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Let’s Have a Parade! By Aviva Yablok, Early Childhood Department Director, [email protected]; Pictures taken by Early Childhood Department Teachers
The Manhattan Day School Annual Early Childhood Thanksgiving Parade took
place this year on Wednesday, November 21st. The air was cool, the sun was out, and the
day was perfect. As usual, our parade route was lined with parents, grandparents, devoted
caregivers, friends, and even some pets. The parade was led by the Kindergarten classes
who held the banner and pushed their turkey float. They were followed by the Nursery
Four classes, then the Nursery 1 and 3 classes and the Toddlers (who walk a little slower).
The procession continued and brought the parade back around the corner to the front doors
of MDS. There was music, costumes and a brightly colored balloon for each child. The day
continued with Thanksgiving feasts for all our classes. Each class prepared a delicious
Thanksgiving specialty food and shared their meal with another class. It was a memorable
day on the Early Childhood calendar. Now we’re looking forward to Chanukah!
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Celebrating Thanksgiving Pictures taken by Early Childhood Department Teachers; Poems submitted by Eileen Dahan, [email protected]
Thanksgiving 2012 By Jonathan Haberman, 6B
“We’re finally here,” I said.
we’re at my aunt’s house
we walk inside
greeted by our cousins
aunts and uncles.
My brother and I race down to the basement
and we say, “I call first game of ping
pong.”
He beat me 11 to 9
Oh!
how sad, I thought
I’ll beat him next time
I have no doubt.
We went upstairs
a big meal awaited us
right in the middle of the table
A big
Juicy
turkey.
I took a big drumstick
but when I sat down to eat
I realized that my “eyes were hungrier then my
stomach.”
Later on we had to go
Oh!
how sad I thought
Best Thanksgiving year ever
Without a doubt
When I Look Out the Window By Rose Adelman, 6G
When I look out the window I see
Cars
Cars and trucks,
Traffic
It smells like gasoline
Like Cheerios
Like soda.
The only sounds are
Vroom, Honk, Screech, Vroom
Erev Thanksgiving traffic.
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What Is Your Favorite Thanksgiving Memory? Pictures taken by Early Childhood Department Teachers; Poems submitted by Eileen Dahan, [email protected]
Thanksgiving Weekend By Lior Saada, 6B
Thanksgiving
A taste of a short delightful vacation
with your family
cousins, uncles, aunts, and grandfather
all chatting, joking, eating and watching T.V.
tasting delicious meatloaf
swallowing American sweet potatoes and
marshmallows
and eating fresh, amazing pumpkin pie
A windy, bright sunny day
walking with my grandfather and cousins
talking, eating pizza
I’m alone
without siblings or parents bossing me about
eating pizza
a good Shabbat
eating salads, Tunisian meatballs and more
Now it’s over
my grandfather left
back to school
but I’ll still have good memories
and maybe next year’s Thanksgiving will be an
even better
cheerful memory!
Snow on Thanksgiving Weekend By Cayla Muschel, 6G
I run, run, run to the island of grass.
All around me, white, white, white.
Twirling, twirling through softness.
Barrels of snow, falling out of the sky.
People running toward me on that island of
grass,
Arms spread wide to catch flakes falling.
The fresh, cold taste of winter on my tongue.
Feeling falling white
forming a tiara on my head
crystals on my gloves.
Snow wanting to weave a blanket over the rock
-hard ground.
Listening to wind crashing against my ears
As I run and twirl.
Smelling the freshness of snow.
Watching, watching.
Snowflakes swirling around me.
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What I Am Thankful For... Pictures taken by Early Childhood Department Teachers; Poems submitted by Eileen Dahan, [email protected]
What I Am Thankful For By Suzi Dweck, 6G
For music
filling the world with sound.
Happy music or sad
giving your day something to be excited about
saying something,
for every action you do.
Thankfulness
For the summer
A break
from work
A clear blue sky
Nothing to worry about
A hot day
I can dive into a pool
and feel refreshed
Thankfulness
For spring,
not too hot
not too cold,
the perfect day
To run around
Deep pink flowers hanging from a tree
about to bloom
Colors peeking out around the corner
About to open from their hiding places
To be free
and open to see the world
America By Loren Elmann, 6G
the food
the shelter
the clothes
the independence
America
The place where I live
It holds my freedom
I am thankful for America
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Thank You, NYPD!
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MDS Cares for Long Beach
As we con-
tinue our efforts to
help those impacted
by Hurricane Sandy,
MDS has focused its
resources and ener-
gies in helping the
Jewish community of
Long Beach. Fol-
lowing an assembly
this morning, each
student has received
a Tzedaka box to
help the effort. In
addition to the funds
the children collect in
the boxes, you also
have one last opportunity to be one of the sponsors of tomorrow night’s Chanukah Boutique. 25% of all Chanukah Boutique spon-
sorship dollars will be allocated directly to help Long Beach.
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Sending Our Love to Israel By Havi Pesso, [email protected]
Last week, our students in our fourth grade Lashon classes wrote letters to children in Israel. These children have been in
danger from rockets that have been fired from Gaza. We sent our letters to a school in Ashkelon, and we hope the children will enjoy
reading them and perhaps even write back to us. Here are some of the beautiful letters that our children wrote:
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Chanukah Boutique, 12/1
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How Are Talmudic Coins Relevant Today? By Rabbi Yehoshua Polter, [email protected]
What do Pruta, Issur, Dinar, and Shekel have in common? That’s right;
they are coins, mentioned in the Gemara, used many years ago. They are also
used in Rabbi Polter’s fourth grade boys class. The boys get recognized for
participating in class by reading, following along, asking questions, and giving
insights and answers. This “Token Economy” has had such an impact that the
learning proceeds with such excitement! There are times when some boys are
so enthusiastic that they write their insights on paper and show it to Rabbi Polter
after class – or at lunch.
Recently, after learning the dinim of Asher Yatzar, we had a 10 day
campaign to say Asher Yatzar at home. The results were amazing! Letters
came from home from proud parents, and boys were stopping me in the hallway
for me to answer to their bracha! What a Kiddush Hashem! It is amazing what
a few Prutot as an incentive can do. All in all, the boys learn with such excite-
ment it’s wonderful to watch and be a part of. Keep bringing that “money” in!
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Earth Science Adventures By Krishan Khanna, [email protected]
Sixth graders are learning
Earth Science. They have begun
exploring the geology of the earth.
Students were introduced to miner-
als, such as the basic earth materials
that compose rocks. They observed,
described, and recorded properties
of different minerals and used the
scratch test to determine the relative
hardness.
Students identified the
characteristic property of the miner-
al calcite and determined that the
mineral bubbles when placed in
hydrochloric acid. They also en-
joyed observing different kind of
luster in the rocks. They had a great
time exploring the property of
cleavage or fracture.
The sixth graders also
learned the three different catego-
ries of rocks: igneous, metamorphic,
and sedimentary. They also did an
excellent job exploring rock cycles.
The students are now ready to explore earth’s atmosphere. They are very curious to find out what causes the different types
of weather to occur. This is especially significant in light of the devastation that powerful storms like Sandy can cause. It is im-
portant to understand what causes such severe weather and to be able to predict when and where these storms will occur. Stay tuned
for our next publications to find more.
How Many Passengers Can Fit in Your Boat? By Krishan Khanna, [email protected]
Students in Room 401 are learning how to design and control
experiments. They are exploring variables that can affect the result of
the experiments. In our recent science class, the students were divided
into three groups. Each group was given a 30cm X 30cm aluminum
foil to make a boat. They were asked to test their boat by loading pen-
ny passengers. The challenge was to see which boat from which group
could carry the most passengers before it sinks.
It was nice to see the students working so hard to make their
boats. They were consulting their partners to explore different ways to
improve the design of their boats. It was good to see them being inno-
vative by asking for additional material like tape to seal the edges of
the boat so that water does not enter from the gaps.
Finally, we had our results. It was a pleasure to watch them
analyze what happened and reach the conclusion that the bigger the
size of boat, the more passengers it can carry. Further, they also fig-
ured out that the placement of passengers at different locations in the
boat also matters, ensuring that boat carry more passengers without
sinking. The students are ready to explore new scientific concepts.
Keep looking for their amazing work.
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Around the World in Second Grade By Julienne Dweck, [email protected]
This song “Manhattan” helps students understand where Manhattan is in the
bigger picture of the world, going from small to big.
Manhattan
Our School’s in the borough of Manhattan / Which is in the city of New York
Which is in the state of New York too / In the country of the USA
In the continent of North America / In the Northern Hemisphere
Of our Planet Earth / Our school’s in the borough of Manhattan!
We have just introduced “The Fifty States That Rhyme”. Before you
know it, the second graders will be able to recite all fifty states!
The 50 States That Rhyme Song
Alabama, and Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas
California, Colorado, Co-nnecticut and more
Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho
Illinois, Indiana, Iowa ...35 to go...
Kansas, and Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine
Maryland, Massachusetts and good old Michigan
Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, and Montana
Nebraska's 27, number 28's Nevada
Next, New Hampshire, and New Jersey, and way down, New Mexico
There's New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio
Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, now let's see
Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee
Texas and there's Utah, Vermont, I'm almost through
Virginia and there's Washington, and West Virginia, too
Could Wisconsin be the last state or is it just 49?
No, Wyoming is the last state in The 50 States That Rhyme!
The second graders are learning all about geography through
maps and song! They have already memorized their seven
continents and know exactly where to place them on a blank
map. Next up, oceans!
Continents and Oceans
Let’s learn the seven continents
Let’s learn the seven continents
Let’s learn the seven continents
And then we’ll know them all.
North America, South America,
Europe, Africa, Asia,
Australia and Antarctica
And now we know them all.
Let’s learn the major oceans
Let’s learn the major oceans
Let’s learn the major oceans
And then we’ll know them all.
Atlantic and the Pacific,
Indian and the Arctic,
Last is the Southern Ocean
And now we know them all.
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How Did B’nei Yisrael Travel in the Desert? By Students in 6G
This week, Mrs. Federgrun’s 6th Grade girls made models of the way the shvatim camped as described in Bamidbar. We
each designed our own models and we all worked really hard on them. We made models of the tents of the shvatim, the camp of the
Levi'im, and the Mishkan. We also labeled the directions for everything. Even though we all had to display the same thing, we all
used different materials to portray the machanot. We all had a very fun time presenting our projects! Mrs. Federgrun is so proud of
the girls’ creativity and accuracy! The projects are on display in the lobby; please come check them out!
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Mi Chadash b’MDS? Rabbi Avi Genack! By Messenger Staff
Each week the Messenger introduces you to a new teacher who is infusing
our school with additional energy. This week, we introduce Rabbi Avi Genack:
O.K. where am I from? I grew up right here on the Upper West Side,
straight until I journeyed off to Israel to study Torah. While there I fell in love with
Torah study. Somewhere towards the end of my first year there, I began to toy with
the idea of making it a life-long pursuit. As I watched my rebbeim and saw their
joy in torah and joy in life, I told myself that I must try to tap into that. And so, I
stayed in Israel for nine more years and... tapped into it.
After five years there I met my wife, Yael. We now live in Monsey to-
gether with our children Simcha (8), Shoshana Sofia Rose ( no, it's not Sophia;
she’s named Sofia because she was born on the sofa in our home in Israel) (6),
Michal (4) and Tehilla - today is her second birthday. Happy birthday Tehilla!
Why M.D.S. you ask? M.D.S was a no brainer, what else could I want
than to come back to my roots, the Upper West SIde and to fulfill my passion,
teaching torah to the greatest students. On top of all that, Rabbi Besser is very sup-
portive of teachers’ ideas and encourages innovation. This is phenomenal, for it
not only nurtures innovation, but it allows the teachers to become part of the M.D.S
family. As they contributetheir own ideas and programs and creativity, they be-
come part of school.
What do I teach? I teach sixth grade gemara and navi (boys), seventh
grade chumash (boys), eighth grade navi (to boys and to girls), and eighth grade
dinim (girls).
In my spare time? You mean what’s called personal time… I think I’ll
keep that to myself. Just kidding… I sort of gave it away already; I love learning
and writing. My most relaxing time of the week is Shabbos. After I daven at the
early minyan in my neighborhood, the minyan goes across the street to Kiddush, warm overnight kugel is served, along with home-
made cake, and beverages. Next you go back to shul, you make a coffee, and you sit there with the gemara that you have been wait-
ing to study all week. Heaven!
I love spending time with my wife and kids and reading to them until we all fall asleep. Another thing I have recently picked
up, and am really enjoying is speaking about learning with my students on the phone. This is a special time, when the learning leaves
the class room, and you can give all your attention to each other.
Thanks for the interview it was a pleasure, and it is a pleasure to be part of this wonderful family - a.k.a M.D.S!
See Our Machanot Projects in the Lobby! By Messenger Staff
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Our Trip to the New York Transit Museum! By Shoshana Horowitz, 3A
The third graders went on a trip to visit the New York Transit Museum. We took a bus and drove to Brooklyn. When we got
there, we took one look at the entrance and started complaining because it looked like a subway entrance. We were not in the mood to
go on a subway. We thought it would be a regular building. Once we were inside and started our tour, we were amazed. We got to
see and sit in one of the oldest subway trains. Some of the trains were over 100 years old! The seats in many of the old trains were
made of bamboo. Our guide told us that women’s stockings would rip often because of the bamboo. It was so cool to notice how
each train became more modern. There was a train called the money train. It was used for storing the money that they made from
selling tokens. Tokens were used years ago before the Metrocard. What I liked most was using the old turnstiles and comparing them
to the ones we use today. Thank you Ms. Glatzer for arranging this trip!
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The Buzz on Books: Exploring Marine Life By Michele Lyons, Librarian, [email protected]
Something was “fishy” in the
library this week and that’s because
we were sharing nonfiction books
about the ocean and marine life. Al-
most all of these books are brand new
additions to the MDS Library that
were acquired during a summertime
visit to the Brooklyn Aquarium
Bookstore.
Our three-year-old Nursery
classes enjoyed two great new books.
One Lonely Sea Horse by Saxton
Freymann opens with one lonely sea-
horse in the cold and salty sea. Before
long his fishy pals in twos, in threes –
in groups up to ten—stop by to cheer him up. What’s spectacular about this book is the art! Joost Elffers creates an underwater “feast
for the eyes” with brilliant banana octopi, angelfish peppers, and simply incredible fruit and vegetable sculptures. Our students were
mesmerized! In Fish Faces by Norbert Wu, close-up photos of fish faces introduce young readers to some of the world’s most
strangely-shaped and brightly-colored ocean dwellers. Our four-year-old Nursery and Kindergarten classes explored My Life in the
Wild: Penguin by Meredith Costain. The evocative narrative in this book weaves a story around the life cycle of a young penguin as
it grows from egg to adult. Stunning illustrations focus on the details of its everyday life: from the secure comfort of the family group
to the daily dangers of life in the Antarctic. Our students went wild over this selection!
The cover of Ocean Picture Pops by Roger Priddy boasts “Amazing photo pop-ups like you’ve never seen before!” Our first
and second graders found out that the author was not kidding! In this fun and informative book, readers discover the incredible world
of the oceans. The unique pop-up photographs and fascinating facts truly amazed our students (many of whom displayed an impres-
sive knowledge of marine life)!
Did you know star fish are created in two very different ways? Some begin as babies that hatch from eggs. Others are creat-
ed when a grown-up fish loses one of its feet. The broken off foot becomes a whole new star by growing four matching feet, a body,
and a brain! How cool is that? “Very cool”, according to our third graders who learned these and other amazing facts about ocean
life by reading Seashore Babies by Kathy Darling.
Exploring all of these books gave us a wonderful opportunity to learn something about the genre of nonfiction. Our younger
students learned the difference between fiction and nonfiction. The content of fiction books is “fake”: these books are stories that an
author imagines and then writes. The content of nonfiction books is NOT “fake’: these books contain facts and information that is
true so that we can learn things about the world around us. Our older grades learned that nonfiction books are organized by subject
area and are located on the middle shelves of our library. They also discovered that it’s perfectly okay to read a nonfiction book out
of order—depending on what they need or want to know.
Many of our classes borrowed books from the library this week. Check out the great titles our students selected during
checkout time. Also, please remind students to bring their books back on time. A due date is stamped on a card that can be found in
an envelope in the back of each book. Enjoy the books and happy reading!
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Our Friendship Quilts By Mira Banin, [email protected] and Lynette Heller, [email protected]
How special it is to be a part of
the Toddler class and enjoy the many ex-
periences it brings. The children are start-
ing to build relationships and make new
friends. The children of the two Toddler
classes, Toddler Aleph and Toddler Bet
share many activities together, like play-
ing in the yard, having music with Morah
Karen and Ivrit with Morah Orit. We have
also shared Shabbat parties and playtime
together. We decided it would be wonder-
ful to create a special “Friendship Quilt”
using the handprint of each child. The
children are learning great social skills and
how important it is to play, share and have
fun with their peers. So many things can
be achieved together by holding the hand
of a friend. May this year be the begin-
ning of some very special friendships.
Celebrating Shabbat Together in Nursery 4 By Aviva Yablok, Early Childhood Department Director, [email protected]
We had a wonderful Shabbat experience at the Nursery Four Friday night Dinner, catered by our own Aleta Gelb, Director
of Food Services. Everyone enjoyed an excellent adult and children’s menu. Thank you to The Bible Players for providing entertain-
ment for the children, and thank you to Rabbi Jeremy Litton for providing entertainment to the adults. Thank you to MDS parent
Rabbi Charles Savenor for giving a devar torah. We had a wonderful Shabbat atmosphere where families were able to get to know
each other. Thank you to Chairpeople: Shira Spira, Tova Epstein, and Sarra Schwartz and to Lisa Staiman, Meryl Degan Louzoun,
and Kellie Rothman for helping set up.
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Simchat Chattan v’Kallah By Julia Rose, 6G
Throughout the past several weeks, 6G has been working on a
very special project. It all started when Morah Rendler announced that
we were going to raise money for a bride. Then we decided that the best
way to raise money was… a jump –a- thon! We each received a chart
for sponsors; sponsors could either give us a flat rate or an amount of
money per jump. Finally, after lots of practice jumping, we were ready
to jump our hearts out! We went to the gym to start jumping rope. After
everyone had finished jumping the range was 32- 132 per girl!
Our next stop was to prepare for the wedding. 6G paired up and
each pair created an arch for simcha dancing. We each started with a
plain hula-hoop which eventually turned into a beautiful flower arch!
On November 15th we gathered chattering excitingly, in our best
clothes in front of the shul where the wedding took place. We each stood
with our partners holding our arches when the bride and groom flew
through and began to dance. After we danced and danced, we each got a
very special desert.
All in all we had a wonderful night and an experience to last a
lifetime! Thank you Morah Rendler and everybody who helped support
this eventful night!
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Our Arches in Action! By Rivky Rendler, [email protected]
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8G Devar Torah Project: VaYetze Submitted by Bethany Strulowitz, [email protected]; Devar Torah written by Miriyam Goldman, 8G
[Last week’s parsha was VaYetze. We are printing Miriyam’s devar torah so
you can keep up with the parsha cycle.]
Does anyone know why we read the parsha every Shabbat? Why do we care
that Yaakov moved the rock off the well, or that Moshe hit a rock? These Parshiyot tell
us stories about what happened in the Torah. We read them because of the messages
we can learn from them. In last week’s parsha, Parashat VaYetze, Yaakov leaves Be’er Sheva because
his brother Esav is chasing him. Yaakov goes toward Charan and on his way he lies on
a rock and has a dream. In his dream, he sees a ladder coming from shamayim with
angels going up and down it. In this dream Hashem said, “The ground you lie on will be
the land your future generations will lie on. I will guard you in all places that you go.”
When Yaakov arrives in Be’er Sheva, he sees a well and many shepherds gath-
ered around it. He goes over to see what is going on. They tell him that there is a rock
on the well and that they are unable to get the water, even though they have tried mov-
ing the rock. Yaakov without any help moved the rock. He sees Rachel and falls in
love with her. He then works seven years in order to marry her. After seven years were
up, Yaakov was prepared to marry Rachel, but on the day of their wedding Yaakov is
tricked by Lavan, Rachel’s father, and marries Leah, Rachel’s sister instead. But, Yaa-
kov still wants to marry Rachel so Lot says if you work for another seven years you
may marry Rachel. So Yaakov works for another seven years and marries Rachel.
Rachel isn’t able to have children but Leah is. Leah has six sons and a daugh-
ter with Yaakov. Yaakov marries Rachel and Leah maidservants Bilha and Zilpa, and has two sons with both. Rachel really wants
children and davens to Hashem for children, and He grants her wish. She has a son and names him Yosef.
When Yaakov is about ready to leave Lavan’s house, he wanted to be able to take both his wives but Lavan wouldn’t let him
so they left in secret. Before they left Rachel took all of Lavan’s idols so he wouldn’t be able to worship them anymore. Lavan soon
found out and found Yaakov and blamed him for taking the idols. Yaakov made a curse that whoever took Lavan’s idols should die.
Because Rachel was the one who took the idols she died right after Binyamin was born.
While reading this parsha, I had a few questions. One is: Why Yosef is named Yosef? The Torah tells us the answer is that
she called him Yosef because she wants more children: she says, “May Hashem add on another son to me” (30:24). This bothered
me; why should Rachel be asking for another son when Hashem has already granted her one son? Rashi says she knew that Yaakov
was going to have another son, and she wanted that last son to be hers. The parsha opens with the words: “And Yaakov left Be’er Sheva and went to Charan” (Genesis 28:10). Why does it have to
say he left Be’er Sheva; why can’t it just say he went to Charan? The answer is because when you leave a place you leave an impres-
sion, as we graduate from MDS, we are going to leave an impression on the grades below us, we will leave the impression on how to
behave, how to respect each other and more. We always want to be like Yaakov and leave the best impression behind. We want to be
remembered for the good things in our lives.
Help your class win an ice cream party!
Submit your box tops to Sharon Newman In a bag with your name and class on it!
The contest is on…
Which class will win?
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8G Devar Torah Project: VaYishlach Submitted by Bethany Strulowitz, [email protected]; Devar Torah written by Devora Goldstein, 8G
When is revenge appropriate? Can we hold Hashem to his promises? These are some of
the important questions this parsha touches upon.
At the beginning of this week’s parsha, Parshat Vayishlach, Yaakov sends messengers in
an attempt to appease Esav. Yaakov states that he has acquired wealth, and is sending donkeys
and oxen. Yaakov receives word back that Esav is coming towards him along with 400 men.
Yaakov becomes fearful of what might happen when Esav approaches, so Yaakov divides
his camp in two in order to insure the safety of at least one camp. That night Yaakov davened to
Hashem for safety. Yaakov prepares extensive gifts for Esav, and sends them ahead of himself,
instructing his servants to tell Esav that these gifts are from Yaakov.
Why was Yaakov so worried about what might happen to him when Esav got there, if
Hashem had already promised him safety on his journey? Should Yaakov really have relied sole-
ly on Hashem’s promise?
I believe that everything is a two-way street -- just because something is decided, doesn't
mean it can't change. On Yom Kippur, Hashem determines your earnings for the upcoming
year. This money, however, will only come to you if you earn it. If you think that just because it
was already decided that you would make this much money that year, you can spend the next year
in the Bahamas and you would still receive paychecks, you’re wrong. Hashem expects that you
will keep up with your side of the deal.
Just like if you don’t work, you don’t receive money, if you don't do some preparing to
show that you care and take responsibility for your actions, you may not receive what you were
expecting. Although Hashem spoke to Yaakov before he left Lavan, encouraging him to leave and
ensuring his safety, Yaakov still prepared for his meeting with Esav. We learn from this that eve-
rything takes effort, and if you keep up your side of the deal, Hashem will always keep his.
After he split his camp in two, Yaakov was then left alone. This turned out to be a very important moment for Yaa-
kov. Yaakov wrestled with what he would find out was an angel of G-d. In the morning, they stopped fighting and Yaakov wins, so
the angel blessed Yaakov with the name Yisrael, because he fought with an angel and overcame him. In this process, Yaakov injured
the nerves in his thigh, therefore we do not eat the thigh of animals.
When Yaakov realized Esav was there, he lined his family up -- first the maidservants and their children, followed by Leah
and her children, and afterwards, Rachel and her child. Yaakov went in front.
Esav and Yaakov met and embraced. Esav wanted to continue to go towards their father, but Yaakov did not wish to
go. Esav went, while Yaakov went to Succoth and dwelled there.
Yaakov then moved to Shechem, where he bought land and dwelled. Dinah, the daughter of Yaakov and Leah went out one
day and saw the prince of the land, Shechem. He was very taken by her, and he raped and kidnapped Dina. Shechem began to love
Dina, so he asked his father to allow him to take her as a wife. When Dinah’s brothers found out about what had happened to their
sister Dina, they were outraged. Hamor, Shechem’s father, the king, spoke to Yaakov saying that his son longs for Dina, and that if
Yaakov gives his daughter to his son, then he can dwell in the land and become popular there. Dinah’s brothers made a deal saying
that if all the men would agree to get circumcised, just like the brothers, then Dinah could be Shechem’s wife. All the men in the city
were circumcised, and on the third day, when all the men were weak from pain, Dinah's brothers Shimon and Levi went around the
city and killed all of the men. They retrieved Dina from the house of Shechem. Yaakov and his household cleansed themselves and
went to Beit El to build an altar for G-d.
This story bothered me, particularly because Shimon and Levi wiped out an entire city, when only two men wronged
them. So, did Shimon and Levi do the right thing? Yaakov believes that Shimon and Levi made a mistake: “And Yaakov said to
Shimon and Levi, you have tainted me, making me look foul among the inhabitants of the land, among the Canaanites and among the
Perizites. I am few in number, should thay come together and attack me, I will be defeated, me and my entire household” (34:30-
31). Shimon and Levi responded, saying “should he treat our sister like a prostitute?” Yaakov is not pleased with Shimon and Levi’s
decision. He believes they have tarnished his name, and turned everyone against him, but Shimon and Levi do not believe that they
have done anything wrong, because their sister was wronged. Although I agree with Yaakov, I also agree with Shimon and Levi. It
was necessary for something to be done. Dina was not treated correctly, but it was not necessary to wipe out the entire city. This is
an example of the problems involved in vengeance. Taking revenge can be necessary, but should never involve extreme measures.
When Yaakov left Paddan-Aram, Rachel’s wet nurse Devora died; after this Hashem spoke to him, saying your name is now
Yisrael. not Yaakov, and my name is Kel Shakei. You shall be fruitful and multiply, and the land that I gave Avraham and Yitzhak
will be yours. Nations will come from you, and kings will descend from you. Yaakov placed a pillar in that place where G-d came to
him, and he poured oil on the pillar of stone. He called the place Beit El.
On the journey to Efrat, Rachel went into labor. Unfortunately there were some complications with her labor. Right before
her death, Rachel named her son Ben Oni, but we then learn that Yaakov changes his name to Benyamin. [Continued next page]
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Why did Yaakov change his son’s name? Rashi explains that the name Ben Oni means son of my sorrows, and that the name
was then changed to Benyamin, son of the right or son of the south. South refers to right. Benyamin was the only one born in Ca-
naan, which was south of where they were. Therefore, he was given the name Benyamin.
This explanation did not answer the question well enough for me, so I looked into it further, and found that Ramban had the
same question. Ramban however gave a different response. Ramban translates the name Ben Oni as son of my mourning. Yaakov
then changes his name to Benyamin, son of the right, right meaning strength, because most people favor their right hand. I believe
Yaakov is sending a message here by turning sorrow into strength. He is showing that even if you start with suffering, you can grow
and change, and become stronger.
After Rachel gives birth she dies, and Yaakov buries her on the road to Efrat. He places a monument to mark Rachel’s death, which is
still there today. Their camp moved to Migdal Esar. While they were dwelling there, Reuven slept with Yaakov’s midwife
Bilhah. The parsha then goes on to say that Yaakov had twelve sons, and to list all of them
Yaakov returned to his father, and at the age of 180 years, Yitzhak dies. Yaakov and Esav reunite and bury their father. The
parsha then concludes by counting all of the offspring of Esav, and provides an account of all the kings of the places where Esav
dwelled.
This parsha can teach you many important lessons, but I think the ones that I have chosen to elaborate on are particularly
important, not only to our ancestors who were the ones involved in the actual events, but for us as well.
1. Yaakov feared that because of Shimon and Levi’s actions other nations would turn them.
2. To whom did Yaakov send presents to try and appease his anger?
3. What did Rachel name her son?
4. What did Yaakov name his son?
5. Rachel died during .
6. If all the men in the city got a then Dina could ____ Shechem.
7. Who were the brothers of Dina who freed her? (their names are not placed together in the word search)
8. When Yaakov fought with the angel, he hurt the in his thigh.
9. What did the angel change Yaakov's name to?
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Parsha Challenge: VaYishlach Prepared by Rabbi Binyamin Yablok, Assistant Principal, [email protected], based on questions from Congregation Rinat Yisrael in Teaneck, NJ
1. (a) Why, after 34 years away from his parents, did Ya’akov now return? (b) Why did he let Eisav know he was nearby (2
views)? (c) (1) What mistake did Ya’akov make? (2) When did Bnei Yisrael make a similar mistake with Eisav’s offspring? (d)
Why did Ya’akov believe that Eisav, after 34 years, still hated him? (e) (i) Who were the messengers Ya’akov sent to Eisav,
and (ii) what was their mission (2 opinions)? (Bereishit 32:4)
1. (a) Hashem told him to (Rashi – 31:3). (b) (1) He wanted to reconcile with Eisav while Yitzchak was alive, since Eisav would not
kill him then (Zohar). (2) Yitzchak’s home, Ya’akov’s destination, was in southern Cana’an, adjoining Edom – Ya’akov had to pass
through Edom or travel near it – fearing that Eisav would hear about his coming, he sent messengers to placate him; (c) (1) he should
have avoided Eisav, who was going his own way; (2) the Chashmonayim kings should not have sought alliances with Rome, causing
Eretz Yisrael and the Beit haMikdash to fall into Roman hands (Ramban). (d) Ya’akov saw Eisav call his land “Se’ir in Edom’s
Field” – “Edom” means red, always reminding Eisav of the birthright Ya’akov “stole” with red soup, and “Se’ir” means goat, remind-
ing him of the goatskins Ya’akov wore to “steal” Yitzchak’s blessing (Siftei Kohen). (e) (1) (i) Ya’akov’s servants, (ii) to find out
Eisav’s intent (Sforno). (2) (i) Real angels, (ii) to impress and terrify Eisav (Rashi).
2. (a) Since Hashem promised Ya’akov, “I will guard you wherever you go” (28:15), why was Ya’akov afraid of Eisav (10
views)? (b) (1) Since Ya’akov crossed the Yabok River with 11 children, and since he then had 12 (11 sons, 1 daughter), where
was the 12th child? (2) How do we know that he did not hide one of his sons? (3) What mistake did Ya’akov make? (4) How
was he punished? (c) Why did Hashem send an angel to fight with Ya’akov (2 reasons)? (d) Why did Hashem ban Bnei Yisrael
from eating the gid ha-nasheh (thigh-vein sinew)? (Bereishit 32:8, 23-33)
2. (a) Ya’akov feared that Eisav would be able to harm him since (1) he did not know if Eisav was coming for good or evil
(Chizkuni). (2) Eisav had great merit by living in Eretz Yisrael for the previous 20 years while Ya’akov was chutz la’Aretz; (3) Eisav
honored Yitzchak perfectly for 34 years while Ya’akov was away (Targum Yonatan). (4) He was too busy tending Lavan’s sheep to
study Torah, lowering him spiritually; (5) he had sinned by marrying 2 sisters; (6) he thought that Hashem’s promised protection ex-
tended only to him, not to his children; (7) he thought he had sinned by sending Eisav messengers; (8) the angels made him fearful, so
that he would pray to Hashem, Who desires tzadikim’s prayers (Bereishit Raba). (9) He feared he would have to slay others in battling
Eisav (Rashi). (10) He thought Yitzchak would curse him if he slew Eisav (Medrash Tanchuma). (10) He thought that Eisav’s coming
to attack him meant that Yitzchak had died (Da’at Zekeinim). (b) (1) Ya’akov hid Dinah in a box so Eisav would not see her and ask
to marry her (Rashi). (2) Esther Raba says that the Beit haMikdash was built on Binyamin’s land since 11 sons bowed to Eisav, but
not Binyamin, who was not born yet (Vilna Gaon). (3) He should have let Eisav marry Dinah, who could have influenced Eisav posi-
tively; (4) Shechem abducted her (Rashi). (c) He wanted (1) Ya’akov to see how He would rescue him; (2) the angel to prevent
Ya’akov from fleeing before Eisav arrived (Rashbam). (d) To remind us that while Eisav’s guardian angel injured him, Ya’akov pre-
vailed – Eisav’s offspring will inflict suffering on Ya’akov’s offspring, but in yemot haMashiach, Bnei Yisrael will prevail (Sefer
haChinuch – Mitzvah 3).
3. (a) Why does the Torah have dots above the word “va-yishakeihu” (and [Eisav] kissed [Ya’akov] (2 views)? (b) What did
(1) Eisav mean, “yesh li ruv” (I have plenty)? (2) Ya’akov mean, “yesh li kol” (I have everything)? (c) Since Ya’akov embodies
emet (truth), how could he lie to Eisav, saying that he and his family would meet Eisav in Se’ir, when he intended to go to She-
chem in Cana’an? (d) When Ya’akov arrived “shalem” in the city of Shechem, what does “shalem” mean (7 views)?
(Bereishit 33:4-18)
3. (a) To indicate that Eisav (1) did not kiss Ya’akov with all his heart; (2) still hated Ya’akov, but at that moment, his mercy was
aroused, and he kissed Ya’akov with all his heart; (b) (1) “I have plenty more than I need, but want more since I do not have every-
thing”; (2) “I have everything I could possibly need”; (c) Ya’akov was talking about his offspring meeting Eisav’s in Se’ir in yemot
haMashiach, when Bnei Yisrael will go to Har Se’ir to judge Bnei Eisav, as stated in the haftara, Ovadya 1:21 (Rashi). (d) When
Ya’akov arrived in Shechem, he was “shalem” – whole – i.e., (1) physically whole – the limp caused by the angel was cured; (2) fi-
nancially whole – he lost nothing since Hashem repaid him for the gifts he had given Eisav; (3) spiritually whole – he did not forget
his Torah learning while living with Lavan (Rashi). (4) He arrived in the city named “Shalem”, ruled by Shechem (Rashbam).
Ya’akov felt “shalem” – safe – (5) believing the Shechemim would protect him from his enemies; (6) since he was close to Yitzchak’s
home – Eisav would not attack him there; (7) the merit of being in Eretz Cana’an would protect him (Ramban).
4. (a) Why did Hashem command Ya’akov and his family to go to Beit El to make an altar (3 reasons)? (b) Why was the place
where Rivka’s nurse Devora died called “Alon Bachut” (“Oak of Weepings”) in the plural (2 views)? (c) Why did Ya’akov
bury Rachel on the road to Efrat, instead of in Beit Lechem, less than a mile away (2 reasons)? (Bereishit 35:1-3,8,16-22)
4. (a) To purify themselves from the Shechemi (1) idols (Rashi); or (2) corpses (Ramban). (3) With Ya’akov and his family in danger
of attack for massacring the Shechemim, Hashem gave them a mitzvah to build an altar – Pesachim 8a-b says that those on their way
to doing a mitzvah are not harmed (Oznayim laTorah). (b) (1) Rivka died at the same time – people wept for both Rivka and Devora;
(2) people cried for Rivka for 2 reasons (i) mourning her death, and (ii) because she was not honored with a tzadik present at her buri-
al – Yitzchak was blind and unable to leave his house, and Ya’akov was away in Sukkot; (c) (1) When Ya’akov saw prophetically that
Beit Lechem would be in Yehuda’s territory, he buried Rachel near Efrat, in her son Binyamin’s territory (Ramban). (2) Ya’akov saw
prophetically that Bnei Yisrael would pass along this road when Nevuchadnetzar would exile them – they would be able to pray there
that Rachel intercede for them to plead for Hashem’s protection (Ohr haChaim).
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