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Owensboro Parent, the FREE guide to raising a family in Owensboro, Kentucky. Featured Articles: Parental Control, It's Love, Butterfly on the Windshield, The Rhythm of Love, Valentine Party for a Cause, Family Fun Date, It's a Small World, Being a Good Citizen, & Freeze the Day. Contributors: Dr. Brian Gannon, Christina Dalton, Christy Ramey, Danny May, Gail E Kirkland, Jaime Rafferty, Jessica Weafer, & Lora Wimsatt.TRANSCRIPT
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parental control [8]
it’s love [10]
butterfly on the windshield [12]
the rhythm of love [14]
valentine party for a cause [16]
[18] family fun date
[20] it’s a small world
[26] being a good citizen
[28] freeze the day
[31] february calendar
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february features
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february 2013
Ah, Valentine’s Day, the day of love! For your kids, this Valentine’s Day may be their first
since entering the dating world. How did you handle when your kids started dating or will
start dating? Have you established a dating policy? Curfew? Forbid dating until they’re
30? That’s what we asked with this month’s ParentTalk, and here are a few of our favorite
answers from Facebook.
parent talk
When our girls were young Wendell would always ask the young men if
they would like to see his gun cabinet. They seemed to get the message.
- Wendell and Marilyn Yeckering
My daughters will be joining the convent at age 12. Just kidding, but
they can’t date til 30.
- Drew Hardesty
As a parent to twin 17-year-old boys, I personally am not ready. But
ready or not... puppy love and mature love have arrived. We are just
awaiting the unveiling of which is which. I have learned that children
mature differently and life unfolds for each child differently. Solid rules
don’t work for our family. Basically we are living on a prayer. We take
each new situation and talk a lot about what’s wise, Godly, and how
they truly feel about the other person. One thing we have tried to
teach our children is that dating is not a game. If played like one we
tend to hurt people unintentionally and walk through much undo hurt
ourselves. Our teenagers are encouraged to think and slow down.
There is plenty of time, and friendships are always a good option until
they can sort through feelings. I won’t just get out of the way, I am
committed to helping my kids balance out healthy feelings, while
holding my breath while letting them spread their wings and fly.
- Joanie Merritt Hagan
When I was a teen, I had a youth minister that instilled into us one
truth...”Your date may be your mate” meaning never to date anyone
that you wouldn’t want to be married to. Choose your dates wisely
with the same character and values that you would want in a husband/
wife. If you wouldn’t want them for a spouse, you don’t need to be
dating them. And with this in mind, think about and make a list of the
values that you want in a mate, hold out for that special person. They
are out there waiting for you. When you find him/her, honor them &
respect them and strive to become a better person for them.
- Karen Katchuk
I have two kids-- a girl and a boy. They will not GO on a date until
they have their license, that way if anything happens they can drive
themselves home. They are only 9 and 5 now, but that was my parents
rule for me and it came in handy more than once. If the person you
go with feels the stupid desire to drink you are able to drive home. And
I am building a relationship with my kids like the one I have with my
parents. I can tell them anything. They may not be thrilled about what I
tell them, but they listen and talk it over honestly and always thank me
for being open and honest. You have to give them the values and the
chance to use them on their own.
- Summer Pearl Doughty
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family life
Q: Is there anything I can be doing now for
my daughter at 15 months old to prepare her
for school?
A: This is a great question. There are so
many things parents can do to prepare their
children for school, especially at such a young
age. Children at this age have a tendency to
be shy, not like strangers and cling to their
parents. I think it is a good idea to make sure
that they are able to be around other children.
This is the age when they are starting pretend
play, for example, like feeding a baby doll
and pointing to things that interest them. It
is also a time when temper tantrums are the
latest and greatest skill they have mastered. A
child as young as 6-months-old comprehends
that when they throw an item on the floor, you
will pick it up. We have all seen this scenario
a million times, a baby throws a toy on the
floor and we pick it up over and over. It can
make you feel like the baby is training you. A
15-month-old normally has a vocabulary of
about 3 to 6 words. At this age it is a great
time to start looking at picture books with
them. They are so curious and whether you
can see it or not they are absorbing everything
and learning daily. Reading to your baby,
interacting with other children and showing
them new things each and every day will help
them become ready to enter school. When
children are screened for kindergarten they
look for things like color recognition, numbers,
letters and sequencing. I can promise you
though whether your child knows all of these
things before kindergarten or not they will
learn them in school. Keep in mind that 90%
of a child’s brain develops in the first five
years of life. Important factors include daily
experiences, parent involvement, nutrition,
physical activity and most importantly...
LOVE!
Q: My 13-year-old son is so disrespectful
of me and others. I feel like I am at a total
loss. It’s so embarrassing, especially out in
public. Is there anything you can suggest?
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control
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AReading to your baby,
interacting with other children and showing
them new things will help them
become ready to enter school.
Q
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A: I completely agree with you about
teenagers, young adults and all the way to
little children. I have seen it in restaurants,
grocery stores, and just about anywhere you
go. There is an air of entitlement in today’s
children. I think that we have to go back to
the basics of good ole fashioned manners. We
are somewhat in a society that wants to blame
others for our problems. Sometimes as parents
we go to great lengths so that our children
do not have to experience disappointment,
struggle, or any form of delayed gratification.
I know there are people, myself included,
that have had moments of entitlement with
our children. I have had my child tell me
it’s time for me to get off the phone. That
is entitlement. When a teenager has a closet
full of clothes and says I have nothing to wear.
That is entitlement. Manners are directly
related to respect. Manners are our first
introduction to respect. More importantly
we can only learn to respect ourselves when
we learn to respect others. It’s hard and
sometimes we treat our children as if they
are the center of our world. There has to be a
balance in our relationship with our children.
We need to go back and make it a point to
teach our children thoughtfulness, courtesy,
consideration, kindness, politeness and basic
etiquette. When we do that then the respect
will follow.
Q: I have a 9-year-old daughter that is so
stubborn. I can say the sky is blue and she
will argue with me all day long that it’s not.
How can I effectively talk to her when she
is like this instead of yelling and screaming
because that gets me no where?
A: My child can be stubborn sometimes and
my first piece of advice is to pick your battles.
Sometimes it is just not worth the fight to
argue over something that is not important.
But they suck you in and before you know it,
you are arguing over a math problem that you
know what the right answer is and they don’t
believe you. Never tell a stubborn child what
to do either. When you tell a stubborn child
what to do it alerts some part of their brain to
disengage and do the opposite. Instead you
describe what you’re willing to do or allow. In
the Love and Logic Program® they call this
enforceable statements. Here is an example,
“I’ll be happy to do the things I do for you
when I feel treated with respect,” or “You may
go online as long as I’m around to supervise.”
By using these types of statements you can
take the arguing out of the equation. One
thing I want you to remember is the only
thing you can control is yourself. I know it’s
hard and can be so frustrating at times. Stop
telling them what to do and start telling them
what you are going to do.
Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW is the Family
Resource Center Coordinator for Daviess County
Public Schools.
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From the time you saw the little blue “plus sign” on the
pregnancy test stick, it was love.
From the time you heard the watery “th-
thump” of the heartbeat at the doctor’s office, it
was love.
From the time you saw that shadowy outline
on the sonogram, it was love.
From the time you felt something like
butterflies fluttering in your tummy, it was love.
From the time you pushed and cried and
sweated and squeezed your husband’s hand, it
was love.
From the time you held that damp, wrinkled,
squawling baby, it was love.
From the time you watched in fascination as those rosebud
lips nursed, it was love.
From the time you dressed your baby in those impossibly
tiny, awesomely adorable outfits, it was love.
From the time the baby first said “Ma-ma” and “Da-da,” it
was love.
From the time those chubby arms went around
your neck and a wet kiss was planted on your
cheek, it was love.
And –
When the baby cries … and cries … and cries
… all night, it’s still love.
When the diaper leaks on your best outfit, it’s
still love.
When you go back to work and your boss
discretely inquires about the spit-up stain on the
shoulder of your blouse, it’s still love.
When exploring little hands shove a puzzle piece into the
DVD player, it’s still love.
When you juggle baby and purse and diaper bag and
groceries and keys, and binky falls to the ground and you have
to figure out a way to bend over and pick it up without dropping
When playful little hands unravel a
whole roll of bathroom
tissue, it’s still love.
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everything else, it’s still love.
When playful little hands unravel a whole roll of bathroom
tissue, it’s still love.
When everyone in the restaurant stares as you slink away to
the restroom with your tantrum-throwing child, it’s still love.
When curious little hands delete all the apps on your
smartphone, it’s still love.
When you listen to the adventures of Dora the Explorer
so many times you find yourself humming “Do-do-do-do-do-
Dora!” while standing in line at the bank, it’s still love.
When you stand at the corner and wave good-bye until the
big yellow school bus disappears from sight even though your
child is “too cool” now to wave back, it’s still love.
From the very beginning, it was love.
And somewhere along the way, you realize there is no ending.
It will always be love.
Lora Wimsatt is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday
blessings and adventures of life, especially her family
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As I was headed to work the other day I saw the most beautiful
monarch butterfly. Unfortunately, I was not in a country
field or a nearby park, I was on Highway 60. Before I ever had
a chance to appreciate how exquisite this creature was, it hit my
windshield with a SMACK! and bounced off into the unknown.
I spent the rest of the morning worrying about what had become
of that butterfly, and then I found myself starting to identify
with it. When you think about it, we are not that much different
than the butterfly. We start off our lives in the comfort and safety
of a warm cocoon then stretch out our wings to explore new
surroundings. As some of us are soaring through life, enjoying
the view, the surroundings begin to change, and before we know
it…SMACK! We hit face first into a windshield. Each of us has
our own “windshield” to contend with. For some of us it is divorce
or a failed relationship, for others it is the sudden loss of a job or
a loved one. Sometimes the descent is long and frightening, while
other times it is more of a quick shock to the system. Initially we
may feel stunned and disoriented, as though we may never take
flight again. Often times we are left feeling damaged, scarred, or
as if we are carrying the world’s baggage. These are the marks that
should not define us, but should help to strengthen and build our
character.
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on the windshield
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Interestingly, when scientists want to learn about the life
and travels of a butterfly they find they can learn a great deal by
examining its wings. Brand new butterflies have nearly perfect
wings, while more experienced butterflies’ wings may appear
old and tattered. What truly amazes these scientists is that some
butterflies whose wings display scratches, tears, worn spots, or
are even missing over half of a wing still manage to find a way to
fly. Losing a job that brought you joy and security may leave your
wings scratched and torn, or losing a loved one through death or
divorce may leave you feeling as though part of you is missing.
One of the most indelible pictures of the monarch displayed a
“v” shaped imprint on one of its wings. Incredibly a bird that was
trying to capture and eat the butterfly made this mark. I think of
some of the people I have met in this life who have been attacked
by “predators” or have been hit by the proverbial windshields of
cancer, the loss of a spouse, or the death of a child. These people
seem to have dealt with more than their share of burdens, yet
they are the ultimate picture of grace. These are the people that
wear the scars on their wings as character building beauty marks,
rather than blemishes of defeat.
The encouraging news is that we really are at an advantage
in comparison to the butterfly, even though it feels as though we
have so much to accomplish and so little time to accomplish it.
The average lifespan of a butterfly is just a few weeks. In this
time the butterfly must find a mate, generate offspring, provide
for that offspring, and avoid predators, while still maintaining
to care for and feed itself. It really puts into perspective our own
lives. Some of us have an entire lifetime--decades to find and
share with a mate and care for our children. We have friends and
family members that can provide branches of support and shelter
when predators attack. As humans we are lucky that we do not
have to explore and experience this world alone.
Contemplating all of these comparisons just further instills in
me that each day is a blessing. Although there will be inclement
weather to dampen our wings, predators to avoid, and the
occasional unforeseen windshield, we must remember this…We
are all beautiful butterflies, with our own unique scratches and
tears and we need to brush off our wings each day and see how
high we can soar.
Melody Wallace is a teacher in the Daviess County School district who has
recently remarried, and finds new happiness each day in her roles as teacher,
wife, mom, and stepmom.
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In honor of the month of love, which is also heart disease
awareness month, I would like to review some common fears
parents may have about children and heart diseases.
Your big, strapping seventh grader is seeing the pediatrician for
a sports physical, and the doctor tells you he has a heart murmur.
Suddenly your own heart skips a beat, and you worry about your
son’s future in athletics and his general health, with scary visions of
open heart surgery in your mind. But should you really be worried?
First, what is a murmur anyway? With each heartbeat, your
doctor hears a sound like “lub-dub,” which represents the closing
of the valves between the upper and lower chambers of the heart.
Any sound other than the typical “lub-dub” would be defined as a
murmur.
Most murmurs are “innocent,” meaning the sound is produced
by a normal, healthy heart with blood flowing through it correctly.
The murmur occurs because there is more flow than usual for
some reason, or it is flowing more rapidly. This may happen with a
nervous teenager (as in the example above), after exercise, or during
a fever. The first evaluation for this type of murmur, especially if
discovered by an urgent care doctor or provider that does not know
your child well, is for your regular doctor to listen to the child at a
time that he is not sick. If the murmur is gone, then it is very likely
innocent, requiring no further testing. A murmur that comes and
goes is generally not dangerous.
Sometimes the rhythm of the heart is not completely regular.
Parents or providers may notice that the beats are not evenly
spaced: “lub-dub…lub-dub……..lub—dub…lub-dub.” This can
be a problem with the heart’s internal pacemaker, which is a little
area within the heart that triggers the beats in rhythm. But most
commonly, at least in children between 5 and 15, it is normal
variation with breathing. Your pediatrician can tell when the beats
are closer as the lungs fill with air, and get further apart when the
lungs empty and the heart has more space to beat. This is really
true in all of us, but since children are usually healthy and their
chest wall is thinner, the variation from beat to beat is easier to hear.
An abnormal rhythm will often cause symptoms in the child,
like passing out or feeling like the heart is racing, even when at
rest. If these symptoms are noted, it is important to have your
child evaluated by her regular pediatrician. Often we will
find a simple explanation that does not require surgery,
but a full exam and heart tracing is needed in these
situations. If there is a family history of heart
rhythm disturbances, especially sudden death
in a person younger than 50 years old, we
really need to be made aware of it, so
we can look further.
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I would like to take this time to make a special note about
the pre-participation sports physical. Any student planning
to participate in school-sponsored sports will be required to
have a screening physical. It is very important for parents
to be aware of this and plan well ahead of the season of the
child’s sport. If the physical or evaluation turns up an issue
that must be addressed, it could delay your child’s clearance
to play or even practice with the team, so it is best to schedule
the sports physical a month or so before you need it. And the
most important question on the KHSAA form is about the
heart: Is there a family member who died suddenly before age
50? I cannot stress enough how vital it is for parents to fill out
the questionnaire before bringing the student to the doctor, so
we have all the information we need to state clearly that your
child may be allowed to play.
The testing is fairly simple, a 12-lead ECG or tracing
of the electrical activity of the heart. But getting the ECG
interpreted and evaluated may take valuable time, which
would be time well spent if it prevents a catastrophe on the
basketball court. There are a few rhythm problems that run
in families, such as Long QT and Wolff-Parkinson-White
syndromes, so if you know about these, definitely let the
doctor know.
So be reassured that most of these extra sounds or
irregular rhythms in children and teenagers are harmless, but
if your child has significant fatigue, chest pain, or passing out,
keep your doctor in the loop!
Happy Valentine’s Day from Dr Gannon and the staff at Pediatric Partners!!!
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Valentine’s Day is a perfect time to show some love for
other people, animals, or a favorite charity. So throw a
party for a cause and show kids how to have fun and help others
at the same time. This could be the beginning of a lifetime of
service for your child and their friends.
Decide on a cause. With your child, choose a charity or group that will benefit from
the party. Do some research on the Internet before you decide
on what group to select.
Ideas for your party might include:• Making valentines for our troops serving overseas.
Including small items in a care package with the
cards would be a nice touch. According to the website
anysoldier.com, it’s the cards that are the most meaningful.
• Help some animals in need. Have the party attendees
bring a bag of food for a dog or a cat. The activity at your
event could be to make catnip toys. Include the delivery of
these items to the local shelter as a part of the party.
• Throw a fleece party! Make easy scarves, mittens, hats,
and blankets from fleece for the homeless or take them to
the HELP Office on 4th Street here in Owensboro. Each
attendee brings 1 yard of colorful fleece. Find easy patterns
and no-sew patterns online at About.com - family crafts.
• Serenade Seniors. When kids arrive at the party, practice
the songs you have decided to sing. Choose favorites
with which the children are already familiar. Make
some valentines to take with you to distribute. Provide
transportation to a local nursing home for a “singspiration”
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Invitations and decorations:• Make your invitations from hearts with accordion arms to
show you are reaching out to others. Include the ‘cause’ the
party will benefit, time, place, and any special supplies or gifts
the kids will need to bring.
• Decorate your room with appropriately themed items that
match the cause.
• Use hearts and streamers with camouflage for the troops
party, musical notes and sheet music for the serenading party,
mittens on a clothesline for the fleece party, and dog bones for
the animal shelter party.
Mementos:Take plenty of pictures and prepare a small scrapbook for each
guest. These can be digital and sent to a parent’s e-mail address.
The memories made at a Valentine’s Party for a cause will last a
lifetime. The lessons learned from this experience will never be
forgotten!
Christy Ramey is the Daviess County Extension Agent for Family and Consumer
Sciences. She has been married for 38 years and have three children and three
grandchildren.
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Here’s the scene that’s probably all too familiar for most
parents: In a matter of eye blinks the house transformed
from clean to someone-call-ServPro-it’s-so-dirty after the kid(s)
played for about five minutes; dirty dishes multiplied on their
own in the kitchen sink; your spouse came home in a mood
and now everyone is in a mood; and you’re exhausted, asking
yourself, “Didn’t we just do this yesterday?”
It happens to every family from time to time. Your family’s
rhythm, for whatever reason, gets off track, and all you want is a
break.
There are hundreds of articles and Web sites stressing the
importance of a husband and wife making the time to take dates
once children come into the picture to help mend and maintain
a positive relationship. But less common is the suggestion for a
family date night — not just skipping cooking for an evening
and going out for dinner, but consciously making the decision
to take a fun-filled-we’re-not-going-to-sweat-the-small-stuff
family date.
A few weeks ago my little family was having a rough time.
We had all been very sick with horrible colds, bronchitis, and
croup. Needless to say, our usually happy, positive demeanors
had dwindled to easily frustrated, exhausted, and grumpy. My
husband and I were growing easily agitated with our two-year-
old, who was also growing easily agitated with us. We were just
feeding off of each other’s negative attitudes and perpetuating
the problem.
So we decided that a date night, just the two of us (a rare
occurrence), is what we needed to cure our attitudes. We arranged
for a sitter, decided where we were going, then, while we were all
sitting on the couch waiting for the sitter and watching a movie,
an idea struck us. The three of us should go out together!
What a great idea, we thought.
If we all had bad attitudes, then we all needed to work it out
together! We are one unit, and when we are all down, we should
fix it as one.
This revelation reminded me of a scene in the movie
“Spanglish,” with Adam Sandler and Paz Vega (Flor). In the
scene, Flor’s daughter, Christina, is mad at Flor. Christina tells
fun date
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her mother that she needs distance from her until she cools
down. Then Flor leans over, nose to nose with Christina and says
emphatically, “There is no distance between us!”
How true is that? There is no distance between family. If
there is a problem, you don’t run away from it, you embrace it
and make it better together!
On our family date, we did a little shopping, ate some yummy
food, complete with dessert, and visited the children’s section
of the bookstore. We set out on our date with positive attitudes.
We knew there may be fits. Our son is two; there are always fits.
But our renewed attitude made it OK, and actually, our little guy
did great and never got upset. I know it’s because he was able to
sense our new positive attitudes.
Since our family date, things have been great. We’ve all been
our usual, easy-going selves, full of of fun, laughter, and positive
energy!
When you’re ready for your family date, there are a lot of
options in town to help your family let loose: ice skating, laser
tag, the local art and science museums, the bookstore (my
personal favorite), walking around the mall, going to dinner at
one the many local restaurants, visiting our wonderful parks, or
going to the movies. You could even just go for a walk or bike
ride around the neighborhood.
Of course, I think it’s important for a mother and father to
have alone time. Don’t forget about Thursday night’s Downtown
Date Night for when you and your mate are ready for a date!
Owensboro’s Downtown is a perfect place for a grown-up date,
from the great restaurants, laid-back coffee shop, and the best
place in town to get an adult beverage.
But it is equally important to have time as a family. Your
family unit is a relationship just like your marriage. That
relationship needs to be nurtured. When life starts to get hectic,
and you find yourselves on the brink of agitation or checking
prices for one ticket to Florida, make the conscious decision to
let go of the negativity and have a little fun together.
FIX IT TOGETHER!
Jessica Weafer lives in Owensboro with her husband and son. She is a stay-at-
home mom and enjoys writing about all things kids and family.
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The petite, soft-spoken, Cinderella-look-alike with big,
fluttering hazel green eyes, porcelain skin, and luscious
blonde curls cascading to her mid-back is more than your average
Disney World enthusiast—much more. She is a cancer survivor.
Sixteen-year-old Jennifer Rudd, a junior at Daviess County High
School, exudes maturity and wisdom well beyond her years. “She’s
pretty tough,” said her dad, Keith Rudd, an assessment eagerly
acknowledged by her mom, Anna, and her two older sisters, Traci
and Michelle, as we sat huddled together in their living room one
rainy Sunday afternoon.
That same dad was the one who tearfully told his then-14-year-
old daughter the biopsy results: “Well, it’s not good news.”
His next words were those of reassurance that Hodgkin’s
lymphoma can be treated and cured. In fact, the cure rate is now
an impressive 96 percent. Nonetheless, the remaining 4 percent
weighed heavily upon the family. Traci admitted having an internal
tug of war, all the while knowing that she had to be strong for
everyone else. “It was all difficult,” Michelle said.
While in the Smoky Mountains during Spring Break of her
8th-grade year, Jennifer found a knot on the left side of her neck,
slightly below her jawbone. Within days she saw her pediatrician,
Dr. Don Neel, and an ear-nose-throat specialist, Dr. Matthew
Taylor, who did a biopsy the next day. The doctors’ suspicions
were confirmed. In tandem, they moved swiftly to contact St. Jude
Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis, Tenn., whose mission
is “to advance cures, and means of prevention, for pediatric
catastrophic diseases through research and treatment.”
Jennifer summarized her feelings upon hearing the C-word from
her dad: “Scared.”
However, from Day One at St. Jude, the family affirmed their
outright surprise at the smiling, friendly, uplifting atmosphere
surrounding them. They could not help but wonder, “Why is
everybody so happy here?” Granted, they soon discovered it is not
always a happy place. The unavoidable recognition that many of the
cancer patients were indeed babies and youngsters fighting for their
lives cut the Rudd family to the core. Yet, the first week confirmed
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that the positives outweighed the negatives at St. Jude.
During that week, Jennifer underwent extensive tests: chest
X-rays, PET scans, CAT scans, echograms, EKGs, in addition
to blood work. “It was weird,” Jennifer said in regard to going
through the scanning tubes. In addition to the mass in her neck,
tests revealed smaller tumors scattered throughout her chest cavity.
Jennifer’s parents agreed for her to participate in an ongoing
research study to benefit other children with Hodgkin’s lymphoma.
Amazingly, Jennifer never had to stay overnight in the hospital. At
the conclusion of each day’s scans and tests, she was allowed to stay
with her family at Grizzlies House, a short-term, dorm-like facility
provided at no cost to St. Jude patients and their families. There
they had most of the comforts of home, including two bedrooms,
a living room, a kitchen, laundry area—plus pool tables in the
commons area. By the time Jennifer left St. Jude, she had become
quite a pool shark worthy of her own cue stick, according to her dad.
“No family ever pays for treatments not covered by insurance,
and families without insurance are never asked to pay. St. Jude is
financially supported by ALSAC, its fundraising organization,”
according to the St. Jude web site.
To that point, fundraising is an essential, crucial component
of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital’s overall success. Emily
Wood, associate director of the ALSAC office in Louisville,
confirmed that 75 percent of St. Jude’s revenue comes from
individual donors. As she emphasized, “Every dollar counts,”
considering that operating costs equal a whopping $1.8 million—
DAILY. An estimated $?? million is raised annually in Kentucky
alone. The hidden benefit of the many and varied fundraising
efforts is an increased awareness of St. Jude’s mission to help any
child needing treatment.
During Jennifer’s 12-week chemotherapy administered via
a PICC-line, she travelled back and forth to Memphis, staying
overnight only as needed. She said the biggest challenge she faced
was “my hair failing out.” Ironically, Jennifer is a 3-time donor to
Locks of Love, first cutting off her waist-length hair at age seven
and cutting it a third time just before her chemo treatment. At the
onset of her freshman year, she missed several days of school while
undergoing five-day radiation treatments for a month. When she
did walk through the doors of DCHS, Jennifer donned a headband
and a ponytail—albeit a severely thinned, miniscule ponytail. She
did not want a wig or a hat, opting instead for what remained of her
once beautiful ponytail.
Jennifer has been in remission since October of 2010. She still
travels to St. Jude annually for a major checkup, and goes every four
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months for follow-up X-rays and blood work.
Some trips have been for more than medical treatment or
checkups. One was an all-expense paid week-long trip to Disney
World, provided by the Make-A-Wish Foundation and coordinated
by the nursing staff at Owensboro’s Mitchell Memorial Cancer
Center. Jennifer beamed as she described each of her seven days
there. A Princess star with her name on it hangs in the ceiling at
Give Kids the World, a castle-like structure there. Another dream-
come-true trip landed her front and center at a Justin Bieber concert
in Nashville, again compliments of the Mitchell nursing staff.
Her entire family, along with an array of friends and neighbors,
has become involved with WBKR’s St. Jude Radiothon, held
February 21-22. In its 10th anniversary, the radiothon hopes to
surpass the $124,000 raised in 2012. WBKR’s Chad Benefield,
radiothon coordinator, said Owensboro’s fundraiser is unique in
that “we throw St. Jude’s playbook to the side and do our own
thing.” That ‘thing’ has been quite successful, with donations
jumping exponentially from $65,000 in 2009 and $81,000 in 2010.
WBKR is one of hundreds of radio stations across the nation
who participates in this fundraising network entitled Country
Cares, an idea spawned by Randy Owen—front man for “Alabama.”
This year’s local effort kicks off with a “Denim and Diamonds”
extravaganza, February 1, at the Theatre Workshop venue (once
Goldie’s). The event involves local musicians and St. Jude
patients joining together to entertain, to inform, and to inspire the
community about this all-important fundraising effort. The $10
admission goes directly toward the St. Jude Radiothon.
Not only great individuals, but also original lyrics have evolved
from this fundraising effort. Chad is writing his fourth song, which
will debut during the WBKR radiothon. His first song, “Saints and
Angels,” was inspired by a 4-year-old cancer patient, who deeply
touched his heart.
WBKR will dedicate 13 hours each day, from 6 a.m. until 7 p.m.,
in an effort to exceed the $124,000 raised last year. Cancer survivors
like Jennifer will be there lending their time, telling their story,
sharing their talent to benefit St. Jude.
Those who listen carefully may hear Jennifer’s rendition of
“You’re Gonna Miss Me,” which is beyond pitch perfect, even
magical.
Jennifer’s small world certainly became brighter through the
abundant love, compassion, and expert care at St. Jude Children’s
Research Hospital.
Gail recently retired from DCHS, where she taught journalism and English. She is a mother of twins, a Meme, and sports enthusiast.
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The 10th Annual WBKR St. Jude Radiothon, presented by Poole’s Pharmacy Care
Hosted by Chad Benefield, Jaclyn Graves, Barb Birgy and Dave Spencer
Thursday, Feb. 21 and Friday, Feb. 22 on The Country Station, 92.5 WBKR. 6 a.m. to 7 p.m.
Featuring stories of hope and inspiration from St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis
and live performances by Rollie Pike, Brian Hart, Kyle Whitaker, Heath & Molly, The West Louisville
Elementary School Choir, Emily Clark, Ryan Himes, Tara and Travis Estes, Latasha Shemwell, Kennedy
McCollam, Mudd River Union and more!
Become a St. Jude Partner-In-Hope by calling 1-800-201-8883 DURING the radiothon!
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Preston Wilson is not just any 8-year-old
boy. He is a boy on a mission-- a mission
to be a helpful citizen of Owensboro!
From the surface he’s a strawberry blonde boy,
with glasses and a sense of humor that would
have boded well on “Kids Say the Darndest
Things.”
Apart from his humor, Preston
loves football, four-wheeler riding and
Taekwondo, in which he currently holds a
brown belt.
He is son to proud parents, Kevin and
Leslie Wilson. Preston is also big brother to
sister Lauren, 2, who, he is quick to point out,
“stole his thunder” when entering the family.
With all joking aside, Preston is a young man
who has a heart for people. Not just the people
in his family or those he knows, but even
people he has never met.
It was in Mrs. Paula Naas’ third grade
class at Deer Park Elementary, during a local
government project, that this little boy did
something many men and women have never
done: he saw a need and decided to help.
Each student was given the task to show
branches of local government and what it
meant to be a good citizen. This could be
accomplished in a few ways – making a mobile,
a poster, or write a letter to local government on
an issue.
Preston knew what he wanted to do. Write
a letter to Mayor Ron Payne.
The school project could have been
achieved by simply writing a letter to the
mayor. However, this young man didn’t stop
there. He not only had Leslie send the letter, he
also informed Mayor Payne that he had mailed
the city council members letters and that his
Mom would be bringing him to the November
20th council meeting.
Preston decided, after talking to his Mom,
he would raise money for the Daviess County
Senior Services, Senior Christmas Wish project.
This money would help all homebound seniors
enrolled in the Meals on Wheels program to
receive a Christmas goodie bag.
Preston pledged to give $25 of his allowance
to help the project, but also challenged the
Mayor and council members to do the same.
Leslie said, after the council meeting had
concluded, several folks came up to Preston
handing him five and ten dollar bills for the
project.
It didn’t end there, Preston’s grandmother
Janie, a hairdresser, posted the information
at her station and clients began to give small
donations. Other family and friends also heard
what this young man was doing and gave.
In less than a month, 8-year-old Preston raised
nearly $1,000 to give to the Senior Christmas
Wish Project.
He presented the money to Tom Vittitow,
Director of the Elizabeth Munday Center,
prior to Christmas so that the items could be
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Preston handing the donations to
Tom Vittitow, Executive Director
of the Munday Activity Center/
Daviess County Senior Services.
purchased. He told his Mom, “Man that sure
felt good!”
Leslie said she was speechless at Preston’s
initiative to exceed the school project and
actually demonstrate being a good citizen. She
said, “To watch your child want to help others
is the most rewarding gift I have ever felt. It’s
absolutely indescribable. I can only hope this
is just one of many things he will do to help
others.”
Preston was to aid staff in delivering the
Christmas goodie bags, but was unable because
he became ill. He said not being able to help
made him, “sadder than when someone tells
me I am going to get donuts and the next day I
don’t.” That’s a pretty sad day for an 8-year-old!
However he did say that giving the money to
Mr. Vittitow felt like, “I was getting my donuts!”
This young man has a bright future and we
can only hope he remains in Owensboro and
continues to help others.
Though Preston changes his mind about
what he wants to be when he grows up, almost
daily his answers vary
from enlisting in the
Air Force, to becoming
an architect or even
working with his dad
as a brick mason.
After his attendance
at the city council
meeting, one might
assume he has aspirations
in politics. He smiled and
said, “Hey, that just gave me a
good idea! Maybe I could be the
president or the person who protects
the president!”
Preston is already an example to peers, but
perhaps we adults could be challenged by his
determination and look at how we too can be
better citizens of our great community.
Jaime Rafferty enjoys writing, as a hobby. She lives
is Owensboro with her husband, Paul and their two
children.
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community
“Freezin for a reason”- that’s how the Special
Olympics website describes the Polar Plunge.
And they’re not kidding! Every February, people brave
enough to take the Polar Plunge jump into the lake at
the Hines Center in extremely chilly temperatures, all
in the name of raising money for Special Olympics.
Participants must raise at least $75 in donations to be
eligible to plunge.
“This is the ninth year we’ve done the Polar Plunge
at the Hines Center,” says event director Candace
Thompson. Last year 233 people took the plunge and
raised more than $54,000. The upcoming event is
scheduled for February 9th with opening ceremonies at
11 a.m.
But this year, for the first time, kids ages 5-12 can take
part in the “Pee Wee Plunge,” which will take place just
before the Polar Plunge. “Some parents are reluctant
to let their children jump in a freezing cold lake. So we
decided to start the Pee Wee Plunge so that kids can still
be involved and parents would feel much safer about
it,” Thompson explained. “It’s been successful in other
places, so we’re trying it here.”
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The Pee Wee Plunge is less intense than jumping in the
lake. It entails slipping down a giant inflatable slide into a
small pool filled with cold water.
There are five other Polar Plunges happening in several
other cities in Kentucky, which have collectively contributed
over $5 million for Special Olympics Kentucky programs.
Money generated from the Polar Plunge is used to put on
the various sports programs and competitions throughout the
state.
The Special Olympics program is more extensive than
most people realize. Thompson explains, “A lot of people
ask ‘when is the Special Olympics?’ Well, Special Olympics
is actually 15 different sports, which take place both on the
local and statewide level.” The summer games are in June
and the winter games start in January. There are different
divisions according to the athletes’ skill level.
Children with special needs can begin competing in
Special Olympics at age nine. There is an introductory
program for children under nine to learn the basics of each
activity and learn the foundations of the game.
According to Owensboro Special Olympics coach Jeff
Johnson, one of the major benefits of being involved in Special
Olympics is learning to follow rules and working together
as a team. Johnson continued, “These athletes may have
some cognitive shortcomings, but they want to compete and
compete well. They get after it! And they want to improve
and get better at their skills.”
In 2010, Johnson coached a women’s basketball team
made up of participants from Owensboro and Bowling Green
who won the gold medal at the national Special Olympics
competition. In 2006, he coached the Owensboro men’s
basketball team that won the silver medal in the national
competition.
But some of the rewards are even better than the medals.
The socialization that comes along from being on a team is
also a great reason to be involved. I saw this firsthand when
I witnessed my first Special Olympics event last May: the
weightlifting competition at Apollo High School. It truly was
one of the most inspirational things I’ve ever seen. For me,
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makes it so meaningful. It’s the smiles on the athletes and
the joy on their parents’ faces. It’s the coaches, volunteers,
friends, family and other athletes all cheering them on.
Because for that moment it’s not about their disabilities;
it’s about their abilities. They are doing their best and
reaching their goals and smiling all the way. What’s better
than that?
That’s what those brave, shivering souls are supporting
with the Polar Plunge. Everyone who lines up on the
docks at the Hines Center will be helping Kentucky Special
Olympics carry on our local tradition that has benefited
hundreds of families in Owensboro over the years. Their
bodies might be cold, but they’ll be warming some hearts.
So if you or your young ones are up for it, come to the
Hines Center on February 9th to take the plunge. They say
it’s quite a shock!
Danny May is a husband and father of two boys (3 and almost 5). He is also the
Director of Family Life at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church.
For more information about the Polar Plunge or Pee Wee
Plunge, visit www.kentuckyplunge.com
Parents, if you have a special needs child that would love
to be involved in Special Olympics, please contact Kim
Johnson, the Area Director for Special Olympics at 684-
5605 or email [email protected]
If you’d like to coach a team or volunteer at an event,
please contact Kim Johnson at the number above.
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FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 1U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS For ages 12 and
younger; Vote for your favorite Juvenile book
published in 2012. The book that receives the
most votes will win the title of Mock Newbery
Award Winner; Daviess County Public Library,
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 2STONES & BONES 2013, the major fundraiser
for the Science & History Museum. Dress up
according to the theme and enjoy an evening of
great music, incredible food and drinks; 6:30 – 10
p.m.; Owensboro Museum of Science & History,
122 E. 2nd Street, Owensboro; For tickets and
information, contact Sherrie Lee at
(270) 687-2732.
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library
every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00
for self guided fun and educational activities
with a focus on literacy and school readiness;
Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.;
dcplibrary.org
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 3FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
MONDAY, FEBRUARY 4MISSOULA CHILDREN’S THEATRE PRESENTS “THE
WIZARD OF OZ” Auditions for students grades
K-12. Be a part of the story is as familiar as it is
beloved. That nasty tornado carries Dorothy and
her canine pal Toto from the friendly confines of
her Kansas home to a fabled fantasy of mystery
and magic in the Land of OZ; RiverPark Center, 101
Daviess St.; (270) 687-2787 or riverparkcenter.com.
See Saturday, February 9 for event description.
ZAX KIDZ NIGHT Get a Zax Kidz Meal for 99¢
when you purchase an adult meal. Kids under 12
only. 5 – 8 p.m.; Zaxby’s, 5030 Frederica St.; (270)
691-6166.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 5STORYLAB AT THE SCIENCE MUSEUM How Tall
Was Milton? by Lawrence F. Lowery and Actual
Size by Steve Jenkins; Lab: Measurement and
comparing sizes; Imagine a real eye bigger than
your head, a two-foot long tongue, or a three-
foot long frog! Measure your hand against the
handprint of a gorilla. Create your own actual size
booklet; 10:30 – 11:45 a.m.; Owensboro Museum
of Science and History, 122 East 2nd St.; (270)
687-2738 or owensboromuseum.org.
Informing parents about fun, local events is a priority for Owensboro Parent. Our magazine compiles events from across
the city and county. So when your family is looking for something to do, check out the Owensboro Parent calendar,
where you will find information on local events, including event descriptions, locations, dates, times and price.
Want to include your event? Contact the editor at [email protected].
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U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for
$5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 6U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 7FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
BLUEGRASS JAM On the first Thursday of
each month, head to the Bluegrass Museum
to jam with other musicians. Jamming is for
musicians of all levels and begins at 7 p.m. For
more information, contact the Museum at (270)
926-7891 or visit their their website at www.
bluegrassmuseum.org.
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 8U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
OWENSBORO DANCE THEATRE PRESENTS
LIZ MARTIN Liz Martin is a triple threat with
extensive experience in dancing, modeling, and
acting. While living in L.A., she was a member
on the Swagger Crew on MTV’s America’s Best
Dance Crew season 5, Bing commercial, TLC
commercial, and 2009 & 2010 Soul Train Awards.
She will teach beginning through advanced Hip
Hop; For information email [email protected]
or call 270-684-9580.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 9MISSOULA CHILDREN’S THEATRE PRESENTS “THE
WIZARD OF OZ” The story is as familiar as it is
beloved. That nasty tornado carries Dorothy and
her canine pal Toto from the friendly confines
of her Kansas home to a fabled fantasy of
mystery and magic in the Land of OZ; Auditions
for students grades K-12 will be held Monday
February 4, at 4 p.m.; Show will be at 2 p.m.;
Adults $10, Children $5; RiverPark Center, 101
Daviess St.; (270) 687-2787 or
riverparkcenter.com.
“BEE MINE” & ORCHID SHOW Opening Celebrate
Valentine’s Day with the Western KY Botanical
Garden. Children’s activities in the Education
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Building include card making, orchid flower
making, bumble bee craft and more; Western
Kentucky Botanical Garden, 25 Carter Road,
Owensboro; For more information, contact the
Garden. (270) 852-8925 or www.wkbg.org.
POLAR PLUNGE Teams brave the freezing waters
in the ponds at The Hines Center to raise money
for Special Olympics. For more information on
how to compete or just attend, contact Candace
Thompson at (502) 326-5002 or www.soky.org.
OWENSBORO DANCE THEATRE PRESENTS
LIZ MARTIN See event description on Friday,
February 8.
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!
Visit the library every Saturday morning from
10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational
activities with a focus on literacy and
school readiness; Daviess County Public Library,
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 10STORYLAB AT THE SCIENCE MUSEUM How Tall
Was Milton? by Lawrence F. Lowery and Actual
Size by Steve Jenkins; Lab: Measurement and
comparing sizes; Imagine a real eye bigger than
your head, a two-foot long tongue, or a three-
foot long frog! Measure your hand against the
handprint of a gorilla. Create your own actual size
booklet; 1:30 – 2:45 p.m.; Owensboro Museum
of Science and History, 122 East 2nd St.; (270)
687-2738 or owensboromuseum.org.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
MONDAY, FEBRUARY 11ZAX KIDZ NIGHT Get a Zax Kidz Meal for 99¢
when you purchase an adult meal. Kids under 12
only. 5 – 8 p.m.; Zaxby’s, 5030 Frederica St.; (270)
691-6166.
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30
a.m.; Daviess County Public Library
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 12U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for
$5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 13U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event
description on Friday, February 1.
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THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 14 VALENTINE’S DAYST. VALENTINE’S CANDLELITE DINNER Make a date for a special dinner at
the Western KY Botanical Garden; Western Kentucky Botanical Garden,
25 Carter Road, Owensboro; Call for reservations and more information.
270-852-8925 www.wkbg.org.
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for
ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica
St.; dcplibrary.org.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event description on Friday, February 1.
FREE VALENTINE’S DAY DROP-IN CRAFT FOR AGES 12 AND YOUNGER;
Drop in and create a heart butterfly magnet craft; Daviess County Public
Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 15U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must wear socks; $7 per child,
children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always
free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOCK NEWBERY AWARDS See event description on Friday, February 1.
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SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library
every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00
for self guided fun and educational activities
with a focus on literacy and school readiness;
Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.;
dcplibrary.org
SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17TODD OLIVER & FRIENDS: DOGS GONE WILD
TOUR Have you ever met a talking dog, a real
talking dog? Get ready when comedian and
ventriloquist Todd Oliver takes the stage -- he
will introduce you to 3 of them: Irving, Lucy
and Elvis. These little dogs are making crowds
across the country howl for more! Says Todd,
“Along with my canine friends – Irving, Lucy, and
Elvis – I’ll be joined by a ‘real’ cast of characters
like Pops, Miss Lilly, Joey, and my outstanding
Smiling Eyes Band. We’ve got a lot of audience
participation segments, original music, and
outrageous comedy.” Irving the talking dog adds,
“We’re gonna turn everyday K-9 experiences into
a howling good time!”; Adults $15, children $7.50;
3 p.m.; RiverPark Center, 101 Daviess St.; (270)
687-2787 or riverparkcenter.com.
MONDAY, FEBRUARY 18ZAX KIDZ Night Get a Zax Kidz Meal for 99¢ when
you purchase an adult meal. Kids under 12 only.
5 – 8 p.m.; Zaxby’s, 5030 Frederica St.; (270)
691-6166.
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 19U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for
$5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE LEGO BLOCK PARTY For ages 6-12; Build,
play, and learn with LEGO! Seating is limited--Pre-
registration is required! Daviess County Public
Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 20U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 21FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 22U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
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SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 23STORYLAB AT THE SCIENCE MUSEUM How Tall
Was Milton? by Lawrence F. Lowery and Actual
Size by Steve Jenkins; Lab: Measurement and
comparing sizes; Imagine a real eye bigger than
your head, a two-foot long tongue, or a three-
foot long frog! Measure your hand against the
handprint of a gorilla. Create your own actual size
booklet; 10:30 – 11:45 a.m.; Owensboro Museum
of Science and History, 122 East 2nd St.; (270)
687-2738 or owensboromuseum.org.
HERE’S TO YOUR HEART DAY A free event
sponsored by Owensboro Dance Theatre
and Owensboro HealthPark; 8 a.m. – noon;
HealthPark, 1006 Ford Ave.; omhs.org.
OWENSBORO SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA
“MOUNTAIN MAGIC” Mountain Magic brings you
music of Appalachia with Copland’s Appalachian
Spring. Our amazing concertmaster, J. Patrick
Rafferty presents a wonderful solo turn with the
Kernis “Air for Violin” and the fantastic Beethoven
symphony No. 7, written while visiting the
mountains of Bohemia; 7:30 p.m.; RiverPark
Center, 101 Daviess St.; (270) 687-2787 or visit
TheOSO.com.
FIRST TECH CHALLENGE Volunteers and
spectators are welcome for this exciting robotic
event; Owensboro Community & Technical
College, 4800 New Hartford Rd.; (270) 686-4400
or Owensboro.kctcs.edu.
MEN WHO COOK Celebrate Mardi Gras and
dance the night away with live music by joining
us at Men Who Cook, Owensboro’s Premier
Competition & Fundraiser. Started in 2007, Men
Who Cook showcases approximately 50 local
and regional celebrity chefs who offer samples of
their delicious dishes. $25 ticket includes: food,
soda, beer, live music, silent auction, and celebrity
chefs. Dishes include: Appetizers, Side Dishes,
Entrees and Desserts. Ticketed guests sample a
little of this, a little bit of that…yummy! $25 each
or $40 per couple (advance tickets) $35 at the
door; 7 – 11 p.m.; Cliff Hagan Boys & Girls Club,
3415 Buckland Square, Owensboro; (270) 315-
5747 or (270) 686-8401.
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library
every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00
for self guided fun and educational activities
with a focus on literacy and school readiness;
Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.;
dcplibrary.org
SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 24SUPER SUNDAY We visit and encourage the
congregation to support the pursuit of higher
education. This year’s church is Zion Baptists, 2311
W. 9th St; Owensboro Community & Technical
College, 4800 New Hartford Rd.; (270) 686-4400
or Owensboro.kctcs.edu.
MONDAY, FEBRUARY 25ZAX KIDZ NIGHT Get a Zax Kidz Meal for 99¢
when you purchase an adult meal. Kids under 12
only. 5 – 8 p.m.; Zaxby’s, 5030 Frederica St.;
(270) 691-6166.
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FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 26U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must wear
socks; Children 5 and under get in for $5 all night;
5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.
com.
WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 27U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must wear
socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free,
unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5
– 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.
com.
FREE SUNDOWN STORYTIME: SEUSS AT NIGHT
Recommended for ages 5-12; Wear your favorite
pajamas and help us celebrate Dr. Seuss’ birthday
with Seuss stories and games; Daviess County
Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 28STORYLAB AT THE SCIENCE MUSEUM How Tall
Was Milton? by Lawrence F. Lowery and Actual
Size by Steve Jenkins; Lab: Measurement and
comparing sizes; Imagine a real eye bigger than
your head, a two-foot long tongue, or a three-
foot long frog! Measure your hand against the
handprint of a gorilla. Create your own actual size
booklet; 1:30 – 2:45 p.m.; Owensboro Museum of
Science and History, 122 East 2nd St.; (270) 687-
2738 or owensboromuseum.org.
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
SATURDAY, MARCH 2FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!
Visit the library every Saturday morning from
10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational
activities with a focus on literacy and
school readiness; Daviess County Public Library,
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
MONDAY, MARCH 4FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
THURSDAY, MARCH 7FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
BLUEGRASS JAM On the first Thursday of
each month, head to the Bluegrass Museum
to jam with other musicians. Jamming is for
musicians of all levels and begins at 7 p.m. For
more information, contact the Museum at (270)
926-7891 or visit their their website at www.
bluegrassmuseum.org. OP
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