lives on the edge: single mothers and their children in the other america

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BOOK REVIEWS Lives on the Edge: Single Mothers and Their Children in the Other America. By Valerie Polakow. Chicago: The University ofChicago Press, 1993,232 pp., $22.50 (hardcover). According to Valerie Polakow, a teacher of educational psychology and early childhood education at Eastern Michi- gan University, one in five children and one in two single mothers live in destitution in the United States. The author's premise for this state of affairs is the feminization and "infantilization" of poverty. In this book, Polakow considers the historical and ideologi- cal sources of society's attitudes toward single mothers and their children. She shows how the dominant images of "normal families" and motherhood have shaped perceptions, practices, and public policies. She illustrates through case studies the untruth of the popular image of welfare mothers as moral degenerates breeding children solely for the meal tickets they represent. In her illustrations, the mothers care for their children and strive to improve their lot but are hampered by social policies that thwart their efforts rather than help them. Many become trapped by the welfare system. The schools, too, are prejudicial against children whose mothers are on welfare and do not give the children the support they need to develop self-esteem and to learn. At the end of the book, Polakow calls for an overhaul of American social policies. She advocates that health care, housing, child allowances, child care, and parental leave all be mandatoty entitlements provided by the government. For those people who are concerned about all children, this is a disturbing look into the lives of the American poor in the inner city. The presentation of the historical data and the cases are very revealing and thought-provoking. The major problem with the book, however, is that the author advocates measures to help this segment of the population without looking into the cost of these measures, personal responsibility, and whether more fundamental changes need to be made. One fifth of all black children are born to unwed teenagers; about 14% of unwed white mothers are under 24 years old. Almost all teenage mothers who are unwed keep their babies to raise alone or with the help of their families. Teenage pregnancy and motherhood are positively correlated with poverty, unemployment, and welfare assistance. Pregnancy is one of the primary reasons why young women leave school before graduation. Without education and training, women who drop out of school face a future of low-paying, low-prestige jobs with few opportunities for advancement. The effects of early childbearing have contributed signifi- cantly to poverty in households headed by women. Because a young woman cannot support her child (or children), she 692 may be a candidate for welfare at an early age. Within a year after giving birth, roughly half of unmarried teenage mothers are receiving welfare benefits. Also, since adolescent mothers are more likely than other mothers to spend a lifetime as single heads of households, they are more likely to be long-term welfare recipients. This is the population that must be targeted if there is to be a significant reduction in children living in poverty. Education about birth control does not seem to be the answer; in the 1980s Leon Dash found that teenagers went out of their way to have babies to announce that they were "adult." Robert Samuelson advocates ending welfare for teenagers and young adults so that there would not be an incentive to have babies without the fathers being financially responsible. He believes that the moral principle that people should not have babies before they are ready to care for them should be emphasized; then, some social stigma might reattach to impulsive or ill-considered pregnancy. Lynn Martin wants the government to stop sending the message that unwed teenage mothers can, with a few dollars from government, both raise their children and seek a decent future for themselves. Martin advocates a system of residential care for these unwed, pregnant teenagers, and their children when they are born, where they can be protected, learn about caring for the child, and grow up. Instead of more money for these unwed mothers as Polakow suggests, perhaps these group homes could incorpo- rate her ideas in a more cost-effective manner. Instead of welfare checks, the money could go into the running of the group home and the programs issuing from it. The workers could be college graduates working off their college loans in community service. Health care could be provided, not only for sickness but also for preventive care. Child care could be offered; some of the teenagers could learn to be child care workers with on-the-job-training. The mothers could either attend a local school or have instruction in the group home in order to earn their high school diploma, technical training, or college degree. They would be eligible to stay in the home until they have finished their education. Besides academic courses, the mothers could learn bud- geting, cooking, nutrition, sewing, doing laundry, and other aspects of running a household. When these women are ready to leave the group home, they should have the skills and self-confidence to be good, able mothers as well as productive members of society. Perhaps this type of group home should be available to teenagers before they have the need to become parents. Abby L. Wasserman, M.D. Medical Director United Behavioral Systems, St. Louis J. AM. ACAD. CHILD ADOLESC. PSYCHIATRY, 34:5, MAY 1995

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Page 1: Lives on the Edge: Single Mothers and Their Children in the Other America

BOOK REVIEWS

Lives on the Edge: Single Mothers and Their Childrenin the Other America. By Valerie Polakow. Chicago: TheUniversity ofChicago Press, 1993,232pp., $22.50 (hardcover).

According to Valerie Polakow, a teacher of educationalpsychology and early childhood education at Eastern Michi­gan University, one in five children and one in two singlemothers live in destitution in the United States. The author'spremise for this state of affairs is the feminization and"infantilization" of poverty.

In this book, Polakow considers the historical and ideologi­cal sources of society's attitudes toward single mothers andtheir children. She shows how the dominant images of"normal families" and motherhood have shaped perceptions,practices, and public policies. She illustrates through casestudies the untruth of the popular image of welfare mothersas moral degenerates breeding children solely for the mealtickets they represent. In her illustrations, the mothers carefor their children and strive to improve their lot but arehampered by social policies that thwart their efforts ratherthan help them. Many become trapped by the welfaresystem.The schools, too, are prejudicial against children whosemothers are on welfare and do not give the children thesupport they need to develop self-esteem and to learn.

At the end of the book, Polakow calls for an overhaulof American social policies. She advocates that health care,housing, child allowances, child care, and parental leave allbe mandatoty entitlements provided by the government.

For those people who are concerned about all children,this is a disturbing look into the lives of the American poorin the inner city. The presentation of the historical dataand the cases are very revealing and thought-provoking. Themajor problem with the book, however, is that the authoradvocates measures to help this segment of the populationwithout looking into the cost of these measures, personalresponsibility, and whether more fundamental changes needto be made.

One fifth ofall black children are born to unwed teenagers;about 14% of unwed white mothers are under 24 years old.Almost all teenage mothers who are unwed keep their babiesto raise alone or with the help of their families. Teenagepregnancy and motherhood are positively correlated withpoverty, unemployment, and welfare assistance.

Pregnancy is one of the primary reasons why youngwomen leave school before graduation. Without educationand training, women who drop out of school face a futureof low-paying, low-prestige jobs with few opportunitiesfor advancement.

The effects of early childbearing have contributed signifi­cantly to poverty in households headed by women. Becausea young woman cannot support her child (or children), she

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may be a candidate for welfare at an early age. Within ayear after giving birth, roughly half of unmarried teenagemothers are receiving welfare benefits. Also, since adolescentmothers are more likely than other mothers to spend alifetime as single heads of households, they are more likelyto be long-term welfare recipients. This is the populationthat must be targeted if there is to be a significant reductionin children living in poverty.

Education about birth control does not seem to be theanswer; in the 1980s Leon Dash found that teenagers wentout of their way to have babies to announce that they were"adult." Robert Samuelson advocates ending welfare forteenagers and young adults so that there would not be anincentive to have babies without the fathers being financiallyresponsible. He believes that the moral principle that peopleshould not have babies before they are ready to care forthem should be emphasized; then, some social stigma mightreattach to impulsive or ill-considered pregnancy. LynnMartin wants the government to stop sending the messagethat unwed teenage mothers can, with a few dollars fromgovernment, both raise their children and seek a decentfuture for themselves.Martin advocatesa system ofresidentialcare for these unwed, pregnant teenagers, and their childrenwhen they are born, where they can be protected, learnabout caring for the child, and grow up.

Instead of more money for these unwed mothers asPolakow suggests, perhaps these group homes could incorpo­rate her ideas in a more cost-effective manner. Instead ofwelfare checks, the money could go into the running of thegroup home and the programs issuing from it. The workerscould be college graduates working off their college loansin community service.

Health care could be provided, not only for sickness butalso for preventive care. Child care could be offered; someof the teenagers could learn to be child care workers withon-the-job-training. The mothers could either attend a localschool or have instruction in the group home in order toearn their high school diploma, technical training, or collegedegree. They would be eligible to stay in the home untilthey have finished their education.

Besides academic courses, the mothers could learn bud­geting, cooking, nutrition, sewing, doing laundry, and otheraspects of running a household. When these women areready to leave the group home, they should have the skillsand self-confidence to be good, able mothers as well asproductive members of society. Perhaps this type of grouphome should be available to teenagers before they have theneed to become parents.

Abby L. Wasserman, M.D.Medical Director

United Behavioral Systems, St. Louis

J. AM. ACAD. CHILD ADOLESC. PSYCHIATRY, 34:5, MAY 1995