intensely to the
spiritual Force. The problem will begin to give way. E.g., when a man
saw that a power shortage, going on for months, was crippling his
state, he called the Force, the problem suddenly ended, and has not
appeared since.
• If you want a personal problem to dissipate, offer it intensely to the
spiritual Force. The problem will begin to give way. If it does not, you
must first make an effort to overcome the corresponding wanting
element that precipitated or is otherwise related to the problem. Then
the previous invocation of the Force in tandem with your action will
cause life to quickly move in your favor.
• Any deep interest in a subject will suddenly attract information of a
similar nature. E.g., a man took a great interest in an obscure subject
in the news, and in the days that followed, he saw references to that
subject from a variety of parties, when not only was that subject not
being discussed beforehand, but none of the source providing the
information had any idea that this story was circulating.
• A deep intention to accomplish a thing will attract results very quickly
from the environment. E.g., a man took up an interest in a new
venture. Suddenly he received response from various quarters of life,
even though none of them had been communicated with about his
intention.
• Merely thinking about the reality of inner-outer correspondence and
life response, will attract additional instances of sudden good fortune.
Negative Life Response in Literature and Film
We normally think of the phenomenon of “Life Response” as instances of
sudden good fortune precipitated by taking to higher levels of
consciousness. While this is true, it can occur negatively as well; i.e. life
can respond in ways that are deleterious to our being based on our
wanting inner or outer behavior.
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We can observe this darker side of the phenomenon in several ways:
including its occurrences in our own lives, as well as the lives of others.
However, it is often easier to see this dynamic at work in literature or
film, as we are able to follow the flow of events, and perceive the subtle
ways life responds to the thoughts, feelings, and actions of the
characters. If we do, not only can we learn from such experiences, but
we can use that knowledge to avoid those very same wanting behaviors
that elicit negative outcomes in our own lives.
With that in mind, here are several examples of negative life response I
have garnered from works of literature and contemporary film, which in
some cases were later redeemed by taking to higher consciousness that
cancelled the negative and attracted a positive outcome.
• In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy’s wealthy, aristocratic, and anachronistic
aunt, Lady Catherine tries to block his engagement to Eliza Bennet.
However, it has the opposite effect, as Darcy finds out through his
aunt that Eliza still cares for him! This emboldens Darcy to meet with
Eliza again, where he finds out that she still loves him, causing him to
propose, which she more than gladly accepts. For Lady Catherine, the
result is a completely negative response from life due to her closed-
mindedness (she did not want her nephew marrying someone from a
lower social class), and her meddling in their relationship. Of course,
for Darcy and Eliza it is a fortuitous outcome!
• In that same work, Pride and Prejudice, Eliza Bennet has an
unfortunate crush on Mr. Wickham, a scoundrel if ever there was one.
In one episode, she is miffed that he has not shown up at a festive
gathering of the townspeople. Her anger and frustration is
immediately reflected in life around her, as her sister plays an
intolerable amount of ill-suited music for the ensemble, and her family
members gathered there act rowdy and uncouth-like, embarrassing
Eliza to no end. It is all a negative response to her anger, frustration,
and disappointment.
• In one of Jane Austin’s other novels, Emma, the main character
(Emma) engages in a series of match making efforts that prove
disastrous. Each time she tries to meddle in others’ affairs by
matching people up in relationship, it results in negative
consequences. Though she is warned of this fact by the man she
comes to adore, she does not listen, until the fiasco rises to a
crescendo of absurdity. The resulting calamity is a negative response
to her meddling actions, much of which can be traced to her inability
or unwillingness to have romantic relationships of her own.
Interestingly, when she gives up matchmaking, she quickly discovers
that her best friend is the man she adores, and as it turns out
also adores her. As a result, they fall fully in love and are married.
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(This final outcome is in effect a reversal of the earlier negative
response, through her positive attitude, behavior, and action that
attracts the overwhelming positive.)
• In Gone with the Wind, Rhett and Scarlett are so at odds with one
another. It gets so bad that it leads to downright hate. At the peak of
their hostility, their beloved young daughter is killed in a riding
accident. It is a negative response to their intense, dark feelings and
emotions toward one another.
• In one scene in the film Seabiscuit -- based on a true story about an
underdog racehorse that electrifies America with its successes during
the Great Depression of the 1930s -- we watch as Red, Seabiscuit’s
future jockey, is angry and bitter because his parents have not
contacted him over the years, which reinforces his bitterness about
his continual failure as a rider and boxer. Immediately after, things
falls apart when he has a disastrous race at Tanforan. There is also a
similar incident where he becomes embroiled in a whipping contest
with another jockey during a race, which causes Red to lose focus,
opening the door for another horse's victory. It is a bitter defeat.
Once again, his negative attitudes and feelings -- in this case intense
anger and hostility toward his fellow jockey -- attracted a decidedly
negative outcome.
• In Master and Commander: Far Side of the World, the English Captain
refuses to listen to his crew, including his first mate who feels he is
fanatical in taking a dangerous initiative in pursuing the enemy French
ship. As a result of his inflexibility and obstinate attitude, the crew
attracts a near tragedy when the Captain’s first mate and best friend
almost dies in an accident aboard ship. It is a negative response to
the Captain’s fanaticism and unwillingness to listen to rational
arguments. Shattered by the incident, the Captain perceives his
wanting ways, and returns the ship to the Galapagos Islands so his
friend and first mate can recover. (There is a happy ending to the
story however. As a result of the Captain's shift of attitude and action,
the very same best friend/first mate who has now recovered and gone
on a field trip to collect plant and animal specimens on the island,
ends up spotting the very ship they after on the other side, docked
on-shore in a very vulnerable position! The crew then immediately
sets sail aboard, traverse the island, and destroy the vulnerable,
much larger French enemy vessel, fulfilling their entire military
mission. In other words, because the Captain changed reversed his
attitude and action, they attracted the enemy from out of nowhere,
and succeeded beyond their wildest dreams. It was a complete
reversal from the previous negative life response outcome to a
glorious positive one -- for the Captain, his crew, and his country.
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As in the case of the Captain, we too are capable of observing a negative
outcome, discovering the correspondence in our being, and reversing it,
thereby attracting positive conditions in its place.
Another example of that powerful dynamic occurs for Mr. Bennet in Pride
and Prejudice. At one point in the story, the terrible elopement takes
place in which the youngest Bennet daughter Lydia takes off with the
scoundrel Wickham. As a result, Mr. Bennet is in mortal fear that due to
the brewing scandal his family will be financially and socially ostracized.
In essence, the elopement was a negative response because he was not
serious about rearing his children. allowing his wildest daughter to bring
shame. However, Mr. Bennet comes to recognize his fault, and makes an
inner commitment to be fully involved in the future rearing of his
daughters. As a result of making that decision, life suddenly returns the
favor, when the elopement is very quickly cancelled, when his reckless
daughter is compelled to marry Wickham, thus avoiding a scandal, and
saving Mr. Bennet and his family from financial and social ruin. Thus, out
of the extreme negative situation (which he attracted though his wanting
attitudes), Mr. Bennet reversed himself and attracted a startling positive
outcome.
We too can do the same by taking responsibility when any negative
outcome comes our way. When we then shift our attitudes to the
positive, the negative conditions will quickly evaporate, while attracting
overwhelming positive ones in its place.
Making Life Response Conscious
Sri Aurobindo tells us that there are three levels of awareness for the
individual: that which is subconscious to us, i.e. below the surface of our
normal awareness; that which we are conscious of, i.e. what we do in fact
perceive; and that which is superconscient to us, i.e. a higher, cosmic
consciousness beyond our current level of awareness.
Sudden good fortune -- i.e. “life response” -- can issue from any of the
three. However, the overwhelming majority of the time, it is a
subconscious movement originating from points below our normal state
of awareness. For example, in Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice, Mr.
Darcy’s marriage proposal is turned down by Eliza Bennet, who
considered him proud and arrogant. As a result, he makes the
stupendous effort to change his nature. When he makes that change, life
responds and gives him an opportunity to resolve the elopement episode,
which causes Eliza to change her view of him, leading to a second
marriage proposal that she accepts. The opportunity afforded to Darcy to
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resolve the elopement is life responding to his inner efforts to change his
wanting attitudes. The response itself however was subconscious to him,
for he never intended to attract the circumstance that allowed him to
demonstrate his changed nature, and, as a result, marry Eliza. In fact, in
99% of cases where sudden good fortune comes our way, it was never
our intention to attract it. It was however the “intention” of our
subconscious.
Conscious life response on the other hand has a decidedly different
dynamic. In these situations, there is an active awareness that what is
about to be done inwardly or outwardly will bring about a positive
response from the environment. For example, one not only changes a
wanting attitude, but simultaneously perceives that doing so will evoke a
positive response. This is conscious life response, and is indeed a rare
occurrence. However, it can occur through our conscious choice, and one
way that can happen is by accessing the spiritual dimension. Let me
explain.
If we open to the spiritual Force before undertaking an activity or dealing
with a problem, one is in essence anticipating a positive response from
life, and is therefore a conscious act. For example, if we consecrate an
upcoming important meeting to the Higher Power, and we perceive that a
life response can be generated as a result, then our initiative is a
conscious one. When life then responds, we are overjoyed, yet somehow
not surprised, since we anticipated something along those lines. In
essence, we were aware of, even intended a possibility, which was then
realized, making the process conscious.
Now this does not mean that we cannot practice conscious life response
in other ways, aside from spirit-based consecration. I remember one day,
I was closely observing the signs unfolding around me in anticipation of a
delivery of a computer printer. I knew that if certain things transpired in
a different domain (vacuuming the carpet), that a delivery person would
show up at the door immediately thereafter. In other words, the
vacuuming had nothing outwardly to do with the delivery, and yet I
sensed the association of the two events. As it turned out, the delivery
person arrived precisely at the moment I completed the vacuuming. It
was in essence a conscious life response; in this case, anticipated and
perceived through a subtle understanding of the unfoldings of life.
Let me add one other thought on subconscious response. If we are not
intending sudden good fortune to come about, and yet it does -- i.e. it is
subconscious to us in its origin -- then what is it in us that is evoking it?
From a cosmic perspective, we can say that our shift in consciousness
releases positive energies that align with corresponding positive
conditions across space-time, bringing the fortuitous outcome to our
person. But at what point does the response come about -- i.e. how much
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subconscious effort or energy needs to be released for the response to be
triggered? The answer is that the subconscious awareness needs to reach
a certain level of saturation, and when it does, the response manifests for
us.
For example, we know that goodwill attracts good fortune. Let us say that
over time, I have inwardly and outwardly demonstrated goodwill towards
a business associate, but have noticed no response during that period.
(In fact, I never considered such a possibility since it is subconscious to
me.) But as my positive feeling towards that individual reaches a certain
threshold, I evoke a powerful response from that person’s company in
the form of the biggest business referral of my career that garners the
highest commission of my life. What has happened is that our
subconscious has become saturated at that point, evoking the powerful
response. I.e. behind the scenes, below our conscious level of awareness,
the intensity of our goodwill has reached a tipping point that evoked the
results. In fact, most life response happens just this way -- i.e. it is
saturation of a positive element in our being that is subconscious to our
normal level of awareness.
Interestingly, even if a life response result issued from our conscious
awareness, saturation of intensity, energy, etc, still needs to occur to
attract the result. For example, I have often seen that if a person is
having financial problems or hopes to change a dangerous situation in the
world, it is only when that person’s emotions are so intense that his
energies spill over, compelling the spiritual Force to move into action.
Anything less will not do the trick -- i.e. not evoke the instantaneous
miraculousness of life response.
Therefore, a key to becoming the master of Life Response -- i.e. so it
occurs repeatedly on demand -- is to move the act from the subconscious
to our conscious level of awareness. We do that by (1) becoming aware
of the principles of life response, (2) evoking the right behavior in a given
moment in time, and (3) having the ever-present thought that we will
elicit a response by making that effort. As a result, we will generate far
more and more powerful response in the course of our days.
Life Moving Towards You
The other day I had an extraordinary experience. One after another, life
responded with a series of powerful positive events. It was as if I were on
a magic carpet ride, but rather than being carried aloft, life was coming
to me with one wonderful benefit after another. First, I had a superb
meeting that far exceeded my expectations. Then a financial discussion
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unfolded so wonderfully and speedily for my benefit, I could hardly
believe it. Then a computer operation went far quicker than I would have
imagined. And so forth for nearly two hours. I was left breathless by the
stunning chain of events.
It was at that point that I grasped something truly profound. I
understood clearly for the first time in my life that the only thing that
matters is whether life is moving towards you. Effort, skill, knowledge,
aspiration, strength, action, decision, etc are all fine, but they mean
nothing if life isn't moving toward you bringing it bounty on its own. I
also realized once more that life is alive and conscious, and constantly
responding to the state of our consciousness within.
In fact, life bringing you results on its own without need for outer action
is proof that you are rightly disposed psychologically. More often than
not, it is an indication that you have made a shift toward a more positive
attitude -- perhaps overcoming a reluctance, or shedding a hostility, or
restraining one's self from asserting, or having an inner faith that all will
turn out fine, and so forth. When we take to such attitudes, life moves
towards us "on its own," which is really a reflection of a momentary or
longer-lasting transition we have made in consciousness.
There are also the magical, cosmic occasions when life comes through a
storm of good fortune, as it did for me the other day. All one need do in
such situations is NOT interfere and ride that wave, surrendering to and
having complete trust in the unfolding. Life moving toward one with one
positive event after another is also an indication that you have evoked
the Spirit; often occurring in tandem with a significant transition in
attitude, opinion, or belief. As it turns out, I deeply consecrated that
day's very important activities to the spiritual Force, attracting that two-
hour blizzard of good fortune.
The most important thing that came out of the experience was a
profound new view of existence -- shaking me to the core. I saw that in
terms of success, accomplishment, and fulfillment, all that mattered was
whether or not life is moving in my direction with positive results.
Everything else is mere potential, effort, thought, wish, hope, and dream.
Life coming to you on the other hand is kinetic; it is realization; it is
results; it is effortless fulfillment; and is all that really matters in terms of
accomplishment and fulfillment in life.
As you go about your day, look around and consider if life is moving
toward you through positive, helpful, beneficial events. If so, then you
know are doing something right within. Equate the outer result with a
corresponding shift in consciousness. Now that you know the cause,
repeat it ad infinitum as often and as frequently as possible. The energy
you release will be enormous, though you may not feel it, as it has
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moved in the subtle or subconscious plane. But then at the right time, life
will start moving on its own, which can build up and become a torrent of
successive positive events, occurring in a short, tight timeframe. Then
you too may have a vision of the power of life to move on your behalf,
which will also give you a glimpse of the Marvel behind all existence.
Benefits of Living a Life Response-oriented Life
Life response is the phenomenon where sudden good fortune comes your
way due to shifts in one's consciousness within. For example, when a
challenging situation arises, instead of being skeptical, cynical, or
vindictive, you look on the bright, optimistic, positive side of things,
which quickly attracts a spate of good news thereafter. There are many
inner and outer behaviors that elicit such miraculous-like results -- such
as overcoming a negative attitude, focusing one's intention to accomplish
a thing; even taking to higher levels of cleanliness and orderliness.
In addition, as a result of having these miraculous-like experiences, your
view of life begins to change. If you then orient yourself around this new
understanding, you begin to live a very different sort of existence -- one
that I call a "New Way of Living." Here are several benefits-
• You constantly attract good fortune.
• It descends on you suddenly; and from seemingly out of nowhere.
• It unfolds as a miraculous-like experience.
• It often comes without making any outer effort
• Whatever you want to achieve quickly comes to pass.
• Life continually cooperates with your efforts.
• Everything tends to work out.
• You attract vast success, wealth, health and well-being.
• You are able to control the outer life from within (this is key!)
• Routine life becomes thrilling existence.
• You are energized to no end.
• Joy and Delight of being is your normal state of being.
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• Difficulties tend to quickly dissipate; often turning into vast
opportunities.
• There is a continuous sense of calm and well-being.
• You are continually in harmony with the unfoldings of life.
• You constantly have the knowledge of what to do; and what not to do.
• Whenever you take action, it tends to result in success.
• Your relations with others are harmonious and joyful.
• You constantly look out for others; you are selfless and self-giving.
• People are attracted to you, and want to me near you.
• Everything and everyone you are in contact tends to make progress.
• You have a deep faith that all will work out -- and it usually does.
• You have profound insights into and a comprehensive knowledge of
how life works.
• You perceive your deepest purpose in life.
• You have a profound understanding of the meaning of life.
• Your days constantly unfold like a miracle.
• Every day is occasion for great inner and outer discovery.
• You are able to create the greatest results with the least effort in the
shortest period of time.
• You are constantly growing and evolving as a person.
• You are able to think for yourself -- without being influenced by the
herd.
• Your inner orientation consistently reveals the truth of things.
• Your days are filled with illuminations, intuitions and revelations of
knowledge.
• You feel a deep connection to the universe and the spiritual Reality.
• You feel connected to your True Self and Soul.
• You perceive how your own life fits into the wider, universal scheme
of things.
• Your existence is very different from anything known before.
• You are the Master of your life.
• You are a pioneer and harbinger of a New Way of Living.
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Inner-Outer Correspondence
Character of Life and Inner-Outer Correspondence
just like an individual, life itself also has a character. It expresses in
principles like inner-outer correspondence, i.e. that how the inner me
determines the outer reality, which is the basis of the outcome of the
phenomenon of life response, i.e. sudden good fortune.
Inner-Outer Correspondence is Cause of Life Response
Life response is enabled by the underlying principle of inner-outer
correspondence; that the inner and the outer are not two separate
realities but are part and approval of the same contiguous stream of
existence. I.e. the inner and outer are One. Therefore, if the inner me
changes, the outer instantaneously changes in kind.
Life response occurs due to a shift in consciousness on the part of an
individual that causes that person to move in alignment with positive
conditions that are experienced as an immediate instance of sudden good
fortune.
Inner-Outer Correspondence & Life Response
• Everything on the outside is an expression of our inner condition.
• This laws governing the relationship between the outer and the
inner can be called the principle of "inner-outer correspondence."
• Life outside one's self is a reflection of one's inner consciousness.
• If we make a decisive shift within, life on the outside can suddenly
and abundantly respond on the outside. This is 'life response."
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• The shift of the outer to the inner can occur instantaneously and
at any distance and quantity.
• If life throws up a challenge and we respond in the right way --
e.g. overcome a negative attitude -- life will respond suddenly and
abundantly, overcoming limitations of space and time, and our
notions of what is logical and possible.
The Secret, Life Response, and Inner-Outer Correspondence
The principles and laws of life are subtle, and are mostly unperceived by
humans. However, there has been a recent opening as individuals have
begun to see the power of attraction, in which changes in consciousness
attract sudden good fortune. This is also known as a "Life Response,"
which is based on the life principle of inner-outer correspondence.
Outside Reflects Inside Positively or Negatively
What we experience on the outside is a direct reflection of what we are
inside. I.e. there is a correspondence between our inner psychological
condition -- including our habits, wants, feelings, attitudes, opinions, and
beliefs -- and how the world takes shape outside ourselves. This would
suggest that if we were shift to a more positive psychological condition
inside, life on the outside would instantly respond positively in kind.
Such sudden response of the outer life to our inner condition can take
shape in two ways - positively or negatively. E.g. just after I decide that I
will no longer allow myself to feel negative feelings towards another, I am
informed that I've been selected to head an exciting and lucrative new
project. Inversely, a moment after I feel an intense negative emotion
towards a fellow worker, I am informed that an important project I've
been working has been cancelled.
From this perspective we see that our normal views of what is logical and
possible, of how cause and effect should relate, of how space and time
should function, are rendered obsolete. Instead, we develop a new view,
a new perception of the true subtle association and relationship amongst
objects and individuals in the universe.
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Inner-Outer Correspondence, Oneness, Energy and Force, and Life Response
In our analysis of the guiding principles behind the phenomenon of life,
we have come to recognize a correspondence between our inner state of
consciousness and how life reflects outside ourselves. We have identified
this as the principle inner-outer correspondence.
Moreover, we have suggested that this principle is made possible because
there is a subtle unifying force and energy behind all existence that binds
all objects and individuals in the universe across space and time. This
unifying mechanism enables the correspondence and connection that we
have pointed out between what we are inside ourselves, i.e. our
consciousness, and the world around us.
Finally, we have determined that within this associative framework, a
change of consciousness -- expressed through transitions in our opinions,
thoughts, habits, knowledge, insights, decisions, and actions -- intensifies
the subtle connection between ourselves and corresponding objects and
individuals across space and time, enabling a return of energy from that
element, which we experience as a sudden abundant positive response
from life.
An Astonishing Association
One day a computer instructor noticed that he had not secured enough
work for the upcoming Christmas/New Year season. Without the income
generated by the work, he would be hard-pressed to pay his bills. Though
he made an effort to secure new work for this normally slow holiday
season, nothing came of it. On the other hand, life had presented him
with the opportunity to learn a new software technology. Since this was a
slow work period, it seemed like an ideal time to take up the studies.
Unfortunately, his heart was not into it, and instead dwelled on his lack of
work and potential financial problems that could erupt at any time.
However, when he considered the issue again, he had a change of heart,
realizing that his attitude about the opportunity was wrong. As a result,
he decided to take up the work and plunged himself into learning the
application. Interestingly, the next day he received a call from his agent
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informing him that the entire holiday season had now been booked with
computer instruction work!
From this true-life example, we see that what we experience on the
outside is a direct reflection of our consciousness within. There seems to
be a correspondence between our inner psychological condition -- our
habits, wants, feelings, attitudes, opinions, and beliefs -- and how the
world takes shape around us. This suggests that if we were constantly
shifting to the positive, the world would continuously respond in our
favor.
Interestingly, life's response to our consciousness can take shape in two
ways -- positively or negatively. E.g. just after I decide that I will no
longer be negative towards a co-worker, I am informed that I've been
selected to head an exciting, bonus-filled project in my company. This is
a positive response to a more positive attitude. Inversely, a moment after
I feel an intense negative emotion towards a fellow worker, I'm informed
that an important project I have been looking forward to starting has
suddenly been cancelled. This is a negative response to a wrong-headed
attitude and emotion.
From this perspective, we see that our normal view of life -- of what is
logical and possible, of how cause and effect interrelate, of how space
and time function -- is rendered obsolete. Instead, we develop a new
perception of the connection and association between objects and
individuals in the universe. It is the principle of "inner-outer
correspondence" in action.
Remarkably, recent developments in quantum physics confirm this
correspondence. Scientific experiments have shown that two particles of
matter can affect one another even though they are on opposite sides of
the globe, or even the universe! Scientists have conclusively proven that
if an electron of a single atom shifts its spin direction, a second electron
of that same atom hundreds or even thousands of miles away will
suddenly begin to shift its spin as well. This phenomenon of "non-local
connections" is a physical version of the universal principle of inner-outer
correspondence that we are addressing here. It accounts not only for the
subtle association between material objects, but to our emotions,
feelings, attitudes, and decisions as well. When we make an inner
change, we can affect conditions and attract positive circumstance
instantaneously from anywhere in the world.
Still we are compelled to ask: why does this singularity exist? What
enables this startling association between our consciousness and the
world around us? The short answer is that everything in the universe is
related in consciousness. All existence, seen or unseen forms a unity of
relations, associations, and purposes. Thus, the separation we ordinarily
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make between our consciousness within and the world outside ourselves
is an illusion, a falsehood rooted in a fundamental ignorance of our being.
However, as we rise in consciousness, as we move to a deeper poise
within, we begin to perceive that essential oneness and unity behind all
existence that enables this fantastic relationships amongst objects and
individuals in creation.
Moving Life from Within as Harbinger of New Way of Living
Normally to achieve in life we develop a level of intent for something to
come about, and then act on it. Without following this process of inner
intention followed by outer activity, little is accomplished. This is the
method we have instinctively learned for a thousand generations. And yet
this approach may not be the preferred approach in the future -- at least
for a potential group of emerging individuals whose orientation is no
longer determined outwardly by social influence, but inwardly as a
Spiritual Individual.
For the person of the future will move life from within himself, as he will
be able to harness vast inner powers and in effect dramatically reduce
the amount of outer action required on our part to produce a result. In
addition, the outer results that do come from this inner orientation and
approach will unfold miraculous-like -- i.e. suddenly and abundantly. Let
me provide a simple true-life example.
An individual is frustrated that a friend of his does not readily take to
higher levels of cleanliness and orderliness. He has suggested to her
often that organizing her papers will improve her life -- i.e. attract sudden
good fortune -- but to no avail. One day, he is about to make that same
suggestion again after several untoward minor events, but instead he
withholds his insistence. He then goes a step further by releasing the
intensity and emotions behind his intent, to the point where he is able to
forget the matter entirely. Soon thereafter, he is stunned to find out that
the woman has suddenly begun organizing all of her business papers -- a
highly unusual occurrence -- without any prodding on his part. In fact,
this behavior would continue on in the weeks ahead. Somehow, she was
moved to carry out his inner-directed behavior of non-insistence. Life
then responded to his effort of self-control, which brought about the
object of his desire. (It also brought good benefit for her as well, as she
now has a more organized environment, which itself has the potential to
attract its own sudden good fortune.)
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The life of the future man is then to move life around one's self from
within, with minimal communication of one's intention or other forms of
outer action.
There was an Indian saddhu who lived alone and apart from normal life,
and yet maintained a deep concentration within, taking fully to the life of
the spirit. There was also a beloved king who was nearly the opposite --
as he had vast influence, power, and fortune. One day there arose an
opportunity to build a great temple in honor of the spiritual personality of
Krishna. From his side, the king marshaled all of his resources to plan the
temple; while the humble saddhu -- deeply devoted to an inner life of the
spirit -- imagined from his deepest consciousness within what the edifice
should be like. At no point did he reveal his conception and intentions to
others.
Five hundred years ago, a wealthy, noble and enlightened king in South
India decided to dedicate the last years of his life to the construction of a
magnificent temple to Lord Krishna. The task involved the labor of
thousands of workers and skilled artisans over a period of more than 10
years. As the work progressed, the king turned more and more to prayer
and meditation and gradually withdrew from day to day affairs.
One day while the king was meditating, he had a vision of Lord Krishna.
Krishna appeared in a resplendent form and asked the king what boon he
would like. The king asked Krishna to install his spiritual presence in the
new temple on the auspicious day selected by the astrologers for
anointing the inner sanctum. Krishna smiled benevolently at the king and
replied, "I am sorry, but I have to sanctify another temple that is being
completed on that day at a far off village in your kingdom." Then the
vision vanished.
The king awoke and was startled to contemplate what the vision had told
him. It was almost unthinkable that anyone but a king could have the
resources needed to build a temple and it was inconceivable that any
temple could be constructed in his kingdom without the king's knowledge.
The king called his ministers and inquired about the other temple. No one
could provide any information. Then he called for a retinue of horse
guards and immediately set off to the distant village to inquire personally.
When the king reached the village he called the head man and asked
about the temple. The village elder looked puzzled and assured the king
that no temple was under construction in the village. Indeed, in such a
poor village it was simply not possible. When the king persisted, the elder
advised him to consult a wise old hermit in the village. The king asked to
be taken to the hermit.
The king entered the man's hut and found him sitting on the ground in
mediation in lotus position. When the king knelt before him, the hermit
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opened his eyes and bowed humbly to his monarch. The king explained
the reason for his coming and asked the hermit if he could explain the
strange vision of Krishna. The hermit nodded and smiled. "Yes, great
king, I can explain it. It is I who am constructing a temple to Lord
Krishna and sanctifying on the very day you mention. I prayed to Krishna
to consecrate my offering on that day and he has consented." The king
was baffled by the hermit's words. After a few moments, he asked, "But
where is this temple you speak of? How is it that no one has seen or
heard of it? How could one single man construct it?" The hermit smiled
again and then replied, "Oh King. I have constructed the temple to
Krishna in my heart, stone by stone, brick by brick for the past 10 years."
Then the man fell silent.
The king sat in bewilderment. Then knowledge dawned upon him. He
realized suddenly that the temple he was constructing in the capitol was
the yogi's temple. He was only the outer instrument. The true creator
was this poor, humble devotee. The yogi created the temple within. Life,
in the form of the king, responded to his aspiration and fulfilled it in the
external world.
Over the years I have made an explicit effort to capture incidents where
individuals were able to instantaneously move life outside themselves
from within -- experiences that I call instances of "life response." There
are a variety of ways this phenomenon can occur. As we see in one
episode above, it can happen by withholding our insistence on a thing,
which involves blocking a demanding emotion and not expressing it on
the outside. Life response can also occur by simply not expressing a
thought we are eager to communicate to another. Doing so causes
subtle, invisible thought and emotive waves to be generated, which then
move out into the field of life, are picked up by another individual, who
express it as if it were their own. To withhold verbal expression of our
intent and another suddenly express it is to practice the discipline of
"Silent Will."
There are a number of other such laws and principles that generate life
response -- where sudden good fortune comes to us as a result of taking
to certain inner behaviors. Perhaps the most powerful one is to identify
and then change one of our negative attitudes. When we do so, life
suddenly springs into action and attracts overwhelming good fortune --
often arriving from the most unexpected of quarters. E.g., A huge order
is placed by a client whom we have never contacted; a job offer doubling
our salary rolls in from out of nowhere; a dispute we thought was
hopeless, suddenly gets resolved; a project delayed unexpectedly gains
transaction, and so forth. Life responds to us because we shifted our
negative point of view to the positive, which mysteriously attracts life on
our behalf.
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Though on the surface this does not seem plausible, yet it is the way life
works. This miraculous unfolding is constantly occurring just below our
surface level of awareness. When we move our center of consciousness to
a deeper poise, and examine the world from this state of "silent witness,"
we see that our movements within are constantly evoking a response
from the world outside ourselves
Refraining from expression our intention is the very opposite of what we
have been taught about human achievement. Through hundreds of
generations, we have been told to acquire a skill, seek out the object of
our desire, and when we discover it, do your duty practically and
diligently. And yet, directing the course of life from within is a far more
effective and efficient overall approach to accomplishment. It enables the
greatest result in the shortest period of time with the least effort.
Individuals who have this inner-orientation have been known to evoke
miraculous-like results -- such as suddenly ending a serious energy crisis,
or even resolving conflicts and wars. Sounds far-fetched? Once you have
had the experience of achieving without having to move a muscle or
communicate a thought, then you begin to see life with very different
eyes. Then the world is perceived as an endless opportunity awaiting our
beck and call; all instantaneously accessible from within. At that point,
we will have taken a decisive step toward a very different sort of
existence -- one that I call a "New Way of Living".
The Web of Life
And yet if everything is inextricably related in the cosmos, there must be
some mechanism that allows for this harmonic association. There must
be some coordinating system that connects individuals and objects to
related circumstance across space and time.
We can imagine that all things -- individuals, objects, forces, energies --
are connected in an organized pattern across a vast "web" of life. Along
this web, corresponding and associated physical, vital, mental, and
spiritual entities interrelate and interact. E.g., when life presses on me
and I make the choice to make a decisive change in my attitude, I set in
motion a force, a vibration, a disturbance, along one or more of the
strands or pathways of this web I am related to. When that occurs,
corresponding elements or individuals along that particular strand
respond and "track back" to us as we align with their unfoldings,
appearing as an instance of sudden good fortune to our person.
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Just as a telecommunication system responds to pulses of energy by
instantly sending currents of force back to the originating party, so to
changes in consciousness release energies that attract and align with
corresponding conditions along the grid. In this ultra-subtle organized
field of existence, time, space, finiteness, and limitation of the possible
are replaced by no-time, spacelessness, and a limitless possibility.
Mira Alfassa, the individual known to her followers as "The Mother"•, and
a partner of the Indian sage and seer Sri Aurobindo commented on this
web of life in the early 1970s:
"I have a curious impression of a kind of web -- a web with ... like
very loose threads, I mean not tightly meshed, connecting all events,
and if you have power over one of these webs, there's a whole field of
circumstances that apparently have nothing to do with each other but
which are linked together there in such a way that one necessarily
implies the existence of the other ... And I have the impression it's
something that envelops the earth.
And it's not mental. They are circumstances that depend on one another,
in a completely invisible way outwardly, without any mental logic, and yet
as though connected to one another.
If you are conscious, really conscious of that, that's how you can change
circumstances."
Again, one wonders why such a thing would exist in the first place. What
could account for such a profound organizing mechanism, with the
capacity to channel, coordinate, and associate all of life's energies and all
of life's elements and beings across the cosmos?
Our own view is that behind all existence there is a spiritual element that
enables and supports this ultra organized intelligence. Every part of our
being, as well as every aspect, element, object, and being in the universe
contains, and is supported by a hidden spiritual essence. From out of this
originating power has emerged a vast, subtle (i.e. invisible) system of
organization, reflecting an essential integral Knowledge, Wisdom, and
Consciousness of that Infinite Being behind. And it is the foundation
through which the Web of Life and the principle of Inner-Outer
Correspondence is made possible.
Self-Analysis
Think of one or two important problems or challenges you are having in
life. Analyze it in terms of a corresponding weakness on your part --
whether a wanting attitude, belief, habit, decision, or action.
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Now consider how to overcome that limitation, and act on it ASAP. Then
watch as life respond in your favor, reflecting on the outside your new
view, perspectives, awareness within.
On the Nature of Luck
A reader asked about the nature of Luck, the role of astrology to predict
it, and if some have special native capacities to evoke it.
Luck is really just another name for "life response," i.e. good fortune
suddenly or rapidly descending on an individual from seemingly out of
nowhere. Thus, luck, life response, good fortune, attraction are different
names for the same phenomenon.
Moreover, Luck is not a haphazard and random phenomenon, but follows
identifiable patterns and principles of life. It is also a subject that has
been addressed throughout history -- from the ancient scriptures of the
Upanishads to modern works like The Secret.
Then what is the cause of Luck? It is due to a shift in one's consciousness
to a higher plane in a moment or circumstance. And that outcome is
rooted in the principle of "inner-outer correspondence." It states that life
outside ourselves is a reflection of our inner condition. Therefore, if we
raise our consciousness in some manner, life quickly responds in kind, as
we move in alignment with corresponding positive conditions.
Luck therefore is not what happens serendipitously, coincidentally,
randomly, or per chance; but is rather a product of our inner condition in
a given moment in time, or over a longer period.
(By the way, this also works in the reverse. When there is a lower or
lessening of one's consciousness, we attract ill-fortune -- i.e. we become
unlucky.)
Then what about astrology? Can it foresee our Luck, our future fortune?
It is true that astrology does have a vast predictive power, especially in
its purer forms. And yet we cannot recommend it as a method for future
guidance. Rather, we should depend on our own capacity to raise our
consciousness and being. We can do so by utilizing subtle methods --
such as practicing non-reaction in the face of intense circumstance,
shedding a wanting attitude about others or life, by deeply focusing our
intention to accomplish a thing, by being self-giving to others instead of
being selfish, and by continually opening to the spiritual Force. Taking up
any of these approaches will quickly evoke powerful instances of Luck, no
matter what the astrological tables indicate. In essence, our inner
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psychological and spiritual capacity to raise our consciousness cancels the
karma that astrology depends on.
Then what about people who are said to have special power to evoke
Luck? Well, it is true that we are each born into this world with different
levels of consciousness (knowledge, skill capacity, character, energy,
etc.). Some individuals are even said to have an old or ripe soul, while
others are known to have a child soul. Natively, the former attract Luck,
while the latter have the potential to do so.
Also, those who develop a steady will to develop themselves, inwardly
and outwardly, tend to attract good fortune; i.e. evoke Luck into their
lives. This is the path or progress open to each and every one of us.
Then there are certain individuals who have a great destiny; who are
linked to universal vibrations, and their actions -- psychological and
physical -- evoke powerful response from life. Winston Churchill and Bill
Gates come to mind.
Finally, there are individuals who have given themselves to a spiritual life,
and become instrument of the Divine Grace, evoking super-Luck for
themselves and the world. Sri Aurobindo is one example. Through His
profound inner, spirit-oriented action he attracted the end of World War
II, and then Indian independence on his birthday. Such individuals come
to change the world, are vessels of a Higher Will, bringing Luck to the
entire world. They are known as "avatars" in some quarters, as they are
instruments of evolution of that time and place.
One other interesting aspect of Luck is that it occasionally happens in
waves as one goes through what one considers a "lucky period." What
would account for this dynamic? It must be because our consciousness
has risen to a critical level and tipping point relative to circumstance,
which concentrates and releases a great amount of energy, which attracts
a plethora of good fortune from a number of quarters. Tracking,
measuring, and understanding such bursts of luck/good fortune would
make a fascinating study, and would help us evoke waves of Luck of our
own.
Finally, we should note that the formation of the universe is itself the
ultimate expression of Luck. The Divine concentrated Its Intent and
sought/seeks to extend its own Delight, enabling a universe of infinitely
variable forms to express that Delight. It is the ultimate stroke of Luck,
as life in cosmos emerged with the infinite potential to embody the Divine
aspects of Truth, Oneness, Creativity, Beauty, Delight, and Love.
Likewise, we too can follow that same process in our own lives, and
evoke good or great fortune. I.e. we can engage in the Process of
Creation and Accomplishment in all its aspects -- from envisioning a
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thing; to organizing the details; to executing it with determination, high
skills, and right attitudes; all the while opening to the spiritual Force.
That will in turn evoke ultimate Luck for ourselves, as life cooperates
from all quarters, fulfilling our heart's desire, and then some.
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Parallel Events (Simultaneity), Synchronicities
Simultaneity of Events
The Character of Life reveals itself through a variety of principles. Inner-
Outer Correspondence -- the basis of Life response -- is one.
Predecessor/Successor Events is another. A third is Simultaneity of
Events. It can be explained as follows:
Acts and events that occur at the same time are related at the level of
life, no matter how unconnected they appear to be on the surface. The
relation sometimes reveals later on as a physical connection between
people or events. Often it represents a psychological parallel between the
thoughts or attitudes of different people that only reveals to careful
observation. Regardless of appearances, simultaneous events are always
related. There are NO exceptions.
Here are some examples:
-Two partners are arguing over the future direction of their line of
designs. Meanwhile, at the very same time their staff has started
quarrelling over the fact that they are overworked. These two events are
parallel and related. The quarrelling staff is a reflection of the owners'
conflict over the future direction of the line. The disharmony of the staff is
reflected in the partners' quarreling.
-A man received an email from a friend at the same time that an order
came in from a client. These were the only two emails he received at that
time. It turns out that the client's organization had the same ethical and
spiritual interests as the friend's.
-In San Francisco Bay, a ship hits the Bay Bridge spilling 60,000 gallons
of oil, blackening beaches and marshes, wildlife, and their habitat. At the
same time, the following news is reported: "In First Bush Veto Override,
Senate Enacts Water Bill." The lack of consciousness that the president
shares, reflects in the spill. The local spill due to whatever factor is
represented in the leader's ignorance.
-"On a quiet Wednesday morning last August, Senators Chris Dodd and
Chuck Hagel held a news conference in Washington to discuss what they
felt was a critical issue: the nation's deteriorating infrastructure. The
press was not impressed. Only a handful of reporters showed up to listen
to their contention that a real crisis was at hand. That evening, during
rush hour, the Interstate 35W Bridge over the Mississippi River in
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Minneapolis collapsed, plunging vehicles 60 feet into the river and killing
13 people." (from Bob Herbert's New York Times column of 1/29/08)
-The print in a critically important book used by a small organization
begins to suddenly fade for the custodian and champion at the very same
time that one of the key members of the firm is nearly shot by accident in
a distant city. The misfortune is simultaneous, and common attitudes
behind both are later revealed.
-Two individuals who have not spoken to one another in months and live
far apart reveal to one another that both their car windshields had been
utterly shattered that week due to some unknown cause on the highway.
They agree that some malevolent subtle force was at work.
-The volcano erupts in Iceland spewing ash over Northern Europe, but
not the South. At the time the Northern European members of the EU are
disenchanted with the financial situation of the southern members, and
are reluctant to help them out, especially the UK and Germany where the
ash is heaviest. The eruption is indicative of the consciousness of the
northern EU members towards its southern cousins.
-Two nights ago, I sat out on my back porch. I looked towards the East
and I noticed Mars, which had a yellow/orange glow. I also saw airplanes
in the sky. I then looked again at Mars and saw a very dim object off to
its side. At first, I thought it was an airplane, but then when I looked
closer, I saw that it was a satellite, silently traversing the night sky. As I
watched it move, I noticed that it was heading in the direction of Mars.
Then incredibly, it bisected Mars from my vantage point!
Then I thought about the fact that the day before, they had broadcast
pictures back to earth showing how the Mars Lander had captured some
ice, which is perhaps the biggest breakthrough so far concerning the
possibility of life on Mars. I then understood the connection between the
satellite I saw crossing in front of Mars and this scientific, historical
development.
Then this morning I "coincidentally" read something else about Mars: that
it is now at the closest point to earth in the last 68,000 years! The
synchronicity and simultaneity of events were truly awe-inspiring.
Perceiving Parallel Events
Synchronicities, simultaneity, and parallel events -- names for same basic
phenomenon -- are happening all of the time, every minute of the day if
we only choose to observe them. For example, just today I was looking
up the site statistics for the Growth Online site. One area that intrigued
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me was the pages or graphics that were being accessed the most in
terms of the total bytes downloaded by the visitor. I was surprised to see
that one of the graphics had the greatest total bytes downloaded in the
recent period. It was for an embedded ad for the Kindle book reader sold
by Amazon that is displayed on a number of Growth Online pages. I had
never noticed that in the statistics reports before.
At nearly the instant I noted this fact, I received a call from a colleague
who had not contacted me in over a month. Immediately I saw the
connection between his call and the Kindle statistic I had just noticed.
Why did I make this association? It was because it was this friend who
informed me of the Kindle reader in the first place a year or two ago! And
now he calls instantaneous to my seeing the data for that item. A
coincidence, you ask? Of course not. It is a connection that was made
previously that now presents itself once again. This shows how
corresponding pairs related in space and time move in tandem,
overcoming normally perceived boundaries of cause and effect, and space
and time.
Thus, the universe is constantly separating and rejoining those pairs to
the degree that we focus our attention on one of them. It is a
phenomenon that is constantly occurring just below the radar of our
consciousness. If, however, we are alert, we can observe a steady stream
of simultaneous and parallel events throughout our day.
Consider several similar examples:
• We take an interest in a subject, such as a music group we had not
thought of in years, and a report about them appears on the TV 10
minutes later, even though they have not been heard from for 20
years.
• A man received an email from a friend, at the same time that an
order came in from a client. These were his only two emails. It turns
out that the client's organization had the very same ethical and
spiritual interests as the friend.
Every day dozens of such events occur if only we only have the
wherewithal to connect the dots. When we grow in consciousness and
become more mindful, the perceived parallelism become so frequent and
striking that all we have to do is open our eyes
Furthermore, as we witness these miraculous-like associations, we begin
to perceive a cosmic Intelligence at work, in which all and everything
appears to be connected. At that point, we will have taken a decisive step
toward understanding life's great mysteries. If we then go a step further
and learn to master this power -- i.e. to evoke these responses
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consciously, on demand -- then we will approach the Marvel behind all
creation.
Parallel Events in the World
If we look closely and examine life we will see how two events, miles or
even continents apart will arise at the same time related to the same
matter. Normally we do not perceive these parallel events, but if we do,
we pass it off as mere coincidence. Rather they are related by their
shared vibration and energy.
Recently in the US, beloved TV news interviewer and reporter Tim
Russert died a relatively young man. It was a terrible blow for the US and
shocked the nation. It was the main, bold headline in the New York Times
accompanied by a striking picture. Next to it was another world headline,
this about Ireland's rejection of new standards for the European Union,
perhaps the most important change for that institution in a decade. When
I saw the two stores side by side, I sensed a connection. I then went to
Wikipedia and discovered that indeed Tim Russert was of Irish American
parents. The connection Irish between the two events was unmistakable.
If we exercise our minds a bit, we can find such associations everywhere
-- especially in the news, in history, in literature -- even in our own lives.
Even when we make this astonishing discovery, we can probe deeper and
see further parallel associations. E.g. when I thought further on the
Russert-Ireland connection, I saw yet a third connection. I realized that
at the very same time, the Boston Celtics had for all intensive purposes
secured the National Basketball Association (NBA) championship the night
before, their biggest breakthrough for the team 22 years. The motto of
the team is "the luck of the Irish," and their mascot is a leprechaun.
(Boston is the predominant home of the Irish American community in the
US.) Thus, the parallel events are extended a step further.
Powerful but subtle, unseen energies are released by a central event, and
related matters spontaneously arise with them in time. Deeper insight
and the discovery of guiding principles of why this occurs is worthy of a
great study. For now, we can speak of energies that move out into the
field of life and align with corresponding circumstance that causes this
synchronistic, parallel effect. If you are an avid reader of newspapers and
keep an eye out, you will see this occurring quite frequently. Do not,
however, consider these random events and coincidence, for there is
absolutely no such thing. They are deeply connected associations that are
integrally related.
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There is something deeper still going on. Are ability to associate these
connection is an indicator that Man is ready to go beyond the limiting
logic of his current exclusive mind. That he is ready to perceive the
deeper laws of life, such as life response, the power of attraction, and the
synchronicity and parallelism that this article addresses. It is in fact a
harbinger of the transition being from our current human functioning to a
supra-human existence. It is but one of several signs of emergence of a
New Way of Living based on integral perfection and the spiritual
dimension of life.
Focusing on Something Attracts More of It Instantaneously
Life is subtle, but we miss the profound connections that it is constantly
presenting to us in the course of our day. One dimension of that subtlety
is that life is always responding to the things we are focused on with
additional related information from seemingly out of nowhere.
E.g. in the communication program Skype, the names of ongoing friends
who have come online for the program pop-up in a corner of my screen,
even when the program is not open. I only have about a dozen Skype
contacts, so the pop-up does not occur very often. Moreover, most of
these people whose names pop-up I have not been in direct contact with
for a long while, and had no plans to contact them for now.
Meanwhile throughout the day I work in various other software programs
on the computer. Well it turns out that as soon as I enter some
information in these other programs and really focus on that task, a
person instantly pops in Skype up who is very closely related to the very
specific work I am currently engaged in! They have no idea I am doing
this work. It just spontaneously occurs on its own.
E.g. I enter the Excel application for the first time in a long time and out
of the blue my friend who I have not spoken to in months suddenly pops
up in Skype for the first time in a long time. I then realize that this
individual was very much interested in learning Excel from me. Hence I
attract them at that very moment.
Or I am focusing on the importance of business values as I develop a
PowerPoint presentation, and the person who wrote eloquently on the
subject many years ago suddenly appears as a Skype pop-up in the lower
right corner of my screen instantaneous to my having the biggest
inspiration of the day on that subject. No one else pops up but him during
this time.
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This extraordinary subtle synchronous dynamic happens with an
instantaneous precision, down to the second, and occurs perhaps 10
times a day. (And that includes only the times I am conscious enough to
realize it.)
It shows that all is connected in space and time; that we have powerful
relationships with certain people, ideas, events that interconnect and are
associative in the non-material world. This subtle dimension of life that
most of us miss completely is often referred to as “synchronicity” in
popular parlance. It is in fact a particular form of synchronicity that we
refer to as “parallelism.”
Life bringing more information to the things we are currently focused on -
- in the form of Skype pop-ups from the exact related person; sudden out
of the blue phone calls from such a person; related content in
newspapers, magazines and in the news related to the topic focused on;
etc. -- are very common experiences of those who have the inner
wherewithal and vision to perceive them.
Obama – Solyndra – Solar City Synchronicity
If we look deep enough we will find synchronicities, also called
“parallelisms” everywhere in life, which are linked phenomenon that on
the surface don’t seem to have anything in common, yet are really deeply
connected. With a little effort, we can see this phenomenon at work every
day. E.g. here is one I noticed today.
Five years ago US President Obama took up an initiative to support the
growth of alternate energy in America. Part of that initiative was to fund
several up and coming wind and solar companies with big cash infusions.
One of them was a company named “Solyndra.” Unfortunately, after a
great start and mass infusion of funds by the US government, the
company failed. It closed its doors in Silicon Valley, and the giant facility
has remained empty since then. Detractors lambasted the president for
this effort, as they were always ready to debunk his efforts. Even support
from his own party was withdrawn after the apparent Solyndra fiasco.
Yet in the years that followed something very opposite occurred as a
boom in alternative energy occurred amongst the emerging startups in
the Valley, far surpassing all expectations. In fact, Obama’s initiative
seems to have turned on an entire new segment in Silicon Valley, with
expanding innovation and jobs. Still gratitude for his efforts was
shortcoming.
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Five years later – i.e. today – President Obama appeared in Silicon Valley
(San Francisco Bay Area in California) to discuss the important issue of
cyber-security. He had made the concerted effort to come out to SV to
inform business of the common threat they share with government in
overcoming cyber-crime, from within the county and without.
Well as it turned out that not an hour or two after completing his
remarks, it was announced from that the empty former Solyndra facility
has now been taken over by another company Solar City, a very
successful solar energy company in the Valley. It was in essence the final
vindication of the Obama initiative, cancelling the last traces of failure in
the president’s efforts. To me this revelation was a startling “coincidence”
coming just after Obama made his intense plea for companies in the
Valley to cooperate with him on this thorny security issue. These two
events, seemingly separate and apart, with little to do with one another
on the surface were at a deeper level aligned in space and time, as they
both together served multiple purposes in Life.
If we focus our attention and closely examine events around us, we will
begin to observe all manner of synchronicities and parallelism occurring.
We only have to identify the subtle correlation between these seemingly
unrelated events. Once you perceive one such correlation, more will
appear before your eyes. Eg you think of a singer and instantly his voice
appears on the PA, though you haven’t heard his voice in in that location
in two decades. Or you discuss with someone a person you had met
decades ago, and within ten seconds someone walks by who looks
exactly like that individual. And so on and so forth for any and all
circumstance you come in contact with.
It is another indication that all things in the universe have a subtle
internal connection and relation that is unseen on the surface. That when
one thing occurs in life, other subtly related things also come into play.
To be able to see such seemingly disconnected circumstance as deeply
related requires a capacity for subtle observation of life conditions.
It is also to understand that there is an essential Oneness in life, instead
of the division and separateness we see through our surface view. It is to
increasingly comprehend that no matter how separate, apart,
disconnected events and circumstances appear on the surface, they are
secretly, integrally related in the depths. Synchronicities, parallelisms,
and similar phenomenon are subtle reminders of the Oneness of life,
including the spiritual Source behind all existence.
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Background to Writing My Book On 'The Life Divine' (And A Wonderful Response)
Though I had read the book several times before, in 1999 Garry Jacobs
held a small weekend seminar I attended at his home in Napa, California
on the subject of 'The Life Divine' by Sri Aurobindo. I began then and
there to understand the contents of the great spiritual tome in new,
unimagined ways. And so around seven years ago I plunged into the
book in earnest, carefully gathering the most salient point of each
chapter.
A few years after that I embarked on writing my own chapter-by-chapter
analysis of Life Divine, working on it in my spare time, mostly during the
Christmas and New Year’s season when there was some quiet time.
Along the way I read Garry's wonderful book ‘Lectures on Life Divine,’
which was a more advanced version of the fine presentations he gave in
the late 90s. Then in the years that followed I regularly reviewed
Karmayogi’s online notes on Life Divine and Pride and Prejudice, and
occasionally dropped in on Garry's nightly online discussions of that
content with a small group of devotees. In recent years I listened to
Garry's monthly lectures on each chapter that he continues to present till
this day, and regularly perused Karmayogi’s accompanying vast, detailed
notes. I also went through and gathered important statements related to
Life Divine from Garry's great novel The Book for more clues into Sri
Aurobindo’s vast, cosmic work.
And so after all these years I finally finished a first solid draft of the book
'An Analysis of Sri Aurobindo's The Life Divine.' It happened yesterday.
My book is now approaching 500 pages, though I know it could easily be
double that if I were to delve into many of the other principles Appa has
revealed from His book, or even if I were to flesh out the ones I have
already addressed. It is an on-going project and work that I hope to
enhance over time.
Secretly, the book was actually written for myself, so I could understand
the concepts more clearly, and hopefully at some point apply them in my
life. If others read the book, so much the better, but I didn’t have any
great expectations in that regard.
It turns out that I also had a wonderful little life response related to this
subject. Yesterday, on the very day I felt the first draft was complete, I
received a call from a friend who I had not spoken to in a while, but who
surprised me at the outset of the conversation with his remark that he
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has been utterly thrilled by his first reading of The Life Divine. Rather
than talk about his family, his new business, etc. he was just bursting
with enthusiasm about his experiences reading the book.
It was naturally a starling response for me having just finished my first
full draft after all those years just a few hours earlier. It was doubly
remarkable because this individual hadn’t shown any inclination to read
any of Mother’s or Bhagavan’s works. And yet on that same day of
completing the book, someone called to narrate their thrilling first
encounter with Sri Aurobindo’s master work. It was gratifying to say the
least.
Cosmic Causality vs. Synchronous Alignment in Life Response
Quantum "entanglement" is the scientific explanation of the phenomenon
of life response; i.e. sudden good fortune precipitated by one's shift in
consciousness.
I had assumed according to the science if say an electron on one side of
the universe changes its directional spin, another one on the other side of
the universe in which there is an "inner relationship" will do the same. It
is a cosmic cause and effect across space and time; infinitely faster than
the speed of light, as it is instantaneous.
However, recent discoveries or at least theories in quantum entanglement
indicate that the two electrons change their spin at the exact same
moment, suggesting not so much a cosmic causality at work, but a
simultaneous synchronicity. In layman terms, a perfect ALIGNMENT of
the two. They do their cosmic synchronous dance at once and together.
So when in Pride and Prejudice Darcy and Eliza startlingly meet at the
pond of his estate at Pemberley, it is not because she changed her ways
and she thereby attracted his arrival, but rather because she changed her
ways she became synchronous with him in space and time. In other
words, they moved in perfect Alignment.
This explanation is more in line with recent scientific understanding of
entanglement, though science has a way to go before it realizes the
subtle causality perceived through a spiritual perspective.
There is yet another issue: how this Alignment theory squares with the
Equilibrium of energies dynamic of explaining the life response
phenomenon, which appears to lean toward cosmic causality (i.e. cause
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and effect, as between those two electrons or Darcy and Eliza) rather
than simultaneity of Alignment!
On the other hand, maybe everything squares after all, but we don't yet
know how to express it in mental terms. There is obviously still a lot to
learn.
Piano Synchronicity and the Power of Intention
A long-time friend of mine who was staying with his elderly parents
decided that he wanted to take up the piano after many years of guitar
and other music playing. He would start from scratch. His strategy was to
pick out 10 songs he was familiar with and then try to figure it out on the
piano.
At the residence there was a recreation area where others could come in
and play the instrument, though the piano itself was hardly ever used,
especially during this particular season of the year.
Just as the man dedicated himself to learning the first song on the
instrument, giving up all hesitation and taking an action, a couple walked
into the condo music room and b-lined it straight for the piano where he
was sitting. No one hardly ever came to this area, yet right at the
moment he decided to practice the composition the couple arrived. When
the man asked the woman (who was approximately the same age) why
she marched over to the piano, she said with smiling enthusiasm that
she'd just finished her 5th piano lesson and was excited about learning to
play more of the piano when she retires from work shortly!
The man was startled at these turn of events; that just as he was making
this new beginning to learn the piano someone else had come over who
also had decided to take up the piano and had now progressed to her 5th
lesson.
When you truly focus your interest and attention on doing something, life
has a funny way of cooperating with that intent and bringing forces and
forms that substantiate your intention. The man’s intention, including his
decision and action to get started, was mirrored by woman suddenly
arriving with virtually the same intent; and doing so synchronously to a
place at a piano that was nearly always abandoned. That is the power of
giving up all hesitation, fixing your intention, and acting on it. Life
cooperates with corresponding positive conditions. An abandoned piano
suddenly attracts more users in a joyous occasion of synchronicity among
the parties.
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Startling Simultaneity on a Working Contract
A consultant friend of mine had been working for a contractor providing
management advice for the client, including the development of a plan
for its future expansion. However, the consultant had not asked for any
payment in return for his efforts. One day he decided that this was no
longer feasible and prepared a contract where he would receive a
monthly stipend of $500 for his efforts.
At the very instant he completed the contract and was prepared to tell
the contractor of his new financial arrangement, the consultant received a
call. It was the contractor, who proceeded to explain that he was writing
checks for his vendors and employees and thought that it is only right to
start paying the consultant for his business. He decided that $500 a
month was a proper figure. So on the phone call the contractor informed
the consultant that he would like to implement this new arrangement.
The consultant was dumbfounded! The contractor had decided to take an
initiative that exactly matched his own, even though the contractor had
no idea the consultant was doing the same, or even interested in wanting
to work on a payment basis! In other words, they were exactly in
alignment on their intention though neither knew the other had any
intention in moving in that direction whatsoever. Plus, the amount was
exactly the same! Not to mention that the incoming call from the
contractor came at precisely the moment the consultant finished writing
up the contract.
How could this amazing confluence of events have happened? When two
people are deeply on the same wavelength in their normal interactions,
such astonishing synchronistic events are made possible. From another
perspective we know that many of our thoughts originate elsewhere, and
that we are often expressing the thoughts of others, even though we
think it is our own. In that way each side was picking up the thought
waves of the other. As a result of these inner cause, two parties aligned
in a way that seems utterly impossible, but actually did happen. A perfect
confluence of objectives in space and time had taken place, all emanating
from within.
One other point. From the side of the consultant, it was the very best
thing for him to ask for payment. He was at a point in his life where he
could not afford to work gratis. And so when he made an effort of
psychological strength to ask for payment, he attracted that very thing
instantaneously from the contractor.
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And what of the contractor? We can only imagine that the contractor was
expressing a higher value to compensate someone deserved of it, rather
than continue to accept the consultant working on his business for free.
His concern for the consultant attracted the fact that the consultant had
actually wanted the same arrangement, though now the consultant
hardly needed to the compensation as it was already a done deal!
Recent Historical Context of Life Response
Historically I found it interesting that just as I was completing my book
'The Miraculous Phenomenon of Life Response' and Garry Jacobs was
completing his novel 'The Book,' which covers Life Response and much
more, the film/book 'The Secret' was released, which is essentially life
response as well. This all happened circa 2007.
I was very surprised when The Secret arrived on the scene, even taken
aback for a few days; but then clearly felt that this new global spiritual
phenomenon came in one sense as a response to Garry and my efforts,
which itself a product of Karmayogi's untiring devotion and revelation of
life response philosophy and practical application over the last 50 years.
(which itself a product of Sri Aurobindo's revolutionary spiritual
realizations now beginning to take root in the world.)
There is yet another point I find interesting. It is that the Global Financial
Crisis came almost precisely in the footsteps of our three literary
releases. We know of the principle that as soon as something of a higher
order or consciousness arises in the world, a countervailing force
immediately takes root to oppose it. With a great opening to life
response/power of attraction revelation for society, a near catastrophic
financial development, based on human ego and greed came for the
purpose of negating the chance of this New Power to take root in the
world.
And yet we also can philosophize that this great negative development
came about for the purpose of forcing society to take to higher values
related to finance, economics, social stability, human unity, etc.
With that in mind, let us see what further developments await us through
our dramatic experiences of life response phenomenon, even as people's
awareness of it continues to slowly (or quickly?) spread throughout
society.
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We can especially experiment by utilizing the Supramental Power,
Mother's Force to bring about ever-new unfoldings of instantaneous
miraculousness in the worlds. It can be an exciting, a spiritually thrilling
time all around.
Sudden Memory as Predecessor of Car’s Return
There are astonishing moments when we suddenly think of something for
no particular reason, and then several moments later something very
dramatic and unexpected occurs that precisely mirrors our original
thought. It is another variation of what we call a "predecessor indicator"
of what is to come.
A man and woman were having a conversation about the correct use of
grammar in articles, film, etc. The man suddenly had a memory of
something that occurred nearly a decade ago. He recalled being in his car
in a parking lot about to meet with the police department of a suburban
client for which he hoped to do some project management training. As he
recalled sitting in that car, he remembered that on the radio was a
discussion of what constitutes a well written article. He had listened
intently to the discussion.
His mind then returned to the here and now. He turned to his friend and
told her that he could not understand why in the world he suddenly
thought of this obscure moment many years ago, aside from the
grammar connection. He never remembered that moment from the day
till that moment, yet suddenly thought of it in a flash. It was like recalling
a long-forgotten dream from many years ago.
The man then got up and looked through his window and noticed that
there was a car parked in the common area that he did not recognize.
But then when he looked closer he thought it was the car that had been
stolen from his neighbor. Suddenly the neighbor knocked on the door to
inform me that the police had indeed found the stolen car and here it
was! He was thrilled to no end; and I was happy for him too!
The recollection of the past event and the current situation were directly
related, although our normal view is to see no correlation. In this case,
the flash of a memory from the past regarding sitting in a car in front of
the police offices was synchronous with the stolen car's imminent return
by the police. In other words, the spontaneous memory was a
predecessor to the coming car incident.
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Angels in the Architecture
(synchronistic life response)
It was reported in the news that during the playing of his famous song
'The Boxer', Paul Simon interrupted the performance to give homage to
the sudden passing of Muhammed Ali, the world famous boxer and global
personality.
If indeed Simon found out about this development during or just before
the playing of the song, it would be a startling synchronicity. It turns out
that Simon continued on with the performance and sang the final verse of
the song, which almost exactly describes Ali’s life (And his death), even
though the tune was written forty years ago!
"In the clearing stands a boxer, and a fighter by his trade
And he carries the reminders of ev'ry glove that laid him down
And cut him till he cried out in his anger and his shame,
"I am leaving, I am leaving." But the fighter still remains"
Well it also turns out that ever since I read about that “coincidence,” Paul
Simon synchronicities have been happening to me one after another.
Eg as I walked about with a business partner in downtown Long Beach,
CA I noticed the design of the old historical buildings. As a result, I
remembered and started chanting to myself the lines “He sees Angels in
the Architecture, Spinning in Infinity,” (from ‘You Can Call Me All’) by
Simon. Then when we walked in the first restaurant where we were
performing our sales duties a Paul Simon song suddenly came on the
speaker. Then I went into another restaurant, and it happened again!
There was Simon's voice on yet another tune.
And so at this point I knew from experience that this dynamic could keep
repeating. Eg a long lost letter could now suddenly fall out of a drawer
with Paul Simon lyrics, or a truck could go by saying "Simon Furniture" as
soon as I walked out into the sunshine. Etc. etc. But now I said to myself
something along the lines of "Oh God no more, no more iterations from
the surroundings; I have to concentrate on my work!”
That's the power of concentrating on a particular subject matter: Life
quickly sends you more information, more content on that very same
matter. I have experienced it hundreds, if not thousands of times over
the years. In fact, such synchronicities are perhaps the most common
form of Life Response event one can experience.
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In addition, if I'm the incident the Simon-Ali sync was really that
auspicious, then descents from the realm of information would have
become universal-like, and thus perpetual in nature. It would mean the
potential for an endless stream of the miraculous from the same source
event for many individuals throughout the world.
The Tutor: Astonishing Life Response Association Between Distant Past and Present
We ordinarily perceive events occurring in the present, and then as
necessary are able to make associations between them. I.e. we readily
understand the cause and effect relations among them. However, we
don’t easily see how events from the Distant Past relate to our present
experiences, nor do we perceive that these associations are really quite
startling. Let me give you a recent example.
About 40 years ago, a friend of mine invited me to tutor individual
students in a class of Dyslexic children. I ended up doing one-on- one
sessions in mathematics and other subjects with several students, one at
a time. It turns out that had a particularly memorable (and amusing)
session with one of the students; one that my friend and I enjoyed
discussing over the years.
It turns out that I renewed my friendship of 40 years about a dozen years
ago, and my friend and I would email one another several times a year.
We even visited one another several times. Well, one day several months
ago I came to realize that my friend’s invitation to teach in the school of
the Dyslexic children all those years back was actually the beginning of
my 40 years’ instructor career! I never made that association till then,
and so I felt gratitude toward him and that opportunity.
Now here's where the story gets interesting. The other day I did my first
tutoring session in 40 years with a young man, as all the rest of my
instructing for all those decades was in corporate classroom training in
California, mainly in the San Francisco Area, including Silicon Valley. And
so this small tutoring job was harkening back to the one-on-one work I
first engaged in decades ago and never really did since. That is until the
other day.
As so after the session was over, I exited the facility and got into my car.
I then picked up my Smartphone and looked through my email. it turns
out that only One message arrived. However, when I looked closer I was
startled to realize that it was from my friend of 40 years ago!
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In essence, because I had done a one-on-one tutoring session just now,
essentially my first in 40 years, I moved into alignment with the very
person who gave me my one and only previous tutoring session 40 years
ago! Thus the present and the distant past were intimately, inexorably
connected.
From this incident we see that Life is really Conscious. It “keeps track” of
the past and coordinates it with events in the present and the future,
creating innumerable startling associations. We call them Synchronicities,
though I refer to them as responses from life, or Life Response.
It turns out that they are occurring all the time, but we miss them
because our “subtle antennae” are not engaged. When they are however,
we continuously experience the most startling circumstances, linking
past, present, and future. Moreover, the startling experiences energizes
us to no end.
We call such experiences, moments of "Instantaneous Miraculousness,"
and it is there for us to perceive at any time we make the effort to closely
examine the events in our lives.
Startling Double Synchronicity with Baggar Vance
The other day I had a marvelous experience I would like to share.
A friend of mine and I decided to watch the film The Legend of Baggar
Vance (from 2000), which I had seen several times before over the years.
It is essentially the Bhagavad Gita presented in a modern context. It is
the tale of the local golfer Junna (as Arjuna) competing against the two
greatest golfers in the world. Junnah/Arjuna is guided by Baggar Vance,
who is the equivalent of Krishna. (The title "Baggar Vance" is similar to
Bhagavad Gita.)
Baggar shows Junna not only the keys to golf, but to Life Success. He
shows Junna how to become "one with the field," enabling perfect
execution in works; here meaning the capacity to execute the perfect golf
shot. Baggar also reveals himself as a supernatural divine presence;
infinite and eternal, which Junna begins to realize he too can become.
While watching the film I could feel the essence of Krishna coming
through the performance of actor Will Smith. Junna is also convincingly
performed by actor Matt Damon.
Then my story changes. The next morning I headed out to a client, but
before that I stopped at a restaurant for breakfast. At the facility they
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have several mounted televisions - presenting various content, like news,
weather, human interest stories, sports events, interviews, sitcom
excerpts, etc.
However, when I got there that morning and looked at one of the
screens, I saw that they were showing highlights of women golf pros
performing at their craft. I immediately saw the connection with watching
Baggar Vance the night before. I smiled at the synchronicity of the two
events. It was a million to one shot of this taking place, yet I have had
this experience hundreds of times before.
A minute later the presentation on the tv changed and instead there was
an interview with none other than ... Matt Damon! The very actor who
played Junna in the film from 2000 I watched the previous night!
I was stunned and gripped by the profundity of this super response from
life; as if Krishna had simultaneously orchestrated the situation and
blessed me with his cosmic smile.
It was a trillion to one possibility, yet it occurred.
And It was yet another reminder that when we deeply focus on
something - here the powerful spiritual-like events in the film - more of it
comes to us from out of nowhere.
Then you realize how cosmically interlinked all things are in the universe,
something we can constantly perceive if we just open our eyes.
Distortion of Truth and The Doubly Failed Businessman
When an individual subscribes to lies, whether he knew of its underlying
falsehood or not, the outcome will reveal itself negatively in another area
of his life, often as failure.
A man was part owner of a rising business. He had put great effort into it
over the course of three years. Still he maintained an utter certainty that
it would succeed, and that his approach was bound to succeed, despite
what others had said.
Somehow he got very caught up in the US election. He sent out 3 or 4
letters that detailed his opinions, with striking intensity, bordering on
bitterness. He had listed a dozen or so of the extreme untruths about one
of the candidates that had been spread by the foreign and domestic
hacking web sites that had infiltrated all aspects of the Internet in the
USA. Virtually every untruth was made up for the purpose of defeating
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her in the election. He fell for this information hook, line, and sinker,
expressing it in his letters in considerable detail, as did millions of others.
But what was most interesting is that during the week it was revealed all
throughout the world that these were in fact untruths made up in minds
of various hackers, the businessman called a loyal friend to essentially
say he has failed in his business venture.
You see, the two events go together in Life Response phenomenon. The
lies he subscribed to revealed to the public the same week he is utterly
demoralized and calls the friend that he has failed in his venture. They
are synchronous in consciousness.
In fact, we can go further and say that they are the SAME weakness in
his consciousness expressed two ways: an utter belief in his infallibility,
i.e. my way or the highway, and his propensity to naively embrace false
information - both expressing a fundamental Ignorance and Falsehood. It
is a case of two sets of untruths moving together, eventually expressing
their negative outcomes together.
Eliza and Darcy Align in Space-Time
When life response occurs, two parties move into alignment in the same
space-time, place/moment. Interestingly, neither normally knows that
they or the other party is doing so.
One of the most powerful example of this synchronistic dynamic can be
seen in 'Pride and Prejudice.' There Eliza Bennett visits Darcy's estate
when he is away on business, and realizes to her surprise that he is in
fact a good man, not a prideful one as she had come to believe. Thus, an
invisible attracting dynamic takes place, as he physically moves toward
her - returning early to his vast estate from a business trip. This dynamic
also occurs the other way around.
As a result of their complementary shifts in consciousness, they arrive in
the same point in space and time. They are stunned at this development,
yet are deeply happy inside, as they have secretly come to long for one
another. Their relationship is thus rekindled, and they are soon married.
What has happened is that their Higher consciousness - in the form of
more positive attitudes toward one another - has aligned both parties in
space-time, bringing great, even ultimate reward to both.
It turns out that this dynamic is happening to each of us all the time, to a
lesser or greater degree. Unfortunately, we are normally unaware of the
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fact. However, we can become keenly cognizant of this phenomenon, and
thereby continually evoke startling positive results. It is one of the great
subtle powers of human existence.
Cosmic Coincidence Over LaLa Land
Close by to my home is Signal Hill. When you venture to the top of it -
around 500 feet - you can see a vast expanse of the Los Angeles Basin.
From that vantage point on a path at the top of the hill you can pan from
the coast all the way across the heart of LA to Orange County, with the
huge, snow-capped San Gabriel mountains as a backdrop. You can even
see the skyline of downtown in front of the mountains, as well as the
Hollywood sign just a bit to the left.
Yesterday I did my usual daily walk on Signal Hill - this time in the mist,
as the end of a rain storm had passed through. As I parked my car to get
out, I noticed a huge rainbow in the sky. I also noticed that it was
beginning to fade, so I somewhat hurriedly walked around the bend to
get a better view and hopefully a photo with my smartphone. When I
arrived there, I saw the rainbow right over downtown and the Hollywood
sign area.
As I continued to walk in that direction, I thought that this was a very
significant occurrence. For one, I never saw a rainbow from Signal Hill,
and second its location was astonishingly specific. Then I remembered
that the Academy Awards were to occur that night, and so I felt strongly
that the lovely occurrence of the rainbow was related to that somehow.
Several hours later I mentioned that possibility to my friend, though she
looked at me in slight bewilderment.
I did not watch the Oscars that night, but when I woke the next morning
and learned that they had mistakenly switched the Best Picture award,
creating the greatest confusion in Oscar history, I knew that my
experience of the rainbow over the Hollywood sign was a prophetic
gesture of Nature, indicating what was to come.
It was doubly interesting as the confused movie was called "LaLa Land," a
backhanded reference to the derisive nickname for the Southern
California metropolis which I was overlooking from the hill.
In addition, I knew that the confusion of presenting the wrong winner at
the Oscars was endemic of the entire vibration that has been occurring in
America over the last few months, as a president exhibiting tyrannical-
like behavior has been confusing Truth with Falsehood in an almost
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unending fashion. The atmosphere of the country is so rife with
nervousness, confusion, and vindictive falsehood that it spreads to the
nation’s most famous entertainment ceremony. Even on a normally
happy occasion such as this, truth and falsehood, fact and fiction were
royally confused.
Disparate Things Arising Together Are Related
According to a deeper view of life, all events which occur at the same
time or at same place are related to one another in some manner, even if
on the surface they seem to have nothing to do with one another. Often
the relationship is in the form of a subtle correspondence between the
events, including a similarity, a mirror image of one another, or even a
reverse expression of the same type of situation.
Eg you are having a conversation with a friend who is explaining the
concept of personal Values, and in the middle of the dialogue a senior
author calls who is a friend of the friend of mine, and who is known for
writing about business Values for the American Management Association,
of which he was president. Superficially you may not perceive a
connection, but if you think a bit about what this person represents, you
will see a connection; that he has called at this time as a synchronous
circumstance to your learning about those same issues he is deeply
involved with,
Thus, when things are happening to you in a certain direction in the
course of your day, pay attention to what otherwise suddenly arises from
an entirely different direction. If you seriously think about what is going
on, - the issues involved, who the parties are at play are, and their
propensities and beliefs, et al, - you will begin to see the subtle
correspondence between the circumstance that you did not perceive
originally. When you perceive the deeper connection, it is startling to
behold. As a result of this approach, you can an entirely different
perspective of life's unfolding!
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Life’s Subtle Signs
Signs and Portents
Most of us have seen an interesting connection between two events and
have brushed it off as mere coincidence. Our own experience is that
many of the things that we half-consciously associate as being related are
in fact very much related. Often life is presenting signs and portents of
things to come, or things that are happening out of site.
A man was having problems in his relationship with his relatives. One
day he walked out his door and saw cat excrement at his doorstep,
something that he rarely if ever saw before in years of living at his
residence. A moment later he went to his mailbox and got a letter
from his relative that was filled with anger. He half noted the
connection. He received only two or three letters from these relatives
in the next decade, but each time he received the letter there was
animal excrement in front of his door, the only times he ever had the
excrement at his door!
In this example, we are not only witnessing a portent but we are seeing
an example of a life repetition, the topic we discussed earlier. We can see
signs of ill will through signs and portents just as we can see signs of
good will and positive occurrences. (For example just before a particular
individual calls there is a feeling of calm and well-being). In either case
through a sign a portent we are given a glimpse of things to come.
Often in literature as in life we see relationships between physical
occurrences in nature and events happening in the lives of the characters
in the story. While some of us might attribute this to poetic license our
research indicates that these correspondences are pretty indicative of
what happens in real life.
In King Lear the king begins to go mad as he deals with his limiting
attitudes toward his beloved daughter where the background is a raging
storm with lightning, wind and rain.
On the other hand in Pride and Prejudice Eliza, formerly reluctant to visit
a man of good character and great wealth, gives up her limiting attitude
and meet him at his estate on an utterly perfect spring-like day in
England. Her new openness to a vaster level of accomplishment in her life
is mirrored in nature's corresponding glory.
Just to take one example in real life. At the end of 1996 and the start of
1997 a man in California was in the midst of a great project that offered
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great, unprecedented opportunity in his life. On the first day of 1997 it
rained harder in California that any day in recorded history. Rain is often
seen as a symbol of grace or good fortune. This was especially so for this
man.
Just as our conscious daily lives can reveal signs and portents so can our
semi or unconscious existence reveal the same. For example, dreams can
on occasion be signs and portents. Our research suggests that although
dreams are most often projections of complex conscious and
subconscious thoughts and feelings, with no direct relationship to the
actual outcomes of current or future events, sometimes they are in fact
real indicators of things to come. (Again we say this with restraint,
however, because our research indicates that 90% of dreams are not
premonitions of anything, and are merely one's descent into unconscious
parts of our being.)
Here's an example of where an individual benefited from a dream:
A man noticed that every time he had a dream where there was great
confusion at work, the next day the computer equipment didn't work
properly or there were other technical problems. At first he didn't
connect the two, and whenever the computer equipment went out
(which happened not very frequently) he along with others became
annoyed and agitated about the situation.
However, after another occurrence of the dream he was determined
not to get upset if the equipment went out that day. And so, of course
(!), the equipment went out that day of the dream. As before, others
were still annoyed and agitated at the situation. Fortunately the man
was able to quickly aid in the solution of the technical problem. A few
moments after a few of the people there asked him how he could
remain so calm under the circumstance. He couldn't tell them his
secret!
There are times when dreams are indicators of future events, which when
understood in their proper light, can help us better cope with events as
they unfold.
There are endless signs and portents that occur in life that we can be
observant of. For example, if we have a power outage and then receive a
letter from someone with bad will, we can see a correlation. Or the
opposite, where there is a feeling of happiness or richness, and we
receive a letter thereafter from someone with good with and positive
feeling toward us. There are endless variations of such a phenomenon.
You can also learn to read the other person's intention through signs and
portents. An example of this is a marketing person who calls you on the
phone at precisely the wrong moment in the day. You might be about to
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have your dinner or do something else enjoyable or important, and you
get the call at just the wrong moment. You know that this person calling
is completely out of tune with your intentions. This is because their job
pretty much entails being uncaring of your need for peace and quiet
focusing rather on their need to sell you something even if it is at the
most inconvenient moment. This indicates an intent that has negative
forces in it. The call comes exactly when it shouldn't. There are many
instances of this. For example, someone calls, and asks for a person who
has just left. The originator of the call is somehow out of balance,
perhaps being too rushed or impulsive. You can of course see this same
phenomenon in other areas of life beyond phone calls; in letters, in
emails, and others. And of course you are doing it to others as well,
except from your side you are unconscious of it!
Signs Along the Way
Today I brought in my car for a bi-annual oil change. When I arrived, the
person in front of me had lost his wallet and was frantically searching for
it. The fact that he was before me, I found significant, but how?
I then had some lunch at McDonald's. I then returned, but before I
retrieved my car, I went into a Long's Drugs to purchase some fruit and
nuts for my salads. I saw two different products next to one another.
Both were marked 2 for $4. When I went to pay for it, the checkout
person said that the one I selected was not on sale. I know it was
because it was marked so. In fact, both the products were marked so.
The cashier then spoke to a stocking employee who ran it through her
handheld computer and it indicated it was not on sale. It was clear then
the big label next to the product I purchased indicating 2 for $4 should
not have been there. I informed the cashier on the way out that the item
was marked wrong, after she gave me my money back. (I did not buy the
item.)
When I went to pick up my car, I was surprised that they charged $79
instead of $29 for the oil change. I asked why. He said it was due to the
fact that I agreed to synthetic oil. I assumed synthetic was the lower
grade and thus $29, but I was misinformed! I forgot that the last time I
was there I purchased the higher grade, i.e. synthetic oil for the oil
change. So he was right. He saw my past transaction and assumed I
would understand. I just didn't remember, however. I then told them
they should explain clearly the difference each time we purchase it, for
after all we only come twice a year. (I was making a practical suggestion,
yet somehow an anguished one.)
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At each point, I saw the connection to the other events. To the man who
was there with the wallet before me when I checked in to get the oil
change one hour earlier; to the problem with the purchase of fruit and
nuts for my salad five minutes earlier. And also the fact that the day
before I went through precisely the same situation at another location
when I went to purchase a candy bar. I.e. marked as cheaper, but not in
the computer as such!
As I walked out of the Quality Tune-up, I felt emotion, yet I tried to keep
calm. I was relaxed soon after. In the past, I would have been three
times as mad as I was after making the $79 payment for the oil change.
Now I have the mental knowledge of the flow of life to get too riled up.
Besides, I took responsibility for everything under the assumption that
the outer is a reflection to the outer.
I started to write up this entire affair. Within one minute, I got a call for a
potentially very lucrative business arrangement involving project
management. My reasonably rational approach to the situation attracted.
I held back blaming, and the response came. The energy could have been
dissipated, but it still remained. A phone call of an old business associate
suddenly came out of the blue with a great opportunity.
PS Consecration (i.e. offering the matter to the Spirit beforehand) and
inner status of living in the depths and therefore calm could have
eliminated all of the problems to begin with, indicating the scope of my
further growth.
Update to the story: Just a few hours after this story occurred, I looked in
one of my kitchen closets and found a bag of nuts/fruits that my
roommate had just purchased! It was the only new thing in the closet!
Vast Accomplishment by Following the Flow of Life
Watch life closely, there is a marvelous flow to its movements -- in
particular, to the unfolding of events. To be in touch with that unfolding is
to experience the Marvel. When we are in our higher consciousness, we
recognize this flow in all its wonder. When we are in a lower state, we
miss this miracle.
If a computer operating system requires an online upgrade, we initially
balk and anguish at the fact, as it blocks us from following the normal
routine we are attached to. But when we are in a higher, more mindful
and sensitive state, we recognize its need, release our distress, and take
up the necessary activities and actions that life is now pointing to. Then
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when we return to the fresh, new things that had to unfold, we see how
necessary it was in the larger scheme of things.
In addition, each substitute task we are asked to undertake -- such as
cleaning the kitchen while the OS installs on the computer -- will produce
important results. It may even attract an instance of sudden good
fortune. E.g., while cleaning, a friend you haven't heard from in years
suddenly contacts you with excellent news.
Lao Tzu wrote the Tao de Ching. It concerns itself with the true Flow of
life, the unfolding of events that we can recognize and partake it at any
moment in time. When we are in touch with that flow, it unfolds like a
miracle, as we know precisely in which direction to turn, and as a result
are constantly securing life's cooperation. When we are inwardly
anchored from a silent poise, we are more conscious of the subtle needs
of our surroundings. That enables us to know which direction to turn,
which allows us to make right decisions that lead to perfect outcomes.
From that poise of silent mindfulness, we engender vast success, which
tends to take shape through incidents of sudden good fortune. This
continuous luck flows in our direction, and in return we ourselves
contribute to and augment the Flow of Life.
Vast Accomplishment by Following the Flow of Life
Watch life closely, there is a marvelous flow to its movements -- in
particular, to the unfolding of events. To be in touch with that unfolding is
to experience the Marvel. When we are in our higher consciousness, we
recognize this flow in all its wonder. When we are in a lower state, we
miss this miracle.
If a computer operating system requires an online upgrade, we initially
balk and anguish at the fact, as it blocks us from following the normal
routine we are attached to. But when we are in a higher, more mindful
and sensitive state, we recognize its need, release our distress, and take
up the necessary activities and actions that life is now pointing to. Then
when we return to the fresh, new things that had to unfold, we see how
necessary it was in the larger scheme of things.
In addition, each substitute task we are asked to undertake -- such as
cleaning the kitchen while the OS installs on the computer -- will produce
important results. It may even attract an instance of sudden good
fortune. E.g., while cleaning, a friend you haven't heard from in years
suddenly contacts you with excellent news.
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Lao Tzu wrote the Tao de Ching. It concerns itself with the true Flow of
life, the unfolding of events that we can recognize and partake it at any
moment in time. When we are in touch with that flow, it unfolds like a
miracle, as we know precisely in which direction to turn, and as a result
are constantly securing life's cooperation. When we are inwardly
anchored from a silent poise, we are more conscious of the subtle needs
of our surroundings. That enables us to know which direction to turn,
which allows us to make right decisions that lead to perfect outcomes.
From that poise of silent mindfulness, we engender vast success, which
tends to take shape through incidents of sudden good fortune. This
continuous luck flows in our direction, and in return we ourselves
contribute to and augment the Flow of Life.
Reading Life’s Subtle (and Not So Subtle) Signs
As we carry on our lives, do we ever stop to consider what it is we truly
believe in; i.e. where we place our faith in our pursuit of personal
happiness and fulfillment? Let's consider a gradation of possibility.
At each moment, life is presenting itself in all of its aspects. Moreover, we
have opportunity to perceive any and all of its subtle and not so subtle
shadings. How can we do that?
Sri Aurobindo tells us in The Life Divine that if we develop an inner
orientation, stationed in the subliminal or even psychic (soul) being, we
develop a more harmonic relationship with life around us, and as a result
are able to detect its varied conditions and subtle signs. In addition,
through our detection of the truth of those circumstance, we are able to
make the right decisions that attract the most fortuitous outcomes.
An example of this dynamic occurred the other day, though it occurred
from the negative side. Let me explain.
It was around 2:15 PM and I thought I had some extra time to visit a
department store before going to my 3:00 PM eye doctor appointment.
When I then entered the clothing outlet, I headed over to the men’s
department to see if they had any shirts I might purchase. After I picked
one out, I headed over to the checkout line to make my payment.
However, the line was backed up, with a number of people ahead of me.
One inclination on my part was to view this as a bad sign because (1) I
could be late to my doctor meeting, and (2) that it was a subtle sign of
some other problem to come. E.g. perhaps I was making a mistake in
purchasing the shirt because it might not fit, or get severely wrinkled on
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first washing. Another part of me was inclined to just remain quiet and
see what happens. It turns out, I took the latter approach.
Though I had the opportunity to consecrate the matter, i.e. offer it to the
spiritual Force for maximum positive results, I did not have the
wherewithal to engage in that act. Instead, I simply walked to at the back
of the line, and waited my turn.
Well it quickly became obvious that the line was moving very slowly
despite the availability of ten checkout counters. When I finally moved
toward the beginning of the line, a series of ludicrous events began to
take place.
You see, there were now two parties ahead of me. When the party at the
front of the line was summoned to go to the next cashier, she missed the
signal, as she was speaking enthusiastically on her cell phone. The party
behind her therefore went ahead to the cashier. When the lady on the cell
phone got wind of this, she began to fume. In addition, the couple that
had gone before her were having great difficulty getting checked out
because they did not speak English very well. Moreover, over to the right,
a cashier who could have served the woman with the cell phone had
suddenly bolted off somewhere. Now the lady with the cell phone was
really fuming.
Though she was finally served, the couple with the language problem who
had earlier gone around her, were continuing to run into problems. As I
carefully observed them (perhaps not the nest things to do), they still
labored to be checked out. When they finally completed their
transactions, I went to that checkout stand. However, when I arrived
there, the cashier could not enter her password into the system, as she
was a trainee at the store! Her manager was trying to help her type in
the right code. When she finally logged in, she had trouble scanning the
shirt I picked out. From there, it got even worse.
At one point I somewhat bluntly spoke up to the trainee and overseeing
manager, and told them that I would like to leave the store without
making the purchase, which is in fact what I did. I then proceeded to my
eye appointment and deeply consecrated that event for several reasons I
won’t enjoin here. The appointment turned out very well.
This was obviously an extreme example of the signs of life. In this case,
very negative; or at least negative from my own perspective given the
conditions I perceived around me. This was a very ease one to call.
Interestingly however, when one is centered in the depths, in a Witness
Consciousness, silently observing life, one can perceive even the most
subtle signs of life, enabling one to make the right decisions, take to the
right attitude, etc. In fact, you could say when one has developed the
subtle sense of life around us, nothing is all that subtle, as we perceive
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every sign in a dramatic way. Each clue becomes enhanced in our
consciousness, whereas the average person would hardly notice it at all.
Life has a Character, and it is constantly presenting itself to us. What is
needed from our side is how to read those visible or invisible, i.e. subtle
signs. The first line of insight is to properly translate what our senses are
telling us. But that alone is hardly enough, and must go much further, as
we need to relate to the unseen inner conditions presenting themselves
at the time. For example, in the episode above, one needed to consider
the unseen issue of whether I would make my appointment on time.
Another is whether I actually needed to purchase another shirt,
considering its utility and expense. Another would have been to know the
conditions of the store in terms of service, new staffing, general business
at that time, etc.
Thus from an inner poise, we can read the signs in terms of a multitude
of dimensions. Some are at the level of what our senses perceive,
including the visual and auditory. Others are environmental,
circumstantial, and at the decision level of the mind. Fortunately, from an
inner poise, we have more of the intuitive sense of things, as the wide
variety of conditions and influences at play enter our minds as thought
waves from out of nowhere. In this way, the subtle signs are not just
what the senses perceive as the actualities, but include all of the
influences at all planes of being at play in the episode. And from this
multi-sided intuitive view, we can make decisions that are the correct
ones for those circumstance, which in turn evoke their own positive
results.
In addition to developing the intuitive sense through an inner orientation
rather than mere surface orientation and observation, it is also very
helpful to understand certain fundamental principles of life that will help
us behave in ways that will enable life to work on our behalf. It is here
that Sri Karmayogi and other have provided a wealth of insight. E.g. we
know that impatient will evoke negative response, so why not be calm in
those situations (which tends to evoke sudden positive response).
Similarly, stilling the mind will have a similar effect, as will opening to the
Spirit, which tends to instantly set right life’s circumstance; in terms of
time, space, general atmosphere, goodwill, etc.
From another perspective we see that it is important to maintain our
connection with the “Field.” Through inner poise, one tends to be more
fully Present in the current moment, maintaining an acute and keen
sense of awareness of the unfoldings around us. That ability to be One
with the field is ultimately determined by our capacity to be fully
absorbed in the present moment; i.e. the Eternal Now.
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Then how does one maintain that inner poise that does not lose touch
with the Field; that is open to the knowledge of the actualities and
possibilities that comes through an intuitive sense?
Karmayogi says that constant consecration forges the inner link for us.
Over time, we simply move into that Subliminal poise on its own.
Through constant consecration over several years, we simply fall into that
inner calm that serenely looks out onto the world, and perceives the
Truths unfolding, spontaneously and without thought. Intuitions of the
actualities at all planes simply enters the mind, and one has the
knowledge of which way to behave and act. As a result, life fully
cooperates with every inner movement we make.
The Ticket
Being open to and following a subtle sign and its indication will get you
directly to the solution to that problem or opportunity. This is not the way
life is currently practiced. We instead go through an ordeal -- involving
elongated space, time, and sequence -- to arrive at the end goal. The
first is the supramental, truth consciousness approach; the latter the
human way which we can learn to discard.
Example: a man got a ticket for what he thought was parking on a street
allowed only for the local community. He was going to pay the ticket,
which required a check to be sent in for a substantial amount. He had
actually gotten the ticket after taking a pleasant walk in a park, and also
stopping at McDonald’s for some coffee. He was surprised and
disappointed when he walked up to the car and saw the ticket.
Now 10 days later and about to mail in the payment, he noticed on the
citation that the officer who wrote the ticket was named Officer
MacDonald! He then went to his friend to show him the “coincidence,”
seeing it as both humorous and significant. The friend was amused as
well.
However, when she further examined the citation, she discovered that it
was NOT a parking ticket at all, but one having to do with the registration
of the car. Moreover, if proof of registration was provided, the citation
amount would be dramatically reduced. As a result, the man now
followed this path, by providing registration documentation; and the
much smaller amount was forwarded to the required party.
In other words, as a result of perceiving the subtle sign of the officer’s
name being MacDonald, an entirely different course was taken, saving
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money, time, and effort. By acceding to the subtle sign life was providing,
much trouble was avoided.
Life is changing. It is my belief that humanity will increasingly develop
the consciousness to perceive such subtle indicators, giving us a vast
power over space, time, sequence, and effort.
On the other hand, if we consecrate such activities in the first place, then
these sorts of problems will tend not to arise at all, as life conditions will
automatically be set right.
Fully Engaging the Acts of Life
There are hundreds, even thousands of acts we engage in the course of
the day. Though each requires a certain amount of time and effort to
perform, from a millisecond to hours, we tend to move out of balance
with it and its needs. Often that has to do with our inability to give the
act the proper level of attention; the compulsions and influences of our
lower vital/emotional being; and the tendency to move out of alignment
with the Present by being overly influenced by the push and pull of the
past and future.
And yet if we develop a subtle sense and observe closely, we will see
exactly how long each act should take, how much of our attention is
required, the patience or determination necessary, and the
meticulousness needed to produce a perfectly positive outcome.
E.g. as you engage the act of washing the dishes, you sense if you are
giving it your proper attention; whether you are rushing it in the name of
some future action you wish to get to; etc.
Now your mind stands back for an instant and senses how long that act
should take; what level of your attention is required; what degree of
patience is demanded, etc. As a result, you reengage the act and move
forward with the right rhythm, creating a result that is nearly perfect.
Moreover, the actions that follow it tend to flow harmoniously from that
point forward.
Through the smallest act, you have discovered the rhythms of the
universe, which you have now moved into perfect alignment with.
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The Miraculous as Commonplace
Miracles are actually the norm in life. E.g. when the conditions around us
suddenly turn positive due to a shift in our attitudes, a miracle has taken
place. Space and time have instantaneously been overcome when the
result appears before us. What is more miraculous than that?
Moreover, such miracles occur hundreds of thousands if not many tens of
millions of times a day in the world. It also occurs negatively, which is
also miraculous.
The problem is that our ability to perceive these events is infinitely
limited by our level of consciousness. Living on the surface, we do not
see the subtle yet stunning causality at work. In other words, we miss
the Wonder of Existence.
And because we miss the daily miracles of life response, there is no inner
compulsion to CONSCIOUSLY evoke it; to make it happen at our beck and
call. Instead we wait on fate, hoping that the fruits of our efforts will lead
to some level of happiness and success in life.
And so the miracle-generating apparatus within us lays dormant, unused,
waiting for the conscious among us to pull the levers that evoke
instantaneous miraculousness in life.
Then who will make the decision to consciously evoke these miracles on a
regular basis? Is it you? Is it something you see the value in? Are you
sincerely ready to take it up in full, or is it a mere passing fancy? The
difference between these two dynamics is a life of the ordinary vs. the
Life of the Extraordinary. The choice is yours.
Return Trip & Miraculous Power of the Force
We have continually witnessed the power of the supramental Force, i.e.
Mother’s Force, to quickly set right the conditions of life. In a recent
episode, I experienced this phenomenon at work multiple times in
succession, defying all human logic and possibility. Here is my story:
I was scheduled to do a training class at a major corporation in
Sunnyvale, California in the heart of Silicon Valley. I had to fly up from
Southern California to the San Francisco Bay Area late one evening, rent
a car at the San Francisco Airport, drive to the motel in Sunnyvale 38
miles away, get up the next morning and do the class, and then in the
latter afternoon begin my return journey to Long Beach in reverse order.
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Considering the fact that the highway system is now completely jammed
in Silicon Valley these days because of the boom there, it was a daunting
prospect. A 30-mile drive could take over 2 hours or more during rush
hour.
As it turns out, my trip from Long Beach to the Bay Area, though
somewhat intense, went smoothly for the most part, more or less as I
expected. However, the trip back was a different story. It was filled with
adventure, the unbelievable, and the miraculous. Here is what happened
I knew the return journey would be difficult, as I was going to be driving
in the midst of the rush hour from Sunnyvale to the San Francisco
Airport. However, I caught my anxiety, detached from focusing on any
particular outcome, and consecrated that upcoming trip.
My driving strategy from Sunnyvale to SFO was to avoid the two main
highways going south to north because they would likely be jammed.
Instead I decided to take the El Camino Real, a 50-mile-long street that
runs all the way from Silicon Valley through San Francisco. Often in the
past when I lived in the Bay Area I used it as a shortcut to get back
home. I called it “a slow boat to China,” but at least it moved. And yet I
knew in the back of my mind that these days in this latest Silicon Valley
boom even this 3rd or 4th choice of passage, the non-highway El Camino,
could be log-jammed. Still I remained positive. I also had my map app on
my smartphone to inform me where the log jams were appearing on the
El Camino in real time.
And so I left the client's facilities in Sunnyvale ~4:20 pm and headed
over to the El Camino, with its endless shopping centers, motels,
residence, etc. So far so good as I steadily navigated through the towns
of the “South Bay.” However, after a short while I realized that I was
moving forward in fits and starts, which was verified by my Smartphone
Maps app red-dotted street indicators. I also discovered that there was
the possibility of a big rain storm hitting, which I actually took as positive
as it could put out the fires raging north of San Francisco.
In any case, I remained calm. And yet an hour into the ride I realized I
was only half way to my destination, and there was a legitimate chance
that I wouldn’t make the 7pm flight. Also there was the possibility that
the storm would cancel the flight anyway. Though I was ready to inform
my roommate down in Long Beach of these possibilities, I held on and
kept silent. I continued to consecrate in the back of my mind.
Now here is where the story gets interesting. Time for the flight is ticking
down. After two hours on the El Camino I got off the street and drove
over an overpass that took me to the extremely busy Hwy 101 heading
directly for the airport. Was the highway also going to be jammed?
Fortunately, it turned out not to me. Another good sign. I then drove a
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few miles and came to my first stop; the car rental area where I had to
return my rented vehicle. When I arrived on the 3rd floor, there was a big
backup, and I was all the way on the back. However, I remained calm
and did not emotionally react. Then suddenly out of nowhere a check-out
attendant greeted me and quickly processed the checkout of the car. That
was a startling change, I thought! Actually, I was amazed, yet subtly
tuned into the fact that the Force was behind these outcomes.
But now I had to get to the airport via the AirTram, the overhead
driverless rapid transit system that went two miles or so deep into the
airport terminal system. At this point I recalled the vast effort I had to
make the day before upon arriving at SFO; the exhausting situation; the
fact that I had to stop every few minutes because of the strain; and now
once again my bags were getting very heavy. With these thoughts in
mind, I felt even more exhausted and barely had enough energy to walk
to the escalator still 100 yards ahead. And so I stopped in my tracks, and
then took a deep breath.
But then I quickly noticed that there was an elevator that could take me
more easily to the AirTram above me. I pressed the button and hopped
in. When in the elevator I immediately encountered a young, friendly,
well-dressed young man leaning on his luggage cart containing his own
baggage. I asked him where one could rent one of these and he informed
me that it was actually free, provided by the airport. "I could really use
one of those right now" I thought, and I could see he had the same idea
in mind for me. We then got off the elevator and began to wait for the
AirTram. However, within a few seconds the young man pointed to a
single, lone unused luggage cart on the platform that was almost directly
in front of me. Needless to say I immediately grabbed onto it. Wow that
was incredible, I thought! No more schlepping my luggage to the far end
of the huge airport. Not only had the baggage been heavy, but the weight
was slowing me down, as time was ticking away and the departure of my
flight was imminent!
A moment later I hopped onto the futuristic-like AIrTram that circled the
airport, and two minutes later I was getting ready to exit at the
International terminal. As I was getting off I looked to my left and there
was the young man who pointed out the cart now winking at me as if to
say “I am happy to have found the cart for you and good luck the rest of
your way!“ As I wheeled the cart through the terminal I thought about
him as a kind of guardian angel: the wink and smile he gave me being
the confirmation. It was yet another opening of light on this dizzying path
toward my goal; even as time still seemed hopelessly stacked against
me.
But now before I could get to the end of the terminal which was still a
long distance, I had to get through security! Again I wondered how in the
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world I would get to the flight in time. I imagined that it must be lining
up for departure now, etc. However, I still kept my faith; and so far, in
the past half hour or so, life had cooperated fully.
In the past when I went through airline terminals I had special privileges
to move through TSA security rather fast. Recently I had apparently lost
those privileges. And so as I approached security, I prepared myself for a
long wait at the back of the line. However, when the guard looked at my
ticket, he waved me through for fast processing, enabling me to avoid
any long line. Not only that but I was the only one at the checkout, plus
the security requirements were next to nothing! This all seemed just too
unbelievable; yet I knew the Force was working for me in every
conceivable way
After less than two minutes of security check - by far the fastest I had
ever experienced - I was on my way to the end of the international
terminal; past British Air, Japan Air and dozens of major airlines. Yet my
airline, JetBlue, was a domestic carrier, the only one in the international
area. Plus, it was stuck at the very back of the International departure
gates! Life was surely testing me to the limit. However, now with the
baggage cart I could move more rapidly, and in conjunction with the
people-mover I was now gliding toward my destination. Still I wondered if
the plane had fully boarded and I would be left out.
When I arrived at the very far end of the international terminal, I was
able to make out the voice of the announcer at my gate, and he seemed
to be indicating that boarding had begun for my flight. I had apparently
made it; and just barely in time! Life had in the last half hour or forty five
minutes magically cleared a path for me. It could only be the result of the
spiritual Force to create these wonder of wonders when life seemed so
stacked against me. Consider that-
--I was stuck on the El Camino with less than an hour to my flight, and
suddenly things opened up when I veered off and got on the highway
leading to the airport
--When I arrived at the car rental it looked like a twenty-minute wait with
many people ahead of me, though it turned out to be just two minutes
--When I was exhausted and thought I had to drag my heavy bags to the
escalator far away, there was suddenly an elevator before me to help me
more easily get to the AirTram.
--When I thought I would have to carry my heavy bags to the far end of
the international terminal, a man appeared on the elevator with a cart
and then pointed out an available one that helped make my day
--When I got to security check out which normally takes 15-20 minutes,
it happened in just two.
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--I sailed through the very long terminal with the aid of the cart and a
fast-moving sidewalk trajectoring me rapidly forward, enabling me to
arrive in the gist of time.
Life had cleared the way at every point. It had cooperated with my faith
that was the guiding light at my side. It became an occasion for one
miraculous-like event to dovetail into the next in a symphony of the
Unimagined.
As I shook my head on line for departure of my flight, I took breath and
recognized the magic carpet ride I had just been on. “Wouldn’t this make
for a fine life response story?” I thought to myself as I handed the pass
to the attendant to step into the plane that would now take me home.
Life Mirrors Our Nature, though in Subtle Variation
According to the principle of inner-outer correspondence everything
happening outside ourselves is a reflection of our consciousness within.
Therefore, we can always discover the outer event mirroring something in
our nature.
However often that correspondence may not be very obvious and direct.
Often it may be difficult to detect the inner quality in ourselves that
mirrors the outer circumstance. One needs to seek out a VARIATION in
attitude to see the inner-outer connection.
For example, say something bad happens in our sales efforts, such as the
cancellation of a contract by the client. We then perceive that it is due to
the recklessness of one of our salespeople. Being conscious of such
things, we now seek to see the inner correspondence, and conclude that
we ourselves are not reckless. So, we then ask how does the outer
negative of the salesperson and cancelled account reflect something in
me?
However, when we think deeply about it and review our lives, we realize
that we have actually been acting insensitively and callously to certain
members of our non-sales staff. It is not recklessness, but it is close in
that insensitivity and callousness show a disregard for others; same as
with recklessness. As a result, now we see the correspondence between
our behavior and the lost sales account, and hopefully are conscious
enough to make the inner effort to change.
We see something similar occurring in families, where a grown-up child
rebels against a parent's negative behaviors and beliefs in a particular
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area, when actually demonstrating a very similar, though not exact same
negative trait with their own children. Eg one may rebel against the
blatant materialism of one's parent, yet may pamper one's child to no
end, causing them to become spoiled rotten. Pampering is a variation of
materialism, just redirecting the attachment in a somewhat different way.
Now we can perceive correspondence between our parent's negativity
and our own.
This all indicates that inner-outer correspondence may not always be very
direct and obvious to our understanding, yet it occurs nevertheless, in
subtle and not so subtle shadings.
Outer life events still reflect our positive and negative attitudes and
behaviors, even if we don't at first recognize them in the mirror.
Contemplating Causes that Have Thrust Us Forward
This time of the year often compels us to look back on our lives. If we are
truly conscious, we will be particularly interested in how the past shaped
us; made us who we are.
One aspect is to recognize those individuals who directly had a hand in
our progress; our movement forward. Though we may think we've
progressed due to our own efforts, we may forget those people and our
critical moments with them that shaped the course of our lives.
One way of looking at that is to consider what attracted their critical
inputs in the first place. E.g. one man was catapulted into the spiritual life
by a close friend. And yet it was because the recipient's father had
nurtured that friend over the course of years that the recipient attracted
the great benefit from the friend. It was goodwill of the father toward
another coming back to the son.
In another instance, the same man found a link between the spirit and a
new-found career, melding them together, from another friend a few
years later. Again, it was a response to something; but to what? Looking
back, he realized it was due to his own deep Aspiration to find work
where he could apply the spirit. And he found exactly what he was
looking for through this friend!
In this way, each of us can look back on our lives and see the correlation
between the response that thrust us forward and the underlying cause
that attracted it. We can see it emerging from an aspiration within
ourselves, but also from outside influences that altered the cause of
events in our favor.
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Big Life Lessons from a Big Tree Branch
One life principle that periodically presents itself is that one should avoid
reminiscing about past mini-disasters; otherwise, new ones will suddenly
descend on you.
Recent Example: A man reminisced with his friend about small negative
experiences each had in their childhood. Both exchanged several stories
about troubled events.
A little while later the man went for a drive. When he parked his car,
another car - a craftsman's truck, - drove into an empty space just in
front of his car and nearly banged into it. When the worker got out of his
car, he grimaced as his wrist suddenly hurt.
The first man then walked around the block for some exercise. When he
returned near his parking space on the street, he saw that a gigantic tree
overhead had collapsed and fallen on the three cars behind his! He was
very lucky that the huge eucalyptus tree branch didn't destroy his own
vehicle.
There are two points to note here. One is that a small event will indicate
a much larger one to come. When the worker man nearly knocked into
the first man's car and then indicated pain in his wrist, it was an
indication of the big tree collapse to come.
Second, as mentioned at the outset, blithely discussing earlier disasters
invariably attacks more of them soon after.
One other point: Had the first man recognized the situation from an inner
perspective and consecrated the near collision of the worker's car into
his, the tree falling incident never would have happened.
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PART 3: PRINCIPLES OF ACTS
Nature of Acts
The Subtle Science of Acts
Introduction to Acts
The master word of life is an act. When we function in the world we do so
through the individual acts we perform. Thus the act is the fundamental
unit of life, much in the same way that the atom or molecule are the
fundamental units of matter. In fact, an act is a microcosm of the
universe; i.e. the universe in miniature. All the forces and factors that
exert their influence in life in the universe are represented at the level of
the individual act, and reveal their characteristic role at that level. This is
particularly relevant when we consider our ability to accomplish in life.
There are a series of principles of life that directly relate to acts, the most
general of which is that is that the timing, sequence, quality and intensity
of an act influences its outcome. Acts that lack any of these qualities fail
to produce results, i.e. fail to accomplish. E.g. acts that occur in the
wrong sequence, or at the wrong time, or without the necessary intensity
will not produce results. On the other hand, acts that are positive in all of
these criteria have a very strong propensity for accomplishment. Now let
us examine some of the more specific principles of acts, many of which
will defy our normal views of what is probable and logical, overcoming
our limited views of cause and effect, and space and time.
Acts Repeat
The first principle we present about acts -- and an extraordinary one at
that -- is that they tend to repeat. The greater the intensity of the force
and the more times it repeats, the greater its capacity for further
repetition. The quality and intensity of the force express in each
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subsequent repetition of the act. Here's are several example of a
repetition of an act.
-In Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice Darcy’s initial refusal to dance
with Eliza at the Meryton dance repeats as Eliza’s initial refusal to
dance with Darcy when he asks her during her stay at Netherfield
Hall.
-"One day I was watching a TV program. In the middle of the show I
received a phone call from a friend of mine. While listening to my
friend I sensed that there was some connection between her and the
program I was just watching. Months passed, and I found myself
watching a rerun of this same program. What was incredible was that
I noticed that I received a call from this same friend at the exact
same moment I was watching the identical scene on television from
that person. There was more to it, however. I noticed that my friend
on the phone was having problems with an individual who had the
exact same rather complex Asian name as the person on the show."
As we begin to see how acts repeat in our lives -- defying our normal
perceptions of how life unfolds -- we can begin to benefit from our
observations. E.g. we can learn to perceive when to take, or not take,
actions based on a pervious occurrence of the act. That is, if you know
the pattern of a repetition of an act, especially a negative one, you can
overcome its ability to repeat in the future. So if a man who becomes ill
every five years, can note its frequency, assume that the illness is likely
to repeat in another years, and take precautions to prevent its
reoccurrence when the next iteration rolls around. He can say "ah here it
is coming on again. I am over-stressed again in this cycle, which is what
ordinarily brings on the repetition. I will take actions to prevent such
reoccurrence." Now as a result of perceiving the coming repetition, this
individual has changed the course of his life.
Consider one other real life experience, where an individual saw a
repetition of an act that expressed negatively, and then was able to avoid
it the second time, i.e. when it would have normally repeated:
A computer consultant worked on a consulting project for a number of
hours and days only to find out that he could not do the project
because of his limiting skills. It was clear from the onset that he might
not be able to do it. In fact, as it turned out he was unable to do it for
the client, honestly explained it to the client, who were grateful of his
honesty, and had now found a company who could do it. On the other
hand the consultant wasted a lot of time. As it turned out the project
was later completed by the other consulting company in fine order. A
few months later the consultant was asked if he could help the same
client with another project. Again it was an area out just out of his
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expertise, even though he had had a little experience with the
program many years before. This time remembering that acts repeat,
he knew that he would likely be wasting a lot of time if he were to
take it on. He firmly decided not to take on the project because of the
likelihood that the current situation was likely to be a repetition of the
same situation that happened initially.
Thus from pattern recognition of the repetition of acts one has the insight
to change, i.e. to negate or reinforce, the future. It is a miracle of insight
into the workings of life, including understandings of the true, subtle
nature of space of time. If we are conscious we will be able to recognize
the patterns; if we are not, the likelihood of seeing the patterns and
reversing them is very limited. In summary then there are at least two
ways to prevent a repetition. The first is an action or will on our part
related to the act that is more powerful than the force that wants to
repeat. The other is our recognition of the pattern in the first place, which
has the power to cancel the next iteration. In other words we can be
aware of life's patterns of repetitions of acts, and then we can consciously
control the next repetition. We have that conscious power in life.
Instead of Repeating, Acts Reverse
As each act is a force, it has a tendency to repeat. However, when the
force of the act is insufficient for repetition or meets an obstacle that
prevents it from accomplishing in a particular direction, the energy of the
act may reverse course and express in a direction opposite to the original
act.
Examples:
-In Pride and Prejudice Eliza facetiously asks Collins whether it would
be appropriate for him to attend the Netherfield ball. Her intention is
to discourage him from attending. He responds by asking her for the
first two dances, which she had hoped to reserve for Wickham. “Her
liveliness had never been worse timed.” Her clever comment is
insufficient to discourage Collins who sees the dance as an
opportunity to promote his courtship with her, so it provides him with
an unexpected opening to further his plan. Her cleverness backfires.
-In Pride and Prejudice Darcy conceals Jane’s presence in London
from Bingley. At Rosings Fitzwilliam unintentionally reveals to Eliza
Darcy’s interference between Jane and Bingley. The original act of
intentional concealment gets reversed as an act of unintentional
disclosure.
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Initial Occurrence Portents Repetitions, Final Outcome
A related phenomenon we have experienced is how the initial occurrence
of an event is often an indicator of how that thing will end up in the end.
Here's an example:
A company could not afford to pay a trainer a reasonable fee in the
beginning of their relationship. The trainer, though not completely
happy with the arrangement, accepted the fee, continued to work
with the company, and eventually begin to receive higher fees
through hard work. At the end of the relationship, however, the
training company went through some problems, and had to cut the
trainer's income back to the original lower level. Despite changes
along the way, the initial occurrence indicated the final outcome.
Here's another example where the initial occurrence portended the final
outcome:
A man was eager to have a first meeting with the owners of a small
company. He spoke to one of the principles who gave him directions
to get to the location. When he arrived in the general vicinity of the
business, he got lost based on the directions or perhaps on his own
lack of following the directions. He went round and round in circles
for twenty minutes. This really upset him since this meeting was one
of the key turning points in the young man's life.
Finally he found the place, and had a good meeting. As a result of the
meeting he established a relationship with the company. A few years
later he established his own company a distributor of the products of
the other company. After an initial few years of success, his company
faltered, and in a few years ended in bankruptcy.
Finally, here's one other dramatic example where the nature of the result
of a work can be seen in the first step:
A consultant was on his way to meet with a Fortune 500 company for
the first time to discuss the organization of its accounting systems. He
was to meet with his contact, and then meet with the client. Just after
he parked his car in a downtown garage, he heard and saw a huge
explosion that turned into a fireball 10 stories high just one block
from the client's office building! It startled him and many on the
street. A moment later he found out that the explosion was part of a
Hollywood movie stunt, and therefore did no harm. Still he was
shaking when he arrived at the client.
Knowing that an event such as this could be a sign of other things, he
asked his contact after the meeting if there were things he should know
about that were going on behind the scenes between the contact and the
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client. The contact then admitted that in fact things had gotten bad with
the client; that he was in the process of losing the account, and he had
hoped that the consultant's involvement could improve the situation. In
the end the consultant never got the work. Somehow, given the events
of the day (i.e. the explosion), he was not surprised. (Update Months
later another situation involved a client in a nearby location, which turned
out also to be troubled and also did not work out.)
Coincidence?
These are examples of one interesting life law. There are many other
interesting generally unseen laws of life. We say that these seemingly
logic-defying happenings are random occurrences, or that they are
"chance" or "coincidence." Our own observations and experiences has
been the opposite. We believe that these are in fact hidden laws of life,
including these phenomenon of cycles and repetitions, that occur with
great precision and regularity. What is responsible for these cycles and
phenomenon of life remains a mystery, but the fact that they occur is a
certainty.
Most importantly we can learn from these occurrences. By observing life
closely we can gain clues to help us make decisions on what to do (or not
to do), or how to respond to a person or events. In other words, this
"inner" knowledge, if applied correctly, can help us achieve and succeed
at higher levels in life.
Predecessor Events Indicate Main Event
Another fascinating phenomenon of life is that anything good or bad that
is going to happen to you is already indicated by something that occurred
earlier to you. E.g. the day before a woman gets terrible news that her
sister has eloped with a scoundrel in the military, she was deeply
bothered when hearing that the scoundrel's military outfit may have left
town. In this way the previous day's occurrence is a predecessor of the
major event that is to follow.
You can study any work of fiction and see how any major event was
foreshadowed by a negative circumstance earlier. It is also absolutely
true for the real world as well. It is a major rule of the working of life,
and there are no exceptions!
If we are vigilant, we can thus see the signs of major coming events.
Also, if we can learn to avoid negative situations in the first place that
might for the forerunners of the successor event. We can even use
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spiritual means to overcome the successor event if we can identify our
negative behavior or action in the first place and offer it to the Divine.
One's Speech Indicates Coming Event
A corollary of this phenomenon of predecessor to main events is that
whatever you speak in one moment announces in some fashion what is to
come in the next moment. This is especially obvious true when you fell or
express something negative.
A woman in a somewhat negative tone suggested to another that her
mother doesn't like exuberant children, and therefore spends the day
upstairs. After expressing this she reads a letter indicating a negative
elopement with one of those children her mother liked to avoid.
The lesson? Be careful of your negative tone; you might be attracting
sudden negative fortune your way.
Simultaneity
A related phenomenon we have witnessed is that acts and events that
occur at the same time are related, no matter how unconnected they
appear on the surface. In fact, the relation sometimes reveals itself later
on as a physical connection between people or events.
A consultant was working with his client to develop a software
program. While discussing its distribution and marketing an affiliate
partner of the client called the client, at which point the client
explained to the affiliate of the client about the work the consultant
was doing on the new software program. The affiliate didn't know
about the program. A number of months later when the marketing of
the program came up again at the location of the client, the affiliate of
the client was there too. This was remarkable since the consultant
was rarely at the client's location; nor the affiliate. Yet there they
were all discussing the marketing of the product, just as the initial
phone call occurrence.
Whenever acts and events occur at the same time, no matter how far
apart, or how seemingly unrelated on the surface, they are related at a
level of life, which will often later show itself at some physical level. In
addition, this phenomenon often represents a psychological parallel
between the thoughts or attitudes of different people who are involved.
A man received an email from a friend, at the same time that an
order came in from a client. These were the only two emails. It turns
out that the client's organization had the same ethical and spiritual
interests as the friend's.
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So the next time you see a number of things that happen at the same
time, not the relationship between the people and the circumstance under
which it occurs. It is likely to repeat sometime in the future, perhaps as a
physical connection amongst the people as it relates to the same area.
Aligning with The Cosmic Governance
"A world of endless possibilities and infinite outcomes. Countless choices
define our fate: each choice, each moment, a moment in the ripple of
time. Enough ripple, and you change the tide…... for the future is never
truly set." (from film X-Men, Days of Future Past)
Thinking about this - i.e. free will, our role in destiny, our power to
change the world, etc. - from the spiritual point of view, we can say that
there is an overall Cosmic Governance and determinism. Also, there is an
individual governance (through the Psychic being) which has itself
planted itself in our essence in order to acquire certain types of
experiences. Also, at any time, our acts vary anywhere from lower
consciousness (swabhava) to higher consciousness. When they reach a
certain intensity, right atmosphere, it's time for life to respond.
Sometimes we may align consciously or unconsciously (or
subconsciously) with the Cosmic Governance, Life would then respond in
greater magnitude. As a result, we would grow and evolve faster than
what we are now, and maybe we even could become the instrument of
the Divine to bring forth His cosmic intention. Yet, as indicated in the
film, the choices are infinite. We could align now, in the future, in the
next birth, and so forth.
On the opposite side, the lower consciousness acts also when we reach a
certain intensity causing life to respond negatively, resulting in Karmic
Effect. Yet, they do serve a purpose as well -- i.e. for the Psychic to learn
through those experiences through which it is seeking to learn and grow
in Life.
In 'Pride and Prejudice,' the Cosmic Governance was to unify the class
difference among the people to avoid revolutionary movement. The
opportunity to align with it came to Darcy in the very beginning. He chose
not to align by calling Eliza "tolerable". The result was a ripple of
experiences, which gave greater lessons for his Psychic being. He was
fortunate to learn them quickly, undoing the past and aligning with the
cosmic movement, even becoming an instrument of it.
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Instead of Repeating, Acts Reverse
As each act is a force, it has a tendency to repeat. However, when the
force of the act is insufficient for repetition or meets an obstacle that
prevents it from accomplishing in a particular direction, the energy of the
act may reverse course and express in a direction opposite to the original
act.
Examples:
-In Pride and Prejudice, Eliza facetiously asks Collins whether it would be
appropriate for him to attend the Netherfield ball. Her intention is to
discourage him from attending. He responds by asking her for the first
two dances, which she had hoped to reserve for Wickham. “Her liveliness
had never been worse timed.” Her clever comment is insufficient to
discourage Collins who sees the dance as an opportunity to promote his
courtship with her, so it provides him with an unexpected opening to
further his plan. Her cleverness backfires.
-In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy conceals Jane’s presence in London from
Bingley. At Rosings, Fitzwilliam unintentionally reveals to Eliza Darcy’s
interference between Jane and Bingley. The original act of intentional
concealment gets reversed as an act of unintentional disclosure.
Acts
The individual meets life through acts. Individual acts are the
fundamental unit of life and action. They are the building blocks of
activity, and motion, i.e. life. The ways these acts are acted out have an
ultimate effect on the ability of the individual to accomplish in life. Into
every act the individual takes his level of aspiration, capacities and
character, social perception, and meets the social forces around him. The
result and accomplishment is determined by the mix of these forces.
A series of acts make up the interaction, events, situations, and
circumstances of life. We can also perhaps say that the play of life is the
story of how the acts unfold, of whether or not there was
accomplishment. For example, in his plays Shakespeare portrays a series
of acts that occur in a timeline that make up a play. Through a series of
acts, he clearly portrays the individual and social forces, and the
outcomes that result, either good or bad (i.e. tragedies).
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Principles of Acts
When we function in the world we do so through the individual acts we
perform. We can say that the act is the fundamental unit of life in the
same way that the atom or molecule are the fundamental units of matter.
In fact, each act is in fact a microcosm of the universe; the universe in
miniature.
Each act is a force with a propensity to repeat that increase with each
occurrence. Each repetition of an act increases its tendency for further
repetitions. Comment: Each time you meet with a certain person after a
lengthy period of time, the person seems to be the same with all of the
same wanting qualities and limitations. And yet if we consecrate the act
beforehand, we can change those conditions, there will be freshness, as
the other person will show their very best nature. In that way, the natural
repetition of life is overcome.
There are always predecessor events that point to the bigger events. To
know those smaller acts can help us control the bigger ones; turning
them into great accomplishment and results. Comment: A man was
running into great difficulties searching for some lotion before a boat ride,
creating stress. When the boat ride occurred, it was marked by a near
catastrophic accident, which was indicated by the earlier stress of seeking
the lotion.
The outcome of a chain of events is indicated at the very beginning,
though the meaning of that indication may not be evident. Comment:
See above.
The consequences of an act depend on the strength of the act, the actor
and the social atmosphere. Comment: Darcy's initiative in Pride and
Prejudice to resolve the elopement succeeds royally because he was very
determined to do so (and to show Eliza he has changed his nature); plus
the supporting atmosphere, despite obstacles, is very positive.
An individual's ability to accomplish is affected by the social environment
and atmosphere -- which includes the capacities, energies, character, and
circumstance of the social environment and social institutions he is
involved in.
An opportunity taken up in a positive atmosphere supports and enhances
its eventual outcome. Comment: The atmosphere in Pride and Prejudice
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was highly positive, despite obstacles, which ended in the very successful
marriage of three daughters. Life responded positively to the initiative.
When the atmosphere is negative, the initiative will fail, unless the
individual is able overcome the resistance of the atmosphere. Comment:
Two partners tried to make an import business work, yet there was ill-will
against the manufacturers that created such a negative atmosphere that
it led to the failure of the partner's endeavor, even though they tried so
hard to succeed. Their energies were not strong and subtle enough to
combat the resistance.
When there are deficiencies in the act that are greater than the
atmosphere, the act fails. When the capacities are stronger than the
atmosphere, then the act succeeds.
When an individual tries to make a significant progress for improvement
in life, often there appears on the scene a negative influence and counter
force to bring it down. If the person has the significant energy and
character they can overcome this negative influence and move on to the
next level. If they don't they are brought down. Comment: In the film
Unbreakable, when one man rises with extraordinary psychic capacities to
benefit the world around him, a negative force rises -- they are unknown
to each other -- to overcome that positive force. Life has this quality.
The negative is responding to the positive. Fortunately, the positive
individual through his inner strength prevails.
Another Example: A woman had reached maximum prosperity due to her
capacity, but at the same time was threatened by her husband and in
laws to stop praying and apply spiritual principles. She then took a firm
decision, forgetting her future and child, and instead increased her
energy and faith towards her spiritual teacher, and said in her mind to
others "if you don't want me to pray to the Divine and follow the spiritual
principles, I don't want to live with you." The moment when she forgot
the society, its norms and in laws, life responded with a Divine blessing in
the form of birth of a new baby girl. (MSS, with comment by Growth
Online, and a Karmayogi.net forum reader)
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Acts Repeat
Preventing Life from Repeating Negatively
Life has a character just like you and I. It expresses through subtle laws.
One principle is that life tends to repeat; and will go on doing so until
there is a higher understanding. A corollary is that every event that
occurs is indicated beforehand through another event. And there are
absolutely no exceptions to this rule.
Though life can repeat negatively (and we see the predecessor of such an
event), we fortunately have the inner power to prevent its repetition --
avoiding painful, difficult iterations now and in the future. We do that by
perceiving the trends in our own lives, and deciding in our hearts and
minds that it will not occur again, which will have the effect of negating
the negatives. Another approach is to understand the negative repetition
and predecessor and offer it to the Divine. Then it too will not only cease
to repeat in the short run, but the wanting behavior can be permanently
removed from our being, while evoking startling positive outcomes in the
process.
Let's examine a practical occurrence of these two interrelated principles -
- repetition and predecessor events -- through a negative situation in a
work of fiction. Then we'll examine how an understanding and access to
Spirit not only cancelled a repeating, predecessor-inducing negative, but
elicited staggering positive outcomes, including a fundamental change in
a friend's nature.
In the recent (2010) British Masterpiece Classic series Downton Abbey,
we observe a kitchen staff working in the basement of a great estate,
preparing meals for the owners and dignitaries who gather there in the
British countryside. In this particular incident, the main cook has been
asked by the Lady of the manor if she can prepare a different desert for
an upcoming important dinner. Shockingly, the cook cries out in anguish
that she won't do that, offering the excuse that she doesn't have the
time. Everyone in the kitchen is taken aback by her outrageous behavior.
This incident is in essence the foundation for potential future negative
circumstance.
Now the day of the great dinner arrives. As they the staff about to serve
the main course, the cook stumbles, trays go flying, and the cooked
chickens for the dinner are rolling around on the unclean floor! The
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kitchen staff, including the cook, stands aghast at what has taken place.
This is in essence a repetition of the first episode where the cook angrily
reacted when asked to prepare a different desert. Life waited until this
critical moment of serving to the guests for the iteration and repetition to
occur.
Time passes that evening and the moment has come for the desert to be
served. After it is set down before each person gathered around the great
dining table, the main invited guest and dignitary lifts his spoon to have a
taste, but then spits it out as it is utterly foul. The host of the abbey then
warns all gathered there to refrain from eating the desert. It turns out
that the cook had accidentally put salt on the strawberries instead of
sugar! It was an outrageous faux pas that was extremely embarrassing to
the hosts, who pride themselves in perfection in all matters, including
culinary affairs.
Once again, this is a repetition of an earlier act along the very same line.
The salt on the desert was a repeat of the previous spilling of the
chickens on the floor, which was itself a repetition of the cook's anguish
when asked to prepare a different desert. Now that the ACTUAL original,
non-changed desert has been served, it turns into a fiasco!
That is precisely how life works. It tends to repeats the same vibration,
circumstance, unfolding over and over. It can happen positively,
neutrally, or negatively. Negatively it only ceases when there is a change
in understanding on the part of the individual or party of what is amiss --
such as an awareness of one's wanting quality that precipitated the
repeating outcomes.
As mentioned earlier, we can also perceive this particular triple negative
outcome in terms of another life principle: that everything that occurs in
life is indicated beforehand. In this case, we need to see events in
reverse order. In the story, the outrage of the salty desert was indicated
by the previous accident of the felled chickens, which was itself indicated
by the earlier agitation of the cook who was unwilling to create the
substitute desert in the first place. In this way, every event we
experience in life has been indicated beforehand. And, there are
absolutely no exceptions to this rule!
The question then arises: what can we do to influence such outcomes,
especially if they occur negatively?
In the case of the life repeats principle, we can exercise our powers of
observation and perceive when it occurs in our own lives. From there we
can move toward understanding its cause, which will have the life power
to prevent its repetition. For example, a friend of mine, -- after many
hints from others -- finally realized that he was always late to dinner
meetings and related functions. (In fact, I witnessed this tendency
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repeatedly over the course of three decades.) As a result of my friend's
new understanding, not only was he not late at our luncheon meeting,
but he arrived several minutes early; in fact, before I did! Apparently, at
some level, he was able to overcome that wanting quality through his
own self-knowledge, decision, and action. Thus, the repetition had finally
come to an end.
Another way to combat repetition of the negative is to use a spiritual
technique; which is to offer the entire matter to the spiritual Force, and
then wait for It to act. That's precisely the method I practiced at that
same luncheon meeting with the friend who was always late. Before I
walked into the restaurant, I thought about how he had been tardy every
time we met in the past. I then sat quietly, concentrated myself within,
and offered that entire past history (as well as upcoming lunch meeting)
to the Divine. As I mentioned earlier, when I walked into that meeting, I
was stunned to discover that he was already there, thereby breaking the
cycle after thirty years.
But there was much more, as a startling set of events unfolded. First of
all, he was sitting on the opposite side from where we normally dined; a
first after our many get together there. In addition, he was sitting at the
other side of the table, looking outward to the front, another first. Now I
perceived a set of physical reversals due to my consecrated effort.
However, then friend then proceeded to hypnotize me with an amazing
story of a two-week ordeal he had just gone through where he was
caught in a blizzard on New York City. There he managed to get around
in places he was unfamiliar with, with all public services shut down, while
traversing three hospitals where members of his family were suddenly
laid up. But even more startling was the fact that it all occurred in my old
neighborhood where I was raised, on the other side of the country, which
I had not visited in over 30 years!
But what was most startling of all was the fact that because of this great
ordeal, he had made the inner commitment to embark on a new writing
career, of which this two-week episode was an illustration of a wider
social issue he would address. I was startled to hear about this sudden
change in his life's direction.
In other words, by understanding from my side the history of the
repeating problem, aspiring that it ceases in the upcoming lunch meeting,
and offering the entire matter to the Divine Mother, a thirty-year pattern
had come to an end, while evoking a startling set of circumstance that
were nothing less than a miracle. Thus, from both our sides, we had
overcome life's repeating pattern in its negative form. He through his
self-knowledge; myself through concentration and the power of the
Spirit.
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It also demonstrated once more the power we have to redirect the course
of our lives from within. From a relatively small matter and issue, we
together evoked a stunning powerful set of circumstance, indicating that
the infinite can emerge from the smallest finite.
The overall approach then to avoiding repetition can be stated this way:
Each time we experience a negative outcome in our lives, we can try to
understand its inner cause, aspire for its cessation, and act in the right
way. That way we will avoid its repetition in the future. If we also offer
that wanting capacity in ourselves or others to the Divine Force, not only
will the difficulty cease to repeat (and the predecessor cycle overcome),
but astonishing positive results will follow.
Life Responds (And Repeats) At Mo's In The 'Book'
In Garry Jacobs' profound epic novel 'The Book' a mystical tome appeared
at various moments in time where significant revolutionary events were
taking place in the world, each of which, in effect, bringing greater good
to humanity.
As the story progressed "the Book" reached Dan when he visited Moe's
Book store in Berkeley, California. It was a Life Response to his Inner
Aspiration and Equality of Being in his demeanor when he encountered a
difficult situation - in this case, the project rejection letter from NASA.
Dan then happened to visit the same location several years later, when
the same sort of situation, involving the inner and outer, took place.
From the outer perspective, it appeared the Book was lost. Yet he
maintained his calmness and Equality of Being inside. His Inner Aspiration
convinced him that the Book would not leave him until it finished the
work. And so it did not.
As a response from life, the Book miraculously came to him in both
situations. It was also proof of the profound principle that life tends to
repeat with similar situations, including the same sorts of outcomes.
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Acts Repeat
The first principle we present about acts -- and an extraordinary one at
that -- is that they tend to repeat. The greater the intensity of the force
and the more times it repeats, the greater its capacity for further
repetition. The quality and intensity of the force express in each
subsequent repetition of the act. Here's are several example of a
repetition of an act.
In Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice Darcy’s initial refusal to dance with
Eliza at the Meryton dance repeats as Eliza’s initial refusal to dance with
Darcy when he asks her during her stay at Netherfield Hall.
"One day I was watching a TV program. In the middle of the show, I
received a phone call from a friend of mine. While listening to my
friend I sensed that there was some connection between her and the
program I was just watching. Months passed, and I found myself
watching a rerun of this same program. What was incredible was that
I noticed that I received a call from this same friend at the exact
same moment I was watching the identical scene on television from
that person. There was more to it, however. I noticed that my friend
on the phone was having problems with an individual who had the
exact same rather complex Asian name as the person on the show."
As we begin to see how acts repeat in our lives -- defying our normal
perceptions of how life unfolds -- we can begin to benefit from our
observations. E.g., we can learn to perceive when to take, or not take,
actions based on a pervious occurrence of the act. That is, if you know
the pattern of a repetition of an act, especially a negative one, you can
overcome its ability to repeat in the future. So if a man who becomes ill
every five years, can note its frequency, assume that the illness is likely
to repeat in another years, and take precautions to prevent its
reoccurrence when the next iteration rolls around. He can say, "Ah here it
is coming on again. I am over-stressed again in this cycle, which is what
ordinarily brings on the repetition. I will take actions to prevent such
reoccurrence." Now as a result of perceiving the coming repetition, this
individual has changed the course of his life.
Consider one other real life experience, where an individual saw a
repetition of an act that expressed negatively, and then was able to avoid
it the second time, i.e. when it would have normally repeated:
A computer consultant worked on a consulting project for a number of
hours and days only to find out that he could not do the project
because of his limiting skills. It was clear from the onset that he might
not be able to do it. In fact, as it turned out he was unable to do it for
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the client, honestly explained it to the client, who were grateful of his
honesty, and had now found a company who could do it. On the other
hand, the consultant wasted a lot of time. As it turned out the project
was later completed by the other consulting company in fine order. A
few months later, the consultant was asked if he could help the same
client with another project. Again, it was an area just out of his
expertise, even though he had had a little experience with the
program many years before. This time, remembering that acts repeat,
he knew that he would likely be wasting a lot of time if he were to
take it on. He firmly decided not to take on the project because of the
likelihood that the current situation was likely to be a repetition of the
same situation that happened initially.
Thus from pattern recognition of the repetition of acts one has the insight
to change, i.e. to negate or reinforce, the future. It is a miracle of insight
into the workings of life, including understandings of the true, subtle
nature of space of time. If we are conscious, we will be able to recognize
the patterns; if we are not, the likelihood of seeing the patterns and
reversing them is very limited. In summary then there are at least two
ways to prevent a repetition. The first is an action or will on our part
related to the act that is more powerful than the force that wants to
repeat. The other is our recognition of the pattern in the first place, which
has the power to cancel the next iteration. In other words, we can be
aware of life's patterns of repetitions of acts, and then we can consciously
control the next repetition. We have that conscious power in life.
Various Ways Life Repeats in Pride and Prejudice
Below is a list of the various ways we see life repeating in Jane Austin's
Pride and Prejudice:
Another Acts in Similar Fashion to One's Self -- When Mrs. Bennet first
asks Mr. Bennet to call on Bingley, Mr. Bennet protests and apparently
refuses, but the next day he goes in deference to her request. When
Bingley becomes interested in Jane, his sisters and Darcy protest, though
ultimately they all accept Jane as his wife. Bennet's initial protest is
mirrored by their own. The vibration of protest continues and ripples
through the story. His initial reaction is a portent of the reactions that
come later.
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An Act Repeats in a Similar Way -- Bingley brings Darcy to Herefordshire
and is the first to call Darcy's attention to Eliza, where he suggests Darcy
asking her to dance at the Meryton ball. Later it is Bingley who brings
Darcy back to Herefordshire and then to Longbourn and during that time
Darcy proposes to Eliza.
Another Acts in Similar Fashion to One's Self -- Darcy's initial refusal to
dance with Eliza at the Meryton ball repeats as Eliza's initial refusal to
dance with Darcy when he asks her during her stay at Netherfield ball.
Darcy first reacts to Bingley's suggestion and then reverses his reaction
by asking Eliza to dance at Netherfield. At this point, Eliza is still reacting
to Darcy's initial behavior -- first by refusing his dance offer, later by
refusing his marriage proposal! Life has to wait until she too plays out the
reaction and its reversal. Both respond negatively to the first approach of
greater opportunity, so life or karma has to take its course.
Another Acts in Similar Fashion to One's Self -- Eliza teases Darcy during
their dance at Netherfield ball. The rest of the evening she is 'teased' by
Collins who clings to her and the teasing repeats.
Two Person's React Similarly -- - Collins takes for granted that Eliza will
accept his marriage proposal just as Darcy does when he proposes to her
later. The false presumption repeats.
Two People Have a Shared Coincidental Experience Repeatedly -- Darcy
and Eliza meet by surprise at Hunsford and then meet again by surprise
at Pemberley. They are brought together repeatedly by the initiative of
life, rather than by their own initiative. The chance encounter repeats.
Darcy's problem of elopement (Wickham's elopement with Georgiana)
comes to Eliza (Wickham's elopement with Lydia). Darcy arrives at the
inn in Lambton at the same moment as the letter from Jane, so Eliza
feels compelled to confide in him and he has the opportunity to solve a
problem for her family that originated in his family. Both Elopement and
confiding are repeated.
An Individual Repeats the Same Action in Different Circumstance --
Wickham's elopement with Lydia is a continuation and fulfillment of the
movement of his failed attempt to elope with Georgiana. In the first case,
Darcy arrived by chance two days early. In this case, Darcy arrives to
convert it into a marriage.
Quarrel Repeats through Multiple Generations -- The quarrel of Collin's
father with Bennet's father repeats in Eliza's 'quarrel' with Collins when
she refuses his proposal and he abruptly departs from Longbourn. The
quarrel repeats.
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Collins returns to Longbourn for the second time after proposing to
Charlotte, rather than staying with Lucases. He later has to receive Eliza
at the parsonage where Darcy proposes to Eliza.
Positive Attitude to Another Attracts Same Result for Self -- Collins feels
abused by Eliza's refusal of his marriage proposal. By informing Lady
Catherine of Darcy's proposed engagement to Eliza, Collins becomes an
instrument for Lady Catherine's visit and abuses Eliza about Darcy's
marriage proposal. Eliza meant no ill will by refusing Collins. As a result,
Collins gets a better match in Charlotte. Eliza feels no harm from Lady
Catherine's abuse. It brings Darcy to propose and the abuse leading to
positive results repeats.
One's Response to Another is Repeated by Another to One's Self --
Impossible! -- Eliza's response to Charlotte's engagement repeats as
Jane's response to Eliza's engagement.
Outset Indicates Repetitions -- On the return trip of Eliza, Jane and Maria
from London to Herefordshire, Lydia wants to treat her sisters with lunch
but makes them pay. They will continue to pay for the rest of their life.
(MSS)
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Predecessor, Initial Occurrence Acts
All Indicated Beforehand
Sri Karmayogi indicates that everything that happens is indicated
beforehand. And there are no exceptions.
Further Comment: If we develop a keen sense of observation one can
verify the absolute truth of this principle. E.g. a study of Pride and
Prejudice will show that every event is indicated somewhere before; often
in the smallest, subtlest form.
One aspect of this is that if there is negative circumstance occurring,
there were then one or more indicators of it happening earlier. This
means that if at that earlier time we recognized a negative when it
happened, no matter how large or small, and consecrated it, then the
negative that followed it would never have occurred. That's why constant
consecration is so powerful. (Roy Posner)
Predecessor Events Indicating Future Outcomes and The Power We Can Have Over Them
One aspect that relates to both the Character of Life and Life Response is
the phenomenon of "Predecessor Events." That things occurring in the
present indicate things to come in the future.
Eg in the book 'Lady Anna' by Trollope a young woman is on a date with a
ruthless cousin. And on their meeting, she trips and does serious damage
to her leg. Months later this man and a relative will strive to kill both the
your woman and her significant other.
As we see small circumstance can indicate future ones; large or small,
negative or positive.
To avoid the negative iteration(s), take notice the original negative
circumstance as it occurs or just occurred and Consecrate it (offering it to
the divine Power). That way the negative iteration in future will NOT
occur.
If the negative does come (where consecration was not evoked) and
negative repeating consequences followed, one can do "Past
Consecration" to overcome the past's influence on the present. Intense
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contrition when taking to this spiritual-like act will bring greater power
and effectivity to the Past Consecration effort. (Roy Posner)
Each Thing Is Indicated Beforehand
One of the profound principles that Karmayogi has revealed to us is that
each thing that occurs in life is indicated beforehand. And there are no
exceptions. A powerful positive or negative outcome in the future is
always indicated by a small or large event earlier on. Thus, if we are
conscious of the predecessor (whether or not we perceive it as such), any
great negative can be avoided later on. I.e. We can simply consecrate the
small negative condition that comes to our attention, and the larger
problem will not arise in future.
Also when our consciousness is centered more deeply within, we will
perceive such small indicators as pregnant with potentiality, whereas
living on the surface misses these subtle warnings.
And yet even if we fail to recognize and consecrate such predecessors
when they arise and were then affected negatively affected, we can still
practice "past consecrate" to overcome its continued influence in the
present.
In the Trollope novel 'Lady Anna' a young woman on a date with her
cousin seriously injures her leg while walking across pods of stones on a
pond. It would turn out to be a predecessor and harbinger of this man's
later complicity in trying to murder her and her beloved.
This dynamic also occurs and is discussed several times by the team in
Garry Jacobs' novel 'The Book.'
There is no greater fool than someone who does not respond when Life
compels him to take action.
Success, Failure of Similar Initiatives Indicate Final
Outcome
When two individuals take a small initiative in an area and for one it
works out and for the other it does not, it indicates bigger success to
come for the person who succeeded in the earlier small initiative, and
failure for the other person.
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Eg in the film 'Wicker Park,' Alex goes into the camera shop hoping to
meet Matt but fails. Lisa goes into the shoe store willing to meet Matt and
succeeds. This reflects the fact that Alex's initiatives will eventually fail to
win Matt and Lisa's will eventually succeed in getting him back.
The Button and the Battery
Every human has a character we can identify. It is clear from their
thoughts and actions. It is less easy to understand that life itself has a
character as well. Life's character is subtle and deep. However, if we can
come to understand it, we can become its Master.
One principle of life is very subtle indeed. It is that everything that comes
or happens to us is indicated by something, some event beforehand.
Moreover, there are absolutely no exceptions to this rule. Here is an
example that demonstrates this principle in action.
A year or two ago I lost a little bit of weight after gaining some while
writing my book on Life Response. I therefore was now able to fit into a
size 36 pants, instead of 38. However, in a reversal during recent months
I have started to burst out of the pants to the point that the clasp gotten
loosened and it was necessary to sew a button on instead, which would in
effect give a little more room.
On this particular weekend, I took my usual relaxing ride down to Silicon
Valley and back. When I arrived at my standard landing post, a gas
station, I fueled up and purchased a coffee in the large, abundant
refreshment area. On the way out, I then took out my cell phone with the
intention of calling a friend to discuss a blockbuster film I had just seen.
When I opened the driver's-side door and began to sit down, my pants
suddenly burst open! I then realized that a newly sewn button had been
broken off. I now had to sit down in the car with my pants ajar, and with
no belt to secure me!
I then proceeded to make my phone call to my friend. However, just
before I dialed, I wondered if I should hold back since the burst button
was a sign that it might not be the right time. I then decided to push on,
ignoring the thought and making the phone connection. My friend and I
then had a lively discussion about the film ('Avatar'), and then went
followed that up with a conversation about economic matters and other
topics. After an hour or so, my friend suddenly informed me that he had
to get off the phone because he needed to have his lunch. Apparently, his
blood sugar was running low and he was beginning to tremble a bit.
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So I said my goodbyes, turned off the cell phone, and began to prepare
to leave. I then turned the keys in the ignition, but the car would not
start. I suddenly realized that my battery had gone completely dead. A
moment later, I understood that because I had left the heater on during
our conversation, the battery had become drained.
I now was in the middle of nowhere, with no one to help me. And so I
took out my phone again and noticed that it too was also nearly drained
of power! I had just enough juice in the phone to call for help. Realizing
that my AAA had expired, I thought I had just enough power on the
phone to call a friend. After explaining my plight, she made the nearly
one hour drive and rescued me by giving my car a charge from hers
vehicle using my jumper cables. We then drove back to our common
destination from our separate cars.
There is one simple lesson that can be derived from this story. In every
outcome in life, there is a predecessor event that indicates its coming
occurrence. In this situation, the button breaking off of my pants was an
indicator of a problem(s) to come -- the dead car, the drained phone, and
the expired road assistance card. Though I sensed a problem when the
button first came off, I failed to listen to "the inner suggestion," and
instead acted on my urge to call a friend. Had I heeded the sign, I could
have avoided all the problems that followed.
There is another approach to dealing with a potential negative
predecessor one perceives. It is to offer that situation up to the Higher
Power, which will give one protection from any future outcomes, or
otherwise set right the related future conditions of life. Doing so
overcomes the karma of the situation, preventing problematic outcomes
from unfolding.
Insuring Splendid Outcomes by Tracing Its Beginnings
Spiritual sage Sri Karmayogi tells us that the ultimate outcomes of a
project, work, circumstance, etc. can be seen at the very beginning. At
the outset of a related chain of conditions there are acts that are
indicators of the final outcome of that life flow, whether a project in a
business, a home purchase, even a marriage.
Mother’s Service Society researchers have traced many instances of this
startling phenomenon. E.g. in Pride and Prejudice Mrs. Bennet announced
at the very beginning the arrival of two young, handsome, very rich,
eligible bachelors, which is in fact what happens at the very end, when
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they marry two of her own daughters, sending her middle class family to
the heights of wealth and social status.
What good are such perceptions? It can help you anticipate, if not predict
the future (the final outcome). A crime investigator, or a doctor, or a
businessperson with that subtle sense can make decisions and take
actions that abridge space and time through that knowledge; by either
moving in the opposite direction of a negative event up front in that
chain, or reinforcing any positives that arose at the outset. Developing a
Subtle Sense to see that will facilitate the process; i.e. paying attention
to the flow of life; as will an ability to make the correspondence between
the outer conditions and one’s own attitudes, motives, beliefs, decisions
and actions.
Thus through this startling phenomenon of Life, you can become Its
complete Master.
Here are some examples of the phenomenon from the negative side:
-When Nixon and Kennedy vied for the presidency in 1960, it was
extremely close and contentious, with Kennedy winning by a hair.
Kennedy was later assassinated, ending his administration. What
happened at the start was an indicator of the final outcome.
-Bush Jr. won the presidency by an extremely small amount after an
overwhelmingly contentious dispute in Florida settled by the Supreme
Court. It appeared that his side did all to block the truth from emerging.
His administration ended in near disaster for the country and the world.
-In the Russian Revolution, a group of serious-minded thinkers ended up
resorting to slaughter of the aristocracy it wished to replace, which
culminated in years of rule by the devil-like Stalin who had 30 million
shot to death. Events at the outset indicated an outcome that was to
come.
-Arnold Schwarzenegger’s self-serving ascent to the governorship of
California by cleverly taking advantage of a negative situation was a
precedent of how he would later leave the state in financial taters.
-One man I know was desperately trying to meet some people in a
suburb of Los Angeles for a crucial meeting. He ended up getting utterly
lost in a maze of suburban streets. Though he would later find the place
and create a business relationship that would last several years, that
undertaking ended in bankruptcy. (Had he opened to the spiritual Force
to cancel the negative there and then, he might have overcome the
disastrous eventuality.)
-An individual was desperately trying to get some sun tan lotion before
taking a cruise on a tiny riverboat in Sacramento, California. His effort
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was intense and confused, though he and his friend managed to get on
board just a moment before the little boat embarked. Twenty minutes
into the trip a super, modern speedboat zoomed by, nearly cutting the
boat in half. What happens at the outset indicated the thing to come.
(Had he caught his emotions and remained steady, he never would have
attracted the near disaster.)
Sri Karmayogi indicates that if you want perfect success at the end, trace
its path to its earliest beginnings. All those events will be of the same
character; with the same motive, attitude, opinion, etc. of the individual
precipitating them. Once identified, withdraw the negatives that created
the wanting outcomes at the start and presently, and reinforce the
positive ones. Life will respond overwhelmingly in your favor.
You can also make that change at the very beginning, by catching the
smallest or largest negative that appears. You can readily identify these
by seeing the correspondence between the inner you and the outer
conditions. Taking this approach at the outset will change the course of
life relative to those circumstance. It’s a way of insuring perfection in the
outcome; avoiding considerable effort and the meanderings of life. In
other words, it creates the greatest efficiency of space and time.
Finally, it is also worth noting positive outcomes that occur at the start --
such as workers being always on time, the firm passing quota the first
week, much smoother running of machines, passing deadlines earlier
than anticipated, and so forth. Whatever their nature, they too are
indicators of our own individual consciousness and/or that of the
collective. Identifying and reinforcing them at the beginning as well as
along the way will ensure the final outcome is great, far exceeding our
initial aspirations and projections.
Consecrating to the Spiritual Force at all critical junctures and in all
details in any of these scenarios will insure the workings of Luck,
guaranteeing extraordinary outcomes, enabling the Infinite to replace the
finite.
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A further illustration from Ramesh Kumar:
Recently I got an offer from Indian Railways to strengthen certain old
bridges. I was so excited to get such an offer, as such specialized job
normally will only be given to already registered established contractors.
Initially, they offered three bridges as trial.
I went to site inspection and thoroughly inspected the first two bridges.
By that time, it was 4:00 pm and the bridge was around 250 kms from
Chennai. I planned to reach Chennai the same night, though it was not
necessary. As I was thinking about that, one of the two persons from
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Railways who accompanied me, reflected my mood and said, the third
bridge which is about 50 kms away is similar to this. But another person
said “no - better you look at it. You are like a Doctor and you should be
aware that no two patients are similar”. As the former view fitted my
mood, I took that and returned to Chennai without visiting the third
bridge. After a few days, I got order for the three bridges and started the
work.
Everything went smoothly on the first two bridges and I was very happy
about the profits I was making out of it. I even proudly tweeted about
this achievement, so that all other my links also know about this, because
it was very difficult to enter as a Vendor in Railways now-a-days without
corrupt practices. After 10 days or so, we started the work for the third
bridge, and there came the thud.
The bridge was in worse condition than expected, and it started sucking
all the profits I made on the other two bridges. The road had to be
blocked for more than the planned days, and as it was in a main high
way, the pressures from all departments concerned started affecting my
morale to the point that I vowed not to do a public sector job again. I
panicked when I crossed the breakeven point (no loss, no gain) and
started incurring loss on the project. The way it was going, I expected
there to be a heavy loss.
That is the point I ran to the Mother and started “past consecration.” As
Karmayogi says the key lies in 10 or 15 minutes of conversations,
happenings, atmosphere, emotion, etc. I started analyzing that. The first
10 minutes or so was fine, and only when I thought of returning to
Chennai - just for comfort of sleeping in my house - in my bedroom that
things went awry. There is no other reason. At that point only one person
reflected my mood and said not to visit the third bridge. But the other
person tried to raise my consciousness by saying that – I am an
experienced person, and I should see all before taking on the job. But
alas I preferred the comfort zone, knowing very well that life won’t give
opportunities within it. I tried to avoid physical work of going 50 kms
which attracted the problem at the physical, vital and mental level, only
to arrive at the knowledge that we should act from the highest wisdom or
the highest professional knowledge we have.
Having realized that, I consecrated everything and vowed not to stay in
comfort zone thereafter. As a remedy, I took the tool of “taking
responsibility”. I informed our Operation Manager to do the job with all
necessary inputs as promised in our quote and not to try to save money
by any sort of compromise; even if it was going to incur a heavy loss.
After a few days, the site was visited by the authorities and one of the
senior engineers saw it and asked me whether I incurred any loss on the
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bridge. I said ‘yes’. He said - “Yes I can see from the quantity of the
materials used. I can help you within my powers to give you a 10%
increase in contract value as unforeseen expenses and raise the bill
accordingly”.
This led me exactly to the breakeven point with a sigh of relief.
Predecessor Events Indicate Outcome in Famous Moment in
History
In the 16th century, Spain planned to invade England, who was being
ruled by the great Queen Elizabeth. Because of various grievances
against her, King Philip of Spain had begun to prepare a great fleet that
would invade the much smaller and poorer England. However, from the
start, the Spanish faced a number of unexpected problems. First, the
commander of the enterprise, Santa Cruz, died. Then his successor was
not at all suited to the post, since he had little faith in the enterprise, and
little experience, to the point where he begged Philip to release him from
the charge. There were additional preparation problems that followed.
The Spanish fleet had 100 ships, an overwhelming advantage over the
English. But the English were waiting. On the cliffs of England and Wales,
men watched the seas day and night, waiting for the first sighting of the
great Armada. When the ships appeared, beacons were lit on the
hillsides, which sent the message over the cliffs and throughout the
country. Not only was the weather dreadful, with the wind and rain
decidedly against the Spanish intentions, but they were not able to
compete with the superior English ships and war tactics. In the end, the
Spanish suffered a humiliating defeat in the English Channel.
In this great moment of history, we see a profound subtle principle of life
at work. It states that every major event has one or more predecessor
incidents that indicate the final outcome of the undertaking. In this case,
though the Spanish were vastly superior militarily, there were problems
that arose on their side from the very beginning. These were in fact
indicators of the final outcome -- i.e. their humiliating defeat suffered at
the hands of a much weaker, though more determined and tactically-
aware adversary.
If you watch the events in your own life very carefully, you will see that
every major event, including every negative outcome you have
experienced was preceded by a predecessor incident in the beginning.
E.g. one man who tried to meet a company for the first time, got
completely lost. Several years later after doing business with that firm,
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the man's own company went out of business. The original confusion was
indicative of the final outcome.
Though every major event in life has a predecessor that indicates the
final outcome, we can become sensitive to and aware of the negatives
that appear at the outset, and take the right course of actions that can
avoid the ultimate crash at the end. One way is to open to the spirit. If
we consecrate to the Spirit the negative predecessor, we will set in
motion a chain of events that will cancel the ultimate negative outcome.
In that way, we can break the chain of life's inevitable unfolding, based
on the starting indicators. In that way, we overcome Nature's slow,
difficult, and inevitable course in which we are less the determiners than
the determined, and substitute the higher course of Soul, which gives us
ultimate power over life.
Predecessor Events to a River Adventure
Life expresses in a number of subtle ways that defy our normal
perceptions. Those who are in tune with these subtle functionings
continually experience a wondrous existence. One example of this is to
experience the phenomenon of "life response"; i.e. if you change your
consciousness within, life responds with sudden good fortune. E.g., you
change your attitude towards someone you had ill-will towards, and
suddenly from out of nowhere, you are offered the job of your dreams.
These instances of life response occur because of the fundamental
relationship that exists between our consciousness within and the world
around. Thus, if we change the inner, life outside ourselves instantly
responds in kind.
This identifiable subtle functioning indicate that life itself has a real and
observable character, not unlike our own individual character. Those who
perceive its hidden workings gain a vast knowledge of and a great power
over life. Here I would like to focus on one other phenomenon that
expresses this "character of life." It involves what can be called
"predecessor and successor events." Essentially, it indicates that every
occurrence in life -- large or small, good or bad -- is always preceded by
circumstances that point to it. Let me explain with a personal experience.
One day I journeyed to nearby Sacramento, the capitol of California.
Located in the fertile Central Valley of the state, it is also a river town
where two of California's great waterways converge. When visiting the
city, I like to go to Old Town section, which lies on the edge of the river.
When one gazes out across the water, one sees not only a lovely view,
but often a large array of recreational sports vehicles on the water --
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from designer yachts to extraordinary powerboats to great Mississippi
riverboats. There is also tucked away a tiny little vessel called "The River
Otter" that takes people on a one-hour tour of a small portion of the 200-
mile river. It turns out that I had taken this lovely and serene excursion
once before, and on this particular day was eager to do it again.
Though my friend and I signed up for the 1:05pm tour, I soon realized
that I didn't have sun lotion, which was important to me since I am fair-
skinned. As a result, I had to race around amongst the dozens of stores
in Old Town to find some. When I finally found the lotion, I rushed back
to the boat which was about to begin its run. However, when I arrived,
my friend informed me that she had to use the rest facilities. I then
headed down from the wharf into the boat and joined the dozen or more
passengers already on board. I then sat there nervously, hoping that my
friend would arrive before we left shore. Not one minute before we cast
off, my friend arrived. It was a very close call!
As we headed up river, the captain pointed out that there had been a
large overnight gathering of over 400 boats where the Sacramento and
the American rivers converged -- an area lurking just up ahead. Not five
minutes after learning of this fact, a large speedboat approached us at
exceedingly fast speed, while rocking up and down due to the intentional
wild maneuvers of the driver. As it zoomed by, it sounded as if the boat
was about to careen out of control. Fortunately, the driver was able to
maintain control, thus avoiding a high-speed crash with our own little
vessel. We all held our collective breath as the boat blew by and then
skittered up river.
After this little adventure, we passed a number of people riding on jet
skis, which were also furiously racing up and down that length of the
river. We then had a relatively uneventful but enjoyable remainder of our
journey.
Soon after we returned to shore, I began to think about the entire affair.
One thing I quickly perceived was the correlation between what had
taken place before we departed and what happened during the river tour
itself. The fact that I had to race around at the last minute to get the
lotion was a predecessor and indicator of things to come. So too was my
friend's hurried, last-minute arrival on the scene before casting off. In
fact, she had also told me that it took her so long because she had been
blocked by a train that suddenly crossed in front of her! Also, when we
first embarked, I noticed that the skipper of our boat had a cast on his
leg due to a break in a recent accident. All of these problematic
circumstances were then the precedents of the difficult adventure that
was to follow.
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It is thus one subtle truth of life that every major circumstance that
occurs is always preceded by one or more identifiable predecessor
events. Interestingly, there is no exception to this rule; it always
happens! Sometimes the predecessor happens immediately before hand;
other times, hours or days before. It is an astounding phenomenon that
points to its subtle nature and character of life. To see it once in action
can change one's view of reality forever! With that in mind, I would like
to relate one other brief example of this phenomenon:
One time a friend and I went to visit a relative of hers for Thanksgiving
dinner. The couple had only recently been married. Though it was about
an hour drive to the house, it took us nearly five hours to arrive, due to a
stupendous, unprecedented traffic jam on the highways. As it turned out,
less than a year later we learned that the couple unexpectedly had a
falling out, which quickly lead to their divorce. The stupendous traffic jam
to visit them was the predecessor and indicator of the unhappy news that
followed.
If this is how life works, is there a way to avoid the negatives outcomes
that invariably follow a negative predecessor? I believe there is. If you
experience something untoward, offer it to the Spirit, to the Divine. This
is the method of "consecrating" an act. By consecrating negative
circumstance to the spiritual Force, you invariably reduce or cancel any
potential future problems; in essence, diffusing the "karma" that had
been set in motion. You can also consecrate the events leading up to the
predecessor as well. E.g. I could have opened to the Force before I ever
embarked on that day's journey to the river city, likely preventing most
of the difficulties that occurred.
What Occurs at Outset Indicates Final Outcome In Computer
Consulting Incident
Life contains subtle laws, 99% if which are not known by we humans. A
number of those principles revolve around our actions. We call them
subtle Laws of Acts. One of the central laws is that what occurs at the
outset of any circumstance, indicates the outcome. Let me give you a
recent true-life example.
A man was working on a contract basis with clients. Each contract was a
mini project that would generally take less than a day. His latest contract
was with a gentleman who wanted improvements in his spreadsheets
which were built to beat the state lottery.
When the consultant first arrived at a restaurant to meet the man, they
both acknowledged that that they had not brought their computers! Each
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thought the other would bring one. Things had thus gotten off to a rocky
start. The consultant then (despite the fact that it was not really his
responsibility) volunteered and went home to retrieve his laptop. But
when he arrived there, his expensive eye-glasses broke in two. Already
the consultant, well-versed in the subtle laws of life, including those of
outcomes at the start, clearly understood what was going on.
When the consultant then returned to the restaurant and interacted with
his client, he came to understand that the spreadsheet system, built to
beat the lottery, was very complex. The consultant’s contracts were
normally for relatively simple or moderately complex projects.
As things progressed, the client grew impatient and agitated, even
though he didn’t have the language skills to explain the system clearly to
the consultant. He just said that a programmer had previously developed
it, and that he would move fast when he programmed, and all the
developer would do is type a few things, and wham it would be fixed.
Therefore, he expected the same of the consultant now working on the
system. And yet the truth was the very opposite. It was enormously
sophisticated and complex. Thus, the expectation of the client for the
consultant was completely out of line with the reality of the situation.
Things then went from bad to worse. In the end, the consultant said he
could go no further, as not only was the spreadsheet system was too
complex to easily fix, but the client wouldn’t pay him for services
rendered so far. The client then proceeded to ask the consultant to do
additional work for him, even though he wasn’t willing to pay for the work
already done!
And so, the consultant was more than happy to extricate himself from the
situation. As he drove home, he saw clearly the nature of the unfolding of
events. It also struck him clear as day that things at the very outset did
indeed indicate the final outcome. The fact that they both were without
computer, forcing him to have to drive all the way home, though bringing
the laptop is normally the responsibility of the client, would indicate the
final disastrous outcome.
In fact, it indicated the difficulty of the steps along the way, including the
impossibly difficult spreadsheet. How could the consultant quickly
improve on it, when it was like a mesh of tangled wires that needed to
first be unraveled? Fortunately, as he headed home he acknowledged to
himself, that he had taken it all in good spirits. Knowing the subtle laws
of life help enormously in that regard!
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What Happens at the Start Indicates the Outcome
Life expresses through a series of laws and principles that few of us are
privy to. In recent years, The Law of Attraction has come to the attention
of the world through the book 'The Secret.' It indicates that when we
focus our intention on something, it tends to come about on its own. I
have described that as the phenomenon of "Life Response," that is itself
based on the phenomenon of "Inner-outer Correspondence." I.e., when
we shift the inner to the positive or more positive, life outside instantly
responds to our inner change.
Another subtle principle of life is that every outcome of an event,
circumstance, undertaking, social movement, etc. is indicated at the very
beginning. It occurs positively and negatively. Let me focus on the latter.
When Nixon and Kennedy vied for the presidency in 1960, it was
extremely close and contentious, with Kennedy winning by a hair.
Kennedy was later assassinated, ending his administration. What
happened at the start was an indicator of the final outcome. Recently
Bush junior won by an extremely small amount after an overwhelmingly
contentious dispute in Florida settled by the Supreme Court. It appeared
that his side did all to block the truth from emerging. His administration
ended in near disaster for the country and the world. In the Russian
Revolution, a group of serious-minded thinkers ended up resorting to
slaughter of the aristocracy it wished to replace, which culminated in
years of rule by the devil-like Stalin, who had 30 million shot to death. In
these cases too , events at the outset indicated an outcome that was to
come.
Why life happens this way is certainly worth investigating. To do so one
has to understand the subtle nature of energy and how it circulates and
returns; how past, present, and future are truly related; the intention a
higher force working in the world; and many other subtle, indeed cosmic
forces at work.
If we look closely at our own lives, we will see the same phenomenon at
work. For example, one man I know was desperately trying to meet some
people in a suburb of Los Angeles for a crucial meeting. He ended up
being utterly lost in a maze of suburban streets. Though he would later
find the place and create a business relationship that would last several
years, that undertaking ended in bankruptcy. In another case, an
individual was desperately trying to get some sun tan lotion before taking
a cruise on a tiny riverboat in Sacramento. His effort was intense and
confused, though he and his friend managed to get on board just a
moment before the little boat embarked. Twenty minutes into the trip a
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super, modern speedboat zoomed by; nearly cutting the boat in half.
What happens at the outset indicates the thing to come.
To prevent such results, we can offer the original disturbance to the
Higher Power, which will eliminate the chance of negativity expressing
itself in the outcome. In that way, we have the power to overcome the
existing subtle principles of life, even as we are in awe of their
miraculous-like ways and their cosmic significance.
No Event Occurs Without Prior Indication (As In Pride And
Prejudice)
This principle is true both positively and negatively. Life gives as early
hints of good fortune that is coming later and warnings of pending
misfortune, which we ignore at our risk.
Elizabeth had ample occasion to suspect Wickham's true character long
before calamity struck. In there very first meeting he told her that
because of his gratitude to Darcy's father he would never speak against
the son, but then proceeded to do just that. He also said that nothing
could keep him from the ball at Netherfield, but then he did not come.
Elizabeth might naturally suspect Caroline's motives when she spoke of
Wickham's bad past, but she also ignored the blatant fact of his
mercenary pursuit of Miss King and even justified it on his behalf. Darcy's
letter at Rosings was only icing on the cake, but still she was reluctant to
believe because she was still attracted to Wickham. That is the manner in
which we disregard life's warnings when it does not suit us.
In her first meeting with Elizabeth at Rosings, Lady Catherine felt
affronted by Elizabeth's free and outspoken nature and faulted her for
expressing her opinion so freely. She was given a further indication of
what was to come when Darcy stood up in the middle of a discussion with
Lady Catherine to walk to the piano where he could see Elizabeth more
easily. Alerted, Lady Catherine calls out asking what they are talking
about and insists on being included in their conversation. She already
feels she is being eliminated from the equation. Elizabeth later explains to
Jane that Darcy called on them at the hermitage every day during their
stay there. Her initial reactions were a forewarning of what was to come
between her nephew and Elizabeth yet she chose to ignore it. When she
went to Longbourn and tried to pressurize Elizabeth into relinquishing any
interest in Darcy. Elizabeth responded boldly to her attack and stood her
ground firmly.
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Wherever a work is completed or cancelled, the end result is indicated by
symptoms earlier. The circumstances during the first occasion on which
two people meet very often gives a good indication of what is to come in
the relationship. When Mrs. Phillips entertained in her home, Wickham
gave attention to only two women - Lydia and Elizabeth. They turned out
to be the two most important women in his life - one became his wife,
the other his link to relationship with Darcy. When Bingley came to the
ball, Jane was the very first person he danced with. Elizabeth was the one
person Darcy refused to dance with at Bingley's request. Later Elizabeth
would refuse his marriage proposal. Both began the relationship with an
initial refusal. When Mr. Collins first arrives at Longbourn, Mr. Bennet
teases his into confessing about his agility at making clever compliments,
prompting Elizabeth to laugh. In fact, Elizabeth laughed even when
Collins' first letter was read out. When Collins told Mrs. Bennet that he
was interested in Jane, Mrs. Bennet informed him that Jane was
practically engaged. His first idea failed. Ultimately he did not marry any
of the five sisters. (MSS)
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PART 4: HUMAN ACCOMPLISHMENT
Principles of Human Accomplishment
Introduction
Often when people reach the pinnacles of success it is because of a
special gift or talent -- such as the ability to lead and inspire, or the
capacity to develop a breakthrough product, or because they are driven
to succeed. Other times, people reach the top simply because they make
a steady, plodding effort in the course of their careers.
In research on what enables achievement in life, I have identified three
levels of determining factors. The first contains the foundation -- i.e. the
essentials for success. The second contains the more subtle,
psychological factors that bring it about. And the third are the inner
spiritual-like determinants of achievement. Let's examine each of these
more closely.
The first level contains the foundation and essential determining factors
for success in life. They include our ability to target specific goals we aim
to accomplish; our intense desire and will that they come about; our level
of personal organization; the talent and skill we bring to bear; and the
psychological strength we demonstrate in the face of life's challenges.
Aspiration, focus, will, organization, skill, and strength are thus the basic
building blocks of success. Together they release enormous physical,
vital, and mental energy that tends to attract vast success for that
individual. Let's examine several theoretical examples.
Consider the case of Eliza Gonzales, who currently demonstrates these
capacities in spades. She has a keen interest in becoming a project
portfolio manager; has the intense drive to make it happen; is fully
organized in all aspects of her life; has all the necessary skills to
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accomplish; and has an innate ability to persevere in the face of life's
challenges. As a result, she has reached the very top of her field.
On the other hand, her collogue David Montaigne has not risen very far.
Though he has had the aspiration and drive, he never developed the skills
required of his position. Likewise, Sandra Lee, a co-worker of his, had the
skills, but lacked the will and drive for achievement. Sanjay Aziz, a fourth
member of the group, had the will and determination, but lacked focus in
his life, as he was unable to formulate what he really wanted out of his
career. Thus, where Eliza succeeded beyond measure, David, Sandra,
and Sanjay plateaued at only modest levels of success.
The second group of factors that engender success are even more
subjective and psychological. They take shape as our attitudes and
personal values. In fact, if we examine Eliza's great success, we see that
she excelled in both areas. E.g., colleagues often described how positive
her attitudes were -- in particular, how she always looked on the bright
side of things; how full of self-confidence she was; how she always took
responsibility for problems rather than blaming others; and how she
always happily accepted what life had put before her. In this way, her
attitudes -- about herself, about others, and about life -- will exemplary.
That cannot be said of the others in the group, each of whom had one or
more significant wanting attitudes. One colleague had problems getting
along with several staffers; another was consistently unhappy with the
work assigned to her; and a third had a cynical, constricted view of what
he could accomplish. As a result, each were burdened by psychological
constraints that prevented them from reaching their full potential.
In addition to her very positive attitudes, there was something else Eliza
had in abundance -- highly developed personal values. Everyone noticed
how tolerant she was; how she encouraged others to express their
opinions and make contributions; how committed she was to bridging the
gap between the company and the surrounding community; and how
dedicated she was for social change and improvement. Eliza's values and
beliefs sharpened her aspirations in life, gave her focus and energy, and
enriched every activity she engaged in. On the other hand, her colleagues
had trouble formulating their guiding principles and values, which created
an intensity and energy vacuum in their careers. This conspicuous
absence of clearly defined and applied personal values kept these
members of the group from ever moving beyond the mediocre.
Finally, the third group of factors that determine our success level
consists of spiritual-like behaviors and values that tend to attract ultimate
achievement. Among them are-
• Our capacity to consciously seek out and embrace all sides of an
issue, rather than just the one we are attached to.
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• Our ability to respond calmly and with equal poise to the difficulties
and challenges that come our way.
• Our ability to see negatives as positives in disguise, and adjust our
behavior accordingly.
• Our capacity to be selfless and self-giving towards others, instead of
acting out of ego and selfishness.
• Our ability to express our gratitude to others and towards life for all
they have given us.
• Our faith that all will turn out well; that in fact a Higher Power is
working on our behalf.
• Our ability to open to the spiritual Force before engaging in any act,
which has the effect of bringing life under our control.
• Our ability to think for ourselves, instead of being influenced by the
herd.
• Our capacity for self-scrutiny; i.e. our aspiration for personal growth
and improvement.
• Our desire to seek out life in full, and live a life of adventure and
challenge.
All of the factors described above have one thing in common: they lead to
ever-greater success in life. Taken together however, they generate an
overwhelming power that brings about ultimate, infinite-like
achievement. In fact, if we examine how such success comes to us, we
will see that it arrives in two distinct fashions -- through the "to-be-
expected way" and through the "life response way." The former means
that as we embrace these achievement factors, we move ahead in a
logical and practical way. E.g., people will take notice of our new
behaviors, skills, actions, etc., and we are rewarded through the to-be-
expected channels and unfoldings of life.
The life response method on the other hand operates much differently. In
this reality, when we embrace one or more of the success factors --
particularly ones we are deficient in -- life instantly responds in kind, I.e.
the very moment we change our inner orientation, life suddenly moves
on our behalf, bringing us overwhelming good fortune. For example, if I
shift away from my hostile attitude towards a co-worker, my boss
suddenly appears in my office with word that I have been promoted to a
much higher paying and satisfying job. This indicates the subtle,
miraculous-like relationship between our inner selves and the world
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around us. When we change the inner, the outer instantly responds in
kind.
If we can attract such powerful results by making these changes, then it
only makes sense to take up the challenge. Therefore, why not review
the success factors listed above, and come up with several areas where
you are deficient. Then make the concerted effort to implement that
change in your life. If you do, life will immediately start working on your
behalf. That's precisely what happened to Eliza when she made the
decision to both improve her level of cleanliness and orderliness, as well
as reverse her negative attitude toward her boss. From that day on, her
career began to really take off. You can do the same thing in your life,
and you too will be taken to the stars!
Lessons We Can Learn from Erin Brockovich
The film 'Erin Brockovich' is the true story of one woman's successful
initiative to investigate the deaths and illnesses of dozens of individuals
through the leakage of poisons into the water supply by the Pacific Gas
and Electrical utility company of California. At the end of the story, Erin,
working for a legal firm, wins a $333 million settlement for the families of
victims, which also includes a very substantial sum for her law firm as
well as for herself. It is also a story that each of us can learn from --
especially if we hope to take our lives to the next level of success. The
film not only shows her own personal struggles that allowed this vast
achievement, but also the social obstacles she was forced to overcome.
Although Erin demonstrated several unflattering traits -- including her
provocative dress and her too-often vulgar speech -- one trait makes up
for all of the others: her great tenacity of purpose. In this instance, Erin
not only knew precisely what she wanted -- to uncover the injustice that
has befallen the victims -- but pursues that goal with almost super-
human effort and determination.
In studying the ways individuals accomplish in life, several traits seem to
stand out. First, it is imperative to have a clear vision of what one wants
to accomplish. Then one is able to develop a plan to make it happen. And
finally, one makes an exhaustive effort to see it through. Erin was able to
embrace all three in this great period of her life. She not only had a clear
vision of what she wanted to occur, not only developed right strategies to
bring it about, but then implemented them through an unrelenting,
persevering effort. As a result, life cooperated from all quarters -- leading
not only to a vast settlement for the suffering families, but to a
monumental breakthrough for victim's rights.
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In addition to vision, strategies and determined implementation, there is
one other factor that played an important role in Erin's stunning
achievement -- the adoptions and adherence to deep personal values. At
each point, Erin personally identified with the plight of the victims and felt
a moral duty to bring them justice. Such deep beliefs and values guided
her efforts and in the end drove her to succeed.
If she can bring about such vast results, then each of us can do the same
in the areas we are predisposed towards. For example, think about your
own situation for a moment, and then consider what it is that you really
want to achieve in life. Now ask yourself the following questions: Do you
have a very clear vision of what you want to archive? Do you really want
to make it happen -- i.e. do you have a deep abiding passion for this to
come about? If so, then do have clear strategies to make it happen? Also,
are you willing to make an unrelenting, persevering effort to bring it
about? If so, and if you follow through at all these levels, then life will
surely cooperate with your efforts from all quarters. E.g. life will begin to
present you with sudden instances of good fortune; a miraculous-like
phenomenon that I call a "life response."
Now let's move on and consider the social dimension of Erin's
extraordinary story. When any person ventures to achieve at a higher
level in life, one is forced deal with the social milieu. I.e. in these
situations, we will see that there are environmental forces that are trying
to help us, and there as those conspire or otherwise gather to defeat us.
Often that opposition can originate from most unlikely of sources. For
example, one thing we notice in Erin's case is that though she is working
for the great benefit of the law office, the clients, even society itself, at
many points she is directly opposed by these very entities!
When a pioneer individual takes on a work that is not part of the normal
routines of that society, it often opposes that individual's efforts -- even if
it will in the end bring it great benefit! We see this phenomenon at work
in various points in Erin's story -- when the lawyers continually show their
misgivings about her initiative; when the people in the office are put off
by her behavior missing the greater benefit she is creating for them and
the victims; when her boyfriend deserts her for a time; and, most
dramatically, when the eventual beneficiaries of her initiative -- the
victims in the village -- gather at one point and decide to oppose her
efforts! This shows how the groundbreaking work of a pioneer will often
be opposed by various collectives, including those who stand to gain the
most. It is more than an irony; it reflects a fundamental Ignorance and
unconsciousness of the society in the face of a great boon. To be aware
of these forces is to know the influences of life, which one can overcome
through the right capacities -- of strength, attitude, right strategies, and
so forth.
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Fortunately for all involved, Erin's tenacity of purpose and her great
psychological strength overcome the unconscious opposition of the
ignorant social forces around her. She is courageous, and never despairs
when the social milieu opposes. She is consistently positive in her
attitude, believing in the rightness of her cause, and its eventual success.
She also has great social skills, demonstrated by her great empathy and
communication skills when interviewing the sick victims and their kin.
She is not bothered by the social obstacles because in one sense she
cares little about conforming to the social order. She is her own person,
despite her sometimes boisterous and crude behavior. Fortunately, that
offensive behavior in minor compared to the social strength she brings to
bear.
By the way, we should also point out that the falsehood of the society is
born out even at the end when Erin wins the case. She receives but $2
million out of the $333 million settlement, when she has, for all intensive
purposes, single-handedly enabled this great outcome! The law firm,
being a social institution, accepts the social custom of only giving Erin
money equal to her social status and position, instead of what she really
deserved. In addition, the law firm itself collects 40% of the reward. It is
another indicator of the negative and false quality of institutions in
society that reward the socially-accepted custom instead of that which is
right and just.
So we can ask ourselves again: do we have the drive and will to succeed
in our endeavors? Are we clear about what we want to achieve, and have
the right strategies to make it come about? Do we have the strength and
determination to bring our aspirations to fruition? Also, are we directed
by our own beliefs, rather than being overly influenced by the social
norms; and do we have the strength of purpose to persevere beyond the
opposition of the social milieu around us. If we meet these conditions,
then we too can bring about successes that rival those of Erin; we too can
rise to the highest pinnacles of success.
Human Initiative that Leads to Success or Failure
When we try to accomplish something in life through our initiative, it may
or may not succeed. We have already indicated negative forces that
might rise in opposition. Here are some other the subtle workings of life
that affect the success or failure of any initiative.
1. When the social atmosphere is positive with regard to an initiative, the
atmosphere fosters success. When the atmosphere is negative, the
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initiative will fail, unless the individual is able overcome the resistance of
the atmosphere.
(Example) In a community there is a very positive feeling towards
improving the education in the community. An individual begins an
initiative to improve the quality of the courseware. On the surface she
initially fails; yet the initiative is taken up by another person and
succeeds with it. That is because there is a positive atmosphere in the
community as it relates to education. (If there were a negative
atmosphere toward education, the initiative would have failed all
around.)
(Example) (As indicated in the book The Three Musketeers)
"Whatever the liberality of the day, the story takes place in an age
when the belief in good is quite pervasive and religious issues
dominate society. In fact, if one law seems to express throughout the
story, it is the resistance to illicit love at higher levels of society.
Buckingham's advances to Anne lead to his death. Constance's two
attempts to unite with D’Artagnan are frustrated, the first by her
arrest, the second by her death. Even Milady's passion for de Wardes
is frustrated by D’Artagnan. Aramis returns to religion, not to his
aristocratic lover. Only Porthos who seeks money, not love, and
stoops to the level of the proprietress succeeds, and that too by
marriage. There is no instance of illicit love prospering in the story."
(MSS)
2. Initiatives fail when taken outside one’s field of influence, authority or
control.
(Example) A man tries to create a higher sense of moral authority in
the community. He is in fact a man who is lacking in some of those
areas of morality himself. His initiative to bring about moral authority
ultimately fails.
In the novel The Vicar of Wakefield, (a book by Goldsmith) the Vicar
by his birth, upbringing, profession and character is of a high moral
plane. Those moral values enshrine humility and modesty and
idealism. But along with his morality, the Vicar has a streak of foolish
assertion and arrogance. The expression of this trait cancels whatever
positive things he may otherwise merit from life. The Vicar's life is
comfortable and successful until he asserts his foolishness over the
issue of monogamy at his son's betrothal, raising the issue of which
George's future wife's father is most vulnerable because of his plans
to remarry. The Vicar asserts that he holds truth higher than his
fortune and news quickly comes that his fortune is lost followed by
news that the marriage into a wealthy family is also lost.
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Had the Vicar really been above money, his words may have brought
a different response. But he has chosen to offend a thing which he
and his family really cherish as a boast of higher idealism. Life forces
him to live up to that higher idealism by depriving him of everything -
- money, position, reputation, freedom, health -- he ever had. When
he finally rises to the level of that idealism i.e. becomes stronger than
life at that point, not only the original wealth returns and the original
marriage arrangement, but abundant wealth from all sides comes.
(Example) A man tries to create a higher sense of moral authority in
the community. The community has actually transcended his morality
with an openness to new ideas that the individual cannot fathom. His
initiative to bring about moral authority fails.
3. Initiatives from lower levels of life do not have power for
accomplishment at higher levels of life.
(Example) A consultant was asked to investigate the development of
tool to allow for online student training evaluations. He worked on it
for months without ever clarifying with his superior the pay he would
receive as well as the timeframe on the project. Ultimately the project
failed completely, and the consultant wasted months of his time.
(Example) X tries to influence Y's opinion about Z. X’s efforts to
influence Y’s opinion of Z fail because X is stationed at a lower level of
the social hierarchy than Y. It is the higher station that sets the
standards for what is or is not acceptable or fashionable.
4. On the other hand, initiatives by those in a higher plane of life (i.e.
with greater wealth, status or power) toward those in a lower plane tend
to be readily and richly fulfilled, provided the lower is a willing recipient
and does not raise obstacles or resistance to receiving. This principle acts
in the same manner as water flowing downhill.
(Example) A manager of a training company wanted to have her
instructors do training on a new software program Many happily
agreed to it, and received basic knowledge on the program from the
training company. After a number of months the training by the
instructors went very well for the training company's clients, and even
led to additional profitable training on related new products.
5. Initiatives may receive unexpected support from life when they are
aligned with new movements in life that are gaining momentum. On the
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other hand, initiatives may meet with unexpected resistance when they
are aligned with movements that are passing out of existence.
(Example) X’s efforts to marry her daughter Y to Z for social purposes
meet with resistance and ultimately fail. X seeks to capitalize on the
mutual pledge of her sister and herself that their children should
marry, a practice whose value is passing out of existence. The light in
Y’s eyes that X feels is enough to overcome the best-laid plans of the
older generation to perpetuate itself in the old style.
6. Initiatives succeed when taken with sufficient energy and capacity to
reverse previous actions that failed as the result of an inappropriate
attitude or behavior.
(Example) A man tries to break up the marriage of his child, and
succeeds for a time. After a change of heart he decides that his
decision was very foolish and he tries to patch things up.. The success
of his initiative to change will only occur if he has sufficient vigor to do
so and if he gains to agreement of the parties who were initially
involved.
(Example) A man tries to create a higher sense of moral authority in
the community. The community has actually transcended his morality
with an openness to new ideas that the individual cannot fathom. His
initiative to bring about moral authority fails.
These are then some of the major forces at play that affect the success or
failure of any initiative that a person takes in life.
Negative Influence When One Wants to Ascend
One interesting phenomenon we have witnessed is that when an
individual tries to make a significant progress for improvement in life,
often there appears on the scene a negative influence or obstacle to
prevent that ascent. However, if the person has the required energy and
force of character, they can overcome this negative influence, and move
on to that higher level. If they don't, they will be brought down, and their
imitative will fail. Mother's Service Society explains:
Every accomplishment in life is vulnerable to interference or
destruction by negative influences. The higher the accomplishment is
with respect to previous levels of achievement, the greater the
vulnerability. The character of a negative influence can be seen from
the nature of events that occur when its approaches or leaves the
atmosphere.
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In the book Pride and Prejudice we can see excellent examples of this
phenomenon, with negative and the positive results.
-The Bennet family is aspiring the marriage of their daughters to a
higher level of prosperity. Lydia is one of the daughters, She is
energetic and good-natured, but is wild, crude, and unconstrained.
Darcy and Bingley are the well to do suitors for the Bennet daughters.
However, the great good fortune coming to the Bennet family through
the approach of Bingley and Darcy is undermined by Lydia’s low
behavior. She is the weak link in the family through which disaster
strikes and almost cancels great good fortune. It is a response of the
lower portion of the family to the higher opportunity that has opened
for the family. The weakest link breaks when the strongest
contemplates an upward initiative at times of great opportunity.
-Eliza, the heroine of the story is one of the Bennet daughters. She is
on her way to a movement upward in her life through her potential
emerging connection with Darcy, the hero of the story. however,
along the way she gets involved with Wickham, a handsome, yet
treacherous man, whose treachery she is completely blind to because
of her physical attraction. Her involvement with this individual at a
time when she is beginning to move to a higher level of
accomplishment almost ruins her. (Her weakness is not that she met
a treacherous man that she didn't know about; but that she got
caught up in her desires and physical attraction, an experience of
weakness and falsehood common in life. Ultimately, however her
strength of character pulls her through, and she overcomes this
setback.)
Here's one final example of how negative influences try to undermine the
ascent of an individual to the next highest level of life.
A consultant was given a project to develop a software program for a
consortium of electronic retail stores. It was a significant project with
opportunities far beyond the initial phase of the project, and offered initial
money that could have taken the consultant to the next level in his living
situation. he was under intense pressure to finish the project as well as
fulfill his other commitments. Just near the very end of the project, he
was kept awake for nights by an unruly, rowdy, and bullying neighbor.
One night when the pressure and noise became so great he went to
confront the neighbor. The neighbor physically struck the consultant, and
seriously injured him. Though the project was completed and delivered
on time, the consultant had to use the money compensation for his work
to support himself during his rehabilitation since he could not work for a
period of months. he never had the money to get a better living
situation.
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Opposition When a New Positive Force Rises
We see a fascinating phenomenon of life that reveals another aspect of
its Character. It is this: When a new positive Force arises, an opposition
force rises in parallel. Consider these examples:
---In the 1970s British series Poldark about an heroic individual who
aspires to and acts to life up the people around him through his life
actions and common deeds, the opposition Warleggan clan conspire to
destroy him at every step of the way. Fortunately, he succeeds, despite
his travails.
---In the American Film Unbreakable, a man (David) acquires fantastic
powers of perception and deed that attract an equal and opposite
negative force (Elijah) who tries to destroy him and the world around
him. Like Poldark, he rises to the occasion and is able to succeed despite
the evil that opposes him.
---When Sri Aurobindo and The Mother brought a new dimension to
spiritual evolution in their time, the opposition of a dark force rose in
Europe instigating WWII. However through great Inner consciousness and
power they prevailed, ushering in a New Age where Spirit could emerge
through human evolution.
---When a devotee of Theirs made the great effort to interpret Their
profound wisdom in practical terms across many fields of life, a force
opposed him that nearly ruined his works; and yet he too prevailed.
It is interesting to note that long-term the opposition force actually has
the effect of strengthening the positive people, as they are forced to grow
and evolve their character and consciousness; to utilize powers and
capacities that might have ordinarily remained dormant, or not fully
utilized.
Karmayogi indicates that every accomplishment in life is thus vulnerable
to interference or destruction by negative influences. He indicates that
the higher the accomplishment is with respect to previous levels of
achievement, the greater the vulnerability.
Ultimately the outcome of this dynamic depends on the strength of the
positive side. That is, individuals as well as society achieve in this
environment only when their strength is organized to contain the threat
and mischief of the negative side.
There was a man who was meant for higher accomplishment. But as the
opportunity emerged, his own dark past rose and confronted him. His
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ability to handle it successfully became the essential that enabled his
further progress.
Finally, we see powerful examples of this Character of Life principle in one
famous story -- Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice:
In the tale, the Bennet family aspires for the marriage of their daughters
to young, prosperous, available men, which would have the effect of
overcoming the threat of their cousin to inherit their middle class estate.
Lydia is one of the daughters. She is energetic and good-natured, but is
wild, crude, and unconstrained. Darcy and Bingley are the well to do
suitors for the Bennet daughters. However, the potential great fortune
coming to the Bennet family through these very prosperous young men is
undermined by Lydia's low behavior. She is the weak link in the family
through which disaster strikes and almost cancels the great emerging
positive good. Lydia’s is a response of the lower consciousness of the
family to the higher opportunity that has opened for them. In essence,
the weakest link breaks when the strongest contemplates an upward
initiative at times of great opportunity. Fortunately, in the end, the family
overcomes that limitation and prevails.
Then there is Eliza, the heroine of the story, who is the eldest Bennet
daughter. She is bright, independent, aware, and individualistic. In the
story, there is the possibility of her romantic involvement with the very
prosperous Mr. Darcy, the other hero of the novel. However, along the
way she gets mixed up with Wickham, a handsome, yet treacherous man,
whose deceitfulness and duplicity she is completely blind to because of
her physical attraction to him. Her involvement with this individual at a
time when there is a vast potential to move to a higher level of
accomplishment almost ruins that opportunity. Ultimately, however her
strength of character pulls her through, as she sees the light, overcomes
the setback, which opens the door to her marriage to Darcy, enabling the
family to rise dramatically in terms of wealth and social position.
It is interesting to note that at many if not all points the negative was
curtailed, life responded with sudden good fortune. E.g. when Eliza finally
perceived the treachery of Wickham, Darcy soon after appears with his
proposal of marriage. At that stage, she had given up all hope that he
was still interested in her. However, by shedding the negative influence
that opposed when she was in the process of rising, she was stunned to
discover that he was still in love with her, leading to his proposal, her
acceptance, and their marriage, thereby changing her life and the
condition of her family forever.
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Process of Accomplishment
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Human Intention
INTRODUCTION
Life responds to our intention. When we really want something to occur,
life tends to move toward us, fulfilling our aspiration. If our intention is
full -- i.e. if our energies are intensely directed toward the pursuit of a
specific goal over time -- life not only responds, but does so rapidly,
fulfilling that deepest aspiration.
For example, when Albert Einstein began to focus all parts of his being --
mental, vital, and physical -- toward the pursuit of his goal of finding
work to overcome his utterly destitute state as a young man, the
possibility of working at the Patent Office moved toward him. When his
intention became full -- i.e. he crossed over a certain threshold of
intensity demanded of life -- the job became his. From that new post, he
not only overcame his current predicament of acute poverty and misery,
but it served as the platform through which he would develop papers that
would change the course of science and the history of the world.
From this, we see that there may be no greater means for success and
accomplishment in life than our intention. When we have a clear
knowledge of what we want to accomplish, and our emotions fully
support it, then our intention takes shape. If we then make a determined,
persevering effort to carry out our hearts desire, we generate an
irresistible power that quickly attracts it. If per chance that particular
aspiration is not fulfilled, then another one is!
In we look around, we will see that life is always responding to one’s
intentions. In Jane Austin’s famous novel Pride and Prejudice, Mrs.
Bennett intensely desired to marry off her daughters to avoid a pending
eviction of her family; and within a year, that is precisely what occurred
(for three of them). When Erin Brockovich directed all of her energies to
getting out of her won desperate state of poverty, she quickly secured a
job at a law office that not only lifted her out of misery, but became the
springboard through which she would win the largest victim rights
settlement in history ($300 million).
When we focus on accomplishing something, then our intention takes
shape. When our intention is full, -- i.e. when we intensely want
something to occur, and sustain that urge over time -- life brings us what
we want in spades. The ancient Indian texts known as the
Upanishads declare, 'You are what your deepest desire is. As is your
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desire, so is your intention. As is your intention, so is your will. As is your
will, so is your deed. As is your deed, so is your destiny.'
Interest in a Thing
One interesting aspect of human aspiration/intention is that it can
express at various levels -- from a mild mental interest in a subject, to a
desire to accomplish something, to intense need to bring about our
heart's desire. And yet, life can instantly respond to our intention at any
of these levels: even to a passing fancy!
One day I walked down Columbus Avenues -- a busy street connecting
downtown San Francisco and Fisherman's Wharf (a popular tourist
destination) -- for the first time in many years. As I walked up Columbus
from the wharf to downtown, I admired its many cafes, and thought that
this is a wonderful street with enormous potential. I had never really
thought about this street in quite this way.
The next day in the local paper I saw an article about how for the first
time in 35 years business and public officials want to make Columbus
Avenues more of a destination and stopping place, rather than just a by-
way to get to Fisherman's Wharf from downtown. In fact, I had never
seen an article on Columbus Avenue development ever in my life, let
alone one within 24 hours covering the very idea I had in mind. It also
turned out to be very first and main article in the local paper!
As we see, even a passing fancy will attract corresponding response, as
long as there is a modicum of interest is involved. It is not full-blown
intention, but a causal focusing of the mind can very often attracts
response from life!
Perhaps you have found yourself in the following situation: You have just
thought about a subject you hadn’t thought of for decades, and then two
minutes later, there is discussion on that very topic on TV! That is
dramatic enough, but when you have never seen that subject referred to
in a lifetime of TV-watching, then you know something profound is at
work! You sit there, at once startled and amazed, before you remind
yourself that you have just experienced a powerful synchronicity and
response from life -- in this case, due to one’s focused interest in a
subject. If you watch out for it, you can probably see this extraordinary
interest-inducing phenomenon at least several times a day.
Real Intention
Though the above incidents were dramatic, producing interesting,
somewhat useful results, in the end, they were only transitory incidents -
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- a mere passing interest in a subject. Real intention, on the other hand,
takes shape when our desire is sustained over time -- i.e. when it repeats
in our thoughts, and continually rises in our emotions. From that poise,
we generate a surge of energy within, which moves out into the field of
life, and attracts corresponding elements that are truly beneficial.
To illustrate this point, consider the following incident involving a young
Asian friend of ours. Let’s read her story.
“Working at the Railway Recruitment Board, I am in charge of the
pre-examination work at our organization. There we have an
elaborate procedure for conducting examinations, which normally
occurs in several stages. A week ago, I met with my chairman where
we discussed the possibility of having candidates submit their
examinations electronically. This would not only make it easier for us
to handle the flow of information, but it would have the effect of
bringing down our expenditures. Unfortunately, my chairman was
apprehensive about the idea, and so the conversation ended there.
However, inside myself, I still strongly believed that this approach
was possible.
Several days later, the chairman called me to say that he had
received an invitation from a foreign-based computer firm, who were
launching a new software product. Since he was going to be
preoccupied with other matters during that time, he proposed my
name instead to represent our organization.
When I attended the meeting, I learned to my delight that the
software would in fact enable our candidates to take a variety of
examinations through the computer. I not only enjoyed the
demonstration of features, but I also got the chance to interact with
the program. That effort clarified a number of points on the feasibility
of using it our own environment.
In retrospect, I now see that an invitation from an unknown company
had unexpectedly come to us because I believed very strongly that
the computer approach was a workable idea. Thus, I saw my idea
transformed into reality.”
Our friend not only had an intense interest in seeing something come
about, but also sustained that interest over time. (“However, inside
myself, I still strongly believed that this approach was possible.”) A
sustained desire to see something come about is far more likely to attract
tangible results than when our intention is short-lived. In this episode,
our friend's on-going aspiration to automate the examination procedures
at her firm reached a certain pitch, which attracted from out of nowhere
the opportunity to interact with a software application that seemed to suit
their needs perfectly.
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If we look around in our own lives, or in the lives of others, or in history
or literature we will see examples where a sustained aspiration to
accomplish led to rapid, enormous, or enormous rapid achievement. For
example, in Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice, Mrs. Bennet sustained an
intense aspiration to marry off her daughters -- which is exactly what
occurred in remarkably short order. Likewise, Erin Brockovich sustained a
ferocious desire to win the legal case for her constituency who were
poisoned by groundwater contamination, and in fact attracted the largest
financial settlement of its kind in history. And then there was the case of
young Albert Einstein, who reached deep within himself, sustaining for
months on end an intense desire to overcome his plight of destitute and
poverty. As a result, he only attracted a job position that provided him
with financial security, but it set the stage for his most prolific period of
insights into the nature of the physical world, changing the course of the
20th century. When we really want passionately want something, and
sustain it over time, we generate an irresistible force that attracts the
most startling positive conditions in life, both for ourselves and the
collectives we are part of.
A Caveat, a Reversal, and a Vast Opening
Though life responds to an aspiration that is clearly defined, filled with
passion, and sustained over time, there are times when a response will
simply not come! That is usually the case because there is some wanting
element in our being that is blocking our aspiration from attracting our
heart’s desire. It is usually there in our attitudes. There is something in
our wanting thoughts and feeling about life, about others, about work, or
about ourselves that blocks us from aligning with and attracting
corresponding positive conditions. However, when we identify those
wanting qualities and reverse them, we open the floodgates, and
startling, positive results move towards us. Often the results far exceed
any expectations we might have had.
For example, consider the case of Darcy and Eliza, the two main
characters of Pride and Prejudice. Early on in the story, Darcy really
wanted Eliza. However, for the longest time, he was unable to win her
over -- mainly because she was put off by his arrogant and prideful
behavior. However, at some point, Darcy began to recognize his own
deficiencies, and spurred on by his love for Eliza, made the conscious
effort to overcome them. As soon as he did that, the elopement episode
immediately presented itself, which gave Darcy the perfect opportunity to
show the best side of his character. When he then resolved that
potentially devastating affair, he was stunned to discover that Eliza
actually loved him, and then accepted his offer of marriage. In other
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words, by reversing himself and overcoming a wanting quality in his
character, he suddenly attracted that which he so dearly aspired for.
We see that the same dynamic occurred for Eliza. At one point in the
story, she came to admire and secretly love Darcy -- especially after his
noble efforts that ended the elopement episode. Unfortunately, she
sensed that after that awful affair that Darcy would never anything to do
with her. And yet she too grappled with her conscience, seeing the error
in her attitudes and beliefs. At the peak of this reversal of consciousness,
Darcy suddenly appeared at her doorstep with a proposal of marriage! In
other words, she too shifted an attitude to the positive, and was therefore
able to attract the object of her desire.
Thus, we see in these two cases that when we have the deep intention
for something to come about and it does not come to us, it is often life
asking us to make a corresponding change in our being – usually in our
attitudes and beliefs. When we make that change, life conspires to bring
to us our heart’s desire.
Levels of Intention that Attract
• A mere passing fancy
• Taking a serious interest in a matter
• Intensely aspiring to achieve a goal
• Intense aspiration to achieve a goal sustained over time
• Sustained, intense aspiration matched by right attitudes in life
The Power of Intention
Life responds to our intention. When we really want something to occur,
life tends to move toward us, fulfilling our aspiration. If our intention is
full -- i.e. if our energies are intensely directed toward the pursuit of a
specific goal over time -- life not only moves towards us, but does so
rapidly, fulfilling that deepest aspiration. When Albert Einstein began to
focus all aspects of his being -- mental, vital, and physical -- toward the
pursuit of his goal of finding work to overcome his destitute condition as
a young man, the possibility of working at the Patent Office position
began to move toward him. When his intention became full -- i.e. he
crossed over a certain threshold of intensity demanded of life – life
responded and the job became his. From that new post, he was not only
able to overcome his current predicament of poverty, but it would serve
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as the platform from which he would fulfill his potential, changing the
course of science, and the history of the world.
We begin to see that there is no greater human faculty for
accomplishment than our intention. When we have a clear knowledge of
what we want to accomplish, and our emotions fully endorse and support
its achievement, then our intention takes shape. Just taking to formatting
what we aspire and really wanting it can attract powerful response from
life. On the other hand, if go a step further and make a determined,
persevering effort to carry out our hearts desire, we generate an
irresistible power that will quickly attract that which we aspired to
accomplish. If that particular desire is not fulfilled, then another one will
come on its own.
In fact, if we look around us, we will see that life is always responding to
our intentions. In Pride and Prejudice, Mrs. Bennett intensely desired to
marry off her daughters to avoid the pending eviction of her family from
their home, and within a year, that is precisely what occurred for three of
them. When Erin Brockovich directed all of her energies to getting out of
poverty, she quickly secured the job at the law office. That position not
only lifted her out of misery, but became the springboard through which
she would change the course of victims’ rights history. Her ferocious
intensity carried her through a challenging legal process that ended in an
overwhelming $300 million settlement for her long-suffering clients, and
considerable wealth and a long-standing career for herself.
When we focus on accomplishing something, then our intention takes
shape. When our intention is full -- i.e. when we intensely want
something to occur, and sustain that urge over time -- life tends to move
towards us with abundant good fortune. There is no greater power for
accomplishment and success in life!
The ancient Indian texts known as the Upanishads declare, “You are what
your deepest desire is. As is your desire, so is your intention. As is your
intention, so is your will. As is your will, so is your deed. As is your deed,
so is your destiny.”
The Power of Intention that is Great; that Backfires
One of the more powerful insights into the nature of human existence is
the notion that what you really want tends to be accomplished. If you
have an intense desire to achieve something, and focus your energies on
it, excluding all other matters, life ends to cooperate and bring the object
of your desire. It may happen sooner or later, depending on the intensity
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of energy you bring to bear, the surrounding atmosphere, and other
subtle influences of life.
When life suddenly brings you your heart's desire from seemingly out of
nowhere, then you have experienced an instance of "life response," which
appears to us as a miracle. E.g., a man aspires to rise to a higher position
in his profession, and focuses all of his energies on its achievement. From
out of nowhere, he suddenly receives a call and offer for employment
from an officer of a company who had no idea that he was looking for a
better-paying, more satisfying job! It has thus come as a miraculous-like
response to the energies the seeker has released -- somehow aligning
him with the intentions of corresponding individuals and circumstances.
On the other hand, there are also instances where you really want
something to occur, but the opposite takes place! That usually happens
because the thing wanted was not helpful, or the energies you released
stemmed from a wanting aspiration, attitude, decision, or action.
There is a well-known example of this in Jane Austin's Pride and
Prejudice. Near the end of the story, Eliza and Darcy are working out
their romantic relationship. At one point Darcy's aunt, the very wealthy
and powerful Lady Catherine gets word that her also-wealthy nephew Mr.
Darcy might marry Eliza, who is from a lower class. With her entourage in
tow, Lady Catherine rushes over to confront Eliza to determine if she
intends to marry Darcy. Eliza, strong-willed and independent, refuses to
be bullied into an answer, though she does not deny that she would
marry him if she so chose. Unsatisfied with her answer, Lady Catherine
rushes off in a huff. The next day, Darcy appears before Eliza, and they
agree to marry. Darcy indicates to Eliza that he had come to see her
because he had heard from his aunt Lady Catherine that she (Eliza)
would not necessarily turn down his marriage proposal! As a result, now
the two are engaged and marry -- the exact opposite of the intention of
Lady Catherine. We could call this a "negative life response." Though her
intention was great and focused, it worked in the opposite direction.
There are several reasons, though one stands out: her anachronistic
propensities were working opposite to the positive energies that were
emerging in the story. She tried to force her intent through her
willfulness and position of wealth and power, when in fact the story was
how the middle class was emerging as a new power in rural England.
We see this same process of negative life response at work in world
history. In the 18th and 19th century, Britain aspired to build an empire
around the world. It succeeded for a while, until WWII, when it was
nearly crushed, and then forced, out of necessity, to give up its empire.
Now if one goes to London, there is hardly a Londoner in site, as 75% of
its people are non-English, most from countries representing its former
empire! It is in essence a negative life response (for the traditional
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Londoner) to centuries of English chauvinistic intention. The modern
world is now in fact moving in an opposite direction.
When we wish for something whose motive originates in lower
consciousness relative to the conditions around us, we are likely to
receive outcomes the opposite of our intention -- i.e. life quickly responds
to us with instances of ill-fortune. In one of Jane Austin's other novels,
Emma, the author has constructed an entire novel built around this idea.
Emma is an individual who is hopelessly meddlesome, trying to match
other people up in romantic relationships -- utterly failing with each
attempt. Life consistently responds in a negative fashion to Emma’s lower
vibration.
Fortunately, in the end, Emma sees the error of her ways, and comes to
understand that it was the love she was avoiding for herself that she
sought to bring about in others. To that change in attitude, life responded
with overwhelming good fortune, when her life-long companion proposed
marriage, which she gladly accepted. It was the happiest moment of her
life.
Though we may have generated negative response from life due to our
wanting inner and outer behaviors, we can overcome that quality, reverse
it in full, and observe thereafter how the deepest object of our desire --
whether a fantastic new job, or the partner of our dreams – suddenly
moves towards us. It is the miracle of life response.
Decisions that Instantly Attract Good Fortune
Periodically we have a vision of that which we would like to accomplish,
come about, or become. Just because we think it so doesn't make it so;
for a thought, even a powerful one, in and of itself does not accomplish.
If I want to take my company in a new direction, it may be a very worthy
thing, but it doesn't make it happen. However, when there is the will for
it to occur, then accomplishment is more readily made possible. If I am
now determined to see the business move in that new direction, then
accomplishment is more likely to occur. This is of course just common
sense.
The mental vision of a thing and the vital will to make it happen in
combination represent our aspiration and intention. When we carry out
our aspiration through a determined, persevering effort, then
accomplishment is all but inevitable. When I make the effort to physically
carry out my decision to take my firm in a new direction, I tend to rapidly
move towards its achievement. Again, this only seems logical.
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This is, in essence, the process by which all accomplishment occurs: it is
the process of creation. Vision, intention, and physical effort carried out
through skilled action lead to creation and achievement in life. It is not
only the process by which an individual accomplishes, but is also the
process by which all achievement occurs in life -- be it a business, an
organization, or any other collective or entity. It is even the method by
which the universe came into being from a Divine Source.
Having said this, I would like to suggest that it is possible to accomplish
without actually initiating physical action! It can happen merely by
making a decision. That is, the intensity of a decision to accomplish a
goal can be so great that it can literally attract sudden good fortune! This
is because making a decision is an exercise of will, a psychological effort,
a form of inner action.
In Jane Austen's Pride & Prejudice, Mr. Bennet, the father of five
daughters, finds himself in a terrible predicament. His youngest daughter
Lydia has run off with a scoundrel, threatening to scandalize and
therefore ruin his family. After anguishing over the matter, he realizes
that it has been his past neglect in rearing his children that has led to the
current dilemma. As a result, their wells up in him a deep aspiration to
change his ways. That in turn leads to his firm decision to deeply involve
himself in bringing up his daughters in the future. As a result, life quickly
responds in overwhelming fashion. He soon learns that the crisis has
most unexpectedly been resolved! The scoundrel has agreed to marry the
runaway girl. As if by magic, the ruination of his family is avoided.
How did this happen? In essence, life had responded to his powerful
decision by bringing forth a positive response from life. Even though he
never got round to physically acting on his decision, the decision itself
released energies that moved across space and time, and aligned with
related energies and circumstances that were decidedly in his favor. It is
an indication of the subtle but powerful relationship that exists between
our inner condition and the world around us. If you change your
consciousness within, life outside yourself tends to suddenly respond with
circumstances that are in your favor. Making a decisive decision can
make life respond in this way.
Once you have seen this phenomenon at work even once in your life, it
can change your view of reality forever. You begin to understand that you
can attract the infinite possibilities of life to your doorstep by making the
right inner adjustments of consciousness -- whether the change of a
wanting attitude, taking to a necessary action, or, as we saw here, by
moving from indecision to decision. The results are a wonder to behold!
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Personal Attitudes
INTRODUCTION
Each of us is made up of various physical, vital, and mental parts. There
is our physical body and its organs, muscles, etc; the vital being with its
sensations, emotions and feelings, and the mental part with its thoughts,
memories, reasoning power, beliefs, etc. Somewhere between our
emotions and our thought processing lie our attitudes -- our emotional
perceptions about ourselves, others, and life itself. Attitudes generally
express positively and negatively. E.g., when I have good feelings
towards my work or co-worker, my attitude is positive. When I feel
reluctant to do certain things that are necessary, or show hostility
towards certain individuals, then my attitude is negative.
Interestingly, if we can identify a bad attitude and make the effort to
change it, life will suddenly cooperate with our inner efforts, bringing luck
into our lives. Consider this true-life incident:
A salesperson was intimidated about meeting a very large customer.
He felt that the effort was a waste of time since the company was too
large to penetrate. As a result, he was unable to secure that or any
other sale with the large client.
However, a number of months later, he changed his attitude about
working with such large accounts. The very next day, he was stunned
when out of the blue that very same large customer, who earlier
turned him down, placed a huge order!
As we see, if we change our attitudes, life has a funny way of responding
to those efforts. We call this phenomenon "life response." When we
change our attitudes, or otherwise elevate our consciousness, life quickly
responds with instances of sudden good fortune.
Attitudes about Ourselves, Others, and Life
Though there are many attitudes, if we look a little closer we can identify
three basic types -- those concerning ourselves, those about others and
the objects around us, and those we have towards life itself.
Let’s focus here on each of these types. An example of a wanting attitude
about ourselves is a lack of self-worth or self-confidence. An example of a
wanting attitude about others is a feeling of ill will towards another, or
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being mistrustful of someone. An example of a negative attitude towards
life is being pessimistic that things will never turn out well. These are
destructive feeling and emotions that cannot help but worsen life’s
conditions.
The good news, however, is that if we overcome any such negative
feelings or emotions, not only do we raise our level of consciousness, but
life will quickly move in our favor. Consider this true story where an
individual changed her attitude about other people:
A woman was working as a temporary employee for a large medical
organization. For months, she complained about certain coworkers at
her job. At the time, she had decided to develop a 30-day plan to
secure a full-time position. One part of her plan was to change her
attitude toward these particular individuals. In the days that followed,
she persisted in following her plan, focusing especially on her wanting
attitude toward others. She was shocked however when a short while
into her plan, she was suddenly asked to work for the organization full
time -- her first non-temporary job in nearly a decade!
That is the power of changing a negative attitude toward others. Here is
another incident, this time narrated by a friend of ours from Asia:
"In our unit there was a supervisor whom I felt was indifferent,
insubordinate, and had to be punished. I was looking for an
opportunity to pin him down. A time came to do so, and I dismissed
him mercilessly. Within two days of his dismissal, there was a major
breakdown in one of the machines.
The supplier of the machine then sent their engineers. They struggled
for 7 days and could do very little to set it right. I was thoroughly
disgusted. I then started examining my attitudes on several fronts
during the last 10 days.
It struck to me that whenever I am in the position to do so, my
attitude is to dominate another person. In this case, I was able to
dominate the supervisor and dismiss him mercilessly. But in the case
of the machine, I could not afford to throw it away and replace it with
a new machine; so I tolerated it. Based on my previous knowledge of
the subtle workings of life, I understood at that point that I had to
change my attitude.
I then called back the supervisor, apologized for my rude action, and
requested that he continue in the company. He felt very happy. It was
then striking that the machine that had been out of commission until
then, now unexpectedly got fixed. In fact, there haven’t been any
serious troubles with any of the machines since then!"
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As we can see, when we overcome a negative attitude towards others,
life quickly responds in our favor. Machines that had broken down
suddenly start working, projects that are suddenly are unexpectedly
completed on time, negative situations dissolve, employment
opportunities arise our way out of nowhere, cash unexpectedly moves in
our direction, and so forth. It is the miracle of life response in action!
Embracing Life’s Conditions
One virulent negative attitude we have is being reluctant or even
intransigent about doing something life requires of us. When we avoid
these give conditions of life or otherwise shrink from doing what is
necessary for that time, we not only block achievement, but we invite
failure. On the other hand, if we overcome our negative attitude and
embrace the requirements of the present, life has a funny way of quickly
working on our behalf. Here is a true-life example:
A trainer was reluctant to review a series of complex training
materials. Moreover, his schedule was so full that he wondered how he
would have the energy to go through them and at the same time perform
his training duties.
He then reversed his attitude, overcame his reluctance, and began to go
through the complex materials. Just as he was finishing up one of the
sections, his telephone rang. It was the voice of his training manager
informing him that several of his classes had been rescheduled, making it
unnecessary for him to go through the very next -- and most complex –
set of sections. As a result, he was now relieved of great amount of
tension and anxiety.
When we embrace the requirements of the Now, instead of rejecting or
avoiding them, life quickly responds with good fortune. It would turn out
to be a lesson that our trainer would carry forward for the rest of his life.
Here is another, similar example of the same dynamic:
A woman, looking for a new position as an administrative assistant, was
reluctant to learn a new computer program that would improve her skills
and therefore help her get a better job with better pay. One day she
decided to reverse that viewpoint and decided to learn a spreadsheet
software program; one that she rarely used in any previous job position.
That knowledge could possibly be one of a number of software programs
that could aid her in a potential admin position.
Within a few hours after learning the program, she got a new job. Not
only that, but the job position involved made extensive use of the very
spreadsheet program she had learned just a few hours before!
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The effort by the woman to overcome her reluctance and embrace a
possibility and opportunity helped trigger an event that led to immediate,
startling, and positive life response in that precise domain where she
made the change. It seems impossible, but that is precisely how life
works!
And now one final episode involving that same woman:
“One of the nurses on a floor above me called for a chart. The
computer showed that the chart was still upstairs. This meant that I
had to go up to look all over the place for it, which is something I
don't usually do, and get frustrated with when I do it.
Well, this time I resigned myself to going upstairs to search for the
chart. As I was going out the door from my department, there was a
cart there holding several charts. I then turned the first one over, and
it turned out to be the very chart I was just about to hunt down
upstairs!”
By taking up the needs of the present, life came quickly moved on her
behalf, overcoming space and time. By overcoming her wanting attitude
of reluctance, she attracted extraordinary results from the world around
her.
Negative Expressions Attracts Negative Response
So far, we have seen that changing a negative attitude can attract
sudden good fortune. Inversely, if we take to a negative attitude, we can
attract sudden ill fortune. For example, if we feel hostility towards
another person, problematic circumstances can quickly arise.
At the annual gathering of a company's employees, prizes were being
given out to the staff. One employee watching the proceedings hoped
to win one of the larger ones. When the biggest prize was announced,
the winner scurried to the front to pick it up from the host. However,
the previously mentioned woman watching the proceedings was
bitterly disappointed. In fact, it turned out that several weeks earlier
she had a run in with the winner of the prize, adding to her bitterness.
When the bitter woman arrived back at her home later that night, she
received word that her son had suddenly fallen into very difficult
straits.
Here is another example of how life responds negatively to a wanting
attitude.
A man "A" met a fellow instructor "B" before a class he was to
perform. One of the things they discussed were problems they had
experienced in earlier classes. In particular, A kept talking about how
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the students at a certain client were particularly difficult to work with.
He persisted in expressing his bitter feelings. Though that instructor
rarely had problems with his students, later on that day -- as well as
in the next two classes -- he had a series of difficulties with the
participants.
As we see, when we express negative sentiment -- whether ill will
towards certain individuals, or complaining about others -- we can elicit
sudden ill fortune. The best approach then is to try to be mindful of our
moment-to moment thoughts and feelings, and catch ourselves whenever
our attitude turns sour. That way we can avoid such work-destroying
situations as this one:
An instructor had lined up an important training class. Several days
before the gathering, he was sidetracked and sent an email to
someone disparaging a prominent thinker. In the middle of writing
that note, he received a call from his contactor canceling the
upcoming class.
As we see, negative expressions, feelings, opinions, etc. can cancel or
destroy a work. Thus, it is best to constantly scan our attitudes, and
block their negative expressions, before they ruin life’s circumstance.
The Power of an Overall Positive Attitude
In addition to having the right attitude, it is always best to have an
overall positive attitude. Not only will your work flow more smoothly,
your interactions with others be more harmonious, and your spirits stay
high, but you are likely to garner the sudden cooperation of life.
A management consultant was hoping to have a key meeting with the
principle officers of a company with $100+ billion in assets. For days,
he fretted about the deal as the potential client failed to contact him.
Over that time, he developed greater and greater doubts that the
meeting would ever take place.
Finally, he remembered that it was important to maintain a positive
attitude in these sorts of situations. He therefore decided to change
his feeling from that of concern and worry to being fully
positive. Shortly thereafter, the client contacted the consultant and
told him that the meeting would take place. Needless to say, the
consultant was thrilled to no end. In fact, years of high-level
consulting work would follow.
That is the power of having a generally positive attitude.
Now consider this journal entry of an audio-video retail chain owner, who
was in the process of conducting several sales meetings. Fortunately, in
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this incident (described in the owner's journal), he was aware of the
importance of having a positive attitude.
"-around 4pm my energy starts to sap, I start to feel sorry for myself
and wonder how I will last the day. I decide to reverse my attitude
and say, "there is no room for this behavior; you must push on and
go to work." In the very next sales interview, D reports he just sold
for $18,000!!' [A huge amount for but one salesperson.]
-I have a meeting with G, an important audio salesperson. We work
through a system to get him committed and productive. We discuss
the fact that he must commit. During the meeting, I am conscious of
my attitude that is negative about our chances of success. I struggle
to reverse them with lukewarm results. The meeting is then
interrupted as the store is then filled with customers, including a good
one for that salesperson!"
Remaining Calm and Positive in a Difficult Situation
An overall positive attitude has the power to attract sudden good fortune.
We have also seen that when difficult circumstances come your way, and
you remain steady and calm, life will suddenly reverse and cancel the
problem, often bringing startling new opportunities in its place. Here is a
powerful true story of the benefit of “inner equality” in the face of
adversity.
“We have our business unit in a space that we rent out from another
party. One day the owner of our rented space picked an argument
with our own manager -- apparently without good reason. As a result
of the dispute, the owner threatened to terminate our lease for the
space we were renting. As it turned out, I was away during the time
these events were transpiring.
Naturally, all of the workers, including my manager, were agitated --
so much so, that they wanted me to take appropriate legal action
against the owner of the space. However, I decided not to react to the
intensity of the situation, and, instead, decided to remain calm and
composed. In fact, I told the workers, as well as the manager to stay
calm as well, and to concentrate instead on their work. I myself
continued to function in a normal fashion as if nothing had happened.
Several days later, the owner of the rented space unexpectedly came
up to me in tears. He said that his two-year-old grandson had a heart
problem, and he wanted me to suggest a hospital where the child
could be treated. Through my doctor friends, I was able to suggest a
hospital in Madras [i.e. Chennai, India]. The child was then taken
there.”
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After examination, the doctors revealed that the child had a hole in
his heart, and that he had to be operated on immediately. The
operation was going to cost around two lacs of rupees [~5000 US
dollars]. Unfortunately, the owner did not have two-pennies to pay for
this very expensive operation. However, I then talked to a bank
manager and arranged financing from the bank. The loan was secured
based solely on my personal guarantee. The bank also took an
agreement from the owner that he would not evict my company on
any grounds for the next five years. The child was saved.”
In this startling episode bordering on the profound, we see how the
manager’s right attitude of calm and equality not only led to the
cancellation of the eviction, not only led to the intense appreciation and
goodwill of the owner, but saved the life of a small child. When we
maintain a positive attitude in the face of adversity, life has a way of
cooperating in ways we would have never imagined!
A Captain’s Change of Heart
In the movie Master and Commander: The Far Side of the World, based
on one of a series of novels by Patrick O’Brian, we see a powerful
example of how change in attitude can bring an overwhelming response
from life.
During the Napoleonic Wars, the British naval frigate HMS Surprise is
pursuing the Acheron, a large and powerful French war vessel that is
sailing off South American. The Surprise, commanded by Captain Jack
Aubrey, is then attacked by the Acheron, and the ship is badly damaged,
with many of its crew wounded. Even though the Acheron is a far more
powerful ship with many more men aboard, the Captain still decides to
try to capture it at all costs.
At various points, the Captain is torn between his own ambition and the
views of his close friend, Stephen Maturin, who is the ship’s doctor.
Martin thinks that the Captain is needlessly endangering the lives of the
crew by perusing the Acheron.
At one point, Maturin wishes to stop at the Galapagos islands in order to
gather some of the rarest animal and plant specimens on earth. The
Captain insists there is no time, and they sail off. Thereafter, the doctor is
accidentally wounded, and the ship is forced back to the Galapagos so he
can heal. With Maturin near death, the Captain senses that he should
have listened to his friend in the first place. After a while, the doctor
recovers, and the Captain guardedly allows him to go on an outing to
gather the specimens he so longed for. At one point, Maturin climbs a hill,
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looks out to sea, and then sees of all things, the Acheron, the French ship
they are after, sailing nearby! The crew then immediately sets sail after
the ship, and destroys it!
In other words, because the Captain saw the error of his way, and
accepted the fact that he should have listened to his friend request in the
first place, his friend suddenly finds the enemy for him. It is a wonderful
example of how life responds in overwhelming fashion to a change in
attitude.
Dan in Real Life
Life presents us with many challenges, some of which arise through
negative circumstance. In particular, it can be quite difficult to remain
positive when the social atmosphere is wanting -- e.g. if people around us
are behaving in ways that are detrimental or even harmful. And yet those
who are able to maintain the right outlook in these circumstances, who
are immune to and do not participate in the negative social activity, gain
an interesting power over life, as they tend to quickly attract positive
conditions. Let me illustrate with a film I watched the other day.
In Dan in Real Life, Dan Burns is a newspaper advice columnist, a
widower, and a father of three daughters in the New Jersey suburbs. One
day Dan and his children take a trip to the Rhode Island home of his
parents for their annual family get together. After they arrive at the large
house, situated on a bluff overlooking the bay, Dan takes some time off
and goes to a local bookstore. There he meets a woman named Marie
who mistakes Dan for an employee. He then proceeds to gather up
several books for her, and in the process, hits it off with her. Suddenly
love blossoms.
When Dan arrives back at the house, he lets his family know that he has
found a potentially very special person. They are thrilled to hear this
since it has been three years since he lost his wife. However, a short
while later, his brother’s new girl friend arrives on the scene, and it turns
out to be none other than Marie! She too was on her way to the family
get together when she met Dan at the bookstore.
There then begins a tense situation in which his brother and Marie are
somewhat romantically interacting at the home, even as Dan is now has
fallen in love with her. After several days, the situation becomes
unbearable for both. Because he appears so miserable, Dan’s mother
suggests that he call up a local girl on a blind date and ask her to come
to the gathering. When the rest of the group learns that she is coming,
they recall that she was a physically unattractive young girl, and so they
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begin mocking her for being an ugly duckling. At one point, they go as far
as to launch into a rollicking, impromptu sing-along in which poke fun of
"miss piggy face.” All except Dan, that is.
A few minutes later, so-called “piggy face” arrives at the house, and
shockingly turns out to be a beautiful woman. Immediately, Dan and her
are physically attracted to one another. As a result, Marie becomes very
jealous, which has the further effect of turning the emerging, partial love
she felt for Dan into a full-blown blossoming of her emotions. This in turn
compels her to truly seek out the relationship with him, once she breaks
off with his brother. In the end, Dan and Marie fall deeply love and are
blissfully married.
The moral of the story? Because Dan did not give into and participate in
the mocking sing-along of his soon to be arriving date “piggy face,” he
attracted instead a beautiful woman. Furthermore, her arrival compelled
Marie, the woman he loved, to commit to a relationship, which
culminated in their marriage. That is the power of remaining positive in a
negative situation -- in this case, in the face of social pressure to act
falsely. The effect is that this person, the exception in the crowd, is
propelled to the heights through complete emotional fulfillment. When we
follow our own positive instincts and do not give into the social imperative
of the herd, we release positive energies that attract the very best of
conditions. In that way, we develop "true individuality," which tends to
lure the infinite potentials of life in our direction.
Evoking the Darkness and the Light
The other day I had a memorable experience that was filled with irony. It
was a life response of the highest order; one that was not only a
continuation of a pattern of previous responses, but one which touched
me and the recipient dearly. It was also one that brought out both the
darkness and the light in life; literally and figuratively. Let me explain.
For nearly a decade, I have been attending meetings of MPUG, the
Microsoft Project User Group in San Francisco. Held at the Microsoft
district headquarters on Market Street, the gatherings have always been
lively affairs in which we watched interesting and informative
demonstrations, at the end of which prizes were handed out to lucky
winners. It turns out that over the last several years, I had the good
fortune of not only winning several of the biggest prizes, but often knew
in advance which prize I would win, and at what point I would win it. In
other words, I was able to predict a life response event before it
occurred. I was able to accomplish that inner feat because on those
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occasions I had the subtle sense of how life was unfolding, and perceived
how life seemed to be moving towards certain outcomes, including the
disbursement of certain prizes at specific moments.
Just as startling was the fact that in the course of the last several
meetings I won the exact same prize from amongst many. Moreover, in
each situation, I proceeded to give the prize away to someone else who
had need for it, since I had little use for that product myself. In other
words, because I knew that life tends to repeat, and because I sensed
the subtle unfolding of circumstance on those particular occasions, I
sensed in advance that I was going to win that precise prize, at what
point it would occur, and if I did, knew I would probably give it away. It is
with that background that I would like narrate the events of our latest
meeting.
When I arrived at the Microsoft district headquarters this time, I noticed
that there had been some significant changes. Now the quarterly meeting
was being held on the other side of the building. This indicated to me on
some level that changes were the order of the day.
As usual, I arrived a little early that evening, and instantly saw our host
and main speaker talking to several members gathered around in a
group. As a result, I held back from bursting on the scene, and waited in
the large break room to gather and prepare myself for the upcoming
meeting. A while later, I summoned up the courage and entered the
presentation room. Immediately, on entering the room, I was very
surprised to see an associate of mine, who I had not seen at these
gathering for a several years, and who also was the chapter's previous
president. Let us call this individual "J." I was surprised not only because
I hadn't seen him at meetings for a long while, but he was the one
individual I had a somewhat poor relationship with among the members.
For example, in the past, we would clash on my participation and
involvement, or lack thereof, in helping run the meetings; and also had
difference of opinions about the quality of certain presenters. Most telling
of all was that he had a conservative political and social bent and was not
afraid to let me know about it. In any case, our past relationship was
dicey at best, and yet there he was, the first person I met when I entered
the large room to start this latest gathering of MPUG.
I should also point out that J and I had a common friend and associate,
namely M, who was not only the chapter head who led every meeting,
including this one, but was also about to make the two major
presentations that evening. It is also true that I referred a half million
dollars worth of business to M, which was a powerful response from life I
have described elsewhere. Now as I pondered the current dynamic, I
wondered if J would have such a harsh opinion of me since I had created
the largest client for his friend's business in its decade long history.
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With these thoughts circling in my mind, M, as head of the chapter and
host, began the meeting and proceeded to give the first of his two
presentations. After he was done, I drifted to the back of the room where
the refreshments were. A minute or so later, my occasional detractor and
former head of the chapter J arrived there as well. I then commented
how very effective M's presentation was, and then went on to say that I
thought that with such excellent presentation skills, he could indeed
become mayor of a renown local town; something M indicated a passion
for in the past. I then added that I would vote for him no matter what his
political persuasion. To that J shot back with words to the effect that he
would only vote for M if he had a conservative agenda, burst off, and
returned to his seat, leaving me a bit stunned at his abrasiveness. Now
as I sat there, I thought of our past experiences, as well as this latest
brusque retort. My mind then focused on the current economic
environment, and realized that like others, he still had not learned the
foolishness of the laissez-faire view that had almost brought down the
world economy. With that little flash of irritation, I quietly let out a
charge of emotional and mental energy.
A moment later, just after the Microsoft rep that was in charge of logistics
for the meeting had begun striking up a conversation with me about the
smoothness of the meeting so far, the lights suddenly went out in the
entire large room! Not only were we all now in the dark, but M, who was
getting ready for his next presentation, could not easily see what he was
doing. Immediately I understood that my flash of irritation had
precipitated a negative response in the form of complete darkness,
Perceiving this, I decided from that point forward to withdraw any harsh
feelings and emotions toward J, and instead foster cordial and good
relations whenever possible. A moment later, M began his second
presentation, as the viewers, except the overhead presentation, watched
in the dark. Fortunately, the lights came back on not one minute into M's
speech, indicating that he was never discouraged by the darkness, so
quickly attracted the restoration of the lights.
M's second and very effective presentation ended an hour later, and now
the prizes were being given out. I then recalled many of the astonishing
events in the past involving the disbursements of these rewards;
experiences I have documented in other Essays. Once again, in this
situation, all and everything seemed possible.
As the gift-giving proceeded, I saw a thick, valuable book on the table in
front of the room. It turned out to be the same book that I had won on
two or three previous occasions! It was now but one of 10 prizes to be
given out. Those past experiences were remarkable, and yet there I was
once again confronted with the possibility that it could occur a third
consecutive time!
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And so the prize-giving proceeded. This time however, my name was not
selected for any of the first eight prizes. Still two prizes remained; that
same valuable purple technical book, plus an online software application
with a $3000 value. M's helper then shuffled the remaining ballots to
determine who would win the thick technical volume. At that moment, I
once again felt the world disappear, while having the presence of mind to
perceive that the same book come to me again. When M then called out
my name as the winner, I was stunned, bemused, and ecstatic all in the
same moment. When he then proceeded to hand over the book to me, I
instinctively did what I had done on those previous two occasions when I
predicted and won that same prize: I simply offered it to someone who
could use it since I had limited use for it. I then called out and asked who
in the group could use it. Immediately, the woman who was sitting right
behind me said she did. I agreed, and M handed her the book. I then saw
this as yet a third manifestation of what had occurred in the previous two
meetings. Each time I serendipitously won that same book, I not only
handed it off to another person, but it was given to the person I had
struck up a conversation with previous to the evening's presentations. On
each occasion, I had shed my shyness, and took an interest in the
particular person sitting next to me, engaging in conversation about why
they were there, their needs in terms of the technology, and so forth.
And in each meeting, it was the person who I had made contact with,
sitting next to or just behind me, who called out that they wanted and
had a need for the book when I offered it. It was yet another startling
dimension to these events.
But there was more to be one more turn in these events. Because I had
handed off the book prize, M now put me back in the queue with the
remaining contestants for the biggest and final prize; the $3k 1-year
subscription to a highly specialized online software application. When he
then drew from the lot, I subtly felt a kind of whiteness, with everything
going blank. M then announced the winner of the grand prize, and it
turned out to be none other than myself! In that wondrous moment, I
had the presence of mind to perceive that because I gave my previous
prize to a person who needed it, I was put back in the cue, and then was
put in position to attract the much bigger one.
I then stood up, both shock and bemused to receive the prize, while fully
realizing the inner workings of the situation. How could I ever explain this
dynamic to anyone! Then as I stood there and pondered the nature of the
prize, I realized once again that I really had no need for it despite its
great monetary value. And so once again I called out to the group and
offered it to anyone who could use it.
What occurred next was one of the most astonishing moments ever.
When I offered the grand prize to the group, a person just in front of me
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turned around and indicated that he could really use it. It turned out to
be none other than my nemesis J! Stunned, I agreed that I would hand
over the prize to him.
I then sat down in utter wonder at what had just transpired. In fact, over
the next several moments, J stared at me with a very special look that
seemed to be a wellspring of gratitude. It was so strong and heartfelt
that it started to feel my own heart. Here was my one periodic adversary
in the group, perhaps my only one in business in years, with an
expression on his face that seemed to say "Are you really giving this to
me? And is it really you whom I am receiving it from?" And in those
moments when our eyes locked, I saw the welling up of emotion in his
eyes.
As we see in this incident, when we change an attitude from one of
irritation and hostility to one of goodwill and harmony, life quickly moves
in our favor, life's conditions shift to the positive enabling an enemy to
become a grateful ally; cancelling the effect of past difficulties and
tensions in a single instance. When I shifted from a flash of irritation that
earlier had literally and figuratively evoked the Darkness to one of hope
for hoped for goodwill, I set loose a vibration that had attracted the Light
that expressed as a revelatory experience. It was truly one of the most
memorable moments and delightful experiences of my life.
Power of Positive Attitude in City of Joy
Perhaps the most powerful way to evoke sudden good fortune is to shift
your attitude from the negative to the positive. If you have a wanting
attitude towards others, life, or your own self, and then reverse it, benefit
will quickly come your way. Often it comes in an instant.
It turns out there is another way to evoke powerful life response through
one’s attitude. It is by maintaining a generally positive one. If for
example, you are straining to accomplish something in your life, and yet
you maintain a positive attitude that things will work out fine; that you
will succeed, bringing a solid confidence to your efforts, life will conspire
and give you all that you wished for and more.
There is a wonderful example of this life principle and dynamic in the
American film City of Joy, which is set in India. In the story, Hasari Pal,
an Indian farmer, arrives in Calcutta with his family, desperately seeking
work. Lost in the teeming masses as they move about the city streets,
Hasari is not only frantically looking for shelter, but is hoping to find any
type of work to support his family.
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At one point, Hasari is alone with one of his three children, and in a
tender and inspiring moment one of them asks if he will ever find work.
Hasari responds that he is fully confident he will find employment soon,
despite what looks like a desperate situation. Quickly a series of dramatic
events transpire, the end result of which is that within 24 hours he finds
employment as a cart driver (a “human horse”), which gives him a source
of employment for years to come, fulfilling his earlier wish and then
some.
It turns out that Hasari’s employment not only takes him off the street --
providing a comfortable place to live for his family -- but enable him to
save for his daughter’s dowry, who will marry into greater fortune for the
family. In addition, through his job he is put in position to help overcome
the wickedness of the local mafia boss and his cronies who dominate that
part of the city, including the cab company he works for.
In other words, Hasari’s focused intention in a desperate situation
married to an enormously positive attitude attracts a result within a day
that changes his life forever, affecting not only himself but the collectives
he is part of. That is the power of taking to and maintaining a generally
positive attitude towards the conditions one encounters. Life then
instantly moves in favor, overcoming obstacles, while fulfilling your
fondest dreams.
There are countless examples where a generally positive attitude
attracted positive circumstance. Here are several:
• One female business owner when confronted with difficulties or
challenging situations, tended to take a positive, optimistic, calm, and
forgiving view of things, which continually attracted their quick
resolution, as well as unexpected, sudden surges in sales.
• An individual who had deep admiration and positive attitude for the
Indian people, and was always happy to speak with them through call
centers constantly had positive experiences where the technical issues
quickly disappeared.
• A young English girl, who had the tendency to see everything in a
positive light, not only charmed the stodgy, grumpy, and cynical
around her, but through her positive attitude and influence, caused
their lives to quickly turn around for the better.
• A man at a family gathering did not give into others who were
mocking a young woman’s looks he once dated, attracting her sudden
arrival as a now beautiful grown woman, which had the effect of
causing another woman the man desperately loved to suddenly fall in
love with him, which culminated in their happy marriage.
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It is one thing to overcome one’s own negative attitudes, and thereby
attract sudden good fortune, it is another to maintain a positive attitude
and do the same. In fact, each moment is an occasion for us to remain
positive, cheerful, and confident, which will evoke the most positive
results from the field of life. It is the miracle of “Life Response” in action.
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Psychological Strength
INTRODUCTION
Overcoming Psychological Weakness
If we look back on our lives, and consider our most difficult moments, we
will see that psychological weakness was often at the center of the
problem. Consider for a moment several ways that we might express
such weakness:
• A business executive is afraid to stand up to an abusive partner.
• A wife is afraid to speak up, fearing the wrath of her husband.
• A parent has no control over his or her children.
• A business owner does not make the effort to collect money due,
fearful that he might lose the customer’s future business.
• An overbearing boss abuses a shrinking subordinate.
• A child is unable to stand up to a bully in the playground
Our inability to exercise our psychological strength is one of the great
human failings of life. It not only leads to ongoing difficulties, but can
also lead to tragedy. For example, we know that the nations of Europe
could not muster the strength to stand up to fascism when it was on the
rise before World War II, leading to the death of over sixty million people.
In Shakespeare’s Hamlet, we see how the prince could not marshal the
strength to act, even though he knew the identity of his father’s killer. As
a result, he, and those he loved, paid the ultimate price.
In a similar fashion, we too have paid the price along the way because of
our inability to be strong. If we think back on our lives, we can probably
recall at least one instance where we felt helpless, vulnerable, and
powerless; or otherwise did not have the strength to meet life’s
circumstances and conditions. As a result, we suffered, and, sometimes,
others suffered as well.
Hopefully, we have learned from such experiences, and now exhibit the
toughness, courage, and fortitude to stand up to life. If not, then we are
likely to repeat the same mistakes, even if they express in new forms.
For example, if in the past you did not have the strength to stand up to
an abusive boss, today you will be under the thumb of an abusive spouse
or relative.
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One particularly interesting observation I have had along the way is that
the very best of people -- i.e. those who are pleasant, considerate,
generous, and self-giving -- are sometimes those who suffer the most.
That is the case because they have never developed the necessary inner
strength to cope with the pressures and vicissitudes of life. Though their
kindness, sympathy, and benevolence have created conditions for
fulfillment and success, their psychological weakness has created
openings for difficulty, pain, and suffering.
Perhaps you have watched an old gangster film where the mother of a
criminal cowers before her son and his violent behavior. On the one hand,
we watch in sympathy as the loving parent showers him with love and
affection, while, on the other, we recoil at her inability to stand up to her
child’s ruthless behavior. In this way, we see that even selflessness, self-
givingness, and unconditional love cannot stand up to meanness, cruelty,
and brutality when inner strength and toughness are missing. Recall that
even Jesus Christ himself -- who represented ultimate Goodness and
offered the world unconditional Love -- lacked the strength and power to
overcome those who sought to destroy him.
Fortunately, that does not have to be our fate, for each of us have the
capacity to overcome psychological weakness and replace it with inner
strength. If we understand the variety of ways we have expressed our
helplessness, powerlessness, and vulnerability in the past, and then take
steps to reverse ourselves in the present, we will attract positive
conditions from life. Consider this true incident:
A software company in California arranged with an agency to build a
prototype program for a third, much larger company. The firm worked
for months on the model, but foolishly never agreed to compensation,
fearing that by raising the issue, they would jeopardize losing their
long-term involvement in the project. After much hand wringing, the
owner finally mustered the strength to discuss compensation with the
agent. When he did so, not only did he resolve the future status of the
project, but an excruciating six-month neck pain suddenly
disappeared!
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Standing up to a Partner
Over the years, I have been privy to a number of instances of “life
response” that came as a result of shifting from psychological weakness
to strength. These crossed a wide spectrum of human activity -- from the
sports world, to the world of politics and business.
For example, a friend of ours who runs a $17 million chain of retail stores
had a partner who was difficult, outspoken, and crude. Though our friend
was conscientious and good-willed, he lacked inner toughness. One day
he realized that what he himself lacked, the partner had in spades --
strength. And so he began to examine his attitudes, and then made the
commitment to overcome his weakness. In fact, the very first action he
took was to stand up to his partner! Not only did the partner immediately
stop his offensive behavior, but he began to cower before our once-weak
friend! In addition, a flood of good news began occurring in the company!
Decision of Strength Attracts Love in ‘The Apartment’
When we move from psychological weakness to strength, we tend to
attract sudden good fortune. Sometimes the response from life comes
from the most unlikely places -- including the sudden arrival of a
romantic partner. Here is one example from the world of film that reflects
this phenomenon.
In the 1960s film ‘The Apartment,’ C. C. Baxter is a lonely office drone
working for an insurance company in New York City. As it turns, four
different company managers take turns commandeering his apartment
for the purpose of engaging in extramarital liaisons. Unhappy with the
situation, but unwilling to challenge them directly, Baxter juggles their
conflicting demands while hoping to catch the eye of fetching elevator
operator Miss Fran Kubelik. Meanwhile the neighbors, a medical doctor
and his wife, assume Baxter is a "good time Charlie" who gets a different
woman drunk every night. Baxter accepts their criticism rather than
reveal the truth.
One day, he meets with personnel director Mr. Sheldrake, who has gotten
wind of this situation. However, rather than denounce it, he asks Baxter
for the key so he can be the fifth user of his apartment! As a result,
Baxter gets a promotion with his own office. Sometime later, Baxter
realizes that Sheldrake is carrying on with Fran, the woman he loves,
using his apartment to continue their affair. He also knows that Fran is
being used by Sheldrake, for he will never divorce his wife and marry her,
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which is a pattern he has followed with a number of previous female
victims.
One day, Fran takes an overdose of pills at Baxter’s apartment after a
rendezvous with Sheldrake, who she realizes will never commit to her. As
a result, Baxter frantically seeks out the doctor living next door, and the
two of them resuscitate Fran. Even after she is returned to full health,
Fran still cannot give up her love for Sheldrake. Feeling humiliated,
Baxter now realizes that winning over Fran is a hopeless case.
After this near suicide, Sheldrake callously asks Baxter for the key to his
apartment so he can once again meet with Fran. However, this time --
despite now having been raised to a high-level position -- Baxter asserts
himself by refusing. Even though he knows he will be fired, he exercises
his strength and walks out on Sheldrake and, therefore, his job. A while
later, he offers to pay the doctor for the services rendered for saving
Fran, which is a small but powerful act of generosity. Finally, Baxter
decides to give up his own apartment that has been royally abused.
Resigned to celebrate New Year’s Eve by himself, Baxter opens a bottle of
champagne, but then hears a knock on the door. It is Fran, who tells him
that she has left Sheldrake, though she holds back from revealing that
she learned that Baxter had stood up to him and left the company. Baxter
then invites her in, and they play cards together as they have done in the
past, resuming their friendship. Baxter then confesses his love for her,
and Fran in her own way reciprocates those feelings.
What is the inner message here? It is this: because Baxter overcame his
usual weakness and stood strong against his hypocritical and abusive
boss, life responded with the sudden appearance of Fran from out of
nowhere, igniting their romance, and fulfilling his deepest aspiration in
life.
In life, we are often confronted by crossroad decisions that will test our
level of psychological strength. When we make the right choice, we can
suddenly attract sudden goof fortune from the most unexpected areas of
our life. In Baxter’s case, he chose strength over weakness, attracted the
woman of his dreams.
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Example Expressions of Psychological Weakness
• Lacks strength
• Lacks fortitude
• Lacks toughness
• Lacks courage
• Lacks resiliency
• Lacks conviction
• Lacks will & determination
• Feels helpless, powerless
• Is in a weak position
• Has no sense of control
• Is overly deferential
• Is easily swayed
• Is dependent on others
• Doesn’t know what to do
• Is incapable of acting
• Is indecisive
• Is shrinking, cowering
• Is fearful
• Is timid, shy
• Lacks self-esteem
• Lacks focus, direction
• Cannot deal with problems
• Has no power
• Is uninformed, gullible, naïve
• Accepts abuse
• Has no energy
• Shirks responsibility
• Procrastinates
Self Analysis
Think about several areas of your life where you have been
psychologically weak. Then come up with a plan to overcome that
behavior in specific instances or circumstance in your life. If you make a
sincere effort, you are bound to elicit powerful positive response from
your surroundings!
Strength of Young Elizabeth
In order to accomplish and succeed in life one needs energy, skill,
knowledge, right attitude, personal organization, direction, drive, and
many other qualities. One additional trait that stands out amongst the
most successful of people is psychological strength. Those who show
toughness, are unflinching in the face of adversity, are willing to take
action when others would shrink demonstrate innate strength that
invariably brings success. In fact, those who demonstrate such "intestinal
fortitude" not only are more likely to invite success into their lives, but
can evoke powerful and most unexpected positive responses from the
environment. Sometimes the response to one’s exercise of strength --
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especially in the face of prior weakness -- can alter the course of one’s
life and propel one to the pinnacles of success. Such was the case for one
young queen of 16th century England.
History tells us that Elizabeth was the daughter of King Henry VIII and
Anne Boleyn, the second of Henry’s six wives. When Elizabeth was only
two years old, her father ordered the beheading of her mother. Then
when King Henry died, his son, the nine-year-old Edward, who was
Elizabeth’s half-brother, succeeded him. After Edward died, six years
later, Elizabeth's half-sister Mary became queen of England. Mary, who
was Catholic, earned the name ‘Bloody Mary’ for her persecution of
Protestants during her reign. Because Elizabeth herself was Protestant,
and because Mary feared Elizabeth might be plotting against her life,
Elizabeth was held in prison throughout most of Mary's reign. However, in
the end, Mary reluctantly accepted Elizabeth’s right to the throne, and
after the queen died, the very-young Elizabeth ascended to the throne of
England.
As it turned out, just at the time Elizabeth took up the reigns, English
society was being torn apart by the conflict between the Catholics and
Protestants. With each side seeking to win favor from the young queen --
frequently accompanied by threats of retribution if she did not bend in
their favor -- each day Elizabeth lived in fear; not only that her regime
would topple, but worse still, that she herself would be killed.
As portrayed in the film Elizabeth (1998), one day Elizabeth calls a
meeting of the leaders of the two religious groups in an attempt to
negotiate a settlement. Though she felt that she was in an exceedingly
precarious position, she managed to hold back her fears, and began the
meeting by making the extraordinarily bold statement that “no group had
an exclusive claim on God”. As a result, gasps and shouts of “outrage”
and “heresy” were heard throughout the chamber. And yet, instead of
cowering before the protestations of the religious leaders, Elizabeth
gathered herself and the strength and courage to continue her
presentation before the gathering. She then went on to argue that that all
sides had to work together for the sake of the people of England, not for
the narrow interests of a particular religion. In fact, she insisted on this
point, and would have it no other way. She argued that as representative
of the people’s interests, it was her duty to bring the two conflicting
religious parties to a decisive settlement.
Quieted by her persuasive arguments, and her unexpected forcefulness
and show of strength, both sides did in the end come around to her point
of view -- with a majority voting to support her proposal for a common
English church. This was in fact one of the great turning points in English
history, as it overcame the conflicting sectarian interests, subdued and
weakened the power of the church, strengthened the central authority of
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the monarchy, and increased the power of the people in determining the
nation’s destiny.
The story did not end there, however. Despite Elizabeth’s considerable
achievement, dark forces continued to gather around her. For one, the
Papacy in Rome was very displeased by her actions, and, at one point,
actually sent an emissary to have her killed. Though the plot was foiled,
Elizabeth’s problems continued, as members of her own cabinet now
begun to plot against her. Elizabeth’s life was still in grave danger. In
fact, she now appeared threatened from nearly every quarter.
With the circle of malice tightening around her, she knew that something
had to be done. And so, the queen searched deep within herself to find a
solution. Then drawing on an unknown inner strength, Elizabeth came to
the one and only conclusion that made sense, considering the current
dire circumstance. Making perhaps the most important decision of her
life, she ordered her enemies arrested or killed.
Not unlike what Krishna demanded of Arjuna at the battle of Kurukshetra
in the Indian epic the Mahabharata, Elizabeth did what had to be done --
what was right and just, despite its sometimes-brutal nature. As a result
of her action, not only did she establish security around her, not only did
she establish the solid underlying conditions that would allow her to reign
for forty years, but she was afforded a lifetime of opportunities to express
all of her innate talents. In the end, Elizabeth’s reign would come to be
known as England’s “Golden Age.” In the short and long term, life had
responded out of all proportion to a young woman’s overwhelming
courage, determination, and exercise of strength in the face of the most
dire of conditions.
In this light, we can examine our own lives and see where we lack
strength and toughness; or where we feel helpless, powerless, and not in
control; or where we are shrinking, cowering, and overly deferential; or
where we are fearful and lacking in courage. If we then reverse that
position, taking to the necessary level of psychological strength, life will
respond out of all proportion, propelling us to the heights of success,
while eliciting a deep happiness from within.
Decision of Strength Attracts Love in ‘The Apartment’
Normally, we believe that if we make an effort in a particular area, we
will elicit results that will lead to success in that domain. For example, if I
seek a mate, practically speaking I need to make an effort to find her and
woo her, which will hopefully secure her love. Never does it occur to us
that if we make the right crossroad decision change in a related area,
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that we will attract the object of our desire; in this case, the one we
adore.
In the 1960s film ‘The Apartment,’ C. C. Baxter is a lonely office drone
working for an insurance company in New York City. As it turns, four
different company managers take turns commandeering his apartment
for the purpose of engaging in extramarital liaisons. Unhappy with the
situation, but unwilling to challenge them directly, Baxter juggles their
conflicting demands while hoping to catch the eye of fetching elevator
operator Miss Fran Kubelik. Meanwhile the neighbors, a medical doctor
and his wife, assume Baxter is a "good time Charlie" who gets a different
woman drunk every night. Baxter accepts their criticism rather than
reveal the truth.
One day, he meets with personnel director Mr. Sheldrake, who has gotten
wind of this situation. However, rather than denounce it, he asks Baxter
for the key so he can be the fifth user of his apartment! As a result,
Baxter gets a promotion with his own office. Sometime later, Baxter
realizes that Sheldrake is carrying on with Fran, the woman he loves,
using his apartment to continue their affair. He also knows that Fran is
being used by Sheldrake, for he will never divorce his wife and marry her,
which is a pattern he has followed with a number of previous female
victims.
One day, Fran takes an overdose of pills at Baxter’s apartment after a
rendezvous with Sheldrake, who she realizes will never commit to her. As
a result, Baxter frantically seeks out the doctor living next door, and the
two of them resuscitate Fran. Even after she is returned to full health,
Fran still cannot give up her love for Sheldrake. Feeling humiliated,
Baxter now realizes that winning over Fran is a hopeless case.
After this near suicide, Sheldrake callously asks Baxter for the key to his
apartment so he can once again meet with Fran. However, this time --
despite now having been raised to a high-level position -- Baxter asserts
himself by refusing. Even though he knows he will be fired, he exercises
his strength and walks out on Sheldrake and, therefore, his job. A while
later, he offers to pay the doctor for the services rendered for saving
Fran, which is a small but powerful act of generosity. Finally, Baxter
decides to give up his own apartment that has been royally abused.
Resigned to celebrate New Year’s Eve by himself, Baxter opens a bottle of
champagne, but then hears a knock on the door. It is Fran, who tells him
that she has left Sheldrake, though she holds back from revealing that
she learned that Baxter had stood up to him and left the company. Baxter
then invites her in, and they play cards together as they have done in the
past, resuming their friendship. Baxter then confesses his love for her,
and Fran in her own way reciprocates those feelings.
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What is the inner message here? It is this: because Baxter overcame his
usual weakness and stood strong against his hypocritical and abusive
boss, life responded with the sudden appearance of Fran from out of
nowhere, igniting their romance, and fulfilling his deepest aspiration in
life.
In life, we are often confronted by crossroad decisions. When we make
the right one, we attract conditions that are favorable to us in a related
area. In Baxter’s case, he chose strength over weakness, which attracted
Fran and her love from seemingly out of nowhere. It was not his effort to
woo her that won her over, but his right choice in a related domain.
We can also examine this dynamic in a proactive way. If there is
something we really want, we can look around and examine the
conditions in related areas. There we should determine if there are
important choices to be made. If we identify it and choose in the right
direction, not only will we bring about positive results in that immediate
area, but we are likely attract sudden good fortune in another. It can be a
new promotion, an opportunity of a lifetime, or the love of one’s life.
Eowyn’s Strength Attracts in ‘Lord of the Rings'
Life responds to any reversal from weakness or neutrality to
psychological strength. One instance of it not only can brings good
fortune, such as the sudden elimination of a six-month back pain or a
beloved partner finally confessing her love to you, but in the right
situation can alter the very course of one’s life. The response can go
further still and affect the outcome of challenging events for a collective
of individuals, such as a family, a community, or a nation. We see a
powerful instance of this in the ‘The Two Towers,’ the second installment
of the epic film ‘The Lord of the Rings’ based on the book by J. R. R.
Tolkien.
In the story, a band of individuals from a variety of strange and exotic
kingdoms have banded together to return to the fires of evil Mordor “the
one Ring that rules them all” to bring stability and peace to Middle Earth.
At one point, the dozen or so members of the fellowship are forced to
divide into three companies after their mystical leader Gandalf apparently
dies in the Mines of Moria.
Meanwhile the soldiers of the evil kingdom of Mordor are moving swiftly
across Middle Earth, pillaging the lands to gain control of the entire world.
And yet one great kingdom stands in the way of their victory. It is the
land of Rohan. Unfortunately, a dark force has taken over King Théoden’s
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spirit, leaving him listless; looking and acting like a corpse overseeing his
sullen, desperate people. Meanwhile, at court he is controlled and
mentally and physically abused by the poisonous suggestions of his
steward, Gríma Wormtongue, secretly in the service of the Dark Lord.
To make matters worse, the King's only son Théodred has fallen victim to
the Orcs, left mortally wounded in an ambush. Now the king’s gentle and
beautiful niece Eowyn walks the halls of the Great Hall as events continue
to deteriorate for the peace loving people’s of Middle Earth. Then at one
point, the devious Wormtongue makes a romantic advance on her.
Though she is taken in for a moment, Eowyn recovers, remembers what
he is, and casts him aside in outrage and disgust. Though he had all the
power of the kingdom, and lurked as a threat to her life if she did not
give accept his advances, she demonstrates great psychological strength
to do what was right and cast him aside.
Walking out the front door of the Great Hall and observing the
spectacular valley around her, she realizes that she and her people are
indeed in a dire predicament. A few seconds later, three men appear in
the distance. It turns out to be one of the three parties of the Fellowship,
including the great wizard Gandalf the White. They enter the hall, greet
the moribund King Theoden, and Gandalf draws out the dark spirit that
has overtaken him. In a matter of moments, the king is returned to his
old vigorous and brave self. As a result, he decides to have his army join
the battle against the evil forces. In a short period, his forces and others
prevail over the dark lord that threatened Middle Earth.
From the perspective of Eowyn, one small gesture of psychological
strength against the romantic advances of the awful Wormtongue not
only instantly attracts great help in the form of the three fellowship
members, but they resuscitate the king, who now had the wherewithal to
raise an army against the dark forces. As a result, he and other kingdoms
are victorious over the armies of evil, thereby ensuring the future good
future of Middle Earth.
This may be a fable, but it is very true to life. One small gesture of inner
strength at the right moment in a critical situation can attract
circumstance that not only changes the course of one’s own life, but that
of the collective one is part of -- whether one’s family, the community,
the nation, or even the world itself. Moreover, if there is both
psychological strength and an adherence to truth in the act, as there was
the case here with Eowyn, then great inner power is generated that
attracts extraordinarily positive circumstance for one’s self and the world
around us.
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Goodness and Self-Givingness
INTRODUCTION
Perhaps the single most powerful way to succeed in life is to have more
concern for our fellow human beings. Normally, we are overwhelmingly
concerned about ourselves, driven by our own personal motives and
ambitions. However, the happiest people literally lose themselves in the
feelings, thoughts, and aspirations of others.
Are you ready to "forget yourself" and be genuinely interested in the
welfare of others? Are you willing to be tolerant and kind to others, listen
attentively and silently to their words, and be non-judgmental and open
to their opinions and points of view? If you are, you are an excellent
candidate for great success in life, not to mention ever-increasing
personal happiness and joy.
Try a little experiment. When you meet with another person, try putting
yourself in their shoes. Think only of what they are interested in and
concerned with. Listen carefully to their thoughts and feelings, and show
genuine concern and empathy as necessary. Take this approach for the
entire meeting.
Then observe if the energy level of the other person has increased. Also
notice if any unthought of or unexpected fresh points of view took place
that energized the conversation.
But there's more. If you pay very close attention, you are likely to
experience an added "response from life." For example, during the
conversation, someone might call to report that a wonderful new project
has come up that you are to be involved in; or several hours later you
learn about a dramatic positive development in a work situation that had
been problematic for years. These are examples of life "responding" to
your earlier concern for another individual. Through your kind, generous,
munificent gesture, you have opened the portals of possibility for
yourself. By taking a step out of the local domain of self-interest and ego,
you have opened yourself to the universal, non-local plane, where the
infinite potentials of life rush in. Such positive response to selfless and
self-givingness happens all of the time in every walk of life, in every field.
Here are several true-life examples:
-Out of concern for the success of his people, a manager decided to
train his illiterate workers. As a result of that effort, they became
much happier happy and far more energized. That atmosphere was
infectious and permeated the business. The energy was so high that
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even the machines they were trained to work with started operating
at double their earlier capacity, even though no improvements were
made to their functioning!
-A tried to fix the computer keyboard of B, but did not succeed.
However, B felt a degree of gratitude for A’s effort and offered to
compensate A for his efforts. Though thankful for B's thought,
A wouldn't accept money from B. A few days later B’s computer went
dead and it would not start. So the next morning B called A and asked
him for urgent help to repair the computer again. A took it and very
quickly was able to discover that the problem was the electrical
adapter, which A managed to replace very quickly within 24 hours. B
was very happy about this quick solution to his computer. (B’s
appreciation and desire to remunerate A, enabled A to quickly fix the
computer when it went dead.)
-A client was having trouble making an electronic, web-based
payment for a product from a company. The representative out of
concern for the client was willing to make an exception in this case
and give him access to the product now because the client so eagerly
wanted it. The client was grateful for this response by the sales rep of
the company, and then paid for it through another means.
Before the conversation ended, the new client pointed out the fact
that the phone number at the company’s site was in error, a
potentially devastating fact for the company, who made have
blundered and lost a number of customers! After getting over the
shock, the sales rep was grateful that the client caught the error,
thereby preventing any future loss of revenue. (The client coming
forth and providing the news of the error was a positive response to
the sales reps’ concern for the customer when he gave the client the
product without payment forgoing the normal payment routine.)
Whenever you shift your focus from yourself to others, positive conditions
suddenly reveal themselves. Negatives are cancelled, unthought of
possibilities reveal themselves, and other unfathomable positive
conditions appear out of the blue. The more intense and heartfelt the
positive feelings are toward the other individual or party, the greater the
response from life.
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In addition to focusing on the needs and concerns of others, there are
several other ways to express selfless and self-giving behavior.
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Take the Other Person’s Point of View
Are you willing to take on this spiritual challenge? In the next few days,
when you are in conversation with another, switch your point of
reference, and take the other person's point of view. Switch from your
own viewpoint by stepping into their shoes, and see why they are saying
what they are saying from their perspective. Then continue the
conversation from that position.
E.g. if you are discussing a matter, and a person shifts to another aspect
of it, don’t hold onto your own thoughts, but shift to their flow of thought,
determine what aspect of their lives they are addressing, and follow that
thread. Don’t worry, somewhere along the line you will be able to address
what you were earlier focusing on, or life will simply take you to a much
more interesting topic of discussion. Also, by taking that tact, you will be
energizing the other person, which will create a closer bond between you.
Taking the other person's view is to shift out of ego, which sees things
only on its terms, from its own perspective. Stepping into the boots of
another and seeing things from theirs is movement of harmony and
oneness, a spiritual quality, which also tends to attract sudden good
fortune from the environment; for the other person and yourself.
Here’s a real world example: A friend had a difficult problem that
appeared unsolvable. His computer would not work, the battery would
not open, and he could not find the manual. However, rather than insist
on his position, he switched to another person’s suggestion, which was to
look for the answer in the manual. This was the manual he earlier
couldn’t find. However, he looked for it again, found it (in an unexpected
form), and then instantly discovered the solution to the problem. That is
the power of taking up another’s suggestion, which is to shift to their
point of view.
Give Greater Attention
Another way to practice self-givingness is to give others greater
attention. People, objects, stocks of inventory, and money are but a few
things that respond to our attention. For example, if we give more
attention to our neglected accounting books or to unsold stocks, money
will fly in our direction. This same approach works for people. Give them
more attention, and they will respond in the most unexpected ways.
An instructor noticed that whenever he gave a little added attention
and encouragement to a slower student, the student brightened,
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became more enthusiastic about what was being learned, and gave
the instructor a perfect score at the end of the day.
That same instructor one day committed to giving all of his students
greater attention. On the day of the class, before he had the chance
to implement his plan all of the students started talking about the
subject matter in an extraordinarily animated way. In fact, for the
rest of the day he hardly said anything, as they were so energized on
their own to embrace the subject matter. In addition, they gave him
high evaluations, even though he hardly did anything.
When we give others greater attention we us from the local domain of
ego and separateness to a wider domain of harmony and oneness, where
energies flow and align at startling speed with corresponding positive
conditions. Others benefit from our attention, as do we: not only from the
joy we feel from their positive experiences, but from the startling life
responses we experience in return.
Feel, Express Goodwill
Another powerful was to be self-giving is to express our goodwill and
affection towards others. Goodwill is a higher vibration and movement of
life that establishes harmony and oneness between the parties, attracting
the very best of conditions for both.
One person felt goodwill for a business associate of his over several
years. Then one day, he was shocked to learn that through that
company he had earned by the greatest referral fee of his life! That is
the power of goodwill towards another person. It raises the quality of
the atmosphere and in the process attracts sudden good fortune from
the environment -- for the beneficiary and the benefactor.
Another individual gathered his emotions and feelings and inwardly
sent vibrations of goodwill and gratitude to various clients and friends
around the world. Soon thereafter, there was an avalanche of good
news from each of them -- in terms of sales, money, and other forms
of positive development.
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Feel, Express Gratitude
A very powerful way to express self-givingness in life is to show our
deepest thanks and appreciation -- i.e. our gratitude. Gratitude is, in
essence, the expression of a thought in which our heartfelt emotions go
out to others for the role they have played in bringing good fortune into
our lives.
The object of our appreciation and thanks may be one other person, a
group of people, a social entity, or even life itself. (In its highest form, it
is to recognize a Divine hand at work -- i.e. Grace.) Because gratitude is
a higher emotion, a spiritual emotion and attitude of the soul, it has the
power to not only create deep, powerful bonds between parties, but it can
elicit startling life response results. Here is one person’s experience:
“One day after completing a training class for a client, I handed a staff
member an invoice so she could find out when I would be paid. As I
patiently waited for an answer, I figured it would likely take 30 days
to process the bill, which is common in business. In the mean time, I
had stuck up a conversation with one of the people who attended my
class. At one point in the conversation, I expressed my admiration for
the work Microsoft had done in the past: in particular, how the
company consistently went the extra mile to insure that each new
iteration of its software was backwardly compatible. That in turn has
helped customers bring their older, “legacy” data forward into the
newer, more dynamic environment. I then went on to express my
sincere gratitude to Microsoft for having performed this great service
for society.
Well, at the very instant I finished that sentence, the individual
appeared on the scene with word about my invoice. However, instead
of being given a future date for remuneration, I was paid by check on
the spot! In addition, it was for an amount that exceeded my
expectations. To put it simply, it was life responding to my expression
of gratitude to a company that has brought so much benefit to myself
and the world.”
That is the life response power of expressing our gratitude in life. It
creates a bind of harmony between parties, while eliciting startling
positive developments from the world around us.
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Acts of Goodness Instantaneously Attract
There are several key factors that attract luck in our lives -- one of which
are acts of goodness. When one engages in selfless and self-giving
behavior, life tends to respond with overwhelming good fortune to our
person. In each of three novels by author Jane Austin, an act of goodness
changes the life of the heroine forever through the institution of
marriage.
Near the end of Pride and Prejudice, Eliza Bennett shows her gratitude to
Fitzwilliam Darcy for the effort he made in saving her family's reputation.
He in turn most unexpectedly responds with a proposal of marriage,
when she thought her family's behavior had disgusted him and he
therefore no longer had any interest in her. They are thus happily
married, and as a result her family come into a huge fortune.
In Sense and Sensibility, Elinor Dashwood showed an act of kindness
very early on in the story by relieving a servant girl of unnecessary work
that instantaneously attracts Edward Ferrars for the first time out of
nowhere -- not two feet from her (!) -- who would later marry her.
In Persuasion, Anne Elliot shows deep empathy for Captain Harville's love
for his beloved wife whom he must return to on occasion after long, one
year commissions at sea, which instantly attracts a completely
unexpected love letter from Captain Frederick Wentworth, which leads to
their sudden engagement and marriage. Again, she thought he had no
interest in her anymore.
In each case, a profound act of gratitude, kindness, and empathy -- three
forms of goodness -- attract a powerful response that instantly turns the
entire story -- leading to the joyous outcome of marriage for each of the
heroines.
Life for us in the real world is precisely the same. When we look out at
life through the eyes of others, sudden good fortune moves in our
direction, as we now have shifted from the limited plane of ego to the
universal plane, where our deepest aspirations are instantaneously
fulfilled.
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Esther Summerson’s Goodness in Bleak House
Goodness is a spiritual trait -- like Love, Beauty, Oneness, Wisdom, and
Peace. It is expressed too little in life, though nearly all acknowledge and
admire its appearance in others. When it rises in the popular mind, it is
exalted; though for the most part it remains hidden below the surface of
popular awareness, taking a back seat to the travails and celebrity status
of various personalities. We are too preoccupied with material (or shall
we say surface) matters to make it central in our popular discourse.
Charles Dickens was one of the greatest writers in the history of Western
literature. He was a novelist who excelled at storytelling, especially when
it came to describing the interactions of the classes of 19th century
England. Often he shows how reactionary forces oppress the weak and
the innocent, in the name of power and class maintenance.
One of Dickens greatest characters appears in his most complex and
underestimated novel Bleak House is the person of Esther Summerson.
She is the personification of Goodness -- perhaps the greatest example
known in the modern idiom. I say greatest because her Goodness was
integrated with other great spiritual qualities -- even though she was not
particularly of a spiritual bent. In other words, hers was integral
Goodness.
An orphan, she is brought into a situation where she is employed as a
companion to a young woman who is vying to win an inheritance in a
very complex legal case. Raised by her aunt, Esther's parentage is a
mysterious secret, which is finally revealed in the course of the story. Let
us examine some of the traits that indicate Esther’s Goodness and related
spiritual qualities:
-She never has a bad word to say about another individual. Even to the
meanest and cruelest, she withholds any harsh remarks, unless she is
absolutely pressed to.
-She helps those in needs at every occasion.
-She focuses on the other person whenever in their presence --
withholding her own concerns; always deferring to theirs.
-She is quiet and speaks in a soft voice.
-She does not espouse philosophy or points of view, even though she has
conviction.
-She rises to great psychological strength when life prods her to do so.
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-When she is seriously ill, all she thinks about is others. As they fret over
her illness, she is more concerned with their anguish than her misery.
-She is extremely calm in the face of negative circumstance.
-She frequently knows the truer truth of things; and therefore tends to
expresses right thoughts, makes right decisions, and take to right
actions.
-She asks for nothing and gives everything.
-She attracts love from all sides.
-She accomplishes greatly through marriage to a doctor she loves, and is
given a great house of her own, even though she originally arrived with
nothing.
In essence, Esther’s Goodness is married to Calm, Equality of Being,
Equanimity, Silence, Seeing the Positive in the Negative, Fortitude,
Strength, and Right Action. Compassion oozes from her every pore. She
is a spiritual individual -- while rarely speaking of the Spirit in her daily
life. As a result of these qualities, life perpetually responds in her favor.
E.g., when she remains utterly calm when she has come down with a
very serious illness, life responds with the greatest boon of her life when
shortly thereafter she not only recovers, but discovers the identity of her
mother, the single great longing and unsolved mystery of her life.
Goodness is a great thing to behold in an individual. When it is connected
to other spiritual qualities like Silence, Peace, and Strength, it becomes
integral -- and therefore takes on great power. There are many who are
Good, but somehow fail or fall back due to deficiencies in other areas --
particularly lack of strength. Jesus serves as a great example as he had
no power to overcome his crucifixion and death. When Good integrates
with other spiritual qualities, one is capable of accomplishing unfailingly -
- e.g. there is the sudden resolution of a great problem, or the
unexpected uncovering of a dark secret, or the opening to a vast
opportunity, to name a few. These each occur for Esther in Bleak House.
Some people are naturally good. The Divine easily comes to them. They
are pleasant, expansive, and ready to oblige, anticipating another
person’s needs. To them, goodness is a way of life, an instinct, an article
of faith. They cannot refrain from being good. Dickens’ lovely character
Esther Summerson is a prime example from whom we can learn several
of the great lessons of the Spirit.
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Life Response Power of Self-Givingness
Life response is the phenomenon where sudden good fortune descends on
a person due to an elevation of consciousness. It can come from a
change in attitude, an intense aspiration for a thing to be achieved, to a
decision, and to an action. One other way sudden good fortune comes is
through acts of kindness, generosity, and goodness. We can sum them
up as “self-givingness.”
The other day I attended a meeting where people were gathered to watch
a presentation. Sitting next to me was an individual who like me was
eager to learn new things from the speaker. At one point, my neighbor
turned over several leaflet pages to their blank side. I thought this
indicated that he wanted to take some notes. I then wondered if he even
had a pen to write with, since there was none present. A few moments
later, he pulled out a tiny, thin pen from his Swiss Army Knife. It seemed
a rather anemic writing utensil. I then offered him to use one of my pens,
which he gladly and appreciatively accepted.
At the end of the presentation, gifts were handed out to lucky winners.
Interestingly, the man next to me to whom I gave the pen won one of the
larger prizes. Then astonishingly the next person counterclockwise to him
at the table won the next prize. (There were a number of tables, mind
you.) Then utter astoundingly the next person sitting counterclockwise
still won the following prize! Now, I was the only one left at the table. As
they were drawing, the astonished participants in the room were looking
at me as the logical next person to win the prize! And wouldn’t you know
it, that is exactly what took place! And it turned out to be an expensive
gift that I needed for my work!
From the standpoint of life response, an inner cause creates an outer
effect. The cause on this case was my concern for the person next to me
and his lack of writing utensil. When I observed his situation and
extended myself by offering a pen, I performed a very small act of
generosity that precipitated the astounding series of events that followed;
breaking all odds. That is the life response power we generate when we
practice self-giving behavior.
Here’s another example I witnessed recently. In the film ‘The Savages’,
we watch as a son and daughter care for their elder ill father who has
Parkinson's. They (the Savage children) are both struggling artists, who
have yet to make a breakthrough in their creative fields. The son is a
writer, the daughter a struggling playwright. As it turns out the son is
satisfied that they have put their father into a nursing home for care. The
daughter however is not happy with this dismal arrangement, and seeks
something better. Along the way, she discovers a much nicer home in a
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rural area. She then makes the journey to find out about it and apply for
her father’s transfer there. Most interestingly, however, is that when she
arrives home, she receives a package in the mail with word that she has
been given a very large grant from the government. It provides her with
the money by which she produces her very first play – on Broadway no
less. From rehearsals, it seems it is going to be a big success.
In this instance, we see how an unsuccessful woman on the verge of
poverty with no work in site is catapulted to a completely new life. Her
act of generosity of seeking out better conditions for her father has
attracted an overwhelming response in the form of the grant that
provided the funds by which she would change the course of her career.
It is the overwhelming life response power generated by sweet acts of
self-givingness.
‘Witness for the Prosecution’
There is a wonderful scene in the film Witness for the Prosecution that
shows how selfless and self-givingness can evoke the miraculous.
Sir Wilfred Robarts, a master barrister and an elder man in ill health,
takes Leonard Vole on as a client over the protestations of his nurse. Vole
is accused of murdering Mrs. French, a rich, older woman who had
become enamored of Vole, going so far as to make him the main
beneficiary of her will. Thus, strong circumstantial evidence all pointed to
Vole as the killer.
When Sir Wilfred speaks with Vole's German wife Christine, he finds her
rather cold and self-possessed, but she does provide an alibi for Vole’s
innocence. Therefore, Sir Wilfred is greatly surprised when she is
unexpectedly called as a witness for the prosecution. On the stand, she
testifies that Vole admitted to her that he had killed Mrs. French, and that
her conscience now forced her to finally come forth and tell the truth.
As a result, Vole is likely to be found guilty and sent to the gallows. And
yet Sir Wilfred, loyal to the end, presses on despite the futility of the
situation, and despite his rapidly deteriorating health. At one point,
someone asks him if it is worth pursuing the case any further because it
could jeopardize his life. He answers that the life of his client is more
important than his own life, and he will do everything he can to pursue
the truth.
Not a few seconds after he makes that remark, he receives a phone call.
It is from a mysterious woman who says she can produce shocking new
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evidence that will lead to the reversal of the case, which is in fact what
occurs.
From a consciousness point of view, the phone call and presence of this
woman is something more. It is a direct and immediate response from
life to Sir Wilfred for having placed the life of someone else above his
own. It is an astonishing act of self-sacrifice for which he is
instantaneously rewarded with information that suddenly reverses the
evidence and wins him the case.
This is no clever ploy on the part of the writer to create dramatic effect,
but is precisely how life works. When we take to selfless and self-giving
behavior, life immediately starts working on our behalf. Negative
situations dissipate, unthought of opportunities arise, and other forms of
sudden good fortune come our way. It is in essence the phenomenon of
“Life Response” in action. When we change our inner condition, life
outside instantly responds in kind.
Multiple Life Response Around Common Circumstance
We see how life response (sudden good fortune) unfold in single,
individual incidents, reflecting unique circumstance related to that
person, collective, or entity. However, if we look closer, we will see that
life response often -- maybe always! -- comes in bunches around
common circumstance. To show you what I mean, consider this example
from literature and film.
In the 1999 Masterpiece Theater adoption of Charles Dickens' David
Copperfield, young David in 19th century England has been sent away to
work at a wine factory in London by his cruel stepfather. There he meets
with the Micawber family, which gives him some relief from his gloomy
situation. Unfortunately, Mr. Micawber, though a good man, is constantly
in debt, and is at one point put in debtor’s prison.
One day David out of pity and concern goes to visit Mr. Micawber. The
older man is grateful to David for showing such kindness. In response, he
tells David that if he were to leave the wine factory, he should visit his
own aunt in Dover. It will turn out to be the most important bit if advice
David ever receives. (I.e. when he leaves the factory, literally walks
across the country, and meets up with her, his entire life is changed for
the better.) Thus, this great bit of advice from Mr. Micawber is a life
response for David for showing such concern for the man while he was in
prison, especially when he visited on that particular occasion.
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But the life response outcomes did not end there! As soon as Mr.
Micawber gives his precious advice to David, his wife immediately bursts
in on the scene and informs him that he has been released from debtor’s
prison! Because he in turn showed deep interest and concern for David,
life instantaneously responded with news of his own release. Thus, we
see two interconnected life response outcomes occurring around the
same essential event.
Now we can take this a step farther. If we were privy to Mr. Micawber’s
wife’s situation, we might discover that when she received news of her
husband’s release, it was due to an inner or outer behavioral change on
her part as well. And even in the future, when David takes up Mr.
Micawber’s advice and walks across the country to meet with his aunt, we
would see that she attracted the boy she has not seen since birth due to
her shift in consciousness; and through David’s arrival, her life would
change as well.
Thus, we see a closely meshed, interconnected series of life response
outcomes related to the same essential circumstance. David's primary
action initiated a startling series of positive events, each unfolding in the
form of sudden good fortune.
Self-Givingness Attracts Love in 'Scent of a Woman'
Life Response (sudden good fortune) has many subtle rules, nuances,
and peculiarities. One example of the latter is that if you shift your
consciousness to the positive in one area of your life, you will often
experience a response in a very different one. For example, when you
finally get the courage to stand up to an abusive boss, life rewards you
when a previously non-responding woman you have been wooing
suddenly appears at your doorstep ready to begin a serious relationship.
This ability to attract from one domain by reversing our consciousness in
another is a fascinating aspect of life response. Here is another example
from a film I watched recently.
In ‘Scent of a Woman,’ Charlie Simms is a student at a private
preparatory school who comes from a poor family. To earn the money for
his flight home for Christmas, Charlie takes a job looking after retired
U.S. Army officer Lieutenant Colonel Frank Slade, a cantankerous middle-
aged man who is now blind, alcoholic, eccentric, and difficult to get along
with.
Charlie is distracted by a very big problem he is having at school. Three
students have played a prank on the school's headmaster, Mr. Trask, by
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placing a balloon filled with plaster and bearing a profane image above
his expensive car, which was presented to him by the school's board of
trustees. Trask then pops the balloon, causing the contents to rain down
on him and his car in front of the entire school. Only Charlie and another
classmate, George knows the identity of the culprits, as they had seen
them setting the booby trap the previous night. However, both of them
refuse to reveal the culprits' names. After threatening both with
expulsion, Trask tries to bribe Charlie by assuring him admission to
Harvard if he names those who committed the prank. Charlie still tells
him nothing, but is warned that he must or suffer the consequences for
being a "cover-up artist."
When Charlie originally took the job, he was told that he would only have
to stay with Colonel Slade at his niece's home and look after him.
However, Slade had actually planned a visit to New York, and therefore
enlists Charlie’s help on the trip. He takes a room at the Waldorf-Astoria.
During dinner, Slade reveals the real purpose for the trip: to eat at an
expensive restaurant, stay at a luxury hotel, see his big brother, make
love to a beautiful woman, and then commit suicide.
Charlie learns how Slade lost his sight by foolishly juggling hand grenades
while drunk. Slade's crude behavior at dinner further alienates his brother
and other relatives. Later, the blind Colonel tangos with a girl whose
perfume captivates him. He drives a Ferrari with a very nervous Charlie in
the passenger seat. Slade tricks Charlie into leaving the hotel room to
buy him a cigar, but a suspicious Charlie comes back to find Slade ready
to commit suicide with his gun. After a few tense minutes, Charlie is able
to stop Slade from killing himself.
By this point, Charlie has become very loyal to the Colonel. Charlie
becomes the sole person to stand by Slade, and defend him against the
Colonel's own family. Charlie's loyalty is not lost on Slade, as Slade offers
him advice numerous times and even comes to see him as a true friend.
In their intimate discussions, the Colonel reveals that more than anything
in his life he would like a good woman.
Charlie eventually returns to school, where George, is about to reveal the
names of the students involved in the incident. Trask conducts a
courtroom-like assembly of the student body and the Disciplinary
Committee. He questions George, who with the help of his influential
father is able to weasel out of the jam by claiming to be only partially
certain of the culprits' identity, suggesting that Charlie might have had a
better view than he did. Charlie then refuses to give the students' names,
and is about to be expelled when Colonel Slade surprisingly enters and
delivers a compelling speech on his behalf, revealing that Charlie had
been offered a bribe to inform on the other students. Slade then wins
over the students and the committee. The students who played the prank
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on Trask are placed on disciplinary probation, George is given no
recognition, and Charlie is exonerated.
Now here is the part of the story that I would like to direct your attention.
As Charlie and Slade walk outside of the school, a beautiful middle-aged
woman walks up and congratulates them on their effort. Slade though
blind is dazzled by her beauty and intelligence. He indicates that he would
like to see her, which she seems to desire as well. In fact, she seems to
be everything he had (earlier) dreamed of. Slade then returns home. No
longer bitter, he seems to have a new look on life, a new young friend in
Charlie, and the real possibility of befriending the woman of his dreams.
In this story, a broken man changes his attitude through deep friendship
with a student. He then offers his services when the young man is about
to be condemned in front of the student body. That act of self-givingness
instantly attracts the woman he so deeply yearns for now in his life. As
we see, when we shift our consciousness to the positive in one area of
our lives, we often attract positive conditions in another. If for example
we have a deep aspiration to love someone and then act in another
domain in a positive way -- through an act of self-givingness, or greater
psychological strength, or higher attitudes, etc -- life instantly fulfils that
deep, original aspiration. When Slade attracted the lovely, sensitive, and
intelligent woman at the conclusion of the story, it was the final outcome
in a process that began when he expressed his deep aspiration for such a
person, and then self-gave of himself in another arena, helping a young
friend avoid a catastrophe.
We too can utilize this approach, if we are first clear about what we want,
look around and overcome a glaring limitation in our being in any area of
our lives -- whether a poor attitude, ego and selfishness, poor
organization, weak effort, lacking psychological strength, etc. Life will
then reward our efforts by bringing the object of our desire, whatever
that is, to our doorstep.
(Thanks to Wikipedia for their film summary.)
The Power of Goodness in Arden Forest
Goodness and goodwill are deeply admirable traits for they enrich the
lives of others, while eliciting extraordinary positive response back to the
initiator. If it occurs in a time and place where there is a positive
atmosphere, the response from life can be overwhelming. With such
munificent attitudes within such a positive environment, the harshest
enemy can reverse himself and melt into the Light.
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In fact, we see these very circumstance in Shakespeare’s beloved
comedy and meditation on love, ‘As You Like It.’ In the story, Frederick
has usurped the duchy in France from his elder brother, Duke Senior,
who is exiled to a place known as the ‘Forest of Arden.’
It turns out that the exiled Duke Senior is a gentle, mild, and good man
who responds to his plight and that of his followers with calm and
philosophic stoicism, rather than hatred or despair. In exile, he
accompanied by four other lords who follow Senior Duke to the forest out
of loyalty. On numerous occasions, he demonstrates his goodness,
generosity, and goodwill to those around him, including new arrivals who
arrive in the forest.
Rather than the difficult and harsh life with tension and conflict one might
expect from the followers, so many things go right for the exiled party.
Because of Senior Duke’s munificent character, and the subtle, lilting,
joyful atmosphere that issues from it, life conspires to bring about a
series of fortunate events. For example, the Duke’s daughter Rosalyn -- a
famed and cherished Shakespearean character -- quickly finds romance
and then marries. Even the daughter of the evil Fredrick leaves his
kingdom and finds love in Arden Forest -- to a man who has abandoned
Fredrick’s heinous conspiracy against Duke Senior! In fact, we witness a
breakout of infatuation and mutual attraction among the lovers in that
place, culminating in the marriage of four couples!
In addition, Fredrick’s plot to destroy the party holed up in the forest is
thwarted, as the positive, energized atmosphere gives strength to the
forces that oppose it. Finally, Fredrick himself has a powerful spiritual
conversion, which relieves him of his malice, while handing his kingdom
back to the magnanimous and good Duke Senior. In summary, the
overriding positive atmosphere of self-givingness, gentleness, and
camaraderie serve to attract a plethora of positive results for the party,
including four marriages to eight main characters, the astonishing
conversion of Senior Duke’s enemy brother, and his return as leader in
his beloved homeland. It demonstrates the enormous positive energy and
power that goodness has over life.
One other point about Fredrick’s conversion should be mentioned. In this
situation, his negative was not so much neutralized and negated by
others, but reversed within himself. I.e. with no initiative and action on
the part of Duke Senior’s side, Fredrick underwent a startling conversion
and saw the Light. Such instances of evil turning good on its own are very
rare in life. In fact, it occurs nowhere else in Shakespeare. In his stories,
negative individuals are sometimes victorious; other times are subdued
or consumed. But never do they convert from the negative to the positive
on their own -- i.e. seeing the light of Truth beyond their ignorance,
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falsehood, and evil. And yet in ‘As You Like It,’ that is precisely what
happens.
In the final analysis, we too are capable of demonstrating our goodness
and goodwill towards others. And we too can generate a positive
atmosphere through that effort. As a result, not only will our warmth and
affection energize others, but through that self-giving effort, we will
quickly attract powerful positive conditions. If that is the case, then why
not try this approach today? Focus yourself on the needs and concerns of
others the next several times you interact. Then observe as your
relationships improve, as emotional sweetness takes hold, and as positive
conditions suddenly arise out of nowhere -- as they did for Senior Duke
and his followers in Arden Forest.
Generosity of Spirit in Julie and Julia
The 2009 American comedy-drama Julie and Julia depicts events in the
life of chef Julia Child in the early years of her culinary career in the
1950s through 60s. This is set in contrast to the life of Julie Powell in the
2000s, who aspires to cook all 524 recipes from Child's cookbook during a
single year, a challenge she described on her popular blog.
At the high point in the story, Julia Child discovers that her book of
French recipes will be published by a large publisher, setting the stage for
her illustrious career. Her book would go on to be one of the bestsellers
of all time in that genre, and she would become the most famous chef
and culinary teacher in the world though her TV series.
After watching the highly entertaining and breezy film of these true life
events, I wondered what propelled Julia to the heights; i.e. what brought
about the great response from life when her book was accepted by a
major publisher? I then thought back to an earlier scene in the film. It is
the one where she is gathered around a table with her two co-authors to
discuss the future of the book that was now rounding into shape and
ready for a publisher and sponsor.
In the gathering, the three women sat around a table and discussed the
manner in which they would be listed on the cover of the book. One of
the women was bitter and complained that the third (not Julia) would be
listed prominently with the others since she had contributed so little to
the writing. Julia however was more than conciliatory and was willing to
have the third woman listed equally with the other two despite her limited
literary effort. In fact, when this third person during the discussion
revealed that she had just gotten a divorce, Julia instantly shifted the
discussion, as she as more concerned with this issue than the order of or
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how prominently their names would be displayed. When pressed on the
matter by the bitter woman, Julia noted that she did not give a fig about
the matter and would be perfectly happy if all three names were listed
equally.
It has been my experience any act of goodness comes back to that
person in one form of another. Some refer to this as the ‘Law of Karma;’
others, like myself call it a Life response; I.e. an instance of sudden good
fortune due to expression of higher consciousness by that individual.
Because Julia was so generous and self-giving when it came to the
prominence of the names on the book, life rewarded her with a contract
from one of the world’s great book publishers, setting her on a road of
fame and fortune that she never would have imagined. When we honestly
and spontaneously give of ourselves to others, showing deep concern
interest in their concerns, life returns the favor with goo, or in the case of
Julia, great fortune.
The great spiritual personality known as The Mother said that generosity
is to find one's own satisfaction in the satisfaction of others. It is to forget
one’s own self and share in the happiness and joy of other’s experiences.
Moreover, that spontaneous act of goodness and solicitude not only
brings joy to both parties, but evokes powerful response from life; often
changing the very course of one’s life.
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Personal Values
INTRODUCTION
A value is a belief, a mission, or a philosophy that is meaningful. Whether
we are consciously aware of them or not, every individual has a core set
of personal values. Values can range from the commonplace, such as the
belief in hard work and punctuality, to the more psychological, such as
self-reliance, concern for others, and harmony of purpose.
When we examine the lives of famous people, we often see how personal
values guided them, propelling them to the top of their fields. For
example, one actor was motivated by his commitment to social justice,
which led to important acting roles related to that value that made him
world famous. Likewise, a well-known business CEO was motivated by
the personal value that technology should be easy to use, which caused
his company to spawn a technology revolution. Whatever one's values,
when we take them to heart and implement them in the smallest details
of our lives, great accomplishment and success are sure to follow.
Just as individuals subscribe to values, so do organizations and
institutions. In fact, if we were to examine any company, we would
discover that one or more business values was the key to their
success. Examples are –
-- Sears' commitment to trusting the customer. [From the 19th century
onward, any product could be returned to the company with a money
back guarantee, which engendered great trust in both directions,
enabling booming sales, and, the great success for the firm that
followed.]
-- Apple Computer's belief in the values of solving problems of society.
[The company created the IPod player and ITunes online music store to
overcome a conflict between those who sought to download copyrighted
music for free and the music industry which sought to protect its artists
and its revenues.]
-- Marriott's values of systemization and standardization. [The company
created a standard model hotel, and then duplicated it hundreds of time
around the world, enabling it to grow incredibly fast, and become the
leader of its industry.]
Likewise, we see how political parities and politicians subscribe to certain
core values -- ranging from helping the poor, easing the burden of the
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middle class, improving the environment, making government responsive
and efficient, engendering loyalty and unity, and so forth.
The key point to keep in mind about values is that implementing them
energizes everything concerned with it. For an individual, committing to
and applying values releases fresh energies, which always attract
success, achievement, and well-being. Likewise, when companies or
other institutions adopt values, individuals working at the organization
become energized, as do its customers, its products and services, and
everyone and everything else associated with that organization.
We can energize our lives by making the full effort to implement the
values we subscribe to. Once we identify values that are meaningful to
us, we can develop strategies to implement them. When we make the
determined effort to implement those strategies, good fortune is sure to
follow -- in the form of new opportunities, new sources of revenue and
income, and other forms of material and psychological benefit. We may
even notice that as we implement values, we experiences instances of
"life response" -- where good fortune suddenly comes to us from
seemingly out of nowhere, defying our normal perceptions of what is
logical and possible.
Power of Values to Shape Our Lives
In the mid 1970s, I made a decision to move to California from New York
City, where I was raised. Why I did so, and why I made other decisive
turns in my life is the subject of this essay. My first thought on the
subject is that I took these actions simply because I was motivated to do
so. And yet, what really motivates us in life are the things we truly value.
Then what were the values that compelled me to move to California -- in
particular to the San Francisco Bay Area -- where I have resided for these
last 30 years? Well, it is true that after five years attending college at
frigid Syracuse University in upstate New York I was compelled to seek
the warmer climes of California. But I could have moved south to Florida
or to the Southwestern parts of the US. However, having been raised in
the urban/suburban environment of New York City, I valued culture and a
certain type of urban sophistication I might not find in those other
locales. I also enjoyed being near the water, not only because of its
shimmering beauty, but because cities at the edge of the great oceans
tend to attract a diversity of people and a richness of culture from around
the world.
Though climate, beauty, diversity, and culture influenced my decision,
there must have been something more specific that compelled me to
move to this region. Looking at it in retrospect, I have concluded that I
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came to the area because of the existence of Marin County -- the
progressive community that lies directly across the Golden Gate Bridge
from San Francisco. Marin County at the time (and still is) was the
prosperous land where many of the creative musicians, artists, and
thinkers of the 1970s lived. From the articles and reports I had read while
living on the East coast, the people who lived in that region were involved
with matters that meant a great deal to me -- i.e. aspects of life that I
truly valued. And because I deeply believed in those things, I wanted to
be near them; to somehow participate in their way of life. And so I
headed out to the SF Bay Area in 1975 in earnest -- and never looked
back.
But I have still not identified the specific values of the Marinites that
compelled me to join them. Let me try to list them for you. For one, the
residents were in the vanguard of the changes going in society at the
time -- including an appreciation of Eastern culture and spirituality, a
concern for the quality of the physical environment, a dissatisfaction with
the mindless materialism of modern life, the rejection of conformity of the
previous generation, and the development of new forms of music that
expressed their new world view. These were the underlying values that
drove me to the region. These were the ideals and beliefs that shaped my
life at the time, compelling me to venture across country.
Each of us is motivated to move our lives in certain directions. That
motivation is determined by the values we subscribe to. Our values are
thus the formations and ideations of thought, the distinct formulations of
understanding that express what we perceive to be important truths
about life. These ideals are then reinforced by our emotions and feelings,
which turn those mental perception into a vital passion that we hope to
realize in our lives. Whether we actually make the effort to implement
them is another matter.
Without values or beliefs, we would be mechanical-like beings, driven
here and there by the vicissitudes of life. Without values, we would be
creature-like, compelled to action solely by our urges and passions. In
this inhuman existence, there would be little consideration for truths we
hold dear, let alone implement them to ennoble and enrich our lives. In
this reality devoid of values, we would live unconscious lives, without
meaning or purpose. On the other hand, when we take to values, we live
a purposeful and dynamic existence -- i.e. we become truly human.
This being the case, what are the truths of life, i.e. the personal values
that you believe in? What are the cherished ideals and beliefs that have
shaped your life; that are motivating and driving your life today? Why not
take a little time and come up with a short list, and then consider how
each has or currently is shaping your life.
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If we think about it, we will see that people relate to personal values in a
number of ways. Thoughtful people are continually thinking about those
things they cherish and believe in. Powerful people are also motivated
and driven to implement them in their lives. In fact, the most successful
people are constantly evaluating their values, and are continually driven
to turn them into a living reality. For these individuals, values are an
inexhaustible source of inner power that energizes them to no end;
driving them to the heights of success, while bringing about deep
fulfillment in their lives.
Interestingly, not only do values energize us, but when we implement
them, it energizes everything they come in contact with! If I apply the
value of customer service and delight when I speak with the client, I
energize the conversation, which leads to greater response from the
person on the other end, who is now motivated to purchase the services I
am offering. Also, if I am truly sincere in my belief in customer
satisfaction, I create an added value that reinforces and builds on the first
one. A combination of values applied to a situation dramatically energizes
circumstances, which not only increases the likelihood of success, but
turns the interaction into an enjoyable, even thrilling experience. Thus,
implementing values have an innate capacity to create more energy,
accomplishment, and joy in living.
Values are actually a very special power in the universe. It is one our
minds can grasp for the purpose of uplifting life. Values are actually
spiritual skills -- a divine gift that comes to us from the infinite Source of
things. The highest of principles -- such as Oneness, Love, Beauty, and
others -- descend from the heavens, and are reinterpreted as values by
our minds. For example, the spiritual principle of Oneness is recognized
by our minds as values of cooperation, integration, teamwork, and
others. Likewise, the universal principle of Love expresses through values
of goodness, selflessness, self-givingness, openness, tolerance, respect
for others, and a number of others.
The last twenty-five years has seen an explosion in an interest in values.
Tom Peters' book 'In Search of Excellence' started the ball rolling for
values in the workplace. Religious leaders speak of family values, nations
speak of moral values, spiritual teachers speak of the highest values of
gratitude, benevolence, and self-givingness; even self-surrender to the
Divine. Values drive us, motivate us, move life, move us forward --
enabling progress even evolution. Values are what enables life to take the
Next Step -- whether they drive our own individual lives in a positive
direction; improve the economic, social, and cultural conditions of a
nation; or move society forward in its never-ending ascending path of
progress.
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Tolerance, openness, respect for the individual, and teamwork are several
great human values, while Oneness, Love, Beauty, and Truth are some of
higher spiritual values that they derive from. At certain points, the human
and spiritual values come together and blend into one another,
expressing through spiritualized human values such as selflessness, self-
givingness, and gratitude.
Values are expressions of emotionalized truths that when implemented
energize whatever they come in contact with, enabling the greatest
positive results with the least effort in the shortest period of time --
whether it is for the individual, a collective, or society as a whole.
Values are the nexus to our future progress. It is the call of the Divine to
the minds of men to seek a better life -- to pursue ultimate delight and
fulfillment in life.
Purity of Values Wins Case in Film ‘A Civil Action’
In ‘A Civil Action,’ based on a true-life story, a highly successful personal
injury lawyer Jan Schlichtmann, who likes to negotiate big settlements for
his clients, represents the families of several children who died of
leukemia. Jan is touched by several parents' pleas, and decides to check
out the polluting factories that might be responsible. When he discovers
that one of them is a subsidiary of the big conglomerate Beatrice Foods,
Jan convinces his partners to take on the case. During the trial, Jan
contends not only with his well-financed judicial adversaries, but with the
fact that by taking on the case he is forcing his own associates into deep
financial debt, threatening their very livelihood.
It turns out that he not only loses the case, but his associates abandon
him, and he himself is forced to move towards bankruptcy. However, in
that impoverished state he perceives a new way to pursue the polluters.
Then through a series of events, the case is renewed through other
advocates, the victims win, and they are compensated by the courts for
the amount of $69 million.
We can look at the outcome of the case as life responding to the purity of
Jan’s values. He was at first an intelligent and clever attorney, driven by
money. His higher values and idealism were buried beneath that
attraction. He then however, takes on a case -- i.e. the plight of the
victims of water pollution -- that moves him emotionally and idealistically.
And yet here too he is at first motivated by the possibility of a big
settlement in order to make a personal fortune. Though he is tempted,
his ideals of justice for the victims prevents him from doing so. Yet,
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interestingly he is at the same time destroying the people who are
working with him, forcing them into near financial ruin, in order to pursue
the case against an opposition with deep pockets.
It turns out that he loses the case in part because though his idealism is
strong when it comes to the victims, he is still insensitive toward the
plight of his own people. In other words, he is still exhibiting negative,
even mercenary attitudes when it comes to money -- despite the fact
that he has refused a settlement with the opposition -- and therefore life
responds negatively in kind. I.e. life does not cooperate and he loses. In
fact, the irony is that denying a lucrative settlement for the victims, while
idealistically positive, causes his own staffers to suffer. And yet is only
when he himself is driven into near bankruptcy that he is able to come up
with the solution that leads to the resolution of the case in favor of the
victims.
With his associates abandoning him, and now reduced to poverty, he is
able to more fully and finally act from his idealism, i.e. his sense of
justice, which are in essence his deep values. With the money taint gone,
his consciousness was free to deal more purely with the issues at hand.
In that state, he was able to perceive a new strategy to solve the case.
By moving away from money influence, he could think rationally, even
intuitively, which enabled him to quickly come up with a plan that
enabled him to find the man who provides the damning evidence that
enabled him (through the EPA) to win the follow-up case. Life had in
essence finally responded to his untainted idealism, by presenting his
mind with a new perspective and insight on the direction to take the case.
Since he now had no money of his own, he was not able to pursue the
follow-up case that he initiated though his intuition. Rather he had to
send the new evidence he had gathered to the EPA (the Environmental
Protection Agency), who then instigated the follow-up case. They then
won a vast settlement for the victims – even though Jan was no longer
directly involved. Thus, life brought a huge settlement to the deserved
victims only when the case was taken out of his hands. (That way his
idealism could shine through and pave the way to a new strategy and
new evidence that paved the way for victory. His old consciousness of
money taint would not interfere.)
When a value is pure and perfect, life will respond to it. Jan valued that
justice come to the victims, and with great passion was able to device an
intuitive strategy that won the day. Overcoming his mercenary attitudes
toward money enabled him to overcome a wanting attitude that had once
disturbed the purity of ideals.
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Conscious Choice
Human Choice as Ultimate Determinant
The ultimate determinant of our lives are the choices we make. It is what
we choose to become that has the greatest influence. The more conscious
we are, the more we will sense our ultimate purposes; including the
evolving soul's purpose and our life purpose. If we are in touch with our
deeper self within, down to that evolving Psychic/Soul element, and if we
are connected to the greater truths of knowledge above through the
spiritualized mind of intuition and revelation, we come in touch with the
highest possibilities of what we can become. We can then choose to
become those things, fulfilling all purposes -- personal, soul, and cosmic.
Thus, human choice made through our highest consciousness an
awareness become the ultimate determinant of what we are and who we
can become.
What We Can Become through Our Conscious Choice
-There are many determinants in life of who we are and what we can
become -- including our environment, our parents, our genetic
inheritance, our character, etc. Ultimately, it is what we choose to
become that is the greatest determinant.
-The more conscious we are, the more we tend to determine our own
lives, instead of being determined by the exigencies of Nature.
-When Nature determines, it occurs through division and duality, conflict
and strife mixed with good fortune.
-Self-determination avoids it. Increasing our consciousness, we avoid
problems of Nature enabling our full self-determination of who we are
and what we can become.
-By discovering the spirit within and above, we enable the greatest level
of awareness and hence self-determination power.
-Regardless of the conditions of life, we can become anything we choose
to become, especially when we connect and rise to our highest nature.
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Choose in the Positive for Endless Progress & Success
-Those who prosper will look at the world from their highest
responsibilities. Those who refuse to prosper will always attribute their
failure to external circumstances.
-The capacity to complain against everyone and everything keeps the
other where he was forty years ago.
-Choose the RIGHT, the GOOD, the PLEASANT, the VALUABLE and that is
the ladder for progress.
-If you complain, whine, bark, are lazy, compete or ascribe your failure to
others, you constantly slide down.
-Evil, meanness, deceit, violence, cruelty, tyranny, falsehood, MONEY
VALUE, mercenary attitude, short temper, greed, demand, desire,
craving, suspicious nature, doubt, sloth, etc. have never paid social
dividends.
-In the end, these are aspects of your temperament that you choose to
exercise. (MSS)
The Great Choices of Great Individuals
If you take most great men, their contemporaries will say, "He is not
exceptional, many were his equal, and sometimes they excelled him. It is
luck that favoured him." This is what they believe. When you read the
CHOICES the great man had made at every step of his crucial life, it will
be clear all those who had equal abilities did not choose as the great man
chose. Greatness always chooses the RIGHT side, which every other
person shirks. (Sri Karmayogi)
Making the Right Choices from the Depths That Enables Life
to Respond
-At any moment, there are infinite possibilities before us.
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-The more we are cognizant of the possibilities, the more likely we are to
make the right choice.
-The right choice tends to evoke instances of sudden good fortune.
-When we live on the surface of life, dominated by the auditory and
visual, we perceive few possibilities.
-When we live in a deeper consciousness within, we are more mindful and
aware, which helps us perceive the possibilities that can lead to conscious
choice that attract powerful life response results.
-At various points in time, we are confronted by crossroad decisions.
When we make the right choice in those moments, life instantly responds
in our favor. The wrong choice can instantly attract the opposite.
-The best life response-inducing behaviors are those that are helpful
(over that which is uninvolved or harmful); those that focus on the needs
of others (over that which serves our own self- interest); those that are
positive and upbeat (over that which is negative and glum); those that
engender calm and patience (over that which is disturbed and impatient)
Human Choice
It is said that the Divine has a cosmic purpose which governs the
unfolding of universal acts through which He is experiencing the Delight
of Evolving from the Involved.
The Divine Soul in us, the Psychic Being, also has a purpose. It has come
in order to acquire certain experiences in the life of a particular birth,
including our own.
When the above two align, both complement each other and evolve
together and to a greater degree, bringing valuable benefit for both the
individual and the universe.
Yet, the Divine has also given us the freedom to CHOOSE our own path,
as every one of us is a part of Him. We may evolve several levels by
aligning with the cosmic purpose, or may evolve at our own pace, or we
may even deny the evolution on the surface, though it will still happen
subconsciously. Human choice is the key to determine which path we will
take. Wisdom and a rise in our consciousness will help us determine
which path to take.
We see several examples of this in Jane Austin's 'Pride and Prejudice. We
witness how Darcy aligned with the cosmic purpose by his inner change,
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utilizing the opportunity that presented itself during Lydia’s elopement. It
brought greater good for himself, as well as for the people he interacted
with, while also achieving the cosmic purpose. His choice was in
alignment with the cosmic purpose because his actions helped the upper
and middle class come together in harmony instead of through violent
revolution that was currently taking place in nearby France.
Second eldest sister Jane was neutral on the surface, but subconsciously
aligned with the cosmic movement by practicing patience and calm
during the period of Bingley’s absence. In the end she received the
benefit of the cosmic movement attracting Bingley to love and marriage
without any initiative on her side.
Mrs. Bennet also aligned with the cosmic movement on the surface by
having the intense aspiration for the marriage of her daughters. However,
her every initiative spoiled and delayed the action of cosmic movement.
As a result, she went a year of anxiety, remorse, and turmoil before she
finally benefited by the cosmic movement through the marriage of her
daughters.
Till the very end Lady Catherine resisted the cosmic movement and tried
her best to prevent it from happening. As a result, it brought her defeat;
and her evolution was thereby delayed or halted on the surface.
However, her soul would grasp that experience as a valuable learning
experience, and might use that in successive births for its evolution.
It is interesting to note that the Divine made use of those who resisted
the cosmic movement, who would serve as instruments for the final
outcome of the story, including of the marriage of the sisters and the rise
of the Bennett family. E.g. towards the end of Pride and Prejudice, Darcy
came to know that his love for Eliza had still a chance of succeeding only
through the reactionary and arrogant Lady Catherine. (by S)
Human Choice
The human is the infinite in the finite appearance.
In any given situation, its range of choice is from the finite to the
infinite.
Though the human is free to choose, it chooses according to the
external circumstances.
Those external circumstances can be replaced by internal
circumstances.
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It also chooses from different levels (physical to spiritual).
All these choices can be in grades. But they still belong to becoming,
Nature, outside, finite.
The human can choose compelled neither by the external nor internal
circumstances but according to its own light independent of both.
Spiritually, that is what is called Human Choice. (MSS)
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True Individuality
INTRODUCTION
What is Individuality? Individuality is the capacity to express one's true,
unique nature in deed and thought. It is the expression of what one
deems to be truth, regardless of what others believe.
How does Individuality develop? How can it be fostered? It is fostered by
knowing our true selves; of a longing for the truth of things, not merely
the commonly accepted; by rigorous introspection of one's attachments
and attitudes, as opposed to the truth of a matter; of an outflowing of
creative capacity unfettered by common standards, approval, or social
convention.
What is the relationship between Individuality and-
• Creativity? Individuality expresses as ultimate creativity because it
reflects a unique slant on things, capacity to create; something fresh
and new in the world.
• Original thinking? Individuality compels original thinking, as we are
willing to explore that which has not been done before. It opens us up
to infinite possibility.
• Leadership? Individuality creates fresh leadership. During the Cuban
Missile, Crisis Kennedy asked his advisors to think of a fresh approach
in solving the problem, which they did, and thereby at the last minute
resolved a potential global catastrophe.
• Genius? If we are truly individual, we will explore that which has not
been explored before. Our insights in that new field will tend to be
fully original, compelling others to consider us to be genius in that
area.
• Entrepreneurship? Individuality will compel us to take up new types of
undertakings that have never existed before. This creates vast
opportunities for us, as we are there first. Steve Jobs and Apple, from
its earliest days onward, is an obvious example.
• Freedom & democracy? Individuality is freedom in the true sense.
What good is it to be free if we just act like the herd. The term
"liberty" expresses this freedom to be a true, unique individual. It is a
step beyond "freedom." Society that fosters liberty in this sense
advances individuality.
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• Education? True individuality would compel a young person to seek
knowledge in areas he or she is truly interested in. That knowledge
would in effect reinforce and expand the individuality, leading to great
creative results in life. Individuality would focus on the needs of the
individual child, person not the mass of education. It would look into
the soul needs of each person.
• Culture? Culture would be enriched and expanded through greater
individuality. We would see new forms of culture, new ways of relating
to society and life. Life would become fuller, more interesting, more
dynamic, with new ways of looking at things, and sharing of them in
individual and collective experience.
• Romantic love? More types of love would open up aside from the
forms we have known so far. There would be more gradations and
shadings of types of love than what we know now; just as romantic
love, a new shading that only blossomed in the last 750 years,
particularly the last 200, emerged. Romantic relationships would thus
become even more dynamic.
• Spirituality? Individuality would take us far beyond the teachings of
religion to an essential spirituality as we would explore all dimensions
of existence, of reality, of the spiritual dimension, unfettered by the
social imperative. Individuality would also lead to unique, direct
experiences of the spiritual dimension of life.
What is the relationship between the development of Individuality and the
development of Society? Society would become more dynamic, more
enriched, more open minded. Society would thus be energized to no end.
Is humanity becoming more individualistic? If so, why? What is the
significance? Yes, of course. Just look at the Internet. With that
knowledge, any person can become anything he or she wishes to be.
There is also an opposite movement to conformity, but then true
individuality would see through it, compelling one to act based on one's
conscience, one's unique perspective, and creative capacity.
Can Individuality be distinguished from and develop without increasing
egocentrism and selfishness? Individuality is not the same as egotism,
rebelliousness, and other destructive forms. Real individuality comes from
Self, which is in touch with higher things in life. The rebel expresses his
faux-individuality by being truculent for its own sake. Even if that which
he rebels against is resolved, he will still rebel because rebellion is all that
he knows. Ego is not individuality; it is separateness that does not want
to know the full truth of things, and thereby be unique.
Is it possible to develop individuality in a manner compatible with the
maximum progress for society as a whole? Yes, there is a balance
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between individuality and social cooperation. When we become truly
individual, we also perceive the need for harmony with other things and
individuals. As we make progress through our individuality, so does
society. As society allows for maximum individuality, we thrive as
individuals.
Tending the True Self that Fosters Individuality
Individuality begins at the point where we psychologically and outwardly
express who we truly are. Moreover, those who are truly conscious of
their own uniqueness will more readily bring it to the surface, creating
real benefit for themselves and the world at large. Finally, the society
that fosters that indwelling true self and individuality of the person will
create a multiplying effect of ever-increasing creativity and
accomplishment in the world.
In the recent powerful Indian film ‘Like Stars on Earth (Every Child is
Special),’ we see this latter dynamic in action. There a young boy with
dyslexia becomes an outcast from his peers and the school system. And
yet one progressive teacher steps forward, sees beyond the surface and
into the depths of the child, fostering his individuality as a painter with a
genius-like artistic temperament. This, it turns out is the complete
opposite of the mass education system that operates on a hierarchical
structure, with the teacher all knowing; departing knowledge to a
strained or reluctant classroom of children. A better system would
therefore be the opposite; where the teacher begins by discovering the
true essence, spirit, and aspirations of each child, drawing it out, which
allows it to flow and expand through a process of self-discovery. This
approach not only energizes the child to no end, but turns learning into a
joyful experience.
This approach to education -- and indeed to life itself -- suggests that
there really is an essence and true self of each person. That somehow we
are here to express our True Individuality, which not only expresses
through our own creative, individualistic path, but has a unique influence
and impact on the world. Some go a step further and see true
individuality as our ‘spirit,’ our spiritual essence; even our evolving soul
that has a mission and purpose trying to express through the unique
capacities and potentiality of the person it inhabits.
In sum, the person who becomes consciously aware of his or her true self
will facilitate the expression of his or her individuality, thereby
accelerating the process of personal accomplishment and growth for
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themselves and the world. Moreover, social organizations where
facilitators like teachers and leaders bring out the true essence and
potential of individuals will foster an ever expanding community of
entrepreneurs, creative artists, and free thinkers. One could even
imagine a society where the number of geniuses expands a thousand-fold
through this dynamic. In fact, one Indian school taking this approach
advertised its goal as “every child a genius.”
Albert Einstein, Leonardo D Vinci and others were not only infinitely
creative individuals expressing their individuality, but had a conscious or
semi-conscious sense of their essence and purpose. We too can come to
know out true selves and purpose; our inner mission, by looking deep
within, which will release powerful energies that will become a
springboard for infinite realization and accomplishment in life.
Individuality: Darcy’s Transformation
By Garry Jacobs (MSS)
History is filled with examples of outstanding individuals who have
changed the world around them. Often they had to act on their own,
opposed by the powers that be and establish new centers of power to
achieve their objectives. Ashoka, Socrates, Martin Luther, Napoleon,
Gorbachev carried the stamp of individuality and the power it confers for
evolutionary or revolutionary change. Imagine a nation of such
individuals and we glimpse the magnificent creative potentials of
humanity’s future. That may be a distant dream to be fulfilled in some
future century, but the process has already begun. We find it most
pronounced in Europe and North America where individuality has been
recognized and proclaimed as a sacred human value.
Man is by nature a collective animal and his first instinct is to follow the
herd. Our entire upbringing is designed to teach us to be, feel, think and
act as others do. We are taught to behave properly, feel appropriately,
act with decorum, and think within the bounds of ‘reason’, which means
within the boundaries and according to the precepts of those who have
thought before us. Society fosters and insists on this conformity and
punishes offenders by rebuke, ridicule, ostracism or even persecution.
Yet without individuals society cannot progress. Individual deviation is
essential for social evolution in the same manner as mutant genes are
required for biological evolution. Individuals are the catalysts of social
development. It is the pioneers, adventurers, entrepreneurs, inventors,
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and original thinkers who break out of the traditional mold to do, think or
say something new that ultimately changes the way society as a whole
speaks, thinks, works and lives.
Jane Austen depicts the process of emerging individuality and its role in
social evolution with brilliant insight in her novel, Pride and Prejudice. The
setting for the story is rural England at the beginning of the 19th
Century. Across the English Channel, French society is being wrecked and
razed by violent revolution, destroying the old aristocracy to break down
the rigid boundaries between classes that protect a small elite aristocracy
by denying rights and privileges to the lower classes. The same
revolutionary battle cry of ‘liberty, equality, fraternity’ is spreading
throughout Europe and threatening the existence of the aristocracy
everywhere. England strives for a way to avoid the violence by a more
peaceful evolutionary process. The events in Austen’s story depict at the
micro level the subconscious process by which England converts
revolutionary fervor into evolutionary social change.
Darcy is one of England’s wealthiest landowning aristocrats. It has been
expected since his birth that he will marry his aunt’s sickly daughter in
order to maintain the purity of his ancient bloodline and retain his vast
wealth within the close family circle. Raised as lord of a magnificent
estate, he has learned to maintain a respectable social distance and
distaste for those who are below him in rank and wealth.
Mr. Bennet is an English gentleman who has married a lawyer’s daughter
and used her dowry to raise his five daughters on their modest estate
and limited income. His marriage to a businessman’s daughter reflects
the evolutionary change in social attitudes that is already bridging the
distance between aristocracy and middle class, creating a peaceful path
for socially aspiring achievers and a source of renewed vigor for a
declining landed gentry. Though socially permissible, the intermix of
classes is far from smooth and easy. The differences in culture between
Mr. Bennet and his wife are a constant source of embarrassment to him
and his two eldest daughters, Jane and Elizabeth, who take after their
father in terms of education and breeding, while the two youngest
daughters, Kitty and Lydia, have inherited their mother’s lack of manners
and self-restraint.
At first sight Darcy dismisses Elizabeth as too ordinary in appearance and
low in social origin for his attentions, while Elizabeth rejects him as
offensively arrogant and aloof. Unknown and unsought by Elizabeth,
Darcy learns to admire her fine eyes, intelligent wit, self-confidence and
forthright demeanor. Despite his proud behavior and sense of superior
breeding and his revulsion for the vulgarity of her mother and younger
sisters, he inadvertently falls in love with her. Torn by a conflicting sense
of attraction and repulsion, he eventually proposes. His words express
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the inner conflict he feels, resulting in a proposal that is clumsy and
almost insulting. So confident is he of the attractions of his person, his
position and his wealth that he is stunned by Elizabeth’s refusal. He is
shocked to learn that she regards him with contempt as proud, selfish
and mean-tempered. She abuses him for interfering with Jane’s marriage
to his friend Bingley and for what she believes to be his unjust treatment
of his steward’s son, Wickham.
Following her refusal, Darcy writes her a letter, which exonerates him of
Wickham’s accusation by disclosing Wickham’s devious attempt to elope
with Darcy’s unwitting younger sister. His letter leaves Elizabeth more
appreciative of Darcy and more painfully conscious of the uncultured
behavior of her own family members. Darcy too reflects deeply on his
own attitudes and behavior. He comes to regret his proud aloofness and
look down on his own actions as selfish and mean. Out of love for
Elizabeth he vows to repent and change himself.
For months they have no further contact until Elizabeth is invited by her
aunt and uncle to a tour of the countryside near Darcy’s family estate,
Pemberley. When Elizabeth experiences the magnificent grandeur of the
place and hears further testimony to Darcy’s inherent goodness and
generosity, she regrets her former attitude toward him. Within moments
life responds to her change in attitude. Darcy arrives back from London
unexpectedly and they meet cordially. He displays a warm, kind behavior
toward both her and her relatives which both surprises and pleases her
immensely.
Just when they are on the verge of a reconciliation that might quickly
lead to an engagement, news comes that Lydia has eloped with Wickham.
The disgrace associated with this event threatens to ruin the entire
Bennet family and firmly convinces Elizabeth that Darcy will have nothing
further to do with her. Unknown to herself and her family, Darcy
overcomes his deep resentment for Wickham and his distaste for Lydia’s
vulgarity and intervenes to save her reputation by persuading Wickham
to marry her. He does so on condition that his role will not be disclosed to
Elizabeth, but the secret comes out. She then realizes how much Darcy
has sacrificed of his former pride in order to save her and her family.
When he proposes marriage a second time, she accepts with gratitude
and delight.
While the story is rich with insights into life and human nature, the most
striking theme is the subconscious transformation of Darcy from a social
character into a psychological individual. Darcy makes a progress in
consciousness at the psychological level akin to that achieved in yoga at
the spiritual level. He renounces the false or artificial sense of self-
importance he derives from his social position and seeks to become a
true, generous and self-giving person worthy of Elizabeth’s personal
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admiration. He gives up social values in favor of human values. Darcy
becomes a true psychological individual in the sense that he no longer
relies or depends on society to define what is good or reputable. He not
only changes his behavior, giving up that which was offensive to
Elizabeth, but goes to the other extreme of completely reversing it by
embracing that which was previously repulsive to him. So real and great
is his change of consciousness, that he acquires the magnanimity to
accept a vulgar Mrs. Bennet, a wanton Lydia and a rogue Wickham as his
own relatives and refuses to acknowledge, even to himself, their past sins
or present unworthiness.
Darcy’s individual transformation becomes a catalyst for social evolution
in England. By his own life and actions, he bridges the gap between the
classes that was bridged only by the guillotine in revolutionary France. He
is a representative pioneer whose actions usher in a future of greater
freedom and equality for his countrymen.
The emergence of individuality is spreading around the world, but it
remains at a nascent stage in India. What does it mean to be an
individual in India today? Here are a few criteria by which one can
evaluate himself and foster the evolution of Indian society.
1. An individual thinks for himself and forms his own opinions of every
social and national issue. He accepts an idea because he understands it
to be right, not because it is spoken or endorsed by socially-important
people or generally believed by others.
2. An individual decides what is right on the strength of his own mental
judgment, not on the basis of what others think and say, and he does
what he knows to be right, not what others do or approve.
3. An individual relies on himself rather than expecting others to support
him and accepts from others only what is due to him.
4. An individual judges himself in terms of what he knows himself to be
as a human being, not on the basis of his wealth, occupation, status or
what others say or think of him.
5. An individual respects the individuality of those who disagree with him.
When others criticize him, an individual takes it as the other person’s
personal opinion and impartially evaluates the truth of the criticism,
rather than taking it as an abuse that evokes his anger, defensiveness or
resentment.
Becoming an individual is the highest human achievement short of
spiritual realization, the most direct path to highest accomplishment in
life, and a pioneering, patriotic service to the country.
This article was originally published in Consecration Magazine, Vol.3, Issue 3, Jul-Aug 2006, pg.11, Emergence of the Spiritual Individual Part 4.
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Emergence of Individuality in Mona Lisa Smile
By Garry Jacobs (MSS)
Many great thinkers have perceived the essential role of conflict and
competition in human development. The famous British historian Arnold
Toynbee described the advance of civilizations as a continuous process of
challenge and response.
Sri Aurobindo has explained how life presents exactly those conditions
which are required for human beings to discover their hidden potentials
and evolve spiritually. This process often takes the form of a conflict
between the individual and society or between established social norms
that are receding and new ideas and values that are emerging.
The film realistically depicts the process of social development, described
in Theory of Social Development, with regard to the transition of
American women from social character to social individuality. It brings
into clear focus the role of the pioneering individual in breaking new
grounds, the organized opposition and resistance of the conservative
orthodoxy, which view the progress as a retrograde step, the factors
leading to a change in attitude, and early stages of imitation as the new
behavior acquires greater social approval.
This process is beautifully portrayed in Mona Lisa Smile. The film is about
Katherine Watson, a college lecturer from liberal-minded California, who
manages to get a teaching position in the Art History Department at
Wellesley, a prestigious, conservative, and elite private women’s college
situated at the opposite end of the country in Massachusetts. The girls
who attend Wellesley are drawn from some of the most wealthy,
influential, and upper class families in America. Massachusetts is a
conservative place where the upper class strives to preserve their
distinctive superior position, and Wellesley is an institution dedicated to
this cause.
Girls were sent there to learn good grooming, traditional values, and
respectable behavior deemed appropriate for a life in high society during
the early 1950s. That was a time and place where it was still believed
that the ideal path for respectable women was to get a good education to
prepare them for marriage, tending a house, and raising a family. This
was the aspiration of the girls who attended Wellesley. This is what their
families wanted for them and this is what the college prepared them for.
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Then along came Katherine. She’s from progressive California where class
distinctions have lost importance, tradition is disregarded, and women
aspire for freedom to think for themselves and act according to their own
values rather than merely conform to a traditional role as dependents.
What made a liberal young Californian to seek employment at a stodgy
old college and what prompted the conservative college to employ her?
Perhaps it illustrates the principle that we are subconsciously attracted to
our opposites because they present us with the best opportunities for
self-discovery and personal growth.
Certainly, that proved to be the case for Katherine and the college. In
almost every way, Katherine and Wellesley rubbed each other the wrong
way. The college insisted that she should strictly adhere to the lesson
plan and textbook, which the students were adept at memorizing;
whereas, Katherine wanted to provoke the students to think for
themselves and arrive at their own judgements of things. The college
insisted that social interaction between men and women should maintain
‘proper’ appearances, even when actual behavior was far from ideal.
Katherine disdained false appearances and insisted on the freedom to
express what she really thought and felt without concealment. The
students startled Katherine by their high intelligent and rude snobbery in
dealing with one who was not drawn from their class. Katherine startled
the students by challenging their mindless conformity to the traditional
role of woman as dependent housewife and their refusal to seek careers
in which they could fully develop and express their intellectual talents.
One student named Betty, whose influential and dominating mother was
the head of the alumni association, chose the traditional ideal of an early
marriage to a respectable man. Betty was appalled by the values and
attitudes which Katherine exemplified and openly stirred up opposition to
Katherine among the students, parents, and college administration.
Katherine was equally appalled by Betty’s thoughtless conformity and
tried to convince other students that they need not follow the same path.
Ultimately, Betty became disillusioned with woman’s traditional role when
she discovered that her husband was having an affair and her mother
urged her to silently endure it in order to maintain proper appearances.
Finally, she broke away from her mother’s dominating influence, sought
divorce and moved to New York City to start a career. Like many of us,
Betty’s path to progress involved the pain of rude awakenings and
disillusioned dreams. In retrospect, her staunch opposition to Katherine
concealed a subconscious urge for her own progress.
In spite of Wellesley’s strict rules of behaviour and profession of high
moral standards, Katherine discovered that people’s conduct was far from
admirable. Bill Dunbar, an Italian professor, had affairs with several of his
own students and fabricated a story about fighting in World War II in
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order to impress Katherine and gain her affection. The college nurse was
fired after 20 years of service for providing contraceptives to girls who
asked for them. The college president, succumbing to pressure from
Betty’s mother to ensure continued financial support from the wealthy
alumni, wrote to Katherine that her term of employment would be
extended only if she accepted the most rigorous constraints on her
freedom as a teacher and an individual.
The story depicts American society in a transition period in which women
are casting off the shackles of their traditional role as socially dependent
and intellectually inferior to men. Katherine represents the newly
emerging values; Wellesley, the old that resist social change. Despite the
apparent opposition, she manages to awaken her students to think for
themselves and aspire beyond their traditional role. Her classes become
so popular that they attract record enrolment for the following semester.
Her students come to respect and adore her, even though they cannot
fully accept her values or way of life. So successful is she in winning their
hearts, that the college is compelled to extend her term of employment
subject to strict conditions. Though she has a deep affection for the
students and attraction for the challenge of changing those around her,
ultimately she realizes that greater challenges and opportunities for
growth lie elsewhere and she departs from Wellesley to pursue her
process of self-discovery in Europe.
Humanity is a work in progress, a transitional being. At one end we are
still striving to rise above our animal origins dominated by physical needs
and vital urges to become fully human beings characterized by civilized
behaviour, cultured emotions, and a rational mentality. At the other end
we aspire to rise above the limitations of the ignorant mind and selfish
human ego to become more than human, to become spiritual and divine.
In between there is a crucial stage in which each member of the
collective who is defined, guided and dominated by the norms of society
and the aspirations of the collective begins to emerge as a formed
individual in our own right with the capacity to think for ourselves, see
beyond the viewpoints of the collective, acquire higher attitudes, values
and aspirations reflective of an inner urge for spiritual development.
Katherine is a pioneer of this transition representing one stage in the
emergence of modern woman from a socially dependent member of the
collective to mentally awakened and psychologically developed
individuality. Her story depicts the inner struggle and the outer conflicts
associated with this emergence. She is not an idealized soul but a real
human being, eager for social acceptance and approval as all of us are,
but refusing to surrender her idealism in order to buy social approval.
She was attracted to the old world of conformity by something within her
that still seeks for the security of being like everyone else. Though she
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counsels her students to think for themselves, she tries to mold them in
her own image as an endorsement and validation of the path she has
chosen. When she finally realizes this and recognizes their right to
proceed at their own pace on their chosen paths, she decides to move on.
She has planted a seed and lit a fire in her students, which will smolder
or burn according to the readiness of the tinder. Her own aspiration calls
her to the fresher air of new pastures abroad.
Katherine learned that difficulties are opportunities and all the challenges
that life presents us contain seeds for our spiritual growth. We tend to
seek out other people who think like we do and share the values we have
accepted. But the soul within us is not satisfied with any limited
formulation of truth or any limited development of our inner divine
potentials, so it seeks out and invites life circumstances which present us
with those truths that we deny or fail to perceive. For, we come from the
One which is whole and undivided, we move toward the One which is all-
inclusive, and our destiny is to discover the whole truth of the One, both
in this world and beyond it.
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Infinite and Finite
How the Small Opens the Portals of the Infinite
In any given moment, there are large and small acts related to a
significant event. E.g. at the time of a medical emergency, there is not
only the suffering party and the rescue operation, but the unobserved
arrival of a supervisor, a nurse ordering a batch of medicine, and an
elderly patient joking in his wheel chair. Thus, there are closely related as
well as seemingly unrelated, disparate activities occurring simultaneously.
And yet in such circumstance, every and all events are in fact deeply
interconnected, no matter how unimportant and distantly related they
seem to be. And any one of them -- even the smallest, the most
innocuous, and contrary -- can determine the final outcome. To be
sensitive to this process is to have a vision of the life's true workings,
which gives one a staggering power to control the world around us. Here
is an example that illustrates this point.
The TV series Numb3rs (pronounced "Numbers") is a crime show whose
outcomes are determined by the strategies of a genius mathematician,
Charlie Eppes. In one particular episode, we see how the small and
absurd determine the final outcome. In Los Angeles, a bus is hijacked
and a nefarious gang holds passengers for ransom. Charlie's brother, FBI
captain Don Eppes works with his staff to solve the looming catastrophe.
Don's energies are completely focused on saving lives, as he interacts by
phone with the evil ringleader who is aboard the bus. Meanwhile, Don's
math genius brother Charlie is as usual helping on the case through his
brilliant analysis intuitively derived.
There is an added subplot to the story; this one involving the father of
Charlie and Don -- Alan Eppes -- as well as Charlie's good friend,
theoretical physicist Larry Fleinhardt. It turns out that earlier the entire
group had agreed to form a think tank, and at this point, father Alan and
physicist Larry are debating -- actually arguing -- over its future
direction. One aspires to start the project with the practical, the other the
theoretical. In fact, they carry out this mental debate in front of the very
preoccupied Charlie and Don, completely oblivious to the dangerous
situation. At one point, they even implore Charlie to solve the dilemma
for them. As we watch their comic-like callousness, we can only shake
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our heads. This dynamic repeats throughout the episode, adding to the
tension of the already dangerous situation.
Then circumstance turn grave when the abductors threaten to kill each
hostage one by one. And yet Alan and Larry persist in their seemingly
ridiculous request that Charlie solve their problem. How can they be so
oblivious! This time however, rather than tell them that they have to
settle their squabbles on their own, Charlie is struck by something in their
debate. He is shaken by the fact that Alan and Larry seemed to be locked
in a 'paradox,' and that the hostage situation he and Don are involved in
has a similar dynamic. As a result, Charlie now understands that
everything he and Don assumed about the case is faulty. When the two
brothers act on this hunch, they discover that the bus abduction was
actually a hoax: that they were in fact chasing the wrong bus, and that
the real hostages and villains were aboard a stationary bus in a
warehouse! As a result, they are now able to move in on the villains and
save the hostages.
As we see, in this case, the small and the innocuous solved the case. That
which seemed unimportant and irritating was the means by which the
greater problem was resolved. Because Charlie opened his mind and paid
attention to the small -- no matter how silly and absurd -- he garnered
the clue that enabled him to solve the case.
In every situation in life, every element that presents itself serves a
purpose. Thus, the smallest thing -- even that which seems negative and
opposed to our intent -- can me a means for its final resolution. In that
way, we cannot deny or be irritated by anything -- for the smallest of the
small can provide an opening to the infinite.
If this is the case, how can we become more mindful of the variety of
elements, movements, and activities in a given circumstance? It all
comes down to our level of consciousness. It takes an open mind and
acute sensitivity to perceive the utility of each act in relation to the whole
of any event. That in turn depends on a still and silent mind, as well as a
calm and steady disposition. Think Sherlock Holmes. And through that
keen, mindful, multi-sided perception, one becomes aware of the role of
the smallest act in the outcome of a situation, problem, or event. To
perceive this many-sided whole, rather than the obvious one or two parts
is a spiritual quality known as "integral knowledge."
Indian spiritual philosophy tells us the infinite can arise out of anything --
whether the large or the infinitesimally small. To the infinite
Consciousness and Being, there is no distinction between the two. Thus,
the innocuous and silly, the trivial and trite, and the negative and hostile
also serve as instruments for progress and change. If we can learn to
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perceive this dynamic in our daily lives, then we will have a glimpse of
the Marvel of existence.
Turning the Finite, the Small into the Infinite, the Great
It is a spiritual principle of life that the smallest thing can be an opening
to the largest thing. Therefore, we should pay close attention to and
perfect the small matters we encounter in order to realize its infinite
potential. In other words, at any moment the Infinite can break out,
emerge from the finite.
This cosmic dynamic can occur at the physical, the vital/emotional, the
mental, and the spiritual levels (including Supramental by opening to the
spiritual Force, the divine Mother).
In this short video, it is demonstrated at the raw physical/material level.
We have seen it miraculous-like occur at the other levels as well, evoking
startling life response (sudden good fortune) results - i.e. the infinite
suddenly, from seemingly out of nowhere emerging from the finite.
That being the case, what small tasks, or feelings, or thoughts, or
intentions, attitudes or values can you more perfectly execute or
consecrate, evoking the sudden emergence of vast positive results in that
area?
Keep in mind that behind all finite things is an involved, absorbed Infinite.
That is because everything, including the smallest matter or thing has its
origins in the Divine, which is an Infinite reality.
Infinite from Finite Example
Since the finite emerged from the Infinite consciousness, infinite results
can potentially emerge from any finite.
E.g. in 1973 Paul Stanley of KISS came to my parents’ house to visit my
sister, whom he was good friends with. Before she came down, I talked
with Paul at length, mainly about music. He was already slightly known.
He would go on from there to create the KISS band, which has earned
more money through concession and merchandising sales (clothing,
accessories, etc.) than any musical act in history! In the Billions of
dollars!
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It was another example of the infinite emerging out of a finite, something
I witnessed firsthand in that meeting and in what followed
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PART 5: SPIRITUAL QUALITIES
Spiritual Aspects of Existence
Expressions of Spirit in Life
Though science may not prove its existence, and skeptics will deny it is
real, individuals throughout time have had experiences that can only be
classified as a higher order of consciousness. The common term for such
experiences is that they are “spiritual” in nature.
One individual feels a sudden light and presence; another, an
overwhelming sense of peace; while a third feels an oneness with all and
everything that surrounds him. Such epiphanies come in many forms,
depending on the individual’s nature, the culture one is raised in, and
other factors.
Take the spiritual notion of “Oneness.” Throughout time, individuals have
shared with the world their experiences of a profound connection with
life. In some instances, it was a feeling of oneness with nature, in others
a deep association with the entire universe, and in others still, a
transcendent connection to the divine. In each instance, the individual
experienced a sense of harmony, oneness, and unity with something far
greater than his own limited self. These experiences reflect the actual
Oneness that exists throughout creation, which is itself an expression of
the spiritual Reality underlying all existence.
Another way we experience Oneness is through the deep bonds and
connections we have with others. When we focus on the interests and
concerns of another person, when we take to their point of view, and
when we express our heartfelt thanks, appreciation, and gratitude, we
are in essence moving away from our limited sense of self, and opening
to a wider sphere of harmony, unity, and oneness.
Though such experiences of Oneness with the objects, elements, and
individuals around us are truly profound, they are but one type of
spiritual expression. For example, if I move from selfishness to self-
givingness in my relationship with another, I not only experience a
degree of Oneness with that person, but I also experience a degree of
spiritual Love.
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Then what is spiritual Love? It is certainly more than the physical
attraction or attachment we have for another person. It is also more than
the vital feelings and emotions we have towards others. It is instead
something truer, deeper, and longer lasting. Spiritual Love occurs when
the lover, partner, parent, friend, associate, etc. seeks to give of himself
without expectation or reward, seeking only the fulfillment of the other
person. Ultimately, the highest expression of spiritual Love occurs when
we surrender to, and offer our deepest devotion to the Divine, thereby
fulfilling Its intention in life.
In addition to spiritual Oneness and Love, we also experience the spirit as
pure joy and Delight of being. One way we can feel that Delight is by
being self-giving to another person, as well as feeling the joy of another
person’s progress and happiness. We can also feel such Delight whenever
we experience something new in the world, such as when we discover a
new possibility, or come upon a new idea, or when we have achieved a
new level of growth in our lives.
The Witness Consciousness
There is yet one other way we can experience the Spirit in our lives.
Behind the layers of our human makeup -- i.e. our physical, vital, and
mental parts -- there is a level of pure beingness, reflecting the true
essence of who we really are. Behind the substance, movements, and
sensations of our physical bodies; behind the desires, wants, emotions,
and feelings of our vital being; and behind the thoughts, ideas, and
beliefs of our minds, there is an essential silent and unmoving Self and
Being.
From this profound inner poise of consciousness, we experience the world
as pure “is-ness.” From this status, we make no value judgments; offer
no opinions; express no wants and desires; experience no feelings,
emotions, or sensations; and do not move, or take to action. In this state
of Beingness, we just are -- silently observing the unfolding of truths of
life around us, without reaction or intention.
Interestingly, through this inner poise of stillness, we can harness a
formidable energy and power. By silently observing the world this way,
we become sensitive to the true truths unfolding around us, which gives
us deeper insight into life’s conditions, which in turn help us make the
right decisions that lead to right actions. By looking out onto the world
through a “witness consciousness,” we are not only detached from the
intensities and sensations of life, but we gain a vast power to affect it.
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In fact, when we shift away from our normal “aggressive consciousness”
to this detached, calm, and equal witness consciousness, life has a
tendency to respond with sudden good fortune. I.e., when we withdraw
from the tumult and activity of the mind, and instead move to mental
silence; when we withdraw from the reactions, likes, dislikes, wants,
needs, and attitudes of the vital, and instead rest in a dispassionate
neutrality and equality; and when we abandon our attempts to
aggressively seek out life and take action, letting the world come to us on
its own, sudden good fortune will likely follow. Although any of these
inner movements can elicit the instantaneous miraculousness of life
response, I would like to share several episodes that stand out.
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Silence, Silent Will
Reduced and Soft Speech
In addition to withholding the expression of our thoughts and intentions,
simply reducing the quantity of the words we speak tends to attract
positive conditions. This is the case because there is a power in our
speech. Our vocalizations originate in our vital/life center, and carry a
life-power and energy. When we speak too much, these energies are
squandered, which tends to attract corresponding negative conditions.
However, if we conserve our energies through reduced speech -- or,
better yet, by remaining completely silent -- they are fortified and
strengthened, which tends to attract sudden good fortune from our
surroundings. Here are two true incidents:
-An individual was engaged in a lively conversation with a close
friend. At one point in the discussion, he overcame his urge to discuss
a new idea that had entered his mind, and instead insisted that his
friend speak what was on her mind. She then articulated several
concepts that he had never heard before, which energized and thrilled
him to no end. By moving to silence, life reversed itself and turned a
mundane conversation into an ecstatic moment of freshness and
wonder.
-A famous, baseball player hit a home run in pursuit of breaking the
all-time record. His teammate then hit another home run after. In the
dugout, the two proceeded to engage in a friendly, though somewhat
heated discussion about whose ball was hit harder and further. This
childish bantering continued for nearly ten minutes. At the time they
began the dialogue, their team was ahead in the game. However,
shortly thereafter, the other team tied the score. In fact, that rival
club eventually went on to win in extra innings, which turned into a
heart breaking loss for the home team with the two incessantly
chatting players.
-An instructor noticed that every time he engaged in lengthy
discussions about politics or other social issues with someone before a
class, he would invariably run into some difficulty with that very
student during the course of the day. He later committed to never
engage in such idle, debate-oriented conversations before his classes,
which helped him avoid such negative life response thereafter.
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One of the ways we can avoid such pitfalls is to identify those areas of
our lives where we waste speech -- i.e. our “speech threshold,” -- and
then make an effort to draw back from it. For example, the trainer just
mentioned could learn to refrain from speaking with students on
controversial news topics before class, while a customer rep could cease
from engaging in needless, idle conversations with her clients. In such
instances, drawing back from one’s speech threshold fortifies positive
energy, which tends to attract sudden good fortune back to us.
Why then do we speak so much? One reason is that we love the sound of
our own voice! Another reason is that we also enjoy the stimulation that
comes from interacting with others. It has been suggested that 80% of
our conversations take place in a social context, and it is in these
stimulating interactions that compel us to vocalize our thoughts and
feelings. If, on the other hand, we recognized this fact and controlled
ourselves in these social situations, we would not only reduce the
quantity of speech, but we would elicit very positive circumstance on
those occasions.
In should be pointed out that in addition to reducing the quantity of the
words we speak, we can also reduce the volume and pitch of our speech.
When we speak loudly and boisterously, life tends to get disturbed and
attract negative outcomes. However, if we practice “soft speech,” by
speaking in a low, soft voice, then good fortune moves our way. In
particular, soft speech tends to attract money and other forms of financial
benefit.
One 39-year-old wealthy American businessperson lost all 60 of his
employees, and was prepared to file for bankruptcy. However, at a
relative’s suggestion, he and his wife practiced psychological and
spiritual disciplines, including speaking in a low, soft voice. As a
result, two years later he was in a position to retire for life!
Silent Will
Experience tells us that when we refrain from expressing an idea or our
intention to another through speech, the other person tends to quickly
express it for us! By restraining ourselves this way, the atmosphere
around us gets charged with concentrations of mental and vital energy,
which then penetrate another person’s consciousness, causing them to
identify with it, compelling them to speak it out as if it were their own.
Here are some true examples that demonstrate this phenomenon:
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-A thinker was having a discussion with a similar individual. Ideas
moved back and forth very swiftly. At one point, the first person
decided not to express an interesting idea as an experiment in Silent
Will. Several moments later, the second person expressed the very
idea the first person held back.
-A writer wanted to interview several executives at a major US
company for a book he was writing. His contact there refused his
request. The writer was then about to describe several reasons why
he should be able to meet with the staff, but instead restrained
himself, holding his tongue. A moment later, the contact suddenly
began to describe several reasons why it would be useful for the
writer to meet with the executives, and then actually gave him
permission to do so!
A variation of Silent Will goes something like this. If we withhold
expressing a thought, holding it back for the right time, or simply
letting it go because it does not seem to be right for the occasion, life
tends to create conditions for its expression later on. Here is a true
incident demonstrating this dynamic.
-A consultant, attending a meeting, restrained himself from joining a
small discussion group where he had hoped to engage one person on
an important matter. After the meeting ended, the consultant headed
to the subway station to go home, and was then startled when the
person he wanted to speak with earlier suddenly appeared beside
him. They then discovered they were both headed to the subway, and
then realized that they were taking the same train. As a result, over
the next hour, they engaged in the very conversation that the
consultant longed to have earlier with this individual.
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Equality of Being, Non-Reaction, Restraint
The Power of Restraint
Though Silent Will compels others to verbalize our thoughts and wishes,
there are other dimensions to this powerful technique. To show you what
I mean, consider the following hypothetical situation:
Imagine that you are a project manager who is responsible for
overhauling your company’s production facility. Your assignment is to
develop a new wing for the manufacturing plant, which will enable the
company to produce its state-of-the-art hardware technology in large
quantities. Your broad goal then is to deliver the highest quality result
with the least expense in the shortest period.
You begin my polling your engineers to get their input. Their consensus is
that the project will take six months to complete. You then use your
project management skills to develop a schedule of how long the
constituent parts will take. Interestingly, when you organize the project
plan this way, a number of new ideas suddenly spring to mind, allowing
you to shave off a month from the project. (It is life responding to your
mental effort to organize things in the most efficient manner, down to the
particulars, as we learned in the chapter on organization.)
As you make these strides in your project plan, you become very
energized. As a result, you feel an intense urge to communicate your
progress to others. However, rather than give into your eagerness, you
decide to hold back. Several minutes later, a cascade of insights about
the nature of the project suddenly come to mind. That knowledge allows
you to drive down the project’s duration by nearly half -- from 6 months
to 2.5!
Stimulated by these startling developments, you are motivated to take
your non-verbalizing, self-restraining approach a step further. Rather
than obsess about what you will say to motivate your team, you decide
not to think about the matter at all. In fact, you choose to wait for life to
take its own initiative, which will be a signal to you when to take further
action.
As a result, a cascade of remarkable events unfold. First, you receive a
series of communiqués from team members who express their eagerness
to get started on the project. This is a stunning development because
they never took the initiative to contact you about projects they were
part of in the past. You always had to contact them first. In addition, that
afternoon you receive a call from your boss, the VP of operation, who
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expresses her eagerness to begin work on the project. This is from a
person who hardly ever contacts you about anything!
In fact, over the next 24 hours, you learn of several other stunning
developments in the firm. First, you discover that a dozen new people
have been hired on in your department, giving you a larger pool of
resources to choose from. You then learn that the company has
unexpectedly purchased several new pieces of software that if
implemented would drive down your project by another 50%!
Because of these conspiring events, the once 6-month project is now
projected to finish in a mere four weeks! Several days later when your
manager gets wind of this information, she drops by your office --
something she rarely does unless there is trouble -- and praises you to
the heavens for this remarkable effort. She follows that up with a not too
subtle hint that if the project goes as scheduled, you will be in line for a
big promotion and raise.
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From this imaginary episode, we see the power of restraining our
thoughts, feelings, and actions. By holding back at key moment, we
create the greatest results with the least effort in the shortest period of
time, demonstrating Silent Will power in all its glory.
With that in mind, here are some real life examples:
-A man had been involved in a great project that is a once in a lifetime
endeavor. He was participating intently and contributed a lot over the
last several months. Then he got a little too involved, becoming tired,
sometimes assertive and slightly argumentative. He decided at that
point to withdraw from the discussion for several weeks. One of his
partners then informed him that his schedule for implementation had
now suddenly moved from several years to a few months!
-An individual had been involved in the development of several online
expert systems. He had taken the initiative to read a book that
contained highly relevant information for our project. A second stage
was to organize all of his underlines, highlights, and notes so that the
content could be used as the project moved forward. However, rather
than take an outer, physical initiative, he decided to restrain himself
and hold back. Just after making this decision, he received a very
unexpected note from the lead content developer who asked him to
forward the name of the very book in question so he could use it for
the system.
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Equality of Being
In addition to mental silence, we can also practice vital silence. If we
keep our emotions and feelings in tow when difficulties arise, not only do
the problems tend to dissipate, but new, unexpected positive outcomes
are apt to take their place. Here are several true-life examples:
-A training company secured work from a well-known global
technology company. The class went very well, and the training
company sent out an invoice to the client. Normally payment on the
bill occurs within two weeks. However, the client informed the training
company that they paid in 60 days. On hearing this, the individual
managing the account at the training company nearly became
unhinged. Fortunately, at the time, he was able to hold back his
feelings, and eventually reverse himself to the point where he actually
attained a state of calm and equality within. The following day the
representative of the training company was shocked to discover that
the client had paid for the work in full via the Internet that very
morning! In essence, through an inner reversal from agitation to vital
stillness, a long 60-day receivable had turned into a 2-day payment.
-A woman who had never driven a car long-distance was being
hounded by a big-rig truck bearing down on her at high speed on a
steep incline of an interstate highway. She was very concerned and
bothered by the vehicle’s imminent approach. Several minutes later,
the truck suddenly swerved off the road, taking an unmarked exit into
what appeared to be desert wasteland. When asked what she had
been thinking about before the truck made its unexpected exit, the
woman said that she had simply decided to stop worrying about the
threat. In other words, be still and calm about the matter, ever to the
point of ignoring and forgetting it.
-In a famous story set in the 19the century, a man made a wager that
he could travel around the world in eighty days. He personality was
such that he never worried about anything, no matter how dire the
circumstances. As a result, he was constantly able to overcome
immanent disasters on the trip.
At one point, as he was about to complete the journey, he was
arrested, which, in effect, caused him to miss the 80-day deadline,
and, therefore, lose the bet. Undaunted by the false accusation, and
remaining utterly calm, he escaped from his captives. Arriving at the
final destination point of the race, he learned that he actually had
returned one day early, and thus had now in fact won the wager! It
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turned out that he arrived on the 79th day because he saved one full
day by traveling east to west around the world.
-A company rented workspace from an owner who offered this
service. When the principle of the company went on a trip, his own
manager and several staff members got into an argument with this
owner. When the owner threatened to oust the company from the
space, they threatened legal action against him. However, when the
principle of the company returned and learned of this contentious
situation, he decided to remain absolutely calm and composed. He
also told his workers to do the same.
Several days later, the owner of the rental space came up to the
principle, and, shaken, told him that his own son had a heart problem.
The owner asked the principle if knew of a hospital where the child
could be treated. The boy was then shuttled to a hospital that the
principle recommended. There the doctors indicated the need for
immediate surgery. However, the owner did not have the money to
pay for such an expensive operation. Once again, the principle came
through, and was able to arrange financing for the owner though a
bank he had worked with. The operation on the child then took place,
and fortunately turned out to be a success. As a result of these
extraordinary events, the owner felt eternally grateful to the very
man whose company he had once tried to evict. An individual’s
absolute calm and composure in the face of adversity had attracted
these most extraordinary circumstances from life.
The capacity to remain undisturbed in the face of intense circumstances -
- whether they are extremely negative and displeasing, or even
extremely positive and enjoyable -- is the inner power of “equality of
being.” Any serious movement away from either of these disturbed states
to one of equality of calm is sure to attract benefit all the way around.
Like taking to mental silence, moving from agitation, fear, and worry to a
state of calm and equality is an indicator that we have attained a certain
level of stillness within -- i.e. of Beingness --, which is one of the
essential ways we can come to know the Spirit in life.
Around the World with Phileas Fogg
There are many keys to accomplishment in life. Vision, organization, and
drive are several. Another is the capacity to be calm and equal in the
face of difficult circumstances. One false step and one can fall down the
latter to success. If however, we maintain the right balance in those
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situations, not only will we make the best of negative conditions, but life
will tend to cooperate and, on its own right, right the wrong. It is the
phenomenon of life response in action. You remain steady when life
threatens to spiral out of control, and life rights itself as if by magic.
Though it seems miraculous-like, it actually happens all of the time, just
out of our "field of vision." For one famous character in fiction, that inner
poise of equality attracted overwhelming good fortune -- just at a time
when all seemed hopeless and doomed to failure.
In his novel Around the World in 80 Days, Jules Verne describes the
wonderful adventures of Phileas Fogg and his traveling companions. In
the story, Fogg has placed a wager of 40,000 pounds that he can travel
around the world in 80 days. Though his adventures will provide him with
astonishing experiences that take him to distant and exotic land, his
central focus and all-consuming effort is directed toward winning the
wager. In addition to his single-mindedness of purpose, several other
personal qualities will prove invaluable to Fogg in pursuing his lofty goal.
One of those is the fact that Fogg is an eminently disciplined man -- both
in his emotions and in his thoughts. He has the innate capacity to accept
every difficulty and ordeal that comes his way in a calm and detached
manner. No matter how problematic or even absurd the circumstances,
Fogg’s emotions are always tranquil and calm, as if he were detached
from the intensity of every situation. And yet, interestingly his mind is
always fully engaged in the issue at hand -- enabling him to rationally
and most logically deal with any and all circumstance. In addition, his
creative capacities border on genius, as he is able to meld a native
intelligence and a broad knowledge of the physical workings of life with
insights and intuitive-like inspirations that help him solve nearly every
problem.
These qualities are further enhanced by his essential kind nature -- which
can be seen in the goodwill that he consistently demonstrates toward his
fellow travelers, as well as the people he meets along the way. That helps
help him win the respect of others at critical moments on his journey,
especially important when he and his comrades face imminent danger. He
also exhibits other notable faculties -- including his ability to remain silent
without speaking, unless situations dictate that he do so. Together with
his utter punctuality and masterful planning and organizing capacities,
Phileas Fogg is the very embodiment of stability, rationality, and equality
-- making him the perfect candidate to accomplish his ambitious goals.
And yet, this is an adventure story that Verne is determined to infuse
with a variety of life’s exigencies. And so it turns out that at about the
time Fogg first embarks on his journey, the Bank of England is robbed.
Moreover, the robber himself steps forward and maliciously matches
Fogg's physical description to the thief, which causes the high-level
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official, Mr. Fix, to believe that Fogg's wager is a pretense to elude
authorities in Britain. Fix then attempts to arrest Fogg in England, but
when he fails to do so is forced instead to follow him on his travels
around the world.
Though Fogg has astonishing encounters in Brindisi, Suez, Bombay,
Calcutta, Hong Kong, Yokohama, San Francisco, New York and Liverpool,
he still has to arrive back in London before noon on the 80th day to win
the wager. Though on his trip he discovers that he has been accused of
thievery, he brushes it aside and instead focuses all of his energies
towards winning the wager. Along the way, he utilizes his uncanny
creativity, ingenuity, and scientific know-how to solve every problem that
crosses his path.
However, when he finally arrives in Britain on the very last leg of the trip,
he is arrested by the authorities for robbing the Bank of England. Though
he manages to escape from prison, he soon realizes that he is 5 minutes
too late to win the contest. However, life then responds in his favor when
he discovers that he and his party have actually arrived in Britain one day
early! Because he had traveled east from England in circling the globe, he
and his party had actually gained a day when they returned 79, not 80
days later!
Phileas Fogg’s utter calm and equality in the face of extremely difficult
circumstances attracted a magnificent response from life that provided
him with his greatest moment of glory and success. It is an indicator that
life on the outside responds to one’s inner efforts or capacities of higher
consciousness. Maintaining a poise of inner calm and equality is one
method that enables that miraculous-like dynamic. It is in essence a
spiritual-like quality that tends to overcome the negative, while attracting
the infinite potentials of life.
Louis Pasteur and the Power of Inner Equality
There is a wonderful moment in the 1935 film The Story of Louis Pasteur
that I doubt hardly a critic would notice. It is an expression of the
miraculous-like phenomenon of “life response” -- i.e. the spontaneous
arrival of sudden good fortune. In particular, it is an example of how
taking to calm and equality in the face of great difficulty can elicit
powerful positive response from the world around us.
In the incident in the film, the famous scientist Louis Pasteur has been
trying to discover a cure for hydrophobia -- i.e. rabies -- that ordinarily
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comes through a bite or contact from a rapid infected animal. It is
Pasteur’s belief that if he gives a mild dose of the disease to an animal, it
will build up a resistance to it when it actually does have the illness. This
is the approach Pasteur develops to cure rabies and other infectious
diseases. I.e. give the sick patient a mild form of the disease, and the
body will spontaneously generate a resistance to it, which will push out
the illness when it enters the system.
In this particular episode in the story, Pasteur believes he has a cure for
hydrophobia/rabies, but many are skeptical. In fact, one key member of
the scientific establishment, Dr. Charbonnet of the French Academy, is so
sure that his cure is wrong that when in Pasteur’s lab he grabs a syringe
filled with a dense concentration of the virus and injects it into his arm!
Pasteur is mortified, as he believes that Charbonnet has sealed his own
fate. Not only was it not intended in such concentrated doses, but it was
meant only for sickly individuals.
As it turns out, Charbonnet not only survives the inoculation, but the next
day seems perfectly fine! In fact, after 30 days he shows no signs of the
disease. While Pasteur is baffled by this outcome, Charbonnet flaunts the
fact by parading around the Parisian scientific community, as well as high
society circles, proudly pointing out how healthy he is. At one point, he
boasts that that the more he takes of the allegedly lethal serum, the
healthier he feels! As a result of his public posturing, Pasteur’s image is
greatly tarnished in both scientific circles and amongst the general public.
One day an associate friend of his rushes into Pasteur’s home to notify
the great chemist that he has been made a mockery of throughout the
country. Pasteur however does not react at all to this news. A moment
later, however, his wife Marie has the thought that perhaps the dosage
the doctor took was of an old batch, and therefore had no potency to
affect him. Pasteur then rushes into his office to test out the hypothesis,
which he then verifies to be true. A second later, it occurs to him that
that he could give infected animals with the disease a low dosage of the
serum and then gradually increases the dosage, thereby creating
immunity without killing them. The idea has sprung into his mind like a
revelation.
What does this story then teach us? From the point of view of life
response – i.e. the onset of sudden good fortune due to changes in our
consciousness -- it is rather straightforward. Because Pasteur did not
respond emotionally to word of his public humiliation, his wife Marie came
forward and made her statement about the old serum, which set in
motion events that led one of medicine’s greatest discoveries. It is an
illustration of how inner calm and equality in the face of negative
circumstance attracts powerful positive conditions from the world around
us.
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If we think about it, we will see that being calm and equal is more than
an inner psychological technique, but a spiritual one as well, reflecting
the universal spiritual principles of Peace and Silence. Other principles,
like Love, Oneness, Truth, and Goodness have their psychological
equivalents as well, such as self-givingness, willingness to embrace the
other person’s point of view, generosity, gratitude, and others. Each time
we take to any of these, we release powerful positive energies that tend
to attract life response results.
Practically then we can do the following: when difficulties descend on us,
we can try to move to a state of absolute stillness and calm. When we do,
the difficulties will tend to quickly evaporate, and unexpected positive
conditions will also tend to take their place.
But then a question arises. How can we turn ourselves on and off like a
spigot as such situations arise -- i.e. readily shift from our normal
psychological state to this poise of inner calm? One answer is that we can
simply remember to put aside our emotions and take to that state when
these intense situations arise. It does work for those who have trained
themselves to do so. And yet this may not be enough, since we tend to
be overwhelmed by life’s outer conditions to have the wherewithal to
move to this higher status on demand.
A more certain approach is to establish a more permanent inner poise of
stillness and calm, which will spontaneously refrain from reacting to life’s
intensities. We can begin to produce this affect by moving our center of
awareness back away from surface of life to an inner poise, marked by
inner concentration marked by stillness, and silence. Through this
approach, we develop an inner orientation, a “witness consciousness”
that silently, calmly, and patiently looks out onto the world. Then when
severe conditions cross our path – whether as intense negatives, or even
intense positives – we will not be disturbed, as they will fall off us like the
proverbial water from a duck’s back. In other words, life will respond, and
those severe external circumstance will tend to quickly subside on their
own. In addition, an entirely new development might arise, outside the
current situation, as a further positive response. Such unexpected
developments can be so powerful that it can change our lives, as it did for
Mr. Pasteur and the world.
From the Liberty of Ego to the Infinite Power of Self-Restraint
One of life’s blessings is that we are endowed with full freedom to act.
Thus, Human Choice, not fate, nor karma can ultimately determine
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events. Yet if we were to look closely, we would see that three quarters
of our actions are based on ego movements; on initiatives that are wholly
self-serving. Sri Karmayogi calls this the “Liberty of ego.” We have the
freedom of choice to determine the outcomes of life, but we abuse it
through self-absorbed initiatives based on urge, compulsion, or other
willful action that are self-aggrandizing. These in turn do not garner life’s
cooperation, but their opposite, attracting negative conditions back to us.
Yet if in these instances we simply restrained ourselves and held back our
action, life would constantly conspire in our favor.
In Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice, like most great literature, we see
several examples of this phenomenon. One is Mrs. Gardner’s restraint in
speaking to Eliza about Darcy at a particularly sensitive moment. Rather
than raise the issue, she shows sensitivity and refrains from expressing
her thoughts in deference to Eliza’s difficult relationship with Darcy. She
in essence avoids an ego movement, moving outward to embrace the
concerns and interests of another person. As a result, life supports her
non-initiative when soon after Darcy and Eliza come to an understanding,
fall in love and marry -- bringing great happiness to the couple, while
energizing both families to no end. Life has responded to Mrs. Gardener’s
non-egoistic restraint.
On the other hand, Eliza’s mother Mrs. Bennet has no personal control; is
constantly acting from self-interest and self-concern. Because she lacks
restraint, her unflagging initiating and meddling continually backfires on
her and her family. If only she stood back, looked outward from within,
and restrained herself, life would have quickly brought her everything she
hoped for -- including the marriage of her daughters to prosperous young
bachelors, and without the travail and pain the family was forced to suffer
through. Instead, her ego-oriented initiatives almost lead to its ruination.
It turns out that she is just an exaggerated version of every one of us.
We too subconsciously engage in acts that serve our ego. If we could
catch ourselves and suspend such actions, we would conserve energy,
which would in turn attract positive conditions.
Practically speaking, each time we feel the urge to send a note, or
forward a picture, or speak to a friend or colleague, we should ask
ourselves whether this is a wholesome, fully positive activity, or is it
being undertaken to tickle our ego; for the purpose of self-
aggrandizement? E.g., are we tacitly seeking the approval of others? Are
we hastily reacting and trying to assert our opinion? Are we looking to
express our contempt for another in a backhanded way? Are we selfishly
trying to gain benefit? And so forth, ad infinitum. If ego, self-
aggrandizement, and selfishness is in any way behind our intention, we
should refrain from acting. We will avoid the negative, while attracting
the very best of conditions.
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When we restrain ourselves this way, we build up positive energies that
align with the very best corresponding conditions in the world. We
essentially move from the local, ego plane to the universal, where our
hopes and dreams are fulfilled. Considering that three quarters of our
actions consciously or unconsciously issue from the ego motive, it would
be well worth examining every action we take to determine whether or
not our intent is wholesome. If we avoid initiating when ego is present,
we can avoid difficulties, while attracting startling positive results.
Ultimately, we can move toward the elimination of ego itself. That takes
resolve, usually reserved for those who are on willing to follow a path of
conscious evolution -- i.e. yoga in the East. To dissolve ego, one begins
by moving away from the surface of life, where our consciousness is
seperative, and find a still and silent soul space within. From there our
intentions tend to be in harmony with the world outside ourselves. From
there, there is little need to initiate or take action, as what we aspire for
tends to rapidly come to fruition.
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Harmony, Oneness
The Infinite Power of Harmony
There are a number of expressions of the Spirit in life. Silence, Being-
ness, Truth, Wisdom, Timelessness, Infinity, Goodness, Love, Beauty,
and Delight are several. Perhaps the most essential and basic is
Harmony, whose higher expression is Oneness and Unity of being. For the
Infinite consciousness, every and all things are interlocked in an essential
Harmony and Oneness. And yet out of that essential Unity, a universe of
infinitely diverse forms was created, including we humans. It is the same
in our own individual and collective lives. When we bring greater harmony
to bear through our relationship with others and the world, we generate a
vast creative power for accomplishment for ourselves and others.
Take modern day Europe, where the Euro has suddenly become the
world's strongest currency. That's the case because several nations came
together to forge a financial alliance: in essence, a collaborative
movement of harmony. That harmonic effort has produced a financial
instrument that has garnered the greatest respect and purchasing power
in the world. It is the power that harmony generates that has propelled
the Euro to its lofty position.
On the other hand, across the channel, the British have been unwilling to
participate in the Euro, putting its own purchasing power at risk. Even the
mighty US currency has fallen behind the Euro. Subconsciously perceiving
the power of collaboration and cooperation (two practical expressions of
harmony) now the Asian financial community is considering a currency of
its own. If they adopt it, it will likely generate a (further) boon for that
region as well. This suggests that a global currency would create infinite-
like financial and economic well-being for the world, since it would issue
from a higher harmony that integrates all nations.
Wherever harmony is created, energy and power is released. When the
colonies of the US came together over 200 years ago, it resulted in the
greatest economic, political, and military power in world history. But it is
not only nations that gain power when disparate elements come together.
So do other collectives -- including institutions, businesses, communities,
down to the individual family. The more harmony created among their
parts and people, the greater the power and results generated.
Harmony intensifies the positive bonds between people and things,
focusing energy and releasing power for accomplishment. We can see this
in macro events like nations forming, but also in micro events such as our
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daily work experiences. For example, we have all participated in meetings
over the course of our careers. When most successful, it is often because
a deeper connection and bond was created among the staff -- e.g.
through mutual respect, by genuinely focusing on the contributions of
others, and via collaborative decisions for future action. When we come
out of these meetings, our energy skyrockets and our work efforts
produce impressive results. In essence, the harmonic movement has
created a new burst of collective energy now shared by each participant -
- enabling individual and collective achievement. Interestingly that
success often comes about through instances of sudden good fortune.
Similarly, any two individuals are capable of creating this sort a harmonic
bond. For example, greater harmony in romantic relationships can
produce the deepest form of love between partners. Each lover's
willingness to forget him or herself, adoring the other for its own sake
can generate a tidal wave of romantic energy resulting in an intense bond
and affection that can last a lifetime.
The opposite of harmony is each party moving in its own direction,
focusing on its own interests at the expense of the needs of the "Other,"
attracting negative conditions. For example, when the fascist juggernaut
began to move across Europe at the outset of WWII, the "good" nations
were unable to collaborate in any coherent way. That lack of harmony
strengthened the enemy, who were then able to run roughshod across
the continent. It was only the extreme collaboration and bravery of the
British people, and the cooperative effort of the US and Europe that
saved the world from that greatest of all evils.
The question is then how can we be in that state of consciousness that
would allow us to be more connected and One with life around use. The
answer is that the more we live in the deeper parts of our being, rather
than the surface of life, the greater will be our affinity, connection, and
harmony with our surroundings, including the people we interact with.
But how do we move to that silent state, that witness consciousness that
would enable to us feel more connected with the world and others? We
can begin to build that new inner status by constantly opening ourselves
to the spiritual Force. When we offer and consecrate upcoming activities
in our lives, offering that act to the Higher Power, not only are the
conditions of life quickly set right, but we develop an ever-wider opening
to our deeper Self. As we come to know those profound Silent and Still
parts within, we experience an ever-increasing bond with things outside
ourselves, including the situations we encounter and the people we
interact with. As a result of these harmonic experiences, we not only
generate a vast power for success, but deep inner joy and fulfillment.
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This being the case, why not ask yourself this: In what areas of my life
can I create greater harmony? If you determine what that is and then
make a sincere effort to bring it about, you will not only generate a vast
power for accomplishment, but you will experience deep, inner
fulfillment, as the separation between yourself and life will melt away into
a blissful Oneness.
Subtle Gesture that Overcomes Disharmony in Still Walking
Family problems can be deep and troubling. Sometimes they are
intractable for years, or even a lifetime. Each individual can find himself
stuck in a rut that perpetuates family misery and disharmony. And yet a
single insight or gesture on the part of one individual can not only change
the immediate conditions for that family member’s immediate circle, but
can set in motion a wave of goodwill that envelops everyone, reversing
circumstance and feelings from the conflicting and contradictory to its
opposite.
We see a magnificent example of this dynamic in the recent Japanese film
Still Walking. There family members come together to commemorate the
death of the eldest son, Junpei, who drowned accidentally 12 years ago.
The relatives arrive at the home of the elder father Kyohei, a retired
doctor who lives with his wife on a hillside overlooking the spectacular
seaside of coastal Japan.
Unfortunately, there is deep psychological misery in the family, not only
because of the earlier death of the eldest son, but because of Kyohei’s
deep resentment toward his younger living child Ryoto who has failed to
follow in his footsteps as a doctor. Worse than that, Kyohei has deep
resentment toward Ryoto because he feels he has little of the capacity for
success that his deceased older son had. In turn, that causes Ryoto to
have a deep inferiority complex, which together creates great tension
between the two at the family gathering at the parents’ seaside home.
Meanwhile, the elder father Kyohei’s wife also has questionable feeling
about Ryoto’s marriage, since he married a divorcee, indicating her
prejudice in this regard. In fact, her feelings make Ryoto feel that much
more anxious and self-doubting. In addition, the wife also has a difficult
relationship with her constantly despondent and bitter husband, Kyohei,
mostly over the death of their son. Only the elder couples’ daughter, as
well as Ryoto’s unassuming and pleasant wife Yukari show genuine
cheerfulness and goodwill amidst the gloomy family situation.
Now comes the key moment in the story. It is a subtle one, easily
missed.
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In one scene, Ryoto’s wife Yukari and her little son are together in the
bedroom talking. She sees that the little boy is indifferent to his step-
father Ryoto, and longs for his real father through Yukari’s earlier
marriage. However, understanding his feelings, Yukari gently tells him
that she and her first husband are the two parts that make him the whole
that he is, comforting the young child greatly. She then tells him that he
should also open himself up to his step-father, Ryoto. Yukari presents this
in an endearing and humorous way that charms the little boy, causing
him to want to reconcile with Ryoto. Yukari’s tactic has proven eminently
successful.
Well, at that that very tender moment, Ryoto serendipitously walks into
the room, and sees the affection on the face of his little step-son for
perhaps the first time, giving Ryoto a deep sense of well being. Soon
after Ryoto tears up an old letter that he wrote as a child in which he
narrated how he wanted to be a doctor, which is a symbol of his current
failures in his career, and all that is wrong with his relationship with his
father. In essence, he has now changed his attitude for the better, a
direct outgrowth of his son’s new born affection toward him.
The ripple affect continues when soon after Ryoto and his father meet on
the beach, where the elder, retired doctor out of thin air suddenly
changes his attitude toward his only son. It is a subtle response from life
to Ryoto’s attitudinal shift. This then has the effect of energizing Ryoto’s
life further, which enables him to shed his past failures and achieve
mightily in the years that follow.
In the final analysis, a strong, deep bond amongst all of the family
members takes root, a startling reversal from what was there before.
As we see, one simple gesture of understanding and kindness can start
the ball rolling and attract a series of circumstance in which years of
resentment and bitterness are overcome for an entire family. Yukari’s
gentle gestures instigated and attracted a procession of outcomes that
reversed a near lifetime of family travail.
What can we do if we find ourselves in similar circumstance? For one,
through an increasing higher consciousness, we can use our subtle sense
to identify that single behavior or attitudes or value that will moves our
immediate relationship situation one step to the positive, as Yukari did
when she spoke so kindly and insightfully to her once embittered child.
Sometimes the key will require an act of self-givingness on our part.
Other times, it necessitates an attitude of psychological strength. There
are other situations still where the key is simply not to react to another’s
intensity. These and other inner tactics will certainly prove effective, and
have the added benefit of attracting powerful positive conditions, as it did
in the case of the Yokahama family.
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There are thus a variety of practical psychological methods of overcoming
family strife and acrimony. There are also spiritual approaches we can
take. For example, one particularly powerful method is to simply offer the
entire matter to the spiritual Force, which will tend to on its own break
the logjam and acrimony and conflict, while attract powerful positive
outcomes. In tandem with the right psychological approach, life will
completely reverse in ways one could never have imagined.
By the way, these psychological and spiritual methods to change
contradiction into harmony is not only effective for family situations, but
for any collective, whether it is a business, in politics, or any other group
association. It also works for personal relationships between spouse,
friends, and others.
In the final scene of this uplifting film, we observe the elder Kyohei’s and
his wife “still walking” on the steep hillsides overlooking the beautiful
coastal region, now finally rid of decades of bitterness and strife.
Becoming One with ‘The Field’
The other day I had a powerful inner experience. It lasted less than a
minute, though it vibrated forward and stayed with me in the minutes,
hours, and days since.
I was walking through a state of the art outdoor shopping center in
Emeryville, California, near Berkeley. As I entered the main street, on
either side of which were fancy stores and above expensive
condominiums, I suddenly felt a kind of stillness and whiteness around
me. Simultaneously, I felt that everything in the surroundings was One
thing; that there was no differentiation between objects, even as they
maintained an essential interconnection. Moreover, I felt that I was part
of this white Oneness. I sensed that this is how life really is; i.e. a
wholeness and interconnected single Reality with no essential separation,
even as distinct objects existed.
Accompanying this experience was the complete cessation of thought,
emotion, feeling, and sensation. In fact, every time the smallest thought
or feeling or sensation rose in me, I felt I was losing touch with this
Reality, this undifferentiated, yet integral Field of Oneness. As I held back
these subtle disturbances, the connection with this Reality maintained
itself in my consciousness. For a minute or so, I was absorbed in clear
vision state of Oneness, melting into that Field of pure existence
surrounding me.
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In the days that followed, I began to think about the undifferentiated
Field that we are part of, and how we can connect with and remain one
with It. I then recalled the film ‘The Legend of Bagger Vance’ where
Bagger as golf caddy to Junah instructed him on how be to become “one
with the Field.” Just as Krishna instructed Arjuna before the battle of
Kurekshetra in the Bhagavad Gita, Junah now tried to heed Bagger’s
advice and become one with the Reality before him. Rather than feeling
separate from that field -- of the grass, the air, the trees; even the
invisible realms -- Junah put aside his limiting thoughts, emotions, and
attitudes, and merged with It in order to perform the task at hand. As a
result, he made a great shot that not only turned the championship
match against the two greatest golfers in the world in his favor, but it
changed his life forever, including his perception of what is reality, and
what engenders outer success and inner fulfillment.
When I walked into that outdoor mall, lined with palm trees and state of
the art stores below colorful condos, I became one with that Field. There
was no subject in me perceiving and separated from an object of
perception. There was simply one undifferentiated Existence that I had
embraced and merged with. Being absorbed in the Field in that moment,
I sensed that all that was happening was absolutely perfect; that this was
in fact the True State of existence, and that anything I did in from that
status would unfold flawlessly.
This wonderful experience gave me a glimpse of the Truth of existence;
of the one contiguous Reality that extends from heaven to earth, from
spirit to matter, outside and inside, without separation and division; just
a single stream of undifferentiated whiteness that is the Field of life.
The Oneness of Adams and Jefferson
In the 8-part series on the life of the second president of the United
States, John Adams -- a man who helped forge the nation -- there is a
starling finale. For several years after his loving wife's death, he kept up
an intense dialogue with Thomas Jefferson via post. Though they worked
closely on bringing the nation together, and collaborated in their
respective presidential administrations, they were also rivals. They even
ran against one another for president. Sometimes their philosophies
would converge; on occasion, they would clash.
What then was the startling finale? Because their correspondence was so
intense, they ended up dying on the very same day. Not only that, but it
was on July 4th, the birthday of the nation. Moreover, the day they died
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was the 50th anniversary of the birth of the nation! On the surface, it
seems like a startling coincidence, yet if you see how closely they were in
their correspondence, they had almost become two halves of the same
person. The energies, forces, and vibrations were so intense; and their
interlocking relationship so powerful, that they deceased on the same
famous day. Because they were so far apart -- one in Massachusetts, the
other in Virginia; and were too old to visit one another regularly -- they
each had a bust of the other in their room to help them envision one
another. We can imagine them each looking at, talking to their respective
friend's bust as they penned their plethora of letters.
Two men had thus practically become One -- in mental thought, in spirit,
almost in body. In our lives, the Oneness between ourselves and others
also beckons us. However, we are too caught up in our separate selves to
perceive those outside our own physical being. Though we do come
together intensely in love --whether for spouse or children or friend --
that in part merely fulfills our ego. It is more difficult to experience that
oneness with other people we come in contact with, where a business
associates or a casual acquaintance. To share that Oneness in that way
would mean that we have abandoned our separative nature, our ego, so
that we are able to bridge the divide between us and move in harmony;
experience oneness and unity with our environment and those around us.
However, we can only reach that state when we move away from the
surface of life and discover our deeper parts within. There we find silence,
and further still our own True Nature and Soul. From there we experience
a universal state in which we feel deep commonality with the world
around us, including the people we come in contact with. It was there
that John Adams and Thomas Jefferson met and found harmony of being,
despite their being so many miles apart.
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Self, Soul, Being
The Journey of the Soul
The spiritual tradition tells us the soul chooses to be born in a particular
set of conditions in order to make progress during that person’s lifetime.
After the lesson has been learned, the soul leaves the body to assimilate
its experience and then reincarnates in a new life to make further
progress.
For example, in Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Darcy, though a
very wealthy man with a polished exterior, presents a haughty and
arrogant disposition on occasion. And yet when he meets Eliza Bennet, he
is overcome by his feelings for her, struck by the light in her eyes. Yet to
win her over, he realizes he has to change his nature, which he does,
leading to a critical event in the story where he is able to demonstrate his
dramatically improved character. As a result, Eliza responds very
favorably, culminating in their happy marriage. In essence, Darcy has
made a powerful progress in life; precisely what his soul had sought when
it entered his being at birth.
Over a decade ago, an individual I know of went through an intense
change of his own. Not so much a shift from lower to higher character, or
wanting attitudes to a higher deposition, but a powerful psychological and
spiritual transformation that took shape through months of intense fear.
So great were the 3-6 hour daily onslaught of causeless terror that during
that he had to constantly remain in a state of immovable meditation,
calling peace and calm to prevent that person from going mad. Along the
way, he came to understand that this was what his soul sanctioned in
order to move to the next stage of his life. In fact, from that day on, he
embarked on a profound personal and spiritual journey that included a
new career as a thinker and writer. Because of that cathartic episode, he
was reborn into a new life, enabling his soul to make a great progress.
As it turns out, there are also uncommon individuals who actually make
several such changes in a single lifetime. These rare souls go through
consecutive stages of transformation that give sustenance to their souls
in its journey through time. One such individual is Jean Valjean, the main
character of Victor Hugo’s nineteenth century masterpiece, Les
Miserables. In fact, Valjean passes through four distinct life-changing
stages that enable him to grow from a husk of a man to a veritable saint.
Jean Valjean’s first transformation took place in prison, where he spent
19 years for the petty offense of stealing a loaf of bread. There he not
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only developed a new level of physical strength, but a new emotional
intensity through his newfound cause of social justice. Because of the
harsh abuse he suffered, he committed himself to overcoming similar
abuses in society. As a result, Valjean had changed from an individual
who hardly spoke or looked at anybody, to one dedicated to overcoming
injustices in the world.
However, Jean Valjean’s soul was ready for more growth. And so in his
second incarnation, he came to know a humble bishop who showed him
the power of selfless and self-givingness. When the bishop saved him
from the authorities after escaping from prison, Valjean came to deeply
admire his goodness, goodwill, and generosity. It was a spiritual like
perception for Valjean, as he now saw the brute, husk of the man he was,
and the self-giving man he could become if he emulated the bishop’s
behavior. And so from that day on, he dedicated himself to a life of self-
givingness.
And yet Jean Valjean’s being was ready for more change. As long as the
soul aspires for progress, life will continue to present challenges that
compel its further evolution. In the years that followed Valjean was able
to realize his aspirations of self-givingness by becoming a beloved and
prosperous businessperson. However, one day Valjean learned that
someone named Jean Valjean had been convicted of a crime. He knew
that this was not the case because he was the person with that name.
After wrestling with his conscience, he went to the court in Arras and
revealed that he was the real Jean Valjean, thereby freeing the
accused. However, by doing so, the authorities learn that he was an
escaped convict; forcing Valjean once again to be a fugitive from the law.
It would mean that he would have to give up all that he had built up in
his professional life. What actually occurred was that life tested his full
commitment to his personal ideal of self-givingness. By acceded to a level
of psychological purity, by doing what was right and true, Valjean had
made the third great growth and progress of his life.
Though his mind and life found great emotional satisfaction in his new
solitary existence, his soul aspired for more growth and adventure. That
would come in the form of his relationship with his beloved adopted
daughter Cossette. Though he rescued her as a child from the clutches of
evil, and poured his love into her in the years that followed, Cossette
blossomed into a young woman and found herself in love with Marius, a
self-giving, young idealist.
Upon learning of the romance, Valjean through a great psychological and
spiritual-like effort withdrew his possessiveness toward Cossette,
retreating to his home so that she could exercise her freedom and pursue
her own deep love for Marius. As a result, over time, he became weary,
fell ill, and began to wither him away. However, as a result of that self-
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restraining effort, life responded in overwhelming fashion when near the
end, Marius and Cossette arrived at his deathbed, confessing their deep
love and appreciation for all he had done in lives, including saving
Marius’s life at the barricades. Most telling, when Cossette confessed her
deep love for Valjean, all that he aspired for in his life was fulfilled,
enabling him to die a happy man. That giving up of attachment to the
one person he so dearly love din the name of Cossette’s best interest was
Valjean’s final effort of self-givingness in life. He had now reached the
heights of spiritual purity, of selfless love through non-attachment. As a
result, he had now completed his multi-birth journey of the soul in a
single lifetime.
A soul is born in each of us in order to derive one essential progress. Just
as we are evolving, so is the soul through in its own cosmic journey. But
the soul will only find fulfillment in us if we rise to a higher level of
consciousness. The soul of Mr. Darcy was fulfilled when he made the
psychological adjustment and changed a central part of his nature,
winning over the woman he loved. Jean Valjean went steps beyond and
evolved his being four times in a single lifetime, an almost unprecedented
event that is indicative of a very rare soul.
This being the case, then what is life asking of us? What does our soul
seek through change in our own being? Or to another way, how can we
improve ourselves in a way that gives sustenance to our soul?
In the end, we not here merely to exist, or even to love and achieve, but
to make one essential progress in our lifetime. But do we know what that
is, and if so, do we understand what needs is to be done to make it
happen? If we can identify those parts of our being that need change,
then we will move in harmony with our soul’s aspiration. If we then go a
step further and make that change, not only will we progress and evolve,
but so will our soul in its journey through space and time. [Thanks to
Mother's Service Society for their source materials that contributed to this
article.]
Not Yet Titled
It is the aspiration of our Soul that is creating the circumstances of our
lives.
Comment: The evolving soul (psychic being) has entered ourselves in this
life/birth so it can continue its Journey to evolve; learning something
uniquely new through our experiences. Thus this True Self within us is
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urging, compelling us to move in certain directions, meaning that it is a
great determinate of our existence.
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PART 6: THEORY OF CREATION: INVOLUTION, EVOLUTION
Creation Process (Involution & Evolution)
The Involutionary and Evolutionary Process
It is relatively easy for us to perceive that Evolution is taking place in the
universe -- i.e. there has been and continues to be a movement from
matter to animated life to mentality in conscious beings, and upward to
ever higher consciousness. It is less obvious however to perceive the
Involution of existence that has taken shape from an Infinite
consciousness that has culminated in material existence in the universe.
In Evolution, we see a progressive ascendance of consciousness and ever
more subtle substance from dumb, physical matter to animated life forms
to mental intelligence, and upward. It is far more difficult to imagine how
an original Infinite, timeless, spaceless Reality and Being enabled an
essential Energy that became the basis for the forms in the universe,
beginning with matter.
More difficult still is the fact that in this Involutionary process, what was
enabled at each stage was less conscious than what preceded it, not
more so, as in the Evolution. Thus, from an ultimate Consciousness and
Force, emerged a less conscious invisible Energy from which emerged
distinct forms as unconscious, dumb material existence -- i.e. matter.
Thus, whereas the Evolution seems be progressive, the creation of the
universe in the Involutionary process from a Divine source seemed to be
regressive; a diminution of consciousness!
And yet according to Sri Aurobindo, it was the very intention of the
Infinite Reality to create a universe of forms and have those forms begin
as unconscious matter. Why would it take this counter-intuitive course? It
did so to create the greatest variation of experience amongst the forms of
life; to include the dark and the light, the false and the true, the good
and evil, the positive and the negative, and so forth. This infinite variety
would create the greatest variation of discovery amongst those forms,
including us, which in turn creates the greatest diversity of in the
experience of Joy and Delight. And Delight was after all the reason this
universe of forms was created in the first place. Now there could be
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infinite diversity and multiplicity of the experience Delight beyond the
fixed original Delight and Bliss of the Infinite consciousness.
Equally interesting is the fact that though the Infinite consciousness
seemed to disappear as it descended from Force to Energy to matter in
the Involutionary process, it is still involved as potential in matter and the
animated forms and mentality that emerged from it. In fact, the reason
animated forms evolved from matter upward in the Evolution is precisely
because that capacity was already involved in material existence during
the Involutionary process. That was actually the Divine's intention. The
same for animated life and its involved mentality, and mentality's
involved spiritual capacities beyond it. Thus in every plane are all the
potential planes that will emerge from it. It is analogous to the DNA that
is there when a human is conceived, which determines that person's
nature.
Or to put it another way, Evolution takes place because in any given
plane are involved the planes that will emerge from it. So animated life,
mind, and spirit will evolve from matter because it is already involved,
hidden in its essence as potential. That would thereby indicate that
matter is spiritual in its essence. Though those higher forms of
consciousness were ever diminished in the Involutionary process, they
emerge through the reverse process of Evolution in the universe. Thus,
Involution is the very reason Evolution is made possible.
In the end, an Infinite Reality hid itself in its descent from an original
Consciousness and Force to a subtle Energy from which a material
universe emerged. That original Reality and its Conscious-Force has then
begun to reemerge in the Evolution from matter to animate life forms to
mentality, and to realms beyond that are spiritual in nature. Thus, our
ultimate destiny is embody through our Evolution the very Infinite Being,
Consciousness, Force, and Delight that is the very Source of our
existence.
God, Brahman, the Reality is Evolving
Normally we consider God as something distant and apart from ourselves.
Rarely do we think of the Divine as immanent in the world, let alone
evolving in the universe.
To address this issue, let us begin with a bit of metaphysics. The ultimate
conception of existence is an omnipresent Reality that exists in all planes
-- from an Infinite consciousness "above" in the Unmanifest down
through matter, life, and mind in the manifest universe. This Reality --
this ultimate conception of what is contained in all planes Unmanifest and
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Manifest -- is known as "Brahman" in the East and "The Absolute" in the
West. Most will settle for "God," though that conception can be quite
limiting.
But how then is this omnipresent Reality; this God, Brahman, Absolute
evolving? To answer that question, we need to understand the 'Process of
Creation.' To begin with there is an ineffable, immutable, infinite
consciousness that always was, is, and always will be. It is the Reality in
its first stage; before creation. This Infinite has then extended itself into a
field of manifest entities. It extended its own infinite being,
consciousness, and delight into a universal field of distinct forces and
forms. To do so, it rendered a creating plane of Truth Consciousness, and
from it, formulated the dividing capacity of Mind, through which emerged
the Energies that are the source of all forces and distinct material life
forms in space and time. This second movement can be thought of as the
Involutionary process. Thus in the first stage there is a decent/involution
from an Infinite consciousness to Supermind, Mind, and then Energy;
and a second stage of ascent/evolution in the universe from Energy to
Matter to Life and Life Forms to Mind, the latter expressing mainly
through we human beings.
The Reality is then all of the planes of the involutionary and evolutionary
processes together. Brahman/The Reality/God, is not only timeless,
spaceless being, but extended Itself to forms of its Force in creation. In
other words Brahman, God, the Reality also became this life. It is thus
the Unmanifest and Manifest, and their integral relationship. This is the
ultimate conception of Reality afforded to Man.
Moreover, since we humans in the universe are an extension of that
Reality, and since we are evolving, then God the Divine, Brahman, the
Absolute Reality is evolving as well. As we bring higher consciousness to
bear in our lives, we evolve, as does God the Infinite. As we become
more conscious -- overcoming our personal limitations and wanting
qualities; find our spirit and soul within; commune with the transcendent
Divine, bring the that Higher Power into the details of our lives -- we not
only uplift ourselves and life, but enable the Reality itself to evolve
through creation.
We are then the instrument of God's evolution. As we evolve, so does the
Reality, Brahman, which is in and of every and all things. When we
connect to our higher nature, we serve the evolution of the Reality, as it
seeks to render its own spiritual attributes of Silence, Oneness, Truth,
Wisdom, Power, Love, Beauty, and Delight into this universe of forms.
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The Process of Creation, Involution, and Evolution
On the 197th birthday of Charles Darwin, individuals are trying to
reconcile his ideas with that of the Spirit. So far, all parties -- sectarian
and scientific -- seem very far from understanding the true nature of the
fundamental issue he addressed: evolution.
With that in mind, let’s consider one definition of evolution: Evolution
takes place for any entity when it organizes itself at a higher level. Here
are several examples:
When a business develops a strategic plan to grow, organizes and then
executes it, the firm has followed a process for it to progress. Likewise,
when I as an individual plan out what I want to become, organize the
details, and then carry it out, I too can rapidly progress. If the
organization or individual succeeds in not just going a bit higher, but to a
new level or plane of existence, there is not only progress, but evolution.
These examples suggest that there is a common process by which
accomplishment and creation takes place. It consists of a conception of
that which we want to become, the organization of the details of that
vision, and its execution. Moreover, when it is carried out with
determined effort, skill, and right attitude, our aspiration/intention quickly
comes about, which is progress for that entity.
When that process is practiced to perfection, not only is progress
produced -- which is in essence more of what we currently have, along
with a certain degree of elevation of consciousness -- but we are taken to
an entirely new level or plane of our existence, which is the very
definition of evolution.
Even the Spiritual reality in creating a universe from its Divine source,
followed this same essential approach: i.e. it conceived that which it
wished to create -- a universe -- and it organized and made it occur
through powers of infinite consciousness that turned its Conscious Force
into unseen subtle Energy that became the basis of all forms that would
emerge in creation. In other words, it evolved itself further by becoming
a manifest universe.
If we are to understand evolution, we need to understand this single
essential process of creation that entails a movement from vision to
organization to manifestation. Even when a primitive being or an animal
evolves, there is some higher quality that is being organized, that is
moving from its current level of being to a higher order. We can see this
in the film 2001: A Space Odyssey, where at one point an ape vaguely
perceives that a bone it has found can be used as a tool for defending
itself, tries it out, and then uses it to gain superiority over rival clans. It is
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in essence the organization of a perception into a living reality. Evolution
is then a product of the organization of consciousness -- whether it
consciously, subconsciously, or unconsciously takes place.
There is another dimension to the evolutionary process. It is that the
higher levels of progress, development, and evolution that entities move
towards and attain is already involved in their being as potential. Just as
a tree emerges from a seed in which all of its material existence is more
or less predetermined, so too there is an involved capacity inherent in
every form to bring about the next stage or phase of its being. For
example, when the most primitive life forms emerged from matter, that
capacity was already there involved as real potential in the essence of
that physical form. Likewise, if I wish to become more intuitively aware --
a higher formation of mentality -- that capacity is already there involved
as potential in my current mental framework. It is there in the seed of my
being as potential. There is a real seed of possibility hidden in its
essence, not just an imaginary one that somehow can be fulfilled.
Thus, not only is there one universal process of creation that moves from
stages of vision to organization to manifestation, i.e. through a
movement of higher consciousness, but the stages we can evolve to are
already there embedded in our being as seed and essence of potentiality.
This is the case because in the creation of the cosmos from a Divine
Source, those infinitely higher planes of being were there before the
universe even existed, and in creation were then embedded, hidden,
involved in the forms that emerged, including us. E.g., a plane of Mind
existed before the universe came to be in the involutionary process and
descent from Spirit to matter. Then after creation, higher life forms
emerged from matter, and developed a mentality with the capacity to
think. That occurred because the original Cosmic Plane of Mind is involved
in matter and life forms, which emerges through the development of our
mentality.
Thus, we can say that the evolutionary process is able to occur because
the involutionary process has created these potentialities in the very fiber
of our being. The planes that emerge from us were already involved in us
as a seed in subtle form.
In summary, through the process of creation -- i.e. vision, organization,
and execution -- all life progresses. If the change is truly significant, --
i.e. there is a dramatic change in consciousness, bringing about a
movement to an entirely new level or plane of existence -- then there is
also evolution. And yet the seeds of our evolution and change, including
all the planes above it, are already there involved, hidden in our being in
potential, waiting to come out.
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Whether we choose to progress and evolve is a matter of our own choice.
If we consciously follow the process of creation, seeking to move to a
higher level, we not only accelerate our own growth and progress, but we
participate in the evolution of Man.
The Spiritual Essence and the Process of Creation
The essence of Indian spiritual thought rests on several principles. One is
that the Spirit is One. I.e. that there is one plane of universal existence.
However, because we live on the surface of life, we perceive separation
between our own individual existence and the outer universal reality,
when in fact they are One. And yet, when I move to a deeper
consciousness, I experience the spirit directly without the separative Me
blocking that identity. I come to know that Oneness, which gives the
greatest of Joy. A second precept is that if I go deep enough within, I will
discover my true self -- my Soul. And that soul is a spark of the divine; a
nook of the spirit that is harbored for the individual.
Thus in the depths of consciousness, I discover that I am one with all
things in the cosmos, including my environment and other, and that there
is a Soul in the deepest parts that is my own representative of the
transcendent divine within. This means that in fact there are three
essential spiritual principle: a transcendent divine reality, a universal
reality in the cosmos that is One, and a personal True Individuality and
Soul being. When we move away from the surface, of sense, and
discover our deeper consciousness, we move into identity with all three.
In the modern era however this understanding has begun to shift; or
rather add another dimension. It also includes the dynamic dimension of
life; otherwise known as the evolutionary principle. Thus the
transcendent Reality is not only a spiritual essence, a being, a witness,
but is also a creator Force; a power that enables forms of that spiritual
Force to unfold in the universe. From out of the Reality emerged a
Conscious-Force that then emerged as an invisible Energy in life out of
which forms of it took shape -- from matter to human -- through a
process of involution and evolution. Thus we see the dynamic, creative
power of the transcend divine unfolding in time and space through
matter, life forms, and mind, culminating in the human being.
It should also be pointed out that there is only one process of creation in
the universe -- one that that we share with our Creator. Just as the
universe emerged from a Divine source through a process, so too do we
create and accomplish in life through a similar process. We humans
envision what we want to become, willfully seek it out, organize it in all
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aspects, and carry it out with skills and right attitudes. This is the same
process by which the universe emerged from a Divine Source.
Together the underlying spiritual reality and the process of creation work
together to enable an underlying stable existence as well as a creative,
dynamic existence in space and time.
How the One Became the Many; and Space and Time
Emerged
[The following is based on the Theory of Creation presented by Sri
Aurobindo in 'The Life Divine' and elsewhere, and further expanded on by
Sri Karmayogi.]
From time immemorial, individuals have asked themselves how this world
came to be, and what was the process that enabled it to happen. Here is
one perspective:
To begin with, there was/is an infinite, divine Source of all things; a
timeless, spaceless, immutable, ineffable Being. We can think of it as the
"One," since there were not yet distinct forces and forms in a manifest
universe. I.e. there was not yet a "Many." Due to some inner compulsion,
the One extended Itself to become the Many, which is in essence the
distinct, unique forces and forms that will become the basis of Creation.
How then did the Many emerge from the One; i.e. the Creation from the
Creator?
In the Source/Infinite consciousness are Real Ideas, which are
possibilities It seeks to render as living realities; i.e. cosmic determinants
that the Spirit seeks to make real in creation. Among them are spiritual
aspects or qualities, including Oneness, Knowledge, Creativity, Beauty,
Love, and Delight. There are also variations, combination, and subsets of
these that the Divine seeks in its extension from the One to then Many.
Then how were/are the Real Ideas made real in the cosmos as unique
forces and forms?
The Truth Consciousness, which Sri Aurobindo calls "Supermind"
rendered through its own Comprehending capacity images of those Real
Ideas. Or to put it another way, Comprehending Supermind imagined and
envisioned distinct forces and forms that would embody these cosmic
ideas and determinants.
At this point however, these imaginations have not been rendered real;
as they are only a conception of separate formations. (We can compare
this to the writer who has established characters, values and meaning,
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and plot in his mind, but has not yet committed them to paper.)
However, through Supermind's Apprehending capacity these envisioned
formations are rendered real as distinct entries in an emerging cosmos.
I.e. Oneness, Knowledge, Creativity, Beauty, Love, Delight, et al become
distinct forces and forms at the unseen universal plane.
How then did these imagined forms become real?
To become separate, distinct objects, Apprehending Supermind divided
each of the previously envisioned attributes of Knowledge, Oneness,
Creativity, Love, Delight, etc. and their infinite variations into triplicities in
the form of subject - subject/object experience - object. E.g. the distinct
possibility of the spiritual aspect of "Knowledge" is rendered into Knower
-- Knowing -- Known. E.g., as a knowing being one knows that which is
known. (Or to put it in words of our own experience. I as knower am
knowing what is known.) Similarly, there is the triplicity of the lover (the
subject) loving (experience) the beloved (object). And so forth for the
myriad of cosmic determinates/spiritual qualities of the Infinite Divine. In
essence, the One reality has now divided itself in various ways so that
each subject can experience itself as object, thereby becoming the Many.
It should be noted that at this point there is no physical universe. Before
that can come about, there needs to be a foundation for it's occurrence;
which is in essence what we know of as space and time. Though the
Infinite Source is beyond space and time -- it is spaceless and timeless --
a potential universe requires these as underpinning. How does that
happen?
When the triplicities of the cosmic determinates are established through
Supermind's comprehending action, which is, in essence, how the
spiritual aspects/determinants are made real as distinct forces and forms,
space and time are created.
But why does this happen? To answer that we need to know more about
the nature of space and time.
Sri Aurobindo and Sri Karmayogi tell us that space is created at the point
where a form is able, from its own unique vantage point, to perceive
other forces and forms. Space then is perceived as a sense of extension
from one form's perspective to another's.
Then there is time, which can be thought of as an outgrowth of space.
Time is created at the point where a form perceives one form, then
another one, etc. in sequence, which generates the sense of movement in
extension. The perception of movement in the extension of space is what
we call time.
With the triplicities of subject -- functioning -- object occurring though
the comprehending action of the Truth Consciousness, distinct forces and
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forms take shape. Though these are initially at the idea of force, power
and knowledge, they eventually begin to take on properties of substance
through the creation and dispersion of an essential Energy. As forms take
on properties of substance, they more readily perceive other forms,
creating the sense of extension which is space, as well as the sense of
movement within the extension, which is time.
In essence, this is the process by which the One extends Itself and is
rendered into the Many. The process begins with the rendering of Real
Ideas/Cosmic Determinants of the Source Being into forces and forms as
triplicities of subject, experience, object, through the comprehending and
apprehending action of Truth Consciousness. This becomes the basis of
space and time, as well as the further involution of the cosmos that will
culminate in the material-based universe that we live in.
From Material View of Science to Involution/Evolution of the Infinite
We worship the God of Science, trusting in its laws and rules, bowing
before its child, Technology. After all, we are dazzled by the material
benefit it has given us, including unprecedented security and infinite-like
physical comforts.
And yet science's foundation rests on a material view of the world. All of
its principles and insights derive from physical matter it can measure. Its
view of evolution is a mere progression from matter forward -- i.e. as
mere ever-more complex forms of atoms, molecules, chemical reactions,
and micro and macro elements. This narrow, materialistic, mechanistic
view of existence is what we have subconsciously embraced as the
foundation of existence, particularly in the West.
But what if there were a decidedly different view? What if all that we are
becoming and evolving towards was already involved, inherent in matter?
What if embedded in material existence is a seed of all that has evolved
from it -- from animated life and life forms to the mentality of Man?
What if in the hidden, subtle recesses of matter, there was the
consciousness of future life and mind, lying dormant, holding out for the
right time and conditions before coming out?
Science of course does not embrace such an involved consciousness
latent in matter, for it cannot see it or measure it -- its prime means of
determining the existence of anything. How can the seed of a life and
mind be contained in material rock or stone or ice or water or fire when
there are no signs of that possibility when examined under a microscope
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or analyzed with the latest, state-of-the-art measuring devices? And yet
everything that has evolved from matter was and is there in
consciousness, involved in it, secretly hidden from view, waiting to come
out. Embedded in matter is not just the possibility and seeds of
animated, energized life and the forms that move and interact; not just
the splendors of mentality that emerged through those life forms,
including us, but the possibility of Spirit itself emerging through we
mental beings. Thus, all of life in the universe is a flowering from that
seed; a constant unfolding of higher substance and consciousness from
that involved, hidden Essence embedded in matter.
But who or what planted this life-mind-spirit seed in the recesses of
matter? The answer is that only an Infinite consciousness, a Divine entity
could have imagined, conceived, and planted the hidden fountain of life in
the very core and being of matter. Only a Higher Power could have
imagined and planted the "DNA" of conscious life in the heart of a
material existence; that on the surface appears completely unconscious
and inert.
But why would a Divine entity usher in a universe with the dense, gross
substance and unconsciousness of matter? Why not begin with those
higher formations -- of matter, life, and mentality; or better yet their full
integration. Surely, an Infinite consciousness could have devised anything
It chose. The answer to this conundrum -- which incidentally also
explains why there is suffering, difficulty, and evil in the world -- is quite
simple: It did so to enable the greatest possibility and multiplicity in life.
By starting with the unconsciousness of matter, an infinite array of
possibilities could emerge above it; from positive to negative, light to
dark, easy to problematic, etc. across all dualities and contradictions of
existence. That would enable Its own Divine attributes -- peace,
harmony, wisdom, creativity, beauty, love, delight, etc. -- to express
through an infinite variety of forces, energies, forms, and circumstance;
across an infinitely varied spectrum of existence, providing ultimate
diversity and richness to life.
Implicit in a seed of future planes embedded matter is not only an Infinite
source, but the fact that these planes existed in some form before
creation! In fact, we can only understand the evolution of planes from
seeds of matter if we perceive the involutionary process that embedded
those potentialities in first place. Whereas evolution is a self-unfolding
from Matter to Life to Mind and Spirit, Involution is a previous and
inverse process of self-manifestation of the Infinite consciousness into the
planes Mind, Life/Energy, and Matter. Or looking at it chronologically, first
there was the Infinite Divine, which manifest the plane of Supermind or
Truth consciousness, and then Mind, out of which derived the plane of
energy (Vital), out of which emerged the plane of Matter. As each plane
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emerged, it lost the higher consciousness, but embedded or involved
itself as future potential. This is the involutionary process from spirit to
matter. The evolutionary process then occurs, which is the unfolding from
matter of involved Life/Energy and life forms, and then mentality from
Life in those life forms, and then Spirit from Mind. Ultimately, conscious
mental individuals in the evolution open and connecting back to the
highest, Infinite consciousness that was the source of All in the
involution.
The dual involutionary/evolutionary process is thus very different process
than the mere, dumb, unconscious material evolution presented by
Science. Involution indicates an Infinite consciousness and a Divine
process behind the material one. Interestingly, recent
scientific/mathematical formulas are starting to point in this direction.
E.g., Dark Energy may be one significant step in that direction, indicating
energy previous to matter.
Scientists ever-increasingly stand agape as they see their material,
mechanistic views of existence ironically torn down through their own
scientific investigations. When they come to see that all other planes --
back to cosmic Mind and Spirit -- were/are there before creation, and that
life, mind, and spirit are buried in matter waiting to come out, they will
begin to perceive the right relation of things, including the ultimate
meaning and purpose of life in the cosmos.
Darwin's 'Variation' in Terms of Consciousness
Like religion, science has a limited view of life. The former affirms a
Spiritual Source, which is wonderful, but denies or is unaware or
disinterested in the process of evolution in the details of life. The latter
has served society well and produced vast practical results, but has a
partial, mechanistic, material-only view of reality that often produces
negative outcomes. Any attempt to reconcile these two realms is a
movement of integration and harmony, and is eminently helpful for our
understanding of life. Many recent deep thinkers, such as Deepak Chopra,
have been trying to forge a link, and have made real, substantial
progress in this area. If only the two sides would listen!
Recently I visited the new California Academy of Science located in
Golden Gate Park in San Francisco. It is two American football fields long
and sits parallel to the equally vast and architecturally striking new De
Young Museum. One of the CAS exhibits in the hall traces the course of
biological evolution on earth as developed by 19th century giant Charles
Darwin. While perusing the main scientific principles behind his theory,
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something on the wall caught my eye. It was a statement that said
something to the effect that "Variation is the spur and cause of
evolution." It then struck me that this scientific principle could be
explained in terms of spiritual laws of life, thereby reconciling spirit and
science.
According to Sri Aurobindo, Variation goes to the very essence of the
process of creation that enabled a universe to emerge from a Divine
Source. He describes how an original immutable and ineffable Reality
moved toward creation by first taking to existence, then becoming
conscious of its own existence, which in turn released a force that
coagulated into the primal Energy that became the source of all forms in
creation.
But why would a Divine Reality seek to create this universe in the first
place? Sri Aurobindo explains that this original unmanifest Reality
extended itself into a Manifest cosmos so that its own Delight and Bliss
could be experienced by those forms of force, including we humans. That
when we discover our true nature and selves, we experience the same
Delight that the Creator experienced when it moved toward being
conscious of Its own Self. Thus, when I discover who I truly am, what
purpose I truly serve, etc. -- i.e. move to higher consciousness -- I
experience that same Delight.
So where does Variation come into the picture? It turns out that though
the Delight of the Divine is one of eternal pleasure and bliss -- called
Ananda in Indian parlance -- it is of one sort. I.e. it is singular, but static
and unchanging. Therefore, according to Sri Aurobindo, the Divine wished
to create a universe of forms that also experienced dynamic delight; i.e.
where each of us through the process of self-discovery experienced a
unique form of that bliss in our own lives. Well, in order to experience
that unique form of Delight, we need to be unique individuals, each
expressing and manifesting a unique consciousness. In other words, the
Divine intended infinite variation for we humans in creation for infinite
variety of discovery and bliss.
Thus, through cosmic insights into the nature of Reality, Sri Aurobindo
has seized on the same conclusion as Darwin. Variation -- whether
understood in terms of outer functioning of species as in the case of
Darwin, or through Divine purpose and intention through human choice,
functioning, and discovery as described by Sri Aurobindo -- is a principle
of life both embraced.
To be able to describe the outer forces of life in terms of processes of
consciousness is one of the great challenges of the New Age. The dogma
and superstition of religious precepts and the narrow-minded,
mechanistic, material view of existence are limited, contradictory
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influences that can only be resolved by such higher understanding. From
that vantage point we are able perceive the source and essence of all
phenomena; the deepest and most profound influence on the workings of
life; and the true nature of our evolution through time.
Creation for the Creator, the Individual, Society, and an
Organization
There is essentially one process of growth, accomplishment, and creation
in the cosmos. It begins with a vision and aspiration, continues with a
decision, and unfolds through organization and action, culminating in a
result. This process occurs for the divine Spirit, for the individual human,
for society, and for a business or organization.
Creation of the Universe -- From an Omnipresent Spiritual Reality
emerged the divine Will to create a universe of forms. Through a process
of creation, a Conscious Force emerged from a spiritual Existent that
formulated into an essential Energy out of which the forms of the
universe, including we humans, emerged. The process was Vision,
Aspiration, Decision, Organization, and Manifestation. The universe and
all its forms were/are created through these stages of the process.
Creation for the Individual -- We follow that same process when we
create as individuals. We have a vision and aspiration for something to
come about. We make the firm decision to accomplish it. We organize the
details. And we carry it out through a determined, persevering effort,
blended with higher attitudes and personal values. The result, like the
Spirit, are powerful positive results, which readily occur through sudden
instances of good fortune.
Creation for the Society -- Accomplishment and development occurs
similarly for society. Normally, a pioneer individual has a vision and
aspires to accomplish something for the collective. That aspiration is
organized into its details, and an effort is made to carry it out. If the
society not only accept the vision, but collaborates with of the pioneer
then a new progress is made for that people. Again, vision, aspiration,
organization and effort are melded with acceptance and collaboration to
create a powerful progress for society.
Creation for a Business/Organization -- A business or other organization
accomplishes and grows in a similar fashion. It does this through a
strategic plan. In that plan, there is a vision of what it aspires to
accomplish, including the business values it subscribes to. It organizes
the details into specific strategies and plans of action, and carries it out in
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a timely manner. As a result, the company rapidly accomplishes what it
set out to do, and does so in overwhelming fashion if the process is
followed closely and in great detail.
We can also view this process in terms of an energy flow. I.e. the vision,
aspiration, and decision organizes the available energy into a Force,
which through organization of the details becomes a Power that when
executed through a determined persevering effort manifests as
overwhelming Results. When the process is followed diligently, life
responds positively, often from the most unexpected quarters, as the
energies move out and align with the very best conditions.
The question then is how can we follow this same process in our own
lives to bring about ultimate success, accomplishment, and delight.
The Divine's Power of Creation that is Available to Us
There are many properties of the Divine Reality. One is its poise as silent
Witness of its creation. Others are its poise of supreme Love, ultimate
Delight, infinite Wisdom, and Oneness and Unity of being. Another aspect
of the Divine is its capacity to Create. Out of a conscious Decision of an
Infinite Reality emerged a universe of Forms. Out of nothingness came an
entire cosmos, demonstrating the Divine's infinite capacity to create.
What I would like to bring out here is that as forms of the body of the
Divine, we have that same infinite capacity to create in our own lives as
that of the Infinite Reality. We too have the ability to envision something
unprecedented in our future and follow a process so that it manifests just
as we intended. Just as the universe emerged from the Real Ideas of an
Infinite consciousness, so too our heart's desire can be realized through
an conception and idea originating in our minds.
I am not simply suggesting that we have the power to create, but we
have the power to create perfect outcomes that come about
instantaneously or very rapidly -- overcoming normally perceived limits of
what is possible, and how cause and effect unfold. If we envision what we
want, have the deep aspiration and will for it to come about, organize it
in its details, carry it out in a timely manner with consummate skill and
the very best of attitudes, and bring the spiritual Force to bear, we will
evoke sudden good fortune that will descend on us like a miracle.
In this way, the process by which a universe of forms emerged from the
Supreme is also available to us in our own lives. We are therefore also
the Ishwara, the divine Creator in potential. We here in the body of God
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are capable of doing the same as He. In the end, that might be the
greatest gift that the Supreme's has endowed us with.
Energy in the Process of Creation
Question from a Reader: How does Energy fit into the process by which
we create and accomplish in life?
Answer: The entire process of creation from the vision of a thing to its
manifestation can be looked at from the perspective of Energy.
For example, I perceive something in life that I find attractive and want
to manifest as real in the world. I thereby have a vision of what I want to
create. I have in essence created a Force of energy. It is also a directed
Force since it is a goal I want to achieve. It is further directed, amplified,
intensified as it gains the sanction of my emotions. I.e. when I see the
real possibility of bringing it about, and the enormous benefit that could
ensue, a Will in me is generated for its manifestation. My Will in turn
releases more energy, adding to the directed Force I have initiated within
me.
Sometimes that is enough for life to manifest my goal. I.e. without
having to take further action, life responds to the energies I have
released, bringing about the conditions I had hoped for.
If however our aspiration/intention is something significant, we need to
take it to the next level by Organizing our intention, which will convert
the directed Force into a Power for manifestation. For example, I consider
how I can make my goal real -- including which people to contact, when
to do it, what skills I need to acquire gain, what attitudes I need to
change, and so forth. As a result or organizing my goal, the directed
Force of Energy now becomes a highly concentrated POWER of Energy.
When I then carry put the details with determination and positive
attitude, the concentrated Power of highly charged and focused energies
call forth to life like magnets, evoking powerful positive results. I.e. the
Energy is so highly charged within us, that it sends out a powerful signal
that causes us to align with the very best of conditions, enabling us to
attract our heart's desire. In essence, the Energy we have built up within
us has converted into a Manifest Reality.
The energy conversion process can thus be summarized as: Force of
energy through Direction > Power of energy through Organization (of the
details) > Action that converts energy into something real in the world,
as a living Manifestation of it.
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The energy process can also be thought of as the release of mental
energy that then adds vital/emotional energy, and then physical energy
that manifest the object of our desire as outer, material results.
If we bring the spiritual Force, i.e. consecrated action into the equation,
then life moves to the causal plane, spiritual energies are added, and
things move at the speed of light, bringing about our heart's desire and
much more.
Process of Creation of the Universe
This is the same essential process by which the Divine created the
universe; i.e. by which Supermind manifest a universe of forms from out
of the Conscious Force. As described by Sri Aurobindo and Karmayogi it is
more or less as follows:
The ineffable, immutable, timeless, spaceless Brahman became the
Conscious Being (Sat) -- the Spirit, Truth. Being Conscious of Itself, the
Being released a powerful Force; a Conscious Force (Chit).
Supermind knew the Real Ideas that the Conscious Being (Sat) wished to
manifest in a universe of forms. Supermind through its dividing action
reconstituted the Conscious Force into Knowledge and Will. I.e.
Consciousness became Knowledge and Force became Will. (Knowledge
was the means by which a Mind could perceive Consciousness, and Will
was how a vital being of volition like we humans can express the Force.)
Out of Knowledge and Will, Supermind created the forms of force that it
intended through its Real Ideas.
E.g. Supermind intended to turn the the Real Idea of LOVE into a living
reality in the cosmos. It had the integral Knowledge of what Love is in its
various aspects, as well as the Will and Power for it to come about.
Though Its comprehending and apprehending power, Supermind turned
the Real Idea of Love into an object that a subject perceives. I.e. in
space and time Supermind splits the idea of Love into the form of Lover-
Loving-Beloved (subject-action/movement-object). Supermind has thus
organized the Real Idea of Love into the ability of a lover to love a
beloved. In this way all forms in the universe, can love, whether it means
loving our children, our mate, or any others we come in contact with.
Sub-aspects of Love take form as everything from human values like self-
givingness, goodwill, and gratitude to human infatuation and desire.
In the same way other Real Ideas, such as Delight, Creativity, Goodness,
Oneness, Wisdom, Truth, are manifest by supermind as forces and forms.
E.g. the Real Idea of "Truth/Knowledge" is formulated as Knower Knows
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the Knowledge through the action of the truth consciousness of
Supermind.
The process of creation then continues, as the Knowledge and Will further
breaks down, losing much of its consciousness, becoming an essential
Energy at rest. It then begins to move and formulate into constituent
elements -- plasma, fire, water, earth, etc. -- which become the basis for
material forms that manifest in the universe.
Thus, the process by which we create in life, as described earlier,
parallels this cosmic process by which the universe emerged from a
Divine Source.
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Evolution Specifics
The Triple Compulsion of Evolution
Normally we think of evolution as a material or scientific process. What is
perceptible to sense is considered the driving force of progress in the
universe. And yet we must consider other realms, forces, and powers of
consciousness beyond the material. From an analysis of Sri Aurobindo's'
great work 'The Life Divine," at least three movements can be observed
in the universal process of creation and evolution. There is a triple
compulsion driving forces and forms forward, including we humans,
toward progress, evolution, and transformation.
(1) First, there is an involved consciousness within that wants to come
out, compelling evolution of that entity. E.g. in the animated form, there
is hidden, deeply embedded within, a level of mentality seeking to
emerge. Likewise, life force seeks to emerge from matter; and spirit from
mentality. In other words, each planes contain the seed of all the planes
above it, and there is a compulsion to come out. It is the Divine plan
within all forms.
(2) Second, when the consciousness of that thing or being is saturated at
its current level, it rises to the next. E.g. a person who has had powerful
life experiences begins to develop a level of mental understanding of life.
Or when the mental person sees into the true nature of life, saturating his
understanding, he is compelled to explore the realms of the spirit. (When
mental Greece did not mature this way, her great civilization disappeared
in a few centuries.)
(3) Third, there is a constant descent from the higher planes into the
object. Thus, when an individual becomes more mental, there is a
descent of force and knowledge from the universal planes of Mind. Or
when a spiritual individual moves to his inner being and True Self, there
is a descent of knowledge through intuition and revelation. Or more
broadly, when Man emerged from the animal there was a descent of
mental consciousness from the universal plane of Mind.
Thus, the compulsion towards evolution is a product of the involutionary
seed, the evolutionary emergence of the form, and the descent from the
superconscient planes. These movements are described in great detail in
seer and sage Sri Aurobindo's spiritual opus, 'The Life Divine.'
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Naturally, this triple compulsion towards progress, evolution, and
transformation goes far beyond the material view of scientific, which
focuses on genes, mutations, and other changes in form as the essential
evolutionary determinants. Science looks to the measurable, the visible,
and the material to explain the process of creation. It does not perceive
the psychological processes of evolution, nor does it acknowledge that
the invisible is what compels the visible.
Material-oriented science tells us that mutations in genes causes animal
and human life to change. But they have it backwards, for it is changes in
consciousness that alter the physical. E.g. when we move to a higher
level of awareness, our physical bodies are effected, as there is a change
in molecules, enzymes; even our genetic and cellular makeup. When we
rise in consciousness, higher emotional, mental, and spiritual status
emerges, depending on our starting point. Even our physical bodies can
be transfigured this way. E.g. those of a higher consciousness have the
ability to live years if not decades longer. It can one day become a path
of willed immortality. The key there will be to bring to bear the power of
the Spiritual Force to transmute the programming in our cells that have
accepted suffering and death over thousands of generations.
Ascent and Integration in the Evolutionary Process
Normally when we think about evolution, we imagine a straight line of
progress. E.g. in the evolution of the cosmos first we perceive that there
was matter, which then evolved animated objects and life forms, and
further evolved a mental intelligence culminated in the mind of man.
Matter, animated life, and mentality seem to have developed in a linear
fashion, with each plane exceeding the previous one.
However, evolution does not merely follow a strict ascending path, but
rather allows for reintegration of any progress made back into the lesser
planes from which it came. E.g. society evolved from a physical state of
life in which people were focused on survival, evolved to vital state in
which we were able to have a greater degree fulfillment, human
interaction, and association, and evolved further still to a modern mental-
based existence based on rational thought, a preponderance of laws,
theories, ideals, and knowledge. On closer examination however we see
that this highest of mental stages, this rational approach to life, began
more 2000 than years ago in ancient Greece, and only in the periods that
followed was actually integrated into the day-to-day lives of society.
History reveals that the Romans took the rational thinking ideals of the
Greeks, and began to apply it throughout the civilizations it oversaw;
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using the power of rational and conceptual thought to develop law, rules,
and other forms to organize society. After the dormant Dark Ages, the
Renaissance appeared where conceptual ideas were applied to art,
creativity, beauty, and scientific progress. Rational thought and ideas
continued to spring forth through the various social movements that
followed, including the Reformation, the Enlightenment, the birth of
democracy, and others. Today too we continue this integration into of
rational thought and pure thinking into our practical lives that the Greeks
introduced to the world so very long ago. In this way, the 2000-year-old
ascent to a new level of consciousness and evolution through rational,
conceptual, and pure thinking of the Greeks, has taken until today to be
integrated throughout all elements of society. Thus, the vast ascent of an
evolutionary idea was followed by a vast descent of integration into the
details of life.
We see this same movement of ascent and integration (i.e. descent) in
our own lives when we consciously set upon to make personal progress.
First, we have a vision of what we want to become. This is the idea that
we want to realize and bring about. However, the idea gains power to
become a living reality only when it is integrated into the details of our
lives; i.e. when we develop the strategies and take actions to make that
vision come about. E.g. if I develop the idea that I want to increase my
income to $100,000 per year, I need to come up with several strategies
to make it come about -- such as developing new ways to increase my
customer base, and learning new skills to be a more effective
salesperson. Then I develop even more specific time-bound actions steps
to implement my strategies. When I carry these out the details with a
determined and persevering effort, bringing to bear positive attitudes, my
vision becomes a living reality. Again, the vision -- which like evolution in
society is itself a new progressive movement in my life -- is fulfilled when
it is integrated into the details of my life, enabling it to come true. At the
point that the integration of the idea is complete, the realization of the
goal -- in this case to earn $100,000 per year -- comes about. The ascent
that was my vision becomes a living reality through the descent of
integration of the details.
Progress is a never-ending possibility. It comes about through vision,
energy, capacity, and organization. But the process of progress -- and its
two more powerful siblings, evolution and transformation -- take place
through a double movement; of ascendance into the new, and a
descending movement that brings about its full integration into life.
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The Nature of the Universe
Here I would like to describe the nature of the universe in a variety of
ways, which I hope will add to our understanding of life's meaning and
purpose, including our role in it.
Energy (Plane of Life) and the Universe -- Life is a plane of Energy, which
surrounds the universe. Even if the physical universe were not there, this
plane of Energy would still exist. In addition, the universe itself is a
product of that energy. The Energy exists originally in a state of rest. Bu
then through a divine compulsion, it begins to move, creating forces and
forms out of itself, which becomes the visible and invisible contents of the
universe. All forms that emerge in the universe are formations of that
energy. When those forms cease to exist, such as when we die, the
energy remains and takes a new form.
Origins of the Plane of Energy -- Energy has its origins in the Infinite
consciousness. Energy is in fact the final movement of the Conscious
Force -- "Chit" in Sanskrit -- unfolding from out of the Infinite Divine.
Thus, the universe is a product of a Divine Intent, using the Force and
Energy of the Supreme for its clay and substance. What is created are
forces and forms, visible and invisible, of which matter is the most
obvious manifestation. Animated life, and mentality are further
formations.
Equilibrium, Rebalancing in Universe -- The universe exits in a state of
continuous equilibrium. When things change, the universe absorbs it and
rebalances itself, forming a new equilibrium. Thus, the universe can be
likened to the ocean, where if something is added or subtracted, whether
a swell or reduced flow, it is immediately incorporated into an integrative,
harmonious whole. In this scheme, relationships among forces, objects,
forms, circumstance are continually updated and being adjusted to
maintain the balance and harmony; this integral unity in the universe.
Oneness and the Cosmic Web -- All in the universe is interrelated and
interconnected. Each thing is related to every other, as well as the whole;
even its essence. There is a kind of cosmic web that encircle the universe
containing a myriad of strands. Each thread has its own unique
correspondences, connecting related elements, circumstances, etc a
profound integral relationship. Thus, if one element on the strand
changes, it affect other on that thread -- whether forces, energies,
circumstance, or forms, including we humans. In this way, if we make an
adjustment in consciousness, others elements are affected. More
proactively, if we know what a particular strand consists of, we can
elevate our consciousness in a corresponding area, consciously affecting
related elements. E.g. if we know that cancer has its roots in greed, we
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can overcome greed in ourselves, and watch as cancer recedes across the
earth as a major problem of life.
Life Response and the Universe -- Life response is the phenomenon
where sudden good fortune descends on an individual or collective due to
shifts in consciousness on our part. Life response can be explained in
terms of the equilibrium of energies of the universe. I.e. the universe is
in any moment in a state of equilibrium relative to local conditions. There
is then an elevation of consciousness on the part of an individual or
collective; e.g. due to a higher attitude, decision, or belief. Perceiving
that things are now in a state of disequilibrium, the universe seeks to
restore the balance. To do so, a fresh act is required. That occurs from
amongst elements along a corresponding thread(s) of the web of life.
E.g., as a result of my improved attitude, good fortune comes to me from
a particular individual or unique circumstance along that corresponding
thread. When the response comes, equilibrium is restored, though now at
a higher level. Keep in mind that the dynamic of equilibrium,
disequilibrium, new equilibrium occurs for positive, neutral, and negative
movements of consciousness on our part, leading to corresponding
quality of response. I.e. I can attract negative conditions through a
movement of lower consciousness.
Necessity of All in the Universe -- In life, we want certain things to occur
-- essentially left out of the universe -- and some kept in. But at the
highest level of consciousness, we perceive that every single thing is
needed for progress in the universe; for movements forward in life. Thus,
in life, and in the universe there is no waste. Everything serves a purpose
in the progressive movement forward. In that way, every single object
serves a purpose, whether positive or negative. For us that means
nothing should be discarded as irrelevant or unimportant, for the smallest
thing can determine the outcome of the largest; and the most negative
can be an avenue and opening to the most positive.
The Reality and the Universe -- There is a relationship between the
universe and the Reality that contains it. I.e. the omnipresent Reality
(Brahman, The Absolute) is the highest conception of existence afforded
to Man. It expresses in all planes unmanifest and manifest. The Reality
begins as unmanifest Infinite consciousness, and then extends itself to a
universe of forces and forms. Thus, we could say that the universe is the
body of the Reality: a manifestation of the unmanifest. The Reality has
then become both the Unmanifest and the Manifest; the Creator and the
Creation. It is actually more than their sum, but their unity and integral
relationship. Also, being a form of the Reality in creation, we inherit the
infinite consciousness of the Divine Source. In essence, life and we are
God incarnate.
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Evolution and the Universe -- Evolution is constantly occurring in the
universe. There is a constant upward compulsion to the highest formation
possible of any form, including us. When the form reaches its highest
state, it evolves another form. Evolution in the universe is occurring at
the physical, vital (life plane) and mental levels. Animals emerged from
plant and chemical; humans from animals; and higher mental, heart, and
spiritual beings from lower consciousness individuals. Thus, we humans
are the main instrument for evolution in the universe. There is a divine
compulsion for change, progress, evolution, and transformation in the
universe coming from a Higher Source. There is also something within us
-- an embedded divine, an evolving soul, a hidden Conscious-Force --
that also has this urge for ever-higher development of our being.
The Individual, Universal, and Transcendent -- There is a relationship
between us as individuals, the universe, and the transcendent. It can be
explained this way: There is an Infinite consciousness with a
transcendent status, with its spiritual qualities and divine Intent. We exist
in the universe to fulfill its destiny to carry out and manifest the
Transcendent Will. How do we do this? We fulfill the universal intent when
we rise in consciousness; enabling the universal to fulfill its transcendent
purpose. Thus, by discovering our highest nature, we become
instruments of the will and Intent of the Infinite consciousness. In that
way our destiny is not only to become fulfilled true Individuals, but
universal, and transcendent beings.
Free Will and Determination -- In this scheme, we have free will to
choose as we wish. And yet there is a compulsion and will of the Infinite
consciousness for progress, evolution, and transformation in creation. I.e.
there is a transcendent aspiration for the universe to increasingly
manifest peace, oneness, wisdom, creativity, possibility, love, beauty,
and delight. These are the cosmic determinants. And yet we are given full
freedom to participate in this cosmic unfolding. It is our choice. Thus, we
can say we have free will within the determination of the Infinite divine.
Moreover, we collaborate with that cosmic intent by increasingly
discovering our higher nature and bringing it to the world. This freedom
and choice, this cosmic determinism is true for all things, seen and
unseen, in the universe.
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Form and Energy
We observe the forms of life around us and wonder where their origin and
source of power lies. It comes from energy. Moreover, there is a
fascinating relationship between the forms and the energy behind it.
Energy is the source and basis of all forms, whether physical forms of
rocks or humans, or mental forms such as concepts and ideas. Forms
however tend to break down. However, the energy behind them does not
go away. Rather it formulates into new forms. For example, when a form
of government, such as monarchy, breaks down, the energy behind it
does not wither, but reformulates itself into a new form, such as
democracy.
When things die -- whether anachronistic forms of social influence like
aristocracy, or the physical human body -- that form is unable to hold its
energy. It thus seeks corresponding new forms to inhabit, such as a new
social order or a new form of life; even a new human body. In the 1960s
the global Hippy movement was born in the San Francisco area. It
sparkled like a comet across the sky changing the world, and just as
suddenly died out. But then the energy behind morphed a new form with
the rise of Silicon Valley, the personal computer, the Internet, and the
Smartphone, all in that very same area. Their influence is untold,
approaching infinity.
Sri Aurobindo in his metaphysical opus 'The Life Divine' tells us that
energy is the source of all things, all life seen and unseen in the universe.
He says that there is a constant, dynamic energy in the cosmos that
takes subtle or gross form -- whether a physical body or object, a plant
or animal, or an idea or insight. This common energy flowing subtly and
invisibly through the universe has as its source a spiritual Conscious-
Force of the one Infinite Consciousness.
Though we are a product of that universal force, energy is not a static
entity. For example, we humans can increase it at any time -- whether it
is physical, vital/emotional, mental, or spiritual energy. Increasing any of
these will give us not only a greater power to accomplish, but a greater
zest for life. If this is so, then what can we do to increase our energy?
There are a number of practical approaches.
One is to increase our level of aspiration in life. The more intense our
aspiration to achieve a goal, the more our will is engaged, and thus the
greater energy released. Another way to maintain and build our energies
is to maintain a positive attitude. Whereas negative attitudes tend or
deplete our energies, even evoking instances of sudden ill fortune,
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positive ones -- whether towards others, one's self, one's work, or life --
tend to have the opposite effect.
Thus, the more we increase our energy, the more likely the forms that
relate to our being will maintain themselves and avoid breaking down. If
we lose physical, vital, or mental energy, those corresponding forms tend
to whither. E.g. out body decays, our will depletes, and our
understanding diminishes.
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PART 7: COSMIC DETERMINATION
Cosmic Determinants in Life
Expressions of Comic Determinates/Values in Life
The cosmic determinants of the Infinite Divine express through spiritual
values -- including peace, harmony, knowledge, truth, goodness,
creativity, love, and delight -- in limitless combinations in space and
time; in endless events and circumstance; in never-ending types of
people; through their ceaseless interactions; through boundless
combinations of aspects of our being, including our changing nature; all
for the Infinite's play of Delight to manifest Itself in infinite variation of
forms.
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In the case of Goodness, it is the determinant of Truth interacting with
the Chit (Consciousness) that creates it.
Perfection of Spiritual Qualities in Creation
To perfect every possibility -- of which there are an infinite number set in
motion by an Infinite consciousness -- is the goal of Creation. It does so
through the application of spiritual values, including Silence, Peace,
Oneness, Truth, Knowledge, Goodness, Beauty, Love, and Delight. We
fulfill the Supreme's aspiration to perfect every possibility by realizing
these cosmic determinates in our own lives, and applying them to every
matter, from the largest down to the infinitesimal.
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Fulfilling the Cosmic Determinates, Spiritual Aspects in Life
Sri Aurobindo in 'The Life Divine' indicates that out of Sat-Chit -Ananda
(pure Existence, Conscious Force, Delight) came the universe we live in.
Also "cosmic determinates" emanated from It that It seek to manifest in
the world through the details of life. Among the central ones are Silence,
Oneness, Truth, Knowledge, Goodness, Power, Beauty, Love, Delight,
Eternity and Infinity. As the world evolves, indeed as we as individuals
evolve, we progressively experience each of these spiritual qualities. By
experiencing these qualities, we are also bringing them further into the
world - for ourselves and others - thereby fulfilling the Divine Intent for
their manifestation in Life.
Spiritual Determinate/Values and their Subset Human Values
Mind perceives the cosmic determinates that emanate from the Divine as
Spiritual Values. Silence, Peace, Harmony, Truth, Knowledge, Goodness,
Beauty, Love, Joy, Timelessness, and Infinity are among them. They are
what the Divine seeks to manifest in creation. Below that are a hundred
key human values, such as openness, freedom, collaboration, honesty,
creativity, perfection, simplicity, reliability, justice, organization, and
dozens of others. When we apply a value, we are actually employing a
spiritual skill, reflecting one or more cosmic determinates of the divine
Reality, fulfilling Its intent in creation.
Expressions of Comic Determinates/Values in Life
The cosmic determinants of the Infinite Divine express through spiritual
values -- including peace, harmony, knowledge, truth, goodness,
creativity, love, and delight -- in limitless combinations in space and
time; in endless events and circumstance; in never-ending types of
people; through their ceaseless interactions; through boundless
combinations of aspects of our being, including our changing nature; all
for the Infinite's play of Delight to manifest Itself in infinite variation of
forms.
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Cosmic Determinates, Their Reversal in Us, the Involution,
Our Combination of Determinates, Diversity, and Infinity
Since the Absolute is Infinite, it must be capable of an infinite number
and variety of determining vibrations. The Absolute objectifies itself as
Sachchidananda, (Existence, Consciousness, Bliss), from which all
creation is derived. That Existence (Sat) reveals itself to the evolving soul
as Atman (Self), Purusha (Conscious Being), Iswara (the Divine or God).
Consciousness (Chit) extends itself as Knowledge and Will. Bliss (Ananda)
expresses itself as Beauty, Love and Joy. Other essential powers and
attributes of the Spirit include Silence, Peace, Infinity, Eternity, Freedom,
Truth, and Goodness. He calls these the fundamental spiritual
determinations of the Infinite. Each of these has the capacity to combine
with any of the others to form new determinates, which can in turn
combine with one another and with the fundamental determinates to
create other determinates. Jane manifests Goodness, which is formed by
uniting Knowledge and Truth; while Elizabeth manifests goodwill for her
sister, which is formed by uniting Goodness with Will. Furthermore, each
of these determinates can also differentiate itself as subject, object and
experience (as knower, object of knowledge, and act of knowing; as
lover, beloved and act of love; etc.). Each of these combinations of
determinates represents a unique vibration of Being, a potentiality of the
Infinite Absolute, which seeks to manifest itself for the sheer delight of
existence. Darcy as the Lover beholds the Beauty of Elizabeth's fine eyes,
finds Love welling up within him, and feels the ecstatic Joy when his
Beloved accepts his second proposal. In this manner, the Infinite can
formulate an infinite number of possible combinations of determinates
seeking to manifest themselves in infinite Space and Eternal Time.
... The negative attributes we experience are limitations and distortions of
the spiritual determinates created by self-absorption of Divine
Consciousness through Involution by the action of dividing Mind. This
involution creates Ignorance and Ego, which are mechanisms for
distorting the appearance of the spiritual determinates so they appear as
their opposites.
... Through this projection of spiritual determinants and their distortion by
Ignorance and Ego, the Absolute is able to manifest a universe of create
diversity.
... Each form, each being or soul represents a unique combination of
determinates, a unique vibration of the Infinite Being.
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... For each soul is in fact a microcosm of unique vibrations in
combination.
... All these elements that add to the complexity of personality add to the
capacity of the Absolute to manifest infinity.
... Furthermore, each of these souls has the capacity to relate, interact
and creatively combine in experience with every other unique soul,
creating an infinite combination of influences and relationship.
... Space and Time add additional dimensions of complexity and
uniqueness. Each point in space and each moment in time is an
infinitesimal drop in the infinite and eternal ocean of the Absolute's self-
experience. Each point in boundless universal Space is unique and each
of these possibilities can occur at any, many or every different point in
space, once or any number of times in any sequence. Each moment in
Eternal Time is also unique and each of these possibilities can occur at
any, many or every different moment of time or any number of times in
any order.
... So too, each soul is capable of an inner self-experience of the various
aspects of its own being - ideas, thoughts, feelings, sensations, and
movements as well as spiritual experiences.
... Moreover, each individual is evolving in time from ignorance to
knowledge or knowledge to greater knowledge, so that we are never the
same from one moment to the next.
... And their world too is evolving.
... Space and Time form the field or playground for this infinite, never
ending quest for the delight of self-manifestation. The interaction of each
unique evolving soul with itself, other souls, each moment, act and event,
with the evolving world of forms and forces in which it lives and with the
Transcendent Eternal from one unique, infinitesimal moment to another,
from one infinitesimal point to another, through myriad infinitesimal acts
in boundless Space and Eternal Time is lila.
Collaborating with the Determinates of Evolution, the Force
There are fundamental aspects and attributes of the Spirit that are trying
to be realized in life. They are the determinates of all human existence,
including our own lives. Those who identify and then consciously choose
to collaborate with those spiritual aspects will ride the tide of progress
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and evolution forward. Those who swim against it will be drowned by the
Force of progress.
Example: In Pride and Prejudice there is a force that is trying to create
collaboration between the middle and upper class. Rather than have
violent revolution as in nearby France, England took a quieter, more
harmonious tact. All those who participated in it, like Eliza, Darcy, the
Bennet family, greatly benefitted with it. Those who opposed the union of
the two classes, like the effete aristocrat Lady Catherine were washed
away by the tide of history.
There is thus a Force of movement forward. It contains one or more of
the cosmic determinates, such as equality, freedom, peace, silence,
harmony, light, truth, creativity, beauty, love, delight, etc. These forces
are there in the Supreme Consciousness and moved out as waves in
creation, moving in infinite directions as needed in the evolution. Those in
touch with these waves, with that Force will be successful. Those who
oppose will be washed away by the tide of history.
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Divine Intention, Determination
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Behind the physical/material cause is the psychological, and behind that
is the evolutionary, with the Spirit (self within and transcendent beyond)
being life's ultimate determinate.
Aligning Ourselves with the Cosmic Intention
At any moment, there is a higher, Divine intention at work. It is flowing
from that transcendent reality to the universal plane and on through us at
the individual level. It flows in endless forms, factors, and variations. It
has the potential to realize itself through our inner and outer actions,
provided we are aware of and open to it.
The problem is that we are normally focused on what our limited self and
ego dictates, than any urge to fulfill the higher intent of an Infinite
consciousness. However, if we align with that cosmic aspiration, force,
and unfolding, we can bring staggering positive result to the world, while
accomplishing in ways we would never have imagined.
The Bhagavad Gita indicates that a person interested in a spirit-oriented
existence should do one's work as service, not to aggrandize one's ego
and exclusively for personal gain. At a deeper level still, Krishna indicates
that one can surrender and become an instrument for the Divine intent.
Sri Aurobindo goes further still and describes the nature of that cosmic
aspiration. He indicates that there are Real Ideas originating in and
flowing from an infinite, conscious Being, which aspires for their
realization in the cosmos. Moreover, the individual human has the
capacity at any moment to open to and latch onto these inner and outer
movements, and be an instrument for their realization in life.
How then can we partake in this cosmic process in a practical way? At
various point, we can pause to consider where we are going, and ask
ourselves this question: Are we doing what the universe seems to be
indicating for us, or are we caught up in selfish motives and desires. If we
know what that Higher Purpose is, then we are well on our way to
becoming an instruments of Its cosmic Intent, while living an
unprecedented, marvelous, spirit-oriented practical existence. If we don't
have that direct connection, we can offer up a powerful prayer such as,
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"Oh Divine spirit, let Your will be done in my life." Then when we carry
out our work, that higher power will guide us in the right direction each
step of the way.
Whichever approach you take, life will unfold like a Marvel. As a result,
not only will you be able to fulfill your deepest aspirations, not only will
you constantly grow as a person, not only will you be an instrument for
evolutionary change, but you will have brought a portion of the
Transcendent Will into being in the world.
From Chaos Theory to the Interconnectedness of Life to the Infinite Power of One Individual to Change the World
"...Chaos theory is a misnomer. What the scientist sees as a dynamic
nonlinear system is only a result whose cause remains unknown. It may
well appear like chaos to us, but that is only because we have not
discovered the real determinants. We live in the gross physical whereas
all power of determination lies in the subtle and causal planes. Tiny
movements can have immense consequences, because everything is
linked to everything else, everything is connected, everything that occurs
on the surface of life is an expression of an underlying unity.
What do we know of real causes beneath that surface? History only tells
us entertaining stories. Grand consequences emanate from apparently
insignificant events. An apparently chance meeting, a book falling off a
shelf can change our life. A single individual can change the course of
human events. A yogi sitting in a Himalayan cave dreamed of freedom
and the French Revolution was born. One individual has the power to
change everything because each individual represents the whole of
humanity, is one with the whole of humanity, is the whole of humanity in
inner consciousness. Our arrogance is born of ignorance. A child, it is
said, could topple the whole edifice of the modern world. If so, then a
child with Knowledge can also transform it..."
(From, 'The Book', page 526, by Garry Jacobs)
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Mother Is Determinant for Devotees
For followers, devotees of the Mother, She is determining the Big Picture
for us. All we need to do is be aware of what that is, and follow.
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The Individual, Universal, Transcendent
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Chance, Necessity, Fate, Destiny
Continuous Change, Evolution of Consciousness is Character of Life
"...According to Newton‘s Third Law of Motion, for every action or force in
material nature there is an equal and opposite reaction or opposing force.
According to The Book, there is a corresponding law of life but with one
difference.
The character of the physical plane is unchanging equilibrium or balance.
The character of life is continuous change leading to an evolution of
consciousness..."
(From 'The Book' by Garry Jacobs, page 476)
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Change, Randomness, Unpredictability
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PART 8: PROBLEMS IN LIFE
Human Aspiration and Limitations
Fulfilling the Human Aspiration
Sri Aurobindo in the first chapter of The Life Divine says that we are
unable to fulfill the Human Aspiration for Light, Love, Joy, and
Immortality because our nature is divided, which expresses through an
inability to perceive the true nature of Reality. We don't know who we
truly are, and what existence truly is. It is our Ignorance born of creation.
If however, we develop a higher consciousness, we overcome that
division, see existence for what it really is, in all its variety and
integration and oneness, and are therefore able to fulfill our Human
Aspiration for Light, Love, Joy, and Immortality.
Overcoming Our Divided Nature
Sri Aurobindo recognizes the essential divided nature of man. He lives in
his ego, in ignorance, in time, in limitation, finite, and suffers from
disease and death. Integral Yoga is the conscious method of overcoming
Man's limited nature and arriving at his spiritual and supramental Nature.
(Sri Karmayogi)
‘The Life Divine’ By Sri Aurobindo
The Life Divine is Sri Aurobindo's major philosophical opus. It combines a
synthesis of western thought and eastern spirituality with Sri Aurobindo's
own original insights. The Life Divine covers topics such as the human
aspiration, why it remains unfulfilled, the individual's divided nature, the
nature of the divine reality, how the universe emerged from a divine
source (aka Involution), the role of Supermind in the
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creation/involutionary process, the nature and methods of evolution from
matter to spirit, the means of overcoming our divided nature through
higher consciousness, the nature and boundaries of human ignorance,
the transformation from our divided nature into a supernature, and the
emergence of a gnostic supramental being and a divine life on earth.
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Problems of Life
The Three Problems of Life
The first problem of life is that man is aware only of the surface of life,
not his inner being and true Self. The second problem of life is that he is
disconnected from the universal, and therefore from others. The third
problem of life is that the body, the vital, and mind are not in harmony
with each other, nor with its self. When man becomes conscious he
becomes more aware of the discords and creates this harmony.
(Paraphrase of Sri Aurobindo)
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PART 9: HUMAN CHARACTER AND MAKEUP
Human Character
The Role of Human Character
It has recently been suggested that William Shakespeare was the first
writer (at least in the Western world) to chronicle human character.
Thorough extraordinary comedies, tragedies, histories, and poems he
delved into the inner character of the individual, and showed how that
character was inextricably linked with the circumstances and outcomes of
events and circumstances around them.
Let's consider for a moment why some of his characters end in tragedy.
This will help us understand our own limitations of character that set the
stage for our own little tragedies.
In Hamlet, we witness the tragedy of one man's indecisiveness. Though
Hamlet, the protagonist, knows the cause of murder of his father, he is
unable to bring himself to take action against the wrong doers. This leads
to a series of events that leads to his eventual death. His indecisiveness
was the source of his tragedy. Can we see in our own lives or in someone
we know this or a related quality?
In King Lear, the king bequeaths his fortune to his three daughters.
However, the daughter he loves the most refuses to accept his offer. Lear
becomes pained, anguished, and eventually dies of madness. His tragedy
is one of excessive human attachment, in this case to the one daughter
who has spurned his overtures. Unbridled human attachment (it
manifests in many ways) is one of the fundamental causes of suffering in
life.
In Othello Desdemona, Othello's mate, does not have the emotional
strength to break from Othello who desires her even though she does not
feel the same way towards him. Her capitulation to Othello on this issue
eventually leads to her own death. As a reader of the play we have a
hard time believing that someone so good as Desdemona should end this
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way, but her tragedy was in one sense her own doing, caused by her
weakness and lack of strength.
Shakespeare documented the causes of tragedy in many of his plays. He
chronicled the effect that an individual's character had in one's life, and
portrayed how a great character flaw was the cause of the individual's
undoing.
There are so many corresponding points in our character that lead to our
small or large tragedies. Whether it be indecisiveness (Hamlet), over-
attachment to a sibling (Lear), unbridled vital desire for another (Romeo
and Juliet), or weakness (Desdemona's in Othello), Shakespeare reveals
many, if not all, of the major character flaws in human beings. Even
qualities we consider "good" in our culture (Romeo and Juliet's intense
affection, Desdemona's quiet deference) are the very things that lead to
their downfall.
What is Human Character?
The individual brings his capacities (i.e. character) to the game of life.
The more developed the character the more likely a positive outcome will
result. Weaknesses in character will bring about negative results or even
tragedy as Shakespeare has documented. But what actually is character,
and what does it consist of?
Character can be measured as the quantity and quality of a person's
energies, skills, knowledge, attitudes, values, and aspirations, among
others. Individuals of course vary greatly in their character. By
developing these capacities gives us great advantage in the game of life,
making it far more likely that we will witness positive circumstances and
outcomes in our lives. This does not mean we will not suffer in life, for
after all even those of exemplary character have weaknesses that lead to
problems in life, but the likelihood of positive outcomes, including the
ability to accomplish at a higher level, are more likely.
The Subtle Influences and Powers of Life
Aside from factors such as the role of human character, the role of
positive and negative, and the social forces that come into play in the
game of life, there are a number of hard to fathom forces that defy all
mental logic and comprehension. A number of these, such as "Life
Response" also play a large role in the character and outcomes of life. (As
we have learned, it seems that changes in our inner perceptions and
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outer actions have an almost magical ability to attract positive results
from seemingly out of nowhere.) There are other types of patterns,
cycles, and repetitions in life that we cannot fathom form our ordinary
perceptions of life that are also at play in the game of life. To understand
these types of forces will help us better understand the nature and
character of life.
Take for instance the situation where one individual appears in a scene in
a Shakespeare play, and then another appears in that scene at the same
time. Our normal reaction is to just watch the scene unfold, and not
make anything of the fact that they both appeared on the scene at the
same time. There is obvious no relationship between the two
occurrences; they simply seem to be happing at the same time, that's all.
At most, we might think that it is mere coincidence and nothing more.
However, on closer examination we start to uncover patterns that
suggest that incidences like this are not random, but are part of a pattern
that is beyond our normal perceptions. These are the hidden, yet
astounding patterns of life that defy our awareness, yet may prove to be
the ultimate determinant of accomplishment in life.
"The pattern of interaction between character, action, and the results of
action reveals the importance of a crucial indeterminant which is
variously called providence, chance, fate, etc. What appears as chance
at the level of physical action is an expression of another dimension of
causality in the plane of life. Shakespeare possessed an intuitive insight
into this realm and into the role of individual character and social
consciousness as points of expression of the wider character of life."
(MSS)
These types of occurrences are going on in Shakespeare's plays and they
are going on in our daily lives, yet we are oblivious to them, let alone not
conscious of any pattern in their occurrences. Yet our research indicates
that these occurrences do in fact have patterns behind them, and that
the patterns indicate a subtle and complex working of life that reflect on
the actions, perceptions, attitudes, energies, environment of the
individuals and social environment that are involved.
Let's talk about one phenomenon we have uncovered, called "life
response." A life response is an instantaneous positive
response/occurrence in life to an act that an individual takes. Here's an
example:
An instructor had not been contacted for new work for weeks, and
was in desperate straits. He decided to apply the idea of cleanliness.
His apartment was normally quite clean, but he wanted to take
cleanliness a step further. He decided to clean his refrigerator,
something he was reluctant to do. At the exact moment he finished
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putting things back into the refrigerator after cleaning, he heard a
message on his answering machine from his training company
offering him new work. The response from life was instantaneous!
Though this is an example of how life responds to an initiative of
improving the cleanliness or orderliness of something one can also elicit a
life response in a number of ways -- by inwardly overcoming a negative
attitude, by overcoming one's hesitation to do something important, by
acknowledging a defect or making an effort to understand a weakness,
and in many other ways. In each case, life seems to trigger something
positive for us, and often very fast. This process of life is defies all logic,
yet is an aspect of life that occurs all of the time.
We have seen many other hidden patterns of life. For example, we have
often seen how certain acts seem to repeat at certain intervals, revealing
a hidden meaning that is reflecting on whether accomplishment is
occurring. Or we have seen signs of how people are related in a situation
just from how they appear simultaneously in a situation. To the surface
mind, there is absolutely no meaning to this, but on closer examination,
they give us clues of a pattern of the workings of life.
Summary
By observing and understanding the Character of Life, whether in
literature or in the actual world we live in, we gain a knowledge that if
applied to ourselves can help us lead a life of unending and ever-
increasing happiness and success. If we learn to build up our own
capacities, understand the social forces at play, and understand the
hidden forces that act within us and outside us, we will be better
prepared to take life by the horns, and rise to the heights of
achievement, success, and happiness.
Things to Think About
-The next time you watch a serious TV program, movie, or read a book,
understand what is the flaw in the person's character. If appropriate, also
understand how the individual changed their character (by changing an
attitude, opinion, habit, action), and how that lead to positive
circumstance.
-Consider a conflict in your own life now or in the past. Note how the
negative circumstance or people served a purpose (i.e. the involution) in
the eventual outcome (i.e. the evolution) of the conflict.
-Think about a few things in your life where great suffering was actually a
first link in a chain of a new awareness, improvement, or success.
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-Take any conflict that is occurring now, and examine your own
character, and try to make an improvement from among your level of
knowledge, skills, attitudes, habits, opinions, personal values,
aspirations, direction, will, desires, ego, and so forth.
-How can you avoid going through the same conflicts in the future you
have experienced in the past. In what ways do you need to change your
attitudes, habits, opinions, desires, activities, etc to avoid the repetition
in the future?
-What are some commonly accepted "good" things you are doing now
that actually may not be good.
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Scale of Human Character, Personality
Scale of Human Character
Darcy in Pride and Prejudice has a formed Character and thus his ego is
developed, which is then destroyed in pursuit of winning over the woman
he loves. Eliza's consciousness is at a higher level; at the beginning levels
of Personality, where she takes her cues from within, not the herd, and
thus expresses an exceptional degree of individuality.
Thus, the scale of Depth -- from outer to inner -- is from Manners to
Behavior to Character to Personality to True Spiritual Individuality.
Manners to Behavior to Character to Personality to True
Individuality
Sri Aurobindo indicates there are 5 levels of being for the person. One
who acts merely to mimic the MANNERS of others. One who behaves and
acts through his or her own compulsion, yet without a distinct and
recognizable character or nature (BEHAVIOR). One who has a readily
identifiable and formed CHARACTER and nature, as that person has a
special uniqueness other people can perceive. One who is a
PERSONALITY, who has unique character, but also an innate ability to
transcend his nature and do things special in the world. Personality exists
mostly as potential; not really fully formed. And then there is TRUE
INDIVIDUALITY, who is one that has cast off all of the norms of society,
enabling him to succeed in any domain through the power of his own
unique insights and gifts. He is also capable of connecting to his Soul
within that sends further signals of individuality into his being for unique
living and accomplishment. So the continuum of depth of being of people
is Manners - Behavior - Character - Personality - True Individuality. Most
humans are somewhere between Manners and Character. Very few are a
Personality, developed or otherwise. And True Individuality is extremely
rare.
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Power of Character One Can Shift To
Character is in the depths, swabhava. Whatever you are in your
character, life rewards accordingly. What a man of good manners
accomplishes in a lifetime, a man of character accomplishes in the
beginning of his career. One who wants to receive the rewards of life at
the end of his career, can shift his work from good manners to good
character. (Sri Karmayogi)
Human Personality, Individuality, and Accomplishment
The question of development of Human Personality and its role of human
accomplishment is one of Sri Karmayogi's great themes. And that was
actually first described in detail by Sri Aurobindo in certain chapters of
The Life Divine.
The five levels of personality are just mimicking others (Manners),
Behavior (just unconscious self-movement and expression, like Lydia in
Pride and Prejudice), Character (that which makes a person seem unique,
instead of like others), Personality (highly developed character and
individuality like Steve Jobs or Winston Churchill, who can have a big
impact society) and Spiritual Individuality (who change the world from
within through their soul connection; their ultimate self. They are
ultimate individuals).
All told is a movement from non-individuality to complete individuality.
Also the more one moves up the scale, the more one accomplishes. Darcy
who had Character changed his nature and moved to the edges of
Personality (the 4th stage) releasing great accomplishment in his being
(in the form of marriage with Lydia).
The scale is Manners > Behavior > Character > Personality > Spiritual
Individuality (Soul of Personality). It is from non-individuality to ultimate
individuality, enabling ultimate achievement.
Westerner vs Indian
Sri Karmayogi says the Westerner is quite developed in Character and
Personality, while the Indian is very dull there. On the other hand, he
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indicates that Light is there in the body of the Indian, while there is
darkness in the body of the Westerner.
Notes:
By Character he means an identifiable, definitive, formed human nature.
A kind of distinctness of being. By Personality he means a more
developed character, with a truer sense of Individuality.
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The spiritual experiences of the ancient Rishis and such is inherited by
Indians through their bodies. Thus there is Light there. Westerners have
no such spiritual inheritance; only surface, material, scientific,
technological, mental qualities. Thus an acute absence of Light; a
Darkness.
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The Light of Indians coming to the surface through a developed Character
and individuality (Personality) will be an enormous growth of being,
enabling them to lead the world forward.
Through their ascent out of poverty to prosperity Indians can come out of
their dullness, rising in character and individuality, blending these
characteristics, and thereby become a Shining Light, leading the world
forward.
Pride and Prejudice Character Lessons for Sales
Improvement
Each Pride and Prejudice character can teach us something about selling:
-Wickham - A deceiver. So don't be deceiving. It comes back to haunt
you.
-Darcy - Don't be proud, and accept the smallest sale with happiness and
gratitude. Otherwise Life will return the favor negatively.
-Bingley and Jane - always have a positive, cheerful attitude. It's a
winning strategy that always attracts success
-Mr. Collins - Avoid braggadocio and ass-kissing. It will not serve you
well.
-Mrs. Bennet - Stop whining, complaining, and condemning. You will look
foolish at every step of the way.
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-Mr. Bennet - Don't be cynical, sarcastic about others as he was toward
his children, which came back to haunt him, when one of them ran away
and eloped.
-Eliza Bennet - Be intelligent, forward-thinking, affectionate towards
those close to you. Thus know your product and market perfectly. Be
creative. Care for those around you.
-Lady Catherine - Don't be condescending to anyone. You might lose the
chance for your biggest sale because you acted stuck-up and superior to
someone.
Human Character – Miscellaneous
--An indicator of an open, flexible character is a willingness to change, to
shift direction based on requests of others or similar life conditions.
--When we read what the characters have gone through in a story or in a
film, we are subconsciously reading the process of our own awakening,
our own self-discovery. (MSS)
--Mother could perceive the character of any person just by looking at a
photo. Her consciousness is so wide and deep that She could perceive
any and all vibrations in their proper proportion. We too can develop that
cosmic relational capacity by building an inner life.
--In a given work, project, competition, etc., building up personal
Character is more important than immediate success.
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Changing Our Nature
Mr. Darcy’s 180 Degree Change
Those who are dedicated to personal growth develop an aspiration to
bring about significant change in their lives. That is one level of progress.
There is an even greater one. Those who commit themselves to personal
evolution and transformation have accepted the possibility of reversing
their nature 180 degrees from its current status. It is such a stupendous
undertaking -- it may even seem impossible to the uninitiated -- that it
can only occur by connecting with and making use of the spiritual powers
of life. In fact, developing a spirit-based super-Nature is that individual’s
ultimate purpose and goal in life.
As a result of this staggering commitment, that person may change a
dozen plus major character flaws; uplift and perfect all aspect of his
physical, vital, psychological, and mental being; overcome a number of
fixed habits that drag on him; shed wanting attitudes that demean him,
and give up false opinions that limit him -- infusing all parts of his being,
and every activity he engages with the Spirit. In the end, that individual
comes to surrender his very life and purpose to the Divine Will and
Intent. It is a stupendous effort for which he will be rewarded with
ultimate pleasure, bliss, and delight (i.e. “Ananda” in the East); an
astonishing power over every aspect of life; and the peace and serenity
of Eternity.
Against this experiment in transformative living is the life of the normal
modern-day individual. If we examine his life, we will see that if he
changes but one single fixed habit or one virulent attitude, it is
considered a significant achievement. In one sense, it is quite significant.
And yet, it still isn’t 1/100th, or even 1/1000th of what the transformed
individual will come to realize in the course of his life. Such are the low
expectations we have for people to change.
And yet, on occasion there are individuals who make a significant inner
change that far surpass the norm. For example, when we examine the
literature and films of the world, we often see how the plot turns at the
point where a person overcomes a critical limiting personal quality -- such
as a wanting attitude, or a falsely held belief. As a result, life not only
changes for the better for that person, but others are deeply affected as
well. That transition and change in that individual’s life invariably attract
instances of sudden good fortune, bringing the story to a happy and
satisfying resolution. It is a mini-episode, instance of human progress.
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Perhaps one reason such works kindle our interest is that we
subconsciously perceive the need to make related changes in our own
lives. Unfortunately, we are not prone to take up that challenge, mainly
because (1) we are not conscious of our defects, and (2) we are in the
habit of enjoying who we are.
In Jane Austin’s Pride and Prejudice, we see a dramatic exception to this
rule in the person of Mr. Darcy. At first arrogant and filled with pride, by
the end of the story he overcomes his limitations of character in full. It is
an astonishing and rare change for any individual! As a result, life
responds with overwhelming good fortune, as he wins over the woman he
loves -- Miss Eliza Bennet. We see how life’s circumstances dovetail with
his efforts. Through a conscious decision to change an egregious part of
his nature, he attracts the right circumstances that afford him an
opportunity to save Eliza’s family from scandal. As a result, he is able to
show her his true, noble character, which in the end wins her over,
culminating in their happy marriage. Actually, it leads to much more, as
their marriage forges a powerful new alliance between the aristocracy
and the gentleman-farmer classes of rural England; where earlier they
were in an indifferent, if not contentious relationship. In other words,
Darcy’s inner-psychological adjustment is so substantial that life not only
responds and uplifts his own personal fortunes, but also those of the
wider society around him.
Darcy’s formidable change is a distant echo of the ultimate
transformative changes made by those who take to conscious evolution --
i.e. yoga. In one sense, both reverse themselves 180 degrees. The
difference is that those who take to personal transformation will attempt
to change every part of their nature -- physical, vital, mental, and
spiritual, whereas Darcy only seeks to overcome but one or two major
character flaws. And yet, what Darcy has achieved is still formidable,
especially for one who is essentially a non-seeker.
His overpowering internal change is also something that we can try to
emulate in our own lives. If Darcy can make such a great internal
adjustment and attract stupendous rewards from life, then we can at
least try to overcome one or two limitations in our own character. It is
the minimum that life asks of us. Anything less and we could say that we
are merely taking up space.
As a result of making that relatively modest effort, life will respond out of
all proportion, and we will attract our hearts desire -- whether through
the sudden blossoming of our career, or through a kindled romance (as
was in the case with Darcy), or through some other area of our life that
Nature deems worth uplifting.
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The question then is whether we are sincerely interested in such change,
and if so, what part of being needs changing. If we take up that effort to
change, life will certainly respond. Darcy took to overcoming wanting
aspects of his character and attracted the woman of his dreams, and
influenced the course of that society’s development. The modern, integral
yogi seeks to change every part of his nature so he can attain a super-
nature -- becoming a harbinger of a new, spirit-oriented way of living.
What wanting qualities do we seek to change in ourselves, and what level
of effort will we undertake to make that happen?
Life Tests Sincerity of One's Change in Consciousness
Life affords us endless opportunities to change; to overcome our
limitations and raise our consciousness. If we make that transition to the
positive, life will reward us with good fortune. Sometimes, however, life
'rewards us' by challenging us further, to test us to see if we are serious
about our change of view.
For example, in Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice one of the two main
characters Mr. Darcy made the inner commitment to change his haughty
and arrogant attitude towards others. He did so in large part out of his
love for Eliza. As a result, quickly thereafter, life responded with an
overwhelming challenge for Darcy, when he was required to apply his
newly acquired higher attitude to resolving the famous elopement
incident in the story. He rose to the challenge by taking responsibility for
the difficult event (a sign of his newly formed attitudes), even when the
situation was not directly his fault. He was rewarded for that effort when
he soon discovered that Eliza loved him, leading to his (second) proposal
of marriage, which she accepted, providing the greatest fulfillment of his
life.
The moral of the story is that when you decide to make a positive
change, life will often challenge you to prove that you are really sincere.
Another way to put it is that life responds this way in order to give one
the opportunity to hone your skill in deploying that higher attitude or
belief. Yet another way to look at it is that life is asking you to move from
one's mental acceptance of new attitude to a vital/emotional embracing
of it through life experience. Whatever the case, it is life affording you the
opportunity for further progress, which if embraced leads to great
success, inner fulfillment, and deep delight.
Here is another example of this phenomenon, again from literature.
In Victor Hugo’s Les Miserables, the main character Jean Valjean at one
point came to know a humble bishop who showed him the power of
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selfless and self-givingness. When the bishop saved him from the
authorities after escaping from prison, Valjean came to deeply admire his
goodness, goodwill, and generosity. From that day on, he dedicated
himself to a life of self-givingness.
Life then brought forth the opportunity for him to become what he
aspired for. One day Valjean learned that someone named ‘Jean Valjean’
had been convicted of a crime. He knew that this was not the case
because he was the person with that name. After wrestling with his
conscience, he went to the court in Arras and revealed that he was the
real Jean Valjean, thereby freeing the accused.
However, by doing so, the authorities learn that he was an escaped
convict; forcing Valjean once again to be a fugitive from the law. It would
mean that he would have to give up all that he had built up in his
professional life. What actually occurred was that life tested his full
commitment to his personal ideal of self-givingness. By acceded to a level
of psychological purity, by doing what was right and true, Valjean had
made a great growth and progress in life.
Our Subconscious is Conscious
We think of our subconscious as some mysterious aspect of our being,
hidden from our view, i.e. from our normal level of awareness. This is
true enough. And yet the subconscious realms has a will, intention, and
consciousness of its own. Often it has a greater capacity, perception, and
insight than our own normal state of awareness.
For example, a man's wife reads lengthy, somewhat superficial, fiction
books incessantly. It keeps her busy and entertained. Interestingly, her
husband consistently walks over and sits beside her to talk just as she is
reading the last few pages of the book, at once amazing and bothering
her. Why does he appear at just this instance? He does not know the
answer, but understanding the intent and desire of his subconscious will
explain it. It is subtly indicating that he wants to speak with her more
often to have rich discussions, the fact of which seems to be in conflict
with her constant reading. What is happening is that his subconscious
urge, will, and aspiration have moved him into action on those
serendipitous occasions, even as he is consciously unaware why he
comes, let alone at precisely this time. It has happened a 100 times
before over several decades!
If we examine any great work of literature or work of cinema, and
observe the actions of the main characters, we will see how they often
act in ways in which their intent is subconscious to them. Yet if we study
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these actions in hindsight, we would see that the subconscious had an
intention it wished fulfilled, even as the conscious mind was unaware of
the fact. In this way, we see that the outcomes of events that we only
later came to understand were already known to our subconscious!
For example, in the film Sabrina, Linus helps his brother by standing in
for him, even as he is unaware that he is subconsciously in love with
Sabrina, which he later realizes. Likewise, in Pride and Prejudice, Darcy
mocks Eliza when they first meet, even as he is unaware of the fact that
he is subconsciously in love with her. In both cases, the subconscious
knew before the conscious mind.
Having said this, there are other parts of the subconscious plane that are
not so enlightened and filled with light, but are instead dark, pessimistic,
fearful, and fearful. This unevolved part of the inner being contributes to
difficult sleep, our darkest daily thoughts, and a general feeling that
failure, disease, and death are inevitable. On the other hand, the
conscious part of the subconscious, described earlier, is just the opposite.
This relatively small, subliminal part is in touch with universal forces;
deeper and wider truths that are superconscient to us. Not only does it
guide us, but it knows the future ahead of time.
Finally, we have ability to make the subconscious knowledge conscious by
asking ourselves at any point in time why we are doing what we are
doing, which will help us elicit the hidden motive. Doing so, will make us
more aware, which will contribute to greater success and deeper
fulfillment in life.
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PART 10: IGNORANCE TO INTEGRAL KNOWLEDGE
Knowledge and Truth