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“Make Him A Monogamy Junkie”

Trigger His Commitment Chemical And Make Him BEG To Be Yours Forever

by By Gloria Lee

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Module 10: The Forgiveness Chemical

Lesson 27: The Science Of Forgiveness. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4

The basis of forgiveness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4

Lesson 28: The Forgive and Forget Script . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6

So, let’s get into it: here’s the Forgive and Forget script! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7

Questions? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8

‘What if he doesn’t read all the way to the end?’ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12

Here’s what I want you to do next: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Lesson 29: The Sudden Superpower technique . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Remember, the best ways to induce a flood of oxytocin are: . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Here’s what to do: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Questions? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Why Sudden Superpower works so darn well, plus how to actually DO it … . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

… here’s what I want you to do now: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Lesson 30: Advanced Superpowers: The Jack In The Box Tactic . . . 23

Here’s what to do for the Jack In The Box technique . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

Bonus suggestions to get your Jack In The Box juices flowing … . . . . . . . 26

Here’s what I want you to do now: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

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Lesson 27: The Science Of Forgiveness

Welcome to lesson 27!

In this lesson you're going to learn the science behind forgiveness: exactly what chemicals to trigger in his mind to rub out the part of his brain that holds negative memories, just like a giant pencil eraser rubbing out a spelling mistake.

And yes … this will have even the most wounded, offended, and outraged man forgiving you for everything, crawling back on his hands and knees and begging you for a second chance with his heart pulsating nervously in his throat.

The basis of forgiveness

Let's look at it this way: when you're angry, offended, and pissed off with someone, what's happening in your body?

You're generally …

- pretty tense and tight in your muscles

- clamped jaw

- stomach roiling

- chest tight

- heart pounding

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- maybe a headache or grinding teeth

- your skin feels prickly and hot

- You generally feel TIGHT, KNOTTED UP, and PRICKLY

Guess what else?

These are all ALSO symptoms of stress and tension.

Which means they can be ‘cured' by the same methodology as stress and tension is cured …

By simple relaxation.

Yup, it's true: the chemicals that are triggered by relaxation also trigger forgiveness.

(It's pretty hard to hate someone's guts if you're mellow, relaxed and totally blissed out!)

In other words, if you can make him relax …

And associate that relaxation with YOU …

He’s going to forgive you on a biological and physical and emotional level almost immediately.

Literally, his brain won’t let him hold a grudge.

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Pretty neat, huh!

So what you want to do now is trigger the chemicals dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin inside of his brain.

Read on to the next lesson, Lesson 28, where I show you exactly how to do it using the Forgive and Forget script!

Lesson 28: The Forgive and Forget Script

This lesson is about using the Forgive and Forget script to trigger the chemicals of relaxation and forgiveness inside of his brain: dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin inside of his brain.

These chemicals are all triggered by human touch – particularly, a MASSAGE.

Unfortunately, if someone is pissed off with you, they generally don't want you to touch them …

So that's why, after careful research and testing, I've put together, honed down, and refined something that's almost BETTER than a real massage:

An amazing text script (which also works great via email) that triggers the exact same flush of relaxation, bliss, reward and pleasure chemicals deep inside of his brain …

… without even touching him.

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So, let’s get into it: here’s the Forgive and Forget script!

Here's what you're going to write (either by text or email):

“Don't reply … I'm going to tell you a story. Imagine …' ‘You're lying belly down on a bed in a dark, warm room. You're comfortable and relaxed …' ‘… your eyes are closed ....' ‘… and you are not alone in that bed …' ‘… I'm touching you gently with my hands …' ‘… gently caressing you …' ‘… Mmm, it feels good. Warm and silky …' ‘… Your skin feels amazing …' ‘… you exhale deeply and feel the stress start to drain away like water …' ‘… I massage my way slowly down your back, rubbing and kneading you slowly …' ‘… it takes me a long time, you've got a lot of muscle to work with …' ‘… I'm squeezing and rubbing out all the pain and tension from your muscles one by one …' ‘… and you feel more and more relaxed …' ‘… your breath is getting mellower … deeper …' ‘… firelight flickering on the side of your face …' ‘… I slowly drip warm oil up and down your back … smoothing and rubbing it in slowly as I go …' ‘… you can hear my breathing … slow, a little catch in the back of my throat …' ‘… you can feel the warm weight of my ass pressing down on you as I sit back to rub the base of your spine …' ‘I lean forwards to rub your neck and you can feel my breasts pressing gently against your back …' ‘… you start to feel that arousal growing …' ‘… that wanting …' ‘… you can feel that heat building …' ‘… the oil is slick between us, warm and wet …' ‘‘… my breathing is speeding up …' ‘… my nipples hard against your back, my breasts soft and heavy, pressing against you …' ‘… still my strong fingers rubbing and stroking your warm body …' ‘… you're hard already …' ‘… throbbing …' ‘… pressing into the bed …' ‘… you know I how much I want you, my pussy wet already …' ‘… that craving inside, that ache …' ‘… wanting more …' ‘… suddenly, with a quick intake of breath, you can't take any more …' ‘… you flip over, my oiled skin sliding against yours …' ‘… you grab my arms and push me down on the bed …' ‘… you're lying on top of me … I can feel how hard you are between my legs …' ‘… suddenly we're

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eye to eye, face to face in the dark …' ‘… you can feel how much I want you …' ‘… and then … and then … and then ….' ‘… what would you like to happen next? The ball's in your court now … let me know how it ends ;)'

Questions?

Here are the most common questions I get about the ‘Forgive and Forget' script, plus the answers to those questions.

‘How should I send him the script?’

In a text or email is perfect.

As always, the ellipses between each installment ‘…' signify a break between texts. Wait 10-20 seconds before sending the next installment, so he doesn't receive them out of order.

(Obviously, disregard this part if it's an email – but that's why I prefer texts, because you can use the timing to create sexy tension and the desire for MORE.)

‘Can’t I just say this in my real voice?’

Yup, you can do anything you want. I do recommend using text or email for this one though, because it's SUPER DUPER HOT and you want the chance to build that tension in his body and his mind of wanting, but not being able to have (yet.)

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But, if you must say it out loud, keep reading to see how to do it. I give specific instructions below.

‘Wow, this is really LONG.’

Yes, it is!

It's a long script on purpose: because when someone's feeling tense, tight, and angry, you need to take them on a journey to literally change their state.

Anger is an emotion, and emotions are just chemicals running around inside the body. That's why simply saying ‘I'm sorry' isn't usually enough; you need to distract that person and change the balance of chemicals inside of his mind. And that takes time and artistry.

That's why the Forgive and Forget phrase is so long: because (as with all good texts) you want to start slow and build up, to GRADUALLY change the balance of chemicals inside his brain … and build, and build, and build that glorious heat that rubs out all other emotion and leaves him shaking with desire, ecstasy, and the need to feel your body against his.

It's a pretty damn good way to replace anger with forgiveness ;)

‘Can’t I just say I’m sorry?’

No. See above.

‘Why not?’

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Because if he's REALLY PISSED, you need to change his state.

‘I'm sorry' isn't enough to do that, most of the time. Again, see above.

‘I feel nervous sending a text this dirty …’

Well, that's okay! It's to be expected. Everyone feels nervous the first time they do ANYTHING new. It's called being a human being J

Remember though, you're in control here. This is all about YOU. And you never have to do ANYTHING you're truly uncomfortable with.

But again (I know, I know, I sound like a broken record) keeping an open mind really is key to making this program work for you.

I look at it this way: if what you'd been doing up til now had been working the way you wanted and needed it to, chances are you wouldn't be here reading these words. Maybe it's time to try something different.

‘What’s going to happen when I send it?’

Five things:

First, he'll open his phone (or email), see a text from you, and instinctively go ‘Rrrrgh! NOW what?!'

(He's mad, remember. Only to be expected.)

But then, when he sees it's not some angry text - OR a depressing apology dripping with sadness and heavy words that's a total downer to read - he'll

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get a little bit interested.

Then he'll start to feel the tension and anger draining away … replaced by warm feelings of interest, curiosity, and excitement.

Then he'll keep reading, and realize he's REALLY interested.

Then he'll start to think, ‘Hmm, when did these pants get so tight?' … he'll start fidgeting uncomfortably trying to hide the bulge in his crotch …

And: BOOM. State changed. No more anger. No more bitterness.

Just hot, dreamy feelings of desire, excitement, tantalizing heat …

… and the urge to bend you over the nearest couch (or chair, or up against the wall) and show you EXACTLY how he wants that story to end.

‘What if I send him this text and he doesn’t reply?’

That's okay too.

You don't need him to reply to your email or your text at all. That's not the POINT.

The point is to take him on a journey that alters the chemicals inside his brain, to change his STATE, to physically remove the anger and resentment from his brain.

If he reads all the way to the end (and he will), trust me: it works EVERY time.

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‘What if he doesn’t read all the way to the end?’

I've had this text tested out by multiple women in multiple different situations, and let me tell you, I have NEVER had it reported back to me that the man in question just stopped reading.

But, I suppose technically anything is possible …

… so if you're with that one in a million guy who can spontaneously just STOP reading a dirty story written specifically to, and about, himself, then here's what I recommend:

1. Give him some time to cool down. (It depends what you did that he’s mad about, but generally speaking, at least a few hours.) This enables time to do what your story would have done (if he’d read it): change the chemical balance in his brain to change his state.

2. Approach him gently and say, in your new soft voice, that you wrote him something special ‘just for him’ that you’d really, really like him to hear. If you ask sweetly enough, he’ll say yes. (Make sure you’re using that soft voice you practiced in your Emotional Forcefield technique from module 3!)

3. If he’s ready to listen (he might grunt, nod curtly, or something like that if he’s still mad, but if you ask the way I tell you to in step 2 he WILL want to hear it) then whip out your phone and start reading it out. (Yes, using your Emotional Forcefield voice.)

4. Pace the story as you would pace the texts: with about 10-20 seconds in between each installment. This gives his mind plenty of time to illustrate the picture with vivid colors and sensations, and for the TENSION (vital)

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to build between each new scene.

5. When you come to the final sentence, give him a saucy look, bite your lip a little bit, and smile sweetly as you read the final line.

6. Look him in the eye and just WAIT. Do not break the silence first. It is VITAL that you let him respond before saying anything else. He needs to be in the driver’s seat and actually make the next move for this technique to work.

7. Then … let whatever happens next, happen. (I’ll bet you anything it’ll be hot and juicy, though.) Enjoy!

So, now that you know what the Forgive and Forget phrase is, and the neuroscience behind why it works so darn well …

… here’s what I want you to do next:

Go to the downloads section for module 10, and open up the worksheet 1 for Module 10.

Do what it says in the worksheet.

Then, come back to the program, and move on to the next lesson in Module 10, where I’ll teach you about the Sudden Superpower technique for converting even the ugliest argument, disagreement or fight into happiness, connection, and affection!

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Lesson 29: The Sudden Superpower technique

Okay, let's talk about arguing.

You and I both know how much arguing with your man sucks, so I'm not going to waste your time or mine explaining why everyone hates it.

Instead, let's get right to the solution!

The solution to any argument (no matter how ugly) lies right inside the brain …

… in the form of oxytocin.

By now, you know that oxytocin is the snuggle, cuddle, and bonding chemical, right?

It's what bonds moms to their kids, wives to their husbands, and women to men they've just made love with.

But, do you know WHY oxytocin exists in the first place?

Because it HAS to.

Without it, nobody would ever want to have a baby or take care of it once they had one.

This might sound insane to you, but think about it:

The feelings of deep love, connection, bonding and desire to protect that

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most people feel toward their newborn baby?

That's not because of anything the BABY is doing.

That's because the human brain is wired to release a huge burst of oxytocin at the sight, sound, and even SMELL of a baby.

Those strong loving feelings are all because of the CHEMICAL, and nothing else.

Studies have even been connected where female rats were injected with a compound that temporarily canceled oxytocin out in their systems.

The result? They abandoned their babies, wouldn't even look at them, and absolutely refused to feed them or touch them under any circumstances.

Yet, when the compound wore off and their natural oxytocin returned? They went right back to being loving, cuddly, patient, caregiving momma rats.

Same thing with humans: thanks to oxytocin, the cuddle chemical, it makes the most demanding, screaming, sleep-depriving child still feel like the greatest blessing on earth to the mom.

And you can use it to create the same level of loving, bonding, and protecting feelings in your man, too.

It's the ULTIMATE solution to even the ugliest, most horrific argument you ever had. It napalms those ugly feelings and fills him with the desire to protect you, agree with you, and make sure you’re safe and happy no matter what.

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Neat, huh?

This lesson will show you how to do it – using the Sudden Superpower technique.

Let's go!

Remember, the best ways to induce a flood of oxytocin are:

- Eye contact

- Sex

- Making out

- Watching emotional movies together

- Laughing

- Exercising together

- Dancing

- And prolonged physical contact.

This method is going to combine four of those things at once – making a potent oxytocin cocktail for him to enjoy (and you to reap the benefits of.)

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Here’s what to do:

First step (of four): Directly after an argument, when things are raw, you need to take it EASY. That means, get some space.

You both need some time out to let the nerves settle, so go into a different room (or out of the house altogether).

About half an hour is enough to change your state (and his), clearing the way for step two.

Second step: Approach him gently, make soft eye contact, and, using your Emotional Forcefield voice, say: ‘You know, even though we have these disagreements from time to time, I really love you and want you to be happy. I'd love it if we could take some time right now to just forget about what we were just discussing earlier, and bond with each other the way we really feel deep down.'

Third step: Time for some physical contact! If you have a bath handy? Run a hot bath, light candles, and get in together.

If you don't have a bath? Rent an emotional movie (romantic, funny, even sad, as long as it's emotional) and watch it together while snuggling on the couch.

If you hate movies, for some crazy reason? Then just lie down on the couch, put on some relaxing music, and cuddle together. Full body contact, please.

The only rule here is, no talking about the argument itself. Reiterate your desire to just ‘forget about whatever we were talking about, and just spend some time enjoying each other's company'.

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Reiterate that you love him, you want him to be happy, and you're willing to do whatever he needs to make that happen.

Then, enjoy your cuddle time.

Step four: Go back to your normal, loving life together and see how his behavior is different now! You should see marked improvements in his expression, his tone of voice, how affectionate he is towards you IMMEDIATELY. Don't be surprised if he starts smiling more, whistling to himself, and doing more around the house. This stuff is strong.

Questions?

‘I don’t think you quite understand how ugly our arguments are. There’s no way something this simple could help.’

Okay, my answer to this has two parts.

Part one: That's fine, I see where you're coming from. I realize that you may honestly perceive the level of argument and strife in your relationship to be ‘unfixable'.

But I can virtually guarantee you, it’s not unfixable. My certainty exceeds your doubt on this : )

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First, let me ask you this:

Have you ever had EXCRUCIATING back pain … walked around in agony all day … had trouble even tying your own shoes … suffered horribly …

And then you went to see the chiropractor, who made one little adjustment, released a nerve, and suddenly everything feels fine again?

Just one little ‘crack' and suddenly you're back to normal.

It's the same thing here.

There's no rule that says a solution has to be ‘complicated' for it to work.

I'm telling you, triggering oxytocin is simple because it HAS to be – the survival of the human race literally depends on it. Mother Nature knows what she's doing. Trust her!

Part Two: I have to admit that I'm a little concerned by the tone of this question.

‘Ugly arguments' is one thing; abuse is another.

Let me be clear here: if you even THINK your partner is being emotionally or physically abusive towards you, please, please do yourself a favor and seek professional help.

This is not lip service; I'm not kidding around. Abusive behavior is insidious and scary and it is SMART to seek help in a situation like that.

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ALL couples have arguments (and they're rarely much fun for either of you), but I have to make it clear that this program is not designed to help women in serious abusive relationships.

So if that's you, please seek help from a trained abuse counselor. And I mean NOW.

Moving on …

‘I hate fighting with him. I don’t want to argue at all. Will this help us stop arguing altogether?’

Okay, look: EVERYONE hates fighting. It's awful and exhausting and painful.

Crying and yelling and all that horrible stuff leaves wounds, is exhausting, and contributes to the layer of ‘crud' that builds up in ALL relationships over time (that ‘he said, she said' stuff that leaves long-term scars and resentment.)

So, will this technique help you to stop DISAGREEING absolutely and 100% for all time no matter what?

Maybe.

But in all honesty, probably not. All humans disagree with each other.

That’s not a sign of an unhealthy relationship; it’s a sign of being alive and having a brain that works.

But, will it help you stop FIGHTING HORRIBLY with each other?

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Absolutely. The more oxytocin you can trigger in his brain, the more he’s going to INSTINCTIVELY want to love you, treasure you, and keep you safe.

(Obviously, your own character and integrity is going to play a part here too – if you make crazy demands, lay down ultimatums, or make him jump through hoops, then I doubt anything's going to help you long-term.

(But if you're basically a good woman, you love your man, and you just want the BOTH of you to be happy?

Then yeah. You can fully expect the nature, duration, and painfulness of your arguing to go WAAAAAAY down the more you use this technique.)

‘Can I use this method even when we’re not arguing?’

YES!! The more you use this method, the better.

You seriously can't have too much oxytocin. It's the chemical that makes you feel like it's ‘early days' again: those delicious days of early dating and courtship where you just want to climb inside of each other and never come out.

So by all means, PLEASE DO use this method as often as you like. The more cuddling, eye contact, soft communication, and mutual love, the better. Go for it!

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So now that you know how the Sudden Superpower works, the neurochemistry and neurohormones BEHIND why it works so darn well, plus how to actually DO it …

… here’s what I want you to do now:

Go to the downloads section for Module 10.

Access Worksheet 2 for Module 10 (it’s a cheat sheet – no work required in this lesson : ) yay!)

Print it off if you need it, transcribe the basics into your journal, or simply keep it in an accessible place for use next time you need to snap your man out of his negative state and douse him in the snuggle chemical. At the very least, read through the cheat sheet NOW to solidify the basics in your head.

Then come back to the program and move on to the next lesson in Module 10, where I’ll give you the Jack in the Box technique for advanced state-changing!

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Lesson 30: Advanced Superpowers: The Jack In The Box Tactic

Here's a short but powerful method you can use mid actual argument to change his ‘state' and literally SHOCK him out of a bad mood, anger, grouchiness, or even full-fledged yelling.

‘What’s a state again? And why do I need to change his?’

Your ‘state' is simply your biochemical markers of whatever state of mind you're in.

So if you're in a scared, nervous state, you're going to act (and look) scared and nervous, because those are the chemicals flooding your body.

If you're in an aggressive, angry state, you're going to act AGGRESSIVE, because those are the chemicals driving your state.

(Incidentally, someone who's really, really nice can still be super-mean when they're in an aggressive or angry ‘state'. It's just how humans work.)

The easiest way to snap ANYONE out of a certain state is to do something radically and physically

different …

… without warning.

So with that in mind, let me introduce you to the Jack In The Box method –

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something kinda crazy I used on my man once, that worked so damn well that it's become a technique that women go CRAZY over.

This is especially awesome if you have a man who’s prone to getting mean, angry, grumpy, grouchy, or ‘mumpy’ when he’s in a bad mood.

Remember (genuine abusiveness aside), a truly lovely person can still be mean when they're in the wrong state.

So if your guy occasionally says rude stuff, or acts like a jerk, when he's mad, it doesn't necessarily mean HE'S a jerk.

It just means he can act like one sometimes in the wrong circumstances.

And remember: ALL humans (including you) are capable of being mean and horrible stuff when we're in the wrong state.

And that’s why this technique is so awesome – because it jerks him OUT of that state, and right back into his normal, loving self.

You’re literally about to change the way his nervous system is functioning, mid-argument.

Here’s what to do for the Jack In The Box technique.

Step One. You're having an argument, tempers are rising, maybe voices are rising too. You can feel that something's got to change. You need to avert disaster before it ruins the entire day. So …

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Step Two. Out of NOWHERE … you just do something ABSOLUTELY CRAZY.

This can literally be anything, but let me give you a few examples:

o One woman was having an argument with her husband, standing in the kitchen, about whose turn it was to do the dishes. The argument started getting worse and she could tell it was going to get ugly. So what did she do? She grabbed an egg out of a carton that happened to be sitting on the countertop, and broke it over her head. Her husband was so shocked he burst out laughing. The fight ended happily … in the shower together, as he washed the egg out of her hair (and they both cracked up.)

o Another woman was sick and tired of her boyfriend always coming to dinner in his underpants. She asked and asked for him to put some more clothes on so they could relax and have a nice meal together, and although he agreed that he would, nothing ever changed. So the next time he came to the table in his tighty whiteys, she calmly removed her shirt, bra, and underpants, and sat there naked apart from her bikini underpants. They both started giggling crazily … and ended up making out on the table.

Am I saying you need to break eggs over your head or get naked?

No. The point here is to do something – ANYTHING – that’s completely unexpected. Without warning, and out of nowhere.

Just DO it!

Doing something weird and radically different with your body is the best way known to humankind to change your state.

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And the shock of witnessing such a radical change has been repeatedly proven to instantly alter HIS state, too.

Surprise – a powerful jolt of adrenaline - is like a reboot to your nervous system.

It literally wipes your body clean of any emotions you may have been feeling just a moment ago –no matter how powerful they were. That’s why this works so well.

Bonus suggestions to get your Jack In The Box juices flowing …

Next time you're having an argument or one of ‘those' conversations, and you can just TELL it's going nowhere, you could try …

o Jumping up and down on the spot (or better yet, jumping jacks. Or better yet even, burpees.)

o Cawing loudly like a chicken after each sentence you say.

o Standing on your head (balance against a wall for safety) and poke your tongue out at him like a little kid turning his nose up at a plate of broccoli.

o Take your shirt off. (For some reason, this one always seems to work really well. Wonder why that could be? ;)

o Grab him by the hand and start waltzing around the room to imaginary music.

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o Do you know how to twerk? (Aka the Beyonce Booty Pop.) If you can shake your booty, the best possible time to do it is during an argument. Guaranteed state-changer.

o Get on your hands and knees and crawl over to him and rub your face against his knees, purring like a kitten.

o Start laughing uncontrollably for no reason whatsoever. (If you’ve ever seen someone truly belly laughing, you’ll know how hard it is not to join in.)

Does this sound super weird and crazy?

GOOD!

That means it’s perfect.

Remember, the whole point here is to do something SUPER DUPER WEIRD and out of the ordinary.

You want to shock him with a sudden spike of adrenaline and make him screech with reluctant laughter at what a lovable weirdo you are.

This is the perfect way to change his state and break the momentum of any argument – no matter how bad it’s getting.

Look, I know this sounds insane.

I get it. The Jack In The Box is a leap of faith the first time you do it.

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(That time I broke an egg over my head, I had a split second where I wondered, ‘Am I just literally insane here?’ … yup, that woman from the story was me.)

But if you've got the guts to try it, then DO it. It's weird, it's crazy, it's fun, and most of all – IT WORKS.

So now that you know what the Jack in the Box tactic is, and the science behind why it works so

damn well, here’s what I want you to do now:

Go to the downloads section for Module 10 and check out assignment 3 for this module.

Do what it says.

Then move on to Module 11, ‘One Chemical to Rule Them All’, where I’ll give you some final mastery tricks and answer all your questions!